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Speaker 1: Talk's talk.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: to talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of

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Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and

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Speaker 3: these hosts. It's your co host a j. Holiday.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Tam Bam?

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Speaker 4: Whose boys? Who the fuck was that? What's y'all? It's

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Speaker 4: Samantha Nice.

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Speaker 1: Everybody. Nobody wants to fuck Grinny's pussy. Remember the episode, Yo,

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Speaker 1: that's the best character, Samantha. I'm good, y'all.

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Speaker 3: We had a wonderful weekend, y'all. Just the podcast batties

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Speaker 3: link up.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: We did Poor minds uh segment on their show and

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Speaker 3: shop this weekend if you missed it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they had a live show this weekend. It's Charlotte,

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Speaker 2: you guys for Richard for Poor Too, And we got

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Speaker 2: to come out and do a segment with them, and

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Speaker 2: then we hung out. It was so much fun. I'm

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Speaker 2: so proud of them. I'm so happy for them. I

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Speaker 2: can't wait for us to start doing our lives.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, absolutely, y'all coming to see you, They coming, they come.

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Speaker 3: I'm summoning everybody. It's a summons. Yes, I'm summoning everybody,

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Speaker 3: but y'all. Okay, So y'all, that was Friday night. Saturday night,

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Speaker 3: I couldn't move. I was bedridden, couch written. I don't

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Speaker 3: know how many shots I took on Friday night.

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Speaker 1: It was ridiculous. I'm embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: It was a lot. I think I might have seventeen.

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Speaker 3: I swear they just kept coming, and I'm like, when

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Speaker 3: when is it going to stop? And it's like niggas

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Speaker 3: like putting the ship to your face. Damn, They're like

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Speaker 3: putting a little shot, little rack thing like to your face.

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Speaker 4: Right, you know what.

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Speaker 2: Saturday morning, I got up. I was up early, and

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Speaker 2: I think I was still drunk, so I just poured

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Speaker 2: but to not get sick. So the people who section

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Speaker 2: we were with, they all lived in my building, so

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Speaker 2: we went back to their place. Well, I went back

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Speaker 2: to their place. It was a group of us, and

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Speaker 2: it was a bunch of guys in me and I

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Speaker 2: cook breakfast for everybody.

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Speaker 4: Oh it ain't no train.

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Speaker 2: It was just a bacon and eggs, bitch. And then

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Speaker 2: I went back to my house and toast. I made

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Speaker 2: and then I came back home, so I ate. So

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Speaker 2: that was the best thing I did. I ate before

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Speaker 2: I went to bed, and then Saturday morning, I got

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Speaker 2: it from pour me another drink because I had to

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Speaker 2: go to work. So I didn't want to be hungover.

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Speaker 2: Sick or hungover. You know, the hair of the dog,

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Speaker 2: that bitch you. You got to bite it back. So I

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Speaker 2: beat it back and took my work Saturday. But Saturday

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Speaker 2: night I was supposed to go to usc UNC football

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Speaker 2: game here and Charlotte was.

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Speaker 4: A big deal.

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Speaker 1: Oh damn, I missed that too.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't go.

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Speaker 2: I had a ticket and didn't make it because that's

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Speaker 2: when I crashed afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Saturday, Nah, man, that was terrible. And I feel like

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Speaker 1: even Sunday I was still kind of down bad.

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Speaker 3: Like I keep saying this, like my body really does

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Speaker 3: not process alcohol to say anymore, Like I can't really

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Speaker 3: drink it don't matter. And matter of fact, I don't

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Speaker 3: drink Costa migos. That might be one of the things, right,

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Speaker 3: Costa egos. I put that like right along with patrol now,

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Speaker 3: like it just makes me feel really bad. So I

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Speaker 3: really just like, you know, don Juli always going to

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Speaker 1: I was through. I was done, but I hung out

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Speaker 1: a little bit on Sunday and shit, that's it. That's all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't do nothing.

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Speaker 1: So we had a good time with the girls, poor ladies.

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Speaker 2: My sister. That was a lot of fun. Let's get

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Speaker 2: into stupid internet.

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Speaker 1: So a couple mentions.

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Speaker 3: So Krishan Rock had her baby. She had the baby

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Speaker 3: on live. She named her son Krishan. Okay, sitting and

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Speaker 3: you know, happy for them, like her mom was on

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Speaker 3: live crying boohoo that God, thank you God. When the

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Speaker 3: baby came out, she was crying. It was a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of people like, oh why yeah,

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Speaker 1: sharing all you shit on that internet. They share a

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Speaker 3: Anyway, what's the difference, right, she should have got a

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Speaker 3: check for it though she is Instagram pain is Instagram pain.

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Speaker 2: She may have you don't know, I hope. So what's

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Speaker 2: the point if you're not getting paid to show all

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Speaker 2: of that? So she did right over three hundred thousand

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Speaker 2: people watching her get burned.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know if I want that much energy

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Speaker 3: Like I want to do it in the house. I

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Speaker 3: That's how I look at her spirit. Absolutely and hopefully

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Speaker 3: I kind of have enough money to have Eric Ibadu

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Speaker 3: is my Duela by then, So I got shit.

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Speaker 1: I have a no kid. If I don't have a

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Speaker 1: baby by forty one, it's over with.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's be very very very clear, like I gotta

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Speaker 3: get pregnant in the next two years. If I don't,

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Speaker 3: I just want a yacht mansion and Barbados.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't and you wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: Buy me a kid. I'll buy me a kid, Yes,

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of black kids in particular that are

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Speaker 3: stuck yet are stuck in the system, and we side

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Speaker 3: eye white people right when they walk around with black babies,

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Speaker 3: or why aren't we adopting our kids, you know, so

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Speaker 3: they don't get their crummy.

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Speaker 1: Paws on them anyway.

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Speaker 2: Because you know, some of you can get black babies

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Speaker 2: a loving home as long as they go to a

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Speaker 4: I won't.

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Speaker 2: I would prefer a black baby to be in a

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Speaker 2: black home, But as long as they're in the home

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Speaker 2: and not in the system that's loving, I'm okay with it.

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Speaker 1: I might adopt a white baby, all right.

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Speaker 2: So the next story, let's talk about Erica and Spicy.

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Speaker 2: I really want to talk about.

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Speaker 4: This because.

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Speaker 1: Don't you ignore me?

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Speaker 4: Right the fuck along.

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Speaker 2: So, Erica Minna got fired from Love and Hip Hop

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Speaker 2: Atlanta after calling Spice her cats make a race and

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Speaker 2: here we can say it to call her a blue

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Speaker 2: And you know, they aired it on the show. And

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Speaker 2: then after they aired it on the show, you know,

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Speaker 4: So, uh, what's her name? Mona Mona, Mona Scott, Mona

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Speaker 2: She she said, handled and fired Erica Mina for that

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Speaker 2: racist slur, And how do you.

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Speaker 1: That's only that's a yeah.

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Speaker 3: The only fake part about that is that we know

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Speaker 3: these things are pre recorded, right y'all been know she

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Speaker 3: said this wild ship. I also a sudden I saw

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Speaker 3: another post that said more is going to be unfolding

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Speaker 3: in the next.

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Speaker 4: Couple episodes, the next right episodes.

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Speaker 3: Unless she's been fired and they're just now telling the

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Speaker 3: world she's fired. To keep playing with this thing, like

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Speaker 3: the world we're just now seeing this recording. But she

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Speaker 3: been said the dumb shit.

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Speaker 2: But it's not nice to call anybody a monkey. Erica

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Speaker 2: Minna included, Spike included.

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Speaker 3: And the way she was trying to say it, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she definitely was trying to say it to be disparaging.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, I but I can understand why.

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Speaker 2: First of all, y'all, y'all just took it too far,

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Speaker 2: both of y'all. Spice didn't have to bring up her

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Speaker 2: you're just doing it to be very hurtful. And this

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Speaker 2: was someone who was worth your friend, Like why would

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Speaker 2: You know, Like, so I just figured, you know, you

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Speaker 2: that was to that woman. You know, maybe her relationship

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Speaker 4: They know that, and they using it again. Yeah, that's ugly,

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Speaker 4: that's ugly.

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Speaker 1: You know, that was nasty.

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Speaker 3: So the Internet was like, oh, she shouldn't have talked

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Speaker 3: She talked about the relationship parents. She talked about her parenting.

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Speaker 3: So that hit her in a sore spot. Especially if

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Speaker 3: you know, like this is a vulnerable spot, vulnerable spot

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Speaker 3: for me, like what type of person are you to

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Speaker 3: ass fucking wrong, and Erica didn't have no real rebuttal

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Speaker 4: Went She didn't talk about her her parents, her sthetics.

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Speaker 2: Maybe Spice is a better mom than her, you know,

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Speaker 2: so she couldn't go to that space. So she talked

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Speaker 2: can't sit here and say that Erica said that Spice

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Speaker 4: Woman that she was arguing with, or was it specific

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Speaker 1: So several people, like somebody in particular, I saw Jesse Woo.

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Speaker 3: Jesse Woo was saying that Erica has done this a

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Speaker 3: lot of times, Like this is the first time that

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Speaker 3: she's called somebody a racial slur. And I don't know

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Speaker 3: if she's Puerto Rican or Dominican, but if she's Dominican,

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Speaker 3: we already know how they feel about hatit is. And

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Speaker 3: they on they share the same fucking island, you know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like those people don't consider themselves black,

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Speaker 3: but they are. You know what I'm saying, y'all really

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Speaker 3: were are the blacks who got violated? Actually you know so?

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Speaker 3: And they keep that running thing. They're running racism within

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Speaker 3: your same culture and same race. They keep it going.

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Speaker 3: But it's more so colorism. I guess that's how people feel.

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Speaker 3: It's not her really being racist, it's her being showing colorism.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, I don't think that Spice looks like

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Speaker 3: a monkey, right, I don't think she looks like a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my heart goes down to ladies. It's hurtful. I'm

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Speaker 2: sure it's hurtful for Spice to be called a monkey,

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Speaker 2: because you know, dark skinned women in this country have

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Speaker 2: our light skinned kind of parts. So that's hurtful. So

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Speaker 2: they were just going for the juggler with each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and it's just ugly to see, you know, let's start

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Speaker 2: living to turn more and.

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Speaker 3: See after something like that, Like, how y'all be friends again?

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Speaker 3: If y'all come to blows belts and shit like that, how.

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Speaker 1: Do you be friends again?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You can't.

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Speaker 1: I remember. Look, I remember an old friend of mine

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Speaker 1: like that. Bitch. No never, mom, let me even go there, y'all. Next,

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Speaker 3: But yeah, like, it's real hurtful to hear some crazy

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Speaker 3: you always wanted to say that to me.

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Speaker 1: Bitch you never liked me.

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Speaker 2: Because you would want to hurt me like that.

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Speaker 4: Yes, get so moving right along.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about Kanye and Hiss.

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Speaker 1: This is so old. I've been seeing that pitch. I've

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Speaker 3: I don't know when Charlamagne No started playing with him

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Speaker 3: and Donelle Rollins. Now it's like all over the internet.

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Speaker 3: But y'all, y'all ain't on Kanye Instagram page. He got

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Speaker 3: I be on. I've been seeing that bookie. I sent

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Speaker 1: No, it's his name.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of like the letters are jumbled up, but

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Speaker 3: it's his page. And then he has another one that's

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Speaker 3: just Geezy.

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Speaker 1: Why is why?

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Speaker 4: Why I don't follow?

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Speaker 2: But it was so funny because I just don't. It's

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Speaker 4: But just to see his little booty out, I mean

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Speaker 1: It was so staged. Kanye got a problem. You hear me?

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Speaker 4: Right there?

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Speaker 3: Dog, This is Kanye West on a boat in France

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Speaker 1: Right where she is clearly like down and he's sitting

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Speaker 1: I just can't get it in my head like Nigga wants.

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Speaker 1: When I saw it, I was like, Yo, this nigga's tripping.

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Speaker 4: Why need get your dig suck on a boat in

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Speaker 2: I would like if I was with my nigga, who's

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Speaker 2: fuck that was.

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Speaker 4: Black quick, let me just.

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Speaker 1: Let me lick itt me, let me lick it, Let

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Speaker 4: Right, it's not that hot. Have you been sing so?

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Speaker 3: But but listen, they're saying that Uh Kanye and his

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Speaker 4: They ain't got the only boat company who cares, right, y'all.

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Speaker 4: They got the only boats.

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Speaker 1: I would have been trying to take the pictures. I

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Speaker 2: Whoever got the pictures got some money for that. You

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Speaker 2: know you're talking about if you driver, well the driver

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Speaker 4: He can't be like looking back at nobody getting the dicks.

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Speaker 3: Kanye had one of his people take that picture down.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no way this nigga just got his little brown

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Speaker 4: On there's no way he wanted to be out in

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Speaker 1: But did you not see the other picture when his

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Speaker 4: No send it.

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Speaker 1: Not the whole, not the whole dick, but it's like

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Speaker 1: his whole. You could see his dickhead print in his past.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what is up with Kanye?

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Speaker 2: What is this?

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Speaker 3: You know everybody be saying the nigga got cloned? I

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Speaker 3: still feel Kanye's presence. Maybe they got him locked in

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I have not heard that.

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Speaker 3: The whole internet is a lot of people saying Kanye down,

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Speaker 3: got cloned child. Let me find his damn picture.

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Speaker 2: I feel like she don't never look safe in the eyes.

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Speaker 2: She always looks scared for her life to me, like

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Speaker 2: she's gonna share about her life.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she's a new handler. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what. I don't know what Kanye got going on,

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Speaker 1: but I hope he come back.

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Speaker 4: I want I want him to get with uh the sister.

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Speaker 3: No, while we gotta be saving niggas all the time,

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Speaker 3: why we got to bring niggas back.

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Speaker 2: I want Kanye to be like, yeah, excuse me, mister

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Speaker 2: Rainey I'm going to marry your daughter, remember that, like

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Speaker 2: that verse?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, nah, it's gone.

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Speaker 2: I miss mister old Kanye.

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Speaker 3: I mean, okay, another way I look at it is like, no,

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Speaker 3: he ain't saying much, but he's saying a lot, Like

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Speaker 3: Kanye just got his ass on the internet.

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Speaker 2: Dog.

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Speaker 3: We haven't heard from him since last June. Maybe like

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Speaker 3: we haven't heard from Kanye in a very long time.

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Speaker 3: He's been m I a since, like at least the

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Speaker 3: beginning of this year, right for someone. No, I love Kanye,

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 4: Too, but I want to hear music. I don't want

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Speaker 4: to hear this ship. This ship is like.

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Speaker 2: You know, I want to hear music. I want to

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Speaker 2: hear quality music. I don't want to see his bookie

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Speaker 1: We ain't talk about Kanye in no more. We ain't

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Speaker 1: talk about Kanye.

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Speaker 2: We're not gonna talk about him no more this year

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Speaker 2: unless he do something else spectacular.

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Speaker 1: He always does spectacular.

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Speaker 4: I'm confused.

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Speaker 1: Moving right along anyway.

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Speaker 2: Y'all will be right back with our special guests from

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Speaker 2: the Professional Homegirl Podcast. Ey y'all, We're gonna talk all

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Speaker 2: things friendship, love, sex, So stay tuned.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be a good conversation, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Y'all listen, we have label meat. We talked back today.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to death Row with these three sixty podcast deals. Y'all,

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Speaker 3: we got artists formerly known as Ebane Okay, the Professional Homegirl.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, thank you so much for having me. Welcome

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Speaker 4: to the show. I know, I'm super excited.

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Speaker 2: Finally we got you.

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Speaker 4: Finally.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if Tam shirt is with AJ, but

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Speaker 2: I reached out to the show in twenty twenty one

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Speaker 2: because I wanted to be a guest, and so here

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Speaker 2: we are now, which is like amazing, So thank you

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Speaker 2: once again.

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Speaker 4: Full circle moment.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I seen it. I

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Speaker 1: seen it. I remember, I remember, no, no, no, I remember.

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Speaker 3: Seeing you because when people send messages, like especially in

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Speaker 3: do it and go.

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Speaker 1: But I remember when Tam was like, yeah, she said

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Speaker 1: she messaged us before, girl, I remember. I'm sorry, No

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Speaker 1: I did, though, I remember seeing it.

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Speaker 3: But it'd be a lot of messages, a lot of

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Speaker 1: Ship with you trying to figure it out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well listen, like it was Freshut what did you say,

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Speaker 2: did not deny but delayed but not denying? I said,

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Speaker 2: den Agen. So here we are, all right, tell us

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Speaker 2: how you became the professional homegirl.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: So it's actually funny because a few years ago, before

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Speaker 4: So my grandmother at the time.

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Speaker 2: Which is so funny because the day is her anniversary

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Speaker 2: and I just realized today because I was just like NonStop,

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Speaker 2: So when she passed away, I was just going through

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Speaker 2: like a really you know, just that was my first

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Speaker 2: I started to realize as I started to share my

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Speaker 2: when it came to losing my grandmother. You know, people

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Speaker 2: you know, I feel like it'd be dope if I

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Speaker 2: can create a platform where women of color can be

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Speaker 2: able to come on, you know, be ourselves and pop

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Speaker 2: they shit. And I feel like as being a Professional Homegirl,

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Speaker 2: it is being your true, authentic self. And I feel

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Speaker 2: like for so long I show face, and I feel

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Speaker 2: like when I'm a little too like r Rah, I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm quiet and I'm chilling to myself, they think something wrong.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like with Professional Homegirls is a place

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Speaker 2: just truly be yourself and that's how we came to be.

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Speaker 3: So you say women can be themselves, but your guests

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Speaker 3: like they'd be having like the Witness Protection shit over

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Speaker 3: their face.

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Speaker 1: So why how do you find a guess for your shows?

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Speaker 2: I listen, I tried some of them episodes. Baby had

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Speaker 2: be clutching my pearls, like this is a horror movie.

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Speaker 5: You know where it is like where we're from, Like,

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Speaker 5: I mean, our community can be very judgmental, right, So

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Speaker 5: I feel like when you hear people backgrounds the first,

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Speaker 5: why Tam doing that?

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Speaker 4: Why Aj doing that?

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Speaker 2: But then when you're hearing the story and you don't

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Speaker 2: know who it is, and you hear from start to finish,

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Speaker 2: it makes you want to It makes you appreciate them more,

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Speaker 2: and it also makes you want to know more about

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Speaker 2: it because you're like, damn, if this bush can get

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Speaker 2: through it, that, I know I can get.

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Speaker 4: Through my stuff.

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Speaker 2: So I just feel like with the whole anonymous part,

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Speaker 2: it allows people to share their story fully because I

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Speaker 2: also feel like when people know who you are, how

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Speaker 2: it's some pieces of your truth, and I think that

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Speaker 2: shouldn't nobody share their truth, you know, from everybody else,

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Speaker 2: because you should live in your truth.

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Speaker 4: And then how I find my guess. A lot of

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Speaker 2: So at first it was like Instagram using hashtags, and

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Speaker 2: think that their stories can help someone. Right. So I

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Speaker 2: but I feel like there's so much key key in

443
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,600
Speaker 2: it that's like key key wrapped up in the medicine.

444
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,760
Speaker 2: So it's like to me, I don't think that none

445
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 2: of the episodes, and maybe the only episodes that's been

446
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,399
Speaker 2: difficult for me is like you know, stories that involve

447
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 2: you know, child abuse. But I feel like for most

448
00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 2: of the stories, like like this shit be funny, like

449
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 2: it'd be like damn, like you really got through that.

450
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,240
Speaker 2: And it also just makes me feel like, you know, women,

451
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,640
Speaker 2: especially Black women, are just superheroes, heroes, Like I feel

452
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 2: like we're on fire and it's nothing that we do

453
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,680
Speaker 2: if we don't put our mind to it. So like

454
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,159
Speaker 2: when you listening to these traumatic stories, cause a lot

455
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,560
Speaker 2: of them are like it'll be like my uncle molisted

456
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,399
Speaker 2: me and my mama every Thursday, Like your stories be

457
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,800
Speaker 2: like really like like deep like that. How do you

458
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 2: candle listening to people's trauma like this every week? I'd

459
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 2: be smoking weed and drinking the whole episode. Well, I

460
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 2: think I start with each episode obviously, I pray because

461
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,160
Speaker 2: I want to make sure that you know, the person

462
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 2: trust me with their story, and also, you know, just

463
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 2: protecting my energy because I don't want to, you know,

464
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 2: go to sleep with this.

465
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 4: But honestly, it's not hard for me.

466
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 2: Like, you know, I had a very traumatic childhood and

467
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:18,120
Speaker 2: you know, I was I was physically abused by my mother.

468
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 4: So I just feel like I always just think of things,

469
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 4: like you know, sometimes when I.

