Speaker 1: Ay, you found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: Finally, it's pretty easy actually, thanks for being here, Hose.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 2: I love it, and hey, just a reminder, if you
Speaker 2: want to endure or punish yourself for forty five more minutes,
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Speaker 1: I dare you to try it at the Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Feed. But for now, we'll get into some questionable
Speaker 1: relationship advice.
Speaker 3: Second DAT Day. Normally, when we hear a guy say
Speaker 3: he went out with a woman who's way out of
Speaker 3: his league, the first thing that comes to our minds
Speaker 3: is looks. Yeah, I think you're right. We're thinking she's
Speaker 3: in New York. Ten he's an Idaho six and a half.
Speaker 2: Oh, which is still striking gold for me, you know what.
Speaker 3: Not in this case, I'll take that nugget. One of
Speaker 3: our listeners, Tyler, says, he went out with someone whose
Speaker 3: brain is a ten.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 3: I love that, and he's still an Idaho six and
Speaker 3: a half. Good for you. But Tyler, you say she's
Speaker 3: good looking too, right?
Speaker 4: She is?
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 2: Red flag, pretty and smart to suck.
Speaker 3: Where'd you meet this girl?
Speaker 5: We met online? So she checked my boxes physically.
Speaker 2: She checks all these boxes and she's still online dating.
Speaker 3: Was it like Tender or Scientist Inquiries? Just a normal
Speaker 3: dating app? I'm guessing. Yeah, yeah, okay, And what's her name?
Speaker 1: We didn't get that?
Speaker 5: Veronica?
Speaker 1: Veronica?
Speaker 3: That God, tell us a little bit about Veronica. What
Speaker 3: did you like about her?
Speaker 5: Okay? So, I mean obviously beautiful, but you could just
Speaker 5: tell she was really interesting and smart?
Speaker 2: And do you mean tell like when you saw her
Speaker 2: dating profile or when you met her in person the profile?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 5: Is it our? And she's into books and reading.
Speaker 3: Or swiped last seven times since you started talking, even
Speaker 3: audio books. Well, but that's that's something that you like,
Speaker 3: the comic books. Maybe that's something that you like about her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I do. I like somebody who's smart and
Speaker 5: who's educated.
Speaker 3: And intellect is sexy for sure. That's great. Yeah, So
Speaker 3: what'd you end up doing for your date?
Speaker 5: So? I thought I could make it a little bit
Speaker 5: unique since she's so much into art and literature and reading.
Speaker 5: So we went to a few different libraries, like all
Speaker 5: these unique places with.
Speaker 2: That instead of like, yeah, exactly fun, but a library
Speaker 2: anything but a library if you post a book to
Speaker 2: when you like a library.
Speaker 3: Stop judging. There are some dark, seedy sections in every
Speaker 3: library where you can speak away.
Speaker 1: Was it?
Speaker 2: I spent actually a lot of time in the library,
Speaker 2: not the good part, apparently not.
Speaker 1: And I just they're not like sit and have a conversation.
Speaker 1: They're quiet places.
Speaker 5: You know, that's true. But you know it's not just
Speaker 5: about books. It's about you know, you look around and
Speaker 5: the architecture of the buildings, because libraries are pretty cool.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 3: A lot of them have coffee shops in there too.
Speaker 1: They I don't think so a library.
Speaker 3: Adult.
Speaker 1: They have restrooms.
Speaker 3: You know, they don't have ATMs. You full cash out.
Speaker 3: This is coffee? What am I drinking it?
Speaker 2: Sorry?
Speaker 3: You know what, Tyler, you had a good time in
Speaker 3: the library, and she had a good time, and that's great.
Speaker 3: I will say, I already like this. This is probably
Speaker 3: the most unique day one of them that we've ever heard,
Speaker 3: where you guys are finding a different thing to entertain yourself. Stretch. Okay,
Speaker 3: I like it for them, I don't like it.
