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Speaker 2: I don't go everywhere because everything ain't for Siana to be.

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Speaker 2: Everybody ain't happy for Shannon. But I do give what

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Speaker 2: I'm what I'm out, and I'm not in an environment

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Speaker 2: cause if you don't, they'll come get you, because the

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Speaker 2: the number one thing in the streets is respect, and

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Speaker 2: that's the number one currency. You think it's money, No

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Speaker 2: it's respect They'll chop your head off. You disrespectful, and

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Speaker 2: don't think nothing about it because I say, hey, i've

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Speaker 2: seen them. Hey they come in the barber shop or whatever. Hey,

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Speaker 5: Let you oh uh hold on broad daylight, man, broad daylight.

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Speaker 3: Hey, get out of here. May they not fit to

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Speaker 3: witness shop? Up with me? Get your hands out there.

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Speaker 5: I've seen too many examples over the years, too many examples,

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 2: Look here at Pashaw. I wish you whall Pashaw passed away.

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Speaker 2: Here's to have a car and wash on thirty seventh

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Speaker 2: and thirty seventh bull uh, dude, slim. A little young

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Speaker 2: kid came up there. They got the tussling. Be he

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Speaker 2: beat the little boy up by probably about twelve thirteen.

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Speaker 2: He came back. He came right back with his mom.

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Speaker 2: He said, Mom, Dad, go, Mom handed him that tool

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Speaker 5: The little boy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, you see, yes, you see how I got

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Speaker 3: a out of that Joe. You see and you see

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Speaker 3: what I did? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Man, hey, right, everybody, don't have the guidance that you

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Speaker 2: and I had. I had a friend grandmother, My grandmother

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Speaker 2: guided us try to teach us right from wrong. Never

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Speaker 2: a it was always a son. It's you know, hey,

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Speaker 2: be respectful, yes sir, No, sir, it's okay.

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Speaker 3: You're wrong. You're wrong.

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Speaker 2: Accept accountability. But everybody didn't like that. You got some

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Speaker 2: It ain't like it was when I was growing up. Oh,

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Speaker 5: And I told you back then, back then. Obviously, during

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Speaker 5: Obviously even though we didn't we didn't play that side.

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Speaker 5: There was a reason behind something happening. There was a

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Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, Oh Joe when we were growing up.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't never talk back. You didn't talk back to

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Speaker 2: But no, Day didn't play them. People didn't play that.

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Speaker 2: But you were respectful. There's a certain level of respect.

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Speaker 2: You could go to people's houses and get a meal.

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Speaker 2: My grandma didn't play that either. You ain't going nobody. Hey,

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Speaker 2: my grandma didn't play that. You want some son, No, ma'am.

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Speaker 2: We just ate hunger than the mug.

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Speaker 3: I ain't that. Me and my brother be al d

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Speaker 2: Man, Oh Joe, I ain't gonna lie, Oh Joe, I'd

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Speaker 2: thank you. Ain't none coming down right? But hey, but

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Speaker 2: you ain't. You ain't going to people have to eat?

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Speaker 3: Get way? Do you get back home?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 3: You get some bread.

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Speaker 2: A man ain't saying what your ketchup saying with something

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Speaker 2: like that, you had no meat.

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Speaker 5: And you you you did serruf sandwiches before you want

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Speaker 3: You want the bread up?

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Speaker 5: Oh syruf sandwiches? You folded up in different yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, yes, yeah we had ketchup sandwiches.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 3: The ain't saying wiches syrup sandwiches.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, yes, but you but there was a level

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Speaker 2: of respect that kids had for adults.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 2: And I think the generation you started having, parents started

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Speaker 5: Your your your generation, my generation was the death of

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Speaker 5: It takes a rob and that village did exactly what

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Speaker 5: we're in now?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 2: Noah, you can't correct. You can't correct nobody's kid. It's

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Speaker 2: always somebody else's fault. Is if your kid, let me

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Speaker 2: ask you a question, O Joe, if your kid disrespectful

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Speaker 2: what the hell you think gonna.

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Speaker 3: Happen when he and she is not around you.

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Speaker 2: If they disrespectful you, You think they're gonna go to

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Speaker 3: You think they're gonna be respectful of somebody's job.

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Speaker 2: A lot of times we'll give up on a on,

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Speaker 2: a on a woman that has eighty eighty five percent

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Speaker 3: You ever notice that?

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Speaker 6: On? Yo?

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Speaker 3: Mean, I'm I ain't gonna know. I ain't that joy

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Speaker 3: that job? Oh Joe, oh yoall, I.

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Speaker 7: Don't, I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't ask you for much. I don't ask you

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Speaker 5: for much, but I need you to bring that back

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Speaker 5: one more time. I need you to bring that back

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Speaker 5: one more time. But boy, I felt that.

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Speaker 3: Boy, you don't.

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Speaker 7: You don't see me ten up?

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Speaker 5: But it ain't funny.

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Speaker 7: Man, do me a favor.

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Speaker 5: I promise I ain't gonna cry. I promise I ain't

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Speaker 2: A lot of times men will leave a woman that

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Speaker 2: do you see that we'll get mad at the woman.

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Speaker 3: She got eighty to ninety percent of what we want.

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Speaker 3: We get mad here. Come to ten to twenty. I

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Speaker 1: I promise you ain't crying. These are ten the joy

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Speaker 1: I need to hear that. Boy. Hey, oh ship, but

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Speaker 1: I was a good one, bright.

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Speaker 2: It happened. I've done it. I see a lot of

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Speaker 1: Man, Hey, whatever, good one, brack ain't even Sunday.

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Speaker 6: But you're preaching though.

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Speaker 1: What does it take to be a great sports analyst?

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Speaker 3: Like yourself work.

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Speaker 2: You have to become selfish, you have to become obsessed,

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Speaker 2: you have to give up a lot people. Everybody says, okay,

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Speaker 2: I want to get into the sport, the sports business.

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Speaker 2: But when do sports come on? They don't just come

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Speaker 2: on the weekends. But if you want to be great

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Speaker 2: at this, you got to watch. You've got the study.

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Speaker 2: Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die.

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Speaker 2: The Bible says you can't enter there without going through

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Speaker 3: You want to be great.

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Speaker 2: People want to be great at a driven craft, but

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Speaker 2: It is no secret. Only in the dictionary the success

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Speaker 2: come before work. That's the only place you'll see that.

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Speaker 2: I understand. I'm selfish, probably why I'm still alone at

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Speaker 2: fifty six. Probably should have got married a lot earlier,

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Speaker 2: but I was so obsessed with being getting my grandmother

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Speaker 3: When you gotta spray.

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Speaker 2: You've seen a mechanic shop where they have to spray

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Speaker 3: That's how I grew.

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Speaker 2: Up with no indoor plumbing, no running water. You think

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Speaker 3: What are you willing to sacrifice?

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Speaker 2: Then when I train, when I work out train, If

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Speaker 3: Thank you? But that's why.

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Speaker 2: And people wonder why they don't get the blessing that

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Speaker 2: above working man, I ain't working on no damn or

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Speaker 3: He ain't have to kill him when you ain't have

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Speaker 2: You rob when you robbing somebody, when you're doing bad

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Speaker 2: to do it like that, how you had to do it?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, always may.

