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Speaker 1: at Lyle forever and ever at gmail dot com. I

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Speaker 1: and read them all. So thank you again. And with

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Speaker 1: that said, let's get into the episode. Hello. Hello, who

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Speaker 1: is this? I don't know who is this? It's the

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Speaker 1: Gecko guy.

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Speaker 2: Hey, get go guy.

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Speaker 1: You texted me and you said I'm kind of drunk

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Speaker 1: at work.

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Speaker 3: A little bit.

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Speaker 1: That was it? That was it? Where do you work?

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Speaker 1: Where are you are you going?

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Speaker 3: I work in in middle school.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you're at are you? It's like, well,

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Speaker 1: all right, I mean I'll say this. It's right now.

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Speaker 1: It's it's almost ten pm, so wherever you are in America,

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Speaker 1: it can't be any earlier than seven. All right, what

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Speaker 1: do you do? Go ahead? You talked?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I don't know. Yeah, what do

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Speaker 3: you What do you say?

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're drunk at your job at a middle school.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that doesn't sound good when you say it.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't. What do you do at the middle school?

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Speaker 3: I cleaned shitters and desks in vacuum.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know what? Can I say something controversial? I

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Speaker 1: think obviously you know it's not good if you're a

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Speaker 3: Why not that I'm saying, dude, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, what do you really? What do you

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Speaker 1: really know? No one cares if you're No, there's not

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Speaker 3: No, no, I was ten pm. They're all asleep or whatever. Okay,

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Speaker 3: play video games or play Fortnite?

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Speaker 1: What are you? What are you drinking?

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Speaker 3: I'm upset what I'm drinking. I picked up It's called Bahamamaala,

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Speaker 3: but it's made by Barsol. I don't really funck with

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Speaker 1: Why'd you buy it that?

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Speaker 3: Because I go into the gas station and I find

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Speaker 3: It was it like ten percent or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Well, what's your name again?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what is my name?

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Speaker 1: Your name is Danny, Danny. This is the part of Danny.

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Speaker 1: This is the part of the call where I ask

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Speaker 1: you are you doing all right?

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Speaker 3: Am? I? I don't know, Bro.

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Speaker 1: Well, you're drunk at ten pm cleaning shit on the

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Speaker 3: That doesn't sound so good, bro.

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Speaker 1: But that's okay, that's okay. I don't think there's I

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Speaker 3: Maybe a little bit, maybe a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how are are you doing? For real? You

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Speaker 3: Hanging in there?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: How long have you been at this middle school for?

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Speaker 1: Not today, but you know, in general, I think since July.

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Speaker 3: I think it started mid July. It's been a little

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Speaker 1: What made you go into this this career?

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Speaker 3: I was in college for like computer science and stuff,

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Speaker 3: getting drunk of middle at ten pm.

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Speaker 1: Are you a bit and now are you a big?

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Speaker 1: Are Do you get drunk every day?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no way, no way.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So it sounds like you have yourself

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Speaker 3: I think I think I got them in check. I

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Speaker 3: had a good nine month ramos. Nothing going on with

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Speaker 1: Okay, pretty cool? Yeah, all right, Well let's go back

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Speaker 1: to the question of if you're doing okay and uh

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Speaker 1: sure on paper, drunk.

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Speaker 3: On paper, out of middle.

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Speaker 1: School, cleaning up ship traditionally you know whatever. But that's

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Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't really care about that. I mean,

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Speaker 3: How do I I don't know how I feel, That's

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you how drunk are you right now?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 1: Give me one to ten?

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's like a five. Not too bad.

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Speaker 1: That's not too bad. That's you really are kind of

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Speaker 1: drunk out of middle school right now.

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Speaker 3: Yep, that's exactly That's exactly how it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, doesn't that does that like, uh impede your ability

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Speaker 1: to like do you have a quota of like like

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So it's there's two floors.

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Speaker 3: In a basement, but uh, the other cleaner called off today,

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Speaker 3: so I got overtime. So I'm here till like two

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Speaker 8: It's just you fuck it.

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Speaker 3: It's me and one other guy who's in the basement

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Speaker 3: second floor. However, you look at it.

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Speaker 1: Does he know that? Does he know that you are

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I think if he did, that

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not going to agree with that.

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Speaker 3: He's like fifty five years old. He goes to the

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Speaker 1: Well, Danny, uh, I don't like that name. I I well,

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Speaker 1: I gave you the opportunity. I gave you the opportunity

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 1: Well, then you'll get the name that I give.

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Speaker 3: To you, and I accept that.

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Speaker 6: I take that.

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Speaker 1: I'm Danny. Let me think here, all right, we'll ask you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, i'll ask you this. At least you texted me.

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Speaker 1: I do this thing where people text me and I

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Speaker 1: call them back to you know, was there anything in

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Speaker 3: Not really, No, I honestly didn't really think you told

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Speaker 3: me so. I think I texted you like all week.

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Speaker 3: You're so good. I said, you have a picture of

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Speaker 3: a cat or something. I think I didn't really think

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Speaker 9: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do when you get off work?

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Speaker 3: What am I gonna do when I get off work?

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Speaker 2: I might, uh.

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Speaker 3: Probably smoke a little lead and put some counter strike.

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Speaker 3: I think that sounds nice.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, Danny, you're not doing too bad.

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Speaker 1: You know you're not doing too bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess so you're.

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Speaker 1: All right, you got you're you're all right.

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Speaker 3: I'm hanging in there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, don't overdo it.

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Speaker 3: Of course, No, no way, no way, I've already overdone it.

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Speaker 8: I'm done with that.

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Speaker 1: What's on the horizon for you, Danny.

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Speaker 2: Well, what is on the horizon for me?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I guess we'll see. I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: Is did you go to this middle school when you

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Speaker 3: I there was one. There's one closer to where I lived,

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Speaker 3: So there's two of them when they merged into like

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, I didn't. You know what I'll do, Danny,

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Speaker 1: I'll take I'll take a couple of questions from the

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Speaker 1: chat if the chat has anything questions, if they were

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Speaker 1: going to ask you, what is it you're drinking again?

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Speaker 3: I don't even want to say it because I don't

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Speaker 1: Someone asked, what's the craziest thing you found while cleaning up?

