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Speaker 1: Entitled mother was not satisfied with the amount of attention

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Speaker 1: she got at my husband's funeral, so she called the

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Speaker 1: police on me. Okayop, this is Okayop. I'm Samuel Donner

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Speaker 1: and I'm not and we tell the funniest stories on

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Speaker 1: the internet.

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Speaker 2: You know, Sam, I have this random, burning curiosity. Have

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Speaker 2: you ever been to a funeral?

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Speaker 1: I have, Yeah, But the one that sticks out to

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Speaker 1: me most was when I was like four or five, Like,

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Speaker 1: it's like one of my earliest memories. I remember being

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Speaker 1: in a church or something, and I think it was

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Speaker 1: for like my great grandparents or something, and I remember

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Speaker 1: literally just running around the church right, just completely, I

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Speaker 1: referent not realizing that I should not be running around

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Speaker 1: this moment. Was not sure. No, I was just like,

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Speaker 1: I'm playing with my cousins. Yeah. Kids. Also, my grandparents

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Speaker 1: were like super old and they give they lived a

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Speaker 1: great or my great grandparents great parents like ninety or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they lived a good life. They lived a good life.

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Speaker 1: So it was more like, hey, like, you know, we're

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Speaker 1: celebrating this memory rather than and sad. Obviously sad that

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Speaker 1: someone's gone, but yeah, I just did not give a

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Speaker 1: flying trick and was running around. But the thing is

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Speaker 1: I was five. I did not know funeral etiquette. But

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Speaker 1: I have a story of someone who should know funeral

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Speaker 1: etiquette and just completely disregards it. Oh, dear entitled mother

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Speaker 1: was not satisfied with the amounts of attention she got

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Speaker 1: at my husband's funeral, so she called the police on me.

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Speaker 1: What let the woman grieve for real?

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Speaker 2: Gosh, I don't have enough attention the law less get involved.

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Speaker 1: My husband passed away unexpectedly last month, so honestly the

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Speaker 1: worst thing I've ever had to go through. I'm now

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Speaker 1: a single mom to children age between two and twenty.

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Speaker 1: That's a big, big age diference, big twenty man, definitely.

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Speaker 1: Two days after my husband passed, my entitled mother came

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Speaker 1: by and brought her three dogs with her, knowing that

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Speaker 1: one of her dogs isn't friendly with children, and knowing

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Speaker 1: I also have animals. Why are you stupid so completely

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Speaker 1: just disregarding three dogs to the funeral. I think it's

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Speaker 1: not the funeral. I think it's just so they come

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Speaker 1: over to the house. We had my husband's memorial at

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Speaker 1: a local park where we had been married. I struggled

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Speaker 1: to hold it together, and besides brief hellos, I only

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Speaker 1: spoke to those helping set up, and then I gave

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Speaker 1: my speech. I approached my entitled mother when I saw

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Speaker 1: she had arrived, said hi and let her know my brother,

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Speaker 1: who's no contact with her, was there. Later I noticed

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Speaker 1: she was gone without even saying goodbye. That was true.

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Speaker 1: A few days later, my twenty year old he is

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Speaker 1: my stepson, who entitled mother has never paid attention to before,

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Speaker 1: gets a message from her asking him to come stay

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Speaker 1: the week to paint her house. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: I spoke to my twenty year olds and my other

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Speaker 1: children's therapists, who all agree it's too soon after losing

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Speaker 1: their father for their brother who lives with us, to

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Speaker 1: be gone for a week. Not cool, lady. A few

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Speaker 1: of my younger children artistic. Later that night, I called

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Speaker 1: entitled mother to chat about it, and she says, it's

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Speaker 1: been three weeks. You need to get over it.

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Speaker 2: It really instant.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, With that, I saw red, I let

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Speaker 1: loose and tell her I'll never be over it. I

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Speaker 1: then threw it at her that I noticed she couldn't

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Speaker 1: be bothered to say goodbye at the memorial, which she

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Speaker 1: then said she couldn't believe that she invited my brother

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Speaker 1: to the funeral because it made her uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Boo ooo oh, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry I

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Speaker 2: made you uncomfortable at this funeral.

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Speaker 1: Ridiculous. I reminded her that that day wasn't about her,

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Speaker 1: and I let it loose on her on that phone call.

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Speaker 1: In the end, I hung up the phone. The next morning,

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Speaker 1: I got a call from the police saying that entitled

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Speaker 1: mother had called them and told them that I was

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Speaker 1: trying to end my life. I was lucky as I

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Speaker 1: had spoken to the same officer only two days prior,

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Speaker 1: and she told me she got the impression that I'd

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Speaker 1: reach out for help if I needed it, which is

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Speaker 1: why she chose to call instead of a home visit,

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Speaker 1: which given my past history, which entitled mother knows about,

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Speaker 1: they would have taken me to the hospital as precaution.

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Speaker 1: This entitled mom is insane. You are evil, ridiculous. I've

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Speaker 1: now gone no contact with entitled mind. I fully believe

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Speaker 1: her that she only invited my son over as she

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Speaker 1: knows he has been one of my biggest supports as

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Speaker 1: retaliation for not giving her enough attention at the memorial.

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Speaker 1: After I went no contact. I found out she told

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Speaker 1: my other step son that she only came because it

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Speaker 1: would have looked bad on her if she didn't. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god. Others also told me she kept yelling at

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Speaker 1: my brother and complaining that I wasn't leaning on her

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Speaker 1: her support. I'm so glad I've gotten no contact. I

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Speaker 1: don't meant you just.

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Speaker 2: So many things, but so many things else that, like

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Speaker 2: she was complaining that she wasn't leaning on her more

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Speaker 2: for support. Like that's such a weird that's such a weird,

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Speaker 2: like grievance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so ridiculous, so ridiculous. I cannot believe that entitled

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Speaker 1: mother would be so selfish during a funeral.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely and talk about completely devoid of empathy or any

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Speaker 2: concern for anyone other than yourself, and just like the

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Speaker 2: stupidest reasons to be doing that, Like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, God, absolutely ridiculous. But you know what else is

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