WEBVTT - Second Date Update: How Dare You Chat Me Up

0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.760
<v Speaker 1>Ay, you found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much.

0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:07.040
<v Speaker 2>Finally, it's pretty easy actually, thanks for being here, Hose.

0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:08.200
<v Speaker 1>I love it.

0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.320
<v Speaker 2>I love it, and hey, just a reminder, if you

0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:13.880
<v Speaker 2>want to endure or punish yourself for forty five more minutes,

0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:16.239
<v Speaker 2>we've got a full show, whole hour long.

0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I dare you to try it at the Brook and

0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey Feed. But for now, we'll get into some questionable

0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:23.320
<v Speaker 1>relationship advice.

0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:29.280
<v Speaker 3>Second DAT Day. Normally, when we hear a guy say

0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:31.680
<v Speaker 3>he went out with a woman who's way out of

0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:34.479
<v Speaker 3>his league, the first thing that comes to our minds

0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:38.640
<v Speaker 3>is looks. Yeah, I think you're right. We're thinking she's

0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:42.240
<v Speaker 3>in New York. Ten he's an Idaho six and a half.

0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:48.839
<v Speaker 2>Oh, which is still striking gold for me, you know what.

0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.239
<v Speaker 3>Not in this case, I'll take that nugget. One of

0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:54.920
<v Speaker 3>our listeners, Tyler, says, he went out with someone whose

0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:56.200
<v Speaker 3>brain is a ten.

0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:56.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:00:57.880 --> 0:01:00.480
<v Speaker 3>I love that, and he's still an Idaho six and

0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.960
<v Speaker 3>a half. Good for you. But Tyler, you say she's

0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:03.960
<v Speaker 3>good looking too, right?

0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:04.959
<v Speaker 4>She is?

0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:06.959
<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, okay.

0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Red flag, pretty and smart to suck.

0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:14.560
<v Speaker 3>Where'd you meet this girl?

0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:18.959
<v Speaker 5>We met online? So she checked my boxes physically.

0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:21.880
<v Speaker 2>She checks all these boxes and she's still online dating.

0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:27.760
<v Speaker 3>Was it like Tender or Scientist Inquiries? Just a normal

0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:31.480
<v Speaker 3>dating app? I'm guessing. Yeah, yeah, okay, And what's her name?

0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:32.160
<v Speaker 1>We didn't get that?

0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:33.720
<v Speaker 5>Veronica?

0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Veronica?

0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:44.679
<v Speaker 3>That God, tell us a little bit about Veronica. What

0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:45.440
<v Speaker 3>did you like about her?

0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.600
<v Speaker 5>Okay? So, I mean obviously beautiful, but you could just

0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:52.000
<v Speaker 5>tell she was really interesting and smart?

0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.200
<v Speaker 2>And do you mean tell like when you saw her

0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:57.480
<v Speaker 2>dating profile or when you met her in person the profile?

0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:58.600
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.240
<v Speaker 5>Is it our? And she's into books and reading.

0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:06.559
<v Speaker 3>Or swiped last seven times since you started talking, even

0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:12.280
<v Speaker 3>audio books. Well, but that's that's something that you like,

0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:15.040
<v Speaker 3>the comic books. Maybe that's something that you like about her.

0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I do. I like somebody who's smart and

0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:20.639
<v Speaker 5>who's educated.

0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:24.080
<v Speaker 3>And intellect is sexy for sure. That's great. Yeah, So

0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:25.280
<v Speaker 3>what'd you end up doing for your date?

0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:27.560
<v Speaker 5>So? I thought I could make it a little bit

0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.600
<v Speaker 5>unique since she's so much into art and literature and reading.

0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:33.440
<v Speaker 5>So we went to a few different libraries, like all

0:02:33.480 --> 0:02:36.000
<v Speaker 5>these unique places with.

0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:40.560
<v Speaker 2>That instead of like, yeah, exactly fun, but a library

0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:43.280
<v Speaker 2>anything but a library if you post a book to

0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.119
<v Speaker 2>when you like a library.

