WEBVTT - Post Ho Ho Ho 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:04.600 Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:07.840 and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk. 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:16.440 We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:19.520 What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:21.640 new episode and we talked Back to show dedicated to 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:25.279 you dreamers and chasers, niggas and hoes, everybody else in 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:29.360 between all the good things. It's your co host, AJ Haliday. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:30.600 What's up, Tandem? 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:34.240 How y'all, it's Tam Bam. I love y'all. I love 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:35.159 you too, Aj. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:38.600 Girl. 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:43.280 I'm in the holiday spirit, so I extra love you guys. 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:46.320 I feel so warm and fuzzy right now. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:48.959 Did you drunk. 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:54.600 Hungover from the weekend? What'd you do this weekend? 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:59.080 One of my besties had like a, I guess it's 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:02.240 Christmas giving? Mm hmm, like a friends giving type of 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:07.199 friends miss yeah, and it was lit. We ate, we drunk. 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:10.000 I you know, I'd be really feeling like people be 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:12.279 expecting me to be entertainment because y'all know I travel 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:15.160 with a mic, right, So I did travel with my mic, 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:18.440 but I just wasn't on it this weekend. No, No, 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:20.479 I don't know what I did. I did you were 0:01:20.520 --> 0:01:24.160 on something else. I definitely was on drugs. Okay, now 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.279 got me a couple of little addies I've been holding 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:30.280 on to. So to get there, I had to stay 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:32.679 awake to drive because you know, a nigga's gonna be 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:36.160 like in drive. So I was on the addie this 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:42.000 weekend and I did some shrewm gummies and then the liquor. 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:48.640 So I was really like, I'm starting to the c spaceship. 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:55.800 Bitch. I was like sitting down being quiet. It was 0:01:55.840 --> 0:02:02.440 the weirdest thing, and like, actually, bitch, I was there, 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:03.560 but I don't know. 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:04.960 I was really in. 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:08.519 My fucking head the whole time. And it's fucking weird, bitch. 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:12.200 What cool sounds like very relaxing. 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.440 But it was fun. We had some real good ass food. Okay, 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:18.400 oh god, damn, I forgot the chef's name. Anyway, he's 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:21.280 out of Dirham. He's so good man. 0:02:21.360 --> 0:02:22.799 This is the second time it was it. 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:27.360 So he does like Asian fusion kind of so and 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:29.359 you know he always has like a little vegan or 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:31.760 something for me. So he had the oyster mushrooms. Ain't 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.119 just for me, but you know, just for anybody who 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:37.320 doesn't eat the meats, but he did like like Wagoo sliders. 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:39.320 I know, y'all meat eaters now, y'all. I went from 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:42.360 Lamb chops, the Wagoo, the thing with the with the 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:47.040 Wagoo burgers. Though, okay, if thirty if if if an 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:50.560 ounce of Waggo steak is thirty five dollars, I just 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:54.040 don't believe you're getting a whole burger mm hmmm for 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:56.120 a little bit of money. It doesn't make sense to me. 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.560 So what do y'all are? Y'all just don't really eating 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:05.400 regular beef okay, regular exactly and calling it wagu because 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.799 people don't even realize that oxtail is just fucking cow. 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:13.720 Also, it's just the ass cowtail, that's all it is. 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.760 So I don't know. I don't know about that Wago, 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.320 but it was like a whole, nice little spread. Met 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:23.639 some nice people this weekend. I love meeting new people, 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:25.800 making new friends. Yeah. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:26.880 Fun. 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:31.000 I worked this weekend. You know, this time of year 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:33.600 is very busy, so I worked a lot. But then 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:38.880 on Sunday I went to our college friend Jamaica's. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:40.440 Happy belated birthday. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.320 Jamaica run and baby. 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:45.440 When I tell you, I'm like, I'm hungover right now, 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:48.840 you guys, I got so drunk and I didn't drink 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.880 a lot though. It's just that I've been eating so 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:54.120 light that just a little bit of liquor took me 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:57.440 to the next level. And y'all we played UNO, and y'all, 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:59.640 I knocked over to UNO table. I took my whole 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:04.080 folk and sweet that motherfucker. Because they're gonna try to 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:07.400 say that you can put a draw four on a 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.480 draw like it was three draw twos on top of 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:13.400 each other, and they're gonna put a draw four on 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:13.840 top of that. 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:16.719 Y'all got me fucked up. If y'all think I about 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:18.600 to draw what eight six. 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:22.719 A lot ten? Half the damn deck. 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:24.400 No, I knocked the table over. 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:26.680 This is why I don't play cards with niggas, because 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:29.000 they be making up rules, man, Like, okay, we're playing 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:31.000 in real rules, or were doing nigga rules. 