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Speaker 1: What's up, guys, and welcome to another episode of Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour. I am so excited today because I have

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Speaker 1: a great co host, one of my Bachelor Nation favorites.

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Speaker 1: You guys don't know this because you don't really see

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Speaker 1: us hanging out together. But we've we've been around each

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Speaker 1: other a bit, so I'm not gonna let you wait

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Speaker 1: any longer. Sitting with me in the hot seat, not

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Speaker 1: really in the hot seat because he's co hosting today.

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Speaker 1: But I've got Joe A Moubley also known as grocery

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Speaker 1: store Joe or Joe the grocer. Is that what they

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Speaker 1: say Joe the grocer, Joe the grocer, grocery store Joe

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Speaker 1: asshole Southern? Now you can actually added that out too, Please, No,

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Speaker 1: keep it because I like it. They don't know this

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Speaker 1: side of the grocery store. No. Yeah, so you send

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Speaker 1: my last name wonderful? Oh yes, Joe A Mobley is

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Speaker 1: how you say a mobley for those who don't know.

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Speaker 1: Now you know it's a Mobley. I have to ask

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Speaker 1: to tell you. They say it really well in Italy

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Speaker 1: only been there wants and I can't speak the language

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Speaker 1: off the top. Do you like the name grocery store Joe. Um,

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's nothing wrong with it. It doesn't bother me.

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Speaker 1: It's when I was on tour for Dancing with the

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Speaker 1: Stars and we did meet and greets, people would walk

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Speaker 1: up and be like, oh, you're you're grocery right, Like

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Speaker 1: I have a name, Okay, it's Joe or Joey or Joseph.

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Speaker 1: But I don't mind that. I mean, it's fine, but

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Speaker 1: people don't call me that. It's not like you're not

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Speaker 1: gonna have a conversation with me and be like, grocery

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Speaker 1: store Joe can grab a water out of the fridge.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know if it bothered you when like

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Speaker 1: people run up to you and they're like, oh, my gosh,

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Speaker 1: it's grocery store Joe, or because like Joe's a common name,

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Speaker 1: so it's like which Joe, grocery store Joe. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't bother me. I like give me, I like attention.

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Speaker 1: So I like when people run up to me and

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Speaker 1: want to take pictures and stuff, do you really yeah?

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Speaker 1: Of course who doesn't. It makes you feel great? Ye?

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a girl problem because for me,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, are my eyebrows done? Or my lash is done,

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Speaker 1: hair together. All of those are not together as we speak.

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Speaker 1: I just want to put that out there. Good. There's

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Speaker 1: no camera in here. But no for women, were like, wait,

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Speaker 1: we need angles, we need the camera for like for

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Speaker 1: you guys, it's totally different. Yeah. No. I For me,

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Speaker 1: I go to all the like tourists spots on purpose,

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Speaker 1: and I just like, line up, let's go. Who wants

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Speaker 1: to take a picture with me? I feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: learning a whole new Joe right now. That's hilarious. So

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Speaker 1: where do you go? Where the people behind you? Um?

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Speaker 1: Anywhere I'm at the girl? No, I'm joking. I mean,

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Speaker 1: but it doesn't bother me. It really doesn't. People come

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Speaker 1: people asking for pictures or just want to say what's

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Speaker 1: up or talk? Bring it on. What's the weirdest thing

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Speaker 1: somebody's ever said to you? Have they come up to

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Speaker 1: you and like brought you like an apple, like some

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Speaker 1: grocery Well, I mean that one would be that strange though.

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Speaker 1: Somebody somebody just came with an apple you signed? Was

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Speaker 1: for me? People do that? They ask you to sign

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Speaker 1: their groceries. No, because they should. They should. I used

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Speaker 1: to be a trader and I used to I was

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Speaker 1: a trader to Chicago board a trade and I was

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Speaker 1: in the grocery business, so everyone thought I was Trader Joe.

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Speaker 1: So I actually DM Trader Joe's I'm like, what's up.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you guys want to pay me? Yeah, as

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Speaker 1: you should. They never respond it. Take advantage of that.

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Speaker 1: Try again. They never responded to me. I'm really upset

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Speaker 1: about that. But maybe we'll get them as a sponsor

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Speaker 1: on this podcast and then you know, maybe it could

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Speaker 1: be your voice. Yeah, it'd be great, that'd be great.

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Speaker 1: But what what did you ask me before I went

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Speaker 1: on that little tangent of Trader Joes. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I felt like I wanted to answer it. Oh oh no,

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Speaker 1: signing groceries. No, we're else where we what were we

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Speaker 1: talking about? You know why I love that you lost

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Speaker 1: your thought and you went on a tangent because a

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Speaker 1: lot of people when they saw you on the screen,

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Speaker 1: they felt like you didn't have a lot to say,

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Speaker 1: or you didn't really talk that much. But I think

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Speaker 1: i've heard you and Kendall say, or maybe it was

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Speaker 1: don't stop. Case some point on the podcast, well, I

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Speaker 1: mean here's the thing, though, I was only on screen,

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Speaker 1: like people, I was on the show for a day,

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Speaker 1: you know I was. I was on Bachelor for a day, Yes,

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Speaker 1: and I was only aired for what a minute? In

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Speaker 1: when I did an interview with Chris Harrison, he said,

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Speaker 1: the goddamn show. So what happened? What happened the first night?

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Speaker 1: Because obviously we now know you're a fan favorite. You've

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Speaker 1: gone on to do great things, honestly, signing grocery bags. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: you're like the example of what all first sniders should achieve. Seriously,

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Speaker 1: it's probably never going to happen again, but you use

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Speaker 1: with whom a few of the night winners got on Paradise,

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Speaker 1: Oh Paradise, but still nobody has reached the leve of

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Speaker 1: fame after the first night, and they never will, they

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Speaker 1: truly never will. It will never happen again. But what

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Speaker 1: happened that first night? Okay? You why why did you

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Speaker 1: go home? Because people just seem to love you. I

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Speaker 1: don't get it, um, that's that's a fair question, and

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Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to answering it right now. I

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Speaker 1: okay for starters, my hair was too short. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: do you think that's that's what I'm telling you. Well,

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Speaker 1: it was I went crazy with with a fade and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't even however, styled my hair anyways, I don't

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Speaker 1: know what I was thinking. Second of all, it's a

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Speaker 1: long night, so I ended up I was by the

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Speaker 1: end of the night. I was pale. I was tired,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't really feel or look my best, you know.

