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Speaker 1: because y'all always keep you one, honey, y'all keep your real.

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Speaker 1: They might not watch the moves, but they're on Twitter,

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Speaker 1: Good morning nangeli ye, good morning, Charlomagne. Your mic sounds

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Speaker 1: like trash. My mic sounds like trash. Yes, look sounds

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't know. By now, we're broadcasting from our own houses.

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Speaker 1: plug it back in. But good morning everybody. How are

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Speaker 1: you yesterday? Yesterday? Yesterday was the first day I went

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Speaker 1: So Brianna Johnson is the person they announced as the winner,

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Speaker 1: in eighth and ninth grade. She was struggling to adjust

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Speaker 1: But Cary Sellers, he's got a new book out, his

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Speaker 1: got front page news what we're talking about. Ye man,

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Speaker 1: This to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is cg Envy,

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Speaker 1: Angela yee, Charlomagne the guy we all the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Let's get in some front page news. But

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Speaker 1: also ratchet up the intensity for workouts for players who

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Speaker 1: That's why you got That's why I would say, hurt people,

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Speaker 1: you want to shoot people so bad, why don't you

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Speaker 1: People like that aggression. You're shooting people that are laying

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Speaker 1: Come morning, the breakfast club. This is your time to

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Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Whether you're man from you

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Speaker 1: on the breakfast club. If you got something on your mind. Hello,

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Speaker 1: who's this's what's up? Trash going on? All? I mean, pieces,

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Speaker 1: what's happening? Uh? Seven scheleven Hey guys hey blind Beauty good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're just called him to say that. Um Beauty did

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Speaker 1: a wide clubs challenge and yesterday White Plus posted it up. Yes,

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Speaker 1: um so, I want to foods bonds for Blind Beauty.

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Speaker 1: That needs people to go to white cluss page and

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Speaker 1: posted and it's go and view the video so she

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Speaker 1: can win. And I'm going right now. Um So, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to ask ye, uh if I were to win

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Speaker 1: it the money because I already haven't around. I did

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Speaker 1: to meet them, you just what fun is that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you meet them, but it just it's not gonna be

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Speaker 1: for a little bit. You know, you really get to

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Speaker 1: know them and to this quarantine's over, then you know,

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Speaker 1: then you can meet them. I mean, I think that's

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Speaker 1: greater right around Christmas, So now you got to buy

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Speaker 1: Christmas gifts and all and all kind of other stuff

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Speaker 1: for this person. You really don't know. Look, whatever people

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Speaker 1: decide they want to do at this time, if they

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Speaker 1: still want to continue to date, we encourage you to

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Speaker 1: do it, but do it safely. Have a zoom date,

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Speaker 1: have a FaceTime date, get to talk on the phone

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Speaker 1: to somebody and you can meet up in person. Yes,

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Speaker 1: when this is all over and it's safer, and as

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Speaker 1: you can see, places are starting to open up. All right,

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Speaker 1: I'm Angela Yee and that is your rumor report. All right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, miss Yee. Now when we come back, we

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Speaker 1: got front page news what we're talking about, Yes, and

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Speaker 1: we're going to talk about different things that Twitter is

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Speaker 1: trying to do right now to make your experience a

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Speaker 1: little better. All right, we'll get into that next. Keeping

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Speaker 1: locked this to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody's DJ Envy,

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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Let's getting some front page news. Where we're starting me, Well,

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Speaker 1: let's start with a family in Virginia. They found nearly

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Speaker 1: a million dollars in cash lying in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the road. Let me tell you how amazing this family

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Speaker 1: is it seems like they always do the right thing.

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Speaker 1: Emily Chance said she was driving with her family Saturday

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Speaker 1: and she ran over what she thought was bags of

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Speaker 1: trash on the road. Now, if that was you, what

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Speaker 1: would you do? I what I was praying for, I

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Speaker 1: would keeping blessing bags and trash we had time like

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Speaker 1: this money they thought it was. They thought it was

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Speaker 1: bags of trash on the road. They did not know

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Speaker 1: it was money. So instead of just throwing it to

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Speaker 1: the side, they actually put the bags in the back

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Speaker 1: of their pickup truck because I guess they wanted to

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Speaker 1: dispose of it. It wasn't until they got home that

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Speaker 1: they realized that they had gotten a million dollars almost

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Speaker 1: And then after that I didn't know it was a million.

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Speaker 1: They counted it well, now they knew. Afterward, after they

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Speaker 1: returned the money, they actually called local deputies and told

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Speaker 1: them about their discovery because they had an address on

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Speaker 1: it that said cash ball and then an address and

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Speaker 1: it turned out to be almost a million dollars, so

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Speaker 1: they gave it all back. So not only did they

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Speaker 1: take this trash from the middle of the road and

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Speaker 1: take it off the road and bring it somewhere to

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Speaker 1: dispose of it. They also found out it was cash

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Speaker 1: and then returned it. Guy was testing me out of fail.

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Speaker 1: I definitely would have failed. I've seen that bag in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the road. Nobody around hout of thought.

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Speaker 1: It was a gift, I said, somebody's blessing me to day.

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Speaker 1: Where did this money come from? It was the postal

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Speaker 1: service was delivering it to the bank or something like that.

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Speaker 1: That's what they were saying. Was supposed to be dropped

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Speaker 1: off at a bank, but it was from the postal service.

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Speaker 1: They got insurance, they had a cash reward. Did they

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Speaker 1: get something. I don't know what they got, but they

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Speaker 1: said they returned it because it was the right thing

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Speaker 1: to do and it didn't belong to us. And you

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Speaker 1: don't know it didn't belong you. You know what I'm

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Speaker 1: saying that God works in mysterious ways. You never know

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Speaker 1: how God is gonna bless you, right, We don't know

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Speaker 1: if you were furloughed. We don't know if he was

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Speaker 1: laid off. You don't know if you got you know,

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Speaker 1: medical bills you need to take care of. You might

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Speaker 1: need a surgery if you rain for a blessing, don't

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Speaker 1: you ask? You know, I don't question God when you

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Speaker 1: get it. Okay, But what would you have done, Charlottage,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, To be totally honest with you, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I would have took it back immediately, though

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Speaker 1: I would have sat down and talking about that one

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Speaker 1: for a minute. I would have prayed again. I would

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Speaker 1: have said, now, God, if this is supposed to be mine,

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Speaker 1: give me a sign, okay, give me a give me

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Speaker 1: a sign, please. I wouldn't return that two hundred thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars to turn that two nd. All right. Twitter is

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Speaker 1: testing a feature that would let you decide who's allowed

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Speaker 1: to reply to your tweets. I've seen this, so if

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Speaker 1: you have a conversation, you can have it so that

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Speaker 1: only people that are added at mention can respond, or

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Speaker 1: only people that can that follow you can respond, or

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Speaker 1: you can leave it open for everybody. So I think

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Speaker 1: that's a good feature. I like that because sometimes people

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Speaker 1: can be disrespectful, so you can be like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: you're not allowed to respond. All right, now, let's talk

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Speaker 1: about what's opening back up. The Connecticut govern has outlined

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Speaker 1: the next phases for reopening that state, so phase two

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Speaker 1: of their reopening is slated for June twentieth, more than

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Speaker 1: half of California is moving further into reopening. North Carolina

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Speaker 1: tomorrow will allow dine in eating. They'll also be opening

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Speaker 1: up here in Neil Salon's barbershops, churches, and pools. So yes,

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Speaker 1: if you're in North Carolina, you'll be able to do

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Speaker 1: that starting tomorrow. Other places in Iowa, the governor announced

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Speaker 1: the next wave of reopenings, which is movie theater, zoos, aquariums, museums,

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Speaker 1: and wedding reception venues tomorrow. New York will now allow

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Speaker 1: religious gatherings of up to ten people starting today. And

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Speaker 1: they've also unveiled this plan to address seniors and nursing

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Speaker 1: homes during the pandemic. Now, let's talk about in Toronto.

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Speaker 1: They're going to be reopening amenities like basketball courts, picnic

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Speaker 1: shelters in hundreds of parks and that is going to

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Speaker 1: be reopening this week. So they're saying, if we are

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Speaker 1: opening up the parks and we're opening up sports facilities,

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Speaker 1: then there will be physical distancing rules. Also, you can't

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Speaker 1: have organized sports right now, so you're not allowed to.

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Speaker 1: You you can play basketball park, it just can't be

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Speaker 1: organized like. It can't be like a five on five game.

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Speaker 1: You can probably go and shoot around yourself. They put

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Speaker 1: the people gonna be like, let's play it three on

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Speaker 1: three or four or four or five five. The stories

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Speaker 1: I never I hate any of these stories. I feel

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Speaker 1: even worse than worse for the goddamn graduates who got

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Speaker 1: to graduate virtually or they can play basketball. It makes

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Speaker 1: no sense, Like it really makes no sense. You can

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Speaker 1: find a way to social distance with everything else, but

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Speaker 1: not a graduation, Like it's really stupid. It is, all right,

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Speaker 1: well a lot of people are just a laying graduation,

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Speaker 1: so it's not like it won't happen at all, right, man,

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Speaker 1: if people they having virtual graduations today and play in Georgia,

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Speaker 1: they having virtual graduations today, so uh well, anyway, that's

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Speaker 1: just some of your updates. How much Georgia point. Definitely

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Speaker 1: crazy in Georgia, especially being at Georgia been over for

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. They having virtual graduations. For how

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Speaker 1: you can't have a day party and you can't have

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Speaker 1: parties and then these kids can't graduate. Man, it makes

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Speaker 1: no priorities a mess up? Man, would you say, but

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Speaker 1: would you feel okay with letting your kids go to graduation? Right?

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Speaker 1: Now too. Yeah, absolutely, they just gotta keep you hear it?

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Speaker 1: Did you hear everything? You just said everything, because you

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00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 1: guys have been saying this whole time that you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: want your kids going back to school right now, you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't want them doing certain things. So that's why I'm asking.

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Speaker 1: Just because it's open doesn't mean you're going to do

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Speaker 1: it right. It was graduation, graduate away. Yeah, school is

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Speaker 1: you gotta go class to class, They gotta clean. This

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Speaker 1: is one time thing six feet away. Well you know

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Speaker 1: all angles. Yeah, I would let my daughter graduate. Everybody.

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Speaker 1: Everybody can wear a mask. You can do it outside

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00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of different ways according to you

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Speaker 1: know CDC guideline on how to socially social distance that

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Speaker 1: you could do a properly social distance. Graduation doesn't matter

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Speaker 1: how big the school is. I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: do it outside. No school got football field and tracks

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Speaker 1: and all kinds of stuff. They could do it on.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well that is your front page news now.

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Speaker 1: When we come back from South Carolina, Bacary Sellers will

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Speaker 1: be joining us. Yes, he's got a new book out

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Speaker 1: called My Vanishing Country. Um, you know, just detailing the

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Speaker 1: story of a young South Carolina kid raised on a

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Speaker 1: dirt road and Denmark, South Carolina man, So sloot to

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Speaker 1: my guy, Bacard. My Vanishing Country is out right now,

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Speaker 1: and he's coming up next. All right, we'll get to

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Speaker 1: that next one. Move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

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Speaker 1: a special guest on the line right now, Bacary Sellers. Welcome,

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Speaker 1: sir man. I'm glad to be back. What's going on, fam?

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Speaker 1: Angela Bacari looked like he has got a haircut in

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Speaker 1: at least three months it out. Yeah, he's definitely thugging

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Speaker 1: it out. I'm looking like a young Denzel is the

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Speaker 1: young Marvin gay Guard. Because I'm happy for you, man,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I'm proud of you. Your

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Speaker 1: book is out right now, My Vanishing Country. Great read,

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Speaker 1: amazing read. Thank you so much, brother, I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: about it. It was a you may know this, but

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Speaker 1: I got turned down by nearly thirty publishers for trying

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Speaker 1: to write a book about Yeah, I was trying to

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Speaker 1: write a political book in the age of Trump, and

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Speaker 1: none of the publishers wanted to buy it. I sat

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Speaker 1: down with Tracy Sharad and Patrick Bass over at Amistad,

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Speaker 1: a HarperCollins imprint and told him my story, and they said,

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Speaker 1: you gotta, you gotta write this book, and here here

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Speaker 1: it is. So I'm just thankful for everybody out there

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Speaker 1: who is in this quarantine period and has a project

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Speaker 1: and they've been turned down. Just keep persevering. That happens

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Speaker 1: to the best of us. How long I'm sorry, yeah,

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Speaker 1: how long has he been writing a book? I got

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Speaker 1: this done in four to five months. And crazy part

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Speaker 1: about it is the book's not really partisan. It's a

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Speaker 1: political book. We talk about the systemic injustices the black

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Speaker 1: folk lived through, but it doesn't talk about Democrat versus Republican.

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Speaker 1: The reason I had to finish it quickly is because

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Speaker 1: I'm sure y'all are gonna have a guest this fall.

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Speaker 1: The big dog, Barack Obama's book comes out in the fall,

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Speaker 1: and so everybody's trying to get their books out now

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Speaker 1: so they don't happen, because it'll be over this fall. Over.

