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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode and we talked Back to show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: you dreamers and chasers, niggas and hoes, everybody else in

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Speaker 1: between all the good things. It's your co host, AJ Haliday.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Tandem?

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Speaker 2: How y'all, it's Tam Bam. I love y'all. I love

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Speaker 2: you too, Aj.

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Speaker 1: Girl.

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Speaker 3: I'm in the holiday spirit, so I extra love you guys.

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Speaker 3: I feel so warm and fuzzy right now.

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Speaker 1: Did you drunk.

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Speaker 2: Hungover from the weekend? What'd you do this weekend?

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Speaker 1: One of my besties had like a, I guess it's

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Speaker 1: Christmas giving? Mm hmm, like a friends giving type of

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Speaker 1: friends miss yeah, and it was lit. We ate, we drunk.

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Speaker 1: I you know, I'd be really feeling like people be

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Speaker 1: expecting me to be entertainment because y'all know I travel

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Speaker 1: with a mic, right, So I did travel with my mic,

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Speaker 1: but I just wasn't on it this weekend. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I did. I did you were

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Speaker 1: on something else. I definitely was on drugs. Okay, now

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Speaker 1: got me a couple of little addies I've been holding

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Speaker 1: on to. So to get there, I had to stay

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Speaker 1: awake to drive because you know, a nigga's gonna be

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Speaker 1: like in drive. So I was on the addie this

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Speaker 1: weekend and I did some shrewm gummies and then the liquor.

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Speaker 2: So I was really like, I'm starting to the c spaceship.

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Speaker 1: Bitch. I was like sitting down being quiet. It was

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Speaker 1: the weirdest thing, and like, actually, bitch, I was there,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was really in.

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Speaker 1: My fucking head the whole time. And it's fucking weird, bitch.

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Speaker 2: What cool sounds like very relaxing.

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Speaker 1: But it was fun. We had some real good ass food. Okay,

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Speaker 1: oh god, damn, I forgot the chef's name. Anyway, he's

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Speaker 1: out of Dirham. He's so good man.

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Speaker 2: This is the second time it was it.

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Speaker 1: So he does like Asian fusion kind of so and

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Speaker 1: you know he always has like a little vegan or

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Speaker 1: something for me. So he had the oyster mushrooms. Ain't

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Speaker 1: just for me, but you know, just for anybody who

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Speaker 1: doesn't eat the meats, but he did like like Wagoo sliders.

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Speaker 1: I know, y'all meat eaters now, y'all. I went from

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Speaker 1: Lamb chops, the Wagoo, the thing with the with the

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Speaker 1: Wagoo burgers. Though, okay, if thirty if if if an

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Speaker 1: ounce of Waggo steak is thirty five dollars, I just

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Speaker 1: don't believe you're getting a whole burger mm hmmm for

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Speaker 1: a little bit of money. It doesn't make sense to me.

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Speaker 1: So what do y'all are? Y'all just don't really eating

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Speaker 1: regular beef okay, regular exactly and calling it wagu because

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Speaker 1: people don't even realize that oxtail is just fucking cow.

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Speaker 2: Also, it's just the ass cowtail, that's all it is.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't know about that Wago,

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Speaker 1: but it was like a whole, nice little spread. Met

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Speaker 1: some nice people this weekend. I love meeting new people,

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Speaker 1: making new friends. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Fun.

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Speaker 3: I worked this weekend. You know, this time of year

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Speaker 3: is very busy, so I worked a lot. But then

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Speaker 3: on Sunday I went to our college friend Jamaica's.

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Speaker 1: Happy belated birthday.

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Speaker 2: Jamaica run and baby.

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Speaker 3: When I tell you, I'm like, I'm hungover right now,

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Speaker 3: you guys, I got so drunk and I didn't drink

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Speaker 3: a lot though. It's just that I've been eating so

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Speaker 3: light that just a little bit of liquor took me

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Speaker 3: to the next level. And y'all we played UNO, and y'all,

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Speaker 3: I knocked over to UNO table. I took my whole

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Speaker 3: folk and sweet that motherfucker. Because they're gonna try to

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Speaker 3: say that you can put a draw four on a

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Speaker 3: draw like it was three draw twos on top of

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Speaker 3: each other, and they're gonna put a draw four on

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Speaker 3: top of that.

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Speaker 2: Y'all got me fucked up. If y'all think I about

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Speaker 2: to draw what eight six.

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Speaker 1: A lot ten? Half the damn deck.

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Speaker 2: No, I knocked the table over.

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Speaker 1: This is why I don't play cards with niggas, because

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Speaker 1: they be making up rules, man, Like, okay, we're playing

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Speaker 1: in real rules, or were doing nigga rules.

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Speaker 3: Right, because how you gonna put a draw four on

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Speaker 3: three draw twos? That is illegal?

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Speaker 1: But when people do do stacking, and you know, right,

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Speaker 1: can't you throw out all those wild cards at one time?

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Speaker 3: You can stack, but you can't stack a draw four

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Speaker 3: on draw twos. You can stack draw twos and you

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Speaker 3: can stack draw fors, but you can't stack. You got

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Speaker 3: it right, yes, So now you try to cheat and

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Speaker 3: now you're trying to pick up your six. You're trying

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Speaker 3: to make me pick up ten. I not the table

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Speaker 3: over the table fellow this nigga bee. He was like, damn,

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Speaker 3: you're trying to fuck up my leg, like yo leg?

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Speaker 1: So was the game over after that? No?

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Speaker 2: I picked the table back up.

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Speaker 1: Childish sh We played a lot of fun games too.

