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Speaker 1: Yohola me piece, don't playing in this Tuesday. We got

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Speaker 1: our guest host back, Jason leave Jason live. Hell oh Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: man's kinda scratch some things out, crack some things. No,

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Speaker 1: before you get today started. What's happening? How y'all feeling?

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Speaker 1: It's good this Tuesday? It's Tuesday. See that's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: You see you wish she had that four day work week, now,

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Speaker 1: don't you. Yep? She was just getting here. Yep, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean speaking of four day work week.

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Speaker 1: That LARSA pippen Cliff went everywhere yesterday. Y'all actually did

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Speaker 1: the math thirty three thousand times. I didn't get the

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Speaker 1: But now I know she lying. There was so many

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Speaker 1: people comments, and especially women when women, women know their

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Speaker 1: like what about after pregnancies? You know, we know. It

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Speaker 1: was like, so you made every road trip. I guess impossible,

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Speaker 1: that this is impossible to have sex four times and

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Speaker 1: day every day. Did you see the clip we were

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Speaker 1: talking about, Jester? Shit, Yeah, you didn't hold me down.

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Speaker 1: I said, I can't protect your vagina. I don't know

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Speaker 1: nothing about that. She's still holding on to that. She

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Speaker 1: stayed holding it down. Stop lossing for four days, four

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Speaker 1: times a day, every day for twenty three years. She'd

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Speaker 1: be in the hospital right now, Come on, stop that

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Speaker 1: clip of us talking about it. Yes, shit made me

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Speaker 1: exhausted just watching it. People was like, so no sickness.

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Speaker 1: You didn't have the flu, you didn't have a cold,

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Speaker 1: like nothing. Come on, stop Jesus stop. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: how are you feeling, Jason Lee? You was out last day?

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Speaker 1: Or you chill? You know what? I left here yesterday

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Speaker 1: and went to some bar and fell asleep. Not at

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Speaker 1: the bar, Yeah, you fell asleep at the bar. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So that picture you posted on Instagram and you sleep

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Speaker 1: it was at a bar. Yeah, that's nice ball. I

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Speaker 1: thought it was a hoteltop situation. Okay, letsten like here

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Speaker 1: a good time. Well, Elliott Connie will be joining us

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Speaker 1: this morning. Elliott is one of the most culturally competent

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Speaker 1: therapist you're gonna ever meet in your life. And he

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Speaker 1: focuses on solution what is it called solution focused brief therapy. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: he's gonna break that down with all that means. That's

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Speaker 1: right this morning, all right. And then we got front

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Speaker 1: page news Tesla figure Out will be joining us. We

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Speaker 1: got a lot to talk about La. Seems like they're

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Speaker 1: And John Morant is he coming back? We'll tell you when,

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Speaker 1: so don't move get to it. Next is to Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, everybody is dj n V Charlemagne the guy.

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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host

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Speaker 1: Jason Lee hanging out with us, and let's get in

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Speaker 1: some front page news. We have Tesla figure O here out.

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Speaker 1: Now let's start off with John Morant. It looks like

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Speaker 1: John Morant is gonna return to the Grizzlies hopefully this Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: He was with the team last night as they played

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Speaker 1: But it looks like he will be back tomorrow. Now,

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Speaker 1: we do. Good morning, breakfast clubbers. I want to remind

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Speaker 1: quick update on former President Donald Trump. Today is Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: and as we discussed yesterday, Donald Trump predicted that he

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Speaker 1: would be arrested today. So today we're going to find out.

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Speaker 1: But since the grand jury will not meet until Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: it is highly unlikely. And remember, Charlotte Mayne, you mentioned

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Speaker 1: Like everybody's saying, this is a weak case, and it's

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Speaker 1: gonna use that this they're preparing in New York City

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Speaker 1: just to keep the conversation going. But said, why do

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Speaker 1: you think Trump's message connects deeper with his audience than

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Speaker 1: like Biden's does with his America Loves gangsters? Yeah, perception

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Speaker 1: So I guess all the magga people they're gonna get

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Speaker 1: once again, when somebody uses the threat of violence to

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Speaker 1: Now what's going on, Florida Governor? Now? Yeah, absolutely, you

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Speaker 1: they are that campaign ad. They're using Alvin Bragg's photo

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Speaker 1: his response was nice, nasty. He did not hold back

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Speaker 1: And then Trump came back and said, well, in paraphrase,

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Speaker 1: and I won't read everything he said, but he said, well,

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Speaker 1: man Son, you got to move that over to the

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Speaker 1: room report Jason and let us know what's happening with

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Speaker 1: in tens, what's going on with these LA schools? What's

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Speaker 1: what's happening in LA today? Yes, absolutely, this was really important.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure that folks know that after

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Speaker 1: to last until Wednesday. Now, thousands of members from cafeteria

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Speaker 1: in nineteen eighty seven in Homer, Illinois. And before we

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Speaker 1: close the front page news, I want to just double

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Speaker 1: back on something I said yesterday. A lot of people said,

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Speaker 1: you can run from president of United States even if

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Speaker 1: quick Google search can firm that fact. That was your

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Speaker 1: honestly of question, did the Trump and Milania ever get divorced?

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Speaker 1: Did they get divorced? I don't know. I don't think so. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: holding his hand, and she was dodging. And never see

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Speaker 1: Nobody's trying to have Donald Trump on the four times

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. Yo, Charlotte man, dassy,

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Speaker 1: what up are we lying? This is your time to

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Speaker 1: get it off your chest? How into a pool? We

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Speaker 1: want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Get

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Speaker 1: on the phone right now here. Tell you what? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Who's this yo? This is rape be from the campbells

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Speaker 1: sup City? What's the Campbell Sioux City? You said this

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Speaker 1: yesterday and you still ain't able to work in the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Great day for everybody that's able to walk around. That's right.

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Speaker 1: What the Sioux City? Sir? What city is that? That's Campbell, Ohio?

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Speaker 1: The other side of youngster. Okay, okay, get it off

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Speaker 1: your chests, bro man, I'm still over here like stuck

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Speaker 1: on that Trump thing because it's feeling the regular Joe

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Speaker 1: Smo man, we would have been in prison a long

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Speaker 1: time ago. Still, Whitney, get our they see how much

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Speaker 1: more time we're gonna get. Well, it wasn't a regular.

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Speaker 1: Joe Smo was a privileged white man who happens to

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Speaker 1: be the former president of the United States of America, Right,

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Speaker 1: we get all that money. That's just letting anybody know

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Speaker 1: that when you got a lot of money, did you

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Speaker 1: know how to use it so occasion you could get

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Speaker 1: if it's about money as much as it's about power

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Speaker 1: the precedent of locking up that kind of white man,

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Speaker 1: of courages, so she put to this receipt. He might

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Speaker 1: have been asking what can I do for the Black

424
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Speaker 1: Lives Matter? That he wasn't asking that that he wasn't

425
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Speaker 1: asking I think he actually can don't need some money.

426
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Speaker 1: He said what he said, This is what he's said.

427
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Speaker 1: What he said for the record, Yes, I did have

428
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Speaker 1: a conversation with Todd about what he said to Tamar,

429
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 1: and he immediately seemed embarrassed about it apologizing. Wanted to

430
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Speaker 1: make amends for saying quote, you know what it is.

431
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,360
Speaker 1: He tried to rationalize what he said what he said,

432
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Speaker 1: but I stopped him and said it should have never happened.

433
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 1: I then asked him to clear it up with Tamar

434
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Speaker 1: and apologize in person. Now, I'm not mad at any man,

435
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,160
Speaker 1: you know, approaching another man on behalf of the woman.

436
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,880
Speaker 1: You let that white man check you. He probably thought

437
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 1: he was still producing the show. You know, That's how

438
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 1: they made He was a producer on the show, and

439
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 1: then they fell in love whatever, and now now he's

440
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 1: caught up in the storyline. But you know, maybe he

441
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 1: wants a peach. I don't know. But what I do

442
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: know is that Candy, and this is where celebrities have

443
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 1: a problem with me. I'm a likable person. Hollywood Unlocked

444
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,399
Speaker 1: is not a likable platform all the time. You I

445
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:23,120
Speaker 1: can like you, Hollywood unlock, could think you're corny. Hollywood

446
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 1: A lot could love you, and I could think you're corny.

447
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:31,120
Speaker 1: You're Hollywood unlocked, Jason, No, that is your media platform.

448
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: Speaking of confusion, she continued playing twister yesterday, and Candy

449
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 1: had this is say about me and Hollywood alot that

450
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 1: particular person he had like been dogging me on his blog,

451
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: like he has said a lot of negative things. I'm

452
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 1: sure you got seen because some of the stuff who

453
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 1: was on different blogs or whatever. I guess other people

454
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Speaker 1: had picked it up. This is a while ago. And um,

455
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 1: so if somebody had dogged you, would you want to

456
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Speaker 1: interview for their page? No? Um, Jason Lee likes you can't.

457
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 1: And I said that yesterday. I said that in every interview.

458
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: I still like you, I really do. I'm a big fan.

459
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play who should you run to? When I

460
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 1: got here? But let me tell who you should run to.

461
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: You should run to Elliott. Doctor Elliot can help you

462
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: with some psychlotherapy because at this point, your delusional Hollywood

463
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 1: Ulock thinks your corn and your storyline is tired. Your

464
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 1: man thinks he's a woman out there fighting with Tamo

465
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:21,360
Speaker 1: or Braxton. And now guess what, I'm gonna unbreak your heart.

466
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Speaker 1: Nobody cares And I'm not gonna come to see your

467
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Speaker 1: show on April first because her and Tamar are gonna

468
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 1: be in concert together, which is crazy, which I don't

469
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Speaker 1: know if this is for a show or not, But

470
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Speaker 1: what I do know is Candy, You're always welcome to

471
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Speaker 1: Hollywood a lot, even though you're not gonna come because

472
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Speaker 1: t I canceled your appointment last time, and he'll probably

473
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Speaker 1: cancel it again. So what do you say. You're basically

474
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Speaker 1: saying that you know artists you can still be You

475
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Speaker 1: should be allowed to be critical of people and still

476
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Speaker 1: let them they can still want to sit down to

477
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Speaker 1: have a converence the same conversation we're happening about you

478
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Speaker 1: in the White House. You should be able to criticize

479
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 1: people and still break bread. But guess what, we have

480
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: a relationship with every celebrity. Some just choose to participate

481
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 1: or not. We're gonna still continue to talk about Candy's

482
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,439
Speaker 1: tired storylines, and then I may pull up an old

483
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 1: lady gang and get whatever they serve on the your

484
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: damn mind if you talk crazy about Candy and they

485
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 1: go eat it a salmon bites are good though you

486
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: standing on, you ain't gonna talk crazy about me coming

487
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: he said, you pull up. Listen, I'm gonna support her.

488
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: You were smarter than that. Jon. You don't get a

489
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Speaker 1: little route put on or I'm gonna buy the restaurant

490
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: and bulldoz that hell out of it, like that some

491
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: old lady roots put on it. But you're gonna understand

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Speaker 1: the Candy don't want to sit off course call Let

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Speaker 1: me ask you a question. We talked about the back

494
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Speaker 1: and forth. I'm sorry, I know we gotta go, But

495
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: where did it start? Why they beef? What was the problem?

496
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Speaker 1: Why are going back? Like? I don't know what Jason made?

497
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Speaker 1: That sounds good, but I enjoyed them. I never like,

498
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Speaker 1: why would they be enjoy like? Why did she step

499
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Speaker 1: to it? Like? What was the problem in the first place?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm ready to see a fight

501
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: go down. I don't want to see them fight. We

502
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: never know why they fighting. I don't even think they

503
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Speaker 1: know why they fight. We got the fighter bells again.

504
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind being Todd in the white dude fight,

505
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Speaker 1: but I don't want to see the women fight. I

506
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Speaker 1: can't wait to see Todd with the peach Man. You

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Speaker 1: are crazy, z you think win? What you mean fight

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Speaker 1: Todd todd Man? You mean how about Tamar and Candy?

509
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Speaker 1: That's what I was talking crazy? All right? All right? Well,

510
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Speaker 1: thank you for that rumor report. Jason Lee so messy,

511
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Speaker 1: but I loved it. And I enjoyed it. Good morning too.

512
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Speaker 1: By the way, I thought I had. I thought I

513
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Speaker 1: was the only one with a new intro up here.

514
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Speaker 1: Y'all got introst for everybody else. I don't feel special.

515
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Speaker 1: Jess hilarious. You h portion had one? He need to?