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Speaker 1: Let's be clear, President Obama is not coming here, Okay,

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Speaker 1: President Obama is not stopping by the breath. He's gonna

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Speaker 1: do exactly what Michelle did. He gonna send it in

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Speaker 1: a nice, pretty box with a card that says thank you, Charlomagne.

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Speaker 1: You know that's what that's what task gonna be. I

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Speaker 1: thought it was refreshing to see what a positive impact

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Speaker 1: your father actually had on your life from a young age. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You know, my father was shot February eight, nineteen sixty eight,

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Speaker 1: in the Orangework massacre. And I tell people it's I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's it's rare. I do believe you to be able

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Speaker 1: to come downstairs and in the kitchen have your hero

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Speaker 1: there all the time, and um, you know, just looking

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Speaker 1: back on their struggles, my father was shot. My father

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Speaker 1: went to prison not once, but twice. He went to

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Speaker 1: prison the first time for refusing to go to Vietnam.

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Speaker 1: He went to prison the second time for being an

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Speaker 1: outside agitator they deemed him to be. They charged them

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Speaker 1: and tried to mean convicted them of rioting. He's the

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Speaker 1: first and only one man riot in the history of

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Speaker 1: this country. But you know, I tell people that the

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Speaker 1: trauma that people of color lived through in this country,

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Speaker 1: not only was my father arrested. But you think about

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Speaker 1: the fact that my mom had to while her husband

633
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Speaker 1: was in prison, She had to give birth to my sister,

634
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: her oldest child, and then lived with that and carry

635
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: a family. My father had a felony. Imagine having a

636
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: felony in the South during the sixties and seventies, and

637
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: so just living through all of that trauma. And when

638
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: I look at my dad today, I you know, if

639
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: I don't pop like they once did, his should, his

640
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: arm as upright as they once were, and you can

641
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: see the burden that he's had to carry his entire life.

642
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: Henry Smith, Samuel Hammond, and dellan On Middleton would kill

643
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm in arrange word South Carolina and he creay the

644
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: South Carolina. This country only blame my father. And so

645
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: this book is a love story to him. It's a

646
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: love story to the South, it's a love story of

647
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: black women. But it's also a chile lenging story to

648
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: this country to be a more perfect union. You know,

649
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: when we talk about generational trauma, and you know, based

650
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: on what happened to your father in the Orangeburg massacre,

651
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: you know, how do you not hate police officers? Well,

652
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 1: I don't hate them. I a I have a healthy

653
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: sphere of them. You know, my parents when I was

654
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,719
Speaker 1: growing up, my dad, I think if I'm the Summer's experience.

655
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: We never pulled over on the side of the road

656
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: and at night, ever, you always drove to the next exit.

657
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: You always drove until you know you could find some light.

658
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 1: My father was always saying that, you know, make sure

659
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: that you listen. We can cite these injustices in the

660
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: court of law because he knew what happened. I mean,

661
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: he knew that for eight seconds law enforcement shot into

662
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: a group of students who were just protesting segregation, and

663
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: eight seconds to change live, eight seconds to kill three

664
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: at wounded twenty eight. And so that's that. Those were

665
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: the lessons that we grew up with. And I'm trying

666
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,959
Speaker 1: to grow out of hate. I do have a lot

667
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: of hate in my heart. It's aspirational for me, but

668
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm working on my journey. I'm talking a bit Jake's

669
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: and Tyler Perry and others, and just trying to let

670
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: all of that resentment and hate go because it's hard

671
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: to live and be a father and be a husband

672
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: while you're still out here trying to hate people. Yeah,

673
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: you know when when we talk about your father, Cleveland Sellers,

674
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,479
Speaker 1: the Armsburg mascot, that was the first time in history

675
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: that police officers face the federal trial for excessive use

676
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: of force, right, Yeah, and they all were found not guilty. Yeah,

677
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: but we still see that happen so much today. And

678
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: you're an attorney, like, how do we as black people

679
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: ever get justice in the court of law? So, I

680
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: mean at the people ask me what do I want

681
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 1: out of my life? And I think that the I

682
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: think envy. You get this too. You know, all we

683
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: want is our children to be free. I mean, at

684
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: the end of the day, I don't want my children

685
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: to have to suffer from injustices because of who they love,

686
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: the color of their skin, or who they pray to.

687
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: And I want them to be free. And we're not

688
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: there yet. I mean, it's it's a it takes more

689
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: of us, more people going it, more black poke on benches,

690
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: on federal benches. That's why this election is so important

691
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: because what Donald Trump has done to federal benches in

692
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: this country is something that people have they don't save

693
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: and it's not their first thought. But he's reformed the

694
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: entire judiciary. You got all these young white boys who

695
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: are sitting on benches with lifetime and appointments, who are

696
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 1: more conservative and less qualified that you can ever imagine,

697
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: and they're going to dictate how justice has served in

698
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: this country for not just four years, but for decade

699
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: upon decade. And so it takes more more young people

700
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: going into law, more young people going to politics, more

701
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: young people coming into the system to reform the system

702
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: and break it down. I was going to ask you,

703
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: what do you what do you teach your kids? I mean,

704
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 1: with everything that your dad's been through and you've been through,

705
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 1: and you kind of want them to live kind of

706
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 1: a normal life where they're not fearful of policing, you know,

707
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: So what is your explanation and what are you teaching them?

708
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: It's crazy. So I have sixteen month old twins. You

709
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: might hear one or two of them running around here

710
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 1: at any moment. And then I have a fourteen year

711
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: old daughter. And my fourteen year old daughter she just

712
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: she just started taking her driving class man, so she's

713
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: about to have a permit. So if you're any Carolinas,

714
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 1: just stuff, if you see her, just just get off

715
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: the road to see it out the way it out.

716
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: The way. Yeah, and I'm about to start to go

717
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: fund me for this insurance. Good God. Putting the children

718
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: on yours goes up easy. But you know, I tell

719
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: them to always be unapologetic about your blackness, standing your truth,

720
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: and always think critically. Try not to let your emotions

721
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: consume you. If you're pulled over and you feel like

722
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: it's an injustice, we will fight that injustice in a

723
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: different venue. What you tell your kids, because you've got

724
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 1: you got kids out, they're driving and doing all types

725
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: of well, you know what, you know, my dad is

726
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: a retired police officer, So you know the two things

727
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 1: my dad always taught me was one of the police

728
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: and not your friends. So make sure you understand that

729
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: the police and not your friends. If they're asking you

730
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: questions and they're trying to get information from you, shut up.

731
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: The police, not your friends. And then also, and the

732
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: second thing is kind of what you just said, My

733
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 1: dad said, you cannot win in the streets. Get home,

734
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: and we can win in the courtroom. We can win

735
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: outside of that. So when you're dealing with police out

736
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: there and there's a prominents a situation, just remember you

737
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 1: cannot win on those streets. Like it's the it's their game.

738
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 1: That's true. But you can't win in the courtroom either.

739
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: But at least you're alive in the courtroom, U brother.

740
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: But for everybody, listen and let me just tell y'all

741
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: what you said. What you said is so true. Man,

742
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: they're not your friends. And so I see part too

743
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: many people they're given police there. I know this isn't

744
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: on topic, but giving police their phones, you know, cooperating

745
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: and trying to talk their kind of situations. And let

746
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: me just tell y'all that never worked. All we got

747
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: more with Bacari Sellers. When we come back, don't move.

748
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club, Good morning, when everybody is DJ

749
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: Envy Angela yee. Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast

750
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: Club were still kicking with Bacari Sellers. He has a

751
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: new book called My Vanishing Country. Yee o, Karry, what

752
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: would you say one of your kids wanted to go

753
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: into law enforcement? Oh? I would let them do whatever

754
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: they want to do, as long as they were dreaming

755
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 1: about being the chief of police or the head of

756
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: the FBI. I want my kids to always dream about

757
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: being the best. I want my kids to do anything

758
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 1: I want them to be change agents. So so whatever

759
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: whatever profession you go in, make sure that you are

760
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: becoming a part of something larger than yourself. You talk

761
00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: about your kids about HBCUs. How important are hbc using

762
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: as far as your kids are. Are you gonna kid

763
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 1: cars that the twins have to go to an HPC

764
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: I tried. I only brought I brought my kids the

765
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: only run regular school, the rest with HBCUs. I went

766
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 1: to the Spellman's, the Clocks, the Hamptons, the Howards. I

767
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: went to all HBCUs. My daughter's like, now, I want

768
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: to stay close to New York. I want to go

769
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: to college in New York, and there's no HBCUs to

770
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: New York. My kids can go to any college they

771
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: want to go to as long as it's an HBCU.

772
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: That's the same thing my parents told me. Now, I

773
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 1: want my kids, my my my my stepdaughter, her father's

774
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: Vince Carter, and her mom and my wife went to

775
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: North Carolina. So she's between North Carolina, North Carolina and

776
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 1: Howard right now. So I got I got a fifty

777
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: percent chance on that when the twins though, the twins

778
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 1: going down to the AUC, they're gonna go to South

779
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: Carolina State of clapland we're gonna do all of those

780
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: things that I just think that experience and I talk

781
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: about it in the book, and that experience is necessary

782
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: beachause your leadership and not only helps you have dreams

783
00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: and understand that you can compete anywhere, um, but I

784
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: think it just gives you this belief and reaffirmation in

785
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: who you are as a black person. One thing that

786
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: immediately stands out I should stand out to people when

787
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: reading your book, My Vanishing Country is the black working

788
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: class in America. Why does it seem like that sector

789
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 1: of America has been forgotten? Well, I mean when you

790
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: hear and the media does it all the time. Man,

791
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,479
Speaker 1: when you hear about rural America or you hear about

792
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,280
Speaker 1: working class America, everybody makes you think that means white American.

793
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: You know, this is about giving people. This book is

794
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: about giving the black folk a voice. I want people

795
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: to have a sense of pride when they read this book,

796
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: and I want white folks to get a sense of understanding.

797
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: You know. One of the things that Bishop Jake's told

798
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: me when we were having our conversation is that it's

799
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: crazy because you can teach people science. You can teach

800
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: people math, you can teach people English, but you can't

801
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: teach people blackness. And so I want when white folk

802
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: read this book, I want them to get a sense

803
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: of understanding. And I think we'll have a sense of

804
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: pride from reading him. Yeah, that was a good conversation

805
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: with a bishop TV Jakes. I was watching his sermon

806
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: on Sunday. What actually made me go to it? I

807
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: saw it on your IG, but I didn't get a

808
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: chance to go to it. But I was watching this

809
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: sermon Sunday. He ran a whole goddamn promo for a

810
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: conversation with you and him. Before you know, I go

811
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 1: to I end up because you know, I talked about

812
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 1: this as well. Last year was such a hard year

813
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 1: for me. Man um in giving birth in January, almost

814
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: lost my wife. She m she bled out, she lost

815
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: seven units of blood. And um, you know, when we

816
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: when I talk about these issues in the book, the

817
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: political overlay is that whether or not you're you know,

818
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 1: Ellen Sellers, or whether or not you are Serena Williams,

819
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 1: or you're on medicaid, black women are four times more

820
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: likely to die during childbirths than their white peers, And

821
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: so you know, I'm sitting there and at about five

822
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: twenty eight, totally born. Five thirty three, Sadie's born. By

823
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:48,240
Speaker 1: ten o'clock, my wife is throwing up, she's she's sweating.

824
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: We pull the sheets back. It's blood everywhere. The nurses

825
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: are moving so slow. I have to call her doctors

826
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: myself on the cell phone. I know them. It's three

827
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 1: black women, badass black women. They get out of bed,

828
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: they come, They take my wife in a crash part.

829
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: They bring the whole emergency team in, and then my

830
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: wife goes in ICU. They locked the floor down. I'm

831
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 1: the only person up there, and they give me these

832
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: little bitty bottles with nipples. And then all of a

833
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: sudden have to become my children's mom too. And so

834
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there and you know that prayer that you

835
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: it's like, it's like a college prayer, but what it's

836
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: like when you wake up on Saturday morning and you're real,

837
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: real drunk and you don't feel good, and you like,

838
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: dear God, get me out of this. I promise you

839
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: got again. Yeah, I was taking that prayer like, Dear God,

840
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: whatever it is, I'll never do, just bring my wife

841
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 1: back to the first thirty six hours my wife was

842
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: in ICU and we literally had to take the kids

843
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: down in a little bubble to go see her. And

844
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: then two months later, my daughter was diagnosed with Billy

845
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: area TREESA, which is a rare liver disease, and for

846
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: ninety three days she was on the liver transplant list.

847
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: And so every day you're watching she was really skinny,

848
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: but had this big belly, and she was yellow and

849
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: every time she peeked, it was like this really dark

850
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: yellow color. And every day she's just dying right in

851
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 1: front of your eyes, and you just hope and you

852
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: get a phone call and get a new deliver before

853
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 1: your daughter passes away. Ellen's laying in bed and we're

854
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: trying to be strung, and she'll ask a question like

855
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,240
Speaker 1: did God give us Adie just to take her away?

856
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: And so we went through all of that, and that

857
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 1: said some first, she got to gift of life and

858
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: she's been doing she's thriving, you know it really well

859
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: since and then I saw Bishop Jakes at Tyler Perry's house.

