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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get to Claudia. So, Claudia and Critos,

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Speaker 2: we were talking about Resa Tisa, her fifty part TikTok

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Speaker 2: series about marrying a scam artist, and she just blasts

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Speaker 2: all kinds of stuff about him, but she couldn't believe it. So, Claudia,

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Speaker 2: you say that this similar thing happened to you, that

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Speaker 2: you got out of it before you got married, but

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Speaker 2: a guy you met was scamming you and you didn't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so he wasn't scamming me, but he was scamming

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Speaker 3: other people. But he was. He was definitely lying to

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Speaker 3: me about what was going on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how what was like something he did that you

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Speaker 2: couldn't believe he was lying about?

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Speaker 3: Just to give context, I had moved from California to Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: This was like two thousand and five when I'm at

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Speaker 3: I did so I met him around two thousand and six,

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Speaker 3: so it could have been about seven months or so

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Speaker 3: after I left California.

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Speaker 2: This guy that Teresa's blasting is in Atlantisa.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know, and that's why my

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Speaker 3: thought was Wow, are the scammers had had last like that?

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Speaker 2: Let's so what happened? I got to know?

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Speaker 3: So we we met. I think we were like out

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Speaker 3: and we just kind of met at the club. He

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Speaker 3: was from New York and I was from California. So

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Speaker 3: we kind of connected in that way, like we came

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Speaker 3: from big places to a small place, right because two

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Speaker 3: thousand and six it wasn't like you know as it

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Speaker 3: is now. And he kind of like swept me off

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Speaker 3: my feet. He would take me out, he would bring

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Speaker 3: me lunch to work, he would answer my calls, all

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Speaker 3: of these different things. He told me that he owned property.

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Speaker 3: I actually saw the properties, like he would take me

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Speaker 3: to them. He had the keys, we will go inside.

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Speaker 3: He had tenants. He was collecting the money the rent

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Speaker 3: every month and I we dated for about seven months

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Speaker 3: before it like all just went shambles, right, And there

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Speaker 3: were times where I really thought that something was off.

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Speaker 3: He had business partners is what he said they were,

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Speaker 3: and I was around them, but he would never let

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Speaker 3: us talk to each other, like he would literally keep

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Speaker 3: us separated.

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Speaker 2: He so you saw the flags, but them yet.

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Speaker 3: No, because I'm thinking, well, who else will if these

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Speaker 3: are his properties? And he's collecting money and I'm seeing

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Speaker 3: him putting them in his bank account. All of these

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Speaker 3: things like there's nothing that would give me like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: something wasn't right. But there was just like a gut

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Speaker 3: feeling that I always had. And he was talking about

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Speaker 3: wanting to get married. He said he had children and

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Speaker 3: the woman that he was with before she cheated on him.

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Speaker 3: Like he gave me a lot of these sob stories,

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Speaker 3: but the one thing was his behavior. He would get

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Speaker 3: was really off. Yes, something was off. And he talked

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Speaker 3: I'm not moving in with anyone until I am married, right,

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Speaker 3: So I stuck with that. So his thing was, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'll get us a house. He literally took me to

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Speaker 3: be our house. He even had me meet the neighbor.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so come.

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Speaker 3: To find out, so he called me after it was

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Speaker 3: about two weeks, three weeks after he had us into

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Speaker 3: This is the thing he had us meeting with relatives.

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Speaker 3: We went to brand new homes, we went fixes all

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Speaker 3: a fixer. The house caught on fire. When I say,

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Speaker 3: he called me hysterical that the house was on fire,

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, the house was actually on fire and burnt.

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Speaker 3: It was. It was on fire. I draw to the house.

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Speaker 3: It was on fire.

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Speaker 2: It you got out right, you got out.

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Speaker 3: I got out.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen this? Who the F did I marry?

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Speaker 2: Series on TikTok from Reset. I just listen to this.

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Speaker 4: By the way, you will notice in this story I

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Speaker 4: called it the United Nations of Red Flags.

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Speaker 2: The United Nations of Red Flags.

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Speaker 1: She says that, I mean you would have thought I

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Speaker 2: Have you snored? I mean, you gotta watch this series.

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Speaker 2: This is like what happened to you?

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Speaker 1: Make your own in the same city.

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Speaker 3: I could write a book on my dating.

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Speaker 2: I really could you just need your own segment on

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Speaker 2: our show.

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Speaker 1: I would read it, listen to you all day with

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Speaker 1: the best.

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Speaker 2: All right, listen, Claudia, you're the best. Big hugs to you,

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Speaker 2: and have a great day, and I'm glad you're safely

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Speaker 3: Thank you, and really quick, Ryan. My daughter and I

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Speaker 3: we listen to you every morning. She was so bummed

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Speaker 3: that she could not sit and listen to this segment.

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Speaker 3: So she's at scall right now. Yeah, I know you.

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Speaker 2: Tell what's her name?

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Speaker 3: Jalen?

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Speaker 2: Jalen. We are with you every single day and you

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Speaker 2: have my favorite mom of the day. By the way, Claudia,

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Speaker 2: thank you for calling.

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Speaker 1: Listen to her and do what she says.

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Speaker 2: You know, when you meet someone and you want to

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Speaker 2: be their best friend immediately I want to get caught

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Speaker 2: with her and care all of it as me and

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Speaker 2: Claudia spell the tea needs a podcast.

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Speaker 5: Isn't it terrifying? Think about what's out there though, this.

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Speaker 2: Is the thing mm hmm. And then you start second

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Speaker 2: guests and stuff, but don't second. When you see a

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Speaker 2: red flag, you need to pay attention to that red flag.

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Speaker 2: So I gotta get Stella on the phone here, Stella,

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Speaker 2: thank you for calling in. How are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm great? How are you guys?

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Speaker 2: We're good? So can you explain to us what happened?

