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Speaker 1: I mean legend of Zelda.

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Speaker 3: Hear me, what are you giving your sister to this guy?

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Speaker 1: So Via loves Legend of Zelda. She plays it. I

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Speaker 2: If a guy came up to you and was like, hey,

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Speaker 1: Who love Legend of Zelda.

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Speaker 2: Otherwise seems like a great guy for Sophia, would you

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Speaker 2: introduce Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why not? I don't know. It's kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Girls.

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Speaker 3: Hey girl, here's the beat. This is not you girls,

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Speaker 3: This is not you women. The other one so big

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Speaker 1: One hundred and twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Okay, A year bro just wants some girl that enjoys

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Speaker 3: Legend of Zelda? Is that too hard to ask for?

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Speaker 4: Dandy girls want people part of the six sixty six club,

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Speaker 4: you know, come on, six foot six inches, cirk six figures.

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Speaker 1: Dang the six sixty six minimum.

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Speaker 3: Oh I thought it was six foot six pack and

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Speaker 2: That's that's the clean version. Anyways, Let's see, let's see

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Speaker 2: a member. Hi everyone, this might seem like a deja

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Speaker 2: vous to you, that's but that's because I made a

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Speaker 2: but I forgot to throw.

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Speaker 1: Away what.

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Speaker 3: So he put on his personal account.

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Speaker 1: God of Love. Oh that's true, doxing himself.

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Speaker 2: But basically, I'm creating this thread because things have gone

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Speaker 2: gotten worse, because things have gone for the worst, and

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Speaker 2: I really badly need advice. So basically I seem to

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Speaker 1: What's the point that is? Barbatim?

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Speaker 2: And I am honestly really sad by this. You should

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Speaker 2: be sad by what an idiot you are. I know,

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Speaker 2: I make a big deal. I don't know what are

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Speaker 2: what do you think can't do each other? No, these

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Speaker 2: as me. This was a big deal to me, and

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Speaker 2: I refuse to date outside of my culture. This was,

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Speaker 1: Go through going up now.

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Speaker 2: This is very different where it's like, hey, I will

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Speaker 4: I'm really gonna date within my cultural background, and then

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Speaker 1: Obsessed with Legend of Zelda.

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Speaker 3: A niche of a minority group.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Well, I dated a few girls who

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Speaker 1: Like Legend of Zelda.

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Speaker 2: However, things they're bad, and in general, I stopped caring

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Speaker 4: Oh god, however, he's gonna choose the things that matter.

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Speaker 2: Legend of freaking Zelda exactly? Does she even Okarina? Dude,

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Speaker 2: that's the thing, yep, the little pan Fleu thing.

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Speaker 3: Oh you even play?

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Speaker 1: You're saying you grew up gen Z body. Yoh, basically aigh, dude,

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Speaker 3: We have a millennial and a gen Z body, and

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Speaker 2: Somehow I still get called I thought I had it,

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Speaker 2: Maybe it really does never escape.

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Speaker 1: It's impressive friendly Fire.

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Speaker 2: Now the girl had to share the same passion for

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Speaker 1: Basically, what I think is this.

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Speaker 1: It needs a lot to me.

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Speaker 2: Is me being attracted to girls I have things in

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Speaker 2: That's correct, and honestly, I wish I could stop thinking

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Speaker 1: Just introduce your dream girl too, Zelda, Yeah, do that?

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Speaker 1: There we go? What then what if she doesn't like it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't let your girlfriend stop you from find your wife.

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Speaker 5: Look, Riley always quoting that, I'm just saying, if you

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Speaker 2: I'm not even going to continue down how to spare you.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying it's all about set.

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Speaker 1: So I honestly don't.

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Speaker 4: Know all of Riley's girlfriends are rolling in their graves

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, that's okay.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean if you're saying if your girlfriend

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Speaker 1: You're thinking every girl that I dated I.

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Speaker 4: But what you're saying is if she's your girlfriend, don't

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Speaker 4: which means you would just ditch your girlfriend if someone

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Speaker 1: You know what. Some people do that.

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Speaker 3: Me personally, I'm gonna be with my girlfriend until, like it,

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Speaker 4: Or if you find someone that likes legend of Zelda more,

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Speaker 1: What church?

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Speaker 3: What a Christian woman who shelsna Oh god, crazy, Oh

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Speaker 3: my god. I probably should not, I should probably stop

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Speaker 2: Actually, I honestly don't know how to deal with this.

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Speaker 2: It's just not something I can switch off. All I

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Speaker 2: There are some relevant comments, There is an up update. Wow,

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Speaker 4: So all right, basically, this guy found the perfect woman,

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Speaker 4: but it's not perfect because no Zelda, no Zelda. And

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Speaker 4: All Right, you know how people like all we got

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Speaker 4: like the asexuals, we got the pan sexuals, we got

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Speaker 4: the byes, we got the heateros.

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Speaker 2: It's probably a higher uh male demographic. Yeah, for Legend

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Speaker 1: To other video games. Yeah, like like in comparison to

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Speaker 1: That's that's pretty low. That's pretty low. Leg that's pretty low,

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Speaker 1: especially from what we thought. It's pretty low. Elies, gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: we're not done here. We have some relevant comments comments.

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Speaker 1: Mister Riley, what do you think? Wait? Oh, what what

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Speaker 1: just happened? I produce what I was gonna say, He

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Speaker 2: Do do I have to take you to court for No,

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Speaker 2: you can't prove it, eliminating our biggest of proteins.

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Speaker 6: You can't prove anything.

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll see what the court.

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Speaker 2: We'll see what these relevant comments have to say about that.

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Speaker 2: So actually, quick TLDR for UH for Sophia, give me

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Speaker 2: op is a Zelda sexual Okay, he can only date

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Speaker 2: people who like Zelda, only date women who like Zelda.

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Speaker 2: It's like myself, there might be a match because his

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Speaker 2: someone who is of his culture and also likes legends.

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Speaker 7: Initially, I feel like it's not that hard to find

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Speaker 2: Well, so initially it was really bad because of what

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Speaker 2: Sam said. You would only date people from his culture

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Speaker 1: It's opened up a bit. But he did find a

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Speaker 4: Like literally perfect, but he didn't like that she didn't

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Speaker 4: like Zelda. But also like only what legend of Zelda

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Speaker 4: is like seventy percent men in like twenty percent women.

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Speaker 1: So that's a lot. That's not a lot that can't

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Speaker 7: Though I know so many people who play Zel twenty

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Speaker 2: Of millions of people probably, yeah, which tens of thousands

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Speaker 2: I used World of Warcraft to avoid confronting my depression

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Speaker 2: And brilliantly astute observations with spot on advice. But how

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Speaker 8: You don't have to have nothing in common, you just

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Let's go together and like I love you forever.

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Speaker 4: Also, it's like I feel like we're getting into some

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Speaker 1: He really does love himself.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's more. Let's get into this next update. This

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Speaker 2: At this point, I don't feel like there's anything I

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Speaker 2: So to pick up where I left off earlier this week,

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Speaker 1: It's a big ye.

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Speaker 7: Literally, tinder is like throwing darts at a board until

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Speaker 1: That is everybody.

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Speaker 2: And the earliest appointment I could get was in February,

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Speaker 6: Just got to be out of the therapist.

449
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. The thing is, none of the other therapists like

450
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 1: Legend of Selda.

451
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Speaker 2: I have to I have to I have things in

452
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Speaker 2: common with be with the therapist.

453
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 1: I have just nothing in makes sense.

454
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:01,400
Speaker 6: They wouldn't understand.

455
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: Police note that I don't live in America, so we

456
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 2: don't really have fast therapists here. Or maybe I haven't

457
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 2: called the right people yet.

458
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: I would keep calling.

459
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 2: Perhaps there are other therapists I'm supposed to call, but

460
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 2: the organization that I was told to call told me

461
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,479
Speaker 2: that all their therapists were completely booked, so that was that.