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Speaker 1: They had like some shit on the TV, like you

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Speaker 1: press the button on your cellphone like so the questions

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Speaker 1: come up on the screen. So they had like black

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Speaker 1: holiday movies and shit like that, and you got to

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Speaker 1: read it and whoever hits it first, like you get

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Speaker 1: up like in the running on the screen though, but

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Speaker 1: it was very interactive. I'm like, what the fuck I

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Speaker 1: wish I would have came up with that shit, like

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Speaker 1: you really playing the game, like you read it on

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Speaker 1: the TV and you pressed about on your phone and

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Speaker 1: then it goes to the TV like who's winning?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's dope.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: We played the game they had. It was a card

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Speaker 3: game where it had QR cod's in the car and

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Speaker 3: they play a song, right and you had to sing

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Speaker 3: a song and then it all cutout and you have

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Speaker 3: to keep singing where it cuts out. And if you

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Speaker 3: didn't keep singing where it cuts out, you had to

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Speaker 3: take a shot. That shit was too because it was

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Speaker 3: all R and B like nineties and two thousand songs

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to find the name of the app. I

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Speaker 1: can't find it. Anyway, it was lit. Yeah, we had

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Speaker 1: a good time. And look, so everybody was required to

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Speaker 1: bring a gift, right, and then like with the games,

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Speaker 1: who have won, you pick a gift, you know, like

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Speaker 1: the Secret Santa type shit, you pick whatever gift. I

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Speaker 1: just really wasn't picking no gift for real, and I

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Speaker 1: just when the games and all that shit was over,

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Speaker 1: I just picked up the last gift, the last gift,

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Speaker 1: the last gift that was sitting by the fireplace all

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Speaker 1: by his lonesome. All it was was like a water jug, right,

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Speaker 1: And the nigga who brought it, he was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you got that gift. He was like open up the jug,

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Speaker 1: though you look and see something else, and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so I go open up the jug. It's a fucking

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Speaker 1: pregnancy test. And then like we what it's right here.

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Speaker 1: It's a dollar store one two dollar twenty five. I

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Speaker 1: bye him should be accurate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just as good as any other tests.

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Speaker 1: But oah no, So like this is my week. My

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Speaker 1: period just went off, and I've been tracking my ovulation,

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Speaker 1: so I missed the window to try to get a Gemini.

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Speaker 1: So like Virgo was next up for me, right, I

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Speaker 1: was trying to do the Virgo and then Libra. So

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Speaker 1: the end of the year, like coming up this into

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Speaker 1: January fourth would be my ovulation time to get the

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Speaker 1: to get a virgo. So maybe maybe it's a sign

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Speaker 1: I might get pregnant in the week.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pray for it because I need me a

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Speaker 2: little niece, a nephew.

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Speaker 1: All my friends pregnant. Man, it's a lot of pregnant

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Speaker 1: bitches out here. They every time an old bitch get pregnant,

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Speaker 1: I just get more and more. Hope.

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Speaker 2: Yay, let's get into scenes. What happened?

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Speaker 1: What we got going on? Okay? This a little boy,

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Speaker 1: Travis Hunter. Y'all knows he won the Heisman? What team

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Speaker 1: is he playing on? Because I know this that he

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Speaker 1: just got drafted? Where's I mean? I really don't know

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Speaker 1: much about him. What I do know about him is

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Speaker 1: what the internet is keeps, you know, talk about about

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend. His girlfriend is Leanna Lenney. I know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what her real name is, but yeah, so

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago they were getting on her

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Speaker 1: because she was being real impatient while he was at

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Speaker 1: an event, asking like am I just supposed to be

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Speaker 1: sitting here? And we talked about it then.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then she didn't stand up when everybody was

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Speaker 3: giving him a standup of ovation and the coach had

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Speaker 3: it to her life stand up baby.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So the internet has been picking their relationship apart,

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Speaker 1: picking her ass apart, bringing up old video. She was

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Speaker 1: in somebody's rat video, she was at somebody's party, what

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Speaker 1: you know, taking pictures with a nigga. All type of

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Speaker 1: stuff they're bringing up. So Dravis Hunter has deactivated his

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Speaker 1: Instagram page because he can't take it. Y'all really about

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Speaker 1: to ruin that nigga's career, really talking about his mental health.

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Speaker 1: He's twenty one.

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Speaker 2: These are kids right alone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like he's not gonna get some He could get

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Speaker 1: like a maybe some super wholesome twenty one year old

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Speaker 1: who probably was groomed to be an NFL or NBA

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Speaker 1: wife he could probably get that, probably gonna be a

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Speaker 1: white girl. But these this is a regular. I think

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Speaker 1: she's like Hispanic or something like that. So I know

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Speaker 1: the black woman. Y'all probably want to see him on

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Speaker 1: a low brown girl. Okay, it might not happen, and

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Speaker 1: it's okay. That's this is his preference, This is what

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Speaker 1: he wants to be doing, and I think people should

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Speaker 1: stay out of it. I don't know why, they just

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Speaker 1: like dragging it so much.

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Speaker 3: Not.

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Speaker 1: What I will say is that whatever he decides to do,

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Speaker 1: just make sure he talks to his attorney along the

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Speaker 1: way and make sure all his PaperWorks straight. Because she

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Speaker 1: does have a money signed tattooed on her ring finger.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, just let.

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Speaker 3: The kids be kids and do anything and stay out

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Speaker 3: of it. There ain't nothing but a bunch of grown

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Speaker 3: motherfuckers too, you know, very intive in these children's relationship.

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Speaker 2: I can give a fuck.

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Speaker 1: So Deone Sanders actually came out and said something. He said,

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Speaker 1: I've tried my best not to get into Travis's business,

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Speaker 1: but I had to after seeing this. I'm here to

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Speaker 1: tell you, brother, wake up and quit playing. She talked

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Speaker 1: all that stuff about you, saying she was going to

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Speaker 1: address the situation once but kept talking about it. He said,

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Speaker 1: she loves the attention way more than you. She thinks

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Speaker 1: she isn't equal to you. I can tell you're a

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Speaker 1: great dude, and I promise there is a woman out

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Speaker 1: there who is going to make your life easy and

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Speaker 1: respect you. From what I can see, she has nothing

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Speaker 1: to offer but a major headache. What you got to offer,

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Speaker 1: She's not the one.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like nobody can decide that for you, like,

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Speaker 3: just stay out of it.

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Speaker 1: I think he might be you know, projecting a little

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Speaker 1: bit because of what went on between him and his

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Speaker 3: Right, So let that baby be, Let them, both of

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Speaker 3: Could be what's a what's a man? Or a woman

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see men doing that type of shit.

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Speaker 1: it's two sides to every fucking story, right, and you

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Speaker 3: That makes me very uncomfortable because you don't identify as black,

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Speaker 1: Well they were I mean, and also Hispanics most right,

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Speaker 2: Right, because why can't nothing be.

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Speaker 1: For us ever? Ever? Nothing? You know? So people love niggashit,

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Speaker 3: And it was broke niggas that was leaning back with

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Speaker 1: Concerned, And why do they get this? You niggas?

