WEBVTT - Guest Co-Host Joe Amabile 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:05.280 What's up, guys, and welcome to another episode of Bachelor 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:09.280 Happy Hour. I am so excited today because I have 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:12.760 a great co host, one of my Bachelor Nation favorites. 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:14.480 You guys don't know this because you don't really see 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:17.319 us hanging out together. But we've we've been around each 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:19.799 other a bit, so I'm not gonna let you wait 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:23.279 any longer. Sitting with me in the hot seat, not 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:25.720 really in the hot seat because he's co hosting today. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:30.520 But I've got Joe A Moubley also known as grocery 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:33.599 store Joe or Joe the grocer. Is that what they 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:36.600 say Joe the grocer, Joe the grocer, grocery store Joe 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:43.040 asshole Southern? Now you can actually added that out too, Please, No, 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.239 keep it because I like it. They don't know this 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:48.520 side of the grocery store. No. Yeah, so you send 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:52.519 my last name wonderful? Oh yes, Joe A Mobley is 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.520 how you say a mobley for those who don't know. 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:56.640 Now you know it's a Mobley. I have to ask 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.440 to tell you. They say it really well in Italy 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.320 only been there wants and I can't speak the language 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:07.720 off the top. Do you like the name grocery store Joe. Um, 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:12.360 I mean, there's nothing wrong with it. It doesn't bother me. 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:15.520 It's when I was on tour for Dancing with the 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:17.760 Stars and we did meet and greets, people would walk 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:20.679 up and be like, oh, you're you're grocery right, Like 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:25.400 I have a name, Okay, it's Joe or Joey or Joseph. 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:27.880 But I don't mind that. I mean, it's fine, but 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:30.120 people don't call me that. It's not like you're not 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:32.240 gonna have a conversation with me and be like, grocery 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:33.919 store Joe can grab a water out of the fridge. 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:36.760 So I don't know if it bothered you when like 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.000 people run up to you and they're like, oh, my gosh, 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:42.400 it's grocery store Joe, or because like Joe's a common name, 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:45.200 so it's like which Joe, grocery store Joe. Yeah, No, 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.840 it doesn't bother me. I like give me, I like attention. 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:49.360 So I like when people run up to me and 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:52.160 want to take pictures and stuff, do you really yeah? 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:54.960 Of course who doesn't. It makes you feel great? Ye? 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.040 I feel like that's a girl problem because for me, 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:59.760 I'm like, are my eyebrows done? Or my lash is done, 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.760 hair together. All of those are not together as we speak. 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:05.120 I just want to put that out there. Good. There's 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:08.360 no camera in here. But no for women, were like, wait, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.560 we need angles, we need the camera for like for 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:14.520 you guys, it's totally different. Yeah. No. I For me, 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:17.760 I go to all the like tourists spots on purpose, 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:20.680 and I just like, line up, let's go. Who wants 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:23.239 to take a picture with me? I feel like I'm 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:27.120 learning a whole new Joe right now. That's hilarious. So 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:30.600 where do you go? Where the people behind you? Um? 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:36.600 Anywhere I'm at the girl? No, I'm joking. I mean, 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:39.040 but it doesn't bother me. It really doesn't. People come 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:42.200 people asking for pictures or just want to say what's 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:45.680 up or talk? Bring it on. What's the weirdest thing 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.280 somebody's ever said to you? Have they come up to 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.560 you and like brought you like an apple, like some 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:52.920 grocery Well, I mean that one would be that strange though. 0:02:53.120 --> 0:03:00.480 Somebody somebody just came with an apple you signed? Was 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:03.480 for me? People do that? They ask you to sign 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:08.799 their groceries. No, because they should. They should. I used 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.000 to be a trader and I used to I was 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:13.519 a trader to Chicago board a trade and I was 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:16.480 in the grocery business, so everyone thought I was Trader Joe. 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.040 So I actually DM Trader Joe's I'm like, what's up. 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:21.639 I'm like, you guys want to pay me? Yeah, as 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.760 you should. They never respond it. Take advantage of that. 