WEBVTT - Hot, Not, or Botox 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:03.680 Help We Suck At Being Newlywed? With Dean Aungler, Helen 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:05.600 key Man, Jared haven An. 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:06.880 iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:11.240 Hey everybody, welcome to an old new episode of Help 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:16.600 We Suck At Being Newlyweds. I'm Jared Han. I might 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:19.160 sound a little different. I'm a little under the weather, 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:21.960 but I feel like I sound manly er. I don't 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:24.120 mind having a sore throat. I mean, I do mind. 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:25.320 I hate it. I hate it so much. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:27.720 But at the same time, I feel like I sound 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:29.360 a little bit more like Batman. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:30.520 So that makes me excited. 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:34.479 That's great. That's what today's topic is, folks. We're going 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:38.199 to talk about Jared and his happiness with having a 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:38.800 sore throat. 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.320 Yeah, we're just gonna talk about Batman the entire time. 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:42.720 I would love that. 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.960 I need to start a podcast about something like that. Batman, 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.680 like just movies in general. Are glad to talk about it? 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:51.280 What's up? 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:51.519 Man? 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:53.559 How are you so? Thanks for introducing us? This is 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:57.560 Dean and Kaylin. You did it? You just you know, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.600 you get like you get a hYP hyperfixiatetion it on yourself. 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:02.240 That's okay, it happens to us all the time too. 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:04.800 If you're listening to this podcasts you don't know who 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:08.160 Dean and Kaylin are or that they're the hosts of 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.959 this podcast. I mean, well, thank you for listening to 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:13.640 your first ever episode of help we stuck at being 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:14.120 newly weds. 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:17.200 But also like we all know, we all know? 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.680 Do you listen to any other podcasts? Jared? 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:24.280 I listened to No. I listened to a lot of 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:26.360 local sports talk radio. That's my jam. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:28.280 So there's a radio soas called ninety eight point five 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:30.000 and I listened to a lot of that. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.959 Dan, that's a great question. Do I listen to podcasts? 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:36.840 I sometimes listen to Bill Burr's podcast The Monday morning 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:38.880 Thursday afternoon, just before Friday podcasts. 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:41.360 It's a good one. I've never heard of that podcast. 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:44.679 But so Kayln listens to her podcast. I listen to 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:45.520 my podcast. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:46.760 What do you guys listen to? 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:49.800 I've been getting really into Armchair Expert with Bex Shepherd. 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:51.160 Kaylen can't really. 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:53.240 No, No, I like it, No, suddenly I. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.280 Like it, Suddenly I like it? 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.080 What happened prior? Why didn't you like it? 0:01:57.480 --> 0:02:00.400 She's got her qualms with it, But one of the 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:02.920 co hosts annoyed me yeah. 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:04.200 I'm speaking to Caitlin. 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:07.560 Yeah, quick, what she doesn't. 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:07.920 Like about it? 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.120 One of the co hosts just annoyed me a bit, 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:12.600 and then I grew to like her. And it's not 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:15.240 I don't know, it was just like, and I probably 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:17.280 do this in our podcast. It was like constant just 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.840 laughter in the background, but loud laughter. I don't know, 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:21.840 it's stupid. It's stupid. 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:25.040 Kaylen has the thing where I we drive a lot, obviously, 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.360 and if I turn on a podcast, I like, she'll 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:29.760 find something. It doesn't matter what it is, she'll find 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:32.040 something that she absolutely hates about it, and then I'm 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:34.000 forced to turn it off. Like, for instance, this is 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:36.120 the most common one she brings up. It doesn't matter 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.160 who's hosting or what they're talking about or anything. She 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.840 hates the way people say their s is and so 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:45.480 she'll be like, every time they say an S word, there's. 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:48.280 This it's so sharp because in Dean's I don't know, 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:50.040 in Dean's van it's very loud, so we have to 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:51.880 have it super loud, and then their says are so 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.880 sharp it just like hurts my brain. 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:56.400 Yeah. So, anyways, all this was going to be to 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:59.640 say that there are certain things from certain podcasts that 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.400 I love, Like I hear Dax, which it took me 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.280 a while to get to. For Dax to grow on me, 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.400 I like him a lot now, but he does a 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:10.560 lot of like little bits and it's actually funny because 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.120 Dax reminds me a lot of Wells in a lot 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:13.639 of the ways that you can see that like they're 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:19.520 both like crass but really really funny. Yeah, And so 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.040 whenever I'm listening to like that podcast or other podcasts 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:23.840 that I like to listen to, there's a few others 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:26.640 I'm always like, what can I incorporate into our podcast? 