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:33.159 Right, because how you gonna put a draw four on 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:36.040 three draw twos? That is illegal? 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.960 But when people do do stacking, and you know, right, 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.440 can't you throw out all those wild cards at one time? 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:44.680 You can stack, but you can't stack a draw four 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:46.400 on draw twos. You can stack draw twos and you 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.800 can stack draw fors, but you can't stack. You got 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:52.960 it right, yes, So now you try to cheat and 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:55.560 now you're trying to pick up your six. You're trying 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:57.240 to make me pick up ten. I not the table 0:04:57.279 --> 0:05:02.159 over the table fellow this nigga bee. He was like, damn, 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.120 you're trying to fuck up my leg, like yo leg? 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.120 So was the game over after that? No? 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:08.600 I picked the table back up. 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:15.000 Childish sh We played a lot of fun games too. 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.839 They had like some shit on the TV, like you 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:20.760 press the button on your cellphone like so the questions 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:22.559 come up on the screen. So they had like black 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:25.600 holiday movies and shit like that, and you got to 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:27.480 read it and whoever hits it first, like you get 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:29.960 up like in the running on the screen though, but 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:31.960 it was very interactive. I'm like, what the fuck I 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.640 wish I would have came up with that shit, like 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:36.640 you really playing the game, like you read it on 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:38.240 the TV and you pressed about on your phone and 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.320 then it goes to the TV like who's winning? 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:41.600 Oh that's dope. 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:42.600 Yeah. 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:45.600 We played the game they had. It was a card 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:48.200 game where it had QR cod's in the car and 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:51.080 they play a song, right and you had to sing 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.080 a song and then it all cutout and you have 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:55.000 to keep singing where it cuts out. And if you 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:57.479 didn't keep singing where it cuts out, you had to 0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:00.960 take a shot. That shit was too because it was 0:06:01.040 --> 0:06:04.960 all R and B like nineties and two thousand songs 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:05.560 and shit like that. 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:08.039 I'm trying to find the name of the app. I 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:11.240 can't find it. Anyway, it was lit. Yeah, we had 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:14.000 a good time. And look, so everybody was required to 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:16.480 bring a gift, right, and then like with the games, 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:18.440 who have won, you pick a gift, you know, like 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:21.600 the Secret Santa type shit, you pick whatever gift. I 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:23.560 just really wasn't picking no gift for real, and I 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.599 just when the games and all that shit was over, 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:29.400 I just picked up the last gift, the last gift, 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.960 the last gift that was sitting by the fireplace all 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:37.400 by his lonesome. All it was was like a water jug, right, 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.280 And the nigga who brought it, he was like, oh, 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.000 you got that gift. He was like open up the jug, 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.159 though you look and see something else, and I was like, okay, 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.679 so I go open up the jug. It's a fucking 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:50.599 pregnancy test. And then like we what it's right here. 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:54.839 It's a dollar store one two dollar twenty five. I 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:57.440 bye him should be accurate. 0:06:57.880 --> 0:06:59.640 Yeah, just as good as any other tests. 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:02.080 But oah no, So like this is my week. My 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:04.920 period just went off, and I've been tracking my ovulation, 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:06.880 so I missed the window to try to get a Gemini. 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.520 So like Virgo was next up for me, right, I 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.800 was trying to do the Virgo and then Libra. So 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:17.520 the end of the year, like coming up this into 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:21.640 January fourth would be my ovulation time to get the 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:25.480 to get a virgo. So maybe maybe it's a sign 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:28.400 I might get pregnant in the week. 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:32.000 I'm gonna pray for it because I need me a 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:34.040 little niece, a nephew. 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.440 All my friends pregnant. Man, it's a lot of pregnant 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:40.040 bitches out here. They every time an old bitch get pregnant, 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.400 I just get more and more. Hope. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:48.240 Yay, let's get into scenes. What happened? 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:53.120 What we got going on? Okay? This a little boy, 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:57.440 Travis Hunter. Y'all knows he won the Heisman? What team 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.560 is he playing on? Because I know this that he 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:03.680 just got drafted? Where's I mean? I really don't know 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.840 much about him. What I do know about him is 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.360 what the internet is keeps, you know, talk about about 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:11.360 his girlfriend. His girlfriend is Leanna Lenney. I know, I 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:15.400 don't know what her real name is, but yeah, so 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.760 a couple of weeks ago they were getting on her 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:21.360 because she was being real impatient while he was at 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.280 an event, asking like am I just supposed to be 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:25.880 sitting here? And we talked about it then. 