516
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Speaker 1: I think Ninia had one. Yeah, just been flexing her

517
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Speaker 1: creative muscle. That's all all right, you know when we

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Speaker 1: come back, we got Front page News. Tesling figure will

519
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Speaker 1: be joining us, will break some things down, so don't move.

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Speaker 1: It's to Breakfast Clo God Morning, the Breakfast Club. Your

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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host

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Speaker 1: Jason Lee with a us this morning, and it's time

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Speaker 1: for Front page News. We got ten figure out on

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Speaker 1: the line. She's back of Monitazz. Good morning, and everybody

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Speaker 1: now when you want to start the four guilty of conspiracy,

532
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 1: break that story down for us. Yes, four people associated

533
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Speaker 1: with the far right anti government extreamist group known as

534
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Speaker 1: the Oath Keepers were convicted on Monday of conspiracy to

535
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Speaker 1: obstruct Congress and obstruction of Congress stemming from the attack

536
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Speaker 1: on the US Capitol. Both of these charges can carry

537
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Speaker 1: a sentence up to twenty years behind bars. And now

538
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Speaker 1: it's so far as the DLJ says that at least

539
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Speaker 1: one thousand Trump supporters have been arrested for the January

540
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 1: sixth Capitol riot. Now, I do again want to remind

541
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Speaker 1: people this particular story. Guys look it up because there's

542
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 1: a lot of information on this one that I couldn't

543
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: get in on who was charged and why, and their

544
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 1: husbands and baby daddy's and all. It's a lot with

545
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Speaker 1: this story. So I want to have you guys to

546
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,120
Speaker 1: look it up. But I remember charlomagne An Mvu talked

547
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Speaker 1: about several times like when are people going to to jail?

548
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Speaker 1: And so I just want to remind people that there

549
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 1: have been over a thousand people who have been charged

550
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Speaker 1: now convicted and going to jail. As another story, but

551
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: there's some movement on that it's been. It's been quite

552
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: a few that have been cont And we also got

553
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Speaker 1: to talk about this Vermont High School basketball team, girls team.

554
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 1: They're forfeiting a tournament because they don't want to play

555
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: against a transgender player. Yes, as of twenty twenty two,

556
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Speaker 1: the Vermont private schools are expected to follow the state's

557
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 1: antidiscrimination discrimination rules if they want to get state funding.

558
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 1: In other words, if you want to get the bag,

559
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: you have to do what we say. But earlier this year,

560
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: mid Vermont Christian School and another religious affiliated school told

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Speaker 1: the Vermont Board of Education that they wanted to reserve

562
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Speaker 1: their right not to follow all of the antidiscrimination discrimination

563
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 1: rules due to their religious belief Well, it appears that

564
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: they try to exercise that right and decided in February

565
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Speaker 1: not to play in a tournament because they refuse to

566
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Speaker 1: play against a team with a transgender player. Now, the

567
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: head of school, Vicky Falk, explained that the reason for

568
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: the forfeit was that her school did not think it

569
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: was fair to have girls a girls team play against

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00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: an opponent with a biological male, because it jeopardized the

571
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: fairness of the game and safety of the players. Since then,

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Speaker 1: the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion and Activities Committee, the Activity

573
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: Standards Committee, and the VPA Executive Council made a decision

574
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: that the team violated the policies and they are now

575
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: banned for all future activities and tournaments moving forward. So

576
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: they can't play anything tournaments, not in a tournament, or

577
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 1: activity anything because they violated that policy. That's not fair

578
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: because that sounds like common sense to me. Like we've

579
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Speaker 1: all seen Juwanna man, we've seen Grandmama who I'm saying,

580
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: we've seen that was probably out there averaging thirty and

581
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: twenty against the women. Man, remember that, Remember that swimmer

582
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: that he was a man and then he transitioned to

583
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: a woman, and when he was swimming as a man,

584
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: he was like number eighty, Yes, and then when you

585
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 1: transition to a woman like number one or something. That's

586
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: what I'm my point. Whoever they were playing again, I

587
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: got to see the status. If this person is averaging

588
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: fifty two blocks, I'm not playing against them either. That's

589
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: not fair. Yeah. My concern is, you know, even the

590
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: religious beliefs, you know them saying up front, you know, hey,

591
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Speaker 1: we don't mind following your policy for we're a private

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Speaker 1: school and it's a Christian school, it's a Christian high school.

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00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: So it's really interesting to see, you know how, I

594
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: guess they're not getting any leeway based upon you know,

595
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 1: their own individual right, you know, based on the religious beliefs.

596
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: And they attached that again to what okay, if you

597
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: don't do what we say, you won't get funding. And

598
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: so this is just a real interesting story and I

599
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: think guys should look it up and look more into it.

600
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: I knew, I knew they were going to ask the

601
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: resident gave his opinion. People would be surprised, But I

602
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: actually agree with you. I just I don't think it's fair.

603
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine, like when you look at

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Speaker 1: what happened with DeMar Hamley, if you put a biological

605
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: woman on the field than she was, he was to

606
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: get hit. There could be like some real serious I

607
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: don't know, people are gonna be mad because they said, oh,

608
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: you should say equality. I'm all for equality, but in

609
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: this instance, I just don't know that that's not equality

610
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: when somebody has a biological advantage against you, you know

611
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: what I mean? And I just yeah, I don't, I don't,

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00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't dig it. I don't think it's fair.

613
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: But I've always said, You've heard me on record say this,

614
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: you should put one transgender woman. But on every w

615
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: NBA team. I think that Kaylin out there. She's like

616
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: the greatest athlete ever. Get washed. Now the generation, the

617
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: WNBA player, the Agian Wilsons and all the middle wash

618
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: Kaylyn gen. But you should have if you want to

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Speaker 1: make the w NBA even more exciting, because I like

620
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: the fundamental basketball the w NBA plays. Where you really

621
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: want to make it more exciting, put one transgender woman

622
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: on each team. Can he plays? Not use Jawana Man

623
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: as a reference stuff, because that's what made me think

624
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: of Kaylin. But I'm just talking about how ridiculous it

625
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: looked when this person with a biological advantage was out

626
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: there playing against women. That movie showed us what could

627
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: go down. You know, I'm not mad at him. I

628
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: do wish that this team wasn't hiding behind religion. No

629
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Speaker 1: task like even like even with the religious rule, just

630
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: stay straight up. No, it's just not fair what they did.

631
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Speaker 1: The statement. Yeah, they said in the statement that no,

632
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: this is this is not fair based on you know,

633
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Speaker 1: having a lady ladies play against a biological man. I

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Speaker 1: was just pointing to the fact that when they changed

635
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Speaker 1: this policy, they put it on the table earlier last year,

636
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Speaker 1: saying we're telling you now, we're not going to be

637
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Speaker 1: in line with everything you know on this discrimination policy

638
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Speaker 1: they had in place. So they're they're doing they're playing

639
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Speaker 1: both angles on this plane, playing both angles, hilarious, having

640
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Speaker 1: Laverne concept here. I saw the trans Barbie back here

641
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 1: to that was Jason put that play together. I was

642
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: trying to get the stats, but I can't find this.

643
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: I need to see the stats. That's what I need.

644
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: I need to see how much this person was averaging

645
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: on that team playing both sides. It's too early in

646
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Speaker 1: the order for what do you think task Well, you know,

647
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: I think, but again, I'm always going to look at

648
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: the pop politics side of it, and I think when

649
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: we remember last week we talked about separation of church

650
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: and state. UM, we talked about you know, being able

651
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Speaker 1: to have the right to do something, and the fact

652
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: that they said last year that this is not in

653
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Speaker 1: line with our beliefs, I'm leaning more towards that. I

654
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: hear what you guys are saying, but you know, I'm

655
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: always looking at looking at it from a legal lens

656
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: or political lens, and I think they made that clear

657
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: last year. So they obviously they could have had an

658
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: opportunity as well not to accept the money. You know,

659
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: you could always not accept the money and do whatever

660
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: you want to do, so you can look at it

661
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: from from that way as well. That's true. So that's

662
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: two different sides of this no pun intended. Pause. All right,

663
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: now say y'all don't know if y'all think nothing to

664
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Speaker 1: do with the hood whisper okay, warm up to Charlot.

665
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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all subscribe to this great shot note Chase

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Speaker 1: the podcast with Teslin Figua on the Black Affect I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast Network. Man, thank you so much, tests

668
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: no problem. We'll see you tomorrow and Ted's gonna be

669
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Speaker 1: with us too in Atlanta on April twenty second at

670
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Speaker 1: Pullman Yards for the first step of Black Affect Podcast Festival.

671
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Speaker 1: She's gonna be on the Business and Podcasting panel and

672
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Speaker 1: the Woman in Podcasting panels. So make sure you go

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Speaker 1: to ben Bright and get your tickets. When is that again?

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Speaker 1: April twenty second in Atlanta at Pullman Yards. That's right,

675
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Speaker 1: all right, Well, thank you tess again and when we

676
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: come back, Elliott Connie will be joining us. He has

677
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: a new book, The Solution Focus Brief Therapy, culturally competent Psychotherapist.

678
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna ever meet man and we're gonna chop it

679
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: up with him when we come back, So don't move.

680
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Speaker 1: It's to breakfast club the morning. The breakfast club because

681
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Speaker 1: I think we're told you respect your parents no matter what.

682
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Speaker 1: They can say whatever they want, they could do what

683
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Speaker 1: every they want. But yeah, I think that I don't

684
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Speaker 1: agree with that. Yeah, well I want one hundred percent.

685
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: Was raised that way, like you respect your parents, don't

686
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: matter what you do. But I was in such a

687
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: bad place. I was like, I'm pretty sure that I'm

688
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: not supposed to die behind that rule. Like I'm pretty

689
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: sure I'm I'm supposed to suicide out of here just

690
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Speaker 1: because I'm not supposed to talk back to my father.

691
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: So I got back. I got to a place where

692
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: it was like I gotta set this boundary or else.

693
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Speaker 1: I wonder if it's it's the term rules or an

694
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Speaker 1: adult you know what I mean? Because as an adult,

695
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Speaker 1: as you know, you set the rules. So now when

696
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: your child, because no matter how old you. Are you

697
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Speaker 1: still he still looks at you, I'm sure of as

698
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Speaker 1: his child grow, I'm sure is the setting of rules.

699
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Speaker 1: I think that's an interesting point, like if I said

700
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Speaker 1: something other than rules. But I think to your point,

701
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: but if you if you look at your child that

702
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: you wouldn't take anywhere the boundary rule request, it wouldn't

703
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: really matter. Like I was raised in that, you know,

704
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: nineteen eighties, nineteen nineties, where black child is to be

705
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: seen and not heard and all that stuff. I don't.

706
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: I don't think it would have mattered. But I also

707
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Speaker 1: agree with you. I think part of the issue in

708
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Speaker 1: today's world is not respecting authority. I'm talking about not

709
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: respecting abusers. I'm talking about not allowing abusers to have

710
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 1: free reign to your life. I do think we have

711
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Speaker 1: to learn to respect the authority, and I think it's

712
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: a lot of reasons contributing to our kids. Don't do that.

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Speaker 1: You you told me the other day that you feel

714
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Speaker 1: like kids should disrespect their parents. I think parents should

715
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Speaker 1: expect I'm in the contract of wild in the context

716
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Speaker 1: of our conversation, go ahead, Jason, let me let me

717
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 1: put that in context. My mother would say, Ellie, go

718
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Speaker 1: do the dishes, and I would be like, why didn't

719
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Speaker 1: you ask one of them? And that would get me popped.

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Speaker 1: You know that that would get you luck to be

721
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Speaker 1: popp and I tell you so, yeah, yeah. But if

722
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Speaker 1: you're teaching your child to be confident, to be strong,

723
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Speaker 1: to value their voice, they should ask those kinds of

724
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Speaker 1: questions and it allows you to parent them. But we

725
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: shouldn't translate that as disrespect. They're just practicing. It's not disrespecting.

726
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 1: They're practicing their voice. That was in our era. I

727
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: would never think to talk back, and I would never

728
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Speaker 1: even think to talk to my parents the way my

729
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: kids talk to me, at least say it's not disrespect,

730
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: it's just them being like asking valid questions. I don't

731
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Speaker 1: agree with you with that, La, because and this is

732
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: gonna sound crazy here we go. I got six kids,

733
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Speaker 1: So if I tell one of my kids to do something,

734
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: I expect it to be done. I'm not gonna do

735
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: it something that's gonna be detrimental to their health, something

736
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: that's going to hurt them. It's part of what everybody

737
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: needs to do to be in this household. Agree with

738
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: meaning if if dad's shows a dad's way is to

739
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: make the money, pay the bills, do this, that and

740
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 1: the other, and I ask you to shovel the snow.