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Speaker 3: That's the thing is I used to work in an

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Speaker 3: But this, this is kind of tame compared to that.

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Speaker 3: Anything cool, like fucking I think the coolest thing I

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Speaker 3: found was a gangar in a recycle tin.

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Speaker 1: You found a gangar? Like it was a car. It

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Speaker 3: Pokemon. Yeah, that's probably the coolest thing I thought so far.

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Speaker 1: Multiple people are asking me if you ever flirt with

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Speaker 1: the teachers.

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Speaker 3: No, the teachers hate me. This is funny. They don't

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Speaker 3: I clean up after all their kids, and they leave

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Speaker 3: a fucking mass.

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Speaker 1: It's like, they leave, why do you Why do you

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Speaker 1: think they hate you? They don't.

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Speaker 3: I say high to that.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, have a good night.

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Speaker 3: They don't say anything. They just walked by. And I'm

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Speaker 3: not even drunk when I say that to them. I'll

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Speaker 3: just say, hey, have a good night, but just leave.

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Speaker 1: Is there any school drama that we should know about.

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Speaker 3: Uh No. There's one kid that draws really cool shit

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Speaker 3: on their desk, though, and it makes me sad when

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Speaker 3: I have to lop it off. So they draw like

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Speaker 3: cool like eyeballs and like Spike reps and shiit on

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Speaker 3: like the corners of the best. That makes me sad.

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, let him know. He should just carve it in,

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Speaker 1: because then you can't do anything about it.

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Speaker 3: I honestly, I thought about like leaving them a note

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Speaker 3: and they're desk and be like Hey, dude, put this

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Speaker 3: on paper. Bro, you're talented, you got like you're good

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Speaker 3: at this. Don't don't make me wipe this off every night.

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Speaker 1: That's that'd be cool. That's like a cool that's what

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Speaker 1: you'd be, like a fun drunk mentor guy.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm a very good mentor.

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Speaker 1: Well, Danny again, I know you don't have an answer

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Speaker 1: to this question, but I hope you're doing all right.

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Speaker 2: I hope you are too.

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Speaker 1: Gech yeah, man, well this was fun. Is there anything

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Speaker 1: computer before we go?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Yeah, don't try public restrooms? Like, what the fuck

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Speaker 6: My name is Vanessa?

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Speaker 1: Vanessa? What's going on? How's life?

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna say right now, it's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: You might can you turn that off? I don't know

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Speaker 1: Yes, we must have this conversation in front of thousands

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Speaker 6: I don't know any of buddy, So I'm alright with that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was neutral at the time.

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Speaker 6: No, I think that's just dating or their like official,

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Speaker 1: And then you guys have sex in his car in

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Speaker 1: do you do you ever talk to him after that?

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Speaker 1: And you're well, you said you're freaking out. What are

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Speaker 8: I think I was just like.

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Speaker 6: Oh, would she like come after me, try to fight me,

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Speaker 6: be afraid, but like, we do have a daughter in comment,

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Speaker 1: Are right, so let me understand. So you oh so

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Speaker 1: you have a kid? You have a kid with this guy? Yeah,

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Speaker 8: We?

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Speaker 6: Trim or we have her half and half. So half

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Speaker 1: How old is this kid?

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Speaker 8: She is five?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Geez? And he had this and he has kids

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Speaker 6: Yeah, another kid in common. He is, I believe like

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, kids are going.

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Speaker 1: These kids are going to have a whole podcast about

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 6: No, But I did recently talk to someone like and

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Speaker 1: Now. But this guy, this guy is like he's kind

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And that was my other thing. I'm like, do

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Speaker 8: To be cordial with it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Oh, I mean her finding out that you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's the other thing, Like he hasn't picked

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Speaker 6: This far, he's respected it to a point. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Like I'm like, you're a kind of shitty guy. I

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Speaker 8: Love with you.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, fun, what is this? So you're asking,

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Speaker 1: like I'm not I don't like I don't do uh,

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Speaker 1: I don't do? Am I the asshole? I mean I

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Speaker 1: guess what sometimes I do? But are you saying, like

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Speaker 6: She was disappointed in me because she was like, you

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Speaker 6: hard to just cut and dry, but you should have

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Speaker 6: and you know, she kind of came in between you guys.

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Speaker 6: But she's like, you're you. You should know better and

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So she's like, are you going to continue it?

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Speaker 6: I was like, no, I think I've had my one

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Speaker 6: or like send her textool, Well.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, why do you secretly why do you secretly

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Speaker 6: Right when we divorced, like she right away like was

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Speaker 8: So I was like, like, what's so I.

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Speaker 1: Gotta, I gotta what's so cool about this guy that

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I mean, obviously say this it was good,

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00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 6: but I don't think it at this point. I don't

447
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 6: think it's worth my mental health because then afterwards I'd

448
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 6: be crying. I'm like, I don't know why I like

449
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 6: this douche guy so much. But it was always he's

450
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 6: he was an apple at the end, Like now I

451
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 6: realize that, but he he was pretty successful, and I

452
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,360
Speaker 6: think that's what she liked in him, because he had

453
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,199
Speaker 6: like his own car or like multiple cars, had a

454
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 6: big nice house, like we had a nice house together,

455
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 6: and she was living in like an apartment with three

456
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 6: other people and four kids and a grown dog. So yeah,

457
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 6: I think she saw the spot.

458
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 1: All right, you talk to your therapist, your girlfriends with

459
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: your girlfriends, say.

460
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 6: She was super mad. She's like, are you serious. You're

461
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 6: such a dumb bitch. I don't know why you did that.

462
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 6: So she wasn't happy that I did it, but she's

463
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,919
Speaker 6: like that I get it, but don't you're giving him

464
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 6: a bigger head, Like you're giving him a bigger ego

465
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 6: to know that he still has you wrapped around his finger.

466
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,880
Speaker 1: How many kids are involved in this?

467
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,479
Speaker 6: So between him and I, we have one daughter. Between

468
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 6: him and the ex wife there is one in common.

469
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 6: And then she remarried and had four other kids with

470
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 6: the other ex husband, So there's a total of like

471
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 6: six kids living under his roof.

472
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 1: Now that's a fucking whole mess, dude. Geez.

473
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 8: Yeah.