860
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 1: I was sitting there eating with my good friend Andrew

861
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 1: Gillam and my friend Charlemagne and Angela. We were hanging

862
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: out and then I saw Bishop Jakeson, ran up to

863
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: him and talk to him and just just him and

864
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: Tyler just cried on the shoulder and then so much

865
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: And since then, you know, they've been there and the

866
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: brothers have been there to kind of lift me up

867
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 1: and renourish and refill my spirit because sometimes after you

868
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 1: go through moments like that, as strong as you have

869
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: to be for your family, you need other people to

870
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: be there for you. I talked about that in this book,

871
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: that going through trauma, it's okay to talk to other

872
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: people because if you're not healthy, you can't be healthy

873
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: for those around you. So and thank y'all for the

874
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: operators too. I know that y'all have been there for

875
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: me as well that my family has been going through this.

876
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 1: So a big things to to you all too, and

877
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: also to man a salute to Ellen. Wasn't the day

878
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 1: the day that you know your daughter got her kidney?

879
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: The week didn't her father died a week or something

880
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,240
Speaker 1: like that. I get this phone call. I'm inter mediation.

881
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: I got a kid who had a shattered testicle, So

882
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm up there mediating this case. Um, he took a

883
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: he took a lacrosse ball to the yeah wow um,

884
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: And so he had a shatter He had a shattered testicle.

885
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: I get a phone call and it's my niece who

886
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 1: was living with us. By the way, Man, if y'all

887
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: got any jobs for twenty four year old college graduate.

888
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: If y'all hiring, man, let me not. I need to

889
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: get her out of my house. And so I get

890
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: a phone call and he's just hollering, man, and she's like,

891
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 1: something's wrong with Ellen, and Ellen, just Yellen in the background.

892
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: They took my father. They took my father. Her father

893
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: was out there doing what he loved best. He was.

894
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: He was on his lamb, he was moving moving blocks

895
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 1: and boats, getting ready for hunting season, and didn't He

896
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: had a massive heart attack on his tractor. They found

897
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,439
Speaker 1: him literally dead on his tractor the way he wanted

898
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: to go out. Um. So she goes down to Lancas,

899
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: to South Carolina. She's spending time and she calls me

900
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: at like one o'clock. So the heart attack happened in

901
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 1: the morning. She called me a like one o'clock and

902
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: she's like, Bakar, we gotta go to Duke. And I'm like,

903
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: what's going on what's wrong. She said, they gotta kid,

904
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 1: they gotta liver. And then so we're just sitting there

905
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: and we uh, we go to Duke and we get

906
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: the transplant. Her father died on Friday, we get the call.

907
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: We go to Duke the next day, Um, and we

908
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: get the transplant on Monday. I sent Ellen back to

909
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: Lancaster so she can grieve properly with her family. I

910
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: stay with Sadie in the hospital. I take a little

911
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: PJ down the lakes. There's the only private plane to

912
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 1: fly in the Lancaster County to go to the funeral,

913
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: and I fly right back and um, you know, we

914
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: at the funeral end Reverend Lady Johnson, she sayd that

915
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: her father has to die, had to pass away to

916
00:44:56,520 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: go up to heavens to get Sadi's liver for you know,

917
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,800
Speaker 1: we so so greatful. Wow, that's amazing. All right, we

918
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 1: got more Baccari sellers when we come back. Don't move.

919
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: It's to breakfast club. Good morning, bj envy Angela, yee. Charlomagne,

920
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: the guy we all the breakfast club was still kicking

921
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: it with Baccari sellers. Ye, so Bacari, how is it

922
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: for you now to be home with your family. So

923
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: I mean, you know this the best part, man, is

924
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: that one we don't um. People are going through this

925
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: coronavirus and quarantine and they got all these problems. But

926
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: for us, you know, everybody healthy, so we kind of

927
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: always joy. This don't mean I mean, this don't mean

928
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: nothing to us. Well last year, this ain't this is

929
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: this is what it is, and so we're enjoying it, man.

930
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: And I'm able to do everything that's entire book tour

931
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: um from you know, don lemon to I'm able to

932
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: do uh joy am am joy this coming weekend. I'm

933
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: able to do all of these things from right, Trevor

934
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,919
Speaker 1: know it's a dope, dude. I have a great, great

935
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: respect I did uh. I love on zan um. But

936
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: you know this is crazy. I don't know, I y'all

937
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: knew this. But the two best shows to sell books,

938
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:07,439
Speaker 1: y'all know, the two top shows are to sell books

939
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: in the country Breakfast Club and um Breakfast Club. And yes,

940
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: Trevor right there, So y'all, y'alla in y'alla in rarefied

941
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: air man. That's why I said Barrock's coming, whether or

942
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: not you want them or not, I hope so Michelle

943
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 1: did send me like a nice gift, like it was like,

944
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: remember how Tyler Perry's invitation was her her book came

945
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: in like a package like that. Well, my book to

946
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: you probably just came in a FedEx envelope. I had

947
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: the advanced copy with the didn't you have a cover

948
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: or nothing? But but I want you to know you

949
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: look at the dope picture us here. It has a

950
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: picture of me from six years old. And then I

951
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 1: got Charlotte, Hillary and Angela Ry on the back of it. Man,

952
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: So we just I'm happy, man, I'm happy to be

953
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 1: able to give a voice to tell the story. I

954
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 1: talked about Charleston and Charleston massacre in the book Um,

955
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: all the trauma that I lived through the successes of

956
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: being the youngest black UM legislator in the country. But

957
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I just talk about

958
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 1: understanding people's trauma. So maybe we can have some compassion

959
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 1: and empathy and persevere to this thing together. And one

960
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: of my favorite chapters of so, one of my favorite

961
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 1: chapters of his anxiety is my superpower. Yeah, man, it's

962
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 1: a black man's superpower. I got this fear of death

963
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: and fear of failure, and so I use as those

964
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: things to push me every single day. Lease irrational series, Man,

965
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm those You know sometimes you get this feeling in

966
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: your chest or you get I call it getting getting

967
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 1: lost in my head and you're like, oh my god,

968
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: I don't want this to happen before I can finish

969
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: succeeding or doing this or making my family. And so

970
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 1: I just talk. Most black men only think they can

971
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,479
Speaker 1: talk to their barbers, but we got to start talking

972
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,359
Speaker 1: to people who do. So what are your thoughts about

973
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: this upcoming election? What are your predictions on what you

974
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: think is going to happen? Man? I came on the

975
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: show last year, year before last and predicted, well, no,

976
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: in twenty sixteen and predicted to Hillary Clinton was gonna

977
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: be president. So I don't know if y'all really know.

978
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: You don't want to give us addition. You don't want

979
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,919
Speaker 1: to protict the opposite. You weren't wrong, though you weren't

980
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: technically wrong popular vote. But she ain't had to work

981
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: extremely hard to get Illy on y'all show. We're working

982
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: extremely hard to get Biden on y'all show. So I

983
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: think that that's necessary. We're gonna make that happen. But

984
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: I think that Joe Biden's gonna win this race. I

985
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: think that it's gonna be extremely close. I think we

986
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: have new swing states like Arizona. I think that we

987
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: gotta there. We gotta do two things. One, I think

988
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: he has to have a black woman on the ticket

989
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 1: because black people are gonna vote, don't that's my trip.

990
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 1: Black women are gonna vote. They're gonna vote for him.

991
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: But what you want them to do is not only vote,

992
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: but you want them to make sure that they own

993
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: them phones, that they're getting everybody from the church to vote,

994
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: that they getting their cousins who just come over, who

995
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: they get played for it, who come over to the

996
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 1: cookout to vote. You want them to actually go out

997
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: and work, because if it's not a black woman on

998
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 1: that ticket, I'm afraid that they just gonna kind of

999
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: chill out and not do anything. But two, they got

1000
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: to talk to black men, and for a long period

1001
00:48:59,920 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: of time, the Democratic Party has not messaged to black men.

1002
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: Thirteen said of black men voted for Donald Trump, some

1003
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 1: of it was massogyny, some of it's because we're kind

1004
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: of simple, but other the other part was that there

1005
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: was no other message in there and at least Donald

1006
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: Trump talks the black men. I don't believe that BS.

1007
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: Most of y'all don't believe that BS, but there are

1008
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 1: some of our friends do. And if it's the only

1009
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 1: message there that they hear, then there would be more

1010
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: receptive And so we have to fill that void with

1011
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 1: a positive message. You can't just go out here and

1012
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: tell people that you would not Donald Trump. You got

1013
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: to give you some people of reasons to vote for you.

1014
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: Why do you think this country's vanishing? Because I see

1015
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: it with my eyes. I mean where we grew up

1016
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: Moss Corner in Denmark, South Carolina. What used to be

1017
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: bubbling economy's upward mobility for people of color are now

1018
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: the small towns, the downtowns are now boarded up. Where

1019
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 1: I'm from, you live in a food desert where you

1020
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,240
Speaker 1: don't have fresh fruits and vegetables, you don't have access

1021
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: to quality care, you're drinking dirty water, you're inhaling unclean air.

1022
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's vanishing. And then larger scale, Um, I

1023
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: think that what this country has promised us man um.

1024
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: But the promises that, by the way, it's kind of crazy.

1025
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 1: My book came out on Malcolm X's birthday. But the

1026
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: the things that Malcolm X and mart Luther King Junior,

1027
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: and my father and SOCII car Mincaele and Maryon Burry

1028
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: and Julian Vaughn all pushed this country, those promises, they

1029
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: pushed this country to fulfill. I feel like in this

1030
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: era that we're living in now, those things are those

1031
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 1: things are further away from attaining than they ever were,

1032
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: And so I wanted to highlight that and make sure

1033
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: that we knew what the challenge was before us. Absolutely well,

1034
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: we vanishing countries out right now, man, make sure you

1035
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:47,280
Speaker 1: go get it Amazon. Uh did you it's own audible too, right, yeah, audible,

1036
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: but you know that audible don't really count to US

1037
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: Times best Sellers list man, So let's let's go get

1038
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: the Hard Time please, right. No, they got an audio book.

1039
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,560
Speaker 1: They gott not audible, but they have an audio book.

1040
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: If you buy an audio book, they have a whole

1041
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: other list for that on the New York Time. So

1042
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: you can make that want. I want to make that one,

1043
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: but let me tell you, let me tell y'all real quick, well,

1044
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: I want to make the New York Times best sellers

1045
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: list man, but not just to put it in my

1046
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: Twitter baio. But it's going there. But not just for that,

1047
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: but when if young black authors like myself an opportunity

1048
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: to write, um, we have to do well so that

1049
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: other people have an opportunity to Charlemagne didn't fell, if

1050
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: Mark lamont Hill didn't do well, and Westmore didn't do well,

1051
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't have my chance. And so it took me.

1052
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 1: It still took me thirty times to get a book deal.

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00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: And so what I'm saying is I need this book

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00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: to do well. We need this book to do well

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00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: so that other people of color can tell their stories too.

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00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: It's definitely going into Twitter bio if it happens, but

1057
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: I want to open up doors for other people that way.

1058
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: With Angela Ye writes her best selling book, We Gut

1059
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: It and we get together, absolutely country and give your love,

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00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: to give our love to your family for us too

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00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: as well. Thank you so much. I means like keep

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00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: us in your prayers. Thank you all. All right, it's

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Speaker 1: Bakari sellers, It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning listen, it's

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Speaker 1: the Report. Yes, so the barbs are coming at Lisa

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00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: Ray and Claudia Jordan and I'm not sure if they're

1066
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 1: really going at Vivica Fox. But this is all because

1067
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: of some comments that were made on there on Claudia

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Speaker 1: Show on Fox Soul. Now, this all started because of

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00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: the conversation that Usher had was Swizz where he was

1070
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,720
Speaker 1: talking about a possible battle between Little Kim and Nicki Minaj,

1071
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 1: and Usher said that that didn't seem right because Nicki

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00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 1: Minaj was a product of Little Kim. So here is

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00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 1: what they discussed as far as those comments. And I

1074
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: don't know why the fans are getting so angry at

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00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: what Usher said. Usher did not slam Nicki Minaj by

1076
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: saying that that is not a dish to her, but

1077
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 1: it is a fact. Little Kim came up way before

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00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: her in a crew of all fellas, and she made

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00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: that popular. So when we get held them together, queens

1080
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: and say that we are acknowledging fat, all of us

1081
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: are acknowledging in fact him came before Nicki Minaj. And

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00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 1: so Nicky, just take a seat. You don't have to

1083
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 1: sit down for long, but just take a bow, just

1084
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: like Beyonce I said, bow down, bitches. I still don't

1085
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 1: see what the problem is. Nicki Minaj is a product

1086
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: a little Kim and that doesn't take away from Nicki's

1087
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: great And it's just like Kobe Bryant is a product

1088
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: of Michael Jordan, Like, what's what's the problem. I think

1089
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: they didn't like how Lisa Ray said for her Nicki

1090
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: Minaj to take a seat and just take a bow.

1091
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 1: So that's yeah, she did say that. Yeah, it wasn't

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00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 1: necessarily just that conversation. So yes, And now the Barbes

1093
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: are going crazy, and Claudia said, wow, now the Barbes

1094
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: have gone too far, threatening to beat her my sixty

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00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: nine year old mother and now harassing my fifteen year

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00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 1: old niece. At the end of the day, what will

1097
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: this accomplish But keep your comma bad and you get

1098
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: brought up on charges. We stay protected, know this, And

1099
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: then she put hashtag over a talk show combo. Then

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00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: she also said that the Barbs are brainless and soulless. Listen,

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00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: you can't go ahead. First of all, Claudia didn't even

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00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: really say anything. I love the fact that Claudia Jordan said,

1103
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 1: you could be bought upon charges. That's all you gotta do.

1104
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 1: Just hire the FBI. They have people that can track

1105
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: down those folks. You know what I'm saying, who make

1106
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: those crazy ass comments to you on social media? Those

1107
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: death threats, if they leak in your address, if they

1108
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: threatening to kill you, that's all illegal. It just takes

1109
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: a little time and a little energy to get it done.

1110
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: But if they threatening your mom and niece and posting

1111
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: your address, it's worth get one of them locked up. Absolutely,

1112
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 1: And I'm sure that yes, this isn't how Nicki Minas

1113
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 1: wants to be represented by her fans. Especially you know,

1114
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:37,720
Speaker 1: at a time like this, you want to be more positive.

1115
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 1: If you want to be someone's fan and go hard

1116
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 1: for them, keep it positive, say positive things. If you

1117
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: have an issue with what somebody said, you can address

1118
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:46,720
Speaker 1: them about it, but you don't have to threaten someone's

1119
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: mom or their niece put their FI on their ass.

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00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 1: Barbs behind bars should be the hashtag. Okay, let's get

1121
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: some of them goddamn bobs locked the hell up, all right,

1122
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: and let's talk about versus battles because I am so

1123
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 1: excited I did for this Memorial Day event. It's gonna

1124
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: be Bounty Killer versus Beanie Man. I will be watching

1125
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,359
Speaker 1: that on the big screen. I was praying for one

1126
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: of these dancehall or reggae ones and this is it.

1127
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 1: So this event is gonna be amazing and I'll definitely

1128
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: be watching that Saturday starting at apm Eastern me too.

1129
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my drinks ready. And BT Awards they

1130
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: will be virtual this year, and so that's the format

1131
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 1: the annual awards show will move forward. It's gonna be Sunday,

1132
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,799
Speaker 1: June twenty eighth. Usually they have this three day event

1133
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: that leads up to it with the BT experience. That's

1134
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: not gonna move forward as scheduled. So the rest of it, though,

1135
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: the actual awards will be virtual. And what's whack? That

1136
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: is the first year that BT is gonna be on CBS,

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00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So the first year that

1138
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: it's gonna be on CBS is gonna be virtual. I

1139
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: don't like their virtual award shows. I'm overall virtual everything.

1140
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,839
Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate the zoom presenters and zoom performances.

1141
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: I'm done with all of that. But it's just wacking.

1142
00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: It's gonna be on TBS this year and it's gonna

1143
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: be virtual. There's nothing you can do about that. I'm

1144
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: sure it doesn't. Yeah, I'm sure that people appreciate the

1145
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 1: content as well, and people. I'm sure I can come

1146
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: up with creative ways to perform from home as we've

1147
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: been seeing happen, So people will do their best. Maybe

1148
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: they'll have a verses during that too, all right, Russell Simmons,

1149
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: The sexual assault accusers that are saying that he assaulted

1150
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,720
Speaker 1: them are doing interviews now because you know that that movie,

1151
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: that documentary on the Record comes out on HBO Matt

1152
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: on May twenty seventh and tells the stories of three

1153
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: women who alleged that he preyed on them while he

1154
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: was overseeing Deaf Jam recordings, And now they have also

1155
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 1: done exclusive interviews in this week's issue of People magazine.

1156
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: So the women that you can see on their Drew Dixon,

1157
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: a female employee who worked as director of A and

1158
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: R A Deaf Jam. You can also see still Lie

1159
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: Abrahams and she was a former Deaf Jam executive assistant.

1160
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: And Sherry Scher, who also was an early hip hop artist. Now,

1161
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: Russell Simmons has continued to say that he apologized for

1162
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,720
Speaker 1: thoughtlessness in his relationships with women and even inappropriate conduct,

1163
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: but denies all accusations of rape. So he is denying

1164
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 1: that he did not respond when people reached out for comment.

1165
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: But there's a whole profile on these women and interviews

1166
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: that are out this week in People magazine and Timmy Rivera.

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00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: She has done an interview and she's talking about how

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00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: she does have a regret, and that regret is having

1169
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: light bo suction done. Here's what she had to say.

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00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: I've gotten lightpo in my stomach, which I never should

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00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 1: have done. It was the worst decision I've ever made.

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Speaker 1: The reason why I feel as though, because first of all,

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00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: I didn't need it. You know what the bomber is,

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00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: cottle that little I'm gonna suck this pouch out, and

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00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 1: by me doing that, I feel like the fat deposit

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00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: in other places. And I've always been, you know, bottom heavy,

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00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: so now I'm actual bottom heavy. And people like, oh,

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00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: you got your ass done. I'm like, girl, if I

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00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 1: could suck this shout, I would, all right. Well, yeah,

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00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: that's the thing, man. Sometimes when you get certain procedures done,

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00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: you don't think about how it might affect the rest

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00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: of your body or the upkeeper of it. So that

1183
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 1: was very honest of her. And you know, she did

1184
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: get a breast reduction, and now she said the LiPo

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00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 1: is the one thing that she does regrets. Okay, all right,

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00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: I'm Antela yee and that is your rumor report. Okay,

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00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: thank you, Missy Charlemagne. Yes, sir, who are giving that down?

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00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: K two? You know we need Armando Junior her Nandez.

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00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: He is the alleged shooter of Westgate Mall in Arizona.

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00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: He needs to come to the front of the congregation.

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00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: We need to have a word with him. All right,

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00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: we'll get into that next keeping lock this to breakfast club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, It's time for Donkey of the Day. I'm

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00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: a Democrat, so being Donkey of the Day a little

1195
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 1: bit of a mill But like other day now, I've

1196
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 1: been called a lot of my twenty three years, but

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Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day is a new wife. Donkey to

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Speaker 1: Day for Thursday, May twenty first goes to a young

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Speaker 1: twenty year old man named Armando Junior her Nandez. Hey,

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00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: he is the alleged shooter of Westgate Mall in Arizona. Now,

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00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: if you haven't heard, Armando posted a series of posts

1202
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: on Snapchat that said, well he said he would be

1203
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Speaker 1: the shooter of the Westgate Mall. Let's go to KPNX

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Speaker 1: News twelve NBC for the report. Police at least three

1205
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: people have been shot after a suspected gunman opened fire

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00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: at Glendale's Westgate Entertainment District. Glendale police believed that a

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00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: lone man with a gun walked into the shopping complex

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00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: and started shooting, possibly recording himself on several social media platforms.

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00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 1: Right now, we're working to confirm the validity of those videos.

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00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: Glendale Police have the suspect in custody. In the meantime,

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00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 1: police want everyone to know that this is not an

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00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: active shooter situation. However, the area is closed off until

1213
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 1: further notice. You see why I had to say a

1214
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: ledge shooter because they haven't validated the video yet. How

1215
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: much more validation do you need? Okay? When a guy

1216
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: looks at the camera and says I Am going to

1217
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: be the shooter, then proceeds to shoot people on camera, like,

1218
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 1: what are we trying to confirm here? People? I am

1219
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: fully aware and this is a different era we live in.

1220
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 1: People want at tension for every damn thing. Everybody knows

1221
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 1: they can have an audience, and they will take the

1222
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 1: opportunity to be in front of an audience every chance

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01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: they get. Apparently, everything including mass shootings is performative nowadays. Now,

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Speaker 1: I didn't watch this video. There's absolutely no part of

1225
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: me that wants to see people get shot in real life.

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01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: This ain't a movie, dog, okay, And I'm cool on

1227
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: witnessing things like that. But I did listen to the

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01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: audio of Armando talking leading up to the shooting. And

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Speaker 1: I'm playing this because I want you to hear how

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01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: gleeful this young man sounds to do what it is

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01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: he's about to do. Listen, I'm gonna be the shooter

1232
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: of Westgate, so let's get this done. He sounds like

1233
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 1: he's going to try out a new Hamburger everybody's been

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01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: raving about. Okay, Like like, this shouldn't sound like a

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01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 1: routine thing for him to do, Okay. I'm reading the

1236
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: article on the Daily News describing the video, and it

1237
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: says he flashed his beer can and showed his guns

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01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: in the backseat of his car, and he said, let's

1239
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: get this done. Like, young man, you're not going to work, okay,

1240
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: You're not about to mow a lawn or go tear

1241
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,479
Speaker 1: down the frame of a house. Let's get this done.

1242
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: Sounds like you're an essential delivery driver who got a

1243
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: long day ahead of him delivering packages the people, and

1244
01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:28,919
Speaker 1: you just want to get it done. Let's get this done, okay.

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01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: You are attempting to give yourself a pep talk to

1246
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: go do a mass shooting. I'm just confused. Now. Almando

1247
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 1: went on to shoot three people. As of right now,

1248
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: one of the people injured is in critical condition. Two

1249
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: others were expected to survive following the shooting. Thank god

1250
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: for that. Okay. Now, in the video, the Daily Mail reports,

1251
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,560
Speaker 1: this guy stood over one of his victims, a young lady,

1252
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 1: and said society is bullsh Okay. The woman pleads, I

1253
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with that. You already got me, dude.

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01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: Let me let me hear that for a second. Let

1255
01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: me hear that little clip. You know. Man, Situations like

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Speaker 1: this is why I've been social distancing from large crowds

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Speaker 1: for a long time. This is another reason to stay quarantine.

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01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: You would think that during this quarantine people would have

1259
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: started to appreciate life more, but nope, not on mindo.

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01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: And I'm lying to you if I said I don't

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01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 1: feel empathy for him, Okay, I feel empathy for his

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01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 1: nut ass because I maintain anyone who is in that

1263
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: much pain that they would want to go out and

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01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: hurt other people like that. They are clearly a really

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01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 1: hurt individual themselves. Okay, he's twenty years old and clearly

1266
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: dealing with a lot of trauma. And when you don't

1267
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: deal with your own traumas, you traumatize others. Now, in

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Speaker 1: the perfect world, I have two wishes. One, I wish

1269
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: this young man would have received helpful whatever is you know,

1270
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: clearly going on with him, and there's clearly some psychological

1271
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 1: issues there. But this world isn't perfect. Okay. If it was,

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01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: that man will be sitting with a psychiatrist or being

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01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: someone's facility, receiving the type of treatment he needs, maybe

1274
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 1: being put on the type of medication he needs to

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01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 1: prevent things like this from happening. That's my first wish.

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01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: My second wish whenever I hear things like this is

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01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 1: I really wish these folks who think society is BS,

1278
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: these folks who don't like it here, who don't want

1279
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: to be here anymore, I really wish they understood that

1280
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,240
Speaker 1: is a personal problem. And if they don't want to

1281
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: be here anymore, don't go taking other people out. Take

1282
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: yourself out. You're the one that doesn't want to be

1283
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: here anymore. That woman you had on the ground telling

1284
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:38,000
Speaker 1: her society is BS. What does what does she have

1285
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 1: to do with the way you feel? Okay, she may

1286
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: feel like minus the BS, life is great, So who

1287
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 1: are you to take that from her? Don't take that

1288
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: anger out on others. If you must take it out

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01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 1: on yourself. I personally believe as long as you are breathing,

1290
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 1: you can reform your life in some way. You can

1291
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 1: salvage what's left for your life. But I would much

1292
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: rather you harm yourself before you go harm a bunch

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01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: of innocent people. Okay, Ormando is now in custody, and

1294
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: I guess you got to look at the bright side.

1295
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:07,800
Speaker 1: There's a bright side. No, no, there's no guess, yes,

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01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: there is a bright side. Kid had an off fifteen.

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01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 1: It could be a lot more people dead right now, Okay,

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01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 1: a lot more people hurt, all right, Clearly there's no

1299
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: there's nobody dead as a right now. Person in critical condition,

1300
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 1: you know, to an engine and you know it could

1301
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:22,439
Speaker 1: be way worse. It could be families actually grieving this morning.

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01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: But by the grace of God, it's not okay, And

1303
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: we have to be very mindful of each other at

1304
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 1: a moment like this, during this global pandemic, we all

1305
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: have to be very mindful of each other. Okay. Everybody

1306
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: is going through things. Everybody is at the end of

1307
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: their rope, and the only thing we need to know

1308
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: at this present moment in time is be kind. Okay,

1309
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 1: be kind whenever possible, and always remember it is always

1310
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 1: possible to be kind. Please give Ormando Junior Hernandez the

1311
01:04:52,640 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: biggest He are very sad situation man, all right, very

1312
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: very very sad that that that a young person would

1313
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: snap like that. All right. Up next is ask ye

1314
01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If

1315
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: you need relationship advice or any type of advice, hit

1316
01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: ye right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, what

1317
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: what what? What? What you wanna know? Baby mama issues

1318
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 1: snee some words of wisdom? Call up now for asking

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01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one oh five one the

1320
01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:34,680
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Hello, need relationship advice, need personal advice, just

1321
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 1: the real advice? Call up down for ask ye morning.

