1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 4: Don't given them all black the million bus busy. 5 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: Listening to. 6 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 5: Show. I don't joy, Yeah, Joy, you don't use. 7 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 6: Turn. 8 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 7: You gotta turn. 9 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 5: To turn the mouth. 10 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: Turn. 11 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 6: You probably got to turn the mouth and turn them. 12 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 5: Out, probably turn the water the mony cap. Look, come. 13 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: Come on, you think, ah, I sure will. 14 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 4: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on, 15 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 4: dig me now. 16 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 2: Run and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah. 17 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 8: Man. 18 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: God is in the blessing business all day every day. 19 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 4: God got hundreds of millions of blessings that he passes 20 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 4: out every day. All I want to do is be 21 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 4: the recipient that I'm the recipient of what He has 22 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 4: for me. That's all I want. I just want God's favor, 23 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: and I go. I want God's blessings. You know, of 24 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 4: course I need his mercy and his grace, but I 25 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 4: just want his blessings and his favor. 26 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: I want. 27 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 4: I want that in my life because it does things 28 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 4: for me that I'm absolutely incapable of doing for myself. 29 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 4: And I've been a recipient of many of those. And 30 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: you can be the recipient of them too. You already are, really, really, 31 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 4: you already are. If you're getting up every morning, that's 32 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: a blessing. If you're getting one day closer to anything 33 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 4: you're trying to accomplish, that's a blessing. But now let 34 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 4: me talk to you about this part right here, folks, 35 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 4: because this is the part that message people up a 36 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 4: great deal. 37 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 2: What happens when you get off track? What is that? 38 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 2: What does that mean? When you get off track? See? 39 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: I've been off track. 40 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 4: I can't tell you how many times, and it happens 41 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: in so many aspects of your life. But for what 42 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 4: is it that makes getting off track so debilitating to 43 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 4: some people? You know, there are some people who want 44 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 4: theay off track. They of course, they off the dream. 45 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 4: They on to something else. And you cannot allow the 46 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 4: fact that you've gotten off track. 47 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: To stop you can. I tell you something. Everybody gets 48 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: off track. 49 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 4: There are people who are living their life's dreams in 50 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 4: spite of getting off track. See what happens when you 51 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 4: get off track? Here's the simple thing to do. The 52 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 4: simple thing is just to get back on track. Now 53 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 4: that's that's but that's easier said than done. Ain't it, Steve. 54 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 55 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 4: Because see, people, when you get off track, here's some 56 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 4: of the things that happen. See you get the here 57 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 4: come to nay says some of them from the outside, 58 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 4: some of them internally. Here's what gets said when you 59 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:44,160 Speaker 4: get off track. See, I told you, I told you. 60 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 4: You know, you start hearing that it's not for you. Okay, 61 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 4: this is all just because you got off track. 62 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 2: It's not for you. 63 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 4: Okay, here's another one. It ain't meant to be. You 64 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 4: can hear it all. You could say it. Well, I 65 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 4: guess it's just not meant to be. But let me 66 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 4: ask you a question, though, who made the rule that 67 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 4: when you get off track you can't get back on? 68 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 2: Who made that rule? 69 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 1: Where has that written that once you get off track. 70 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 4: You can't get back on? See, because I'm gonna tell 71 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 4: you something, folks, there's no such rule. As a matter 72 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 4: of fact, it's quite the opposite. See, everybody in pursuit 73 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 4: of a dream, a goal, an aspiration, or mission is 74 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 4: going to get off track. Sometimes you're going to get derailed. 75 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 4: There are going to be days where you're not going 76 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 4: to get it right. That are going to be days 77 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 4: where you feel like giving up there's going to be 78 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 4: days when you're just gonna flat out get it wrong. 79 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 2: That's the journey. But let me tell you, every. 80 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 4: Successful person that I know, ever met, talked to, set out, 81 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 4: and chopped it up with, have shared one thing in common. 82 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 4: We all get off track. We all get it wrong 83 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 4: along the way. I don't care who the person is. 84 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 4: The president got it wrong along the way. Your pastor 85 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 4: got it wrong along the way. Quiet director guy got 86 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 4: it wrong along the way. The principle at your school 87 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 4: got it wrong along the way. The valve victorian of 88 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 4: your class got it wrong along the way. The star 89 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 4: of the team got it wrong along the way. They've 90 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 4: all been off track. Your boss down at your job, 91 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 4: he got it wrong along the way. Your immediate supervisor 92 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 4: got it wrong along the way. Everybody I know that 93 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 4: has any measure of success in every level that you 94 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 4: call success, however you want to label it, has gotten 95 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 4: off track. As a matter of fact, it's impossible. Listen 96 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 4: to me, it is impossible not to get off track 97 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 4: in pursuit of your dreams, goals, visions, aspirations. It is impossible. 98 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 4: Don't you let nobody tell you that they got through 99 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 4: life unscathed, that they made it because they were just 100 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 4: so determined, and I would let nothing turn me back. Yeah, 101 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 4: you might not have let nothing turn you back because 102 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 4: you hear Oh, but you thought about it. Oh, you 103 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 4: thought about it on days when you was off track. 104 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 4: But see, people don't like to tell the whole story. 105 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 4: They just want you to think as much as you 106 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 4: can about them. So when they tell you their story, 107 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 4: they leave out the stuff along the way. It was 108 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 4: just hard work and determination that got me here. 109 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 2: No it wasn't, No, it wasn't. 110 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 4: It was the fact that you got off track, and 111 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 4: the grace and of God allowed you to get back on. 112 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 4: His forgiveness allowed you to get back on because you 113 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 4: would not believe what some of the people have done. 114 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 4: So when you get off track, don't allow the naysayers 115 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 4: outside and the big naysayer inside, because let me tell 116 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 4: you something, the biggest naysayer of them all comes from inside. See, 117 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 4: it don't matter what other people say out there. It 118 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 4: takes some time for you to learn this. And I 119 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 4: understand because it took me some time to learn it. See, 120 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 4: I have a lot of naysayers out there, but I 121 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 4: ain't operating for them, operating function for the ones that 122 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 4: love me, for the ones that get me, for the 123 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 4: ones that understand what I'm really trying to do. And 124 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 4: so don't you be the one that doesn't allow yourself 125 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 4: to get back on track when you get off track, because, 126 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 4: like I said, who made the rule up that you 127 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 4: can't get back on track? There's no such rule out there. 128 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:04,719 Speaker 4: Stop stopping yourself from getting it right. So what you 129 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 4: started to die at the beginning of the year, and 130 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 4: you already off start another one, start over, try it again, 131 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 4: don't ever stop trying. If you stop trying, you can't 132 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 4: make it. But if you never give up the effort, 133 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 4: if you never give up and say it's over, it 134 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 4: ain't over. You heard the saying it ain't over, to 135 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 4: the fat lady saying I never invite her. 136 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: She's not invited. It ain't over. 137 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,599 Speaker 4: To the fat lady saying I don't know where the 138 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 4: fat lady stay. I have not sent her an invitation 139 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 4: to none of my events. She's not welcome here. She 140 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 4: didn't ask me a couple of times. How come I 141 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 4: never get invited? Because you gonna start saying it and 142 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 4: I ain't got time for that, all right, stop inviting 143 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 4: the fat lady to all your events. 144 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 9: Thank you you're listening. 145 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 2: Show, Ladies and gentlemen. The time has arrived, a new day. 146 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 4: Is here a gift? A present from God? I mean, 147 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 4: he just does it whenever you get this opportunity, man, 148 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 4: please don't forget to take a moment to say thank you, 149 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 4: because you've you've arrived at a point in your life 150 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 4: you've never been before. 151 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: It's called now. You're about to experience a day you've 152 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 2: never had before. 153 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 4: It's called today. You are about to experience a gift 154 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 4: from God. It's called the present. 155 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 5: Man. 156 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 2: That that's worthy, and. 157 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 4: Nobody else can do that for you on a daily basis, 158 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 4: not any moment in the day except God Almighty. 159 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 2: I owe him for that. Thank you, Lord. Steve har 160 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: Morning Show is oh and cracking shock man. 161 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 4: I don't even know how to start. Shirley Rick, Mississippi Monica. 162 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 4: Your the man named Ketch fake legend. That is nephew Tommy, 163 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 4: owner of the Shadow Tauld. Ladies and gentlemen, this is. 164 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 2: Body blow. 165 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, are you feeling well? 166 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 8: You know? 167 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 4: H it's Friday. Things about to jump off? Anniversary is 168 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 4: uh tomorrow Saturday? Okay, Anniversary seventeen got to be busy. 169 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 4: Got to be busy tomorrow. I got to be busy tomorrow. Yeah, 170 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 4: but you know I have out about it. Mind blowing situations. 171 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 2: That's what I love it. Yes, I'm blowing. I'm talking 172 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 2: about blow your wig back. 173 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: Oh No, do you enjoy doing that up? You enjoy 174 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 1: doing that? 175 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: Well? I enjoy doing it for somebody that appreciates That's 176 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: that's a big thing, you know. Man. 177 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 4: If I could offer a woman any suggestion, and now 178 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 4: let me say this, lady, I'm not. I'm not saying 179 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 4: it's not supposed to go the other way, so cause 180 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 4: I'm not. But let me tell you something, ladies, nothing 181 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 4: means more to your man than if you appreciate it. 182 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 4: If you verbally thank him for the things he does. 183 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 4: If your man does not love you just the way 184 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 4: you want him to, but he giving you all he got, 185 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 4: you might have a good man on your hands. 186 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,319 Speaker 2: He might not be the best communicator, he might not 187 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 2: have the best way of suring it. 188 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:57,599 Speaker 4: But if he bringing it in every day for you, 189 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: and he working with you, and that's why that's what 190 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 4: he got, he might have a pretty google. But if 191 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 4: you can tell him how much you appreciate, that means 192 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 4: so much to a man, and I can't tell you 193 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 4: how many times it's overlooked because I talk to me 194 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 4: in all the time. And that's the number one complaint 195 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 4: when they around theyself around each other. Man all I do, Man, 196 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,719 Speaker 4: act like I'm just on automatic like I'm supposed to. 197 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 4: He said, I got, that's my duty. But I just 198 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 4: wish somebody man would just appreciate it. I'm that's my suggestion. 199 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 4: You ain't got to, but I bet it go a 200 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 4: long way. 201 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. 202 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 1: Thank you for that, Steve. 203 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 9: We're gonna hear from the nephews. He runs that prank back. 204 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: Right after this. 205 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning show. It is time now for 206 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 9: the nephew to run that prank back. 207 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: What you got for his nep Me and. 208 00:13:53,760 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 10: My Jesus, let's go Hello. Hello, I'm trying to beaches sister. 209 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 10: How you doing. 210 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 2: I'm giving you a call on behalf of Baptist Church. 211 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 2: You are a member there? Am I right? 