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Speaker 1: My suit was I had a tom Ford suit. I

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Speaker 1: went and got a tom Fortune Wow. Yeah, yeah, because

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna be on TV, I might as

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Speaker 1: the way. So I get there and everyone was kind

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Speaker 1: you don't seem like like why are you here? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like kind of like what are you doing? And I'm like, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it just I was approach at

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Speaker 1: a grocery store that wasn't my grocery store. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: is that okay? So I guess I start from the beginning.

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Speaker 1: This is fun, all right. So I'm you know, it's October,

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Speaker 1: it's a regular day, you know, it's fall in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: I'm going grocery store shopping, grocery store shopping. I'm buying

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Speaker 1: some almond butter or whatever I'm doing. And I'm leaving.

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Speaker 1: A lady walks up to me. She's like, hey, are

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm like, what's up. She's like, would

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Speaker 1: you be interested in going on the Bachelor? And she

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Speaker 1: hands me a card that says the Bachelor. So I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I guess I wouldn't be the Bachelor. Sure, Just let

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Speaker 1: me just skip all this thing. I didn't know I

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Speaker 1: swore in my life. I didn't know at the time.

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Speaker 1: I don't have Instagram, I don't have anything. I'm just,

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Speaker 1: I have my place, I have my friends, I'm single,

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Speaker 1: I'm going out, just you know, living life. She's like,

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Speaker 1: send me an email. So she's like, could you send

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Speaker 1: like ten pictures? And I have I text some of

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Speaker 1: I come up with eight eight pictures and I send

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Speaker 1: them an email. Next thing I know, they fly out

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Speaker 1: to Chicago. I get cast in. So now I'm out there.

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Speaker 1: All the producers are cool. Everybody seems to like me.

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Speaker 1: I like all them. I'm like, this is this is cool,

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Speaker 1: but like, hey, I'm not gonna fall in love on

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Speaker 1: this show. Yes, we all that's how you should be

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Speaker 1: open to whatever. Yeah, I'm open. Like if I fall

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Speaker 1: in love, great, isn't going to happen. I highly doubt it.

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Speaker 1: I would bet against it. Um, So everything's cool. I

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Speaker 1: We go out there. I Eddie's in my limb, always

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Speaker 1: talking to me. It's like, you're good. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: He's like, whatever you do, don't talk when you get

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Speaker 1: about time, yeada, YadA, YadA. I walk up to her.

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Speaker 1: this is great. Did you know the backstory? Though? I

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Speaker 1: She's the bachelor, she's winning that, yeah, or she's the

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a bear, and I'm gonna just kind

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Speaker 1: of do my own thing. I had the second talk

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Speaker 1: with her. Oh, he did have a talk with her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: one really really bad. What did you talk about? I

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Speaker 1: was really nervous, and I asked her. I'm like, the

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Speaker 1: what's your pet? Peeve? It was like my grandma when

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Speaker 1: I asked that question, what's your pet? Peeve? How I

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Speaker 1: thought it? And She's like, I don't know what yours?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, ah, you know when I'm I said,

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Speaker 1: when I'm blading and this isn't even my pet, Peeve,

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Speaker 1: I said, when I'm waiting for my luggage at the

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Speaker 1: just yeah, it's I would have known you were nervous,

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Speaker 1: and I would have been like, okay, just take a beat. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it would have been better if I my hair

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Speaker 1: final show. Yeah, that was She's like this kid, this

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Speaker 1: slash b HH. So let's pick up from Paradise. Did

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Speaker 1: with each other. It's interesting that you say you weren't

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00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 1: that strong, because watching it as a viewer, you guys

421
00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 1: seem to be one of these strongest couples there. Yeah,

422
00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 1: interesting to hear you say that, well, because we're strong

423
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:50,160
Speaker 1: there and we're getting to know each other. But if

424
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 1: I go back to Chicago and she goes back to LA,

425
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 1: we're not gonna like, I don't want to do a

426
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 1: long discer relationship, and neither that she and it was

427
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 1: it wasn't like that, like I wasn't like, Okay, I'm

428
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:08,159
Speaker 1: committed to you, and vice versa. So what ends up

429
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:09,680
Speaker 1: happening is we get off the show and then I'm like,

430
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 1: I actually now, once I got home, I'm like, oh,

431
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:17,639
Speaker 1: maybe I actually did have really you know, maybe I'm

432
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,960
Speaker 1: really into her, like I kind of miss her. And

433
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 1: then we decided like, okay, let's actually try this, so

434
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 1: we try it. I ended up getting casted on Dancing

435
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: with the Stars. That made it easier. It put me

436
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 1: in LA and we've basically been living together ever since.

437
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,879
Speaker 1: See the signs get casted brings you to LA. You

438
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 1: don't even have to try. It was almost effortless. Things

439
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 1: just happened for you, for you guys to be together.

440
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 1: So what's life like for you now away from the camera.

441
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 1: You're living in LA, You're doing your thing, you got

442
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: a place together. Yeah, life now. So we Kendla and

443
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 1: I lived together in West Hollywood and it's it's great.

444
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: I mean, we just were with each other. I never

445
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 1: thought I could be with a significant other for as

446
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: long as I'm with Kendall, like you know, during the day,

447
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: but she is, you know, every day she surprises me.

448
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 1: She's just a very interesting human and human I don't

449
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 1: know why I said that, because she's just she's just

450
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 1: you know, she just I just enjoy being with her

451
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 1: every day and it's just it's great. And then I

452
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: do I have a clothing line now that I started.

453
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 1: It's called Frown Clothing and we partnered with Smile Train.

454
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 1: I did that with Alan Burston, who's down Dancing with

455
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 1: the Stars. I have a lot of Dancing with the

456
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:36,200
Speaker 1: Stars friends here, so we all hang out. Um, I

457
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 1: was by vals last night and we were playing video

458
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: games and watching football. So that's that was like a

459
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: really great experience for you. Yeah, that was a great experience.