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Speaker 2: You were sent a fake photo? We're talking about red

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Speaker 2: flags a lot this week when it comes to people

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Speaker 2: their rear view mirror, they're all red flags, but when

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Speaker 2: you don't want to be the person that meets someone

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Speaker 2: that has red flags. You're almost too forgiving about the flags.

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Speaker 2: Then the flag stack up and you realize it was

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Speaker 2: always there. There was always an issue. So what happened

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Speaker 6: So I met this guy on hinge and we went

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Speaker 6: on about five dates and had plans for a six

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Speaker 6: so it was kind of bummed when he finally said that.

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Speaker 6: I just said, just let me know if you don't

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Speaker 6: want to do this anymore, and he said, no, I

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Speaker 6: he was going skiing for a few days. He eventually

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Speaker 6: sends me a picture and said it's been a great

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Speaker 6: So I didn't really understand if it was just him

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Speaker 2: Ah okay, wow, then what was your next move?

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Speaker 6: Well then I screenshoted the website and sent it to

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Speaker 6: him and asked why he did that, and he said

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Speaker 2: Oh, he's too fast with the lies. Yes, I'm looking

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Speaker 2: at the photo. Thank you for getting it to us.

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Speaker 2: It's all suspect. So he's a scam artist. He's like

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Speaker 2: Resattista's husband, totally right. I heard about her.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, you need to watch TikTok.

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Speaker 2: To watch this TikTok series called Who the F Did

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Speaker 2: I Marry?

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Speaker 4: List new series that I'm calling who the did I marry?

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Speaker 4: I'm going to create this playlist series and I'm going

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Speaker 4: to tell the story of how I met, dated, married,

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Speaker 4: and divorce a real pathological liar.

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Speaker 2: So she was scammed in every way in her marriage

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Speaker 2: and she's posted on TikTok it's something you got to see.

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Speaker 2: But tell did you get away from this dude? What

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Speaker 2: what happened?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 6: I haven't responded because I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 6: He keeps trying to call me, but I'm not really sure,

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Speaker 2: So either well he's either not there or he's there

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Speaker 2: think you doubled down on being clever here. I think

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Speaker 2: you act like you're believing him a little bit, but

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Speaker 2: you know you're not. But let's see what Let's see

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Speaker 2: what else he does? You know? Ask for what? Like

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Speaker 2: I always asked, show me a picture of what you

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Speaker 5: Want to me a picture in bed?

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Speaker 1: But what is this? Do you still want to stay

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Speaker 1: with him? Like after all these lies?

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Speaker 3: I no, I don't think something you.

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Speaker 2: Don't, but you also want to like I don't do

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Speaker 2: something back to me, right, revenge of some sort? Can

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Speaker 2: you face? Can you ask in a FaceTime like that's

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Speaker 2: a very easy way to track someone down.

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Speaker 6: I guess I could.

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Speaker 2: All right, keep us posted. He's a smoosh bag and

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Speaker 2: we want you to get away playing play it out.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this sounds like a fun game that I'll play

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Speaker 2: All right, good bye, Stella, thank you, thank you. You

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Speaker 2: know what's striking to me how many people called in

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Speaker 2: saying they've been scammed?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: A lot, like a guy, I mean, had one call

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Speaker 2: the opposite way, f y, I like, not one dude

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Speaker 2: has called to say a woman scammed me?

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Speaker 5: Right right?

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Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I could barely hear that one.

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Speaker 8: Oh no, I said, I'm sure they're out there.

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Speaker 2: He's just saying that to yourself to the girl. They

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Speaker 2: see that I had kept their mic on. That's what

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Speaker 2: they do back there, They talk out loud to themselves

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Speaker 2: while we're doing our show in the background. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's if that is you out there and that happened

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Speaker 2: to you, and you're a dude that had happened too,

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Speaker 2: then try us eight hundred and five to one O

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Speaker 2: two seven.

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Speaker 5: Do a lot of dudes listen to what us good handful.

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Speaker 2: I hope, I hope there's some dudes out there. Otherwise

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Speaker 2: it's me and just y'all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Michael, Michael listens, Michael.

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Speaker 2: Is there, all right? So you were saying that you

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Speaker 1: It might be a little over the top for some people,

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Speaker 2: Now, that just gives me. I bins. The fact that

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Speaker 1: I have a section for pain relief. I have a

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Speaker 1: It's basically a mini And then I didn't stop there.

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Speaker 2: Michael fighting?

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Speaker 1: No, No much time with this band these days.

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Speaker 2: I mean the guys. The guy's in a garage band.

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Speaker 2: You know what is fun? If you ever want to

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Speaker 2: It's so fun, Like y'all could come over one night

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Speaker 1: When I was in high school, I used to. I

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Speaker 2: Well, please, you welcome to come over.

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Speaker 1: Everything you need organized? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Uh a California closets can help you out.

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Speaker 2: I mean, they found the right person for their sponsorship,

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Speaker 2: you guys have a lot of Zycam. What's coming on?

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Speaker 2: Literally so much Zycam?

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Speaker 1: Oh it is so as soon as you feel.

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Speaker 2: Cold, coming on, got a quote for your Tuesday. So yeah,

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Speaker 5: I wonder if I have that color. I have three

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Speaker 2: Well, follow along, So pink. If you have a pink mug,

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Speaker 2: it makes your coffee taste sweeter. Oh you know what, okay, white,

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Speaker 2: And green is the other color that makes an impact.

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Speaker 1: Like your sweater, I alternate.

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Speaker 1: Obviously interesting, Well, the pink ones, the pink and the

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Speaker 2: Well, enjoy today's quote. White actions in the future are

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Speaker 2: Kanye sent us a text and it just was out

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Speaker 2: What a great date question?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I said, this is a really great date question.