212 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 11: Yes? I am? 213 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 2: Okay, listen, I'm calling you. 214 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 10: They some of the members have gotten together and had 215 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 10: a meeting and wanted me to give you a call. 216 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 10: It seems that a lot of them are complaining about 217 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 10: Sunday services that go on and wanted for me to 218 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 10: give you a call on their behalf so that we 219 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 10: can see if we can address the problem and talk 220 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 10: to you diligently as possible and try to get the 221 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 10: problem rectified. 222 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 6: What's going on. 223 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 2: Well, it seems like that a lot of members are complaining. 224 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, and what is your name again? 225 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 2: My name is ma'am. I'm not actually a member of 226 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: the church. 227 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 10: I've just been the one that been asked to give 228 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 10: you a call and try to talk on the members' behalf, 229 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 10: so maybe we can get this problem rectified that you 230 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 10: that they have as far as you are con now. 231 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 11: Okay, go ahead, I'm just trying to see what this 232 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 11: is in regards to go ahead. 233 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 10: Well, it seems like the members of the church are 234 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 10: complaining about that you're doing too much shouting at church 235 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 10: on Sunday, and it seems to be going on every Sunday, 236 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 10: you running up and down the aisle and you shouting 237 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 10: all over the place. 238 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: And it's me. 239 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 11: I've been singled out about my shouting. 240 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying, Well, evidently it's distracting, ma'am. 241 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 10: You're distracting everyone from getting the word and listening to 242 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 10: the word and being involved in the service. 243 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: And that's the purpose of the call is to see 244 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 2: if we can get you to tone it down some. 245 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 11: Okay, So the whole church is complaining about me shouting 246 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 11: the way people run up and down the mouse every 247 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 11: Sunday and almost turning cart wheels and flips, and they 248 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 11: singling me, I complained about me. 249 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 2: Well, ma'am, I. 250 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 10: Don't know how it is that you can see everybody 251 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 10: else doing cort wheels when you're the ones that they 252 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 10: say is the one that's doing them. 253 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 11: You do how am I being singled out? 254 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: Man? 255 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 10: All I'm saying is that they saying that you're doing 256 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 10: too much shouting and too much running at this church. 257 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 2: Now I'm just the message. 258 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 11: Well, they can't tell me how to shout, then they 259 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 11: can't tell me what's going on. 260 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 6: In my life. 261 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 11: What's gonna keep me from praising God? And they, I mean, 262 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 11: they could just they could go somewhere else with that, 263 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 11: but they're not gonna tell me that I can't praise 264 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 11: my God. They don't know how good God has been 265 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 11: to me. 266 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 10: And you know what, I understand that I agree with 267 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 10: you wholeheartedly, but it's becoming a distraction. I mean, they 268 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 10: was at the point last night talking about should we 269 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 10: put some seat belts on the pews so so you 270 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 10: can stay down. 271 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 11: We will put some seat but beinly gonna tell people 272 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 11: they can't shout in church and praise God. What do 273 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 11: we come to church? 274 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 5: Farm? 275 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 2: Will you do? Come to? 276 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 11: You need to be trying to praise God and get 277 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 11: their own shout on and stop looking at me and 278 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 11: worry about what I'm doing. 279 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 2: We gonna need you to quit running up and down 280 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 2: these aisles and doing what you no. 281 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 11: I'm sorry, you know, I'm trying to stay calm. I'm 282 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 11: trying my best cool Jesus, she said that that's not happening. 283 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 11: You can't tell me I gotta stop shouting. 284 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 2: Okay, man, but let me ask you. Are you running now? 285 00:16:58,440 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: Aren't you just standing still? 286 00:16:59,760 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 8: Talk? 287 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 11: Because I don't have to run right now? 288 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 2: Okay, what I'm trying to get you to do like. 289 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 11: This, I want to run up and down this street 290 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 11: right now. I can run up and down the street 291 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 11: and price God. But they're not gonna tell me to 292 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 11: stop chouting the church. 293 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 10: Can we get you to be a little bit more 294 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 10: reserved as what we see. Man, let me let me 295 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 10: go ahead and. 296 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 6: Go further on what they do how the spirit moves. 297 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 2: Okay, well, let me move and tell you what they've 298 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 2: told me. 299 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 10: Now, if we can't get to the point where you can, 300 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 10: you know, tone it down, then we may have to 301 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 10: ask you to leave. 302 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 11: Asked me, Oh, Jesus, O Jesus, why don't they want 303 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 11: me to leave a church. I've been at that church 304 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 11: for fifteen years. I'm not leaving the church. I'm gonna 305 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 11: run up and down. I'm not gonna run the church 306 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:49,640 Speaker 11: something I feel like it not. Now, listen, that's all 307 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 11: I'm okay, go ahead. 308 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 5: I'm gonna be there. 309 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to I'm going to be there on Sunday. 310 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 10: Man, and I have been the person that's been appointed 311 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,160 Speaker 10: to make sure that you're not running up and down 312 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 10: these house and shotting like this. You have to keep 313 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 10: yourself reserved so people can hear the word of God. 314 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 10: You are standing in people's word. That's what you're doing. 315 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: You in the whale. 316 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 11: If they come trying to send me down, I'm gonna 317 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 11: give them a word and it ain't gonna be a God. 318 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 11: So let's her put that hands up on me here, No, listen, 319 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 11: I'm telling you that now. You could say I have 320 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 11: been in that church fifteen years. If I want to 321 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 11: run and dance, shout, jump cuenty, whatever I want to do, 322 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 11: I'm gonna do it. It ain't nobody gonna stop me. 323 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to stop this. 324 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 10: This past Sunday was your last Sunday doing it, and 325 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 10: you're not finna do it this Sunday. 326 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 11: Well, like I said, just why, And I'm telling you 327 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 11: could tell the ernsers, the deacon board, the deaconess, the 328 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 11: minister's wives, or whoever else you want to tell. Let 329 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 11: them put their hands on me and see if I 330 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 11: don't swing on them, I'm gonna come run about the 331 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:45,919 Speaker 11: spirit and swing on it. I'm telling you that now, 332 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 11: because see, sir, you don't really push me there out 333 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 11: of try. Let me ask you this, what is trying 334 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 11: to show that I'm saying, Remember, but you make it. 335 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 11: You you're making me revert back to my own ways, 336 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 11: and you you're really gonna put me out. 337 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 6: That's what you're finna do. 338 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let me ask you this way is the 339 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 2: God at right now in you? Where is the one 340 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,199 Speaker 2: that it was the God was. 341 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 11: In me when I was trying to be called you 342 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 11: at first to tell you don't be calling me with 343 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 11: this foolishness. But now you've the maid the other side 344 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 11: of me rose up. 345 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 2: Well, you wouldn't raise it up in there. You wouldn't 346 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 2: raise it up in me too. 347 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 10: Guess what come sound that You're gonna sit you up 348 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 10: in that pew and you ain't gonna. 349 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 6: Move you know? 350 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, why I'm gonna see how well I'm 351 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 11: not sitting at you a matter of fact, first sing 352 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 11: time in the morning, I'm going to past Oh yeah, 353 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 11: we ain't gonna Deacon wherever you want, whatever your name is, 354 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 11: I'm gonna tell him about it. God, matter how long we. 355 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 10: Get, you need to lose, I would be talking to 356 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,680 Speaker 10: Pastor myself and letting him know about this situation. 357 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 6: You don't talk. 358 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 11: You don't know we can come Pastor yourn way. 359 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: You don't talk to Pastor. 360 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 11: I talked to Pastor at this church fifteen years. Like 361 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 11: I said, I'm telling you, oh Jesus, oh, you fein 362 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 11: old Jesus, not. 363 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 2: Not not not now see just like this is see 364 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 2: how you calling on it? 365 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 11: And yeah, because I'm calling on here. I'm to keep 366 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 11: you from just really going to cush you want right now, 367 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 11: because you don't really hitting my nerves. 368 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 2: I got one more thing I need to say to you, ladies. 369 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 11: You better say real quick because you're gonna talk to 370 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 11: this operator. 371 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 10: That's his nephew, Timy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 372 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: You just got prank by your girl. 373 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 6: I'm gonna kick but. 374 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 11: Cursing on the pet. 375 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 10: Okay, Jesus, I got one more thing, baby, Let me 376 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 10: ask you something. What is the baddest I'm talking about 377 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 10: the baddest radio show. 378 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 2: In the land? 379 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning. 380 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 9: All right, thanking nephew coming up next, it is s 381 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 9: the clo our chief love Officer, Steve Harvey. Is you're 382 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 9: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top 383 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 9: of the hour, we're gonna have a special guest has 384 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 9: built quite a resume in the interior design world. He's 385 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 9: working with you, Steve. He's done that before, back in 386 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 9: Chicago when you had your talk show. He's designed reality 387 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 9: star Charie Whitfield's house. He's starring in a brand new 388 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 9: Netflix series and he's going to tell us all about 389 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 9: it at the top of the hour. But right now 390 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 9: it is time to ask the clo. This is from 391 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 9: Frisia in Lexington. Fraser writes, I'm thirty three years old 392 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 9: and I've been married for fifteen years. I was a 393 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 9: rebellious teenager and I married a controlling older man that's 394 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 9: a preacher from the beginning. He told me, he told 395 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 9: me he didn't want kids, but I do. 396 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 4: Now? 397 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 9: Is it selfish to divorce him over this? 398 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:44,360 Speaker 8: Will? 399 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 2: I mean, if you want kids and he don't, I mean, 400 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,919 Speaker 2: it's your life. You know, you a woman. 401 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 4: You know, if that's in your dream is to have 402 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 4: a child, that's your dream. I don't think you should 403 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 4: not have a child because he don't want one. I mean, 404 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 4: you know, you got married, but you got married early, 405 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 4: and you got married to an older man, and you 406 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 4: got married to a controlling man. 407 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 2: Now he wants to. 408 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 4: Control that aspect of your life. If y'all can't reach 409 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 4: a compromise, then you know, I don't know what y'all 410 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 4: gonna do. But that's a tough one to want to 411 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 4: have a child and then him saying he don't want 412 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 4: no kids, so y'all ain't having one. So what you're 413 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 4: supposed to do about your wanting to be a mother. 414 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 4: I mean, I can't even imagine what that is because 415 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 4: I have no I have nothing to give you on 416 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 4: that one, because that's yours and yours alone. The only 417 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 4: people that could make other people are women. So I would, 418 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 4: I would surely and call her. What would you say 419 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:50,640 Speaker 4: to her? Because y'all, y'all make people your career, y'all 420 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 4: actually have made another person. That's crazy, y'all, y'all have 421 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 4: produced another human life. I don't even I'm clueless about that. 422 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 9: She might have to divorce him if she wants kids 423 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 9: and he doesn't, you know, I mean. 424 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 2: That's all. 425 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 7: Say she can't make him want to be a father, 426 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 7: and she really really wants to be a mother, then 427 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 7: she has to lay it all out there and have 428 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 7: that final conversation. 