WEBVTT - Thumbs Up for Love with Marla Maples 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:05.320 Wind Down with Janet Kramer an Imheart Radio podcast. 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:08.680 Kat, you walked into the room going, oh, we need 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:11.799 to talk about this. Yeah, do you remember what it is? 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:13.760 Yeah, because I've just been having brain for a moments 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:16.239 lately where were completely. 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:18.680 I don't remember what I did in the morning. Anyway, 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:20.400 it's fair because you do a lot in the morning, 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:22.880 so that's kind of fair. But I tell you, can 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:24.760 I tell you something that I don't want to tell 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:26.480 you because I'm afraid if I do, you'll point it 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:28.880 out when it happens on here. There's time where I 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:31.080 start a question I'm not sure where I'm going with them. 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:33.839 I do that all the time, and I'm like and 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.760 then and I almost in my brain it feels like 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:39.599 forty five minutes go by and that you guys might 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:41.599 be doing like a well check on me, and then 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:43.680 I wrap it up somehow or I come up with 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:44.920 a different endings weird. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.000 My problem is that's my biggest fear. So then I 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:48.720 just don't I just shut down and don't ask questions 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:50.479 because I get so scared that I'm going to go 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:52.880 off and then just not know it to yeah, where 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:53.400 to go with it? 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:54.800 Not know where to go. It's like walking. 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:56.920 It's the interview version of walking into a room and 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:58.960 forgetting why you went in there. Right, Yeah, that's how 0:00:59.000 --> 0:00:59.440 I feel. 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:02.720 That's why like this is this is comfortable. 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:06.119 I was just talking and then like special people come 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.120 on and I'm like, I get scared. 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:11.320 I get scared anyway what I wanted to talk about. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:13.960 So remember the other day, I was like a couple 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:18.080 of weeks ago, we were talking about someone and something, 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:20.560 nothing bad, but we were is it about meathouse stuff? 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:22.240 No, it's not about you. 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:25.640 I just get nervous that you're going to do nervous 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:26.520 about the ambush here. 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:31.800 Yeah, and you like sent like a text and you 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:33.360 explained yourself and blah blah blah. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:34.080 But you got kid. 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:37.800 Oh huh did you know what I mean by that? 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:43.040 Like the response is okay, right, look at that reaction. 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:47.280 Uh huh. You caved me the other day, I did. 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:48.240 You did? 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:56.480 And yes, we had the discussion about getting Kaid and 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.560 so I sat there and I was like, I. 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:00.840 Just got Kid, And I was like, was that in 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:01.360 a bad mood? 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:02.960 Maybe? 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.160 I'm not real sure it was work stuff and you 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.760 were probably this was probably overwhelmed, like uh huh, yeah, 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:12.239 but I was like, I'm not gonna take her No. No, 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:15.320 I decided I was not gonna take your k. Like personally, 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:18.520 we all take K usually anyway. I just like, I 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:20.359 gotta point that out, Like you totally ca'd me the 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:20.799 other day. 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.600 My husband's a serial care no that I think about 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:24.079 Nick does. 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:25.960 Nick does all the time. But I don't think that 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:26.640 that offends me. 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:31.079 Do you know what something offends my fiance that does 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:34.920 not offend me. Oh, I'm interested if I thumbs up 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:41.600 his text he hates it. I have to every I'm like, 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.040 but it's not like it's okay, I'm gonna go. I'm like, 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:47.840 I'm gonna go pick up or whatever. Cool like like 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:49.400 and I don't mean it like a K. 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:52.480 Thumbs up to me isn't a K. It's like an 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:54.560 awesome thank you. It's a great thank you. 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:55.880 I gotta say. 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:59.840 I gotta say so we have that definitely for work, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.000 like thumbs up, the thumbs up or the heart. 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:05.040 Having said that, the. 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:08.280 Over analyzer in me has definitely figured out your system, 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:10.880 and a thumbs up is definitely. 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:12.680 H okay. 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.720 The heart is like I know we're good, Like she's fine, 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:17.639 she's in a good mood, she's good to go on this. 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:21.120 If I get the thumbs up, I go, oh okay, 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.040 so she's gonna get it done, but she ain't real 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:23.919 happy about it. 