741
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 1: Don't ask me why don't say, well, why didn't you

742
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: ask this this? You know, sibling, why didn't you ask

743
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: this one? No, because I asked you to do it.

744
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: But you could explain it to them just the way

745
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,360
Speaker 1: you explained to Just listen. You shouldn't have to. This

746
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 1: is a rule that applies to everything, because it's one thing.

747
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: If a kid says, hey, you know, I want to

748
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: try some finno, well no, don't do finn on. Let

749
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: me explain you why so you invite them to a

750
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: conversation about it versus I expect these things to be

751
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: done as your parents, so go do them. Yes, I

752
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: think when you start inviting the kid into I mean,

753
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 1: I don't have kids clearly yet, but when you have

754
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: this perceived negotiation of what you expect as a parent,

755
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: then you invite them into a different type of relationship

756
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: for sure, and not all things in negotiations. I just

757
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 1: think we need to have more conversations. If my child said,

758
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: don't want to try finno, it is perfectly okay to

759
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: say no and let me sit you down and we're

760
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: going to converse as to why. Like, conversation is powerful.

761
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 1: Look at what you guys have done with conversation. So

762
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: I've ended my relationship with my father a few years ago,

763
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: very intentionally, very you know, I told him it's over.

764
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: When you say you still because I want to go

765
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: back to you saying that you still want or desire

766
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: to have that relationship. People always try to guilt me

767
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: in that, like that's your dad. You need your dad

768
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: and he gonna die soon. You got to have that relationship.

769
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: I feel like people should have the permission to leave

770
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: a relationship forever if they choose to and still be

771
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 1: at peace. Because do you feel like people have guilted

772
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: you into believe in that you need to have closure.

773
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: You can't have closure aout having a relationship, right, Yeah, Jason,

774
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: it's a funny thing you say. So the situation I

775
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: was in and am in with my father, you talk

776
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 1: about people trying to kill you. I went to got

777
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: a whole master's degree in family therapy. My teachers would

778
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,879
Speaker 1: talk to me about they talk to whole class, what's

779
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: your relationship like your dad? And then I'd say my situation, Oh,

780
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: you need to call him, You don't know, like people

781
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: telling me that I need to subject to myself to

782
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: abuse aren't listening. So when I tell you now, like

783
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: I pray every day, and it's true, I pray every

784
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: day for healing to happen and for me to have

785
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 1: a relationship with this man because because that's my dad

786
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: and I love him to this day, and I feel

787
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 1: like I have this gift of forgiveness that i'd like

788
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: to give him that he is not willing to accept

789
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: because he's got to do these things in order to

790
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 1: accept it. However, do I have peace? Of course I do,

791
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: because I've given myself this thing, and anybody can come

792
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: into my life as long as you give me emotional

793
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 1: and physical safety because I can sort out everything else.

794
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I don't understand because I don't I don't

795
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: have the type of relationship you guys have with your dad.

796
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: But I kind of feel like what you said, because

797
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: Charlemagne and I always talk about it like our parents

798
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: didn't have They didn't know right, There was no instruction manual.

799
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: They did the best that they could at that time,

800
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: especially that time, especially you know the grandparents and great

801
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 1: grandparents into slavery, so you know, my dad was growing

802
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 1: up when you know, he couldn't use a certain bathroom

803
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 1: because he was black. So I get it, but you

804
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 1: never feel that way, like I at least want to

805
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: try to menace and have a conversation before my dad dies.

806
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: Like when my mother died. Right before my mother died,

807
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 1: literally in the hospital, she said, I did the best

808
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: that I could. And she was a bad mom, I mean,

809
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: and when she got sick and all that, with drugs

810
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: and all that, and I felt given her peace by

811
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: accepting that as her apology and saying, I accept your apology.

812
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: It's good I forgave her. And then she passed away. Yeah,

813
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 1: I understood in that moment when she said I did

814
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: the best that I could. Was you basically did the

815
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: best that you could with the limitations of health and

816
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: drugs and all that. But at some point there also

817
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: has to be accountability. And I feel like we're taught

818
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: you know, no matter what your parents do, they can

819
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: bring you in this world, take you out, you know,

820
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: do what I say you do, Like at some point

821
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 1: you have to be accountable, all right, We got more

822
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: with Elliott Connie. When we come back, don't move. It's

823
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: to breakfast Club. Good morning, Envy. Charlomagne the guy we

824
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: are to Breakfast Club. We have Jason Leol co host him.

825
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Elliott Connie. He has a

826
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: new book out and of course he's a therapist. Charlomagne,

827
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 1: you know what I want you to talk about. You

828
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: know you've you've you've created something called the solution focused

829
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: brief therapy. Can you break that down? What it is? That? Yeah, man,

830
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 1: solution f brief therapy. It's a type of therapy that

831
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: I could best describe as outcome driven, as opposed to

832
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: problem driven. I think I think we associate most therapies

833
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: with solving problems like I got this problem depression and anxiety, alcoholism, whatever,

834
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,439
Speaker 1: and I go to a psychotherapist, couln't want to solve

835
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: that problem. And that never resonated with me when I

836
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: was in graduate school. And what solution, folks, a proof

837
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: therapy is is more like, regardless of the problem, what

838
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: are you trying to evolve into? What are you trying

839
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: to grow into? And who are you trying to become?

840
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: And let's figure out ways to create that because when

841
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: you create that, that's inherently going to solve or adjust

842
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: your experience with the problem. How do we do that

843
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: in the world where everybody is afraid of being canceled

844
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: and everybody that's canceling people act like they don't have problems, right,

845
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:28,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, are you talking about

846
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: Twitter or whatever? Ten years ago I said the craziest

847
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: things when I found Twitter. But now you'll be held

848
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: accountable for it. So how do you help people like

849
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: resonate in the world where their cancel culture is a

850
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 1: real fear that they may have? You know, Jason's funny.

851
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: So I started my career as a psychotherapist. I'm now

852
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: working on TV projects and all these other things, and

853
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: almost every entertainer I talked to talks to me about

854
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: cancel culture. And it's hard to me to explain. But

855
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: cancel culture in a lot of ways is irrelevant because,

856
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: like Jason for example, is don't do message it. I

857
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 1: like Jason, So if you are your authentic self, cancel

858
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: culture doesn't really exists unless you break like not just

859
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 1: for being out there, but you could break some significant

860
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: rules that all of us will say, We're not okay

861
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: with that as a world, And I think I'm okay

862
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: with that actually, But like if you're just being your

863
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 1: authentic self. There are some people that are saying I can't,

864
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: I can't do that, but there's some people are gonna

865
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: connect with it, and you just have to be yourself

866
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: with the people you connect with vibe with you. How

867
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: do you get the world on therapy? You invite therapists

868
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: up to the breakfast club. But I mean, seriously you.

869
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: That's what I said earlier when we were talking about

870
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: parenting is conversation is powerful. And invite people into the

871
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: conversation with all of your massive platform, and that's exactly

872
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: what you do. That's how we change the world. I

873
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: was going to ask you think everybody needs therapy. No,

874
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: I don't think everybody needs therapy. But I will say, Jason,

875
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,760
Speaker 1: expect if I can use you as an example, Jason

876
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: having a trauma and appearing as if he's had a

877
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: trauma prove his mental health. For example, if you have

878
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,919
Speaker 1: a physical illness in your body and you sneeze and cough,

879
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: that is evidence that your body is healthy because it's

880
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: responding to the germs within it. It would be weird

881
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: if Jason got shot, observed, or murder, and all the

882
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: other things that have happened if he's just running through life,

883
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,479
Speaker 1: I'm an account working in my cubicle like that'd be weird.

884
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 1: So the fact that Jason was doing things evidence of

885
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: his trauma. It triggers him to say, man, you need

886
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: to go deal with that. And I think a lot

887
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: of people have dealt with things and we think that

888
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 1: it's weakness, but it's actually evidence of your mental health

889
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 1: that you went through something and you're emotionally sneezing like

890
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: you went through something, you're emotionally coughing. And we need

891
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 1: to be able to have the conversation to say, here's

892
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 1: how we deal with emotional sneezes and emotional costs. Is

893
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: that thing that we deal with do we have to

894
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 1: deal with though, and meaning not have to deal with

895
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: as as in speaking to somebody, but you know, let's

896
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 1: say you know Jason, you know, seeing somebody get shot,

897
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 1: and he dealt with it his own way. He was

898
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: able to think about it, talk about it. He's never

899
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: going to forget it. It doesn't traumatize him, but he

900
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: goes through it in his own way as he necessarily

901
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 1: have to speak with somebody. So I'm going to answer

902
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: you a question in two parts. When I say deal

903
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: with I don't mean talk about that issue like one

904
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: of the beautiful things about salute some focused brief therapies

905
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't require, Jason, all right, let's therapists use these

906
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: words that I told me either trigger words like let's

907
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: unpack that? Like no, I don't want to I don't

908
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: want to unpack that. I don't want to talk to

909
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: you about the shooting or whatever. Now, can we talk

910
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: about other things and get you to healing? Of course,

911
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: can you do it on your own? It's harder to

912
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: do on your own in a very similar way that

913
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: personal training. Anybody here ever hired a personal transfer. Of course,

914
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: a therapist needs to make you uncomfortable, and it's hard

915
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: for you to make yourself that uncomfortable, in the same

916
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: way that a personal trainer makes you uncomfortable and more

917
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: uncomfortable than you would have Like, can you be effective

918
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: you go to gym on your own, Sure, but a

919
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: personal trainer is going to push you a little bit

920
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: further than you would have pushed yourself on that day,

921
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: and you will have to be a bit more uncomfortable

922
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: to deal with the things a personal trainer ask you

923
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: to do. Your present training facts you should be angry

924
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: at your therapist time. I can't believe you asked me that.

925
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: I can't believe you said that. I can't believe I'm

926
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: in this space and you wouldn't have gone there on

927
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: your own, so and can you work on on your

928
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 1: own of course, But there's something about the uncomfortable nature

929
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: that a therapist can produce by asking the kind of

930
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: questions that way well, solute fu for your therapists a

931
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: very question oriented way of doing things. And it's hard

932
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: to be that uncomfortable if you're just doing it. And

933
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 1: a lot of times I think a lot well, I

934
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: think a lot of people know what they're supposed to do, yes,

935
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: but necessarily don't want to do that. Correct. Does that

936
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: mean that they need therapy because they know what they're

937
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 1: supposed to do, but they don't necessarily want to do

938
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: we though, well, but hold on. But to Envy's point,

939
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: let me think of an example, because I give you

940
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: a perfect example. I'm avengeful, hands down, straight up. There's

941
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: people that have done things to me that I need

942
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: my clap back, I need my revenge. I love that.

943
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: And if you mess with me, I'm cool. But if

944
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: you mess with my family, I need that revenge. And

945
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: I know I shouldn't feel like that, and I know

946
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 1: Charlemagne would be like, oh, you need to heal because

947
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: it's that. Yeah, but that's good and I understand that.

948
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: I know that as a person, but I need my

949
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: link back and I'm not happy until I get that

950
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: link back. When you mess with Gia, Madison, Logan, London,

951
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Jackson and Peyton, I need my lick back. I

952
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: think he was like that before all of them came

953
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: in the picture, but not let me know. I'm led

954
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: a couple of times. But sometimes when it comes to them,

955
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: I know what I'm supposed to do, and I know

956
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: what a therapist is gonna tell me that. Is there

957
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: anything wrong with that thought? So I'm I don't personally

958
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: see anything wrong with that. I'm gonna tell you, I'm

959
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna give you my therapist dance. I don't put on

960
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: my therapist had ant. No, there is nothing wrong with

961
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: being vengeful, petty getting my lick back clack back. I'm

962
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: that way too, right, Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with

963
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: that inherently as a trait. Here's where we might need therapy,

964
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: Like if you just came from to me for therapy, like, hey,

965
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: I do these things. Does it cause your life any

966
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 1: particular harm? No? Then why would you change it? But

967
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: oftentimes there's a secondary consequence that we pay for our choices,

968
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: and we need to not have that secondary consequence. Now

969
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: I don't search for it, like I'm not, it's not

970
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: on my mind every day, but if it comes around,

971
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 1: I remember and I make sure, but get out of trigger.

972
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: Let me give you an example, like I don't know

973
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: your wife, but let's say your wife is anxious. I

974
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: got a very close friend his wife is super anxious.

975
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,800
Speaker 1: So let's say you had an altercation with somebody, like,

976
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: I need to get this person back. They have threatened

977
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: the people. Correct, I gotta get this person back. If

978
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: you were to do that, if you were married to

979
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 1: my friend's wife, she'd be so anxious she wouldn't sleep

980
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: for a month because she'd be so afraid that they're

981
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: going to attack back. And at that point, you have

982
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: to protect her from you at that moment, because she's

983
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: not sleeping because you've done something that is now making

984
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 1: her available to anxiety. And now I would say envy,

985
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 1: like is it a problem being vengeful? No, But you

986
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 1: decided to marry this person who's paying a consequence because

987
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 1: you sought revenge, and now what something has to be solved.

988
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: I understand, but also like let's say, let's say you

989
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: say something about my family or whatever it may be.

990
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: Let's let it go, right. I know what it is,

991
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: and I know I'm gonna run into you. I know

992
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna see something and not physically right. But then

993
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: I see online that your house is about to go

994
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: and foreclosure. This really happened. By the okay, I'm gonna

995
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 1: try to buy that house. I'm gonna bulldoze it, and

996
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna give it to the good Will, which

997
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: really just really happened down that's the that's the time.

998
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: I'm one. I wasn't looking for it, but if the

999
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: lands and body looking for he was looking at the

1000
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: lists in my lap, I am going to buy it.

1001
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: I am going to bulldoze it, put your name on

1002
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:22,919
Speaker 1: the bulldozer, and then give it to the good Will.

1003
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: I get my resent and I don't need the charity hurt.

1004
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 1: Nobody got hurt, but envy, I actually have. His name

1005
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: is envy. I envy that level of petting. I actually

1006
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: have no run with that, and I envy that level

1007
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 1: of pendingness. However I was looking for it. It just

1008
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: fell on my lap. However, if you would now again

1009
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about your wife, but he would

1010
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: married to a wife that knows you did that. She's like,

1011
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: now they're gonna buy, They're gonna bulldoze. Now you've stressed

1012
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: her out and you have to think about your choices

1013
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: in the way, and now you might be married to

1014
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: somebody else that's you know, I'm gonna help you drive

1015
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: the bulldozs. So I don't think inherently because of the trait,

1016
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: you need therapy, all right. We got more with Elliott

1017
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: Connie when we come back Don't Move, just a breakfast club.

1018
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: The movie Wanting Everybody is dj NV Charlomagne the guy

1019
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: we are to Breakfast Club. We have Jason leeo't co

1020
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: host hand. We're still kicking it with Elliott Connie. He

1021
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: has a new book out, and of course he's a therapist. Charlemagne.

1022
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: We always have these conversations about culturally competent therapists. And

1023
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: one of the reasons I like talking to you is

1024
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: because I don't have to explain a Twitter beef. You

1025
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I don't have to explain what

1026
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: somebody said about me on a blog or you you

1027
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: see it, you know it already. Like you know, other

1028
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 1: therapists I've had, you've had to explain that to them.

1029
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: That takes a lot of time out of a session. Yeah,

1030
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: but that goes back to representation. I hope all of

1031
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: you guys take that very very especially you, Like there

1032
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 1: are people watching you that you're never gonna meet, never

1033
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,320
Speaker 1: gonna see in twenty years from now. They're still alive,

1034
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: Like forget. They may be walking in your footsteps and

1035
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: have their own media company, but they're still alive because

1036
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: representation matters. And there's a frustration. I was talking to

1037
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,360
Speaker 1: somebody about that this weekend. There's a frustration associated with

1038
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: being black because we have to explain things to people.

1039
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 1: And I was talking with somebody the other day this

1040
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: and I was furious, I'm tired of explaining this. But

1041
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: I was talking to this person about racial trauma. And

1042
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: this is a clinician. This is a professional clinician at

1043
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: a professional clinician event, and somebody gave a lecture about

1044
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 1: racial trauma. And this person came up from and said,

1045
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: what do you think of the lecture? I said, I

1046
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: thought it was I thought it was good. That person

1047
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: explained a lot of things that y'all need to hear.

1048
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: And she said, well, I liked it too, but I

1049
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: was really frustrated because he said that black people and

1050
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 1: particularly men, experienced trauma every day. That can't be true.

1051
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: He said, it's absolutely true. I don't know a black person,

1052
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: particularly black man, that don't experience trauma every day. And

1053
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: she said, how could that be? Said, let me explain

1054
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: it to you. If I locked you in your bedroom

1055
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: and I took the most venomous snake and I threw

1056
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: it in the bedroom with you, and I locked that

1057
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: door and I close it. I don't want you out

1058
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 1: for a week. You didn't just experience trauma on the

1059
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: day you got bit. You experienced trauma every second of

1060
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,280
Speaker 1: every day because you knew there was a venomous snake around.

1061
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, I get it now. Well,

1062
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm tired of explaining that to y'all. Right, I don't

1063
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: want to explain blackness twenty four hours of my day.

1064
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to explain to everybody what we mean.

1065
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: There's a context for living this life that you and

1066
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,280
Speaker 1: I just get and I think we need more black therapists.

1067
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: Somebody said to me, why do I think black people,

1068
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 1: in particular men don't go to therapy, and they said,

1069
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: it's because black men doesn't such. So don't do that.

1070
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: Don't say we don't go to therapy for some sort

1071
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 1: of flaw on us. We don't go to therapy for

1072
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,879
Speaker 1: two very basic reasons. Number one, therapy was not built

1073
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: for us. Number two, it is not currently being done

1074
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: by us. So we need more therapists doing this so

1075
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: that we fit into it. A lot of people go

1076
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: to therapists and the first time they go, they don't

1077
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 1: have a favorable time and they feel like and they

1078
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 1: feel like because of that, they don't want to go back.

1079
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: I just want to talk about that people who are

1080
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: looking for therapists, because sometimes you find the wrong person,

1081
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: it's not the right fit, and people are scared to,

1082
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 1: you know, to go back. Right. I tell people all

1083
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: the time, like, you don't go to you know, a

1084
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: restaurant and have a bad experience and then just boycott food. Right,

1085
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 1: You don't do that, You find another restaurant, right, And

1086
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: I think I think we need to recognize therapies the same.

1087
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: If I go to see a therapist and it doesn't work.

1088
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean therapy didn't work, just mean that's particular

1089
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: therapist didn't work. And we need to be just as

1090
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: variant in our attempts to find a good therapist as

1091
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 1: we are on our attempts to find good food. I

1092
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: want to ask too, like, you know, we've seen so

1093
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 1: many people discussing mental health nowadays. Number one, do you

1094
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: think it has been a rise of black people going

1095
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: to therapy? And what do you think folks still get

1096
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: wrong about mental health? Um? So, to answer the first question, yeah,

1097
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: I think we do have more Black people going to therapy.

1098
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: It's it's the Tiger Woods effect, right, Like we're all

1099
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: old enough to remember when Tiger Woods took over golf,

1100
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: Black people started going to play golf and they weren't

1101
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: playing golf before that. Serena Williams and Venus Williams similar thing,

1102
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: like young black girls go to tennis courts to play

1103
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: tennis because representation matter. So the fact that you guys,

1104
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,839
Speaker 1: probably more than any other platform in the world, platforms

1105
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: talk about black mental health. More Black people are going

1106
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 1: to therapy because they heard Charlemagne suggested someone they heard it.

1107
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: So now they're like, man, maybe I can go do this.

1108
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 1: And it's the exact same thing that happened in tennis.

1109
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: It's the exact same thing that happened in golf. And

1110
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: what I think we get wrong more than anything else,

1111
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,800
Speaker 1: is we think the therapist is supposed to solve our problems,

1112
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:31,280
Speaker 1: and that's actually not true. Like life is a turbulent flight,

1113
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: the therapist is supposed to make you a better pilot.

1114
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: I just got one last question. I know, I know,

1115
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 1: we're wrapping up. Charlemagne always talks about being anxious, and

1116
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: people always talk about anxiety. But I don't look at

1117
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: anxiety as a bad thing. It's how you control it. Right.

1118
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 1: I have six kids, Charlemagne has four. When they go

1119
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: out until even to this day, when I go out

1120
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: as a grown ass man, my mom and dad still

1121
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: have anxiety about me going out because they're scared, right,

1122
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: but they're not scared to a point where they're you know,

1123
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: listening to the right, but not to the point where

1124
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: they're calling me a six in the morning. Oh yeah,

1125
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: are you done? But anxious, same thing with my kids.

1126
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: That's never gonna change. No, that's healthy anxious, Okay, Like

1127
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 1: anxiety is like everything else is a degree of healthiness

1128
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 1: to it. And then some people go way beyond the

1129
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: spectrum to where and think about it in this term.

1130
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 1: When something is interrupting your ability to live a normal

1131
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: daily life, that's when it becomes a problem. So that

1132
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: anxiety like my daughter's at NYU, she just called me,

1133
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 1: told me she's going to a party. I'm gonna have

1134
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: a hard time relaxing tonight because I'm something could happen,

1135
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 1: Like that's that's normal. But if you have anxiety where

1136
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: like my daughter's at NYU and I can't eat, I

1137
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 1: can't sleep, like that's that's the problem. And I think

1138
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: we have to learn how to manage that and learn

1139
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: how to manage that. People here anxiety, they're automatically thing negative, right,

1140
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: the only think bad. But there is healthy anxiety, like

1141
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: you love that daughter or all your children that not

1142
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,399
Speaker 1: in specificallycause we're talking about you don't want anything bad

1143
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 1: to happen to her. So when she tells you, I've

1144
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: done this thing that puts me at risk, even mild risk,

1145
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be worried about that. The only things that

1146
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 1: will happen are things that intended for you to experience

1147
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 1: and so you can't have faith and anxiety because anxiety

1148
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 1: is fear based. So if I believe very strongly, like

1149
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: like God's got me, that means if I'm going through

1150
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 1: something hard, I'm going through that hard thing for a reason.

1151
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:17,280
Speaker 1: So there's no reason to I just have to trust everything.

1152
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: And that's what I would say. I with an end

1153
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: by saying like, if you can figure out a way

1154
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: to trust every experience, you're going through all of these

1155
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: things for a reason, and be grateful for everything, like everything,

1156
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: you are untouchable emotionally, like you were just an indestructible force.

1157
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: When you're just grateful for everything, not just grateful for

1158
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: the good things, not just grateful for the profound thing,

1159
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: but I mean, like grateful for all of it. Life

1160
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: is different. What if I can only get there through medication?

1161
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 1: You can get there through conversation. Conversation far more powerful

1162
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 1: than medication. Okay, promise? What if I can only get

1163
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: there by being petty? As we've already established, ladies and gentlemen.

1164
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 1: The solution focus brief DEAs the artist solution focused therapy

1165
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: solution building a couple of therapy. The solution focus Marriage

1166
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 1: and solution focus brief therapy. I say something about the

1167
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: new book. There's something I want to say about the

1168
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: new book. The book is called The Solution Focus Brief

1169
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 1: Therapy Diamond And and a lot of people out there like,

1170
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:16,880
Speaker 1: if you're a clinician, get the book is going to

1171
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 1: teach you how to do solution focus brief therapy like

1172
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 1: no other book will do. But what's more important to

1173
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,439
Speaker 1: me if you're not a clinician and therapy is hard.

1174
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: Like my colleague and I wrote this book so you

1175
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 1: could get therapy from this book, Adam Adam Freer, doctor

1176
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,439
Speaker 1: Adam Freus. So if you're out there and you're thinking,

1177
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 1: like I want therapy, but I like, I got how

1178
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: am I gonna get kids coverage? And how am I

1179
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,879
Speaker 1: gonna get to there? Whatever? You can have your life

1180
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,919
Speaker 1: change through conversation, and sometimes that conversation is through a book.

1181
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,760
Speaker 1: So this book isn't just for professionals. It's for people

1182
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 1: who want to be inspired. And an inspired person can

1183
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: do anything. And if you're not a clinician, the book

1184
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: sounds clinical, but I promise you, if you read this book,

1185
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: you'll be inspired to change your life. All right, Well, Elliott, Connie,

1186
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, we appreciate you doing this. Man, Yeah,

1187
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: how can he find you? You can find find me

1188
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:05,800
Speaker 1: on social media at Elliott Speaks on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook,

1189
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: Elliot spelled two els, two ts, and you can go

1190
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:11,839
Speaker 1: to my website Elliot Connie dot com and that's where

1191
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 1: you can find all my stuff. All right, well it's

1192
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Elliot Conne Ladies and gentlemen, brning. Everybody's DJ,

1193
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: Envy Charlomagne, the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. Jason Lee,

1194
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: our co host is y'all, and let's get to the room. Les,

1195
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 1: Let's go. I've mastered the tea thing. The only place

1196
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 1: I want to come and talk to about was here

1197
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: because I really feel like everybody in the culture pays

1198
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: attentionally off. But I knew I can talk my talk

1199
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: to me. This is the rumor report on the Breakfast Club. Listen.

