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Speaker 1: for a second date Update today feels bad because they

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Speaker 1: Barbara thinks that she ruined her son's date. Oh hey, Barbara,

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Speaker 1: how you doing? Oh I've been better? How are you

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Speaker 1: not too bad? So this is an interesting story. We

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Speaker 1: got your email and you feel like you ruined your

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Speaker 1: son's date. Honestly, I don't think I know you know? Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: tell us what you did. Oh gosh, I became the

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Speaker 1: You know, he's you know, he's old, right, Barbara. You know,

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Speaker 1: He was pretty angry. What did he say to you?

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Speaker 1: Facebook mom, you facebooked it? So, Barbara, you actually now

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Speaker 1: this phone Osbara, you're just making you're worse, you know that, Barbara, Well,

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Speaker 1: I was hoping with you guys, I could turn things around. Maybe.

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Speaker 1: ever be here? Here we go. Hello, can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Nicole? Please? This isn't Nicoll. Hey Nicole, how are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the Morning radio show. I got an email about you. What. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: This is Barbara, otherwise known as the ever dreaded helicopter Mom.

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Speaker 1: And I get it. I understand. I just went somewhere

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Speaker 1: But I don't I'm not sure that, regardless of what

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I have to do an email. The show

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel at move nine two five dot com.

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Speaker 1: We will call the person who didn't call you back.