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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they tell me about. These

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Speaker 1: are the radio blogs on the French like were running

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Speaker 1: in our tireies, except we say them aloud. We call

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Speaker 1: them blogs, Kaylin and take it away.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, dear blog. I just want to start out

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Speaker 2: by just giving a shout out to anyone who has

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Speaker 2: ever been a maid of honor in their entire life,

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Speaker 2: because whoa did I not know what this job entailed

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Speaker 2: and what it does entail. I am in my maid

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Speaker 2: of honor era for the first time ever. I have

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Speaker 2: been many a bridesmaid, but never a maid of honor,

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Speaker 2: and I am now right now for my best friend Laurie,

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Speaker 2: and it is like it's another full time job. And

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Speaker 2: right now we're just working on the Bachelorette, but like

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Speaker 2: we need to figure out stuff for the wedding as well,

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Speaker 2: and I.

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Speaker 1: Just why is it your job?

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Speaker 2: It's the maid of honor's job.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, yeah, are you a wedding planner now?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: And my best friend is a doesn't really love a

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Speaker 2: phone like she does love being responsive on a phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's nice.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't love a deadline. She doesn't love getting things done.

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Speaker 2: So we are you know, I'm I'm fighting for my

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Speaker 2: life a little bit. On top of that, the I

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Speaker 2: didn't know where she wanted to go for her bachelor

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Speaker 2: atte weekend, so that that took us a very long

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Speaker 2: time to land that plane. We have settled on a

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Speaker 2: little town in Maine coastal Maine. Easy to get to,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure easy to get to.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to a really far out place that requires

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Speaker 1: you know, many planes, trains and automobiles, horse and carriage

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Speaker 1: and bucky.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's a time and those.

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Speaker 1: Dogs in the winter that you have to use.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, getting there, Yeah, that is ever getting there.

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Speaker 2: I have never been to Maine. I don't know anything

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Speaker 2: about the East coast anything. So now I could tell

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Speaker 2: you like literally every city on the ocean. I can

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Speaker 2: tell you I know way too much about Maine. But

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Speaker 2: this whole weekend entails. I mean there's like themed nights,

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Speaker 2: there's reservations, there is a chef coming to the house

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Speaker 2: that I have to pick the menu for. There are

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Speaker 2: even the itinerary needs to have like a theme.

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Speaker 1: Sounds affordable. Yeah, that's the difference between bachelorette and bachelor parties.

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Speaker 1: Like bachelor parties are like, yo, we're gonna meet in

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Speaker 1: Vegas on Friday, I don't know, somewhere between noon and

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Speaker 1: ten pm, and I don't know. Maybe we'll get some

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Speaker 1: dinner and then see what happens, and the next day

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Speaker 1: we'll go to the pool. I guess maybe if you

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Speaker 1: wake up in time, and then we'll go to dinner

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Speaker 1: and then we'll leave. That's it, you guys, outfits, we got,

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Speaker 1: you know, matching shirts and hats.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, we're not, Yeah, we're not.

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Speaker 1: We gotta you know, we gotta drag along the sister

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Speaker 1: that you know that no one knows, that doesn't fit

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Speaker 1: in with anybody else. You know what I mean. It's

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Speaker 1: in like green Peace and has to come home from

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Speaker 1: Africa to go you know what I mean? It is

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Speaker 1: all you can if you look at a bachelorette party

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Speaker 1: as I mean an outsider, you can see the people

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Speaker 1: who like knew each other, the core group, and then

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Speaker 1: the people who required to be invited.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and being an empathetic person, I'm I'm having a

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Speaker 2: hard te Like. I know, everyone has different money situations.

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Speaker 2: I know that everyone. You know, some people don't like

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Speaker 2: But I'm proud of myself because I think I'm accomplishing

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Speaker 2: a lot. Like I don't I don't know anything about Maine,

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Speaker 2: but TikTok is the unsung hero, like I have found

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Speaker 2: a really cool biker bar that has like bras hanging

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Speaker 2: from the ceiling. Like, but I'm a I'm an event planner.

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Speaker 2: I think, Yeah, it sounds and it's hard because my

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what though, if that's the way she is,

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Speaker 1: that she can't complain about anything that you choose to do.

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Speaker 2: And she won't.

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Speaker 1: She won't.

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Speaker 2: She's she's great about that. But I want to make

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Speaker 2: of her sisters. They're over her sister to be her

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Speaker 2: maide of honor, so like, I'm taking it very seriously.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, no, if when I had colored hair, I

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Speaker 2: someone else on the street and like we would do

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Speaker 2: ahead nod like you know, you know, or like the

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Speaker 2: jeep wave. I wish there was a way to know

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Speaker 2: if someone else has been a maid of honor.

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Speaker 1: There was a handshake up.

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Speaker 3: From what I understand, Yeah, I've been one, you have, Oh, yes,

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Speaker 3: very rough.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I would love to see if you're friends with the

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Speaker 3: rest of the bridal party by the time the wedding

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Speaker 3: gets here, because it's never the I mean, the bride

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Speaker 3: is her own thing. Yeah, you can take the bride

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Speaker 3: because that's your girl, But it's the other members of

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Speaker 3: the bridal party that are going to make you upset.

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Speaker 3: They're going to access your limits.

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Speaker 1: And there was drama. There was drama within my sister's

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Speaker 1: made the obvious choice. I mean, does she live with

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Speaker 1: I mean, they were inseparable for years. But then there

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Speaker 1: and they were they were they they played nice, but

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Speaker 1: you could, from what I understand, you could tell there

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Speaker 1: was a little division why does she get to be

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Speaker 2: That's so funny When I don't get picked for these roles,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, thank.

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Speaker 1: You, well you have the same now you know why.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't want this. I'll show up and i'll attend.

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Speaker 1: I'll be supportive, but I don't make me plan it.

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Speaker 2: But it's an honor. Yeah, it's stressful. I'm taking it seriously.

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Speaker 2: But for me, if I ever get married, you know,

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Speaker 2: I have mixed feelings. I am having a bachelor party.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, that's what I want, more fit for that.

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Speaker 1: That's what you want for your next wedding, the.

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Speaker 4: Next one, yes, But for mine, I wanted it. I

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Speaker 4: mean I got knocked up, so I couldn't really do much.

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Speaker 4: But if I wanted just like a chill like night

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Speaker 4: was just so chill about it. I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 4: didn't the whole show and pony show. Whatever scene shout

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Speaker 4: out to the max of honor.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I'm getting to a stage

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Speaker 1: are we gonna do if you get married? What could

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Speaker 1: we possibly do in a weekend that we haven't already done? Like,

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Speaker 1: what are we gonna do? Like we've I've known you

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Speaker 1: for twenty years, but it's like all the Shenanigans we've

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Speaker 1: done it like that wouldn't there would be nothing like

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Speaker 1: surprising about any of that.

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Speaker 2: I know, but it's just about spending time.

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Speaker 1: But it's just so much easier for the guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's just no I mean, everything's easier for guys, but

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Speaker 1: there's just there's just none of this. There's none of this.

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Speaker 1: It's hey, are you coming cool? All right? It's you

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Speaker 1: know this day show up?

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Speaker 2: You mean there's not a chef and eight different people

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Speaker 2: have eight different diets. We got a dairy free, we

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Speaker 2: got a gluten free. I'm like, no, but she wants Italian.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna do that.

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Speaker 1: No. The last what I went to, I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: are we doing? I guess we'll figure it out. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. We could do this, we could do that

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Speaker 1: and then we'll just we'll just wake up and decide.

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what we did. We had one thing we

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Speaker 1: was like, you know, we had it booked eleven to six,

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Speaker 1: and it was that. That was it. Otherwise, I love men.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even go to half the stuff because I

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Speaker 1: met a girl on the bachelor party and I was busy.

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Speaker 2: Is that the lady of the interesting lady?

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Speaker 1: I don't remember. I don't know why. I got.

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Speaker 2: A dancer at one point where there was okay, there

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Speaker 2: See that would be like you would be kicked out

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Speaker 2: the wedding for doing something.

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Speaker 1: They didn't care. They're all married. They wanted me to

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Speaker 1: do it. They're like, come back and tell us about it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. All these guys have been with the

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Speaker 1: same woman for ten years. They're like, oh, take pictures,

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Speaker 1: not of you, getting you out of them, but I

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Speaker 1: want to see her. They probably looking at one with

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