1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time if y'all don't know, y'all back 2 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: a suit looking back to back down, giving the mother 3 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: like theming buck bus things and it's cub y'all do 4 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: me true good at Steve Hardy, Yeah, listening to me 5 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: together for sto barn to listen money. Don't you join Yeah? Yeah, 6 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: well by you join me in being men said you 7 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: gotta turning a love do ye close? You gotta turn't 8 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: to turn turn my lovely got to turn out to 9 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: turn the water of the hot go. Come come on 10 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: your back at it. Uh huh, I sure will come 11 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: on and everybody you are listening to the voice, come 12 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey Man 13 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Boil Boil boy. I can't even 14 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: tell you man, um. I've been doing some thinking and 15 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: you know, just coming off vacation, I was really had 16 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: some time to sit out and and you know, just 17 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: recharge myself and and just think about a lot of things, 18 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: and and and really spend some time with my wife 19 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: and her and I, you know, just recommitted ourselves and 20 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: and and just went over a lot of things. Just 21 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: had a lot of long talks. Uh, you know, communication 22 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: is the key, you know. And I'm a guy and 23 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: I suffer with that as to do a lot of guys. 24 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: I think a lot of women, uh say that they 25 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,519 Speaker 1: have a communication problem with their men. I'm no different. 26 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: You know. I can write a book all day, but 27 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: I still I am a man. I'm wired a certain way. 28 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: It's not making excuses, it's just it's certain things that 29 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: we have to pay attention to, especially when it comes 30 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: to women, because of the way we're wired. And we 31 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: were just sitting out there talking and having some conversations, 32 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: and one of the things that I wanted to mention 33 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: today to you as one of the principles of success 34 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: being grateful at all times. It's difficult to do. Being 35 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: grateful at all times. It's very difficult to do. I 36 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: I find that to be true with myself. Now there 37 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: are others that might be able to do it, but 38 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: just just from talking and listening and and and and 39 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: living and learning, being grateful at all times is difficult 40 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: to do. But it's necessary be cause it's it's it's 41 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: such an act of faith in knowing that no matter 42 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: what's going on, it's going to be all right. And 43 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: it's hard to see that when things are not going 44 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: in your favor, when things have turned so dramatically the 45 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: other way, and it seems as though you're the only 46 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:26,119 Speaker 1: one in the situation where you're involved with other people, 47 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: or someone got an accusation against you falsely, or somebody 48 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: trying to do something to you unjustifiably, whatever the case 49 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: may be, when it's happening to you, it does appear 50 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: to you that, oh, my goodness, man, this is horribly 51 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: one sided. So it is difficult. It's hard to do 52 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: to be grateful at all times, but it's so necessary, 53 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: and I just I just want to point out a 54 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: couple of things to you. First of all, the difficulty 55 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: in being grateful in the hard times is that number one, 56 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: the present circumstances. Oftentimes it's just so pressing and so 57 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: overwhelming that a lot of your energy is devoted to 58 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: trying to come up with the solution for that, or 59 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: trying to muster the strength to whether the storm, or 60 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: trying to just brace yourself to try to get through it, 61 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: and in doing that, you don't It's hard to be grateful. 62 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: It's hard to be grateful in pain, and I know 63 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: it is, but but here is the trick for me. 64 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: This is what I've had to learn how to do, 65 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: and I I guess it takes practice to get here. 66 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: It's not nothing you can just start doing right away. 67 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: You gotta practice it in small increments to really get it. 68 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 1: What I've always had to say to myself and what 69 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: I've learned to say to myself is this is happening 70 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: to me because God is working me through something. This 71 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: is happening to me because there's some form of tests 72 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 1: that I have to pass in order to graduate to 73 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: the next grade, and that in order to be allowed 74 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: to move to the next level. This is happening to 75 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: me because there's something I need to purge my life, 76 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: of my body, of my spirit, of something's purging in me. 77 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: And when you purge something, it's it's painful. You know, 78 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: It's like a person getting off drugs. The withdrawal is agonizing. 79 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: I've been told and every documentary I've ever watched it 80 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: it's an agonizing process to go cold turkey, to withdraw, 81 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: to pull away after you've been doing something so long. 82 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: And so I know that this process is tough when 83 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: you're going through some pain, But when you're purging your system, 84 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: when you're when you're when you're having to pass sugtests, 85 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 1: when you're about to make when when you're being made 86 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: ready for the next level. That moment right in there, 87 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: in realizing that that's what's happening, that's where you find 88 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: the gratitude. That's where I found the gratitude. I hope 89 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: I'm explaining this correctly. I'm gonna keep trying until I 90 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: get it. But that's where you find the gratitude. The 91 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: second part of it is is that God has never 92 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: left me and all the things I've done, in all 93 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: the mistakes I've made, all the lies I've told, all 94 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: the situations I've gotten myself into from being greedy and 95 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: wanting too much for me at the expense sometimes of 96 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: other people, not doing it deliberately or in a vindictive way, 97 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: because I've never had that spirit. I'm not a vindictive 98 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:04,679 Speaker 1: or mean person, but sometimes in my life, in wanting 99 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: to do what I wanted to do, I didn't totally 100 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,239 Speaker 1: weigh out the cause and effect of the other person. 101 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: I mean, can't just be real with you with that. 102 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: I mean, how many times we hadn't all done that? Look, 103 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: that doesn't don't make you a bad person. You know, 104 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 1: good people do bad things all the time. I just 105 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: happened to have come to the realization that unknowingly and 106 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: and and not and not with malice intent towards a person. 107 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: I've I've heard people looking at something I wanted to 108 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: do without really looking at what the cause and effect 109 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,599 Speaker 1: would be on the other person. So in doing some 110 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: of these things, I've created situations for myself. But God, 111 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: through his grace and mercy, has allowed me to even 112 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: get beyond that. So what I'm saying that God has 113 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 1: never left me in spite of myself. He's always gotten 114 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: me through. So that's the other part of it. To 115 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: see that no matter what you're going through, you've got 116 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: to understand that God has always gotten you through it, now, 117 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 1: hasn't it. Now that may not be the way you 118 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: wanted or the way you liked, But guess what, you 119 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: can't do wrong and not pay for that. Now that 120 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: that's not how this works. That's never going to be 121 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: the case. But the great thing about God is he 122 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: fires warning shots at us all the time. He gives 123 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: us an opportunity to stop. You know, he don't fully 124 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: punish us right away every time we do something wrong. Now, 125 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 1: does it. You know eventually you're going to get caught 126 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: doing whatever it is you're doing. You do understand that, 127 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 1: don't you. But the first time, that close call, that 128 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: was a warning shot for you to stop. Look, I 129 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: know you're not perfect. I know we all sent us 130 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: down here, so I know you're gonna make mistakes. One time. 131 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: I know you was looking at her when you wasn't 132 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: supposed to. I know you said something to him when 133 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: you wasn't supposed those too. I know you got with 134 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: her when you know you wasn't supposed to. And I 135 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: know you got with him when you know you wasn't 136 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: supposed to. So I'll tell you what I'm gonna do. 137 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna fire warning shot and maybe you'll slow your 138 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: roll this time. But we keep on, don't see, See 139 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 1: See that's what happens. See, we just keep on and 140 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 1: then the next thing, you know, we get caught. Now, 141 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: old Lord, have mercy, I won't out of this. Yeah. 142 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,959 Speaker 1: Well see you didn't dug this hole pretty deep, and 143 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: he gonna get you out. But there's some things that's 144 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: got to go down now because you didn't pay attention 145 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: to the warning shot. See, had you stopped the first 146 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: time you felt bad about it and said you wasn't 147 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: gonna do it no more, the situation wouldn't be as critical. 148 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: But because we don't stop, and we go again. But 149 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: God always for gils. He always allows us to get 150 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: back up again. He always gives us a mercy. He 151 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: always gives us his grace. He always does that. You're 152 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: listening to. Welcome to the ride. We are here. It's 153 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: Steve harping morning. Shall we hold it down? It's the 154 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: nephew in the building holding down. I can see if 155 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: it's out today, But that's all right. We're gonna ride 156 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: like we always ride in the building from the strawberry 157 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 1: patch is the one me Suirley, my birthplace. Hey, good morning, nephew, 158 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: have a fun day off Steve. We miss you. No, 159 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: we don't know. We don't know. No, I don't And 160 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: the mother of the year, spring break, she's doing it all. 161 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: She's doing spring break adventures, she's doing till leading the 162 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: whole nine yards color Peevie Pharaoh. That's it, nephew, I 163 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: am working over time. Happy spring break out there? Can 164 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: I just say this? Educators are amazingly underpaid. Yeah, man, 165 00:11:55,120 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: And that week is too long ain't it man? Yes, come, don't. 166 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: He just don't get you guys. All right, let's keep 167 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: it moving. He's a comedian, he's a writer, he's an uncle, 168 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: he's a he's a he take care of the family 169 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: back home in Houston. The one and only junior board man. 170 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: I didn't realize I did more than everybody. Shut out 171 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: everybody in New Wall to see all tomorrow night. You're 172 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,559 Speaker 1: going to Yes, the game a roll convention. Yeah ahead 173 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:28,079 Speaker 1: performing even the laughing which do come on? Well we 174 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: might wear sliding over to a segment there, put your 175 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: hands to get our lord. Pocket man is here. You 176 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: know the rules of the sigma. There's two of us. 177 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: Everywhead to shouts out to all the teachers. My daughter 178 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 1: who's a teacher. One daughter is a youtuching. My son 179 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 1: is a out of body repaper. My daughter that's the 180 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 1: teachers is going to be a principal and amount of 181 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: time ever stop out. Yes, you will pass the ti. 182 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: Just one thing. They don't call him you Titians anymore. 183 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: That's what cool? Yes, stylish, Well I'm old Istian though 184 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: that's a washing sick. Have you ever been to Harris 185 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: Salon where they say we are beauticians not magicians like 186 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 1: to look like when you can't look like. He's a 187 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:26,599 Speaker 1: stylish always correct me. Do you right, Dad, I'm a 188 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: stylish You know the ball shop and house and loons 189 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: have changed, they really have. Yeah, all the price the 190 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: pricing win up. Yeah price lag was sixty five dollars. Ladies, 191 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: wish we could get a haircut for sixty five. My 192 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 1: hair is short and it costs more than that. And 193 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: that used to be junior spot. Yeah, me and Junior 194 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: was just starting to hanging. That was the spot. He 195 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 1: was okay, but but they got a pit outside. You 196 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,439 Speaker 1: used to go to the barbershop just hang out with 197 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: just to hang out out. That was a low blow. 198 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: That was a low blow that being on team time 199 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: and I can't job job listen juniors barber shop they 200 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: got brisket, links, reels, all that's outside. So the dude 201 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: that's that's cutting hair. Okay, hold up, we'll finish that story. 