WEBVTT - Episode 24 Ft. Mia Isabella 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:10.920 West epp Is Angela. Ye, it's a lift service and 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:14.680 we got us my co host. Now let's talk about 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:17.919 who else is here. Everybody introduced yourself. A nice to 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:21.320 meet you. I'm happy Singleton, own up coffee, Jella bar. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:23.680 Nice to meet you. What up? What up? I'm just 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:28.080 seeing a Valentine Jersey singer songwriter. Alright, well, let's get 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:29.880 right into it, because you know we always start off 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:33.280 before we even get into your lives. Okay, with the 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:37.240 special tip of the week. Now, the tip for today 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.680 is how do you handle the side chick? This is 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.680 all in honor of Elena Whiteley and Victor Cruz. Apparently 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.520 she saw some messages. I guess he had a few 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.080 side chicks, and she put everybody on a group chat 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:51.199 and just called them out and said, yall should meet 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.520 each other. We're all fu in the same guy. So 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:56.200 if you all want to take some notes or whatever. Now, 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:57.920 I'm sure we've all had to deal with side chicks 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:01.000 at some point, So everybody give your number one tip 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:02.320 on how to handle That's how I checked me. And 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:05.880 what's that with? You get yourself some side dick? Okay, 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:10.400 very simple and let him know about it or secretly, 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:12.960 just for yours, whatever you feel like doing, however you 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:14.880 feel like handling it. Once he's caught, like what can 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:18.440 he say? All right, what's he gonna do? Nothing? Um 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:20.200 for me, I think that you should just cut the 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:24.760 chick just talking. You should just cut her. But what 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:27.440 if it's not, if she doesn't know you should, she 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.400 should still feel it? Well, No, honestly, the last time 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:33.560 I dealt with it, what I actually did do is 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:36.520 I actually I made her car feel it you doin 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:39.480 her car. I just keep the whole side of our car, 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:43.320 I think. And then when they you know, she and 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:44.760 he both called me on and I was like, I 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:46.640 don't have any idea we're talking about if you have 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:49.160 any video footage, like we have to bring it to me. 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.960 I'll be happy to you know, prove it for any 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:54.200 punitive damages or whatever it is. But yeah, I just say, 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:58.000 you cut her, Stephanie. I know Stephanie has for me. 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:00.960 I kind of agree. I like, be friendly, like, oh 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:03.680 you know, I think we should meet and have lunch 0:02:03.760 --> 0:02:07.960 and meet it. Yeah, and then when she comes beat 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:13.200 her up. I think who pays for lunch? No one? 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:19.200 There's no no sandwords in your mouth I thought it 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:20.520 was like a last supper and then you beat her 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:23.680 up on the what do you do? I'm not going 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:27.480 to entertain her, hello, ignore her. She don't exist pretty much. 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:30.160 That's why she's she's the sideject. I do feel like 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:33.160 sometimes said chicks do want some attention there so what 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:36.120 if they don't know? Right? And that's the thing, stephaniely 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:40.560 gonna beat this girl up. You know, she had no 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:45.280 idea she was aside, she's a victim, and that's different. 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:48.560 I feel like everything always know because when you're when 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:53.040 you're somebody's girlfriend and he's dating somebody else, nine of 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:54.880 ten times the guys like, you know, I got I 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:57.880 got my girl, so you gotta meet me in this hotel, 0:02:58.120 --> 0:02:59.880 you know what. I Sometimes it's like it's not where 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:03.120 and out even if it's not working out, and then 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:06.200 you should say I'm gonna leave her. I feel like 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.600 no real man is going to tell the bitch he's 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:12.360 fucking but he's sucking another bitch. Like he's not going 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.400 to say, we have a conversation about that girl with 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:17.160 another girl, because yeah, they can't please. They say stuff 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:19.000 like you know, things are rocky right now? I sleep 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:22.079 in the basement. I've never had a guy tell me 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:24.440 about another chick. Oh, and that's the best part of 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:29.160 the do it but no, And that's the best part 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:30.880 is that they'll be like, oh, you know, things aren't 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:33.960 working out, blah blah blah. The side chick will eat 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.720 that up. Yeah, and still you know he's still there 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.560 even even if his things aren't working out. If I 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:43.320 was that girl and I would be like, hey, so 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:46.480 what do you think about leaving her? Since things aren't 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.880 working out so much? It's exciting for them sometimes though, 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.560 because it's like they love everything that this bitch isn't, 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:54.040 you know, so they kind of it empowers them in 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.040 a way. No, and today, in the year two thousand 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:59.040 and fifteen, girls don't even care about being a side check. 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:01.400 They actually a lot of these bitches want to be 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:04.160 the side chick. Some people tell me that scidetists get 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.920 treated better than the main chick. Anyway, I don't think so. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.080 They don't the guy, Well, they get him on the 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:13.760 good nights that they're going out drinking. They don't have 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:15.680 to split bills with him, they don't live with them, 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:18.920 so yeah, they get the guy feels guilty. I can't 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:22.120 be with you on holidays? You know, oh god, that's 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:24.400 the worst thing. I know. You side chicks are by 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:31.040 yourself on Christmas? Exactly who are you geting with Thanksgiving? Like? 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.480 Who are you eating with you Black Friday? Because your 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:37.560 parents your parents obviously ton't raise you that well, so 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:39.479 you know you ain't going to your family's house. Your 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:42.080 family probably doesn't even want you either, So you're eating 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:48.640 like dinner from McDonald's on Thanksgiving. But what if he's 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:52.400 just come side? If she has a man herself secret level, 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:55.800 that's that's different, and I feel like that's a that's 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:59.039 another subject. If you have, um, if you're the side 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:02.200 chick and you're you have a guy and he's your side, 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:06.919 he's your side, and everybody, then everybody knows just you 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:09.320 shouldn't You shouldn't write in a group talks about each 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:14.200 other because this is this is a you know, an understanding. Yeah, well, 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.480 now let me ask you this. If a guy is 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:18.920 keeping it rare with you, because you know, we're always like, oh, 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:20.960 just keep it real, you know, just let me know 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:22.960 what's going on so I can make my own decision 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:26.160 about what I want to do. There are certain situations 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:29.640 where maybe you wouldn't I being the side check very 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:31.560 true if a guy is straight up and honest. But 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.720 you look, I got a girl. We have an understanding 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:37.960 and you know I do me sometimes she don't really care, 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:40.039 just let's keep it on a low. Would you be 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:45.840 okay with being a secret dirt? I mean, I think 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:48.280 it all depends because I feel like a lot of relationships, 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:50.880 you know, are kind of open and stuff like that. 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:52.599 I know a lot of people that our relationships that 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:55.200 either they swing and they kind of you know, do 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:56.680 a whole bunch of three sons and stuff. And once 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:59.000 you start doing that, ship starts getting messy, people getting 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.640 hit with dicks and you know, different pussy juice is 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.600 flattering all over. So then it's like, you know, it's 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:06.440 it's kind of like a free for all for that's 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:07.640 not it. But then you might as well not be 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:12.680 in a relationship and swing around. But everybody, have y'all 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:14.679 all been side ticks, whether or not you knew it, 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.040 at some point I have been. I have. I have 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:19.440 yea in my own relationship because I was engaged with 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.120 the guy. You were engaged and you were a side 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.240 taking it, and well he was having an affair with 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:24.720 the person, so I guess she was a side of chick, 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.640 but I still felt like at that when you're having 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:29.120 another relationship with somebody else, I don't feel like you're 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.040 a unit at all at that point. So it's kind 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:33.760 of on your side. Period. How did you find out? 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:37.159 She called me and said, what see? This was now 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:40.160 called me? I felt so asking to go to line 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:41.840 and I could have had her asked, what don't you 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:47.840 see that exactly, like, Hey, let's go to lunch and 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:49.479 we're gonna beat her ass and we're just gonna keep moving. 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.680 I'm like, for what though, that's his dick. Obviously he 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:53.120 knew what he was doing, that's what he wanted to do. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:55.240 So he said, that's his dick, that's his dick. You 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:56.279 can do what you want to do it. He's a 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:57.880 grown man, like he said, you can't stop no ground. 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:00.000 May do what you're gonna do. We're gonna do it regardless. 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:03.000 So you still you still have a penis, Okay, one 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:11.400 of the biggest you go to they call that the 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:15.320 best of both worlds? What they call that? Um yeah, 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:22.200 jay Z and R Kelly album. I mean, I have 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:26.080 no idea. You don't even know. She tucked it. You 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:29.400 tucked it because I can't even wear no parents like that. 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:31.040 You can see my camel I don't even see your 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.440 camel toe. No, okay, I gotta keep it all together. 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.880 You're walking around New York City? Was stuff hanging out? 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:38.440 That's too much? Now, let me ask you this, since 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:43.560 we're talking about relationships being a secret, Mia, obviously we 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.320 are heard about you in Tiger right now. Is that 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:49.200 bad when stuff like that gets out? Because maybe it 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:51.640 makes you people feel like they can't trust you, you 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:54.240 know what. It's kind of his fault. Anyway, We've been 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:56.800 friends for a long long time. We had this people 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.400 threatening us years ago, my old roommate, people talking about 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.520 they had footage. You know, I really I think people 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:04.160 don't understand. Is he was my side guy. He's one 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:06.760 of my roster. He's my number four. I was engaged, 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:08.120 you know, I was me and my guy had he 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:12.160 was your number four. He was my number four. He 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.120 wasn't even number two, Like why you had to be 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:16.880 number four. I was dating a world champion boxer. I 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.120 was in love with the NFL player, you know, and 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:20.800 I had my main guy, and you know, I was 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:24.920 just learning my guy was I was doing, like he 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.320 had his own side piece and I found out about it, 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:30.280 and so for me, I was strictly a monogamous relationship before. 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.280 So once that happened, I kind of tried to learn 0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:34.960 to adapt because I've never experienced anything like that, So 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:36.679 I had to learn to start. Okay, what if it 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:40.520 doesn't work, you need to start cultivating other relationships. So, um, 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.040 I had like, you know, three or four guys that 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:44.360 I was dating off and on throughout the years, and 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:45.960 he was one of them, um, and one of my 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:48.760 really good friends. So I never wanted anything back to 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:50.600 happen to him. I didn't want him to be exposed 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:52.760 like I had that for both of us for years, 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:56.240 to protect my guy from you know, having to hear 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.520 about the stuff, and to protect him in his situation. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.440 People were like, oh, you were cheating on Black China. 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:02.360 You know about me, but you said you met it 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:04.960 before you No. No, she he asked me to meet 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:06.960 her numerous times, okay, and I refused to meet her 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:08.559 because I'm like, I'm not with that. I'm not about 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:11.160 that life, you know what I mean, that's your situation. 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:14.360 You probably wanted to have a threesome. I can't. I 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:16.480 can't speak on that. I can say it's yea if 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.120 he said, and I said, no, you know, I have 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.000 my own guy, like I said, And if I'm if 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:22.200 I'm dealing with somebody one on one, that's me and 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.600 you whenever you do on your own time or whoever, 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:27.480 that's your situation. Like you said, long we haven't understanding 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:30.160 we're grown adult doing our own thing. Then yeah, I 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:33.040 can respect that. You know. Wow, So wait, I gotta 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.400 ask you what was he into where you like fucking him? 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:42.040 I'm gonna say all that, right. Is it a lot 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:43.800 sexier when you could just think about it and just 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.120 make up your own way way it happen. I'll never 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:49.360 say our intimate detail, you know what I mean? It 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.960 is what it is. Are you guys definitely? Are you 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:54.880 guys still in contact though? Like after the stuff happened, 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:56.240 it was all our lawyers, you know what I mean? 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:57.880 Like our lawyers were handling stuff because I hired a 0:09:57.920 --> 0:09:59.800 lorder to make sure that we can try to protect 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:01.560 him as much as I could. Like with Peo, people 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:03.240 don't understand. It's like, oh, you're trying to out him 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:05.040 and get names like beach up with famous for a decade. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.000 In my world, all my guys are a list people, 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:09.000 you know what I mean. Um, I was behind the 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:12.800 scenes dealing with lawyers, having them, you know, contacted him 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:14.720 every step of the way to let him know that 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:17.040 I'm on your side, right, Like, whatever's going on, I'm 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:20.319 gonna protect my number four right as long as you 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:24.080 If you're anybody that I care about, period, I'm gonna 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:25.560 protect you at all costs, you know what I mean. 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:28.000 I respect the relationship, and I respect you for being 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:30.600 a king and being bold enough to do you and 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:33.720 to respect me the same. So it was definitely an 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:36.400 interesting situation. People like you were the side chick, I like, 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:38.760 not really, because I didn't know he was aiding anybody 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.360 else but me anyway. Like I knew he was doing 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.240 his own thing. He's a rap starlet's but you know 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:45.240 he had a serious relationship. I didn't know that at all. 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:47.160 You're not gonna talk to me about somebody else that's 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.960 not having a baby. Well, I knew about like Black Channel, 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:52.800 like I said years ago, you know about but you 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:55.000 don't know about it at all. I don't even watch TV, 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:56.480 so I don't even I didn't know nothing about that 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:58.240 at all and once it came out and it's like, 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.560 oh my god, apparently they had a huge thing because 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:03.800 she was under age or whatever. That's not my concern. 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:05.839 I don't listen to gossip anyway. Lets it come out 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:07.440 of his mouth. I'm not gonna listen to what I 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.640 read off of a tabloid or you know what I mean, 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:11.200 Like if you didn't tell me trade up. I don't 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:13.600 care what other people say. Right, you believe him because 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:20.559 he's number four, number four, because that kind of sounds crazy, 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:23.960 but you know what I mean. What it is like 0:11:24.000 --> 0:11:26.520 an order of importance people, one of my main down 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.679 to you know, my friends, Like that was what it was. 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:30.680 So how do other people feel? Like number one? That 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:33.680 what happened with the boxer? He was mad as he 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.720 wanted to beat his ass. Yeah, he wanted. You can't 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.600 do that though, registered weapon, that's me. He didn't care. 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.440 He flew all the way to l A talking about 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:42.679 he had to pass the past. I want to talk 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:44.719 to you, like, uh, I don't want to talk right now. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.000 I'm cool. Did that cause you all to break up? Though? Yeah? 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:50.480 Yeah broke up because he was very upset about the situation. 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.720 And then like I said. He came back afterwards and 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:54.080 he was like, the past, the past, it is what 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:55.400 it is. You know, I still care about you. He 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:57.600 proposed to me, So it's like it didn't really matter. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.560 Like at first he was angry, but afterwards, like he 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:01.120 came to see me, I want to talk about it 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:03.000 and stuff. But I was in love with the NFL 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:05.319 star at this point, so I turned him. Before you 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:08.200 with now you can't say, oh I wish I could 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:12.080 keep I'm single, Like now I'm officially single after the boxer, 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:15.040 like I enjoyed being single. No, I'm not made to 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:18.040 be single. I've always been in the monogamous relationship until 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.280 That's why I when you have four dudes, that's not 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:24.080 monogamous that you know. But before that, like I was 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:25.920 married for four or four and a half years before 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:27.439 I was super super young and I was twenty to 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:29.679 twenty five. And then after that, I was engaged for 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:31.400 three and a half years. And after my I learned 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:34.080 about like open relationships because my ex fiance just kind 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:36.240 of switched it up, so I had to adapt. But 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:40.439 before that, I was always a monogamous relationships. Okay, yeah, monogamy. 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:42.319 Do you believe in monogamy. Do you think men could 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:49.160 be monogamous? I'm gonna up I give him, I give 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:55.960 a good seven seven that's accurate, right, And don't forget 0:12:56.040 --> 0:13:00.080 that includes like the Midwest and stuff. I mean, if 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:05.480 you're talking about the men don't think of sex the 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.280 same way as females think of sex. To them, it's 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:09.120 just like taking a piss, like they could be. They're 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:12.160 completely emotionally detached when it comes to sex. It's just physical. 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:14.680 They can lovel one with all their heart and still 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:16.839 do something with somebody else and it doesn't really mean nothing. 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:19.079 That just they just felt they need to right. It's 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:22.800 more animalistic emotional. I don't have to lay up with that. 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.599 Women get upset because they're attached emotionally, so it is 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.679 like you must have had some kind of feeling towards it. 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:30.000 But does that mean you can forgive a man for cheating? 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.400 I think you can if you if you love a person, 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:34.839 you're gonna have to realize that people are humans and 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:37.760 they're going to mess up over and over again. Nobody's perfect. 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:39.840 So if you're gonna be down for somebody arts relationships 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.760 that are fifty years or more, you can believe that 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.000 woman has been through some stuff that people will never know. 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:47.720 Some Hell yeah, I think if the guy's worth it enough, 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:49.520 And I know for me personally, and said, but guys 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.920 that I like, they're not like, you know, church mice 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:55.360 like that. But what kind of guys do you like? 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:59.400 Just Sina, I like like wild gangs that I don't 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:04.000 have like a like a type look wise like city. Yeah, 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:07.720 like I don't have like effects cue, um, I don't 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:09.480 have that. Ava has a song out right now with 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:15.959 Faddie wap Okay Candy Land, so you know, black white, 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.960 you know, Spanish. I like it all. But for me, 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.000 it's more of like a personality type and a swag 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:22.800 that I like. And it's the type of guy that's 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:28.200 gonna like grab me and snatch me, like like aggressive. 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:31.200 But if they're not aggressive, they're intimidated by me. So 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:33.840 because I'm a strong personality, so you know, those are 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:38.840 the guys that cheat. So for me, guys, I mean, 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.080 I'd rather have an interesting guy that's you know, we're 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.840 gonna have a form relationship, passionate. He might mess up 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:49.880 here and there. I feel it to somers and I'm 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.160 not cut the girl. And I never said I'm not 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:57.120 gonna do my own thing right there. Now, you're an artist, 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.760 clearly you're gonna you know, traveling, going on the road, 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:03.000 meeting in line of guys. Have you ever sucked a fan? Um? Yeah? 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.160 My guitarist was like, I'm not supposed to suck the fans. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.840 What's wrong with you? You You know? Um, it happens, but 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:17.400 I kind of see it happens. You goddamn right up fans. Okay. 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:19.640 I mean that's how you can be understanding because you 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.000 had that experience and you understood that it really wasn't nothing. 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:23.560 It was just that moment, And if it happens on 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:25.720 the road, it's kind of like, you know, you can't 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:29.080 do it. It's like what I mean, Like, if he's 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.080 from New York, you shouldn't be popping off like in 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.720 New York necessarily, but like if you're in Wisconsin, you're 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:36.000 finding a cute, little action cutcher lookalike type of guy, 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:41.200 you know, right? You know, so she likes the same 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:44.400 kind of guys. I like she likes thugs. Yeah, I 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:48.480 like guys who go to jail. Well, is that your 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:51.400 boyfriend your exployfriend? This week? He's no, we're never going 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:54.800 to be together again. Exoyfriends right now then until he 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:58.400 gets out. How long has this been one day? It's 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:01.800 a petty two years nothing. No, but we're never going 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:05.920 to beat together because um, I feel like his whole 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.720 mentality changed when he went to jail. Let's have a 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:12.320 shot to that happy body. Some jello shots. There's some 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:17.040 Hennessey one, my vodka ones. What y'all doing last time 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:18.800 I cheated on my man, it was a coffee sho. 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:23.680 Don't blame me for that. Just you gotta blame whatever 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:28.280 you gotta blame. And it's like syrigeous understand if you 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:31.640 have the warning like on cigarettes, may CAUs may cause 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:37.360 you to thought off drink. I swear said that is 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.600 my ax has been in jail. I've I've tried my 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:42.760 hardest not to drink, because to drink, I want to 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:45.600 get fucked. And it's like, have you put money in 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:50.560 his comments? No, he said he said that he had 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:54.600 the money put away for his commissary, So his brother 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:58.720 supposedly puts it in. But his brother told me that 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:02.640 that's a lie. It's his baby playing it in. No. No, 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:06.879 actually his brother said that he's doing it okay, So no, 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:09.560 all right, good, he's just a liar. The NIGG is 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:12.879 just a liar. He lies about so much. But in 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:15.880 his defense, Stephanie did go to Vegas with Floyd Mayweather. No, 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:25.520 I did. Okay, I'm not gonna slept with him, but 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:29.359 you know I'm I'm like FaceTime friends with Floyd and 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:40.080 I went to popping Off with the Diamonds exactly. No bueno, Okay, 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:43.800 I don't think that I would do about being FaceTime 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:49.440 Do you FaceTime sex? Yeah? Yeah, but you know he'd 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:53.080 be like, let me. He's morgus. I have to like 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:57.000 your hand down right? Right? Does he show you the 0:17:57.359 --> 0:18:04.040 hand down? Now? He's respectful and have you seen the day? 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:07.040 He's very proud of it. He says he has a 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:11.879 big anaconda Angela. Snapchat is great for dick pigs shots 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:14.560 because it deletes. I mean, they can screenshot it, you can, 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:17.080 but if it's very compromising, you let it rot for 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:23.959 two seconds. That's it. Now. I gotta ask you something, Okay, 0:18:24.240 --> 0:18:25.840 if you're doing more than one guy at a time, 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:29.880 me or you're single now, Stephanie, you're sing single? Oh no, 0:18:31.040 --> 0:18:35.600 I'm single. Maybe I'll be single tomorrow, but I'm dating 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:37.879 someone today. I'm like on and off with you know, 0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:41.639 it's the same person or it's the same person. But 0:18:41.720 --> 0:18:44.600 this is the thing with men today. Men don't really 0:18:44.600 --> 0:18:50.919 know what they want. I'll be forty one next week, really, 0:18:51.160 --> 0:18:53.800 thank you, and um. At this point in my life, 0:18:54.040 --> 0:18:56.520 I don't have time for the game. So it's my 0:18:56.640 --> 0:19:00.760 tolerance is zero. I have zero talents for nonsense. So 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:02.840 I'm right now I am dating someone. If he gets 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:05.200 on my nerve tomorrow, I'm gona cut his ass off. Wow, 0:19:07.280 --> 0:19:10.359 going on. I've been seeing him now for about six months, 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:13.159 but I'm totally detached when it when it comes to 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:17.800 men because I have no expectation, cannot be likely invested 0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:19.520 in a guy. If you really feel if you have 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:22.360 to be vulnerable, yeah, I know that, but it's so 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:24.600 hard when you've been hurt in the past and people 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:27.200 have been you know, the worst thing the man could 0:19:27.240 --> 0:19:35.000 do is be dishonest with you, right, and not especially 0:19:35.080 --> 0:19:40.160 when you're when you're out of women, honest time to them. 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:43.760 Right For me, I feel the same way, like I'm 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:47.680 not forty, you know, but I'm not twenty two anymore, 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:50.400 and I I really you know, I was just with 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:53.000 him and I don't want to date I really don't 0:19:53.040 --> 0:19:55.119 feel like I have time to get to know someone 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:58.399 you want to. I do want to have and you 0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:01.080 know what, that's what sex toys are four you can 0:20:01.119 --> 0:20:05.560 get bigger ones. I I have twenty of them in 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:09.680 my draw at home, you know, and all of them 0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:13.600 I use all of them by size. And you are 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:17.320