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:27.600 But like to me, honestly, ninety percent of the thumbs 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:29.480 up and hearts are the same feeling. 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.040 Okay, that's good to know because I would feel it. 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:34.920 Differently like if I'm like, oh, I really love it, 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:37.000 like then all our heart like it's like like it's 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.560 truly like no different from me. That's why I'm just like, 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:42.720 and I sometimes I have to go back because I'm 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.720 just immediate like thumbs up, like you know, I'll just 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.040 thumb like I just will thumbs up, thumbs up, thumbs up, 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:48.680 and I'm like, oh shoot, Salin, I gotta go back 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:49.120 and like heart it. 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:53.000 Ye yeah, yeah, I don't fumbs up. We have a 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:56.120 system that they're almost right. It's for us. 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:58.840 It's work more than anything. And it's just like a 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:01.720 copy like we don't need, okay, you know, back and 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:03.680 forth when we're talking about work over and over and over. 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:07.200 So I like that system. But I have analyzed your 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:08.160 thumbs in your. 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:11.960 Heart truly, like I said, ninety percent is no different. Yeah. 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.160 If I'm like in a stressed out, which I think 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:16.000 we were talking about, like probably content. 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:17.839 It's content here all this stuff. 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:18.680 It's like overwhelmed. 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:21.279 Okay, yeah, because that's just all my brain can analyze 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:21.760 in that moment. 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:23.680 It's not like to you, Oh, I know. 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.000 That's why I didn't take it right. I actually didn't 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.039 take on. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:28.880 Yeah, I appreciate it. I didn't take that one on 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:30.919 also truly. 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.479 I mean, Jen, I know when I can give my 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:37.040 passive thumbs up, but normally I would I would say, okay. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:40.120 I will say, which I don't do, which I. 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:45.119 Don't do ks like that anymore because it's like I'll 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:48.160 just probably come back with a reactive text more than 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:51.480 a k oh more than k which is great. 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:57.560 No, I mean, I think the only thing worse than 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.560 your thumbs up in my message, the actual message I wrote, 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:02.719 is when you go into your emojis and grab a 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:04.200 thumb and then you stick it. 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:07.040 That's what my ax does and it drives me crazy. 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:09.599 So when he does that, no the hang hang thing, No, 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:10.599 no get. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:13.320 It for a second. 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.320 No, I will sometimes go to the emoji for the 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:20.600 thumbs up when it is like an address or a something. 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:23.839 Where you can't easily click it. You can't. If you do, 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:24.680 then you're going to do. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.240 The address and you're gon app That's the only time 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:28.760 I'll go back and do a thumbs up. 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:30.200 But I don't think I've done that to any of y'all. 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:32.479 I don't thumbs up anybody that's corporate. I told Preston 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:34.640 last time, BCC me next time. I don't like it, 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:36.359 and don't talk to me like I'm a coworker. 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:37.120 I mean, that's fair. 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.240 I don't even like him to heart my message. I'm like, 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:40.320 write me some words. 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.760 I mean, Nick and I definitely will do that, but 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.440 we'll kay each other and I know our language enough. 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.599 Like that's why I didn't take I knew you were overwhelmed. 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:49.400 I didn't have a choice but to tell you have 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:51.600 to do X, Y and Z. So I'm not taking 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:53.440 it personally, but it just made me think of the 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.760 other day when we're like, oh you got kid. 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:56.320 Hey. 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:58.039 You know when I said I won't write love you, 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.960 I will never love you, hey, So I need the 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:06.719 eye before I love you. I love you always. Okay, 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.400 So when when he does, I'm like, well, where's the 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.760 I you know, because the big love you like I 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.840 love you too, yeah with a big capital I matter, 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:18.160 it does not an ove instead, I love you. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:22.400 Yeah. No, First of all, that grosses me out. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.680 So what I'll do if it, like truly isn't okay 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:28.520 or whatever? I don't even like okay. I don't know 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:31.520 if you've noticed this. This is my letting you know 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:36.039 that I'm good. Okay exclamation mark I say, I don't 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:39.400 like okay, but if like it needs an okay, I'm like, okay, 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:42.440 seems mad okay, just like sounds good. 