1200
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: One of the best R and B artists in the

1201
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: world dropped a new song yesterday, and I'm talking about Tyrese.

1202
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,080
Speaker 1: He posted a snippet of his new remix to his

1203
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 1: song I Don't Think You Ever Loved Me? And I

1204
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 1: think it was addressed in Charlomagne, the remix man The

1205
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 1: remix features two Chains and Jeezy, and instead of talking

1206
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: about the song and the caption, he decided to talk

1207
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: about you. Charlotmagne, did you see it? I did see that, actually,

1208
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: he said. And for everybody out there, this is Tyrese's words.

1209
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: He said, um, I sent my remix to Charlottage and

1210
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: he texts back that nobody cares. That's facts the links

1211
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 1: in the bio. And then he said, I see the

1212
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: ex dark He's still losing sleep over me because I'm

1213
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 1: still my original complexion, because you, Darky definitely not losing

1214
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,760
Speaker 1: no sleep. And first of all, I didn't say nobody cares.

1215
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: I said, we don't care. We being me myself and

1216
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: I okay, I don't care. Why are you so hard

1217
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: on him? He just sent you his record. Look, in

1218
00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: this business, if you can't be used, you're useless. We notice.

1219
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: But Tyrese is the person only who only reaches out

1220
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: when you want something. I like it shot use your useless?

1221
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, but when we know that in this business, right,

1222
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: But he's a person who only reaches out when he

1223
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: wants something. You never say what's up? Man? How are you?

1224
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: It's always me? Me, me, me, me me, me, me,

1225
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: and he sent me that. So like two or three times,

1226
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 1: we're like, yo, we don't care when he texts you that,

1227
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 1: and you said I'm gonna text him back. I thought

1228
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 1: you were. I thought you are like homies. You were

1229
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 1: really serious that you don't care. No, No, they go

1230
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 1: back and forth. There was a group text with me,

1231
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: him and Tyres and it gets nasty. Wow, we don't care.

1232
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: And then he replied, back light kin behavior. Listen, I

1233
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 1: was saying, I was saying, Jesus. I was saying outside

1234
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: the room. Last time I saw Tires. He was at

1235
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 1: the Clide Davis party and he was walking out with

1236
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: Kim Burrell. You know Kim Burrell. She's had a lot

1237
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: to say about the games. And so later when he

1238
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: said that she had pneumonia and that he wanted us

1239
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 1: to pray for I was like, I wanted to text

1240
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: me and say my gay prayers. That wasn't gonna happen.

1241
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: Gay prayers worked too, prayers prayer na I left that

1242
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: one alone. God bless her. Listen Clode Bailey, and you're

1243
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 1: not gonna play a clip of his record? Who record?

1244
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: You know what Yellow found game? Let's keep Oh. He

1245
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: did say though, he said, Hey, homie, this is when

1246
00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 1: you know it's about to get real. He said, hey, homie,

1247
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 1: what you cannot do is disrespect one of the only

1248
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: real R and B singers that doesn't need auto tune,

1249
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 1: that is still out here giving us real R and

1250
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: B music and real lyrics. Who's that? Tyres said that

1251
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 1: to you? No? Oh sorry, oh sorry it was a

1252
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: mister financial advisor on social media said that sorry, we

1253
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: ain't taking you advice. All right? Well, anyway, moving on,

1254
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 1: Halle Halle Berry and Chloe Bailey are in the news now.

1255
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 1: Chloe Bailey's sex scene and Swarm, I guess is kicked

1256
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:26,479
Speaker 1: off a conversation about colorism and this is a topic

1257
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: that I hate talking about because this was created by

1258
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 1: white supremacy. But whatever. Social media started giving their opinions

1259
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: on Chloe Bailey's opening sex scene in the Donald Glover's

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Speaker 1: show Swarm, and people are criticizing her for her choice

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00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: to accept the role, and one person said that where

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00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: is the Chloe Bailey mentor police. She's been making terrible

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00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: decisions lately. She should have never done that sex scene

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00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: and Swarm. And I'm not even gonna go into her

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00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: most recent collaboration. Now people are saying, can't do a

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00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: sex scene in the movie Well, people are comparing it

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00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: to halle Berry, halle Berry saying that she could have

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00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: she could get an oscar because halle Berry got one

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00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: from the movie Ball And people are saying the only

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00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: reason why she got that is because she's light skinned.

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Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I'm lost. This is ridiculous. I don't know.

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00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: I did say, I did see the scene. I will

1273
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: say I love Chloe and I love the fact that

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00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: she's doing whatever she wants to do and it's her body,

1275
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: her choices. But uh, I couldn't stop thinking about Laurie

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00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: Harvey in that scene for some reason. Why that she

1277
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: was getting humped on by her man. It's a movie,

1278
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: it's acting. That was kind of sponsored by pornhub dot com.

1279
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 1: I remember, well. I had a conversation with Making Good

1280
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: last year on my late night Talks to Hellable week

1281
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: and she was talking about how she got to be

1282
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: cautious of the role she chooses now because nowadays people

1283
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 1: can't determine reality from acting. And I thought that was

1284
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 1: so strange, But now I'm starting to see it play out.

1285
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:44,919
Speaker 1: She's an actress. I see a problem with I don't

1286
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 1: see a problem with me. But even what you just

1287
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: said about you can't think Laura Harvey. I wouldn't be

1288
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: thinking that. I'd be like, this is a movie. Well,

1289
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: and then you can't. I mean her sister is a mermaid.

1290
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know where it but got Disney

1291
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: start now, I don't. I don't know it is acting.

1292
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: It should be escaping, but people look at colorism is

1293
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: not our issue, but it's become our problem. I don't

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01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: know it's it's this is a crazy conversation. I don't

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01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: even know what the skin color got to do with

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01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: any of that. I was confused. Then they said Hallie Berry,

1297
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: Hallie Berry getting backshots, bro got her an oscar? I think,

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01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: I mean was that why she got the oscar? I

1299
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: mean I didn't personally care from Austar. I don't think

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01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 1: anybody personally cared for as well. That's it. I don't

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01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: even know why we're talking about. I mean, yeah, that's

1302
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: the room report. Okay, we'll just swarm on TV. Yeah

1303
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: not play man, shut up Mancord. Yes, okay, y after

1304
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 1: day Tis posted this one. Got a good thing. You

1305
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: put the ways brothers he put Jamie Fox put Martin

1306
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: let his single, but then the Second Wife was his song.

1307
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,959
Speaker 1: That was too easy. But I didn't say nothing because

1308
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: I'm not petty, right, but that was very easy. But

1309
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: you had the comments. I know. I started to like,

1310
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: how was nobody posting your song? I want to go

1311
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 1: go it all fairness type races and the major artists.

1312
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: I mean that that. That last album he had was

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01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: Fire Shame was one of my favorite songs. I didn't

1314
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,439
Speaker 1: know y'all have beef. We don't have any I don't

1315
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 1: have any text nobody. He said, I'm trying to get

1316
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: Charlotte Mane to play your record. Gotta be funny. He

1317
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: might get on live and just don't know DJ. And

1318
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: by the way, you old tyres Re saved your life.

1319
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: He didn't say my life. He saved your marriage. Didn't

1320
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 1: say if he helped save my marriage. Sounds wow? It

1321
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: does sound wild, really wow. See that man had actually

1322
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: done something for you. He never done anything. I've done

1323
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:35,920
Speaker 1: a zillion things with Race. I love Tarras. What do

1324
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: you do? We can't talk about it that right I

1325
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 1: talk We talk about it when we come back. Ok

1326
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: Now he did though, absolutely positively. Tire saved your marriage.

1327
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 1: That's wild and that's nothing I want to tell my kids.

1328
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: Are were gonna play that. We're gonna play the record

1329
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 1: on the way out? No, wow, can we edit it

1330
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: with just two change in Jesu Versus? You'll come on, man,

1331
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: we just ordered several copies and bulldoz. Come on, man,

1332
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play recording the mix. I'm not gonna tell

1333
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: you that. No, no, no, I'm not gonna let you

1334
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: do that. I'm not gonna let you do that. I'm

1335
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:12,479
Speaker 1: not gonna let you do that. No. No, He's gonna

1336
01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: go at you for about an hour on Live Today.

1337
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: Call types of names. He's gonna calle me a beach bench.

1338
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: She gonna call you darkie. He's gonna go back and

1339
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: he bad nut hanging with Kim Brown. You bad not

1340
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: say no gay jokes. Jesus Christ, please get it your

1341
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 1: donkey too, man oh Man. Four after the hour, somebody

1342
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:32,080
Speaker 1: that's capital Riyant White. Okay, his name is Cleveland grow

1343
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: but married junior. He needs to come to the front

1344
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: of congregation. We like to have a word with him

1345
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 1: for we're gonna do that. We're gonna edit. No, we're

1346
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 1: not the new tireasion right now the way it's just

1347
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: jeez and two change verses. He can't do that, man,

1348
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: that'll be so amazing. No, come on, man, stop no

1349
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: man at one time? What no, No, I ain't messing

1350
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: with you. Man, didn't just have a segment with the psychotherapist. Yes,

1351
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 1: ain't work. That ain't that ain't me being petty. That's

1352
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: just funny. That's just pure comedy. I'm sure if I

1353
01:02:57,920 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: got the group chat, I'm gonna sare the group chat

1354
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: with us in it. Donkeny days up next at the

1355
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Good morning the breakfast Club. Your mornings will

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Speaker 1: never be the same. Your company as gold this year.

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Speaker 1: slash breakfast. This is a miracle, there is no question.

1362
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:29,600
Speaker 1: And there are problems in this country between police and community. Yes,

1363
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: you are a donkey. The latest on that police killing

1364
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 1: of a black man, now the new developments in the

1365
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: deadly Spaw shooting Rampagny was a really bad day for him,

1366
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: and this is what he did, and so we are

1367
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: in a state of emergency. Okay, White supremacives violence is

1368
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: always have been the number one threat to our sucide.

1369
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: But I'm also very proud that my wife was white.

1370
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 1: Because the breakfast club bitches, please tell me, why was

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01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: I your donkey of the day, Yes, Donkey to day

1372
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: for Tuesday March. When he first goes to a man

1373
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: named Cleveland Grover Meritive Junior. Who is Cleveland Grover Meritive Junior. Well,

1374
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 1: he's a human jar of helmets, okay, the type of

1375
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: person that gets excited when Donald Trump calls for a protest,

1376
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 1: the type of human who stands back and stands by

1377
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: when Trump tells him to and waits for a command

1378
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 1: to take back his country. I'm not making this up, Okay,

1379
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: I'm not assuming things, all right, Because he was arrested

1380
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: and pled guilty back in twenty twenty one to make

1381
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 1: to making interstate threats, which is a felony, and he

1382
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: was sent us to serve more than two years in

1383
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: prison and three years probation probation after being arrested the

1384
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: day after the Capitol riots because he threatened to shoot

1385
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 1: former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi. Yes, he was arrested after

1386
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 1: his own mama, his mother the womb from which he came,

1387
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: called the FBI concerned about a text he sent to

1388
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 1: an uncle saying thinking about heading over the Pelosi speech

1389
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 1: and putting a bullet in her nogging on live TV.

1390
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 1: He also made a similar threat to the mayor of

1391
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: a DC. Now here's the thing about those kind of threats.

1392
01:04:57,840 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: He didn't just text it. You know. He got in

1393
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 1: his vehicle, probably a pickup truck, and headed to DC

1394
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,960
Speaker 1: for the insurrection that happened on January six, But he

1395
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: was delayed because of car trouble, and he arrived on

1396
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: the evening of January six, after the riots were over. Now,

1397
01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:14,680
Speaker 1: when this man got arrested in a Washington, DC hotel room,

1398
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 1: listening to what was seized from him and his arrest,

1399
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 1: an assault rifle, a semi automatic handgun, and more than

1400
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred rounds of ammunition, including armor piercing rounds.