460
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 1: And Kendall Kendall has her podcast, so she's doing her

461
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: thing and we just we're living a regular life. Does

462
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 1: Kendall still practice taxidermy? Does Kendall still Kendall actually bought

463
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: another piece of taxidermy yesterday and she put it in

464
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: the house and she told me this morning, can you

465
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:09,479
Speaker 1: find the new taxidermy? So that was the thing that, um,

466
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: I forget. I think it's I think it's a bird. Yeah,

467
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: y'all have I hate Bird's dead or alive? Are all that?

468
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: All that? And stuff? I hate them both. I do

469
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 1: plan on stuff and Copper, who is in the studio

470
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: with us today, I do play as I'll need to

471
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: consult with Kendall, Like like, you just put me on

472
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: a plane for six hours. Now you're talking about stuff

473
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: and me will be together forever. I told you we're

474
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: too close. That's funny. So I love the way you

475
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 1: talk about your relationship with Kendall because nothing's exaggerated that

476
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 1: you don't sound like you're reading a script. You're just like,

477
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: she surprises me every day and I just enjoy being

478
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: around her. Just that simple. That's how it should be.

479
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: That's exactly how I would describe the relationship with Brian.

480
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: You know, it's it's effortless. We don't even have to try. Yeah,

481
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: I think that was the biggest thing because I never

482
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: really had a serious relationship and I always felt like

483
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: if I can hang out with her the next day

484
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: and just be you know, if it's a friendship, that's

485
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 1: what I'm looking for, because that's what it's really all about.

486
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: Do you ever sit back, because this is I do

487
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: this with Brian still and we're two plus years, two

488
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: years in at this point, do you ever sit back

489
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: and you're like, I cannot believe I met this person

490
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: on a reality TV show. Great question, Not really only when,

491
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: like when we go do bachelor things, like when we

492
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 1: went to Paradise for the wedding Kristen Crystal's wedding, it

493
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe we met on this show,

494
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: you know, because you were probably looking around like look

495
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: at these people. Yeah yeah, I know you look at everyone,

496
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 1: look at these people. And we met and we made

497
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: it out of this. We survived this. That's how That's

498
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 1: how I think of it. It's just it's crazy. It

499
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: is lightning in a bottle. Yeah, it's you know, you

500
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: look at you look at the contestants and batter Nation,

501
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: and you know they're all different. But it's hard to

502
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: be successful outside of all of this because the odds

503
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 1: really are against you. You know, you're you're dating in public.

504
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: You're dating in public, especially when you when you're popular

505
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: off the show. You know, you have everyone's trying to,

506
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 1: you know, meet you or date you or not everyone.

507
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: I take that back, not everyone, but you are, all

508
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 1: of a sudden, you have like this, it's not fame,

509
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: but you have this popularity that you didn't have before,

510
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 1: like no one did, and so like all of a sudden,

511
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: you're like, you know, I was going on a show

512
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 1: looking for love and now it's like you you could

513
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: date so many different people like you could do that,

514
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: But for me, that's just not what I wanted. I

515
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 1: actually believe it or not. Was kind of there for

516
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: the right reasons, which was too fine love and I

517
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 1: didn't even know that at the time. Yeah, I mean,

518
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: I think that's why it worked. I always say, it's

519
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: the people who come in and are like, I'm going

520
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: to meet my husband or my wife. That's not realistic.

521
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: I think you just have to be open to whatever

522
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 1: can happen and just see how it goes and take

523
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: it day by day. Those are the most successful couples.

524
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: Do you hang out a lot with Batchelor Nation people?

525
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: I hang out with Not a lot. I don't. Jason

526
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 1: was just in town. I hung out with Jason. I

527
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 1: really like Jason and Kaitlin. I've hung out with like

528
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 1: the guys that live in LA like Nick and Jared.

529
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: I've hung out with them a few times, you know,

530
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 1: watch football, but for the most part, not a lot.

531
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 1: Now I don't either, Yea, And I feel like sometimes

532
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm interested in your thoughts on that you get flak

533
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: from it because for me, I look at and we

534
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: have blake on the podcast and Blake was saying family

535
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, no, no, no, no, it's

536
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 1: not family. It's like a fraternity and a sorority high school. Yeah,

537
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: and all went through this experience together, so we all

538
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: share that. But I don't find the need to be

539
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: friends with every single person that comes out of Bachelnation.

540
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: Friendly okay, of course, friendly with everyone, friendly with everyone, right,

541
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: but friends, No, I just don't think it's realistic. And

542
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: I think sometimes and I'm interested in your thoughts on that,

543
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: because I feel like we think, we think a lot. Yeah,

544
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: we're similar. I don't. I don't feel the need to

545
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: be besties or comment on everybody's post or feel like

546
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: and so sometimes I get looked at as I'm not

547
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: a girls girl. But it's like, I'm very close with

548
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: the girls I was on Nick season with, Yeah, very

549
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: cool with him. And Brian's cool with the guys he

550
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: was on my season with, and they were all at

551
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: the wedding. But I don't feel the need to be

552
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: everybody's best friend. Oh you know what, I hang out

553
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: with Eric a lot. Eric's gray Er. I hang out

554
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: with Eric a lot pretty much. I probably hang out

555
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: with him out of in Bachelination the most um I

556
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: I personally in this can be wrong. I feel like

557
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: people through the term friend around too lightly. I have

558
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: friends that have been my friends since I've been a kid.

559
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: They're people I trust. If I'm ever going to rob

560
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: a bank, that's who I'm robbing it with. That's a

561
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: bad explanation, don't air that. But I I want to

562
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: trust my friends, and I think most of people in

563
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: vater Nation, everyone I've met has been great. They're all nice.

564
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 1: I don't have any issues with them. I would go

565
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: grab a drink with pretty much anyone and then we

566
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: could see if we hit it off and we become friends.

567
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to just say because you were

568
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: on the same show that I was on, that now

569
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: we are really we're a family, because we're not family. Right.

570
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,719
Speaker 1: You wouldn't invite them to your wedding? Yeah? All of them?

571
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. Yeah, I mean I wouldn't invite most of

572
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: them to my wedding, and I wouldn't consider any of

573
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: them family. I would say there's a few. There's a

574
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: handful of people from bachel Nation that I consider friends.

575
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: Everybody else I think it is cool. I like them,

576
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: and I have no problem hanging out with anyone getting

577
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: to know them better. But until I do that, I'm

578
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 1: not going to just be like, yeah, because we're on

579
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: the same show, we're tight, because we're not because we

580
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 1: don't know each other. Yeah, and that's fake. Yeah I'm

581
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: not fake. I'm not either, And I feel like that

582
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 1: sometimes the lines get blurred like that between when it

583
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: comes to fans and how they watch certain things, and

584
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: you look like your stant office or you're just not

585
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: a team player, and it's like, no, you know you

586
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: have friends before the show and those are the people

587
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: like you said you do from a banquet, but you

588
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: are friendly with everybody, but it doesn't mean that you

589
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: have to be best friends. Totally agree on that. So

590
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: since you have just created this own path, your own

591
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: path in regards to what a first Snyder has never

592
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: done before and probably never will do again, in do

593
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: other first Sniders contact you and are like, hey, man,

594
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: you know, how how did you do it? How can

595
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: I get on Dancing with the Stars? I know they do.

596
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: I know they slide in your DMS, so I don't

597
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: really check my DMS. But I really don't love Joe.

598
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: I really don't check my DMS. There are a few people,

599
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: a few contestants from this season reached out to me. Um,

600
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: I don't want you to name names, but did they

601
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: say how did you do it? Did they want advice?

602
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: They they kind of asked, well, they ask for advice,

603
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: which I have no problem getting giving because it is

604
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: confusing once you're on it. Um, that kid, I mean,

605
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: I'll just say his name. That kid that got kicked

606
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: off the first night, Matt McDonald. Oh, but he's on Paradise.

607
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: He was on Paradise. He before he went to Paradise.

608
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: I didn't see it, and then he DM me again

609
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: and then I saw it. But he had asked me,

610
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: you know, for my advice when he went on there,

611
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: but he wasn't asking it for like how do I get,

612
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: you know, casting on Dance the Stars. She's like, do

613
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: you have any advice for me? And I just told him, yeah,

614
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: go out there, have fun and be yourself. Yeah, enjoy it.

615
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: Did you watch him on it? I did? Do you

616
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: think that he was himself? I think that he said

617
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: son of a beasting. He might be my favorite line

618
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: of so from what I watched with him, he seems

619
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: like a really nice guy. He seemed like he kind

620
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: of got caught up a little bit with like he

621
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: kept calling the one girl a supermodel, like I can't

622
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: believe like a date a supermodel, And I think he

623
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: kind of And it seemed like the one other girl

624
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: that he was dating, I'm bad with names. The other

625
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: girl that didn't okay, yeah, it seemed like she was.

626
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: It seemed like she could be into him, and she

627
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: seemed like she's perfect for him, like she's she's very attractive,

628
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: she seemed intelligent. They seem to like each other. And

629
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: I think he might have got caught up a little

630
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: bit in like, oh man, I'm like in the and

631
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: my famous kind of thing, like wow, I could date

632
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: this supermodel. And I think he screwed up personally. Old

633
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: Matt Donald. Is that his name, Matt Matt, I don't know.

634
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: I think it's Matt Donald. He is epitomizes why I

635
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: think the bachelors are not successful as successful as the

636
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: bachelorettes on the show. I always say that the women

637
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: do a better job of saying, you know what, this

638
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: person would work with me in real life. This you

639
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: have to think outside of the bachelor bubble. I think

640
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: the men pick the woman that they couldn't get in

641
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: real life, or the one they fantasize about, or their

642
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: dream girl. And that's when I see what Matt went

643
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: through or Mac whatever it is. Um, when I see

644
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: what he went through, I'm like, that's what people get

645
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,479
Speaker 1: caught up. And he went after that girl and then

646
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: she told him, no, you see me as just a model. No,

647
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: I don't want you. Guys have two brains. You got

648
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 1: to follow the right way, yes, yes, and and oftentimes

649
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: they don't. Right, yea, right, we know. Okay, Hannah's on

650
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars. Is that Wait, you went on

651
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars and then Hannah was right after you.

652
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: There hasn't been anybody in between, right, No, it was

653
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: me and then Hannah. I hear. It's a really rigorous

654
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: like competition. Okay. Dancing with the Stars was one of

655
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: the best experiences of my life. It was great. Dancing

656
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: with the Stars was awesome. I became so Hannah's partner. Now,

657
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: Alan is one of my best friends in la and

658
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: he we have a coldony line together. But you become

659
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: like all the dancers, every celebrity that was on the show,

660
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: the production, everyone is so cool and very friendly, so

661
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: It's just a great experience for me. And then the

662
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: tour was even better. The tour was so much fun.

663
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: Are you required to do the tour? Everybody has to

664
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: do it? No, So I was. I got cast to

665
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: host a tour for four weeks, and the guy following me,

666
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: he was five weeks after me. He got hurt, so

667
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: I stayed on. So I ended up doing it for

668
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: like two months, a little over two months. How far

669
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: did you make it on Dancing with the Stars. Dancing

670
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: with the Stars, I made it to the semifinals and

671
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: had and I got destroyed by the judges every week.

672
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: I do remember that. Yeah, but you were a fan favorite.

673
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: So wait, simi semifinals is top four? Top five? Was good?

674
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,959
Speaker 1: Hey you were doing something right? Yeah, I mean people

675
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 1: were voting. Well, there was a lot of good dancers

676
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: on that show from the beginning of performers, and I

677
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: wasn't good. Like now, I have no problem in minting

678
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: that I was not a good dancer. I was uncomfortable

679
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: and I was never a dancer to begin with. So

680
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 1: I sucked, but I got better do So do you

681
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 1: think you're a good dancer now? Well, I mean I'm

682
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: professionally trained Rachel, Right, I am going to be honest.

683
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,320
Speaker 1: Any club I walk into, for the most part, I

684
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: have more training ninety percent of the people, and you

685
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: also have more pressure. They're expect big things because you

686
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: are professionally trained. So she want to throw that out there.