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:44.360 I do that a lot too. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:45.120 You do sounds good. 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:46.840 I like to call Catherine because I like to hear 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:50.520 a voice, because I love the phone. I know, but 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:52.760 you get so appropriate in the texting that I'm like, 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:56.360 did I just mess something up that when it's about 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:59.119 When it's about like wind down or dates or something, 0:06:59.360 --> 0:06:59.839 I can. 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.960 Very much flip well, you're always you should see our 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:06.840 text message. I wouldn't like flipping between. It's like okay, 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:08.560 I know I have to be like, hey, how are you? 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:10.840 But like also like I send her her reminders for 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.760 the day, so it's like you know, but reminders but 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:15.680 like I know, you know, But then we'll go back 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:17.840 to like friends stuff, and then it'll be like a 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:19.360 whole different line, like I need to hear a ton 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:21.640 of voice. Yeah, it'll be like did and then I'll 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:22.360 be back to work and. 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:22.920 It's like, Okay. 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:26.040 It's interesting, though, what the tech? Because I think there's 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:29.040 a lot of things that people can misread through text, 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:32.080 just like you thinking the K is or the okay, 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:36.400 but also like I think the K that I got 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:40.400 was because I was telling someone that I didn't love 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:45.160 what was done and the only response back was K 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.280 because I think they took it personal. But I was 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:51.160 just trying to oh yeah, and so that to me 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:53.680 isn't good communication. When I was like trying to express 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:57.360 that I didn't like what happened, just O kay, And 0:07:57.480 --> 0:07:59.520 is it someone that's like not a friend or anything 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:03.600 like that. It's more like a h a working relationship. 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:06.560 Okay, okay, okay. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.720 Okay, understood. Well, it was definitely a mad K. Yeah. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.080 I mean it was a like, oh you just got K. 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:15.040 Yeah, but I'm like, it didn't doesn't look good, No, 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:18.160 it doesn't. So I needed to voice my frustration with that, 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:22.480 sure because I'm allowed to be go, this isn't what 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:23.000 you said? 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:24.080 Was it going to look like. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:28.800 Right, but also it seems a little unprofessional to not 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.000 come back with more than k right and that kind 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:31.440 of and. 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.680 If you're too busy, then just say yeah, then say 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:37.880 you know a little underwater, or just and read this. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:41.880 Yeah, but it is interesting though about So you don't 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:44.600 get upset if if he hearts or thumbs up your stuff? 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.439 No, because that's just how we communicate. 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:50.080 I wouldn't care if Alan thumbs up all of my messages. No, don't, 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:50.839 adn't care at all. 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:51.760 Would you care? 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.960 Would you care if you walked into a room and 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:56.480 you were like, hey, I'm gonna go pick up the 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.679 kids and he was like, no, that's the way your 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:03.640 father me. I would bother me. I don't he walked 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:06.079 into a room versus texting uh huh, Like I wouldn't 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:07.760 thumbs up anyone in real life? 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:10.720 Well, we all remember that one thumbs up I had. 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:14.120 Have we ever talked about that? 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:17.840 I don't even know, like iappropriate time talked about it? 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:19.000 And it's making me nervous. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.000 Am I allowed to talk about a hot girl summer moment? 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:22.080 Being like young aged? 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:24.120 I mean, how does he feel about? 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:25.160 Well, you already busted yourself. 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.520 You could have just said I had a girlfriend who okay, 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:28.000 so I had. 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:30.760 Her name was Anna. 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:32.800 Oh I remember this? 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:33.760 Yeah? 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:37.120 When I like let or no, when she left she 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:41.800 left her bed, when she left the bed. 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:46.640 How come I don't remember this? I told you she 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.080 how come I don't remember her. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:57.520 About Anna Banana? It was silly Hannah. But the person 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:01.439 I was like, okay, like or oh, she was telling. 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:02.640 Me she's here now. 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:07.400 She was telling me the story of this date she 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:12.600 had and it went well, and she left quite possibly 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.360 the next morning, and quite possibly when she went to 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:17.680 say goodbye, he quite possibly just gave it. 