429 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: If that's not it, then they may. 430 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 5: Have moved on. 431 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 9: Ye does want kids? 432 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: See we agree, all right? 433 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 9: Moving on to Deontay and the DMV. Deontay says, I 434 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 9: had a few drinks the other night and I took 435 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 9: an uber home. My wife saw the car pull off 436 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 9: with the lady driving, but I have no proof that 437 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 9: it was an uber. My boy got it from me 438 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 9: because my cell phone died. I need proof, but I'm 439 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 9: so shamed to ask to ask him. 440 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 5: So what do I do? 441 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 4: Hey man, you better ask your boy for that proof. Yeah, 442 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 4: because you got to get that off you. Let me 443 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:55,159 Speaker 4: explain something to you. 444 00:23:55,359 --> 00:24:00,719 Speaker 2: Talk this. Have you ever heard the slogan net pride 445 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 2: coming before a fall? 446 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:02,920 Speaker 5: Yes? 447 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 4: All you got to do is, hey man, my girl 448 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 4: saw the girl drop off man, and she don't believe. 449 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 2: Hey man, you got something you can give me? Man, 450 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 2: So my girl get off my case. 451 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 4: Ain't no dude not gonna understand that, right right, dog, 452 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 4: dudes understand that. 453 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 2: Man, we understand that. 454 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 5: Jam you in. 455 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 2: Dog here, your boy you. 456 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 4: Don't want to go to him, you better go to 457 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 4: him because if you don't, if you don't disprove. 458 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 2: This, man, I can't tell you how long this is 459 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 2: gonna last. 460 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 4: This years, dog, this years. This is gonna cost you 461 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 4: a lot of nights. You got to get that information. 462 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 10: Man, who dropping you off tonight? All of that same 463 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 10: person drop you off two years ago. Oh I ain't forgot, 464 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 10: Oh I ain't get that. Help pick you up. 465 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:56,560 Speaker 2: All right? 466 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,919 Speaker 9: Moving on to Katerina and Syracuse, Katerina said, my husband 467 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 9: and I argue constantly about his son's hygiene. When we 468 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,439 Speaker 9: got married, his son was six, and now he's ten 469 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 9: years old and not bathing properly or using deodorant. It 470 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 9: will be a long, hot summer. So how do I 471 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 9: get him to wash his butt? 472 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 4: Fuck? 473 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 2: You can't? 474 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 8: Okay? 475 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: How old is he? Did she say? An age? 476 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 9: Yeah he's ten now he was six when they got married. 477 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:23,680 Speaker 5: Oh ten? 478 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 2: Oh oh no no, no, oh no, no, no, you 479 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 2: can get up out of here. That's being a boy. 480 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 2: Let me tell you what I used to do. I 481 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 2: used to I used to bring dirt in my pockets 482 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 2: into the house. 483 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 4: How much I hate taking the bath cause we have 484 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 4: a shower and I run water in the tub and 485 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 4: swish it around and then sprinkling dirt around the edge 486 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 4: like he'd been made a rim. 487 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 2: Knock my ass out. I was a little boy. I 488 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 2: didn't understand that. Now I'm a little boy. 489 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 4: The only thing that's gonna change that man, it's one 490 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 4: of them little girls up at the school. He gonna 491 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 4: discover them girls and he's gonna get the bathe it. 492 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 4: And I remember when Winton first, I had trouble with 493 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 4: Winton like that too, all my son, but Winton went 494 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 4: to school and like this little girl then wenton came 495 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 4: home and saw an axe commercial AXX. That boy that 496 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 4: damn wentnen asked me could he go up to the 497 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 4: CVS with me? He said, Daddy, can I get my 498 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 4: own soap? I said, yeah, he went and got a 499 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 4: can of axe. Because if not he noticed, I just 500 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 4: let him have it. I let him pick out his 501 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 4: own stock. That boy next day for school when he 502 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 4: came down them steps, what happened? It was so much 503 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 4: damn acts in the air. 504 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: You were choky, dog. 505 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 2: I was gagging. I said, ma'am, went, where are you 506 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 2: what you got on? That's my axe? Daddy and I 507 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 2: didn't really pay attention to to. 508 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 4: One day I was watching a game and commercial came 509 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 4: on and the boy came out and all the girls 510 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:03,959 Speaker 4: jumped on him and tackling. 511 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 5: Nah. 512 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 4: I got it, And from that moment on, I never 513 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 4: had no problem with Winter or broader it. But let 514 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 4: me tell you that little boy man, he don't care 515 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 4: nothing about that. You wasting time washing? It's a wasted time. 516 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 2: Now. 517 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 4: Tommy was a little different little boy. We thought we 518 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 4: was gonna we thought we was gonna have problems with him. 519 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: My daddy. 520 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 4: Actually, you know, he was extra clean his whole life. Yeah, yeah, 521 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 4: my daddy thought something was wrong with him. 522 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with me. I'm just a neat freak. 523 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 2: I'm just a German. He just like well, you know, 524 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 2: he wasn't like none of the other boys. So we hey, hey, yeah, 525 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:48,159 Speaker 2: moving on. 526 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,680 Speaker 4: I should have known then we was headed right on 527 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 4: over there. This sweet new I knew it. This babing 528 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:00,439 Speaker 4: and all this. 529 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 9: All right? Last one, Steve Regina in text Trcana says, 530 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 9: I've been dating a man for three weeks and he 531 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 9: lied and said he was a doctor. Last night he 532 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,400 Speaker 9: admitted that he lied, and he doesn't work at all 533 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 9: because he's disabled. He wouldn't tell me what his disability is. 534 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 9: And would it be shallow to stop seeing him? No? 535 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 2: What he ain't working? That ain't that ain't being shallow. 536 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 2: I went from a doctor, eight years of school, medical school. 537 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 2: I ain't even got a job. 538 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: Where was this lie? 539 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 5: What was where was his lie? 540 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 2: Playing it on going? 541 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,719 Speaker 12: I wish the hell hell no you in Texa, everybody 542 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 12: know her about all right? Thank you, Celo. 543 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 9: Coming up next it is Steen's former interior designer Michel Welch. 544 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening hard morning show. All right, 545 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 9: this morning, our special guest is interior designer and owner 546 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 9: and CEO of mkel Welch Designs. Mckel met Steve back 547 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 9: in Chicago when Steve had his talk show. We all 548 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 9: remember that mckel designed Steve's private dressing room for three 549 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 9: whole seasons and he was set designer for the show 550 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 9: as well. Now, McHale is currently the resident designer for 551 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 9: the The Drew Barrymore Show and his interior design work 552 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 9: has been featured in featured in all the top design magazines, 553 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 9: Architectural Digest, Traditional Home, el Decor magazines, and his newest 554 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 9: TV project is Netflix Hack My Home series where he's 555 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 9: the interior designer of the crew. So we got to 556 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 9: find more more about this show. Please welcome mcel Welch, Mkel. 557 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 2: Morning. Michale Welch. 558 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 4: Welch is the only and the thing we have in 559 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 4: comedy is his last name is Welch, which is where 560 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 4: I was born in Welch, West Virginia. 561 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 2: That's it. 562 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 4: So we had my country ass got a make over 563 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 4: in my dressing room for three years in Chicago. 564 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 2: He did an amazing job. 565 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 4: He's been on My TV show several times and now 566 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:31,240 Speaker 4: he didn't hit it big congregulations, Michel. 567 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 3: Sir Harvey, thank you so much, thank you, thank you 568 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 3: to the whole Morning the Morning crew here. 569 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 9: But yeah, it's. 570 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 3: Happening, mister Harvey. You it is, had a platform and 571 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 3: it has been going since. 572 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 2: Well, well you've been jumping it off. 573 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 8: You know. 574 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 4: I'm back on the show now because I got uninvited 575 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 4: off my own show this morning by my cast me 576 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 4: on the show because I have attitude problem. I decided 577 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 4: to come back in on the show just to introduce 578 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 4: you why I appreciated it. Well, I've had a lot 579 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 4: of haters on my show. 580 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 2: And I will you. 581 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 4: So go ahead, ladies, let's just start. Let's tell them 582 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 4: all about this Netflix. 583 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,719 Speaker 9: Well, we want to we want to hear about your 584 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 9: your new show, Hack My Home. It's Netflix's newest renovation show, 585 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 9: just eight episodes of family. So tell us about it, Michel. 586 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know what this show is unlike any 587 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 3: other show that I worked on, So kind of think of, 588 00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 3: like if I had to put it into Layman's terms, 589 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 3: like think of like back in the day when George 590 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 3: Jetson used to have things that came out of the ceiling, 591 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 3: out of the wall, on the floor. We kind of 592 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 3: think of unconventional methods to redesign our spaces and so 593 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 3: you never really know where the source solutions are going 594 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 3: to come from. And that's where we get the term 595 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 3: hack my home. 596 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 1: It's to try to make it, you know, as a. 597 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 3: Functional as possible, but we're using some really innovative technology 598 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 3: in order to do. 599 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: So that's cool, that's interesting. 600 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 3: I like, yeah, it's a completely different concept. You know, 601 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 3: it's not gonna be your Cookie Cutter or makeover show 602 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 3: where it's it's like, oh, we tear down a pretty 603 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 3: wall and now you have a beautiful space. It's like, no, honey, 604 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 3: we're gonna do something a little bit different. So uh yeah, 605 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 3: this one I think is gonna surprise people just the 606 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 3: way we reimagine these spaces and you know, give people 607 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 3: store solutions that are really hitting within their home. 608 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 9: I made you at my house. 609 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 2: Well I was gonna ask Michael. I like the word hack, 610 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 2: hack my home. That's a big thing. 611 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 7: Now people are teaching you different kinds of hacks. 612 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 1: So that is like this cool concept. So you know, 613 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: what was it like to work with? 614 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 7: So you have a diverse group of creative people because 615 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 7: you got to be creative to come up with hacks. 616 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, you follow these So what was that like. 617 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: Like look at it and you come up with the 618 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: hack or how. 619 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 2: Does that work? 620 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 5: Yeah? 621 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 3: So you know the fun part about this show is 622 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 3: everybody comes to the table with something different. Like Brooks 623 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 3: is in charge of innovation. You know, he's gonna come 624 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 3: through with all these crazy wacky ideas. And then I 625 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 3: see as our engineer. So she'll sit down and she'll say, 626 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 3: wait a minute, Okay, these ideas are great, but let's 627 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 3: see how we can like functionally do it without like 628 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 3: the city call and let's tell us that somebody's house 629 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,680 Speaker 3: is gonna fall down, and so that part, like, you know, 630 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 3: you don't want that to happen. And then Jessica comes in. 631 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 3: She's like our engineer, and you know when she comes in, 632 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 3: she just makes sure everything is structurally found. And then 633 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 3: I come in and kind of like whirl around with 634 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 3: my design magic and faery does you know, kind of 635 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 3: put it all together and make it look good. But 636 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 3: and you can see everything come together, yes, sir. 637 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 4: So people can get a real understanding. Give me an 638 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 4: example of a hack. 639 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 3: So a perfect example of a hack. Let's say you 640 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 3: needed extra storage in your kitchen, right you got poss 641 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 3: and hands everywhere. You don't have any more space up 642 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 3: under your kitchen cabinet. We will build something that will recess, 643 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 3: for instance, out of the ceiling where you can hang 644 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 3: all of your pots and hands. It goes back up 645 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 3: to the ceiling and never nobody even. 646 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: Knows that it was ever there. 