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She incorporates 25 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: her experiences in British traditional witchcraft with her horticulture studies. 26 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 1: She is a clinical a mirror therapist and is an 27 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: ordained wick and high priestess. Her company is called Blackthorn 28 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: Who Do Blends. She creates tea based on old hood 29 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: herbal formulas. Amy, welcome to the program. Thank you so much, 30 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: thank you for having me. Hey, what is who do 31 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: we know? What voodoo is? What is? Who do? Who do? 32 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: Is American folk magic? So voodoo is the religion, uh 33 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: that's brought out of West Africa? And who do is 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: American folk magic? By the way, in all respect, you're 35 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: a witch? Right? Yes? Yes, which I identify as a witch. 36 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: I've practiced wica identify as a witch. You don't get 37 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: a ended when people say you're a witch. No, no, 38 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: no no no. I identify as a witch. I love 39 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: that word, which I really embrace that word wholeheartedly. People 40 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: say you know wick wick in you know, I'm not 41 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: sure you know, people will know right away when you 42 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: say which they know right what that means. What's the 43 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: makeup company? Was it Sephora? Yeah? Yeah? Did then they 44 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: make some kind of witch kit and apparently they ran 45 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: into trouble. Oh they did so many people got really 46 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: really angry about it. Uh so much so that the 47 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: company they paired with, Penrose said, you know what, we 48 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: we made a mistake. My band were totally not going 49 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: to do this. Uh. They back pedaled so hard there 50 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: were skid marks in the street over this. Um. They 51 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: backed up. They said, no, no, we're not going to 52 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: do this. We we were going to pair with the 53 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: Native American company. If we were going to do this, 54 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: we were going to do that. We we were going 55 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: to do so many really great things. But we hear 56 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: you were not going to do this. We're going to 57 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: back off. Um. A lot of people were really angry 58 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: about it. So we're not going to do that. We're 59 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 1: going to back up. A lot of people don't understand 60 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 1: that Wicka is a religion from people who truly are 61 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: into this, and they're good people. Absolutely. I get a 62 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: lot of questions from people who say, you know, are 63 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: you a good witch? Are you a bad? Which? You know? 64 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: Are you? Are you a good Presbyterian? Are a bad Presbyterian? 65 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: The Wizard of Oz in Hollywood did this to us, 66 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: They really did. Yeah, it makes for good TV to 67 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: you know, the good guys against the bad guy. I 68 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: was going to ask you to cackle for us to 69 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: I get that a lot. You know, my my normal 70 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: laugh is much more betty rubble than the right. What 71 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: do you dress up as for Halloween? By the way, 72 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: I dress up of myself. You know. I get a 73 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: nice robe, going on a hand out candy to the 74 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: neighborhood kids, the ones that allowed to come to the house. 75 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: That is, you have a tall hat? I do you 76 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: do in it? It's nice and well it keeps me 77 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: warm at night. If you have a broom, mom out 78 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: of there. I do have a broom, and you don't. 79 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: I do have a broom. Which is do use brooms? 80 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: Does it fly? It doesn't fly for cleansing our space. 81 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: It's good for keeping the cobwebs out of the corners. 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: But my neighbors did find out I was a witch. 83 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 1: Um I didn't hide it. It It wasn't a secret. Did 84 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: they freak out? They totally freaked out. Oh my god. 85 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: Uh so they freaked out, they lost their minds um. 86 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: And now the neighborhood kids aren't allowed to trick or 87 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: treat at my house. Well, you know, I'm thinking back 88 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: what it would be like. You know, I had three 89 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: kids still do and each eachs to and I'm wondering 90 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: if we had lived next to what we would think 91 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,239 Speaker 1: was a witch all we knew at that time. And 92 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: this is you know, back years ago. You know, to us, 93 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: witchcraft was again what Hollywood portrayed us. You know, you 94 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: think of you know, hand Zell and Gretel in the 95 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: Gingerbread Witch and um, the Wizard of Oz witch, you know, 96 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: the evil one and stuff. That's what Hollywood did to us. 97 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: So a lot of a lot of people, I think, 98 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: confuse witch craft, the good witchcraft Wicka with Satan worshippers 99 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: by mistake, don't you really, especially after the Satanic panic 100 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: in the the at late seventies and early eighties. Yes, 101 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: you know, the neighborhood people are going to put needles 102 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,559 Speaker 1: in your candy or razor blades and your Halloween candy. 103 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 1: You gotta take it to the police. You have to 104 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 1: have an X rayed. No one can eat anything. There 105 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: might be drugs. And now especially it still happens today. 106 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: You know, your your pothead neighbors are going to put 107 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 1: edibles and well, by the way, some whack job in 108 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: Australia is putting needles in strawberries. Oh my god, what 109 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: people are biting into strawberries, you know, slicing their tongue 110 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: in their mouths and what people are nuts? People really 111 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: are nuts. You know, it's still happens today. So my 112 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 1: neighbors find out I'm a witch, and and it's awful. 113 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: It's just you know, I haven't done anything to my 114 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: I haven't done anything. I haven't, you know. I try 115 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: and I donate to this pc A. I try and 116 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: help out my neighbors. I people people are that way. 117 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: They don't understand what it is. So tell us first 118 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: of all, and we're going to get into a lot 119 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 1: of things you do, especially how you got into it. 120 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: But give us your definition of wicca. Wika is working 121 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: in concert with the gods, the goddesses, the nature around you, 122 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: celebrating you know, the nature and spirits within yourself, and 123 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 1: really working in concert with not just nature but the 124 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: people around you and developing that nature spirits and celebrating 125 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: eight holidays out of the year at the wheel of 126 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,119 Speaker 1: the year. And you believe in a male female god, 127 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: right right right, got in got us, lady in consort um, 128 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: a lot of balance, a lot of female and male balance. 129 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: In British traditional witchcraft. Uh, it's God and got us. 130 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: You know, each each coven, each tradition has a specific 131 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: God and got us that they worshiped and they recognize. Now, 132 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: how did you get involved in this? Little girl? Were 133 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: you raised traditionally in a religious background? And then what happened? No? No, no, 134 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: my my parents actually we were sent to the closest 135 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: church that was nearest to us. Um, you know, depending, 136 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: we moved a lot. What was the religion we were 137 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: We were raised Christian, my mother was raised Catholic and 138 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: my father was raised Baptist. So it was it was 139 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: because they were different faiths. It was what whoever was 140 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: closest to us. So I real I've found this because 141 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: I was a nosy little sister, very very stilly. Um. 142 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: I was eleven and my sister was fourteen, and she 143 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: came home whisper, whisper. We shared a bed for him. 144 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: She came home with her best friend Christine and kicked 145 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: me out of the bedroom. And being the younger sister, 146 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: the very first thing that you can do to ensure 147 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: that you're younger sister is very interested in whatever you're 148 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: doing is to make sure that you tell her you 149 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: can't be here. Okay, that's right, You'll sneak back in 150 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: or do whatever you have to do. So I found 151 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: a very popular book on Wicka wicka golly solitary practitioner 152 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: by Scott Cunningham, hidden in her book bag, way in 153 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: the back where no one would look if they just 154 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: happened to open it. What was the cover like, Oh, 155 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: it's very beautiful. It's purple, and there's trees and there's 156 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: a woman's figure in a long white gown. So very respectful, Oh, 157 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: very respectful. She's she's holding some ceremonial items and she's 158 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: walking around the woods and it looks all very ethereal 159 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: So I read that in just a minute. I just 160 00:08:56,320 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: devoured it. So you were really into went at that age, Oh, 161 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: very because it's very empowering. You know, magic is agency. 162 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: Magic says that you don't have to accept whatever cruddy 163 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: thing that happens in your life and you have the 164 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 1: power to change it. Did you understand the book? Oh? Yeah, 165 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 1: I was a voracious reader even you know, at eleven 166 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: years old, I'd read anything i'd get my hands on. 167 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: At what point did your sister realize that you did this? Oh? 168 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: She still doesn't know to this day. She probably does now. Well, 169 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: see as soon as she the interview, she'll know. Um. 170 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: I still have never told her this story. So did 171 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: she end up practicing wicca? Oh? Absolutely? Um. As a 172 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 1: matter of fact, I at fifteen decided to tell it's time. 173 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell my parents. So I agonized, you know, 174 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: in that way that only teenagers can can agonize over things. 175 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: So I agonized for weeks. I'm gonna tell. I'm gonna 176 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 1: tell Mom, and then i'm gonna tell I'm gonna tell 177 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: my stepdad, and I'm gonna I made this big action 178 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: in your head. So I charge into the kitchen and 179 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: my mom's cooking dinner. I say, okay, Mom, I'm much 180 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: and I'm waiting for this inevitable for the shooter drop right, okay, 181 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 1: And she says, oh, okay, did you tell her? Did 182 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: you tell your dad? Yeah? But they didn't understand even 183 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: then what what a witch was, did they? But she 184 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: thinks that that, you know, I'm fifteen and it's a phase, 185 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: so she knows that if she makes a big to 186 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 1: do about it, then I'll just you're going to immerse 187 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: yourself in it even more. Exactly, I don't know this 188 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: because I'm fifteen and everything's the end of the world. 189 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 1: How did you and how did your friends react when 190 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: you told them about this at school or did you 191 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: keep it a secret? I they knew before I told 192 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 1: my parents, my mom, dad, You're close friends, so my 193 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 1: close friends knew. Now were they interested in signing up 194 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: with you? One or two friends were interested because again 195 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: that this wasn't the era of Charmed and Buffy the 196 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: Vampire Slayer and you know the nineties have that. You know, 197 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: there's there were so many it was exactly it was 198 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: the thing to do. So all the cool kids, you know, 199 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: are going to dress up in black and watch the 200 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: craft way too many times. At what point, Amy, did 201 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: you start to get really involved in it and even 202 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 1: a little more professional with it. My mother was so 203 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: excited once she started telling her girlfriend. Your mother, my 204 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: mother was this was this was casche for her. This 205 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: was emotional. This is the Catholic mother. Yes, so she 206 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: started telling. She had me tell her first girlfriend, Mickey. Oh, 207 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 1: I have to tell Mickey, but it's not my thing 208 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 1: to tell. So so you tell her? Okay, and how 209 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: old are you? Then? So I go and tell Mickey 210 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 1: were you know Mickey's having a barbecue. She wants me 211 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: to tell Mickey. I tell me I'm a witch. Mickey, 212 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm a witch. Mickey thinks is the cutest thing ever. 213 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: We're in the suburbs in Baldware County. It's great. Everyone 214 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: thinks this is this is adorable. I'm sure this is 215 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: this is great fun behind my back because I'm fifteen 216 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: and everyone thing. I had an of course, so the 217 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 1: next the next person in line for mom to tell. Now, 218 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: Mom can tell someone else because it's now out there. 219 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: So Mom tells her best friend, Melanie, who is the 220 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: Bee's Knees. I love Melanie to this day. She's she's 221 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: the coolest person ever. Melanie responds with the biggest grin 222 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: on her face and says, oh, my goodness, me too. Mom. 223 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: You could have knocked my mother over with a feather. 224 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: She did not. She didn't think this would ever happen 225 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: like that exactly. She's she was waiting for someone to 226 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: giggle about this of her mimosas with not you know, 227 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: she never she never thought she'd find someone who would, 228 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,319 Speaker 1: you know, be roped into this thing. She just thought 229 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 1: she'd have someone to giggle about it with. Now, how 230 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: did you get as you got older into this? Not 231 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 1: that you're old, but as you got more years into this? 232 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: Did you have a mentor somebody who taught you these things? 233 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: Or did you learn everything on your own? A little 234 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: bit of both. So, once Melanie knew, Mom decided that 235 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: I could go and spend nights with Melanie and we 236 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: went to the local witchy store around the corner from 237 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: Melanie's house. You had a local store like that? Oh yeah, 238 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: all right, there's there's actually a lot of them. Uh. 239 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: So we started going to open circles at the shop 240 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: around the corner from Melanie's house in Baltimore Bullbooking Candle 241 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 1: named after the old Kimney back movie Adorable. Um so 242 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: there were there was an operating coven out of the shop, 243 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: and I I was seventeen at the time, and I 244 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 1: was able to go there to the open circles with 245 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: Melanie for a year until I turned eighteen, because until 246 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: you're eighteen, no, we'll talk to you. You have to 247 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: have a parent, a guardian, somebody there to hold your hands. 248 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: You're still technically a minor under eighteen right at that 249 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: at that point, so I had to have somebody with me. 250 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: I had to have someone there to prove what I'm 251 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: doing because of the legal law ability. I had to 252 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: have someone to make sure that I was okay, that 253 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: I was there, that I was being safe, because the 254 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: way the law is written, they can't talk to you. 255 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: If they can't, they can't be there. If someone's teenage 256 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: daughter had come in by themselves and decided, Hey, I 257 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: want to be a witch, I'm gonna come in. I'm 258 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 1: gonna tell my daughter. I'm gonna tell my parents that 259 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping over at Susie's house, and Susie's going to 260 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: tell her mom that I'm that she's sleeping over at 261 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: my house. Going to happen? Is it right? Because if 262 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: they had found out, then it's that that old adage 263 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: about corrupting a minor, corrupt those corrupting influences. Well, and 264 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: plus they don't get what witchcraft is like that there's 265 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: there's no way. There's absolutely no way. There's no matter 266 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: how many times you try and say, this is a 267 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: religious I mean, I know, for example, if if as kids, 268 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: if we knew the local lady across the street was 269 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: a witch, I mean, we'd go there on Halloween and 270 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: have a great time, but during the rest of the months, 271 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: we would be afraid of you. Exactly, no matter how 272 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 1: nice my face is, no matter how many times I 273 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: try and explain, you know, I'm a nice person. You know, 274 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: I I help out at the at the soup kitchen. 275 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: No matter what I try and do, I'm always going 276 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: to be there's always going to be that that suspect 277 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: you're always labeled. Exactly, there's there's never going to be 278 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: away for me to try and overcome that stigma, except 279 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: to be myself and try and make that over overcoming. 280 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: Listen to more Coast to Coast a m every weeknight 281 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: at one a m. Eastern and go to Coast to 282 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 1: Coast am dot com for more