0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.920
<v Speaker 3>Stop judging. There are some dark, seedy sections in every

0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:50.320
<v Speaker 3>library where you can speak away.

0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:52.400
<v Speaker 1>Was it?

0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:55.239
<v Speaker 2>I spent actually a lot of time in the library,

0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.240
<v Speaker 2>not the good part, apparently not.

0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:01.880
<v Speaker 1>And I just they're not like sit and have a conversation.

0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:03.160
<v Speaker 1>They're quiet places.

0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.400
<v Speaker 5>You know, that's true. But you know it's not just

0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.640
<v Speaker 5>about books. It's about you know, you look around and

0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:11.160
<v Speaker 5>the architecture of the buildings, because libraries are pretty cool.

0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:11.880
<v Speaker 1>That's true.

0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:13.799
<v Speaker 3>A lot of them have coffee shops in there too.

0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:20.400
<v Speaker 1>They I don't think so a library.

0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:22.799
<v Speaker 3>Adult.

0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:24.000
<v Speaker 1>They have restrooms.

0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:28.960
<v Speaker 3>You know, they don't have ATMs. You full cash out.

0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:32.040
<v Speaker 3>This is coffee? What am I drinking it?

0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:34.120
<v Speaker 2>Sorry?

0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:37.840
<v Speaker 3>You know what, Tyler, you had a good time in

0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.080
<v Speaker 3>the library, and she had a good time, and that's great.

0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:42.240
<v Speaker 3>I will say, I already like this. This is probably

0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:44.560
<v Speaker 3>the most unique day one of them that we've ever heard,

0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:51.760
<v Speaker 3>where you guys are finding a different thing to entertain yourself. Stretch. Okay,

0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:53.680
<v Speaker 3>I like it for them, I don't like it.

0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I think what was her thoughts though?

0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:59.280
<v Speaker 5>I mean I felt like it went well. Maybe the

0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:01.520
<v Speaker 5>problem was she had to drive separately, so I don't

0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:04.360
<v Speaker 5>want to make her feel uncomfortable, you know, driving to

0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:06.160
<v Speaker 5>someplace with somebody you don't really know.

0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.080
<v Speaker 3>So sure you drove separately to all three libraries.

0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.360
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I feel.

0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:14.360
<v Speaker 3>Like after the first one you feel safe enough to

0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:14.920
<v Speaker 3>ride together.

0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Was it four? I mean, it's it doesn't matter.

0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:19.760
<v Speaker 5>That's a valid point. But the other, you know, the

0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:21.720
<v Speaker 5>other thing is that you guys brought it up a

0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:24.120
<v Speaker 5>little bit. It's tough to talk and get to know

0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:25.600
<v Speaker 5>each other when you're in a library. You got to

0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:28.080
<v Speaker 5>kind of be quiet a little bit. I'm not really

0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.479
<v Speaker 5>comfortable and outgoing all the time, so I thought it

0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:34.440
<v Speaker 5>may be a little bit more romantic romantic to go

0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:36.960
<v Speaker 5>somewhere where I didn't have to talk as much and be,

0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.280
<v Speaker 5>you know, on as much. We can kind of be

0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:40.760
<v Speaker 5>a little bit more intimate.

0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh, intimate by being silent.

0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.760
<v Speaker 5>Very just eye cont intimate, you know, get to know

0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:50.080
<v Speaker 5>each other without actually having to battle on and on

0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:50.720
<v Speaker 5>and on, you know.

0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:56.159
<v Speaker 3>Just okay, ye, each other's presence. Yeah, like a twenty

0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:57.520
<v Speaker 3>year old married couple.

0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, did you feel like she was asking

0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:03.480
<v Speaker 2>you more questions than you were asking her.

0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:06.560
<v Speaker 5>I'm actually not sure about that. She probably was a

0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:07.919
<v Speaker 5>little bit more outgoing than I was.