Speaker 1: I think what was her thoughts though?
Speaker 5: I mean I felt like it went well. Maybe the
Speaker 5: problem was she had to drive separately, so I don't
Speaker 5: want to make her feel uncomfortable, you know, driving to
Speaker 5: someplace with somebody you don't really know.
Speaker 3: So sure you drove separately to all three libraries.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I feel.
Speaker 3: Like after the first one you feel safe enough to
Speaker 3: ride together.
Speaker 1: Was it four? I mean, it's it doesn't matter.
Speaker 5: That's a valid point. But the other, you know, the
Speaker 5: other thing is that you guys brought it up a
Speaker 5: little bit. It's tough to talk and get to know
Speaker 5: each other when you're in a library. You got to
Speaker 5: kind of be quiet a little bit. I'm not really
Speaker 5: comfortable and outgoing all the time, so I thought it
Speaker 5: may be a little bit more romantic romantic to go
Speaker 5: somewhere where I didn't have to talk as much and be,
Speaker 5: you know, on as much. We can kind of be
Speaker 5: a little bit more intimate.
Speaker 1: Oh, intimate by being silent.
Speaker 5: Very just eye cont intimate, you know, get to know
Speaker 5: each other without actually having to battle on and on
Speaker 5: and on, you know.
Speaker 3: Just okay, ye, each other's presence. Yeah, like a twenty
Speaker 3: year old married couple.
Speaker 2: I don't know, did you feel like she was asking
Speaker 2: you more questions than you were asking her.
Speaker 5: I'm actually not sure about that. She probably was a
Speaker 5: little bit more outgoing than I was.
Speaker 2: I'll say that, yeah, yeah, I would ask is like,
Speaker 2: you know, maybe that was a sign that she was
Speaker 2: like trying to fill the void right then.
Speaker 1: It wasn't comfortable for her.
Speaker 3: She's acting question, She's like, I'm trying to read.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean maybe it felt like she wanted to
Speaker 5: talk more and I want to be a little bit
Speaker 5: more quiet and reserved.
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like calling a radio station for help
Speaker 2: is going to prove to her that you do have
Speaker 2: an outgoing side as well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you was there at any point during
Speaker 3: the day a super romantic or flirtatious moment that would
Speaker 3: be like a highlight you could point out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we were being jokey and flirty and a one
Speaker 5: time I grabbed a self help book that said that,
Speaker 5: you know, the Beginner's Guide the Human Sacrifice and said.
Speaker 3: Oh, it's flirty.
Speaker 2: If that's it's something, it's like, I don't have virgin blood,
Speaker 2: so it's not gonna work.
Speaker 3: Maybe on your next day you could sacrifice someone together
Speaker 3: and we'll send you there hopefully if we can get
Speaker 3: her on the line when we do your second date
Speaker 3: update right after this. Thank you, all right, hold on,
Speaker 3: update this little piggy went to the library. Oh, this
Speaker 3: little piggy went to another library. Okay, this little piggy
Speaker 3: went to a third library. It's all libraries with this
Speaker 3: piggy and no coffee shops inside, like I thought they were. Okay,
Speaker 3: sometimes I guess so because Tyler, our listener, took Veronica
Speaker 3: to a bunch of different libraries around the city because
Speaker 3: he knew that she loved reading and art and smart
Speaker 3: stuff like that. But afterwards, this little piggy hasn't been
Speaker 3: able to get himself another date, so he went we
Speaker 3: we we all the way to the radio station for help.
Speaker 3: Are Wolf for the safe place.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is the last time you read,
Speaker 1: and you little concerned about that.
Speaker 3: Well that's okay, yeah, trying to do one library to
Speaker 3: It's not about me and my reading. It's about Tyler
Speaker 3: and trying to get him hooked up again with Veronica. Tyler, Yes,
Speaker 3: how you feeling man.