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Speaker 3: Go get you a job. I'm glad, Oh Joe, you

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Speaker 2: I've never been too proud to work hard. People try

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Speaker 3: Tall on your hands, you got tar on your hair,

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Speaker 2: I ain't never been too I've never been too proud

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Speaker 2: I give him an honest day's work. I can honestly

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Speaker 3: But I gave it. I gave him baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate granted, I hit granty up, but I

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Speaker 2: Oh Joe, is that I think everybody thinks like me, Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm an go out there and work hard. I ain't

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Speaker 5: You know, it's you know, times are different now, time

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Speaker 5: different now. Don't you know everybody want that fast life

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Speaker 5: mm hmm. Everybody want that. Everybody want their Instagram lifestyle.

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Speaker 5: You know, it's it's it's only it really isn't too

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Speaker 2: Yeah, unless you be you wrap or something entertainment or something.

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Speaker 2: You're doing something because it ain't nobody that's working that's

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Speaker 2: They're gonna come see what you buy. The more time

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Speaker 2: you invest in something, the more it hurts. That's why

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Speaker 2: I'm writing. I'm not saying me, but I'm saying that

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Speaker 3: And then you see people they go on it.

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Speaker 2: I ain't like I would you with that person because

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Speaker 5: But listen, there's a there's another lesson in this for

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Speaker 5: my for my athletes, for anybody out there that has

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Speaker 5: worth your life. You can buy it. You can buy

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Speaker 5: another rolex, you can buy another chain. If someone's trying

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Speaker 5: to take your car, you can buy another car. Anything.

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Speaker 5: If you are at gunpoint, you give up those possessions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think they pulled a gun out of on first,

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Speaker 2: O Joe, because I believe he'd gave it up. Like

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Speaker 5: Yeah shit, yeah see, don't you only get one shot?

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Speaker 5: This ain't a video games up.

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Speaker 2: Somebody come up to you and they ain't got no gun,

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Speaker 2: give it up.

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Speaker 3: You taking it off that freely? You got to.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm not playing?

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Speaker 3: Why? Why?

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Speaker 7: Why?

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Speaker 5: Why play tough? But then listen, don't listen to me.

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Speaker 5: If somebody come up to you and say, let me

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Speaker 5: get whatever is off of you, you already know they holding.

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Speaker 3: No goa go out and get a job.

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Speaker 5: You already you already know they holding Why you didn't

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Speaker 5: play that game? Yeah man, hell you could take man,

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Speaker 5: take this ship. I can buy this again.

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Speaker 3: Go get a job. I can't.

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Speaker 5: I can't. This ain't call of duty. I can't revive myself.

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Speaker 5: I don't get a second chance at.

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Speaker 2: Life, mainly, Ojo. Like I said, the man that a man.

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Speaker 2: He's at an autograph signing, Ojoe. So I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 2: it's probably in a.

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Speaker 3: Probably in a fairly nice area.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I've done a few autograph signing and it

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Speaker 2: ain't really no shady places.

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Speaker 5: Right right, right, yeah, but you know, it don't matter

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you a question. You think that seventeen

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Speaker 2: it up? Yeah, exactly about And that's the thing. But

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Speaker 2: I did what you're saying, O Joe, try not to

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Speaker 2: put myself in that situation. You're right, you're absolutely one

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Speaker 2: thousand percent right. Uh yeah, I mean I've been in

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Speaker 2: know what it is. Hey, bro, my wallet in the car.

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Speaker 2: I ain't got nothing. Nor Hey, hey, I ain't got none.

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Speaker 5: I don't want no problem.

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Speaker 2: That's what stopped me from taking cut carrying cash round

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Speaker 2: like that, O Joe. I used to always carry cash. Hey,

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Speaker 2: anybody that knew me when I was younger, Oh Joe,

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Speaker 2: if you amos saw Shannon Sharp with less than ten

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Speaker 2: bands on it called the cops. Somebody just robb it

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Speaker 2: right round the corn. I kept it on you. But

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're right, you know, had half and half the

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Speaker 5: half the people. You can understand who really doesn't value

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Speaker 5: who doesn't really value their life. I can see the comments.

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Speaker 5: I can see the comments, and you can tell who

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Speaker 5: really don't vuo their life about dumb ass jewelry or

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Speaker 5: they swear, they listen. You don't get to of these.

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Speaker 5: You don't get you you don't. You don't get to

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Speaker 5: it ease. You can't revive yourself. It ain't. It ain't.

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Speaker 5: You can't press press start, you can't. You can't play

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Speaker 5: hell man, take this ship, because you know the funny

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Speaker 5: thing you take my sage, you're gonna be mad anyway

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Speaker 5: when you try to go ponder the sell because they.

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Speaker 2: Real you try, you try to get him on it.

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Speaker 2: But hey, bro, hey, y'all fellas, go ahead take this.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get you away from me as quick

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Speaker 2: as I can.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and going by your bend man, I'm trying to

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Speaker 5: get I'm trying to get home till the goddamn eighty

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Speaker 3: Buddy, you ain't that wrong with that, Ojo? I told her,

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Speaker 3: I get it. You're right.

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Speaker 2: I mean you're right, Oh Joe, I A you ain't right.

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Speaker 2: You ain't wrong when you're right, and you're right, you

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Speaker 3: Ojo.

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Speaker 2: Just a lettle young fella have it. And he's been

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Speaker 2: been kind of hard for him to get on the field, Ojo,

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Speaker 2: because he's been nicked a lot, and then this happened. Man,

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Speaker 2: he's probably thinking, like Lord, I mean you done bless me.

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Speaker 2: But I got buzzled up right now because what's going on.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, bro, like I said, but that's seventeen

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Speaker 2: gotta put real charges on you because you doing a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And think about it. He hit him

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Speaker 5: what happened if you wasn't okay? What happened if you passed?

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Speaker 5: What happened if you had passed away, you know, And

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Speaker 5: I'm thinking, like, we don't really value life. We don't

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Speaker 5: We don't really value life until it happens to us always,

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Speaker 5: and then everybody favorite line is all, you messed the

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Speaker 5: city up with this one. Oh but noah, I'm reading

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Speaker 5: the comments. Everybody tough. Oh, you an easy lick, but

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Speaker 5: you never value it until it either happened to you

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Speaker 5: you fuck the city up with this one. Twin Damn,

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Speaker 5: I just I just taught. I just talked to you

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Speaker 5: the other day. Yeah, I just everybody trying. Everybody trying

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Speaker 5: to get that lick though, old you. You know, everybody

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Speaker 5: a everybody trying to hear the lead.

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Speaker 2: Oh Joe, he gonna talk about we'll fit close to

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Speaker 2: one hundred and fifty, two hundred thousand.

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Speaker 3: Y'all the damn foods. You ain't got it.

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Speaker 2: If you got the charge for a wedding, your ass

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Speaker 2: shouldn't be getting married. I wish I might pay for

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Speaker 2: somebody co to put somebody's wedding hold on.

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Speaker 5: You gonna charge everybody four hundred fifty dollars to try

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Speaker 5: to recoup the money that you paid on that you

437
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 5: paid for the wedding, which it shouldn't even be that much.

438
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,239
Speaker 5: It shouldn't be one to excuse me, excuse me if

439
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 5: I'm wrong. Chat y'all help me out. Please give me

440
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 5: an amount on how much a wedding should cost. Let's start there.

441
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,880
Speaker 5: I wonder I want to break it down in the parts.

442
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 5: How much your wedding costs? You know better than me, un,

443
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 5: I'm just asking.

444
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 3: You, Oh Joe, oh Joe, the car.

445
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: The question is how much how bad you want to

446
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 2: impress somebody? And that'll dictate the cost of your wedding,

447
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: right you see, they don'll spit two hundred thousand now

448
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 2: less unless unless hurt daddy worth about ten, fifteen, twenty

449
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: thirty million.