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Speaker 2: It came out of nowhere on a Sunday night with

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Speaker 2: Is Blind. Yes, and we weren't sure what was going on,

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Speaker 2: What do you mean by that? What did they mean

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Speaker 5: It's basically like, when you're getting to know someone, this

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Speaker 2: I would say, impatience. Sure, what do you mean sure?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what he wants to say. Okay, I would

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Speaker 1: say for me, chances are you will never win a

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Speaker 1: fight with me.

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Speaker 2: Well that sounds brutal. Yeah, that's warnings going to blind

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Speaker 2: your love?

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Speaker 1: After that, happily married over here?

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Speaker 2: Tell you what's your warning label?

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Speaker 5: So mine would say cries when happy, cries when sad.

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Speaker 2: This worked. Did anybody get past this stage when they

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Speaker 5: No, they didn't play this game. They just they're in

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Speaker 5: the pod still. So they're like dating blind. Yeah, so

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Speaker 5: they're kind of still just trying to figure each other out.

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Speaker 2: I did watch some of this over the weekend.

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Speaker 5: Season six.

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Speaker 2: I don't know whatever was promoted on.

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Speaker 1: Netflix I'm yeah, it's the new one.

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Speaker 5: Season is so good.

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Speaker 1: Did you get how long did you last? Right?

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Speaker 2: Not long? But I can't get any Here's what I remember.

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Speaker 2: One there was one that was going really really well,

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Speaker 2: and they were like, oh, you sound like you know whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's like mmmm, and then they go right to another

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Speaker 2: it's a it's a dud, right, it's a bust. It's

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Speaker 5: This is my favorite part of the series is the beginning,

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Speaker 5: the dating and the pods. It gets a little snoozy

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Speaker 2: Did you get far?

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Speaker 1: Twenty five minutes in?

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Speaker 2: But that's just our attention span because I'm patient.

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Speaker 1: Same with me. I was like on my phone, the

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Speaker 2: Would you say my warning label should be Tanya?

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Speaker 5: So if it were you're impatient, you know, maybe you

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Speaker 1: Or like you must love olive oil to date me, Like, no,

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Speaker 1: it's pouring food to date me, Like you can't be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I can't, can't have just salads or.

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Speaker 5: Like warning uh uh, don't make you have no warnings

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Speaker 5: for don't don't make me listen them off, don't make

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Speaker 5: me sit for thirty minutes waiting.

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Speaker 2: That's impatient. Cut to something.

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Speaker 5: Saying it's like a cuter way of saying it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they don't just give you one word, right, it's

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Speaker 5: Warning label, you know, like objects in the mirror closer

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Speaker 2: Must be willing to share your food, right, yes, like

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Speaker 2: that kind of a thing exactly, must be only share

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Or like leaves, clothes.

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Speaker 2: Leaves, close, leaves, wet towel outside.

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Speaker 5: Tub correct, leaves, wet gym clothes in tub tubs?

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Speaker 2: Do you bathe? I just know because your last name

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Speaker 2: makes me I feel like you should do an endorsement

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Speaker 2: for a tub company. Well, I'm here, I'm ready. Are

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I don't mind social media there, cut too. He's doing

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Speaker 5: There is a podcast it's like called tub talk or something,

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Speaker 5: and it's everybody. All her guests are in it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, the sales department's missing out. We could

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Speaker 2: be doing a tub His name is spelled tubb as

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Speaker 2: but a bathtub endorsement. I mean to hear you, and

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Speaker 2: you could record the commercial from your tub, your little

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Speaker 2: echo sound. I'm down with this, right tubs, your sleeves

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Speaker 2: smell like onions today? What happened last night? Okay?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. He smells like onions right now, smell

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Speaker 2: Freaking spell this is the tub commercial right here, you

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Speaker 2: when I came into on air. It's a perfect spot

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Speaker 2: when I came on air. Any tub manufacturers reach out

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Speaker 2: Seacrest with you. Thank you for listening to us. We've

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Speaker 2: got a second date update. So they met at a

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Speaker 2: I felt like I finally found someone worth spending time with.

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Speaker 2: But apparently she doesn't agree. She told me she is

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Speaker 2: not interested in a second date. I'm hoping a grand

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Speaker 2: gesture like this will convince her. Oh that's what this is.

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Speaker 1: So like he already knows she's out, because sometimes we

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Speaker 2: Right, this is the grand gesture that he's hoping for.

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Speaker 1: I think it's romantic.

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Speaker 2: Let's get Stephen on the line. So Stephen, thanks for

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Speaker 10: He's gone. Yeah, So I was on this horrible date

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Speaker 10: with her or with this other woman. You know. We

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Speaker 10: and she was also, I guess, on a terrible first date.

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Speaker 10: So when my date went to the bathroom, she approached

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Speaker 10: date too, And so I said the hinge obviously but

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Speaker 10: she left me her phone number, and I waited, you know,

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Speaker 10: the forty eight hours and I called her and we

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Speaker 10: not ready to give up yet.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like, if she told you that, what

444
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 2: are we going to do?

445
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 10: I just, I guess I'm just looking for a bit

446
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 10: of a little bit more clarity, or if I like

447
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 10: said something wrong, or if I, you know, did something,

448
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 10: I just you know, trying to see maybe you can

449
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 10: help me out here.

450
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So I mean she was pursuing you

451
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 2: and now done. This is something happens a lot on

452
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 2: these It's a typical one. E. Hang on one second.

453
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 2: Let's see if we can get her on the line.

454
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 2: What's her name, Jasmine? All right, we'll call Jasmine, find

455
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:23,439
Speaker 2: out why she's totally blowing you off. So why is

456
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 2: Jasmine blowing off? Steven? We are going to get her

457
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: on the phone right now and find out to Stephen,

458
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 2: be very quiet, We're about to talk to Jasmine. Okay,

459
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: hang on one second, Hello Jasmine. Hello, Hey, it's Ryan Seacrest.

460
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 2: How are you hi.

461
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,360
Speaker 7: I'm good, Thank you good.

462
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,360
Speaker 2: Thank you for coming on the air with us. Crazy,

463
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: but we're calling you about a guy named Stephen that

464
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 2: you met out not too long ago. Okay, does that

465
00:22:58,560 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 2: ring a bell?

466
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 6: Yeah?

467
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 7: I know it's Steven.

468
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 2: Okay, and we understand that you kind of pursued him

469
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 2: at first.

470
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 7: Wait, why are you calling asking me about him? Like

471
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 7: we're recha up on some kind of reality show or something.

472
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 2: It's a good question. Uh, not really no, Uh, I'll

473
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 2: fill you in later. But did you like Stephen?

474
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 9: Uh?

475
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 7: Like he's a nice guy, I guess, but like a

476
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 7: little too nervous.

477
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 2: I'm very curious. I know we just met, but what

478
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 2: was it about him that was nervous?

479
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 7: He kept telling me, Oh my god, you're so beautiful,

480
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 7: You're just so free. It just makes me so nervous.

481
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 7: Like it was cute, but I got annoying after a while.

482
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 2: So it's like a little bit of that is good,

483
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 2: but too much becomes a put off. Yeah, a bit desperate, I.

484
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 7: Can Yeah, well I can definitely see. Okay, if you

485
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 7: think I'm out of your league, which I'm not, Like

486
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 7: we're at the same level of like attractiveness. I think

487
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 7: so I think he's attractive, but like he made it

488
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 7: feel like as if he's not thinking the same thing

489
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 7: and that he's just I don't know. It just made

490
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 7: me totally turned off. It was like he was self

491
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 7: sabotaging the situation.

492
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: So, Jasmine, I can explain now why I'm asking Stephen's

493
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 2: on the phone with us here and listening because he's

494
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 2: head over heels for you, and it feels like you're

495
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: totally blowing him off. And Stephen, does that now make

496
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 2: sense to you? I'm a little uncomfortable here.

497
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 10: I mean, yeah, I guess. I mean she is beautiful,

498
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 10: so I wasn't lying there.

499
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: I mean, flattery and compliments are a good way to go.

500
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 2: There are worse things, Jasmin. I just hate to see

501
00:24:58,440 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 2: young love not have a shot here.

502
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 1: Is it really that bad, Jasmine? Or is there something else?

503
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 7: I mean, he like okay, So he was not putting

504
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 7: that much effort in the date. Like he picked up

505
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 7: a bar two blocks away from his apartment. He took

506
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 7: us there and he didn't pay for anything. I wasn't drinking,

507
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 7: and so like he just I don't know. He wasn't

508
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 7: also dressed very nicely. It wasn't okay.

509
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well, Stephen, do you want to explain

510
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: to Jasmine how you feel about her?

511
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 10: I mean, yeah, I thought we really hit it off,

512
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 10: and I thought we had a good time. I mean,

513
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 10: you know, I'm sorry. I'll be a little bit more

514
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 10: confident and you know, put more effort in if if

515
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 10: she wanted to go out again.

516
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 7: I mean one last thing though, with his breath was pretty.

517
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 2: Bad, cringing. I'm not I'm I don't bit second date.

518
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 5: Updates, okay, but the breath, you can thick.

519
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: You can fix all of this, truly.

520
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 2: Yes, you gotta be willing though, and I did to

521
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: like be open to Stephen. Jasmine. It sounds like the

522
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: ship has sailed on this, and thank you for your honesty. Stephen.

523
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

524
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, well hey, you know, I mean I thought

525
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 10: it worked, but I guess I guess I'll work on it.

526
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 2: Well.

527
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: It's also different if he was drinking and she was not.

528
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 1: That's a whole other vibe.

529
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: I'm just feeling bad for Stephen right now, and we

530
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: need to go. Okay, all right, Stephen and Jasmine, thank

531
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 2: you for on the air, and good luck you okay.

532
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 10: Stephen, Yeah, I guess so yeah, thank you Okay.

533
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,959
Speaker 2: That was Like, that's harsh to say he didn't dress

534
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 2: well and has halatosis. That's mean it was a lot

535
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 2: and a whole list, a lot. Like I'd be so

536
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 2: insecure if I were Steven right now forever. Yeah.

537
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: Not, It's gonna be fine, Stephen.

538
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 5: But also like that's kind of the look these days,

539
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 5: you know, like dressed down, dressed down, bad breath, Well,

540
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 5: not bad, the bad breath is a whole other thing,

541
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 5: but the dressed down. Maybe he thought he was being

542
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 5: cool guy.

543
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: I think it was also because he didn't pay, and

544
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: that he was drinking and she was sober. That is

545
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: not fun sometimes when you're with a person that's kind

546
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: of buzzed, yeah or drunk, who knows.

547
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking about a tongue scraper right now or something.

548
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: You know, it's the same. I've all the coffee, That's.

549
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 2: All I'm thinking about, Like I need to scrape my

550
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: own time.

551
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 10: I know.

552
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan.

553
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 2: Seacret Clarissa, it's Seacrest, sisiny Tani. How are you hi?

554
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: Clarissa?

555
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 11: Hi?

556
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 6: How are you?

557
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 9: I'm well?

558
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: Are you? Because it's HEAs here? You need advice about

559
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: some guy you've been dating? For a month, is everything okay?

560
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 2: Not really what's up?

561
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 9: So I wanted to ask your guys' advice because it's

562
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 9: of course, yeah, it's going on two months next week.