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01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We

1323
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. It's time to ask yee Hello,

1324
01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 1: who's this? Jesse hey, Jesse, question for you. Okay, So

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01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: I have an ex who like crazy and he y.

1326
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 1: I broke up with him with December and I came

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01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 1: home and I don't he's like trying to reach out

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01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 1: to my friends, my family, like he never was interested

1329
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: in meeting them, but now he's like making new social

1330
01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 1: media pages. And then now he's found my new boyfriend.

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01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: He's a stalker. Day yeah, and yesterday day like exchange

1332
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 1: a lot of words and I don't even know the

1333
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: whole conversation that they had. But my new boyfriend's acting

1334
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 1: funny like he hasn't said I one, send it to me.

1335
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 1: I cook for him, jews say thank you. He didn't

1336
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: say anything or he ate you want to please? He

1337
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: turned to between us and everything, So I don't know,

1338
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,880
Speaker 1: like what happened, Like should I leave him and just

1339
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: say for me it because I don't know. Well, I'm

1340
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 1: never a fan of letting x's come between me and

1341
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: my new relationship, so I think what you need to

1342
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: do is let your new current boyfriend no. Look, I

1343
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:47,440
Speaker 1: don't know what happened, but we're in a relationship. We're

1344
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: supposed to be able to talk to each other about anything.

1345
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 1: So I want you to let me know what is

1346
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 1: bothering you. Please do not let this outside person to

1347
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: exactly what he intended to do, and his intention was

1348
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 1: for us to break up and not get along. I

1349
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 1: do not communicate with him. You don't communicate with him,

1350
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: right I Right now he's still on my phone bill,

1351
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: like he's on my contract. So right now I'm trying

1352
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: to contact him to let him know, you know, the

1353
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,920
Speaker 1: phone dudes, dude, and then during girl, you first of all,

1354
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: can't you you gotta get him off your phone? This crazy? Yeah, yeah,

1355
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:17,800
Speaker 1: like this is the last month. So it's like after

1356
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: this month, like he can get off my plan, like

1357
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 1: the contract is up. So I'm like, okay, good, it's

1358
01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:24,919
Speaker 1: only one month, but it's like it's been two other

1359
01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 1: months that I had to, you know, get collect the

1360
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:28,720
Speaker 1: money from him to pay the phone bill. And he

1361
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 1: was like to me out, but it's like you didn't

1362
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: want me when I was there, Like this is type

1363
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: of dude that would tell you to leave, And then

1364
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 1: when you packed up, he was like no, it's like

1365
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:39,920
Speaker 1: this happened for like months in a month's out when

1366
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not dealing with his mental stress, like

1367
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 1: I like my peace and it so here's my peaceful either,

1368
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 1: Like I have to deal with it, you know, coming

1369
01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: into my new situation, I'm like, what the hell? I

1370
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: don't know what to do? Well, Jesse. Part of this

1371
01:07:52,520 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 1: is the fact that you really did not completely cut

1372
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,000
Speaker 1: off your ex. So I do feel like you have

1373
01:07:57,120 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: to take responsibility for that, because are there things that

1374
01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 1: you are hiding from your current boyfriend that your X

1375
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 1: could have thrown in his face. It's like, Okay, my

1376
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 1: ex seen him a video, you know, and that Climba

1377
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 1: threw him off, and it was like the second time. Look,

1378
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 1: I didn't see the video part my current boyfriend. He

1379
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 1: sent me a screen shot and my ex sent me

1380
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 1: a screen shot too, but they never sent me the

1381
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: whole message. So I don't know. Look, I'm gonna saying this,

1382
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 1: I have what was this like an X rated video? Yeah,

1383
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 1: you gotta understand, of course your current boyfriend feels the way,

1384
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 1: and you need to be sympathetic towards that, but you

1385
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 1: will never cut this X off completely. So first of all,

1386
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 1: nobody wants to see their girlfriend having sex with anybody,

1387
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: and I think that is completely disrespectful that your ex

1388
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,720
Speaker 1: did that, and that that was me, I would have

1389
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 1: definitely went and did something legally with him. And if

1390
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 1: that means I got to get a restraining order, if

1391
01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: that means that I have to do a police report,

1392
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 1: because he cannot be distributing these things that you did

1393
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 1: in private to people publicly. Next thing, you know, he

1394
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 1: might post that online. That's what I'm thinking, like I'm

1395
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 1: over here losing or you better nip that in the bud.

1396
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 1: First things. First, cut off this ex loser boyfriend of yours,

1397
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 1: stop communicating with him, Take legal actions so that he's

1398
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: not able to post this of you that he knows

1399
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 1: that there will be criminal charges against him if he

1400
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 1: does try to do that. Let your new boyfriend know

1401
01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: that you mean business, right because right now he's thinking

1402
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,560
Speaker 1: that you still have feelings for your ex. Now he

1403
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 1: don't seen y'all having sex, even though I'm sure he

1404
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:31,639
Speaker 1: didn't want to have to see that, and he knows

1405
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:35,640
Speaker 1: you haven't completely cut him off, right, So handle your

1406
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: business so that you can actually be in a new relationship.

1407
01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 1: You have all these loose ends, but take care of yourself,

1408
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: like make sure that he's not able to do these

1409
01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 1: things that will really hurt you because that's what he's

1410
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 1: trying to do. And somebody who had feelings for you

1411
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: would never do that. You know, he was gonna violate me.

1412
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:52,679
Speaker 1: That's where he was on violent. He's from New York

1413
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 1: and you know I'm from South Carolina, so all that

1414
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 1: up North stuffs. Don't go with me. Look, I can't

1415
01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: deal with it, all right, but don't saying no games, girl.

1416
01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: Don't wait till he does something even worse next right,

1417
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: thank you? You know I don't care handle your business,

1418
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 1: and I know we're so hesitant to reach out to

1419
01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: the authorities, and like, oh, I don't want to know.

1420
01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 1: I was about to curse, but no, you have to

1421
01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: do it. I've had to do it before. And I'm

1422
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 1: telling you right now you do not want to wait

1423
01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 1: for something even worse where you could be in some

1424
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: type of danger, where something could be spread about you.

1425
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 1: You don't want that. He don't care about you. He's

1426
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:30,200
Speaker 1: trying to hurt you. Now it's time for you to

1427
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 1: let him know. I'm not playing with you either. Yeah,

1428
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 1: but he's a cycle past. He takes me after that,

1429
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 1: and he told me I'll come back home so we

1430
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 1: can have kids and I'll walk do not entertain him,

1431
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: and you do not entertain him. Cut him out of

1432
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: your life period. There should be no reason for you to.

1433
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 1: Shouldn't even block him over everything. Now he's to the

1434
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 1: point where he's emailing me off for different emails like, y'all,

1435
01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what else to do. Well, good, that's evidence,

1436
01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: thank you, right, be like, yeah, keep emailing me, that's evidence.

1437
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 1: Keep on creating these new email addresses, that's evidence. Cut

1438
01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 1: off his phone. You got his phone under your phone,

1439
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:08,599
Speaker 1: veil cut it off? Great, Well, thank you. I need today.

1440
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 1: You're welcome. But the first time police report, Yeah, do

1441
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 1: that today immediately. Yeah, I'm about to do that right now.

1442
01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: If I hand out, all right, I'm gonna check back

1443
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 1: in with you, all right, thank you. Put on a

1444
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: hole so you can get a number please, yes, eight

1445
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If you need

1446
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: relationship advice at any type of advice, call ye now

1447
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:54,599
Speaker 1: is the breakfast club? Good morning? Been broken so many times,

1448
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what to believe. I'm gonna say it's mom,

1449
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: it's my thought. I went my heart on my sleeve

1450
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:06,880
Speaker 1: because the best out for my heart on nice, hard

1451
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:11,600
Speaker 1: on nice, because I can't bathe I'm gonna put my

1452
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 1: heart on nice, hard on nice, getting the best of

1453
01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: me while litting a sell with I came, I thought

1454
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 1: slopped in my head, told him I don't know how

1455
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,719
Speaker 1: you get down with them clowns, but I'm a soldier,

1456
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 1: no my color to stand. I had way too much

1457
01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 1: regression that built over the years from my upbanded adolescents

1458
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 1: see ill, don't be locked backstaffed and heart broking. I

1459
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 1: wanted to cry, but I was too afraid of open bringing.

1460
01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: One day I find a piece of my bottle ocean.

1461
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: I started all my time coming in crimes to get

1462
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: closer while my nana house. I played the couch, staring

1463
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: at us, seeing, trying not to a gate in my feelings,

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01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 1: thinking of a way y'all can't make these minds, Maybe

1465
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 1: that I'll take this pain away and care up all

1466
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:55,560
Speaker 1: these rainy day hard being broken so many times, I

1467
01:12:56,280 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 1: don't know what to believe. Lave imma, ain't it's my fault.

1468
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,719
Speaker 1: It's my fault. I wear my heart on my street

1469
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:07,639
Speaker 1: because the best out from my heart on nice, hard

1470
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 1: on nice, because I can't breathe, I can't. I'm for

1471
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 1: my heart on nice, hard on nice skin, the best

1472
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 1: of me. Stop in my back so much, got ready

1473
01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 1: to see at the trauma run up. Ain't hand no guy,

1474
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:23,640
Speaker 1: and it's so I had to let my mama do it.

1475
01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 1: It's something happening to me. Just know my brothers ain't doors.

1476
01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:29,120
Speaker 1: Just know the oppstite doors. But them chances right now

1477
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 1: socially because the oppstite tools. Because my grand ain't understand.

1478
01:13:32,280 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 1: I reminisce about a honey grant, can't form nothing. They

1479
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: don't understand. Catch you up Wonderbridge summer, tiping my yami

1480
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: how to top down. Can't do that. Then shy town

1481
01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 1: because SHOT's gonna be fight around that chance on was cool,

1482
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:47,680
Speaker 1: but I can't slide around so faking so snaked out

1483
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:49,400
Speaker 1: that kid for a half a town. That's why I'm

1484
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:52,320
Speaker 1: always around mother, because you turned me out. I was

1485
01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 1: in that water with them shots not then broke so

1486
01:13:55,520 --> 01:14:00,720
Speaker 1: many times. I don't know what you believe. I'm gonna

1487
01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:03,280
Speaker 1: say it's my fault. It's my fault. I wear my

1488
01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:06,840
Speaker 1: heart on my sleeve. I think it's the best off

1489
01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:09,600
Speaker 1: of my heart on nice heart on nice because I

1490
01:14:09,840 --> 01:14:14,560
Speaker 1: can't read. I'm from my heart on nice heart on

1491
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:27,080
Speaker 1: nice Skinning the best on Me Coma keep for real,

1492
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 1: there's some real advice with anthela Ye, it's ask Ye wanting.

1493
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:35,600
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

1494
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:39,639
Speaker 1: are the breakfast club. We're in the middle of ask ye. Hello,

1495
01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:42,840
Speaker 1: who's this? My name is Shaky, Hey, sh what's your

1496
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 1: question for you? I've been I'm the only one working

1497
01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: in my household. And Um, I have a boyfriend of

1498
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 1: seven years and he's not working, and he hasn't worked

1499
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 1: the whole time we've been together. So I'm trying to

1500
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:59,360
Speaker 1: figure out if I should say, if I should say

1501
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:02,080
Speaker 1: in the relationship or shot just let him go? So

1502
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: he hasn't worked for seventy years? Why is that? Um?

1503
01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 1: Does he has his own business and he wants to

1504
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 1: do that? Okay, so he does work. He has his

1505
01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: own business. He just doesn't have a traditional nine to five. Yes, Now,

1506
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:16,880
Speaker 1: why would you say he doesn't work if he has

1507
01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:19,559
Speaker 1: his own business? Does he is? He is working? Out?

1508
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,439
Speaker 1: Is he making money? No? What is his business? I'm

1509
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:30,280
Speaker 1: just curious, Um, I really don't know. So for seven years,

1510
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 1: you've been with a guy who hasn't made any money

1511
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 1: and has a business, but you don't know what he does? Right?

1512
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:39,560
Speaker 1: What made you stay so long? Um? I kind of

1513
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 1: love him? Okay, so you love him? How do you

1514
01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:45,559
Speaker 1: not know what he does? Though? Wouldn't you be wanting

1515
01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: to be supportive of such a business to do? Right? Uh?

1516
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 1: He has different businesses. Um, he does marketing and different ventures.

1517
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 1: But camera sounds like a scam of mama. I just

1518
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 1: want to say, I feel like, just from the tone

1519
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:08,160
Speaker 1: of this conversation already, that you seem very negative and

1520
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: that you put him down. It seems like a first

1521
01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: you told us he doesn't work and it hasn't worked

1522
01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:14,639
Speaker 1: in seven years, but he does, he has his own business.