Speaker 5: Lucky this question?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm gonna get lucky. You guys are
Speaker 5: gonna pull through for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a different meaning than you say. We're not
Speaker 2: providing that service, but we forgot to ask, like, have
Speaker 2: you talked.
Speaker 1: To her at all since your library date.
Speaker 5: No, I called once, I sent a text. Nothing.
Speaker 1: That's not too much either.
Speaker 2: That's good.
Speaker 3: Well, we have dozens and dozens of phone lines to
Speaker 3: call her. On one of them she has to answer.
Speaker 3: Let's give it a shot. Okay, we're gonna call her
Speaker 3: from eight different lines. It was I will call her
Speaker 3: for four straight days until she picks up the phone.
Speaker 3: I promise you that, Tyler. Okay, let's do this. Okay,
Speaker 3: let's try it the first time. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 3: is this Veronica?
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, who's calling?
Speaker 3: Hey? This is jeff from the radio show Brooke and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Okay, I have to pause.
Speaker 3: There to see if there's any recognition.
Speaker 1: I also feel like it made you sound intellectual.
Speaker 3: She read, don't listen to our show. We hear that
Speaker 3: you are intellectual type truancy.
Speaker 4: I am so confused. Far are you guys calling me and.
Speaker 3: Of what you ask good questions?
Speaker 4: Intellectual?
Speaker 3: We've heard that from one of our listeners named Tyler,
Speaker 3: who you apparently went out with the other day to
Speaker 3: several libraries. Oh yeah, but now you're not calling him back,
Speaker 3: and so we're trying to help him through this. Segment
Speaker 3: called the second Date update to figure out if something
Speaker 3: went wrong or if we could fix it, to see
Speaker 3: what's going on, maybe get you another shot.
Speaker 4: So a radio station is trying to play matchmaker. Okay,
Speaker 4: this is real.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very real.
Speaker 3: We're not really trying to play matchmaker. It sounds like
Speaker 3: you guys already matched online.
Speaker 4: Well yeah, no, I mean we did match online. We
Speaker 4: meant on an app, but I'm not sure if that
Speaker 4: translated to matching in real life. Something just sort of
Speaker 4: fell off.
Speaker 2: I'm so curious what your thoughts or feelings were when
Speaker 2: he suggested the library tour.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I actually really loved that. I thought that was
Speaker 4: super unique. You know, I'm just so sick of like
Speaker 4: going to the coffee shop or like going to the bar.
Speaker 4: Like I'm just like, it's just kind of boring.
Speaker 3: And that's why you got to find a library that
Speaker 3: has a coffee shop and a bar inside.
Speaker 1: I'd go to that actually. Yeah, but oh so you too.
Speaker 1: But you had fun then with the library aspect of
Speaker 1: your date.
Speaker 4: I mean, I really loved it was such a unique idea.
Speaker 4: I loved that he sort of took something, and I
Speaker 4: really loved his look. I love reading. I'm a huge reader,
Speaker 4: and he kind of like tailored the date towards one
Speaker 4: of my interests, which I thought was really nice.
Speaker 1: Oh that's really passive.
Speaker 3: It's a very thoughtful thing of him to do.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, very thoughtful, not generic. But unfortunately, just the
Speaker 4: chemistry just wasn't there.
Speaker 2: Do you think it's because the setting didn't like give
Speaker 2: it a chance to kemmis chemistry.
Speaker 3: As you are? Yeah, what's the mixed? I mean it's
Speaker 3: hard to have a strong connection with someone in a
Speaker 3: place where you're supposed to stay quiet and whisper all
Speaker 3: the time. Is that what's going on?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean we didn't talk a lot in Librarian because
Speaker 4: you kind of need to be quiet obviously, and sure,
Speaker 4: I thought maybe he was nervous or something. So I
Speaker 4: asked him to grab a drink afterwards and he said
Speaker 4: no thanks, Oh.