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:28.240 Yeah, and then she didn't stand up when everybody was 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:31.520 giving him a standup of ovation and the coach had 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:32.959 it to her life stand up baby. 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.000 Yeah, So the internet has been picking their relationship apart, 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:39.560 picking her ass apart, bringing up old video. She was 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:43.240 in somebody's rat video, she was at somebody's party, what 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.000 you know, taking pictures with a nigga. All type of 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:49.360 stuff they're bringing up. So Dravis Hunter has deactivated his 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:52.120 Instagram page because he can't take it. Y'all really about 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:56.040 to ruin that nigga's career, really talking about his mental health. 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:57.040 He's twenty one. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.920 These are kids right alone. 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:02.560 Yeah, Like he's not gonna get some He could get 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:05.240 like a maybe some super wholesome twenty one year old 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:09.520 who probably was groomed to be an NFL or NBA 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:11.840 wife he could probably get that, probably gonna be a 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:15.679 white girl. But these this is a regular. I think 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.800 she's like Hispanic or something like that. So I know 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:19.559 the black woman. Y'all probably want to see him on 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:21.960 a low brown girl. Okay, it might not happen, and 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:24.679 it's okay. That's this is his preference, This is what 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:27.080 he wants to be doing, and I think people should 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:28.760 stay out of it. I don't know why, they just 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.120 like dragging it so much. 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:30.240 Not. 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:33.600 What I will say is that whatever he decides to do, 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:36.559 just make sure he talks to his attorney along the 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:39.680 way and make sure all his PaperWorks straight. Because she 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:42.600 does have a money signed tattooed on her ring finger. 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.840 Okay, yeah, just let. 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.960 The kids be kids and do anything and stay out 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:50.640 of it. There ain't nothing but a bunch of grown 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:54.479 motherfuckers too, you know, very intive in these children's relationship. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:55.840 I can give a fuck. 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:59.760 So Deone Sanders actually came out and said something. He said, 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:04.880 I've tried my best not to get into Travis's business, 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:08.400 but I had to after seeing this. I'm here to 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:11.920 tell you, brother, wake up and quit playing. She talked 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:14.440 all that stuff about you, saying she was going to 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:18.040 address the situation once but kept talking about it. He said, 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:22.640 she loves the attention way more than you. She thinks 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.800 she isn't equal to you. I can tell you're a 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:28.600 great dude, and I promise there is a woman out 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:31.000 there who is going to make your life easy and 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:34.160 respect you. From what I can see, she has nothing 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:37.120 to offer but a major headache. What you got to offer, 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:38.280 She's not the one. 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:43.000 I just feel like nobody can decide that for you, like, 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:44.200 just stay out of it. 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.400 I think he might be you know, projecting a little 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.480 bit because of what went on between him and his 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:50.839 kids mom. It was a video recently, like they all 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:52.720 were on the field as soon as the mama walk 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:56.920 up deon sans fuck up about it here, you know, 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.559 because she I mean, during the divorce it got real 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.800 nasty and she said, like you know, she accused him 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.120 of abuse and abusing the kids and all that, all 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:07.280 these things like to have the upper hand in the 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:11.960 courtse I. So you know, he's speaking from experience. And 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:16.720 I also I remember remember we had Brittany Reener. He 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:23.200 brought her like to the school. Yeah, yeah, basically because 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:25.320 it is a thing and it probably should be a 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.760 course studying these holes, for. 0:11:27.760 --> 0:11:32.560 Sure, But I just think, like I don't know, focus 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:35.960 on football, focus on making him a good player, you know, 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:39.520 all that shit when when you're in love with somebody, 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:42.600 ain't nothing nobody can tell you. You have to go through 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.360 it on your own, you know. So just make sure 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.520 he's focused on being the best athlete he can be 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.480 and let him figure out his love life on his own. 