0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.320
<v Speaker 2>I'll say that, yeah, yeah, I would ask is like,

0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:12.159
<v Speaker 2>you know, maybe that was a sign that she was

0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:15.080
<v Speaker 2>like trying to fill the void right then.

0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:16.200
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't comfortable for her.

0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:20.680
<v Speaker 3>She's acting question, She's like, I'm trying to read.

0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:23.280
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean maybe it felt like she wanted to

0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:25.720
<v Speaker 5>talk more and I want to be a little bit

0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:26.840
<v Speaker 5>more quiet and reserved.

0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:29.599
<v Speaker 2>Well, I feel like calling a radio station for help

0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:30.880
<v Speaker 2>is going to prove to her that you do have

0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:32.080
<v Speaker 2>an outgoing side as well.

0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:35.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know you was there at any point during

0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:39.119
<v Speaker 3>the day a super romantic or flirtatious moment that would

0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.960
<v Speaker 3>be like a highlight you could point out.

0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we were being jokey and flirty and a one

0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:46.359
<v Speaker 5>time I grabbed a self help book that said that,

0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.880
<v Speaker 5>you know, the Beginner's Guide the Human Sacrifice and said.

0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:54.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's flirty.

0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:59.960
<v Speaker 2>If that's it's something, it's like, I don't have virgin blood,

0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.560
<v Speaker 2>so it's not gonna work.

0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.680
<v Speaker 3>Maybe on your next day you could sacrifice someone together

0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:06.520
<v Speaker 3>and we'll send you there hopefully if we can get

0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:08.160
<v Speaker 3>her on the line when we do your second date

0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.719
<v Speaker 3>update right after this. Thank you, all right, hold on,

0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:18.800
<v Speaker 3>update this little piggy went to the library. Oh, this

0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:23.400
<v Speaker 3>little piggy went to another library. Okay, this little piggy

0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:28.000
<v Speaker 3>went to a third library. It's all libraries with this

0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:32.400
<v Speaker 3>piggy and no coffee shops inside, like I thought they were. Okay,

0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:38.200
<v Speaker 3>sometimes I guess so because Tyler, our listener, took Veronica

0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.960
<v Speaker 3>to a bunch of different libraries around the city because

0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.279
<v Speaker 3>he knew that she loved reading and art and smart

0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:47.160
<v Speaker 3>stuff like that. But afterwards, this little piggy hasn't been

0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.800
<v Speaker 3>able to get himself another date, so he went we

0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.240
<v Speaker 3>we we all the way to the radio station for help.

0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:56.640
<v Speaker 3>Are Wolf for the safe place.

0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:58.719
<v Speaker 1>I feel like this is the last time you read,

0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:02.080
<v Speaker 1>and you little concerned about that.

0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:06.640
<v Speaker 3>Well that's okay, yeah, trying to do one library to

0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.640
<v Speaker 3>It's not about me and my reading. It's about Tyler

0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:13.120
<v Speaker 3>and trying to get him hooked up again with Veronica. Tyler, Yes,

0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:14.679
<v Speaker 3>how you feeling man.

0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.240
<v Speaker 5>Lucky this question?

0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:18.640
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:21.600
<v Speaker 5>I feel like I'm gonna get lucky. You guys are

0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:22.440
<v Speaker 5>gonna pull through for me.

0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:25.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a different meaning than you say. We're not

0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.760
<v Speaker 2>providing that service, but we forgot to ask, like, have

0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:29.520
<v Speaker 2>you talked.

0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.200
<v Speaker 1>To her at all since your library date.

0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.360
<v Speaker 5>No, I called once, I sent a text. Nothing.

0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:36.280
<v Speaker 1>That's not too much either.

0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:36.680
<v Speaker 2>That's good.

0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.280
<v Speaker 3>Well, we have dozens and dozens of phone lines to

0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:41.760
<v Speaker 3>call her. On one of them she has to answer.

0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:44.160
<v Speaker 3>Let's give it a shot. Okay, we're gonna call her

0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:46.360
<v Speaker 3>from eight different lines. It was I will call her

0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:49.040
<v Speaker 3>for four straight days until she picks up the phone.