450
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 3: I wish I might.

451
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 2: I wish my daughters would come to me and talk

452
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 2: about y'all better take this money for a down for

453
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 2: a down pavent on the house and get y'all ass

454
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: on a pot of Here I go stand beside. I'll

455
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 2: come stand beside you to the court. Just the piece.

456
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 5: So two hundred thousand is that's too extravagant, that's way

457
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 5: too much for a wedding, but un I listen, what

458
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 5: for a wedding? And they just they just coming to

459
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 5: be nosy.

460
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 2: Huh and have the people that don't even don't even

461
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 2: like the groove or the bride.

462
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 3: And don't Hell, man, I wish I might so.

463
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 5: Chat help me out, chat, Please give me the numbers,

464
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 5: because I'm listen and you're not. You don't even know

465
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 5: I'm playing to see right now. I keep asking you

466
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 5: for a reason.

467
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:49,719
Speaker 3: Man.

468
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but oh yo, here's the thing, Oh Joe, normally

469
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: the father I got daughters, they already know my orders,

470
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 2: already saying, Oh, if you think my daddy gonna pay X,

471
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 2: Y and Z, that ain't happen.

472
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,239
Speaker 3: Destination wedding if you want to.

473
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I wish I wish I might pay pay four

474
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: hundred dollars to go to somebody else's wedding.

475
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, y'all go see Chris Brown.

476
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 2: And then you gonna he got the nerve. Stop counting

477
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 2: my pockets. Oh, y'all, pay spend money on privlege stuff.

478
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 3: That's my money. Don't worry about what I spend my

479
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 3: money on. I just.

480
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: I just ain't spending four hundred fifty dollars go to

481
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 2: no wedding. So if I want to take four hundred

482
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 2: fifty dollars, if I want to take four thousand dollars

483
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: in by Beyonce a ticket, if I want to take

484
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 2: ten thousand dollars in buy Beyonce ticket or go to

485
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 2: the super Bowl, that ain't none of your business support,

486
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 2: family and friends means I'm going to show up.

487
00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:58,479
Speaker 3: Okay.

488
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: If you got a business, if saying, oh Joe, you

489
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 2: got a restaurant, okay, I ain't coming to eat free,

490
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 2: I will pay. I will pay for my meed right,

491
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tip the servants. If you got a business

492
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: where you selling T shirts or clothing, I support you.

493
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 2: But if you think for one second I'm gonna pay

494
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 2: four hundred and fifty dollars to go see your funk

495
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: and within it, man, you out your bad.

496
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 5: Hey the chat, I didn't see nothing over fifty grand.

497
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 5: I'm reading the chat, and everybody in the chat said

498
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 5: fifty grand is a max for a wedding. Now, when

499
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 5: it comes to weddings, I love the fairy tale ending.

500
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 5: I love little girls that are raised, you know, watching

501
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 5: movies and being taught and groomed too in to that

502
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 5: happy ending and actually making that come true and living

503
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 5: that dream or living that fairy tale, but at what costs?

504
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 5: And in today's era, today's era of women in aesthetics

505
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,919
Speaker 5: and social media, like, do women really want to be

506
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 5: Do they want to have weddings? I think they want

507
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 5: to have weddings. They don't want to be they don't

508
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 5: want to be married. I think that. I think that's

509
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 5: the disconnect. They like the weddings, the aesthetics, the pretty,

510
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 5: the changing outfits, but they don't like what actual marriage entails.

511
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 5: There's a difference. I would break it down right now,

512
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 5: but I'm not going to break it down because we

513
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 5: don't have that kind of time.

514
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: The more the more extravagant the wedding, the shorter of

515
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 2: the wedding, the short of the marriage, the more extravagant,

516
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: the short Go look at all those Hollywood stars that

517
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,719
Speaker 2: spent all that money one million, five hundred thousand, two

518
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 2: hundred thousand, and see how long they stayed. Now, go

519
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 2: look at the ones that had the little, the little

520
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: quaint wedding. They went to the church, or they had

521
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 2: a look, or they went the justice of the peace.

522
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 2: Because you got that big ass wedding you just drive man. Man,

523
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 2: I know a dude had a homeboy. Man, Joe got

524
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 2: married custom suit us some gate of shoes.

525
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 5: Hey, you would marry?

526
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 7: What?

527
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 3: How long? Was married?

528
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 2: By the long as a snowball on the Mica wave?

529
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 2: As long as a snowball in the Mica waves? How

530
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 2: long that lad?

531
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 3: Please?

532
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 2: Paying all that money two two hundred thousand dollars for what?

533
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 3: What do you playing two hundred thousand dollars for old Joe?

534
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 5: What?

535
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to figure what you're written now? The

536
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 3: taj Mahal? What you written out in the White House?

537
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 3: What y'all what y'all eat? What y'all eat? Ca y'all lost? Please?

538
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 5: That's a great topic because I have no idea on

539
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 5: how much weddings actually cost. And the funny thing about

540
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 5: it is, I keep asking purposely because you already know

541
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 5: who is doing all the planning, and I'm curious to

542
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 5: what that big gonna look like because we ain't going

543
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 5: to five now, we're going, We're gonna right, We're gonna

544
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 5: write to the Bahamas. We ain't going to I mean,

545
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 5: that's that's a thirty minute flight.

546
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 2: Hey, I give them. I gave my daughters a budget.

547
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: You got a budget. I don't get whatever you do

548
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: after that.

549
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 5: Okay, so you can you can have a you can

550
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 5: have a wedding with thirty thousand.

551
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 3: Thirty thousand.

552
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what you gonna have. I ain't even

553
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 2: gonna get married. I don't give a damn. Hey, they

554
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: better go get what about?

555
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 3: Hey? Hey, hey, hey, y'all from the South?

556
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 2: Y'all know about that that that fried camfish and spaghetti plate?

557
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 3: Hey, I know somebody to hook that thing right on up?

558
00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 3: What did y'all about? The plate? Ten fifty a head spaghetti, uh, a.

559
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: Fried catfish, a piece of corn bread, and a fireboam

560
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 2: cup of sweet tea.

561
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 3: That's all you're getting?

562
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 8: Heyo hoe, hey, Rail, shout out to Rail. I'm an

563
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 8: entrepreneur and a former track athlete as well.

564
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, this is for own.

565
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 8: With much success and being surrounded by love. How soon

566
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 8: are you looking to find a balance in your life?

567
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 8: Because you do believe that men and women need each other? Correct?

568
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 3: I do, and we're not We're not made.

569
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 8: And you are a believer that we're not made to

570
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 8: go out through this thing called life without our partner.

571
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 8: So how soon are you looking to find that balance

572
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 8: to settle down and find your life partner.

573
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 3: To be honest with you.

574
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 2: That's probably one of my greatest regrets that through this

575
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 2: process I really haven't had a whole lot of people

576
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 2: to share it with. If I had, did you do

577
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: it over again? I probably would do it a little different.

578
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 2: Probably should have met someone. Look, I had some opportunities,

579
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: but things didn't work out. God didn't make any mistakes.

580
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 5: We ain't gonna do.

581
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 8: Should have, could have, would have yere soon in the future.

582
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 7: Are you looking?

583
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 3: I wish you should? You shouldn't. I wish you should.

584
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 3: I wish you shouldn't. Come on, Kobe, I wish you.

585
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: I wish I could give you a defendive answer that

586
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: I can say. You know what in six months and

587
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 2: a year, a year and a half, you talking about tonight?