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:27.800 Try again. They never responded to me. I'm really upset 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.000 about that. But maybe we'll get them as a sponsor 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:32.720 on this podcast and then you know, maybe it could 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:35.640 be your voice. Yeah, it'd be great, that'd be great. 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.320 But what what did you ask me before I went 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.400 on that little tangent of Trader Joes. I don't know. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:42.360 I felt like I wanted to answer it. Oh oh no, 0:03:42.480 --> 0:03:45.400 signing groceries. No, we're else where we what were we 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.760 talking about? You know why I love that you lost 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.680 your thought and you went on a tangent because a 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:52.040 lot of people when they saw you on the screen, 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:55.200 they felt like you didn't have a lot to say, 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.320 or you didn't really talk that much. But I think 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:59.840 i've heard you and Kendall say, or maybe it was 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.760 and Will say interviews that once you start talking, you 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:05.760 don't stop. Case some point on the podcast, well, I 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:07.960 mean here's the thing, though, I was only on screen, 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:11.120 like people, I was on the show for a day, 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:14.280 you know I was. I was on Bachelor for a day, Yes, 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:18.320 and I was only aired for what a minute? In 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:22.040 fifteen seconds max, So that's all people saw. And then 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.159 when I did an interview with Chris Harrison, he said, 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:27.200 you don't talk much because I was nervous, and I 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:29.080 didn't really have much to say because I wasn't on 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:33.760 the goddamn show. So what happened? What happened the first night? 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:37.320 Because obviously we now know you're a fan favorite. You've 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:41.800 gone on to do great things, honestly, signing grocery bags. Honestly, 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:47.200 you're like the example of what all first sniders should achieve. Seriously, 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.120 it's probably never going to happen again, but you use 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.760 with whom a few of the night winners got on Paradise, 0:04:56.520 --> 0:05:01.040 Oh Paradise, but still nobody has reached the leve of 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:04.920 fame after the first night, and they never will, they 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:08.039 truly never will. It will never happen again. But what 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:11.800 happened that first night? Okay? You why why did you 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:13.640 go home? Because people just seem to love you. I 0:05:13.680 --> 0:05:16.880 don't get it, um, that's that's a fair question, and 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:20.080 I'm really looking forward to answering it right now. I 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:24.279 okay for starters, my hair was too short. I wouldn't 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:29.960 do you think that's that's what I'm telling you. Well, 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:32.960 it was I went crazy with with a fade and 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:36.640 it wasn't even however, styled my hair anyways, I don't 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.720 know what I was thinking. Second of all, it's a 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.760 long night, so I ended up I was by the 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.559 end of the night. I was pale. I was tired, 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:46.960 so I didn't really feel or look my best, you know. 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:48.760 My suit was I had a tom Ford suit. I 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:51.159 went and got a tom Fortune Wow. Yeah, yeah, because 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:52.719 I'm like, I'm gonna be on TV, I might as 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:56.520 well do it right the first can't afford it on 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:00.360 four suit there h and m tom for it all 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:03.640 the way. So I get there and everyone was kind 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:04.840 of like, what are you doing on this show? Like 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:08.200 you don't seem like like why are you here? Yeah, 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:09.960 like kind of like what are you doing? And I'm like, honestly, 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:13.160 I don't know, but it just I was approach at 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:15.760 a grocery store that wasn't my grocery store. Yeah, So 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.039 is that okay? So I guess I start from the beginning. 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:22.719 This is fun, all right. So I'm you know, it's October, 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.440 it's a regular day, you know, it's fall in Chicago. 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:29.240 I'm going grocery store shopping, grocery store shopping. I'm buying 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.480 some almond butter or whatever I'm doing. And I'm leaving. 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.160 A lady walks up to me. She's like, hey, are 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:35.680 you single. I'm like, you know, I just and I 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.120 just got a normal haircut and I was feeling good. 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:40.880 I'm like, yeah, I'm like, what's up. She's like, would 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:43.479 you be interested in going on the Bachelor? And she 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:45.400 hands me a card that says the Bachelor. So I'm like, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:50.200 I guess I wouldn't be the Bachelor. Sure, Just let 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:51.919 me just skip all this thing. I didn't know I 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:53.920 swore in my life. I didn't know at the time. 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:56.159 I don't have Instagram, I don't have anything. I'm just, 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:57.920 you know, I'm kind of doing my thing in Chicago. 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:01.279 I have my place, I have my friends, I'm single, 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:04.760 I'm going out, just you know, living life. She's like, 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:06.480 send me an email. So she's like, could you send 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:09.479 like ten pictures? And I have I text some of 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:11.280 my friends to send me photos they have in me. 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:13.960 I come up with eight eight pictures and I send 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.720 them an email. Next thing I know, they fly out 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:20.480 to Chicago. I get cast in. So now I'm out there. 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:23.960 All the producers are cool. Everybody seems to like me. 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.119 I like all them. I'm like, this is this is cool, 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.440 but like, hey, I'm not gonna fall in love on 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:30.920 this show. Yes, we all that's how you should be 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:33.480 open to whatever. Yeah, I'm open. Like if I fall 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:35.960 in love, great, isn't going to happen. I highly doubt it. 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:40.480 I would bet against it. Um, So everything's cool. I 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:45.760 get to the to the hotel that they're sequestering and 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:50.040 sequestering a word sequestering, you know, my word of the 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:52.600 day sequester So they have us as in the hotel 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:55.080 and I'm like, okay, great, you know everything's gonna be good. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.880 We go out there. I Eddie's in my limb, always 0:07:57.920 --> 0:07:59.280 talking to me. It's like, you're good. I'm like, yeah, 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:02.040 I'm good, but I'm not. Now I'm freaking out. I'm 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.880 freaking I feel it. I'm like, this is horrible. I stepped. 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:07.400 He's like, whatever you do, don't talk when you get 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.200 out of the limo, say hello, say your name, but 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:13.800 do it in her face. I opened the limo door. 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:18.080 I start rambling, like you start Italian from Chicago, it's 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:20.760 about time, yeada, YadA, YadA. I walk up to her. 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:24.000 I talk for like two minutes. Then I say, I 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:26.560 forget everything I was gonna say, and she's like, what 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:30.080 you just were talking for two minutes? And then I said, 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:34.240 I said nice to meet you. Oh fuck, and they 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:37.760 actually played it. They bleeped it out and I walked inside. 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:41.240 Now I get inside and I'm looking at these guys 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:43.360 and they're talking and everyone's kind of like I feel 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.679 so bad for Becca, you know, her heart and what 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:48.199 already did, and for me, I'm like this that doesn't 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:50.040 make any sense. I'm like, she's the lead right now, 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:52.679 this is great. Did you know the backstory? Though? I 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.160 know you never watched the show, but did you know 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:59.679 what happened to her? I knew what happened, but the 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:02.640 way I looked at it was like, she's obviously over it. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:05.000 She's the bachelor, she's winning that, yeah, or she's the 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:06.920 bachel threat. So like this is great for her. So 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:09.880 I'm like okay, and I just I was uncomfortable, so 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:13.199 I couldn't really have any conversations. I wasn't comfortable speaking 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:16.079 on camera. UM, so I just kind of just I 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:17.440 was like, all right, I'm just gonna go to the bar. 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:19.640 I'm gonna have a bear, and I'm gonna just kind 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:21.559 of do my own thing. I had the second talk 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:23.760 with her. Oh, he did have a talk with her. Yeah, 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:27.280 one really really bad. What did you talk about? I 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:30.079 was really nervous, and I asked her. I'm like, the 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.679 first thing that comes out of my stupid mouth is 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:36.200 what's your pet? Peeve? It was like my grandma when 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:38.760 I asked that question, what's your pet? Peeve? How I 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.079 thought it? And She's like, I don't know what yours? 