462
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 2: I have come to the conclusion that there isn't much

463
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: to do about this. I have joined a bunch of

464
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 2: Facebook groups dedicated to Zelda, and I'm trying to make.

465
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,959
Speaker 1: Friends there, both genders. WHOA.

466
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: If I end up liking a girl there, then that's great,

467
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 2: and I'd even be willing to do an online relationship

468
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 2: and eventually move to her place if it gets so far.

469
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: My career is very flexible, so I can find jobs

470
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 2: many places around the world because my job is making

471
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 2: review videos about the legends of Zelda.

472
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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding cool, right.

473
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what else to say. I'm sorry for

474
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: letting everyone O.

475
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: What I've learned is OP.

476
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 4: He does not want to change now OPI is doubling

477
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 4: down on Legend of Zelda.

478
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: But you gotta respect the dedication.

479
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 8: You know.

480
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing.

481
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 2: I would almost respect it if he was like, listen, listen,

482
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 2: a few punks, there's absolutely nothing wrong with me.

483
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: I need my soulmate to like Legends of Zelda.

484
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 2: I could possibly get behind respecting that approach to this.

485
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: But he's like, I know what I'm doing is completely

486
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: wrong and logical, yet I'm.

487
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: Doing it anyway. Yeah I am. I am like a hurricane,

488
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: powerless to my own whims, my own my own demands.

489
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 4: But something I like about this is like, he's just

490
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 4: a dude that loves Legend of Zelda and ain't no

491
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 4: one going to stop him.

492
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 2: No, I have to completely disagree with you there, because

493
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 2: this guy is an absolute idiot who could solve all

494
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: of his problems.

495
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: By simply going outside of the pool. And you know what,

496
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'll get. I'll give this to him.

497
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: I'll give this to him. What will we give him?

498
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: He's on tender whatever he's dating in the world, and

499
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 2: he uses do you like Zelda? Somewhere in his like

500
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,360
Speaker 2: opening lines, and he uses that as a very general

501
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 2: barometer to if this might be a good direction to

502
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 2: pursue a relationship. I could see that as like, hey,

503
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,439
Speaker 2: my personality time, Sophia, Yes, you like Legends of Zelda.

504
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 6: I do like legends.

505
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: When you'll say like, now this is very surface level,

506
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 2: this is very like very beginnings. You know, this is

507
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 2: not hate the full picture for you. However, if someone

508
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 2: likes Legends of Zelda and they're like, oh, like, oh

509
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 2: I like I like breaths of Winds or whatever, blah

510
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 2: blah blah, do you do you see that and go like, Okay,

511
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 2: there could be some compatibility here.

512
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. Right, They're not that that's the be all end all.

513
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know. But if they were like, oh my god,

514
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 6: I love Breath of the Wild.

515
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: It's a green flag. Yeah it's a green flag.

516
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 2: So oh he could do that, yeah, to have an

517
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 2: existential crisis part no reason whatsoever.

518
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 6: Oh he's flip bopping.

519
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 7: He just like, I want to be with someone who

520
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 7: likes Legend of Zelda and texts people on hinge.

521
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 6: And is like, hey, anyone like Legend of Zelda. Here.

522
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 6: He could get people so quickly.

523
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: I feel like eventually I'll find someone.

524
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 2: I didn't choose the Zelda life to sell the life

525
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 2: shows me, but he chose it.

526
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: But we have a final update where we actually a

527
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: final update.

528
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: It is actually the literal final update there there and

529
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 2: there is a relevant comment as well. But this is

530
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 2: this is the end. We we have reached the end. Okay, guys,

531
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 2: I think I'm cured. Wow, big change.

532
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 6: What an update, you know what.

533
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: I'm intrigued.

534
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so it was. It was a strange event, but

535
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 2: what the heck? It made me realize something. This guy's great.

536
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 2: I was studying late night in my room for a

537
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: few days ago, and I have the shelf in my

538
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 2: room with a bunch of Zelda collectibles and a really

539
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 2: expensive Zelda figurine underneath it over four hundred dollars for

540
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 2: just not figuring.

