1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I have a sequel story to the 2 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: Uh that's how they that's how they get you. 3 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: I wish everybody else got you again. 4 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: You've gotten again, gotten again. So if everyone remembers that 5 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: was the story where I went to Mount Rushmore with 6 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: my family. Uh. I was ready, really happy to just 7 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: drive past it and uh my wife was like, why 8 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: are you not willing to pay for the parking? And 9 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: you know, I said, that's how they get you. And 10 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: I realized I had become my father because when I 11 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 1: was a kid, this is every trip with my dad 12 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: was about us getting screwed over by the hotel or 13 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: to pay for something, right, Like, we just never it 14 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: was never easy, right, yeah, and every city was just 15 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: a disaster if we were traveling. Okay, So Indy, we 16 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: were gone for a weekend and usually Indy will stay 17 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: with his grandparents. But then this time Uncle Shiloh was like, 18 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: I'll take Indy for twenty four hours. We're like, that's 19 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: amazing this uncle the past time and he's like, I'll 20 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 1: take them to the movies, We'll go to the beach, 21 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: you know, and he got his whole plant. I'm like, great, 22 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: So we don't you know, we're gone. We were this 23 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: is back when we were at south By Southwest, I think. 24 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: So anyway, uh didn't really stay in touch other and 25 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: then a couple like texts here and there of like 26 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: oh you got him, Okay, have fun. So we get 27 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: back and we're like, so, Indy, how was how was 28 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: the weekend? How was it? 29 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 3: You know? 30 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: And talks about being with the grandparents were like how 31 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: was it with Uncle Shiloh? And you know, i mean 32 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: kids always like pulling teeth, just get them to like 33 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: tell anything anything. So he's like, yeah, we went to 34 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: the trampoline park. I'm like, you went to the trampoline park? 35 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Did you make it to the beach? 36 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: And then he like kind of just said yeah, we 37 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: went here and there, and I'm like okay, I'm like quiet, quiet, 38 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: And then he goes and we kept getting scammed though, 39 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: and I'm like, what do you mean, well, what's going on? 40 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: Well He's like, well, I mean like Shiloh came and 41 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: picked me up and then we went to the Trampline parking. 42 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: You know the parking like the way the sign is 43 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: for the parking and how much it costs and they 44 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: said there was only ten dollars. So Uncle Shalloh got 45 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: out and he was like, but you said it was 46 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: you know, and they charged him fifteen. So then he 47 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: was yelling at the guy and I'm like oh, and 48 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, how else did you get scammed? 49 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:32,079 Speaker 4: Oh? 50 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 1: Then we get to the trampoline park and you know, 51 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: they make you buy socks, and I'm like, yeah, that's 52 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 1: that's that's that's how they get you. 53 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 5: Huh. 54 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: And I realized that my brother, having never been a 55 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: parent in this situation, is be all completely my dad 56 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: and is living out all my dad through my son now. 57 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: And so yeah, Shirda, I was like, idy, please tell 58 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: me every time you got scammed, and so he went 59 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: through and it was literally any time they went to 60 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: get ice cream or anything. Everything. I could not believe. 61 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: I was dying. And so I finally I went over 62 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: to Shiloh's and you know, we were hanging out with everybody, 63 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: and then everybody went to bed. It was him and 64 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: me just thought. I was like waiting you here, and 65 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: then he was like, oh my god, I've become our death. Yes, dude, 66 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: you and I feel you man, It's He's like yeah, 67 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: but but we really did keep getting scared, like I'm 68 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: sure you did, Shilah. I'm sure you did. I'm sure 69 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: everybody to get you. 70 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:31,520 Speaker 5: Yes, you're scammed, so. 71 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: That's how they get you. Still running strong in the 72 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: Strong family. I'm fighting the urge on a daily basis. 73 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: Now it's become a joke and hopefully Shiloh will be 74 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: able to laugh at himself because oh yeah, I'm right. 75 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: I have a question. You can't bring your own socks 76 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: to the trampoline part. 77 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: You have how you can bring your ones that you 78 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: got the last time you came, but we always forget. 79 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: So you show up and you have to get the 80 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: like their socks with like the little nubbies. 81 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 5: You have your own grippy socks. 82 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 6: You have grippy socks from another place that made you 83 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 6: buy grippy socks. Can't use those grippy socks here. You 84 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 6: have to use you really are grippy socks. Oh, you're 85 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 6: at Off the Wall the trampoline park, You're gonna have 86 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 6: to use off the wall socks. You're at Chucky Cheese 87 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 6: where they now have a trampoline, You're gonna have to 88 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 6: use Chucky Cheese grippy socks. 