WEBVTT - “I’M DRUNK AT A MIDDLE SCHOOL” 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.480 Hey, folks, it's Lyle here. I just wanted to thank 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:04.680 everybody real quick because I got a whole bunch of 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:09.200 messages last week from people sharing their Spotify rapped and 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:12.959 showing how much time they've spent listening to the podcast. 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:15.240 And you know that meant a lot to me because 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:17.880 I work really hard to put out this show. My 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:20.920 editor Brandon works really hard to put out this show, 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:24.160 and it was sick to see all these people who 0:00:24.160 --> 0:00:28.120 are actually listening and making this whole thing worthwhile. 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Where do you work? 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:14.399 Where are you are you going? 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:17.840 I work in in middle school. 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:31.000 Yeah, all right, you're at are you? It's like, well, 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:33.600 all right, I mean I'll say this. It's right now. 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:39.000 It's it's almost ten pm, so wherever you are in America, 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:45.039 it can't be any earlier than seven. All right, what 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:48.720 do you do? Go ahead? You talked? 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:49.840 No? 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.800 No, no, no, no, I don't know. Yeah, what do 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:53.520 you What do you say? 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:58.120 Okay, you're drunk at your job at a middle school. 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:03.280 Yeah, that doesn't sound good when you say it. 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:05.320 It doesn't. What do you do at the middle school? 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:12.640 I cleaned shitters and desks in vacuum. 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:16.160 Okay, you know what? Can I say something controversial? I 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:19.880 think obviously you know it's not good if you're a 0:02:19.880 --> 0:02:24.919 teacher or a principle or whatever, of course, but but 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:28.560 if you're a janitor, you should totally be able to 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:29.200 get plastered. 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.840 Why not that I'm saying, dude, That's what I'm saying. 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:35.280 Yeah, I mean, what do you really? What do you 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:41.160 really know? No one cares if you're No, there's not 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:42.600 even any kids there right now. 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:46.480 No, no, I was ten pm. They're all asleep or whatever. Okay, 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:48.560 play video games or play Fortnite? 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:51.360 What are you? What are you drinking? 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:57.720 I'm upset what I'm drinking. I picked up It's called Bahamamaala, 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.400 but it's made by Barsol. I don't really funck with 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:01.320 barstool like that. 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:02.560 Why'd you buy it that? 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:06.760 Because I go into the gas station and I find 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:11.720 the drink with the highest alcohol percentage and this was it. 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:13.239 It was it like ten percent or whatever. 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:15.880 Well, what's your name again? 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.320 I don't know what is my name? 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:22.079 Your name is Danny, Danny. This is the part of Danny. 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:24.359 This is the part of the call where I ask 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.680 you are you doing all right? 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.399 Am? I? I don't know, Bro. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:35.440 Well, you're drunk at ten pm cleaning shit on the 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:36.440 middle school floor. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:39.080 That doesn't sound so good, bro. 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:43.080 But that's okay, that's okay. I don't think there's I 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:44.360 don't think you should be ashamed. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.800 Maybe a little bit, maybe a little bit. 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:51.600 I mean, how are are you doing? For real? You 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:52.000 all right? 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:54.400 Hanging in there? 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:55.240 Okay? 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:59.800 How long have you been at this middle school for? 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:04.600 Not today, but you know, in general, I think since July. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:09.119 I think it started mid July. It's been a little 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:09.880 bit of ago. 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:16.240 What made you go into this this career? 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:18.919 Well, I mean. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:22.960 I was in college for like computer science and stuff, 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:31.600 but then COVID happened, and I developed problems with substances, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:35.279 and then I didn't really finish that. So I'm here 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:38.559 getting drunk of middle at ten pm. 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:41.120 Are you a bit and now are you a big? 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:42.880 Are Do you get drunk every day? 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:44.520 No? 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:45.800 No, no, no way, no way. 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:49.520 Okay, all right, So it sounds like you have yourself 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:51.400 some hard and fast rules. By the way you answer 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:58.400 that question, we'll say Ben those times, I think, okay, 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:02.719 all right, happens. Yeah. Are you still dealing with substance 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:04.839 abuse issues? No? 