563
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:05,880
Speaker 9: And he it's kind of going like up and down,

564
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 9: Like he has his days where he like shows like

565
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 9: like affection and like he cares, and then there's days

566
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 9: where he keeps himself like really distant and he says like,

567
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,959
Speaker 9: oh I really like you, I really want to date you,

568
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 9: yet makes no effort to put in the time. So

569
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 9: and I'm always like the one giving like one hundred

570
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 9: percent effort, like hey, are you free, I'm free, And

571
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 9: then he's like I'm not available, Like are well?

572
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 2: This is really clear. He doesn't get to be with you,

573
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 2: Like he doesn't make you a priority. He's giving you

574
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: lip service, he's not giving you actionable service, and therefore

575
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 2: he's not worth your time.

576
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, don't settle. It sounds like you're making excuses

577
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: and you're trying to settle for this guy when he's

578
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: up in the effort.

579
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: Place more value on you, Place more value on you

580
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 2: and your time and your affection and your heart and

581
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 2: all the things that like should happen that are not

582
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 2: just words right, and.

583
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: The right guy will come to you and.

584
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: Fight for you. But like it's really clear from the outside.

585
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: Course I know it sucks on the inside because you're like,

586
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: wait a minute, I like the guy, or I want

587
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: this to be a guy that I like or whatever.

588
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: You think you can change him.

589
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think that's the issue sin he is where

590
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 9: I feel like maybe if I continue giving more time

591
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 9: or like I'm showing like more effort, then he'll be like,

592
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 9: oh wait, Like I think she is like the one

593
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 9: I want to be with. And I think that's like

594
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 9: the issue with me because even my friends have told me,

595
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 9: like no, just drop him. It's not worth it anymore.

596
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 9: Like he's only giving you like ten percent of his time. Yeah,

597
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 9: And it's just like it sucks, like it's had it's

598
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 9: been having me on an emotional rollercoaster. It really has,

599
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 9: Like I like, well and the word she.

600
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: Just said, yeah, and you're crying, like you should not

601
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: be feeling these things emotional. It's the beginning of a relationship.

602
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 2: And by the way, the God doesn't have like obsessed

603
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 2: about you, but to show you a little bit of

604
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 2: you know, value in your time and your interest is

605
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: important and this is one of those red flags that

606
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 2: you kind of see now but you want to look

607
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 2: past because you want it to work. I mean we're

608
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 2: all like that. Look you meet somebody and you want

609
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 2: to say to yourself, hey, I have good judgment. I

610
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: know how to pick good people, and you actually you

611
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 2: look past things that in hindsight you probably shouldn't have.

612
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 2: So it's been a month. If you're not seeing that

613
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: you're some kind of a priority for him to get

614
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 2: to know, then I think this is a bad sign.

615
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: M Yeah, we're all in it together in a way.

616
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 2: We're all in together.

617
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: Keep us posted.

618
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 5: You live and you learn, You ride, and you rollicking down.

619
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 2: Give me another one.

620
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 5: You're right and you're wrong.

621
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 2: I have say what song is that Katy Perry to

622
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 2: plagiarize Katie? Thank you Tanya. Yeah, new trend for your

623
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: phone might keep you saying sisy.

624
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: I was noticing more and more that people have the

625
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: do not disturb on, And I know certain people, like

626
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: even in this room, Like I know Mark turns on

627
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: his do not disturb at like eight pm every night.

628
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: So if I try to text him, I'm going to

629
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: get the do not disturb.

630
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 2: You are the producer of a fluid show that could happen.

631
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I'll never forget, you know, things that happened

632
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 2: in late that need to impact the show mark. So

633
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: you should people have privilege to get through my do

634
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 2: not disturbed.

635
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: So yes, you can have people. That's not true, you

636
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,719
Speaker 1: for sure do. Maybe it's because you don't have an

637
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: idea on your phone. I don't know.

638
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't because you don't use your photos snoozy

639
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 2: lose blame me and my phone for it.

640
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: But apparently I'm not wrong with like the majority of

641
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: people using do not disturb these days, it is on

642
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: a trend and it's basically just to have no notifications

643
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: at all, so they people are key meeting, they do

644
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: not disturb on twenty four to seven, not just at

645
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: certain times. It is always on, kind of like you

646
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: have your auto reply on your email.

647
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 2: Ah wait wit intentionally you're putting it on all day, right,

648
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 2: intentionally you.

649
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: Put it on all day and it's basically to help

650
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: with anxiety. It's helping just like to not be notified

651
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: for every single phone call or email or text that

652
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: might come through, and on your time you go and

653
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: check your phone almost like you used to back in

654
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: the day. When you would come home and check your

655
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: answering machine see if I really left it.

656
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 5: I did Do not Disturb for maybe like a few months.

657
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 5: There's a window like from night till morning, and I

658
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 5: got in trouble from Mark because of it, because you

659
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 5: couldn't get a hold of me where something was moving.

660
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 5: And so then I took off Do not Disturb and I.

661
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: Only had it.

662
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 2: There's a pot call the kettle black.

663
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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm saying I only had it on for

664
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 5: ten hours a day and I got in trouble within

665
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 5: like two months.

666
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

667
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: I mean certain jobs require quick at times to respond

668
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: to maybe an email her, But but does it could

669
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: it wait an hour or two when you actually like

670
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: go and check yourself.

671
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. We've had things that have been breaking

672
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 2: overnight and Ciciny is the only first one to reply.

673
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: I have not used do not disturb.

674
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 2: Ever, I'm like anybody out there.

675
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm usually still up from the night before.

676
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: That's why Mediana, you do this intentionally.

677
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 9: Yeah.

678
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 11: I even have my notifications on my social media, off

679
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 11: my emails, and you.

680
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: Work here on this.

681
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: I look at how she is.

682
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, absolutely, because sometimes I get anxious. It's like so

683
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 11: many texts coming in at once, and like, I will

684
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 11: put one of my friends on to not disturb while

685
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 11: we're texting. But what if we need you, I just

686
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 11: I check when I need to check.