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.040 So when you start thinking about what we can incorporate 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:32.079 into ours to make it more ourselves for taking from. 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:34.160 Other people, Well, the podcast I listen to, they just 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:37.800 talk about their lives and what's going on in the world. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.600 And those are the ones podcast that I like. The 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:44.240 Toast and I like the World's first podcast. 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.680 What the hell is that world's first podcast? 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:53.000 Yeah it wasn't, but yeah, Sarah Foster and Aaron Foster 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:56.400 and they just talk about the sisterly dynamic and they 0:03:56.400 --> 0:03:59.160 fight a lot. It's it's interesting you just started listening 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:01.200 to that listening for like sixteen. 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.160 Mo Lea said, Sarah Foster was a guest on The 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:04.920 Toast and that's when you saw or heard her talk 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:05.520 about on thrope. 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.800 No, I actually started listening to this podcast because I 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.960 was in Pacific Palisates walked by this store and my 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.000 friend Allie's like, you know, the Fosters own this brand. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:14.360 You should listen to their podcast. 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:19.520 Yeah. Well, anyways, like I was saying, there is so 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.159 what Dax does every time they introduced their or start 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.120 their podcast is Dax will make up a name for 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:26.640 himself and then make up a name for his co host. 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:28.760 And it's very cute. And I tried to do it 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:32.000 a couple of weeks ago, and I said, Tom Cruise's 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:35.040 body double. And I'm just trying to think of certain 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:36.120 things and I was going to say this time, but 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:37.560 I couldn't think of anything fast enough. 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.560 So but we can't take Dax's things. 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:41.080 It's just funny and cute and I wanted to know 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:41.919 I like it. 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:46.800 Yeah, anyways, No, I think about a lot of sound effects. 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:49.560 That's what I wish we had. I know Easton and 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:51.599 we've you know, all talked about it before. We wish 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:53.920 we just had like that sound effect that every time 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:56.200 we say something, it just gets played every single time 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:58.000 a horn or a fart. 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.000 It's funny, I agree, I but it's funny because I 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:02.839 bet you if we just did a little bit of 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:04.880 research and put a little bit of the leg work in, 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:07.440 we could find ways to add the sound effects ourselves. 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.320 But we're just lazy and. 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:10.960 We don't think you would. Well, that's thirty second Google search. 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:13.160 Thirty second Google search. That's what I'm saying, And it 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:15.440 would be so easy. But we talk about wanting of 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:17.279 these things because I do the same thing. I think 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:19.040 sound effects. If we could just put our own sound 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:22.200 effects in like as they're happening, hilarious, But we're just 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:25.000 so averse to work. Well, we're more so overseed r 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:25.640 you are. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.440 I will google it, and. 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:29.839 I'm more so averse to work than you two are. 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:33.080 I also feel that we'd probably get overridden. 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.559 A producer would step in and be like, that's great, guys, 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:37.679 don't ever do it again. 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:40.360 Well, we can't abuse the sound effects button. It has 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:41.800 to be like, we have to keep it like five 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:43.560 and fewer every episode. 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:45.960 That might work. That's not a bad idea. Five times 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.440 we do it more than five times. Then we create 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:50.960 another sound effect that we have to play to be 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.279 played when we played the sound effect five times or more. 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:56.720 The overused sound effect sound effect. Right, Okay, so that's 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.080 our homework for next week. We'll all do some research 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:02.039 get some sound effects. Will have three sound effects each 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:04.479 and you can we can only use them three each, 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.400 So that's nine. I know it's a little higher, but 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.560 three each seems like an appropriate amount, you know. What's sad. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.400 Caitlin and I will actually do this, and then Dean 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:11.800 will be the one who comes in and be like, 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.280 all right, guys, I don't have my three sound effects 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.880 to I'm take. 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:21.080 My own sound effects want. Wah, We've got a great 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.560 episode today, don't we. 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:24.080 We sure do. 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:27.440 We got sexy you guys are in Hawaii right now. 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:29.200 Yeah, we're coming to you from Hawaii. 