WEBVTT - MarieBettaThanUs 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:07.120 Listening to mess Hello, Hello, hi friends. 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:12.600 Hi, we just had lunch. Yeah so we food fairy 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:16.079 fool What I would do it again? 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:19.520 Oh No, I think sometimes that work better on an 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:20.239 empty stomach. 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:22.440 Maybe desperation makes you. 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.880 Because it's like I have something to look forward to 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:30.560 when I'm full. I'm like, well we're finished. It's that's 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:34.440 that's the end and being no. Now, I'm like, we'll 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:38.240 really go for something sweet. Ah okay, black black black 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:41.280 black black black black on black, oh black, oh black black, 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:44.120 something sweet. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:48.000 It's a cultural thing, you know, is the want of sweetness. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:52.480 After a cultural thing, because all restaurants that serve entrees 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:57.200 typically have desserts. No, but to say you want something sweet, 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:01.160 it's like, that's that's you called me the end word. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.600 No hard all lowercase. 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:12.840 You called me aubercase, no lowercase. 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:14.080 That's crazy. 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:18.440 Just today at the end, Yeah, we did that. We're 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:23.960 doing it. Things are going. I mean the year zoom zoom, 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:24.679 boom boom. 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:27.479 I take me, it's only the third month of the year. 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.399 We got nine break a half months left. Take a break, 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:32.959 slow down. 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:36.200 It's I feel like every time I come in every week, 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:39.760 I'm like, oh, another another week just went by. 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:45.280 Yeah, that's how time works. Well, thanks bitch, I didn't know. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:48.280 Another week just went by. Thank you so much. 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:52.360 During the day, I'll be like, wow, another hour, another hour, 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:54.360 and every week I'm like another day. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.240 My philosopher friend Boston. 0:01:57.040 --> 0:02:01.840 Look, we switched nails. I'm wearing my nails, but it's 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:04.320 the same kind of color. 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:05.000 Yeah, it does. 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.760 I mean, the thing is is that I do want 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:10.720 to take a break with the nails. It's just but 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:14.920 I'm also like, I feel like my hands look so 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:19.560 like unkept when it's not done, like I need. I 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.960 feel like I need a little extra. I need an 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:25.160 extension because when I just have mine, the on the kneeless, 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.760 stop it. That's how they do it in the casket. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:31.000 They put it on top. Yeah. They put your hands 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.600 on top of each other on the casket. Yeah, when 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:36.400 you're when you're laying you don't see it. No, I 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:39.880 think when I die, leave my arms loose. No, that 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:44.080 that's one hand like this, No, and don't do that. No, 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:46.680 maybe put them both on the side like I'm sleeping 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:47.760 like a baby, like a baby. 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:49.839 That's so unserious. Prayer hand. 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:53.680 No, it's so unserious. And people will not cry. What 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:56.240 you mean they will have questions. First of all, if 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:59.440 you are at my funeral and you are not there 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:03.240 with the theater, don't come, okay. If you're not going 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:06.920 to show up in a in a hat that's uh 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:11.239 too big and a veil that's very dark, then don't come. 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:12.000 Okay. 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:16.400 I want to have either like a very specific guest 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:20.120 list or I want it busting out the band. I 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:23.320 want to line super like mad lines around the corner. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.239 I want red rope. Yeah. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:27.399 I want people like trying to pay tickets to get 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:31.800 in things is health and I want it through a ticketmaster. 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.840 Oh yeah, if you want resale, if I shall, I 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:37.440 want it, you know. I want it to be my 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.960 renaissance but different. 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.000 I don't know if I need all that, but I 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:46.520 do want you know. 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:48.720 I want you to show up in your in your 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.680 coolest fit, and I need you to not play it 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:53.520 cool at all. When you see me laying there with 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:58.720 my hands please don't no. I actually I will make 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:00.920 sure like this, like this this is I'm not a 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:05.200 part of your family. I'm not in the close ten. 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:07.920 But I will literally be like that's not happening. 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:08.880 I will, I will. 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:16.200 I will break your hands and make my hand. Let 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:18.080 me be buried like, and I want the head a 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.359 little bit to the side. I will move everything around. 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:23.520 I'll be shifting stuff for the ball to throw me out. 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:26.839 They will, They absolutely will. If there's no drama at 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:29.200 the funeral, did I even die? You told me make 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:35.760 a scene, and I will and it had Yeah. 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:40.680 Yeah, because unials are sad, so make it interesting. 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.080 I haven't been to one in a in a long time, 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:47.159 but I believe the three funerals you haven't been to. 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:51.160 Ready go top three, Top three. You're you're insane. 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:54.039 I'm not. I'm not doing this with you. I will 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:56.920 say my cousin's funeral. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.800 This is like, I don't know. This has to be 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.520 over thirty years ago. They used to call him candy 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:04.120 Man because he would give the kids candy. 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:06.760 Oh, because you gotta say he was scary. No, he 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.120 was not scaring. He was cool, candy man. He had 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.279 a he had a huge funeral. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:13.520 It was so he was in a like one of 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:17.880 the biggest churches in Oakland, and everybody showed up. Everybody 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:21.160 pulled their kids with diabetes. No, we didn't have that, 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.560 not yet, diabetes. It didn't exist in another that time. No, 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:29.040 we didn't and they let me do uh like a eulogy, 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:30.520 and I don't know why they did that. 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.159 That you was up? 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:37.040 Was this your first show? I want to say this 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:40.040 was death basically an open mic for me. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.400 It was an open mind. 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:44.520 I wrote everything out, but I did not stick to 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:45.279 the script. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.159 Oh free stylin. Yeah. 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:49.880 I was like, I remember when we were used to 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:52.560 watch Faracon together and I would tell him I don't 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.000 want to watch this. I want to turn on cartoons 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:57.400 and he's like, this is for your people, you must 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:02.279 watch this. They were like what, And he will always 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.240 try to give me the bean pies and I was like, ugh. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:08.040 It's nasty going up there. They were like. 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:11.320 If they were trying to shine the light on they 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.560 definitely did. They pulled me down and then at the end, 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:16.040 everybody like laughed and I clapped, but it was just like, 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.479 please get whose kid is this? 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:25.400 Mmmm hmmm? I see you're silent? Was I silent? Or 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:26.400 was I silenced? 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:27.360 You were? 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:31.280 You were? I was Silentdeah, I'm speechless. 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.360 I've never given a speech at the funeral, thank goodness, 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:37.000 and I hope you don't have to no time soon. 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:41.039 Forever. Knock knock on wood yeah, knock on wood. 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.160 But like, the crazy thing about getting older is as 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:47.599 you get older, everybody around you also gets older, right 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.040 is that some it's crazy? 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.120 Did anybody know that in the room? It's crazy that 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:53.880 you get. 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:56.680 Older, and so did the people around you. Not even 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:59.120 the people around you, people you don't know, Like all 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:02.760 of the celebrity, all of the celebrities that I grew 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.800 up watching are all old now, like in a way 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:09.440 that's like I'm like, oh my god, these people are old, 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.640 see and I need you to get that out your mouth. 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:18.440 That old like but I old, No, Marie old, I 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:22.679 think older, like the oldest is like when you start 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:28.400 getting in your like mid sixties, close to seventies, but calling. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:31.480 People old or old. 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:36.320 At like forties, fifties, but talking about how you jump 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:38.800 the gun, you got to you gotta take yourself out 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:39.360 of it. I didn't. 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:42.200 I never said me. Well, I never said me. You're 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.720 like that word is very triggering for you. No, it's 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:47.440 not true. No, it's not trigging trigger. Do you look 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.640 up trigger trigger. I'm not triggered. 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.720 I'm freaking trick trick t I double r am, I 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:56.400 triggered or tricked. You tricked me, is that triggered or 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:57.720 was I triggered? 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:00.640 No? No, girl, what are you talking about. 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:03.920 I'm talking about the celebrities that we've now watched, names 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:07.640 like even looking at like I saw Goldie Horn recently 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:09.440 and I said, damn. 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.240 Goldie, she not in her forties. 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:13.440 She might have been in her forties when I was 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:14.520 a fetus. 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:18.120 But I just I you see people. 