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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to About your Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and.

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Speaker 1: We are here with the first Rose. First Impression Rose

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Speaker 1: recipient Keys.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you almost forgot the name.

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Speaker 3: Let me help you out, Joe case. You haven't been

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Speaker 3: on the show before. It's called a first impression Rose,

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Speaker 3: but Hi, hey.

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Speaker 1: You go, hey, you go, that's that's a big that's

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Speaker 1: a big Uh, that's a big thing to get night one.

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Speaker 1: Did you were you aware of that going into it?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I've been watching the show for I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Tristan Ryan are Might's still my favorite couple ever. I

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Speaker 3: think that's a lot of people, right, But you know,

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Speaker 3: over the years, I've watched a ton of episodes, so

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Speaker 3: you know, the first impression Rows. It was set on

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Speaker 3: the table. It's pretty hilarious. Everybody's like, what's this? What's this?

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Speaker 3: And I'm kind of like, uh, it's called a first

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Speaker 3: impression Rose. And I bet you ninety percent of the

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Speaker 3: guys that had no clue what a first impression Rose was.

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Speaker 1: Really, they were all calling you Superman super fan.

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Speaker 3: I heard yeah, yeah, Jordan, I was there's a guy

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Speaker 3: named Jordan Good but yeah, he called he called me

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Speaker 3: fanboy first, you know, right there, he's like, hey, fanboy,

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Speaker 3: what's up. I'm like, shut up.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what, it worked out because you got

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Speaker 1: the first and pressure rows.

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Speaker 4: And we do say when people go on this show,

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Speaker 4: it's good to go on with a little background knowledge

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Speaker 4: of what you're getting yourself into.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh yeah, no, uh you know. So, you know,

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Speaker 3: just meeting the guys the first night, you're sitting around

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Speaker 3: the bar, you're talking, you know, you're waiting for your

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Speaker 3: time with Joan whatever. And I was asking guys who

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Speaker 3: had watched or who hadn't watched, and yeah, definitely, I

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Speaker 3: you know, I've watched way more of these things than

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Speaker 3: than anybody else, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. To me, it's it's it's kind of crazy to

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Speaker 1: agree to go on reality television and do zero research,

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Speaker 1: Like you need to do a little bit of prep.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like one guy, I was talking to one guy

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Speaker 3: that night and he was like, yeah, I watched like

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Speaker 3: four or five episodes of The Golden Bachelor, Like okay,

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Speaker 3: well at least you have some idea, got something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that that were that plays. So let's let's

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Speaker 1: take it back to the beginning. How did you wind

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Speaker 1: up on this show.

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Speaker 3: I volunteered, uh so a long time ago. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I had a friend and she was probably twenty six

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Speaker 3: at the time, and I was trying to get her

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Speaker 3: on the show. It's like, hey, you got to go

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Speaker 3: on this show. So, you know, she moved away and

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Speaker 3: she called me like when the Golden Bacher came out,

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Speaker 3: she said, hey, you got you need to sign up,

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Speaker 3: like you got to be sixty five. I wasn't sixty

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Speaker 3: five at all. And but then when the Golden Bacher

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Speaker 3: came out and I saw the people were sixty I

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Speaker 3: was like, you know the final episode after the final

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Speaker 3: rows happened on Gary season and Glass of Wine and uh,

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Speaker 3: you know the application later, I was all set, you know,

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Speaker 3: last November and put my uh put my application in

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Speaker 3: so I so again, you know, a lot happened around

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Speaker 3: the bar when you're talking, and you know when you

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Speaker 3: first get there. I think I was the only guy

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Speaker 3: that probably volunteered. Most of the people family members, daughters,

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Speaker 3: you know, sisters, whatever, you know, they were, they were

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Speaker 3: volunteering their uh you know, these guys to be on.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I volunteered myself.

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Speaker 1: And you have you have three daughters.

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Speaker 3: Correct, Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Did they know about you volunteering when you did it

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Speaker 1: at first?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah yeah. When I'm filling it out, I actually

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Speaker 3: called Ryan, my oldest, and I was telling and I

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Speaker 3: was asking her like, hey, this is what I'm putting down,

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Speaker 3: and she was coaching me, and I thought some of

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna do this myself. But all three of the

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Speaker 3: all three of them were totally stoked. They were like,

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Speaker 3: you got to be kidding me, Dad, But there they

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Speaker 3: were totally stoked I was doing this.

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Speaker 2: Did they plan anything for the premiere episode to celebrate?

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Speaker 3: So my oldest one, she lives in LA and she, uh,

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Speaker 3: last night she had to look for a bigger apartment

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Speaker 3: my text was blown up after the show and then

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Speaker 3: I was going to do a big party, two hundred

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Speaker 3: and I just decided, no, I wanted to watch it.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to see it because I'm pretty excited. I

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Speaker 3: just wanted to my attention to be on the show itself.

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Speaker 3: So just be and ten of my closest friends.

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Speaker 1: What what what do your girls think of Joan Oh?

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Speaker 3: Totally excited when they found out when it was going

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Speaker 3: to be Joan Oh. She had the style points clothing,

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Speaker 3: you know, first night I even told Joan I said, hey,

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Speaker 3: you know, there's a lot of pressure here on you

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Speaker 3: that you know, my daughters followed you on Instagram whatever

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Speaker 3: you said, your clothing, your style points are way high,

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Speaker 3: so you've got lots to live up to here. But

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Speaker 3: they thought she was you know, they just liked her.

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Speaker 3: They liked what she was about. They thought she was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: And you're Keith. You're in San.

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Speaker 3: Jose, Yeah, northern California or San Jose.

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Speaker 1: Is that where you're from?

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Speaker 3: No? I originally small town Indiana, Columbus, Indiana that I've

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Speaker 3: been out here for thirty odd years, forty years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a deeper Midwestern accent. That makes sense,

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Speaker 1: that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: What and what do you what do you do for

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Speaker 3: you're you're you're a good You're a good Midwestern guy too.

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Speaker 3: You know, I lived in Chicago for a year and

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Speaker 3: a half. It's a it's all. If I could take Chicago, seriously,

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Speaker 3: if I could take Chicago and put it in warm weather,

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Speaker 3: best city, best city I ever lived in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just too it's just too goddamn.

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Speaker 2: The planters are just so cold.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Keith, what what do you do for a living

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Speaker 1: or what did you do?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Right now, I'm still working. I'm just a sales

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been in the industry for thirty years, you know,

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Speaker 4: And you said your girls were really excited that it

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Speaker 4: was going to be Joan. What did you think of

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Speaker 4: Joan going into the season, Like, is she your type?

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Speaker 3: She's like, oh, totally my type. You know. The one

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Speaker 3: thing I couldn't find out was how tall she was,

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Speaker 3: out her heels to see what she was wearing. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: blonde hair, blue eye, you know, great smile, totally in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what was the last time you went on a date.

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Speaker 2: Before you went on the show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, probably months before a few months before I went

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Speaker 3: on the show. Say, once I applied on the show,

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Speaker 3: I kind of stopped, I don't know, thinking about dating

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Speaker 3: or I didn't date much after I applayed for the show.

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Speaker 3: And I just, you know, I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: was just concentrating on you know, work and kids, it's

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Speaker 3: family whatever, but I'm just seeing where this went. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I just slowed down once I applaied.

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Speaker 1: And how would you how would you go about dating

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Speaker 1: before going on the show, Like, did you do like

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Speaker 3: I'm not a big dating app guy. In fact, I've

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Speaker 3: only I hadn't done a dating app probably in like

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Speaker 3: six seven years, mostly just through friends network, getting set up,

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Speaker 3: meeting people outside. You know, I go out a lot.

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Speaker 3: I like going out lots. I just meet people and yeah,

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Speaker 3: the best luck when you know within your friend network,

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Speaker 3: know who the friends are, And they said.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I feel like that would be the best

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Speaker 1: way I was. I was never one to like enjoy

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Speaker 1: dating apps. I just found them really difficult.

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Speaker 2: Well, you didn't really enjoy dating.

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Speaker 3: Dating dating kind of sucks. Just I agree with you.

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Speaker 3: And then the and then I talked to my buddies

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Speaker 3: about dating apps too, and they were like, it's work.

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Speaker 3: You've got you know, once you get home from work

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Speaker 3: Let's go out and meet people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you want, you want to like jump to just

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Speaker 1: like that fourth date when things are getting much more comfortable.

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Speaker 2: And then you won't be dating anymore.

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Speaker 1: So Keith, we see you pull up and what was

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Speaker 1: it like a station wagon.

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Speaker 3: That was the tiniest little freaking station wag. And I said, hey,

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Speaker 3: can we do a station wag? And you know that's

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Speaker 3: how the family vacation, you know, this little gimme thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to, you know, make an impression. And

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Speaker 3: it's your first time meeting Joan. I'm a pretty confident guy.