474
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 6: So I'm like, is this like a silver like clinging

475
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 6: where I'm like, ah, I think I left during a

476
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 6: good time. I'm not too old to find someone better

477
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 6: for good, you know. But I was like, I don't know,

478
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 6: I feel like maybe I shouldn't have done that because

479
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 6: Karma's gonna buy me back in.

480
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: The ass.

481
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: And this other will like who's and the kid there

482
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: are these are like kind of these are young like

483
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:14,360
Speaker 1: little kids?

484
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, oh yeah, they're under like fifteen.

485
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 1: Well, I mean I wouldn't do it again. I don't think.

486
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 5: Yeah.

487
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 6: I hope that I can fight the urge to want

488
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 6: to do it again, But so far I've been good.

489
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 6: I think the other guy is kind of keeping me

490
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 6: busy and wanting to stay away from that guy.

491
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you what's your name, Vanessa? What

492
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 1: do you want? What do you? What do you want Vanessa?

493
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 6: I think I would be they're all right, just to

494
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 6: kind of put all this behind me and be like, yeah,

495
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 6: I did that once I was stupid. I kind of

496
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 6: blew his head up to where I was kind of

497
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 6: teasing him and he knew that he still had me.

498
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 6: But I mean, eventually I would like to be like,

499
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 6: I don't know what I saw him, but be friendly,

500
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 6: like a good cope partnership, rather than like I still

501
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 6: hate his guts and the other girl, Like I want

502
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 6: to be over the betrayal I felt when he got

503
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 6: back with her.

504
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 4: M H.

505
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 1: I mean, I think if that's the goal, then yeah,

506
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: If if that's the goal, I would I would stay

507
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: away from the grocery store, parking lot.

508
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 6: And pet marks too.

509
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 1: Are you I don't know if we cut this part

510
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 1: out of the call or not, but are you still

511
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: at home depot.

512
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm just in the parking lot now, So

513
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 6: I have like people walking by and they're like kind

514
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 6: of staring, And then I'm watching people cut trees because

515
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 6: they have the tree lot right now, what's the tree law?

516
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 6: So here where i'm they don't have like we're like

517
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 6: Oregon or like Washington where you can go out and

518
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 6: cut your own tree, So they're already like pre cut

519
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 6: to a point. We just trim They trim it down

520
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,719
Speaker 6: for you guys or like whoever buys them to make

521
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 6: sure that it fits in your car and everything. So

522
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 6: I'm just watching mad action.

523
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: Well I'm glad that we could end this very spicy

524
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: story with the most boring thing ever.

525
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 8: Right Yeah.

526
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 6: I kind of thought that was like, uh, is this

527
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 6: really just really happening? Like I'm freaking that right now.

528
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: Well, Vanessa, is there anything else that you want to

529
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: say to the people of look or just about any

530
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: of this stuff at all? Well, let's do this. Let

531
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: me uh, let me see if the chat has any

532
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: questions before we get out of here. Chat, any questions

533
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: from the chat about uh, the ongoing affair or Oregon

534
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: tree laws. We'll take questions about either one. Let's see here,

535
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: how old is this person? They wanted how old you are, Vanessa?

536
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 6: I am thirty one, so I'm a little old to

537
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 6: be doing this.

538
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: Someone wants to know how was Vanessa's relationship with her father.

539
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 6: I think, if anything, I've I think I have more

540
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,239
Speaker 6: mommy issues because I still actively wanted, like apparently I

541
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,679
Speaker 6: have like this codependency where I want to fix everything.

542
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 6: But my dad was always around, like he's not a

543
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 6: bad guy. Like so I don't know where, but it's

544
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 6: like in the Hispanic culture, you have like that machismo

545
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 6: and the like oh I'm bigger, better, So I think

546
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 6: that's kind of where they're similar. But I have a

547
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 6: good relationship with my dad.

548
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: Someone said, was the car sex even good?

549
00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 6: Oh?

550
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 8: Yeah it was.

551
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 6: It was. We even had some guy that was cleaning there,

552
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 6: like the parking lot, but he was trying to like

553
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 6: he saw obviously like the car moving, so we kind

554
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 6: of try to look and then I remember he's like

555
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 6: I can't, and I'm like why. He's like, there's a

556
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 6: guy looking into the car right now.

557
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 8: So I like peeked and I.

558
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 6: Was like, it's fine. You have blackout windows, like nobody's gonna.

559
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: Look like keep going, and then we have someone someone said,

560
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: uh as an oregon asn't as an oregony in an

561
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: oregony in. I love being able to cut my own

562
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: Christmas trees.

563
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 6: I think that this whole tree lot defeats the whole purpose,

564
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 6: like it robs you of that experience.

565
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

566
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go, Vanessa?

567
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 6: Uh? No, I just I appreciate you giving me the

568
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 6: time to vent about everything and not making me feel

569
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 6: such a shitty person. And everyone in the chat, I

570
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 6: hope everyone kind of doesn't do what I do and

571
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 6: keep moving forward instead of looking bad or back or

572
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 6: trying to get revenge on something that really isn't worth it.

573
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 6: I see.

574
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: Now, Well, go ahead and get yourself out of out

575
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: of the you've spent You've spent far too much time

576
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: in parking lots. Vanessa. You should go home.

577
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, go home right now?

578
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: All right, take care of Vanessa, you buys. I wonder

579
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: if the X shops at Low's.

580
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: Lyle.

581
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 9: Hello, is this really happening?

582
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 7: Thank you for calling me back?

583
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? What's your what's your name?

584
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 8: Melissa?

585
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,959
Speaker 1: What does z Melissa? Do you do? You is it

586
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: with a Z. Is that do you pronounce the z?

587
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 4: Do you go?

588
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: Melissa?

589
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 8: So, I'm Mexican. And when you say with the accent,

590
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 8: does the sounds you can hear the.

591
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: Am I allowed to do that? Or will the people

592
00:30:58,840 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: get mad at me?

593
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 8: It's cultural appropriation if you do it.

594
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: No, of course, Malise, that was Italian.

595
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's more Italian.

596
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: Mali is h bell la malis belle la mals cat

597
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: got so malis ay ay aye? Melissa? What's up?

598
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 8: That's Italian? All right, I'm gonna stop you there.

599
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: That's going on?

600
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 9: All right?

601
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 8: Not much. I didn't think you're gonna call me back.