89 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: That's lame. 90 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 4: I mean, even you go bring your own shoes. You 91 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,239 Speaker 4: don't have to rent them like my own shoes. Okay, 92 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 4: you're good to go. 93 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:27,799 Speaker 2: That's lame. 94 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 6: Now, I will say the liability at a trampoline park 95 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 6: is probably very high, and like their insurance is probably 96 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 6: very high. Same thing for even for the Chuck E 97 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 6: cheese I just mentioned, Like, I guess if I think 98 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 6: about the idea that they're like, listen, we're letting your 99 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 6: kid bounce on our trampoline. A part of our insurance 100 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 6: deal is that we know the grippy socks are approved 101 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 6: and you have to. 102 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 5: Wear these, but it really is very annoying. 103 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: There was also there were layers. It was like, oh, 104 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: you have to buy socks. I already paid for Indy 105 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: to get in. Now I have to buy them socked. 106 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: Oh and I have to buy socks. Okay, fine, well 107 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: I want those green ones with the green ones are 108 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: an extra feecific. There was like three layers. He was like, fine, fine, 109 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: don't get it. 110 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to combine a trampoline park and paintball. 111 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 5: Yes, that's a good idea. 112 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 2: Sounds like that around dude. 113 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: We went paintballing like a couple of weeks ago and 114 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: had so much fun. 115 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 2: You still go paved kind of. But I think since 116 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 2: I was a. 117 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: Kid, but I was Hindy would love this. And I 118 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: took him and his friend and Shiloh and Alex and 119 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: we all we had so much fun. So I'm totally boring. 120 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: I'm back into it. Like you get a hit, Yeah 121 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: it hurts. It's so funny because otherwise it wouldn't be live. Yes, no, 122 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 1: you're like, I mean, it is a workout. You're running 123 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: around and crouching the whole time. 124 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: It's intense. 125 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, you don't want to get hit. That's why 126 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: it's fun. If it's okay to get hit. That's why 127 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: laser tag is always kind of boring to me because 128 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: you're like to buy your. 129 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 4: Own laser tag socks, which is like the worst. 130 00:05:59,200 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 5: Laser tag gear. 131 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 6: Your story writer reminds me of the fact that Adler 132 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 6: once said to me in the car it was me, Jensen, 133 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 6: Addler and Keaton, and Adler goes, who everybody in the 134 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 6: city is a bad driver? And I said, what why 135 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 6: are you saying that? He goes, because you say it 136 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 6: every day. 137 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: Every day exactly. We become our parents, just their version 138 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: of the world. So if you present to your kid 139 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: that the world is full of this whole city is 140 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: full of only everywhere. You're true. It's literally, you're true. 141 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: He does not have any reason to not believe that. 142 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: And the evidence just keeps coming. And if you believe 143 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: that everybody's out to screw you and take your money, right, 144 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: you're you know it. Actually I realized it goes back. 145 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 1: My dad's father was a very very big gambler, a cheat. 146 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: He was a card cheet. So he would go around 147 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: and he would he made a living cheating slot machines 148 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: and cheating at poker. Oh, it's a crazy story. And 149 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: my grandmother used to me, yes, it's a great story. 150 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: I have so many great stories. I got to write 151 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: them down. My my grandmother used to distracked the people 152 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: behind the counter, and he would have a spoon which 153 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: he would use to it's called it was called the 154 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: spoon that he would hide under his arm and he 155 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: would tip the bucket inside slot machines like old slot machines. 156 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 157 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: And then he sheat at poker and like literally he 158 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: because he was a card shark. And he taught my 159 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: dad some of the tricks so he could, like one 160 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: of the interesting people, I've written, I've written some stuff 161 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: about it. I will eventually probably write a novel version 162 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: of this life, because it's pretty crazy. My dad grew 163 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: up with like his the chest in his house, like 164 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: where they got all their money was a chest of 165 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: coins from stolen stolen from slot machines. 166 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 5: I want to swim in it. 167 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: But it makes sense that my dad, because he always 168 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: thought his dad was a horribly unethical person for stealing 169 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: all this money, that he feels like everybody's out to 170 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: get him because he watched his dad get people all 171 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: the time constant. So yeah, so he was like, I'm 172 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: going to take a stand, and I'm not going to 173 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: you know, but I'm also not Yeah, but. 174 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: By the way, I just saw of your car going like, man, 175 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 4: everybody in this town is such bad drivers. And you're 176 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 4: like why, and he's like, well, look, everybody else but 177 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 4: you is going the wrong way on the freeway. 178 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: That's how I thought. 179 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: They can't drive with their knee like you. 180 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go. 181 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 2: It's better than driving with Jensen. Producer Jensen. Oh my god, don't. 182 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 5: Even yeah, don't even get me started on driving with Jensen. 