647 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 3: And so you get a little button and it comes 648 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 3: back down and now is you know, hidden, and you 649 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,799 Speaker 3: can grab everything that you need and it goes right 650 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 3: back up. So that's an example of a hack. So 651 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,800 Speaker 3: it's not because I know you, so you don't like 652 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 3: things that look cheap, and so here's one of those 653 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 3: shows when I know you don't and so I think 654 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 3: somebody like you appreciate it because we created things that 655 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 3: look good. 656 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 1: And they don't look cheesy. 657 00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,240 Speaker 3: Likes the real solutions, so they don't look cheese. 658 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 2: You like Junior. 659 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 4: Junior got a brand new house, Yes, and he needs 660 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 4: some hacks everything, a lot of them, a lot of them. 661 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 2: This seasoning to come out the flow? Can you get 662 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 2: his seasoning for his cooking? 663 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:55,359 Speaker 9: Yeah? 664 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,719 Speaker 3: I don't think you wanted this season song coming out 665 00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 3: the flow, But you know we'll put it in the 666 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 3: wall and we'll help them that way. But yeah, I'm 667 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,520 Speaker 3: getting Seriously, it's one of those things where once you 668 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 3: see it in person, the hack that we have and 669 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 3: really solutions, hacks are just solutions. They're just hitting solutions, 670 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 3: and we're giving people hitting solutions to help save their lot. 671 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 9: All right, Michael, we can't wait to watch Hack My Home, 672 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 9: your brand new serial house. It premiere is Friday, July 673 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 9: seventh on Netflix. It sounds great. We love you, We 674 00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,800 Speaker 9: know you're a great designer, and we will be watching 675 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,800 Speaker 9: and supporting you as always. 676 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 4: Tell your home and for those of you out there 677 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 4: with words, hack does not mean breaking an enteran. 678 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 2: Hey you got to kill people. 679 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 9: Thanks with Cale, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 680 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 9: Morning Show right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. Well. 681 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 9: Pop star Bby Rexa was rushed off stage during her 682 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,399 Speaker 9: concert in New York City recently after a fan threw 683 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 9: a phone at her and hit her dead in her face. 684 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 9: She had a nasty the black eye and posted a 685 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 9: picture the next day stating that she was fine. The 686 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,239 Speaker 9: twenty seven year old man that threw the phone was 687 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,760 Speaker 9: arrested in charge with harassment. And assault, both misdemeanors. According 688 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 9: to the police report, when the alleged attacker was asked 689 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 9: who threw the phone, he raised his hand and said 690 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 9: I did. I was trying to see if I could 691 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,360 Speaker 9: hit her with the phone at the end of the 692 00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,240 Speaker 9: show because it would be funny. 693 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 5: What. 694 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 2: Oh cool? Oh yeah, so right here, So here's the question. 695 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 9: Yeah, I want I want to ask you guys, if 696 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:36,240 Speaker 9: you're still performing in front of crowds, especially Tommy and Junior, 697 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 9: does it scare you? What would you guys have done? 698 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 9: Steve back in the day, what would you have done? 699 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a fight coming out and we at the 700 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,879 Speaker 2: end of the show too. Got the money's worth? 701 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm saying good night and I phll hit me. 702 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 4: Oh no, So, well, you know how they jump in 703 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 4: the crowd what they call that, uh huh, formally when 704 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 4: they belly flop out in the crowd. Yeah, well, here 705 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:09,319 Speaker 4: I come, catch me, catch I'm coming. And then as 706 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:10,840 Speaker 4: soon as you catch me, just put me down on 707 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,799 Speaker 4: the ground because we finish. Go here, find out how 708 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 4: funny it is. Yeah, no, that's but see and and 709 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 4: but see this this misdemeanor. 710 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 2: No, he threw it. 711 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,800 Speaker 1: You you that's and admitted it. 712 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I thought it would be funny if okay, 713 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 4: let us throw at you and hit. 714 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 2: You in the eyes. 715 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 9: Yeah, report since she had to get stitches. 716 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, my security though, uh huh, yeah, she got a 717 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 4: real cut over her eyes. In my security, they don't 718 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 4: do funny. They're not they're not real funny. 719 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 5: Yeah. 720 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you ain't gonna believe. 721 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 10: You ain't gonna believe what my guy gonna put this 722 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,600 Speaker 10: iPhone it. You ain't gonna believe throwing. Oh yeah, we're 723 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 10: gonna push this iPhone dead up in you. 724 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,439 Speaker 4: I promise we're gonna yea my security guy the whole 725 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 4: time he was in yours. 726 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 2: It's a lot of Spanish being said. 727 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,399 Speaker 9: How do you think this is going to be funny though? 728 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 2: When you're staying from the venue. 729 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:14,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, be able to attend concerts ever again because she assaulted. 730 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,399 Speaker 9: A performer performer during her show. 731 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, you injured her. No you can't come since, No, 732 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 1: you can't come to the venue ever again. Goodbye. 733 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, my fans would pull up his behind m M. 734 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 1: Yeah about goers, uh huh Yeah. 735 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,000 Speaker 9: I just don't understand how you think that would be funny. 736 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:38,839 Speaker 9: That's really crazy. 737 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: To me, but a man you throwing a phone at 738 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 1: a woman who. 739 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,279 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, it makes no sense. So she had to 740 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 9: stop the show and go get treated, you know, by 741 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 9: a doctor. 742 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:50,439 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 743 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 7: So then the other fans should have been like, you're 744 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 7: gonna give us our money back? 745 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 2: And she stopped this show. 746 00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 9: Yeah, this is craziness, all right? Coming up next, it 747 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 9: is Roscoe Wallace in the building right after this. You're 748 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 9: listening Morning show. All right, it is Friday. 749 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,320 Speaker 1: You know what that means. 750 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 9: Roscoe is in the buildings. 751 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 5: Right everybody, We're going. 752 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 12: Over everybody, Hey, Roscoe, Hey, Roscoe. 753 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:29,239 Speaker 4: Hey, Roscoe, Julia, Roscoe, my hero? 754 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:29,840 Speaker 2: What's going on? 755 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:36,919 Speaker 4: He was on miss here, Catfish baby, Golo, top jomp. 756 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 4: They're good, I'm doing you're looking here over there, going 757 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 4: right over here? They bring it over here? What ring 758 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 4: a white girl was not? We're talking about white girl? 759 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 2: All that good? Right there? We're going on. 760 00:39:54,719 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 7: Okay, Roscoe, So patre picture is wedding season, Steve's anniversary. 761 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:09,919 Speaker 2: You're gone this thought. I want promised to love faithfully? 762 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: You're oh hearing? No, now promise to love faithfully? 763 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 5: You're oh. 764 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 2: Ah, Roscoe sanger ye. 765 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 3: And no. 766 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:52,280 Speaker 2: Right there, you say no to me right now, always 767 00:40:52,320 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 2: and forever. But he went always and forever moment will 768 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 2: you Roscoe? 769 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 4: Despite the dream to me then finally came true. Oh 770 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 4: let me do the bring and I know to my 771 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 4: row Roscoe, wait, be the same. 772 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 2: How about the cot. 773 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 5: Give to me. 774 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 8: The magic you brave every day loving your space. 775 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 5: We in on my. 776 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 2: Wh where a smile? You better smile to tell me 777 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 2: today Roscale, you. 778 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:13,760 Speaker 5: Really care? 779 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 8: And we. 780 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 2: Tomorrow yeah forever? 781 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 9: Bo whoa you better sing? 782 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:38,760 Speaker 5: Ah he whoa? We love you? I love you, I said, ah, oh. 783 00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 2: I love you. Having next to some for helful go Roam. 784 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, you really know that's what loving you. 785 00:42:58,120 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: About? 786 00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 2: Roscale? Staying in there? Boy, I don't know. I'm telling you, bo. 787 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:20,799 Speaker 2: I felt that. I felt that tank all the way 788 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 2: down in me. 789 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 5: Yeah. 790 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 2: Where you got? 791 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 9: What? 792 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 2: One more? 793 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 1: One more wedding? 794 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,279 Speaker 2: All right, you already did, Luther, but can you give 795 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:30,160 Speaker 2: me one more? 796 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 10: Luca? 797 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 2: So amazing? 798 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:32,880 Speaker 11: Do do do do do. 799 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 2: Do bo doo boo do do do tell him? 800 00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:48,399 Speaker 5: Will be there. 801 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 2: Yeah you sayn't want to come back? 802 00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 9: Bring it out. 803 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,359 Speaker 2: We'll be okay. I told you it come back. I'll 804 00:43:58,360 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 2: stay right here. 805 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 9: You're listening. Morning show coming up at about four minutes 806 00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 9: after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today and 807 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 9: the subject is there's no emotion in his motions. We'll 808 00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 9: get into that find out what that's all about in 809 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 9: just a few because right now it is time for 810 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,040 Speaker 9: the nephew and today's prank phone call. 811 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,320 Speaker 2: What you got for us, neph You know they'd be 812 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 2: out here faking it. They'd be out here faking his shirt. 813 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 2: So this is the title right here. 814 00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 13: You didn't fall and you ain't getting no money? Okay, 815 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,840 Speaker 13: you did not You didn't fall and you ain't getting 816 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:39,760 Speaker 13: no money. 817 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:46,319 Speaker 9: He's crutches now, all right, let's go get up. 818 00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 2: Hell, I'm trying to reach a Glinda and place. How 819 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 2: you doing. My name is Brad. 820 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 10: I'm actually with the A and C Department Accidents and Conditions. 821 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 10: Wanted to give you a call and see how you're 822 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:01,080 Speaker 10: doing this morning? 823 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,400 Speaker 2: Great? Great? Now I am the the. 824 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,320 Speaker 10: Accident and Condition coordinated the last person that goes to 825 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 10: before actually issuing out a check and just wanted to 826 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,680 Speaker 10: give you a call and see how everything is going going. 827 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 10: Have you Have you been to the doctor on your 828 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,600 Speaker 10: fall and just wanted to do a follow up with 829 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:21,960 Speaker 10: you and make sure everything is okay. 830 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:24,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, everything is just fine. 831 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 2: Thank you. 832 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 10: Have you needed to do any any rehabilitation work or 833 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,320 Speaker 10: anything like that. This is just a random procedure of 834 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:32,840 Speaker 10: all the notes that I have to write down, And 835 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,840 Speaker 10: like I said, this is the final step of getting 836 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 10: you out of check. 837 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 2: Now, the last I heard, you were offered two thousand dollars. 838 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 2: Is that correct? 839 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,239 Speaker 6: If you were there, you going to the supervised you 840 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:45,879 Speaker 6: wouldn't know all that if you were there. 841 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I'm just looking at the file that I have. 842 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,879 Speaker 1: Man, I don't have everything you got that wrote down? 843 00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 6: That's what they offer. 844 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 10: Okay, Well, listen, here's what we're doing. I've also been 845 00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 10: brought some other records. Is this the first time you've 846 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,479 Speaker 10: actually had an incident like this? Is this the first 847 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,800 Speaker 10: time you've had an incident of actually falling? 