588
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 7: Oh I was a ballplayer.

589
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 8: Two you're fine with shooting?

590
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 7: You will know?

591
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 5: Okay, my bad, my bad, he's a bag.

592
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 3: But man, my daughter here, come here.

593
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 8: Hey, she's gorgeous. So if he is looking, they need

594
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 8: to be age appropriate.

595
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 5: There have to be older than me. So I'm fifty five.

596
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 2: Adrian Peterson, who earned more than one hundred million dollars

597
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: during his fifteen year NFL career, he now faces a

598
00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: debt in excess of twelve million, and he's been ordered

599
00:32:59,960 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 2: to turn over his assets to pay for it. According

600
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 2: to the USA Today, at Houston judge has ordered ap

601
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: to surrender property to satisfy the debt. Comfortable have been

602
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 2: ordered to seize assets from his home. A quarter point

603
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: of receiver has accused Peterson of playing a shell game

604
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 2: in order to avoid payment.

605
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 3: Oh show, oh show man, ap.

606
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 2: Bro, you made one hundred million, and then he borred

607
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: I think he borrowed like five million and like two

608
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 2: years the interest. So when you borrow money like that,

609
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: you got to play like twenty twenty five percent interest,

610
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 2: so Joe, So it went from five million to like

611
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: eight million in three years.

612
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 3: It might be fifty percent interest, oh Joe.

613
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 2: But then you throw a birthday party and you fly everybody.

614
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: I wish y'all might have a birthday party, and I

615
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: fly y'all in to come to my party where they

616
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 2: do that at he got camels, he got tigers. Dude

617
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 2: thought he was targeted for real.

618
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 5: Man, It's listen, you know how I am. The chat

619
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 5: know hell, the goddamn world know how I am. When

620
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 5: it comes to finances, and I don't play that. I

621
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 5: don't play that. Listen to him being in this situation

622
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 5: is very unfortunate. I wish him well and hoping everything

623
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 5: turns out in his favor. I'm not sure how this

624
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 5: works his favor.

625
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: He owned twelve million, I mean, and front the looks

626
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 2: of it, he ain't got it.

627
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope, so I hope he does. I hope.

628
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: How you take out a loan to throw yourself a

629
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 2: birthday party? You better get hey, you better go down

630
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 2: there and get about five six, a dozen crowds.

631
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 3: It's a shrimp. It's ahead you go. Who takes out

632
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 3: a loan to throw themselfs a birthday party?

633
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 2: Unless you're what trying to impress the party goers?

634
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 3: I don't know.

635
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Man A hundred.

636
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,439
Speaker 5: Damn man, Oh Joe?

637
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 2: How you, oh Joe? You throw a birthday party and

638
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 2: you bringing what? He's flying three hundred people, three hundred guests.

639
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 2: He flew in three hundred guests. I don't know three

640
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 2: hundred people. If I'm fifty six, I don't know three

641
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 2: hundred people. And I damn sure don't know enough of

642
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 2: people to fly the ass to a mile's head right, man?

643
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 3: You think you think I know three hundred buckets, three

644
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 3: hundred burns?

645
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 1: Helly, No, that's that's messed up.

646
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 6: Man.

647
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 2: He flew in three hundred and twenty people for oh Joe,

648
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 2: check this out on yo. Yeah, but guess how he flew.

649
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 3: Him first class? First class?

650
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh is it is?

651
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 6: There?

652
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 7: Is there any way?

653
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: Oh?

654
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: Can you just file bankruptcy?

655
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 3: Hey?

656
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 2: You?

657
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 3: Well, so if you ain't got no money?

658
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 2: It's hard to file bankruptsy you ain't got no money

659
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: because guess what your credit gonna be shot?

660
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: So what you're gonna put up? What you're gonna put

661
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 3: up for collateral?

662
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 6: Yeah?

663
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: I mean, but not the more the more people just say, hey,

664
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 2: can we get this, the more women you say, what

665
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get it with? Ask amount? We ain't got

666
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: no money? What I'm ia pay with it? Fore what

667
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pay with it? What? What am I going

668
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 2: to pay to get what you're asking for?

669
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: So?

670
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 2: If he doesn't have the thing is the best thing

671
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: to have if you don't have money is to have

672
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 2: great credit. You could have fup credit if you got money.

673
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: You see how that works? Yeah, but enough people don't

674
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,879
Speaker 2: care and think about it anytime you try to buy something,

675
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 2: they're gonna do. Uh, they're gonna put them credit scords.

676
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 2: Uh Equifax, imperiod, what's the experience so at that at

677
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 2: this point, and they got three of them. Now some

678
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: might be a little higher than the other one. But

679
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 2: I feel very good. Mine all start with eight. I

680
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 2: ain't gonna tell you what else they got. You know

681
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: what comes after that. But I feel talking about all

682
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 2: three of mine start with eight.

683
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 3: Right.

684
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,959
Speaker 2: But okay, and but I but I got a little

685
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 2: bit of money. I ain't saying I'm the richest man

686
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: in the world, but I got great credit and I

687
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: do have a little cash. But I'm I'm not I'm

688
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 2: not doing anything to impress anybody. I'm not buying no

689
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 2: no ten million dollar hole. I'm not buying no no

690
00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 2: million dollar car. I'm not flying people in Oh Oh Joe.

691
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 2: I used to have a party in Glennville. Hey, y'all

692
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 2: could drive here. Hey, you're welcome to come. You ain't

693
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: got to bring nothing. I got all the alcohol, I

694
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 2: got a hundred pounds of crab legs, a hundred pound

695
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 2: of shrimp. We got like one hundred, you know, two

696
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: hundred hot dogs or two hundred Hamburgers all the look

697
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 2: hey have at it, but it get there the best

698
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 2: way you can. Preferably, I prefer you to walk because

699
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 2: you're gonna be drunk by the time you leave. I

700
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 2: don't want nobody to have no accent. Knock on wood,

701
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: Thank god, we're watching over. Nobody got no d o.

702
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 2: I nobody got hard. But I ain't pressing nobody. Man, Now,

703
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 2: y'all know I got money. I played in the NFL.

704
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 2: I'm the highest paid X, Y and Z. But I'm

705
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: not feeling impressed. Nobody. Yeah a fiend, A fiend birthday party,

706
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: blue jeans, T shirt, shorts, flip flops, saying or whatever,

707
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 2: that's the theme.

708
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 3: True.

709
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 1: I won't even celebrate my birthday.

710
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 5: I just say I save, save me a little pre Yeah,

711
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 5: I'm glad to see, glad to see another year. Yeah,

712
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 5: get a little Starbucks, give me a cigar, man and

713
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 5: kicking feet out.

714
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 3: That that's how I just feel. I just feel bad,

715
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 3: Oh Joe.

716
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 2: That people come in and I mean some people have

717
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,479
Speaker 2: never seen some people will never see a million dollars

718
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 2: in their lifetime. And I get it when they said,

719
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 2: we say he made over one hundred million. You figure,

720
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 2: Uncle Sam gonna take fifty percent of that, So that's

721
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 2: fifty million. Let's just say, oh, Joe, I throw twenty

722
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: five million. I just throw twenty five. You still got

723
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: to have twenty five left. Even if even after your

724
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 2: agent take his cut back, then they tell you what

725
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: three four percent? I don't know five if they paying

726
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 2: for everything? Nah, And people are like, oh kid, kids

727
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 2: don't list. Here's the thing, Yes, my grandfa just say.

728
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 2: My grandfather told my brother and I we were young.

