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<v Speaker 1>Boles the second Date Update. The person on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date Update today feels bad because they

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<v Speaker 1>think they screwed up the date. It was a date

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<v Speaker 1>that they weren't even on what actually a date that

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<v Speaker 1>had nothing to do with them at all. But they

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<v Speaker 1>think that they screwed it up and they want us

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<v Speaker 1>to help fix it. Barbara is on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara thinks that she ruined her son's date. Oh hey, Barbara,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing? Oh I've been better? How are you

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<v Speaker 1>not too bad? So this is an interesting story. We

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<v Speaker 1>got your email and you feel like you ruined your

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<v Speaker 1>son's date. Honestly, I don't think I know you know? Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us what you did. Oh gosh, I became the

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<v Speaker 1>mother I before i'd never be. I have a son, Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's one, but he still lives home with me. And

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<v Speaker 1>he went out on a date with a new girl

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<v Speaker 1>and I wasn't really sure of where he was and

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<v Speaker 1>what his plans were. But it, you know, it got

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<v Speaker 1>to be rather late, and I got a little aunty,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because he usually home at a decent hour,

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<v Speaker 1>and well I got kind of worried and started calling

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<v Speaker 1>his phone. Okay, how many times did you start calling

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<v Speaker 1>his phone? Oh? God, at least six seven times. It

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<v Speaker 1>just kept going straight to voicemail, which made me even

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<v Speaker 1>more anxious. Okay, so what'd you do, Barbara? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of I guess at my age, you shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>doing the social media's thing. But I went on his

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page and I posted on his page to all

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<v Speaker 1>his friends. Does anybody know where Jeremy is? His mom?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's you know, he's old, right, Barbara. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>all I can say is it was like one, two

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock in the morning, and I went overboard. I really did.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was two o'clock in the morning. So whatever

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<v Speaker 1>was going on, clearly I ruined it. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on that. Okay, let's not go down. So

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<v Speaker 1>what was his reaction into that? I mean, I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>he came home at a certain point. Yeah, he was.

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<v Speaker 1>He was pretty angry. What did he say to you?

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<v Speaker 1>He just came in, slamming the door and screaming at me,

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<v Speaker 1>how could you do that? That was the best date

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<v Speaker 1>I've had in a year, and you ruined it. You

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<v Speaker 1>ruined it, And he just stormed off, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to talk and I'm saying what did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>What did I do? And he starts screaming at me.

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook mom, you facebooked it? So, Barbara, you actually now

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a good idea to continue this line and

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<v Speaker 1>call his date? Is what you want us to do?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just don't know what else to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's apparently he really really liked this girl and

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<v Speaker 1>things were going quite well, and yeah, things turned after

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<v Speaker 1>I did what I did. So how do you have

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<v Speaker 1>this girl's phone number? Really? Yeah? Really, I went in

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<v Speaker 1>this phone Osbara, you're just making you're worse, you know that, Barbara, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping with you guys, I could turn things around. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>So your goal is to get this girl on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and convince her to go back out with your son,

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<v Speaker 1>and I swear I'll stay away. Oh my gosh, if

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<v Speaker 1>I got this call from a guy I was dating's mom,

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<v Speaker 1>I would run eight thousand miles in the other directions. Sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like I mean, can't we turn it into something?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, can't we find the laughter in it? I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's funny. Yeah, well for us, not for her

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<v Speaker 1>son for sure. Well I know not for him. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe if we can make her to laugh, she'll reconsider.

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<v Speaker 1>If I swear to stay away until the wedding. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we don't. Don't bring up the wedding thing. That

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<v Speaker 1>might be a bit much, I promise. Okay, So if

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<v Speaker 1>you make this call and she doesn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again, and then she ends up calling

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<v Speaker 1>your son and saying, hey, can you tell your mom

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<v Speaker 1>to back off? He's already mad at you. Don't you

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<v Speaker 1>think he's gonna get even more pissed. Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the way I look at it is they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a second date anyway. Yeah, so if she goes out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, it's a win. If she doesn't go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, then it's status quo. Yeah, I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>can't make her talk to him less if she's not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him after the date. Have I meddled in

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<v Speaker 1>my son's life over the years, of course, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is probably me at my absolute worst. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can help me fix this. It would mean everything,

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<v Speaker 1>because as I just got crazy, I got crazy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll give it a shot. We'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date updates sort of.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know how to say, but we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, see if we can get her

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with your son again. Okay, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Looking jubil in the morning, se I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a difficult time trying to figure out how

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<v Speaker 1>to do today's second date update. If you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara is on the phone. Barbara's son Jeremy, went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with this girl named Nicole. While he

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<v Speaker 1>was on the date, Barbara kind of freaked out because

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<v Speaker 1>her son wasn't home yet. It was like two o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, so she was blowing up his phone

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<v Speaker 1>and then finally posted on his Facebook page, has anybody

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<v Speaker 1>seen Jeremy? I think he might be hurt. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, looking for his son and it embarrassed him

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently the date saw it. So when he got

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<v Speaker 1>home that night, he yelled at his mom saying that

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<v Speaker 1>she screwed up his date with this girl. The problem

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm having Barbara is I need to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>exactly how to do it at the beginning when I

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<v Speaker 1>get this girl on the phone, because normally I'll be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you went on a date with Jeff and

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to get a hold of you. Now it's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you went on a date with Jeremy and his mom's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and wants I don't want to blow

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<v Speaker 1>up your spot real quick, because that's probably going to

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<v Speaker 1>creep her out even more if she knows that you're

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line right away. Yeah, if you could

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<v Speaker 1>maybe kind of warm her up a bit for you

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<v Speaker 1>and Barbara, I didn't get it. Did you ever meet

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<v Speaker 1>this girl? No? Oh god, so she has no idea

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<v Speaker 1>even who you are. I mean, yeah, I guess all right?

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<v Speaker 1>You ready to make the phone call? Ready as I'll

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<v Speaker 1>ever be here? Here we go. Hello, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Nicole? Please? This isn't Nicoll. Hey Nicole, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning radio show. I got an email about you. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Jeremy. Yeah, and I got an email because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling Jeremy back. I'm just kind of curious.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me why your date didn't go very

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<v Speaker 1>well with Jeremy. We have a nice time, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of weird. His mom, I seemed to be

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<v Speaker 1>like really concerned where he was. She just kept like

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<v Speaker 1>calling him, and she actually posted on his Facebook asking

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<v Speaker 1>if anyone knew where he was. And that was just

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<v Speaker 1>a little maybe just a little too much for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of killed it when his mom kept bugging him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I looked on Facebook. He went to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and I just went on Facebook and I saw the

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<v Speaker 1>post and I brought it up to him and he

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<v Speaker 1>immediately changed she I could tell you super embarrassed. But

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<v Speaker 1>then he was just like really short with me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was it got a little awkward. And were you

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<v Speaker 1>guys just out at a bar or something at this point. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'd just been hanging out, kind of getting to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other for a couple hours and then his mom

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<v Speaker 1>kind of got involved. But tell you, I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>could see it also as this guy has a really

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship with his mother, which is a positive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's great. I like, I have a great

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with my mom. I would hope that everyone gets

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<v Speaker 1>to have a good relationship with their mom. But if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be in the middle of that is

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<v Speaker 1>another I think I ask you a question, Nicole. If

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<v Speaker 1>you were out on a date and your mom started

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<v Speaker 1>doing that on your Facebook, what would you do. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>probably do just what he did. He was super embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be really embarrassed. I'd probably shut down and not

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<v Speaker 1>really know how to deal with it. Luckily my mom

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't do that. Yeah, so how did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>the night? Then? Um, it felt a little abrupt because

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<v Speaker 1>we were in the middle kind of of chatting and

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<v Speaker 1>getting to know each other, and then I brought that

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<v Speaker 1>up to him and it was kind of late anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think mutually we both kind of found a

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<v Speaker 1>reason to call it a night. Not long after, he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't sent you any text messages trying to call you anything.

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<v Speaker 1>There have been a few here and there. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my schedule, it has been really busy, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's been kind of hard to like keep track of. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what everyone says when they don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody, Nicole, I have somebody on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line that wants to talk to you. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean he's not on the phone, is he Jeremy? Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy isn't on the phone. His mom, Barbara is No. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted to talk to you and see if she

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<v Speaker 1>could smooth things over. Barbara. Oh, I'm here. Hello, Hi, Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Barbara, otherwise known as the ever dreaded helicopter Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>And I get it. I understand. I just went somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>in my brain that I should have never gone, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really calling to apologize to you. Jeremy doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making this call, and I'm hoping it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>stays that way, but I just felt so so horrible

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<v Speaker 1>because I know he really found you lovely. Barbara. I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it you reaching out. I can tell that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a very loving, an attentive mother, and you raised a

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful man and I really enjoyed getting to know him.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't I'm not sure that, regardless of what

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<v Speaker 1>part you played, if it was really going to work

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<v Speaker 1>out with us. Nicole. Seriously, I understand, I understand that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not a mom, and and if you're ever lucky

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<v Speaker 1>enough to be a mother. Trust me when I tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>you will look back on this and go uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you. I promise you. He's that boy. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he still lives with me. I generally know where he

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<v Speaker 1>is at all times. But it's my son. I make

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<v Speaker 1>him lunch every day to this day. This is my boy, Barbara.

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<v Speaker 1>You might want to stop a little bit. You're making

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<v Speaker 1>him sound like he's fifteen. No, no, no, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just you really really have to be a mom to

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<v Speaker 1>see it from my point of view. And I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why you're saying what you're saying. But what

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to do is make Micole understand it from

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<v Speaker 1>my point of view. It's it's a mom thing. Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope not. I really hope not. I understand where

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<v Speaker 1>you're coming from, Barbara, I do. I just think that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe from why you're telling me, you're sim and I

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<v Speaker 1>are in different places. I think that we're coming from

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<v Speaker 1>different environments at this point, and I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>it's compatible. I mean, Nicole, please, I was I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how is your mother when you got your period? Wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>she there for you? Be sure she was there for me?

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<v Speaker 1>But that was also ten years ago. It doesn't change.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't change. It needs to change. Barbara needs to change.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an adult. I'm twenty one, and my mom raised

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<v Speaker 1>me and trusts me and knows that at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, if I need her, I will call her.

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<v Speaker 1>But otherwise I am making my way as a person.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hear you, your mom me every mom on

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<v Speaker 1>the planet. When you don't know what your child is

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<v Speaker 1>or where your child is, you get a little nutty.

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<v Speaker 1>They get to be on him. This is from the

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<v Speaker 1>mom heart. All right, well, I'm glad you were able

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<v Speaker 1>to get that out. Barbara. Now comes the important question. Okay, Nicole,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with her son Jeremy

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<v Speaker 1>one more time? I will pay for a second date

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys. I'm sorry, Barbara. I don't see this

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<v Speaker 1>going anywhere, and I would rather appreciate our one date

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<v Speaker 1>for what it was. I don't think that there's a

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<v Speaker 1>second Nicole. You know, Nicole again, I hear what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that you've said no, but I am going

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a limb so far because of

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<v Speaker 1>what an extraordinary young man that Jeremy is. I will

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<v Speaker 1>host a beautiful, beautiful dinner. I will do all the cooking.

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<v Speaker 1>I will stay out of it, I will clean, I

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<v Speaker 1>will do everything. Just give this young man the chance

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<v Speaker 1>that he deserves. Please absolutely not. I know you're missing

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<v Speaker 1>out on a really good one here, Nicole. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>that I am all right. Nicole, thank you for your time.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it, of course. Barbara, I'm sorry that that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't work out for you. Well. I thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>trying in the future. I do have a suggestion for

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<v Speaker 1>you for your son. Yea, they make these like little

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<v Speaker 1>chips you can put in pets. You can find them everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Get your son chipped and then you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>go on Facebook the morning. Boy. You know, he still

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<v Speaker 1>lived with me. I generally know where he is at

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<v Speaker 1>all times, but it's my son. I make him lunch

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<v Speaker 1>every day to this day. Wow. A lot of text

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<v Speaker 1>messages coming in at seven, eight, five, nine two saying

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<v Speaker 1>cut the umbilical cord. It's Brooke and Jewel in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>If you missed the second date update that we just aired,

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<v Speaker 1>a mom named Barbara wanted to call a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole because Nicole went out with her son and during

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<v Speaker 1>their date. Barbara didn't know where her son was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was nearly two o'clock in the morning and he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>home yet, so she was blowing up his phone and

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<v Speaker 1>then started posting on his Facebook wall like as anybody's

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<v Speaker 1>seen my boy. And Nicole saw all that, it was like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this mom is way too into her kid's life. The

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<v Speaker 1>kid is twenty one, not twelve. He is an adult. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so crazy. He needs to move out of his mom's house.

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<v Speaker 1>A sound like somebody find that guy a job to

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<v Speaker 1>give him some sort of like move in with another family.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she's making his lunch as you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's also doing his laundry everything, you know, every which

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<v Speaker 1>means he is going to be a nightmare to date

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<v Speaker 1>because he has never actually done his own dishes. So

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<v Speaker 1>the mom wanted to get the girl on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize for blowing up the phone and blowing up

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<v Speaker 1>his Facebook and making things awkward on the date because

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<v Speaker 1>her son came home very angry at his mom. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>storm yelled at her and then stormed off to his room,

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<v Speaker 1>which sounds like he's not really actually an adult. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he ruined everything. Mom slams the door. Text in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five Nights who says, you guys should

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<v Speaker 1>have Mom's call in more often for second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>That was extremely awkward. I am abnormally close with my

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<v Speaker 1>mother and she wouldn't even do something like that. Another

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seven eight five Nights who says the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update is the best birth control ever. And

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<v Speaker 1>then another person said, oh my god, it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>mom thing. I would hate to be her son. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a little too wrapped up in her kid's life. I

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<v Speaker 1>think remember if you want a second date update, whether

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<v Speaker 1>you're a mom, a grandmother, a great aunt, whatever, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. I have to do an email. The show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel at move nine two five dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call the person who didn't call you back.