202 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: But I have a story for you guys. Your three 203 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: comedians in the building. That's so gross and nasty. Wait 204 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: if you're eating breakfast, stop wait wait, we'll be back 205 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 1: at thirty two. After you're listening to the Steve Harvey 206 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Alright, it is time for something funny. Before 207 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: we went to break, you were just finishing up your 208 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: story about the barbershop with Junior. Please go hang out 209 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: with Junior bobershop. But the barber that cut Junior, he 210 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: got to pit it out back. Okay, it's got brisket, reokes, 211 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: it's got links. Restaurant took this out? Why he couldn't 212 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: have he stopped? Wash his hand, run outside. Uh, please 213 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: me with some attack. He's took it. Yeah, he spraying. 214 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 1: He spraad it all over the Italian dressing. Run back inside, 215 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: wash his hand, get the cutting their man that meat. 216 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: You know, I've never been to this place, but there's 217 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: got to be head hand, no hand. I don't know. 218 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 1: I don't believe his hand. He's a pro. I'm not 219 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: eating in the primate. They ain't never hung out in 220 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: the hood. They don't want to stand yam, Would you 221 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: go to a restaurant when well, you already been to 222 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: a restaurant when he got cut hand? Serve food? Remember 223 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: the movie Backs with halle Berry, not with her dream 224 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: opening up a shop of salon with a restaurant next 225 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: next to Yeah, black Marre. Yeah, alright, okay, let me 226 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: get to this story before we run out of time. Okay, 227 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 1: there is a new trend that has people throwing away 228 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: toilet paper. You don't need that anymore. Uh, don't even 229 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: think about it. There's for something called a family cloth. 230 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: What's that it's basically reusable. Keyword in this reusable small 231 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: cloth squares if people used to wipe and then they 232 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: put in a basket, then they put in a basket. 233 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: There's such a big trend. There are a lot of 234 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: different options on the market. Wait, wait, wait, wait wait, 235 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: So so if I come to your house, I'm going 236 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: to use your clothes. Okay, A lot of things wrong 237 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: with that question you just asked me. First of all, 238 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: it's wiping. Okay, no, not to my house, No, No, okay, here, 239 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: let me finish. This is really a big trend. Now. 240 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: There are a lot of different options on the market. 241 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: They come in a wide variety of patterns. Toilet paper 242 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 1: make a difference. A toilet paper is one of those 243 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: papers that staples that people rarely leave the grocery store without. 244 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: But it seems that more and more people are turning 245 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: away from the standard toilet paper now and there they 246 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: use these family cloths because their environmental we're safe. What 247 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: these people from what I listen, this is a new trend. 248 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 1: You're going to be hearing about this. Let us be 249 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: the first to tell you about this. So nicky I am, 250 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 1: especially about bathroom stuff. No, for what happen when you 251 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: get in in suley. You don't forgot your cloth? It's 252 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: in the basket, didn't you just hear me say they 253 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: throw it away and they put it in the basket, 254 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 1: they use it and then they put it in the 255 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: over and yeah, the family it's called a family cloth. 256 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: So we lost Tobody his house and he's got initials 257 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: on the towels. Don't use don't you got a grand 258 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 1: You know you're not supposed to use those good towels. 259 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: Not that's what you're talking about it when it says 260 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: his and her, why do you keep looking at I 261 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: didn't make these? Okay, let me store I just brought you. 262 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,479 Speaker 1: I'm just the messenger here, guys, but I can't help 263 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: but think you got these class man. I would like 264 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 1: to be in the house when you hear somebody to say, 265 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 1: who did you use your mama quill? You didn't use 266 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: the coda grandmama. Well, miss wild little Wallace can't use 267 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: a cloth, he don't need a bed spread. Okay. Some 268 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: people just only use the cloths for number one, that's it, okay, 269 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: but number then they go back to the TP for number. 270 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: You called a t P. You got it, you got 271 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 1: you call it that. It's tole. Yeah, I'm trying. People 272 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 1: are Indians. You're throwing me all Native American Native Americans. 273 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't know the correct Well you should 274 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: by now, okay. But when you love somebody's house and 275 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 1: you see a sham wow in there, you just go wow. 276 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: Normally doctor yeah, but but yeah, some people just use 277 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: them for that, but other people use them for everything. 278 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 1: The microfiber, well, let's see, they're they're just cloth, some cloth. 279 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 1: And what color they come in you don't want? Do 280 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 1: you want white? You don't want that's gold color? Jaw? 281 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: Do you know when the clean though, you tip of that? 282 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: What if you didn't put your clothes in the bath? Yeah, 283 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 1: you gotta look, you just set us on the counter. 284 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 1: Somebody got to watch their face at the ball. This 285 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: is just the reason now you have to go around 286 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: with bigger purses, carl Us, because you got to carry 287 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: your own toilet paper. No toilet paper, because if you 288 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 1: go to someone's house and they just have a close 289 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 1: your own TP yeah yeah you have to. Yeah, we 290 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: wipe when you travel and you go through t s A. 291 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: You need to let them know. Now, if I forget 292 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 1: my clothes, do I get do I borrow a cloth 293 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 1: from you? It's a family cloths, ain't en. Yeah, we're 294 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: not in the same family. I mean we're in this family. 295 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 1: Your family yeah yeah, yeah, in the same house. Yeah yeah. 296 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't suggest or advise, so I'm yeah, So where 297 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: you go your uncle ki when you get through wiper 298 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 1: and I don't want that cloth, You understand what I'm saying, Yes, 299 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: and don't get it mixed up with the dish cloth 300 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: whatever youth. You see how us in there washing dishes, 301 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: went to the bathroom real quick. Left that cloth and 302 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: that chicken salt taste difference. You got to you gotta 303 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: make sure you lock that dough. I'm sorry. If you're 304 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: eating breakfast right now, I hope you start. Does a 305 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: chicken taste like chicken? Why? Oh my god? Yeah, this 306 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: is nasty all right? Look coming up next, it's the 307 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 1: nephew and run that prank back family cloth. You're listening 308 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: to the Steven Show coming up in the top of 309 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: the our Mrs Anna is gonna be here. She's gonna 310 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: have our national news for today. But right now it 311 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: is time for the nephew and run that prank back. Naw, 312 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:13,920 Speaker 1: what you got done? Workman's comp Yeah, that deserved it, 313 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: done done. Workman's comp is Yeah. Hello, Hello, I'm trying 314 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: to reach your Vincent place. Who's calling My name is 315 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 1: uh Ed from the human resources? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely, 316 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 1: what's up? What's up? Well? Bencon wanted first of all 317 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: check on you. We know you're got injured here at 318 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 1: the job. How are you doing so far? Yeah? Man, 319 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm I'm making that man. You know, everything's cool and uh, 320 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know how long. The therapy is 321 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 1: going pretty good though, but I'm a right. Okay, therapy 322 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: is going pretty well. Yeah, it's they say. I'm doing 323 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: all right. The pain level is about maybe a six still, 324 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: but it's getting done it though. Okay. Listen, have you 325 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: been getting your your on time? Yeah, I've been getting 326 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: a man, and I appreciate it, but it really helps, man, 327 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: because you know, I ain't able to work right now. 328 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: They said it's gonna be a little while. So I 329 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 1: appreciate that. Y'all the one defending the check, Yes, sir, yes, sir. 330 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: We all want to getting the checks out and want 331 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 1: to make sure that that's definitely getting there. So you're 332 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: it's good. It's all good, man. I appreciate it. I 333 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: appreciate it. Okay, let me we've got a bit of 334 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: a problem that we wanted to check out. Now. You 335 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 1: haven't been doing any any strainings. Uh no, no, no, no, 336 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: I ain't been. I ain't. I ain't been working at all, man. 337 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 1: I just you know, I've just been taking it either. 338 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: I can't do nothing really right now. And they told 339 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 1: me I could do nothing, all right, And then you 340 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: do know the rules are that you're not supposed to 341 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: do anything to jeopardize your back. Correct. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 342 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,479 Speaker 1: I'm straight. I'm straight. I ain't been doing nothing, man. Okay, Well, 343 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: let me let me say this to you. We do 344 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 1: have some um survalance cameras that are showing us that 345 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: you've you've been doing something straining with I ain't even 346 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,119 Speaker 1: been going nowhere, come out surveillance cameras. I don't know 347 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: how they go nowhere. Well, you know the stringingus work 348 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 1: that you're doing is actually at home. At home. I'll 349 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 1: be inside. I don't I don't do nothing outside. I 350 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: don't wait, I don't even bob que man, what you 351 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 1: know what you're talking about? Streams? Okay? Have you uh vincent? 352 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: Have you have you been having have you been having 353 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 1: sex at home? What's the kind of question? Who is 354 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: this is? This is a supervibus something we're kind of 355 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: Let me talk to the super I ain't know your damn. 356 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm with human resources. I don't know. Man, excuse me, dog, 357 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: but I don't mean disrespect you. Is that because you're 358 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: paying me, you know, looking out from me. Don't mean 359 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: you can call me and and just say any compon 360 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: like that? Man? About have you been having you having 361 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: sex at home? Save that ain't under your business? Don't 362 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: have have I been having sex or not? In it? Wait? 363 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,719 Speaker 1: What kind of mean? Let me talk who you're supervisor? Man, sir? 364 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: The supervisor here to hear me? Women brought with my 365 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,959 Speaker 1: attention and we actually have you on surveillance. You've been 366 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 1: you've been having sex? Now you can don't know I 367 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: know not you know cambers in my house, I know 368 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: that much. And who authorize him like that? Anyhow? Surveillance 369 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,119 Speaker 1: for me? You're not supposed to be having sex if 370 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: your fact is hurting, okay, you you have, man, you've 371 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: been you've been not having no damn camera and my 372 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: what you're talking about, Uh, you've been curvetan for me 373 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: and having sax. That's a damn lie, sir. What's your name? What? What? 374 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 1: What's your name? Man? Un sir? And who ad because 375 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm look, I'm trying to be nice. You're pissing me 376 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 1: off as you and her sir, sir, here it is 377 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: and we find out. I'm gonna I'm giving you a warning. No, 378 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: but I don't mean I'm giving me your warning. You 379 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 1: let me find a damn camera my house? Telling me 380 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: I can't hand no sex and all that I have sects. 