470
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 2: Was going through a lot of things I was going

471
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 2: through when I was younger, I really feel like I

472
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 2: was the only one going through it. So when I

473
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 2: share stories, like it's difficult to hear it, but I

474
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 2: can't even imagine experiencing it. And I feel like these stories,

475
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 2: when people hear it, it gives people hope, like if

476
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,399
Speaker 2: they can go through that and it'll still be okay.

477
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 2: I can go through what I'm going through and survive too.

478
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can feel absolutely.

479
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 3: And I think all black women have that little stigma. Right, Oh,

480
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 3: we just be loud and going off for no reason.

481
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: We just really be real passionate, right.

482
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 4: Was passionate facts, I don't be tripping for real, I'd

483
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:57,800
Speaker 4: be tripping sometimes.

484
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 1: You know, you be tripping when you got to ask

485
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 1: somebody be tripping, like, girl, you're that's not.

486
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 2: True, because I like, I need, I need you to

487
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:09,880
Speaker 2: understand where I'm coming from, because I know, like it's

488
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 2: not making sense, and if it's not making sense to me, that.

489
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 4: It can't make sense to everybody else in this room.

490
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,400
Speaker 4: So I don't think i'd be tripping all.

491
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 3: The time, and I really don't think i'd be tripping,

492
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 3: but I'm gonna still ask somebody to make sure that

493
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 3: I'm actually giving this other person that's the level of

494
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 3: disrespect I need to be giving them, like am I tripping?

495
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: But the only thing is when you tell when you

496
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 2: tell a story and you're asking are you am I tripping?

497
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 4: It's only coming from your perspective.

498
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 2: So nine times out of ten, the person who's listening

499
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 2: to your story is gonna say, no, you're not tripping,

500
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 2: because they're only hearing really your side of things, So

501
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 2: it's pointless they even ask ask, honestly, are you tripping?

502
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: I don't think it's pointless.

503
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 3: I don't think it's pointless because like I always be saying, like,

504
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 3: there's perception right, and there's perspective. You get through life

505
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:57,400
Speaker 3: with good perspective, where you can see things down the middle. Right,

506
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 3: it's people's perception be having shit fucked up. That's why

507
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 3: I don't like that whole this my truth, because there

508
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 3: is such thing as absolute truth. Your truth could be

509
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 3: a goddamn lie. Do you see what I'm saying that

510
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 3: when I ask am I tripping? Listen, I don't be

511
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 3: telling half stories. I tell stories exactly how it happens.

512
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 3: You have the opportunity to say, no, bitch, you fucked up.

513
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 3: Because I'm never gonna lie. I'm never gonna leave nothing out.

514
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 3: It could be the way I perceived what happened. Right,

515
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 3: Why I'm asking you think I'm tripping because this is

516
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 3: how I perceive, and I ask for clarity a lot.

517
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: Let me get some clarity to make sure I'm tripping.

518
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 3: I ask for clarity from the person I'm talking to,

519
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 3: from the homegirl. Homegirl, let me get some clarities, like

520
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 3: make sure I'm not tripping on you or somebody else, like, Right,

521
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 3: it's good. Yeah, I don't think it's a uh. I

522
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:48,400
Speaker 3: don't like that perception. And shit, man, your perception could

523
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 3: be a fucking lie to all of us, right, absolutely, no, no, absolutely,

524
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: But there are some people that they perception just be

525
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 3: fucked up on everything, and it could be a general

526
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 3: census that this person could be a liar or this

527
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 3: person just be doing fucked up shit.

528
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: It could be a general census.

529
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 4: I agree.

530
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 3: Fact, So while you thinking you're going crazy, they doing

531
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 3: this shit today, fucking spouse, mom and everybody else.

532
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, like and everybody. Have you ever had a

533
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 1: friend break up with you? Ebaney like a homegirl like

534
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: y'all no longer friends, but it was you that fucked

535
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: it up.

536
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 2: You know what, if I'm being honest, and I'm not

537
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 2: saying this because I don't want no friend back, but

538
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 2: I will say that because you know, yeah, like if

539
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 2: you're looking back, I mean, obviously there's growth, and you

540
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 2: know there's a lot of work that was done for

541
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 2: me to get to this point.

542
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 4: So why are you shaking your head? I thought you

543
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 4: were saying no, no, no, no.

544
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 1: I agree with you one thousand percent, just like these niggas.

545
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 3: A bitch can't spend the block on me because I

546
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: feel like, at what point of are we grown women

547
00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 3: and falling out?

548
00:24:59,200 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?

549
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: Likely me and Tam we be arguing and shit, because

550
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: we have a business together. So our relationship is different.

551
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 3: But I don't talking about like friends that I had

552
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 3: had for a very long time and now we're no

553
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 3: longer friends. Them bitches cannot spend the block and some

554
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 3: of them do. They try because I didn't fuck it

555
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 3: up these what I'm saying, like, my conscience is always

556
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 3: clear because with the four agreements, I do my best

557
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 3: every time in any situation.

558
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 2: I think with this one particular situation, I would say

559
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 2: that I don't think that I was in a fault.

560
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 4: I just didn't think.

561
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: I don't think I just know how to articulate what

562
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: I was feeling because at that time, that's when I

563
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 2: lost my grandmother, and you know, with me being a

564
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 2: very passionate.

565
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 4: Person and you know, I'm very vocal, I think that

566
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 4: like a lot.

567
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 2: Of times, people just in that particular friend misstated for

568
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 2: you know, me just being aggressive, me being like, you know,

569
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,959
Speaker 2: a certain way with her, and I just think at

570
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 2: that time, like, and that's why I'm so appreciative of

571
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 2: the people that's in my life now because I think

572
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 2: from where I was at with that particular persons, where

573
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 2: I'm at now, those people gave me grace. So I

574
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: think that grace is very important when it comes to

575
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: any type of relationship because a lot of times people

576
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 2: just don't fucking know.

577
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 3: Right, right, and then sometimes people don't even even aren't

578
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 3: even considering what you could possibly be going through.

579
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 1: Why doct you just tripping on them?

580
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 3: So, speaking of grace, this is one of the things

581
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 3: me and Town was talking about earlier, like friends versus

582
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 3: uh boyfriends or husbands?

583
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 4: Right?

584
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: You know how you see this shit on Instagram a lot.

585
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 3: It's like posts saying like y'all, bitch is a throw

586
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 3: your friend away after one disagreement.

587
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: But you give these niggas a thousand chances chances?

588
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 3: What are you thinking about that? Because I feel like

589
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 3: women women, I think people period. Men put their friends

590
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 3: on pedestals. Women put their friends on pedestals. You don't

591
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 3: expect your friend to play in your face like these

592
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 3: niggas would, like we expect fun out of them unfortunately, Right,

593
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,679
Speaker 3: But I gotta keep compromising with my homegirl, like why

594
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 3: are we are you?

595
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 4: But they're just people too? Though your friends are just

596
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 4: people just like A mean yeah, but I ain't letting know.

597
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 4: I ain't letting my friend with my nigga play in

598
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 4: my face?

599
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 2: Like but I also feel like with my friends, like

600
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 2: I've been friends with my friends for a very long time.

601
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 2: Like my oldest best friend, I've been friends with her

602
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: since he was eighteen and I'm in my mid thirties,

603
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: So I feel like with her like I do put

604
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 2: her on a higher pedestal because you know better, like

605
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 2: and you know all, you know all different sides of me.

606
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: Now with a nigga, I might give him a little

607
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 2: grace because we still get to know each other. But

608
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 2: I do have my hard limits, like you're not gonna

609
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 2: disrespect me or do certain things. But when they comes

610
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: to my girlfriends, like my sisters, Hell yeah, it's holes

611
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 2: before bros.

612
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 3: But what's some cut off shit for homegirls? Like, what's

613
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 3: some shit you caught in your homegirl off for?

614
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 4: You know what?

615
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 2: I'm really big on telling my business cause I'm very

616
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: particular about who I tell what to. So I can

617
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 2: tell three people the same story and three different ways

618
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 2: cause I know exactly if something was to come out,

619
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: I know where it came from.

620
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: So telling your business, you're gonna get cut off.

621
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm really big on that because I feel

622
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 2: like if we have a if we have a sisterhood,

623
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: where if I come to you and I'm like confining

624
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,239
Speaker 2: you as something that's really personal and then I hear

625
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 2: you go back and till the next bitch, that's a

626
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 2: problem for me.

627
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,959
Speaker 4: For me, it would tell my business.

628
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: It's just the manner in which it was told wasn't

629
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: told with malicious intent, because if you were drunk and

630
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 2: it's just a story that was relatable to somebody else's

631
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 2: story and it came out, I'm not cutting you off

632
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: of that. That might you and if you apologize like

633
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 2: that's a mistake, that's a mistake. But if you're doing

634
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 2: it like oh let me tell you what? How tell

635
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 2: fucked up? Like you know, that's a problem to me.

636
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: You know when it comes to friendship, what about you a.

637
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: Money? That's why I don't loan bitches, no goddamn money. Okay, yeah,

638
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: done lost a couple.

639
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 3: It costs me about five hundred dollars to get rid

640
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 3: of a bitch before like that's all it costs. Because

641
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 3: once you give somebody money and they don't give it back, like,

642
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 3: the friendship is tarnished. Because really what I feel, y'all

643
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: the women who I was friends with for a very

644
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 3: very long time and not friends with now it's still

645
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: hurt my feelings to this day, right, But what hurts

646
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 3: my feelings even more is that these bitches no intimate

647
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 3: shit about me and they just still walk around.

648
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: Earth like shit cool, Like I really want them to

649
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: disappear a little bit, just this much.

650
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 3: So nobody, you know, especially like in entertainment and we're

651
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 3: doing what we're doing, like some people know some real

652
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 3: deep shit about me, like and knows be the people

653
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 3: that go to the tabloids, you know what I'm saying, Like,

654
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 3: those are the people who telling your business to blogs

655
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: and shit like that in the future.

656
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

657
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: I don't like a bitch not being my friend no

658
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 3: more and know shit about me. So I didn't say that.

659
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: You said that, you said I said. I said, go

660
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: real far away and sleep there overnight every night.

661
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 4: Night. Do y'all feel like where y'all at hasn't been

662
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 4: hard for you all to connect with other women? Oh?

663
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 4: I like having all.

664
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: I connect with women easily, but then I do hair

665
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: all day, all that every day, so part of my

666
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 2: job is to connect with women. But I guess deal breaker.

667
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 4: Money is not any money I give you or loan

668
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 4: you is money that I can afford to lose. That's

669
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 4: how I always treat money. That way, we don't fall.

670
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: Out behind it.

671
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 2: So if I give you money, I want it back,

672
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong. But if I don't get it back,

673
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 2: it's because in my head it was already gone. And

674
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: that's how I treat money when it comes with friends. Now,

675
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 2: the conversation about like talking and telling my business, it

676
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 2: just depends on what your intention was with my business.

677
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: You know, I'll be mad at you for sharing, but

678
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 2: if it wasn't malicious, we still can be friends. The

679
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 2: thing that's a deal breaker for me is.

680
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 4: Don't be fucking with none of my niggas behind my

681
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 4: back and I find.

682
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: Out you own them.

683
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 4: They belong to me, bitch, and you know it.

684
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 2: If you my friend done talked about this nigga to you,

685
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 2: If I find out you're fucking with him behind my back,

686
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: that's a problem for me. That's the seafool.

687
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 4: Don't do that. Oh I thought that was obvious.

688
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: Nah, a girl, they be breaking the girlfriend rules.

689
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 4: Okay, some people, that's okay.

690
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: You know.

691
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: I find that with women of other races, like white women,

692
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: they will fuck with each other's husbands and boyfriends and still.

693
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 4: Be friends afterwards, you know, So I'm not surprised.

694
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that me and me and Tammy gonna talk

695
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: about it first before or after. We don't.

696
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 4: We don't cross paths. We have halves.

697
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: But it ain't never been like, oh no, I'm gonna

698
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: go grab exactly behind your back type ship like that's

699
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 2: weak to me. Don't do that because a lot of

700
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: these niggas I give, I talked them to you, baby,

701
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: you don't gotta do it.

702
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: Behind my back exactly. Yo, what was that?

703
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, what wasn't y'all with somebody else

704
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 4: showing the bevery beginning you, I think it was you.

705
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 3: That was not That was a brilliant idiots. We were

706
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 3: talking about that motherfucker fastball. I threw her ass right quick.

707
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: Then we got uber meats. It was coming. In twenty

708
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: twenty five COVID.

709
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 4: I had anxiety. I was lonely. I needed some male company, okay,

710
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 4: sue me.

711
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: And I knew a nigga. I knew a real real

712
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: good was awesome.

713
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 4: He was amazing. Man.

714
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 3: Look, I want all listeners listeners to know this one

715
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 3: thing about me, bitch.

716
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: I know good dick. I'm just telling y'all. I know

717
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: good Dick.

718
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 4: He was a really good person too, So that was

719
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 4: no hold.

720
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 3: On ebone, let me tell you about this bitch. Now,

721
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,479
Speaker 3: this would be like a little like Super sneaky Liken,

722
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 3: even though we're telling our business, right, Super, why are

723
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 3: you cooking for the nigga the next day?

724
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: Then you at his house and he cooking for her

725
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: the next day? He was having slumber parties.

726
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 3: Tammy, you cooked for that nigga one day in your

727
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 3: apartment too, came and had a plate.

728
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: It's just so happened that I was coaching and he

729
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 4: was hung. So wait, how does that great? Like could

730
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 4: you wipe him up.

731
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: If you wanted to?

732
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 4: That wasn't in the plan. That wasn't in the.

733
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 3: No, it might have been your husband, like you know,

734
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 3: you can't let your homegirl being away of your husband,

735
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 3: like you never know.

736
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 4: Right if it you know, I didn't see that happening.

737
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: It's just where they'd be like the best man. We

738
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 2: say in our vowels, and I got the image of

739
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: Ashley sucking this dick in my head while we saying

740
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: our vowels. It's weird. Yeah, I don't want that.

741
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: One all.

742
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 4: So no, but it was good for what it was.

743
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: M I know, good dick. So let me ask you

744
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: this because I was talking to one of my homegirls

745
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: and she's older a little older than us, but you

746
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: know she's been married twice, right, And we had like

747
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: this whole back and forth one night because.

748
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 3: I was saying, like, if I know some shit about

749
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 3: one of my close friends, like her nigga cheating or

750
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 3: her husband cheating on her, like I might tell her

751
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 3: depending on who it is. So if your friend is married, right,

752
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 3: and she's never like explained to you, like she's having

753
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 3: all these problems at her husband, like everything is always

754
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 3: always seems so wonderful, you know in their relationship, you

755
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:27,720
Speaker 3: see him cheating?

756
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: Are you or are you not gonna tell your best friend?

757
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna take a picture because I feel like

758
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 2: when you tell a bit about her man, you need proof,

759
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 2: especially when it's her husband. And even when it comes

760
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: to my best friend, like you know, bitch, just be

761
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 2: like my man, my man, and my man. So I

762
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 2: just want to make sure, like, hey, I seen so

763
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: and so doing this with so and so, and I

764
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 2: got this picture and do what you want with it.

765
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: And I'm just gonna leave it at that, because at

766
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 2: the end of the day, I don't you never know

767
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 2: what somebody got going on with that nigga.

768
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I'm not telling shit.

769
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 3: I mind my business, man, I'm gonna mind my business

770
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 3: my best If my best friend is like traveling the

771
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,879
Speaker 3: world with her husband, he doing all all the good

772
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: ship together, like, I don't want to be the person

773
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 3: that breaks her heart because that's how women all look like.

774
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: Look at it.

775
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 3: You know, she'll end up still going on and staying

776
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 3: with her husband. And now our friendship is a mess

777
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 3: because I'm the one that brought this dirty laundry to you.

778
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying you not even we already

779
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 3: talked about how men and women like friendships and relationships

780
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 3: just differ, and how we put our friends on a pedestal.

781
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 3: So it's easy to just discard your woman. You're not

782
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 3: about to, I mean, discard your homegirl. You're not about

783
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 3: to discard your whole husband.

784
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: So no, I don't think. I don't think i'm telling.

785
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm telling until she come to me

786
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 3: crying about Oh damn, I can't wait until she come

787
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 3: crying by.

788
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 2: Some No, see, if it's just a friend. I might

789
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 2: turn my and they're super happy. I might turn another

790
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 2: che can mind my business. But if it's my best friends,

791
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: they gonna hear about it. Because somebody's gonna call because

792
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 2: I've jumped on their husband. I jumped on their husband

793
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 2: in public. They're gonna be like, tell me out here,

794
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 2: fucking your husband up.

795
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 4: You need to come right? Yeah there, her husband, did

796
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 4: I see him?

797
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 2: Right?

798
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,240
Speaker 4: They're gonna get a bitch of me on his ass

799
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 4: because I don't play like that.

800
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 3: That might be what I'll do, then confront him right

801
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 3: and give him the opportunity to tell in his damn self.

802
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 4: Yeah right, he gonna have to tell like that bitch,

803
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 4: your bitch friend tell me jumped on me. Don't pull

804
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 4: my motherfucking dreadlocks out. Yeah, and.

805
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 2: She nixed because I want to tell me, yeah, my

806
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 2: best friend. I would be upset if my best friend

807
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,919
Speaker 2: didn't do something, you know, right.

808
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 3: So do y'all arbitrary tell your friends when they're being

809
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: a dumb bitch. Are y'all just smiling nod at the stories? No,

810
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 3: you know, because sometimes your friends just want you to listen, right,

811
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: and so you just keep hearing all this dumb bitch

812
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 3: shit over and over and over again, Like at what

813
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 3: point do you be like, hey, bitch, you being a

814
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 3: dumb bitch?

815
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 4: You know?

816
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 2: I feel like my best friends know me, so they

817
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: know when I ask certain questions, they already know I'm

818
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: going with it. So I feel like I don't need

819
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 2: to tell you you being dumb because you saying shit

820
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: out loud and me asking you certain questions.

821
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 4: It's just letting you know that. Come on, now, this

822
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 4: ship is not adding up. But I also feel like

823
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 4: maybe this is just your season of being a dumb

824
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 4: bitch because we all been there and you got to learn.

825
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 2: Because I rather you be a dumb bitch while you're

826
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: dating around being single, than be a dumb bitch and

827
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 2: you marry a whole ass nigga. Right, Yes, no, we're

828
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,439
Speaker 2: not discript. I like him, I like them reformed not still.

829
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 2: Don't be a hole with me.

830
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 4: Yeah right, listen, unless that's just your relations I think

831
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 4: i'm too.

832
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: I'm kind of blunt and frank, so I'm gonna tell you.

833
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 2: But then if I keep having to tell you, it

834
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 2: gets to a point where I'm not gonna say nothing

835
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 2: else because then you are comfortable in this space and

836
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 2: then I'm just gonna listen and wait for you to

837
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 2: learn your listen.

838
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,720
Speaker 4: But I will be like, bitch, you're stupid.

839
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 2: I will say it just like dom bit. You better

840
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 2: than me if I start telling you.

841
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: If you like it, I love it right exactly.

842
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 3: So one of my friends who i'm no longer friends with,

843
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: I remember I stopped talking to her because she was

844
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 3: like clearly being a dumb bitch and I just didn't

845
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 3: want to be associated with dumb bitch ism, you know

846
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. Like she just was being had by

847
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 3: a nigga and I just couldn't stand by because there

848
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 3: was nothing I could tell her to make her stop

849
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:50,919
Speaker 3: talking to this guy.

850
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: And I'll never just be like leaving nigga. But this

851
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: nigga wasn't even like tangible.

852
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 3: He was in prison, so I can't exactly, so I

853
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 3: can't like, bitch, I'm trying to help you, help you,

854
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: and she just was she just was gone. So I

855
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 3: couldn't really have a relationship with her anymore until that

856
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 3: person was out the picture and he would actually tell her,

857
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 3: don't tell me shit because he knew I had more

858
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 3: sense than her.

859
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, So.

860
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,240
Speaker 1: Girl, that is a whole long ass story.

861
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 3: Yes, he's back in prison and she helped put him

862
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 3: put him there. If you're listening, bitch, yeah, I'm on

863
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 3: head telling your motherfucking business.

864
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: We ain't friends no more.

865
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 4: But you need to come on professional whole girl so

866
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 4: you can share.

867
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: What girl mess. That wasn't her man when she it

868
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: was he was. Let me listen, Go on, child, let's

869
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 1: go to break. We'll be right back.

870
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 3: Let's say, y'all think y'all make more friends now? Or

871
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 3: was it easier in your twenties in your twenties than forties,

872
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 3: or is there better that in process I have for

873
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 3: friends nowadays?

874
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: I think I make more friends now, But I think

875
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: they just have to do with me just knowing who

876
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,439
Speaker 2: I am and being confident in myself because I feel

877
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 2: like when you're younger, like you just be going through shit,

878
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: you be thinking this person your friend, but meanwhile she

879
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 2: be hating on you or like, you know, girls can

880
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: be weird and like, jealousy is a real big thing,

881
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 2: especially when people see the potential in you and you

882
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 2: don't see it in yourself. So I feel like, right,

883
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: so I feel like now like and there's just so

884
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 2: many you know, dope women out there that just doing

885
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 2: amazing things that want to connect with other like minded women.

886
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 2: So I feel like now it's way easier than what

887
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:47,399
Speaker 2: it was before for me. I think it's the same

888
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 2: amount of people, but it's just different on who I

889
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 2: call friend.

890
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 4: Like, I don't use the term friend as easily as

891
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 4: I did when I was in my trainies.

892
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 2: You know, I have created more boundaries and I know

893
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 2: how to compart in the last where people are in

894
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 2: my life, you know. So that's the difference for me.

895
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 2: Same amount of bitches coming here, here, come and go,

896
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 2: but a friend, I don't use that term as loosely

897
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: as I did when I was in my twenties. In

898
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,720
Speaker 2: my twenties, I meet a bitch in the motherfucking bathroom

899
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 2: of the club and like her fingernail pledge, and we

900
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 2: started talking and we're friends. You know, it's not the

901
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 2: same because you know, once you get older, what about

902
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 2: for you?

903
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 1: I think some of it.

904
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 3: I think some of your friends, like especially in your twenties,

905
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 3: come from my childhood, right, and then you have these

906
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: relationships with these people for so long because of time, right,

907
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 3: and they probably should have been expired.

908
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 1: So I got I feel like i I've never not

909
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: been able to make friends then or now.

910
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: I probably have more meaningful relationships with the women that

911
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 3: are in my life now. But I have some friends,

912
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,399
Speaker 3: Like my friend Priscilla. We celebrated her forty birthday last week.

913
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 3: Like we've been friends literally since six and seven years old.

914
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 3: Parents still live in the same neighborhood. Like we've been

915
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 3: friends for fucking ever. I know her asked, even when

916
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 3: she get on my nerve and vice versus. So that's

917
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 3: a forever friend. But I don't think it's hard, Bitch,

918
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: I be stealing people friends, Like I'm friends with people

919
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 3: who are no longer friends with the people I met

920
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 3: them here, but I'm still friends on both ends. This

921
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 3: one like fuck that bitch. She like fucked that bitch.

922
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 3: And I'm in the middle, like I still love y'all

923
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 3: and I want all us to be in the room together.

924
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 4: That's how my best friend is.

925
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 2: So I had this friend group that I was in

926
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 2: from some of us were friends as children and some

927
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 2: of us not in college. But my best friend, Tekia

928
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 2: is still friends with all of us, and none of

929
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: us are friends with each other. We're only friends with Tekia,

930
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 2: and it's the four of.

931
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: Us Takia is the only seen one. Is what I'm hearing.

932
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 4: Is the best communicator out of all of us. That's

933
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 4: what it is.

934
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: She's not saying no, We're all saye. But she's just

935
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 2: the best communicator out of all of us. The rest

936
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: of us will fight fist and I just don't want

937
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 2: to do that anymore. I'm done with the fist fighting

938
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: era of my friendships. If it comes to physical, we can't.

939
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 2: You're going to jail.

940
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 4: First of all, if you attack me, you're going to jail.

941
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 4: And second of all, you have a fist fighter friend,

942
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yes?

943
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 3: And then friends again? Yes after the fighting, Nah, bitch.

944
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 3: If I got to put hands on you, that's it.

945
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, we definitely fall when we was younger.

946
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, we definitely duke it out and then be friends again.

947
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 1: But not let down.

948
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 4: I never fought, not no more. I can't do that

949
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 4: no more. You ain't never fought, You ain't never fist

950
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 4: fault your sister.

951
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: That's family, like, of course, my friends are the family.

952
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 4: My friends family.

953
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: Oh no, child, I feel like I'm not about to

954
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: be fighting a homegirl like sisters. Y'all grew up, y'all

955
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: know each other's so crazy growing up in the same house,

956
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: just annoyed in the house together my may home.

957
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 2: Just like you only fought your sister living in the

958
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 2: same house, y'all never fought.

959
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: But it was different. I definitely tried to get that

960
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: ass and bitch. I'm like, bitch, come in the yard

961
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: because it's actually not.

962
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 4: If you talk and be around mad about it, you

963
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 4: got fist fight at this point. No, like when we

964
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 4: were younger. When we were younger, yes, our twenties, I.

965
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 1: Never fear my friend ever. Every blows. I'm not fucking

966
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 1: with you.

967
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: It's like my sister. It's like fighting with my sister.

968
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 4: To me, I know when we were young.

969
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: To fight my sisters like that, I mean, we fought,

970
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: but not.

971
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: It wasn't but it just has happened, you know.

972
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

973
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 2: No, I feel like if I have to put my

974
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: hands on one of my homegirls, because I feel like

975
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 2: I never fought a homegirl before, I feel like we

976
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 2: came close to it. But if I got to put

977
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 2: my hands on you, I gotta walk away, because that's

978
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: that's I feel like. When I was a kid, yeah

979
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 2: we'll fight, but in your twenties fighting your friends in college,

980
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 2: I remember one of my friends. I threw up on

981
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 2: one of my friends.

982
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:12,320
Speaker 1: We got your Yeah, ain't your friend though? Are you

983
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 1: your friends now?

984
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 4: Thick as thieves?

985
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 2: That's my nigga to the end, Like that's We were

986
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,959
Speaker 2: nineteen years old drunk, both of us drunk.

987
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 4: It's not just me drunk. We're both drunk.

988
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: We fought the next day, we cleaned the car out together.

989
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: You know, it wasn't like it wasn't that deep.

990
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: I don't know you guys are an alcoholic.

991
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 2: I got beat up, But let me tell you, I

992
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: got beat up because I was super wasted, like I

993
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: was drunk. I didn't even know the fight was coming.

994
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: So you got your glass off. God, you probably was.

995
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 3: No, that is true now when somebody drunk and you're

996
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 3: not really that drunk, like motherfucker gets annoying, like bitch,

997
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:53,720
Speaker 3: leave me alone.

998
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 4: It was bad.

999
00:45:58,719 --> 00:45:58,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1000
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 2: I would like at this age, even in my thirties,

1001
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 2: if we get to the point where we got to

1002
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 2: be physically violent to one another, then it's.

1003
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 4: Just a no go.

1004
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: We don't need to be friends.

1005
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: Y'all know.

1006
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 3: They have an app now for meeting friends, like the

1007
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:17,399
Speaker 3: Bumbo app for relationships. They have a Bumble Friendship app now.

1008
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 2: Women have you know, some people, I won't say women,

1009
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 2: but people have hard times meeting women in and making friendships.

1010
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 2: Like I do hair, and I have clients that I

1011
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 2: know that are coming as much as they come just

1012
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 2: to have somebody to talk to.

1013
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 4: It's not even about their hair. Yeah, they just need

1014
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 4: a space where.

1015
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 2: They can come and talk and relax and be away

1016
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,959
Speaker 2: from their husband, their kids and just sit with someone

1017
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 2: who's not judging their story. And we feeling pretty, you

1018
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 2: know so, and don't have nobody talk to.

1019
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 1: We actually had a friendship coach. You'll remember her name

1020
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: was Danielle. Danielle Jackson. I think it is ur something

1021
00:46:59,160 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: like that. Danielle.

1022
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like a friendship coach. Want a female

1023
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 3: friendship coach. This is a while ago, though, but I

1024
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 3: think some people do have tough times making friends, making

1025
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 3: friends with people.

1026
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't have I don't have a problem with that.

1027
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like everybody I know. My mama said,

1028
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 4: I ain't never been a stranger before. That was my problem.

1029
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 4: So all right, do you want to get into relationships

1030
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 4: with like, uh, not women, but with our men.

1031
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 2: Let's talk about this. Are you paying half in a relationship?

1032
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 2: Are you paying half the bills?

1033
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 4: Oh?

1034
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 2: No, listen, I feel like I just had this conversation

1035
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 2: with my homegirl heart nigga. I feel like if I'm

1036
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 2: living with a man and I'm from the South, like

1037
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 2: I was born in New York, I was raised in

1038
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 2: the South, so I'm very traditional, like I'm very like

1039
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 2: passionate and aggressive, like I'm type Alpha when it comes

1040
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 2: to like my businesses. But when it comes to my relationship,

1041
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 2: I want to be submissive. I don't want to think.

1042
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 2: I want to make sure that I'm with somebody that

1043
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,320
Speaker 2: can be able to be like you know what, I

1044
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 2: know he got it. So if I'm living with you,

1045
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 2: you need to pay this rent. I pay some little utilities.

1046
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 2: I make sure the food the grocery is done. I

1047
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 2: cook a little meal, make sure the house is claimed.

1048
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 2: But I'm not splitting no no major bills with no man.

1049
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 3: No, you might as well live by yourself. At that point,

1050
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 3: I can't say that. No, I'm saying you might if

1051
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 3: you have to pay half the bills, like you might

1052
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 3: as well. Yeah, why why am I cohabitating with the

1053
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 3: man who's like down my neck about my paycheck? I remember, remember,

1054
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 3: this's the fly superfly lady from what's her name?

1055
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 1: From iHeartRadio? Remember she was in Memphis.

1056
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I forgot he remember her name though she

1057
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 4: was right.

1058
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1059
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 3: So she was also at the live show and she

1060
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 3: was saying how her first husband used to be like

1061
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 3: these bitches is paid, Like she's you know what I'm saying,

1062
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 3: she's well off. But she was like her first husband

1063
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,280
Speaker 3: would always be like, damn, how much money we get today?

1064
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 3: Like he wait for her paycheck to come. And she

1065
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 3: said it was one of her male friends that said why,

1066
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 3: basically told her she needs a rich man. One of

1067
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:28,959
Speaker 3: her male friends said, you need a nigga with money,

1068
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 3: Like you can't stay married to this person, right, So

1069
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 3: she actually her husband. Now she was like, my husband

1070
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 3: will even I make a lot of money, he don't

1071
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 3: care how much money I make.

1072
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 1: I don't pay no bills.

1073
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. It's Daddy calling us gold diggers.

1074
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 3: Been wont to dig out of fucking gold.

1075
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 4: But for.

1076
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 2: The economy is kind of the economy is kind of

1077
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 2: fucked up in kind of people are, you know, struggling,

1078
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: And that's not just women as men and women. If

1079
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 2: you get with someone who's having a hard time financially,

1080
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: You're not going to split the bills if you love

1081
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 2: this person.

1082
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 4: Listen. Well, I think people also, I think people need

1083
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 4: to also be realistic.

1084
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 2: Like I feel like if you was in a situation

1085
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 2: like this is somebody even knowing since she was a child,

1086
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 2: y'all been through a lot of things together, then I

1087
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 2: would probably that's the exception to the room because y'all

1088
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 2: trying to figure things out, y'all both young, y'all trying

1089
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 2: to get things going. I feel like, as a like

1090
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 2: a grown woman, and as much as I have accomplished

1091
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 2: on my own, you have to add value to my life, like,

1092
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 2: because if you're doing something and I got to split

1093
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 2: it with you, then I might as well just keep

1094
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 2: doing it myself.

1095
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then how are you supposed to And this

1096
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 3: is and men know this, right, They just don't want

1097
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 3: to hear from women.

1098
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 1: Right.

1099
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 3: So if you're a man, a full grown man who

1100
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 3: takes care of business, like, go talk to your brethren

1101
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 3: and stop talking to us, right, because they just don't

1102
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 3: want to hear this from us.

1103
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 1: But all men want to be able to provide.

1104
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 3: The frustration comes when they can't, right, And so instead

1105
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 3: of recognizing it and start problem solving, because that's what

1106
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 3: a man is, a problem solving, right. Instead of doing that,

1107
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 3: they'll find fault with you to justify why he can provide.

1108
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 3: But all men want to be able to provide.

1109
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 4: I won't. I won't right now, in this face and

1110
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 4: this age. I won't even sit here and pretend like

1111
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 4: I wouldn't split the bills.

1112
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 2: But let me tell you why. Only if I was

1113
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,800
Speaker 2: with somebody who aspired to taking care of everything.

1114
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 4: That's he had a solid That's all I'm asking. That's

1115
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 4: why he had a solid.

1116
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 2: Playing and solid goals and we and we striving toward that. Yeah,

1117
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: let's split it. Let's get this money together. Baby, it's

1118
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:34,760
Speaker 2: not a problem. But I won't say that I'm willing

1119
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 2: to that.

1120
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:36,360
Speaker 4: I'm not willing to do.

1121
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 2: It, because that would that would be a lie. At

1122
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 2: this point, there was a time where I'd.

1123
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 4: Be like, absolutely not.

1124
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 2: But in real life, everybody don't have it all the

1125
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 2: way figured out right away, and I don't want to, like,

1126
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 2: you know, completely cancel out a good man because he's

1127
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 2: not in a space where he aspires to be.

1128
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 3: And I think that's where most women, that's where most

1129
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 3: of us are at right. We just want a man

1130
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 3: to aspire to one day take us take care of

1131
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 3: his family completely. Nobody's asking to have all shit together.

1132
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 3: My fucking life being shambles at the time. Okay, I'm

1133
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 3: still figuring out, bitch. I'll be feeling eighteen sometimes. I

1134
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 3: know I'm gonna get to where I'm going. I got

1135
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 3: a fucking plan, you know what I'm saying, and I

1136
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 3: keep shitting fucking motion. That's all you look for in

1137
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,320
Speaker 3: a mate. So if you got your thing going I

1138
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 3: got my thing going on, let's attack these things, right,

1139
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 3: But the ultimate gold nigga, you need to take care? Yeah, wife,

1140
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 3: Yeah that should be still.

1141
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,359
Speaker 4: I agree there, I agree there.

1142
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 2: All right, So we talked about telling our friends dumb bitches.

1143
00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 2: I know you listen to our show before, right, mm hmm.

1144
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 2: Do you have a dumb bitch shory that you want

1145
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 2: to share with us? I know you can with one.

1146
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 1: Do I have a so?

1147
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:55,400
Speaker 4: I haven't had so I've been celibanted for like I

1148
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 4: lost count, but it's been like three four years.

1149
00:52:58,280 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: About that.

1150
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, wait, store, roll back that beautiful being

1151
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 2: footage real quick?

1152
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 4: Like, what.

1153
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: Listen that extra?

1154
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 4: Can I have yours?

1155
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: Situe? Ain't using it.

1156
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,240
Speaker 4: Please take mine so you can make sure it's.

1157
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 1: Knock the pussy out of order.

1158
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 3: Like, first of all, bitch, when you head us up,

1159
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 3: you should have said my name is Ebane and the

1160
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 3: bitch ain't fucking four years like that would have set

1161
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 3: their whole ship off.

1162
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 1: Let's gonna talk about.

1163
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 4: Let's rays all right, How did this start and how

1164
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 4: did it go so long?

1165
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 2: Tell us about that, all right?

1166
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 4: So three four years ago, I was dating. I was

1167
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 4: doing my thing right, but I loved doing it.

1168
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 1: Go ahead, girl.

1169
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 2: Like just also just like I like to be in

1170
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 2: men like a male energy, like because I feel like

1171
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 2: that allows me to really be my feminine self, you

1172
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like because I'm a girly girl,

1173
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 2: but I feel like sometimes I'm always like a real nigga.

1174
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 2: I'm so aggranstive and passionate, got y'all. So I feel

1175
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 2: like when I'm around a real nigga, like you know,

1176
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 2: I get soft and shit. And so I was outside

1177
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 2: doing my thing, and you know, I was dealing with

1178
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 2: a few people, and you know, at that time, everything

1179
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: was like in shambles. I didn't have things was just

1180
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 2: like not working for me in my favor and you know,

1181
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 2: make a long story short, I just broke down, and

1182
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,320
Speaker 2: I'm just like, damn, like I'm really trying to like

1183
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 2: figure shit out, and like, you know, the only family

1184
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 2: I really had besides my close friends, it's my grandmother

1185
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 2: who passed away. So I'm just like, yo, God, like

1186
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 2: you know, what do I gotta do to like be

1187
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 2: able to like get to where I want to get

1188
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 2: to in my career and just like, you know, be

1189
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 2: somewhat financially comfortable because I'm tired of fucking feeling like

1190
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 2: I'm holding on by the thread. And you know, I

1191
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 2: just made the decision and just like, you know what

1192
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 2: if I was to give up sex, like you got

1193
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 2: to make sure some things pop for me, because I

1194
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 2: want my own place. I want a nice place. I

1195
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 2: want some money, like I want my network deal, like

1196
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 2: I want all these things to come into fruition. But

1197
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 2: you gotta give me something. And I just also feel

1198
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 2: like when I was having sex with these people, I'm

1199
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 2: just like, yo, why am I sharing my body and

1200
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 2: all these other things about myself with these niggas? And

1201
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 2: I don't feel safe with them and it just didn't

1202
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: make sense, Like and I feel like, you know, I've

1203
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 2: been outside for a very long time, so I'm used

1204
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: to like, you know, men taking me out, buying me

1205
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 2: really nice things, and like, you know, treating me the

1206
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 2: way that.

1207
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 4: I desired to be treated.

1208
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 2: But by the time I'm done with them, I just

1209
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,800
Speaker 2: felt empty, Like I still feel like they didn't know

1210
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 2: the real meat. And I feel like a lot of

1211
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 2: times when people see you, especially when you're an attractive woman,

1212
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 2: people just only see what you're trying to accomplish, or

1213
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 2: they only see the exterior. And I feel like a

1214
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 2: lot of people that I was messing with didn't even

1215
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,439
Speaker 2: like know things about me that you should have known.

1216
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 2: So you know, I just was like, you know what,

1217
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 2: and I didn't make no avow to God, like you know,

1218
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: I was having a conversation with God, and I'm just like,

1219
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 2: you know, I ain't trying to wait the marriage, but

1220
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 2: you know, I'm just trying to wait to a place

1221
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 2: where by the time I do meet somebody like I

1222
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 2: wanted to be something that somebody I feel safe with

1223
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 2: and somebody that like I really feel like, have a

1224
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 2: genuine like for me, like God forbid, something wants to happen.

1225
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 4: I know I can call this nigga up and then

1226
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 4: it being raped, you know what I'm saying. So so

1227
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 4: right now, I've been like dating here and there, trying

1228
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 4: to get back outside. But I don't know, these niggas

1229
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 4: are just trash. Don't say that.

1230
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 3: Don't say that, you know, because there's a lot of

1231
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 3: good men out there. They just not cute like I'd

1232
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 3: be saying. I'm dead serious about that, and niggas get

1233
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 3: mad at that too, But we do like women and

1234
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 3: men are voes visual. Men are a little bit more

1235
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 3: visual than us.

1236
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: But you're gonna look at the exterior first right to determine,

1237
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: like what's what, And they just may not be attractive

1238
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: initially to you. And they may be.

1239
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 2: Saying when you speak out loud that men are trash

1240
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 2: that's all you to meet. You can't keep saying that

1241
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 2: and expect to meet good men. You gotta say men

1242
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 2: are good.

1243
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 4: Men are the.

1244
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 2: I agree, like I've been manifesting, like especially when I

1245
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 2: do my deep prayers, I'm like, you know what, because

1246
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 2: I do believe there are good men out there. I

1247
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 2: just feel like the men that's been in my space

1248
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 2: just been It's just not been what I want. And

1249
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 2: I also feel and it doesn't have thing you can do.

1250
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 2: It looks because I feel like, I mean, for the

1251
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 2: most part, I do want somebody that's attractive, but I

1252
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,439
Speaker 2: feel like as you get older, certain certain things don't matter,

1253
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: Like you just really want a good person right for me.

1254
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 2: So no, I agree, Like I'm being very careful with

1255
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 2: my words, but I just feel like the men are

1256
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 2: just it's hard. It's hard out here. I'm not gonna

1257
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 2: sit here and pretend.

1258
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: Like it's not hard because they the prize. Now, honey,

1259
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 1: you know the pride. You know, I've already married.

1260
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 2: The tables have turned in away, and it seems like

1261
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: the men do think that they're the catch instead of

1262
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: the woman now.

1263
00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 4: But it's because like, what is it like in Atlanta?

1264
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 4: What is it like fourteen to one men? You know,

1265
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 4: men to women.

1266
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 2: And men.

1267
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: I don't like those statistics statistics because who controls them?

1268
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: For one?

1269
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 4: Right?

1270
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: Men?

1271
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 3: So why wouldn't we tell bitches, Uh, girl, you're gonna

1272
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 3: have to deal with us because it's too many, y'all.

1273
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 3: It's only a little bit of us. So they had

1274
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 3: a pick of the litter for the rest of their lives, Like,

1275
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 3: why wouldn't they manipulate us in that way, but it

1276
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 3: were looking like it though it'd be like, it's like.

1277
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: Four niggas walking, But where where are we at? Where

1278
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: are you at?

1279
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 3: Because I just saw a video on Instagram and I

1280
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 3: hate that we missed this because I was in Atlanta

1281
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 3: for investments.

1282
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: A girl did a video. She was like, y'all bitches

1283
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 1: better be here next year.

1284
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 3: It's so many nice looking men here, like and if

1285
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 3: those are the type of men, like, you have to

1286
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 3: put yourself where are the type of And you also

1287
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 3: have to be.

1288
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 1: Who you want to meet?

1289
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:01,439
Speaker 3: Like you can't you can't be a damn two think

1290
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,440
Speaker 3: you deserve a ten nigga, cause there are men out

1291
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 3: here who are ten?

1292
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: Do you deserve that?

1293
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 4: No?

1294
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: No, you're hollering at me.

1295
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm doing now, especially since I'm starting

1296
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 2: to get back out there and day because I feel

1297
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 2: like since I haven't dated and so long, I kind

1298
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 2: of like I know what I want, but I don't

1299
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: know what I like. Like I want to just get

1300
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 2: out there and just you know, see what's going on.

1301
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 2: So I do feel like it's right. So I do

1302
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 2: feel like it is important to like, if you want

1303
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:26,439
Speaker 2: a certain man, you got to be in a certain

1304
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:28,680
Speaker 2: atmosphere or if you want to have a man do

1305
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 2: certain things, you gotta be where they be at. So

1306
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 2: I haven't like looking up different places to go to

1307
00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 2: like just being strategic in my day life because I

1308
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, for me, like I've been going

1309
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 2: so like I sacrificed a lot for you know, my

1310
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 2: career and my goals and things of that nature. So

1311
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 2: I'm just like I need to put that same.

1312
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 4: Energy into you know, being dating in my life.

1313
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 3: You got to have a blueprint, you gotta have a plan. Yeah,

1314
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 3: my say friend of was talking about her she has

1315
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 3: a daughter. Her daughter's like twenty six years old, and

1316
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 3: she's like, her daughter doesn't she doesn't know if any

1317
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 3: prospects or it has and she doesn't want her daughter

1318
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 3: to be our age without a husband.

1319
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 1: So she's like, girl, this is something you got a plan.

1320
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 4: Like.

1321
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: It's a book called Get Get Into I Do, And

1322
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 1: I forgot the author name of it.

1323
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 3: The the name of the author. I started reading it

1324
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 3: or listening to it on audible. But it basically tells

1325
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 3: you instruction guide on how to get a husband essentially right,

1326
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 3: the things that you need to do. And I just

1327
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 3: don't think that we we for specifically black women, we

1328
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 3: have never been taught how to get a husband for real.

1329
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 3: You just go through all your life, different relationships with

1330
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 3: a bunch of people, spending too much time in the

1331
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 3: wrong places.

1332
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 2: But then oftentimes our sons haven't been taught how to

1333
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 2: be a husband by nobody either. You know that hart

1334
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 2: so and shit oftentimes were trying to survive. So I

1335
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,000
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, because I also I have a

1336
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 2: lot of my girlfriends, like you know, we don't have

1337
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 2: children or well I'm the only single one out of

1338
01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: my girlfriend group. But you know, it's just very unfortunate

1339
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 2: then how society makes us feel like we're less than

1340
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 2: a woman.

1341
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 4: Because we don't have these things.

1342
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 2: Not attached to a man, right, I feel like exactly,

1343
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 2: I feel like there's more to life than just being

1344
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 2: attached to a man like I would want to be.

1345
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 4: I would love to have a man that loves me

1346
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 4: and I love him unconditionally.

1347
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 2: But you know, it gotta make sense, like I don't

1348
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: want to just be with somebody for the sake of it,

1349
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 2: because then I'm back to where I started, you know, right, And.

1350
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 3: If you ask about woman, yeah, and if you I

1351
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 3: think a lot. I think women are okay with beans.

1352
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 3: We are and we aren't right because we want. We

1353
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 3: definitely want somebody.

1354
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 1: We want a man. Do you necessarily need them?

1355
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 4: So I need one. I'm tired of being out here

1356
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 4: by myself.

1357
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 1: I need I like being in relationship too. I definitely,

1358
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: I definitely like to be with a man.

1359
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 2: Like if you don't get no dick by twenty January,

1360
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna call you January twenty twenty four, like, did

1361
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 2: you get that?

1362
01:01:56,000 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm a fun I'm for you, ebony, but.

1363
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 4: Over here because.

1364
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 2: And I just want like a nice, juicy, big dick,

1365
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 2: Like yo, I've been so horny, like I've been just

1366
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 2: looking at niggas dicks all day.

1367
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 1: And one he called me looking at his dick, and

1368
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 1: he just started smiling.

1369
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, geez, it might have just.

1370
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 1: Been all nuts. It was a big balls piled up

1371
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: right there in front. A white man was a white man.

1372
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 4: I was like, damn, I did a white man before.

1373
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: How was that? It's nice?

1374
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 4: I mean I dated a certain type of white man,

1375
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 4: so yeah, it was a good time.

1376
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 2: I went through a phase where I just looked at

1377
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 2: everybody's dicks. It was a problem like I just looked

1378
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 2: at every If you was a man, I was like,

1379
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 2: I look at your face and then I looked down

1380
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 2: at your dick every and it didn't matter how old

1381
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 2: you were. It didn't like, I mean, not a child

1382
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 2: but a grown man. If you was grown, I was.

1383
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 4: Looking at your package. Yeah, just staring. Yeah, anywhere between

1384
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 4: twenty two and sixty. I looked at that dick. I

1385
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 4: ain't gonna lie.

1386
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 3: So I don't never not look at dick. I don't

1387
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 3: know what you're talking about. Like y'all stopped, why you look.

1388
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 2: I just I'm not I'm not in that space right now.

1389
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 2: I'm not in that space. I'm not looking at dick.

1390
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 2: I don't even want no dick right now.

1391
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: I still want to look I still I mean.

1392
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm in the space you were in three

1393
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 2: years ago, but not like that, not like for three

1394
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 2: I can't imagine it probably gonna happen till like till October.

1395
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 2: But you know what, regardless of the time frame, I

1396
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 2: think that every woman should go through a time frame

1397
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 2: time here when they're not having sex because I feel like,

1398
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 2: you know, and I don't want to say I'm celibate.

1399
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:55,959
Speaker 2: I want to say that I'm sustaining from sex because

1400
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 2: I feel like this has been the most rewarding season ever,

1401
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like the best thing you can do

1402
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 2: with guy is to keep your word, not to get

1403
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 2: all religious or anything.

1404
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 4: And I feel like, you know, I receive a lot

1405
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 4: of great rewards.

1406
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 2: For holding my word when it comes to you know,

1407
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 2: being very this is having a discipline. Yeah, so I

1408
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 2: think every woman should definitely go through this period when

1409
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 2: the time is right, because.

1410
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 4: When you know, you know, and you know, I feel

1411
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 4: like you will learn a lot about yourself.

1412
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 3: Damn what as as long as you ever went without sex,

1413
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 3: I got one year and maybe two one year and

1414
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 3: two months maybe, So it's good.

1415
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 2: It's been about or so when I was my boy

1416
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 2: life period, so when my boyfriend was in the military,

1417
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: you would be gone for six months. So six months,

1418
01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 2: that's good.

1419
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 4: But this time around, like it's only been like, how

1420
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 4: what's today?

1421
01:04:55,320 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: But it's been like at least two months, and I'm

1422
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 2: thinking October, I'm gonna fuck again.

1423
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 4: But I just needed so like ninety dad clarity.

1424
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 3: You know, I feel like we had a hotline. Somebody

1425
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 3: was gonna call in here and call you a fucking liar.

1426
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 4: But I do, like, girl, I fuck you last Thursday.

1427
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 1: Maya business, just maya business. Nigga up ship.

1428
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 3: Now, I was waiting for my ex to be sentenced

1429
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 3: at the time, so like the Feds broke us up right.

1430
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 3: So once that nigga got his sentence, I was like,

1431
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 3: fucking immediately I found a nigga and was about to

1432
01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 3: marry his ass.

1433
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 4: So that was your one year.

1434
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: Yes, hm, I need to come on the show man.

1435
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 4: I mean, I I got some good listen.

1436
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 1: I need to do another one. I need I definitely

1437
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: need to do a fast from sex.

1438
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 3: The thing is that I'll go like just not having

1439
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:56,320
Speaker 3: sex a lot, and then I just you know what

1440
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm saying, like this little spear at a moment type ship.

1441
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 4: But I'm like, not, do you do you masturbate Evane?

1442
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 4: Hell yeah, I'm not masturbating.

1443
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm not masturbating. I'm not doing nothing right now. I'm

1444
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 2: not smoking. I wasn't drinking, but I'm like having champagne

1445
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 2: a little bit here and there. We started drinking when

1446
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 2: Poor Minds came to town and we went out with them.

1447
01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 2: I had to drink then, and I'm having.

1448
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 4: A drink now. But do y'all look so cute.

1449
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:26,479
Speaker 1: I wasn't.

1450
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 4: I didn't.

1451
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 2: I'm not smoking, I'm not having sex, I'm not masturbating.

1452
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 2: I'm not doing nothing right now, at least till October.

1453
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 4: What's the reason I just don't want? Tommy asked, I

1454
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 4: just don't want to.

1455
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just need like some clarity, mental clarity.

1456
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I could use a no dick thing, but I

1457
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 3: don't even be having sex that often to be like, oh,

1458
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have no sex.

1459
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 4: But I wish somebody could call up right now because

1460
01:06:58,640 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 4: but that's enough for me. Child.

1461
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, bus both of us tonight. Make a video and

1462
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 2: send it to me.

1463
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 1: I'll be riding because I get watching it.

1464
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 2: But I can't participate.

1465
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 4: So you can watch it not get horny.

1466
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 2: Well, I haven't tried, so I don't know. But I'm

1467
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 2: just saying, if she make a video, I'll watch and

1468
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 2: see what happened.

1469
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm not beating off to you, smashing tam. I swear

1470
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 1: to God, like, what the fuck you nasty?

1471
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1472
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 4: If I could do that, I'm like, look at this, bitch,

1473
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 4: why not it's so different.

1474
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: No, it's not the same. That is not the same.

1475
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 1: It's your couchie, it's your butt. I don't want to

1476
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 1: see it.

1477
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 4: It's a good button, it's a problem.

1478
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 2: I will watch a video and they call you tomorrow, like,

1479
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 2: so what we talking about next week on the show.

1480
01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even wouldn't be like we've been right along, weirdo.

1481
01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 1: Tell me a fucking sociopath, y'all, that's not fair.

1482
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 2: All right, listen, all right, tell us your dumbitch stories,

1483
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 2: dumb bitch stories.

1484
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:10,000
Speaker 4: So dumb, because we've all been a dumb bitch at

1485
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 4: least one young nigga. I don't know what it is

1486
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:17,439
Speaker 4: about young niggas, but they have the best dick.

1487
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:21,240
Speaker 2: And I just feel like I think I was low

1488
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 2: key digmatized and I'm too I'm you know, it's I'm

1489
01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:25,600
Speaker 2: not too old to be digmatized.

1490
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 4: I'm too old to be digmatized by a young nigga, right,

1491
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 4: And I just.

1492
01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:34,599
Speaker 2: He ain't got nothing but dick, like he's still trying

1493
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 2: to figure shit out whatever. And I'm talking about like

1494
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 2: like his dick was so pretty, like as soon as

1495
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 2: I saw it, my mouth of water, and I just

1496
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, like it's just thinking about it, just

1497
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 2: like hmmm, but I feel like the dick was just

1498
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 2: so good I was just doing dumb ship, like you know,

1499
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 2: just doing things that you know you don't want to do,

1500
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 2: like because we used to live like right down the

1501
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 2: street from each other, and I don't know it's what

1502
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 2: you say, cleaning.

1503
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 1: That nigga house. She was cleaning that nigga house.

1504
01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 4: I know she was.

1505
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 1: Clean.

1506
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 4: Do you have lunch money? No money? I do a

1507
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 4: lot of other ship. I ain't given no nigga. Yeah,

1508
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 4: that was, but it was just like, you know, just

1509
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 4: cleaning his house or like helping.

1510
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 2: Him with his business, just like like that's not dumb bitch.

1511
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 2: I don't feel like that's a dumb bitch thing that

1512
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 2: like cleaning the house. No it is, because I feel

1513
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 2: like there's nothing wrong for that when that's your man,

1514
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 2: or you see some potential. I didn't see nothing in

1515
01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 2: this nigga. But I feel like I feel like for me,

1516
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 2: like nigga, we should just be fucking. I'm going home,

1517
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 2: but I'm helping you do this and do that, like

1518
01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:50,600
Speaker 2: it's just And then it was so weird because he

1519
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 2: had his housewoming party and this girl was over there

1520
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 2: and mind you, they young.

1521
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 4: And he said that's his cousin. But I feel like

1522
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 4: they was fucking.

1523
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 1: Probably how young.

1524
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think he was twenty five, twenty six.

1525
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: Okay, ain't too bad, too bad, look at this bitch.

1526
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Speaker 4: That's not for me.

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01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 1: That's just right for this bitch. I like grown man.

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01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:23,839
Speaker 1: I like ful adult.

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01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:25,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, like man.

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01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't take twenty six serious, but I would

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01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 2: definitely fuck twenty six.

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01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that was some good dick though. The last

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01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:39,719
Speaker 4: twenty six year old I fucked.

1534
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 2: He was trying to have me look sucking like a wheelbarrow,

1535
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:44,639
Speaker 2: had me like in plank position with my legs.

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01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:48,560
Speaker 4: I was like, nigga, I am too old for this motherfucking.

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01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:50,519
Speaker 1: Shit put down.

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01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:57,640
Speaker 4: They got all the stamina, like it's like that was

1539
01:10:57,680 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 4: a long time ago, y'all.

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01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 1: You have to get the runners. If you're gonna get

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01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 1: an older nigga, he gotta be like, have real good

1542
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:06,960
Speaker 1: cardio health, and he gonna fuck you just like them

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01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:08,679
Speaker 1: young niggas. For sure.

1544
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 4: What's old.

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01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 1: At this point? Like I don't know what's old because

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01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 1: I'll date a fifty year old. Hell no, I wouldn't.

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01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 2: Old.

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01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 1: I like forty seven, forty eight, forty nine.

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01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 3: I like, I like early forties two. I like forty

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01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:25,479
Speaker 3: old people I'll just say that I like people in

1551
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 3: their forties.

1552
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 1: At the fifty eight.

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01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 3: Year old, I just don't want to see that great

1554
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:32,599
Speaker 3: line around your pupil. Okay, that's how I know you old.

1555
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: Niggas the serial.

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01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 3: Niggah oh lass niggas trying to tell me he was

1557
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 3: forty five. Once with that great nigga, you every bit

1558
01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 3: of seventy six could play with me, like you had

1559
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 3: that gray line running looking like he.

1560
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:49,040
Speaker 2: Going I've ever dealt with was forty one?

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01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 1: Really old?

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01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 2: I ain't saying he was old.

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01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 4: I just said that was the oldest abdel Wow, that's interesting. No,

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01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 4: and that was recently?

1565
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 2: H Like yeah, like yeah, that was recent.

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01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 4: I think the oldest I dealt with was my fifty

1567
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:13,960
Speaker 4: year old. That was like one of my best relationships.

1568
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 4: Like he was so much fun and he was fine.

1569
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 2: Maybe I need to go ahead, give Willie Earl a

1570
01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 2: spind Let me find me a Willy Earl to see

1571
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 2: what they're talking about.

1572
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 1: He gotta be fine, though, you gotta be like a

1573
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: little Zaddi.

1574
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:29,440
Speaker 4: Exay.

1575
01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 2: It got to be like he just elbow fine because

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01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 2: he like fifty, right, I would I would date a

1577
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:38,040
Speaker 2: man that looked like that. But I don't be seeing

1578
01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:38,840
Speaker 2: him walking around.

1579
01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:40,599
Speaker 1: I'd be seeing some of them.

1580
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 4: Where.

1581
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:45,599
Speaker 1: Yes it might be somebody husband, but I mean it'd

1582
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 1: be outside.

1583
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:51,720
Speaker 4: I feel like men and like they used to. I

1584
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 4: have not seen no attractive man for so long. No,

1585
01:12:55,200 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 4: i'd be saying men. But where Charlotte, Carolina. Maybe in

1586
01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:03,639
Speaker 4: the South, because they ain't up here in New York.

1587
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 1: New York men be fine, but they be kind of weird. Man.

1588
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 3: They just so combative, like everything's a problem. It's like,

1589
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 3: why are we arguing and we haven't met in person yet?

1590
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 1: What is happening? What is happening?

1591
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:22,439
Speaker 2: You know?

1592
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:23,880
Speaker 4: I like the energy though.

1593
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 1: You're toxic.

1594
01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:33,400
Speaker 4: In a jar? I am right.

1595
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to be the first make a video,

1596
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:38,600
Speaker 2: send it.

1597
01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 4: Like, Hey guys, my first.

1598
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:49,439
Speaker 1: All right, y'all.

1599
01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:52,040
Speaker 2: Tell everybody where.

1600
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 4: They can find all the things plug yourself.

1601
01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 2: Yes, So you can follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and

1602
01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 2: YouTube at the Professional Homegirl. Also, if you want to

1603
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:05,639
Speaker 2: key key about any of the episodes on the podcast,

1604
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:08,879
Speaker 2: you can follow me at the p HG podcast on Instagram.

1605
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 4: And that's pretty much it.

1606
01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 2: You can listen to The Professional Homegirl. New episode drops

1607
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 2: every Tuesday on Black effects.

1608
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 4: Yea, thank you for you're great gest. We appreciate you.

1609
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 1: Show.

1610
01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:27,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, we want to come on your ship too.

1611
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 4: Yes, please give me some stories.

1612
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:35,560
Speaker 2: Oh, you're gonna have the You're gonna have the Not

1613
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:39,000
Speaker 2: only you have my voice in my face. You can't

1614
01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:42,559
Speaker 2: just be my face. You got to be the voice too. Yeah,

1615
01:14:43,520 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 2: because I need these stories too, because I need to

1616
01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 2: know he j Man went away for a year because we.

1617
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:54,679
Speaker 1: Were slinging them things.

1618
01:14:57,280 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 4: Look, you don't even gotta you ain't even gotta blur.

1619
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:05,559
Speaker 3: Love drugs, not serious love drugs, most slight work, that's whatever.

1620
01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 3: They arrested that nigga thought he was chopple with somebody

1621
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 3: because they had his whole race down a Cuban.

1622
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 1: This is a nigga.

1623
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 4: He looked Cuban though.

1624
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 1: That's why.

1625
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 2: And you know what, I want to also tell y'all congratulations.

1626
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 2: I feel like I've been following y'all since day one,

1627
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:24,560
Speaker 2: and I'm just super proud of y'all. I feel like

1628
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 2: from where y'all was at to where y'all at.

1629
01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 4: Look at y'all, selid. I think from where y'all let

1630
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 4: where y'all from, where y'all starts, where y'all.

1631
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 2: At now, y'all have definitely made a lot of progress,

1632
01:15:35,520 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 2: and I was so excited to see y'all in the

1633
01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:37,719
Speaker 2: breakfast club.

1634
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: So thank you girl.

1635
01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:43,040
Speaker 4: We appreciate that. Anytime he has accolates for me, I'll

1636
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 4: get grinning real hard.

1637
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:47,519
Speaker 1: Yes, I love it. Thank you, Eban, We got the

1638
01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:49,719
Speaker 1: professional home girl.

1639
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 4: Y'all.

1640
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 3: Tune into Ebane's podcast again. Like I said, she's on

1641
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 3: death row right along with us. I'm just playing Black

1642
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:00,519
Speaker 3: Effect Execs slash On.

1643
01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:04,280
Speaker 1: Anyway, y'all.

1644
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 3: If you enjoyed this episode, tune in every Thursday on

1645
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:09,840
Speaker 3: the iHeartRadio Apple Where the fuck you get your podcast at?

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Speaker 1: This your grade A bay AJ Holiday AJ Holiday two

1647
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 1: point oh.

1648
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 4: I love y'all. I love y'all.

1649
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:21,879
Speaker 2: Thank y'all for tuning in once again. It's official Tambama

1650
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Speaker 2: on Instagram. Y'all follow me please, thank y'all for tuning

1651
01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:27,560
Speaker 2: in once again. Remember speak now and

1652
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 1: Never hold your peace.