WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Lyndsey On My Leg 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.040 All right here it is a brand new episode for you. 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:04.880 Thank you so much for being on our second Date podcast. 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:07.440 We love that you're here. We're glad you found us. 0:00:07.440 --> 0:00:11.319 It's in the morning, especially the official site you know, yeah, 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:13.680 totally instead of the you know other stuff. 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:15.200 Yeah, and a lot of you find those first, but 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:16.800 then you make your way to us, and for that 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:17.279 we love you. 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:19.840 Yes, thank you for finishing my thought. Yeah, it's almost 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:22.079 completely electus. All right, before we get to the new 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:24.680 Awkward Tuesday, what is a comment that you want to read? 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:28.440 Yeah, Charlie's test us said, I'm traveling solo around Europe 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:31.120 for three months and have been listening to your podcast 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:34.360 in every country I visit. I now associate your episodes 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:35.239 with places I've been. 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:40.760 That's so cool. He's like, oh, I remember the Leading 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:44.280 Tower of Pisa. That's when, yeah, Jacqueline broke up with Bobby. 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:47.599 What's the coolest place you've ever laughed at us? 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:49.960 I like that. 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:50.800 That's cool. 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:53.560 Well, I have a good, safe trip and we're all 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.080 slightly jealous. Yeah, let us know. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:55.680 Where today is. 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:58.440 Yeah, and give us some hot travel tips. We're always 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:01.520 about that. All right, let's get your brand new Awkward Tuesday. 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:06.280 Right now, alexis, what's the most romantic thing a guy 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:09.160 has ever done for you? 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.959 Like a rose petal path, like a hot tub? Probably? 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:20.000 Whoa, Yeah, that was your reaction. You broke it off, 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:21.560 not immediately. 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:24.839 Accept it and remix to a song. 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:26.959 Hey they're Delilah, but hey they're Alexis. 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.880 That one bad? Yeah? 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:30.360 You didn't like any of it? 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:34.600 No, same guy, dude. 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:37.440 Apparently you and our listener on the phone today are 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:42.000 very very similar because when her boyfriend of four months 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:45.360 told her the gesture that he'd been planning, her immediate 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:48.480 response was to try and stop him from doing it 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:53.440 at all costs. And that's where we come in. Can 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:57.920 we help convince this romeo to tone it down without 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:02.120 fully crushing his romantic spirit. We're gonna try on your 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.680 brand new awkward Tuesday phone call next. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:07.720 It's awkward, It's Tuesday. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:14.680 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Some people in relationships enjoy 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:21.399 grand romantic gestures like surprise getaways, sending dozens of roses, 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:27.160 creating a life sized wax sculpture of your girlfriend, then 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:31.280 lighting it on fire because it's actually a giant scented candle. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:39.919 Just you and her and your house full of cranberry cinnamons. 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:42.040 That's better than burning hair. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:46.360 But you know what, stop the music real quick, because 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:50.799 not everybody wants that stuff. Like our listener Lindsay, who's 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:54.280 asking for our help today to tell her boyfriend chill 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:59.840 out with the romance. Lindsay, why do you insist on 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:02.240 pushing love away? 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:03.160 Hi? 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:06.440 Yeah, she's like, I don't know how to respond to that. 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:07.960 Nice to start a convo. 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:09.400 That's really funny, Lindsay. 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:11.840 Hi, Lindsay, So tell us what's going on with you 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:13.840 and your boyfriend? What's his deal? 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:18.520 So I've been dating Andre for about four months and 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:20.680 new relationship. 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:21.320 I see. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:24.960 That's the best part too. It's exciting clearly not for her. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:29.160 Yeah, well, I mean, listen, he's very sweet, he's romantic, 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:31.160 like he is a great guy. But like it's only 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:32.960 been four months, you know, it's still very early. 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:34.640 Yeah, okay it. 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:36.200 The other day he came up to me with this 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:39.400 idea that he wants to get a tattoo of my 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:40.880 name on his. 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:44.680 Leg on his leg not so do we go back 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:46.680 to the couple dozens of flowers? That's bad. 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:49.240 I mean, you could be together for twenty years and 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:50.560 still that's a sketchy ass. 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:53.400 Why why would he want to put Lindsay on his leg? 