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.200 And I'm like, ah, you know when I'm I said, 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:45.600 when I'm blading and this isn't even my pet, Peeve, 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:48.559 I said, when I'm waiting for my luggage at the 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:52.800 airport and somebody stands in front of me. It was 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:56.640 just silent. It was literally silent. I'm like, this couldn't 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:59.520 be going any worse. I would have laughed if I 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:01.400 was at that's right, you said that to me. I 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.480 just yeah, it's I would have known you were nervous, 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:05.520 and I would have been like, okay, just take a beat. Yeah, 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.400 but it would have been better if I my hair 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.880 was a little longer. So that was that was the 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:11.959 final show. Yeah, that was She's like this kid, this 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:14.280 guy is a weirdo and he's got a bad haircut. 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.800 He's gone. So then yes, and then I got you know, 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:19.600 it's eight in the morning, I don't get a rose 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:21.400 on and I remember standing up there, I'm like, I 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:23.680 can't believe I'm one of these guys because I remember 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:25.959 like seeing the show when I was a kid and 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:29.240 like being like home to get eliminated that first night, 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:32.440 nothing could be worse than that, and nothing was. I mean, 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:34.599 it was horrible, you know it was. It was like 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:37.719 I was like, I'm I'm this guy right now, Like 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:39.400 I have to go back to Chicago and tell my 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:41.600 friends I came out on this reality show to find 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.240 love and get eliminated the first night. Explain that to people, 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:47.719 because I think everybody everybody looks at it as I know, 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:49.439 you're all like, I don't want to be the one 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.199 to go home that night. But explain, because there's so 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:55.240 much that goes into getting ready for the first night. 0:10:55.440 --> 0:11:00.640 Then to go home that night, like explain kind of 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:02.480 like the I don't know how much we can get 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:04.760 into the process, but I guess the process. So you 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:06.880 don't get a rose, then what you have to pack 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:09.920 for two and a half months. Yeah, and this the 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:12.839 process has been going on for three or four months. 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:15.839 I didn't want to I was reluctant to do it 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:18.000 from the beginning. And then once you kind of like 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:20.599 you're like, Okay, I'm gonna do this, then you're like 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.319 your whole heart's in it. You're like, I'm doing this. 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:27.200 It's like I'm going on TV and basically exposing myself. 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:30.920 Like here we go. You know. So it's it is 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:34.920 on regardless of what anyone says. Once you're once you 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:38.080 like go through casting and you feel like you're gonna 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.280 get it. It's on your mind every day. You're waking 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:43.040 up like I'm about to go on TV and do 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:47.559 this shit. So it's a lot and then you you know, 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.640 you try to look your best, you try to sound 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:53.079 your best. You know, you're like I don't want to 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:56.960 go home the first night because it's just a now 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:58.240 I'm here, I want to do this. I want to 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:02.559 see what actually could happen, and it's just embarrassing, like 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.520 to get to go home the first night basically, I 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.480 mean like it's like, wow, this even though it's not 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:09.040 that bad if you really think about it. I mean, 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:12.400 thousands of people go through casting, you made the final cut. 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.839 It's really not that bad silver lining, but it does. 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:19.439 It feels it's just like, oh, I can't believe this 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:22.080 is it because when you I know, we're not supposed 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:24.800 to tell anybody, but obviously you tell your family that 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:27.960 you're leaving, you can tell close friends, and so then 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.120 you get kicked off and you're like I have to 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:32.040 go back and tell them that I went home the 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:35.360 first night. Yeah. Yeah. And I was also like I 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:37.880 was out of my group of friends. I was the 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:39.959 guy that was always out. I was the guy, the 0:12:40.040 --> 0:12:41.880 single guy. I was the one that always had fun, 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.400 Like I was just kind of always out there doing 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:48.079 my thing. And now I'm like, oh my god, I 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:52.120 now I feel like I just feel like such a readjack, 0:12:52.240 --> 0:12:55.559 Like this is horrible. But my flight to two pm, 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:57.199 and I want to get out of here sooner, so 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:58.920 I need you guys to switch my flight to ten 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.760 thirty am because it's Patrick's day in Chicago and I'm 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:04.240 going home, going out and getting wasted. You know who 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:07.480 has the second best? Saint Patrick's Day Dallas, Texas. Really Yeah, 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:11.199 I haven't been. I gotta try it. I will. So 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:14.520 I go to Chicago. I wake up, I got all 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:17.360 my suitcases out, and I'm like, Saint Patrick's Day. I 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:18.959 call my friend. It's like nine thirty in the morning. 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:21.719 You're like, meet me at the bar. And I kind 0:13:21.760 --> 0:13:23.240 of like, you know what. I laughed about it, and 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:26.319 I'm like, you know what, I did it? So who cares? 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:30.400 So then, which is the best way to recover? Yeah, 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:33.040 from from getting kicked off to the show. And nobody knows, right, 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:35.400 nobody knows what your close family in France. So then 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:37.439 I walked into and not to cut you off, I 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.480 walked into a bar on Saint Patrick's Day. There was 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:41.439 a line around the block of Chicago is crazy. I 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:42.920 walked up to the girl. I said, listen, I was 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:44.440 just on the bedroom I kicked off the first night. 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:48.079 Let me in the fucking bar over the opened it 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:51.400 up like beautiful, See you were meant to do this. 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:53.880 And you know what else, I'm big on signs and 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.959 you're like I was at a grocery store. When you 0:13:57.040 --> 0:13:58.560 were you were at a grocer store, when your approach 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.480 not your a grocery store, hopefully Yeah, And she asked me, 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:03.480 she goes, she goes, what do you do? I said, 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:05.680 I own a grocery store. She goes this one. I said, 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.280 if I owned this one, we wouldn't be having this conversation. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.520 But yeah, you're in a grocery store. You get approach, 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:14.120 you own a grocery store, you get this whole grocery 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.800 store Joe title. So what a couple of months passes? 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.160 I'm trying to think of the timeline, if even that. Yeah, 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:20.920 about a couple of months, two and a half months, 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:26.360 first night airs, you go home, Then all of a 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:30.320 sudden everything changes for you. Right, did you expect America 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:32.800 to fall in love with you the way that they did? Oh? 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.280 God no? And why do you why do you think? 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:38.160 Because you said you were on TV for what a 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:41.480 minute and fifteen seconds? You already talked about your appearance 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:46.640 with the haircut, But for some reason America chose you 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.800 to fall in love with and to basically riot about, 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.160 like how could grocery store Joe go home? What do 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:57.200 you think it was? There was a few factors had 0:14:57.280 --> 0:15:01.960 to your horn. I've been you know, I've been destroying myself. 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:05.080 Now I'm gonna build myself back up. Um, I am. 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.920 I'm It's hard to say it, but I guess I'm real. 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:14.000 Like I'm going out there and I'm gonna be myself regardless. 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:16.200 I'm not gonna go I'm not gonna play a role. 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:19.600 I'm not gonna do something that is uncomfortable with me, 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:21.680 doesn't sit well. I'm just gonna go there and be myself. 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:24.400 And I think when somebody is actually just who they are, 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:28.800 it's apparent. Um. Second of all, even though I had 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:31.880 a bad haircut, I'm still not you know, I'm still Yes, 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:35.080 you're attractive, say it for you, attractive man, And I 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:38.400 have a I have a good smile, you know, I've smile. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.320 That's always love a smile. You know what else I 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:43.760 think it was you didn't say a lot. You know, 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.720 you are attractive, and I think people were curious about you. 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:51.160 And then you had grocery store Joe attached to it. 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:54.080 So there's this there's this tagline that goes with you. 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:59.640 So curiosity, You're mysterious. People wanted to know more about you. Yeah, 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.520 and then I think, back up, maybe she did an 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.360 interview or something because people were just inquiring about you. 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:07.280 She spoke so highly of you. Well, this is a 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.240 great this is actually a pretty funny story. I guess 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:13.640 I do, Yes, I do. Okay, So they I don't know. 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:16.480 So after all this happens and I get popular. I didn't. 