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Speaker 3: Some yeah, some Hispanics use niggas as a derogatory term

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Speaker 2: That's how we ended up boat exactly, not.

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Speaker 1: have been coming at Fat Joe about the use of

435
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 1: the word nigga and shit like that either, right, So

436
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 1: it's it's a big conversation around the whole thing. Now

437
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna dig in it a little bit.

438
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I what uh it was one of

439
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 1: the awards. I don't know if it was the Grammy something,

440
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 1: but the Hispanics were feeling like like they weren't being

441
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 1: included enough for it was something going on. But it's

442
00:22:53,920 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 1: like nobody, nobody creates a table for us. Nobody he

443
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 1: ever gives us a seat at their table. They try

444
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: very very hard to actually separate themselves from us when

445
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 1: it actually matters, right, So we really be on a

446
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: boat by ourselves and people be tugging at our fucking

447
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: ankle for help all of dayn time. If black people

448
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 1: foundational Black Americans, which I don't, it's just weird, right

449
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 1: because I don't. Everybody is not a descendant of a

450
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: slave either, right, but everybody is a descendant of Everybody

451
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: in the diaspora is a descendant of like Jim Crow

452
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: and almost we had a whole episode on this stuff

453
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: of all the nasty ass things that came after slavery

454
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: that then affected black people across the diaspora. So that's

455
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 1: even larger conversation. But I don't know. I just I

456
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 1: just think that people need to watch their fucking mouth.

457
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 2: That's what I think. Watch your mouth.

458
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: And then you sit in the room that dude, that

459
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: the batter rapper, I believe he's Jamaican, So neither one

460
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: of y'all are Black Americans, Right, that's why you could

461
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: keep ki key and think that shit fucking funny.

462
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,479
Speaker 2: It's not okay. It's hurtful. It's hurtful. But you know,

463
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 2: I think he's getting a.

464
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 3: Lot of backlash because of it, Like and I think

465
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 3: maybe he he might not give a fuck, but he should.

466
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: He should definitely give a fuck. He needs to. Maybe

467
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: we need to get a museum. We do have museums.

468
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: Go to the African American Museum and see why the

469
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: fuck what you're saying isn't okay. Like the same way

470
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 1: that you have the ai AD, I l the um

471
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 1: At Anti Defamation Deformation League for like the Holocaust and

472
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 1: the Jews and shit like that. Like we need some

473
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: ship like that. When you cross us, you got to

474
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,919
Speaker 1: go do twenty steps like Kyrie Irving had to do

475
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 1: when he quote unquote offended those people. Like we need y'all.

476
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 1: We need y'all to go do the same type of

477
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: shit because obviously y'all don't know why it is we're

478
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: in a position we are in now. It's not by

479
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: hamper stance.

480
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 2: And you don't care that it's hurt. You think you

481
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 2: just get a pass for whatever reason.

482
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't fuck with fact Joe today.

483
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 1: You shouldn't even have told me about that shit. Look,

484
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: I know I reported on it, but Tammy brought it

485
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: to my attention earlier and we had a whole, big, long,

486
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: drawing out conversation prior to this ship. I might not

487
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: want to say on Wax, but boy, fuck you. Okay,

488
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 1: get the show started anyway, y'all. It is the day

489
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: after Christmas, Merry Holidays, all that shit, Merry Christmas, and

490
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,239
Speaker 1: you know this is like the weird week. It's like

491
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 1: it's like there's Christmas and then it's like maybe people

492
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 1: have to go back go back to work. Maybe they don't.

493
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: They just trying to get their life situated for the

494
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: New Year's It's like.

495
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: If you do go back to work, do you really

496
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 2: give a fuck about work?

497
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 3: For nobody this week? Don't count, right, y'all, Dad, I'm here.

498
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 3: It's just I'm here just because I gotta be, and

499
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 3: that's it. Don't ask you to do it for real, right, So,

500
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 3: I think the only people who really working is people

501
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: trying to sell get them cars off their lot.

502
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 2: By the end of the year.

503
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: That's yep, le you're gonna get me one.

504
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 2: I'm going to get one.

505
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 3: I got to y'all. Let me tell y'all, I have

506
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 3: a range drover in my heat. Like in the past

507
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 3: two months, I swear, ship after ship after ship is

508
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 3: just fucking up. Like the Pulley system fucked up. Then

509
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 3: something went on with where the reservoir for the cooling.

510
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: Oh so you have a heating and you have a

511
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: cooling issue with your card the heat and not working.

512
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 3: I already got that fixed and now just like literally

513
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 3: two days ago, I have no heat and it's fucking

514
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 3: freezing out.

515
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,360
Speaker 1: Do you have add a freeze in the car?

516
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 3: Yes, because they just like, literally a month ago, they

517
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 3: fixed the cooling reservoir some shit, so because the air

518
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 3: wasn't working or something like that. So I got that

519
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 3: fixed and now it's another issue. So now I like,

520
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 3: the only reason I've been warm the heat off the

521
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 3: engine is the motherfucking heated seats and heat is steering.

522
00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 2: No, no, I'm getting out this motherfucker next week. I'm

523
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 2: done with this range Rover.

524
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 1: Range Rovers and land Rovers. They look nice, yeah, but

525
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: they are, like they're not the best cars.

526
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 2: I'm moving on over yeah.

527
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, So the topic this week we wanted to

528
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: talk about like post Christmas, uh economics essentially, right, So

529
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 1: the economics of post Christmas returns, sales and debt.

530
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 3: Right.

531
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 2: And lots of it.

532
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're back, and so you know, I think

533
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: the holidays and being at the very end of the year,

534
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: it does affect your finances going into the new year.

535
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people do more spending than

536
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: they actually should and new Year come around and you're

537
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 1: trying to dig yourself out of a hole from the

538
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 1: previous year. Personally, I don't be buying a whole bunch

539
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: of shit. One of my nieces told me she wanted

540
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: to with those little braces with the charms Pandora, the

541
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: Pandora bracelet thing. I got her a pair of sneakers,

542
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: and you know, usually I and that's because she asked

543
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: for it. I'm buy a shit for nobody else. But

544
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 1: usually I just give out scratch offs that I put

545
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: my name on the back. I sign it though I

546
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: signed them before I give it to them. So maybe

547
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: that's all I'll do this year. Maybe I'll just go

548
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: buy everybody two dollars Mega million or Powerball tickets and

549
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: see if somebody win. Like, yeah, this is just another

550
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: day like the Holidays when I have my own kid,

551
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: like I am going to create my own traditions with them.