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.120 I think I think I got them in check. I 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:12.279 had a good nine month ramos. Nothing going on with 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:13.280 any of that ship. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:19.040 Okay, pretty cool? Yeah, all right, Well let's go back 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:22.560 to the question of if you're doing okay and uh 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:28.120 sure on paper, drunk. 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.240 On paper, out of middle. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:37.200 School, cleaning up ship traditionally you know whatever. But that's 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:38.680 I don't care. I don't really care about that. I mean, 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:42.680 how do you feel? How do you feel? This is 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.080 all all of this is subjective. 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.560 How do I I don't know how I feel, That's 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:48.880 the thing. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:49.479 I don't know. 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.680 Okay, are you how drunk are you right now? 0:05:56.680 --> 0:05:56.760 Like? 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:58.479 Give me one to ten? 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:02.200 Oh, it's like a five. Not too bad. 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:06.080 That's not too bad. That's you really are kind of 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:07.640 drunk out of middle school right now. 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:10.919 Yep, that's exactly That's exactly how it is. 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:15.360 Yeah, doesn't that does that like, uh impede your ability 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.599 to like do you have a quota of like like 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:21.760 stuff you got before you get out of there? 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:22.839 Yeah? 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.560 So it's there's two floors. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:29.720 In a basement, but uh, the other cleaner called off today, 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:31.520 so I got overtime. So I'm here till like two 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:32.080 in the morning. 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:35.240 It's just you fuck it. 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:38.200 It's me and one other guy who's in the basement 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.479 right now, and I'm up on the third floor, the 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:41.960 second floor. However, you look at it. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:45.360 Does he know that? Does he know that you are 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:46.920 drunk talking to a gecko? 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:49.920 I don't know, but I think if he did, that 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:50.800 be kind of funny. 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:56.440 You know, I'm not going to agree with that. 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:00.040 He's like fifty five years old. He goes to the 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:04.479 bar every Thursdays. He might be drunk too, I don't know. 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:15.720 Well, Danny, uh, I don't like that name. I I well, 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:18.600 I gave you the opportunity. I gave you the opportunity 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:19.840 to give me a name. 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:21.840 Yeah, but I don't want to do that. 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:24.360 Well, then you'll get the name that I give. 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.000 To you, and I accept that. 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:26.520 I take that. 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:34.320 I'm Danny. Let me think here, all right, we'll ask you. 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:39.840 I mean, i'll ask you this. At least you texted me. 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:42.960 I do this thing where people text me and I 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:48.160 call them back to you know, was there anything in 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:50.440 particular that you wanted to talk about? 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:55.640 Not really, No, I honestly didn't really think you told 0:07:55.680 --> 0:08:00.320 me so. I think I texted you like all week. 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:01.880 You're so good. I said, you have a picture of 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:03.960 a cat or something. I think I didn't really think 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:04.560 you'd call me. 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:05.560 Mm hmm. 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:12.000 What are you gonna do when you get off work? 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:16.160 What am I gonna do when I get off work? 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:19.800 I might, uh. 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:21.360 Probably smoke a little lead and put some counter strike. 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:24.520 I think that sounds nice. 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:28.600 You know, you know, Danny, you're not doing too bad. 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:31.160 You know you're not doing too bad. 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:35.480 Yeah, I guess so you're. 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:37.000 All right, you got you're you're all right. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:38.720 I'm hanging in there. 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:39.960 I mean, don't overdo it. 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:43.559 Of course, No, no way, no way, I've already overdone it. 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:44.440 I'm done with that. 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:48.520 What's on the horizon for you, Danny. 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:53.199 Well, what is on the horizon for me? 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:53.800 I don't know. 0:08:54.960 --> 0:09:01.720 I guess we'll see. I'm not sure. 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:06.640 Is did you go to this middle school when you 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:07.200 were a kid? 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:12.720 I there was one. There's one closer to where I lived, 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:14.760 and I went to that one instead of this one. 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:17.120 So there's two of them when they merged into like 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:17.839 a junior high. 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:23.360 Mm hmm, yeah, I didn't. You know what I'll do, Danny, 0:09:23.360 --> 0:09:25.960 I'll take I'll take a couple of questions from the 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:29.920 chat if the chat has anything questions, if they were 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:33.880 going to ask you, what is it you're drinking again? 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:37.319 I don't even want to say it because I don't 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:41.000 want to give them, like any credit. 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:45.160 Someone asked, what's the craziest thing you found while cleaning up? 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:49.080 That's the thing is I used to work in an 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:52.800 amusement park and I'd find some crazy ship there. I'd 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:56.080 fucking peel raccoons off of the fucking roller coasters and ship. 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.320 But this, this is kind of tame compared to that. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:03.160 Anything cool, like fucking I think the coolest thing I 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.880 found was a gangar in a recycle tin. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.960 You found a gangar? Like it was a car. It 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:09.800 was a Pokemon car. 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:12.719 Pokemon. Yeah, that's probably the coolest thing I thought so far. 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:13.240 I think. 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:18.600 Multiple people are asking me if you ever flirt with 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:19.280 the teachers. 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:24.520 No, the teachers hate me. This is funny. They don't 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:28.520 like me at all. I go in their rooms and 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:30.640 I clean up after all their kids, and they leave 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:31.520 a fucking mass. 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:36.360 It's like, they leave, why do you Why do you 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:38.640 think they hate you? They don't. 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:39.520 I say high to that. 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:40.600 I'm like, have a good night. 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:45.640 They don't say anything. They just walked by. And I'm 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.400 not even drunk when I say that to them. I'll 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.720 just say, hey, have a good night, but just leave. 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.760 Is there any school drama that we should know about. 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:03.320 Uh No. There's one kid that draws really cool shit 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:05.000 on their desk, though, and it makes me sad when 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:06.760 I have to lop it off. So they draw like 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:09.440 cool like eyeballs and like Spike reps and shiit on 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.760 like the corners of the best. That makes me sad. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:14.920 Oh, well, let him know. He should just carve it in, 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:16.559 because then you can't do anything about it. 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.600 I honestly, I thought about like leaving them a note 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.120 and they're desk and be like Hey, dude, put this 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:25.240 on paper. Bro, you're talented, you got like you're good 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:28.000 at this. Don't don't make me wipe this off every night. 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:30.920 That's that'd be cool. That's like a cool that's what 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:35.440 you'd be, like a fun drunk mentor guy. 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:39.520 I don't think I'm a very good mentor. 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:46.000 Well, Danny again, I know you don't have an answer 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:47.680 to this question, but I hope you're doing all right. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:49.560 I hope you are too. 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:54.000 Gech yeah, man, well this was fun. Is there anything 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:55.320 else you want to say to the people of the 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:56.400 computer before we go? 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:02.920 Uh? Yeah, don't try public restrooms? Like, what the fuck 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:06.520 is your problem? Why do people do that? It's a 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:09.400 fucking bathroom while you're throwing shit her out. 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:12.320 I get the feeling. I get the feeling that when 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:14.480 you're done with your shift, you're about to go trash 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:16.160 the fuck out of a Taco Bell bathroom. 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:18.960 No, I'm actually allergic to Taco Bell. 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:19.560 I can't eat that. 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:25.199 Have a good night, Danny, you too, get go. 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:26.719 This is nice. Thank you? 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:36.520 Hello, Hi, Hi, what's your name? 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:38.640 My name is Vanessa? 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:40.760 Vanessa? What's going on? How's life? 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:42.920 I'm gonna say right now, it's pretty good. 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:47.360 You might can you turn that off? I don't know 0:12:47.400 --> 0:12:49.200 what you're what you got going on back there? 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:52.600 But yeah, let me go find a private area. That 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.240 way I can speak freely and I'll have people I 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:55.880 bother me. 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:03.559 Yes, we must have this conversation in front of thousands 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:06.960 of people privately, as long as. 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:09.040 I don't know any of buddy, So I'm alright with that. 0:13:09.400 --> 0:13:12.880 But here, I don't want people to know understandable I'm 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.480 another plays music too, because I'm at the store right 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:15.960 now too. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:20.280 You're at the store, Yeah, what's store? 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:28.520 I'm at home depot? Okay, we like they're blasting everything. 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:30.760 Okay, why are you going? Where? 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:31.199 Where? 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:33.439 Where are we going to have this private conversation at 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:34.559 home depot? 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:36.440 Oh, I'm going to go to the garden area. They 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:38.400 don't have the music as well from what I can, 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:43.520 Okay sense right now, but yeah, let's talk. 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:46.000 At the garden era of home era area of home depot. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:49.679 I don't know why that. I struggled so hard to say, Aria, just. 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:53.160 Now, yeah, where do you? 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:53.600 Where do I? 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:53.840 Where? 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:58.240 Where should I start? So I would say, about like 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:03.319 three years ago, my husband and I separated kind of 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:07.439 I left them pretty much in another country, and then 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:11.200 I came back by myself. I took everything out of 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.240 the house that was just mine, but I didn't like 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:16.640 take anything of value. I just took my stuff. So 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.120 for the longest time I had tried to work things out, 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:24.040 he wasn't wanting to work things out, and then we 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:26.280 were still kind of hooking up here and there, and 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:29.640 then I found out Christmas Day that he got back 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:33.080 with his first ex wife. That was like devastated. I 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.800 was crying. My parents were like pissed and like, you're 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:37.480 a dummy. I don't know why you still wanted to 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.600 work things. That was his so he never really told me. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:44.600 I found out through his cousin's Instagram because I was 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:47.280 still following all his fun family, so I saw, like 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.920 I was like, what is she doing there? Like I 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.160 thought they hated each other. So I was super bitter 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:57.440 about that. So like fast forward to maybe a month ago, 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:00.360 I was like, I'm gonna test the waters because he 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:03.360 was hitting me up here like flirty text messages and 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:05.640 I knew that she even like moved into the house, 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:09.560 moved in her kids into the house, everything. So I 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:12.520 like sent a flirty text and he like replied right 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:15.720 away was super into it. So I was like I 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.600 pretty much said like, hey, do you want to hook up? 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:19.960 And at first he was like no, like I'm already 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:21.720 in a relationship and I don't want to hurt you, 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:25.280 you know, the basic things that they say. And then 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:30.560 pretty much I had sent him like a super like 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:33.320 dirty picture and he was like, yeah, I'm for it. 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:37.440 So we met up at a grocery store. We had 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:40.960 sex in the car, and then that was it. I 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.880 was like completely content because I was like, I knew 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:45.320 that I could still sleep with you, and you're with 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:49.480 your ex wife, supposedly living this happy life, but you're 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:51.640 still willing to sleep with me. I was like, I 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:53.680 think I made the right choice by leaving you. And 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:56.360 it was like kind of a wrenge to her to 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:59.040 be like, oh now we're even and I don't really 0:15:59.040 --> 0:15:59.680 care anymore. 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:03.120 Like this was like is that a bad thing that 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:03.600 I did? 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:06.680 Should I have not done it? Like so I just 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:08.560 moved on and forget about it. 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:15.960 Okay, So I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna recap this situation, 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:21.640 so make sure I understand it. So you were married 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:27.800 to this guy and then you you you divorced him. 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:28.440 He divorced you. 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:31.320 Yeah, it was neutral at the time. 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:36.040 Okay, you got a divorce. He got back together with 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:43.320 his uh first ex wife, yes, and then his ex 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:46.440 wife who was then what what did he did? He 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:48.960 remarry his first ex wife? 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:51.800 No, I think that's just dating or their like official, 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:53.440 I haven't really hooked around. 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:55.360 And then well, and then so he moves in with 0:16:55.400 --> 0:17:02.800 her and her kids. Yes, and then you find out 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.920 about this, so you send him a picture of your 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:11.880 boobs pretty much, and then he's like, I like your boobs. 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:16.800 And then you guys have sex in his car in 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:21.000 the parking lot of a grocery store. Yeah, And then 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:22.720 do you do you ever talk to him after that? 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:26.680 I did. I was like, hey, that was fun, hit 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:28.359 me up if you want it, like if she doesn't 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:33.760 meet your need, but obviously I was. I really didn't 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:35.639 act on it afterwards. I was like, oh, I already 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:39.680 had my fun, Like I'm fine. But then he had 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:43.160 text me like a day, a week, two weeks later saying, hey, 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:45.720 I got in trouble. She found out, and I was 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:48.840 like panicking. I was like, oh crap, Like I shouldn't 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:51.880 even care. But I guess later on. I talked to him. 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:54.080 I was like, well, what should find out? He's like, well, 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:56.240 she found out we were kind of talking here and there. 0:17:56.840 --> 0:18:00.280 She doesn't know we hooked up. But I have to 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:02.919 lay low but for the meantime. But I'm willing to 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:03.640 continue this. 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.679 And you're well, you said you're freaking out. What are 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:11.680 you afraid is going to happen? 0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:14.080 I think I was just like. 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:16.639 Oh, would she like come after me, try to fight me, 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:18.800 like kind of things like that. Not that I would 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:22.240 be afraid, but like, we do have a daughter in comment, 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:24.040 so I didn't want her to take it out on 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.200 my daughter, to be like, Oh, your mom's a whore. 0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:29.920 I'm gonna be super mean to you because you're because 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:30.920 of Wait, so you. 0:18:30.920 --> 0:18:33.159 Are right, so let me understand. So you oh so 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:37.199 you have a kid? You have a kid with this guy? Yeah, 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.800 and where's who's what's the deal with the kid? Who's 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:40.480 the kid with. 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:42.280 We? 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:45.600 Trim or we have her half and half. So half 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:47.400 of the week she's with me, half of the week 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:51.600 he's with her or with him. So we have fifty fifty. 0:18:51.680 --> 0:18:53.160 How old is this kid? 0:18:54.400 --> 0:18:55.480 She is five? 0:18:56.400 --> 0:19:02.120 Wow? Geez? And he had this and he has kids 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:03.840 also with the woman. 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:09.919 Yeah, another kid in common. He is, I believe like 0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:12.240 maybe twelve. 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:14.520 Wow. 0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:17.399 Yeah, kids are going. 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.679 These kids are going to have a whole podcast about 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:22.240 all the shit you guys are doing when they get. 0:19:22.119 --> 0:19:26.120 Older, right, Like hey, that kind of sounds like what's 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:29.760 your face's voice? 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:30.520 Man? 0:19:30.720 --> 0:19:31.040 All right? 0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:33.359 So uh and are you what about are you You 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:36.000 don't have a boyfriend or anything like that or or. 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:42.000 No, But I did recently talk to someone like and 0:19:42.040 --> 0:19:45.800 I'm kind of it's moving towards that. So eventually I 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:49.080 did text them like a couple like a week ago, 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:51.080 being like, hey, I don't want to continue this anymore. 0:19:51.160 --> 0:19:53.960 Not that it was, but I kind of just ended everything. 0:19:54.040 --> 0:19:56.639 And you can tell like his ego was a little 0:19:56.640 --> 0:19:59.840 bruised because he just replied, Okay, I think that's the best. 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:03.080 Whereas before he would like write paragraphs. We would be 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:05.919 texting back and forth. But after I told him I 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:09.680 didn't want to continue, and after that first time that, 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:11.439 you can tell his ego was bruised. 0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:15.160 Now. But this guy, this guy is like he's kind 0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:17.600 of in your life forever no matter what, because you 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:18.439 have a kid together. 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:21.480 Yeah, And that was my other thing. I'm like, do 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:23.439 I really want to do this to where I have to. 0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:27.840 I'm sure eventually I would have to meet her. Do 0:20:27.920 --> 0:20:30.119 I want to have that awkwardness all the time, or 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:30.800 do I want. 0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:31.800 To be cordial with it? 0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:35.959 Yeah? Yeah, Oh, I mean her finding out that you 0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:39.880 guys had sex is definitely going to make the pickups 0:20:39.880 --> 0:20:46.240 and draw off, the pickups and drop offs less enjoyable 0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:47.240 for everyone involved. 0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:52.720 Yeah, but that's the other thing, Like he hasn't picked 0:20:52.760 --> 0:20:55.520 up our daughter like for the last year. He'll he'll 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:59.240 send like his sister or somebody else. So I don't 0:20:59.280 --> 0:21:02.280