1523
01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 1: Then you told us you don't know what he does,

1524
01:16:16,479 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 1: but now you're telling us what he does. And then

1525
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,680
Speaker 1: you also said you kind of love him. So it

1526
01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:24,720
Speaker 1: feels like you have an issue with being supportive or

1527
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:27,880
Speaker 1: opening up to him and also letting him lean on

1528
01:16:28,040 --> 01:16:31,240
Speaker 1: you when he needs things. Well, I mean I've been

1529
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:36,600
Speaker 1: leaned on the whole time financially, right, But you do

1530
01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 1: still love him? Yes? What do you need in order

1531
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:42,639
Speaker 1: for you to want to stay with him? There's way

1532
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:44,599
Speaker 1: out the pros and cons? Like, what would you need

1533
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: to happen for you to feel like money, I would

1534
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 1: need the financial support, okay, and that can be stressful.

1535
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 1: And listen, I get it. You stuck it through for

1536
01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:56,560
Speaker 1: seven years and you're tired of being the one that

1537
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:58,560
Speaker 1: has to financially hold things down. You want to be

1538
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 1: taken care of, you want to go on vacation, You

1539
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: want somebody to at least pull their own weight right right,

1540
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:07,880
Speaker 1: And I know that can be stressful because finances the

1541
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:10,200
Speaker 1: number one reason that couples argue. So what does he

1542
01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: say when you tell him I need you to do

1543
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:14,680
Speaker 1: something that actually brings something to the table and make

1544
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:18,320
Speaker 1: some money. He wants me to support him in his business,

1545
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 1: which you have been and you guys live together. That

1546
01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:25,640
Speaker 1: is great, okay. So maybe what you need to do

1547
01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 1: is stop enabling him by being supportive of him all

1548
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:31,559
Speaker 1: the time financially. And maybe y'all do need to get

1549
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: your own places so that he is forced to be

1550
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 1: in a position where he has to earn money and

1551
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 1: take care of himself because that might only benefit him

1552
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 1: in the meantime. Maybe it's not a full breakup, but

1553
01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:44,960
Speaker 1: maybe it's more of I'm tired of having to financially

1554
01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 1: be the person that handles everything. So I'm going to

1555
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 1: take care of myself, spoil myself, and let you get

1556
01:17:50,600 --> 01:17:53,639
Speaker 1: yourself on track, and then I think you can see

1557
01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:57,160
Speaker 1: what he does from there, okay, because I do think

1558
01:17:57,240 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 1: seven years is a long time to stick it through.

1559
01:17:59,280 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 1: You still love him him, but I can understand the

1560
01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 1: bitterness of having to feel like I have to pay

1561
01:18:03,320 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 1: for everything. I have to support you in everything. You're

1562
01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:08,479
Speaker 1: not pulling your weight around here financially, and if that

1563
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 1: is something that bothers you, I can't see that just

1564
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 1: going away. And sometimes we do enable people by always

1565
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,599
Speaker 1: making sure the bills are paid, and then they feel like, Okay,

1566
01:18:16,640 --> 01:18:18,120
Speaker 1: I can continue to do what I need to do.

1567
01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 1: But you guys aren't married, right, No, okay, good So

1568
01:18:23,280 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 1: because y'all are not married, I don't think that you're

1569
01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 1: obligated to live with him. And if he takes your

1570
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: relationship seriously and he knows what he needs to do

1571
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 1: to make things work, then he will step up and

1572
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:35,960
Speaker 1: do that. I agree. Okay, all right, Well, good luck.

1573
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: I hope you'll work it out. Thank you. It's on

1574
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 1: him now. You did your part. Yeah, all right, thank you, mama,

1575
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:49,639
Speaker 1: thank you. She's not much for words. Huh she called

1576
01:18:49,680 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 1: you and they want to answer? All right, right, five

1577
01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 1: five one, five one. You got rumors on the way. Yes,

1578
01:18:56,200 --> 01:19:00,360
Speaker 1: an anonymous NFL player is suing United Airlines. Find out why.

1579
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club.

1580
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:09,200
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is the Ruble Report

1581
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:19,560
Speaker 1: with Angela bas Yes, he is preferring to stay anonymous,

1582
01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 1: but he says he was sexually assaulted on a United

1583
01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:24,599
Speaker 1: Airlines plane, and he says flight attendants didn't do anything

1584
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:27,080
Speaker 1: to stop it, so now he's suing. So what he

1585
01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:30,720
Speaker 1: says is, yes, a woman sexually harassed, assaulted, abuse, and

1586
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 1: violated him during a flight. It was a red eye

1587
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 1: flight from lax to New Jersey. He said it was

1588
01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 1: a nightmare. He said he took his place in a

1589
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 1: middle seat. A woman sat in the window seat next

1590
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: to him, and immediately, he said he was harassed over

1591
01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 1: the safety mask that he was wearing. He says the

1592
01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:47,960
Speaker 1: woman hit and elbowed him and demanded that he moved seats,

1593
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 1: and that's when he said the woman was taking pills.

1594
01:19:51,120 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 1: They believed that she was under the influence. He got

1595
01:19:53,840 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 1: up to tell the flight attendants about the harassment, and

1596
01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 1: they did nothing about it. According to this lawsuit, the

1597
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:02,200
Speaker 1: NFL player says woman then started groping and massaging his

1598
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:05,080
Speaker 1: knees and thighs. He said that they got up to

1599
01:20:05,160 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 1: inform flight attendants, but still they did nothing, and then

1600
01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:11,120
Speaker 1: the woman began to intensify her sexual assault, grabbing and

1601
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 1: groping his squads and then stroking her hand across his

1602
01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:17,800
Speaker 1: lap towards the inside of his leg near his genitals.

1603
01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 1: He said he immediately got up. He pleaded with the

1604
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 1: flight attendant to get her to stop, and the United

1605
01:20:22,360 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: employee did nothing more than issue a verbal warning to

1606
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 1: the woman. That's when the NFL player says the woman

1607
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:30,360
Speaker 1: grabbed his penis and a ripped off his face mask,

1608
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:33,720
Speaker 1: causing him to jump away and run toward flight attendants.

1609
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:41,120
Speaker 1: Wow King He was with another NFL player, and that's

1610
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 1: when the second player says, the woman slid over into

1611
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,439
Speaker 1: the middle seat after he got up and started sexually

1612
01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:49,280
Speaker 1: assaulting him as well. So what they ended up doing

1613
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 1: was moving the woman to another row without passengers, and

1614
01:20:52,479 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 1: both the players were given one hundred and fifty dollars

1615
01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:57,800
Speaker 1: vouchers for their troubles. But now they went to sue.

1616
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: That's right, take your power back, King. You don't have

1617
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:03,840
Speaker 1: to be anonymous. Tell your story. Okay. Nobody takes men

1618
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 1: serious when we make these kind of complaints. This double

1619
01:21:06,640 --> 01:21:09,879
Speaker 1: standing must stop. Tell your story and don't be ashamed.

1620
01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 1: Women can be predators too, Okay. I've seen many a

1621
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:15,680
Speaker 1: man molested on a flight. That happens. That happens to

1622
01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 1: Whax all the time. If Wax sitch next to one

1623
01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:22,880
Speaker 1: of these older white women, oh my god, just like

1624
01:21:23,000 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 1: who gives her permission to just touch on people like that?

1625
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 1: They do it all the time. I've seen this a

1626
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:31,760
Speaker 1: million times. Attendant didn't move the woman immediately, Like, I

1627
01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:34,680
Speaker 1: don't understand what they took for both of them to

1628
01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:37,680
Speaker 1: get sexually assaulted, for them to finally make no why

1629
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 1: she got off the plane. Yeah, because nobody takes men

1630
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:46,759
Speaker 1: serious when we make these kind of complaints and situation.

1631
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 1: Because if it would have been a guy on the

1632
01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:52,360
Speaker 1: girl had landed that plane immediately, yes, harassed the woman,

1633
01:21:52,439 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 1: sexually harassed the woman, they would have landed that plane.

1634
01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:57,880
Speaker 1: And if he complained like that they should have landed

1635
01:21:57,960 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 1: that plane, he should he should definitely sue. And I'm

1636
01:22:00,880 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 1: monitoring Okay. Now, lebrand Usain Bolt and more stars are

1637
01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 1: starring in Greatness Code on Apple TV Plus, so it'll

1638
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Speaker 1: be Tom Brady more of them starring in Greatness Code

1639
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 1: and that's gonna premiere on July tenth. It's a short form,

1640
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:19,559
Speaker 1: unscripted series that spotlights untold stories from the greatest athletes

1641
01:22:19,640 --> 01:22:21,920
Speaker 1: in the world, So get ready for that. As we

1642
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,439
Speaker 1: know people really want to see some sports. I'm Sean

1643
01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: White will be featured on that. Also eleven time world

1644
01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:30,760
Speaker 1: champion sir for Kelly Slater and it's co produced by

1645
01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:34,000
Speaker 1: Religion of Sports, so make sure you check that out now.

1646
01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: Tracy Ellis Ross has released official music video for Love Myself.

1647
01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:40,760
Speaker 1: That's her first single off the High Note soundtrack. As

1648
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 1: you know, she is in that movie starring as a

1649
01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 1: recording artist Grace Davis. And here is what that song

1650
01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:51,919
Speaker 1: sounds like. I'm a stranger if I don't recognize myself,

1651
01:22:52,200 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 1: trying to fix up something real, keep my head down,

1652
01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:17,400
Speaker 1: maybe my phone down, if everybody likes me. She debuted

1653
01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 1: this song last week and a lot of people did

1654
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 1: comment on that, so that's dope to hear Tracy Ellis

1655
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:25,960
Speaker 1: Ros singing. She said she had always kind of shied

1656
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 1: away from it. When you're Diana Ross's daughter, I can

1657
01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:31,040
Speaker 1: see how that can be intimidating, all right, routine. Clarin

1658
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:35,439
Speaker 1: absolutely has launched to Protect Your Hands sanitizer and that's

1659
01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:38,800
Speaker 1: for Canadian COVID nineteen relief. So that group has launched

1660
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 1: a variety of products that will help hospitals, food banks

1661
01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:44,719
Speaker 1: and shelters in Canada. So it's part of the Better

1662
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:48,519
Speaker 1: Tomorrow collection. And Beyonce has tied the number one record

1663
01:23:48,640 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 1: as Megan the Stallion Savage is on top of the

1664
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 1: R and B and Hip Hop Airplay chart. That song

1665
01:23:53,479 --> 01:24:00,040
Speaker 1: is number one, So congratulations to Beyonce. She's tied, and

1666
01:24:00,200 --> 01:24:03,360
Speaker 1: she's tied in fourth place with eight number ones on

1667
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:06,599
Speaker 1: the overall list. Drake is number one with twenty six

1668
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:10,439
Speaker 1: ushers number two at fifteen, Little Wayne is number three

1669
01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:12,960
Speaker 1: at twelve, and then Alicia Keys, Beyonce, Chris Brown, Jay Z,

1670
01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 1: and R Kelly have eight a piece, so congratulations to her.

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Speaker 1: So Ice Cube says that mister Rogers one sued him

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01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:22,640
Speaker 1: for his nineteen ninety song against his fairy Tale. You know,

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01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:25,680
Speaker 1: he was celebrating the thirtieth anniversary of his America's most

1674
01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:28,400
Speaker 1: wanted album. With the digital listening party, he did a

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01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:30,680
Speaker 1: whole track by track playback and that's one of the

1676
01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 1: things he talked about was the song against his fairy Tale.

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01:24:33,520 --> 01:24:36,120
Speaker 1: So that sample can't be found anymore because it's from

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01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: Mister Rodgers children's show. But here's what he said, it's

1679
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 1: a trip because off this song. Mister Rogers sued us.

1680
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 1: He was mad because we had we had the mister

1681
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 1: Rogers theme at the beginning of the show, It's a

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01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:53,599
Speaker 1: Wonderful Day and neighborhood and all that, and pursued us

1683
01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:56,880
Speaker 1: and was getting like five Center Records. Two. We took

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01:24:57,320 --> 01:25:00,599
Speaker 1: that part off and in one more interest seeing story,

1685
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 1: mass Appeal has unveiled foul Child, the legend of big

1686
01:25:04,640 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 1: El's a documentary. So they have put out the trailer

1687
01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:10,760
Speaker 1: for that documentary and here it is. Big L was

1688
01:25:10,920 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 1: as harm as harm gets here like a horror about him.

1689
01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:16,880
Speaker 1: We kind of knew that that was specially when you

1690
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:20,840
Speaker 1: hear Bigel it inspired you. Always having that hip hop energy.

1691
01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 1: He's a lumitis lyricist. With the rhythm of his raps,

1692
01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: it is so funky, so intoxicating. He's a piller. You

1693
01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:30,360
Speaker 1: have to study him. You have to study as Woody

1694
01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 1: get into his mind how he was thinking. Big Gel.

1695
01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:36,080
Speaker 1: Phil gives me a lot of confidence and rapid competing

1696
01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:39,640
Speaker 1: track from the day they're celebrating the twenty fifth anniversary

1697
01:25:39,720 --> 01:25:43,360
Speaker 1: of Big Eel's Lifestyles of the Poor and Dangerous debut

1698
01:25:43,400 --> 01:25:46,799
Speaker 1: album back in nineteen ninety five. All right, I'm Angela

1699
01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 1: Yee and that is your rumor report. All right, well,

1700
01:25:50,200 --> 01:25:52,839
Speaker 1: thank you to see when we come back. Happy birthday

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01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 1: to Notorious Big. Of course, we got to start the

1702
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 1: mix off with some big revolt. We'll see you tomorrow.