602
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 8: Oh my god, I'm.

603
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: Shaking, Melissa, what's what's up? What do you want to

604
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: talk about today?

605
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 8: Well, you know, I sent you a couple of text messages,

606
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 8: so I don't know which one made you want to

607
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 8: call me and you want to talk about our day?

608
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 8: We can?

609
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 9: Oh?

610
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: You said, yeah, you sent me a text and you

611
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: said I want to talk about your laugh?

612
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 8: Yes, Oh my god, wow, you have the cutest freaking

613
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 8: laugh ever. I don't know if it's a giggle. I

614
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 8: don't know if it's a legit laugh. I don't know

615
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 8: if you're just it's a nervous little it's the best.

616
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 8: So I think I got to figure out how to

617
00:31:58,400 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 8: make you laugh.

618
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: Thanks. Well, that's cooet. I thought you thought this was

619
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: that's very sweet. I thought it was going to be

620
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: a bad thing. I thought you were going to say

621
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: that it sounded bad.

622
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 8: I'll be I'll be anyone up who talks crap about

623
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 8: the GEK.

624
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: You don't have to do that.

625
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 8: I take my cat on them.

626
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: Let's see. You also said, uh, I want to talk

627
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: about my age gap relationship.

628
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 8: Oh, oh my god, my boyfriend's here too. He just

629
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 8: made a bar face. Okay, everyone in the town.

630
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 1: Now hold on, now, hold on, now, hold on, hold on,

631
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: hold on, Melissa. I'm very curious about this because it

632
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: says here that you are twenty seven years old. Yeah,

633
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: so I'm very curious. You're either dating an eighteen year

634
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: old or a fifty three year old.

635
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 8: Oh that's that's close. Okay, those are your guesses. He

636
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 8: is sixty four, a thirty seven year age gap.

637
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: End before.

638
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 8: Yes, I'm going to say this. Also, it's not a

639
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 8: sugar baby relationship. That's what people always assume right away.

640
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 8: But we've been together for four and a half years.

641
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 8: I just I did the math the other day. Four

642
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 8: and a half years together. We live together, we vacation together.

643
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 8: He's met my family. I've met some of his family. Yeah,

644
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 8: most of your family. Some baby say, Blake, Hey, what's

645
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 8: that man?

646
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: We're just showing that's cool. I mean, how's it. How's

647
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: it going? It sounds like it's going.

648
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 2: All right, amazing?

649
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 10: Actually, you know, we're both really lucky and blessed.

650
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, and like some people look at us and me,

651
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 8: like I've had people tell they'll say, like, oh, is

652
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 8: that your dad or cool you're hanging out with your dad.

653
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 8: It's always dad, And it's always awkward because it's like, no,

654
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 8: what we do is not no, that's not no, it's

655
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,439
Speaker 8: but that's normally what people think. And I think one

656
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 8: time he came to a sports practice of mine just

657
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 8: to cheer me on, and nobody knew about him, and

658
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 8: we kissed, and my coworker at first thought he was

659
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 8: my dad. And she saw us kiss and she said,

660
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 8: holy crap, yeah, that's not her dad. And she thought

661
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 8: it was cute that my dad came, but it's my boyfriend.

662
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 8: And that was funny when she told.

663
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: Me about that what's sports practice or you know, I

664
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 1: will I will say this. It's it doesn't sound good

665
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: on paper when you say my sixty four year old

666
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend came to my sports practice.

667
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 8: Yeah agreed. Yeah, okay. So it's like at my job,

668
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 8: we have uh they do these like outside of work

669
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 8: things to get people to become friends. And one of

670
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,240
Speaker 8: the sports that they, I guess sponsor, yeah, team building.

671
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 8: One of the team building sports a sponsor is called

672
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 8: dragon boat. So it's like this big long boat with

673
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 8: dragon a dragon head at the front and a dragontail

674
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,919
Speaker 8: at the end, and there's like twelve or ten people

675
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 8: on the boat and you row in synchrony and you race.

676
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 8: And I joined the team. And that's how I'm at

677
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 8: my coworker because I was in a different department before.

678
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 8: But there's that, And then we also do whitewater. There's

679
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 8: a whitewater team that's really fun. There's rowing. I think

680
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 8: that's I think those are the only three sports that

681
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 8: we do. But dragon boat's really boring. So I moved

682
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 8: over to whitewater, and whitewater is like really fun, so

683
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 8: much adrenaline, and every time I get on there, I'm

684
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 8: like okay, okay, I might die, but it's in a

685
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 8: contained environment, so I will likely survive, so it's fine.

686
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: Let's see if the chat has any questions for you.

687
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: Sticky Greg wants to know what do you like about him.

688
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 8: His music taste immediately because I listened to like eighties music,

689
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,760
Speaker 8: old music, specifically eighties music, but all of his music

690
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 8: tastes is my favorite music taste. I don't know. I

691
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 8: wouldn't say all of it because you like jazz and

692
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 8: I hate jazz. That's a controversial take because or a

693
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 8: hot take because because of the jazz.

694
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: Rotten Rosen wants to know how is the sex?

695
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:38,439
Speaker 8: Oh, Greg, I was hoping you would call me back

696
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 8: before we started doing it because I was planning on it.

697
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,919
Speaker 8: I was like, if he calls me back and we're

698
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 8: doing it, I don't know. I mean, it could be worse.

699
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 8: It could be like that person who came when their

700
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 8: grandpa died.

701
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'd be like. I'd be like, like

702
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: like the pet gecko in the room while you guys

703
00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: are doing it. You know what I mean?

704
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 8: Our cat likes to be in the room. Sometimes she

705
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:06,919
Speaker 8: jumps Ben and we have to kick her out.

706
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: A cruel world wants to know. How did you guys meet.

707
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 8: Oh that's actually a really cool story. I love telling

708
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 8: the story, but I'll tell just the short version. I

709
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,320
Speaker 8: used to wear at the bank. He is a bank teller,

710
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 8: and he would come in as one of the regular

711
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 8: clients that came in like twice a week. That's why

712
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 8: I met him. But we started talking because he was

713
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 8: wearing an Iggy Pop shirt and I said, what do

714
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 8: you know about Iggy Pop? You know, like one of

715
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,879
Speaker 8: those like metal alitis who says name three songs and

716
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 8: Iggy Pop is his favorite artist.