0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:53.480
<v Speaker 3>I promise you that, Tyler. Okay, let's do this. Okay,

0:07:53.560 --> 0:08:06.200
<v Speaker 3>let's try it the first time. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:06.960
<v Speaker 3>is this Veronica?

0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:09.920
<v Speaker 4>Uh yeah, who's calling?

0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:13.360
<v Speaker 3>Hey? This is jeff from the radio show Brooke and

0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:14.440
<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the Morning.

0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.400
<v Speaker 4>Okay, I have to pause.

0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:18.680
<v Speaker 3>There to see if there's any recognition.

0:08:18.800 --> 0:08:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I also feel like it made you sound intellectual.

0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:24.320
<v Speaker 3>She read, don't listen to our show. We hear that

0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:27.280
<v Speaker 3>you are intellectual type truancy.

0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.360
<v Speaker 4>I am so confused. Far are you guys calling me and.

0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:37.240
<v Speaker 3>Of what you ask good questions?

0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:38.120
<v Speaker 4>Intellectual?

0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:41.920
<v Speaker 3>We've heard that from one of our listeners named Tyler,

0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.840
<v Speaker 3>who you apparently went out with the other day to

0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:50.000
<v Speaker 3>several libraries. Oh yeah, but now you're not calling him back,

0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.800
<v Speaker 3>and so we're trying to help him through this. Segment

0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:55.240
<v Speaker 3>called the second Date update to figure out if something

0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:57.960
<v Speaker 3>went wrong or if we could fix it, to see

0:08:57.960 --> 0:08:59.559
<v Speaker 3>what's going on, maybe get you another shot.

0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:04.040
<v Speaker 4>So a radio station is trying to play matchmaker. Okay,

0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:04.839
<v Speaker 4>this is real.

0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:06.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's very real.

0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:08.880
<v Speaker 3>We're not really trying to play matchmaker. It sounds like

0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.360
<v Speaker 3>you guys already matched online.

0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:14.839
<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, no, I mean we did match online. We

0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.400
<v Speaker 4>meant on an app, but I'm not sure if that

0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:21.240
<v Speaker 4>translated to matching in real life. Something just sort of

0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:21.839
<v Speaker 4>fell off.

0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:25.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm so curious what your thoughts or feelings were when

0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:27.520
<v Speaker 2>he suggested the library tour.

0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I actually really loved that. I thought that was

0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:33.800
<v Speaker 4>super unique. You know, I'm just so sick of like

0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.400
<v Speaker 4>going to the coffee shop or like going to the bar.

0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:40.160
<v Speaker 4>Like I'm just like, it's just kind of boring.

0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.840
<v Speaker 3>And that's why you got to find a library that

0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.360
<v Speaker 3>has a coffee shop and a bar inside.

0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I'd go to that actually. Yeah, but oh so you too.

0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:53.880
<v Speaker 1>But you had fun then with the library aspect of

0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:54.320
<v Speaker 1>your date.

0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:56.720
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I really loved it was such a unique idea.

0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:58.840
<v Speaker 4>I loved that he sort of took something, and I

0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:01.800
<v Speaker 4>really loved his look. I love reading. I'm a huge reader,

0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.679
<v Speaker 4>and he kind of like tailored the date towards one

0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:06.640
<v Speaker 4>of my interests, which I thought was really nice.

0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's really passive.

0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:10.679
<v Speaker 3>It's a very thoughtful thing of him to do.

0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:14.280
<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, very thoughtful, not generic. But unfortunately, just the

0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:15.640
<v Speaker 4>chemistry just wasn't there.

0:10:16.720 --> 0:10:19.679
<v Speaker 2>Do you think it's because the setting didn't like give

0:10:19.720 --> 0:10:24.280
<v Speaker 2>it a chance to kemmis chemistry.