541
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

542
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 2: Well, guess what, As luck would have it, my ikea

543
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: shelf gave in all my collectible spell to the ground,

544
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 2: and the shelf knocked down my figure.

545
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: And destroyed the four figure. Yeah, that sucks.

546
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: Obviously a distressing moment for me, but it was also

547
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 2: at that time I realized I needed to perhaps chill

548
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 2: with this hobby, thank you, and that the hobby can

549
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 2: still be mine without having to necessarily share it with

550
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 2: a significant other.

551
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: Growth, well hardly. I feel like it.

552
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,919
Speaker 6: It released the hold on him like someone.

553
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 4: He was like one of these figurines had cast a

554
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 4: spell on him, and now that it was broken, he

555
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 4: was lifted.

556
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: From the cell.

557
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 2: Yes, what spell did they cast on him? So be

558
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 2: a wild spell?

559
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: What they do? What? What? What Zelda move did they

560
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 1: use on him?

561
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 7: It's not really like that's like, you know, like there's

562
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 7: like an ice making spell area right what.

563
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: Where they play the ocarina. I'm gonna go to arena.

564
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 6: I don't think there's a spell that would work for this.

565
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 6: Maybe I don't know.

566
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: He's finally realized that he maybe is chill out a

567
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 2: will bit and not make this requirement.

568
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: Of course, I would prefer all caps.

569
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 2: If she liked Zelda too, and it would back to

570
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 2: where we started. I hope, I have hope, and it

571
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 2: would definitely be a huge plus in my book. But

572
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 2: if I fall in love with a girl who isn't

573
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: into Zelda, I guess that's how it's going to be.

574
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: I'm honestly not going to worry too much about this.

575
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 2: To be honest, I have enough to take. I have

576
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 2: enough on my plate with studies as it is. Plus

577
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take some extra extra shifts at work so

578
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 2: I can replace my broken statue and collectibles. Unfortunately, some

579
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 2: of them can't be bought anymore. So oh well, such

580
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 2: as life. Thanks to everyone reaching out to me and

581
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: helping me, this has been an eye opener for me.

582
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: I'm more than willing to date a girl who doesn't

583
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: care about Zelda, because, honestly, if she's just there for

584
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 2: me and makes me happy, I feel like that is

585
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: all I could ask for.

586
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 6: Yes, wow, growth, Yes.

587
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: You're not buying it? Are you not buying it? I

588
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: don't buy it? However, Yep, we gotta.

589
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: However, However, if she happens like Zelta too, then that's great,

590
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 2: and that's great, not a requirement, just a plus that

591
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 2: our carmera is suspicious and there's a final comment to

592
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 2: close out this entire socca. So if I take pictures

593
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: of a damage done to my collectibles and a screwed

594
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 2: up wall with all the time stance, is that going

595
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: to prove anything?

596
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: I find it funny.

597
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 2: There's news about a Saudi prince who has been arrested

598
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 2: in SoCal for forcing women to watch him have a

599
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: guy fart in his face. Wait, what Wow, yet me

600
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 2: wanting a girlfriend who is into Zelda as well as

601
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 2: apparently a lot more strange, So it has to be

602
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 2: fake and to troll OPI that was a terrible note

603
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 2: to close out on.

604
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 4: But but way a Saudi prince that was forcing people

605
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 4: the part in his face.

606
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 6: What news are you reading?

607
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: Wait? What I'm looking that up? Well, Sam looks that up.

608
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say OPI is much better than where

609
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: he was at the beginning.

610
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: In the middle of the story. There has been growth.

611
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: There has been growth. Uh, and if op does.

612
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 2: Continue on this path, then I do have a good

613
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: amount of hope for OPI faith I would say, uh,

614
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 2: what's the use Sophia I.

615
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 6: I agree.

616
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 7: I feel like, yeah, there was definitely some growth going on.

617
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 7: I feel like we've made some progress. It's a little

618
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 7: bit worrying that the final I mean, before the comment,

619
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Speaker 7: the final.