717
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: Isn't that? Isn't that crazy? I don't know if he's here,

718
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: but isn't isn't that crazy? That? Like your life is

719
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: different because you wore a certain shirt one day. I

720
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: really don't really think about that kind I mean that

721
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: kind of shit's crazy, like people who you know meet

722
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: because of things like that, or like I I've talked

723
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: to I said this on the podcast before, but there's

724
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: a h I knew a couple once who met on

725
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 1: the fucking the train. You know, It's like you just

726
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 1: made a split second decision to throw on that shirt

727
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: or or or be at that train at that specific time,

728
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: and you stop to tie your shoes. So you get

729
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,760
Speaker 1: on one car and steady the other car and changes

730
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: the you know, entire course of your life. It's really

731
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 1: crazy to think about, but it's.

732
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 8: Kind of like sometimes some things are meant to be.

733
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 8: Is like I always think about it like this, Like

734
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 8: the people who were supposed to be in the Twin

735
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 8: Towers of nine to eleven happened, but their alarm didn't

736
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 8: go off or they missed the bus, And it's like,

737
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 8: you know, I think when things go wrong, sometimes they

738
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 8: go wrong for good reasons. Or do you want our

739
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 8: T shirt? That's like such a simple thing. And like

740
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 8: now here we are almost five years later, and I

741
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 8: could not imagine my life here five years ago.

742
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 1: Does he have any utters from any previous marriages or

743
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: relationships or anything like that.

744
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 8: Yeah, he has one, and she doesn't particularly like me.

745
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: How old is she?

746
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 8: How old is she? She's thirty two, so she's older

747
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 8: than I am. But she's never met me. He's offered

748
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 8: to have her meet me multiple times. She's just uncomfortable

749
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 8: with it. But like his other son, he has three kids,

750
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 8: So I think the son that I've met is a

751
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 8: middle child, right, Okay, he's a middle child, and he

752
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 8: lives here where we live, and he helps me out

753
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 8: a lot, like, or we talk a lot, like he

754
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 8: hooked me up with mushrooms.

755
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you so? You so he has he

756
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,959
Speaker 1: has three kids, yes, and two of them are cool

757
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: with you and the other one's not.

758
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 8: Well the okay, so the daughter doesn't like me. The

759
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 8: middle son, he's he likes me, yeah, and then the

760
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 8: older son doesn't live here and I've never met him,

761
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 8: but he knows of me. He's indifferent.

762
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: Okay what I mean? But so you have what the

763
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: one son likes you? What's your relationship like with him?

764
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 8: I mean, he gives me drugs, so we're pretty cool.

765
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 8: He's a car guy. He's like an anime weed, so

766
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 8: he's really cool. No, Like, it's just it's just mushrooms.

767
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 8: And you know, mushrooms aren't addictive, and they're just fun

768
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 8: to do and like the controlled environment. And I only

769
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 8: ever do them when I'm at home and my boyfriend

770
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 8: is here to watch me, so that I don't i

771
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 8: don't know, accidentally throw myself off the roof.

772
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: I asked this genuinely, Why why do you think that

773
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: your the daughter doesn't like you personally?

774
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 8: My boyfriend's shrugging his arms. Personally, I think it's because

775
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,840
Speaker 8: she probably thinks that I'm just after his money, which

776
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 8: is seeing that.

777
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: It was hold on. But I do, I do have

778
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: to ask. I do have to ask, And again there's

779
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: no judgment, but I am curious. Does he have a

780
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: lot of money.

781
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 8: I'm gonna let him answer that.

782
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 1: He said he's well off. Yes, well it is, it is, okay,

783
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: it is. It is kind of funny. And again there's

784
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: no judgment, but it is kind of funny that you

785
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: met at a bank.

786
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 9: Yeah, it is. I never thought that I would if

787
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 9: I worked at the bank for four years, and never

788
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 9: thought I would actually date an older guy or anyone

789
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 9: who was who made more money than me, at least

790
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 9: in that way, because I like, I can be honest,

791
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 9: I make like forty thousand a year, which is very comfortable.

792
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 9: That's a good amount to make. I think it's not

793
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 9: half a million, But.

794
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: No, you want to make a million of years?

795
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 3: Another kid?

796
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 8: Yeah?

797
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 10: What?

798
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 4: What?

799
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: Other?

800
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 4: What?

801
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:15,439
Speaker 1: Kid?

802
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 8: Oh?

803
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? What?

804
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 8: What?

805
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: Uh?

806
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 6: What is?

807
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: What do you? What does he do?

808
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:26,439
Speaker 8: He he's a glorified landlord. He owns warehouses and he

809
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 8: runs them out to companies. So he's not like a

810
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 8: slum lord. He takes care of his his tenants. Like

811
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 8: when COVID was happening, he was letting people just pay

812
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,240
Speaker 8: what they could, or he was letting them like skip

813
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 8: a month. You know, he was taking care of Does do.

814
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: You think he would let do you think he would

815
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: rent out his warehouses to do like cool raves?

816
00:42:54,760 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 7: No, I don't want the lot of ability. No liability,

817
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 7: he said, no for the liability otherwise, Yeah, I mean

818
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,359
Speaker 7: we've done punk rock shows before. Yeah, he said he's

819
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,240
Speaker 7: done punk rock shows at some of his warehouses before.

820
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 7: But I feel like that's worse than a race.

821
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 2: But I knew all those people.

822
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 8: Oh but he knew all those people, so it's more

823
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 8: like a personal party.

824
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: Someone in the chat. Someone in the chat wants to

825
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: know what does your family think about their relationship.

826
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 8: So I have a younger sister, she's nineteen. She loves Blake.

827
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 8: I'm sure she thinks it's weird at first. She thought

828
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 8: it was weird at first. I have an older brother

829
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 8: who he is not doing very well with his life.

830
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 8: He's done a lot of drugs, so he's not in

831
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 8: the right mindset. But like literally the other day he

832
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 8: said that we were rich, and I mean compared to him,

833
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 8: who was like basically living on the streets and going

834
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 8: couch surfing. Yeah, I guess so my mom she likes him. Yeah,

835
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 8: we have Thanksgiving and Christmas and birthday parties and you know,

836
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 8: they talk off. My mom only speaks she's so we're Mexican,

837
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 8: so she speaks Spanish and she only speaks a little English.

838
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 8: But they can get.

839
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: By, you know. Somebody, somebody in the chat said that

840
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: al Pacino is eighty three and his girlfriend is twenty nine.

841
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 8: That's a huge gap. Yeah, it is way more than us.

842
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 8: But you know, like if it makes them happy, you know,

843
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 8: and everybody is legal and consenting, nobody's getting hurt.

844
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: What does your dad think?

845
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 8: Oh, my dad is a piece of crap? Who is

846
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 8: he was? He's not in my life that he was

847
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 8: deported to Mexico, So he doesn't know as far as

848
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 8: I know, but I don't care.

849
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: Well, huh, Melissa, right, yes, Lyle correct, Melissa is there? Well,

850
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: you know, look here's I mean, you're you're twenty seven

851
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 1: years old, you're older than I am. You're you can

852
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 1: you can do whatever you want with your life.

853
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, as long as I'm happy and not hurting anybody

854
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 8: or murdering people specifically.

855
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: Do you think they would ever change that? Do you

856
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 1: think they would ever make murder legal? Uh?

857
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 8: If the Purge came to life, Yeah, for one day maybe,

858
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 8: But actually no, I don't think so. I mean, it

859
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 8: is kind of legal if you're a rich person with

860
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 8: the right contact.

861
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: I'm by the way, I'm you know, I'm I I

862
00:45:55,680 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: I do I think that people should. I think people

863
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: should do whatever they want to do with their lives,

864
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: as long as they're not hurting anyone, you know, as

865
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: long as they're not killing people. And I think that's

866
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: a that's a pretty low bar, right, I mean, all

867
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: you got to do is not kill anyone or steal stuff.

868
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 8: I think in this world the bar is pretty low.

869
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 5: It is, Yeah, especially for older guys.

870
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 8: That's what.

871
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: How you doing back? I don't even know, you know,

872
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: what's his name?

873
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 10: I'm Blake.

874
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: How you doing, Blake?

875
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 10: I'm good, I'm great.

876
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 1: You know.

877
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 10: We just had a nice dinner, grilled up some tuna

878
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 10: steaks and made some rice, and Melissa made a salad,

879
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 10: and then all of a sudden I heard her freaking

880
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 10: out in the other room because she missed her phone

881
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 10: call an hour ago whenever that was because she's been

882
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:07,240
Speaker 10: waiting for your phone call forever forever. But we're great.

883
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 2: We're good.

884
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 1: Do you know, are you I assume that she's the

885
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: one who's showed you this?

886
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, no, this is not in my wheelhouse. But

887
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 10: that's kind of the fun of our relationship. We share

888
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:29,479
Speaker 10: a lot of things that wouldn't necessarily cross over from

889
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 10: an age perspective, but uh, it works out really well,

890
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 10: and we're both really accepting of what goes on in

891
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 10: each other's lives as far as me being an older

892
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 10: person and her being a younger person. And we we like,

893
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 10: you know, like Melissa said, we share a lot in

894
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 10: common with music, and we travel. We've traveled all over

895
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 10: the world to follow follow bands and go to concerts,

896
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 10: and we we have a pretty good life.

897
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 7: We're very, very blushed.

898
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: What do you what's the last concert you guys traveled

899
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: around with to follow?

900
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 8: Can answer this? We went to see Iron Maiden in London.

901
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 2: Can tell.

902
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:17,720
Speaker 1: Very cool?

903
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, sixteen.

904
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 8: Yeah, we went to sixteen concerts this year. That was

905
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 8: the last big travel show and we actually just got

906
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 8: tickets to see them, to see Iron Maiden in New.

907
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Zealand in a year from now, oh ship.

908
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 8: Yeah, and we're from a little town, little state of Oklahoma.

909
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 8: You know, you know the biggest Republican state in America. Wait,

910
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 8: now that's Texas.

911
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: It sounds well, it sounds like you both are killing it.

912
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 8: Yeah, we are. And you know what, Jack, you are too, Dave.

913
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 8: I've seen people comment about you, know how you look

914
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 8: sad and sometimes.

915
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 1: Why does that? What do you hold on done? What

916
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: do you Who's common thing that I look sad?

917
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 8: The comments, the comment ters for comment ters, commenters.

918
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: Whatever, I'm not sad right now. I actually feel.

919
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,280
Speaker 8: I have noticed you see them a lot happier lately,

920
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 8: and I love that. I love to see you thriving.

921
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 8: I haven't see the part of.

922
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: The little I'm well, here's I'll tell you this. I'm

923
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: happy right now because I'm like live on my stream

924
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: and I'm I feel awake and alert and I'm talking

925
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: to people and stuff. But I'm gonnabout I'm gonna be

926
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: really sad in about two or three hours probably.

927
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 7: Well.

928
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 5: The good thing of okay, it's not good that you're sad,

929
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 5: but it's good that you feel emotions, because that means

930
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 5: you're human and emotions pass, so you will be happy again,

931
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 5: maybe tomorrow, but you'll be happy. And you just got

932
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 5: to remember. What is it that the Karl Seton geisas

933
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 5: we are all star stuff.

934
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 8: That's how amazing we are. We are all made out

935
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 8: of stars. I don't know how to prove that, but

936
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 8: the Carl Sagan guy says it, so it must be true.

937
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: Melisa, is there anything else you want to say to

938
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: the people of the computer before we go.

939
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 8: Yes, Melissa would like to say comparison is a thief

940
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 8: of joy. So just because your friends are making a

941
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 8: million dollars doesn't mean that you should feel bad that

942
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 8: you're not making a million dollars.

943
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: You got any bits like what isn't isn't that your

944
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend's name, Blake?

945
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 4: Blake?

946
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 10: Oh, be nice to people. It's not that hard.

947
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: Take care gang, Thank you, guys, to love you guys.

948
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: Have fun at the Iron, have fun at Iron Maiden.

949
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 8: Hell Yeah, good night, bye chat bye.

950
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: Is my laugh really cute? I think it's more hold on,

951
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: let me try to laugh hah ha ha ha. I

952
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: don't know if that's cute. I think it's it's normal.

953
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: I think it's a standard laugh. Hey, guys, it's Lyle here.

