1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for kicking out my husband's 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: side piece and her baby? Yes? And this is answered 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: the question should you have a relationship with a partner's 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: a fair child? And this comes from month far twenty 5 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: sixty eight, and they say, my husband and I, forty 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: female and forty one male, have been together for ten years, 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: and I consider them years. I consider them years to 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: be very loving and happy. This is like, as a 9 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: Southern twain two already consider them years, be very happy. 10 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: Sophie and I played an entire game of Katan last 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: night in Southern accents. I am years and years are good. 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: And all of our friends were like, do you guys 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 2: do this offham? 14 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 1: All right, air, I'm straight, I'm right now, but your 15 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: answer there anyway. So, but apparently not him since he 16 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: had a side piece obviously, dang side piece straight through jail. 17 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 2: How many half of those? 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: Too many? I make furniture and make around one million 19 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,279 Speaker 1: dollars per year people. 20 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, furniture, yeah, dang, yeah, who makes furniture And he's 21 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 2: doing really well. 22 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: But maybe it's that kind of uncomfortable furniture that like 23 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: just makes husbands not settle down, what you. 24 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 2: Know, the. 25 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: Like the uncomfortable furniture that's like really nice, but it 26 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: doesn't look good. It looks good, but it's like doesn't 27 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: feel good. Oh, Sophia gives me no love on my jos. 28 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 2: I just didn't understand that joke. 29 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: No love all right. My husband is a teacher. It 30 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: goes without saying that I provide for us. I don't 31 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: ask what he does with his salary. We live way 32 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: below our means, however, because we are both minimalists, we 33 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: have a big wait. We live way below our means, however, 34 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: because we are both minimalists, but we have a big house, 35 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: nice cars, and of art. Everything is mine, however, everything 36 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: she owns it all, including the furniture that is uncomfortable 37 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: but looks good. It turns, it turns it's my uncomfortable furniture. 38 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: Quite you know what I'm talking about, You know the 39 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: furniture that no. 40 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about, but I just don't 41 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 2: really like understand it in the context of like the joke. 42 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: It was a because it's so uncomfortable that no one 43 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: wants to stick around and sit in it, and so 44 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: everyone leaves, including her husband. 45 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 2: But her husband makes the furniture. 46 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: No, she makes the furniture. I make furniture. 47 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: Oh damn, that's a same lets anyway, Oh, I get 48 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: the ship. 49 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: All right, So anyway, she makes furniture, she makes furniture. 50 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: Everything is mine. However, apparently he met his side piece 51 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: female twenty five, under false pretenses and told her that 52 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: we were legally married, so he owned half my company 53 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: and everything else I own, which is like such a 54 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: weird technicality where it's like, babe, stick with me because 55 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: we're legally married, and I'll own everything that she has. 56 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't provide anything, but legally I kind 57 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: of do. 58 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: Legally I'm loaded. 59 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it's kind of like saying you have 60 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: an inheritance, which I don't. I don't think people who 61 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: say they have inheritances are cool. 62 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: Mar which comes furnished. 63 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: Uh. Well, now he is in oh when she got 64 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: oh no, when she got pregnant, he started spending his 65 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: salary on her. I wasn't alarmed because I didn't know 66 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: what he did with his money, because it's I guess, 67 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: so inconsequential. Now he is in Dubai on vacation and 68 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: her lease on her apartment expired, so she just showed 69 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: up at my door with her baby, Wow, with her baby. 70 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: She told me that she was his girlfriend and that 71 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: he was getting a divorce, so she might as well 72 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: live in his house and I could live in a 73 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: hotel because I could afford it. She didn't have any 74 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: money or any home. She literally refused to step out, 75 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: so I called the police and locked myself in the greenhouse. 76 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 2: Damn, they got a greenhouse. 77 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: They got that money money, You got that chicken money. 78 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: They got that chicken money. I mean, that's that's money money. 