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:33.559 We got Jared's sexy Batman voice, which is great anytime. 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:36.479 I'm sick, Dean, he says, I sound like Tara. What's 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:37.200 Tara Reid? 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:38.760 Yeah, when you get sick? 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:40.680 Yeah, He's like, oh, he's sound so sexy. Sound like 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:41.120 Tara Reid? 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.480 Can you nineties throwback? 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:48.440 Can you corroborate this? I think when a girl like 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:51.720 specifically a girl at I guess I don't know how 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:56.120 to describe this, like Kaylen for instance, you know, classically beautiful, proper, 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.920 well spoken, and then she gets sick and she gets 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:00.960 this rasp in her voice, and something about a girl 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.320 with a raspy voice is so hot. I don't know why. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:08.279 Yeah, no, I I think this is something that we 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:10.560 can't talk about on air. 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:12.400 Because we will be judged Mercisley and. 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.120 Talk about it, talk about it. 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:19.880 Well, because it's just like there's I I one agree 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:22.840 with you. I think it just adds like a element of. 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:25.760 Like an edginess. 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:31.920 Yeah, edginess would be a proper word that I'll use. Edginus, Yeah, edginus. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.440 I want to know. I want to know what you 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:35.480 really think. 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.560 Yeah, I'm not going to say what I really think. 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:44.480 I'm so curious, Okay, yeah, I'll type it in the trash, 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:51.320 Oh trash, I will type it in the chat, all right, 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:52.239 and I'll say that loud. 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.080 He said that. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:08:00.200 I think, guys just there's like this on attraction to 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:03.120 not all not like Caitlin, not all the time, but 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:06.920 there are times where it's they there's moments and maybe Dean, 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.680 I'm way off on this, but for you personally, I 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:12.440 would include a raspy voice in this and like there's 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:17.960 like I would also say like tattoos again, like like 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:19.960 a like a like an arm sleeve, you know what 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:23.520 I mean. There's just like this element of like edge 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.720 and uh trashessousness. 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:29.040 Yeah, something like that. I didn't say something like that. 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:31.080 I said, I'll take the blame on that one. Yeah, 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:33.640 I wonder what it is. I think like the rebellion factor, 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:36.640 Like they sound like they've chained smoke to pack a 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:38.720 cigarette every day since they were six years old. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.320 I don't know. I think it's like sexy for women 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.319 to have a raspy voice as well. I think I 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.240 don't know what it is, but it's like because it's same. 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:46.400 I wish my voice sounded like. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:47.880 That, because like you don't see it very often. And 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:49.840 that's why I like the fact that the unique appeal 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:50.679 of it. 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.600 It's just like, I don't know, it's just like weirdly 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:54.319 sexy and I don't think you can put your finger 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:54.679 on it. 0:08:54.800 --> 0:09:06.559 Yeah. 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:07.720 I got a question for Kaylen. 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:09.720 What do you I'm I'm pretty sure we've talked about 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:12.439 on this podcast before, but it still just baffles my mind. 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:15.280 What is it about men that you find sexy? 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:18.960 Oh, especially out of shape and overweight men like me. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.240 Yeah, Like I look at myself and I try to 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.640 keep myself in good shape, and I feel like I 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:28.640 am somewhat handsome. But it's like I was looking at 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:33.600 my hands and I'm like, there's hair all over my hands. 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:37.320 Do you have hair free hands? Actually? What you have 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:37.960 hair free hands? 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:39.840 Hair free? I said, hair fore hands? 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.360 Well, I have hair on my hands, and like I 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:46.520 just am like, you know, it's just like knuckles and 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:50.680 muscles everywhere. And I'm like, I like, I don't why 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:54.040 does Ashley find me attractive? Like I have chicken legs 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.880 and just like I have hair on my butt, and 0:09:56.920 --> 0:10:00.480 it's just like, yeah, most of the time we smell 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:05.680 in our feet are just like big and weird looking. 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:08.120 And I'm like, I don't understand. I don't get it. 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:10.000 I went to wipe my butt the other day. 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.079 Like it was like, oh gosh, what are you talking about. 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:13.680 I went to wipe my butt the other day. And 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:15.320 this is the first time this conversation, this is the 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:16.720 first time this has happened to me in thirty two 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:19.880 years of life. And there was like, uh, there was 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.320 like wads of toilet paper in my butt crack, like 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.640 stuck in my butt, in my butt hair. And it 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:26.679 was one of the most unappealing moments I've ever had 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:27.040 in my life. 