Speaker 3: He rejected you whoa, we didn't hear about that part
Speaker 3: of this?
Speaker 1: Yeah, does he not drink? Do you think is that why.
Speaker 5: You could say that?
Speaker 4: I thought maybe that, But he was just a completely
Speaker 4: different person than who I met online. Like I thought
Speaker 4: we were vibing on chatting and then like in person,
Speaker 4: like why wouldn't you want to get a drink after
Speaker 4: going to three libraries, like I'm smart.
Speaker 5: Boring, I mean in the morning, like a tiger ironica.
Speaker 3: Oh that happened. Sorry that that's Tyler who was supposed
Speaker 3: to wait till we call him in, but oh my, okay,
Speaker 3: he's been listening on the other line this whole time.
Speaker 3: You can say hi to him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, where you want to go next? Three churches?
Speaker 3: Like, oh, church architecture is actually pretty crazy? Maybe she's
Speaker 3: super religious.
Speaker 5: I mean sorry, so I guess I just you know,
Speaker 5: I have something to admit to you, and everybody admissions, Okay.
Speaker 4: I mean that's fine. I just you know, if you
Speaker 4: don't drink, like no judgments, that's fine, Like you could
Speaker 4: have done something else, but you just like teased out.
Speaker 4: So I'm just really weirded out that you want to
Speaker 4: ask me out again.
Speaker 5: But well, we matched online. You were just you know,
Speaker 5: you're so beautiful and intelligent, sophisticated. I just knew I
Speaker 5: couldn't match up to that. In order to seem more charming,
Speaker 5: I was texting you, you know, chat GPT and chat GPT.
Speaker 1: Is that the new one that's AI?
Speaker 2: That is like the computer generated texts? Wait, that wasn't
Speaker 2: really you.
Speaker 1: Texting with her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'd like type in, hey you're still guy,
Speaker 5: say something smart, funny, classic art, and it came out
Speaker 5: that works.
Speaker 2: Bro.
Speaker 3: Yeah, dang, this is an APPA website. Okay, well, good
Speaker 3: to know for other reasons.
Speaker 4: Wait, so like used artificial intelligence to talk to me
Speaker 4: through a dating app. Like, I'm just having trouble wrapping
Speaker 4: my head around this, Like so, yeah, you were a
Speaker 4: completely different person.
Speaker 1: So oh it was it was like a droid and
Speaker 1: that was a human.
Speaker 4: I feel like I got catfished by like a chat bot.
Speaker 1: Is what happened?
Speaker 3: Yeah, charming? Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: Wait, wait, so you don't actually like money then.
Speaker 5: Uh that's how you pronounced it that THO was like, mayonnai.
Speaker 1: It dude, you gotta tell us this type of stuff
Speaker 1: before we call someone.
Speaker 5: This is not just a little nervous, that's that's all.
Speaker 2: I like.
Speaker 5: It's just for me. I'm a little bit shy at first,
Speaker 5: but once you get to know me, I have a
Speaker 5: much better personality and bigger personality. It's just the initial
Speaker 5: meeting was a little bit intimidating to me.
Speaker 1: I mean, and it makes sense why you picked a
Speaker 1: library so you didn't to talk.
Speaker 3: Oh, and that's why you said no to the bar too.
Speaker 3: You were like nervous about exposing yourself like free thought,
Speaker 3: I mean exposing not that way, like just not living
Speaker 3: up to the intellectuals that you showed online.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you basically lied about all of your interests and
Speaker 4: then plagiarized an entire online conversation with me. So I'm
Speaker 4: talking like a person.
Speaker 5: No, I'm not a big person. I put out all
Speaker 5: the emojis myself.
Speaker 3: That sophisticated stuff. There are like hundreds of them to
Speaker 3: pick for It.
Speaker 4: Took a lot of intellectual labor to pick out a
Speaker 4: book emoji. When we're talking about look.
Speaker 3: Brook, do you give him any credit here for at
Speaker 3: least going through all this effort to try and impress her.