79 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: If you have a holeuse you literally have a whole 80 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: house for your plants. That's crazy. When the police came, 81 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: she was literally unpacking the child's clothes in the living area. 82 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: They escorted her out. I was very shaken. Later I 83 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: found out all the details I included above, my husband's 84 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: mother thought I was an a hole for kicking out 85 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: a little baby on the street that was her son. 86 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: I used and abused my money in power to control 87 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: everything around me. But honestly, teachers make sixty K a year. 88 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: So if, as I found out later, oh as I 89 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: found out later, he gave her his salary. Can't I 90 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: can't understand why she would be so homeless and destitute, 91 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: like sixty K a year is not nothing. She has 92 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 1: big designer bags, to designer strollers, these Van Cleef and 93 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: r Pels jewelry when she showed up at my home. 94 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: But now I am the a hole And there are 95 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: some relevant comments which OPI has responded to a lot. 96 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: WHOA Okay, so we're gonna be a lot and there's 97 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: gonna be an update. But is op the a hole 98 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: for kicking out? Uh this mistress. No, it's her house, 99 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: it's it's her house. Also, I love how the husband 100 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: thinks he's gonna get her chicken money, like, because I 101 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: don't think it sounds like they are not legal lead together. Yeah, 102 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: because he said apparently he met his side a priest 103 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 1: under false pretenses and told her that we were legally married. 104 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: So I I have a I have a suspicion that 105 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: they are not legally married based on the story. Right. 106 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just wondering how the how he would have yeah, 107 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: how he would be entitled any money? 108 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: Then I guess, well, but you could still even if 109 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 1: you're not legally married, you could still have a common 110 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: law marriage. Yeah, yeah, Jellybus says common law Mark. 111 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what she said. She said it was a 112 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 2: common law marriage. Yeah, that's why. 113 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: Yes, where does she say is a common line? 114 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 2: I just been in the original title. Oh she said 115 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 2: it was a common law marriage. 116 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: Okay, it's a common law marriage, but it is not 117 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: like a full on But essentially it's still legal. 118 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, you still get legal stuff and you're still, according 119 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: to legally blonde. 120 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: Whereas that's where I get all my legal advice. 121 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: She went to Harvard. She literally went to Harbor, she 122 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: went to school. Yeah, you can have common law marriages 123 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: and be entitled to stuff. 124 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did common law kick in yet? Can you 125 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: can you read if? Can you read if? If? Common law? 126 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: This is? This is not? This is not chicken money 127 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: with the chicken money was a different story. Oh yeah, 128 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: this is not the same story as chicken money. 129 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 2: The chicken money is now a bit that we do. 130 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, we do a chicken money because I read this story. Actually, actually, 131 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: we have not read this story, I promise, actually, says 132 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: why am I being ignored? We have read this? I 133 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: promise we have not read it. We have not read it. Oh, 134 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: mindful warm As it says some states don't have common law. 135 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: Marriage, Well, presumably this state does. 136 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: I mean, but maybe he's lying, maybe he's not telling 137 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: his mistress the truth. But I just think it's so 138 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: I think it's so whacked to brag about having a 139 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: someone else's money. I think it's so silly. I think 140 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: it's so silly. Anyway, let's get in to the relevant comments. 141 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: So comment, if your mother in law is so concerned 142 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: about the baby, she can take him in bam. Opie said. 143 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: She said she couldn't because she lives in a studio apartment. 144 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: Maybe just put him in the greenhouse, sweated out in there. 145 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: Commenter says he can be homeless with her now not 146 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: the ahole. Opie response. Absolutely, he wants to take an 147 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: early plane home to explain. What is there to explain? 148 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: He said she tricked him into getting pregnant. Oh baby, 149 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: I thought she was you. She tricked me. She has 150 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: really convincing makeup. I know that. Uh, he hates children, 151 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: But how do you trick people into having children? So 152 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: many questions and absolutely no desire for getting any answers. 153 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: I feel only emptiness. That is sad. Comment. Can't be 154 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 1: tricked into pregnancy if you're not sticking your thing where 155 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't belong. Opie responds, exactly, how do you get 156 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 1: tricked into pregnancy if you don't cheat? Compter, if you 157 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: didn't want children, should have had a vasectomy. If you're 158 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: interested in the explanation, then be sure. Then sure, get it. 159 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: But will it change anything? You don't really owe him anything, 160 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: as if your relationship was based on mutual respect and monogamy, 161 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: then he's broken it. Opie responds, he didn't want to 162 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: lose his manhood. His literal reason. 163 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: Oh for reason for not wanting to get a vaseecam ah, 164 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 2: I see doesn't make any sense. 165 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: Well, you you cannot want to get a vasectomy, but 166 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: if you if you don't want to have kids, like, 167 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: if you don't want to have kids, the best way 168 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: to do that is to get a get of a sectimate. 169 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: Because yeah, I feel like you're playing a little Russian roulette. 170 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And Don Mayflower says vasectomy doesn't stop the cheating. 171 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: Though, lol, it stops the evidence. 172 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, it just stops the random baby showing on your 173 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: doorstep comment he hates children and is a teacher or 174 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: does he teach older humans? Obviously you're not the a hole, 175 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: but as a former teacher who left the classroom because 176 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: I started disliking the kids. It wasn't fair to them, 177 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: and my patients was about ninety seven percent gone. I'm 178 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: just curious, Opie. Yeah, he teaches high school children. He 179 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: at least was set on being child free. Commad how 180 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: long has his mother known about the grandchild? OPI responds, 181 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 1: A new idea. Wow, never even thought about this. I 182 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: assume she only knew after I called her, but probably 183 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: she knew already, OPI. A commenter says, I hate that 184 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: you think you could be an a hole for this? 185 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: OPI respond, well, I really hated the idea of a 186 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: baby being homeless, and I truly contemplated letting her be 187 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: a guest in the house, in the guest house, but honestly, 188 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: I was terrified of her. And then comment minimalists, That 189 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: word does not mean what you think it means. You 190 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 1: are not minimalists and OPI response. 191 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 2: The greenhouse only has four plants in it. 192 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: Four plants. Yeah, it could be like, uh, you only 193 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: are allowed four weed plants. Maybe they just have the 194 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: four weed plants and that's it. 195 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: And that's it, that's it. They're entrepreneurs. 196 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're trying to Maybe maybe that's the real way 197 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: they're making all that furniture money. 198 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 2: It's like I should my furniture across the board. 199 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, there might be something in the furniture. 200 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 2: Who knows. 201 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,119 Speaker 1: But uh, Commdor says, I'm confused. If your common lost spouses, 202 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: you will have marital assets and need a divorce. So 203 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: is the house your personal property or marital pop property? 204 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: This is a great question. But you still don't have 205 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: to let uh the affair partner in your home. And 206 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: it's important, and if it's important to mother in law, 207 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: she can have them live with her. Ope responds, we 208 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: have no marital assets, as it was clear from the 209 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: start when we moved in together that we have separate economy. 210 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: We are not from the States, and my assets are 211 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: well protected. Okay, that's good. Oh wow, there's a OPI 212 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: has responded to a lot ofcomon we have a couple 213 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: more commenter, Okay, you may not be aware that in 214 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: the US, common law is a legal term for a 215 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: couple who never signed a marriage certificate but are legally 216 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: married due to living together for several years and presenting 217 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: themselves as marriage Ope responds, same definition here, different rules. Commenter, 218 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,319 Speaker 1: how long has your partner been in Dubai. Depending on 219 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: the length of his day, he may not even legally 220 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: have residency in your home anymore. If legal I change 221 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: the locks now, Opie responds, He's there for ten days, 222 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: one week left. It was the end of school kind 223 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: of thing. I'm going to gather all his things and 224 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: send them to his mother. What is left are my things. 225 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: He has no right to that, and things we bought 226 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:02,439 Speaker 1: while living together, no matter who paid. All gifts, no 227 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: matter how expensive, belong to the receiver, like his car 228 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 1: in PC watches. I don't mind. My art et cetera 229 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 1: are protected by signed agreements that protect her assets. Any 230 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: money or savings are protected by agreements. Dang, she is 231 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:20,479 Speaker 1: buttoned up. Yeah, most people aren't buttoned up like that. 232 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: That's crazy, punder. I got to ask, how do you 233 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: make one million dollars making furniture? That's also not the 234 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: able kick the hubby out to. Opie responds, long story short. 235 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: I started as an interior decorator slash designer and started 236 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: designing what the market lacked. In my opinion, now it 237 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 1: has gotten bigger, more details, and you can find me. 238 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: So gotta keep my mouth zipped. Yeah, and there is 239 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: an updates so it sounds like she has everything pretty 240 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: buttoned up, so I think she's gonna be okay. Yeah, 241 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: but damn, a million dollars in furniture. That's crazy. She 242 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 1: made that. She takes home a million dollars. That's not 243 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:07,599 Speaker 1: like a million dollars in revenue of the business. She 244 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: takes home a million dollars, which means like she's probably 245 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: making mull time multi millions at the very least. That's crazy. 246 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 1: Carlene Quinzle says, I want to see her furniture and 247 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: be her friend, don't we all? We actually just got 248 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: new furniture. Look at that? Wait show him? John? Oh wait, 249 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: wait John, what do you think about the furniture? 250 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: Oh? 251 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: It helps with my back. I really loved so. Yeah, John, 252 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like you've needed that. 253 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 2: I need to go to the chiropractor. I still don't 254 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 2: have new furniture. 255 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: Well does is that chair? Not comfortable? 256 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 2: Not comfortable? 257 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: We can get you what do you? Just tell us 258 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: what you want? Anyway? Get into the update. So updates. 259 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: Many are asking for an update, but what's really there? 260 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: But what's really there to update? Here's what's happened this 261 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: past week and what is going to happen. No, I 262 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: will never see him again. It is over. He's back 263 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: from his trip. Probably he wasn't expecting to start his 264 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: summer vacation this way. My lawyer has already contacted him 265 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: about what he's out. It will be transported to his 266 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: mother's apartment. Whatever more he thinks he is out, he 267 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: can sue me and I will be ready. And I 268 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: hope he can afford my lawyers when he loses whatever 269 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: lawsuit he plans, the file abs. She is on top 270 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: of it, caring for this day, which I feel like 271 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: because all right, uncle Daddy Jesse twenty dollars tip, shout 272 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: out uncle Daddy being the uncle that we love. Wait, 273 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: there are a couple other. 274 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 2: Tips there were, but I don't them and I've been refreshing. 275 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 2: Uh yeah, ten dollars from who donated? 276 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: Tell us who donated? Ooh donated over? Maybe seen it 277 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: on the YouTube? On the YouTube's does it say a 278 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: top chat? Uh? Close clothes uh close and then click 279 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: top chat? 280 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 2: Oh uh huh. Maybe there's phantom money. 281 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: I don't know where that came from. If you donated, 282 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: let us know, I'm I. We don't see it. We 283 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: just see Uncle Naddy phantom money. But uh, yeah, she 284 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: was really prepared. But I think like, honestly, if you 285 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: are making that kind of money, you have to be 286 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: you kind of you kind of need a prenup because 287 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: then it's not like it's not that you don't trust 288 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: your part well maybe it is that. I don't know, 289 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: is it that you don't trust your partner. It's like 290 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: it's more like you don't want someone to marry you 291 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: for your money and then divorce you, and so like 292 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: it ensures that someone isn't just there for your money. 293 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I feel like maybe there's a little 294 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: bit of paranoia and did when you have that much money? Yeah, 295 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 2: to be beyond your guard? 296 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: Would you get a prenup? 297 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 2: Uh? I don't know that. 298 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 299 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not even thinking about that. 300 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 1: You well, you want to get married. 301 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, but like a while ago. 302 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: A while ago, I mean a while ago, a while 303 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: from now, a while from now. What's the ideal age 304 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: for you? Thirty thirty and then kids? Kids? What do 305 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: you want kids? 306 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: Thirty two? 307 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: Thirty two? You're just copying mom. 308 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 2: No, Actually I'm coming dad, that's. 309 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 1: True, you're coming dad. Well, what mom had you at 310 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: thirty two. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so you're coping mom for you? 311 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: Yeah yo, yeah. I think man, if if I want 312 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 1: to be married by thirty, I got like three years. 313 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 2: You better get there, you get. 314 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: Okay? Well, I'll ask you in a couple of years 315 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 1: to see if you want a prenup. So I will 316 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 1: never see him again. It's over. I will be telling 317 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,199 Speaker 1: the lost to your princes file. Apparently the apartment that 318 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: his girlfriend lost was his. He was sending her money 319 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: for the rent, but she spent it on Prada instead. 320 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,199 Speaker 1: He swears that the baby isn't his, and that he 321 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: is going to demand a paternity test, like it would 322 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: make any difference maybe for the baby. I hope to 323 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: God that the child isn't his. However, so maybe there's 324 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: still a small chance for that baby to have a 325 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: better future and more loving parents. I am moving in 326 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: with my parents right now. I am in a hotel, 327 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: but I have no desire to be in that house again, 328 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: with all the memories. I am selling it and while 329 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: I find a new home and sell this one, I 330 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: will just live with my family. The girlfriend has contacted 331 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 1: me a few times via social media because she needs 332 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: to talk she wants proof that we aren't married because 333 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 1: he told her that we are married. I don't do delusion, 334 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:08,640 Speaker 1: so I just blocked her. She dang honestly, okay, yeah, 335 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: something I like about op No nonsense. 336 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 2: No drama, no drama. 337 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: She's like, oh, you transgressed our agreement. Bye bye bye 338 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 1: see you. 339 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're a fair partner's reaching out to me. 340 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: Bye bye. I don't need to interact with that. 341 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, not my problem. 342 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like I feel like I feel like 343 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: I would be like that a little bit. 344 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 2: I don't know about that or what. 345 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: You don't think you think I would? What do you 346 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: think I would do in this situation? 347 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:42,719 Speaker 2: Should be? I think you would try to be nice, 348 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 2: which is not to say that she isn't being nice, 349 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 2: but I think she's. 350 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 1: Being really nice. Yeah, maybe it would be too nice. 351 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you'd be like, I need to help. 352 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: I need to help the baby. 353 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 2: I think you would adopt the. 354 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: Baby, adopt the baby. I don't know when I thought. 355 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: I don't think I would know, well, I when I. 356 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 2: Know the babe. I know I was joking, but now 357 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 2: I'm not so sure. 358 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: So you just tried. I love you Sophia. I love 359 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: Sophia Sam's streams. This is great. She tried to contact 360 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 1: me via her friends and mine, so now everyone knows 361 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: the truth without me needing to make an announcement. 362 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 2: Thank you, girlfriend, girlfriend slay. 363 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 1: I'm not sure what more to update. If I have 364 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: missed anything, I will leave it to the comments. One 365 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 1: last thing, I'm sorry for maybe using wrong terms. I 366 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: am not an English speaker, and Google found me common 367 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: law marriage as the term used in my situation, but 368 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:49,719 Speaker 1: apparently it has its certain laws in English speaking countries. 369 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: Our relationship is a long term one. We live together, 370 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: we have separate economies. We have no rights to each 371 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 1: other's property or a state. We don't even inherit each 372 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: other's stuff without a will. However, anything we purchased during 373 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 1: the time we were living together falls under joint estate 374 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: and is divided equally no matter who the purchaser is. 375 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: I have no problems dividing these assets in half. I 376 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: bought our house in some of my expensive art during 377 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: the time we have been partners. It would have been 378 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: joint assets if we didn't have cohabitation agreements in place. 379 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: Around these expensive purchases, he has no rights to them. 380 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: Unlike prenupts, etc. They are not as easy to contest 381 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: because he is not legally married to me. Under different circumstances, 382 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: I would probably have given him more than what he 383 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: is going to get now, because I am like that 384 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: in general, if he had ended things, if he told 385 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: me he wanted out and that he didn't love me anymore, 386 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,199 Speaker 1: because I know that the relationships and people fall out 387 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: of love. Dig she's practical. 388 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 2: As if she's like, I understand he violated our agreement? Done? 389 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 2: She is? 390 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Harley and Quinzel. She is smart, he's smart, 391 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: he's smart. She is standards. Yeah, she is legally Harvard graduate. 392 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: Because I know that relationships and people fall out of love. 393 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: He could have respected me enough to give me that 394 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: at least, but he didn't. So I will literally be 395 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: counting spoons and napkins and he will not get a 396 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,919 Speaker 1: dime over what he's owed. And we do have some 397 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 1: relevant comments with responses from op. But how do we 398 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: think she's handling it? 399 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 2: Very well? 400 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: Extremely well, perhaps too well? Yeah, like I'm suspicious how 401 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: well she's in I feel like, all right, question is 402 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: what does that mean? Did you see that comment? Josephine 403 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: mcdillas is Sam is homophobically hot. I appreciate that. I 404 00:22:53,119 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: think so he has got me saying and Nasovio is 405 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,959 Speaker 1: going on like I love saying it. 406 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 2: I also like my friend says sole la via, which 407 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 2: is great. 408 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 1: So tildr Opie's husband's affair is exposed, and uh, this 409 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 1: affair partner shows up with a baby and is like, 410 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: I need to stay in this house, and op who 411 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: makes a million dollars a year and has her own 412 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: house and has chicken money, is like, uh no, I 413 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: don't think so kicks her out and basically is like, uh, 414 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: just completely destroying the uh or not destroying. She's like 415 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: just like exiting the relationship, splitting all of the different 416 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,919 Speaker 1: things down the middle, doing it really efficiently. And so 417 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm wondering, like, did she plan for this before. 418 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,919 Speaker 2: She might have had like a contingency plan. Yeah, like 419 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 2: a doomsday scenario. She was like, this is what I'm 420 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 2: gonna do, and then it finally came and she's like an. 421 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: Act yeah, which I'm like, I always feel. I always 422 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: feel conflicted about. 423 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 2: The Boulder feels conflict. 424 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:12,640 Speaker 1: The boy fuels conflicted, The Boulder fuels conflicted about this story. 425 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: They have our avatar references really coming out. But yeah, 426 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:24,080 Speaker 1: the Boulder feels conflicted because like I'm I'm wondering, does 427 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: having a prenup, if you believe marriages forever, does having 428 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: a prenup like invalidate that belief. 429 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: I don't know because I know a lot of people. 430 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 2: We've talked about this before, and a lot of people 431 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: in our common section were like, no, like a prenup 432 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 2: is really necessary and you know, it's just like protecting 433 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 2: assets and stuff. 434 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, which I agree with, But I feel like, like, 435 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 1: can you believe that this, like a marriage is forever 436 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: and also get a and marry that person and get 437 00:24:55,480 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 1: a uh prenup? Because I like it makes sense to 438 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: me if you're like marriage is for different seasons, We're 439 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 1: not like this is not forever and ever. This is 440 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 1: for right now and if something happens, we will like 441 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 1: separate and thus have a prenup. But if it's like 442 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: to be a healthy like to us, like like people 443 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 1: say death to us part I. 444 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 2: Feel like I kind of on that subject. I feel 445 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: like maybe a healthier way of approaching marriage is or 446 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 2: maybe not a healthier but one way of approaching marriage 447 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 2: is seeing it as you will continue to stay each 448 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 2: other with each other until the day when it no 449 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 2: longer like not benefits you but no longer. 450 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: That's but that's so much less romantic. Yes, and you 451 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 1: shall be married not until death through your part, but 452 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: if it keeps you know, if you're here like vibe, you're. 453 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 2: Both happy until until happiness is like no longer possible. 454 00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 1: I want that in my marriage house. And we're not happy. 455 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 2: Well, but then again, like, I don't think you should 456 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 2: just break up if you're unhappy. It should be like 457 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 2: if it's a continuous unhappiness, I don't know. 458 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, well, I agree with that. I feel like, like, 459 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 1: but I don't. Then I think you should rewrite your 460 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 1: vows to not be until death you part. Yeah, it 461 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: should be like we're gonna be part. If you cheat 462 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,400 Speaker 1: on me, we're gonna part. If you become a dick, 463 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:25,399 Speaker 1: we're gonna part. 464 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 2: Everyone taking I'm so close. It's because Sam, Sam put 465 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 2: it here and I can't. 466 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: It looks better than it did before. 467 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 2: You can't move it back. 468 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: It looks it looks better there than it was. It's 469 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 1: because we got a new monitor setup. Does a prenup 470 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: have a expiration? I don't know. Sam Hyatt says, ideally 471 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: marriages forever, but people and life changes no matter what. 472 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 1: I never want to get a prenup unless I become 473 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:56,160 Speaker 1: a millionaire billionaire. It's true. Yeah, I agree. Yeah, it's 474 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: better safe to sorry, Oh did you? Can you click those? 475 00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 1: And will you show up the comments? 476 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 2: Which comments? 477 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: Jac? There we go. I think it's better to be 478 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: safe even with the relationships you think that will last forever? Yeah, 479 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 1: think about this. 480 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 2: Changes. 481 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 1: I think it looks fine all right anyway, So let's 482 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: get into some relevant comments. So I'm glad girlfriend made 483 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: your job easier by telling everyone. For a second, I 484 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 1: couldn't figure out why she wanted to prove that you 485 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: were married, which loll. But then I reread the original 486 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,439 Speaker 1: post and I realized that it's because she's expecting half 487 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: of everything. Has his mother said anything else to you? 488 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 1: How was it? When soon to be X returned, and 489 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: Ope responds, honestly, I don't hold any hard feelings towards 490 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: his mother. Freak, no trauma, slay. I have a mother myself. 491 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: I have myself as a person who has a mother, 492 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: and I have seen her happiness when my brother became 493 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: a father. My X partner is an only child, and 494 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: he was child free, or at least he pretended to 495 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: be one, so she had no hope of becoming a grandmother. 496 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: Imagine finding out you are. If there's any chance for 497 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 1: that baby, for some love and happiness, it will be 498 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 1: with her. She hasn't contacted me, and I don't want 499 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: her to. She will probably tell my ex partner I 500 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 1: told you so about him not popping the question. I 501 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 1: would never have wanted a legal binding paper to anyone, 502 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: but when I was younger and still didn't have my business, 503 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 1: I would probably have said yes, and gladly so, because 504 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: I wanted so much for him to ask me. I 505 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,159 Speaker 1: would have been singing to a different tune right now 506 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: if that happened. So stay single forever, pay Uh play slay, 507 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: single Life, hitting the Woe, hitting the Woe end slant. 508 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 1: At the same time, it is these thoughts that make 509 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: it easier for me to cope. Right now, I could 510 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: have been much worse. And sometimes you hate what's happening, 511 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 1: but a few years later you realize it was four 512 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: or the better. Clinton. They're saying hi to you. Do 513 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 1: you want to? You want to say hi back? Just 514 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 1: just Clinton says him. All right, So going back to commentary, 515 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 1: what has your family said about all of this? I 516 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: hope you have brothers to threaten his rse when he 517 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: keeps trying to get a hold of you. Opie responds, 518 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 1: My family is as shocked as I am. I think 519 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: we all need some time for this to sink in 520 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 1: and start the grieving process. Another commenter says, tell us 521 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: about his pleading and groveling. I want to hear about 522 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: his suffering. Reddit is literally like that, I want summer, summer, 523 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: want suffering. I'm secondhand furious for you, op You sound 524 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: so cool and level headed, and that dummy blew it 525 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: big time. Opi responds, he has been pathetic and trickle 526 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: truth thing like any one like him does truthing. Oh 527 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: you haven't heard that term. We've said it on the 528 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: pod before, trickle truth us. We've definitely we talked about 529 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 1: it multiple times. Maybe you've never I've. 530 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 2: Talked about trickle down economics. 531 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 1: No, trickle truth thing is a thing too, So it's 532 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 1: like trickle truth thing is this idea that when someone 533 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: does something bad, they'll tell you a little bit of 534 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,959 Speaker 1: the truth because it's easier for them to like handle 535 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: and then They'll keep telling you more and more of 536 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 1: the truth. 537 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 2: Ease you into the truth. 538 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 1: Ease you into the truth. 539 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 2: Like getting into cold water. 540 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: Exactly, it's like a boiling a lobster, one degree at 541 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: a time. You know, she's just a friend who he 542 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 1: helped housing, but she turned on him. My last text 543 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 1: from me personally was to grow up and act like 544 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:45,719 Speaker 1: a father. Now I only talk to him through my 545 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: lawyer conversations. I hope you get a full physical n 546 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 1: SD panel run soon. Who knows what he has exposed 547 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 1: to you to his baby mama is the one you 548 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: know about. There could be others. Opie responds, did my 549 00:30:55,640 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: tests the day after I've found out. She is so 550 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: on top of it, she I. 551 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 2: Feel I hope not, but I feel like I'm wondering 552 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 2: if this happened. 553 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 1: Before, what like, oh if she got cheated on before? Yeah, 554 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't think so, because she said earlier in her relationship, 555 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: you would have like maybe said yes to him and. 556 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 2: OK, okay, She's just so prepared. 557 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 1: She's just so prepared, said, I bet you, her like 558 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: emergency plan is top not. 559 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, if I were if we were in 560 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 2: a zombie apocalypse, I would. 561 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: Want to be with Opie. Yeah, she's got it down. 562 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 1: I will be doing it again in a month or so. 563 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 1: It was all good, and that is where that story ends.