1703
01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:00,640
Speaker 1: Everybody else the People's Choice mixes up next, it's the

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01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:05,479
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

1705
01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:07,479
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We have

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01:26:07,560 --> 01:26:09,920
Speaker 1: a special guest in the building. Now. Yeah, I'm gonna

1707
01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:11,880
Speaker 1: let you introduce some I know. We have Michelle ac

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01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 1: and Stacy. I just want to say, well, I'll let

1709
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 1: you guys. Well, you guys know Stacy who does Wealth

1710
01:26:19,360 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 1: Wednesday with us every month. Also Michelle Gaston Williams, and

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01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:26,080
Speaker 1: you know her as the author of Clem, which is

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01:26:26,120 --> 01:26:28,080
Speaker 1: the book that we have right here. But also you'll

1713
01:26:28,080 --> 01:26:30,400
Speaker 1: be talking to us about all the different companies that

1714
01:26:30,479 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 1: you've led and information that you've gotten as a C

1715
01:26:33,520 --> 01:26:36,840
Speaker 1: suite what would you call it, a executive c suite

1716
01:26:36,880 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 1: executive change agent, impact seeker. Right, And we're gonna learn

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01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:42,400
Speaker 1: a lot from you this morning about finding our voice,

1718
01:26:42,400 --> 01:26:45,439
Speaker 1: speaking out and how we can actually become the forces

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01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:47,840
Speaker 1: that we're meant to be in business. And also a

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01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:50,920
Speaker 1: C is here with us and a C Eggleston Bracy right,

1721
01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:53,479
Speaker 1: got it beautiful, And we know you for a leading

1722
01:26:53,680 --> 01:26:56,640
Speaker 1: Una Leaver in North America, which is a huge corporation.

1723
01:26:57,080 --> 01:26:59,320
Speaker 1: We've worked with Una Leaver a lot thanks to shame

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01:26:59,400 --> 01:27:02,320
Speaker 1: moister also, but also Uni leaver o owns a lot

1725
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:06,639
Speaker 1: of other companies too. Yeah, yep, a lot of beauty brands, Dove, Trust,

1726
01:27:06,720 --> 01:27:09,599
Speaker 1: tom Acts. I have about two dozen brands that I manage.

1727
01:27:09,800 --> 01:27:11,240
Speaker 1: So when you're in the shower and you see the

1728
01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:14,599
Speaker 1: little Uni Leaver logo, you know what that's all about.

1729
01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:25,519
Speaker 1: We make seven generation, we wipe down, disinfect. This isn't

1730
01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:30,880
Speaker 1: about your personal needs. So there's a lot of things

1731
01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 1: that we can actually relate to your book, Michelle, that

1732
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:36,520
Speaker 1: we're going to talk about with our own personal experiences. Right, absolutely,

1733
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 1: all right. So, Stacy, I know you're up here all

1734
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:41,360
Speaker 1: the time for Wealth Wednesday, but we don't know your

1735
01:27:41,439 --> 01:27:45,800
Speaker 1: story and how you got that. Yes, the financial coach

1736
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:49,240
Speaker 1: and expert who you are today? It was interesting. M

1737
01:27:49,320 --> 01:27:52,120
Speaker 1: I'm glad we're all here talking with women of color

1738
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:54,800
Speaker 1: about how to get to those high level positions, and

1739
01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:58,439
Speaker 1: it's a very different road for us. My career started

1740
01:27:58,479 --> 01:28:01,880
Speaker 1: on Wall Street and I was lucky my first job,

1741
01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:04,280
Speaker 1: I got a really big break in terms of I

1742
01:28:04,360 --> 01:28:06,760
Speaker 1: was assistant to a cash manager and what his job

1743
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:08,840
Speaker 1: was to manage the company's money. It was about one

1744
01:28:08,880 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 1: hundred million dollars a day, but another company was trying

1745
01:28:12,000 --> 01:28:14,280
Speaker 1: to take us over. I was young, but he still

1746
01:28:14,360 --> 01:28:16,720
Speaker 1: thought I knew his job best, so he gave me

1747
01:28:16,840 --> 01:28:20,280
Speaker 1: that responsibility. So I did that job for many years,

1748
01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 1: which was great, but then Wall Street wasn't clicking for me.

1749
01:28:24,280 --> 01:28:27,240
Speaker 1: I knew finance. I've written since I think I came

1750
01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 1: out of the womb, so I wanted it to go

1751
01:28:28,920 --> 01:28:31,960
Speaker 1: into financial journalism. So I literally called the Wall Street

1752
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:34,560
Speaker 1: Journal with that story and they bought it and I

1753
01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:37,040
Speaker 1: started working there as a writer. I moved into their

1754
01:28:37,080 --> 01:28:40,280
Speaker 1: TV department became a producer, so far, things had been

1755
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: easy enough that I hadn't had to face my internal demons,

1756
01:28:45,479 --> 01:28:47,559
Speaker 1: so to speak, that we're going to hamper my career.

1757
01:28:47,600 --> 01:28:50,439
Speaker 1: Because the rubber really hit the road for me when

1758
01:28:50,479 --> 01:28:52,560
Speaker 1: I moved from that producer role to wanting to be

1759
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:57,639
Speaker 1: in front of the camera and to move into network

1760
01:28:57,760 --> 01:29:00,400
Speaker 1: level business news. You encounter some one that a lot

1761
01:29:00,439 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 1: of us have heard of, Roger Ales, And I think

1762
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 1: the first thing he ever said to me kind of

1763
01:29:05,360 --> 01:29:07,200
Speaker 1: defined a lot of what happened to me. He looked

1764
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 1: at me and he said, I'm going to close my

1765
01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:12,040
Speaker 1: eyes and I'm going to imagine what someone who's good

1766
01:29:12,080 --> 01:29:14,880
Speaker 1: with money looks like. Now I'm going to open my eyes.

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01:29:15,000 --> 01:29:19,280
Speaker 1: It didn't look like you. Wow. So I very defiantly

1768
01:29:19,360 --> 01:29:21,360
Speaker 1: told him that he was going to have to change

1769
01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:24,240
Speaker 1: his definition of what a business news reporter looked like.

1770
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 1: And I went to war and I got you know,

1771
01:29:27,479 --> 01:29:29,479
Speaker 1: I just got myself to a level. I got jobs

1772
01:29:29,520 --> 01:29:32,720
Speaker 1: at CBS, and one thing that I would run into

1773
01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:36,160
Speaker 1: there is I did great being a reporter and business

1774
01:29:36,200 --> 01:29:40,080
Speaker 1: correspondent for the national shows. But those networks make a

1775
01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:42,719
Speaker 1: lot of their money off the affiliates and the Southern

1776
01:29:43,160 --> 01:29:45,600
Speaker 1: and a lot of Midwestern affiliates just wouldn't air me.

1777
01:29:46,560 --> 01:29:48,760
Speaker 1: So they would come to CBS and say, you know,

1778
01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:51,560
Speaker 1: we're not airing her business segment. So they were like

1779
01:29:51,680 --> 01:29:54,040
Speaker 1: Roger Al's, Yeah, they couldn't. You know, it's not even

1780
01:29:54,120 --> 01:29:56,519
Speaker 1: like I can go to HR and complain. They just couldn't.

1781
01:29:56,920 --> 01:30:00,519
Speaker 1: So I had to find more interesting story. I had

1782
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:02,960
Speaker 1: to find different angles on stories. We're here, we have

1783
01:30:03,040 --> 01:30:04,599
Speaker 1: to be twice as better. I had to be ten

1784
01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:07,240
Speaker 1: times as good. And I was able to keep myself

1785
01:30:07,280 --> 01:30:10,160
Speaker 1: at a level I worked, you know, CNN, PBS, the

1786
01:30:10,280 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 1: Today's Show. I got into all those places, but it

1787
01:30:13,200 --> 01:30:15,680
Speaker 1: was very clear to me. It wasn't clear to me

1788
01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:17,840
Speaker 1: actually what a toll that was taken on my self

1789
01:30:18,040 --> 01:30:23,640
Speaker 1: esteem and my self confidence. So it's really just believing

1790
01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:26,519
Speaker 1: in yourself and you're you're gonna evolve no matter what's

1791
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:29,000
Speaker 1: going on in your mind, and just staying true to

1792
01:30:29,120 --> 01:30:31,960
Speaker 1: that and finding what you're passionate about and it does happen,

1793
01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:34,720
Speaker 1: all right. Wow, See, we didn't know all of that

1794
01:30:35,200 --> 01:30:39,000
Speaker 1: about your journey to get here, and Michelle, we read, well,

1795
01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 1: I read somewhat about your journey. We got the book

1796
01:30:40,960 --> 01:30:42,439
Speaker 1: this morning, so I was trying to go through it

1797
01:30:42,520 --> 01:30:45,559
Speaker 1: as fast as I could. But you have a book

1798
01:30:45,560 --> 01:30:47,560
Speaker 1: out Climb, and you talk about your own journey and

1799
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:49,080
Speaker 1: how you got to where you got to and how

1800
01:30:49,160 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 1: much harder it is for black not just women, but

1801
01:30:52,280 --> 01:30:55,360
Speaker 1: black women have an even tougher time, Yes, breaking into

1802
01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:58,320
Speaker 1: businesses and running businesses and fortune five hundred companies, and

1803
01:30:58,360 --> 01:31:01,560
Speaker 1: you address all of that. So let's talk about your journey. Absolutely.

1804
01:31:01,720 --> 01:31:04,280
Speaker 1: So I started my career in marketing many years ago

1805
01:31:05,400 --> 01:31:08,120
Speaker 1: and in the consumer goods industry, and I determined early

1806
01:31:08,200 --> 01:31:11,480
Speaker 1: on this just wasn't for me. I just didn't feel gratified.

1807
01:31:11,960 --> 01:31:15,080
Speaker 1: So I left that company worked for another organization where

1808
01:31:15,120 --> 01:31:18,519
Speaker 1: I was able to rotate to different functions within that company,

1809
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:22,479
Speaker 1: So from procurement to finance, to marketing and you name it.

1810
01:31:22,680 --> 01:31:26,360
Speaker 1: And my last rotation was in human resources and strategic planning.

1811
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:30,120
Speaker 1: So I've been a diversity practitioner in four different industries,

1812
01:31:30,240 --> 01:31:34,920
Speaker 1: from financial services to consumer goods, professional services. I was

1813
01:31:34,960 --> 01:31:37,479
Speaker 1: even an entrepreneur for a short period of time. Why

1814
01:31:37,600 --> 01:31:40,840
Speaker 1: is diversity important in corporations and why was the work

1815
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:44,760
Speaker 1: that you did so important? Yeah, any organization worth salt,

1816
01:31:44,880 --> 01:31:48,799
Speaker 1: in my view, would need to have a diversity equity

1817
01:31:48,840 --> 01:31:51,080
Speaker 1: and inclusion strategy of some sorts if they want to

1818
01:31:51,120 --> 01:31:53,840
Speaker 1: stay in business. Because what we're talking about is this

1819
01:31:54,000 --> 01:31:56,160
Speaker 1: is a business imperative. This is just not the right

1820
01:31:56,240 --> 01:31:58,439
Speaker 1: thing to do or the nice thing to do. There's

1821
01:31:58,439 --> 01:32:03,240
Speaker 1: an implication organizations that don't embrace diversity strategy because you're

1822
01:32:03,280 --> 01:32:07,120
Speaker 1: talking about innovation and creativity and leveraging the workforce and

1823
01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:12,440
Speaker 1: maximizing and utilizing all the skills and uniqueness that individuals

1824
01:32:12,439 --> 01:32:14,320
Speaker 1: of difference bring to the table. So this is a

1825
01:32:14,400 --> 01:32:17,479
Speaker 1: business strategy. This is no longer about just human capital

1826
01:32:17,520 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 1: and people. So in my view, any organization that wants

1827
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:24,639
Speaker 1: to stay in business needs to embrace diversity and inclusion.

1828
01:32:24,880 --> 01:32:26,320
Speaker 1: But when do we get to the point where we say,

1829
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:29,519
Speaker 1: part of my language, before those companies, what's role with

1830
01:32:29,600 --> 01:32:31,200
Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff that we own. It's like

1831
01:32:31,280 --> 01:32:34,479
Speaker 1: we always rely on something else instead of doing it ourselves,

1832
01:32:34,640 --> 01:32:37,519
Speaker 1: you know what. I have struggled with that point as

1833
01:32:37,560 --> 01:32:40,640
Speaker 1: well so much and one of the businesses. So I

1834
01:32:40,760 --> 01:32:44,519
Speaker 1: think it's really important that when you invest in businesses,

1835
01:32:44,640 --> 01:32:47,400
Speaker 1: it's not just about marketing to us, it's about doing

1836
01:32:47,520 --> 01:32:50,920
Speaker 1: something back for us. So of all the businesses that

1837
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:52,640
Speaker 1: I've run, I've tried to do that. One of them

1838
01:32:52,760 --> 01:32:55,160
Speaker 1: is Shame Moisture. What we do is we make sure

1839
01:32:55,200 --> 01:32:57,760
Speaker 1: we are investing in women of color entrepreneurs to have

1840
01:32:57,880 --> 01:33:00,200
Speaker 1: their own business. Another one of the brands that I

1841
01:33:00,320 --> 01:33:03,720
Speaker 1: run is Dove. We are the founding member of the

1842
01:33:03,800 --> 01:33:07,320
Speaker 1: Crown Coalition, and Crown is creating a respectful, open world

1843
01:33:07,360 --> 01:33:11,960
Speaker 1: for natural hair. So we are actively supporting and advocating

1844
01:33:12,080 --> 01:33:15,160
Speaker 1: for change of laws to help us. But yeah, so

1845
01:33:15,800 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 1: let's dive more into this though, right because, and we'll

1846
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 1: use Michelle your book as kind of the center of

1847
01:33:21,800 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 1: everything they were talking about. One thing that I thought

1848
01:33:24,120 --> 01:33:27,599
Speaker 1: was interesting you talked about was motherhood and womanhood, right,

1849
01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:30,680
Speaker 1: not being synonymous with each other. So I would like

1850
01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:32,280
Speaker 1: for you to expand on that because I do feel

1851
01:33:32,320 --> 01:33:35,120
Speaker 1: like people are always like, for myself, I don't have children,

1852
01:33:35,240 --> 01:33:37,720
Speaker 1: I'm not married, but it always becomes an issue, oh well,

1853
01:33:37,760 --> 01:33:39,920
Speaker 1: you don't have any kids, so you don't know what

1854
01:33:40,040 --> 01:33:41,880
Speaker 1: it feels like to be this or you're not a

1855
01:33:42,000 --> 01:33:44,679
Speaker 1: real woman until you have kids. And that was something

1856
01:33:44,720 --> 01:33:48,479
Speaker 1: that you experience absolutely, and I still experience it to

1857
01:33:48,560 --> 01:33:51,360
Speaker 1: the stay and I'm over fifty now, so so I

1858
01:33:51,439 --> 01:33:54,400
Speaker 1: am a working executive. I am married, but I don't

1859
01:33:54,439 --> 01:33:58,560
Speaker 1: have children, and that comes with judgment. So and in

1860
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:03,080
Speaker 1: my view, motherhood does not constitute womanhood. You know, I

1861
01:34:03,200 --> 01:34:05,439
Speaker 1: made a decision a long time ago that children were

1862
01:34:05,479 --> 01:34:07,320
Speaker 1: not in my future. It was a contract that I

1863
01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:09,400
Speaker 1: made with my husband when we were dating, you know,

1864
01:34:09,520 --> 01:34:12,800
Speaker 1: he was my then fiance. It's not for everyone, and

1865
01:34:12,960 --> 01:34:15,280
Speaker 1: so I talk about the judgment that comes with that.

1866
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:19,400
Speaker 1: I got enough kids for all y'all, How did you?

1867
01:34:19,640 --> 01:34:22,840
Speaker 1: How do you both stand up to that? You know?

1868
01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:24,800
Speaker 1: And for myself, it's like I put it off for

1869
01:34:24,840 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 1: a long time because I'm working and that was a

1870
01:34:27,520 --> 01:34:29,640
Speaker 1: priority for me. And so now if I wanted to

1871
01:34:29,680 --> 01:34:32,280
Speaker 1: try to do it, it's late, but I still can

1872
01:34:32,479 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 1: if I choose to do that. But I also feel

1873
01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:36,600
Speaker 1: like I'm very confident and happy in the place that

1874
01:34:36,640 --> 01:34:38,360
Speaker 1: I am in life. But just because you're in a

1875
01:34:38,400 --> 01:34:41,320
Speaker 1: relationship doesn't mean that your whole, you know what I mean.

1876
01:34:41,680 --> 01:34:43,240
Speaker 1: And I think people think that in order for you

1877
01:34:43,280 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 1: to be whole, you have to be married, and I

1878
01:34:45,479 --> 01:34:49,160
Speaker 1: don't think that's necessarily true. Now, Acy, let's talk about

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Speaker 1: you for a second and mentorship. So we talk about

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Speaker 1: the importance of mentors. Have you had mentors to get

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Speaker 1: to where you got to at UNIM I have. I

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Speaker 1: have had tons of mentors, and I even like, I

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01:35:00,160 --> 01:35:03,840
Speaker 1: think beyond mentors, mentors or people you get insight from,

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Speaker 1: they kind of show you the ropes. But I really

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Speaker 1: benefited from sponsors, who are people that have said, I

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Speaker 1: want you in this job and I'm going to make

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Speaker 1: it happen. So one of my first big jobs a

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Speaker 1: company that I worked for and retired from after twenty

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Speaker 1: five years, the big job was to be a general

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Speaker 1: manager and there had never been a black woman as

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Speaker 1: a general manager. One of my sponsors said, before I

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Speaker 1: was a general manager, maybe three or four years before Acy,

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Speaker 1: I think you're talented and I want you to be

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Speaker 1: one of my general managers. So before you do that,

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Speaker 1: I want you to go do this one job. And

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Speaker 1: sure enough, three or four years later, she plucked me

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Speaker 1: even before I thought I was ready. You know, before

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Speaker 1: I was ready, I was the marketing director for CoverGirl

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Speaker 1: and running a bunch of makeup brands, having a blast,

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Speaker 1: and she plucked me to be a general manager in

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Speaker 1: another business. And I thought, I love what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm not ready, And she was like Missy I said,

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Speaker 1: this is for you. So I've had mentors, but really

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Speaker 1: what's made a difference from me are sponsors who believed

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Speaker 1: in me when no one else necessarily would pull up

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Speaker 1: a black woman for a big role, and because she

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01:36:12,120 --> 01:36:14,960
Speaker 1: believed in me, it carried so much weight and helped

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Speaker 1: me be success be successful. Studies have shown that women

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Speaker 1: and or people of color are typically over mentored and

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Speaker 1: under sponsored. So AC is absolutely correct. We we don't

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Speaker 1: need mentors. We need individuals in the room who can

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Speaker 1: make decisions, who are influential, who are powerful, who can

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Speaker 1: make it happen for us. Now, and have you ever

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Speaker 1: had a sponsor? I haven't had a mentor. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I've ever had a No, I haven't had a

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Speaker 1: mental or sponsor. Well you never had. Well, DJ Clue

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Speaker 1: was kind of your mentor, who wasn't my mentor. He

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Speaker 1: just kind of just told me about DJ. But he

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Speaker 1: didn't guy me and show me this is DJA. That's

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Speaker 1: what he basically said. He was like a DJ and

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Speaker 1: he you know, but I didn't have a mentor. Um,

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Speaker 1: I kind of figured it out on my own. Um. Luckily,

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Speaker 1: I'm one of those hard workers, and I definitely didn't

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Speaker 1: have a sponsor in real estate. I have a mentor

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Speaker 1: now that that shows me and guides me when it

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Speaker 1: comes to things. But when it came to this industry,

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Speaker 1: nobody mentored me. Do we need to be more proactive

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Speaker 1: and asking for mentorship or sponsorship or are we supposed

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Speaker 1: to be approaching people and saying, hey, I really sponsorship

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Speaker 1: is hard, and you know Michelle my dear for Michelle

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Speaker 1: is an expert on this and what she does. But

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Speaker 1: you have to find out what works for you. I

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Speaker 1: find that for me, you have to earn it, but

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Speaker 1: you need the exposure to earn it because we're not

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Speaker 1: always in the room. And so I've found I've gotten

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Speaker 1: sponsors from people who I've worked directly for, so they

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Speaker 1: know me and so they feel confident that I can

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Speaker 1: do the next job. At the same time, if we

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Speaker 1: just leave it to chads, it may not happen. So

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Speaker 1: some companies have official programs where they have sponsorship and

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Speaker 1: mentor programs that cultivate relationships so someone can structurally get

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Speaker 1: to know you and put you in a position. The

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Speaker 1: other thing I would say is I believe we have

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Speaker 1: an obligation to be sponsors and mentors because we have

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Speaker 1: to create critical masks. So it starts that there are

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Speaker 1: a few of us, but we have to bring people

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Speaker 1: along and be committed to putting them. You know, other

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Speaker 1: women of color or other women or other people of

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Speaker 1: color and big important jobs. So you could mentor someone else,

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Speaker 1: Oh I do, I definitely I have. I have a

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Speaker 1: bunch of people that I mentor young DJs and and

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Speaker 1: actually have this. Uh. Her name is Mercedes Walker. She

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Speaker 1: was actually a basketball coach and um, she was a

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Speaker 1: coach member when me and Chris Rock got into it.

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Speaker 1: She was the other coach on the other team. His

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Speaker 1: daughter and my daughter go to compete in school. So

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Speaker 1: I was coaching. Um, you know, we was talking and

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01:38:48,120 --> 01:38:52,000
Speaker 1: we became good friends. And I just seen just how

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Speaker 1: much intellect she had, how smart she was, the things

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Speaker 1: that she did, and I've seen something that she was

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Speaker 1: doing and I think she could take it to a

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Speaker 1: bigger place if she had, if she to help. So

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Speaker 1: I brought her into my company. And I guess you

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Speaker 1: could call her a sponsor because I pay her, but

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Speaker 1: that's a sponsorsor. And I brought her into my company

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Speaker 1: and what she's been able to do for my company

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Speaker 1: in the last like four months has been like just ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about negotiating salaries, because that is something that

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Speaker 1: I always stressed that black women need to do more.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times we get offered you know what

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Speaker 1: our pay is going to be, and we just accept

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Speaker 1: it and we say, okay, well accept the offer, or

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Speaker 1: we don't go in and negotiate for a raise. So

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Speaker 1: what's some advice that you can give when it comes

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Speaker 1: to that, Because that's something that I personally have had

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Speaker 1: to experience and do. I would strongly encourage everyone to

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Speaker 1: go into these conversations well informed. Do your homework beforehand.

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Speaker 1: There's glassdoor dot com and other websites and resources out

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Speaker 1: there that can give you the range in terms of

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Speaker 1: the industry and the work that you're going to be doing.

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Speaker 1: I'd also say talk to someone in human resources. I

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Speaker 1: have friends in my ecosystem who I will call to say,

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Speaker 1: this is the the offer that I I just received.

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Speaker 1: What do you think? This is where mentors and sponsors

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Speaker 1: come into play, because I will run things by them

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Speaker 1: as well. And then lastly, it's not just about dollars

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Speaker 1: and cents. It's the full package. So when you're negotiating

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Speaker 1: the deal. There are other things that you can also

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Speaker 1: look for, like you know, French benefits, you know, paid

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Speaker 1: time off, working from home. I mean, so all of

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Speaker 1: those things that don't necessarily have a value associated to them,

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Speaker 1: they do have value in terms of the overarching and

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Speaker 1: more comprehensive you know position that you're If you would

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Speaker 1: discuss salaries with each other, it happens in the workplace,

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Speaker 1: at least in mind. Often. I think we should. I

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Speaker 1: think we should. I think it's used against us because

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Speaker 1: we don't. There's a few things in addition to what

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Speaker 1: Michelle said that I would ask always be willing to

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Speaker 1: walk away. Yeah, and so that's one of the things

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Speaker 1: that holds power over us is you know, I have

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Speaker 1: my mother in the back of my head saying, you know,

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Speaker 1: you better be grateful for that good right, right, So

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Speaker 1: you don't want to risk that job, but being willing

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Speaker 1: to walk away will help you know your worth and

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01:41:06,479 --> 01:41:09,160
Speaker 1: get paid for your worth. And then the other thing

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Speaker 1: is not make it taboo because the work place will say,

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Speaker 1: don't talk about salary and these are all the rules.

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Speaker 1: But people that don't look like us are talking and

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Speaker 1: they are more informed, and so we've got to break

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Speaker 1: the taboo because we think sometimes it says something about us,

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Speaker 1: we might be bragging. I think we need to move

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Speaker 1: past that and establish a circle, just as Michelle is saying,

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Speaker 1: of the right resources so that we can calibrate and

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Speaker 1: were you know, the stats show that we are paid

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Speaker 1: what sixty four cents on the dollar, so and so

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Speaker 1: it's it's bad. So when we start talking, we get

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Speaker 1: informed like, oh really, so I do think we should

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Speaker 1: talk right. Well, I appreciate that you guys so much

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Speaker 1: for coming to you ladies History Month because this was amazing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how can they get in touch with you guys if

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Speaker 1: they want to get in touch with you guys. I'm

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Speaker 1: on Instagram at e Bracing, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Michelle Gadston

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Speaker 1: Williams Instagram, Stacy Tisdale eleven twenty. Thank you, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for having you ladies do so much and

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Speaker 1: I know this would be helpful and inspiration. Are there's

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Speaker 1: so many people who are watching and listening. When we

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Speaker 1: come back, we got the positive note, don't move. It's

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Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy

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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: good morning now you guys have a great day today. Charlomagne,

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Speaker 1: you've got a positive note, yes, sir. Sometimes the people

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Speaker 1: around you won't understand your journey. They don't need to.

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Speaker 1: It's not for them. Breakfast Club finish for y'all. Due