381 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: If you're that is straining with work and you're putting 382 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: it on your back and we're paying you, we're paying 383 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,159 Speaker 1: you damn about what you caning me and what you 384 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 1: ain't paying me. You're gonna call my damn fault tell 385 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: me talking about you got some name of camera and 386 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: my house? That's okay? Well, sir, sir Vincent, let me 387 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 1: say this to you. You don't need you don't need 388 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,160 Speaker 1: to say nothing to me, but but your last name 389 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: and then your supervisor name. That was okay, and you 390 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 1: don't need to worry who the supervisor is. You need 391 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: to make sure that there's no more sex going on 392 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 1: until your back is healed. Look, you don't have to 393 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: cut you out and hang up for you, man. I 394 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: don't have time for this, man, y becausey'all to what 395 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: y'all do, because y'all doing for people. Y'all think y'all 396 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: can do illegal and talk to people crazy man when 397 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 1: y'all was coming them. I don't appreciate that at all. Man, 398 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: this is I don't know who y'all think you'll ears 399 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: down there, y'all do something for them. I think y'all 400 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: can just call them and say anything that. Man. I 401 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 1: don't like that, and I ain't trying to be disrespectful, 402 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: but you got me heated right now. Man's not be 403 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 1: cameras in my house. Did you understand that I'm gonna 404 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: tell you once and one time only, no more sex? 405 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,959 Speaker 1: What you do? Put your talk? Man? I'm sorry man, 406 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,159 Speaker 1: because I tell you one day that you think you're 407 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 1: giving up some money. Now I'm gonna see y'all I 408 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 1: catching camera my house. You ain't known how to never 409 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: pay uh pay me no more. You're gonna pay me 410 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: one big check that I'm shooting out of y'all. And 411 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 1: now you understand that I understand I need I need 412 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: you to understand one more thing. Are you listening to me? Man? 413 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 1: You go ahead? Man, I'm y'all got me easy, man. 414 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 1: And then after this here, don't even call me no 415 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 1: more telling him because it's ridiculous. Okay, are you familiar 416 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 1: with letter men? Familiar with what? Literally? Do you know? 417 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: Literally you're coworking letter? Yeah? What about him? Literally got 418 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 1: me to prank phone? Call you? This is nephew Tommy 419 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 1: from the Steve arp and more than show filson. But 420 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 1: you've been man, get out of here. Man, you're about 421 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:03,400 Speaker 1: to have me the lord talk about my check? Man? Man, 422 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: what's up? Man? This is y'all? Have me going out? Man, 423 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: y'all have me heed it. But I'm well, I'm gonna kicking. 424 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 1: It's not to be called that is he on the phone? Man? 425 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: He ain't on the phone. Man. I'm sweating, like oh 426 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 1: so I'm still so I'm still getting my damn checked that. 427 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: That's what that beans. Y'all have be heated. Boy, I 428 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 1: thought y'all gonna take what's up? Man? Nice and here 429 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: from y'all. Man, y'all got me though, Man, y'all got me. 430 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: I got one more question, man, what is the baddest 431 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land? 432 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: Of course, no doubt, man, if the Steve Harvey Morning 433 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: Show always will be especially y'all don't got me like 434 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: this here see that you know you know you're not 435 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: supposed to be having sex, if you don't work with 436 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: comp you know that you ain't supposed be doing nothing. 437 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: And take this money back. Nothing's gonna stop you went 438 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: through with the out someone right, it's going down March 439 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 1: sweet third Friday through Sunday. The Nephew is coming to Memphis, Tennessee. Chuckles, 440 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 1: Comedy club. Ticket's on, say right now, that's right, The 441 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: Nephew was coming to town. Laying in the cut we 442 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: got comedy off Broadway. That is in Lexington, Kentucky. April 443 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: fifth through the seventh. The Nephew is coming there being 444 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: a minute since I've been there. And then wade down 445 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 1: the line Montgomery, Alabama. Yeah, the Montgomery Performing Arts Center. 446 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 1: That's me, that's Bruce, Bruce, that's j J. Are we 447 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,479 Speaker 1: ignorant in montgomer It's gonna be crazy, all right. That's 448 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: what's laying in the cut right now. The nephew back 449 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: out there doing it, doing it and doing it well, 450 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: and doing it well with with tps toilet paper. I hope, 451 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 1: so we can only hope you're gonna wipe him out. 452 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: All right. Coming up in the town top of the hour, 453 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: Missanna is gonna be here with today's national news, and ladies, 454 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: there is a silver lining. Check this out, ladies. This 455 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: is one is for you. You're welcome. Okay, you're welcome. 456 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:16,040 Speaker 1: There is a silver lining to being cheated on, ladies. Oh, 457 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: look at all the guys Facebook you get when you 458 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: find out our nation, our national news with Miss Anna's 459 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: coming up next, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Show. 460 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 1: All right. Before I start the story, just to the ladies, 461 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: you're welcome. I just want to say that you're welcome. Ladies. 462 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: Uh So, here we go. Even if you have no 463 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: personal experience with cheating ladies, you still understand that it 464 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: can be a soul crushing experience to have your partner 465 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 1: be unfaithful to you. Nobody wants that. But but as 466 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: terrible as it is to be cheated on, and I 467 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 1: think we can all agree everyone in this room has 468 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: been cheating it on at some point. Yeah, okay, I 469 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: don't I don't want it. Okay, but it's terrible as 470 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: it is to be cheated on. New research shows that 471 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: there can actually be an upside to it, okay. According 472 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: to a survey of five thousand, seven hundred and five 473 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 1: people from nineties six different countries, women who go through 474 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: a breakup because of infidelity end up feeling more self 475 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: confident and they developed higher emotional intelligence after six months 476 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: to a year. I love it. I have helped a 477 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 1: lot of people, man, I have really moved this country along. 478 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: Researchers explained that the woman who loses her mate to 479 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: another woman will go through a period of post relationship 480 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: grief and betrayal. I think that's true. We all go 481 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 1: through that, the sad part when we're crying and we're 482 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: heard and everything. But that experience will help her find 483 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: a better mate in the future. So this is yeah, 484 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 1: this pal Uh does that include call a key and 485 00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: cause and what I'm just saying, is that part of 486 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 1: the grief and betrayal. There's no proof, there's no halts. 487 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: That's right. And then after the whole o J interview 488 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: with hypothetically allegedly in air quote, So I gotta ask 489 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: you guys. Have you We'll go around the room. If 490 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 1: you guys haven't cheated on? Yes and yes? Are you 491 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: a better person because of it? Jake? Am I yes, 492 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 1: yes and yes. I've cheated and I've been cheated on. 493 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 1: Yes so much answers yes and yes. So you're a 494 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 1: better person because you've been cheated on. I'm here on 495 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: the what on the what? Yeah? What about to do 496 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: with it? I know nothing? What about you, junior? Yeah, 497 00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: I'm a better person if you just take out the 498 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: part when I was yellous. Let his hand go, let 499 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: his hand out. Oh you caught them. Let but look 500 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: at you now call him it's not wait you walked 501 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: in on it? No? No, no, um, I did good? Good? 502 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 1: Mine was mine was I was working at a club 503 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: and I brought my friend to the club. This is 504 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: my girl, So I knew she was like messed around 505 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: with this other guy. You knew it. I knew it. 506 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: Don't she know? You knew it. I don't think they 507 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: know anyway. I don't never know any guys never. I 508 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: go out to the car and then first of all, 509 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 1: my cars. They're sitting in my car and it's steamed 510 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:55,960 Speaker 1: up in my car, had some nerve ner my car 511 00:33:56,160 --> 00:34:00,479 Speaker 1: was steamed up. I'm like, oh, lord man, so they 512 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 1: were sitting in my car and it was steamed up. 513 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 1: I mean, did you not set it fire? Around? Now? 514 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: What kind of car wasn't? I forgot none? But I 515 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: had to go back and do a comedy show. Oh 516 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:14,879 Speaker 1: you had a lot of material. Guess what I just saw. 517 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: Show you our final thirty seconds and nephew, I know 518 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 1: I have what happened. I have been cheated on. It 519 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: has made me a better Cheatah, you understand, because sometimes 520 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 1: be a cheating a better person, well, a better person 521 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: to know how to cheat now, because now it's all 522 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: Once I'm cheated on, that's who was next a cheating contact? 523 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 1: Once I walked in and saw you making cockle doodle sound, 524 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,320 Speaker 1: you don't do that with me? Yes? All right? Missing 525 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:54,919 Speaker 1: it's here, missing out of here with our headlines for today. 526 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,399 Speaker 1: Good morning, miss Anne. Sorry about all that you've been saying. 527 00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: You've been cheated. Yes, there's been another shakeup in the 528 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: Trump administration, one which many people said they felt was coming, 529 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 1: but were nevertheless surprised by what it did. President alstad 530 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,479 Speaker 1: Rex Tilson yesterday his Secretary State by tweet, of course, 531 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 1: and spoke to the process he prepared to board Air 532 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: Force One. We were not really thinking the same with Mike. 533 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:22,400 Speaker 1: Mike Pompeio. We have a very similar thought process. I 534 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 1: think it's gonna go very well. Rex is a very 535 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 1: good man. I like Rex a lot. I really appreciate 536 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 1: his commitment and this service, and I'll be speaking direct 537 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,760 Speaker 1: over a long period of time. Later on, without mentioning 538 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: the President's name, Tillison said it had been a pleasure 539 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: to serve his country along with his colleagues in the 540 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 1: State Department. Take the same oath of office, whether your 541 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 1: career employee or political pointee, we are all bound by 542 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: that common commitment to support and defend the Constitution, to 543 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: bear true faith and allegiance to the same that you 544 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 1: faithfully discharge the duties of our office. Tilson's last day 545 00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 1: in office is going to be March thirty one. By 546 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 1: the way, Under Secretary of State, said Steve Goldstein, lost 547 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,399 Speaker 1: his job to yesterday because he released a statement saying 548 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,760 Speaker 1: that Tillson was unaware of the reason for his ouster 549 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: and that Tilson had every intention of staying. He got 550 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 1: fired for that. Now the President has nominated his CIA director, 551 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: mom Mike Pompeo, to take Tilson's job. Pompeo known to 552 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: be much more of a hawk, and he's a Tea 553 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: Party Republican. Meanwhile, the President paid a visit to California 554 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,400 Speaker 1: yesterday for the first time since he was elected. He 555 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: made a stop at San Diego to check out eight 556 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: prototypes of border walls. Lawmakers from both sides of the 557 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 1: aisle awaiting the final talent from yesterday's special election in 558 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: a southwestern Pennsylvania a Republican Rick Satcone against moderate Democrat 559 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,759 Speaker 1: Connor Lamb. Lamb is claiming victory this morning with about 560 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: a six vote lead. However, there are still some absentee 561 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: votes to count. Animal lovers on social media calling for 562 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: a boycott of United Airlines because the steward has put 563 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 1: a ten month old dog in the airtight overhead been 564 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,919 Speaker 1: and when the plane arrived the puppy was dead. High 565 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 1: school students were around the country expected to engage in 566 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 1: some kind of protests at ten o'clock this morning over 567 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 1: the shooting of those seventeen students in Florida and the 568 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 1: lack of tough gun laws. Some students are walking out 569 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 1: of class for seventeen minutes, others seventeen moments of silent 570 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: stuff like that. And today finally is National Potato Chip Day. 571 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: Just can't eat one. I could go for some chips 572 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,240 Speaker 1: with some eggs. Okay, feel back with more entertainment. Today's 573 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 1: rending topics. Twenty minutes after the hour Steve Harvey Morning Show. 574 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, Uh, 575 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,880 