687
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 2: I need to be more like that.

688
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 11: I mean, like I have it.

689
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: I mean I most of the time.

690
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 11: I have it often not to start when I'm here,

691
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 11: but after that, I'm like, absolutely not.

692
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 2: We don't need we don't need it off when you're here.

693
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: You're here, we can talk to you on the microphone.

694
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 2: We need it off when you're not here.

695
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 9: Right.

696
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: Another reason you might want to do this, and this

697
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: is the one that really kind of is persuading me

698
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: to just have that do not disturb on it at

699
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: all times is robo calls.

700
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 2: That's for you won't.

701
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: Get as many robo calls if you have do not

702
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 1: disturb on.

703
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then what if you missed, like a call

704
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 5: from your vet or you get it or whatever.

705
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: You can leave a message, get into the meditating. Okay,

706
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: they leave a message, you check the message. It's just

707
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 1: like having an answering machine back in the day. Give

708
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: your phone like that, you know.

709
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: Me, I'm I'm down to subscribe to some of this stuff, right,

710
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 2: all right? So not Yea, I don't know. I don't

711
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 2: want to be disturbed.

712
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 5: I know, but then if we if you disturb us

713
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:50,720
Speaker 5: and we're don't reply immediately, he'll get ahold of firing

714
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:51,240
Speaker 5: them off.

715
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 2: Well, everybody chooses a role. I in the permanent out

716
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: of off this reply, Like, I use that thing all

717
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 2: the time.

718
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 5: That is very funny.

719
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 2: Now it is summertime and we often talk about summer

720
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 2: fashion comes to bathing suits, like what's in for? Is

721
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: there an in suit for women now right now?

722
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: Like the cutout trend is really in where it's it

723
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 1: looks like a one piece, but then it has cutouts

724
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: like around like the waist part, but it's still all connects.

725
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 2: I think I saw that with someone recently. Yeah, I'm

726
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: always insecure in my bathing suit. I always feel like

727
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 2: I hold my shirt over my stomach. I didn't take

728
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 2: all my shirt. A lot sotis. I'll walk Georgia at

729
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 2: the beach and I'll get my shorts wet, but I'll

730
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: leave my shirt on. My shirt gets wet, then I

731
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: get cold, but I'd rather be cold than have my

732
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 2: shirt off my.

733
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 5: Own, not your shirts. Your shirt's always on and photos

734
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 5: I see.

735
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 2: Most of them are occasionally where are you seeing these?

736
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm not posting them sitting outside my door with my

737
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:01,240
Speaker 2: shirt off. But I do have like I think Sysney

738
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 2: and I relate to is like we, because of whatever reason,

739
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,359
Speaker 2: have these insecurities about being in a bathing suit. But

740
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 2: I also work out a lot to look good in one.

741
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 2: So there's always this.

742
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 1: But you know what I ryan, it's never We're never

743
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 1: good enough. So even though like we're working out and

744
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: like it's like you're gonna look back at this body

745
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: in like ten fifteen years and be like wow that

746
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: you know, actually.

747
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 2: Celebre that's our own mental.

748
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: I know this is like a WHRs cycle.

749
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 2: But Lily, so I started doing this YouTube lunge workout

750
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: to build my legs and my rear, and I thought,

751
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 2: all right, because I want to wear short shorts. Thanks

752
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 2: for calling I want to wear shorter bathing suit short. Yes,

753
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 2: that's the problem with those are they're tight on your stomach,

754
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 2: so they well then get a bigger way, then they

755
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: go too long and they look too boxing.

756
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 5: I know, but you can hem them.

757
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: On my bathing suit.

758
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: That's a lot.

759
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: So there are a lot of people talking about the

760
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: length of the mail suit this summer.

761
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the whole thing.

762
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,959
Speaker 2: What do you like Robbie and Tanya?

763
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 5: I like him and Hucci Daddy shorts.

764
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 2: Now you have to because that's not on the list.

765
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 2: Here are those theos?

766
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: I would say those are like the red shorts, like

767
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 1: a like a three inch to four inch inseam.

768
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 2: Is that comfortable for him? Because that's not comfortable? Those

769
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 2: are not comfortable. That insecen because you know there's a

770
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 2: net inside. You know, there's a there's a hand on.

771
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,479
Speaker 1: Michael has me cut all the nets out of issue.

772
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a problem. It's they're not comfortable.

773
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,479
Speaker 1: What is the net there for to hold everything there?

774
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 2: Yes, you've not looked inside his whatever shorts?

775
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 11: You know.

776
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: I just recently got him these shorts that have shorts

777
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 1: inside the shorts and he loves them.

778
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 2: Shorts and oh you mean wait, like workout shorts that

779
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: have no they're.

780
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: Bathing suits there. It's like a it's like a bathing

781
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: suit that can get wet, like you know, whatever that

782
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: material is the inside has like uh the inside instead

783
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: of having a net, it's like a brief.

784
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 2: Oh it's much more comfortable, much more comfortable.

785
00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 1: He loves them.

786
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 2: So it's like bike shorts.

787
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: Kind of, but they're not like that tight, Like it's

788
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: just that net.

789
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 2: Go through your boyfriend's bathing suits tonight and cut out

790
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 2: his nets.

791
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, then you're welcome.

792
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 5: Very uncozy.

793
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 2: So they say the board shorts are good for taller guys,

794
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: which is true.

795
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: That's true.

796
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: The short square cut that you're talking about is that

797
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 2: it's almost the Daniel Craig James Bond. Yes, exactly good

798
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 2: if you're doing the lunges, if you're because you want

799
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 2: to show off that the top of the leg and

800
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 2: I will not go out in.

801
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: Espeedo even like if you are completely secluded and you.