0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:28.000
<v Speaker 3>As you are? Yeah, what's the mixed? I mean it's

0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:30.559
<v Speaker 3>hard to have a strong connection with someone in a

0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:32.679
<v Speaker 3>place where you're supposed to stay quiet and whisper all

0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:34.120
<v Speaker 3>the time. Is that what's going on?

0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:35.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:37.400
<v Speaker 4>I mean we didn't talk a lot in Librarian because

0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:39.200
<v Speaker 4>you kind of need to be quiet obviously, and sure,

0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:41.600
<v Speaker 4>I thought maybe he was nervous or something. So I

0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:45.040
<v Speaker 4>asked him to grab a drink afterwards and he said

0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:48.840
<v Speaker 4>no thanks, Oh.

0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:53.400
<v Speaker 3>He rejected you whoa, we didn't hear about that part

0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:53.559
<v Speaker 3>of this?

0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, does he not drink? Do you think is that why.

0:10:57.320 --> 0:10:58.040
<v Speaker 5>You could say that?

0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:00.959
<v Speaker 4>I thought maybe that, But he was just a completely

0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.440
<v Speaker 4>different person than who I met online. Like I thought

0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:06.400
<v Speaker 4>we were vibing on chatting and then like in person,

0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:08.400
<v Speaker 4>like why wouldn't you want to get a drink after

0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:11.520
<v Speaker 4>going to three libraries, like I'm smart.

0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:14.720
<v Speaker 5>Boring, I mean in the morning, like a tiger ironica.

0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:21.560
<v Speaker 3>Oh that happened. Sorry that that's Tyler who was supposed

0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:25.800
<v Speaker 3>to wait till we call him in, but oh my, okay,

0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.840
<v Speaker 3>he's been listening on the other line this whole time.

0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:29.000
<v Speaker 3>You can say hi to him.

0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:31.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, where you want to go next? Three churches?

0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:37.920
<v Speaker 3>Like, oh, church architecture is actually pretty crazy? Maybe she's

0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:38.559
<v Speaker 3>super religious.

0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:42.040
<v Speaker 5>I mean sorry, so I guess I just you know,

0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:49.360
<v Speaker 5>I have something to admit to you, and everybody admissions, Okay.

0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:50.840
<v Speaker 4>I mean that's fine. I just you know, if you

0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:53.440
<v Speaker 4>don't drink, like no judgments, that's fine, Like you could

0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:55.840
<v Speaker 4>have done something else, but you just like teased out.

0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:58.160
<v Speaker 4>So I'm just really weirded out that you want to

0:11:58.160 --> 0:11:58.880
<v Speaker 4>ask me out again.

0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:03.160
<v Speaker 5>But well, we matched online. You were just you know,

0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:07.200
<v Speaker 5>you're so beautiful and intelligent, sophisticated. I just knew I

0:12:07.200 --> 0:12:10.360
<v Speaker 5>couldn't match up to that. In order to seem more charming,

0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:15.560
<v Speaker 5>I was texting you, you know, chat GPT and chat GPT.

0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:17.800
<v Speaker 1>Is that the new one that's AI?

0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:22.200
<v Speaker 2>That is like the computer generated texts? Wait, that wasn't

0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:22.679
<v Speaker 2>really you.

0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Texting with her.

0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.280
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I'd like type in, hey you're still guy,

0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:30.600
<v Speaker 5>say something smart, funny, classic art, and it came out

0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:31.520
<v Speaker 5>that works.

0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:31.719
<v Speaker 2>Bro.

0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:38.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dang, this is an APPA website. Okay, well, good

0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:39.679
<v Speaker 3>to know for other reasons.

0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:43.360
<v Speaker 4>Wait, so like used artificial intelligence to talk to me

0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:45.959
<v Speaker 4>through a dating app. Like, I'm just having trouble wrapping

0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.319
<v Speaker 4>my head around this, Like so, yeah, you were a

0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:49.360
<v Speaker 4>completely different person.

0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:53.800
<v Speaker 1>So oh it was it was like a droid and

0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:54.760
<v Speaker 1>that was a human.

0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:58.160
<v Speaker 4>I feel like I got catfished by like a chat bot.