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:18.280 I don't think. My brother's like, dude, you're trending on 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:20.520 Twitter all this stuff. So I'm like, okay, So I'm 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:23.120 getting popular on social media, which I never had social media. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:27.120 They call me and they're gonna cast me on Bachelor 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:29.960 in Paradise. So it's like two days or it's a 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.080 few days before we're going out. Now I didn't know. 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:36.080 They told me literally last minute, Like they told me 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:39.400 on a Friday night and you're leaving Sunday morning. They 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:43.480 tell me Friday night, Saturday, I'm going to Bloomingdale's to 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:49.560 buy swim shorts from Paradise. Literally like okay, I don't 0:16:49.560 --> 0:16:51.640 even have time to get a haircut. So I go. 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:54.560 I don't know why I'm so infatuated with this haircut thing. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:59.840 So I go and get we're driving my friends in. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.040 We're downtown Chicago, so I'm gonna hop out of the 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:05.160 car running the Bloomingdals. As I'm getting out of the car, 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.200 we see Becca walk into Bloomingdals in Chicago. Okay, I 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:12.760 thought that was playing see what I'm saying signs, see 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:15.359 how things are meant to be. So now we're like, 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.840 you have to go say something. So we go fight 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.720 like like creeps. We go fight there and Bloomingdales. I'm like, 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:24.679 what's up? She's like, oh my god. We take a picture. 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:28.440 Then I get Then I start getting my followings, really 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:31.719 starts going out. Then I left for Mexico, and then 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:34.960 I was on Paradise. Okay, Steph, is it just me 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:38.400 or does it seem like every day it's another day 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:42.960 and another workout tool, another tip, another app. I swear 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:45.560 I'm always hearing about a different one. I don't even 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:47.520 know where to start. Me too, I had so many 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:50.040 apps on my iPhone I could not even keep track 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:52.720 of all the new ones. But I started using Noom 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:56.520 and it really takes everything I was using, and it happened. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:58.520 It does it all in this one app. So I 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:01.879 can track my exercise calories, all these things that I 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:04.200 had different apps for, I do it all in this 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:06.720 Neom app. Now that sounds like it has everything I 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:09.240 need right there in that one app. So wait, explain 0:18:09.240 --> 0:18:10.520 it to me because you've been using this for a 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:12.760 few months now, right, Yeah, I've been using in about 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:15.440 two months. It's really I love it so far. So 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:18.560 no food is off limits. That's huge for me because 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.960 if I can't have a bagel on Fridays upstairs we 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:23.960 have free bagels on Fridays, that's an issue for me. 0:18:24.119 --> 0:18:27.320 I have to have my bagel Friday. So it's great 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.960 because it's all in the app. You just put in 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:32.359 what you eat. It's all about moderation and there's this 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:35.440 really great food database so I can track all my 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:39.119 food and it's really organized and it's awesome. Wait, so 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:42.639 you're telling me that no food is off limits nothing? Okay, 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:44.359 this sounds like my kind of app. I don't know 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:46.080 about you, guys, but I'm sold right now. It's just 0:18:46.160 --> 0:18:49.159 off Stephanie telling me her story. So listen, what do 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:51.560 you have to lose? You heard it here from Steph. First, 0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:54.800 you need a visit noom dot com slash bhh to 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:58.399 start your free that's right, guys, free trial today, So 0:18:58.600 --> 0:19:00.840 you really have nothing to lose. Was because it's free. 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:04.440 That's Noom dot com slash BHH. One more time, just 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:07.040 in case you didn't hear me, I said free, you guys, 0:19:07.280 --> 0:19:09.280 it's a free trial, so go to Noom dot com 0:19:09.440 --> 0:19:14.359 slash b HH. So let's pick up from Paradise. Did 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:19.480 you have your eyes set on anyone? Because you said 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:21.600 you're like me, we didn't really watch the show before, 0:19:21.680 --> 0:19:23.840 so I imagine you didn't know too many people coming 0:19:23.880 --> 0:19:29.359 into Paradise. Well, were you looking for Kendall or were 0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:31.480 you just like whatever? I was trying to make it 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:33.520 past the first night. Yeah, I just didn't want to 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:36.560 get eliminated the first the first night, I wasn't looking 0:19:36.680 --> 0:19:42.840 for Kendall. She was the only one I was into. 0:19:43.000 --> 0:19:45.840 Once I was there, and everyone that came in, like 0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:48.320