552
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: I'm not. I probably won't be celebrating Christmas real.

553
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 3: No, I try not to do a lot of Every year.

554
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 3: I end up always overspending because something jumps into my

555
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 3: spirit and I just like want to buy everybody everything

556
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 3: I can potentially afford, because I just enjoy seeing people

557
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 3: open gifts and like, oh, how does it make them feel?

558
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 3: I love to see like nothing hurts my feelings more

559
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 3: than disappointment on somebody's face when they opened up my gifts.

560
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm heartbroken.

561
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: But this year, I ain't do that. I did not

562
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 3: go crazy. I did not overspend. I adopted a kid

563
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 3: and bought gifts for that child, you know. And then

564
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 3: that's really all I did. I didn't buy nobody else shit.

565
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: And I me and my sister, we always exchange gifts.

566
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 3: I was like, don't give me nothing.

567
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: I don't.

568
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 3: She's like, what do you want? I was like some,

569
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: I guess some Cris White strips. I was like, but

570
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 3: I can literally go to the grocery.

571
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: Store and get that for myself. Like I don't need to.

572
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: Just don't buy me nothing because I really need nothing,

573
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: you know.

574
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 3: And I sacrificed, Like do you see my fingernails. They

575
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 3: look crazy. I have not gotten them done. I use

576
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 3: my nail money to buy that kid.

577
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 2: Kid.

578
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 3: Yo, So it's just gonna be ugly until they do year.

579
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 3: That's just what's gonna happen. And I'm thinking about going

580
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 3: to press on.

581
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: Nails that should be looking nice.

582
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm about to do. I'm about to

583
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 3: soak these off and get me some press offs and

584
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 3: calling them.

585
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll try to make my own like design them.

586
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: No, no, I ain't doing that. I ain't got time.

587
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: That shit would be hit d us.

588
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: I really don't like like the nails because they fuck

589
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: up like your nail bad. And I like my natural nails.

590
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: I like when my nails grow out. Right now, they're

591
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: not because I ain't been on Vitamin D for a

592
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: couple of months. I haven't had my like real vitamin regimen.

593
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, I apologize shit this weekend on my homegirl.

594
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: Shit they ugly at hell, chipping toenails look the same,

595
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: but just to match my dress, that's it.

596
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 2: I got my first petticure since I broke my feet.

597
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 2: I had to.

598
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 3: I had to because my feet looked like if I

599
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 3: didn't go get my feet done, I was gonna be

600
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 3: able to snatch your salmon out the stream.

601
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: Was crazy. Yeah I didn't spit on that, but after that,

602
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: that's it.

603
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 3: But I just feel like everybody has been in like

604
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 3: a financial You can feel the economy.

605
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 2: Squeezing the life out of us, like if.

606
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: Is it really? Because I still feel like people still

607
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: spend a lot of money on bullshit, people still acting

608
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: like they got it, which is why these motherfuckers keep

609
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: reving and shit up, I got it when I got it.

610
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 2: I mean, I've been holding a dollar so tight. The

611
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 2: ego on that motherfucker, just the what of God, I've

612
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: been holding a dollar tight?

613
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: So all right, So this article I'm reading, it's actually

614
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: from Forbes. It says the holiday season, often referred to

615
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: as the most wonderful time of year, leaves behind a

616
00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: mixed bag of emotions and financial consequences. Once the decorations

617
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: come down and the festive chair subsides, many individuals are

618
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: faced with the reality of holiday spending. Let's delve into

619
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: the financial aftermath of Christmas, exploring their surgeon returns and

620
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: the allure of post holiday sales and the lingering weight

621
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: of debt, along with actionable tips for recovery and smarter spending.

622
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: So you got people returning a lot of shit. There's

623
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: a lot of buyers or morse after Christmas. Maybe somebody

624
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: returning your shit because they need the money, right, So

625
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: make sure y'all provide those gift receipts with y'all stuff,

626
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: And don't question. If you don't never ask them, you

627
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: never see them wearing your shit, Like, don't ask, no questions.

628
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,239
Speaker 1: They spend the money on something they really need it.

629
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: I do have a confession.

630
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 3: So I did buy myself a very expensive bottle of perfume.

631
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: Me too, Oh how much very I gotta sail though,

632
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: one hundred eighty dollars.

633
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 2: But you got some creed the Queen of Sce that

634
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: smells so good. I could not.

635
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: I do want to bottle creed.

636
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: And then my sister like a little demon sitting on

637
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: my shoulder, Yeah, get it, get it, get it, get it.

638
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 2: Because I was like, do you think I need to

639
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 2: buy that? I was like, that's expensive. She's like, you

640
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: should treat yourself. Treat yourself to one thing for Christmas.

641
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: So then I bought it, and I was like, oh,

642
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: I smelled so good.

643
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 3: I wore. I got compliments on how good I smelled.

644
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 3: But then I was like, you just spent nearly five

645
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 3: hundred dollars on a fragrance.

646
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: Go take that ship back. So I went to take

647
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 2: it back. As I did, I would write the Queen

648
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 2: of Silk, okay, smell good. Oh my god.

649
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 3: I went to take it back. They would not take

650
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 3: that ship back. They was like, oh man, this is open.

651
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 3: We can't we can't resell it, yeah, and I was like, oh,

652
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 3: I ain't out.

653
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 2: That's how y'all did. I thought y'all was like Target.

654
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 1: So normally what I do, because I do have some

655
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: I love like a good fragrance. So I just bought

656
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: a bottle of Joe Malone, which is not five hundred

657
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 1: dollars for this bottom.

658
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 2: But that's it, this really nice fragrance.

659
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: But I try to catch like Sephora sacks like they

660
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: usually have, like Coupon's, specifically sacks for Creed. Now I

661
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: don't see it this year, but I know for sure

662
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 1: last year they had Creed on sale half off. Damn yes,

663
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 1: last year, so you gotta I'll just be buying shit, y'all. Listen.

664
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 1: I don't like paying full price for nothing because I

665
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,479
Speaker 1: know the value of shit, especially in America, you ain't

666
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: getting the value that you think you're getting for the

667
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: price point. So I'm always trying to find a fucking deal, bitch. Okay.

668
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: I don't like feeling like I got finessed.

669
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 3: I definitely felt like I finished myself because well, am

670
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 3: I buying five hundred dollars perfume? But it's not so good.

671
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: I just like one squirt enough it's so concentrated, it's

672
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 3: so powerful.

673
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 2: So y'all gonna smell meat like that all year.

674
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: You don't ask to use me ship.

675
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 3: No, you can use my vanilla sky cheap TJ Max shit.

676
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got some nice fragments is from TJ Max

677
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: shallow I usually mixed with my expensive shit, like just

678
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: to just get a long last and smell all day long.

679
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,879
Speaker 1: Because with the ship from TJ Max, you can spend

680
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: at a thousand time. Don't give a fuck. It's about

681
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 1: only costs me twenty five dollars. I'll go get another one,

682
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: buy the bulk.

683
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 3: Like that's what my sister be doing. I'd be like,

684
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 3: do you have on enough? Like She'll be like, She'll

685
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 3: come in the room and I'll be like, bitch, do

686
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 3: you have on enough? And she'll be like, it's not

687
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 3: that much. And then it'll be like you can see, Like.

688
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, it should not be able to stay.

689
00:35:55,480 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: On your damn clues. Shame anyway. The rush to return

690
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: gifts that says returning or exchanging unwanted gifts has become

691
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: a hallmark of the post Christmas season. According to retail

692
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: industry reports, nearly thirty percent of all holiday purchases are returned,

693
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 1: creating a logistical challenge for retailers and an economic ripple effect.

694
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: Retailers often occur costs from processing returns, restocking items, or

695
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: marking them down for reseal. For consumers, the process can

696
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:36,280
Speaker 1: lead to and Paul's spending, a phenomenon known as boomerang effects,

697
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: where shoppers end up spending more during returns than they intended.

698
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that girl math shit. You know you're going

699
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: there and like I already you know, I returned this

700
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 2: and now I have seventy dollars.

701
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: And you add another seventy to it.

702
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 3: Yes, like I got one hundred and forty dollars worth

703
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 3: of stuff for only seventy.

704
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: You know that's girl math because it's not only seventy.

705
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 1: You already spit it, right, that's definitely the fucking girl math.

706
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: All right. So here's a pro tip. It says to

707
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: avoid impulsive purchases while returning gifts, set a strict budget

708
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 1: beforehand and stick to it. Consider asking for store credit

709
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: instead of cash to reduce the temptation to overspin. So, yeah, like,

710
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: motherfuckers be returning some shit to add that to something

711
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: more expensive, So really, you haven't saved anything anything.

712
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 2: I know, I'm a victim of that. Like it was free,

713
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: but it was free.

714
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: It was not free at all.

715
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 2: Money stupid, just.

716
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: A thing, right. The lore of post holiday cells retailers

717
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 1: capitalize on the post Christmas period by offering steep discounts

718
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: to clear out on wanted inventory. While this can be

719
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: a golden opportunity for savvy shoppers like myself, okay, it's

720
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: also a potential trap for those who have already stressed

721
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: their stressed their finances. Then the psychology of finding a

722
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: deal often leads to over purchasing, exacerbating financial stream.

723
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 3: And I just think that makes me think about like

724
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 3: single moms and how they will go to the ends

725
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 3: of the earth for their babies and sacrifice to make

726
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 3: sure it's ship under that tree. I'm talking about it.

727
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 3: If somebody listening might have got so christ period, you know,

728
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 3: they're gonna do whatever, it texts me because they don't

729
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 3: want their child to feel like they're going without, you know.

730
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 3: And it's kind of sad because really that's not even

731
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 3: what Christmas is about. I mean, it's about the birth

732
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 3: of Christ.

733
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 2: You know.

734
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 3: If we're gonna talk about it, is it I mean,

735
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 3: that's what it's supposed to be about. That's what it

736
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,280
Speaker 3: initially was about. You know, the wise men brought gifts

737
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: because of the birth of Jesus Christ, not so your

738
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 3: king can have an electric Lamborghini, you know.

739
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: You know.

740
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 3: So it's really like, I remember when I was young,

741
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 3: my grandmother would give me a brown paper bag with pecans, oranges,

742
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 3: apples mints in it, and I used to be like,

743
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 3: what the fuck is this? You know, it's so ungrateful.

744
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 3: I just didn't understand. Like, but when she said, you know,

745
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 3: that was what she was, what she got when she

746
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 3: was a little girl, and that's all they got, you know,

747
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 3: and that would be their only time to have fruit

748
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 3: and mints and nuts, Like they didn't get to eat

749
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,439
Speaker 3: that shit. So having that this is my great grandmother, y'all.

750
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 3: So this is early nineteen hundreds. She was born in

751
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 3: nineteen twenty one, So having some mints and pecans was

752
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 3: a treat and I didn't respect it or understand it

753
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 3: as a young girl. I just was like, I don't

754
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 3: want no fucking range just for Christmas, you know. But

755
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 3: now I would kill a small animal to have my

756
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: grandmother back bringing me a bag of mintce, oranges and apples.

757
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: You know, some people were in the sacrifice.

758
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 2: A small animal. Yes, to have my grandmother bag with

759
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: a bad a brown paper bag with that bullshit, isn't it. Yes,

760
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:22,879
Speaker 2: I'd be so happy to get there right now.

761
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 1: Well, historically, some may argue that Christian Christmas began at

762
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: more of a pagan holidays because a lot of the

763
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: traditions are kissling, kissing in the misslete, leaving food out

764
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 1: for some spirit. So it's a lot of things people

765
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: be doing and not realizing what it is that they're

766
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: actually partaking in, you know, putting the tree up and

767
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: decorating the tree and all these things. So I believe

768
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: it was a counter by the Romans. Christmas was a

769
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: counter to a pagan holiday saturnail Ya, which like the

770
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: they basically the days were longer, like in the winter,

771
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: like the winter solstice and stuff like that, so the

772
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: days were longer, so they just it was just a

773
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: counter to some other shit anyway. But now it's it's

774
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: a tradition. Same thing with Thanksgiving. We know the bad

775
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,760
Speaker 1: shit about Thanksgiving, but now it's like it's just tradition now.

776
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 2: Right where a family gets together, eat, drink, talk, shit.

777
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: Fight, be ungrateful, and be young for sure. Okay, but

778
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: you're given gifts and all that stuff Christmas. It's still

779
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: a good time give gifts and all that. I think

780
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: last year was the first time we actually did like

781
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: family photos. And this whole year my mom was acting

782
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 1: like I never seen the pictures. I never got there.

783
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 1: I done sent that damn link for them pictures thirty

784
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: eleven times. You ain't seen the pictures because you ain't

785
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: see them, because you ain't want to see them.

786
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: You ain't seeing me one either.

787
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 1: I did not I didn't like them, but I definitely

788
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: still sent them to my family. I sent the pictures ouse,

789
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 1: but it's about two hundred pictures link and you ain't

790
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: like not one. Not really. I hate pictures, man, I

791
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: hate taking pictures for real.

792
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 3: What can we do to like not feel the strain

793
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 3: financially in this week going into the new year.

794
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: I guess we'll get to that if I keep reading this,

795
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:27,439
Speaker 1: uh this thing? Okay, right, So the loure of post

796
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: holiday sales, the protipt for that is, you know, to

797
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 1: not like overspend because it's a sale. Now, I do

798
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: have a list of things that I actually need, right

799
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: and I was actually in the dark last night trying

800
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: to find the best price on all the things like

801
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: I want a new laptop, I want another comforter for

802
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: my bed, like things like that. Like I'm going to

803
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: pick up due to holiday sales, but I don't just

804
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: be just buying a bunch of bullshit anyway. It says

805
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: approach approach post holiday sales with a clear list of

806
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: what you need. I just said that, right, not what's

807
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: on sale. Prioritize purchasing essentials or gifts for future occasions

808
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: rather than indulging in non essential items. So that's a

809
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: tip if you're going to go out and partake in

810
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: the holiday sales, because what your fine is a lot

811
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: of times they be done mark the price up on

812
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 1: some shit and then give you forty percent off. Really

813
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: you still paying over a ticket price? Yeah, So next one,

814
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 1: it says the weight of holiday debt. Holidays spending frequently

815
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 1: leaves consumers grappling with debt. A study from a major

816
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: financial institution revealed that the average American occurs over thirteen

817
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: hundred dollars in holiday debt, with many relying on high

818
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 1: interest credit cards to cover the expenses. The emotional tale

819
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: of debt often extends beyond finances, affected mental wellbeing and relationships,

820
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: and it extends way past Christmas, okay.

821
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,720
Speaker 2: All the way into the new year exactly.

822
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 1: So appro to for that is, if you've accumulated holiday debt,

823
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: create a repayment plan as soon as possible prior to

824
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: high interest debt, and consider transferring balances to a lower

825
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: interest option such as a zero percent APR credit card

826
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: if feasible. Maybe that's what you should have asked Santa for

827
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: for fucking Christmas, was a deck consolidation program instead of

828
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: spending more money. Nigga Financial recovery and planning ahead. Covering

829
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: from the financial impact of the holiday season requires both

830
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: short term adjustments and long term planning, and it says

831
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: here some strategies so evaluate evaluate your spending, take a

832
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: close look at holiday expenses to identify areas where you've overspent.

833
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: Used this information to set a more realistic budget for

834
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: next year because you still don't have rent.

835
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:52,760
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.

836
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 3: I know that people do this because as a hairstylist,

837
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 3: January is.

838
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 2: One of the slowest mook. This is not getting their

839
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 2: hair done.

840
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 3: They got it done before Christmas, and they really not

841
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 3: doing nothing in January, and they're just trying to save

842
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 3: money because they spent it all.

843
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: For Embrace them no spend month. Look at that number two.

844
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: Embrace the no spend month. January is an ideal time

845
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: to adopt no spend challenge, focusing only on essentials to

846
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: recover financially. Today.

847
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 2: You can get some motherfucking here.

848
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 3: The y'all gonna have a bitch out there doing door

849
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 3: dash this January. If y'all don't co get, I'm like,

850
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 3: I ain't above it. Though y'all might be listening to

851
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 3: the show. And if I come bring you your Chipotla

852
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 3: scare and.

853
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: You're in your new car, you better seen that range

854
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: Rover for Instacart.

855
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 2: Bitch that motherfucker and that ship is getting my nerves

856
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 2: all right, let's me be instacart with no heat. Why

857
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 2: my food? Oh, it's a refrigerator in this motherfucker.

858
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: It's a chicken salad, all right. I said, start a

859
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: holiday saying it's fun. Begin setting aside a small amount

860
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: each month for next year's holiday expenses. Automating savings can

861
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: make this process seamless. So that's, you know, save some

862
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: money for the following year. But you're gonna be done

863
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: dabbed in that ship because you done overspent the year before.

864
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: It's just a bad cycle. Just get out of it.

865
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:37,879
Speaker 1: Just don't buy nobody's shit this year.

866
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 3: You know what I've been doing, and it's kind of

867
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 3: been working. I've been sending all my money to my

868
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 3: savings account, and then I just pull a little piece

869
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 3: off for bills.

870
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: That's what I do. That's for the most part.

871
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:50,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that helped.

872
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 3: I used to like let it go to my you know,

873
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 3: checking and then just push them to the savings. But

874
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 3: now I just let it all go to the savings

875
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 3: and then I pull out the bill money and the

876
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 3: little a little bit of play money.

877
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 2: And I've been saving more that way.

878
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you also most things now you get a fee,

879
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: you know, for withdrawing from savings too much in thirty

880
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,359
Speaker 1: eight period, So I'm gonna make sure you don't end

881
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,439
Speaker 1: up with an amazingcy at the end of the month.

882
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I haven't been withdrawn that much. I'll take

883
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 3: a few hundred, just a few hundred out, you know,

884
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 3: to play with, but the rents all take it out

885
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 3: for my bills and then I just don't touch it.

886
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: Number four says Track sales. Strategically plan purchases around annual

887
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 1: sales events such as President's Day or back to school

888
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 1: promotions to spread out expenses. Number five says practice mindful

889
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: gift giving. Consider alternatives to traditional gift givings, such as

890
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:52,760
Speaker 1: homemade presents or experiences, to reduce costs without sacrificing thoughtfulness.

891
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: So the one gift I bought for the party this weekend,

892
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: I bought a portable charger, Like, who don't need that?

893
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: Twenty dollars was a gift? I mean basically some people

894
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: probably spent over that. But motherfuck is always around here

895
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: with adad iPhone? Like who the girl? Who got it?

896
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 1: She was like, girl, I needed this so bad. Like

897
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: people don't buy the things that they need a lot

898
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: of times.

899
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so give some head. It's always, oh my god,

900
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:21,959
Speaker 2: you don't cost you nothing. It's a little sweat.

901
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: You didn't bring a twenty dollar gift. You're just giving

902
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:25,399
Speaker 1: head at the party.

903
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 2: At the party, come back.

904
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 1: Here at the bathroom, get your gift. Who picked that

905
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,240
Speaker 1: empty gift bag? Come back and get your gifts.

906
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: But if it's a girl, now, now you gucci at

907
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 3: the party, y'all.

908
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 2: I'm joking, yo, jokes.

909
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, so those those are some the lemits

910
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 1: that people run into, and then also some tips to

911
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: try to help remedy those situations. While the holidays bring

912
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: joy and together, this, the financial aftermath often requires a

913
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: careful navigation. By understanding the economic dynamics of returns, sales,

914
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: and debt and implementing practical recovery strategies, consumers can urge

915
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: excuse me, can emerge from the holiday, bitch not you're

916
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: reading along from holiday season and better financial shape the

917
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,479
Speaker 1: key used to learn from past spending habits, embrace a

918
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: proactive approach, and set the stage for a more financial

919
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 1: secure holiday season next year. I sort of God, every

920
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: year I learn to be better with money because I'd

921
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: be like, nah, this can't happen to me again next year,

922
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: Like nah, I can't do that. I can't be like

923
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 1: this next year. So maybe people got to go through it,

924
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: you know, to get through it. Yeah, some people got

925
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: to go through it to get through it.

926
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 3: So well, I'm gonna do better. I mean I feel

927
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 3: like I did better just because my nail I'm sitting

928
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 3: here with my nail is not done.

929
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: I know I'm changing.

930
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: That's never an expense for me.

931
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 3: I have something really important that I want to say

932
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 3: to you. All right, I'm really proud of your reading today.

933
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 2: You did really good, y'all.

934
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: I just be thinking fast. That'd be the problem. Like

935
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm seeing a whole I'm putting words that I ain't

936
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 1: fucking there because I'm thinking this what should be there.

937
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 3: A lot of times when you when you sent me

938
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 3: this and I saw all that you had to read

939
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 3: to day, I was like, look, we're gonna be here, three.

940
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: Good friends.

941
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: Shut up, bitch, all right. When we come from this break,

942
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: we got a dumb bitch shory. Oh that's it for

943
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,240
Speaker 1: the conversation, y'all. Listen, stop spending all you got.

944
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 3: That money, right, getting kids some mother fucking oranges and

945
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:53,479
Speaker 3: apples and tell them.

946
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 2: About my grandma shit.

947
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 1: Oh, actually, stop telling them about Christmas. There you really

948
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: want have to worry about it.

949
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 2: Right, I ain't getting my dog shit for Christmas. Don't

950
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 2: know what it is. You don't know it's Christmas.

951
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm not telling my kids by day birthday anytime they

952
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: come like, well what's Christmas? Who told you that? That's

953
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: the devil.

954
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 2: Now you're gonna need to get the therapy with.

955
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: Your girl McDonald's is the devil. All these things I

956
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: don't want to know about is bad. Okay, if I

957
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: tell you about it, it is bad about it.

958
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 2: Y'all will be right back with a dumbitch story. Stay tuned,

959
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 2: dumb bitch stories.

960
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,359
Speaker 3: So because we've all been a dumb bitch at least

961
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 3: once or twice, y'all. So I'm gonna read this to y'all,

962
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 3: and as much as I've been talking shit, I might

963
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 3: fuck this up just because.

964
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,760
Speaker 1: You always fuck it out when you're reading other people's words,

965
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: like it's so informal a lot of times.

966
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 3: Go ahead, Hey, I love the podcast so much. Tam

967
00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 3: bam my good Cancyrian internet cousin. I'm July thirteenth, Happy

968
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 3: very day, boo my cancer sister, and aj my good

969
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 3: Gemini internet cousin. I'm writing in for a dumb best story.

970
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 3: And well, I wouldn't say it's a dumb bitch story.

971
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 3: I just wanted to know if I'm in the right

972
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 3: or wrong. Long story short, my childhood bestie and one

973
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 3: of my guy cousins that's like my brother was in

974
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 3: a relationship for years. They break up, he moved, stays,

975
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 3: he comes home to a girl he was with in

976
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 3: middle school gets her pregnant. He tells me, I'm thinking

977
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: of telling my bestie because I know he's still on

978
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 3: her line. He tells me, I'm thinking of telling.

979
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: No, he tells her that I understand what she's saying.

980
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 1: He basically told her that he got the middle school

981
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: friend pregnant, right.

982
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 3: And telling her best friend because he's still talking to

983
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 3: her best Right. So, my friend texts me saying she

984
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 3: has tea. We meet up to talk and have drinks.

985
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:03,399
Speaker 3: She tells me they hooked up, and then that's when

986
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 3: I tell her about That's when I tell her he's

987
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 3: about to be a dad and to just leave the

988
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 3: man alone. Am I right or wrong for telling her that?

989
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 3: I just don't like how men think they can have

990
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 3: their cake and eat it too, And plus she was

991
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 3: going to find out anyway, But as a good friend,

992
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 3: I felt like I had to tell her right then.

993
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you did the right thing.

994
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: Yeah she did the right thing for sure, because I mean,

995
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: was he going to tell her and then you smashing

996
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: all while you got a baby on the way, and

997
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: then you know your friend, you know your friend probably

998
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: about to take this shit so far in her head,

999
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: she going to start a whole relationship with him, probably.

1000
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,439
Speaker 3: Because they were together for years, you know, so this

1001
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 3: isn't like some hookup. This is someone that she's potentially

1002
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 3: loved and now she's you know, we like to say like, oh,

1003
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 3: it's just sex, it's nothing, and then you look up

1004
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 3: and now you crying and feed a position.

1005
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: Oh sucking your thumb in the corner. So no, you

1006
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: ain't wrong. I wonder what the homegirl said back to her, though, Like,

1007
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: I wonder what was the homegirl's response, is she's so

1008
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: fucking with him? Did she confront him about we need

1009
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 1: some more I want to know some more stuff because

1010
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: I've actually been in this situation before it I felt

1011
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 1: like I one of me and my best friends, like

1012
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: our relationships started going downhill after a pregnancy.

1013
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 2: M h.

1014
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: Why I think whenever she broke up with my cousin,

1015
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: she kind of broke up with me too, and they

1016
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: have been together for years.

1017
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 2: But sometimes that it'd be necessary, you know, I ain't.

1018
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: Do that her, I mean, in regardless of what I

1019
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 1: feel like, me and her relationship was closer than her

1020
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: and me and my cousin. Yeah, that's my first cousin.

1021
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 1: But she was also on just some some wear those

1022
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: shit anyway. But I hope her boy cousin isn't upset

1023
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 1: because she told her best friend, because why are you

1024
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 1: playing in my friend face?

1025
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 2: Right?

1026
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 3: Well, it depends on what he was saying, because if

1027
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 3: it was no strings attached sex, he don't owe her

1028
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 3: no truth about that.

1029
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 1: I think if I'm having sex with somebody, I would

1030
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 1: like to know that you have a baby on the way.

1031
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: And if we were previously in a relationship and you

1032
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: still be like on my line trying to be with

1033
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: me type shit, and we ended up having sex recently,

1034
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: I want to know that you have a baby on

1035
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: the way because I probably wouldn't have fucked you.

1036
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 2: I would want to know too. But if it depends

1037
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 2: on what the conversations are, because if they're just hooking up,

1038
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 2: he don't necessarily have to tell her that shit.

1039
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: You know, man, you a boy.

1040
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 3: No, I'm just I just think abbruptively, like it just

1041
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 3: depends on I agree, I would want to know that shit.

1042
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 3: I literally had something like that happened to me recently,

1043
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 3: you know, like damn, I see baby shit all pictures,

1044
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,879
Speaker 3: Like the fuck how you couldn't tell me that you know.

1045
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 1: Right, But do you feel like that nigga wasn't obligated

1046
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 1: to tell you?

1047
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:47,879
Speaker 3: I do feel like he was. Yeah, yeah, no, that's

1048
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I agree, But it just depends on

1049
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 3: what their conversations were like. Because she said I got

1050
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 3: t we hooked up. It may not have been even

1051
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 3: like you know, it could have been like some accidental

1052
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:03,399
Speaker 3: fuck shit.

1053
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 2: You never know.

1054
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 3: We need more information, girls, So when you listen to

1055
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 3: this episode really still, because I know, I guess bitches

1056
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:11,839
Speaker 3: don't be willing to type all that shit.

1057
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 2: What's the phone number where it called?

1058
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,879
Speaker 1: Right? She said? Long story? Short? Like why you ain't

1059
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: send us a long story? We appreciate it though, Yeah,

1060
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: it's send the long story. You're right?

1061
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 2: What's the phone number?

1062
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 1: Oh for them to dial in it? Girl? The shame?

1063
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: Okay it is nine one nine four one zero seven

1064
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: seven three five, but that's still only three minutes, so.

1065
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 2: It should be three minutes worth of shit.

1066
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 3: Make make talk faster than you type, y'all. This is

1067
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 3: we'll see y'all next year.

1068
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:50,479
Speaker 2: For sure.

1069
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,720
Speaker 1: We didn't say what we was grateful for a bitch

1070
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,360
Speaker 1: all month we did last episode, but yeah.

1071
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 2: We did it, So what else we were grateful for.

1072
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 3: I'm grateful for a new car, That's what I'm grateful

1073
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 3: a bitch, like I'm so grateful for he did and

1074
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 3: he did steering wheel right now, because without it it

1075
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 3: would be frozen.

1076
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 2: God. But I don't want to pay to get it fixed,

1077
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:14,720
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah.

1078
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, So if y'all see me right down the street

1079
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 3: in a hoodie, is calf.

1080
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: Not your business? My your god? Damn, I mama said,

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Speaker 1: mind your mother.

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Speaker 2: Business, bitch. All right, what you're grateful for?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm grateful for this past weekend, Like I said earlier,

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Speaker 1: Let's just you know, congregating with friends and loved ones

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Speaker 1: and meeting new people and good food and good spirits,

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Speaker 1: all the good things I had This last last week,

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Speaker 1: I had it. I did a lot of outside stuff,

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Speaker 1: I think, not just on the weekend. I did, like

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Speaker 1: a dinner party this past weekend. I mean this past

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Speaker 1: last week. I did a dinner party, messing new people

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Speaker 1: at the dinner party. This week, I just somebody just

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Speaker 1: texting some ship for today, lauda. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm about to be outside for the new year.

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Speaker 2: That's good. You should you should. Well, we love y'all.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate y'all, remember.

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Speaker 1: Too, nah man, If you enjoyed this episode, y'all tune

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Speaker 1: in every Thursday on The Black Effect A right Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio Apple Where what the fuck you get this podcast at?

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Speaker 1: Listen to the podcast at. It's your co host a

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Speaker 1: J Holiday, y'all do all the things we say, all

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Speaker 1: the things click like subscribe on YouTube on Apple iHeart Yeah. Oh,

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Speaker 1: y'all can catch us on Gangster Chronicles this week too

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Speaker 1: on their their podcast. We did a little collaboration and

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Speaker 1: maybe more to come.

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Speaker 2: Uh now, why I couldn't have said that?

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Speaker 1: He's like, because you was about to end the show,

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Speaker 1: but you said speak now. Yes you did. Well.

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Speaker 3: I was just telling them a subscribe to our ship

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Speaker 3: so we could get girl.

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Speaker 1: Y'all, y'all people be running the back. They'd be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you did say it's such a such, but you just

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Speaker 1: was about to say speak now.

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Speaker 2: No I was. I swear I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: Literally said I speak now.

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Speaker 2: I didn't. All right, go ahead, I don't know what

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Speaker 2: to say. No, motherfucking that's your co host a J

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Speaker 2: kick a tail.

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Speaker 3: Y'all insufficient on Instagram follow me. She already told y'all

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Speaker 3: to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: H well, I'm gonna see y'all ash next year.

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Speaker 2: And we'll see y'all next year, God willing, We love you.

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Speaker 1: PE four more podcasts from iHeartRadio. Visit the iHeartRadio app,

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Speaker 1: Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.