Speaker 1: I get that you didn't have enough to offer her.
Speaker 3: And that's too bad. That's a little bit harsh. Well,
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 2: All of it, but like I think you should come
Speaker 2: at it within a big apology instead of don't blame
Speaker 2: me for this, like that's kind of not a awesome look.
Speaker 5: I agree, Yeah, I just I don't know. I just
Speaker 5: because he didn't really get a chance to talk talk
Speaker 5: at the library, So I thought maybe a second date
Speaker 5: at the exact same time we had the first date
Speaker 5: wasn't in my best interest.
Speaker 1: You're not making any sense.
Speaker 4: That doesn't make any sense at all.
Speaker 3: Ask chat bought? What you should say here, Tyler?
Speaker 4: Yead you have it pulled up right now, or use
Speaker 4: your actual responses, or you like have like a laptop open,
Speaker 4: like while we're on like on the phone. Like I
Speaker 4: don't trust you now.
Speaker 5: And that's sad because I've been honest with you since
Speaker 5: we've been talking on the on the radio here, and
Speaker 5: I do have the chat up. I'm just not using
Speaker 5: it the blank screen.
Speaker 3: Okay, maybe you should, Maybe you should. Jeffrey could hurt wow.
Speaker 1: I mean he's earnest, he likes you.
Speaker 3: And I bet he really does like money. Tyler, say
Speaker 3: something nice about money.
Speaker 5: He used wonderful colors.
Speaker 3: My nephew said the same thing when he watched Thomas
Speaker 3: the Train. The intellect is shining today, and we would
Speaker 3: like to connect you to one more time for another
Speaker 3: date and pay for that date, you know, library, coffee shop, bar,
Speaker 3: combo gift cards.
Speaker 2: You don't exists.
Speaker 3: You're gonna find it.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I mean, like Tyler, like the date idea was all you,
Speaker 4: I think maybe, and that was great, and you made
Speaker 4: some funny joke about human sacrifice, and unless you came
Speaker 4: up with something beforehand, like, I think you should maybe
Speaker 4: give yourself some more credit because I think you are
Speaker 4: smart and funny. But yeah, you're just not the right
Speaker 4: person for me, Like, I sorry, locked my trust, so
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: I get that back. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Man, was.
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: Tyler disappointed bas emoj.
Speaker 3: Rook Jeffrey in the morning. Well, no, surprise didn't really
Speaker 3: work out for Tyler on that one.
Speaker 2: I feel.
Speaker 1: Poor, buddy.
Speaker 3: That's why I asked chat GPT, I actually did. I
Speaker 3: asked it to say something kind and funny about a
Speaker 3: guy who just got rejected for second date. I bet
Speaker 3: they came up with a good answer, but here's what
Speaker 3: it said. Well, getting rejected for a second date may
Speaker 3: not feel like a laughing matter at first, but it's
Speaker 3: always good to keep your sense of humor about it,
Speaker 3: because who knows, Maybe the person you asked out has
Speaker 3: a terrible taste in movies, or they're secretly a cat person. Hey,
Speaker 3: whatever the reason may be, just remember that rejection is
Speaker 3: not a reflection of your worth as a person, Keep
Speaker 3: your head up, keep being yourself, and keep putting yourself
Speaker 3: out there, because the right person is out there waiting
Speaker 3: for you. Maybe someday you'll look back on this rejection
Speaker 3: and laugh about it over a drink with your future soulmate. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's so cute, awesome.
Speaker 1: True too, because you're on the radio and you're like,
Speaker 1: you'd never believe what I did.
Speaker 3: Ye, Well, oh my god, I think I want to
Speaker 3: date the Chat GPTO some inappropriate questions right after this.
Speaker 3: But if you ever want to hear any of our
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Speaker 1: The one you should have had Chat gpt right at
Speaker 1: the end of the Dame
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning