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Speaker 1: Ay, you found the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Finally, it's pretty easy actually, thanks for being here, Hose.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love it, and hey, just a reminder, if you

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Speaker 2: want to endure or punish yourself for forty five more minutes,

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Speaker 2: we've got a full show, whole hour long.

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Speaker 1: I dare you to try it at the Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey Feed. But for now, we'll get into some questionable

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Speaker 1: relationship advice.

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Speaker 3: Second DAT Day. Normally, when we hear a guy say

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Speaker 3: he went out with a woman who's way out of

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Speaker 3: his league, the first thing that comes to our minds

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Speaker 3: is looks. Yeah, I think you're right. We're thinking she's

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Speaker 3: in New York. Ten he's an Idaho six and a half.

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Speaker 2: Oh, which is still striking gold for me, you know what.

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Speaker 3: Not in this case, I'll take that nugget. One of

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Speaker 3: our listeners, Tyler, says, he went out with someone whose

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Speaker 3: brain is a ten.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I love that, and he's still an Idaho six and

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Speaker 3: a half. Good for you. But Tyler, you say she's

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Speaker 3: good looking too, right?

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Speaker 4: She is?

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: Red flag, pretty and smart to suck.

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Speaker 3: Where'd you meet this girl?

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Speaker 5: We met online? So she checked my boxes physically.

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Speaker 2: She checks all these boxes and she's still online dating.

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Speaker 3: Was it like Tender or Scientist Inquiries? Just a normal

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Speaker 3: dating app? I'm guessing. Yeah, yeah, okay, And what's her name?

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Speaker 1: We didn't get that?

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Speaker 5: Veronica?

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Speaker 1: Veronica?

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Speaker 3: That God, tell us a little bit about Veronica. What

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Speaker 3: did you like about her?

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Speaker 5: Okay? So, I mean obviously beautiful, but you could just

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Speaker 5: tell she was really interesting and smart?

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Speaker 2: And do you mean tell like when you saw her

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Speaker 2: dating profile or when you met her in person the profile?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Is it our? And she's into books and reading.

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Speaker 3: Or swiped last seven times since you started talking, even

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Speaker 3: audio books. Well, but that's that's something that you like,

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Speaker 3: the comic books. Maybe that's something that you like about her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I do. I like somebody who's smart and

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Speaker 3: And intellect is sexy for sure. That's great. Yeah, So

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Speaker 3: what'd you end up doing for your date?

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Speaker 5: So? I thought I could make it a little bit

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Speaker 5: unique since she's so much into art and literature and reading.

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Speaker 5: So we went to a few different libraries, like all

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Speaker 5: these unique places with.

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Speaker 2: That instead of like, yeah, exactly fun, but a library

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Speaker 2: anything but a library if you post a book to

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Speaker 3: Stop judging. There are some dark, seedy sections in every

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Speaker 1: Was it?

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Speaker 2: I spent actually a lot of time in the library,

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Speaker 2: not the good part, apparently not.

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Speaker 1: And I just they're not like sit and have a conversation.

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Speaker 1: They're quiet places.

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Speaker 5: You know, that's true. But you know it's not just

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Speaker 5: about books. It's about you know, you look around and

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Speaker 3: A lot of them have coffee shops in there too.

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Speaker 1: They I don't think so a library.

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Speaker 1: They have restrooms.

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Speaker 3: You know, they don't have ATMs. You full cash out.

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Speaker 3: This is coffee? What am I drinking it?

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Speaker 3: You know what, Tyler, you had a good time in

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Speaker 3: I will say, I already like this. This is probably

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Speaker 3: the most unique day one of them that we've ever heard,

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Speaker 3: where you guys are finding a different thing to entertain yourself. Stretch. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I like it for them, I don't like it.

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Speaker 3: So sure you drove separately to all three libraries.

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Speaker 3: Like after the first one you feel safe enough to

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Speaker 1: Was it four? I mean, it's it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 5: Very just eye cont intimate, you know, get to know

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Speaker 3: Just okay, ye, each other's presence. Yeah, like a twenty

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Speaker 2: I don't know, did you feel like she was asking

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Speaker 1: It wasn't comfortable for her.

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Speaker 3: She's acting question, She's like, I'm trying to read.

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Speaker 2: Well, I feel like calling a radio station for help

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you was there at any point during

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Speaker 3: the day a super romantic or flirtatious moment that would

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we were being jokey and flirty and a one

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Speaker 5: you know, the Beginner's Guide the Human Sacrifice and said.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's flirty.

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Speaker 2: If that's it's something, it's like, I don't have virgin blood,

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Speaker 3: Maybe on your next day you could sacrifice someone together

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Speaker 3: update right after this. Thank you, all right, hold on,

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Speaker 3: update this little piggy went to the library. Oh, this

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Speaker 3: little piggy went to another library. Okay, this little piggy

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Speaker 3: sometimes I guess so because Tyler, our listener, took Veronica

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Speaker 3: Are Wolf for the safe place.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is the last time you read,

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Speaker 3: Well that's okay, yeah, trying to do one library to

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Speaker 3: It's not about me and my reading. It's about Tyler

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Speaker 3: and trying to get him hooked up again with Veronica. Tyler, Yes,

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Speaker 3: how you feeling man.

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Speaker 5: Lucky this question?

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Speaker 5: I feel like I'm gonna get lucky. You guys are

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a different meaning than you say. We're not

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Speaker 2: providing that service, but we forgot to ask, like, have

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Speaker 1: To her at all since your library date.

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Speaker 5: No, I called once, I sent a text. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: That's not too much either.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 3: Well, we have dozens and dozens of phone lines to

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Speaker 3: call her. On one of them she has to answer.

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Speaker 3: Let's give it a shot. Okay, we're gonna call her

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Speaker 3: from eight different lines. It was I will call her

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Speaker 3: I promise you that, Tyler. Okay, let's do this. Okay,

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Speaker 3: let's try it the first time. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 3: is this Veronica?

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Speaker 3: Hey? This is jeff from the radio show Brooke and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I have to pause.

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Speaker 3: There to see if there's any recognition.

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Speaker 1: I also feel like it made you sound intellectual.

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Speaker 4: I am so confused. Far are you guys calling me and.

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Speaker 3: Of what you ask good questions?

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Speaker 3: We've heard that from one of our listeners named Tyler,

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Speaker 4: So a radio station is trying to play matchmaker. Okay,

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Speaker 4: this is real.

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Speaker 3: We're not really trying to play matchmaker. It sounds like

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Speaker 2: I'm so curious what your thoughts or feelings were when

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I actually really loved that. I thought that was

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Speaker 4: Like I'm just like, it's just kind of boring.

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Speaker 3: And that's why you got to find a library that

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Speaker 1: I'd go to that actually. Yeah, but oh so you too.

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Speaker 1: But you had fun then with the library aspect of

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Speaker 4: I mean, I really loved it was such a unique idea.

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Speaker 4: I loved that he sort of took something, and I

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Speaker 1: Oh that's really passive.

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Speaker 3: It's a very thoughtful thing of him to do.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, very thoughtful, not generic. But unfortunately, just the

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's because the setting didn't like give

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Speaker 3: As you are? Yeah, what's the mixed? I mean it's

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Speaker 4: I mean we didn't talk a lot in Librarian because

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Speaker 3: He rejected you whoa, we didn't hear about that part

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Speaker 1: Yeah, does he not drink? Do you think is that why.

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Speaker 5: You could say that?

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Speaker 4: I thought maybe that, But he was just a completely

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Speaker 3: You can say hi to him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, where you want to go next? Three churches?

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, church architecture is actually pretty crazy? Maybe she's

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Speaker 5: I mean sorry, so I guess I just you know,

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Speaker 4: I mean that's fine. I just you know, if you

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Speaker 4: So I'm just really weirded out that you want to

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Speaker 5: But well, we matched online. You were just you know,

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Speaker 5: I was texting you, you know, chat GPT and chat GPT.

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Speaker 2: That is like the computer generated texts? Wait, that wasn't

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Speaker 1: Texting with her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'd like type in, hey you're still guy,

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dang, this is an APPA website. Okay, well, good

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Speaker 4: Wait, so like used artificial intelligence to talk to me

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Speaker 4: I feel like I got catfished by like a chat bot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, charming? Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 5: Uh that's how you pronounced it that THO was like, mayonnai.

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Speaker 5: This is not just a little nervous, that's that's all.

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Speaker 5: It's just for me. I'm a little bit shy at first,

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Speaker 1: I mean, and it makes sense why you picked a

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Speaker 3: Oh, and that's why you said no to the bar too.

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Speaker 3: You were like nervous about exposing yourself like free thought,

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Speaker 3: I mean exposing not that way, like just not living

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you basically lied about all of your interests and

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Speaker 5: No, I'm not a big person. I put out all

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Speaker 3: That sophisticated stuff. There are like hundreds of them to

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Speaker 4: Took a lot of intellectual labor to pick out a

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Speaker 3: Brook, do you give him any credit here for at

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Speaker 1: I get that you didn't have enough to offer her.

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Speaker 2: All of it, but like I think you should come

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Speaker 5: I agree, Yeah, I just I don't know. I just

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Speaker 5: at the exact same time we had the first date

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Speaker 5: wasn't in my best interest.

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Speaker 1: You're not making any sense.

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Speaker 4: That doesn't make any sense at all.

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Speaker 3: Ask chat bought? What you should say here, Tyler?

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Speaker 4: Yead you have it pulled up right now, or use

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Speaker 5: And that's sad because I've been honest with you since

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Speaker 5: we've been talking on the on the radio here, and

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Speaker 5: I do have the chat up. I'm just not using

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe you should, Maybe you should. Jeffrey could hurt wow.

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Speaker 1: I mean he's earnest, he likes you.

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Speaker 3: And I bet he really does like money. Tyler, say

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Speaker 5: He used wonderful colors.

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Speaker 3: My nephew said the same thing when he watched Thomas

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Speaker 3: the Train. The intellect is shining today, and we would

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Speaker 2: You don't exists.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna find it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like Tyler, like the date idea was all you,

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Speaker 4: I think maybe, and that was great, and you made

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I get that back. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Man, was.

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 3: Rook Jeffrey in the morning. Well, no, surprise didn't really

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Speaker 2: I feel.

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Speaker 1: Poor, buddy.

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Speaker 3: That's why I asked chat GPT, I actually did. I

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Speaker 3: they came up with a good answer, but here's what

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Speaker 3: it said. Well, getting rejected for a second date may

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Speaker 3: whatever the reason may be, just remember that rejection is

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Speaker 3: not a reflection of your worth as a person, Keep

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Speaker 3: your head up, keep being yourself, and keep putting yourself

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Speaker 3: for you. Maybe someday you'll look back on this rejection

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Speaker 3: and laugh about it over a drink with your future soulmate. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's so cute, awesome.

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Speaker 1: True too, because you're on the radio and you're like,

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Speaker 1: you'd never believe what I did.

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Speaker 3: Ye, Well, oh my god, I think I want to

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Speaker 3: date the Chat GPTO some inappropriate questions right after this.

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Speaker 3: But if you ever want to hear any of our

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Speaker 3: second Day podcasts, you can find them up online wherever

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Speaker 3: you get them at Brook and Jeffrey, Brook and Jeffrey, that's.

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Speaker 1: The one you should have had Chat gpt right at

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Speaker 1: the end of the Dame

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning