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Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer and iHeartRadio podcast, and we're

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Speaker 1: back together.

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Speaker 2: I love being together.

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Speaker 1: It just feels better.

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Speaker 2: It does.

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Speaker 3: It's a little clunky on Zoom because I don't want

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Speaker 3: to overtalk, but then the dead space is like wow,

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: And then it's like you start talking, and then it's

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Speaker 1: like it takes seconds for people to realize that we're

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Speaker 1: all you know. It's just it's like a conference call

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Speaker 1: that I hate. I hate conference calls.

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Speaker 2: Oh they're so annoying, so annoying. Uh huh, they're my

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Speaker 2: least favorite things to do. Ever, your least.

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Speaker 3: Favorite thing to do would be on one with my husband?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, why Actually no, I don't want to throw

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Speaker 3: the other one under the bus. But there's somebody else

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Speaker 3: that's always on his calls that is just horrible.

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Speaker 1: The other one, Chris, don't be mad at me is he.

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Speaker 3: Just doesn't like to meet. He doesn't mute. I Also,

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Speaker 3: I will give this no if you guys use zoom

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Speaker 3: on your phones, it's so much different than zoom on

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Speaker 3: the computer. And I always feel like eyes struggle with how.

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Speaker 2: Do I have this?

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Speaker 1: Yesterday she was like, I can't, I'm mute. She was trying.

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't like Google meets.

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Speaker 1: I don't either, does anybody A lot of business A

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Speaker 1: lot of companies you.

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Speaker 2: Say a lot of our business sums. I know Google

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Speaker 2: meets and it drives me nuts. I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know it. I can't find the mute button.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, and then someone else on that call was texting

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Speaker 1: me the entire time. I cannot unmute either, and she's

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Speaker 1: like trying to finish. She's like, I'm just gonna go away.

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Speaker 1: I was like, she's like me right, yeah, yeah, she

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Speaker 1: was there, but she went off. She's like, I can't

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Speaker 1: unmute myself, so I'm just going to go off video.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you're good and skipped texting.

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Speaker 2: It was just funny. It's maddening, though, yes, but anyways,

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Speaker 2: so this is better. So this is fun. Girls. How

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Speaker 2: are we doing? You know? I afraid to say, well, no, no,

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Speaker 2: bottom might fallout, no no no good good like good

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Speaker 2: good good good good good good. We just like fully

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Speaker 2: finished potty training.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so fast. It feels like I love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was. I did the three day

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Speaker 2: yeah that I did with Jolie and Jays and I

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Speaker 2: so I bought Roman his potty gosh pretty much when

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Speaker 2: he turned two, because I I potty trained Jace right

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Speaker 2: on that one potty he was just not ready. So

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, the shrunken little potty, we now use

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Speaker 2: it as a travel potty. Yeah, but yeah, like he

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Speaker 1: And way better than like just trying to fight it

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Speaker 1: if they're not ready.

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent. And then we would start to put

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Speaker 2: But he just wouldn't sit there long enough to like

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Speaker 2: he's going to be three in November. We got to

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Speaker 3: Oh sorry, yeah, sorry. We turned three on June ninth,

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Speaker 3: and there are nowhere.

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Speaker 1: Near fine and everything's fine.

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Speaker 3: Well listen, I will say, I really think it's mine.

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Speaker 2: That's where you can't compare.

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Speaker 3: Oh never, every kid's different, yeah, and I don't honestly

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Speaker 2: But the thing with Roman two is that he wasn't

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Speaker 1: I had to make it well, and you have to

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Speaker 2: Nothing, which is where key my opportunity I think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Alan was lucky because the three days that

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Speaker 2: and it's sweet though, he's just like, you did a

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Speaker 2: So it was totally fine. But I knew for me,

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Speaker 3: I got really excited because I actually was here for

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Speaker 3: I think, like after this is actually amazing. And I

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Speaker 3: don't think this made the gram or I missed it,

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Speaker 3: but I was here for a couple of days after

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Speaker 3: the three days maybe, and I didn't know that there's

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Speaker 3: a full on harmonica party that happened. So Roman comes

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Speaker 3: even know where she got the harmonica. It came out

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Speaker 3: blown harmonica whoo. And there was a party and he

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Speaker 2: Going to happen. Every time I play the harmonica, which

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Speaker 2: it's a harmonica party. People do candy, You're like I

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Speaker 2: for anyone that missed. I posted on my Instagram with

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Speaker 2: like all the little tips and stuff. But it was great.

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Speaker 2: But I was scared though, because we were driving down

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Speaker 2: first like real long. I mean it's not long. It's

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Speaker 2: he can totally hold it. Yeah, which I because I

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Speaker 2: took the potty out. That's amazing, and he went to

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Speaker 2: It was a little he was afraid to do number

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Speaker 1: Lot of times. A lot, I would say, majority of

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Speaker 2: So I had a ton of questions about and like, sorry,

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Speaker 2: Julian and Jace, but like they didn't, Yeah, they would

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Speaker 2: at night time, because they were so afraid of like

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Speaker 2: and like I would squeeze his hand. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And now he's like proud of himself. But it took

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Speaker 1: That's great. I will say one of my kids, I

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Speaker 2: To a lot of body but that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I forgot there was two accidents. He did it in

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Speaker 1: Common with the water. I remember. I remember reading that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm fine with that. But yeah, that's what what's

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Speaker 2: just getting things ready. I was starting to have a moment, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm starting to get depressed.

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Speaker 1: No why yeah, why, like cause you're getting back.

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Speaker 2: And like nothing's happening. Okay, So you know, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I wondered if this would hit. Yeah, I thought it

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Speaker 1: But I mean I get it, totally understands. So but

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I know we can talk about this

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Speaker 2: my head yea of like every worst case scenario, and

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Speaker 2: then I'm like what am I doing with my life?

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Speaker 2: And then it's and then it's just like the next day,

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Speaker 2: I've got energy and I'm great. But then I look

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Speaker 2: then it's just so interesting where that's where I'm at.

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Speaker 2: Literally today, I'm like one day I'm depressed and the

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Speaker 1: I have a wine about it?

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Speaker 1: Is like I got it for Kaden before he started driving,

438
00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,080
Speaker 1: so he drove it. He wrote it like two times

439
00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,399
Speaker 1: across the street to the school. Emmy will ride it

440
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:08,160
Speaker 1: every now and then.

441
00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 2: How fast?

442
00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:13,000
Speaker 1: Oh not very fast, okay, I mean probably not twenty

443
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:16,520
Speaker 1: So they have one, not a bike scooter. They do

444
00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,920
Speaker 1: have an e scooter that barely gets ridden at our house,

445
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,720
Speaker 1: but we do have one. That's what I'm saying. I

446
00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,400
Speaker 1: will say we have an e scooter, not an E bike.

447
00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,400
Speaker 1: Well also, and I don't even know if it goes. Yeah,

448
00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,520
Speaker 1: that's old and was like two hundred dollars, Like I

449
00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:31,400
Speaker 1: don't think it goes it's not one of those really

450
00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:32,440
Speaker 1: expensive it's.

451
00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's Alie's got one of the what are those?

452
00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,960
Speaker 2: Like Love has one too, but it's probably it's like

453
00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,480
Speaker 2: made first. Yeah, yeah, it's a scooter.

454
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 1: Does it go on its own? It does, so technically

455
00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,800
Speaker 1: it is an e scooter. So like we have that too,

456
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,639
Speaker 1: So we're really exactly the same. Yeah, like she can't,

457
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,560
Speaker 1: I mean, can really take hurt on like the one

458
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 1: we have always a helmet, right, always a helmet, And

459
00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,120
Speaker 1: also this one really does go so like I think

460
00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:57,680
Speaker 1: she's tried to get it up to me exactly.

461
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:01,360
Speaker 2: So here's the thing too. In Tennessee one in class two,

462
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 2: which goes up to twenty miles per hour, there is

463
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:09,800
Speaker 2: no age limit, yes required for that a class three

464
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:13,239
Speaker 2: the minimum age is sixteen. But here's the deal class one,

465
00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 2: in class two, you're still going twenty miles power.

466
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Speaker 3: That's really fast when you don't have a helmet and

467
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:18,879
Speaker 3: you're in the middle of the street and you're popping

468
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 3: wheelies and you're being ridiculous with all of your I.

469
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 2: Feel like they should at least like say you have

470
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,119
Speaker 2: to wear a helmet.

471
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,640
Speaker 1: Well, technically you're supposed to be wearing a helmet until

472
00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,360
Speaker 1: you're sixteen on a regular bike, but no one does

473
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,879
Speaker 1: anything about it. So it's part of my wine. Most

474
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,720
Speaker 1: of my wine is this, even though I have a

475
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 1: lot of things around. This is why are the cops

476
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 1: not stopping these kids? Why am I seeing all these kids?

477
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 1: And I understand that everyone else on that Facebook page

478
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 1: wants to complain about it because they just spend one

479
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 1: thousand dollars on an e bike and they don't want

480
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 1: the cops stopping their kids or whatever, but like you

481
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 1: need to do something about it, like letting them get

482
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Speaker 1: away with it.

483
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 2: Helmets are only legally required if you are under sixteen

484
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:03,240
Speaker 2: years of age, right, Yeah, I actually of police kids

485
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 2: are sixteen, right, so they should be getting at your point,

486
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 2: the police should absolutely because isn't that the number one

487
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 2: I think you girls were chatting about. That's the number

488
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 2: one accident in the eers.

489
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Speaker 1: It's like the new bites. And I don't know if

490
00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,200
Speaker 1: that's like a proven stat but we're hearing that from

491
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 1: a lot of doctors and nurses and stuff, and we've

492
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 1: had several accidents. We thank the Lord, have not had

493
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 1: anyone pass away in the on school that I know of,

494
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:27,920
Speaker 1: but We've had several accidents and we had a really

495
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 1: bad one outside of the new publics And I'm not

496
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 1: kidding you. There's a blind spot right there. I almost

497
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,000
Speaker 1: hit one the other day. Well, they're just coming in

498
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:39,720
Speaker 1: so fast they're coming and you can't see.

499
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, We've got a couple kids in our neighborhood that

500
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 2: do it, and it's just how fast they're going. Yeah

501
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 2: that if, I mean, they're not maybe paying attention as

502
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: well as you know, maybe other kids might be driving them,

503
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 2: or maybe the you know, my son who's running around

504
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 2: doesn't see it, like they could get hit very easily. Yes,

505
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,959
Speaker 2: a split second of not looking. And that was it.

506
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 3: Like, so I was actually going to bring this up

507
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 3: to you, not here, but to see, like, am I

508
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,919
Speaker 3: a curmudgeon because I do have younger kids and you

509
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 3: have the older kids. So I thought, well, maybe I'm

510
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 3: just being eighty seven, like yeah, my name. I just

511
00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 3: they're coming in packs right now and it's so fast

512
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 3: and they're not paying attention.

513
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 2: They are all young, So what would you like to

514
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:19,919
Speaker 2: see be done?

515
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing. I am definitely in the minority,

516
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 1: like I feel like in our you know, there are

517
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: a lot of them have it. I would like because

518
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 1: if parents are not going to do something about it,

519
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: if parents are not going to force their kids to

520
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: wear helmets, if parents are not are going to buy

521
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 1: these bikes for them, the next step to me is

522
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,640
Speaker 1: that police need to step in if it is something

523
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: And I don't care how small it is. We live

524
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,439
Speaker 1: in this small town. It's not like they're dealing with

525
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 1: a bunch of crime. Take the time, pull a kid over,

526
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 1: take them home and say this is not legal. Like,

527
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: and this is not a popular opinion probably, but I'm like,

528
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: you have to do something. You're you're they're setting a

529
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,360
Speaker 1: precedent so early for them to get away with doing

530
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: things that at the end of the day are not allowed.

531
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Speaker 3: Well, I keep thinking if they weren't on a bicycle,

532
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 3: what would the law be, you know, like if they're

533
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 3: flying around on anything at twenty twenty eight miles an hour.

534
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 1: Right, Well, they're just they're just so dangerous. They're just

535
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: so dangerous. But my other side of that is I

536
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: also have and this is where I really got passionate

537
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: about it. I have a seventeen year old driver. Okay,

538
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 1: so what happens when he all of a sudden an

539
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: e bike runs out in front of him and then

540
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: he accidentally kills somebody. You know what I'm saying, Like

541
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm terrified of that. Well, they're kids, their new were drivers,

542
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: and they are you still learning, and they are paying attention.

543
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: And now you have this added element of all these

544
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 1: young kids who are not paying attention whatsoever. And I'm

545
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: not saying I mean, my kid ran out in front

546
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: of a car on a bicycle and trust me, we

547
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,479
Speaker 1: had a lot of consequences for that. I mean I

548
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: yanked her up. I'm not saying my kid is innocent

549
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 1: in any of this. They are all kids, you know,

550
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: they're young, they're kids. They don't think they're not ready

551
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: to drive and know the rule. I mean, you're on

552
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: a road and you don't know the law. You don't

553
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: know the rules of a road, you know what I mean.

554
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 1: So it's like they're not ready for that. They're not

555
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: ready to be on something going twenty miles an hour

556
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 1: on a road when they don't even know who has

557
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: the ride away that's or who when to go, you know, Like,

558
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 1: that's just so sorry. I'm very passionate about that, obviously,

559
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 1: but it's just I think that's where if parents aren't

560
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: going to do it, it's time for place to step

561
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: in and do something about it.

562
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 2: I also just miss riding a bike for exercise. That's

563
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 2: the plain what happened to the day. Like I used

564
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: to ride my bike everywhere. I don't have mewhere motor

565
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 2: to get me to Lindsay's house or Mary's or whatever.

566
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: And it wasn't long ago they were all doing that

567
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: and that's what I loved. I mean, I used to

568
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: have six bicycles on my drive, you know, because that's

569
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 1: everyone you know. And at first I was like, oh

570
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 1: my gosh, no one's parents know where they are. But

571
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, I would take that back any day I

572
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 1: come back with their bicycles.

573
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 2: And because it's still yes, riding bikes, yes, you could

574
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 2: say could still be dangerous, but you're not going twenty

575
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 2: miles per hour, right, And if you are, you're also

576
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 2: getting great cardio yeah, and you have more. It's almost

577
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 2: like those things are on like a cruise control, and

578
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 2: you know where you're not really paying attention as much

579
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 2: as you would if you were truly cycling and using

580
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 2: your brain as you're like and have to break work

581
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: with your feerit yea in your hands, I will say,

582
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: though I think I'm the like not Devil's advocatesse I'm

583
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 2: like so on the same page with you guys, And

584
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: I think at least like there should be helmets, there

585
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 2: should like the police and everything. But I do think

586
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,879
Speaker 2: there's certain kids that can, like Okay, for example, it's like,

587
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 2: I'm sure the rule of a kid drive. We know

588
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 2: someone that has a young kid that has been driving

589
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 2: a four x four since they were like so little

590
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 2: because they were raised on a farm and that's like

591
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 2: what they know. So I do think there's certain kids

592
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 2: that you know, are able to maneuver things properly and respectfully.

593
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,479
Speaker 2: And this is no shot against our boys, but like

594
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 2: I bet you Jason Legend would drive very differently to

595
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 2: like because they're just like, oh, j is more cautious.

596
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 2: Legend is like, let's you know. And but that's no

597
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 2: like dis either. It's just like I think kids are

598
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 2: so different, but there should still be a standard set

599
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: in like what the age should be. Like. I think

600
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 2: obviously I would never let Jolie be at the front

601
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 2: of it, like driving a jet ski like in our

602
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 2: little cove. I let her like practice like two seconds.

603
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: Obviously it's not I would never let her out in

604
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 2: the open world, but could she maybe manage it? Yeah,

605
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 2: but is she too young? One hundred percent. I would

606
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: never let her even put herself out there to do that,

607
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But like, because it's a machine.

608
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 2: Those things are machines and development, so I think that's

609
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 2: the and developmentally it's like, yes, I think Joeli would

610
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 2: be respectful, but she still doesn't understand the like, yes,

611
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 2: there are rules on a lake too, you gotta stay

612
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 2: on the right side and like this that rather and

613
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 2: they don't have the Like I know she's mature enough

614
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 2: to be able to do it, but like it's still

615
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 2: and you're operating a machine. And I see ebucs the

616
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 2: very same way because they have that motor.

617
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: It's a machine.

618
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

619
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Speaker 1: Well it's like the side by side situation, like amy

620
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: drives are side by side on the land alone, which

621
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: there is an age for that, right you know, and

622
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: but on our land alone. And then she went to

623
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: a friend's house. Her friend drove the and there was

624
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: a lot of consequences for that, like there are still

625
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: you know, you even if you're even if you're know

626
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: how to drive one you're not going to get out

627
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 1: on a road on one, you know.

628
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 2: I just in my opinion, right, like I don't see

629
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 2: our friend who allows her kids to drive the side

630
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 2: by side at eight whatever it is, and then go

631
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 2: do it run a road right, right, And.

632
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,959
Speaker 1: Then you have to know that you are right and

633
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: that you are you have to be aware that you

634
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: may know how to do it, but the people that

635
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: you're with don't, you know. So I don't know. There's

636
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: just there's a lot to it. But that's my wine

637
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 1: about it today.

638
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: Oh, I just deeply join you hand in hand.

639
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 2: I just really the helmet thing. And I know it's

640
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 2: like even when Jolie was on the scooter, her regular

641
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 2: scooter that she just uses, She's like, do I have

642
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: to wear a helmet? I was like, yes, you do, Yeah, yeah,

643
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 2: we do. Yeah.

644
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: We thought that for a long time because I was

645
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: legitimately the only mom I felt like that made them

646
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,479
Speaker 1: wear helmet. And I'll never forget when Kayden had that

647
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: scooter and I mean he was probably fifteen and I

648
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: said put that helmet on. He was like, I'm leaving

649
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: the scooter here, and I was like fair, I mean,

650
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: because he was embarrassed and I was like, you know, no,

651
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:31,959
Speaker 1: I did find out the other day that Emmy took

652
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 1: the scooter wi she hadn't done a long time, and

653
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: I asked her if she wore a helmet, and she

654
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: said no, and so I said, thank you for being honest,

655
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: but we're just we're gonna put that scooter back if

656
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: we don't want to wear a helmet, and so she's like,

657
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: I just you know, they don't they get embarrassed, and

658
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: so really that scooter's just sat there.

659
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 2: If I had a bike, though, I would rock the helmet.

660
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 2: I don't have a bike to show them that, Like,

661
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: even I'm going to rock a helmet.

662
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: I do. I don't want to wear my helmet. You're saying,

663
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: like her as the kid.

664
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: No, I'm saying, like, if what's the difference, Are you

665
00:28:59,200 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: going to make fun of me?

666
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying kids would No. No, I'm saying I don't

667
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,239
Speaker 1: know if kids saw an adult wearing a helmet, if

668
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: they'd be like, oh, I should wear a helmet, Kidsy'll be

669
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: like if that's an adult though they're wearing a helmet,

670
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

671
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 2: Trying to like model, but I I just can't because

672
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 2: Joli for example, would be like, well, mom, why do

673
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 2: you have a life fest on? Why do I have

674
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 2: a life fest on? Why don't you? And I was like,

675
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 2: because I'm an adult, and I thought about that. And

676
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, but even if we did get struck and

677
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 2: then we got you know what I mean.

678
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: Like I thought about that too when we were there.

679
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: It's true none of the adults wear them, but the

680
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 2: kids do, right, you know. But she's just at that age.

681
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: Now she's like, I don't want to wear it, right,

682
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: I have to, And they don't understand, like, truly, we

683
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: value your life more than we do our own.

684
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it needs you to raise your brother because

685
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: I'm not wearing my vest.

686
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: So when I speak to the bottom, you still, by the.

687
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 2: Way, you better believe when we were caught in that

688
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 2: storm on the leg, I was going under the thing

689
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: to grab my life fest I can't imagine. Yeah, I

690
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 2: was scared, yes, But guys, there was like a terrible

691
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: accident too that we can I don't even know. It

692
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 2: was just awful. There's a awful accident. Scare me. Oh

693
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 2: it was awful. It was a big storm in Wisconsin,

694
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: like three kids. It was just so sad. But I'm

695
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: just like the moving so fat. I mean, I was

696
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 2: We're literally at Mocktail Cove, like right after we podcasted,

697
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 2: and I'm looking up and I'm like, ol in, that

698
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: cloud does not look good. He's like, what do you think.

699
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 2: I was like, I think we should got to get

700
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: out of here, and we're like thirty minutes from our

701
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: lake ouse.

702
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, got to go.

703
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 2: And then Joli's like, you're good. I got because like

704
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 2: they'll like always kind of look at like my thing,

705
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: and I'm just tracking it to be like all right,

706
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: where's the like the closest lightning. And then all of

707
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: a sudden, I was like, we got about one second

708
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 2: before it comes down, so we got to.

709
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: Find the doc coming out of nowhere.

710
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 2: But this is the most embarrassing thing about this whole

711
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,719
Speaker 2: thing is I genuinely didn't know what to do. Like

712
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: in my mind, I'm like, you're in a car, you're safe,

713
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 2: but they were like, you're not in water. So I'm like,

714
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: but I'm like the boat has rubber floor, but I'm like,

715
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 2: but it's got a metal thing underneath. So I'm like

716
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: I was chat cheap idea, just get off the water

717
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 2: as quick as possible thing with my lake neighbor friends.

718
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, hey, guys, this is a really

719
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 2: stupid question. But like we're about to get stuck in

720
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: this storm. We're thirty minutes from our house, like we

721
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: just left the cove so like there's no houses around

722
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: the coves too, so like we're gunning it like to

723
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: like get somewhere. And I was like, what is the

724
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 2: like do we pull up to someone's house, do we

725
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: try to make it home? Like what do we do?

726
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 2: You know? And they're just like, get off water during

727
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 2: a storm. You legally can go to anybody's dock and

728
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: tie your boat up, so it's like illegal thing, so

729
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 2: like you can go. So if there's an open dock,

730
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 2: all you have to do is we have we have

731
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 2: rope extra rope on the boat, so you can just

732
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 2: go and like tie it up. She's like it happens,

733
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 2: and they're like, you know, where are you do need

734
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 2: to come get you? And I'm like, well, we're five

735
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 2: minutes from our friend Charlie's on the lake. But I

736
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 2: looked at Alan, I was like, we're not going to

737
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 2: we don't have five minutes. And then all of a sudden,

738
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 2: I mean the wind the like bit bimm whatever the

739
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 2: top thing was like, and the kids starts screaming, and

740
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 2: I'm just like, you know, and I was like, i

741
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 2: mean the lightning strike was like now like near, you

742
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like it shows you like how

743
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: many miles away it is. And I'm just like, there's

744
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 2: a dog over there. And so I just like, you know,

745
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: and I'm trying to you know, get the rope and

746
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 2: don't even grabbing my life ask because I'm like but

747
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 2: then cause I'm just like gets struck, like obviously you're

748
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 2: in water, like I just like didn't think about it.

749
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 2: And then so when we finally get under the thing

750
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 2: and it's just like pounding down, lightning, thundering, and I'm like, okay,

751
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 2: now what do we do? Do we stay in the

752
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 2: boat in the water or do we go in some

753
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: random like like now, So now I'm texting, I'm like, okay, guys,

754
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: next step, next step. I'm like, we're under somewhere, but

755
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 2: like it's lightning and thundering and we're on a boat

756
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 2: on the water, Like what do we do now?

757
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: They take it out of the boat.

758
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 2: This so this is what's interesting. The guy said, you're fine,

759
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 2: underneath the dock. But I'm like, we're still on water

760
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: and like a metal boat, you know. Ye all my

761
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: girlfriends on the lake said go, does the house that

762
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 2: you're at have an under like a patio?

763
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

764
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 2: And I said, yes, that's covered. She's like, just run

765
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 2: over there. So I said, I'm out, Like we're girl,

766
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 2: let's go. So I grabbed the kids and we we

767
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: jet to you know, it's two seconds or whatever to

768
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: the little uh open patio part. And as we're running,

769
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 2: the sweet lady opens her door and.

770
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: Was like.

771
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, no, no, look, we're fine.

772
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 2: We'll just stay out here like it's all good, like

773
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: no no worries. And she's like get in here, and

774
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 2: like the kids were soaking wet. We were soaking, so

775
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: she gave us towels and and Alan stayed in the

776
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: boat for most of it, and then he finally walked up,

777
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 2: like when the rain stopped coming down as much.

778
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: So that's terrifying.

779
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 2: It was. I was like genuinely scared. I was like,

780
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: I was actually kind of scared. He's like same. I

781
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 2: was like, because I.

782
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,239
Speaker 3: Didn't know what today, I would have no idea as

783
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 3: the wine down weather woman to both of you making

784
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 3: the call at three am.

785
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 2: Are you in your safe place? Can you imagine if

786
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 2: I was in that situation, it was quite scary. I'm

787
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: not gonna lie like it was. I am. I wouldn't.

788
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 2: I got scared because I just genuinely didn't know what

789
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 2: to do. And you have your babies. Yes, oh, I.

790
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: Would have no And I already don't know what to

791
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: do on a lake in general, Like if that happened.

792
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: I just you, guys, I lived on a glorified pond

793
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 2: growing up, Like I love our lake in Michigan, but

794
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 2: like it was a very small place.

795
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 1: But we know that it would yeah, when it was

796
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: right right, like and you could get back and die

797
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 1: you get thirty minutes away, Holy crap, I'm not terrified.

798
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 2: But they were like the loveliest people.

799
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: That's sweet. Well, now you know if it's storming and

800
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: you have random people coming up to you, and I

801
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: will be ready to welcome like everybody really and anybody's

802
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: wow wow on that one.

803
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 2: How did we get there? I don't know.

804
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: We never know something about safety, never know.

805
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 2: On that note, let's unpin some things next week, Catherine

806
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 2: that yeah want to check about to make sure you

807
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 2: write it down. I got. I guess we'll I guess

808
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 2: we'll talk next week. All right, see you next week.

809
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 2: Bye bye,