Speaker 1: the hip hop world, all things hip hop. Let's go 576 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 1: to carl and find out what's going on. Carla. This 577 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:36,800 Speaker 1: is some sad news. Huh. Yeah, yesterday really uh found 578 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:41,400 Speaker 1: out and everybody was shocked that rapper Craig mac passed away. 579 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: He was hailed as part of starting the foundation of 580 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 1: bad Boy. You know he died. He was forty six 581 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:52,759 Speaker 1: years old. That's yeah, very young, James, Uh, due to 582 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: heart failure and Craig Craig Mac. He rose to fame 583 00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: in the nineties with the platinum summer hit Labor in yeah, yeah, 584 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,399 Speaker 1: that was you got the brand new flavor in your ear. 585 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,320 Speaker 1: One thing about it. They're like in college, the party 586 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: didn't really get hype till you heard flavor. That's it. 587 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. It was summer, and I think that's 588 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: when everybody, you know, we kind of started learning about 589 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,880 Speaker 1: bad boy entertainment, you know, and and and the record 590 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,839 Speaker 1: label and Puffy and Craig Mac and Biggie and Faith 591 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,319 Speaker 1: Evans and you know, all of this movement bad boy. 592 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:35,240 Speaker 1: But I think hip hop fans can't agree that Craig 593 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 1: Mac didn't get that fame like Biggie Cat. I didn't know, No, 594 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: he didn't. But he was good. I mean, he was 595 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: very good, but he just didn't get the fame the 596 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 1: biggie guy. But did. He did declare both Biggie Smalls 597 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 1: and Craig Mac the foundation of bad boy entertainment. And 598 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 1: that's true, that is so true. So our thoughts and 599 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 1: prayers are with Craig Mac, his friends and family and 600 00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: his wife and his children. Uh, he'll be so rest 601 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 1: in peace, Crack Mac. That's that's really sad, it really 602 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 1: really is. Yeah. So the party didn't get started. It 603 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: didn't get started til you heard that song right there? All? 604 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 1: What was what was the dance back about? There's ninety 605 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: but I was caught ninety six. This is just you know, 606 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,359 Speaker 1: we just right here. The baby don't prove you ain't 607 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,160 Speaker 1: a university. You could not wait baby dog parties. It 608 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: was real. Yeah, man, I'm missing the homecoming mann'd yeah. Women, 609 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: And I will say this though, you know, for turnity, 610 00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,520 Speaker 1: you know, y'all, y'all stroke, y'all will take up the 611 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: whole baby dollar and you're gonna get out the wait, 612 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 1: what's the baby on the campus. It's it's where the 613 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 1: basketball team played. But they though parties in there. That's 614 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: what we have part We didn't have a separate facility 615 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:56,920 Speaker 1: at this HBCU. The basketball game was over right there, 616 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: and you called it the baby called the baby. The 617 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 1: baby done what same? But everything happens in everything happens 618 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 1: in the graduation lune all all school information registration. Sometimes 619 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: it's good to have everything. And one the basketball team 620 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: was upset. Scuff marks on the bold. Alright, coming up 621 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 1: in thirty four after the hour, the White House is 622 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 1: giving the Secretary of Education Betsy de Vos the coal shoulder. 623 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, Uh, 624 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: the hip hop world, all things hip hop. Let's go 625 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 1: to Carl and find out what's going on. Carla, this 626 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 1: is some sad news. Huh. Yeah, yesterday really uh found 627 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 1: out and everybody was shocked that rapper Craig Mac passed away. 628 00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:57,440 Speaker 1: He was hailed as part of starting the foundation of 629 00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 1: bad Boy. You know, he died. He was forty six 630 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 1: years old. Yeah, very young, James, Uh, due to heart failure. 631 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: And Craig Craig Mac. He rose to fame in the 632 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: nineties with the platinum summer hit labor in Ye. Yeah, 633 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: that was you got to pray a new flavor in 634 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: your one thing about it. They're like in college, the 635 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:25,360 Speaker 1: party didn't really get hype till you heard flavor. That's it, 636 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: that's it. Oh my gosh. It was summer, and I 637 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 1: think that's when everybody, you know, we kind of started 638 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 1: learning about bad boy entertainment, you know, and and and 639 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:39,360 Speaker 1: the record label and Puffy and Craig Mac and Biggie 640 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: and Faith Evans and you know, all of this movement 641 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 1: bad boy. But I think hip hop fans can't agree 642 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,440 Speaker 1: that Craig Mac didn't get that fame like Biggie hat 643 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 1: didn't know, No, he didn't. But he was good. I 644 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,920 Speaker 1: mean he was very good, but he just didn't get 645 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 1: the fame the biggie guy. But did he did declare 646 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: both Biggie small Saint Craig Mac the foundation of bad 647 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 1: boy entertainment. And that's true, that is so true. So 648 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: our thoughts and prayers are with Craig Mac, his friends 649 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,839 Speaker 1: and family and his wife and his children. Uh, he'll 650 00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 1: be missed. So rest in peace, Craig Mac. That's that's 651 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:18,719 Speaker 1: really sad, It really really is. Yeah. So the party 652 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,799 Speaker 1: didn't get started. It didn't get started till you heard 653 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,840 Speaker 1: that song right there? All what was what was the 654 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: dance about nine? But I was caught ninety six. This 655 00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 1: is just you know, we just right here the baby 656 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,399 Speaker 1: don't pray you ain't the university. You could not wait 657 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:43,240 Speaker 1: Baby Dog party. It was real. Yeah, man, I'm missing 658 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:49,879 Speaker 1: the homecoming man, what'd d Yeah? Women, And I will 659 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 1: say this though, you know, for turned to Roy. You know, y'all, 660 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: y'all stroke, y'all will take up the whole baby dog 661 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,719 Speaker 1: and you're gonna get out to wait what's the baby 662 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 1: on the Campus's is where the basketball team played, but 663 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 1: they the parties in there. That's what we have. We 664 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:07,040 Speaker 1: have a separate facility at this HBCU the basketball game 665 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,680 Speaker 1: and you called it the baby called the baby baby 666 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,399 Speaker 1: done say that everything happens there. Everything happens in their 667 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 1: graduation luncheon, all all school information registration. Sometimes it's good 668 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: to have everything in one basketball team was upset scuff 669 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,720 Speaker 1: marks on the pool. All right? Coming up in thirty 670 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 1: four after the hour, the White House is giving the 671 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 1: Secretary of Education, Betsy de Vos the cold shoulder. You're 672 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right. Coming 673 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,319 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 674 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 1: minutes after it is today's Strawberry letter. You don't want 675 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:59,880 Speaker 1: to miss it. The subject what am I supposed to 676 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:10,320 Speaker 1: you with that? But I'm next and paid money? What 677 00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 1: you paid to do with it? It's the nephew right 678 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 1: here with today's pranking phone call. What you got now 679 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,359 Speaker 1: looking up at the daycare? Oh that scares me. Huh. 680 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 1: You know you never know what you want to hook 681 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 1: up with. Somebody hooking up at that daycare. Let's run Hello, Hello, 682 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,759 Speaker 1: I'm trying to uh, I'm trying to reach free Tom 683 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,399 Speaker 1: this is free and you don't know me. My name 684 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 1: is Lanny Ni. I know I wanted to call you. 685 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,919 Speaker 1: I've been looking for trying to get your phone number 686 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 1: actually for like about the last about two weeks. Na, 687 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: what do you need my numberfore? Baby? Can you get 688 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 1: on with it because I'm on lunch, but I'm trying 689 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 1: to hear meet my lunch and I need you to 690 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: come on with Okay, now is your um? Your husband 691 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: is uh? What is your name again? My name is 692 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 1: Lani okay, and you ask about my husband? Now what about? Yes, 693 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 1: that's my husband. See. The problem I'm having, MS Freedom 694 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 1: is that I looked through my wife cell phone about 695 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 1: two three weeks ago, and I have found out that 696 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 1: this actual phone number below to your husband named and 697 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:26,560 Speaker 1: he'd been text messaging her stop stop stop because but 698 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:30,279 Speaker 1: see let me finish though he's been text messaging her 699 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 1: different uh text message and stuff, but he want to 700 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 1: meet up with her, and and how she looked the 701 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,360 Speaker 1: other day and stuff like this here but then but 702 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,399 Speaker 1: then even worse than this here is he you know done? 703 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 1: Send some some some pictures of himself some some nicked 704 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: pictures on the on the on the cell phone. No sir, not. 705 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:58,880 Speaker 1: I know not because if anything, if he's texting anybody 706 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,759 Speaker 1: needs to be an employer about a dog. I know 707 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,719 Speaker 1: that you're not saying to me, whole body, who is 708 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,720 Speaker 1: your wife? What's your name again? What's my name is Linnie? 709 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,120 Speaker 1: And my my my wife name is? My wife name 710 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:15,440 Speaker 1: is Denise? Denise? That ain't read thing with me. We 711 00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: pretty much have an offer relationship where we kind of 712 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: communicate and I don't don't know about Denise. Okay, do 713 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,800 Speaker 1: do do your husband's last fold digits on his phone 714 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 1: in sixty two? Yeah? That would be okay. See that 715 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,239 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, man, I'm not trying to call you, 716 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, I'm I'm disappointed in my wife 717 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 1: because of these text messes and in these pictures and stuff. 718 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,919 Speaker 1: You know, I'm I'm the one. That's why I said, Okay, 719 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,880 Speaker 1: I need to call this man wife right here and 720 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 1: see what you know? Do she even know it? I 721 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:53,759 Speaker 1: need you to body to meet it back up and 722 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: required for me to look here. Okay, Denise, you're Linnie? Okay, Well, 723 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,960 Speaker 1: ain't supposed to meant it? What you know because we 724 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 1: used to go everywhere again when we go to first 725 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 1: about the don't work. Let's let's go there. He does 726 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 1: not work. I don't know where it is when he 727 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,880 Speaker 1: got when he generally when he leaves the house, we're together. 728 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,879 Speaker 1: Where did they meet with? How did how did they meet? 729 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,719 Speaker 1: Two weeks ago? You say, because oh I'm listening to 730 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,839 Speaker 1: you now, you got I don't. I don't know if 731 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 1: they meant two weeks ago. I'm just I just found 732 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 1: him in the cell phone two weeks ago. That's what 733 00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now. You say, if you're saying he don't work, 734 00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 1: then evidently it must be doing the day while you go, 735 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: or something I don't do. I mean you you say 736 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,400 Speaker 1: you on your lunch break right now? Yeah? Huh? And 737 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,360 Speaker 1: where's your wife right now? Wait a minute, do you 738 00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,919 Speaker 1: know where your wife is right now? Uh? When she's 739 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,360 Speaker 1: both to be at work right now? And you know 740 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,399 Speaker 1: what I just could He told me he was gonna 741 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 1: getting the tube, and when I called back taking a 742 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: long he used it, okay, it's yeah, okay, if I 743 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 1: don't have to go back in this housepital baby, baby, baby, Yeah, 744 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,920 Speaker 1: where's your wife? I need you to get we need 745 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: to your wife. We'll see my wife works at a 746 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:07,959 Speaker 1: A A wait a minute, do y'all have do y'all 747 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 1: have kids? Hell? Yeah, we got kids, and that's my problem. 748 00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 1: That's why I'm so upset. I'm working all day. I 749 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,879 Speaker 1: get up at fow in the morning to make sure 750 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 1: I got everything prepared for the whole day. I got 751 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,680 Speaker 1: to get the kids. But we have three kids, one, two, 752 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:29,760 Speaker 1: and three? Yeah, okay, okay? Is he the one? Because 753 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 1: he I do he because my wife works at a 754 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: at a daycare? Do he drop him off at a daycare? 