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:24.440 I do remember that that one might be a problem. Well, 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.319 it ended up being a big problem. 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:31.800 Oh that's that's very funny. Yeah, I'm that person is 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:32.720 not great. 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:34.520 So why would it be okay on text? 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:36.760 Because it's just like, hey, I need you to go here, 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:39.040 and you go there. It's like copy. I don't know, 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:40.760 would you what if I did that? 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:45.319 And ever I was like, okay, cool, I don't like it. 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:46.959 Jump ups, I know. 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:51.360 So I'm with Allen, Okay, fine, I will not a 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:53.520 text on I mean again, I'd change it as soon 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:55.640 as possible. We'll be like the thumbs up and I 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:58.760 was like, I just was sending a message about saying 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:01.280 how I've been dropped early off at like soccer whatever, 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:04.200 and then we've said, like to me, that's a thumbs upper. 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:08.959 Get a baby. Yeah, so he's not offended. 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:11.000 If it's a heart, it has to be a heart, 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:12.240 or he really doesn't like it. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:13.120 What's okay? 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:14.319 Because he feels like a coworker. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:15.680 Is this any different? 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:17.440 I'm more likely to do that than I. 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:18.040 Have to do this. 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:21.120 I'm gonna thumbs up for you all the time. 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.480 It's kind of funny that we're talking about thumbs up 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:23.880 right now. 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:26.680 I know, by the way, because I wonder if. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:30.240 Donald I wonder if Donald Trump ever thumbed up everyone. 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:39.240 Oh yeah, that's what they're saying. Literally he does. Yes, Wow, 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:40.679 you're welcome, well done. 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:45.320 Way to wrap it together, Catherine, that's fantastic. 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:47.520 Yeah, it's literally very ironic. 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.400 Huh So isn't it ironic? 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:52.040 Don't you think? 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:55.640 Okay, so we've got we've got Marla Maple's coming on 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.480 the show today, speaking of the thumbs upper. She was 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:01.640 the second wife of Donald Trump. They were married in 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:03.960 nineteen ninety three, two months after the birth of their 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:09.760 daughter Tiffany, and they divorced in nineteen ninety nine. So 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:12.120 if we do the math, that's six years of marriage. 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:15.080 That's correct, Donald term and a half, if you will, 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:19.440 more than he got on this first. 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:30.640 She goes, it's so hard. I feel like it just 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:32.440 needs to happen all the time now. 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:35.280 But that's the truth. 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:44.040 Do you see how irritated Ellen would be. I'm irritated 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:47.880 for him. I don't do it in person. 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:52.559 I'm going to now, I'm going to drive bast when 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:53.520 we leave this neighbor. 0:12:53.679 --> 0:13:01.280 Every time I see you, I care? Is that so funny? 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:03.800 I'm trying because it's not normal. 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:06.280 Please please, will we go on wine down when we 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:07.360 do our tour next year? 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:10.280 I want everyone thumbs up. Audience, we having fun. Let's 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:15.000 thumbs up. Someone please remind us of this. Okay, already 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:18.600 to elect yourself, lady. This is a professional setting. 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:18.880 Oh Man. 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:23.440 So in nineteen ninety nine, she relocated to southern California. 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:27.200 So she left with her daughter Tiffany to focus on 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:30.960 finding a quieter, more spiritual existence. And I gotta say, 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.679 I remember when Donald was running. I knew, I know 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:37.360 about Ivanka in junior. I had no idea he had 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:41.000 another daughter at it either, and I'm I'm curious how 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.280 I'd like to ask her to with her taking her 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.480 daughter away from that? Was that something where does Tiffany 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:52.920 feel left out? Was that something where you know, obviously 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:55.480 she was doing what she thought she had to do right, 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:59.200 but also how that might also affect the child not 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:06.079 feeling m hmm yeah, like what's like, yeah, well, I 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:09.719 can't talk about another story, but you know, okay, I 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:11.520 know there's not another Anna, but I can. 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:16.240 But we do want and I wonder what she did 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:18.200 last summer anybody? 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:20.800 But no, it's like you never want someone to feel 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:24.920 left out, right, So it's uh, it's just but you 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:27.400 also want to I would do we we would do 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:31.479 anything to protect. Oh there's my fiance with a heart. 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:35.720 Falling change into a thumbs up and the gall I'm 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:36.560 gonna see the answers. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:41.640 Hey baby, yeah, honey, I'm good. Hey, you're actually on 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.720 air right now, live on wine Down. How do you 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:47.560 feel about a thumbs up when someone texts, well, when 0:14:47.600 --> 0:14:48.840 I text your thumbs. 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:55.640 Up, this must have and I don't like it. Yeah, 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:58.160 see I told you it doesn't. 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:02.320 It doesn't bother me with like friends and random people, 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:04.240 But it's just not how you should communicate with. 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:11.600 Your love. Oh, I vote for Allen. Yeah, it does, 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:13.760 it does. Copy that. 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:15.240 I'll let Nick know. 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:18.840 Nick I do it too. 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:22.320 Nix a thumbs up her and and Kristen hates the 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.760 thumbs up, and Preston will actually thumbs up her in 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:25.560 a room, bab. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:28.560 Person. 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:34.600 Okay, I'll see you downstairs, Ellen, thumbs up. 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:38.400 Like, can you imagine if I thumbed up to you 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:40.240 in the room, you. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:43.680 Would get the death still, which is why you shouldn't 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:44.920 do it in text thread. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:47.880 It's not the same. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.240 Thumbs up, the thumbs up, the thumbs. 0:15:51.000 --> 0:16:02.960 Up anyways, all right, okay, I love you, thumbs up, baby, Okay, 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:03.680 love you. 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:08.080 Okay, okay, Well, on that note, Marlow's here. Let's take 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:08.840 a break and then get her. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:09.240 In the road. 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:28.040 Hi girls, where are you? 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:28.680 Janna? 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:30.240 Congratulations again? 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.680 Thank you so much. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:38.520 Yeah, I'm yeah, I'm just it's incredibly blessed, you know. 0:16:38.760 --> 0:16:41.560 Oh, I know you are, and I know you've gone 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:43.720 through a lot, so I'm so happy to see you 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:46.840 sitting here and shining so bright. 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:51.960 I love you. 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:53.760 I know we have an extra seat here in Nashville, 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:55.320 so anytime you want to come sit with us in 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:59.560 Nashville and and hang with the ladies. I love Nashville, 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:04.040 So you know, we were obviously we were, you know, 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:06.680 running down the bio. We all know who you are. 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:11.280 You've done some brilliant stuff. You have some brilliant work 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:17.000 out there. And I think what my first and biggest 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:20.000 question would be is on the motherhood side of things, 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:25.399 because what you did to take Tiffany away from I 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:31.040 guess the limelight of things right right. I'm curious how 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.600 that because you know, I was telling the girls, if 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:37.520 I'm just being super honest, like up, you know, I don't. 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:39.320 I didn't know the ins and outs of all his 0:17:39.800 --> 0:17:44.440 wives or children. I knew Donald or the junior in Ivanka, 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:48.520 and I only heard of Tiffany from when he ran 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:49.120 for president. 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:52.560 But again I didn't I did. 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:56.200 I wasn't like I didn't know like his Wikipedia page, 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:57.720 I didn't, you know, I didn't really know much about 0:17:57.800 --> 0:18:00.919 him until he started running. And so I'm curious, like 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:05.679 how that was for Tiffany. You know, does she feel 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:09.320 kind of like the outcast because she was moved away 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:12.840 from that kind of life. 0:18:13.920 --> 0:18:14.800 Never at all? 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:17.560 Really, because I always worked to make sure even when 0:18:17.560 --> 0:18:19.680 the kids were in school and younger, to make sure 0:18:19.680 --> 0:18:22.120 they stayed in touch even if they weren't seeing each 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:25.720 other as much. Just set up those phone calls and 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:28.960 she would see them at least once or twice a year. 0:18:29.000 --> 0:18:32.360 They go to Marlago for Easter together. So I think 0:18:32.400 --> 0:18:34.840 Tiffany knew that. I just wanted to protect her from 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.480 having to be too much in the public eye until. 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:38.720 She was ready. I just didn't think it. 0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:40.720 I don't think it's fair for kids to be pushed 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:43.920 into a situation at such a young age. I think 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:47.879 it's very challenging enough growing up a human being without 0:18:47.960 --> 0:18:53.320 being full front in the media. And when we lived 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.240 in New York as a little girl, I couldn't take 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:56.360 her to the park without. 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:57.679 Having the paparazzi all around us. 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.720 And I'm sure you may get some of that now, 0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:03.000 even though I feel that the paparazzi isn't as bad 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:05.600 as it was before social media. 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:07.320 It's floated. 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:11.320