848 00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's my first time. 849 00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 10: Okay, Well, actually, what we're doing looking over the records here, 850 00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,680 Speaker 10: I've got some actual incidents that it seems like you've 851 00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 10: actually fallen several times in other places. And what I'm 852 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 10: having to do here, ma'am, is let you know that 853 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 10: I am not going to sign off on this at all. 854 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 10: So the money that has meant offered to you. I 855 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 10: am no longer going to be I'm not going to 856 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,560 Speaker 10: confirm this check to go out to you. I don't 857 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 10: think that there's anything wrong with you. I don't think 858 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,919 Speaker 10: that you have a problem. I think that there's something 859 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,360 Speaker 10: that you deliberately did in one of our stores. 860 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,760 Speaker 6: I could cure less about what you think what happened 861 00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:52,279 Speaker 6: was that was on the floor. I feel I'm a 862 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,279 Speaker 6: day gonna have to pay for the claim either way 863 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 6: it go. 864 00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,359 Speaker 2: No, we're not going to actually, ma'am. What I'm going 865 00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:58,920 Speaker 2: to have to do is get you to come. 866 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 6: Down and sign uh an agreement nowhere. 867 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 10: Yes, I'm gonna need you to come down and sign 868 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 10: an agreement that you actually made this whole thing up, and. 869 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 2: I need that. 870 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:10,240 Speaker 6: I'm not coming nowhere. 871 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 2: Look, man, I. 872 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 10: Don't care if you come down or I have to 873 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 10: come down and haul your tin, because I'm not signing 874 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 10: over a check to you for somebody that deliberately laid 875 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:19,920 Speaker 10: down in the floor and act like. 876 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 6: Something was wrong with them, deliberately done how exactly it was. Witnesses, 877 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 6: you need to talk to them. 878 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,359 Speaker 2: I've spoken to every witness, and you know what, ma'am. 879 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 6: Everyone thank you to witness because my friend was there 880 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:36,359 Speaker 6: spoken to her. 881 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:38,799 Speaker 2: There's a lot of people that assume that you're lying. 882 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,840 Speaker 6: Well, I don't care what they assume. 883 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,200 Speaker 2: Man, let me explain something. We can take this thing further. 884 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 10: I even have you on video actually deliberately laying down 885 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:49,960 Speaker 10: in the middle of the. 886 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,080 Speaker 2: Floor as if you have. 887 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:52,880 Speaker 9: No. 888 00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,600 Speaker 2: I am not ma'am. We're not going to give you 889 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,120 Speaker 2: two thousand. We're not going to give you two dollars. 890 00:47:59,280 --> 00:47:59,879 Speaker 6: What's your name? 891 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,760 Speaker 2: My name is Brad with the A n C Department. 892 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 6: Well you want him your job too much? Wrong because 893 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 6: you're a fool. 894 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,279 Speaker 10: No, No, I'm not a fool. I want to make 895 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 10: sure that you understand. I want to make sure that 896 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:15,040 Speaker 10: you understand that this is not something that you can 897 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 10: do or continue to do. 898 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 2: Now. I want to hear it out of your mouth. 899 00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 2: You tell me, did you lay down on that floor deliberately? 900 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 6: You claim you think I'm finished? Set here and tell 901 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,760 Speaker 6: you I deliberately laid down in the floor. 902 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 2: Am I crazy? Crazy for you to sit here and. 903 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 6: Tell me the track them to sell that it as all. 904 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 10: No, deliberately laid down on that floor, and you're deliberately 905 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,279 Speaker 10: trying to get two thousand dollars worth of money that 906 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:42,239 Speaker 10: does not belong to you. 907 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:46,399 Speaker 6: What you just review the damn then and you will 908 00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 6: see what help would you like for. 909 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 2: Me to get authorities to come over, ma'am and bring 910 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:51,440 Speaker 2: you in, because what. 911 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 6: You want to get? 912 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 2: If I need to send authorities down there. 913 00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:02,160 Speaker 6: Mouth you, you send them all here. I'm scared them either. 914 00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:03,280 Speaker 2: I don't think. 915 00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 10: They're gonna bring you in and you're gonna sign this 916 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,000 Speaker 10: form I have to deliberately lay down on that floor. 917 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 2: You a fool, the nerve of you black people. 918 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,399 Speaker 6: I'm not coming in. I'm not signing nothing. 919 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:16,920 Speaker 4: Now. 920 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 6: What you tell, ma'am, I don't know. I ain't never 921 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 6: heard that you tell, ma'am. 922 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,719 Speaker 10: Now, I want you to bring your little narrow black 923 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,239 Speaker 10: behind in here so we can get this stuff rectified as. 924 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:27,919 Speaker 2: What I want done? 925 00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:31,920 Speaker 6: Are you crazy? Her tasker? You ain't the sharpest tool 926 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 6: in the shade. I tell you that I am not 927 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,840 Speaker 6: coming in. I don't know what some would has to 928 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 6: come in front. 929 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 10: I want you to sign a form that you deliberately 930 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,839 Speaker 10: laid down on this floor, and it was all fictitious. 931 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 6: No wonder would I do something like that. Then they 932 00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:46,919 Speaker 6: go to jail. 933 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 2: Why would you lay down in the floor in the 934 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,879 Speaker 2: in the first place, and when you know nothing. 935 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 6: I told you I didn't do that. 936 00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 2: Yes she did, Yes she did. It was in front 937 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 2: of you. I can in your eyes and tell when 938 00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:57,720 Speaker 2: you're lying. 939 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 6: I'm told you. I I told you what happened. Man, 940 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 6: that's all. 941 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,040 Speaker 2: By Hey, can I say let me. 942 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 10: Say one more Hello? Call it right back. I don't 943 00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 10: want to continue to go back and forth. 944 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 6: Look you really look, I told you what happened. I'm 945 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,719 Speaker 6: not going to keep on telling you that. I don't 946 00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:19,440 Speaker 6: know why you keep calling me. Let me speak to 947 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:20,680 Speaker 6: your damn supervised. 948 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,920 Speaker 2: Let me say well, first of all, man, First of all, 949 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:23,760 Speaker 2: I am the supervisor. 950 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: This is what I want. I think we can get 951 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 1: this cart. 952 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,879 Speaker 6: Look what the I'm gonna come in since time? 953 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:30,279 Speaker 2: What's what I want you to do? If you come 954 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 2: down and saying it out together? 955 00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:35,279 Speaker 6: You think I'm gonna come and sign some papers saying 956 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 6: I laid on the float, It ain't None of that 957 00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:39,879 Speaker 6: truth was on the floor. 958 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 3: I failed. 959 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:44,200 Speaker 6: That's it. That's all. Now what the are you talking about? 960 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 2: Have you been drinking? 961 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 6: Have you been drinking? You've been drinking? 962 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 2: I want to drink. 963 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,520 Speaker 6: Got to doing anything well I do on my own 964 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:57,800 Speaker 6: personal time is my bis. Don't keep calling me with that. 965 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna say one more one thing. 966 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,200 Speaker 6: I let you still hurt and you're talking about you 967 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,959 Speaker 6: ain't gonna give me no money? You craining up? Dam 968 00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,920 Speaker 6: gonna get some money. They should hate that ship off 969 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 6: the flow. Then I wanna be having a ghost through 970 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 6: none of this you have. I've been drinking, Glinda. 971 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say one more thing to you. Then I'm 972 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:17,160 Speaker 2: gonna let you go. 973 00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,399 Speaker 10: This is nephew Timmy from a Steve Harvey Morning Show. 974 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 10: You just got prayed by your brother Jay T. James James, 975 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:30,880 Speaker 10: Baby James. 976 00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 4: Kill James. 977 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 6: I'm gonna get him when he gets home. 978 00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:41,320 Speaker 10: This is nephew Timmy. How you doing, Baby? You stand 979 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 10: your ground, Baby, stand your ground, baby standing you all right? 980 00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm fine. I'm fine. My pressures going up a 981 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 6: little bit, but now I'm fine. 982 00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,719 Speaker 2: Now everybody here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show, we 983 00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:57,800 Speaker 2: love you, Glinda. 984 00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:00,400 Speaker 6: Okay, thank you too. 985 00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:04,439 Speaker 5: Man. 986 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 2: Man, you ain't falling, You ain't getting no munchy? 987 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 9: What wrong with anything? 988 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 3: That was wrong? 989 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:11,440 Speaker 5: Though? 990 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 2: And oh I love it. 991 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 8: I love it. 992 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,800 Speaker 2: I come, I come to be wrong. I come to 993 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 2: do it. 994 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,960 Speaker 10: You do, Saint Louis. The Nephew is coming to Saint Louis. 995 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:25,160 Speaker 10: That is July seven eight nine. July seven eight nine. 996 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 10: The Nephew is at the Club Helium Comedy Club July 997 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:29,799 Speaker 10: seven eight nine. 998 00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 2: Skip to the Louis. Saint Louis here I come. Tickets 999 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,920 Speaker 2: on sale right now. And I'll also be at the 1000 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 2: Capa Conclave. Yes I will. I'll be hosting the. 1001 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 10: Family outing on the Riverwalk along with the beautiful Dann King. 1002 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 2: I will be in the building with my brother. Sweet Noop, 1003 00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 2: Sweet Noop, Sweet Noop. What happens on family day at 1004 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:48,720 Speaker 2: the Capa Plave? 1005 00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 10: You got some step teams coming out competing, You got 1006 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 10: some uh, you got some entertainers coming out. We got 1007 00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 10: a hope, we got we got saxophonists, we got jazz, 1008 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:57,919 Speaker 10: we got music in the park. You got a whole 1009 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 10: lot going on while we at the on the Riverwalk 1010 00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:02,840 Speaker 10: in Tampa, flayd that. 1011 00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,479 Speaker 4: I answered that that's nice. Man at the Q's clay. 1012 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 4: We can't have no keys around us. 1013 00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 12: Well, we're doing family out and stuff, all right, nephew, 1014 00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:14,600 Speaker 12: thank you up NT right. 1015 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:20,480 Speaker 9: Strawberry letter. There's no emotion in his motions is the subject. 1016 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:24,080 Speaker 9: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening Steve 1017 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:29,839 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 1018 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,880 Speaker 9: And if you need advice and relationships works, sex, parenting 1019 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 9: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBYFM 1020 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:38,919 Speaker 9: dot com and we could be reading your letter live 1021 00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 9: on the air, just like we're going to read this 1022 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,960 Speaker 9: one right here, right now, and you never know, it 1023 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:44,800 Speaker 9: could be yours. 1024 00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,239 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1025 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:48,920 Speaker 2: We got it for you. 1026 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:49,160 Speaker 4: Here. 1027 00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:50,919 Speaker 2: It is Strawberry Letter. 1028 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 9: Thank you nephew. Subject there's no emotion in his motions. 1029 00:53:56,400 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 9: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm forty seven and my husband forty 1030 00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,800 Speaker 9: nine years old. We have twin daughters that are seniors 1031 00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:07,320 Speaker 9: in high school next year and then we'll be empty nesters. 1032 00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,680 Speaker 9: Our daughters are professional dancers and one will be moving 1033 00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,200 Speaker 9: to New York to do ballet and the other one 1034 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 9: will be on tour with a pop star. My daughter's 1035 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:19,120 Speaker 9: lives are way more interesting than mine, and I wish 1036 00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 9: I could go away with them. And the last year, 1037 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,920 Speaker 9: all of the pizazz has seeped out of my marriage, 1038 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 9: and my husband comes home from work and barely speaks 1039 00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,239 Speaker 9: some days. I've talked to him about depression and he 1040 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 9: says nothing's wrong with him. I asked him if we're 1041 00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 9: having financial problems, and that's not it because I did 1042 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 9: a little research for myself. I asked him about our 1043 00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,200 Speaker 9: summer travel plans to New York so our daughters can visit, 1044 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 9: and he says he may not be able to go. 1045 00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,799 Speaker 9: But that's not what has me worried the most. It's 1046 00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 9: how cold he treats me while we're being intimate. He 1047 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,400 Speaker 9: doesn't put any emotion in his motions like. 1048 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:57,960 Speaker 2: He used to. 1049 00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:01,480 Speaker 9: It's like wham bam, thank you man, and he falls asleep. 