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:29.199 I was about to say what I find attracted about men, 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:29.840 and now I. 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:34.280 Just it's just I came out of the bathroom. I 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.320 was like, Kayla, there was a lot of toilet paper 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:38.120 in my buttthole from the last time I wifed. 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:39.280 You never said that. 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:40.200 You don't remember that? 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:41.040 Maybe I had. 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:44.400 I think it was a part, and it was one 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:46.640 of the It was one of the most humbling experiences 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:49.680 because I also feel very unattractible all the time, and 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:51.920 then on top of that, I'm pulling wads of toilet 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:52.960 paper out of my butt crack. 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:56.080 But that is not something you should share with your Beyonce. 0:10:56.240 --> 0:11:01.000 Why what? Yeah, but answered your question because I'm curious 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:01.280 as well. 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:01.560 Well. 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.120 Before Jean said that, I was gonna say, I'm very 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:08.520 attracted to arms, like not like super like overly buff arms, 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:13.200 but like perfectly little, not little, but perfectly cut deans. 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:16.960 Deans like the word she said, the L word. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:22.120 I say little to everything. Everything's little, you know, and arms, 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:25.640 not little Deans has huge arms. 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:27.880 For all the people out there, and never describe the 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:29.959 man you love with the word. 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:32.360 Okay, Gina has massive arms. 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:34.040 He's got thet genus. 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:40.599 Okay arms. I like arms that have muscle and definition, 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:41.720 and I like eyes. 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:43.679 Well, I haven't had definition my arms. 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:47.319 Your arms, show them? Can nake it on the podcast again? 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:49.040 Yeah you're big. 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:52.240 No, they saw it, Tots. It's the worst it's ever been. 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:56.240 I agree, And I have never felt ug clear And 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.360 I will say this, Caitlin's gonna get mad at me. 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.880 But when we first started dating, she would compliment how 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:02.760 cute I was or how handsome I was basically every 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:04.000 day for the first year and a half. And I 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:05.120 don't think i've heard it since. 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:07.760 No, he doesn't hear it anymore. His ears turn off. 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:09.760 When I say you're so handsome, you're so cute, he 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.480 just goes ough and scoffs, and he's like, I'm fat, 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:15.800 I'm ugly, I'm this, I'm that, And I'm like, I'm 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:18.080 complimenting you. But it's hard to compliment you and you've 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:18.920 just dismissed me. 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.120 Klen had on our flight the other day, she've had 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:23.160 a memory in her phone from like three and a 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.040 half years ago. When we first started dating. We were 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:28.160 in Mexico on a separate trip after Paradise, and I 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:31.120 was tan and I was skinny, and I was like, damn, 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:32.920 I could see how you can fall in love with 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:34.400 that guy, But you can't fall in love with this 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:36.880 guy because I'm overweight and. 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:40.320 You are not very pale. You just have a complex 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:41.679 and you need to get over it. 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:44.240 Even when I was in my best shape of my life, 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.840 I was still I remember I was on the Bachelorette 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:48.160 and I was sitting there and I was like, oh, 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:51.320 I'm so fat and gross and ugly, and I was 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:53.319 I was like one hundred eighty pounds, twenty pounds less 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:54.959 than I am now. And one of the producers was 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:57.000 interviewing me and he's like, I think your body is morphia, 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:59.480 Like you're buff and you look really good. And I 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.040 was like, yeah, my body dysmorphia. 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:01.719 I think you too. 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:03.520 And now couple that with the fact that I am 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:06.320 gaining weight and getting out of shape, it's just compounded 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:07.640 to be this big, bad thing. 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:11.000 But I don't think you are overweight or out of shape, 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:13.559 and I love you so much, so it doesn't that 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:14.840 mean anything. 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:17.719 It means something. I guess. I think it's Hollywood. You know, 0:13:17.720 --> 0:13:21.080 if you don't have the washboard six pack Jerrard Butler abs, 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:24.240 Gerard Gerard Butler, if you don't have those abs from 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:28.000 three hundred, you're out of shape. And Hollywood has scorned us. 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:31.000 And I will say moving to La definitely changed how 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.800 I view my body too, in probably a toxic way. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:35.040 Yeah, one hundred percent. 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:37.720 Why do you guys think I love Rhode Island so much? 