802
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: Want to get you go out in speedo. It just

803
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: feels improper to me. You know that, that's great. I

804
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: feel like if I would have walked down the beach

805
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 2: and my aunt Gladys was there and I'm an espeedo,

806
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: I would feel inappropriate.

807
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: But didn't you do swim You had to wear a

808
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: speed that's.

809
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: For competitive swimming.

810
00:38:54,360 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: Okay, relax, competitive.

811
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 2: Competitive pool sport, Wow, Olympics. But then I have I

812
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: have friends fathers who will wear a speedo.

813
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad.

814
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 5: Only wore spidos for like the longest time he just

815
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 5: switched to shorts, maybe like five years ago.

816
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 2: You need to get in there and cut out his

817
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: nets too. Are you guys doing your cleans?

818
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 5: Oh?

819
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we doing your You're doing your your gut cleans.

820
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 2: Where you're doing all the juices? So which one are

821
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 2: you doing? Which one are you doing?

822
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 9: Oh?

823
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 2: That's great, You've got your tub of juices.

824
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: And do you want some show and tell? You want

825
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 1: to see some of it?

826
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? I want to see it. So doesn't look.

827
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 5: Mine doesn't look quite as good as this?

828
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 2: Like this is the salad once while I was trying

829
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 2: to do a little reset right on the diet. And

830
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,760
Speaker 2: because we're here, we can pack it on the lunchbox.

831
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 2: So you have a salad and a jar. That's that's what?

832
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 3: What?

833
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 10: What?

834
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 2: What's the version of what you're doing? What's the goal?

835
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: The goal is to gut cleanse. This is actually specific

836
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:54,879
Speaker 1: for a gun.

837
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 2: Where did you find it?

838
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: Tanya actually recommended this company.

839
00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 2: Where did you find it?

840
00:39:58,920 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 5: I found it?

841
00:39:59,360 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: TikTok no?

842
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: Oh, but I did it on Instagram.

843
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 5: Kristin Harper, you know Jared Goff's fiance. She was posting

844
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 5: about it, and so I messaged her and was like

845
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 5: do you like it?

846
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: How is it?

847
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 2: What's the framing, what's the premise.

848
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 5: The premise is like exactly what you said, gut cleans

849
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 5: to get rid of all that gunk.

850
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: But look, so they have this is an am tonic drink.

851
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 3: I don't know.

852
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 2: It seems complicated, is she Okay? Did you make all

853
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 2: this or do you have to?

854
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 7: Yeah?

855
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: So it comes pre package.

856
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah.

857
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 2: I mean if you can do anything like this for

858
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 2: a day, two days, it's better than not.

859
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: Doing the five days. To me, I know, I was

860
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 1: like when you said you didn't even make it the three.

861
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 2: Days, I was like, I didn't make it till one day.

862
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 2: I just did lunch like that, and the dinner's add normal.

863
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 5: No, but like this is and I think the thing

864
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 5: is too.

865
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: This is like really good.

866
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 5: I think it helps. I think when you are disciplined

867
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 5: about something, I think it bleeds into other areas of

868
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 5: your life. So for me, these next five days are

869
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 5: all about this cleanse, but also about refocusing, re energizing,

870
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 5: putting my head down and really committing.

871
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 2: To Did you meditate this morning? I did, but not

872
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 2: for very long because your energy is different today in it.

873
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: So I mean I'm not going but I remember the

874
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: day you came in. We were like, this is like

875
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 2: you want coffee.

876
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: This is not cleanse is the opposite for me. I

877
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: gave Michael and my family the warning. I was like,

878
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: Mommy's gonna be very grumpy this week because I'm not

879
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 1: going to be eating like my normal stuff. Just constantly

880
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: be hungry.

881
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 2: You presold it exactly. But Tania, I'm saying you're not

882
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 2: having coffee.

883
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 5: Right, No, I am having coffee. It's your life.

884
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 2: I have coffee.

885
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're allowed to have organic coffee with uh specials

886
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 5: like you know, clean nut milks. And I make my

887
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 5: own nut milk. Thank you very much.

888
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 2: How did you learn how to do that?

889
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 5: Your ex girlfriend? I still use her recipe.

890
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: It's funny. Hey, Ruby, did you try the grape fruit

891
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 2: cucumber cy lanthrow drink the doctor Darryl recommended last week?

892
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 8: I did because I remember he said, if there's anything

893
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 8: you're going to do, just try this great.

894
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 2: It was great fruit cucumber and cilantra or mint.

895
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 8: Yes, So I did a little bit of cilantro and

896
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:12,320
Speaker 8: a little bit of mint. It's not the best, but

897
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 8: it's not terrible. Like and I like grapefruit, but it

898
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 8: is really like strong.

899
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: But that's a good that's a good description of something

900
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 2: is supposed to be so good for you. It's not

901
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 2: the best, but it's not. That's what I'm going there

902
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: with these secret serums and yeah, these tonics. Right, it's

903
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: it's bearable, right, I could, I could swallow it. I mean,

904
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 2: that's that's good. Well, good luck. We'll see how the

905
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 2: crank of meter goes and the energy mark. You keep

906
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 2: track of the cranks and the energy here. I'm on

907
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: a regular, full diet, so I'm full speed. I'm ready

908
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: to bring it on. What do you want? So where

909
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 2: did this even come from? This question about how many

910
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,720
Speaker 2: times we're showering in a week and are we cleaning

911
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: ourselves too much causing skin issues? Who knows?

912
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: But then now it's like everywhere and everyone has been

913
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:00,399
Speaker 1: talking about it this week.

914
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so what's true? Tell me what? People?

915
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

916
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: It's true? What is true?

917
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 5: It's true, it's everywhere and people are talking about it.

918
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 5: I brought it into my household and said, we have

919
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 5: to stop showering so much.