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.000 You grew up watching these people, they always look a 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:25.040 certain way, and now as as we age, you see 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:29.000 them and you're like, damn, and like, you know, people 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:32.520 are dying and it's like, DA's crazy, Like. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:35.120 People are not looking the same and they're dying. Can 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.560 you believe it? That's unbelievable to me. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:40.240 It's because it's something that I never thought about, Like 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:42.880 when we're when we're young and our parents are making 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:46.280 references to old stuff that we don't know or you know, 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.400 I don't know people Michael Jackson, we need like all 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:51.320 these people are dying. It's like, yeah, but they're old. 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:54.120 But then as you age, you're like, yo, the people 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.120 I grew up watching, the people that I used to 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:01.480 think were cool, are now well on paper. I just 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:04.080 want to let you know, Michael was not old. When 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:08.880 he passed and neither neither was Whitney. They I would 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.680 say they passed young. They had so much more to 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:13.720 have a five in your age and then be and 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:15.920 be considered young. I don't think if it starts with 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:18.920 a five, you that's older than middle age. You gotta 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:24.160 change your tune. Sydney, tune is off. You're off tuned. 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:25.600 I'm out of tune. You're at. 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:28.600 Yeah, you're touch. Somebody need to tune you up, said, 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:29.199 I'm out of touch. 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:33.599 Yeah, I'm at. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.040 So tell me the age where you're just like this 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:40.520 is the beginning of old. Thirty thirty beginning of old, sister, 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:44.760 because that's when your knees start cracking when you wake up, 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:47.360 your back hurt because you try to put two pillows 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:47.959 on top. 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:50.240 Of each other. No, thirty is the beginning of old. 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:53.600 I didn't start feeling like all crickety crackety until like 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:55.679 maybe two years ago, two three years ago. 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:59.520 And you were in your thirty So what did I 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.960 say when your twenties not thirty? Though thirty. 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:07.040 I was ripping and running, sure, but popping and booping boo. 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:09.200 You asked me what age starts to be old for me? 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:11.000 I said, thirty, what it starts. 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:14.400 To be old for you? I'm gonna say, like, for real, 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:17.760 for real, sixty sixty is the beginning of old. Yes, 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:20.480 oh okay. 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:24.000 Yeah, because if you because if you really think about it, 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:27.520 the we we are closer to whatever age you think 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.480 is old right now. We're we're in that, We're headed 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:33.400 towards that age bracket. Yeah, that's what happens when you age, 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.600 you get older, Hugh. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.480 And I and I'm gonna say I'm not. I'm not. 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:42.520 I'm not sixty yet, so I'm still I could drop 0:10:42.559 --> 0:10:46.240 it low, pick it up slow. I did fall asleep 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:50.480 at my friend's birthday party where she had everybody wrapping 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:51.080 in the studio. 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:54.680 So Sidney did fall asleep? And give me there, Sidney. 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.040 I've been watching you fall asleep in public places, at 0:10:57.160 --> 0:11:00.800 parties with DJs and music and light for the last 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:01.240 ten years. 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:05.040 Wait, hold up, name places. 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:07.640 Where every party we've ever been together, I watch you 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:08.040 fall asleep. 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:10.840 That's a fucking limeery. You have to stop lying. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:13.320 Are you hitting at a person's house if there's a 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:17.360 couch and a blanket you sleep, Hey, stop having house parties, y'all. No, 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:18.479 it's too comfortable. 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:22.080 If your cat is there. I'm getting cozy. That's not 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:22.679 my fault. 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:27.160 That's not my fault, Sydney girl, the heat is on. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.040 What do you want from me? What morning you want 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:31.840 from me? You have the heat on. 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:35.320 There's Lacroix, there's a cat or a dog and a 0:11:35.400 --> 0:11:40.160 couch nap time. No, maybe we had a hearty No, 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:41.880 it's obviously wasn't loud enough. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.920 Girl. Girl, y'all was screaming and shouting to the yeah roofs. 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:49.240 We're in the studio being loud, trying to get our 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:53.960 glorilla on and Sydney, I'm glad nobody took a picture 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:57.160 or videotaped. I'm very thankful. I was too busy trying 0:11:57.160 --> 0:12:00.120 to write my my wraps, and I'm so thankful that 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:03.280 you were staying focused. It was a good It was 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:06.920 like a genius idea to have your friends go to 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:10.920 a studio and write a whole, like write verse, like 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:15.280 make a song. But I will say my Adhd got 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:16.720 the best of me. I couldn't, and that's why I 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:18.520 took it. And I was like, I'm tired just thinking 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:20.640 he did not get in the booth chain, I did 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:21.800 not get to drop her verse. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:23.760 I was I was rapping with y'all. I was hopping. 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:28.200 No know, we needed a sid. We needed a sid 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.439 brit w exclusive. Somebody did. 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:33.360 Somebody wrote a rhyme for me. And it was just 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.920 like I'm gay, I'm gay, I'm gay. I don't scissor, 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:38.400 but I'll take your sister. 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:42.720 Yeah. Bars, it was stupid. So I don't scissor, but 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:45.880 SID will steal your sister. Yeah it was yeah, and 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:46.839 your mother with you. 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:50.320 It was like, okay, I'm was like watch yeah, it 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:51.000 was something like that. 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:52.360 It was like I'm gay. 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.720 I'm not saying any of that stuff, but you are gay, 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:59.680 but I'm not rapping that. And and I won't. I 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.600 don't want to lie. But the beat that was doing 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:04.160 nothing for me right. 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:10.240 Well, it wasn't if you metro do, It wasn't. It 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:15.160 wasn't made. It wasn't that. What's another one. It wasn't it. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:19.679 Don't play with a valley, it was anything else. You know. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:24.439 It was just like, you know, it wasn't mustard, no, 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:25.920 not any of that. 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.559 And I but I did think it was like a 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:33.640 good uh like practice. It was I feel like, you know, 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:37.720 maybe I don't know. I was just like I need 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:40.280 more words, I need to learn how to rhyme. I 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:43.640 don't know it was I was overwhelmed. I was like, 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:44.640 I need to read a book. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.920 Being there with everybody thinking of stuff, I. 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:51.200 Was like, I'm not as creative as I not. I 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:53.360 need to read a book, I will say. After I 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:55.720 got home, I started thinking of all the things I 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.679 could have said, all the things that rhymed I was. 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:01.719 I woke up the next day. I was one fish, bluefish, 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:02.760 who is ubiche? 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:07.120 Like I was in my house truly like creating Pulitzer 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:11.560 Prize when it wraps home. Yeah, at two o'clock in 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.760 the morning. Yeah, And I went. And I woke up 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:16.440 the next day and I was like, oh, you know 0:14:16.480 --> 0:14:21.600 what I should have said, But listen, if you don't 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:24.200 have a birthday party and you don't have people record 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:28.479 a record in the studio, send them the track beforehand. 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.280 I agreed, because I asked for it and didn't get it. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:34.800 They did not, and that would have been helpful. But 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:37.160 also it was just like, I think she wanted us 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:40.840 to be in the moment and to actually like play 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:44.040 off of each other. So I got that, But yeah, 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:46.400 I don't think I'm that type of our worker bee 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:50.200 at all. I think I need to like do my 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:53.680 push ups at home in a corner and then come 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:57.320 in like ready to make the honey push ups. 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.080 You do push ups at the hump. No, you know 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:01.040 that it was in an analogy, bitch, you know what 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:06.200 the analogy? What push ups? What does push ups stand for? Whatever? 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:07.400 I just want to know. 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:09.760 I think it's a great year for all the birthday 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:11.920 things that people have been doing. Sydney did a paint 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:15.600 and uh paint and sit for her for the group. 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:19.320 This person did a studio session. Uh yeah, I'm excited 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:20.840 to see what all the others. I mean, it's taken 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:23.680 us to Cowboy Carter. I mean, we have to send 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:25.640 her money for the tickets, but we send it already, 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.840 so then you can't say she's taking us. Oh oh, 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:30.840 is that what it is? I mean, she she's like 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:34.280 she paid, she paid for it up top. But that's 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.280 not you can't say she's taking us. That makes it 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:38.680 sound like she brought everybody's tickets to see Beyonce. She 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:44.040 would never never that, bitch. I mean maybe maybe if she, 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:47.520 you know, came into some money, but yeah, the way 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:49.920 she's like, y'all got one more week y'all got one 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:52.520 more week to vemmo me, and then after the. 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:55.280 Week she gets the tickets go up for sales. 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:57.680 You know how she gets and you know she's petty 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:59.800 like that, will you will get replaced? 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:00.880 Who's not you? 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:03.960 But I'm just saying in general, we have some friends 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:06.800 that's like they not playing about their Vemo. They will 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:08.760 hit you up. They don't have no shame. They're like, 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:11.800 don't make me be a bill collector, but I will. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:14.000 I mean, honestly, I forgot how much the tickets cost, 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:16.560 so at this point she could just Vemo girl four fifty. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:18.240 I talked to her this morning. 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:22.360 I'vemoting her and I was like, all right, I guess 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:25.760 so shit. She's like, a, yeah, no, I saw you 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:28.440 was getting birthday cars and putting money in people's cars, 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:29.960 and you know you owe me money. I was like, 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:33.840 oh not this, not this my mom. 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:34.760 You owe me? 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:38.960 Is it mess to owe somebody money and then be 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:40.760 spending money in front of them? 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:41.520 Obviously? 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:45.840 Yeah, that's all that's an always like, you know, I 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:49.200 think it's okay to borrow money, but then you have 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:52.680 to follow up by still being like, oh, like you 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:55.440 ain't got it, or like things are bad. You can't 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:58.440 be borrow money and then acting like, oh things is up, 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.520 I'm living, I'm thriving. Oh nobody wants to see that. Well, 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:05.560 you need to continue the bad, the rock bottom. Some 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:09.119 people borrow so that they can bawl. They borrow so 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:11.840 they can ball. I was dating a dude and this 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:15.360 guy used to ask him for money for stuff, and 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:18.320 he would always feel bad because he'd be like, well, 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.479 if he's asking me, he must have exhausted all his 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:22.160 real friends. 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:25.679 And I'm like yeah, or he's like, why ask my 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:28.040 real friends? When I ask this random who will give 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:28.959 me some fucking money? 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:31.240 I would do that, but he gave him money once 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.600 and then he went to Miami for spring break. I said, 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:38.280 now you got a lot of nerve. That's that's insane, 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.520 because you in Miami in your first of all you 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:45.000 are you've aged out of that. If you are asking people, 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:46.800 I don't know, it's childish and you too. 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:48.840 Old for it. At the same time, never, that's we 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:52.359 need to start. That's mess. You two old, you too young? No, no, no, 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:57.240 I'm a human being. I am every woman from everybody. 0:17:57.840 --> 0:18:01.959 I'm gonna I'm gonna do what I want to do regardless. 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:06.440 Spring break is for college kids and people in their 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:10.800 twenties early thirties. You can't be forty years old at 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:13.640 spring break after you've done borrowed money to get there. 0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:18.680 That's that's a red flag. Who am I not a god? 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:22.439 You're a person. You're a person who's not asking for 0:18:22.520 --> 0:18:24.560 money to go to spring break. No. 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:29.719 No, But I have asked money from a friend. I 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:32.840 was like, yeah, I need to get this lingerie, but 0:18:32.960 --> 0:18:38.840 myleres directed bus didn't it. 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:40.080 Can I borrow this? 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:42.760 And the friend was like, it's fine, just take it 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:46.560 like they was like, oh, you need a lingerie for somebody. 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:48.440 I don't think you're allowed to have sex if you 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:50.240 ain't got no money. Not if you're a woman. 0:18:51.680 --> 0:18:56.960 If you're a damn woman, woman, let me be your woman. 0:18:57.600 --> 0:19:05.240 Wo w woman, you are messy woman woman woman. 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:30.960 Yeah, if you're borrowing money to buy penny draws sexy fenty, Hey, 0:19:31.119 --> 0:19:33.880 if you want me to come in my dusters and 0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:36.479 that you know the string is hanging off and whatnot, 0:19:36.600 --> 0:19:37.400 the elastre. 0:19:37.480 --> 0:19:39.920 If you're my friend, you would want better for me? Yeah, 0:19:39.920 --> 0:19:44.879 And I would send you a linked in or indeed link. 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:49.200 Marie, you're the type of friend I know, like, honestly 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:53.840 like you. You are my best. But I know if 0:19:53.880 --> 0:19:55.880 I had to borrow money from you. First of all, 0:19:56.160 --> 0:19:57.880 I'd have to write a paper. I have to write 0:19:57.880 --> 0:20:00.840 a paper. There are three reasons why I need one 0:20:00.960 --> 0:20:01.960 hundred and fifty dollars. 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:02.679 Yes, I would. 0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:05.960 I would have to do like a PowerPoint, and then 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:07.720 I would have to show you. Okay, this is the 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:10.240 date that I would pay you back. And like they were, 0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:12.720 you make me sound worse than a mina. Chris Marie, 0:20:12.760 --> 0:20:17.080 you do you don't. Let I've never heard of you 0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:19.080 giving out money to nobody. 0:20:19.080 --> 0:20:21.760 I give money to my siblings. 0:20:21.880 --> 0:20:24.840 Okay, that's it, yes, of course, But like my friends 0:20:24.840 --> 0:20:26.480 have also never asked me for money. Why would you 0:20:26.480 --> 0:20:28.399 be asking me for money? They know, they know not 0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:32.600 you know rich people. Why would you ask me, oh little? 0:20:33.040 --> 0:20:37.200 Because they feel your first of all, never never poor, 0:20:37.800 --> 0:20:39.800 never poor, reasy, but no cheesy. 0:20:40.720 --> 0:20:43.280