1050 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,439 Speaker 9: He doesn't kiss me, and he stopped me from doing 1051 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 9: the pregame activities that he used to love. The last 1052 00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:11,040 Speaker 9: time we had sex was twenty two days ago, and 1053 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,439 Speaker 9: he told me to hurry up and finish because he'd 1054 00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,160 Speaker 9: had a long day. When I work from home two 1055 00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,200 Speaker 9: days a week, he used to come home during the 1056 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,920 Speaker 9: day and take me up, but he stopped doing that. 1057 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,080 Speaker 9: How can a man go from passionate kisses and love 1058 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 9: making to a few quickies here and there, after twenty 1059 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 9: two years of being together, he has changed and I 1060 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:34,920 Speaker 9: can't even imagine him cheating on me. I don't want 1061 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 9: to be a nagger, but is it cool to ask 1062 00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 9: him if he's sing another woman as his wife? You've 1063 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,200 Speaker 9: got to know that you can ask your husband anything, 1064 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:46,360 Speaker 9: even if he's sing another woman. 1065 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:46,719 Speaker 5: I mean. 1066 00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 9: The problem with that is are you going to be 1067 00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:52,279 Speaker 9: ready for his answer? If it's yet or whatever it is. 1068 00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 9: It could be the truth, it could be a lie, 1069 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,120 Speaker 9: it could be nothing at all. He may not answer 1070 00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 9: you at all. You say that, you know he hardly 1071 00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:04,640 Speaker 9: speaks to you. Sometimes his response could be with anger, disrespect, 1072 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:08,600 Speaker 9: or in his case, just no emotion at all. Clearly 1073 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,600 Speaker 9: your marriage is in some serious trouble here. I mean, 1074 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,000 Speaker 9: he's barely talking to you, is very cold to you 1075 00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 9: during your time in the bedroom. He has changed and 1076 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,920 Speaker 9: it is not for the better. What information did you 1077 00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:25,560 Speaker 9: leave out of this letter? Because these things usually happen 1078 00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:29,640 Speaker 9: gradually and not all of a sudden. Now, just like that, 1079 00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 9: he no longer finds you attractive. He's rushing you during intimacy. 1080 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,120 Speaker 9: I think something has happened and you need to find 1081 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:39,080 Speaker 9: out what it is. It could be another woman. It 1082 00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,560 Speaker 9: could be depression, it could be any of those things. 1083 00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 2: You can't be. 1084 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 9: Afraid to ask him though what it is and do 1085 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 9: your own research. You've done your own research into your finances, 1086 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 9: so you can do research into that. Don't just give 1087 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,040 Speaker 9: up and do nothing. You gotta talk to him. You 1088 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,120 Speaker 9: gotta have a conversation with him. It's not nagging. You 1089 00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:01,200 Speaker 9: definitely need to know what's going on in your average Steve. 1090 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:06,760 Speaker 2: Uh This letter here is just it's about change. 1091 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:11,359 Speaker 4: It's about lack of communication, it's about uh see, here's 1092 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 4: what happens in marriage, especially when you've been. 1093 00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:16,080 Speaker 2: Married for some years. 1094 00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:23,600 Speaker 4: When you're getting married after a while, everybody changes. Everybody changes. 1095 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 4: Nobody stays the same. You may be a subtle change 1096 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 4: that you don't recognize, but everybody change. The problem is 1097 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:34,440 Speaker 4: that people that you change in two those two people 1098 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 4: still have to like the person that they've become. So 1099 00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:40,479 Speaker 4: what has happened is what y'all used to be. Y'all 1100 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,200 Speaker 4: ain't no more. He used to be passionate. 1101 00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 2: He ain't no more. 1102 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,760 Speaker 4: But I got news for you somewhere in this letter, 1103 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,080 Speaker 4: you're leaving out a lot of information because something you 1104 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:51,920 Speaker 4: used to do. You ain't doing no more something you 1105 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,000 Speaker 4: used to be, you ain't being no more. 1106 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 2: Now. 1107 00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 4: What happens in marriage is this can happen rather quickly 1108 00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,440 Speaker 4: if you're not careful, because it can happen to newlyweds 1109 00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 4: when you're not communicating. I tell people all the time, 1110 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 4: first thing you could do when you get married. What 1111 00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,480 Speaker 4: I had to learn the hard way was to form 1112 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,080 Speaker 4: a two handed circle. I had to learn that the 1113 00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,360 Speaker 4: hard way. When you allow other people in with their 1114 00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:21,280 Speaker 4: opinions thoughts that they don't have all the inside information, 1115 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 4: all of their information and advice, gonna be bad. 1116 00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:26,920 Speaker 2: It's gonna be wrong because it ain't filtered in all 1117 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:27,439 Speaker 2: the fact. 1118 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 4: Plus, now you all have twin daughters who have all 1119 00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 4: gone off and graduated high school, and their professional dancers, 1120 00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 4: ones that go to be in New York to be 1121 00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:40,920 Speaker 4: a ballet dancer, and the other background dancer for pop stars. Okay, 1122 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 4: but now y'all empty nesters. Okay, Well, y'a out, ain't 1123 00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:46,600 Speaker 4: no more distractions. 1124 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:50,760 Speaker 2: It's just you and him. That's what happened when COVID hit. 1125 00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:57,320 Speaker 4: COVID broke up a lot of relationships because the distraction 1126 00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 4: was gone. Going to work was gone, staying that happy 1127 00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 4: hour was gone, moving around, going to the gym was gone. 1128 00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:12,480 Speaker 4: Everybody was just at home, and you discovered, Lord, have mercy. 1129 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,200 Speaker 2: I needed all them distractions because. 1130 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 4: Now it's just me and huh, it's just you and 1131 00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,600 Speaker 4: the hill and a lot of people discovering something they 1132 00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,720 Speaker 4: ain't like each other. Do you know that you could 1133 00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 4: love a person but not likely? Here's another fact. You 1134 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,320 Speaker 4: can be in love with the wrong person. 1135 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:39,120 Speaker 5: Uh. 1136 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:45,240 Speaker 4: Oh, anybody hear what I said? I said you can 1137 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,120 Speaker 4: be in love with the wrong person. 1138 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, I've been there. 1139 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:56,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it happens all the time. Seen that movie, so 1140 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:02,560 Speaker 4: welcome to the movies. We've all seen it. I know 1141 01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 4: how this one ends when we come back. Here's my prediction. 1142 01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 9: All right, coming up a twenty three minutes after the hour, 1143 01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,720 Speaker 9: we'll have more of Steve's response, Part two of Today's 1144 01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:18,000 Speaker 9: Strawberry Letter. There is no emotion in his motions. Right 1145 01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 9: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1146 01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:26,040 Speaker 9: come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. And the 1147 01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 9: subject is there's no emotion in his motions. 1148 01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:34,040 Speaker 4: Ain't no emotion in his emotions? No emotions in his motions? 1149 01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:38,040 Speaker 4: Because the ain't no emotions in the relationship. Something has happened. 1150 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 2: The two people that you all when you all first married. 1151 01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:46,200 Speaker 2: How many years have they been married? Twenty two Steve, 1152 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 2: twenty two years ago. 1153 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:51,040 Speaker 4: The two of you are totally different people now. I 1154 01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 4: don't know anybody just the same as they were twenty 1155 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:58,560 Speaker 4: two years ago. I don't know anybody. Time change is people. 1156 01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:03,960 Speaker 4: Time change all people now the people that the two 1157 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 4: of you have become through the lack of communication, you 1158 01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:08,960 Speaker 4: may be discovering that the two of you don't even 1159 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,040 Speaker 4: like each other. Now he's made it obviously clear that 1160 01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:16,720 Speaker 4: he don't like you. According to this letter. He don't 1161 01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 4: talk to you when he come in from work. He 1162 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,800 Speaker 4: barely speaks to you. Someday you've talked to him about depression. 1163 01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 2: He say, ain't nothing wrong with him. 1164 01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,960 Speaker 4: Then you ask him if y'all having financial problem, and 1165 01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:31,840 Speaker 4: that ain't it because you did some research for yourself, Okay. 1166 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 4: Then you ask him about y'all summer plans to go 1167 01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,120 Speaker 4: see these twin daughters y'all, guy, who are both dancers. 1168 01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:39,480 Speaker 4: One of them is a ballet and the other one 1169 01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 4: dance for a pop star. So they can visit their daughters. 1170 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 4: He said, he may not be able to go. But 1171 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,840 Speaker 4: the problem you got is how cold he treats you 1172 01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 4: when you all are entey. He don't put any emotion 1173 01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,160 Speaker 4: in his motions like he used to. Is like wam bam, 1174 01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,040 Speaker 4: thank you ma'am, and he falls asleep. 1175 01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 2: Don't kiss me. 1176 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:03,200 Speaker 4: And he stopped me from doing the pregame activities that 1177 01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:04,040 Speaker 4: he used to love. 1178 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,040 Speaker 2: Don't do that. Stop. I don't need that. 1179 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,880 Speaker 4: Come on this here, hell, come on, come on, come on, 1180 01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 4: come on, I don't need all that. I'm ready, let's go, 1181 01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:16,440 Speaker 4: let's do it. Wow man, No, no, this is what 1182 01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,160 Speaker 4: you're doing. What you're finna do. I don't even like 1183 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 4: that no more. Come on, baby, come on, come on, 1184 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:22,920 Speaker 4: get up, get up? 1185 01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:23,160 Speaker 2: Come on? 1186 01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:29,400 Speaker 4: What in I don't ever remember saying that in my life. 1187 01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:35,040 Speaker 4: I've never said these words get up, don't do that. 1188 01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:36,360 Speaker 4: I've never said. 1189 01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:39,400 Speaker 2: In my whole damn. 1190 01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,439 Speaker 1: Six years get up. 1191 01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 2: That. I never never said that. I stopped a lot 1192 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:58,640 Speaker 2: of things in my life, but I have never ever 1193 01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:05,360 Speaker 2: said get up, don't do that to me. Ever. 1194 01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:12,439 Speaker 4: Something is wrong here, Yeah, something's horribly wrong. He don't 1195 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 4: kiss you no more. The last time we had sex 1196 01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:19,640 Speaker 4: was twenty two days ago. Now that he forty seven, 1197 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,000 Speaker 4: don't worry about that. Them days gonna stretch out way 1198 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,600 Speaker 4: longer than now. They're gonna be some twenty two You're 1199 01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:27,360 Speaker 4: gonna see some twenty twos. You're gonna put a two 1200 01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:29,560 Speaker 4: in a foe in front of him. Sometimes there're gonna 1201 01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:30,120 Speaker 4: be some days. 1202 01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 6: Uh. 1203 01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:35,920 Speaker 2: And then he told me to hear him finish because 1204 01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,640 Speaker 2: he had a long day. Ooh, that's cold. 1205 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,120 Speaker 4: When I worked from home too. I used to when 1206 01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,200 Speaker 4: I work from home two days a week. He used 1207 01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:44,960 Speaker 4: to come home during the day and tighten me up. 1208 01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,480 Speaker 4: But he don stop doing that. How can a man 1209 01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 4: go from passing the kisses of love make it to 1210 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:52,880 Speaker 4: a few quickies here and now for twenty two years 1211 01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 4: of being together? Twenty two years is the key. Things 1212 01:03:56,880 --> 01:04:00,680 Speaker 4: have changed. And it's been like this for Wow, lady, 1213 01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 4: just ain't just started happening. See you telling us the 1214 01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,000 Speaker 4: last time y'all had sex with twenty two days, but 1215 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:09,840 Speaker 4: you ain't saying how many times you had it in 1216 01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:12,800 Speaker 4: the twenty two days prior to that. I'm telling you 1217 01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:15,360 Speaker 4: this has been happening. He has changed and I can't 1218 01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:19,840 Speaker 4: even imagine him cheating on me or you can't. Okay, 1219 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,640 Speaker 4: glad you can't. I don't want to be a naggar. 1220 01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,479 Speaker 4: But is it cool to ask him if he's seeing 1221 01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:27,720 Speaker 4: another woman? Well, lady, let me ask you a question. 1222 01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 4: That's a dumb ask question to ask him he because 1223 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:35,600 Speaker 4: what do you think he gonna say? I have not 1224 01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 4: heard a woman asked her husband, are you seeing somebody else? 1225 01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:44,640 Speaker 4: And he said, wow, it's funny, you asked, as a 1226 01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:52,360 Speaker 4: matter of fact, I am I beat damn yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1227 01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:53,880 Speaker 2: So what's for dinner? 1228 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 4: You think that he can tell you that? Now that 1229 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,280 Speaker 4: may not be the case, But what does your intuition 1230 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 4: tell you? But I can tell you right now. If 1231 01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:07,760 Speaker 4: y'all don't hurry up and have some conversations about the 1232 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:13,760 Speaker 4: real issue, this is over. This is over because the 1233 01:05:13,880 --> 01:05:17,040 Speaker 4: distractions in your life are gone. Them two kids is off, y'all. 1234 01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:20,520 Speaker 4: Empty ness is it's just you and him. See, you 1235 01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:22,720 Speaker 4: haven't noticed it. But when the kids was there, he 1236 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:24,400 Speaker 4: didn't have to talk to you all the time because 1237 01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,720 Speaker 4: the kids was there, and the subject y'all talked about 1238 01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:30,240 Speaker 4: a lot of time was the kids. When you remove 1239 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:37,600 Speaker 4: the subject of children, daycare, college tuition, helping the kids, 1240 01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 4: when you remove that conversation. 