755 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:41,399 Speaker 1: Don't start your fab He's getting deeper if I get 756 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,479 Speaker 1: what daycare? Does your wife working? Baby? Because I see, 757 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,880 Speaker 1: don't start me. Yeah he dropping them off? If you 758 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,800 Speaker 1: tell me the baby, just tell me plump I swear line. 759 00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:58,680 Speaker 1: Now she's been at this place called children's Academic. Lie, 760 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,520 Speaker 1: you bet not tell me this non working its w 761 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,839 Speaker 1: They're supposed to be watching our kids. So you see, 762 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,960 Speaker 1: I'm already and see but see, I'm already upset and 763 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 1: being upset about this year is for the last I've 764 00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,839 Speaker 1: been holding it for the last two weeks. I've been 765 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 1: holding it. Ain't said nothing tipting ned Why are you 766 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 1: holding it? Yeah? You are? You to the bag? How 767 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,480 Speaker 1: me I'll just when he kid this. Let me tell 768 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 1: you something. I get up a foe every morning, and 769 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,840 Speaker 1: this I got. I have to be the work for 770 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 1: six thirty every morning I get to that damn hospital. 771 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: Our slave. They did come on his slave for him. 772 00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 1: Try to make sure he feels good as a man 773 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 1: although he's not working. You know it wasn't his body, 774 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 1: y'all laid off. But hey, I want him to feel good. 775 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:47,719 Speaker 1: I'll go he's not work because you know y'all don't 776 00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: feel too good when you're not work. So I wanted 777 00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:51,960 Speaker 1: him to feel good. I tell the kids, you know 778 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 1: it's gonna be okay. But I bet you this got 779 00:49:55,239 --> 00:50:00,399 Speaker 1: that nothing is my wife. Don't be you know she's 780 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 1: my wife. No, wait a minute, not for white a minute. See, 781 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 1: I tell you it was ignicancy. You should have been 782 00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 1: called me long ago. Let me tell you how you 783 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: eat to see she's a first of all, because she 784 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,399 Speaker 1: said she too. She said he raised that out. I say, 785 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:18,359 Speaker 1: I'm not a player game, and she's with my head 786 00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 1: and he's sending our neked pitts. He ain't got to 787 00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:25,120 Speaker 1: be showing no, trust me, it ain't worse on. I 788 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:26,640 Speaker 1: was just with him because he was a good man. 789 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: I guess mine just dumb too. I was gonna ask 790 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,759 Speaker 1: shoot here because he don't add what do you want 791 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,120 Speaker 1: to add? What came you asked me? You just taught 792 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 1: me this here it's with your wife from name Denise. Yes, 793 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,920 Speaker 1: that's what I said. And this is the that's Watson 794 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 1: the twins. Maybe we have twins? Do you hear me? 795 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 1: Can I say something else to you? I don't need 796 00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 1: you to say. Can I say one more thing? What 797 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,320 Speaker 1: do you need to say? This is nephew time and 798 00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:01,719 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Just got pranked by 799 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 1: your husband, Gerald. Let me tell you something got today 800 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,520 Speaker 1: to be pranking me. He needs to be found about it. 801 00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: I'm going ahead to ship when I get home, kiss, 802 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 1: non working, cooking the nice. Let me tell you all 803 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:31,200 Speaker 1: the thing this spade the situation because first of all, 804 00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 1: I'm a woman, so I won't wan't information. But the 805 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 1: special thing is we need the job, just don't work. 806 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:43,320 Speaker 1: I couldn't leave work. I gotta answer something. Baby. What's 807 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 1: badest radio show in the land? Definitely the Seed Harvey 808 00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 1: Morning So you're I'm gonna get during the call. We 809 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,280 Speaker 1: picked up your baby and just saw somebody after active 810 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:08,480 Speaker 1: and said, hey, let's hook up at the daycase not 811 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:15,080 Speaker 1: not at those prices line, thinking of you never know 812 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 1: who you're going. You might find love at the day. 813 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm telling you now, all right, once again, it's going 814 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 1: down at Chuckles Comedy Club, Mempis, Tennessee. And Nephew coming 815 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,600 Speaker 1: to town Memphis. It's that time, Bobbie qu and the 816 00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:34,400 Speaker 1: Nephew in the same city at the same time, Barbecue 817 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 1: and the Nephew, Chuckles Comedy Club. The Nephew is coming 818 00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 1: then a long time and then I don't even want 819 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,920 Speaker 1: to tell you all about about Mother's Day weekend, you know, Charleston, Charleston, 820 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,920 Speaker 1: South Carolina. Wait, we can go to them. Go ahead here, 821 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,920 Speaker 1: I'm just everywhere, all right, coming up at the top 822 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,800 Speaker 1: of the hour, you are Strawberry letter. What am I 823 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:57,160 Speaker 1: supposed to do with that? Don't say it like that 824 00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:04,080 Speaker 1: question mark, which I hope it's not what I think. 825 00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show all right, 826 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,680 Speaker 1: before we got to today's Strawberry Letter, and oh boy, 827 00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: it's a good one subject. What am I supposed to 828 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:20,759 Speaker 1: do with that? President Trump worries that incredible Mexican climbers 829 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:24,799 Speaker 1: will scale the wall. You know he is uh in California. 830 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,080 Speaker 1: We talked about that. Uh. He's touring the US Mexican 831 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,480 Speaker 1: border just south of San Diego. He's checking out, you know, 832 00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,400 Speaker 1: the potential designs for the wall and everything where he 833 00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 1: warned the engineers, UH that these Mexican, incredible Mexican climbers 834 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: will scale the Just take a listen to this, geez, 835 00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,040 Speaker 1: the round piece that you see up here or you 836 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:49,040 Speaker 1: see more committy back there. The larger it is, the 837 00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:50,880 Speaker 1: better it is. Because it's very hard to get over 838 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,439 Speaker 1: the top. It's really deterred from getting over the top. 839 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,399 Speaker 1: Who would think? Who would think? But getting over the top, 840 00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,959 Speaker 1: it's easy. These are like professional mountain climbers, your incredible climb. 841 00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,920 Speaker 1: They can't climb some of these wolves. Some of them 842 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,520 Speaker 1: they can. Those are the wolves were not using What 843 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,080 Speaker 1: did they say in Forrest Gump? Life is like a 844 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,640 Speaker 1: box of chocolate. You never know what you might get. 845 00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,319 Speaker 1: Can we say that abrought our current president? You never 846 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,680 Speaker 1: know what's going to come out of his mouth. Okay? Uh. 847 00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:21,480 Speaker 1: Secretary of State or should I say former Secretary of 848 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 1: State Rex Tillerson is no longer the Secretary of State. 849 00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,400 Speaker 1: He's just not there anymore. He's out. He will be 850 00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 1: replaced by CIA Director Mike Pompeo if he gets approved. 851 00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 1: And right, and I think he fired him via Twitter, right, 852 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,400 Speaker 1: President Trump says he will nominate Gina Haspell as a 853 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: new ci A chief. Now that is a woman. She 854 00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 1: will be the first woman to head the CIA uh 855 00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 1: as director and the first woman so chosen. Also, today, 856 00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:59,880 Speaker 1: the President is here in California, a state is going 857 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,560 Speaker 1: show him much love. You know, he never even came 858 00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:08,080 Speaker 1: here during the campaign. He never came here him here. Yeah, 859 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 1: this is his first time since taking office. While here, uh, 860 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,640 Speaker 1: in Calli. The President is planning on looking at prototypes 861 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 1: for the border wall and attending fundraiser supporting Republicans and 862 00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 1: teachers get underpaid. Yeah, yeah, right now. Yeah, let's just 863 00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,600 Speaker 1: get to the letter. Guys. All right, here we go. 864 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:32,239 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. It's that time strawberry letter. 865 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: All right, there's a hard one. Yeah. Before we do 866 00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,239 Speaker 1: the letter, j I do have to tell you if 867 00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:43,359 Speaker 1: you have small children with you had to turn away 868 00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:46,880 Speaker 1: on this one. This is a very adult letter. Uh, 869 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,799 Speaker 1: and we're not kidding about that part. Subject what am 870 00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:53,520 Speaker 1: I supposed to do with that? Dear Stephen Shirley. Of course, 871 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,120 Speaker 1: you know, Steve's out today, so it's me and the crew. 872 00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:01,040 Speaker 1: Oh lord, my strength. I have been dating a man 873 00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:05,239 Speaker 1: for four months, and recently we decided to be exclusive 874 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:09,320 Speaker 1: and to start being intimate. Okay, she gave him ninety 875 00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,320 Speaker 1: days plus thirty more. Okay, alright, not mad at that. 876 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,640 Speaker 1: The other night I was over at his place and 877 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,200 Speaker 1: things started to heat up. I was super excited because 878 00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 1: we hadn't been going any further than kissing, but this 879 00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:26,920 Speaker 1: night I was finally going to give him some so 880 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:33,120 Speaker 1: I let my hands wander down his body and I 881 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:38,759 Speaker 1: got the biggest shock of my life. He stood up 882 00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:45,640 Speaker 1: and dropped his pants and my mouth hit the floor. Okay, 883 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 1: I was eye to eye. Are you guys ready here? 884 00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: You're ready for this week? I was eye to eye 885 00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:57,160 Speaker 1: with the biggest you know what that I have ever seen. 886 00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:15,160 Speaker 1: I told this is about me anyway in the uh. 887 00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:18,280 Speaker 1: This brother could scratch his ear with it if he 888 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:24,919 Speaker 1: needed to. I was absolutely petrified. He saw the fear 889 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: in my face and suggested we just watch a movie instead. 890 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:36,000 Speaker 1: We spent most of the night in silence, and she 891 00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,440 Speaker 1: was speechless after this, and eventually I asked him to 892 00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 1: take me home. Okay, since that night he has been 893 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 1: calling and texting, But I don't know if I can 894 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 1: continue with the relationship. What am I supposed to do 895 00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:58,520 Speaker 1: with that? I really like spending time with him. Please help, Shirley. Yeah, 896 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:03,680 Speaker 1: you're supposed to be the president here. I'm just gonna say. 897 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say. Maybe there's a blessing. I gotta 898 00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 1: say it. I have to say it. I understand you say, 899 00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,480 Speaker 1: I understand how she feels about this particular situation. It 900 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 1: is a scary situation. It really is. Um, it really is. 901 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 1: I think there are sometimes you can have too much 902 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 1: of a good thing, you really can, and in this case, 903 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,400 Speaker 1: it seems like that that is the situation. Um, I 904 00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:37,160 Speaker 1: suggest taking your time. Well, you're gonna have to do that. 905 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 1: Lots of lubrication. I said that. I mean, if you're 906 00:58:45,560 --> 00:59:04,080 Speaker 1: planning on continuing a relationship. Yeah, yeah, I may even 907 00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: go to the doctor beforehand. Too much for her can 908 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 1: please you? Then, when it happened to me, I just 909 00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:17,240 Speaker 1: thought over my shoulder and went home. I hate him. 910 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 1: We're not talking about but no, you're absolutely right. But 911 00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:29,320 Speaker 1: you're you're complaining on one and then when you find 912 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,600 Speaker 1: I finally run into a man's blessed like this, and 913 00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 1: then you don't want Sometimes it can be too much 914 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:38,280 Speaker 1: of a good thing. It depends if it's too much. 915 00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,080 Speaker 1: It depends on what she can handle. If you want 916 00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,560 Speaker 1: to stay in there and deal with this situation a 917 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:45,760 Speaker 1: man like a lady should tell a man if he 918 00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:47,880 Speaker 1: has if she has a lot of kids, right, you 919 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,720 Speaker 1: should tell him upfront. Should a man tell a lady 920 00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 1: we first look when I need to let you know, 921 00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:02,960 Speaker 1: we we overpack, if we go to the ample, we 922 01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 1: got to pay for extra legs. Just tell a man 923 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,240 Speaker 1: tell a lady that this is what I mean. I 924 01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:13,160 Speaker 1: appreciate the fact that they they've gone, like I said, 925 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 1: a month past the thirty day uh trial period here. Um, 926 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,800 Speaker 1: but this is a lot. I mean if you can't 927 01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:26,240 Speaker 1: handle itally literally you can't handle this, I suggest you, 928 01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:29,640 Speaker 1: you know, move on, you guys. Can Is there some 929 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:34,360 Speaker 1: ladies that they listen to this? Wait? Wait, you know 930 01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:37,680 Speaker 1: it is, you know it is. It is a subjective. Yeah, 931 01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 1: it absolutely is. If you can handle it, go for it. 932 01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 1: She doesn't seem like she can handle it, all right, 933 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna have part try. Oh she well, she knows 934 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:53,439 Speaker 1: herself obviously when a piece, we gotta go all that thought. 