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Speaker 3: But you know, it's like any first date. I guess

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Speaker 3: you're you're kind of nervous. But now you've got the mansion,

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Speaker 3: arms coming out trying to It was a lowrider. I

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Speaker 3: stand up. I'm taller than the car. I bet, I

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Speaker 3: you know, it was only I bet. I couldn't even

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. How long were you in it?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Not long, I guess just I mean it drove okay,

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Speaker 2: Not feeling too gray as twelve.

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Speaker 4: How was your first impression of Joan when you guys

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Speaker 4: had that first interaction once you crawl out of the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, you know, I drive up and I just

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Speaker 3: see her and she's just beautiful, right, I mean the

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Speaker 3: lights around her, and so I get out. I'm nervous.

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Speaker 3: You know, you plan your words in your head, you

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Speaker 3: know what you want to say, and it never comes out,

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Speaker 3: or maybe it does come out like you want, but

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Speaker 3: you know you're always thinking, man, did I actually say that?

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Speaker 3: Or did I not? But my whole thing was I

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Speaker 3: about you know, I don't even know what I was

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Speaker 3: going to talk about. What I prefer to do, you know,

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Speaker 3: We had the nicest conversation that night. I mean, just

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Speaker 3: They aren't rentals I bought him.

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Speaker 1: But everyone says I'm saying I say I'm like six

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Speaker 4: I'm close to six two. Men, you can just say

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Speaker 4: So, yes, who were the guys after Night one that

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Speaker 3: So I finally get my time with Joan, right, and

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Speaker 3: The you know, we put the cornhole out and we

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Speaker 3: into the room with everybody, and I just wanted to

433
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:23,359
Speaker 3: bust I go, you know, yeah, but uh, you know,

434
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 3: just staying humble with it and just knowing that you know,

435
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 3: this is just the first night and you know there's

436
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,800
Speaker 3: a lot more nights to go. But all the guys

437
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,159
Speaker 3: were you know, supportive, Hey, what's up? What'd you say?

438
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 3: How did it go down? You know, so you tell

439
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:37,919
Speaker 3: the story, you know, five or six different times in

440
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 3: different groups. But yeah, most people were just worried about

441
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 3: their time. I think getting with Joe, Hey, Keith, what'd

442
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,720
Speaker 3: you talk about? How did you go get your time?

443
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 3: You know, how do I go get time? What should

444
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 3: I say? What should I do? Those types of things.

445
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, we saw a lot of your conversation with Joan

446
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,680
Speaker 4: was just really lighthearted, and you guys kind of bonded

447
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,119
Speaker 4: over like being by the way and the games and

448
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,160
Speaker 4: things like to do. We did see in your intro

449
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 4: pack as you open up about your daughters and your

450
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,080
Speaker 4: dynamic with your ex wife.

451
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 2: Were you able to talk to Joan about that at all?

452
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 2: During night one Night.

453
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:17,879
Speaker 3: One, I tried to I just, you know, again again

454
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 3: not going after the first impressions, but using that you know,

455
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 3: you're making a first impression. I just wanted to let

456
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 3: her know that I had three daughters. You know, family

457
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 3: is really important.

458
00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 1: To me.

459
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,159
Speaker 3: I knew it was important to her, but you know,

460
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 3: you don't know how or you know how your two

461
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 3: lives can mesh and that that can come later. It's

462
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 3: the first date. You're just trying to get to know

463
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:41,440
Speaker 3: each other. And so, yeah, my three girls are my life.

464
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,360
Speaker 3: You know. I've been with them, you know, single dad

465
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 3: basically for the last twelve thirteen years. And you know,

466
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 3: it's been tough at times, to be wrong, God, it's

467
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 3: hard thirteen to twenty one for all you dads out there,

468
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 3: thirteen to twenty one if you have a daughter, ouch.

469
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 3: But uh.

470
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are some of the tougher years.

471
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I love my daughter so much, so I

472
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 3: talked to her about my daughters. She talked to me

473
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 3: about her family. You know. Again, we just we kept

474
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 3: it l like what we like to do, how we

475
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 3: like to spend a little bit of our time. Yeah,

476
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 3: that's smart. I mean that.

477
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 1: I think that's the best way to go about that

478
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 1: first that first day and having those first conversations, because

479
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like it is still

480
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: a first conversation, and you don't want to be like,

481
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 1: all right, you're about to hear some crazy shit.

482
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 3: Me go out on her first date and you go,

483
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 3: uh yeah, and you just delved into your deepest, darkest secrets.

484
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 2: And yeah, let me tell you everything.

485
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, that normally doesn't come out too well at the end.

486
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 4: So did your impression of Joan change in any way

487
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 4: from just seeing her on TV to then meeting her

488
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 4: and getting to know her night one?

489
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 3: Oh yeah? I mean, so if you went to The Golden

490
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 3: Bachelor she first night, she wasn't even I think a

491
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 3: cameo appearance, like the camera just happened to bypass her

492
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 3: and just you know, you get to look at her.

493
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 3: So she really didn't come on the show until the

494
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 3: second or third episode. You don't get to really know

495
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 3: anybody over at TV. All you see is the physical part.

496
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 3: She's beautiful, great smile, beautiful eyes. And then when you

497
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 3: get out of the car and I saw her, you

498
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 3: know it's even she's in person, she's just even more right,

499
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 3: there's just more of her, she's more beautiful. You get

500
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 3: her eyes are you know, it's a piercing blue with

501
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 3: these little stars in it. I guess they were beautiful.

502
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 3: But then she starts talking to you and it's just

503
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 3: easy conversation. She just made me feel so comfortable. And

504
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 3: that's what you don't get when you just watch something

505
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 3: on TV or you see somebody right in person. Is

506
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 3: where you get to know somebody. And she just made

507
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 3: me feel comfortable. She was easy to talk to. You know,

508
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 3: we had a lot in common.

509
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: Did you notice any of the other guys having a

510
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: connection with Joan when you were there, because I know

511
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: you said it is kind of a it's a competition,

512
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: you know, within yourself, but there are still other guys

513
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 1: in the house trying to date the same woman.

514
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 3: That first night. You know, as we talked, you just

515
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 3: hear their conversations what they had, but you're really not

516
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 3: basing it. You can't base if they got a connection

517
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 3: or didn't have a connection. I would think some of

518
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 3: the guys, just the conversations I had with them, they

519
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 3: were more concerned, is not the right way. They were

520
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 3: more impressed or wondering, you know about me getting the

521
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 3: first impression rows and me making an impression on her

522
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 3: as opposed to them. But that means nothing. I mean,

523
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 3: it's it's just how Joan explained it to me. Know,

524
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 3: she I just made her feel comfortable, and you know,

525
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 3: I was the big teddy bear that you know, she

526
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 3: just you know, just allowed her to get into a

527
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 3: comfort zone. So doesn't mean that another guy didn't have

528
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 3: a great connection with her as well. And well, she

529
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 3: really based it on physical, you know, appearing, So I

530
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 3: just look at other guys, I'm like, oh, yeah, in

531
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 3: the real world, you know, uh yeah, okay, you'd be

532
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 3: you'd be the dude, You'd be the dude.

533
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 1: Yeah were you Were you shocked by any of the

534
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 1: eliminations at the end of the night.

535
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 3: No, But but you don't know anybody well enough to

536
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 3: have an impression like that, right, they go off and

537
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 3: you know they she had her reasons, but I have

538
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 3: no idea why you know, why people laughter didn't leave,

539
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 3: So why she kept people and why she let people

540
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 3: go that that that first night, I couldn't I couldn't

541
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 3: get to read at all.

542
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: What was the last time that you slept in a

543
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 1: house with a bunch of guys your age?

544
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 3: Let's see, Yes, I'm going to be doing it pretty

545
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 3: soon again too, but my fraternity brothers, so I have

546
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 3: to think, but uh no, it's uh yeah, when was

547
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 3: the last time I know, I've done it since I

548
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 3: graduated from my fraternity, But that before going on the show.

549
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 3: You know, one of my biggest fears was it wasn't

550
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 3: about really meeting Joan, because I was just going to

551
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 3: be me. It was about sleeping and meeting and sleeping

552
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 3: in a big room with about eight or nine other guys.

553
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 3: I can do it. I've done it for I don't

554
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,239
Speaker 3: know how many years of my life, you know, in

555
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 3: college and then after college when your road trip or whatever.

556
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 3: But I was wondering which guys out there had never

557
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 3: done any of this and would hate it and just be,

558
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 3: you know, a pain in your ass.

559
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 2: So were there some of those guys?

560
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 3: I have no idea. I'll find out tonight.

561
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: Okay, you want to play a little game with us?

562
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:50,439
Speaker 3: Do I have a choice?

563
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: You did?

564
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 3: You are?

565
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 4: I love that you know you do have a choice.

566
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a rapid fire get to know me

567
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: with Keith. So first thing that comes to your head,

568
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you some questions and simple you ready.

569
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: I don't know?

570
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: This is pressure, It's very easy. What's your go to

571
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: comfort movie or show.

572
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 3: Oh Fast and Furious or probably the movie my favorite

573
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 3: movie that would be Purple Rain.

574
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, if you could have any superpower, what would

575
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 1: it be.

576
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 3: I got it. I'll go with strength.

577
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: What's your go to karaoke song?

578
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, save a horse, Ride a Cowboy.

579
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 1: What's your favorite Ben and Jerry's ice cream flavor?

580
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I forget the name, but it's got to be

581
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 3: the darkest, deepest chocolate. I don't care about any nuts

582
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 3: in there or whatever. It has got to be decking

583
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: it chocolate.

584
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: YEAHA likes that she has another allergy.

585
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, not to my ice cream here chocolate.

586
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: What what is your dream vacation destination?

587
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 3: Beach? I've never been yet, you know. Uh, let's see

588
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 3: anywhere like grease Bali, uh, Kirks and Turks and catos,

589
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: whatever it's pick. Give me a beach, sun chill bar.

590
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: I mean, what's one piece of advice you've always kept

591
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: with you?

592
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 3: Oh? I don't know if it's advice. My biggest thing

593
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 3: is I love my life, and I just tell people

594
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 3: to love your life. If anything else, you know, no regrets.

595
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 3: I like that.

596
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: What's the best concert you've ever been to.

597
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 3: See Tom Petty?

598
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: What's your favorite way to spend the day off?

599
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 3: Oh, beach or pool or water utter, cocktail? You know,

600
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 3: doing nothing?

601
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: Yes, got it? What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done.

602
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 3: I guess jumping out of a plane.

603
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 2: We're going on the Golden Bachelorette.

604
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 3: Yea, yeah, that would be some of my friends going.

605
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 3: You did. What.

606
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: What's one food you can't stand?

607
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 3: I don't have any?

608
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: Uh during everything?

609
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 3: I didn't used to like peaches, and I learned about

610
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 3: seven years ago to start eating peaches.

611
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: I love peaches.

612
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 3: Oh you know what? Yeah, yeah, I don't eat that.

613
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 2: That's a tough one.

614
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: What musician would you love to see live?

615
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 3: Oh? Prince is my I only have one regret in

616
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 3: my life. I had a chance to see Prince and

617
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 3: I blew it off because I had I was busy

618
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 3: that week, and then he passed away like a month later. Yeah.

619
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: What, what's an accomplishment?

620
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 3: You are very proud of my three daughters more than that?

621
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: Fun a fun fact about you?

622
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 3: Find fact about me? I've got so many, So let's

623
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 3: see only one.

624
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 2: I know you off a few. Last question.

625
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: That's the last thing. No fun fact. I like a

626
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 3: lot of things, you know, like cornhole. Fun fact about

627
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 3: me is I tried Oh I've always tried to be

628
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 3: on ESPN. Fun fact, So I tried out for the

629
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: longest drive about when I was fifty and I was

630
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 3: one roundaway for making TV that bummed me out. And

631
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: then back in twenty seventeen twenty eighteen, I tried to

632
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 3: get to pro status on the Cornhole Tour so but

633
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 3: I never made it.

634
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 2: WHOA, that is a fun I was expecting.

635
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: That if you could describe Jones season of The Golden

636
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: Bachelorette in one word without spoiling it, what would it be?

637
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 3: Auxiliary? I like that?

638
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: All right? Uh, that is all for today's episode, Keith

639
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: wait to go. This is your first podcast ever ever.

640
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 2: Wow, you were amazing, But.

641
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: Keith, thank you so much for taking the time. We

642
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: really appreciate it.

643
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 3: And kudos to you too as well because I saw

644
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: your season on Bachelor of Paradise as well, and I

645
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 3: am totally stoked that you guys have made it so far.

646
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 3: When did you get married last year? Was it last year?

647
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

648
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 2: Last year? Yeah? Where a year ago?

649
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you, joy it and uh

650
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: and to all our listeners, thank you guys so much

651
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: for joining us and listening and we hope you enjoyed

652
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