729
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 2: He say, the worst kind of poor you can be

730
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 2: is child poor. Don't let that go over y'all head people.

731
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 2: That's an eighteen year expense. That's damn there. As long

732
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:07,439
Speaker 2: as your mortgage. Now, just imagine your mortgage. You got one,

733
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 2: because they ain't a people. There ain't very many people

734
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 2: that have seven mortgages. So you start having five, six, seven, eight, nine,

735
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: ten kids, okay, and they're not by one. Guess what,

736
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: O Joe, that's eighteen years. I know I don't done

737
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: the man.

738
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,800
Speaker 1: Oh shit, I haven't done it too plenty times.

739
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 3: Okay, so you know what that means.

740
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 2: That's why you ain't wan the no vacation hell, now,

741
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 2: by vacation was right there.

742
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,399
Speaker 3: That's that was my vacation right there.

743
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, oh, she don't play.

744
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 5: She don't play because all that all that man man, hurricane,

745
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 5: don't play.

746
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 7: She cutting everybody out.

747
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 2: How would you handle that situation? Obviously, real, real is

748
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 2: important to you. That's your mom.

749
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 7: Hey, real, real, real, got it when my mama was here.

750
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 3: Unh we'll not touched out.

751
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 7: My mama was here. What matter of fact, I'm gonna

752
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 7: show you. You can't even see right.

753
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 5: Listen, remember I told you or my mama passed away

754
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 5: her messages right you see you see you see my phone,

755
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 5: me scrolling all her messages still there.

756
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 7: Want you want to know?

757
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 5: Her last message was to me, I ain't even raised yet.

758
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 6: Hold on customb.

759
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 5: Reel, last out second roll you laughing. I ain't gonna

760
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 5: send second rod at the mock funeral. Not a sea

761
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 5: for me at the funeral. As for Cherrelle said to

762
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 5: me she had no contact information on me to let

763
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 5: me know you were having a party.

764
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 7: Fucked that bitch.

765
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:48,359
Speaker 5: Too, Hey what oh well, my mama was hell man

766
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 5: and everybody got it. There's a saying I don't know

767
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 5: how many people in the chat that are from Miami

768
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 5: or any of my friends. There's a saying you are

769
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 5: really not a friend of mine. We are not really

770
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 5: friends if you haven't been cursed up by mama. So

771
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 5: what I do try to do in situations like that,

772
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 5: I try to de escalate them as much as possible.

773
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,479
Speaker 7: But once she got that look in her.

774
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 5: System, if my mama got that look in her system, uh,

775
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:12,439
Speaker 5: it's a rap.

776
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that'sn't believe that.

777
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 7: There's nothing I can do. There's nothing I can say.

778
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:17,439
Speaker 7: It's a rap.

779
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 2: I believe there have to be a healthy level of

780
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 2: respect on both sides. I understand because you know, moms

781
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 2: don't believe anybody is ever gonna be good enough for

782
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,240
Speaker 2: this enough, and fathers doesn't believe that anybody's.

783
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 3: Ever gonna be good enough for their daughters.

784
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 2: Right, But there has to be a level of respect

785
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 2: there that this is the person that I choose, and

786
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: whatever mistake I make, I'm gonna have to stand in it.

787
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to own it. And you know, there

788
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 2: might be a time down the road that you say

789
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 2: I told you so. But if I introduce you to somebody,

790
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 2: I don't need you to this in this situation. Notwithstanding,

791
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 2: just be respectful, because I'm going to demand I'm gonna

792
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 2: demand my partner be respectful of you because you are

793
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 2: my mom, and you are an adult. You're older than

794
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 2: she is, and so she's gonna give you a level

795
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,959
Speaker 2: of respect. But in order to get respect, you're gonna

796
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 2: have to give respect. Yeah, and I don't want to

797
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 2: be I listen, every time I come around, I'm not

798
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 2: gonna be a referee.

799
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 7: I'm not.

800
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. That's good because that's

801
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 3: not that's not what I'm here for.

802
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I want my partner to be around

803
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 2: to know my family, to my grandmother and my mom

804
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 2: and my sister, my brother.

805
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 3: And the family.

806
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 2: But to come around and be and and to be

807
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be disrespectful. You're not gonna call out

808
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,479
Speaker 2: her name and my partner, damn sure, you're not gonna

809
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 2: be disrespectful to you because at the end of the day,

810
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 2: that's still my mom. Yeah, he gave me life, So

811
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 2: we're gonna be respectful.

812
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 5: Oh.

813
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 3: I demand respect on both sides.

814
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: I demand it from my mom to respect my partner,

815
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: and I demand my partner respect my mom.

816
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

817
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 5: That's tough, that's tough on I mean, this is I

818
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 5: mean your mom is a little different than my mom was.

819
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 5: I mean, there are other people's mom they they operate

820
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 5: different in that in that in that space when it

821
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 5: comes to who their son might be dating.

822
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 6: My mama don't give.

823
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 5: To you know what, and didn't care who you were,

824
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 5: you was, You was gonna get it any any any

825
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 5: small little situation where things don't most of the time go.

826
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 6: Her way, or you don't or you don't, uh, you

827
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 6: don't check in.

828
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 5: It's just it's just it's just weird some of the

829
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 5: things that would trigger her. And I would do everything

830
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 5: I can and in my power to to do to

831
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 5: de escalate situations the best way I can.

832
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 6: And you know, it was hard for me to even

833
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 6: take my mama places with me.

834
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 5: Un It was hard to take it to important stuff,

835
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 5: red carpet events, because I know, I know what's gonna happen.

836
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 5: I know I know it's gonna happen. And it never failed.

837
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 5: It never failed, even when I tried, it never failed.

838
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 5: In chat, if y'all don't know about Hurricane Paulo, you

839
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 5: can go go watch go watch in action. When we

840
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 5: had we did marriage boot camp together, my mama and

841
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 5: I we did marriage boot Camp together family addition, where

842
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 5: I tried to to reunite in and bring us a

843
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 5: little closer together because we.

844
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 6: Were always at WIT's end. You know, my grandma raised me.

845
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 5: So I try to do all I can to see

846
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 5: if I can fix and rectifire our situation.

847
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 6: As as as mother and son and boys.

848
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 5: She showed her as she showed, She showed as she

849
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 5: cuts everybody out.

850
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 3: My thing is, I'm never I'm never gonna curse my mom.

851
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna be disrespectful to my mom. I'm just

852
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: gonna have a conversation with my mom and like, Mom, look,

853
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 2: I'm an adult now. I'm not the little boy. Yes

854
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 2: i am. I'm still your baby. I'm the one that

855
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 2: you gave birth to on June twenty sixth, nineteen sixty eight,

856
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 2: in Cook County Hospital.

857
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 3: That's me.

858
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm a man now, and I'm well, I'm

859
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 2: in my right mind. I'm old enough, I'm wise enough

860
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 2: to make decisions. They might not be perfect. My grandmother

861
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 2: had just the opposite approach. My grandma like, I ain't

862
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 2: got to sleep with him if you like them, I

863
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 2: love because I ain't got to spend one day with him.

864
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 3: Son.

865
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: That's my grandma any time I brought so now I

866
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,240
Speaker 2: they't bring a whole lot of people around my grandma.

867
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: But she said, son, I ain't got you the one

868
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 2: that got to live with them. Are you happy? And

869
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,280
Speaker 2: if they make you happy, you being happy makes me happy.

870
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 2: And if my happiness is depending on you, you being happy? Son,

871
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 2: do it right? But you know my my mom look,

872
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,959
Speaker 2: my mom is and I get it. But like I would,

873
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: I would have never I would. I wouldn't allow my mom.