935 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: All right, pull that Part two of you, guys is 936 01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,440 Speaker 1: a responsive. We'll talk to deal with part two of 937 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,960 Speaker 1: this letter at twenty three after you're listening to the 938 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:07,320 Speaker 1: Steven Show. All right, Uh, here we go with part 939 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,360 Speaker 1: two of today's Strawberry Letter. The subject what am I 940 01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,160 Speaker 1: supposed to do with that? A young lady wrote this. 941 01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:16,080 Speaker 1: She's been dating a man for about four months. Recently 942 01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:19,160 Speaker 1: they decided to get a little closer, to get intimate 943 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,080 Speaker 1: in their relationship. Like I said, they've been dating for 944 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:25,360 Speaker 1: four months. Uh. Come to find out when they did 945 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:29,000 Speaker 1: decide to get intimate, was that your phone change? Is 946 01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 1: that her calling you? Perhaps? Anyway, So they decided to 947 01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 1: become intimate, and the other night she was at his place, 948 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,920 Speaker 1: things kind of got heated, you know, they started kissing 949 01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:51,360 Speaker 1: and everything, um and uh, her hands went there and 950 01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 1: she decided she discovered that he was very very very 951 01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 1: extremely well doubt extremely well endowed. Uh, and you know, 952 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:08,600 Speaker 1: she became fearful because it was you know, yeah, I mean, 953 01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,560 Speaker 1: we know, we know you know, you know, I know 954 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 1: more than fearful. She said she was absolutely petrified. Those 955 01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:19,800 Speaker 1: are her words. So my suggestion, yeah petrified. My suggestion 956 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 1: to her is if she's that afraid, if it's that humongous, 957 01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:28,840 Speaker 1: and I just don't think she should. You know, what's 958 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 1: the question? It's this. It's the same as it is 959 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:36,360 Speaker 1: as the subject what am I supposed to answer? We 960 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:42,800 Speaker 1: are from what am I supposed? Okay, so this is 961 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:44,960 Speaker 1: what she wants to know. What am I supposed to 962 01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:49,040 Speaker 1: do with that question mark? But she really likes spending 963 01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:56,240 Speaker 1: time with the You can do one, yeah, yeah, First 964 01:02:56,240 --> 01:03:00,640 Speaker 1: of all, when you see it coming it, you gonna 965 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,320 Speaker 1: put both arms around it. You don't want to be 966 01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:06,280 Speaker 1: involved in early get to know it, get didn't know it? 967 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,120 Speaker 1: I got one, I got good. Blocked the doors so 968 01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:14,520 Speaker 1: the heat won't come in with it. Put that cold out, 969 01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,600 Speaker 1: you know what? You know what? You can get some 970 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 1: strain and go fishing with fish with you. Utilize what 971 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,680 Speaker 1: you said, Embrace the guy putting it for you. What 972 01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,840 Speaker 1: you got to tell you? If you can't get something 973 01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:35,240 Speaker 1: off the top shelf, stand on this, you go that. 974 01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:39,840 Speaker 1: She absolutely pet What she didn't do with it? She 975 01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:46,040 Speaker 1: get ridio couch, sit on it, so petrified that he 976 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 1: saw the look on her face, and we suggested that 977 01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,200 Speaker 1: you want to make some money. You don't need a 978 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 1: toll Trump, you got that. You're stuck in a ditch, 979 01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:09,800 Speaker 1: called to him. I got it. She is she in 980 01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:16,919 Speaker 1: the gymnastics. Don't let down there and vote vote over. 981 01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:21,120 Speaker 1: Come on, Jane, Oh man, you got some carwork you 982 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,560 Speaker 1: need to do. You want to put the cor on it, 983 01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,479 Speaker 1: then you can slide up. But it didn't get that muff. 984 01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,640 Speaker 1: You've been blessed. You want to add onto your house. 985 01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:34,760 Speaker 1: You need a crane. You don't need a crane. You got. 986 01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:40,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you something. Are you having a party? You 987 01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 1: having a party? One game? They like to play his limbo. 988 01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:51,120 Speaker 1: Just get down on. You want to add on to 989 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:53,840 Speaker 1: the room. You want to tear that wall down? You decorate? 990 01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:57,360 Speaker 1: Wanta tell that whole wall down? Hold less, dude, let 991 01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:03,720 Speaker 1: him sing it not all that down? Check this out. 992 01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:06,440 Speaker 1: You and your girls want to have your own little 993 01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,960 Speaker 1: little part like a girl's night out. You know that. 994 01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,360 Speaker 1: You know y'all like having a little fun of the pole. 995 01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:16,360 Speaker 1: Pole in there. You don't need no pole. Bring him old, 996 01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:21,400 Speaker 1: but bring him on. Everybody can get on. Yeah, I 997 01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:27,960 Speaker 1: tell you we're trying to good health. This is great health. 998 01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:31,520 Speaker 1: This is something she could do is swat busy. They 999 01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,960 Speaker 1: need somebody to ram that though. Yeah, now that's how 1000 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:43,240 Speaker 1: you stopped crying. What we're coming in looks yes, yes, 1001 01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 1: don't want to do that. This is this is a 1002 01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:52,480 Speaker 1: double Dutch dream come true. Jump with Jeff Broke. Bro 1003 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,240 Speaker 1: bro you wait, you gotta wait for you get get 1004 01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:03,440 Speaker 1: get get a good and don't go into now. I'll 1005 01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 1: tell you what. You know, a lot of people are 1006 01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:09,480 Speaker 1: into these X games. You know a different types. You're 1007 01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,760 Speaker 1: not not, you know I talking about you know, like 1008 01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:15,240 Speaker 1: you know, like bungee jumping is different. You know what 1009 01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying. What what better thing to bunch your jump off? 1010 01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,080 Speaker 1: You go down to come back up, you jump with it, 1011 01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:27,400 Speaker 1: go down your back. I got something I think she 1012 01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,000 Speaker 1: could do, you know, I mean, if at all, if 1013 01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:33,080 Speaker 1: he's over there, when he's there, hang your coat on 1014 01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:36,800 Speaker 1: this thing and let's just put your coat on that 1015 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:38,840 Speaker 1: and let's just go. You know what time it is, 1016 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:43,560 Speaker 1: it's baseball season. Somebody need to sign this boy. Ba 1017 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:52,480 Speaker 1: Bass is loaded bringing it coming that Damn I don't 1018 01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:56,080 Speaker 1: see it now. Check this a hold up? Shirt. You 1019 01:06:56,160 --> 01:07:00,720 Speaker 1: know down in Texas they got a company called three Movies. Yeah, right, 1020 01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:02,320 Speaker 1: and that's how if you're getting ready to move from 1021 01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:06,040 Speaker 1: the house in the truck. Yeah, in the truck right there, 1022 01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:12,440 Speaker 1: one man, and you can move all that sound one man. 1023 01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,920 Speaker 1: But she asked us showing what could she do with 1024 01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:23,360 Speaker 1: if the toilet get back? Then him over there and unclothed, 1025 01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:27,040 Speaker 1: just come out? Did you get down in there? A 1026 01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:32,080 Speaker 1: little band? That ain't gonna ball? You don't need that. Well, 1027 01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:37,840 Speaker 1: you guys are right about one thing we have come 1028 01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 1: on the ball. You need to do the presentation, but 1029 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:56,640 Speaker 1: a point you needs that projection. Yeah, now nobody's looking 1030 01:07:56,680 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: at the presentation. Ship. Oh damn, we have to go. Guys. 1031 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,120 Speaker 1: You can email us through Instagram. What's your thoughts on 1032 01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:11,000 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter? Add my girls, Shirley coming up about 1033 01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:18,680 Speaker 1: down you guys coming up in about ten minutes. How 1034 01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:21,960 Speaker 1: to deal when you've been ghosted. Tips to help ease 1035 01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,880 Speaker 1: the pain of someone disappearing on you when it comes 1036 01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:28,080 Speaker 1: time to break up. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 1037 01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:32,720 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Ghosting, guys, is a pretty cruel way to 1038 01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:35,360 Speaker 1: end a relationship. We all know that because guys don't 1039 01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:38,519 Speaker 1: like closure, right, but the practice of breaking up by 1040 01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 1: suddenly ending all communication with your partner is on the rise. 1041 01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 1: So just shut it down everything. Yeah, no closure, No 1042 01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:51,800 Speaker 1: more calls, no text, no showing off. Just ghost you 1043 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,479 Speaker 1: know what something well you like? Men don't like, you know, 1044 01:08:54,680 --> 01:08:57,680 Speaker 1: to be confronted, and yeah, that's how they do it. Yeah, 1045 01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:01,040 Speaker 1: they're just onto the next to the next. I'm different. 1046 01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:03,280 Speaker 1: I like the one more tame. You know what I'm saying, 1047 01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:06,400 Speaker 1: but a good time. Let's do it. One more tame 1048 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:08,320 Speaker 1: for the rope, you know what I'm paying. And then 1049 01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:15,719 Speaker 1: you're but we get no, Yeah that's what that's close 1050 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:25,280 Speaker 1: your carla for you different? We stay all right, he 1051 01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:29,000 Speaker 1: dried that over here, you get closure. We both laid down, 1052 01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:32,679 Speaker 1: we both got it. Were good, We're good. Let's walk away. 1053 01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:35,799 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. A recent study of thirteen 1054 01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:39,439 Speaker 1: hundred found that of people say they've been ghosted and 1055 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,960 Speaker 1: admit to doing the ghosting. All right, jay, So here's 1056 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 1: some tips to deal with it. Give yourself dedicated wallowing time, 1057 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,040 Speaker 1: you know, to wallow in the sorrow, just you know, 1058 01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:55,080 Speaker 1: block off some time. You're gonna be sad, You're gonna hurt. 1059 01:09:55,439 --> 01:10:01,719 Speaker 1: Women don't need that, No, especially you tell me because 1060 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:04,360 Speaker 1: you're so sensitive, and you know you are. But I 1061 01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,400 Speaker 1: don't mean I ain't gonna go wallow with somebody else. 1062 01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:10,800 Speaker 1: You're not. But you know what, it's funny you say 1063 01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:12,840 Speaker 1: that because Steve does say that the best way to 1064 01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:17,679 Speaker 1: get over a person is to get under a new person. Yes, absolute, 1065 01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:23,360 Speaker 1: men do that. Okay, don't go looking for answers. You 1066 01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:28,200 Speaker 1: know what happened? What did I do? Yeah? Don't don't 1067 01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:31,600 Speaker 1: second guess yourself, don't overthink it. It's just done. You 1068 01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:34,479 Speaker 1: have no idea what the other person is thinking. And 1069 01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,120 Speaker 1: don't please do not go looking for an apology. That's 1070 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 1: another tip. You're not gonna get down. No, no, no, no, 1071 01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get trying to get closure from your ghoster. 1072 01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:56,200 Speaker 1: He's gone or she's gone. Let them go. They're probably 1073 01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:58,640 Speaker 1: gonna lie anyway. You know, they're probably not going to 1074 01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:01,160 Speaker 1: tell you the truth. Uh. And the other the other 1075 01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:05,479 Speaker 1: tip is to force yourself to find the positive spin. M. 1076 01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:09,439 Speaker 1: That's interesting. Yeah. According to a dating coach, if there 1077 01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,360 Speaker 1: was a lesson to be learned, try to, you know, 1078 01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:14,880 Speaker 1: find a lesson better off? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, what did 1079 01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:18,559 Speaker 1: you do you know yeah, or it wasn't my fault, 1080 01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:22,639 Speaker 1: you know whatever. So so these are yeah, just learn. 1081 01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:31,960 Speaker 1: There's the lessons about just cool. I'm surprised you guys 1082 01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:36,519 Speaker 1: didn't say it here down here is that? How you 1083 01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:42,519 Speaker 1: waddle in a car and you key the car are 1084 01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:49,680 Speaker 1: the words of O j H. But we can him 1085 01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:52,920 Speaker 1: in this. Yeah. So you guys have any dump stories. 1086 01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 1: You guys get dumped. I know you do. Ja My god, 1087 01:11:57,439 --> 01:12:03,120 Speaker 1: come on, what just one time? There was this one 1088 01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:09,200 Speaker 1: time when um I had said and then she she 1089 01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:13,320 Speaker 1: told me she loved me, which was not true. He 1090 01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:16,599 Speaker 1: didn't love me. And it was this big dance. It's 1091 01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,080 Speaker 1: like back in the day. We'll go to this dance 1092 01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,920 Speaker 1: and she had her other boyfriend there, and so I 1093 01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:24,800 Speaker 1: go to the dance and she said meet me there, 1094 01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:29,760 Speaker 1: which is never a good sign. When you go to 1095 01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:31,600 Speaker 1: pick them up, you pick them up. And when she 1096 01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:35,920 Speaker 1: said meet me there, she was done with context clues, Jay, 1097 01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:43,240 Speaker 1: context clue. And not only they were dancing, but they 1098 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:50,240 Speaker 1: were really really nast they was grinded. Yeah, what kind 1099 01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:58,760 Speaker 1: of change? I was so crushed. I was in the 1100 01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:03,120 Speaker 1: sixth grade. That's when I started to drinking. I got 1101 01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:09,280 Speaker 1: your daddy bottle. I had just got off the phone 1102 01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,360 Speaker 1: with it, right. He said, well, I'm going to bed. 1103 01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:13,880 Speaker 1: I said, all right, well we'll talk to marrow and 1104 01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:15,400 Speaker 1: then you know, the feller said, hey, man, let's go 1105 01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:17,479 Speaker 1: out to the bar. When we go up to the 1106 01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:19,320 Speaker 1: bar and we have the childen leave and having drink, 1107 01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 1: and my boy said, hey, man, ain't that your girl 1108 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:22,679 Speaker 1: over there? I said, no, man, she went to bed. 1109 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 1: I look first, she's sleep, man, And she was sleep alright. 1110 01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:34,560 Speaker 1: She had her eyes closed, but her toue was in 1111 01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:40,320 Speaker 1: somebody else's mouth. I said, no, no, not in front 1112 01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:42,960 Speaker 1: of you and everybody. That was the worst ride home 1113 01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:46,200 Speaker 1: that everybody saw. Everybody saw. Fellers, let me have it. 1114 01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:52,160 Speaker 1: You have the worst to break up stories I've ever heard. Guy. 1115 01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:55,600 Speaker 1: It was like telling jokes too, so you know, it 1116 01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:59,360 Speaker 1: was like I had enough to keep her. It was easy, 1117 01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:16,720 Speaker 1: very important. Yeah, it was easy thousand three right men, men, 1118 01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 1: they're not detectives like we are. Look first, when the 1119 01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:27,920 Speaker 1: guy said, isn't that your girls? Looked first? Yahoud say 1120 01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:32,160 Speaker 1: she was going to sleep? You believe that? Why would 1121 01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:33,800 Speaker 1: she lie she going to sleep? I know, I said, 1122 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm going to sleep. Why don't guys, lie, why don't 1123 01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:41,240 Speaker 1: you lie? Come tell me with your story? All right, 1124 01:14:41,640 --> 01:14:46,880 Speaker 1: me gonna break mad Down Comedy Club, nineteen nineties. I'm 1125 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,479 Speaker 1: I'm the host for the weekends. You know what. All 1126 01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:51,920 Speaker 1: sum along, I'm pretty much the host. And I started 1127 01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:54,080 Speaker 1: dating the Spanish girl. But it was really deal for 1128 01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:57,720 Speaker 1: two weeks. It didn't lay alone. Started out with making 1129 01:14:57,760 --> 01:14:59,760 Speaker 1: out in the back room in the green room. I 1130 01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,680 Speaker 1: I'm linking this chick right here. So then by two 1131 01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:06,080 Speaker 1: weeks later I'm hosting. I get all stayed by ten 1132 01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 1: minutes early and I'm supposed to be and I go 1133 01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:10,120 Speaker 1: to the same room we were making audience. She's making 1134 01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:14,559 Speaker 1: out with another comedian and I don't know, I got 1135 01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 1: to bring him up neck, damn. And that wasn't funny. Okay, 1136 01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:22,960 Speaker 1: call that story all that story. We gotta come back 1137 01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:26,160 Speaker 1: and talk about that. I love this, all right, um, 1138 01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:28,559 Speaker 1: and we're gonna talk about o J as well. We'll 1139 01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:33,000 Speaker 1: be back. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right. 1140 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:35,519 Speaker 1: Before we left to go to break, we were talking 1141 01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:38,360 Speaker 1: about breakups, the worst breakups we had. It's not really 1142 01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:44,000 Speaker 1: Redicus quittin stories yea a ghosting stories all right, nephew, 1143 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:46,800 Speaker 1: you were on deck. You talked about the girl you 1144 01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:49,720 Speaker 1: were dating in the Spanish girl about two weeks only 1145 01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:52,840 Speaker 1: two weeks flat. I'm I'm the host at the comedy 1146 01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:56,719 Speaker 1: clubs that matter. That she was Spanish. Oh drop, Deck's pretty. 1147 01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:59,360 Speaker 1: I just that's just how I remember. Oh, and that's 1148 01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:04,799 Speaker 1: what she used to call me, said happy call, said poppy. 1149 01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:08,599 Speaker 1: When you hear pop turned you on? What they never 1150 01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:12,240 Speaker 1: didly turned a few more people off. I get on 1151 01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:15,360 Speaker 1: stage early one night and I'm bringing up this guy. 1152 01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:17,400 Speaker 1: And now he comes to the stage. I said, well, 1153 01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:20,400 Speaker 1: oh girl that I go to the same room we 1154 01:16:20,600 --> 01:16:23,720 Speaker 1: was making out in his shield with the headline, I said, 1155 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:29,000 Speaker 1: I beat damn excuse me, headliner. Oh I'm sorry. Well 1156 01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:35,280 Speaker 1: I'm the host. That's a big difference, Pacheck, not the headline. 1157 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 1: I don't know that. I thought we was going together. 1158 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:41,559 Speaker 1: We didn't know that at all. With the head Poppy, 1159 01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:47,640 Speaker 1: don't come in here, don't look in this room right 1160 01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 1: now for me when I bring it to the stage, 1161 01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:58,920 Speaker 1: giving up for this blanket, and about the blanket and 1162 01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:02,479 Speaker 1: blanket and guess what else he been? No, you told 1163 01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:07,240 Speaker 1: everything he wanted. I mean he didn't know. Yeah, he didn't. Yeah, 1164 01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:11,960 Speaker 1: he comedy clubs, love stories or something else. Yeah, you 1165 01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:16,760 Speaker 1: already know who it is. She didn't. Let's put it 1166 01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:20,160 Speaker 1: this way. Certainly the Spanish girl and who Junior about 1167 01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:24,400 Speaker 1: to tell you they worked together. Junior has the absolute words. 1168 01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:28,000 Speaker 1: Tommy told me just date the girl and gone about 1169 01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:35,080 Speaker 1: your bill. Okay he said that. No, not falling. I 1170 01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:37,960 Speaker 1: didn't say date just go by there. Yeah and keep 1171 01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:40,479 Speaker 1: it moved, keep it moving. Now he told you this. 1172 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:44,040 Speaker 1: He told me that, but no he I am at 1173 01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:47,320 Speaker 1: the comedy club and now Tommy were together. It's not 1174 01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:54,000 Speaker 1: he not liked that moment. Good changed. She's doing good. 1175 01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:57,080 Speaker 1: Now you know, she got her life together. I have 1176 01:17:57,280 --> 01:18:01,800 Speaker 1: moved in. You moved in, Yeah, moved he moved. I 1177 01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:06,519 Speaker 1: didn't move you trying to tell him I can. I 1178 01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:09,479 Speaker 1: moved in. Now we all we living over in the hood. 1179 01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:13,240 Speaker 1: Now you're what I had to She had no car, 1180 01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:17,760 Speaker 1: never used my car. He committed this. We're in a 1181 01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:25,600 Speaker 1: relationship until the girl, saying girl until oh no, not Poppy. No, 1182 01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,160 Speaker 1: they're best friends. They're worth it. They hang out to 1183 01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:32,679 Speaker 1: get him until the day that I'm over there, Dolbell 1184 01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:35,000 Speaker 1: ring on Valentine. They now I didn't got some car 1185 01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:39,200 Speaker 1: in some candy. Of course, Dobell opened up twenty seven 1186 01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:41,920 Speaker 1: balloons and flowers and all the types. He said, all right, 1187 01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:44,040 Speaker 1: thank you bye. She rushed him off. I said, well, 1188 01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 1: who that's from? She said, my mama, Your mama bringing 1189 01:18:46,200 --> 01:18:50,120 Speaker 1: no devil. Miss You can't wait to see you all. 1190 01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:52,799 Speaker 1: She messing on me with the deputy did that patrol 1191 01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:58,320 Speaker 1: the club. I couldn't believe. Twenty seven balloons, candy, flowers, 1192 01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:00,320 Speaker 1: all this in the house. All of a sudden, Wow, 1193 01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:03,200 Speaker 1: she is with the guy who is the security for 1194 01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:06,560 Speaker 1: the club. So now I got to see him. I 1195 01:19:06,640 --> 01:19:10,000 Speaker 1: can't say that because he got a piston. Yeah, I 1196 01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:12,759 Speaker 1: told timy Times said, what did I tell you? Didn't 1197 01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:16,479 Speaker 1: I tell? Just go by there? Man, I was crying. 1198 01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:20,080 Speaker 1: I couldn't perform nothing in the club. You couldn't performing 1199 01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:24,639 Speaker 1: back there to your husband? Be worth breakup stories ever? 1200 01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:30,479 Speaker 1: He said, go by there. That's it now, he I am. 1201 01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:34,760 Speaker 1: Two weeks later, y'all gonna stop talking about she is 1202 01:19:34,880 --> 01:19:39,920 Speaker 1: better than her. You're losing friends. You're such a good person, 1203 01:19:40,000 --> 01:19:47,320 Speaker 1: he said. She had a daughter. I'm into it with 1204 01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:49,559 Speaker 1: her baby dad in there. It's like you can't come 1205 01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:51,960 Speaker 1: by here and just say what you want to say. 1206 01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:56,560 Speaker 1: Go in the room, going the room. I got you 1207 01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:03,680 Speaker 1: helping with a hard work. I'm telling jokes. Helping with 1208 01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:06,479 Speaker 1: hard work. You're cooking and if they got April all 1209 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:14,840 Speaker 1: that boy, you ship naked cooking. I'm in the health 1210 01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:19,080 Speaker 1: saying I wasn't making baby about a hundred fifty a 1211 01:20:19,120 --> 01:20:21,840 Speaker 1: weekend at the coming because I can't with a whole 1212 01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,400 Speaker 1: one fifty. Oh yeah, I'm man to help him do 1213 01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:27,960 Speaker 1: the best I game. You know what you're I didn't 1214 01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,320 Speaker 1: know she was missing with the deputy that the club 1215 01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:39,880 Speaker 1: story about breakup and through in the church were about 1216 01:20:40,160 --> 01:20:48,000 Speaker 1: the church. Pass it on. This is the pastor. Yeah, yeah, pastor, 1217 01:20:48,360 --> 01:20:53,639 Speaker 1: God missed over me with my best friend. Right, okay, 1218 01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:56,640 Speaker 1: we cut y'all together about four we made hustling. We're 1219 01:20:56,720 --> 01:20:59,840 Speaker 1: hustling together. You can't work the harder than you got. 1220 01:20:59,840 --> 01:21:04,080 Speaker 1: We had the number one outside work seventh dog did 1221 01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:06,400 Speaker 1: this was header every week we're making seven. This is 1222 01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:10,720 Speaker 1: the story that made me fall such a sweetheart. Man, 1223 01:21:10,960 --> 01:21:12,560 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. So now all of a 1224 01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:14,640 Speaker 1: sudden I find out that she didn't missed over me 1225 01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:18,240 Speaker 1: with my best friend. We all, yeah, we cut your 1226 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,720 Speaker 1: and we all go to the same church. Pastor got 1227 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:25,120 Speaker 1: announcement to make this Sunday more than his daughter because yeah, 1228 01:21:25,120 --> 01:21:28,320 Speaker 1: we all go church. It's her father's church. They say, 1229 01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: you know, past it, I got an announcement to make 1230 01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,439 Speaker 1: my daughter is pregnant. The whole church looked at me. 1231 01:21:34,240 --> 01:21:39,799 Speaker 1: I said, hold on, wait a minute. We were everybody 1232 01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:44,080 Speaker 1: knew he was date. Yeah, because he being up front 1233 01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:45,960 Speaker 1: by the church. What's going on? You know, he ain't know. 1234 01:21:46,080 --> 01:21:48,200 Speaker 1: He wasn't. He's a great man. So then he said 1235 01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:52,840 Speaker 1: could the other family stand up? And everybody glost. I said, yeah, 1236 01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:59,080 Speaker 1: right there, Uh that's it. And now you can't go 1237 01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:04,519 Speaker 1: to the comedy little you can go to the church. Yeah, 1238 01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:06,679 Speaker 1: I see the boy at the bomb shop. Boy could 1239 01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:14,000 Speaker 1: have been your dad. Look at you. Now you let 1240 01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:23,040 Speaker 1: but Tommy told me not to go. Don't do it 1241 01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 1: always somebody always tell you always get one always. All right, 1242 01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:30,639 Speaker 1: we gotta go more of this craziness when we come back, 1243 01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:32,439 Speaker 1: and we'll got to o J. We're gonna get to you. 1244 01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:40,759 Speaker 1: And yeah, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay. 1245 01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:44,120 Speaker 1: For some for some reason, we got into breakup stories. 1246 01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:51,519 Speaker 1: But we didn't hear everybody stories. It's hard to top, Junior, 1247 01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:56,559 Speaker 1: but you got some. Yeah, yeah, it's correct. All right, 1248 01:22:56,680 --> 01:23:00,799 Speaker 1: let's go. Okay, Carl, you want to go first. Come on, Okay, 1249 01:23:02,680 --> 01:23:07,200 Speaker 1: let me tell a question. Does yours end up in 1250 01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 1: the police being? Kate came from so Okay? So for allegedly, 1251 01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:34,560 Speaker 1: I was in a relationship with this guy for a 1252 01:23:34,840 --> 01:23:37,519 Speaker 1: very long time. And Tommy knows him in Junior knows. 1253 01:23:37,720 --> 01:23:39,560 Speaker 1: So I was in this relationship with this guy for 1254 01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:42,880 Speaker 1: a very long time and I found out that he 1255 01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:45,800 Speaker 1: was cheating. My family tried to tell me, my best 1256 01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:49,880 Speaker 1: friend everybody, but like you, Junior, I didn't listen. He's 1257 01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:51,840 Speaker 1: a good man. Come on, you know, That's what I 1258 01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:55,439 Speaker 1: was telling everybody. So when I figured it out, I 1259 01:23:55,520 --> 01:24:00,160 Speaker 1: did some detective work. You know, we're good at that. 1260 01:24:03,640 --> 01:24:05,920 Speaker 1: This is how I figured it out. I came home 1261 01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:08,280 Speaker 1: and went out of town with my mother. And so 1262 01:24:08,400 --> 01:24:11,840 Speaker 1: when I came back from the trip, the house was sparkling. 1263 01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:18,720 Speaker 1: I lived together clean, Sureley, I'm talking about from clean. Yeah. 1264 01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:22,040 Speaker 1: So I walked into my closet, I mean, my shoes 1265 01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:26,120 Speaker 1: were together, the clothes were hung up the right way, 1266 01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:30,600 Speaker 1: everything was just it was just spotless, and it was 1267 01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:33,360 Speaker 1: too perfect. It was too perfect. So I said, we've 1268 01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:35,920 Speaker 1: been in this house. He was like, what you're talking about? 1269 01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:37,960 Speaker 1: What you're talking about just cleaned up because you've been 1270 01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:40,240 Speaker 1: out of town. And I said, when I find out, 1271 01:24:40,400 --> 01:24:42,400 Speaker 1: when I started putting all this together, it's gonna be 1272 01:24:42,439 --> 01:24:51,280 Speaker 1: a situation. So I called my mama, Mama, her grandmother 1273 01:24:51,479 --> 01:24:53,760 Speaker 1: and them on the three way. I said, while I 1274 01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:56,680 Speaker 1: got home and the house is clean. So they all 1275 01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:58,479 Speaker 1: said together, when you know what that means, she's been 1276 01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:03,439 Speaker 1: over there, I said, huh so yeah. At that point 1277 01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:06,040 Speaker 1: I took you know, back then we had the CDs. 1278 01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:08,840 Speaker 1: Remember the CD racks? Oh yeah, I took the whole 1279 01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:13,040 Speaker 1: thing of c ds, threw them out outside the door, 1280 01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:19,160 Speaker 1: all on the front. Nothing's wrong with that, ready, you 1281 01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:21,800 Speaker 1: see that? So he ran outside. I felt like I 1282 01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:25,080 Speaker 1: was overreacting. I took all the clothes, all his clothes 1283 01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:28,320 Speaker 1: out of the clean closet. How you gonna go to 1284 01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:31,200 Speaker 1: waiting the eggs Hill and you ain't found nothing? And 1285 01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:34,559 Speaker 1: she hasn't gotten to the park yet. The clothes outside, yeah, 1286 01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:36,519 Speaker 1: but she has some set him on fire. Yet We 1287 01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:42,800 Speaker 1: were okay, and he deserved it. Go ahead, Carlin, all 1288 01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:49,240 Speaker 1: the clothes outside on the yard. Yeah, finally, finally he left. 1289 01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:52,320 Speaker 1: He didn't admit to anything. He left. Then I finally 1290 01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:54,840 Speaker 1: ran upstairs until our office. We had like an office 1291 01:25:54,880 --> 01:25:57,479 Speaker 1: in the house, and I got the phone rack, yes, 1292 01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:00,439 Speaker 1: at the phone records, and went through each one, and 1293 01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:04,720 Speaker 1: I called not that you need that I didn't know, 1294 01:26:05,320 --> 01:26:09,640 Speaker 1: and then bam, she picked up the phone. Whoa. And 1295 01:26:10,040 --> 01:26:12,439 Speaker 1: that's how I found out. And she and I got 1296 01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:14,800 Speaker 1: to talking, and I asked her if she knew where 1297 01:26:14,840 --> 01:26:17,360 Speaker 1: I lived, and she told me where I lived and 1298 01:26:17,479 --> 01:26:19,960 Speaker 1: all of that. So that's how I found out. My 1299 01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:24,160 Speaker 1: face right now is that emoji? Is that emoji you 1300 01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:26,479 Speaker 1: know with your eyes with the ones with the eyes buck, 1301 01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 1: that's my face right now. Nobody fault Southwestern detected work Carlin, 1302 01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:37,360 Speaker 1: that that you needed it? All right, we'll be back. 1303 01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:44,519 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1304 01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:49,679 Speaker 1: here we are breakup stories. We've spent the better part 1305 01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:52,800 Speaker 1: of this hour talking about breakup stories. All right. So 1306 01:26:53,080 --> 01:26:55,200 Speaker 1: and why are we doing this? I don't know. Oh yeah, 1307 01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:58,000 Speaker 1: because we found this story about how people leave They 1308 01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:02,200 Speaker 1: just trying to get trying to get closure all that. Okay, 1309 01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:05,719 Speaker 1: So so my girlfriend and I were dating these guys, 1310 01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:08,840 Speaker 1: and so we decided to cook dinner. Mostly of course, 1311 01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:11,439 Speaker 1: she handled that, you know, I know, you at the table, 1312 01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:15,080 Speaker 1: at the table and all that stuff, you know, right, 1313 01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:21,320 Speaker 1: look at the she was dating this guy she had 1314 01:27:21,400 --> 01:27:24,680 Speaker 1: just met, and I was dating someone that I had 1315 01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:28,040 Speaker 1: just started dating. But what I didn't tell him is 1316 01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:30,840 Speaker 1: that I was also dating this other guy. You was 1317 01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:34,200 Speaker 1: dating two people. I was, Yeah, I was dating another person, 1318 01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:37,720 Speaker 1: but I didn't really like him though. I didn't like 1319 01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:40,000 Speaker 1: him like that. I didn't like him like that. But 1320 01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:42,200 Speaker 1: every day he would come over my house. He would 1321 01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:45,680 Speaker 1: bring me beautiful roses, beautiful flowers, all of us. He 1322 01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:48,120 Speaker 1: was a nice guy, but you know how you know, 1323 01:27:48,240 --> 01:27:51,400 Speaker 1: sometimes you don't like him. So the night came, it 1324 01:27:51,520 --> 01:28:01,519 Speaker 1: was I just say, he was a sweetheart. So we 1325 01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:04,080 Speaker 1: had our other guys came over. We were, you know, 1326 01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:06,120 Speaker 1: having dinner. We're gonna have dinner at my house, so 1327 01:28:06,400 --> 01:28:08,599 Speaker 1: they came over. We were in the kitchen preparing everything. 1328 01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:12,639 Speaker 1: All of a sudden, there was my doorbell, right yeah, 1329 01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:16,479 Speaker 1: my doorbell ring. This is a true story. And for 1330 01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:18,599 Speaker 1: some reason I just got a lump in my throat 1331 01:28:18,640 --> 01:28:21,200 Speaker 1: because I didn't know who it was. So I went 1332 01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:23,040 Speaker 1: to the door. No, I told my friend, I said, 1333 01:28:23,080 --> 01:28:24,880 Speaker 1: go to the door and see who that is. So 1334 01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:28,479 Speaker 1: she went to the door. It was him, my brother. 1335 01:28:31,040 --> 01:28:33,000 Speaker 1: So she looked at the people hole. There he was 1336 01:28:33,120 --> 01:28:38,439 Speaker 1: standing with a beautiful, beautiful guest, beautiful like me. So 1337 01:28:39,439 --> 01:28:43,519 Speaker 1: so she was like, surely it's so, I said really, 1338 01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:52,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, I didn't say yeah. So I guess he 1339 01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:54,240 Speaker 1: kind of heard us in there, so he knew we 1340 01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:56,600 Speaker 1: were in there. So he rang the doorbell again, and 1341 01:28:56,680 --> 01:29:02,000 Speaker 1: he kept ringing the doorbell. So yeah, so we were 1342 01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:03,600 Speaker 1: in there. Oh my god, what are we gonna do? 1343 01:29:03,960 --> 01:29:07,680 Speaker 1: So so the guys that we were dating, we were 1344 01:29:07,680 --> 01:29:10,720 Speaker 1: getting ready to eat dinner. He just kept reading, Yeah, 1345 01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:13,439 Speaker 1: they're in there. He just don't Yeah, they hear it. 1346 01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:15,760 Speaker 1: So I had to tell him, okay, this is a 1347 01:29:15,800 --> 01:29:17,479 Speaker 1: guy I'm dating, but I don't really want it. So 1348 01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:20,400 Speaker 1: he got up, went to the door, opened the door, 1349 01:29:20,600 --> 01:29:24,360 Speaker 1: and they had and they got into it outside. Yeah 1350 01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:28,880 Speaker 1: they did. They got I know it was you could 1351 01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:31,320 Speaker 1: have that could have been a boy. I had to 1352 01:29:31,360 --> 01:29:36,800 Speaker 1: set the table. Yeah, I was busy. We were getting 1353 01:29:36,800 --> 01:29:41,479 Speaker 1: ready to eat. The plane deal with that. Yeah, So 1354 01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:44,040 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, they got into they didn't fight, fight, 1355 01:29:44,120 --> 01:29:48,240 Speaker 1: but there it was words, exchange, what you do? What 1356 01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:55,800 Speaker 1: it was an ugly breakup was Yeah, he did take 1357 01:29:55,840 --> 01:30:02,840 Speaker 1: a fa You know, I'm always about the right, so yeah, yeah, yeah, 1358 01:30:02,920 --> 01:30:04,720 Speaker 1: we talked the next day. It was it was a 1359 01:30:04,800 --> 01:30:06,680 Speaker 1: bad break Can I just say it was a bad 1360 01:30:06,760 --> 01:30:09,080 Speaker 1: break This is not really a breakup story. This is 1361 01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:11,639 Speaker 1: a way you've dogged a man out at the door 1362 01:30:11,840 --> 01:30:21,080 Speaker 1: story Roses. Yeah, I'm sorry, I haven't already our last 1363 01:30:21,160 --> 01:30:31,599 Speaker 1: break break. You're not gonna do any closing remarks. All right, 1364 01:30:31,680 --> 01:30:33,680 Speaker 1: Well we'll be back, and we'll come back with part 1365 01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:37,000 Speaker 1: two of Carlo's breakup story. You're listening to the Steve 1366 01:30:37,520 --> 01:30:40,360 Speaker 1: Morning Show. I want to say, this guy's right up 1367 01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:43,200 Speaker 1: the beat. I appreciate you three guys judging me like 1368 01:30:43,320 --> 01:30:47,080 Speaker 1: you're judging me. Okay, all right, yeah about our breakup stories. 1369 01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:49,000 Speaker 1: We all have breakup stories. They don't all have to 1370 01:30:49,040 --> 01:30:52,719 Speaker 1: be good. That was mine. I've changed really a breakup story. 1371 01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:55,200 Speaker 1: It was that was a break We did break up 1372 01:30:55,240 --> 01:31:03,080 Speaker 1: after that at the door with the flowers. Yeah, we 1373 01:31:03,200 --> 01:31:05,120 Speaker 1: broke up after that. But carl you were in the 1374 01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:08,320 Speaker 1: middle of your story. All right, So here's the breakup story. 1375 01:31:08,360 --> 01:31:10,400 Speaker 1: I was on. I was in college and I had 1376 01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:14,559 Speaker 1: my boyfriend's car having a round boyfriend's car riding on campus. 1377 01:31:14,600 --> 01:31:17,519 Speaker 1: I was stunting. You couldn't tell me nothing car. My 1378 01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:20,439 Speaker 1: girl was with me and this this young lady was 1379 01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:23,080 Speaker 1: one of Tommy's friends. To rest in peace. She's no 1380 01:31:23,160 --> 01:31:25,040 Speaker 1: longer with us. The name was Suavett, but that was 1381 01:31:25,160 --> 01:31:27,880 Speaker 1: my girl. So we were having around on campus. So 1382 01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:30,719 Speaker 1: I had to drop suave had off to her dorm 1383 01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:33,720 Speaker 1: and then I would go to my dorm. So I 1384 01:31:34,000 --> 01:31:37,400 Speaker 1: pulled up. That's what she dug down in the car, 1385 01:31:37,560 --> 01:31:40,200 Speaker 1: tender lights off. She said, hate that your boy right 1386 01:31:40,240 --> 01:31:44,599 Speaker 1: there right there hugging out girl. And I said, girl, yeah, 1387 01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:47,120 Speaker 1: that's him. And so she said, so what you want 1388 01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:52,720 Speaker 1: to do? Now that's who you want with? Oh, yeah, 1389 01:31:52,760 --> 01:32:00,599 Speaker 1: that's who you want. She said it was right, okay, 1390 01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:06,240 Speaker 1: put the carm part open the doors quietly. Was he 1391 01:32:06,840 --> 01:32:08,640 Speaker 1: all up in her face with it? Oh? He was 1392 01:32:08,720 --> 01:32:13,920 Speaker 1: kissing her everything, everything, It was everything Jay so said, 1393 01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:16,640 Speaker 1: so what's up? So he turned around. He was like, 1394 01:32:16,920 --> 01:32:20,200 Speaker 1: what what's up? What are your girl right there behind me? 1395 01:32:20,360 --> 01:32:22,600 Speaker 1: So swave that moved to the side. So I was 1396 01:32:22,680 --> 01:32:25,200 Speaker 1: standing right there and saw that was like, handle that 1397 01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:30,360 Speaker 1: right there. So I said, well, who is she? I said, 1398 01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:33,080 Speaker 1: what's going on here? And he was like, nothing's going on. 1399 01:32:33,479 --> 01:32:35,040 Speaker 1: So then the girl was like, well who is she? 1400 01:32:35,560 --> 01:32:38,479 Speaker 1: Who are you? Right? Right right? Meaning? Who am I? 1401 01:32:39,000 --> 01:32:42,479 Speaker 1: So I'm I'm his girl? And then she said I'm 1402 01:32:42,600 --> 01:32:45,760 Speaker 1: his girl. Here we go, here we go, keep going 1403 01:32:47,320 --> 01:32:51,639 Speaker 1: standing there with folded Wait did you hear what? Jay said? Carla? 1404 01:32:51,960 --> 01:32:56,880 Speaker 1: What did you say? Jack? What couldn't both you talk 1405 01:32:56,960 --> 01:33:01,439 Speaker 1: about me? Go ahead? You mean lady at the door. 1406 01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:08,120 Speaker 1: I didn't go to the door, remember, So anyway, so 1407 01:33:08,520 --> 01:33:11,759 Speaker 1: long story short, Swab was like, give me the keys, 1408 01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:14,240 Speaker 1: and I said, what you about to do? And she 1409 01:33:14,400 --> 01:33:16,760 Speaker 1: said follow me to the car. He was like, what 1410 01:33:16,840 --> 01:33:20,519 Speaker 1: you're about to do? He running after her? Everybody knew 1411 01:33:20,520 --> 01:33:23,479 Speaker 1: about so I read it after Swaan man, he read 1412 01:33:23,560 --> 01:33:26,120 Speaker 1: it after me? The girl running after him? Holy sh 1413 01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:28,960 Speaker 1: She keep asking who am I? Who am by we 1414 01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:32,000 Speaker 1: get to the car and so Swaven was like, so 1415 01:33:32,720 --> 01:33:35,400 Speaker 1: what's the deal? Are y'all together and y'all not together? 1416 01:33:35,600 --> 01:33:38,080 Speaker 1: So you know, she wanted me to like really confront 1417 01:33:38,160 --> 01:33:41,960 Speaker 1: this guy. So he wouldn't admit to anything. He was like, 1418 01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:44,280 Speaker 1: just give me my keys, just give me my keys. 1419 01:33:44,920 --> 01:33:47,679 Speaker 1: So then she gave me the keys and she looked 1420 01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:50,080 Speaker 1: at me, gave me the knod. So I had the 1421 01:33:50,200 --> 01:33:53,200 Speaker 1: key to the car right and he looked at me. 1422 01:33:53,240 --> 01:34:01,320 Speaker 1: He said, he's been now order an allegedly story that 1423 01:34:01,479 --> 01:34:07,840 Speaker 1: was a young This is where it was. Yeah, this 1424 01:34:08,000 --> 01:34:10,559 Speaker 1: is where it all, you know, cashing you as KK 1425 01:34:10,880 --> 01:34:18,080 Speaker 1: was right. Anyway, he grabbed the key for me, got 1426 01:34:18,200 --> 01:34:20,439 Speaker 1: in the car. She got in the car with them. 1427 01:34:20,560 --> 01:34:23,680 Speaker 1: They drove off and I'm just standing there and left you. 1428 01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:28,800 Speaker 1: He left you standing there. Yeah, he left his car. Yeah, 1429 01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:31,519 Speaker 1: he went back to his dorm. So I saw him 1430 01:34:31,600 --> 01:34:35,160 Speaker 1: the next day, they walking hand in hand. So I 1431 01:34:35,280 --> 01:34:37,160 Speaker 1: went up to both of them and he was like, 1432 01:34:37,479 --> 01:34:41,280 Speaker 1: you know, it's over. I quit you yesterday. I hope 1433 01:34:41,320 --> 01:34:49,320 Speaker 1: you said that. Yeah, that was it. That was you, 1434 01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:59,960 Speaker 1: junior boy. It's the priv first time I got called. 1435 01:35:00,160 --> 01:35:02,960 Speaker 1: We're talking about breakup story. First time I got call. 1436 01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:06,880 Speaker 1: Cheating the first time, trying to cheat. Now cheating, I'm 1437 01:35:06,920 --> 01:35:12,360 Speaker 1: trying to I'm talking all yeah, that's what happens. So 1438 01:35:12,400 --> 01:35:14,160 Speaker 1: once I did that, well, I'm in the park a 1439 01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:17,720 Speaker 1: lot of the comedy club and my recognizable car. I 1440 01:35:17,840 --> 01:35:21,360 Speaker 1: didn't shuck everybody at the comedy club. No, I'm driving 1441 01:35:21,439 --> 01:35:25,040 Speaker 1: the Blue Cavalier. It ain't like I got to hide 1442 01:35:25,200 --> 01:35:29,560 Speaker 1: this blue Cavalier. Everybody knows the two dogs. Blue Cavalier 1443 01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:33,639 Speaker 1: belongs to Junior. It's not a problem. It ain't getting well. 1444 01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:36,320 Speaker 1: I'm not in the Blue Cavalier. And rain got another 1445 01:35:36,400 --> 01:35:41,200 Speaker 1: cheek in the car with me in the Blue Cathni kissing. 1446 01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:46,360 Speaker 1: I hear a tap on the door. I cain't see 1447 01:35:46,360 --> 01:35:49,800 Speaker 1: because it's raining. I cracked the window too far. You 1448 01:35:50,760 --> 01:35:52,719 Speaker 1: like a cracking just to your ask, No, I wrote 1449 01:35:52,760 --> 01:35:56,760 Speaker 1: it down to the should the leap? Yeah? So did 1450 01:35:56,800 --> 01:35:59,120 Speaker 1: she see the girl over that? She dove in the car? 1451 01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:02,599 Speaker 1: About ever been shown through the window trying to get 1452 01:36:02,680 --> 01:36:07,080 Speaker 1: snatched in a little cavern lit And the girl I 1453 01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:10,400 Speaker 1: was kissing didn't even help. I was I was offended. 1454 01:36:10,760 --> 01:36:13,599 Speaker 1: How do you see how assualted me? I got an 1455 01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:17,280 Speaker 1: umbrella hit. She hit me with umbrellas, scratching me with figuring. 1456 01:36:17,320 --> 01:36:21,240 Speaker 1: Now I haven't cheated. Do you have a show later on? Yeah? 1457 01:36:22,200 --> 01:36:24,599 Speaker 1: With that Timmy tea. Then let you do it, though, 1458 01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:27,479 Speaker 1: Could you do your show that night? No? I gave 1459 01:36:27,600 --> 01:36:29,640 Speaker 1: him back the money because she wasn't leaving because she 1460 01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:32,280 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm killing Timmy is on the north side 1461 01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:34,160 Speaker 1: of the North side of Houston. She's like, I'm killing 1462 01:36:34,360 --> 01:36:37,320 Speaker 1: your life was threatened. Yeah, yeah, and I was scared 1463 01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:39,519 Speaker 1: to us. Damn first time I cheat. I'm gonna get keeps. 1464 01:36:42,160 --> 01:36:45,680 Speaker 1: I need to do better. Then the girl's gonna call 1465 01:36:45,760 --> 01:36:49,479 Speaker 1: me next day. She said, you alright? D you all 1466 01:36:49,560 --> 01:36:52,400 Speaker 1: right now? Alright? He got ice on my face. Why 1467 01:36:52,439 --> 01:36:57,680 Speaker 1: you ain't help escaped within an in my life. And 1468 01:36:57,840 --> 01:36:59,720 Speaker 1: that's why I have to be the way I am 1469 01:36:59,800 --> 01:37:06,639 Speaker 1: to yees a sweetheart, you're still a sweetheart, I learned. Alright, 1470 01:37:06,680 --> 01:37:08,960 Speaker 1: it's time. Hey, in the words of my uncle, I 1471 01:37:09,040 --> 01:37:13,479 Speaker 1: have a wonderful, wonderful weekend. Yeah, on this beautiful Wednesday, 1472 01:37:13,560 --> 01:37:15,240 Speaker 1: I know it's an up day. And that's what got 1473 01:37:15,320 --> 01:37:24,879 Speaker 1: you all in this trouble. For all Steve Harvey contests, 1474 01:37:24,880 --> 01:37:28,080 Speaker 1: no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 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