0:12:58.240 --> 0:12:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Is what happened?

0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:02.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, charming? Oh my gosh.

0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:06.000
<v Speaker 4>Wait, wait, so you don't actually like money then.

0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:11.920
<v Speaker 5>Uh that's how you pronounced it that THO was like, mayonnai.

0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:17.920
<v Speaker 1>It dude, you gotta tell us this type of stuff

0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:19.240
<v Speaker 1>before we call someone.

0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:21.960
<v Speaker 5>This is not just a little nervous, that's that's all.

0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:22.800
<v Speaker 2>I like.

0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:26.400
<v Speaker 5>It's just for me. I'm a little bit shy at first,

0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:28.280
<v Speaker 5>but once you get to know me, I have a

0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:31.360
<v Speaker 5>much better personality and bigger personality. It's just the initial

0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:34.160
<v Speaker 5>meeting was a little bit intimidating to me.

0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:35.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and it makes sense why you picked a

0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:37.640
<v Speaker 1>library so you didn't to talk.

0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.800
<v Speaker 3>Oh, and that's why you said no to the bar too.

0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:45.160
<v Speaker 3>You were like nervous about exposing yourself like free thought,

0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:49.320
<v Speaker 3>I mean exposing not that way, like just not living

0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:52.160
<v Speaker 3>up to the intellectuals that you showed online.

0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you basically lied about all of your interests and

0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:58.880
<v Speaker 4>then plagiarized an entire online conversation with me. So I'm

0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:00.640
<v Speaker 4>talking like a person.

0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:03.400
<v Speaker 5>No, I'm not a big person. I put out all

0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:04.720
<v Speaker 5>the emojis myself.

0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:09.640
<v Speaker 3>That sophisticated stuff. There are like hundreds of them to

0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:10.200
<v Speaker 3>pick for It.

0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:14.319
<v Speaker 4>Took a lot of intellectual labor to pick out a

0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:17.240
<v Speaker 4>book emoji. When we're talking about look.

0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:25.040
<v Speaker 3>Brook, do you give him any credit here for at

0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:27.640
<v Speaker 3>least going through all this effort to try and impress her.

0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I get that you didn't have enough to offer her.

0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.120
<v Speaker 3>And that's too bad. That's a little bit harsh. Well,

0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:33.800
<v Speaker 3>I mean.

0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:37.800
<v Speaker 2>All of it, but like I think you should come

0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:41.800
<v Speaker 2>at it within a big apology instead of don't blame

0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:44.800
<v Speaker 2>me for this, like that's kind of not a awesome look.

0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:48.240
<v Speaker 5>I agree, Yeah, I just I don't know. I just

0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.480
<v Speaker 5>because he didn't really get a chance to talk talk

0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:53.640
<v Speaker 5>at the library, So I thought maybe a second date

0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:55.880
<v Speaker 5>at the exact same time we had the first date

0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:57.480
<v Speaker 5>wasn't in my best interest.

0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:58.640
<v Speaker 1>You're not making any sense.

0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:00.600
<v Speaker 4>That doesn't make any sense at all.

0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:03.000
<v Speaker 3>Ask chat bought? What you should say here, Tyler?

0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:06.520
<v Speaker 4>Yead you have it pulled up right now, or use

0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:09.640
<v Speaker 4>your actual responses, or you like have like a laptop open,

0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:11.680
<v Speaker 4>like while we're on like on the phone. Like I

0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:12.760
<v Speaker 4>don't trust you now.

0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:16.240
<v Speaker 5>And that's sad because I've been honest with you since

0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.840
<v Speaker 5>we've been talking on the on the radio here, and

0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.760
<v Speaker 5>I do have the chat up. I'm just not using

0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.000
<v Speaker 5>it the blank screen.

0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:31.680
<v Speaker 3>Okay, maybe you should, Maybe you should. Jeffrey could hurt wow.

0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:34.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean he's earnest, he likes you.

