Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels Second Date Update. In today's second Date Update,
Speaker 1: we're going to solve a mystery, the curious case of
Speaker 1: the date that wasn't really a date? Or was it
Speaker 1: a date? Nobody knows, including Darren, who's on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update right now. Darren, your email
Speaker 1: says that you're really confused on if you were on
Speaker 1: a date or not. Yes, Hi, guys, thanks for having me,
Speaker 1: no problem, Thanks for your email. So tell us about
Speaker 1: the situation. What's the girl's name that you want to call,
Speaker 1: by the way, Rene, Renee? Okay, and tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit about Renee. Well, we were friends for a
Speaker 1: few months. We met hand. I really liked you, really cute,
Speaker 1: but I didn't necessarily feel like there was any chance
Speaker 1: that she'd want to go out. Okay, But we did
Speaker 1: have some mutual friends in a play okay, and so
Speaker 1: we were just hanging out and I was like, Hey,
Speaker 1: there's only one night left to see this thing. Why
Speaker 1: don't we just go ahead and go together. She's like great.
Speaker 1: So at this point, I'm like, it's not a date.
Speaker 1: We're just friends. Okay. So you thought you were just
Speaker 1: two friends hanging out. Yeah, that's exactly what I thought.
Speaker 1: So how did everything go at to play? So? Everything
Speaker 1: goes fine, We had a great conversation, we enjoyed the
Speaker 1: show whatever. So I take her back home, and when
Speaker 1: we get back to her apartment, instead of just saying
Speaker 1: good night, she invites me in. Okay, that's a good sign, right.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's like the biggest sign. Anytime a friend
Speaker 1: of mine has invited me into their apartment, stuff always happens. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean no, but yeah, So I still wasn't thinking
Speaker 1: that it was romantic at all. Okay, I just thought, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: she just wants to hang out some more. Great. And
Speaker 1: she said something about cooking me dinner. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: I mean that starts to sound like a date to me. Friendly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but at this point, I wasn't trying to put anything
Speaker 1: on it. I didn't want to make it weird. I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, dinner great. Okay, okay, So hold on,
Speaker 1: just to clarify, were you actually interested in her before
Speaker 1: this night? I mean, yeah, I thought she was really cute. Okay,
Speaker 1: so when she made you dinner, you were probably like sweet, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was, you know, worst case scenario, I get free dinner. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right. Yeah. So we go up, she cooks me dinner,
Speaker 1: We eat, and then she goes, do you want to
Speaker 1: watch a movie? Wow? All right, dude, yeah, this all
Speaker 1: sounds like more than a friend experience. That sounds like
Speaker 1: a date to me. Yeah, that's exactly what I started
Speaker 1: thinking at this point when I start putting it all together. Okay,
Speaker 1: she said, you has to go into the play. She
Speaker 1: invited me into her house, she cooked me dinner, and
Speaker 1: now she wants to watch a movie. Yeah. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So then she puts on a movie. I don't even
Speaker 1: remember what movie it was at this point. I'm not
Speaker 1: thinking about it was a movie. I've never heard of it.
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm not even thinking about the movie.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Yeah, you're not even watching it. You're
Speaker 1: just in your head like, oh my god, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: on a date with her. I'm on a date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would have watched an hour of a free frame
Speaker 1: of a pencil. I ain't care. All right, that's cool,
Speaker 1: that's exciting. Then you had to feel happy about that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So then she says, let me go change. Okay, so
Speaker 1: I'm sitting on the couch. She goes into her bedroom
Speaker 1: and then she comes out and basically pajamas but kind
Speaker 1: of like you know how sometimes women like to sleep
Speaker 1: and box her shorts and a T shirt. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what she's wearing. So she goes to change and
Speaker 1: then comes back in something skimpy. Yeah all right, that's
Speaker 1: pretty intimate though, to be in her sleeping clothes. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's At this point I'm like, oh my god, yes,
Speaker 1: this is a date. Sweet. So you said in your
Speaker 1: email that you're not sure though why, I mean, this
Speaker 1: is definitely a date. Okay. So she sits down the
Speaker 1: couch next to me, like real clothes next to me,
Speaker 1: and she put the blanket over both of us. Okay.
Speaker 1: And so halfway through this movie that I'm not even
Speaker 1: paying attention to, I think, well, if I don't do something,
Speaker 1: I'm going to lose the opportunity. Right, did you make
Speaker 1: a move? So I do the thing where I like,
Speaker 1: I kind of put my hand on the opposite side
Speaker 1: of her face, this side opposite for me, and I
Speaker 1: kind of graw. Okay, I just started. You started that,
Speaker 1: and I was like, so you do your trick and
Speaker 1: you just grab her face? Is that what you do?
Speaker 1: You know, like you kind of put your hand, like
Speaker 1: gently on her chin or something. I kind of guide
Speaker 1: her face towards yours. I wasn't like, ah, you know,
Speaker 1: all right, so trying to get a kiss. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: she turned her face towards mine, just sort of guided
Speaker 1: by my hand. And then all of a sudden, she
Speaker 1: starts making this noise and turning away from me, and
Speaker 1: she says, going m m m m m oh, no
Speaker 1: like that. I take my hand off of her chin,
Speaker 1: and then we just watched the rest of the stupid movie.
Speaker 1: And now I'm going she didn't want to kiss me?
Speaker 1: Did she bring it up to you at all? Did
Speaker 1: she mention anything about it? Now? She didn't say a word.
Speaker 1: And I mean I left pretty quickly after that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that would be pretty embarrassing. I give you, it's a
Speaker 1: bold move to go in for that kiss, but it's
Speaker 1: like the worst case scenario that you get rejected. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was really awkward. And I actually wanted to talk
Speaker 1: about what had happened the other night, and she said no,
Speaker 1: just like no, like no other explanation. Yeah, she just
Speaker 1: said no, nothing else. Wow. Okay, And is that the
Speaker 1: last thing you've heard from her? Or have you guys
Speaker 1: tried to talk about it at all. No, we haven't
Speaker 1: talked about it at all. Dude, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just think you misread the situation. Now, I really want
Speaker 1: to do the second part of the second day update
Speaker 1: because I do have to know if this was a
Speaker 1: date or not. Yeah, they'll believe me me too. Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, great, I got brooking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning second date right in the middle of
Speaker 1: a second date update, and we don't know if it's
Speaker 1: a date. Actually still we're trying to figure that out.
Speaker 1: If you miss the first part. Darren is on the
Speaker 1: phone and he wants to call Renee. Renee is a
Speaker 1: friend of his and they went out one night to
Speaker 1: see a play and then got back to her house
Speaker 1: and she made him dinner and then decided to watch
Speaker 1: a movie together and she gotten like her boxer short
Speaker 1: to put a blanket over him. And then at that
Speaker 1: point he was like, this is awesome. I'm on a
Speaker 1: date with Renee now. And so they were in the
Speaker 1: middle of the movie and he tried to kiss her
Speaker 1: and that's when she said no. And she hasn't talked
Speaker 1: to him since. So we're still not really sure if
Speaker 1: that was even a date, but we do know that
Speaker 1: Renee has pissed a him for some reason. It's so confusing.
Speaker 1: My one question, though, is when she got into her
Speaker 1: boxer outfit makeup on or took the makeup off. You're
Speaker 1: asking if she had makeup on. She was a T
Speaker 1: shirt and boxers. I have no idea. Yeah, good point.
Speaker 1: At that point, you're not really paying attention. I should
Speaker 1: have asked if she had a braw on if maybe
Speaker 1: a better question for you. I can tell you that
Speaker 1: because she did not. Okay, all right, well man, that
Speaker 1: is mixed signals. All right, Well, I'm gonna call her
Speaker 1: right now and see we can get an answer. You're ready, Please? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: Can I speak to Renee? Please her? Hey, what's up? Renee?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. What this is Jewel from Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning the radio? Well, I'm a person
Speaker 1: you guys all the time? Really? Okay? Well, yeah, this
Speaker 1: is the radio show. It is Brooke and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Well, if you listen to us all the time,
Speaker 1: then you probably heard a second date up date before right.
Speaker 1: Wait what yeah, congratulations, Wait, you guys are calling me
Speaker 1: about a date that I went on. Yeah, I haven't
Speaker 1: been on any dates with anyone, all right. Well that
Speaker 1: kind of answers a question for us then, because Darren,
Speaker 1: who I guess is your buddy, thought that maybe you
Speaker 1: were on a date the other day. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so embarrassed. Well, he emailed us
Speaker 1: because he said that when you guys went out, he
Speaker 1: thought it turned into a date. And then he told
Speaker 1: us about how he tried to kiss you and you
Speaker 1: turned him down and then he left and you haven't
Speaker 1: talked to him since. Yeah, it's just kind of awkward.
Speaker 1: So you never really liked Darren in that way, is
Speaker 1: what you're saying. I mean, he's cute. I've always thought
Speaker 1: Darren was cute. But what did he tell you guys? Well,
Speaker 1: he said that you guys went out to see a
Speaker 1: play and then went back to your place, and then
Speaker 1: that's when he started feeling like you guys were on
Speaker 1: a date, because you made him dinner and then gotten
Speaker 1: like your sleeping stuff and then put a blanket over
Speaker 1: you guys a movie. It all sounded very date ish
Speaker 1: to me. I mean, yeah, all that happened, but at
Speaker 1: first it was just friends hanging out. Oh so wait,
Speaker 1: you mean at first like you had intentions. At some
Speaker 1: point your intentions switched from friends to something else. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess so. Okay, so you guys were both on
Speaker 1: the same page at some point. We were having fun
Speaker 1: and I was just kind of going with things. At
Speaker 1: some point I thought this could be a date. Okay,
Speaker 1: so why aren't you calling him back? Then? Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: things got so awkward at the end of the night. Okay,
Speaker 1: during the kiss, like you didn't want to kiss him,
Speaker 1: that's when it got awkward. I can't believe he told
Speaker 1: you about that. It's not embarrassing for you, it's embarrassing
Speaker 1: for him because you shot him down big time. It
Speaker 1: sounds like, well, it was just so awkward. We were
Speaker 1: watching this movie and the family dog had just died
Speaker 1: and it was a ship suit like I used to
Speaker 1: have when I was a kid, and I started crying
Speaker 1: and then he just like put his hand on my
Speaker 1: face in those weird ways. It was such a weird
Speaker 1: way and time to kiss someone. So he kissed you
Speaker 1: when you were crying over the death of the dog.
Speaker 1: In the movie. Yes, did he notice that you were crying?
Speaker 1: Obviously he didn't. I mean, who tries to kiss someone
Speaker 1: after a dog just dies? And I don't know what
Speaker 1: his thing is? You know, that could be his thing. Oh,
Speaker 1: that's not a thing. I know, who does No, Renee?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I forgot. Is he on the phone? Renee?
Speaker 1: Yes he is Rene? Oh hear? Okay? So yeah, bad
Speaker 1: timing on my part. Yeah, to be fair, as soon
Speaker 1: as I saw you in what you were wearing, I
Speaker 1: wasn't even paying attention in the movie. And I didn't
Speaker 1: know that a dog died in that movie. Yeah, a
Speaker 1: dog died in that movie. Right before you tried to
Speaker 1: kiss me, there was a child crying. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: really bad. I had no idea that you were kind
Speaker 1: of been an emotional placed. So I guess now we
Speaker 1: can understand why she was like, no, don't kiss me,
Speaker 1: don't kiss me. It definitely makes a lot more sense now. Well,
Speaker 1: I feel kind of bad now because I just I
Speaker 1: haven't been responding to your text messages. I know I'm
Speaker 1: wondering that too. I mean, like, yeah, bad timing on
Speaker 1: a kiss, but it's not a reason not to call
Speaker 1: somebody back. It was just so weird and so awkward.
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to deal with it. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: you know what would be really cool if you gave
Speaker 1: me a second chance. Oh maybe we got together and
Speaker 1: watched another movie this time. Maybe it could be Beethoven
Speaker 1: The Dog Lived the whole time. That's a good idea, Renee.
Speaker 1: Would you like to go out on another date with Darren?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it on I would That sounds like
Speaker 1: a lot of fun, Okay, and this will be a
Speaker 1: date the whole way through the whole time. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know we don't want to replicate the first date.
Speaker 1: But can you still wear that outfit you tried to
Speaker 1: kiss me after a dog died? Don't push your luck, okay, Darren? Yeah,
Speaker 1: d tread lightly. All right, Well, congratulations you guys got
Speaker 1: a second date. Say, I really appreciate that. Yeah, and Darren,
Speaker 1: next time you try to kiss her right before it,
Speaker 1: FaceTime me so I can let you know if it's okayed.
Speaker 1: Dial text in a seven eighty five nine two says
Speaker 1: I'll totally date that guy. Movies about dead dogs don't
Speaker 1: bother me. One bit brook a jewel in the morning
Speaker 1: that was obviously taped while Brooke was still here. Brooke
Speaker 1: is it out on maternity leaving. Jackie is filling in.
Speaker 1: But if you missed today's second date update, this dude
Speaker 1: named Darren wanted to call a girl named Renee. They're
Speaker 1: actually kind of friends, and they were hanging out one
Speaker 1: night at what he thought was a friend date, and
Speaker 1: then it got more serious. After they were done, like
Speaker 1: watching a play and stuff, they went back to her place.
Speaker 1: She made dinner and then she got into her comfy clothes,
Speaker 1: got on the couch, put a blanket over both of them,
Speaker 1: and then he was like, oh my god, this is
Speaker 1: an actual date. I've got to make my move. I'm
Speaker 1: getting So they were sitting there watching a movie and
Speaker 1: he says he was so nervous. He wasn't really paying
Speaker 1: attention to much, just wondering when he was gonna make
Speaker 1: his move. Then he leaned over to kiss her and
Speaker 1: she no no, no, no no no, And then it
Speaker 1: was awkward after that, and he left and she wasn't
Speaker 1: calling back, and he was wondering why. Well, we found
Speaker 1: out the reason that she wasn't calling him back was
Speaker 1: because during the movie there was a dog that died,
Speaker 1: like the family Dog whatever. Movie they were watching and
Speaker 1: she was kind of crying a little bit, and that's
Speaker 1: the moment that he went in for the kiss as
Speaker 1: soon as her tears started to flow from the dead dog. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's just really bizarre timing, Like that's not smart. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's just really bad timing, Like, oh, I can see
Speaker 1: that you're all broken up about this. Hey, screw that
Speaker 1: dog though, screw your crying. Let's make out. And maybe
Speaker 1: I do feel like maybe in some people's minds they
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna comfort you. Yeah, but then it seems creepy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's even creepier if you're doing it on purpose. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, because yeah, they're they're vulnerable, and then
Speaker 1: you're going in my tongue. Yeah, how about I just
Speaker 1: kiss those tears off your cheeks. So she felt awkward
Speaker 1: and wasn't calling him back. We got him on the phone.
Speaker 1: They talked about it, and he told her that he
Speaker 1: didn't mean to try to kiss her after the dog
Speaker 1: had died, and they decided to go on another date,
Speaker 1: an actual date. Ya that can work out where they
Speaker 1: both know it's a date. Yeah, really rare that we
Speaker 1: actually have a successful second date. Update where the two
Speaker 1: agree to go out, and they did actually agree to
Speaker 1: go out. Remember, if you want to do a second
Speaker 1: date update, all you have to do is email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person that didn't call
Speaker 1: you back.