954
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,160
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956
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Speaker 1: All right, let's do some ads. Hello, Hey, what's up? Man? Hey?

966
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 2: What's up is this?

967
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: Caleb?

968
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 2: Yes, sir?

969
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: What's going on? Caleb?

970
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 2: Not much?

971
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 9: Man?

972
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 2: How you doing doing?

973
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 8: All right?

974
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: Dude? What is it you wanted to talk about today?

975
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,479
Speaker 2: Well? I wanted to tell you about the time that

976
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: me and my family took a bunch of acid and

977
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 2: all had kind of a weird experience.

978
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: Now, I think this is an interesting thing, doing psychedelic

979
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: drugs with your family, because it feels to me like,

980
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: I mean, look, a lot of people have all sorts

981
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:02,240
Speaker 1: of different dynamics with their family. But I think doing

982
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: acid with my mom or my dad, I actually think

983
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 1: could be a really interesting experience, but it would be

984
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 1: incredibly vulnerable. So I'm curious about how it went for you.

985
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 2: It was pretty vulnerable. The thing is like, like my

986
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 2: dad sounds like that's plenty when he was you know,

987
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 2: my age hadn't as much now that he's older. But

988
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 2: so I didn't really like, I didn't have any hesitation

989
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: at first, and me and myself, I'd done it plenty

990
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:50,959
Speaker 2: as well, So it didn't seem like something that would

991
00:53:51,000 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: be that big of a deal, the thing. And it

992
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 2: was on Christmas, so that just made it so much worse.

993
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 1: Whose idea was it to do this?

994
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 2: It was his idea. So this was his Christmas present?

995
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 2: A tap of acid, like an eighth the weed and

996
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: some mushrooms. M hmm to me, my two brothers, my stepmom, and.

997
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: Himself all that a tab of acid? Yes, And how

998
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:43,959
Speaker 1: was it? What did you guys do? Did you all

999
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: just sit around and stare at each other?

1000
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 2: No, I mean everyone kind of like did their own

1001
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 2: thing really.

1002
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,720
Speaker 1: Just around the house, just kind of hanging out around

1003
00:54:58,719 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 1: the house.

1004
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much like I was mainly chill with my

1005
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 2: brothers until like until everyone started peeking, and then shit

1006
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 2: just started going south?

1007
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: How so.

1008
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 2: It all it started with my dad, Like I could

1009
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 2: tell my dad was not handling himself very well, like

1010
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 2: he was. He was talking about like how he would

1011
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 2: had fucking died in a past life, and like he

1012
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 2: just started getting very agitated, and like I remember he

1013
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 2: was talking to my brother Tony and he was like

1014
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:52,280
Speaker 2: he was like amping my brother Tony up, talking about

1015
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 2: how he's like like I can't remember what he said exactly,

1016
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 2: but I remember and telling him he was like a

1017
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 2: like a cat list like a bomb.

1018
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: He was telling your brother Tony that he was a bomb.

1019
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 2: Yes, Like he was like hyping him up, like getting him.

1020
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: All rouled up in a good way or a bad.

1021
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: Way, Uh, not a good way at all.

1022
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: So, well, how did your brother react to that?

1023
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 2: At first? He was like pacing around the house like

1024
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 2: freaking out. I could tell I could see on his

1025
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 2: face that he was not doing that good. He was

1026
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:50,720
Speaker 2: not because once my dad started freaking him out, he couldn't.

1027
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 2: He wasn't handling his shit. And like acid is a

1028
00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 2: drug that you have to be like, you have to

1029
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:03,839
Speaker 2: set up good intention. You have to be in an

1030
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 2: an uplifting mood to have a good time. So if

1031
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 2: somebody's freaking out and like yelling at you, you're gonna

1032
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 2: have a bad time.

1033
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: Why do you think your dad was yelling at your brother?

1034
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. He was going through something he kept

1035
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 2: He was like talking to me and my brother about

1036
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 2: how he had died in a past life and like

1037
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 2: we were all like experiencing his life.

1038
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: Did he return to normal after the acid trip?

1039
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know what normal is for him,

1040
00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 2: but I would say, yes, who are.

1041
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: You laughing with.

1042
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:06,439
Speaker 2: My girls friend?

1043
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: Was she there?

1044
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 8: No?

1045
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: Okay? So once it was you said, it went south

1046
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 1: and your dad started yelling at your brother. I feel like,

1047
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: I'm HONESTID talking to you to be completely honest when

1048
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: when you know you don't have to apologize it wasn't

1049
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: It wasn't an insult. Maybe it came off that way.

1050
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm a dick and if I and in that case,

1051
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, But uh, why was your dad yelling at you? Like?

1052
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 1: What what happened after that was there was resolution to

1053
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: this conflict or the whole thing just stayed stiff and weird.

1054
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 2: I get it gets worse. So after my brother Tony

1055
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 2: gets all amped up, like he disappears for a second

1056
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 2: and he walks downstairs and apparently he like he had

1057
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 2: an altercation with my step mom and she gets punched

1058
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 2: in the face.

1059
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: Okay, your dad punched your step mom in the face

1060
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: while they were on acid together.

1061
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 2: It was my brother that punched my step mom.

1062
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: Why did your brother punch your step mom.

1063
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 2: The explanation that he gave was that like he was

1064
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 2: envisioning our stepmom as his actual mother and that he

1065
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 2: was like taking out his emotions on her.

1066
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: You know, I've I've only done mushrooms. I've never done

1067
00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: acid before. I actually I have plans to do acid

1068
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 1: and like a couple of weeks and I'll report back

1069
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 1: on that. But it does acid really Like I don't know,

1070
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 1: when I took mushrooms, it didn't make me think the

1071
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: way I thought mushrooms would make you feel, like it

1072
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: make you feel like everything's a carnival or something like that.

1073
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:18,440
Speaker 1: And you know, does acid really make you do this

1074
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: shit like envision people as goblins that you punch in

1075
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: the face, Like, is that really what happens?

1076
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 2: It's like it's a slippery slope. So you have to, like,

1077
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 2: like I said, you have to say good intentions. You

1078
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 2: have to really hope for good things to happen, put

1079
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 2: yourself in a good setting. Like that was all things

1080
01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 2: that didn't happen.

