1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: This one is from Brielle and Sarasota. 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 2: Brielle says, I'm twenty six and dating a guide that's 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: my age. 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: He doesn't open the door. 5 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 2: When I get in the car, and he texts me 6 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: when he pulls up outside instead of coming to my 7 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 2: apartment door to get me. We barely talk on the phone, 8 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: but we text all the time. He told me that 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: he loves me and we're going to start having sex. 10 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 2: He's waited five months until I was ready for sex. 11 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: Is he a great guy? How important is the other stuff? 12 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,479 Speaker 2: That's what she wants to know. Guys, Tommy, that's. 13 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: The most important thing, lady. He got to treat you 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 3: like a lady. He got to y'all. I'm not talking, y'all, 15 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 3: just texting, and he just said no, he pull up 16 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 3: like he's blowing the horn or text you to come outside. 17 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 3: That's not a gentleman. That's not what you want. And 18 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 3: that's what you think is you That ain't love. But 19 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 3: you think that's love. Not take it from the og. 20 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 3: That is not love. You got a guy that has 21 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 3: not grown up yet. You got a guy that does 22 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 3: not know how to treat you like a lady. And 23 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: until you get the right thing. You don't get him nothing. 24 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 3: He don't do nothing with him. He gotta start treating you, right, 25 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 3: that's it. I'm sorry, I got a little girl. She 26 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 3: twenty one, twenty years or no, you're not doing this. 27 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: They gotta come out here and befray A'll come talk 28 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 3: to me. But I mean, let me not put myself 29 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 3: in there. Okay, boy, but you gotta treat you like 30 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 3: a lady. And it doesn't sound like he's treating you 31 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 3: like a lady. Just sounds like he just you know, yeah, 32 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 3: I'm outside, come on out here. What is that? And 33 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: then when you get outside, he don't open up your 34 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,919 Speaker 3: car though, even well, that's what you want because whatever 35 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 3: he start with, that's how you go in with. If 36 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 3: he's starting doing this, he's not. It's not gonna get 37 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 3: any better. It is what it is. 38 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: You can't allow it. 39 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 3: Is what you're saying. 40 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. 41 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 3: You gotta make somebody. You gotta got her, You gotta 42 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 3: you won't respect, that's it. You don't want nothing less 43 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 3: of that respect at all times. 44 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And she's letting him take the flow of the relationship. 45 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: He doesn't do this. You have to let him know 46 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: this is what I require, This is what I want. 47 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: He's not doing that, right. 48 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,919 Speaker 3: So is he texting her? Uh? Yeah, we're gonna start having. 49 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: Toby, he texted, Well, apparently she told him she didn't 50 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 2: want to, and he waited five months. She made him 51 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: wait five months so until she was ready. So he 52 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: waited and now she shouldn't. 53 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 3: Have been read in for five months. He's still doing 54 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 3: the same damn thing he was doing. Yeah the first month. Yeah, 55 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 3: she's going to be disappointed. Yeah, you respect, move on, 56 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 3: find somebody else. 57 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, covict. 58 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: Yeah she's only twenty. 59 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 4: That's how Yes, that's how y'all feel. 60 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: Okay, how do you have twenty six? How do you feel? 61 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: What I think? 62 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 4: I think he's a great guy. 63 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 5: I think great I think tom I think Tom is 64 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 5: talking because he had a talk show. 65 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 4: So Tommy can't say I don't. 66 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 5: Have no show. I can say this, I have no show. 67 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 5: He's I don't care where everything else. I don't think 68 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 5: I saw this nothing. That That that you just read, 69 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 5: Charlie was what he told me that he loves me 70 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 5: and we're going to start having sex. I thought that 71 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 5: was amazing. That's the only thing I thought. That's the 72 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 5: most amazing thing as stupid, I damned near cried. The 73 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 5: man said. She said it because she heard him. I 74 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 5: love you and we're gonna start having sex. But get 75 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 5: all this opening the door. Why is that important you 76 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 5: had start having sex? That's what I'm thinking, out of gentlemen, 77 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 5: Tommy's talking. 78 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 4: The talk show host. I'm not a dad. I know 79 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 4: about Tommy got said he got rid of love. I don't. 80 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 4: I'm ready when you start having sex, he said. 81 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 5: He said, he told me that he loves me and 82 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 5: we're gonna start having sex. 83 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 4: What what else are we gonna talk about? That's it. 84 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 4: We gotta do nothing else. 85 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: That is that's your standard. 86 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 5: That Steve was his standards are very high, because you 87 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 5: don't have six with everybody. His stand is a very 88 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 5: This man is a good man. And y'all, y'all, y'all, lie, 89 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 5: y'all like. 90 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 4: That man. 91 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 5: That man said, I want to have sick. He ain't 92 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 5: even got it yet. I want to have it though, 93 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 5: I want to have it. 94 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 3: Shut up, Junior. 95 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:20,559 Speaker 2: He's okay, fine, but he's a good man. 96 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 4: I want to have sex. That man said, Central goals high. 97 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: Wow, all right? 98 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 2: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we will 99 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: have more of this ignorant show. 100 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 4: Right, and Junior's gonna be gone. 101 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna tax him. You're listening to The Steve Harvey 102 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 1: Morning Show.