874
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 2: I probably would like you know, take my take my

875
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 2: my partner home, my girlfriend home, and then I'm gonna

876
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 2: come back and I'm gonna have a conversation. I'm gonna

877
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: have a deep conversation with my mom. And I'm gonna say, Mom,

878
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,879
Speaker 2: that's disrespectful. I said, so in other words, you don't

879
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 2: respect me. So you don't give. You don't give, You

880
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,319
Speaker 2: don't care about me. You don't care what I want,

881
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 2: You don't care what I like, You don't care about

882
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 2: my happiness. This ain't about you, mom, It's not about you.

883
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 2: And I understand you want it's best for your child.

884
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 2: All I say, Oh, most parents want what's best for

885
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 2: their child, if they if they have any faith, because

886
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 2: I'm never I'm never gonna be that parents and parents,

887
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 2: Oh you think you.

888
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 3: Better than me?

889
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 2: What parents worth? Anything says that to a child? You

890
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 2: think you better than me? But I will have a

891
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 2: conversation with my.

892
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 9: Mom that I thought that was very disrespectful, the way

893
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,279
Speaker 9: you talk to her, the way you talk to me

894
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 9: and Mom, I'm always love you, but if you can't

895
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 9: respect the person that I'm with, I can't come around you.

896
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, shoot that shit, man ship.

897
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 5: You see that little speech you gave just now being

898
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 5: nice about man, you can't. I can't even come around man,

899
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 5: but carry your black ass on. I wish you could

900
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 5: have met my mama. Man. I don't know how many

901
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 5: people from the chat, but that's watching the show that's

902
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 5: from on the crib.

903
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 6: That nobody my old girl or she ain't play that

904
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 6: ship right, But.

905
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 5: She ain't play that. I don't care no matter who is.

906
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 5: Everybody got that. Coaches, teachers, friends, my girls, my kids,

907
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 5: those I have kids from, everybody got it.

908
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 7: Everybody's different.

909
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 2: It was very different the way my grandmother approached my

910
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 2: girlfriends or people that I was.

911
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: Dealing with than my mom.

912
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, my grandma like you happy, take care of the

913
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: babies because I want them.

914
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 3: I want them great grads to be around. X Y

915
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 3: and z Alice Mary Alice.

916
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 6: Different ball game.

917
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 2: But but the thing is that that you know, you

918
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:52,840
Speaker 2: tell you tell Mom. Just because I have somebody in

919
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 2: my life, that doesn't mean I love you any less.

920
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 2: Just because I got a kid from this person, that

921
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 2: doesn't mean that's gonna take any that's gonna take any

922
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 2: of my love from you. You my mom. You always

923
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: gonna be my mom. I'm always gonna do for you.

924
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 2: But now I have responsibilities that I have to do

925
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: for someone else. Also, now I might not be able

926
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: to do as much as I could do because I

927
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:18,240
Speaker 2: have other responsibilities first and foremost. That's one thing Marnie

928
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 2: mayor Porter raised us to do. You take care of

929
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: your responsibilities. And I'm gonna do that right because I

930
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 2: created it. So anytime you create something, you take care

931
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 2: of it, right. Okay, Mom, But I still got you.

932
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 5: Do you understand how fortunate that young fellow was to

933
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 5: have a week to do something like it like that

934
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 5: for him. Do you know how difficult it is to

935
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 5: find a woman that's willing to extend themselves in that manner,

936
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 5: In that manner, let alone, the small things. But if

937
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 5: you think about it today, in today's era, in today's society,

938
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 5: everything is on us. Think about it now, everything is

939
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 5: on us. Everything. We have to do everything. You got

940
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 5: a court, you gotta buy you gotta do this, and

941
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 5: if they do buy you something, it's probably your money anyway, true,

942
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 5: you know. So the fact that she was willing to

943
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 5: do this out of maybe love or whatever it may

944
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 5: may have been at that time.

945
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 3: Oh, it's got to be loved. What could it be?

946
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you know, he'll give it sixty dollars.

947
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 3: They don't love.

948
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 5: The funny thing about it is when you're in love,

949
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 5: you do things that you wouldn't do when you're not

950
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,320
Speaker 5: in love, because you're thinking in your right mind.

951
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 2: Nah, they say love is blinding. I ain't got no cataracts.

952
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 2: I can see just fine, right right, right, sixty thousand.

953
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 5: You wouldn't do that, be honest, if you if you

954
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 5: were in love with it, if you was in love

955
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 5: with a woman. Right now, you're telling a note.

956
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 3: I ain't paying no sixty thousand dollars on she nothing.

957
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 5: I just said. You didn't listen to the scenario if

958
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 5: you were in love.

959
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, no, oh, Joe, that's my My wife is

960
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 2: one thing, a girlfriend, right sixty.

961
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 5: Grand hold on, hold on, guess what girlfriend?

962
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 3: Grandfriend and wife.

963
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 5: The rules are basically the same. The only thing that's

964
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 5: different is the document in the ring.

965
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:24,800
Speaker 3: I'm not I because you know what happened.

966
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 2: Because when they broke up and she left the plate,

967
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 2: he beaten somebody else back in. Now, guess what I

968
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 2: paid for those loan I'm paying that loan off. If

969
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: somebody got a somebody got a bent over the balcony.

970
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 2: Oh hey, oh god.

971
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 5: Oh Joe, Well, un let me tell you. Let me

972
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 5: tell you. Listen, I had, I had a I had

973
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 5: I had a wonderful, beautiful saying that I've been saying

974
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 5: all my life. Would you have to understand now? I

975
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,760
Speaker 5: think I think we'll put on earth to experience people.

976
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,240
Speaker 5: We're put on earth to experience people. And at times

977
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,879
Speaker 5: my grandfather told me long time ago, son, listen, you're

978
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 5: gonna meet people, and I want you to orders. Remember

979
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 5: she's not yours. It's just your turn. Yeah, she's not yours.

980
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 5: It's just a turn. So you really can't think like

981
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 5: that now. Now, for me, for instance, you do things

982
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:27,319
Speaker 5: to extend that vacation. You do all the right things

983
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 5: you can to extend that vacation in that stay as

984
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 5: much as possible, you know, and you do all you

985
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 5: can to keep an individual happy so it maintains itself

986
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 5: long term.

987
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 2: Look, I think the thing is O joe for a

988
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 2: situation like yourself, me or yourself. Yes, sir, sixty grand,

989
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: that's a lot of money, but I'm not gonna.

990
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lose a night of sleep.

991
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 2: Right right, raisty grand for her is probably like I

992
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 2: ain't gonna say.

993
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 5: Okay, I see what you mean. Yes, sir, you.

994
00:52:58,600 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 3: See what I'm saying.

995
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 2: Sixty grand is different for different people. For her, that

996
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: is a stretch. I'm not losing sleep over sixty five.

997
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 3: That's right.

998
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 2: But the problem of ohoe is that, like I said,

999
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 2: look have I have I Look, if I care about you,

1000
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 2: I was best for you. I don't want even most

1001
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 2: of the most of the women that I've dated. And

1002
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,839
Speaker 2: they'll tell you this, all of them, if they've ever

1003
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 2: asked me for something and I could do it, take

1004
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 2: off whoa not with reasons?

1005
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 3: With reasons okay on that part.

1006
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 5: Okay, I was waited on that.