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:40.840 Ashley talks about that all the time. I went to 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:42.960 the walking yesterday just to get tested because I'm feeling 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.160 a little sick, but I don't have strap. But the 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.240 doctor was like, oh, do you go to URI, which 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:49.880 is the university down the road, And I go no, 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:51.760 And then she looks at my chart and she goes, 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:55.400 you're thirty four. She's like, I thought you were twenty two. 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:59.920 And then Ashley has a theory that the Rhode Island 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:04.640 thirty is like fifty anywhere else in the country. So 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:08.280 it's just because people are more weathered here. Yeah, we 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:12.120 look older, so we look so young, which is fantastic. 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.120 So I love being over here because everybody thinks I'm 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.800 in my twenties and I'm like, Nope, all that botox 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:18.920 you get, I've never gotten botox. 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:21.360 Good for you. I'm surprised living with Nick for two 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:23.720 years and you're coming out of it botox free. That's impressive. 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:25.640 It was impressive. It was hard to say. 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:30.520 No, I'm not adverse to getting botox, but I'd be 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:33.360 way too scared because I've seen, like when you first 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:36.640 get botox, I've seen what people look like. Their eyebrows 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.920 are raised, like it's so transparent, and I don't like 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:41.640 the way like I've I've had buddies who've. 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:42.880 Gotten botox, and I'm just like, I don't like the 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:43.480 way it looks. 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:46.480 And then afterwards it settles down and then you don't 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:48.120 have that many wrinkles. But I'm like, I don't know 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:51.120 unless it gets really wrinkly. Also, like I like, Wells 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:52.960 has them really good. We're talking about Wells. God, we 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:56.160 should just talk about help. We talk about Wells too much. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:58.640 He's got the what's this called. 0:14:58.760 --> 0:14:59.960 Christ smile lines? 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:03.440 Cross Crosby, I think so, but crossfeed are normally negative. 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.880 I thought it was crows something, But those are great. 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:08.440 Don't get rid of those. 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:12.160 Yeah, there there is definitely something positive to be said 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:17.040 about aging gracefully, and I think the LA culture has 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:21.200 delayed the aging process as best they can. Yeah, and 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:22.600 I'm not aging gracefully. 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.440 Yes you are, come on confident. 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:29.160 And uh yeah, but there's but like you said, there's 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:32.360 nothing wrong with getting a little work done every now 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:32.680 and then. 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:35.000 Have you guys ever gotten botox? 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:39.960 Do you think this guy's ever gotten boats all the time? No, 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:40.480 but I have. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:44.600 Yeah, yeah, I could say Dean getting botox. I could 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:48.240 never back in his paradise for season days. 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:49.200 Yeah. 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.360 I think when with Kill and I first started dating, 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:54.760 I was like, hey, I don't well agree in it whatever, 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:56.760 like who cares what I have to say? But I 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:58.960 was like, have you ever thought about not getting both? 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:02.320 Because you hosted pod well, I was trying to convince 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:04.400 Eric like urge Kayla that she doesn't need botox or 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.160 all this stuff. And I was like, if you ever 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:07.840 decide to get it or do it, just like, don't 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:08.600 tell me about it. 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:12.160 And there was something and then one time, uh, we 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:14.320 were at an appointment that was running late, so Deane 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:16.120 had to drive me to my botox appointment. 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:17.800 Well, no, I was going to say, there was one 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:19.160 time where you came back and I was like, what 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:20.640 were you doing all day? And You're like, oh, nothing, 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:23.840 just hanging out with someone. And I was like, looking 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:25.520 at it you or something and I was like, if 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.640 you could both talk today, right, yeah? And it was. 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:31.640 But I also got my lip fillers dissolved, which if 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:33.720 anyone's thinking about doing it, it is the most painful 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:37.120 thing ever. But it's also really good because lip fillers migrate, 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:39.960 and they migrated to like up above my lip. 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:42.880 I think lip filler is the worst trend in Hollywood 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:44.080 in the history of Hollywood. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:45.600 What is what do you mean? 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.600 It goes up to the upper lip, so your upper 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:49.040 lip becomes inflated. 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.720 Yeah, so when I smiled, you could see the filler 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:53.680 like up in my upper lip. And I saw a 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.240 photo of me and I was like, oh my god, 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:58.800