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Speaker 1: All right here it is a brand new episode for you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being on our second Date podcast.

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Speaker 1: We love that you're here. We're glad you found us.

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Speaker 1: It's in the morning, especially the official site you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: totally instead of the you know other stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and a lot of you find those first, but

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Speaker 2: then you make your way to us, and for that

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Speaker 2: we love you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you for finishing my thought. Yeah, it's almost

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Speaker 1: completely electus. All right, before we get to the new

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Speaker 1: Awkward Tuesday, what is a comment that you want to read?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Charlie's test us said, I'm traveling solo around Europe

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Speaker 2: for three months and have been listening to your podcast

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Speaker 2: in every country I visit. I now associate your episodes

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Speaker 2: with places I've been.

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Speaker 1: That's so cool. He's like, oh, I remember the Leading

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Speaker 1: Tower of Pisa. That's when, yeah, Jacqueline broke up with Bobby.

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Speaker 3: What's the coolest place you've ever laughed at us?

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 5: That's cool.

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Speaker 1: Well, I have a good, safe trip and we're all

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Speaker 1: slightly jealous. Yeah, let us know.

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Speaker 4: Where today is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and give us some hot travel tips. We're always

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Speaker 1: about that. All right, let's get your brand new Awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Right now, alexis, what's the most romantic thing a guy

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Speaker 3: has ever done for you?

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Speaker 4: Like a rose petal path, like a hot tub? Probably?

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Speaker 3: Whoa, Yeah, that was your reaction. You broke it off,

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Speaker 3: not immediately.

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Speaker 1: Accept it and remix to a song.

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Speaker 4: Hey they're Delilah, but hey they're Alexis.

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Speaker 1: That one bad? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You didn't like any of it?

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Speaker 1: No, same guy, dude.

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Speaker 3: Apparently you and our listener on the phone today are

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Speaker 3: very very similar because when her boyfriend of four months

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Speaker 3: told her the gesture that he'd been planning, her immediate

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Speaker 3: response was to try and stop him from doing it

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Speaker 3: at all costs. And that's where we come in. Can

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Speaker 3: we help convince this romeo to tone it down without

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Speaker 3: fully crushing his romantic spirit. We're gonna try on your

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Speaker 3: brand new awkward Tuesday phone call next.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Some people in relationships enjoy

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Speaker 3: grand romantic gestures like surprise getaways, sending dozens of roses,

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Speaker 3: creating a life sized wax sculpture of your girlfriend, then

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Speaker 3: lighting it on fire because it's actually a giant scented candle.

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Speaker 3: Just you and her and your house full of cranberry cinnamons.

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Speaker 1: That's better than burning hair.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, stop the music real quick, because

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Speaker 3: not everybody wants that stuff. Like our listener Lindsay, who's

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Speaker 3: asking for our help today to tell her boyfriend chill

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Speaker 3: out with the romance. Lindsay, why do you insist on

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like, I don't know how to respond to that.

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Speaker 6: Nice to start a convo.

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Speaker 1: That's really funny, Lindsay.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Lindsay, So tell us what's going on with you

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Speaker 3: and your boyfriend? What's his deal?

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Speaker 7: So I've been dating Andre for about four months and

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Speaker 1: I see.

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Speaker 3: That's the best part too. It's exciting clearly not for her.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, I mean, listen, he's very sweet, he's romantic,

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Speaker 7: like he is a great guy. But like it's only

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Speaker 7: The other day he came up to me with this

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Speaker 1: Leg on his leg not so do we go back

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Speaker 1: to the couple dozens of flowers? That's bad.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you could be together for twenty years and

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Speaker 1: Why why would he want to put Lindsay on his leg?

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Speaker 7: Okay, so this is also a red flag. He says

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Speaker 1: They only know if he's wearing shorts.

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Speaker 3: It could be on the kneecap brook.

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Speaker 1: Still, how do you see it underpants.

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Speaker 1: I see right? Okay, so this is his way of

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Speaker 3: Because he's obviously so desired.

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Speaker 7: God, but you're going to get a kick out of

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Speaker 7: this one though, because it's he wants to cover up

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Speaker 7: an old tattoo of a different girlfriend's name.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's good, you don't want another girlfriend's name.

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Speaker 1: Wait, but the first girlfriend's name didn't deter you.

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Speaker 7: I didn't know about that till a week ago.

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Speaker 3: Eye contact, everything above the belts. He is smart.

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Speaker 6: If you have another girl's name on your leg, you

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Speaker 1: How does this man not learn his mistake? Right, He's

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Speaker 7: Essentially, right, that's exactly what I'm saying, but now he's

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Speaker 3: Okay, the appointment's been made. Yeah, wow, so you're not

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Speaker 7: Like specifically, Well, one, it's way too early in the relationship.

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Speaker 7: It's four months, and I don't think that matters to him.

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Speaker 7: I think he likes to move quickly. I think it'll

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Speaker 7: a relationship. It already is putting pressure on the relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and there's like an obligation to stay together because

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Speaker 1: your name's tattooed in relays.

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Speaker 6: He said I love you yet No, Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 3: He shouldn't have But you would think that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: So it's wild that you haven't said no, that's not

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Speaker 7: I just I don't want to crush him because he

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Speaker 7: for him. But he's already made this mistake once before.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to be another mistake.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I can understand that's the tough part, because

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Speaker 1: It's just a terrible decision that he's already made once

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Speaker 3: Exactly? Those words would absolutely destroy him, said, maybe.

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Speaker 1: He needs to hear that sometimes the hard truth is

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Speaker 4: He thinks it's for her, but she doesn't want to

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Speaker 6: Yes, I think he's romanticizing it in his head.

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Speaker 1: It's just so hard to call it romantic when it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So we haven't given our advice yet, but it

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Speaker 4: I mean, we cover it in other ways. There's tons

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Speaker 3: Bad tattoos, but that's not the ro mantic way that

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Speaker 7: That's what I'm trying to figure out right now. I

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Speaker 7: mean Tom gently, like Brooke, imagine if jaff got your

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Speaker 1: You, we just have to cut the arm off. I

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Speaker 3: I mean that would be extra weird because Brooke and

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Speaker 3: I aren't like romantically together or anything like that. I

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Speaker 3: it'd be a weird romantic gesture for someone you're not dating.

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Speaker 1: That's not romantic. I just think tattoos should be like

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Speaker 1: a selfish thing, like whatever you want, not for someone else.

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Speaker 7: Got it? Yeah, I agree too.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So with that being said, Andre wants to do this,

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Speaker 3: maybe just for himself, oh so to prove to himself

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Speaker 4: You love the last girl?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just curious. What was the last girl's name?

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Speaker 1: That's good and they both why So there's that you

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Speaker 3: Easier for him. But we're gonna try to convince him

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Speaker 3: to not go through with that. When we come back.

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Speaker 3: Give you our advice and let you make your awkward

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Speaker 1: Yes, this is to cover up his ex's name.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna skip that part.

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Speaker 1: It's important.

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Speaker 3: We'll do it right after this. Hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. You've heard of the five

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Speaker 3: love languages, Well, tattooing people's names should be the sixth. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: because that's what our listener, Lindsay is dealing with. She

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Speaker 3: So that's you know, I'm one hundred percent yours.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good point to bring up. So Lindsey

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Speaker 3: So I'm interested to hear what my co hosts have

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Speaker 3: to say. Brooke, how would you crush a man's dreams?

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Speaker 1: This may be shocking to you, Lindsay, but I think

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Speaker 1: you tell him do it.

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Speaker 3: And dare him, and.

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Speaker 1: Then you follow it up with but do you know

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Speaker 1: what would be even more meaningful than my name? Is

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Speaker 1: something that we love together, like a symbol. Or maybe

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Speaker 1: you both love burritos or you love pickles. I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: long and fare with a lot of leaves.

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Speaker 3: What do you think about getting a case of rito

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Speaker 3: tattooed on both of you?

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Speaker 7: Lindsey, I'm not willing to get a tattoo.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not telling you too. I'm just telling him

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Speaker 1: to choose one out of something that you both like,

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Speaker 1: so that when you break up, it's something he still likes.

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Speaker 3: Excuse not when they break up, they're going to be

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Speaker 1: I'll that's not the vibe I'm getting.

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Speaker 7: No, I love that idea. That's good.

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Speaker 3: You still like him, You want to stay with him,

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Speaker 3: You just don't want him to get the name tattooed. So, Hose,

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Speaker 6: I believe there's a compromise here that we start with

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Speaker 6: just one letter every year, right and maybe you start.

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Speaker 1: With an L okay, so he'll be Liphany for a

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Speaker 1: while because it's covering up the.

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Speaker 3: For a couple of years that wave. You guys continue

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's the best advice that we've had all year.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, I'm on very low bar that reads out for ourselves.

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Speaker 7: Are you ready? Yes? I'm ready. Hello, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 5: Where are you calling from?

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Speaker 7: Oh? I just this different number I had to borrow

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Speaker 5: No, then like day go and getting things out. I

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Speaker 7: I know I need to bring a charger with me

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Speaker 7: Yes, okay, thank you. So this tattoo idea that you

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Speaker 5: That I don't wait to get Trippany's name off me.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I can't wait for you to stop saying

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Speaker 7: What's the deal? You are you from drugs or something?

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Speaker 5: That everyone else knows I'm taken. I don't want them

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean, Babe, you don't know if

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Speaker 7: But yeah, I love you, Okay, I this is how

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Speaker 5: But for some people just know, and I mean four months,

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Speaker 5: Well what if you know, what if you wrap your

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Speaker 7: What if.

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Speaker 3: You were my wife?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 7: What did you just say?

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, let's be one about it. Lin you

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Speaker 7: Me?

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Speaker 6: Get the button?

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Speaker 3: So much earlier was waiting for the answer from Lindsay.

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Speaker 4: I think we know it?

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Speaker 1: Did he pass out? Andre?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 5: What's going on?

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Speaker 7: Who is this? Hey?

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Speaker 3: Andrea? H This is a radio show that you're on

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Speaker 1: We have never heard so much done in one small conversation.

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Speaker 5: So we're on the radio right now.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that make it more romantic.

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Speaker 3: I mean, had I known, I would have planned better, but.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean yeah, you guys call me off garb

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Speaker 1: Are a spontaneous man.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Here for a second. That was a long time I was.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that's a good idea too, that would

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Speaker 3: The question still sticks.

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Speaker 7: I have to say no to.

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Speaker 3: The chips and caeso. That's what you're saying no to,

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Speaker 7: I think it's moving way too fast and it's starting

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Speaker 7: I adore you, I don't want to be just another

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Speaker 5: Okay, So I think I get it. It's not necessarily

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Speaker 1: That's a positive spin.

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Speaker 7: You look at it that way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, to all the questions that have been posed today,

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Speaker 1: The tattoo, you, the L word, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Any other big moves you were thinking of making right now, Andre, Well,

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Speaker 3: I know, it's not like a garbage that you're taking

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Speaker 5: I feel like these guys are trying to tell us

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Speaker 1: He's not wrong, we are We're trying to help them.

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Speaker 3: Truly, Lindsay came to us seeking advice on how to

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely, Okay, are you hearing her?

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Speaker 1: Andre?

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Speaker 5: Like I said, I'm all on the way. If if it,

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Speaker 3: If you listen to how about tonight at home? You

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Speaker 5: But in the meantime, what am I supposed to do

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Speaker 3: Probably stop mentioning.

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Speaker 5: All right, we'll figure something else on the cover of them.

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Speaker 3: Look at that. What an understanding guy.

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: That call definitely lived up to the billing. It was

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Speaker 3: and Andre's back together with Tiffany because he couldn't get her.

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Speaker 1: Name off of her like I didn't even think about that.

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Speaker 3: No, No, maybe he just felt like it was fake

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Speaker 3: To Sorry Lindsay, but we did achieve a lot. We

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Speaker 3: and we could do the same Wonders on your blossoming

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: One involving tattoos, Okay, we'll say that. Go find us

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Speaker 3: wherever you get them at Brooke and Jeffrey