687
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 1: Professionally trade by Jenna Johnson. So do you still watch

688
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: the show? And I watch it now because yeah, I'm

689
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: friends with most of the dancers. How's Hannah doing, Hannah.

690
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: I think she's doing really really, Hannah's doing great. Yeah,

691
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: from what I've seen, I haven't actually watched it, but

692
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: I've seen her, Yeah, and she's doing well. It seems

693
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: like she's one of the favorites. Yeah, for sure. I

694
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of competition though on her season

695
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: right now, Like there are a lot of good dancers. Yeah.

696
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: So since you have so many friends on Dancing with

697
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: the Stars, it'd be nice if you could just say,

698
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: you know, my friend Rachel would kill this show. You probably, Yeah,

699
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: I will, I'll text someone after the show. I was like, no,

700
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: I want to focus on my relationship and I do

701
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: not regret that decision. But now people are like, how's

702
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: Hannah doing? Would you do it? Yeah? Why would I?

703
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: Not do it. Ye know, it's great you should. You'd

704
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: probably be really I think my time has passed, you know,

705
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: so I just put my energy behind Hannah and support

706
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,280
Speaker 1: her because she's killing it. We've been asking our listeners

707
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: to email us and give us their thoughts and opinions

708
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: about the podcast, the good and the bad, because I

709
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: want to hear both sides. But then at the same

710
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: time just asking us for advice on certain things, and

711
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: I feel like we keep it real. So you'd be

712
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 1: really good at answering some of these emails. So if

713
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 1: you'll stick around, we'll get to them right after the break.

714
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: All right, Joe, let's get into these emails. I haven't

715
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: read them before because I want to give a fresh opinion.

716
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: I want to answer them right off the top of

717
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: my head. You're going to do the same. You haven't

718
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: looked at them either, So here we go, good and

719
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: the bad, remember that, all right. First email comes from

720
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: Jessica V. She says, I'm a big fan of the podcast. Thanks, Jess.

721
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: I really love the interview with Blake. I know you

722
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: guys have talked about this a little on the podcast,

723
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: but I'm curious what it's like after the camera stopped

724
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: rolling on the show. Was there anything you realize was

725
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: different with your partner after filming stopped? And what's the

726
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: hardest part about going from dating on TV to dating

727
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: in the normal world. I feel like we can't answer

728
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: that last question because we're with the people that we

729
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 1: Yeah that unless Joe where you did you date somebody

730
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: in between Batchette and bat and Paradise? No? Okay, I didn't,

731
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 1: all right, So first question that she asked was was

732
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: there anything you realize was different with your partner after

733
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: filming stopped? Okay, I'll answer this, of course, because you

734
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 1: only know this person for a short period of time.

735
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: You only could only know so much about somebody in

736
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 1: two weeks or three weeks, however long it is, and

737
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: then once you actually live with them, you learn so

738
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: many different things and habits. So yeah, yeah, no, no,

739
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: same for me. Um. Interesting when when I said yes

740
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: to Brian, Brian you see watch Brian on my season.

741
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: He was like kind of portrayed as this rico, suave,

742
00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: smooth operators said all the right things and very outgoing,

743
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 1: and in real life he is quiet, he's he's talks

744
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: to me, but in like a big room, he's quiet,

745
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: he's more reserved. He watches and I didn't know that

746
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 1: about him until after the show was over. But I

747
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: definitely say it's it's different, but for the better. You know,

748
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: because there's no camera in your face, you're not having

749
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: trying to I don't want to say perform, but feel

750
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: like you have to say certain things. You can just

751
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: completely be yourself, which some people that's good and some

752
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,439
Speaker 1: people that's bad. For us, it worked out. We can't

753
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: really answer what's the hardest part about what's the hardest

754
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: part about going from dating on TV to dating in

755
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: the normal world. Oh, we can answer that, Okay, right

756
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: for it. Joe dating on TV and dating and there's

757
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 1: no cameras and it's as simple as that. I mean,

758
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: you're not you're not. There's no camera in your face,

759
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 1: and you could be. Everyone's gonna be a little reserved

760
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 1: on camera. Yeah, that's just what it is. So you're

761
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: more open and you talk about more per sal life

762
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: experiences and just more shit about yourself when you're not

763
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: on TV, so you really really get to know someone. Yeah,

764
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 1: if we're talking about the hardest part dating on TV

765
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: in regards to The Bachelor, I'd say when you're on

766
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, Bachelor, atte whatever, you're protected. You're in this

767
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: bubble where you're dating in these set dates and everything

768
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 1: is planned for you, and then you go to the

769
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: normal world and it's completely different. So I think you

770
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: go from fantasy to reality, and that can be hard

771
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: sometimes because it's reality. Yeah, and the food's free on

772
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: the show and it's not in real life. Yeah, all right,

773
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: next email. Okay, Erica emailed in Paradise tajawand I believe

774
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: Tajuan kept telling JPJ not to eat the date food.

775
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:54,479
Speaker 1: What's that about? What's the actual deal with the date food?

776
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: Is it just for looks? Can we answer that? Yeah? Okay,

777
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: I believe the date food is just for looks. I

778
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: don't think they want people to be chewing food on

779
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 1: a date, so I think it's kind of just for looks.

780
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: And then we are well fed. There's a bar there.

781
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: There's a bar that you could eat whenever you want.

782
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: So when you go on a date, it's really just

783
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 1: about talking and getting to know that person, not about

784
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: the food. Absolutely, that's right. I was told America does

785
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: not want to see you eat because people smack they

786
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: talk with food in their mouth. That's not cute. You know,

787
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 1: we're supposed to be put together. I remember on my

788
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: date with Nick, we were eating bignets and they let

789
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: us eat them because we were New Orleans for the Culture,

790
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: and we had powder all over our mouths. We were smacking,

791
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 1: we couldn't talk to each other. It was not pretty.

792
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: And I remember being like, Okay, I get it. Yeah,

793
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: I guess did you go to the famous place in

794
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: New Orleans for those what's it called Kathay Dumont? Yeah,

795
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: I get that right, Yes, you got it right, New

796
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: Orleans Culture got it. But yes, that's a very common

797
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: question we get about the food. It's usually cold when

798
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: it's in front of us. You don't want to eat

799
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 1: it anyway. Yes, it is just for show. And if

800
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: you want to watch people eat, just follow me on

801
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 1: Instagram because that's all I do on my Instagram is

802
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,760
Speaker 1: eat food. There you go. Um, okay, next up, Steph

803
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: s She says, I love the podcast, Thank you very much.

804
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: My question is do you speed up the talking to

805
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 1: fit everything in, because sometimes they're talking so fast you

806
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: really have to listen carefully to catch everything that's actually funny.

807
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: I think I've talked slow when I think I talk

808
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: fast in person, but when I hear it back, I

809
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: think it's slow. Make sure you don't have the speed

810
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: up when you're listening to the podcast. But we definitely

811
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 1: don't talk faster to fit everything in. It is a

812
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: lot of information. We do try to keep it under

813
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: an hour, but nope, we don't. I mean, I'm not

814
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 1: speed talking here, so you'll be the test. Yeah, so

815
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: Steph listening. Hopefully you're listening to this one. And maybe

816
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: maybe I just talk fast. Maybe it is just me.

817
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: I think you talk at a pretty good pace. Okay,

818
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: all right, Magna emailed Rachel. I really didn't like how

819
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,919
Speaker 1: much hate in shade you were throwing at Kaylin during

820
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: the first interview M but thought I would give you

821
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt and listen to part two.

822
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: Kaylin is not great, no doubt, but this perpetual and

823
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: ongoing attack on her is a bad look. Really left

824
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 1: a bad taste in my mouth. Oh, Magna's coming at you, Rachel,

825
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: and I'm glad she did because she's not alone. There've

826
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: been a lot of people who phil I am on

827
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:52,320
Speaker 1: this Kaylin hate train, and I find it so interesting

828
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: because the podcast is called Bachelor happy Hour, so we

829
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 1: talk about the characters with in bachronation. And so we

830
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 1: started this podcast talking about bathroom Paradise. Well, Kaylin was

831
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: a hot topic, and she wasn't the only person I

832
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: talk about. And I will admit, Okay, you got to

833
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 1: say when you're wrong. When I during the Dean interview,

834
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: I do feel like I was a little harsh rather

835
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 1: than I like to deal in logic and facts and reason,

836
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 1: and maybe I was a little bit too opinionated in

837
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: the Dean interview. So I'll own that, but I still

838
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: stand by, you know, my beliefs and how the Kaylin

839
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: and Blake situation panned out, and I do I've always

840
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: said I believe they're both wrong, and I've explained the

841
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: reasons for both. But I think that the whole Kalen

842
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 1: thing is really being blown out of proportion. You know,

843
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: now I'm being accused of not uplifting women, and everyone's

844
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: saying each podcast thereafter has been bashing Kalin and I

845
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 1: continue to bash people on the podcast, and that could

846
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,399
Speaker 1: not be farther from the truth. I mean, we've done

847
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: thirteen episodes and we've had Tasia, Nicole, Hannah Ali. I

848
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 1: can't even think of all the women we've had on

849
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: this show, and I've Christina Demi, and I've not bashed them,

850
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: you know. So I do not agree with the way

851
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: that Kaylin was on the show, but it's not necessarily bashing.

852
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: It's just more talking about what happened. But yeah, I

853
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: could keep going on that, but it's I definitely don't

854
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: hate Kaylin. I just didn't agree with what she did,

855
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: and patch were in Paradise is over at this point,

856
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: so I don't have to really talk about it anymore.

857
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: So don't worry about that. Continue to listen. It's not

858
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: a bash vest it's just a place where we can

859
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: have open discussion. Take that, Magna. No, she just dropped

860
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: the mic on you. Cool. So we've got mema Patty

861
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: on Facebook. I hope I'm saying that right. She asked,

862
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: does Batchel Nation ever go back to work? How come

863
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: everybody's always traveling? That is a great question, Joe, take

864
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: it away. Well, I mean in my case, I don't.

865
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: I can't speak for everyone, but in my case, I

866
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: had to leave my job because I got casting on

867
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: other shows and I danced for eight months out of

868
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: the here, so I didn't really have a choice. But

869
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: you know, you get paid well when you do the

870
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: other shows, and then you have to figure things out

871
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,399
Speaker 1: and once you have a following on Instagram, you could

872
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 1: parlay it into something else. People make a lot of

873
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: money doing ads. I personally don't do too many, but

874
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: people make a lot of money doing ads, and with

875
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 1: that money, it seems like they take it and they

876
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 1: travel and they have a lot of fun. So people

877
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:48,399
Speaker 1: try to enjoy. People enjoy the life after the Bachelor. Yeah,

878
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: I think I every post I post on Instagram, somebody

879
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: asked me, do you still work as a lawyer? Are

880
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: you still an attorney? And it's a legitimate question. I

881
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: get it, and it was I actually don't practice anymore.

882
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: But right after the show, right after Bachelor, I went

883
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: right back to work. Right after Bachelorette, I was still working.

884
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 1: I just stopped working as an attorney in December of

885
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 1: last year. But it doesn't mean that I'm not working.

886
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: It just means my line of work has changed. And

887
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: I think that what people don't realize is you're given

888
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: this platform and this opportunity, and so you take advantage

889
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 1: of that in whatever way that might be. For me.

890
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 1: I've decided to move into TV and radio, among other things.

891
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: And for each other Bachelor contestant, their path is different.

892
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: So it's not that we're not working. It's just, you know,

893
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: your life changes when you do this whole thing. It's

894
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: turned upside down, so you know, use it for what

895
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: you want to. But I I'm going to stop there. Yeah, yeah,

896
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:51,239
Speaker 1: Pamela emailed Hi, Pamela, I would love some insights on

897
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison. What's his role in the storyline. He comes

898
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: off as sincere, but does he really care or is

899
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: it part of production? What's the backstory here? Okay, great question.

900
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: I can only answer from my personal experience. But Chris

901
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: Harrison seems like a great guy. He's you know, you know,

902
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: he's he's just he's a man's man. He's cool. Like

903
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: I get along with Chris Harrison. I don't know him

904
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: too well. I don't know if he really cares. I

905
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: think the people that he is close with he really

906
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: cares about, and the people that he's not close close

907
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: with he probably doesn't really care. But he doesn't you know,

908
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't think he wants to hurt anyone. No, Yeah,

909
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: people come and go on the show, so he can

910
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 1: only get close to so many people. When you're a contestant,

911
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: you're not around Chris Harrison except when he pops out

912
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: to tell you there's a cocktail party, there isn't one,

913
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: or there's a rose ceremony or some other crazy announcement.

914
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,439
Speaker 1: But when you're the lead, you do get to spend

915
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: more time with Chris Harrison, so I can speak to

916
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 1: that point of view or that perspective, and I think

917
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 1: Chris is great. He is a straight shooter, He is direct,

918
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: and I love to be around people that are like that.

919
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: And I will say that Chris definitely does care, because

920
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: I would talk to him a lot off camera, and

921
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: even if whether it was about career or life in general,

922
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 1: or just your world has turned upside down so you're

923
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: confused as to how you're going to navigate this whole thing,

924
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: he is very not just informative, but just really willing

925
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: to listen and to give you advice on how to

926
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 1: move forward after the show, and so I definitely can

927
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: say that he absolutely cares. Next, we have an email

928
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: from Ashby. Ashby says, I'd love to hear more about

929
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: what they think about everything being said of all the

930
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 1: girls in Pete's season. I definitely want to know more

931
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,800
Speaker 1: about how Rachel feels, about what roles social media plays,

932
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: and our perceptions of the cast members even before we

933
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: actually see them on the show, and how that speaks

934
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: about whether they are in it for the right reasons. Well, Ashby,

935
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: I'll say you couldn't be talking to two worse people,

936
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: because I guarantee you Joe has heard nothing about the

937
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: girls in Pete's season. Nothing. I have no clue what

938
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 1: they mean, and I haven't either. I haven't. I know

939
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: they've released the cast members pictures early. I didn't look

940
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: at a single one of them. I just know that

941
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: they do that because honestly, I don't want to I

942
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: don't want to know before I truly want to watch

943
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: it fresh. Even though it's hard to not be spoiled

944
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: these days, I don't want to know. I don't want

945
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 1: to be tainted. I don't want to have preconceived notions

946
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,919
Speaker 1: about these contestants. So I have no idea. I've heard

947
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: inklings about some things, have you, Joe? No? No. I

948
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: have heard that there are some paget girls, which I'm like,

949
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: really didn't that is so l y as people say,

950
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 1: that is so last year? Can we not have another

951
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: Paget Girls storyline. I'm hoping that's not the case. When

952
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 1: you say, Ashby, are people in it for the right reasons,

953
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 1: and you mentioned social media, I'm guessing they're a lot

954
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: of people who maybe aren't employed or maybe have their influencer. No, no, no,

955
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 1: there will be people don't own grocery stores. That's why

956
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 1: people like you too, the right reasons. I want to

957
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: touch on that because let's just call it how it is.

958
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: Nobody really what is the right reason anyways to just

959
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: get married? I mean, no one goes on the show

960
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: for the right real like, everyone has an agenda. I

961
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: don't care what anyone says. That's true. But you could

962
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,399
Speaker 1: actually fall in love on the show, and if you're open,

963
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: if you leave yourself open the falling in love, then

964
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: you're there for the right reasons, even if you kind

965
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: of went there. Like social media is what it is,

966
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 1: Instagram's big. People can make a living off Instagram and

967
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nations. Instagram following is crazy. So I would say

968
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 1: majority of the people that go on the show are

969
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: going on to get popular on Instagram. That doesn't mean

970
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: they're not trying to fall in love, but it means

971
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: they're going to get popular on Instagram and if they

972
00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: fall in love, great, that's my personal opinion, and I

973
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: think and I think you're right, And I think that

974
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 1: that's what's hard as a viewer to watch this show

975
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: right now because you're seeing as they've already released the

976
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: cast members, and you see what they do, and maybe

977
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: you see social media influencer or you've found them on

978
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: social media and you see that their entire feed looks

979
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: like they want to increase their following. That's hard if

980
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,439
Speaker 1: you're a viewer and you're watching this show, because you're like, well,

981
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: are you just on the show? For that reason, I

982
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 1: think it's easier to believe because when you're watching TV.

983
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: I watch reality TV and other shows, and you do

984
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: want to buy into this fantasy. Like I'm a Housewife fan.

985
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: I want to believe that these are the true storylines

986
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 1: and they are not setting them up in these positions.

987
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: So when if I'm a fan of The Bachelor, I

988
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 1: want to believe that people are really going on here

989
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: because you know what, nothing else has worked for them

990
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 1: and so they just want to see if maybe this

991
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: is a way to meet somebody. And I think that

992
00:51:55,160 --> 00:52:00,399
Speaker 1: that's more believable when they have a legitimate job. Yeah,

993
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: and I think sure. So I think that that's what's

994
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: hard is you're continuing to see people who aren't who

995
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: don't do anything. Yeah, and so it's like, uh, I

996
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 1: guess I'll just go on the Bachelor, you know, and

997
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 1: and grow my social media falling. That's what it looks like.

998
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: So it seems very disingenuous, but you have and you

999
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: also have to have some respect for casting because they

1000
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: are casting people who are good people for the most part,

1001
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: and they are casting they're not They're not stupid. They

1002
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: know when somebody's literally going on there just to be popular.

1003
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: They know that, and those people they probably don't cast, right.

1004
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 1: I don't know Jed got casted? Yeah, I mean yeah,

1005
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: but Jed honesty, I had to. It was the low

1006
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: hanging fruit I had to. But yeah, Jed, I mean

1007
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: Jesus man, I mean, I don't know what like he

1008
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 1: he didn't sugarcord it at all. He's like, I'm going

1009
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 1: on here, I'm trying to build up my music or

1010
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 1: and they let that happen. What did you think of that?

1011
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: What did you think when he said if you if

1012
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: you saw this, when he said I'm going on this show.

1013
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 1: I came on this show to further my music career.

1014
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 1: What was your initial thought would you if if a

1015
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: girl told you that, would you have sent her home?

1016
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: If if I was the lead and the girl said

1017
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: I came on here at the further my music career,

1018
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 1: I would have sent her home the same I would.

1019
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, you're you're gone. Um. The fact

1020
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: that he said it, I can't. I mean, I don't

1021
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: have an issue with him saying it because he's just

1022
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: being honest. Sure, and he could still be there to

1023
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: further his music career and also fall in love at

1024
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: the same time. But I mean he probably shouldn't know

1025
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,320
Speaker 1: what on there with a girlfriend. I mean that he

1026
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 1: shouldn't have did um. But yeah, it seemed like he

1027
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 1: was constantly playing the guitar. So some people slipped through

1028
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: the cracks. You know, some people they can't they can't

1029
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 1: always get it right. But you are right to come

1030
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 1: in casting because they do do a really good job.

1031
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,760
Speaker 1: And I think that Listen, we live in a different

1032
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 1: age right now. Being an influencer is a job these days,

1033
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 1: and so whether you like it or not, you just

1034
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: have to accept it. And it doesn't mean that they

1035
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: aren't genuine when they come on the show. You know,

1036
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: maybe they are trying to grow their following, but that

1037
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that they can't still be open for love.

1038
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: I know it's a hard pill to swallow, but it

1039
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 1: is a legitimate job and people make legit money. So

1040
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 1: I think you should go on the show. I think

1041
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 1: it's better off they cast people with regular jobs. And

1042
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: then what happens after that? You know, you have no

1043
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: control no one, No one does because you don't know

1044
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: how popular you're gonna get. You don't know if you're

1045
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,439
Speaker 1: gonna get cast in on something else. You get thrown

1046
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: into this different world and you try to make the

1047
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 1: best of it. All right, Joe, you've been great. We've

1048
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: had a good time. Always appreciate hanging with you. But

1049
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: before I let you go, you're always instagramming photos and

1050
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: videos of food. So we thought we'd play a little

1051
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 1: go ahead and plug it. What's it gonna be called?

1052
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: It's untitled right now, but it's probably like I don't

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00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 1: know yet. Maybe it might be like let's go eat

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00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: or something, but I don't know. I haven't figured it

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Speaker 1: out yet. Yeah, no, I'm here for it. Filing tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, so we're right on brand. We

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00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: thought it'd be fun to play a fire round of

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00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: this or that, and it is the food editions. So

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Speaker 1: are you up for this? I'm ready. We might be

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Speaker 1: giving you ideas for your YouTube channel. There you go,

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00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: all right, here we go real quick. First thing that

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00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 1: comes to mind than crust or thick crust pizza. Then

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00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: Chicago or New York style New York. I don't even

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00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 1: know the difference between the two. Stay in and cook

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00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: or eat out both? Okay, that is not an option,

1066
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 1: is I mean? Obviously can you cook? Um? I could

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00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: cook and Kendall cook cook. So I do like I

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00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:41,919
Speaker 1: do like staying in and eating, but we do eat

1069
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Speaker 1: out a lot. Will your YouTube channel give cooking lessons?

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Speaker 1: It might? It needs to because for us, yeah, it's

1071
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:54,959
Speaker 1: open beer or wine, beer, cheeseburger or cheese fries, cheeseburger

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00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: bagels are donuts, ice cream or frozen yogen yo, apple

1073
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 1: pie or pumpkin pie, pumpkin pie, yuck, tacos are Actually

1074
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Speaker 1: I don't like, to be honest, I don't like apple

1075
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: pie or pumpkin pie. Pumpkin has no flavor. That's not true. Pumpkins,

1076
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: pumpkins savory sweet. I don't know. I guess it depends

1077
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: on the pumpkin. Yeah, it's pretty bland. Me. Tacos are case?

1078
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: Is tacos green juice or clearly? I don't drink kombucha, okay,

1079
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,880
Speaker 1: green juice or kombucha only because I'm lazy and I

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Speaker 1: don't want to wait for the green juice to be made.

1081
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 1: But I prefer the green juice sectionally to me. Sorry, hopefully,

1082
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 1: don't especially when you get that little especially when you

1083
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: get the booger at the end of it that you

1084
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 1: just slurp up and it's, oh, yeah, I guess I

1085
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Speaker 1: never got that far. Oh god, It's just like, is

1086
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: it the bucha? It's I guess I want to like

1087
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,720
Speaker 1: ferments and it's like the slimy part. It's actually supposed

1088
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: to be good for you, but it's it's gross. Okay,

1089
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 1: food in Chicago or food in La. I'm gonna get

1090
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 1: a lot of hate for this, but I'm gonna say

1091
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: LA's got better restaurants than Chicago. You must be on

1092
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: a health kick. I'm not on a health kick. La.

1093
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: He's got no listen. I'm from Chicago. I love Chicago.

1094
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: We have great restaurants, great food, but La has some

1095
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: of my favorite restaurants. All right, well, thank you for

1096
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: playing this fire round of this or that the food

1097
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 1: edition you my pleasure. As I said, you're more than

1098
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: welcome to take that game for your YouTube channel. You

1099
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: should have me on. I'm a picky eater. I would

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Speaker 1: have going to I would have said no to all

1101
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: of these things you don't like you do only I

1102
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:43,919
Speaker 1: don't dairy, I don't know, I don't. I mean, I'll

1103
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: eat it, but in a weird way. No cheese, no

1104
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: ice cream, no frozen yogurt, no apple pie. You'd be great.

1105
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 1: You'd be great for the show you had me like

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00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: Blind Taste Food and Blind Taste Show. Okay, anyways, Joe,

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Speaker 1: it's been so great to have you. Thank you so

1108
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: much for co hosting with me today. You have to

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00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: back on Bachelor Happy Hour. We'd love to have you.

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Speaker 1: I'll be back whenever you want me. Those are my pleasure.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. Rachel. All right, and don't forget

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Speaker 1: you can get all of the latest Bachelor Nation news

1113
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: on bachelornation dot com right now, and we want to

1114
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 1: hear from you. We might even read one of your

1115
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: emails on the show, so make sure you tell us

1116
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: what you like and what you don't like about the show. Clearly,

1117
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: you guys don't have a problem holding back and we

1118
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Tell us more of what you want to hear,

1119
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 1: and you can email us at happy hour at Bachelor

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Speaker 1: nation dot com or visit Bachelor nation dot com and

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