1401
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:29,439
Speaker 1: And now Cleveland wants his stuff back. Okay, he doesn't

1402
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,120
Speaker 1: just want his stuff back. He wants his stuff back

1403
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:34,280
Speaker 1: for a specific reason. He's done his time and he

1404
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: wants his ammunition and his artillery back. And Manning's is

1405
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 1: so heavy on this one. Let's go to eleven A

1406
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 1: Live for the report. Police. A Georgia man who served

1407
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: time for his part in the insurrection at the US

1408
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 1: Capital now once his guns at ammunition returned Cleveland, Meredith

1409
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: Junior was arrested soon after the insurrection. Agents found he

1410
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 1: drove hundreds of miles to DC and brought twenty five

1411
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 1: hundred rounds of ammunition and two guns with him. Meredith

1412
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: was released from in December, and violins obtained by eleven Alive.

1413
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: We have learned that he is now asking the court

1414
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 1: to release the firearms and the mcs during his arrest

1415
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 1: back to his attorney so they can be sold. Come home, man, Now,

1416
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at anyone who knows the law and

1417
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: uses the law to their advantage. Because the motion sites

1418
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:20,720
Speaker 1: twenty fifteen US Supreme Court case that in cases where

1419
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: a defendant was banned from owning guns, judges may allow

1420
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: the transfer of sees firearms to a third party as

1421
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 1: long as the judges convinced the defendant will not have

1422
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: access to them, and in this case, the motion will

1423
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: call for his lawyer, Tyler Dixon and salt the fire

1424
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 1: arms to a buyer unknown to Meritith. That's the law. Okay,

1425
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:42,479
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it at all. But the reason

1426
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: Cleveland Grover Meritith Junior is getting donkey at the dead

1427
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: because yes, he served his prison time. But can you

1428
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 1: imagine threatening to kill an elected official, threatening to shoot them,

1429
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:55,439
Speaker 1: getting caught with guns, sent to prison, and then coming

1430
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: home and asking for your potential murder weapons back so

1431
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 1: you can sell them and make money. Imagine, if you will,

1432
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 1: a big beach from being bath Right coming home from

1433
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: prison and asking law enforcement to give his lawyer to

1434
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:10,600
Speaker 1: twenty one million dollars worth of assets they seized, including

1435
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: the cash, the jury, the thirteen homes between Detroit, Georgia

1436
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:16,440
Speaker 1: and la the three dozen vehicles. Hey give my lawyers

1437
01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:18,439
Speaker 1: that so I can sell them, so I can sell

1438
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 1: them to make some money. The absurdity, right, do you

1439
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 1: think they would laugh big meat out the courtroom. You

1440
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 1: think they would laugh big meatch lawyer out the courtroom.

1441
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 1: Only in America can you threaten to kill someone literally

1442
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 1: say I want to shoot her in the head, get

1443
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 1: caught with guns after traveling where you are to where

1444
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 1: the person is, get caught with the weapons you threaten

1445
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 1: the person with, and then there is a law that

1446
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 1: allows you to possibly get said of weapons back, and

1447
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 1: you want those weapons back so you can sell them.

1448
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:42,800
Speaker 1: Why do you want to sell them because you need

1449
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: the money. You just got out of prison trying to

1450
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 1: get back on your feet. But if I'm to judge,

1451
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:48,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say get back on your feet. How about

1452
01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:50,960
Speaker 1: you get back in this cell. Okay, I'm locking you

1453
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: back up. You need to go back in this cell

1454
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: and sit here until you learn the era of your ways.

1455
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 1: Because you don't think you did anything wrong. If you

1456
01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 1: thought you actually did something wrong, didn't want to go

1457
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 1: near any guns, but in particular the weapons that essentially

1458
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 1: got you locked up. But in America they called Cassidy

1459
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:10,240
Speaker 1: rules everything around me, because let's be clear, only a

1460
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 1: human that's capitol riot white is getting two years for

1461
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 1: all those guns and AMMO in the first place, hand

1462
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 1: a threat to an elected official. An white would just

1463
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 1: be happy to be home. A non white would only

1464
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: only okay, I don't know what a non white would

1465
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 1: do in a situation like this, because he wouldn't have

1466
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 1: the option. He'd still be in prison. Okay, Only a

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01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: member of Vanilla Isis would feel privileged enough to say,

1468
01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: run me my weapons back so I can make some money.

1469
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:39,839
Speaker 1: Some donkey. The days just sell themselves. Please give Cleveland

1470
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:46,439
Speaker 1: Grover Meritith Junior the biggest he hall. I'm tripping, Chelsea.

1471
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 1: Let Chelsea handle give him the biggest hell. He ha

1472
01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:52,240
Speaker 1: he ha. That is way too much. Dan mann Is,

1473
01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 1: oh man, Oh, Kathy Griffin just hit me. She what

1474
01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 1: she got something to say to? Please give this giant

1475
01:08:57,600 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 1: jar of male the biggest heahaway, Chris Rock feel about

1476
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: the situation. Oh oh my girl, she clocked in yet right, Okay, okay,

1477
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 1: anybody else I think that's all we do? All right, well,

1478
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Don't get to day. So all right,

1479
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 1: let's open up the phone lines eight five five, one

1480
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: oh five one. Now. Elliott Connie was joining us at

1481
01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:29,640
Speaker 1: last hour and one of the most coachingly competent psychotherapist

1482
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 1: you're ever gonna meet in your life. And during that

1483
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: conversation we were talking about get back, like getting your

1484
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: licks back. We have a piece of that combo. I

1485
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: give you a perfect example. I'm avengeful, hands down, straight up.

1486
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 1: There's people that have done things to me that I

1487
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 1: need my clap back. I need my revenge. I love

1488
01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: that actually, and if you mess with me, I'm cool.

1489
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 1: But if you mess with my family, I need that revenge.

1490
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 1: And I know I shouldn't feel like that. I know

1491
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:56,360
Speaker 1: what the therapist is gonna tell me that. But is

1492
01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 1: there anything wrong with that? Though? So I'm I don't

1493
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 1: personally say anything wrong with that. I'm gonna tell you.

1494
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you my therapist ance. I don't put

1495
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 1: on my therapist had answer. No, there is nothing wrong

1496
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 1: with being vengeful petty getting my look back clack back.

1497
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm that way too though, right, all right, So we're

1498
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: asking eight five eight five one oh five one. What's

1499
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: the pettiest thing you've done to get your look back,

1500
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 1: to get revenge? That is the question. I waited to

1501
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 1: hear this from YouTube Paige individuals, Jason Lee and DJ Envy.

1502
01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear I think I know a

1503
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:33,559
Speaker 1: lot of them though, you know most of my Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1504
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm trying. I actually was thinking about it

1505
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 1: because I know I've done so many things. Um, because

1506
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:43,040
Speaker 1: I can't really think of anything that I sought out

1507
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 1: to be petty. Four. Because there's probably been so many.

1508
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 1: One thing I will say recently, my pettiest get back

1509
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: was that I felt good about and I didn't even

1510
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,760
Speaker 1: have to be messy, was when there was a video

1511
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: that went viral of me going to a party with

1512
01:10:57,040 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: Asap and Rihanna, and then they took it and said

1513
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,360
Speaker 1: that basically I was sneaking in the picture. They made it.

1514
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,519
Speaker 1: They made it look crazy again, like to be honest thing,

1515
01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 1: and I wanted to say something, but then I thought,

1516
01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:09,479
Speaker 1: you know what, what can you say with the internet.

1517
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: You're never gonna beat the internet. So I just left

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01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:13,080
Speaker 1: it alone. And then Rihanna gave me the baby photos

1519
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 1: and I put them out, So that was my getback.

1520
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:16,560
Speaker 1: It was petty, the way I put it out and

1521
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 1: the way I, you know, through it in everybody's face

1522
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:20,679
Speaker 1: that they couldn't get it. But I can't remember. I'm

1523
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: trying to think of things that I've been really really petty,

1524
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 1: And we'll talk about it when we come back, and

1525
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: we want to hear from you. I've never been petty.

1526
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. That's

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01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 1: a damn lie. You just trying to take time. Reis

1528
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 1: had his own song exactly I'm going to do that.

1529
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,640
Speaker 1: But that's funny. That's not petty. We're talking about it

1530
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: when we come back. It's the breakfast club. Go about it.

1531
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:45,760
Speaker 1: The breakfast club, my family. I'm the type. I'm gonna

1532
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:48,640
Speaker 1: buy your house. I'm going to get a bulldoze up,

1533
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna knock it over, and then I'm gonna give

1534
01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 1: the land to goodwill. That is me. I'm the type

1535
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:56,479
Speaker 1: if you if you park in front of my driveway,

1536
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let all the airs out of your tire.

1537
01:11:58,160 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 1: You're gonna think it's a flat tire. You're gonna go

1538
01:12:00,000 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 1: to the place to try to change the flat time

1539
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna realize it's just air. That is me. I

1540
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:05,680
Speaker 1: used to have road rage. I used to throw it.

1541
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 1: I used to keep a cup of McDonald's McDonald's cup

1542
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 1: with change in it just to throw it. Drives if

1543
01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:13,200
Speaker 1: they cut me off. That used to be me. I'm

1544
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: a change guy. Though I'm a change individual. That's not

1545
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 1: me anymore. I'm calm, I'm cool, Jason, full of change

1546
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 1: at people all day long. It's New York. We used

1547
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:26,439
Speaker 1: to keep pennies in a cup just for people. That

1548
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,800
Speaker 1: used to walt I don't do that anymore. I'm a

1549
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 1: change individual. That's nuts. I couldn't remember times I've been

1550
01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:34,679
Speaker 1: petty because I've so since tried to become a different person.

1551
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 1: So I called somebody on my team and she gave

1552
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 1: me a list. You know. One of the things I

1553
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 1: remember when I started my podcast, I wanted to have

1554
01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:43,240
Speaker 1: Little Mama on, and I invited her on and she

1555
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:45,800
Speaker 1: wanted glam and she wanted a car service and all that,

1556
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: and I was like, we ain't got no money for that.

1557
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,600
Speaker 1: So she didn't show up, and we still had to

1558
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:51,320
Speaker 1: show to produce. So I printed out the photo of

1559
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:53,560
Speaker 1: her here when you interviewed her, and I taped it

1560
01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 1: on a chair and I interviewed the chair for forty

1561
01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: five minutes. That's petty. That's kind of petty. Yeah, that's

1562
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 1: kind of petty. I don't I honestly haven't done anything petty, Really, No,

1563
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:05,679
Speaker 1: I haven't. I have learned in life there is nothing

1564
01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:07,479
Speaker 1: I could do or say that will take care of

1565
01:13:07,600 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 1: a person who harmed you more than life can, all right,

1566
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 1: Because here's the thing about those kinds of people. They

1567
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: are just those kinds of people, and they didn't just

1568
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: do you wrong. They've done a bunch of people wrong,

1569
01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 1: so eventually it all catches up. And I promise you

1570
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: when it comes to that, I'm undefeated. I let people

1571
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,280
Speaker 1: say whatever, I let people do whatever. I used to

1572
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 1: be the person who I can't wait to run back

1573
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 1: here and talk about you on this microphone. But just

1574
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 1: like now, for what like, nobody can piss you off

1575
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:32,840
Speaker 1: without your consent, and I'm not letting it. Nobody piss

1576
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,360
Speaker 1: me off, old petty, I'm not And I don't even

1577
01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 1: think got up as petty. I think when you when

1578
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 1: you say something about a person, a person may have

1579
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 1: said something about you, and you respond verbally, that's just

1580
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:47,560
Speaker 1: a response. That's not going out of your way to

1581
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:49,640
Speaker 1: try to get get out of person. You know what

1582
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:53,519
Speaker 1: I mean. I've never I've never used any energy going

1583
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 1: out of my way to try to hurt somebody. Yeah,

1584
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 1: well I get that. I don't go out of my

1585
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 1: way either. I do respond, though, and sometimes that is

1586
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 1: looked at as being petty. Right, Like you don't have

1587
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 1: to respond to your point. Every everything doesn't require response.

1588
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 1: I'm learning that times that's still get We can give

1589
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: it to him. It just depends where you take it.

1590
01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:16,480
Speaker 1: Like you know, buying somebody's house. You're wanting the bulldozer.

1591
01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: That's that's an ex tree, you know what I mean.

1592
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:23,280
Speaker 1: That takes a lot of energy to exert that have

1593
01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:24,800
Speaker 1: to go into that. I'm not doing all now. The

1594
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,080
Speaker 1: person that that I was going to do that to hit,

1595
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 1: what he did wasn't extreme, Oh Barry, Okay, energy was matched,

1596
01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: But you shouldn't always match energy going not. You know

1597
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Sometimes you got to you can't. You

1598
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: got to teach people how to treat you. Sometimes times

1599
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 1: you got to. Sometimes sometimes you gotta punch somebody in

1600
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,360
Speaker 1: the face. I don't know if those people that were

1601
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,599
Speaker 1: learned because it's not about you. Those people that treat

1602
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:48,519
Speaker 1: you like that, treat everybody like that. We take those

1603
01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 1: type of things personal, but it's not just us. That's

1604
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 1: why those people always end up crashing and burning in

1605
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 1: such a harsh way because it's not just us. They

1606
01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:58,799
Speaker 1: do like that. They do everybody like that, so eventually

1607
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 1: it catch us up. I don't even take stuff like

1608
01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,519
Speaker 1: that person as that person's character. They gotta live with that,

1609
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:05,680
Speaker 1: they gotta deal with that. The just the punch in

1610
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:07,960
Speaker 1: the face just feels better sometimes and when I mean

1611
01:15:08,040 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 1: to punch in the face, you know what it is.

1612
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:11,720
Speaker 1: I just I like to kill people, right, and not

1613
01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 1: kill people in the physical form, but kill them in

1614
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 1: the fact that they just can't do anything. They can't eat,

1615
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:18,600
Speaker 1: they can't pay their bills, like they are dead to

1616
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:21,160
Speaker 1: the world. That's how I feel. That's not your place

1617
01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 1: to do, though. Life goes deaf for people. And I'm

1618
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:24,599
Speaker 1: actually in the lawsuit right now now to just remember

1619
01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:26,439
Speaker 1: that something paid that I did. Somebody was harassing me

1620
01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 1: online and I told him, nigga, I'm king calling in

1621
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 1: the internet. Don't play with me and you keep doing

1622
01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 1: what you do with everybody else, and he kept doing.

1623
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 1: He released my home address. So what I did was

1624
01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: I waited, waited, waited, and I saw this kid stream

1625
01:15:39,240 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 1: saying that he was trying to have sex with him allegedly.

1626
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 1: So what I did was I took that clip, called

1627
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:45,720
Speaker 1: his department build and tell him I was gonna hire

1628
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: people on Craigslist of protest and leaflet the community that

1629
01:15:48,800 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: he was a pedophile. Jesus. I called Twitter. I had

1630
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:54,639
Speaker 1: his Twitter deleted because he was harassing me on Twitter

1631
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: releasing my home address. I trademarked his business and owned

1632
01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 1: it and then I had a removed from the app

1633
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 1: and he lost all of his income. So still that's

1634
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 1: a lot, Jason, that's what I'm talking about. That But

1635
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 1: that's my code. That's what I'm talking about. That took

1636
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 1: a lot of time, a lot of energy. It's still

1637
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:13,200
Speaker 1: good for My assistant did all the research and called

1638
01:16:13,280 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 1: his up. I'm gonna chance bumping right now, why can't you? Now?

1639
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: We called the Baltimore Police Department. We filed charges, and

1640
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 1: I reached out to the kids too much as a

1641
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:26,479
Speaker 1: former child molest survivor and UH and an advocate to

1642
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 1: let them know that their son was That's a lot.

1643
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 1: That's a lot, bro, that's a lot. Is the king

1644
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 1: of a le. Now you got me one to do

1645
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:35,679
Speaker 1: something good. I heard something that Hies song. I'm gonna

1646
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 1: do that, Jason. I'm gonna That's exactly what I'm gonna do.

1647
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play Tyreesa's song to show that I am

1648
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 1: not petty and I don't have any ill feelings towards

1649
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 1: Tyresa that we're gonna play at the end of this break,

1650
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna play ty Rees's new record Wow, Hello, Who's Astring? Two?

1651
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 1: Change in jeez, it's carry Hey Carrie, good morning. Have

1652
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: you done something petty? What's the pettiest thing you've done

1653
01:16:54,400 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: to get your look back? And that's what I'm calling.

1654
01:16:57,280 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 1: I'm hoping you and Charlotte Mane to give me petty lessons.

1655
01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 1: People have done some nasty things to me and I'm

1656
01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 1: always nice like a big mine. Now you sign Caribbean?

1657
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:09,360
Speaker 1: Where are you from me? Come come on now, you

1658
01:17:09,520 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 1: know what to do. Go get that goddamn chicken bone

1659
01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 1: and get you a little piece of that person. You

1660
01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:19,320
Speaker 1: know what to do. You know what. I kept listening

1661
01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 1: with you. I can't Charlotte, I have one lady. I

1662
01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 1: feel sorry for her letter at my house. You destroyed

1663
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: my house. You rats and roaches and at the holes

1664
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:35,560
Speaker 1: stole my plan for my furniture eat revanage. But I

1665
01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:38,639
Speaker 1: just can't do it. I can't believe we're sitting there

1666
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 1: having this conversation as a black magic don't exist. It's

1667
01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 1: hard to do. Jay. Hello, yo, yo morning, good morning,

1668
01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 1: good morning. What's up? Man. What's the pettiest thing you've

1669
01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:54,599
Speaker 1: done to somebody? He is Jay Coodle. I'm from the city.

1670
01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 1: Sorry all right, So I'm working for the city and

1671
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:00,720
Speaker 1: I have a lifeguard or whatever, and um, I got

1672
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,760
Speaker 1: wrote up for a no car or no show, so

1673
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 1: and I called off. I had somebody, you know, I

1674
01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 1: called off or whatever. They they didn't believe me for

1675
01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 1: whatever reason, so they gave me like three days spending

1676
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 1: me or whatever. So I, uh, I took the boss

1677
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 1: uh chestick, yeah, and uh you know, hit my goots,

1678
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: hit my under arm. Listen. I'm like, listen, y'all, darn

1679
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,320
Speaker 1: me dirty, you know what I'm saying. I'm like, listen,

1680
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 1: if I wouldn't, if I wouldn't have called off, I

1681
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 1: can see that. But I really called off, and y'all

1682
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 1: still wrote me up and gave me three days off.

1683
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,400
Speaker 1: Somebody gotta pay for this. Maybe wild if you had crabs, though,

1684
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:37,559
Speaker 1: if you had crabs, that would just like totally deliver.

1685
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:39,960
Speaker 1: I got another story about that. But that's that's what

1686
01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: what what? What flavor goots though? Because the gooch can

1687
01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:45,560
Speaker 1: change flavors depending on what time of day. And I

1688
01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:49,839
Speaker 1: did I just finished hoping, Oh my god, so confused.

1689
01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 1: Vinegard goobye, sir, so vinegaroches nut? Goodbye, sir? Whoa wow?

1690
01:18:56,040 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 1: Whoa one five one? What's the pettiest thing you did

1691
01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:03,200
Speaker 1: to get your lick back? Let's talk about it is

1692
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Local Morning. Call me your opinions to the

1693
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 1: breakfast club topic. Come on, I five five one five

1694
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:23,680
Speaker 1: one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We

1695
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,680
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club and now if you just joined us,

1696
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 1: we're talking. Uh. We have our co host Jason and

1697
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:31,599
Speaker 1: we're talking get back. All right, what's the pettiest thing

1698
01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:35,160
Speaker 1: you did to get your get back? Hello? Who's this? Hello? Hey?

1699
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 1: What's your name? Hey? I'm Nia. How are you? Hey? Neil?

1700
01:19:38,360 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 1: What's the pettiest thing you did to get your get back? So?

1701
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 1: The pettiest thing I did? Um, I was working at

1702
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 1: a job with my ax whatever I thought my boys

1703
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 1: and long story show. I had this dark opportunity that

1704
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:52,560
Speaker 1: I taught like, Okay, this is gonna put me on

1705
01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:55,719
Speaker 1: the mat, gonna make back back whenever. Well, he basically

1706
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, you should take it. Who used

1707
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 1: to be a real supporters. I'm like, you know, I

1708
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 1: got the best boyfriend. Let me came my two weeks

1709
01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 1: in and get a different job. So I went to

1710
01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 1: the new job or whatever. Come to find out, everybody

1711
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:09,880
Speaker 1: at the old job was like girl. The reason why

1712
01:20:09,960 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 1: he did that because a new girl is then he's

1713
01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 1: like having up film. Huh, that's the oldest made me

1714
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 1: leave this job or he could do him. That's okay.

1715
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:22,760
Speaker 1: So me and my brain, me being petty, I had

1716
01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:25,680
Speaker 1: made like he's like wanted post to saying he was

1717
01:20:25,760 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: wanting for rape. Oh my god, no, no, that's criminal.

1718
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:32,479
Speaker 1: That's criminal. Jesus, you need to be a jail. Oh no,

1719
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:34,400
Speaker 1: he tried, he tried. That's I can't say my name

1720
01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:36,519
Speaker 1: on him because you're going with support right now. But anyway,

1721
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 1: I thought he was waningful rap. I've been all over

1722
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 1: the park a lot in his job, and I went

1723
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 1: to his MoMA neighborhood because he lived. His mom would

1724
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 1: put it all over the old the stop side. So

1725
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 1: you falsely accused this man a rap. I did that.

1726
01:20:49,120 --> 01:20:51,400
Speaker 1: That's more than petty. People like you should actually be

1727
01:20:51,479 --> 01:20:54,040
Speaker 1: thrown under the jail, like like you should be like that,

1728
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: be like that. You're playing with that man's life. You're

1729
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:02,439
Speaker 1: playing with that man. There have to have lecca me

1730
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:04,880
Speaker 1: leave my job. Another female. He could have just broke

1731
01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:06,880
Speaker 1: it off. And until it is dead because of people,

1732
01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 1: and until it is dead because of people like you. Exactly,

1733
01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:15,200
Speaker 1: god Man, Tenti park five did years in prison because

1734
01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 1: of people like her. What are you talking about? That

1735
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:21,639
Speaker 1: beyond that's not even that like, that's criminal. She should

1736
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: be in jail. All right, Well, I don't want to

1737
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:26,200
Speaker 1: play anymore with you, guys. I want to. I want to.

1738
01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: I want to do something positive. I'm gonna. I want

1739
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:31,759
Speaker 1: to salute to Tyrese. So you know, your new single Tyrese,

1740
01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 1: I Don't Think You Ever Loved Me is actually tough.

1741
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 1: It's dope. I think the record is dope. The atl

1742
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:39,120
Speaker 1: Legacy remix with Two Chains and Geez is fire. So

1743
01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:41,720
Speaker 1: I just want to congratulate Tyrese on the release of

1744
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:44,719
Speaker 1: the record and let's play it. Let's play the record

1745
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:48,320
Speaker 1: right now, just Two Chains and Geez featuring Tyrese. You

1746
01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:51,360
Speaker 1: have evolved. I don't Think You Ever loved Me? Okay,

1747
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 1: we're talking about on the record, tyres was all over

1748
01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 1: the record. No, no, he's not singing on the record.

1749
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:01,080
Speaker 1: That was tyre He's all over the record. That's the

1750
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 1: vision he sent me. That is the version he sent me.

1751
01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:06,800
Speaker 1: He sent me that version with just two changing Jeezy

1752
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 1: and him doing the atlets and here, see Jason here,

1753
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:10,760
Speaker 1: I thought he changed. I thought, I don't think you

1754
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:12,280
Speaker 1: have thought I was a different person, But you're not.

1755
01:22:12,320 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 1: You're the same shot. I thought that was a dope

1756
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 1: way for him to like embrace what we all saw

1757
01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:18,639
Speaker 1: him go through. And the denial is making it even worse.

1758
01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:21,760
Speaker 1: What y'all talking about, salute the black time man. That

1759
01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 1: is crazy, you know what I mean? You try to

1760
01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 1: do something nice and then y'all gonna jump on. And

1761
01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:28,679
Speaker 1: that's why he called your darky yesterday. Well I'm happy

1762
01:22:28,720 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 1: to be a darkie. Okay. You see how you saw

1763
01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 1: these beige people doing, you Tyres discouraging me from playing

1764
01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: your records. You know what, when we come back, he

1765
01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: got the room report. What we're talking about Cameron is

1766
01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 1: now I think he's leaving hip hop to get into talk.

1767
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 1: He's gonna launch his own advice talk show. Okay, all right,

1768
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 1: well we'll get into that next. It don't move. It's

1769
01:22:46,600 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Not right?

1770
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:53,600
Speaker 1: What you did, Tyre, spot I didn't do not to

1771
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: stop it, knock it off. That was just playing. I'm

1772
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 1: having a little fun this morning. That's all, super petty.

1773
01:22:57,400 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 1: He can joke. I can't joke. See, that's why I

1774
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:00,759
Speaker 1: don't like to play, because he when I play, everybody

1775
01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:02,680
Speaker 1: you know all I'm tight when I played. When I

1776
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 1: want to have a little fun, it's because you're not

1777
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:06,680
Speaker 1: doing it regularly. When you do it regularly, if I'm

1778
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:08,439
Speaker 1: not doing it, well, I don't do it regularly for

1779
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 1: a reason, I hurt people. Yes, anyway, we are to

1780
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning. Jason Lee is here, our co host.

1781
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 1: Let's get you the rooms. I've mastered the tea thing.

1782
01:23:18,920 --> 01:23:20,240
Speaker 1: The only place I want to come and talk to

1783
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:22,280
Speaker 1: about was here because I really feel like everybody in

1784
01:23:22,360 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 1: the culture parstially off. But I knew I can talk

1785
01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 1: my talk talk to me. This is the rumor report

1786
01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. Well listen, I said that the

1787
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:37,560
Speaker 1: Dip Sat the Dip Sat. Dip said Rapper Cameron was

1788
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:40,680
Speaker 1: launching his own advice talk show, uh and leaving hip hop.

1789
01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:42,639
Speaker 1: I sort of lie, but he did say he's launching

1790
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 1: a talk show and he's calling out doctor Phil. This

1791
01:23:45,520 --> 01:23:49,439
Speaker 1: is what he said, come and talk to me, taking

1792
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:53,679
Speaker 1: the doctor filling number, doctor pell y'all number. I'm taking

1793
01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 1: everybody out of doctor Phil. Mug rapping because I'm doing

1794
01:23:57,600 --> 01:24:01,280
Speaker 1: everybody black well prawn for my not even black and

1795
01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:03,880
Speaker 1: prayer every race. I'm gonna tell them a real advice

1796
01:24:03,960 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 1: they need to hear, to stop trying to act like,

1797
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 1: well we got with my friend in the crowd, he's

1798
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:11,080
Speaker 1: a specialist. Hey, where do you think? No, stop cheating

1799
01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: on him. You can talk about your girl crazy and

1800
01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:15,800
Speaker 1: all this crazy, but you come over with postive seven

1801
01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 1: eight talk in the morning. Every one right with O.

1802
01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:24,960
Speaker 1: That's that's the responses I like. Well, Cameron is a

1803
01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:26,760
Speaker 1: highly entertaining human, So if he wants to do a

1804
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:28,160
Speaker 1: talk show, he could do a talk show and that

1805
01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:30,080
Speaker 1: show that he got with him and Mace as funny

1806
01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:31,960
Speaker 1: as hell. Who would you love to see on that?

1807
01:24:32,160 --> 01:24:34,800
Speaker 1: But Doctor Phil shows over right? Phil shows camp. So

1808
01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:36,680
Speaker 1: that was the other part. Doctor Phil already announced this

1809
01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:38,800
Speaker 1: show is going up there after over twenty years. Correct,

1810
01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:39,960
Speaker 1: I don't know who I would like to see on that,

1811
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:41,800
Speaker 1: but I do remember, and maybe I'm wrong, maybe I

1812
01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:44,679
Speaker 1: got my timelines mixed up, but I remember Cam saying

1813
01:24:44,800 --> 01:24:47,439
Speaker 1: he was going to do a show that ended up

1814
01:24:47,520 --> 01:24:50,080
Speaker 1: being what we now know is to catch a predator.

1815
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:52,840
Speaker 1: I remember him saying that years ago it's when like

1816
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 1: all hip hop was the booming sight and it was

1817
01:24:55,920 --> 01:24:58,760
Speaker 1: on the Ill Seed Rumor report. They went to beat

1818
01:24:58,800 --> 01:25:00,679
Speaker 1: him up though right, I don't remember what I remember

1819
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:02,240
Speaker 1: him saying he was gonna do a show where he

1820
01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:06,840
Speaker 1: was gonna be setting up, remember, and then while to

1821
01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:08,599
Speaker 1: catch a pretty theme. It was like twenty years ago,

1822
01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:10,560
Speaker 1: not even joking. I'd love to tune in if he

1823
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 1: had Karen Simbil on there. Oh my god, what I mean,

1824
01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:19,080
Speaker 1: because you're giving it, Joe Budden, you stop like one, no, no,

1825
01:25:19,560 --> 01:25:21,599
Speaker 1: that's too much for whatever. So he could have Joe

1826
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 1: to see seeing the intro music. Come and talk to

1827
01:25:23,560 --> 01:25:27,400
Speaker 1: me anyway. On the Jason Lee Show tonight, I got

1828
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:29,519
Speaker 1: n l E Chopper. He came on to talk about

1829
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:31,240
Speaker 1: a lot of things, and one thing I had to

1830
01:25:31,240 --> 01:25:33,360
Speaker 1: ask him was his beef that everybody on the internet

1831
01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:35,600
Speaker 1: was talking about with him an NBA young boy, and

1832
01:25:35,680 --> 01:25:38,000
Speaker 1: I was really amazed at the conversation what he shared.

1833
01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 1: But this is what he said. But I think about you,

1834
01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:44,320
Speaker 1: and I think about another rapper who's really successful as

1835
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:47,080
Speaker 1: an Organs. I like how he can kind of see

1836
01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:50,600
Speaker 1: one on one who has a really huge following. And

1837
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm like this guy's everything about him as positive. What

1838
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:55,439
Speaker 1: has he ever had any beef with anybody at all?

1839
01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:57,320
Speaker 1: And then of course you know I found the stuff

1840
01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:00,320
Speaker 1: with NBA. Young boy, y'all had your time. That was

1841
01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:02,720
Speaker 1: at a time when you were in lle travel with

1842
01:26:02,920 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 1: no love at offer anybody for myself, Are you in

1843
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:09,680
Speaker 1: a different place now with what that relationship? Where that

1844
01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 1: relationship ended, It's no beef. It was another in the

1845
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 1: beef more so like misunderstanding or anything like that. But

1846
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 1: it was never no beef. See beef to me or

1847
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:23,000
Speaker 1: we come from it is like somebody died and like

1848
01:26:23,280 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 1: you trying to get to get back for that person

1849
01:26:25,720 --> 01:26:27,880
Speaker 1: that passed away. But it was another in new beef

1850
01:26:27,960 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 1: with men bro. I don't really get a lot of

1851
01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:33,040
Speaker 1: young male rappers on my show talking about the issue

1852
01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:34,639
Speaker 1: that they have with other rappers. But I always see

1853
01:26:34,720 --> 01:26:37,599
Speaker 1: like academics or blad talking to them about the beef

1854
01:26:37,680 --> 01:26:39,599
Speaker 1: that they have and it gets really real in the streets.

1855
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:41,160
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of friends die from violence. So

1856
01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:43,640
Speaker 1: it was interesting here in his perspective. So as he

1857
01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 1: kept talking, he really went into a place that I

1858
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 1: had never heard a rapper in this generation speak about

1859
01:26:50,280 --> 01:26:52,800
Speaker 1: beef with other rappers. That's what he said. But when

1860
01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 1: he said in the song that your mother will be

1861
01:26:56,520 --> 01:26:59,360
Speaker 1: devastated when young boys send your stupid ass to God,

1862
01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 1: that's beef. I mean, it's internet music beef whatever. It's

1863
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:05,000
Speaker 1: not like somebody's chasing you down in the street. But

1864
01:27:05,080 --> 01:27:07,280
Speaker 1: that's kind of I mean, especially with your fans being

1865
01:27:07,320 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 1: as rather as they are his fans being the way

1866
01:27:09,280 --> 01:27:11,960
Speaker 1: that they are, that gets people gasolate to when now

1867
01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 1: the fans turning into something. You know, some people have

1868
01:27:14,920 --> 01:27:19,760
Speaker 1: to release certain tension, certain anger on a on a

1869
01:27:19,880 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 1: beat or musically, so that it's not bottled hands where

1870
01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:25,759
Speaker 1: when you see a person you want to release it physically.

1871
01:27:26,080 --> 01:27:28,000
Speaker 1: He murged me on a beat, he killed me on

1872
01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:31,720
Speaker 1: a beat, but physically I'm here. I actually heard of

1873
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:34,559
Speaker 1: og rappers say something like that. They said that if

1874
01:27:34,640 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 1: social media was around back in the nineteen hundreds, um,

1875
01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:40,519
Speaker 1: it would have been a lot less beef in the street,

1876
01:27:40,640 --> 01:27:43,240
Speaker 1: because people would have been saying things on social media

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Speaker 1: and getting it out right. So a lot of things

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Speaker 1: probably would have got squashed before it got to this

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Speaker 1: to the actual street level, because back then, all you

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Speaker 1: have to do all you can do is running to

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Speaker 1: a person, right, you know what I mean? If I

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01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:55,680
Speaker 1: have heard have heard stuff like that, but hearing that

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Speaker 1: from a twenty year old who's in the game now

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Speaker 1: that all these rappers getting killed up, I actually admired it,

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Speaker 1: saying that Anna Lee Chop is very small dude. Him

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Speaker 1: and his mom they run close. I think she was

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Speaker 1: probably I'm sure. Yeah, she manages him, so they run

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Speaker 1: pretty close. He really but really bright individual. I just

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Speaker 1: can't wait till his rhetoric that he displayed in interviews

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Speaker 1: matches the continent of his music. That's what I can't

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Speaker 1: wait for. Well, he's a new hit, new project out,

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Speaker 1: I think out today. She hasn't been here in New York,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go check it out. And that's that episode.

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Speaker 1: There's on the Jason Lee Sham Revolt tonight, and that

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Speaker 1: record did his new record don't I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe he goes there that it's more of

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Speaker 1: a dance record. You probably heard of it, Damn Love

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Speaker 1: Don't Live. Remember we had this conversation last time. He

1899
01:28:34,720 --> 01:28:36,320
Speaker 1: was so crazy. The last time he was here, he

1900
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:38,920
Speaker 1: was sounded just like that, very positive. But then the

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Speaker 1: music didn't match that, you know what I mean. So

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Speaker 1: I just hope that you know, well, speaking to project,

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Speaker 1: speaking to social media, gas like and everybody's reacting to

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Speaker 1: the conversation we just had about Tamar Braxton and Candy

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01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:49,800
Speaker 1: and Todd and whether or not Todd is going to

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01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:52,479
Speaker 1: get a peach. And I don't know that they're saying

1907
01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:54,760
Speaker 1: that Tamar was the bully. But then when we were

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Speaker 1: looking at that photo, people are saying, that's not a

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Speaker 1: receipt of Tamar's man checking Todd. Yeah, he said he's

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Speaker 1: looked little a little bigger than Todd. You know, I

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01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:03,800
Speaker 1: said earlier because you asked me a question. You said,

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Speaker 1: who would win in the fight between Todd and Tamar

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Speaker 1: Braxton Beyonce. I think his name is JR. Jail Ye,

1914
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Speaker 1: And I said, Todd right with a punt further review, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I was told JR is the X Marine and I

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01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:21,519
Speaker 1: can tell that there's a clear side size advantish and

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Speaker 1: Jay all looks irish. Okay, he does look irish. I

1918
01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:31,400
Speaker 1: might root for Todd, you know publicly that backdoor. Bet No,

1919
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Speaker 1: you can't take it back. Earlier, you like it's hot

1920
01:29:34,000 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 1: as black. I'm going with the black man didn't have

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01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:37,160
Speaker 1: all the stats of the fighters, so I didn't. You

1922
01:29:37,160 --> 01:29:39,360
Speaker 1: didn't give me that. You know, I'm looking at the

1923
01:29:39,360 --> 01:29:41,360
Speaker 1: stats of the fighters now, I'm looking at the height

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01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:46,560
Speaker 1: and weight and the arm reaching background X Marine. You

1925
01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:49,040
Speaker 1: have hell with an ex marine bro, especially at X Marine.

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01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:52,519
Speaker 1: That's irish. I'm telling you that, right with j'all backdoor

1927
01:29:52,600 --> 01:29:55,479
Speaker 1: bet that's what I'm doing at the table publicly, go Todd,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But you know, put your

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Speaker 1: money on that's right, jail, Okay. I don't want to

1930
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Speaker 1: see any any of that happened. I don't want to

1931
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Speaker 1: see turn the violence. It was no Jesus, stop it, Jason.

1932
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Speaker 1: It was just a hypothetical. Yeah, all right, well, thank

1933
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Speaker 1: you for I do No, I don't know. I don't

1934
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Speaker 1: I'm working on me. All right, Well, people's choice mixes

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Speaker 1: a great time. We don't have my body tomorrow I

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Speaker 1: supposed to. We're gonna ask when he leave us. I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna just invite me here to Thursday. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is early. I need a day off. Okay, two

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