1007
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 2: Because here, look now a lot of times I've been

1008
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 2: in situation and they've always did me a solid. They

1009
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 2: didn't say anything negative about me, didn't say anything bad,

1010
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 2: so they always good in my book. They could always Hey, Shannon,

1011
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 2: I need eggs. Okay, I got you, Shannon. I need

1012
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,839
Speaker 2: why because I'm never gonna say anything bad about you

1013
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 2: no matter what is transpired behind closed door.

1014
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 3: That's why I.

1015
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 2: Don't do anything publicly because I can break up privately.

1016
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 2: I can get with someone privately, but if I break it,

1017
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 2: but if I date publicly, if I'm posting and I'm

1018
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 2: doing all this the moment, then people start to try

1019
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:20,520
Speaker 2: to fish and try to figure things out.

1020
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,240
Speaker 3: But any any any any.

1021
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 2: Woman that I've dated, say in the last thirty years,

1022
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 2: if they've ever asked for something monetarily and I could

1023
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 2: help them my.

1024
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 5: Deed, Okay, okay, yeah, I like I like how you

1025
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 5: said within reason. I like how you do that, you know,

1026
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:41,879
Speaker 5: within rejat. Sometimes sometimes they'll continue to take and take

1027
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 5: and take and take and push the limits and see

1028
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:44,439
Speaker 5: how far.

1029
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 6: Can go.

1030
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I had one did me one solid.

1031
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna tell y'all what the solid is, but

1032
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 2: when it came down she said, well, shut that, I

1033
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 2: need a house.

1034
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 3: I want to I don't.

1035
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 5: Come on now, you said that a little too casually.

1036
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 2: Listen, listen to she did me a solid. I'd be

1037
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:06,879
Speaker 2: the real solid. Your boy was jammed up.

1038
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, I was in a mine. Okay, okay.

1039
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 3: I said, I tell you what, in this situation, she

1040
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 3: could have came to me and.

1041
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 2: Got sixty thousd right, she could have came to me

1042
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 2: and got one hundred found right, right, right, But she

1043
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 2: didn't do that right. You said, I just need the

1044
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 2: down payment. I said, well, how much is the down payment?

1045
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 2: She said, as I said, if I give you, why,

1046
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 2: how much would your monthly payments be? Because I wanted

1047
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 2: to be as easy as it possibly can, so I

1048
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,760
Speaker 2: tried to make it as easy as I possibly could,

1049
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 2: so her monthly payments would be something that she could

1050
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 2: manage where she wouldn't have to come back because I

1051
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 2: was in no position. I would have had no choice.

1052
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 2: Consider what she did for me.

1053
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 3: Okay. I like that.

1054
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,319
Speaker 5: I like that. I like that. I like that I

1055
00:55:56,400 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 5: like that I understand, oh hardly understand when you're coming

1056
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 5: from based on based on circumstance. I like that. I

1057
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 5: like that, but you're you're real one.

1058
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 3: I'm looking your real one? Are you? If you? If

1059
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 3: you ever?

1060
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 2: And and my coaches, my coach, my college, my high

1061
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 2: school coach. I bought him a car, my uh uh

1062
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:20,280
Speaker 2: uh my my my my uh remedial and Spanish teacher

1063
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: every game. She didn't want anything, she said, shall I

1064
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 2: just want to come see you place. I'm just so

1065
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 2: proud of you. But women that have been in my life,

1066
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 2: that have been good and then try to hoggether. You know,

1067
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 2: everybody ain't good, but if they've been good, they know

1068
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,439
Speaker 2: they can get it right. And I don't want nothing

1069
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 2: to return it ain't no, oh you're getting the good. No, no, no,

1070
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 2: I ain't spunned the block.

1071
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:48,840
Speaker 3: I have Yeah, what.

1072
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 5: Why are you do you? Why are you okay?

1073
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:53,799
Speaker 3: But she did?

1074
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 5: Hey?

1075
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 3: What for what she did for me?

1076
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 5: Like I said, Oh, yeah, I understand. You ain't got

1077
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 5: you ain't listen. You've got to go in depth from

1078
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 5: the passion in which the passion and your delivery. I

1079
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 5: already know I'm with you.

1080
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 2: The man had the job for six months, old, yoe,

1081
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 2: what you mean you're working on his number? Who takes

1082
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 2: a job and you're still trying to figure it out

1083
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 2: six months later.

1084
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 5: How much I'm just telling you. I'm just telling you

1085
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 5: if I was an issue, Chad, I.

1086
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 2: Mean, Chad, am I out of line here. I'm like,

1087
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure this out. So hold on, when

1088
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 2: did the harbor I get the job? When the Harbor

1089
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 2: I get the job? At at said at the Chargers

1090
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 2: because maybe it's me. Maybe it's maybe it's me. Maybe

1091
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 2: it's me. Maybe it's me, guys, because you know, sometimes

1092
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 2: I have a have a sometimes I have a propensity.

1093
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 2: He got Harbor I got job j War twenty four

1094
00:57:46,640 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 2: when with Sharon Moore named head coach at Michigan head

1095
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 2: coach January twenty sixth, So February, March, April, May, June, July, August.

1096
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 3: Here we are September, so we've had eight months.

1097
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 5: You know, who else doesn't have a contract that is

1098
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 5: deserving for the work he's put in and going to

1099
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 5: put in. Jamar Chase.

1100
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 10: Not enough, Jamar Chase has a contract. Oh y'all enough

1101
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 10: he got two years. If nothing on the contract he signed,

1102
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 10: that's not COMPLI no o, Joe, But you said he

1103
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 10: doesn't have a contract. He actually does have a contract.

1104
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 10: He has two years left on the contract that he

1105
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:41,919
Speaker 10: signed on his rookie deal.

1106
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 3: Sharon Moore does not have a.

1107
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 2: Contract, okay, at all period, No contracts. Trying to work

1108
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 2: out terms. They're trying to come to an agreement. So

1109
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 2: the man was an intern. How many games the harm

1110
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 2: I missed three?

1111
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 3: Four?

1112
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 2: So he missed three games. So you you saw him.

1113
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 2: In turn, he kept the ship afloat. He was your

1114
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 2: all c call the National Championship game. You won that game.

1115
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 2: You name him head coach on January twenty sixth, and

1116
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 2: you didn't work out a deal in February, March, April, May, June, July, August.

1117
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,919
Speaker 3: Here we are in September. They would do that. Didn't

1118
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 3: know what.

1119
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on, but I just know

1120
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 2: the other I know, I know other countries don't get

1121
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 2: to do that.

1122
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:31,919
Speaker 3: I don't.

1123
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 5: I don't want to make any speculations.

1124
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 2: Maybe it's me, Maybe it's maybe maybe maybe maybe it's me.

1125
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:41,440
Speaker 2: Maybe it's me, Maybe it's me.

1126
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 5: Maybe you know the athletic director is that Michigan normally

1127
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:46,800
Speaker 5: always send him a little message.

1128
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 2: I just I just thought someone starts to job the agreement.

1129
00:59:54,840 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 3: Okay, here this thing, hey, yes, who the job?

1130
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 5: I mean, just any job now, So let's let's let's

1131
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 5: let's try this. Put yourself in mister moore shoes. If

1132
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 5: you were in his shoes, are you not taking the

1133
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 5: Michigan job because a contract has not been fulfilled yet?

1134
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 3: The contract, the contract.

1135
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 5: Hasn't been worked out. Are you going to say no,

1136
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 5: I don't want to coach for Michigan because the contract

1137
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 5: hasn't been worked out. I'm just I'm just I just

1138
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 5: want to see. I'm just I'm just asking. Are you

1139
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 5: not going to take the job because the contract hasn't

1140
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 5: done yet?