1081
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and there was This is like the

1082
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: full house acid trip. There's other people and this is

1083
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: a step family. How many other people are tripping at

1084
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: this point?

1085
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 2: So it's me, my two younger brothers, my dad, and

1086
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 2: my step mother.

1087
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 1: Okay, my brother Tony.

1088
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 2: Is an adopted brother. We adopted him, you know later

1089
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 2: when he was older.

1090
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 1: Did anyone else freak out? No?

1091
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 2: Me and my brother Javonne were kind of like the

1092
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 2: only people that could keep the situation level, Like I mean,

1093
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 2: as as much as we could.

1094
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 1: Did you guys get Christmas presents? You know?

1095
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 2: The day after I couldn't even look at my dad straight,

1096
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: like two days hm hm.

1097
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: Hm hmm. This is man. I gotta tell you some

1098
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 1: shit like this would never happen to Hanukah. Never. Hey,

1099
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 1: we would never ever ever do acid at Hanukkah, although

1100
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: it would be kind of nice to do it and

1101
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: look at the lights.

1102
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 2: That I thought, like we were looking at Christmas lights

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Speaker 2: in my room, like, yeah, it's really it's very nice

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Speaker 2: in theory.

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01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: It's nice in theory until your brother punches your step

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01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 1: mom in the face and then the you know, she

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01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: falls back and ruins the fruitcake.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. It's it's Christmas night, so we're all

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01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 2: fucking trying to have a good time. M like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, this is crazy. Uh I uh are you are? Howard?

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01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 8: Do you?

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01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: Honestly? You sound I don't know if it's because and

1113
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 1: I mean this so genuinely, I'm not like coming at you.

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01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:57,440
Speaker 1: You sound very spacey about this whole thing. Is it

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01:02:57,480 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: because it's your like nervous talking or is it because

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01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: you're like processing it all and trying to figure out

1117
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 1: what the hell happens, Like, what's what's going on with you?

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01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 2: Definitely more nervous talking.

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01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 1: Okay, all right. I didn't know if you were having

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01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 1: like really complex internal feelings about this acid trip you

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01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 1: did with your family on on Christmas.

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01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 2: No, it's been like three years. I've been able to process.

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01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: Okay. Oh so it's been three years. Do you still

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01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 1: talk to your dad?

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01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, yeah all the time.

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01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:35,200
Speaker 1: How's he doing.

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01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 2: He's good, he's he's dead. I mean, he's a dad

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Speaker 2: that does acid like he's never been quite a normal dad.

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01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 2: How about your mom, She's the exact opposite, pretty much.

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01:03:55,840 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 1: Really no acid on the mom, No, step my, she's

1132
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: more like that. Okay, what about you? What's your d

1133
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: are you? Are you still? Are you doing acid every day?

1134
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: Are you on acid right now?

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01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 2: No?

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01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 3: No?

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01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 2: No, okay, I haven't taken acid since then.

1138
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that seems like a good place to stop.

1139
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 2: Not saying that I wouldn't, but like, I know, I

1140
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 2: know my level like mcause, I I don't know. I've

1141
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 2: had my own crazy trips on acid before. Sure, the

1142
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 2: first time I've ever actually did it, I had a

1143
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 2: freaking terrible time. I took two tabs and freaked out myself.

1144
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 1: What is it that made you want to do it?

1145
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: If you had such a terrible time, what was it

1146
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: that made you want to do it again with your

1147
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 1: whole family on Christmas?

1148
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:51,959
Speaker 2: Love of the game.

1149
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 8: I don't.

1150
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 2: Like getting sucked up.

1151
01:04:56,440 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 1: I have a lot of respect for you, Caleb. No,

1152
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: I'm serious. I really do. I really do, I really do.

1153
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: I have a lot of respect for you. Man. You're

1154
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: keeping it. You're keeping it very cool today despite all

1155
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 1: just despite the weirdness of your life, you're keeping it

1156
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: real cool. I respect that about you. Well, what have

1157
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:25,919
Speaker 1: we learned from this conversation? O Caleb? What do you think?

1158
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,439
Speaker 1: What did? What do we all learn?

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01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 2: Probably don't do acid on Christmas with your family, and

1160
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 2: if you do, don't let your brother punch somebody.

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01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 1: That's all I needed to hear.

1162
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 2: If you're beyond that, is there.

1163
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 1: Anything else you want to say to the people of

1164
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: the computer before we go?

1165
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 2: Caleb, keep on doing your thing, my man?

1166
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: Hey, you too, man. Well, whatever your thing is right now,

1167
01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 1: your thing just seems to be being cool. So keep

1168
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: doing that.

1169
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 2: I appreciate it. Have a good night.

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01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: Take care Caleb. Now, actually, now that I'm thinking about it,

1171
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 1: acid honica sounds sick, Yo. You can eat these coins?

1172
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Hello, folks, it's Lyle here. That's the end

1173
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:21,160
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01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: to talk about today?

1184
01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 4: I uh just recently got out of jail.

1185
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 2: About it year ago, I beat a fifteen to twenty

1186
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 2: five year case.

1187
01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 3: The charges that I got were like really big, I was.

1188
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 1: On the news and everything you were on the news. Yeah, look,

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01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 1: you do not have to tell me this, and I

1190
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 1: will only ask you once and you don't have to

1191
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 1: answer if you don't want to. But what happens?

1192
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 4: So I tried to steal a fire truck and then

1193
01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 4: I ran across the street and I went into somebody's

1194
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:24,680
Speaker 4: hotel room.

1195
01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 2: And I like took their clothes, put their clothes on

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01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 2: and try to change and stuff.

1197
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 9: Then the cops came in and I.

1198
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 4: Chased after them, trying to get them to shoot me.

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01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 4: So I had aggravated burglary, aggravated arsons, depth of a

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01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 4: vehicle over two hundred and fifty thousand dollars and then

1201
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 4: regular Burglary.

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01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: Mike, you're like auditioning for Grand Theft Auto six. Yeah.

1203
01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 4: I know.

1204
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,720
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Speaker 1: I have nothing else to say.

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Speaker 4: The rep Can goes on the line taking your phone

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01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 4: calls every night.

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01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: The rep Can goes doing to night.

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Speaker 7: He's teaching you cloud in the middle of your life,

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01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 7: but he's not really an expert.