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Speaker 4: Dear blog.

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Speaker 5: Okay, have you guys ever experienced this in a relationship

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Speaker 5: where your partner is doing something with great intentions but

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Speaker 5: you really wish they would stop.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, okay, I'm not alone.

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Speaker 5: Okay, because this latest issue we're having is at my house.

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Speaker 5: My lawn care company who has been amazing. We have

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Speaker 5: a great relationship until last week when I asked them

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Speaker 5: to do a little extra clean up.

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Speaker 4: In the yard.

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Speaker 5: I pay them and I get a call and on

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Speaker 5: my way to the wedding that I went to, and

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Speaker 5: it's the lawne care company saying we can't service your

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Speaker 5: lawn because we got stung by a bee and we

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Speaker 5: can't come back into you ensure that there are no

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Speaker 5: more bees in your yard.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you're the lawn care company.

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Speaker 1: I don't ast you to call pest people.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like.

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Speaker 5: If you cut grass or a living you should have

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Speaker 5: a procedure in place for a book, you know, Like,

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Speaker 5: do I don't.

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Speaker 1: Think they got to get rid of hives a high? Guy?

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Speaker 4: I said, is there a high it?

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Speaker 1: Did you go?

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Speaker 2: It? Like?

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Speaker 4: Did you bump into a hive? He's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It just was a lot of bees.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, so where are they located, sir, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I got stung by a bee. Okay, you know a

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Speaker 5: little more information will be helpful. Where they're living, you

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Speaker 5: know where they're sitting up shop? Yes, you know where

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Speaker 5: their new little apartment complex is will be helpful.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 5: So I got home and we checked for the bees

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Speaker 5: and nobody we didn't see one bee in sight, you know,

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Speaker 5: And I understand some people are terrified of bees and

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Speaker 5: you get stung, you freak out, and.

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Speaker 4: The lawn care is not for you if that's the case.

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Speaker 5: But I thought maybe I was being unreasonable, but clearly not.

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Speaker 5: I thank you, Caleb, So I got your biggest fear,

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Speaker 5: and I feel seen and heard because I couldn't wrap

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Speaker 5: my mind around you're you work in lawn care and

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Speaker 5: you're running from a bug like.

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Speaker 4: That I don't understand, but anyway, a fee, but like

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Speaker 4: what you want me to do anyway.

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Speaker 5: So once he decided he was no longer cutting my yard,

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Speaker 5: I said, okay, whatever, I'll find a new company. In

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Speaker 5: the midst of the conversation of finding a new company,

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Speaker 5: Big Tim decides it is his time to shine and

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Speaker 5: he wants to go purchase a brand new lawn more

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Speaker 5: and he is just gonna take care of our yard.

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Speaker 4: And I love that man with all my heart.

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Speaker 5: And soul, but line care is not his thing, and

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Speaker 5: I don't want him to do this.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to leave this in his hands.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to.

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Speaker 4: I feel like this is bad for our future marriage,

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Speaker 4: Like I don't want you in charge of this.

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Speaker 2: Him to do a bad job, or he won't be

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Speaker 2: consistent or all the things. Okay, So you think that

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Speaker 2: it's just easier for you, you won't have to nag him,

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Speaker 2: it'll look it'll look better. You just think that this

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Speaker 2: is something better left for the professionals. Yes, And I

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Speaker 2: don't disagree with that, Like I don't know that I

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Speaker 2: need to be out there doing that stuff either. Like

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Speaker 2: I think, I think by the time we bought that.

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Speaker 2: I've said this a million times in my case, by

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Speaker 2: the time I buy the lawnmower and the edger and

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Speaker 2: and all this stuff, and then and then I got,

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Speaker 2: you know, the blower, and then I gotta, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know plant stuff and seed stuff and whatever

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Speaker 2: I should. I just just sounds sexual. But it's not

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Speaker 2: the lower on the edge and seeing things. But I'm

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Speaker 2: just saying, I hire somebody, and it's just I'm better.

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Speaker 2: Everyone wins. And that's how you feel.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Do you feel too like this is like a

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Speaker 6: marriage thing, because Hobby did the same thing.

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Speaker 4: He bought the lawnmower, and like.

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Speaker 6: You said, Fred, all the gadgets and successories that came

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Speaker 6: with it, and I still got, you know, Senortino coming

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Speaker 6: over to cut my grass. And I love him because

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Speaker 6: I'm like listen your family, Like I let him in

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Speaker 6: out the house.

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Speaker 4: Whatever he wants.

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Speaker 6: I'm like water because I to me, it's just a

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Speaker 6: headache that I don't want to.

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Speaker 1: If you got Seniortino, then why did you buy all

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Speaker 1: the stuff?

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Speaker 4: Because he bought a house.

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Speaker 6: So Hobby was like, well, I'm the man of the

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Speaker 6: house and I want a lawnmower. And I love that

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Speaker 6: for him, like we all like projects, right, he uses

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Speaker 6: it once in a while, but then I don't know,

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Speaker 6: I just feel it's just so much easier to call

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Speaker 6: somebody to come do it, and they do a way

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Speaker 6: better job.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, way better.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you neither one of you want your men

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Speaker 2: no rowing the lawn. I know you don't want Shane

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Speaker 2: washing your underwear.

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Speaker 4: There's so many things.

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Speaker 1: He's so obsessed with watching your underwear.

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Speaker 7: But okay, the phrase in our house is sometimes we're

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Speaker 7: a little too helpful because like I'll have like a

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Speaker 7: return sitting out, you know, and but I won't put

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Speaker 7: like the final thing in the bag, and he'll already

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Speaker 7: have taken it to FedEx, you know, Like he tries

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Speaker 7: to be one step ahead of me, or like the

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Speaker 7: whites will be in a pile to do the lawn

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Speaker 7: and he'll put him in, but like they needed to

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Speaker 7: be spot cleaned. I'm like, let's just stick to our

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Speaker 7: areas and we'll be got you know, Okay, all right,

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Speaker 7: don't try to get ahead.

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Speaker 4: Of this crazy brain.

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Speaker 1: You can't do it, understood, Jason. I feel like you're

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Speaker 1: the guy who has to do the thing.

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Speaker 3: I love cutting the grass, and if I can do it,

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Speaker 3: Tim can do it.

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Speaker 5: Bro You're consistent about everything in your life. You are

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Speaker 5: not going to miss anything if you if you said

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Speaker 5: a day to cut grass every Wednesday Saturday, Jason, when

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Speaker 5: I describe him to people, he's a guy who doesn't

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Speaker 5: miss anything.

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Speaker 1: No. So yeah, no, I would trust you to do

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Speaker 1: it and do it well. But I enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: You also have to do it in order to keep

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Speaker 2: a roof over your professional in that house.

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Speaker 3: So it's fulfilling when it's done to be like, wow,

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Speaker 3: I did that. So I can see, like not why

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Speaker 3: he would want to.

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Speaker 4: He does so many great things. I just I don't

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Speaker 4: want you to do it.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: I hate when he cleans. I don't like when he cleans,

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Speaker 4: you know what.

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Speaker 5: And he's doing it with the best intentions, So It's like,

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Speaker 5: how do you tell them no, like, don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess that's hard because you know they're trying

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Speaker 2: to help, yes, and they want and I'm sure subliminally

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Speaker 2: they want, you know, sort of the help credit, right, like, look,

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Speaker 2: I'm contributing, see, but they're not doing it the way

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Speaker 2: you want them to do it, so they're not really

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Speaker 2: getting the credit. So you may as well just have

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Speaker 2: somebody else do it if you have the means. Exactly, Kiki.

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Speaker 7: I go through after and refold the hand towels, I

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Speaker 7: remake the bed after every time.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm just following you around, be doing anything.

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Speaker 4: If he's so proud of himself, I wait for him

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Speaker 4: to leave and I redo it all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if I, if I ever, you know,

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Speaker 2: live with somebody that and I had the means, I

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Speaker 2: would hire people to do these things so that there's

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Speaker 2: just no argument between us about who's doing more or

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Speaker 2: the other of it. It's like, guess what, neither one

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Speaker 2: of us are doing it because we got someone to

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Speaker 2: do it. So I don't want to hear that you

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Speaker 2: think you're doing more of it than I am, because

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Speaker 2: you're not doing anything because we got a guy and

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Speaker 2: a girl, you know what I mean. So like, there's no,

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Speaker 2: we're not going to compete it. Oh well I do

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Speaker 2: more cleaning.

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Speaker 1: No you don't.

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Speaker 2: We got the cleaning person for that. So that is

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Speaker 2: one last thing that we're going to argue about. I

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Speaker 2: think it's an I think it's an investment in our future.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the long guy might be an investment

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Speaker 2: in his lifelong sustainability and happiness.

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Speaker 1: You're exactly