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:53.600 Because secondly, it's been working. They've been together for five years, 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:57.040 so it's not new regardless of what he's gotten to 0:11:57.080 --> 0:12:01.720 where he is now with some of her energy. Right, Okay, 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:04.160 y'all may look at it like it's just like super 0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:07.640 toxic or whatever, but obviously it's working for him. She 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:11.120 does something for him to where he's still been able 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.640 to operate. Now what's going on now? Yeah, he has 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:17.280 to now deactivate his Instagram to try to block out 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:19.760 the noise. Now he's not focused. 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:23.480 Right, So let that baby be, Let them, both of 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.480 them be, because she's just a little young girl too. 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:28.840 You know, she's not making probably all the best choices, 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.840 but she's still trying to figure it out. So, yeah, 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:33.920 he might have seven other bitches by the time he 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:34.480 get married. 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:35.600 You know who knows? 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:41.679 Yeah, I don't know. It could be my son. I'm 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:43.920 gonna tell you that shit now, it. 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:49.240 Could be what's a what's a man? Or a woman 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.719 has decided they love somebody. It is hard for you 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:56.319 to be from the outside and break that shit up. Exactly, Okay, 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:59.400 Erica Mina, so I saw this up for the weekend 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:05.200 aologizes to Nicki Minaj after really experiencing Safari for herself. 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.760 So she was saying, how like she's painted to be 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:12.040 this villain and painted to be like, uh, just this 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:15.040 hard person to deal with, and he has pretty much 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:19.040 created that dynamic. Like when she jumped that fence, she 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:22.640 was like, he let her in, he let her through 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:24.440 the gate, and then when she got there made it 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:28.120 seem as but why if he let you in, why 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:29.280 you had to climb the fence? 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.719 You know? But we didn't see her. We didn't see 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:34.680 her climb of fence. He said, she climbed the fence. 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.440 No was wasn't it a video of her like going 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:39.000 over the fence on the ladder? 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.600 Well, I didn't see, yeah. 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:43.520 But I mean, but then she also said that you 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:46.320 told me that my child was hurt you know, you 0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:47.360 told me my child. 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:50.599 Was hurt, and yeah. 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:52.199 So of course I'm climbing the fence to get my baby. 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:53.079 I don't give a damn. 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:56.079 Oh, maybe he let her in the gated community. Had 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.720 the guard let her in, right, but then once getting 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.679 to his house he would and let her in, And 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:03.800 maybe that's when she climbed the fence, like you lit 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.600 the guard. You had to guard lit me in. But 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:06.920 now I can't get to the house and you're a 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.880 messaging me telling me something's up with the baby. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:11.400 Right and then recording. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:14.520 Yeah, I could see men doing that type of shit. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:16.480 She's saying, he's a narcissist. I don't know. I mean 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.959 what happens when two narcissists get together. Because we've seen 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:22.480 Ericamena in action and other relationships, and I mean, it 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:25.920 could just be entertainment, scripted reality TV we were actually 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.520 seeing and maybe that's not who she is, but based 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:31.200 on what we have seen, she'd be cutting up. 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:35.280 Yeah, because just from her first appearance on Love and 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.640 Hip Hop, she jumped on Kimbella because Kimbella was doing 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:42.840 modeling for cheaper Is that reason. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.240 The very first you. 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:52.120 Know video with Ericamena, she literally jumped on that girl 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:54.280 at a nice place like. 0:14:57.840 --> 0:14:58.080 TV. 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.680 How your ass acting food? But you know it does 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.680 make me think though, you know, how like you get 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.280 into a relationship, and this is really why I don't 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:08.560 trust niggas who'll be talking shit about the ex about 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:10.560 the baby mamas. I don't believe you because we know 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:13.960 it's two sides to every fucking story, right, and you 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.840 nine times out of ten you may never hear the 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:20.760 other person's side, maybe until the end of the relationship, right. 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:24.080 You know. So now she's apologizing to Nicki Minaj because 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.520 she partakes. She part took in some of the shit 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:30.520 talking right, going off of what Safari had to say 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:34.680 about Nicki Minaj. But now she gets to see who 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:36.240 he is for herself. 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:36.680 For herself. 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:42.760 I was dating this producer and the super producer, and 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.520 the whole time we went on this particular day, all 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:49.080 he did was drag his wife ex wife. Well they're 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:52.640 like going through a divorce, drag her. She's just she's 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:54.880 just that, she's I mean, he spent so much time 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:57.480 talking about her. I was kind of like tuning him 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:00.240 out and looking at my phone and finding sins for 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:04.360 the show bro, Like who wants to hear that, you know, 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:08.720 I don't want to hear about yo bitch. Then later 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:11.880 on in another conversation, he was like, yeah, she says 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:13.920 I talked about her. I never talk about her, And 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:18.080 I was like, yeah, you do. You talk my head 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.040 off about this woman, So you do talk about her. 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:22.800 And if you talked about her to me that much, 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:24.720 imagine what you're saying to other people. 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:25.240 You know. 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:29.200 I know I talked about my extra exes. I sure 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:33.160 do on dates. No, not on dates, absolutely, but on 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:41.360 this motherfucker this show right here, So talk about your 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:44.040 ass on here, apps, because I mean, it could be therapeutic. 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:48.360 But like if you just always ah, okay, not on dates. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.520 But I have like been in like situationships with people 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:54.880 where I may have mentioned my ex one too many times. 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:58.760 But I feel like people recognize when you do it, 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:00.720 but they don't hear when they talk about people that 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:04.320 they fuck with before. I just have the same constant person. 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:07.280 You're telling me about twenty different women in the last 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:10.359 five years of your life, right, I'm talking about the 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:15.280 same nigga. So it might seem excessive mm hmmmmm, But 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:17.440 I do try try very hard and not talk about 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:20.240 these fucking niggas. Okay, to the next, to the next, 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:24.760 because I think that sometimes men subconsciously treat you how 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:27.399 the last man treated you because they think that you 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:29.680 can handle it. You know, I've been through it, So 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:33.120 keep all your dumb bit shit to yourself. They tell 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:37.919 these niggas nothing, they will use that AMMO against you, girl. Okay. 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:42.000 So Fat Joe was on this podcast, my expert Opinion 0:17:42.240 --> 0:17:48.880 podcast by this battle rapper math Hopeful Hawfu ho f FA. 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:49.760 You know him? 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:51.000 I follow him? 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.600 Oh okay, I hear that. I like battle rap but 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:56.280 I never heard about him. I never knew about him, 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:58.400 but I did see he battled Hitman Haller at some point. 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:01.440 I like Hitman. But anyway, so Fat Joe was on there, 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:05.200 and Fat Joe essentially said, fuck these FBA niggas. 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:08.120 Y'all know what FBO broke niggas. 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:18.040 FBA is financial financial foundational Black Americans, so like descendants 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:21.119 of slaves essentially. So he's on this show and he 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:24.320 was saying how this is a very radical and racist group. 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:32.119 He basically says, do you see he says, do you 0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:35.680 see this explicit who runs them? Or maybe he's saying, 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:40.359 do you see this nigga who runs them. You gotta 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:42.200 be fucking kidding me. So they're trying to change the 0:18:42.280 --> 0:18:45.760 narrative because they're not from New York, so they're telling 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:48.919 a whole other story. So the thing was that the 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:53.440 FBA is basically saying, like Fat Joe, them weren't hip hop, 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:54.080 They're not. 0:18:54.160 --> 0:18:57.840 Black, right right, which I don't agree with. 0:18:58.000 --> 0:19:01.040 I don't agree that, like Hispanics did make a contribution 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:05.040 to hip hop that I just did not agree with 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:10.119 Fat Joe's rhetoric like broke niggas. 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:13.719 These broke niggas, Like I'm just not. I'm not. 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:18.680 That makes me very uncomfortable because you don't identify as black, 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:21.679 you know. And I know we sometimes give Hispanics a 0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:26.800 past because of culturally their experiences in our communities. 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:32.400 Well they were I mean, and also Hispanics most right, 0:19:32.880 --> 0:19:41.240 particularly Puerto Ricans okay, Dominicans Okay, y'all. Some niggas, Okay, 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:43.359 they are black, you know what I'm saying. They literally 0:19:43.440 --> 0:19:48.320 mixed with African or black whatever wherever it came from. 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.720 The This is why I be trying to get away 0:19:51.720 --> 0:19:54.600 from like the black African American thing, right because and 0:19:54.720 --> 0:19:58.680 I don't one hundred degree agree with FBA right, because 0:19:58.680 --> 0:20:01.000 some of their rhetoric is extreme. I don't know if 0:20:01.080 --> 0:20:03.520 y'all ain't been on Clubhouse and to see them in 0:20:03.560 --> 0:20:06.240 action on Twitter and shit, it do be nasty, right, 0:20:06.520 --> 0:20:09.600 But at some point we do have to delineate right 0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:14.560 between Black Americans, right, people who are from this land 0:20:15.440 --> 0:20:16.800 and everybody else. 0:20:16.840 --> 0:20:18.600 Right, because why can't nothing be. 0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:25.560 For us ever? Ever? Nothing? You know? So people love niggashit, 0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:28.920 but they hate niggas right. So what Fatcho was saying 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:31.679 was really anti black. Its fuck to me, Yeah to 0:20:31.720 --> 0:20:34.239 me as well, because we are some broke niggas, how 0:20:34.240 --> 0:20:36.479 abou dad, and that we've been trying to get some 0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:39.880 fucking money. So the FBA, they really be focusing on 0:20:40.720 --> 0:20:44.040 reparations and things like that. But in order to get that, 0:20:44.359 --> 0:20:47.320