920
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 2: Okay, no, not if you're gonna come here, you need

921
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 2: to clean yourself. Why why did you bring.

922
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: It into stop showering.

923
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,879
Speaker 2: Well, it's not if this is not about water.

924
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 5: This is about your body, right, yes, and your microbiome.

925
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 2: Okay, this is something we will listen to, but I

926
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 2: will argue it. God.

927
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So dermatologists recently came out and said that you

928
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: should shower every two to three days.

929
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 2: Are you supposed to take a bath in between?

930
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 10: No?

931
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: Like this is this is about the water actually hitting

932
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: your skin?

933
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 2: Oh the water. No, it's not about the water. It's

934
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 2: about your skin.

935
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: It's about your skin.

936
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 2: Oh, I thought you knew all of this time.

937
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 4: I thought it was so.

938
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 2: I thought you brought this to your household.

939
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 5: I didn't bring it to my household, and I got

940
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 5: an argument.

941
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 2: Can go back to what your household is. I had

942
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: never heard you say the household before. That's about a

943
00:43:59,400 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 2: pin in house.

944
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: So why So basically there is no there is the

945
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 1: case before we all freak out, right because everyone's like

946
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: two to three days. There's people like Tanya who showers

947
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: like one hundred times a day before. There's no real

948
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: scientific like evidence to how many baths someone needs. Because

949
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: people work out. People don't work out like there's you know,

950
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: people sweat more. People stink more so everyone is different.

951
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 2: Yes, so my shower is dictated by activity, my job,

952
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 2: and romance exactly. So yeah, those are three ten polls

953
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 2: to my cleaning.

954
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 1: True, exactly, So I think the whole two to three

955
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: days is very loosely based. Yeah, but so yeah, and

956
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 1: that's what this dermatologist I guess eventually was saying. But

957
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 1: it has come down to activity, sweating a lot and

958
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: all that. But you can you shower too often? Was

959
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:00,399
Speaker 1: another question? And then the answer is yes, you can.

960
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,280
Speaker 1: It could disrupt your skin barrier and dry out your skin.

961
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take that risk to be clean. I'm gonna

962
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 2: take that risk to not to smell like honeycombs.

963
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: You can make yourself more prone to infection if you wash,

964
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: because the skin is protected by some really nice natural

965
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: bacteria that things that protect your are preserving a left Yeah, exactly.

966
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 2: If you knew all this, why don't you talk this

967
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 2: fifteen years ago, Tanya? Why you've been holding it to yourself? Something?

968
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Speaker 10: You know this?

969
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 5: I just saw this this report as well, and when

970
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 5: I saw it, I was shook to my core because

971
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 5: it was talking about the good the bacteria that protects

972
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 5: our microbiome. And I'm like, I'm washing this good bacteria

973
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 5: off my microbiome multiple times a day.

974
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Speaker 2: Do you even know what that means? Microbiome like microbiome?

975
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 2: Do you know what your microbiome is? Doctor? Do you

976
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: to describe what of your microbiomero biome?

977
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Speaker 5: So lot, It'm google it. But it's basically the layer

978
00:45:59,080 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 5: that protects you.

979
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Speaker 1: The layer.

980
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 5: It's the layer that texas from the outside shield of outside.

981
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 2: Hu. I think I ooze out enough grease overnight to

982
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 2: microbiome replenish, and I then need to wash that off.

983
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 2: Like every morning, I wash my face before I even

984
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 2: do anything, Like I washed my face right away then

985
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 2: you sually jump in the shop. But even on a Saturday,

986
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:23,959
Speaker 2: I wash my face before I go take my shower.

987
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 2: If I have my coffee, come back a couple of

988
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 2: hours later. But guys, I'm just telling you, like, when

989
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 2: I come here, you want me clean. When I'm romancing,

990
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 2: you want me clean. When I finish my romancing workout,

991
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 2: you want clean. Do you call it?

992
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't call it romancing.

993
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:50,240
Speaker 2: My passionate journeys, Oh please, my pgs. I though biome

994
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 2: is the collection of all microbes such as bacteria, fungi,

995
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 2: viruses and their genes that naturally live on our bodies

996
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 2: and inside us. Well, guess what I am. I'm cleaning

997
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: myself every day. Like it or don't like it.

998
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people still are the three days.

999
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 1: There's no chance. The only time I ever went three

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00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,439
Speaker 1: days is when I had the newborns. Like, that's when

1001
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 1: I went three days.

1002
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Speaker 2: Acceptable, guys, that is gonna do it for us. One

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Speaker 2: more thing before we go. What's your biggest pet peeve

1004
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 2: that someone else does when you're sleeping or trying to

1005
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 2: sleep sicn'ty Like if I'm.

1006
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:27,280
Speaker 1: About to fall asleep and Michael tries to like extremely

1007
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: cuddle me and get a little annoyed.

1008
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 2: Cuddling is so annoying.

1009
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 1: Just cuddling is so cute. It's not annoying, like when

1010
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 1: it's time to cuddle. But if I'm like on that

1011
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: point of falling asleep, I literally I'm just like, oh

1012
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: my gosh, do I'm like, it's so hard for me

1013
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: to fall asleep.

1014
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 2: Me too, I always feel like I've got to get

1015
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 2: to sleep so fast that cuddling like sets me back. Yes, exactly,

1016
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 2: I know, Tanya pet peeve someone else does when you're sleeping.

1017
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 5: When they're watching TV, laughing really loud. They well, it's

1018
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 5: not Robby, this is actually me.

1019
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 2: We have a pretty good rule. It like, when the

1020
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 2: TV goes off, we both shut down.

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00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,759
Speaker 1: Is that you're that a joint rule or is that

1022
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 1: your right?

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Speaker 2: Tomorrow we're back with a lot more. Thanks for listening

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Speaker 2: to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe

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