1141
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 3: Do you the contract would have been done?

1142
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 2: There's first of all, the contract is don't be done

1143
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 2: before you take the job?

1144
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 3: Who takes the job? Oh choe?

1145
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 5: Then I'm just doing speaking. If you were in his shoes,

1146
01:00:56,400 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 5: with the opportunity that is presenting itself, the coach of

1147
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,439
Speaker 5: Michigan Wolverines and it wasn't in place, would you take

1148
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 5: it or not? You would say no.

1149
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 3: Because of.

1150
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 2: My agent would never let me take a job in

1151
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 2: which the contract would not contract was done.

1152
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 3: Oh choe.

1153
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 2: That'd be like, that'll be like you said, you know what,

1154
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get mad with no pre Nut worked out.

1155
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:29,439
Speaker 3: We're gonna work on it at a later day and time.

1156
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:30,440
Speaker 3: You doing that.

1157
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 5: Me, you're talking to me, but yeah, but see my

1158
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 5: situation when you when it comes to that, use it.

1159
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 5: I mean for better context. Pre Nut.

1160
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 2: Rail says, Okay, oh Joe, we're gonna get mad. We're

1161
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 2: gonna work out the contract. We're gonna work out preeting up.

1162
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 2: You like, okay, real, we could work out the pre

1163
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 2: ing up at a later dayton time. Whatever we're gonna do,

1164
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 2: we're gonna work out there at a later dayton time.

1165
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 2: And here we are eight months and so y'all been

1166
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:12,440
Speaker 2: dating three and a half four years, and so now

1167
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 2: because Moore has been there for a minute, he's been

1168
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 2: the old sea. And so now eight months until your

1169
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 2: marriage ain't nothing.

1170
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 5: Nothing, because I'm gonna make sure if he tried to

1171
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 5: leave me, I'm going I'm leaving with half. I ain't

1172
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 5: saying that ship.

1173
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 3: I get.

1174
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 5: I get what you're saying. I get what I'm saying.

1175
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 5: It's just like I said, no regular program. This ain't

1176
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 5: just no regular job. We talked about it.

1177
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 3: That's that makes it more.

1178
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 5: That's why you're not gonna happen. I think the fact

1179
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:47,680
Speaker 5: that we're talking about it. I'm sure other people are

1180
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 5: talking about it as well. When the number dude come across,

1181
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 5: we're gonna be like, oh, now we see why it

1182
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 5: took so long. Now they gonna take care of him.

1183
01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 5: How how you know he.

1184
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:00,600
Speaker 3: Ain't finna get that more money.

1185
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 2: He's not fin to get He's not he's not finn

1186
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 2: get No, Oh Joe, your coach about to get no

1187
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 2: twelve millions.

1188
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 5: I bet I bet he getting I bet he hit

1189
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 5: double digits. Though, let's bet bet one hundred dollars.

1190
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 3: I bet he don't.

1191
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 5: Better hundred. Okay, better hundred dollars.

1192
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 3: Okay, bet I bet your hundred.

1193
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 5: And what what college Michigan played already?

1194
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: Right?

1195
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:26,320
Speaker 5: They played last week and they played again. I guarantee

1196
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 5: you have a contracting place, and I guarantee its north

1197
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 5: is north of nine million before week three.

1198
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 3: Oko, First of all, you said.

1199
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 5: I said north north. What is north of nine min Okay?

1200
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 3: I get your point.

1201
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 5: Okay, northern nine means you.

1202
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 3: Said double digits.

1203
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 2: But the fact of the matter is that this is

1204
01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 2: a blue blood program, like you said, It's not something,

1205
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 2: it's not right small school.

1206
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 3: This is a pre eminent program.

1207
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 2: That probably spend one hundred million two under had a

1208
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 2: one hundred plus million dollar athletic budget. And you mean

1209
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 2: to tell me you've had this man working recruiting.

1210
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're right, You're right, I guess because he doesn't

1211
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 5: have a contract. I mean, I see it from your

1212
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 5: point of view. I also see it from another point

1213
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 5: of view, with the opportunity that that that presents himself

1214
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 5: at hand working for this historic, prestigious university knowing they're

1215
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 5: going to take care of me at some point. They

1216
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:36,760
Speaker 5: don't have me working for nothing, because how.

1217
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 3: Do I know that?

1218
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:38,919
Speaker 5: You know that? Why haven't they taken care of Because

1219
01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 5: this ain't this ain't seventy eleven, This ain't h and M.

1220
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 5: This is this is the University of Michigan. And I

1221
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:47,880
Speaker 5: know they're goin to cut that check.

1222
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 3: You would think they'd take care of him by now.

1223
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 5: Yes, sir, I understand. I totally understand what you mean.

1224
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 5: Though I totally do.

1225
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 3: I do.

1226
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 5: I don't know why it's going on. I don't know

1227
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 5: what they're waiting on, but I'm just saying, if the

1228
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 5: opportunity presented self, if I was missed the more with

1229
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 5: great understanding that it might not be done now, but

1230
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 5: I know they're gonna make sure I'm good. Hey, listen,

1231
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 5: you think eight months long? Let me ask you a question.

1232
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:16,959
Speaker 5: You think eight months long? How long you think I made?

1233
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 5: How long? Just not to put my personal business out there?

1234
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 5: You know I met, I made Reil wait nine months, befolks,

1235
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 5: she even could get some And you think that's long.

1236
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 5: It's no difference. But you had to work for that.

1237
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 2: But hold on, but but but what what what if

1238
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 2: Rail had to pay you for sex and say, well,

1239
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 2: oh Joey, I will pay.

1240
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 3: You in eight months exactly? You see right now?

1241
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 5: Now, now, now when you put it like that from

1242
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 5: a context, because I don't, I don't. I don't lay

1243
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 5: down for free. Are you right back there?

1244
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1245
01:05:53,560 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 2: That's my only thing to yo. I'm like okay. Normally,

1246
01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 2: when you like, okay, you come in for a job interview. Okay, okay,

1247
01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 2: Well how much does the job pay?

1248
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 3: Okay? What are you? What are my expectations on the job?

1249
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 2: What's the job hours, what's the whole what's the work schedule?

1250
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 3: Old? Time over time? Is that?

1251
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,479
Speaker 2: Okay? Do I get health benefits? Okay? Do I get

1252
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 2: you know, PTO? I'll come in with a job. I

1253
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 2: need CTO choice time off.

1254
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. He no, hey, jib.

1255
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 2: Aball, I choose to take off. So all those things

1256
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 2: I'm working out. Okay, mister sharp, you got the job. Okay,

1257
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 2: thank you. Oh well, I got a job. How much

1258
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 2: did a job pay? I understand sometimes, like medical, it

1259
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 2: could take thirty to sixty days before you get medical.

1260
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 3: I get that right for.

1261
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 5: I'm not familiar with these type of situations, being that

1262
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 5: I've never been in a position to be a coach

1263
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:53,560
Speaker 5: or work at a university like Michigan, So I don't

1264
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 5: know what's going on. I have no idea. Maybe if

1265
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 5: I was Paul, fine bomb, I have a better answer

1266
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 5: for you. But I don't know. I don't know, and

1267
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 5: I but I do think he's gonna get paid, and

1268
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 5: it's gonna be north or ten million. They're not gonna

1269
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 5: they're not gonna play with him, especially waiting. It's goddamn

1270
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 5: long a norther of nine million.

1271
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 3: My bad.

1272
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 7: The volume