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.920 Okay, so this is also a red flag. He says 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.200 he wants other women to know that they can't have 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.640 him he's mine, which is, you know, nice, But. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:07.960 They only know if he's wearing shorts. 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:10.840 It could be on the kneecap brook. 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.200 Still, how do you see it underpants. 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:14.160 With a hole in your jeans? 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:19.040 I see right? Okay, so this is his way of 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:20.400 deterring other women. 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.200 Because he's obviously so desired. 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:24.800 God, but you're going to get a kick out of 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:27.440 this one though, because it's he wants to cover up 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:29.920 an old tattoo of a different girlfriend's name. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.640 Well, that's good, you don't want another girlfriend's name. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.599 Wait, but the first girlfriend's name didn't deter you. 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:42.520 I didn't know about that till a week ago. 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.880 Eye contact, everything above the belts. He is smart. 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:48.839 If you have another girl's name on your leg, you 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:51.280 should probably not tell a woman until two three years 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:52.240 into the relationship. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.680 How does this man not learn his mistake? Right, He's 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:00.400 already made the mistake once and now he he wants 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:01.080 to do it again. 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:05.080 Essentially, right, that's exactly what I'm saying, but now he's 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:07.440 already made an appointment, and I need to have a 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.160 serious conversation with him about this. 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:13.800 Okay, the appointment's been made. Yeah, wow, so you're not 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:16.440 into the idea, Like what is giving you so much 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:17.560 hesitation about it? 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:21.920 Like specifically, Well, one, it's way too early in the relationship. 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.440 It's four months, and I don't think that matters to him. 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:29.080 I think he likes to move quickly. I think it'll 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:31.640 make things really awkward and put way more pressure on 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.400 a relationship. It already is putting pressure on the relationship. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.440 Yeah, and there's like an obligation to stay together because 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:42.120 your name's tattooed in relays. 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:44.080 He said I love you yet No, Okay, that's good. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:47.400 He shouldn't have But you would think that he doesn't 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.640 have to say I love you when he can write 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:54.640 it getting tattooed, have you? 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.640 So it's wild that you haven't said no, that's not 0:05:57.720 --> 0:06:00.320 a good idea to me. Why Why have you just 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:01.320 told him that outright? 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:03.919 I just I don't want to crush him because he 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.160 is a sensitive guy and this is a big deal 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:09.160 for him. But he's already made this mistake once before. 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:10.680 I don't want to be another mistake. 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:12.760 I mean, I can understand that's the tough part, because 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:15.240 when somebody goes all out for you and puts their 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.440 entire heart into something and you come at them like 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.839 ew or that's weird or that's gross, like that could 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:22.680 totally crush something. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.840 It's just a terrible decision that he's already made once 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.240 and obviously regretted. So why would she let him do 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:28.600 it again? 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:33.080 Exactly? Those words would absolutely destroy him, said, maybe. 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:36.440 He needs to hear that sometimes the hard truth is 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:37.799 just what has to happen. 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:39.440 He thinks it's for her, but she doesn't want to 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:39.840 add all. 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:42.640 Yes, I think he's romanticizing it in his head. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:44.760 It's just so hard to call it romantic when it's 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.520 over the top of another woman's name. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:50.440 Yeah. So we haven't given our advice yet, but it 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:53.080 sounds like from the temperature in the room, it's going 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:54.400 to be pretty harsh. 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.320 I mean, we cover it in other ways. There's tons 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:58.000 of ways they cover a. 0:06:58.040 --> 0:07:01.000 Bad tattoos, but that's not the ro mantic way that 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.640 he wants to do. How do you like deliver that 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:07.640 message to him in a gentle way? Yeah, that doesn't 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:08.200 crush him. 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.600 That's what I'm trying to figure out right now. I 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:14.200 mean Tom gently, like Brooke, imagine if jaff got your 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:16.160 name tatted in his arm without asking. 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:19.200 You, we just have to cut the arm off. I 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:20.640 mean that would be the only solution. 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:22.920 I mean that would be extra weird because Brooke and 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:26.400 I aren't like romantically together or anything like that. I 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.560 don't want to get to show logo tatted that, but 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.559 it'd be a weird romantic gesture for someone you're not dating. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:37.000 That's not romantic. I just think tattoos should be like 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:40.840 a selfish thing, like whatever you want, not for someone else. 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:42.040 Got it? Yeah, I agree too. 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:45.720 Okay, So with that being said, Andre wants to do this, 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:50.520 maybe just for himself, oh so to prove to himself 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:54.840 how much he loves her. This is his own challenge, how. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:55.960 You love the last girl? 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:59.520 Yeah, I'm just curious. What was the last girl's name? 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.720 Tiffany? 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.160 That's good and they both why So there's that you 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:07.040 don't have to cover. 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:09.960 Easier for him. But we're gonna try to convince him 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:12.280 to not go through with that. When we come back. 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:14.920 Give you our advice and let you make your awkward 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:18.640 Tuesday phone call to your boyfriend to convince him not 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:20.640 to get a tattoo of your name on his leg. 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.080 Yes, this is to cover up his ex's name. 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:24.680 We're gonna skip that part. 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:25.239 It's important. 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.800 We'll do it right after this. Hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:30.720 It's Tuesday. 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:34.800 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. You've heard of the five 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:40.240 love languages, Well, tattooing people's names should be the sixth. Yeah, 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:43.640 because that's what our listener, Lindsay is dealing with. She 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:48.679 has a very romantic minded boyfriend named Andre, who, after 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:52.800 four months together, has told her I've made an appointment 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:56.120 to get a tattoo of your name on my leg. 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.200 So that's you know, I'm one hundred percent yours. 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:02.680 Yeah, okay, and it's also covering up the ex's name. Yeah. 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.760 Yeah, it's a good point to bring up. So Lindsey 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:08.280 thinks it's a little bit too soon to be doing this, 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.560 but regardless, she needs our help on how to tell 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:15.800 him gently that maybe this isn't the right time for 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:19.080 something like that, and perhaps we can convince him to 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:22.800 just think about it, or at least cancel his appointment. Okay, 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:25.400 So I'm interested to hear what my co hosts have 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:27.960 to say. Brooke, how would you crush a man's dreams? 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.800 This may be shocking to you, Lindsay, but I think 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:32.360 you tell him do it. 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:35.440 And dare him, and. 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:39.560 Then you follow it up with but do you know 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:43.280 what would be even more meaningful than my name? Is 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:48.160 something that we love together, like a symbol. Or maybe 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:52.120 you both love burritos or you love pickles. I'm thinking 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:55.120 long and fare with a lot of leaves. 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.200 What do you think about getting a case of rito 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:58.480 tattooed on both of you? 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:02.040 Lindsey, I'm not willing to get a tattoo. 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:04.640 No, I'm not telling you too. I'm just telling him 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:07.040 to choose one out of something that you both like, 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:09.760 so that when you break up, it's something he still likes. 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:15.880 Excuse not when they break up, they're going to be 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:16.720 together forever. 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:19.840 I'll that's not the vibe I'm getting. 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:24.439 No, I love that idea. That's good. 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.040 You still like him, You want to stay with him, 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.160 You just don't want him to get the name tattooed. So, Hose, 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:29.040 what's your advice? 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:32.480 I believe there's a compromise here that we start with 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:39.000 just one letter every year, right and maybe you start. 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:40.880 With an L okay, so he'll be Liphany for a 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.480 while because it's covering up the. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:47.400 For a couple of years that wave. You guys continue 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.360 to date. You can add a letter each year. 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:51.120 It's like a tradition. 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:54.040 Lindsay, what do you think that's cute? 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:57.080 I think that that's an idea and it's just like 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:00.560 a tally. Then it's not a crazy tattoos. 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:02.800 Have a big L tattooed on him at first, and 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.200 the second year is I, which is also the start 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:07.680 of his ex's name. Second letter, So that's good. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:08.160 That's good. 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:13.040 Yeah, yeah, it's like that. 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:15.960 I mean, that's the best advice that we've had all year. 0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:16.320 Wow. 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:19.479 Thanks, I'm on very low bar that reads out for ourselves. 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:22.199 But that's what we've got for you. Lindsay, you can 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:23.480 do what you want with it. But I'm going to 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.400 die your boyfriend's number right now and let you make 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:26.920 your awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:41.559 Are you ready? Yes? I'm ready. Hello, Hey, it's me. 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:45.960 How you doing? Hold day? Good? 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:49.440 Where are you calling from? 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.800 Oh? I just this different number I had to borrow 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:58.360 someone still on my phone, dive, It's fine. I'm curious 0:11:58.440 --> 0:11:59.960 how your day is going, what's what's up? 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:01.360 Good? 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:03.360 No, then like day go and getting things out. I 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.760 took out the garbage, so that's out there where you go? 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:08.840 You know, all right? How's you going to go on? 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.000 Then your phone dying? Obviously? 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.160 I know I need to bring a charger with me 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:17.960 everywhere I go, But I wanted to discuss something with 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:22.199 you real quick. Do you have time? Yeah? 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.079 I could take a break from pick out the trash 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:24.440 for good. 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:33.000 Yes, okay, thank you. So this tattoo idea that you 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:36.400 brought up to me the other day. 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:37.520 That I don't wait to get Trippany's name off me. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:41.840 Yeah, and I can't wait for you to stop saying 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:45.200 her name too. But I think maybe we could do 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:49.920 something a little more meaningful than my name, and maybe 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:53.640 you could get something like that we both love together, 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:58.200 like chips and caso crosses my mind, or how we 0:12:58.320 --> 0:13:01.880 both love Neopolitan stuff pizza. I think that could be 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:05.200 a cute tattoo that could definitely cover up her name. 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:09.880 What's the deal? You are you from drugs or something? 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:14.720 What's what? Why would you even say that? No? Because 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:15.600 I'm as cute. 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.560 It's cute and all, but it's like I want your 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:18.319 name on it so. 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:20.360 That everyone else knows I'm taken. I don't want them 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:25.479 to think I'm taken by chips and Caeso. 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:30.000 I understand that, But I think the biggest reason why 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:32.520 I'm bringing this up is that you don't even know 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:35.800 if you love me yet, so tattooing my name on 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:39.160 your body just seems like a really big jump. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:42.679 You know what I mean, Babe, you don't know if 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:43.640 I love you or not? 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:46.160 Are you serious? 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.720 Well, I mean, you haven't said it, so how would 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:50.080 I know. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:54.960 I mean, I'll say it right now on the phot 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.600 I love you, like it's been four months. Some people 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.480 just know, you know, it's just sorry. Like I thought, 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:02.400 with all the with everything that I've showing you and 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:04.920 done and putting, you know, wanted to tap to your name. 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:06.480 I felt like it was almost implied. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:12.360 But yeah, I love you, Okay, I this is how 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.199 you're going to say I love you for the first time. 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:17.280 We've been dating for four months. I think that four 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:20.520 months is a little too soon to be exclaiming love 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:21.800 for each other, don't you. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:25.680 But for some people just know, and I mean four months, 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:27.600 some people just know in less time than that, you know, 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:31.120 like do you have that feeling like you don't you 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:32.080 don't feel the same way. 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:37.200 Well, of course I feel that way. Yeah, but I'm 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:39.000 just trying to wrap my head around it. 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:42.480 Well what if you know, what if you wrap your 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:43.400 head around this? 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:45.320 What if. 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:48.000 You were my wife? 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:48.840 Oh? 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:52.160 What? 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:49.720 What? 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:54.080 What did you just say? 0:14:55.280 --> 0:15:00.200 Okay, all right, let's be one about it. Lin you 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:01.880 who you married? 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:01.960 Me? 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:05.320 Get the button? 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:08.680 So much earlier was waiting for the answer from Lindsay. 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:09.920 I think we know it? 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:12.640 Did he pass out? Andre? 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:13.360 Hello? 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:14.640 What's going on? 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:17.160 Who is this? Hey? 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:20.920 Andrea? H This is a radio show that you're on 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:22.880 right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:26.320 We have never heard so much done in one small conversation. 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:28.760 So we're on the radio right now. 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.400 Yes, that make it more romantic. 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:36.960 I mean, had I known, I would have planned better, but. 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:40.240 Or planned it all my friend? 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:42.960 Yeah, I mean yeah, you guys call me off garb 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:45.760 but whatever. Like I said it before, when you know, 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:48.320 you know, and some people just know when it's time, 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:49.600 like okay, you. 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:50.880 Are a spontaneous man. 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:51.360 Yeah. 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:55.040 I don't know how how Lindsay's feeling about this right now, Lindsay, 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:55.920 you're still there. 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.400 Yeah, I'm still here's. 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:03.320 Here for a second. That was a long time I was. 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.160 Okay, So there was a lot said there in the 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.240 last few minutes. You should probably just talk to Andre 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:11.880 about the feelings and the questions that are all coming 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:14.600 out at once, even though if we did trust. 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:18.920 Yeah, I think that's a good idea too, that would 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:19.400 be the time. 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:26.320 I mean, yeah, I didn't really necessarily hear an answer, so. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:27.840 The question still sticks. 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:31.960 I have to say no to. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.880 The chips and caeso. That's what you're saying no to, 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:37.280 lindsay every question, Jeff. 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:42.280 I think it's moving way too fast and it's starting 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:45.120 to freak me out a bit. And as much as 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:47.960 I adore you, I don't want to be just another 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:50.440 name touching on your body that you're trying to cover 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:51.200 up in the year. 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:56.280 Okay, So I think I get it. It's not necessarily 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:59.600 like a no, it's more like a not yet. 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:01.520 That's a positive spin. 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:03.920 You look at it that way. 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.240 Okay, to all the questions that have been posed today, 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:08.119 not yet. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:12.760 The tattoo, you, the L word, yeah. 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:16.080 Any other big moves you were thinking of making right now, Andre, Well, 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:17.800 we probably don't even want to go there. 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:20.399 Why are you trying to fast forward everything. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:22.399 I know, it's not like a garbage that you're taking 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:24.679 out really quickly. You want to take your time and 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:25.320 enjoy it. 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:28.320 I feel like these guys are trying to tell us 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:29.800 how to live our romantic life. 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:34.080 He's not wrong, we are We're trying to help them. 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:37.320 Truly, Lindsay came to us seeking advice on how to 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:40.159 have this conversation with you, because as much as she 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:44.640 really enjoys your relationship and likes you, Andre, a lot 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.320 of these steps are happening too quickly for her speed. 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:48.640 Yeah. 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.200 Absolutely, Okay, are you hearing her? 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:52.040 Andre? 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.000 Like I said, I'm all on the way. If if it, 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:56.520 that's what's going to lead to then and. 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:01.840 If you listen to how about tonight at home? You 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:05.240 get some not scho caso dip and some Neapolitan pizza 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:07.400 and you see what words come out of your mouth there. 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:09.960 But in the meantime, what am I supposed to do 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:10.800 with this Tiffany? 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:15.640 Probably stop mentioning. 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:16.440 Her first thing? 0:18:16.520 --> 0:18:18.360 Maybe just do a big black box on that one. 0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:19.600 Just wear pants man. 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:23.120 All right, we'll figure something else on the cover of them. 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:25.840 Look at that. What an understanding guy. 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:28.320 I hope you share pictures of it with us. 0:18:28.520 --> 0:18:31.919 Yeah, we'll definitely send pictures. 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.320 And Jeffrey in the morning. 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:43.800 That call definitely lived up to the billing. It was 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:47.480 certainly awkward. But you know what's going to be really 0:18:47.520 --> 0:18:50.119 awkward is if we check in in a few months 0:18:50.200 --> 0:18:53.880 and Andre's back together with Tiffany because he couldn't get her. 0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:56.360 Name off of her like I didn't even think about that. 0:18:57.320 --> 0:18:59.840 No, No, maybe he just felt like it was fake 0:19:00.119 --> 0:19:03.880 that point, or you only date Tiffany's yes. 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:07.200 Another There are a lot of options out there. Sorry, 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:08.760 Lindsay if you're listening. 0:19:08.440 --> 0:19:11.480 To Sorry Lindsay, but we did achieve a lot. We 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:16.480 got Andre to cancel his upcoming tattoo appointment. We sure, Yeah, 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:19.080 seemed like he was definitely backing off. We helped shut 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:22.880 down his marriage proposal, and we made him question whether 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:27.119