183 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: No, I can't. I get nauseous thinking about driving with Jenson. 184 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 5: Welcome to Pond Meets World. 185 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 2: I'm Danielle Vishel, I'm rather Strong, and I'm Wilfordell. 186 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 5: Well. 187 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 6: We have another fun little bonus episode for you. We 188 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 6: are going to recap, for lack of a better word, 189 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 6: the Chicken Soup for the Kid's Soul book and franchise, 190 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 6: which writer and I both wrote stories for. 191 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: Are we in the same book. We're in the same book, right, Uh? 192 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 5: Yes we are. 193 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 6: This one is called Chicken Soup for the Kid's Soul, 194 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 6: one hundred and one stories of courage, hope, and laughter. 195 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 5: Here's what it looks like. 196 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: This is I'm so excited to just sit back and 197 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 2: let you entertain me this book. 198 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 5: So just wait. 199 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 6: But before we get into the Chicken Soup for the 200 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 6: Soul Book, I did want to Can I share the postcard? 201 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: Writer? Oh? Yes, of course? 202 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: What postcard? What is this? 203 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 6: So I opened up the book to go through it 204 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 6: and find our stories, and this fell out. It's a Washington, 205 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 6: DC postcard, even though I don't live there anymore. I'm 206 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 6: going to cover up the address because it's my old 207 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 6: my parents old address. But it's a postcard from writer 208 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 6: Strong to me, addressed in my parents' house, and. 209 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: I sign it with my little face too that I used. 210 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 5: To be with your little face. 211 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 6: It's like I got an autograph and I'd like to 212 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 6: share it with you because I opened it. 213 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 5: I opened the book this fell out and was like, 214 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 5: oh my gosh. 215 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 6: And then I took a picture of it and I 216 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 6: sent it to writer and I said, this is so 217 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 6: fun because it just felt like I plucked a random 218 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 6: day out of my life and. 219 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 5: Like went right back to it. 220 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 2: That's cool. 221 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 5: So here's what writer wrote. Hey, they're sexy. Well I'm 222 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 5: doing it. I'm in the third. 223 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 6: Week of a seven week cross country road trip, loving 224 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 6: every minute. We're doing a documentary, interviewing and meeting all 225 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 6: kinds of crazy cats. 226 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 1: Crazy cats, guys, are we are? We are. 227 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 6: Thinking about you. It's been a while since we've talked. 228 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 6: Hope you're loving hiatus. I have a bad feeling I 229 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 6: might just get lost out there on the road and 230 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 6: never show up for the table read smiley face. Anyway, 231 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 6: we have tons to talk about. Life gets more and 232 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 6: more dramatic. Call my mom and get our voicemail number 233 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 6: for this trip and give me a call when you 234 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 6: get a chance. Give my love to your family. Nate says, Hi, 235 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 6: I miss you all, my love writer with his little 236 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 6: face so here, Okay, I'll zoom in so that people 237 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 6: can see in case they've never seen the writer strong 238 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 6: autograph face. 239 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is, guys, Like it's more and more dramatic. 240 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 5: I thought it was so interesting that I came across this. 241 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 5: I thought it was interesting. I came across this right 242 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 5: after you just told us about the road trip trip. 243 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that would have been ninety eight, so that 244 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: was that was between Yeah, but I have no idea 245 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: that I wrote to you. That's so cool. It actually 246 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 1: just makes me feel so great because, like, you know, 247 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: when you were writing your journals that you read, you know, 248 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: that was like. 249 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 5: Two years before this, correct. 250 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: So I'm so glad that we were still because I 251 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: feel like by the end of Boy, I felt way 252 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,199 Speaker 1: less closer to you than I did in the middle 253 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: of Boy. 254 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel it's so cool. 255 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 1: I was like, oh wow, even at the time when 256 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't remember like you and me hanging out, you 257 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: were still very much in touch. I was sending you 258 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: postcards from the road like It's just so it was like, 259 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 1: oh wow, I don't think of like ninety eight as 260 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 1: like a big year that I was hanging out with Danielle. 261 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 5: But it's so cool, We're so cool that we were 262 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 5: still in touch. 263 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 6: That it was like it's been a couple of weeks 264 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 6: since we had been on hiatus and you were sending 265 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 6: me a postcard. 266 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 5: I love that. 267 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 4: I actually think you set me one too. Oh well, 268 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 4: from your road trip, I think you did. I don't, Yeah, 269 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 4: it'd be somewhere, but I think from your road trip, 270 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 4: I think at one point you sent me a postcard 271 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 4: as well. 272 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 2: You used to do that, used to. 273 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: Keep in to send. I used to send letters all 274 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: the time, and that's I love physical letters. 