620
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Speaker 6: Sentence was ye, the face part, she's still oh no.

621
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Speaker 7: Before that, I'd love that she staidle was interested and

622
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 7: that one he said it's not a requirement but a

623
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 7: plus exclamation mark.

624
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's more growth to me.

625
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, No, there's definitely a lot of growth from coming

626
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 7: from I can only date a legend of Zelda fense exactly, Yeah, I.

627
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: Got some face farder. Okay, here we go.

628
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 4: Satty Prince accused of hooker parties, threats and fart and

629
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 4: face demand.

630
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: Thikes got some tough allegations.

631
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 4: I am a prince and I do what I want.

632
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 4: You are a nobody. He said that, and he is

633
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 4: accused of making one of the women watch while he

634
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 4: had a male aid fart in his face. When he

635
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 4: was challenged on this behavior, he allegedly shouted out, I

636
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 4: am a prince and I do what I want.

637
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: You are a nobody. They must have been so jealous.

638
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 2: Yes, wow, well Op, I hate that you're also referencing

639
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: that as another MIAs pipe. Yeah, ultimately I have hope.

640
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 2: Would you say you have hope Sam, Nope, no, uh,

641
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: but I do have hope that if you love us,

642
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 2: make sure to subscribe.

643
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: We love you and seeing Amar. This is an episode

644
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Speaker 1: from Deep within the Archives.

645
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 2: Time for Okop Rewlam. My eighteen year old kids got

646
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: a paternity test because something looked off. My wife, Kelly,

647
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 2: and I have known each other for over twenty years

648
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: and have been married for eighteen years. We have seventeen

649
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: year old twins, a boy and a girl and op

650
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,239
Speaker 2: found something out.

651
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: Sam they're having a child together.

652
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: Two days ago, I found out that both of my

653
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 2: kids are not mine. My wife, Kelly and I met

654
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 2: as coworkers right out of college. We were both very ambitious,

655
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: so after working for a couple of years, we decided

656
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 2: to start a business together.

657
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Speaker 1: Yo, this, guys, deep are in.

658
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Speaker 4: Not only do you have kids with the person, not

659
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 4: only are you mary? We got a business.

660
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 2: Together, we fell in love, and after a year starting

661
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 2: our business, we got married. A couple of months into marriage,

662
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 2: we had a massive fight about the direction that we

663
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 2: wanted to take the business in. You should have asked

664
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Speaker 2: what direction she was taking her business in if you catch.

665
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Speaker 1: What I mean?

666
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 4: Was she throwing that ass around? Who is the CTO?

667
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 4: The chief touching your wife officer?

668
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:22,959
Speaker 1: Uh oh?

669
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Speaker 2: After a big fight, I left our home, but she

670
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Speaker 2: came to me a couple weeks later and we compromised.

671
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: We've been inseparable ever since we were on a.

672
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 4: Break and so I'm getting that vibe. Well to see

673
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 4: like a few months or a few weeks after this

674
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 4: break that they she falls pregnant. We'll see, maybe it

675
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 4: was outside of the break, and you know, if it

676
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 4: happened during the break like more understandable or understandable, Kelly

677
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 4: got pregnant around this time.

678
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: Ay, and we've been through thick and thin.

679
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 2: Our business has had several hardships, but we have weathered

680
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 2: all of them together. We were always there for each other.

681
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 2: We could always depend on each other. And I love

682
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 2: her so so much. She is a part of me

683
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: and I couldn't even imagine a life without her. Start imagining, boy, Oh, get.

684
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 8: That imagination flowid, baby, because you're gonna need it.

685
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 2: I trusted her absolutely until this happened. Kelly has been

686
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: crying profusely and apologizing constantly.

687
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: She told me that during.

688
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: This time that we had a fight at the start

689
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 2: of our marriage, she got a little loppy drunk one

690
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 2: time and slept with a random guy.

691
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: But she said she has not cheated on me since.

692
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: I mean, they were on a break.

693
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: They were separated. Yeah, that's a dicey one.

694
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: They weren't.

695
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 2: There wasn't an exclamation of like we're done or like

696
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 2: I need I guess he said it through his actions.

697
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: But a couple of weeks, that's crazy. Leading For a

698
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: couple of weeks he left for a couple of weeks.

699
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: It wasn't her he left for Yeah, he left the

700
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: house for a couple of weeks. Yo, a few weeks

701
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: no contact. You know what was not getting contact? Her cheeks?

702
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 4: Yeah?

703
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: How is she gonna go weeks without getting her cheeks? Pundered? Bro?

704
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: With all that business stress? You got a d stress listening?

705
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: Come on, come on bro.

706
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 4: Also, I'm just like always so impressed at like the

707
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,240
Speaker 4: one night stand guys that are just shooting bullets.

708
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 2: I mean, like straight shooters, like them in the NBA,

709
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 2: because they get every time.

710
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: Batting average is like eight hundred, which good God.

711
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: Now I trusted her absolutely. This betrayal has left me disoriented.

712
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 4: She probably she should have told him, she should have

713
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 4: told him. Yeah, if they got back together, but like

714
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 4: of the times to betray someone.

715
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: That is the best time, the least egregious window of time.

716
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: But it's it's like, man, that one mistake a lot

717
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 1: of baggage. Who man?

718
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 2: I told Kelly I needed time to process this, and

719
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: I'm currently staying at a hotel. I don't know what

720
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 2: I'm even doing anymore. The last two days have been

721
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 2: a complete blur. I feel like a zombie, completely unable

722
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: to feel or process anything. Now, to be clear, I

723
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 2: didn't intend to abandon my kid. I might not be

724
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: their biological father, but I'm still their dad and I

725
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 2: love them dearly.

726
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: Does that not change your opinion for kids you think

727
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 1: are now.

728
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,879
Speaker 2: After raising them for eighteen years? I would say it's

729
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: it's the relationship and the nurturing that you've given.

730
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 4: I mean, like, I like, I understand you're still going

731
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 4: to care for them. Yeah, but like does that not

732
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,959
Speaker 4: just like change your perception even a little bit.

733
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 2: Hurts, But I personally probably wouldn't be able to disassociate that.

734
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't think you disassociate Yeah, yeah, yeah, but it's

735
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: like it has to have an effect on your relationship

736
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 1: with your kids in some way that information, right.

737
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm sure. But I could also see, like

738
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 2: if I'm in his shoes, like there's.

739
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: Like an equivalent of adoption.

740
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 2: I guess, yeah, yeah, like it's the bond is so

741
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: like it's definitely a stain. But I don't know that

742
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 2: it would like like all of those years almost like

743
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: the emotional back.

744
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 4: It would not like stop you from right like a

745
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 4: father to them, obviously, But I'm just like wonderingly, like

746
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 4: it has to have like maybe a like really wrong here,

747
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 4: But I can't imagine that it doesn't like affect the

748
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 4: relationship in some way.

749
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 2: I could, I could say for me, I think I

750
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: would be able to bury it, is what I'm trying

751
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 2: to say. Oh yeah, it's like that's so strong that

752
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 2: it would kind of just like almost I think that

753
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: I agree with that. Yeah, it makes sense. And right

754
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 2: now I'm sitting on my hotel bed and I have

755
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 2: not eaten anything today. My thoughts are a mess, so

756
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 2: I'm writing this down to help me process it.

757
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: Kelly has always been a great wife and an.

758
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 2: Excellent business partner, but I don't know if I'll be

759
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 2: able to look at her the same ever again, or

760
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: if I will be the same person again.

761
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: I do not know how to move forward from here.

762
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 1: We were on a brook. Yeah, you can't leave for

763
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: like three weeks no contact and you and expect your

764
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: wife to not clap cheeks. That's what I'm saying.

765
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 4: After a big fight, Like three weeks is such a

766
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 4: long time.

767
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 2: Such a long time, that's how many How many seconds

768
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: is that?

769
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Is that a billion seconds? Yeah? That's a

770
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: billion people that you could fuck? How is she?

771
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: How is she not going to get dicked down for

772
00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 2: a billion seconds, dude, that's insane, an image.

773
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 4: Imaginable, unimaginable. But she's hot, she's in demand, she's in demand.

774
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 4: But there is an updates.

775
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: Actually, yes, oh, I'm excited for this.

776
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 2: Thank you for the overwhelming response I got on my

777
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 2: last post. I wrote it down just to clear my head.

778
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 2: The day after my post, I called my children and

779
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: told them I love them. They were scared that I

780
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 2: might leave them. I told them that they're absolutely still

781
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: my children, even though I'm not their biological father, and

782
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 2: that I will.

783
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 1: Not be abandoning them. I just needed to think about

784
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: my relationship with their mother.

785
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: I saw several comments telling me that they're not my

786
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 2: children because I don't have their DNA, but that matters

787
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: very little to me. I raised them, and they are

788
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 2: my children. I spend time thinking about how to move

789
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 2: forward with Kelly after this. I was angry that she

790
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 2: had slept with someone else after we had gotten married.

791
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: I calmed down and I really thought about the whole situation.

792
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 2: I wanted to call my lawyer to talk about separation,

793
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 2: but I kept thinking of our life together. So I

794
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 2: decided to talk to Kelly. And give her a chance.

795
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: I called her and went back home the next day.

796
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 2: My kids were thrilled to see me, and we spent

797
00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: some time together. Kelly and I went up to our

798
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 2: room after that. I hadn't spoken to her properly since

799
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 2: we saw the results. I gave her time to talk.

800
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 2: Kelly told me it never occurred to her that the

801
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 2: kids might not be mine. She told me that we

802
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 2: got in a fight early in our marriage. She was

803
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: angry at me for leaving over a business dispute and

804
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: was waiting for me to return. She said she went

805
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: to a bar one day and got not be wasted.

806
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 2: She picked up some guy and didn't remember much of

807
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: what happened that night. The guy was gone before she

808
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: woke up the next day, and she felt extremely guilty.

809
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 2: She wanted to tell me, but was afraid that I

810
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 2: would leave her. To be fair, I was hot headed

811
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 2: and a stubborn guy back then, so I probably would

812
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 2: have filed for divorce without a second thought. To her,

813
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: it was a drunken mistake that would never come out,

814
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: so she didn't want to risk our marriage over it,

815
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: and I never would have found out about it if

816
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 2: she didn't get pregnant.

817
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: That night.

818
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: She broke down multiple times and apologized constantly through the conversation.

819
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: I believed her story.

820
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: Kelly has been my rock and partner throughout my life,

821
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: and I wouldn't be where I am today without her.

822
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 2: We've trusted each other absolutely or The deal has been

823
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 2: a massive dent in my belief in her as a wife,

824
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 2: but I still trust her as a partner. We had

825
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 2: long conversations about our future, and I told her I

826
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 2: was willing to give us a chance. I made it

827
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 2: clear that we might not succeed and I might leave,

828
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: but I was willing to try. I assured my children

829
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: that no matter what happened with our marriage, I will

830
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,399
Speaker 2: always love them and I will always be our father.

831
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 2: We decided to give marriage counseling a try. My wife

832
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 2: asked a therapist friend of hers, and she recommended a counselor.

833
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 2: We start appointments next week.

834
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: It does feel like like one mistake, you know, Yeah,

835
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: it feels like one one mistake, I especially with what

836
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 1: was going on. Yeah, Like it's not like he's like

837
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: totally not at fault. Yeah, but you know, you never

838
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: would have expected, you know, you know, you never expect

839
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: your wife to go get pregnant from another man's kid.

840
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: You don't, you don't, but yeah, this is I think,

841
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: like you said, this is the window where it could

842
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,760
Speaker 2: happen the best.

843
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah that's another guy. Yep, this window.

844
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 2: If you thought that was crazy, check out this one

845
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 2: where OPI forces his son to get a paternity test

846
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,800
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