1241 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:41,200 Speaker 2: It's you and you. 1242 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:46,800 Speaker 4: And y'all need them distractions back. COVID broke up a 1243 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,960 Speaker 4: lot of families. Empty nesters break up a lot of family. 1244 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:52,720 Speaker 4: But it could be your opportunity to find what you 1245 01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:57,280 Speaker 4: really need. It could be his opportunity too. Maybe y'all 1246 01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:59,600 Speaker 4: have grown apart. But if y'all don't hurry up and 1247 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,280 Speaker 4: talk this out and find out get to the core 1248 01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 4: of the problem. 1249 01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:05,520 Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you something else. 1250 01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:07,760 Speaker 4: Too, lady. You are not what you used to be 1251 01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:11,160 Speaker 4: twenty two years ago. So as you point the finger 1252 01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:14,720 Speaker 4: at what he ain't doing no more, and you're gonna 1253 01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:16,880 Speaker 4: have to go to counseling and take a look at 1254 01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 4: what's happening here. Because when you point your finger, remember 1255 01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:22,880 Speaker 4: three of them fingers to point back at you and 1256 01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:24,000 Speaker 4: your thumb here too. 1257 01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 2: So that's really fun. All right. 1258 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,840 Speaker 9: Leave us your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram 1259 01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:32,160 Speaker 9: at Steve Harvey FM, and check out the Strawberry Letter 1260 01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 9: podcast on the iHeartRadio app. It is free. Coming up 1261 01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:39,280 Speaker 9: next it is Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, 1262 01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:44,320 Speaker 9: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time 1263 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,960 Speaker 9: now for junior and sports talk? What you got junior? 1264 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 14: Not today, I need help today, share not not today, 1265 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 14: not any talking, no way, come on else. 1266 01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah we got a drought anyway. But let me ask 1267 01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,600 Speaker 1: you this. Uh you can be married seventeen years tomorrow. 1268 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:04,240 Speaker 1: Uh huh yeah, okay, Now you remember your first anniversary? Yeah, okay, 1269 01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:05,520 Speaker 1: mine's coming up. 1270 01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:07,200 Speaker 2: I know exactly where it was. 1271 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 1: What did you do for your first one? 1272 01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:10,760 Speaker 2: I was in south of France. 1273 01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:14,640 Speaker 1: Okay, you're not gonna get that. Okay, So what's so 1274 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: first aniversary? 1275 01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:16,760 Speaker 8: Man? 1276 01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,760 Speaker 4: South of France? That was her dream was to go 1277 01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:23,920 Speaker 4: to the to go to Nice and go to the 1278 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:28,320 Speaker 4: Eden Rock Hotel. She had read about it. That was 1279 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 4: her dream for years. 1280 01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:34,280 Speaker 14: I'm not taking my wife to South frank Well, that 1281 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:35,439 Speaker 14: ain't her dream, okay. 1282 01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,280 Speaker 1: But but South Florida sound good? 1283 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:37,680 Speaker 10: Right now? 1284 01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,200 Speaker 2: Atlanta, South Florida, Junior. 1285 01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:41,560 Speaker 1: South Florida. We go to Miami. 1286 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,120 Speaker 14: But yeah, I didn't need an idea of what to 1287 01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,320 Speaker 14: do for the first one, because it's this first one special. 1288 01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,120 Speaker 2: Well, let me ask the question, what has she always 1289 01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:49,760 Speaker 2: wanted to do? 1290 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:50,640 Speaker 10: The reason? 1291 01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:51,280 Speaker 2: You don't know that? 1292 01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:51,880 Speaker 5: Huh? 1293 01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:52,920 Speaker 1: Not go to bor Boar? 1294 01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:54,400 Speaker 2: Well, dog, I'm gonna tell you. 1295 01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:57,280 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you right now, boy boy, is costs 1296 01:07:57,320 --> 01:07:59,800 Speaker 4: more money than go to the South of Friends. What 1297 01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:02,600 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you right now, it costs more money 1298 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,240 Speaker 4: to go to boy Board than to do the South 1299 01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 4: of France. You can get the pass from Atlanta in 1300 01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:10,440 Speaker 4: eight hours, boy boy, boy boy from l a is 1301 01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:11,400 Speaker 4: seventeen hours. 1302 01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:11,920 Speaker 10: What. 1303 01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:14,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it ain't in the Caribbean. 1304 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:15,640 Speaker 2: That's what I thought it would go. That's what I 1305 01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:16,920 Speaker 2: thought it was. Are you out your. 1306 01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:18,720 Speaker 9: It's not. 1307 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give her a new vision. 1308 01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:20,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do. 1309 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:21,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give her new vision. 1310 01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:25,519 Speaker 2: You thought it was in the Caribbeans, Yeah, bor Bor. 1311 01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:28,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where I thought it was, right there, to 1312 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:29,000 Speaker 1: the behind. 1313 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,840 Speaker 14: That's what I thought, bor borrom Bahamas B and B. 1314 01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,640 Speaker 1: I thought right next door to each other. You mean 1315 01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:36,120 Speaker 1: tell me it's seventeen hours? 1316 01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:36,800 Speaker 2: Dog? 1317 01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:39,519 Speaker 4: Do you know you have to stop in I think 1318 01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:43,800 Speaker 4: it's highland? Really yeah, you can't just straight the board, 1319 01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:47,360 Speaker 4: but right, yeah, man, you gotta stop in ta heating. 1320 01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:49,800 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, well she's gonna get a new vision. That's 1321 01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:50,439 Speaker 1: what she's gonna get. 1322 01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:53,639 Speaker 2: You ain't gonna be married long though. Why did you ask? 1323 01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:58,040 Speaker 1: Because dog, No keeps saying that. 1324 01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:00,719 Speaker 2: Look at what he keeps saying. 1325 01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:02,479 Speaker 5: What am I saying? 1326 01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:05,720 Speaker 2: It's wrong everything you keep saying. She ain't finna kint 1327 01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:09,800 Speaker 2: what you keep saying? What she ain't gonna get? 1328 01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:14,000 Speaker 4: No, you gotta make something happen. It's your damn job. 1329 01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:17,519 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, junior what I'm from the old school. 1330 01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:21,960 Speaker 2: It's your job. Day off? 1331 01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:24,720 Speaker 1: What in your Mayriorg You never took day off seventeen years. 1332 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:25,559 Speaker 1: You need to took day off. 1333 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:26,000 Speaker 5: Dog. 1334 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:28,160 Speaker 4: You don't get you can't take one of your man 1335 01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 4: you No, you don't get days off in this You 1336 01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:34,320 Speaker 4: gotta be the husband the whole time who divorces. 1337 01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:42,200 Speaker 9: But I just asked you quesswer the first anniversary gluck 1338 01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:44,920 Speaker 9: coming up at the top of the hour. Have any 1339 01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:47,679 Speaker 9: of you ever missed someone from your past so badly 1340 01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:51,320 Speaker 9: that you went all out to find them? M we'll 1341 01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:56,439 Speaker 9: talk about that right after this. You're listening morning show, 1342 01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:02,320 Speaker 9: all right? So Rapper C recently initiated a search for 1343 01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:05,720 Speaker 9: a former acquaintance of his from high school. Q Tip 1344 01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:08,360 Speaker 9: is fifty three years old now, and last week he 1345 01:10:08,479 --> 01:10:11,439 Speaker 9: posted a message on Twitter looking for a girl that 1346 01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,559 Speaker 9: he went to a concert with back in the ninth grade. 1347 01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:16,720 Speaker 9: He said, quote, there was a girl I went to 1348 01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,559 Speaker 9: high school with. Her name was Pamela Sweat. We went 1349 01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:22,679 Speaker 9: to a Prince concert in the ninth grade. So Pam, 1350 01:10:22,760 --> 01:10:25,800 Speaker 9: if you're out there, I'd love to know you are well. 1351 01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:31,320 Speaker 9: I think of you often. Social media investigators then got 1352 01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:34,280 Speaker 9: on the case and found an old graduation picture of 1353 01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:37,519 Speaker 9: Pam Sweat. Then they found Pam's Instagram account and a 1354 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:40,160 Speaker 9: more recent picture of her from April of this year. 1355 01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:44,840 Speaker 9: Q Tip confirmed it was Pam by responding yes to 1356 01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:49,080 Speaker 9: the graduation picture, and then he posted Pam under Pam's 1357 01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:52,720 Speaker 9: last Instagram post. We wish him the best of luck 1358 01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:55,920 Speaker 9: on reuniting with Pam. And to the guys, I have 1359 01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,479 Speaker 9: to ask you, is there anyone from your past if 1360 01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:01,600 Speaker 9: you think of often and wouldn't mind reuniting with, just 1361 01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:02,720 Speaker 9: like Q Tippy. 1362 01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:06,000 Speaker 4: Well, I'm just based on this picture right here, Q Tip, 1363 01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:10,280 Speaker 4: don't hook hooked back up with cotton Swab. 1364 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:17,960 Speaker 2: And they can go out. Now, come out. 1365 01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:27,679 Speaker 9: We all have to be out on that one seeming. 1366 01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:29,680 Speaker 4: I can tell you right now this, I'll tell you 1367 01:11:29,760 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 4: right now anything work had Now get up. Carla cotton 1368 01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:41,960 Speaker 4: Swab in this picture right here. Nobody looks like they 1369 01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:43,680 Speaker 4: did it grad nobody. 1370 01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:45,639 Speaker 2: I don't know what Q Tip thought. He was sitting 1371 01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:53,400 Speaker 2: fine Cotton Swab said, I tell you. 1372 01:11:53,439 --> 01:12:07,240 Speaker 10: What, Cam, Yeah, I'd like to find a homeboy man 1373 01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 10: though that I went to high school with. 1374 01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:13,280 Speaker 2: No I could find scot A girl, A girl, a girl. 1375 01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:18,360 Speaker 1: Oh but see we know you got him, know you. 1376 01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:27,439 Speaker 10: Regina Prankle, God boy, you think Virgina gonna look the same? 1377 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:29,960 Speaker 10: I saw a picture this girl as in college that 1378 01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 10: had questions. 1379 01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:33,080 Speaker 11: You have here? 1380 01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:36,800 Speaker 4: Remember, yeah, you don't. You don't look the same time. 1381 01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:40,479 Speaker 4: I know, I know I had a crush on the 1382 01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,800 Speaker 4: girl that was a cheer lead at Kent State. I 1383 01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:44,720 Speaker 4: saw a picture of her. 1384 01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:48,240 Speaker 1: She's still Oh she's a welcome. 1385 01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:53,000 Speaker 4: I wonder iful. I saw a Shepherd on my show. 1386 01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,880 Speaker 4: I carried her books home with her. I carried her 1387 01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:58,759 Speaker 4: books home when I was in sixth grade. 1388 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:02,000 Speaker 9: Oh yeah her, remember that she came to Shepherd. 1389 01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:05,960 Speaker 4: She was on my show Who Steve? I can still 1390 01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:09,200 Speaker 4: tell you show which I could find? 1391 01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:09,479 Speaker 5: Uh? 1392 01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:18,839 Speaker 4: Donald Bland that was elementary school crush. Uh Peggy, Peggy 1393 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,120 Speaker 4: von schuckles. 1394 01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:25,280 Speaker 2: Listen to these names. 1395 01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:37,040 Speaker 4: Michelle Harris, oh Man, Alva Hicks, Whodo Hits, Alva Hicks. 1396 01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,799 Speaker 2: Oh, Linda Robinson. I had so many crushes. 1397 01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:52,320 Speaker 15: I loved everybody, just loving people, still going, Jamiica Greene 1398 01:13:52,640 --> 01:13:53,080 Speaker 15: Hawk and. 1399 01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:58,000 Speaker 2: We know that now. I was in high school man 1400 01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:00,280 Speaker 2: Michelle Pierce, m. 1401 01:14:02,520 --> 01:14:05,960 Speaker 9: Shale pas Well, what did you like about them back 1402 01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:06,719 Speaker 9: in high school? 1403 01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:13,120 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, just female. It's just all Back then, it 1404 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:13,959 Speaker 2: was just female. 1405 01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:14,360 Speaker 15: Oh. 1406 01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:18,920 Speaker 4: It wasn't about characteristic. We were just female. I was, 1407 01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:22,599 Speaker 4: you know, I was discovering myself so pretty much a female. 1408 01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 4: You know, like if you smiled back at me, you 1409 01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:27,439 Speaker 4: had me. 1410 01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:32,960 Speaker 9: All right coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. 1411 01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:35,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a lot of requirements back then. 1412 01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 9: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1413 01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:43,880 Speaker 9: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1414 01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:46,559 Speaker 2: Listen up. 1415 01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:51,120 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey. 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It 1424 01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,640 Speaker 9: is sponsored by Westgate Resorts. 1425 01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:27,600 Speaker 1: I want to go. 1426 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:29,280 Speaker 9: I just say I want to go. 1427 01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:30,560 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 1428 01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,519 Speaker 9: Let's take a trip, Yes to Vegas. 1429 01:15:34,040 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 2: I'm about to cut another flo Sure, let's go. 1430 01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:40,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, and I'm gonna stand up and sing every Motown 1431 01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:41,160 Speaker 7: legend song. 1432 01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:47,559 Speaker 9: Everyone having good time, good music right there? 1433 01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:49,360 Speaker 2: Yeah on trip. 1434 01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:51,880 Speaker 9: That's yeah, we should plan that. 1435 01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:54,960 Speaker 1: Never mad at Vegas. 1436 01:15:56,640 --> 01:15:59,000 Speaker 2: Nowhere? Why saying stuff? 1437 01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,760 Speaker 9: Shirley go to Vegas. 1438 01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:06,120 Speaker 2: To go everywhere? I don't like Monica gotta make her 1439 01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:07,200 Speaker 2: do everything. 1440 01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:10,280 Speaker 9: Mona gotta make Monica has to. 1441 01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:13,360 Speaker 2: Make her do everything. Surely, don't do nothing less Monica, 1442 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:13,840 Speaker 2: make her. 1443 01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:16,920 Speaker 5: House. 1444 01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:19,760 Speaker 2: Monica, don't come to Sharley. Come on, let's go. 1445 01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,080 Speaker 9: All right, we'll be back with the rounded. Would you 1446 01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,720 Speaker 9: rather coming up at thirty three minutes after right after 1447 01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:32,640 Speaker 9: this you're listening morning show, It is time now for 1448 01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:35,760 Speaker 9: a rounded? Would you rather? Would you rather guys have 1449 01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:39,839 Speaker 9: a sexy first name or just have a foreign accent? 1450 01:16:40,360 --> 01:16:43,479 Speaker 2: Tell me a sex. Tell me no, it ain't tell 1451 01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:50,880 Speaker 2: me to me, to me, to me, tell me Italian 1452 01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:51,920 Speaker 2: wordy mean baby? 1453 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:58,360 Speaker 9: Tell what would you rather have a foreign Would you 1454 01:16:58,479 --> 01:16:59,840 Speaker 9: rather have a foreign accent? Junior? 1455 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:01,519 Speaker 1: I want I have six fresh names. 1456 01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:05,759 Speaker 2: I'll just go with for an accent. Kerk accent. 1457 01:17:08,160 --> 01:17:09,320 Speaker 1: It's key Pierre. 1458 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:11,040 Speaker 9: N. 1459 01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:13,920 Speaker 2: Nobody know that we've been calling you kill the whole 1460 01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:14,519 Speaker 2: damn time. 1461 01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:18,160 Speaker 4: There, k you need another at the end of that night, 1462 01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:22,200 Speaker 4: it's Krell Stop. 1463 01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,479 Speaker 2: I know it ain't no damn Ki. When the last 1464 01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:26,280 Speaker 2: time y'all called this. 1465 01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:30,400 Speaker 9: Kiara is sexy? Okay, I'll give you that, Junior. 1466 01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:33,720 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, j Yeah your name Ki? My name 1467 01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:41,840 Speaker 2: is Steve Van Yeah yeah, Kier yeah all right. I 1468 01:17:42,040 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 2: rather just getret You already got an accent? Yeah yeah, 1469 01:17:46,400 --> 01:17:46,680 Speaker 2: all right. 1470 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:52,840 Speaker 9: You would you guys rather be heckled on stage? Or 1471 01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:55,680 Speaker 9: would you rather have your exies on the front row 1472 01:17:56,200 --> 01:17:59,719 Speaker 9: while you're performing? Which one hell them on the front 1473 01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:00,920 Speaker 9: row is heckling me? 1474 01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? They ain't gotta say nothing. That's heckley. You're talking 1475 01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:12,200 Speaker 2: about all your exes? 1476 01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:15,519 Speaker 15: Yeah yeah? 1477 01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:20,120 Speaker 2: Or that be a hell of a show boy. 1478 01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 4: We gotta get through this set though. A couple of 1479 01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:28,800 Speaker 4: me to see me though. Yeah yeah, back then you 1480 01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:32,160 Speaker 4: didn't want me. Now you're on the front row, you're 1481 01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:36,479 Speaker 4: all only yeah yeah yeah, well yeah yeah yeah yeah. 1482 01:18:36,479 --> 01:18:38,080 Speaker 4: I bet you never thought you had to be on 1483 01:18:38,160 --> 01:18:42,880 Speaker 4: the front row, Misty, Yeah, I bet you. Yeah, everybody 1484 01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:44,360 Speaker 4: thought I would never be on stage. 1485 01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, all of them all right? 1486 01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:50,320 Speaker 9: Would you rather have four wives and four different homes 1487 01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:52,479 Speaker 9: or would you have rather have one wife in a 1488 01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:53,240 Speaker 9: tiny house? 1489 01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,240 Speaker 10: I can't do that tiny house with you, I got it. 1490 01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:57,360 Speaker 10: I'm gon take them four wives, and I'm gonna take 1491 01:18:57,400 --> 01:18:58,120 Speaker 10: them for wives. 1492 01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:00,200 Speaker 4: I'm not coming in that tiny house because there no 1493 01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:02,160 Speaker 4: way I could stay married in a chiny house. 1494 01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:05,759 Speaker 2: Why not Mary, because. 1495 01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:07,560 Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to go to the bathroom. It's just 1496 01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,320 Speaker 4: you're not gonna survive that. It don't matter. You don't 1497 01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:14,360 Speaker 4: matter what you can eat. You can eat coesf all 1498 01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:16,160 Speaker 4: damn day. I'm telling you what. I don't know what 1499 01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:19,679 Speaker 4: it is he heard, but you you can do whatever 1500 01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:20,800 Speaker 4: you want to, but you're not in. 1501 01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:22,599 Speaker 2: A tiny house. I don't just damn what you eat. 1502 01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:26,559 Speaker 4: You drank, baby, del You drank similar when your ass 1503 01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:31,000 Speaker 4: is in that kiny house. See, the problem is what 1504 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:35,400 Speaker 4: you done ate all the years before. That's lying in 1505 01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 4: your coat, and it's. 1506 01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:44,240 Speaker 9: That's today's rounded. Would you rather coming up our break 1507 01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:47,120 Speaker 9: of the day at forty nine minutes after? Right after 1508 01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:54,519 Speaker 9: this saucy you're listening hard morning show? All right, guys, 1509 01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:57,600 Speaker 9: here we are our last break of the day and 1510 01:19:57,920 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 9: of the week. Remember you can always catch the Steve 1511 01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:04,120 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show on demand on the free iHeartRadio app. 1512 01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:06,840 Speaker 9: And if you haven't seen Netflix is eighty five South 1513 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:10,320 Speaker 9: Ghetto Legends comedy special. Check it out this weekend. It's 1514 01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:13,200 Speaker 9: number one on Netflix. It is number one. Right, nice 1515 01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:17,519 Speaker 9: regulation to the eighty five South Boys. Yeah, hung out 1516 01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:19,040 Speaker 9: with special guests this week. 1517 01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:23,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, let me give you some closed remarks something I 1518 01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:29,679 Speaker 4: was thinking about. Oftentimes I get asked this question. They say, Steve, 1519 01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:34,080 Speaker 4: how do you stay motivated? Or they say, Steve, what 1520 01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:40,559 Speaker 4: is your motivation? What drives you? What keeps you turning 1521 01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:46,000 Speaker 4: the wheels? I mean, year after year after year, you 1522 01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:48,240 Speaker 4: just keep on going? 1523 01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:48,679 Speaker 5: Man? 1524 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:49,640 Speaker 8: What is it? 1525 01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:55,720 Speaker 2: And you know what, It's really simple, everybody, And this 1526 01:20:55,920 --> 01:20:57,160 Speaker 2: is something you can do too. 1527 01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:00,160 Speaker 5: You know, my whole. 1528 01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:04,400 Speaker 4: Motivation is the thing that drives me. I just never 1529 01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:12,759 Speaker 4: I just never stopped dreaming. I've never stopped. I'm always dreaming, 1530 01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:20,679 Speaker 4: I'm always having visions, I'm always looking at something else, 1531 01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:22,760 Speaker 4: I'm always seeing more. 1532 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,759 Speaker 2: I just never stopped dreaming. 1533 01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:31,880 Speaker 4: And here's the thing about dreaming, folks, it ain't ever 1534 01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:36,639 Speaker 4: too late to dream. If you stopped for whatever reason 1535 01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,559 Speaker 4: because the one you wanted to happen didn't come true, 1536 01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:42,400 Speaker 4: you probably stopped too early. 1537 01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:49,599 Speaker 2: I know way too many people who have given up. 1538 01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:55,519 Speaker 4: When they might have captured the Victor's cup, and they 1539 01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:58,960 Speaker 4: learned too late when the night came down, how close 1540 01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:00,920 Speaker 4: they were to the old and crown. 1541 01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,560 Speaker 2: I know too many people who've lived that stands of 1542 01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:05,720 Speaker 2: that poem. Don't quit. 1543 01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:09,559 Speaker 4: I know people, man, who if they had just dug 1544 01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:12,120 Speaker 4: a little bit deeper, they'd have struck all. If they 1545 01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:14,639 Speaker 4: had just dug a little bit longer, they'd have uncovered 1546 01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:17,880 Speaker 4: the diamonds. If they'd just hung in that man, God 1547 01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:20,719 Speaker 4: was just getting ready to turn on the light switch. 1548 01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:25,599 Speaker 4: But people give up. If you've been in that position, 1549 01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:29,920 Speaker 4: it's never too late to restart. You're never too old 1550 01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:34,559 Speaker 4: to dream. You're never too young to dream. Listen to me, man, 1551 01:22:34,760 --> 01:22:38,439 Speaker 4: with God, prayer, faith and work, you need all of 1552 01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 4: these Now you need God, you need prayer, you need faith, 1553 01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:45,040 Speaker 4: and you got to be willing to put into work. 1554 01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:49,599 Speaker 4: If you use those four things, all things are possible. 1555 01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:54,160 Speaker 4: All things are possible. One of the things that I'm 1556 01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:57,360 Speaker 4: about to sit down and do this week because normally 1557 01:22:57,439 --> 01:23:01,479 Speaker 4: I have my son redo my vision board. But you 1558 01:23:01,560 --> 01:23:03,080 Speaker 4: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna sit down on 1559 01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:05,280 Speaker 4: the computer and I'm gonna learn how to do my 1560 01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:10,479 Speaker 4: own because man, I've been having some new dreams. I've 1561 01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:13,400 Speaker 4: been having some new visions and I can't wait for 1562 01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:15,760 Speaker 4: my son to get available, for him to put it 1563 01:23:15,880 --> 01:23:19,400 Speaker 4: on them spreadsheet and then turn it into a photo 1564 01:23:19,479 --> 01:23:21,920 Speaker 4: and then turn it into my wallpaper so I can 1565 01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:23,160 Speaker 4: make it my home screen. 1566 01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:27,240 Speaker 2: My phone has been empty now for two months. 1567 01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:32,400 Speaker 4: I'm finn stop that because I was looking at my 1568 01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:36,960 Speaker 4: life the other day and everything I've ever asked him 1569 01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:41,040 Speaker 4: for came true. Do you know, man, One of the 1570 01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:43,760 Speaker 4: things I was asking God for was I wanted to 1571 01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:47,120 Speaker 4: increase my reach with people. I wanted to be able 1572 01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:50,280 Speaker 4: to help more boys and girls. I wanted our foundation 1573 01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:54,640 Speaker 4: to extend itself. So hard for me to get to 1574 01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:57,280 Speaker 4: my ranch in Dallas. That's a two and a half 1575 01:23:57,400 --> 01:24:01,920 Speaker 4: hour flight. So now you know how that got it go. 1576 01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:03,439 Speaker 4: You want to go to the ranch, you gotta go 1577 01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:07,160 Speaker 4: get on plane for two and a half hour. So 1578 01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:10,000 Speaker 4: my prayer was, God, I want to find me about 1579 01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:14,200 Speaker 4: three hundred acres and I want that three hundred acres 1580 01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:16,080 Speaker 4: to be within an hour and a half from my house. 1581 01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:19,240 Speaker 4: And I put that on the vision board about five 1582 01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:24,519 Speaker 4: years ago, six years ago, and without even realizing it, 1583 01:24:27,160 --> 01:24:29,639 Speaker 4: God gave me that plus more. 1584 01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:35,240 Speaker 2: He didn't give me three hundred. He gave me sixteen hundred. 1585 01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,160 Speaker 2: He didn't make it an hour and a half from 1586 01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:42,479 Speaker 2: the house, he made it an hour fifteen. He even 1587 01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:43,600 Speaker 2: shortened the trip for me. 1588 01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:51,040 Speaker 4: God will do exceedingly and abundantly over all that you 1589 01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:56,840 Speaker 4: think or ask. If you just have faith in help, y'all, 1590 01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 4: it's never too late to dream God is and to 1591 01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:03,519 Speaker 4: make your dream come true. Business I'm telling y'all, man, 1592 01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:07,280 Speaker 4: let me tell you something. Your life ain't in trouble 1593 01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:11,639 Speaker 4: if you don't have an education. Now you're gonna create 1594 01:25:11,720 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 4: some difficulties without an education. You can believe that and 1595 01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:19,599 Speaker 4: hat soft to everybody that's a lawyer, a dentist, a doctor, 1596 01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:24,840 Speaker 4: an engineer, an architect, hat soft to all of you 1597 01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:29,080 Speaker 4: in corporate America who have gotten yourself educated and clined 1598 01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:32,240 Speaker 4: the corporate letter. I can't tell you how I applaud you, man, 1599 01:25:32,320 --> 01:25:35,760 Speaker 4: because you did something I just seemingly was unable to do. 1600 01:25:37,040 --> 01:25:39,240 Speaker 4: But the one thing I always was able to do 1601 01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:44,439 Speaker 4: was dream, and so I kept my dreams alive without 1602 01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:49,639 Speaker 4: the education. Now without the education, because I haven't read 1603 01:25:49,720 --> 01:25:52,240 Speaker 4: that in the Bible, but I have read that a 1604 01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:56,479 Speaker 4: man without a dream or vision shall perish. And even 1605 01:25:56,520 --> 01:25:59,960 Speaker 4: people with educations, guess what they dreamed of getting that degree. 1606 01:26:00,760 --> 01:26:03,280 Speaker 4: They dreamed of walking and getting that paper, and so 1607 01:26:03,360 --> 01:26:06,599 Speaker 4: many have done it this year. Congratulations, But they dreamed 1608 01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:09,559 Speaker 4: of that. A man without a dream of visions shall perish. 1609 01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:14,679 Speaker 4: Get back on them dreams, y'all, start dreaming again, Start 1610 01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:18,800 Speaker 4: praying again, start talking to God. Have some faith and 1611 01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:21,400 Speaker 4: put in some work, and let God make your dreams 1612 01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:23,280 Speaker 4: some truth too. Y'all have a great one. 1613 01:26:23,360 --> 01:26:23,920 Speaker 1: Talk to God. 1614 01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,840 Speaker 2: He'd love to hear from you. We out of here. 1615 01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:35,280 Speaker 9: For all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, void We're prohibited. 1616 01:26:35,320 --> 01:26:38,840 Speaker 9: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1617 01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:42,719 Speaker 9: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, Visit Steve Harvey 1618 01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:46,880 Speaker 9: fm dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show