275 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 5: What's this voicemail number thing? 276 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: So that was how we stay how we stayed in 277 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: touch with people while we were on the road. We 278 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: set up a voicemail and then we hand it out 279 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: cards and when we interview people, we meet people, we 280 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: hand them cards and had like an eight hundred number 281 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: that you could call to leave a voicemail and then 282 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: we could check that and then call you back from 283 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: our pay from a payphone. Because we didn't have cell phones, 284 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, we had course, we had pagers among us, 285 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: but we didn't want to give out our pager number, 286 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: you know, we had, so we had like a we 287 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: had we had we set up a voicemail eight hundred 288 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: number that anybody could call, and so like when we 289 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: would pull into a town, we would like, if we 290 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: call somebody, we leave a message and be like, all right, 291 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: if we can hang out and hopefully we can see you. 292 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: We're gonna be here from these days to these days, 293 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: call this one hundred blah blah blah. And then they 294 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: would leave a voicemail and we'd be like, okay, we'll 295 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: be there on Tuesday and meet up in New Orleans 296 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: at this place. And it was crazy, it was so 297 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: much fun. 298 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 5: I mean you we still have access to the messages there. 299 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 1: No. I would love that though, wouldn't. 300 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 5: It be fun? 301 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 6: Because like, I wonder you didn't give me the eight 302 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 6: hundred number, which makes me think you didn't like have 303 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 6: it memorized or something, or maybe it was just. 304 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: One eight hundred, hey sexy, or maybe I just didn't 305 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 1: want it on the postcard. 306 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 5: So I'm saying maybe we didn't want it on the 307 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 5: postcardind to put it out. But I wonder, like, did 308 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 5: I call your mom and dad and get that number 309 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 5: and then leave you a message. Did I do that? 310 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 5: I probably did. 311 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 2: I'd love to hear that in ninety eight? Were we? 312 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 4: I mean, page, you're still all the rage, but we're 313 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 4: ninety eight. We had car phones by ninety eight? 314 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: Did we not? 315 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 5: Because I had a car phone when I started. 316 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: I think we had an emergency car phone, but it 317 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: was like so expensive I just didn't use it. 318 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: Yes, thirty seven dollars a minute. 319 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and wouldn't work in so many places. And we 320 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: were like camping, and you know, we were we went backpacking, like, 321 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: so we were out. You know, it was like having 322 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 1: a voicemail where people could just leave us messages. And 323 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: I kind of missed that level of communication because it 324 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: was always a little fly by night. You'd pull into 325 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: a city and be like, who's a available? Where can 326 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: we meet up? And it's so fun. Man. 327 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 6: No, I do miss the idea too, of like you 328 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 6: could go out, go for your work day, or go 329 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 6: spend a day outside doing whatever you were doing, and 330 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 6: then you'd have to come home at night and check 331 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 6: your voicemail oh and just be like, oh, I hope 332 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 6: they called, instead of like at any point in time 333 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 6: knowing exactly how many minutes it's been since someone. 334 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 5: Has ghosted you. 335 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 6: Okay, let's jump into our Chicken Soup for the Kid's Soul. 336 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 6: It's the nineteen ninety eight installment of the immensely popular 337 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 6: book series Chicken Soup for the Soul. This one specifically 338 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 6: is titled Chicken Soup for the Kid Soul one hundred 339 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 6: and one stories of courage, hope and laughter. Now for 340 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 6: our younger listeners who might not be aware of this 341 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 6: book phenomenon, Chicken Soup for the Soul was a collection 342 00:14:55,320 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 6: of self help related, inspirational true stories from every people's lives. 343 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 6: It was the idea of two motivational speakers, Jack Canfield 344 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 6: and Mark Victor Hansen, who compiled stories from their audience members, 345 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 6: then had the idea rejected by every big publisher. 346 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 5: In the business. 347 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 6: They eventually landed on a very small publisher in Florida, 348 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 6: and the rest is history. The original series held a 349 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 6: spot on the New York Times bestseller list continuously from 350 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 6: nineteen ninety four to nineteen ninety eight, never leaving the chart. 351 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 6: Wow and also they branched into sequel titles like Chicken 352 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 6: Soup for the Teenage Soul, Chicken Soup for the Couple's Soul, 353 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 6: Chicken Soup for the pet Lover's Soul, and the list 354 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 6: goes on and on, with two hundred and seventy five 355 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 6: releases with its name and resulting in more than five 356 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 6: hundred million copies sold worldwide. And yes, it's just them 357 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 6: collecting other people's stories, so I guess really they're just 358 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 6: good at editing. I wonder if people got paid for 359 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 6: their contributions. 360 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: I don't think I did. 361 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 2: I don't think. 362 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: I feel like it was like an honor to be included. Yes, like, 363 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: oh cool, you know you get to write something for 364 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: chicken soup, and it was like cool. But yeah, so 365 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: I don't think we got paid. 366 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 5: No, we did not. 367 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: I got to write a blurb saying I liked chicken soup. 368 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 4: You guys got to actually write a story like I 369 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 4: have the one where you open it. 370 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: No, it's like Wilfredell says, this is the best book 371 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 2: he's ever read. I have that for one of the 372 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 2: chicken soups. Yeah, oh, you've got a blurb I do. 373 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: I have, like a hey, you guys are there's a bunch. 374 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 6: Of blurbs in this one that we can hit too. 375 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 6: So yeah, well, they'd eventually branch out of books. They 376 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 6: branched into food, pet Food, a production company, and company 377 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 6: takeovers of random media companies like Crackle and Red Box, 378 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 6: and in twenty twenty four, the publicly traded company was 379 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 6: forced into bankruptcy with accusations of misusing the business and 380 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 6: failing to pay employees. Over one thousand employees were laid off, 381 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:55,119 Speaker 6: and in case you were wondering, good, twenty six thousand 382 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 6: red Box kiosks were shut down forever. 383 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 4: Wait wait wait, they were the box. They owned all 384 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 4: of Reddy. 385 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 5: They bought, they bought Crackle and Red Box. 386 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, chickens for that, I can't rent this movie. 387 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 6: Well, at least twenty six thousand red Box kiosks we 388 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 6: still have. 389 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 5: There's still a Red Box in our roofs. 390 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: The Red Box are still, right, is there? 391 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 3: Well, just so you know, I follow the Red Box 392 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 3: trauma and they all closed. But some of the Red 393 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 3: Boxes have not been picked up, right, Okay? 394 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, the one, the one at our Ralphs will. 395 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: But there's I'm looking online. It says there's one open 396 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: on Ninth Street in Los Angeles. What does that mean? 397 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 3: They haven't been updated? It's not that's not up web. 398 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 3: They're all gone. 399 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 4: So you if you went there and actually grabbed the 400 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 4: you could rent like the first Jumanji movie and that 401 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 4: would be it because everything else is. 402 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 3: There are people, there are people who have been like 403 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 3: stealing the Red Boxes, breaking into them. It's a whole thing. 404 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I can't, no, I do This was 405 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 4: a chicken soup for the Soul out to do all 406 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:59,159 Speaker 4: this stuff, and thousand employees did buy it after the fact, 407 00:17:59,280 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 4: like after. 408 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 3: The kind of recently, not that long ago. 409 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 2: They failed with it. 410 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: Because red Box was also it was always like super conservative, right, 411 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 1: because they would they. 412 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 5: Will have to edit chicken soup for the Soul it fits. 413 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but they would. I just I thought it 414 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: was like a either a really Christian organization. But I 415 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: just remember you had to have separate edits sometimes for movies, 416 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: like some movies had to edit for the Red Box 417 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 1: because red Box from Kerry's sexually explicit or like so 418 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: movies that were like on the bubble, they would have 419 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: a Red Box edit sometimes because they were concerned. They 420 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 1: were like more conservative than the you know, the ratings board. 421 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 6: I'm not sure how many of their books included celebrities, 422 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 6: but this specific installment included stories from their normal array 423 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 6: of diverse voices, but also famous people like Wright or 424 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:48,160 Speaker 6: Strong and myself, Chuck Norris, Keenan and Kel, former Boy 425 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 6: Meets World co star Kathy Ireland, Shaquille O'Neill, and Jessica Stroup. 426 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 5: And the foreword was from Muhammad Ali. 427 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 4: Cool when, by the way, to go along with this, 428 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 4: when chicken Soup is sick, it has Chuck Norris. 429 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 5: Just say you know, Charles, Charles, please, how dare you 430 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 5: so writer? 431 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 6: As you mentioned, you remember feeling like this was a 432 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 6: big honor to get to write something for them. 433 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 5: What do you remember about about this process? 434 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: I think I talked about it on the show before. 435 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 1: I remember getting asked and being excited, and then I 436 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: had written my college application essay, which this is a 437 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: version of, so this I just adjusted. I forget. I 438 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 1: would love to find my original essay because it was different, 439 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 1: but I just kind of took that essay, you know, 440 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 1: the idea of this poem and my grandfather and my 441 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: relationship with him, and sort of made that into the 442 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 1: chicken soup. And then I remember them coming back and 443 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 1: making me change a bunch because they thought the vocabulary 444 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: was too complicated or hard for kids. And I pushed 445 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 1: back a little bit, and I remember David Combs, and 446 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 1: I liked debating and discussing and then settling with what's 447 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,199 Speaker 1: in there? Which I hadn't read since I saw And 448 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 1: I was it's so, I don't know, it's okay. 449 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 5: I can't wait. I can't wait. I want to hear it. 450 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 6: I want you to read it for us, please. It's 451 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 6: called my grandfather's gift. 452 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 1: Oh God, so painful that the voice itself is just 453 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 1: so boring, Oh writer, my grandfather's gift. A child's life 454 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: is like a piece of paper on which every person 455 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: leaves a mark Chinese proverb. When I was a child, 456 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: storytelling was an active part of my upbringing. My parents 457 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: fostered any activity that might exercise my imagination. As a 458 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 1: result of this encouragement, I have indeed become the modern 459 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: version of a storyteller, an actor. Surprisingly, not one relative 460 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 1: on either side of my family has ever taken up 461 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: this profession before. The only person to whom I can 462 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: trace a storytelling gene is my grandfather on my mother's side. 463 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: This grandfather, in the great tradition of grandfather's everywhere, has 464 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 1: always been a source of wisdom in my life. When 465 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: I was younger, my entire family would go camping, and 466 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: as it grew dark, we would roast marshmallows around a 467 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 1: fire and listen to my grandfather recite a poem. It 468 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: was always the same poem that my grandfather would recite 469 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: from memory. When my grandfather was fourteen, he discovered the 470 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: poem in a book of verse. He was working with 471 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: horses at the time, and he had read the poem 472 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 1: only two or three times. When one of his horses 473 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 1: had gotten loose, he was forced to chase the horse 474 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: for miles, and somewhere in the course of the chase, 475 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: he lost the book after only committing the first half 476 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: of the poem to memory. He tried for years to 477 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: find another copy of the poem, but not knowing the 478 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: author's name, he gave up his search, content to have 479 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: memorized only the beginning. My First Cigar is a poem 480 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 1: about a child's first attempt at smoking. Neither my grandfather 481 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: nor I have ever smoked, but the poem contained such 482 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: an endearing quality of innocent introspection that I was always 483 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: thoroughly entertained by it. It was not just the poem 484 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,159 Speaker 1: that got to me. It was the light in my grandfather, 485 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: the lilt in his speech, and the sweeping movements of 486 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 1: his arms that would passionately involve me in the verse. 487 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: Each one of these performances would be cut short when 488 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: my grandfather would shrug and say, that's as far as 489 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: I memorized, and we would all nod and be left 490 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: wondering how the poem ended. We accepted his inability to 491 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 1: finish because we all knew why he could not. Last year, 492 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 1: about seventy years from the time my grandfather had originally 493 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 1: found the poem, he installed a computer system in his 494 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 1: local library free of charge. As a return favor, he 495 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: asked the library researchers to try to find my first cigar. 496 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 1: Several months later, one of them sent him the poem 497 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 1: through the mail. I remember reading the rest of it 498 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: for the first time with joy. My grandfather has never 499 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 1: recited the poem since, and I have never asked him to. Perhaps, 500 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: now that my grandfather knows the poem's ending, his personal 501 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: involvement with it is complete. For me, the story was 502 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 1: better when it was incomplete, when it still had a future. 503 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: I've since become actively involved in poetry, both reading and writing, 504 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: and I credit my interest in my grandfather entirely. It 505 00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 1: was a wonderful moment not long ago when I was 506 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 1: meming Wordsworth's poem My heart leaps up aloud, and my 507 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: grandfather surprised me when he said, I know that poem 508 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: and was able to recite it with me. He had 509 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: enjoyed the poem many years ago. I was memorizing it myself, 510 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 1: and it was here that our two generations were bridged. 511 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: After seventeen years of knowing my grandfather better than most 512 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 1: people I know in my life, every now and then 513 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 1: he still decides to open the treasure chest that is 514 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 1: his mind and surprise me with a gift of wisdom. 515 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 5: So beautiful, I love it. Do you want to do 516 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 5: you want to read the poem? 517 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 3: Then? 518 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 5: My first cigar? 519 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: Sure? Okay, my first cigar? Actually does it say who 520 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: it's by? It doesn't have the author's name on here. 521 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: Because they finally found it. We should probably get that. 522 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 1: Twas just behind the woodshed. One glorious summer day far 523 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: o'er the hills, the sinking sun pursued its western way, 524 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:54,120 Speaker 1: and in my safe seclusion, removed from or the jar 525 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 1: and dim of Earth's confusion. I smoked my first cigar. 526 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 1: It was my first cigar. It was my worst cigar, raw, green, dank, 527 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 1: hide bound and rank. It was my first cigar, ah bright, 528 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: the boyish fancies, wrapped in smoke, wreath blue. My eyes 529 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: grew dim, My head was light. The woodshed round me 530 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: flew dark night closed in around me, black night without 531 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 1: a star, grim death. Methought had found me and spoiled 532 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: my first cigar. It was my first cigar, a six 533 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,719 Speaker 1: for five cigar, no violer torch, the air could scorch. 534 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,439 Speaker 1: It was my first cigar. All pallid was my beaded brow. 535 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 1: The really night was late. My startled mother cried in fear, 536 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: my child, What have you ate? I heard my father's 537 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: smothered laugh. It seemed so strange and far. I knew 538 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,959 Speaker 1: he knew. I knew he knew. I'd smoked my first cigar. 539 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: It was my first cigar, a giveaway cigar. I could 540 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 1: not die. I knew not why it was my first cigar. 541 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 1: Since then, I've stood in reckless ways. I've dared what 542 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: men can dare. I've mocked a danger, walked with death. 543 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: I've laughed at pain and care. I do not dread 544 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: what may befall neath my malignant star. No frowning fate 545 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 1: again can make me smoke my first cigar. 546 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 4: Now I'm curious how far into the poem did did 547 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 4: he recite? 548 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 1: How pretty far? There's what he actually did now that 549 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 1: I'm looking at it. He actually he he remembered the 550 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 1: mom and the dad part and put that stanza earlier. 551 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: So he actually was missing about half the palm. But 552 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 1: he had remembered the parents reaction and that was where 553 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: he ended it. But there was also a part of 554 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 1: above that that that was also. 555 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 5: So he had like yeah, he just he just remembered his. 556 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: Favorite parts and then he couldn't remember how it ended, 557 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 1: which is too bad because the ending is hysterical, you know, 558 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,439 Speaker 1: the idea that like I'm now the greatest, bravest person 559 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 1: because I can survive my cigar. But it was always 560 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: just about you know, he would stand up and swing 561 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: his arms and it would just get us all laughing, 562 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,399 Speaker 1: and you know, you know, but yeah, it was so funny, 563 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: like it's and it's crazy that they let me include 564 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 1: because it's about smoking. Like now, I don't think they 565 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: would ever do that, but you know, I mean, I 566 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: guess in a way. It's a it's anti smoking, it's. 567 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 5: Kind of anti smoking. It sounds pretty awful. 568 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 6: The poet is Robert J. Burdette. By the way, Robert J. 569 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 6: Burdette my first cigar. Well, from that beautiful story of 570 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 6: of you and your grandfather and poetry, I'd like to 571 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 6: give you a sharp contrast to to who you. 572 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 5: Were as people and I. 573 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 6: My story that I wrote was called a Friend by 574 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 6: Danielle Fischell, and it starts with a quote friendships multiply 575 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 6: joys and divide grief by Thomas Fuller. 576 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 5: Here we go. 577 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 6: Recently, one of my best friends, whom I've shared just 578 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 6: about everything with since the first day of kindergarten, spent the. 579 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 5: Weekend with me. 580 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 6: Since I moved to a new town several years ago, 581 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 6: we've both always looked forward to the few times a 582 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 6: year when we can see each other. Over the weekend, 583 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 6: we spent hours and hours staying up late into the 584 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 6: night talking about the people she was hanging around with. 585 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 6: She started telling me stories about her boyfriend, about how 586 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 6: he experimented with drugs and was into other self destructive behavior. 587 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 5: I was blown away. She told me how she had been. 588 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 6: Lying to her parents about where she was going, and 589 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 6: even sneaking out to see this guy because they didn't 590 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 6: want her around him. No matter how hard I tried 591 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 6: to tell her that she deserved better, she didn't believe me. 592 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 6: Her self respect seemed to have disappeared. I tried to 593 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 6: convince her that she was ruining her future pooh and 594 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 6: heading for big trouble. I felt like I was getting nowhere. 595 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 6: I just couldn't believe that she really thought that it 596 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 6: was acceptable to hang with a bunch of losers, especially 597 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 6: her boyfriend. By the time she left, I was really 598 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,679 Speaker 6: worried about her and exhausted by the experience. It had 599 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 6: been so frustrating. I had come close to telling her 600 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 6: several times during the weekend that maybe we had just 601 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 6: grown too far apart to continue our friendship, but I didn't. 602 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 6: I put the power of friendship to the ultimate test. 603 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 6: We'd been friends for far too long. I had to 604 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 6: hope that she valued me enough to know that I 605 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 6: was trying to save her from hurting herself. I wanted 606 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,360 Speaker 6: to believe that our friendship could conquer anything. A few 607 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 6: days later, she called to say that she had thought 608 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 6: long and hard about our conversation, and then she told 609 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 6: me that she had broken up with her boyfriend. I 610 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 6: just listened on the other end of the phone with 611 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 6: tears of joy running down my face. It was one 612 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 6: of the truly rewarding moments in my life. Never had 613 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 6: I been so proud of a friend. And then after 614 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 6: the story, there are small submissions from teens and preteens 615 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 6: about what they believe a friend is like. A friend 616 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 6: never blames everything on you or helps you get up 617 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 6: when you fall at the roller skating rink. But before 618 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 6: we get into theirs, I kick it off with some 619 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 6: of my wisdom. A friend won't allow you to self distract, 620 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 6: will take all the time that's needed, no matter what 621 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 6: time of day, to listen to your problems and give 622 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 6: you her best advice. Is someone who can open up 623 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,239 Speaker 6: and be herself around you, will swallow her pride to 624 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 6: take your advice, will never write you off. 625 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 5: By Daniel Fish, So, I mean. 626 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: Do you remember I'm a nark? 627 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 4: So you're the one who had had my girlfriend break 628 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 4: up with me just because I was doing drugs. 629 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 5: That was me and I was a very good little nark. 630 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 5: If you or anyone you. 631 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: Know you did not knark on anybody. 632 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 2: That's show you gave advice. 633 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 1: I thought, and the first time through I was like, oh, wait, 634 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: is this about her giving an ultimatum to her friend 635 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: because you said I made the ultima sacrifice. But then 636 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: I reread it was like, oh no, she actually is 637 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: a very mature point, which is like, I'm not going 638 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 1: to not be your friend. I'm going to love you 639 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: and trust you, but I'm also going to be straight 640 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: with you. Y how old were you? 641 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 6: Nineteen ninety eight, so, I mean at this point, by 642 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 6: the time it was printed, I was seventeen. But this 643 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 6: conversation did happen when I was around fifteen? 644 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was seventeen. I said, I said something 645 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: about seventeen in mine, so I thought, I figured. 646 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, this conversation. I remember this conversation. 647 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 6: I remember the situation and we were we were to 648 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 6: fourteen or fifteen? 649 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 2: What kind of drugs? 650 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 5: I don't really remember. I don't remember. 651 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 2: I mean, did this guy like smoke a joint once 652 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 2: or was certain smack? 653 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 6: No, I don't, I don't remember. I don't remember what 654 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 6: it was. I also remember that what I didn't include 655 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 6: in the book is I think he had also like 656 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 6: grabbed her by the arm. He had gotten he'd even 657 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 6: gotten like physical with her, and it was like, I, 658 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 6: really this was a This was not somebody that and 659 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 6: I was really shocked that she was. She had never 660 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 6: been the type to seem like this would be somebody 661 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 6: she would be attracted to. So it was like a 662 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 6: really shocking weekend. But yeah, it's. 663 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 1: Too bad you can't get specific because you know, I 664 00:30:56,600 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: feel like left in the generic terms of he was doing, 665 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: he was a loser. It's kind of like, you know, 666 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: you could just go the goody two shoes who sucks, 667 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: But if you know, the specifics are kind of the 668 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: point in this sex. You know, like your judgment should 669 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 1: be based on actually what you were judging, and we 670 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: should be able to hear that. Otherwise it's kind of. 671 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 5: Like exactly, And that's what I think. 672 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,440 Speaker 6: My biggest takeaway from the story was was like, either 673 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 6: I either didn't because I felt like it was a 674 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 6: personal story of my friend and so I didn't want 675 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 6: to give the details, or they. 676 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 5: Wouldn't allow me to give the details. They may not 677 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:32,959 Speaker 5: have wanted me to. 678 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 2: Are you still friends with this person? 679 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 5: No, I haven't seen her in forever. 680 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 6: Unfortunately she's dating a loser because she was dating a loser. 681 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 2: She was dating. This is what happens. 682 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 5: I said, you know what, we've just grown too far apart. 683 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: There's no one phrase other self destructive behavior. That's just 684 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: doing a lot of work in this exactly what does 685 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: others self destructive? What are other things you. 686 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 5: Don't need to know? 687 00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 6: Just trust me, he's a loser not going to church, 688 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 6: for instance, saying nighttime prayers. 689 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: You know, who knows what Danielle was. 690 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 6: Upsets what Danielle could have been so curious about? But 691 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 6: I yeah, anyway, we writer and I were very different teens. 692 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 1: It's a difficultween seventeen and fifteen too, Like. 693 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true, that's true. 694 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 6: Well, thank you for taking this trip down memory lane 695 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 6: with the chicken soup for the soul with us. If 696 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 6: you need any advice on how to not you know, 697 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 6: be an arc, or how to call your friend's boyfriend's losers, or. 698 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 5: If you I'm also looking your first cigar. 699 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 6: Or if you want to, we're figuring out how to 700 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 6: get rid of your first cigar the taste in your mouth. 701 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 6: You can email us and the show at podmeets World 702 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 6: Show at gmail dot com. 703 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:43,600 Speaker 5: Writer send us out. 704 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: We love you all. Pod dismissed. Pod Meets World is 705 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 1: an iHeart podcast producer hosted by Danielle Fischl, Wilfordell and 706 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: Rider Strong. 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