0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:37.600
<v Speaker 3>And I bet he really does like money. Tyler, say

0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:38.960
<v Speaker 3>something nice about money.

0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:40.960
<v Speaker 5>He used wonderful colors.

0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.240
<v Speaker 3>My nephew said the same thing when he watched Thomas

0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:49.960
<v Speaker 3>the Train. The intellect is shining today, and we would

0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:52.360
<v Speaker 3>like to connect you to one more time for another

0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:57.720
<v Speaker 3>date and pay for that date, you know, library, coffee shop, bar,

0:15:58.080 --> 0:15:59.040
<v Speaker 3>combo gift cards.

0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:00.520
<v Speaker 2>You don't exists.

0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:02.160
<v Speaker 3>You're gonna find it.

0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:04.160
<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:07.080
<v Speaker 4>I mean, like Tyler, like the date idea was all you,

0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:10.200
<v Speaker 4>I think maybe, and that was great, and you made

0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:14.600
<v Speaker 4>some funny joke about human sacrifice, and unless you came

0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:17.760
<v Speaker 4>up with something beforehand, like, I think you should maybe

0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:20.000
<v Speaker 4>give yourself some more credit because I think you are

0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:23.160
<v Speaker 4>smart and funny. But yeah, you're just not the right

0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:26.640
<v Speaker 4>person for me, Like, I sorry, locked my trust, so

0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:27.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry.

0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:29.720
<v Speaker 3>I get that back. I'm sorry.

0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:33.760
<v Speaker 2>Man, was.

0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:37.280
<v Speaker 5>All right?

0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.360
<v Speaker 1>Tyler disappointed bas emoj.

0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:44.760
<v Speaker 3>Rook Jeffrey in the morning. Well, no, surprise didn't really

0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:46.400
<v Speaker 3>work out for Tyler on that one.

0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:47.400
<v Speaker 2>I feel.

0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Poor, buddy.

0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:55.400
<v Speaker 3>That's why I asked chat GPT, I actually did. I

0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:58.400
<v Speaker 3>asked it to say something kind and funny about a

0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:02.040
<v Speaker 3>guy who just got rejected for second date. I bet

0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:03.840
<v Speaker 3>they came up with a good answer, but here's what

0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:08.359
<v Speaker 3>it said. Well, getting rejected for a second date may

0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.520
<v Speaker 3>not feel like a laughing matter at first, but it's

0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:13.920
<v Speaker 3>always good to keep your sense of humor about it,

0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:17.320
<v Speaker 3>because who knows, Maybe the person you asked out has

0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:22.680
<v Speaker 3>a terrible taste in movies, or they're secretly a cat person. Hey,

0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:31.000
<v Speaker 3>whatever the reason may be, just remember that rejection is

0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:34.240
<v Speaker 3>not a reflection of your worth as a person, Keep

0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:37.280
<v Speaker 3>your head up, keep being yourself, and keep putting yourself

0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:40.359
<v Speaker 3>out there, because the right person is out there waiting

0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:44.600
<v Speaker 3>for you. Maybe someday you'll look back on this rejection

0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:48.400
<v Speaker 3>and laugh about it over a drink with your future soulmate. Yeah,

0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:51.280
<v Speaker 3>that's so cute, awesome.

0:17:51.480 --> 0:17:53.119
<v Speaker 1>True too, because you're on the radio and you're like,

0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:54.400
<v Speaker 1>you'd never believe what I did.

0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.840
<v Speaker 3>Ye, Well, oh my god, I think I want to

0:17:57.920 --> 0:18:03.840
<v Speaker 3>date the Chat GPTO some inappropriate questions right after this.

0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:06.439
<v Speaker 3>But if you ever want to hear any of our

0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:08.920
<v Speaker 3>second Day podcasts, you can find them up online wherever

0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:12.919
<v Speaker 3>you get them at Brook and Jeffrey, Brook and Jeffrey, that's.

0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.320
<v Speaker 1>The one you should have had Chat gpt right at

0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:15.880
<v Speaker 1>the end of the Dame

0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:18.439
<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning