WEBVTT - Episode 393: I Get it From My Momma (Feat. Kash Doll) 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:05.680 What's up. It's Lift Service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephanie Santiago, 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:08.720 I'm jass and Brand, I'm Laura Mura and it's the 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:12.320 one mone Cash aka Cash's mother. That's who you are now. Yeah, 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:18.720 I'm Cashion's mom. I'm a mom. I'm in love. Well 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.480 cast out is here. I always tell you your family. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:23.239 I'm excited to have you here. I'm on the intro 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:27.720 to the new mixtape. I know you are definitely on there. 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:32.040 I think that's me. She playing back like it's not 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:38.400 it's not my boy, But I'm a girl. From what 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:43.320 I know. She doesn't have kids or boyfriend twenties. All's 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:50.000 trying to do is grind cash Doll. Y'all know I 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:52.360 love me some cash Doll. I say it all the time. 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:55.640 I know that's right, especially what I was saying. You know, Cash, 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:58.400 I ain't no joke, and this mixtape proves it. By 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:01.240 the way, We're glad. I appreciate that, you know what. 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:04.959 This mixtape is so special because I really had to 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:08.360 go back to my roots. I don't know if everybody 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.360 had kids. You don't hand no kids. I have a 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:15.240 sixteen year old. Oh really yeah? But how it is 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:19.320 rain a year and a half, that's the same. Yeah, 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:20.920 I have a twenty two and a twelve year old. 0:01:20.920 --> 0:01:22.679 So you know, after you had that baby, you were 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:25.679 trying to find yourself again, kind of like you forget everything. 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:27.840 It's like everything is the baby, the baby, and then 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:29.880 I stay with my man and my man, my man 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:34.520 and diaper pamper. It's a routine crying. I can't get 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:36.399 my nails done, I didn't get my hair done. I'm 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:38.440 just trying to find myself again. And it was like 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:40.680 when I finally was able to come back around a 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:42.720 little bit, I'm like, I need to get back to 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:44.920 my roots. And that's why it's called back on Dexter. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:47.520 That's where I'm from, in Detroite Dexter enjoy Road. I 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:52.640 feel like after you give birth, everything changes, like your 0:01:52.760 --> 0:02:00.800 mind changes from all your organs moving around, like everything hormone. Yeah, 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:03.320 I used to can hole using the restroom. Now it 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:05.080 was like I gotta get it out. Everyone said that 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:11.560 times an hour. Yeah, I was going all the time before. 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:15.000 It was awful when I was pregnant though, h I was. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:19.200 I just should have stayed in the damn tough than 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:25.040 I should have. Yeah, do you feel like yourself yet? Honestly, truly, 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:28.240 I'm like eighty five percent there, Okay. How long does 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:31.240 it take to feel like yourself? How long? Never? Never? Okay, 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.359 because I don't know. That's what I was gonna say, 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:37.480 like your life forever change. My life has since the 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.440 age of sixteen. So it's like sometimes I feel like 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:45.079 for people to understand, like they don't understand it, especially man. Yes, 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:47.720 but I don't understand it. But but I can I 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:51.079 can imagine, but I can't understand. But you've talked me 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:53.799 through some You're more understanding that I would think you 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:56.640 would be. Not having a child, you talked me through. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:58.359 I talked to so many of my friends through their 0:02:58.360 --> 0:03:01.240 pregnancies before I had one, like girl, you're not gonna 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:08.280 be pregnant for long and look. And then one of 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:11.320 our fans who has a kid told you. She was like, 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.000 take your life back. You have to take your life back. 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.239 And then body feels like that, like you gotta get 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:19.520 you gotta find yourself again. And that's why this is 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.720 so important. How did you find yourself for this project? 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:24.799 Like what did you do to get your mind back 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:29.440 to pre mommy hood, pre being math? Like how did 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:31.480 you get Oh my god, because right after I had 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:34.600 him in January, I was feeling in February for me 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:36.440 on math. That's why I was real chunky. That is, 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:39.880 I was really wild. But what I had to get 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:41.800 right back to it, so I couldn't do the breastfeeding 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:44.480 that long. I tried it um and I was like, 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:47.440 all right, remembering lines, getting back to getting back to that, 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:50.960 not feeling secure with myself on camera. You already got 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:53.800 extra weight on camera, and I already got extraight from 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:58.360 my baby. I'm like insecure, insecure and the inside. You 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:00.800 know what I'm saying. I don't feel like doing nothing 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.240 but being a mom because it's a routine. I was 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:06.600 a zombie for a long time. And so when I 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:08.560 got done filming, it was like, all right, I had 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:11.440 a little breath room. Right then it was hot outside. 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:13.720 He started holding his own bottle. It's like, all right, cool, 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.440 I guess I got me a little extra time or whatever. 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:20.159 So that happened, and then I was just like, man, 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.240 I gotta I gotta do something to make myself feel 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.680 because I was I was doing shows, shows was coming in. 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:27.040 I gotta keep the money rolling in. I've been sitting 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.520 for a long time. Yea, the shows start coming in. 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:32.880 I have a whole bunch more sources and income and 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:34.320 I was doing all that and I'm like, I need 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:36.280 to do something to make me have fun again. I 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.400 want to have fun and I love music. It's a 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:41.560 passion for me. So I called my brother Joseph mcfashion 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.800 and he from from the city too, and that's like 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.440 We've been on each other over a decade, and I'm 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.560 like if I'm like I was telling them. I sent 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:50.400 him a song that I've been dead and he was like, no, 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:53.320 you need to get back in that one bag like 0:04:53.400 --> 0:05:01.240 and I'm like, shit, I want to how how like man, 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.520 you need to get back on him Detroit beat. You 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.760 need to get back in And I'm like, you're right, 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:07.560 and he do. He do that. So he's like, look, 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:09.120 we need to put a project together. Out of all 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.280 of these years, we have never done it together. We're 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.880 just genuinely been brothers and sister. He never been around me. 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:15.880 Let's do a project. Let's do a project. He never 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.440 forced her acts a million times and it was just 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:20.559 like this time, it was just perfect. I had left 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.840 my last deal, got a new him righting in and there. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.040 I'm like it's lining up. I'm like, now I got 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.760 creative control. This is perfect. I could do what I 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.720 want to do. Bam, we got he flew to that Lina. 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:34.120 I'm like for me to get my feedback away. We 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.480 I gotta be in the house and comfortable. I need 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:37.880 to be able to bring my baby. I can't be 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:40.600 in on studio with something loud. So Cash and came 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.040 on over there. It was me, I trust him, that's 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:46.159 my brother, that's Cash's uncle. He was holding him while 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:50.040 I record, and we got it done, like we reset 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.320 at an Airbnb that he and I was in the 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:57.040 closet recording it. Like I needed to feel back, like rugging. 0:05:57.240 --> 0:06:02.200 Not right studio the nice production, so no, I needed 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.320 it the sound as rugged as possible. And you know 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.240 what is it different when because you don't need to 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.280 do music right, you're making, like you said, a lot 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:12.240 of income doing other things. And when you first came out, 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:14.560 you know you always was getting into the bag, but 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:18.080 the music was your first, like main source of income. 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:22.440 Now the acting is popping in everything, all a little 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:25.320 deals and then investments and stuff like that. So then 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:28.920 it's like, but that's not fun what acting is fun. Yeah, acting, 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.600 it's fun. Taking pictures is fun. So I gotta take 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:35.000 the business that's cool and um making music and videos 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:37.160 that's fun to me. But that's like I feel like 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:41.080 the most work, like going on tour. Yeah that sounds train. Yeah, 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.560 I mean it's a lot like city to city, going 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:45.960 from here to the you don't want it becomes a 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:50.240 lot with this fun. But when you like you got 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.920 you you got a little stability there, you know what 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:55.400 I'm saying, Like you could have your stuff in one spot, 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:57.360 you get to get up and wash your face with 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.440 your face shoe. It's like it's different when you got 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:03.279 a stability. But like when you on a plane and 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:05.400 you in hotels, it's not the same. You'd have been 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:09.000 lost luggage, lose another shoe, god, damn jury, you know, 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:12.280 forgotten the damn safe. But it's just it's like it's 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:13.800 just like you all over the place. So I know 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:16.320 what you're saying. Yeah, yeah, So it's like when you're 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:18.120 on the tour bus though, it's better and then it's 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:20.200 fun to me, Like I love performing, I love seeing 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.360 my fans. Man, that s made me happy. They'd be 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:24.240 going crazy for you. I went to go see cash 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:25.600 Out when she was in New York when you was 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:27.680 on tour and Meek Mel Oh yeah, yeah, I don't 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:29.400 just be going out for no reason. But I was like, 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:32.640 let's go see cash Dog. I was bet I'm lala. 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:35.400 Oh yeah yeah, I was just TMC was down stair. 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:37.040 I just told him, don't play with me about La 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:41.880 La Goya ship not. I just said something about her 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.920 with Ja Vinci on BMF and I was like, man, 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:46.400 people do it all the time in real life and 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:48.160 she's acting, so what she cant bade to do it? 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:52.120 And people they don't play with me? Oh god, you 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:56.160 had a little sex scene too. Okay, by the way, DMF, 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:59.440 I don't miss that show. You know. Yes, I love 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:01.840 l I wait, you know what. I didn't watch it 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:03.720 with the cast or watch it beforehand. I watch it 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:06.760 with everybody because I want to see it. That's cool, 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:10.440 and too. I got a problem like I'd be criticized 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.600 in myself. So if I've seen it with everybody, I 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:14.800 would be thinking about it like being everybody about to 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:16.200 watch me. So now when I watch it with the world, 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:21.600 I can't do shit about it. Right. Amount of actors 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.920 and actresses don't like watching themselves, so you watch yourself 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.040 and you don't. It's fine, it's cool. It's just when 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:32.959 I'm looking ugly, that's only part of me, right. But 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:36.000 to be clear, okay, cast I has always been an actors. 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:40.480 But I tell y'all in two eleven, oh yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, way, 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:46.280 you did a great job though, Like yeah, I started 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:48.760 a long long time in one Detroit. I always wanted 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:51.760 to do all this stuff, like always, It's just always 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:54.200 been a passion. I used to tell people in my classroom, like, 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.120 you don't want to be my friend at school, but 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:57.880 don't try to be my friend when I'm reaching famous 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:01.120 right on your TV and I'm I'm gonna be really rich. 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:05.480 And I used to be telling me that. I swear. 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:07.000 People used to be like, oh, well you're gonna be 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:08.880 when you grow up. I'll be like, oh, I'm gonna 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:14.640 v P Diddy and the family. I'm gonna be drinking champagne, 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:24.680 do it all. And they'll be like, like, happen, happen. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:28.959 But and like to see cast out by the way, 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:35.440 boot up. It's a whole nother literation too. Und your 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:39.160 business in my life? Yeah you know what? That just happened. 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:42.800 I swear y'all went out there to go film the 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:46.080 first season and he'd been he'd been at it. He's 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.760 been trying, and I'm like, you know what, I'm out here, 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:50.600 ain't doing that. I'm single. You know, you want you know, 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:52.480 everybody want a little friend and gonna hang out with 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:57.319 a little couple of dreams or whatever. Yeah, I think 0:09:57.320 --> 0:10:01.640 it came over. Y'all ain't left. He's still there. He's 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:04.840 still there. So what made him so special? Because I 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:08.160 know everybody was in cash Dogs DM, everybody be trying 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:10.880 to holler. What made Tracy t the one that you 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:13.680 would like you could stay you know, you can stay 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:16.720 over you know what? It's the personality. I love fun 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:20.280 fun and funny like personality and went over everything. Then 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:30.839 you cute and you got that good ass here when 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:32.559 you saw him? Did you think I want to have 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:37.320 a kid with him? And the kid is extreme when 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:38.959 you have one, So I don't know if it's extreme 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:42.840 right that one. Like the first thought, it was like 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:45.560 I thought, I see how he treated his other kids, 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:47.839 you know what I'm saying, And he fined to me, 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.600 you know what I'm saying, Like, no, but those little 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:54.240 things you mentioned, It's like those are the unseid things 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:58.600 that you know what man yea, the brath, the brath, 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:03.199 the good I know that he like dirty fingernails, so 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:08.839 don't those are like the understanding he was getting manicures 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:12.520 often you don't smell goody say the fragrance, like you 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:15.280 have to smell good. I love him smell good like 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:17.679 you know. So it was like, oh my god. Then 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:22.160 and then I just noticed how with me he was different, 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:24.960 you know, like like I'll tell him one thing, like 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.040 when I first got around, he wasn't open the doors, 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:29.520 and I'm like, what the hell? He'd been dating? Said 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:32.320 you want to open the door for me? And I 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:35.040 noticed how he wanted to do it. Yeah, he snapped, 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:36.920 you know what that is sell too. You could tell 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.440 if a guy's been in like real relationships they're not 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:42.160 by certain things like do they walk on the outside 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:45.640 and the sidewalk, do they open the door they call? 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:47.080 I asked you do you want something to eat before 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.200 they come? Yeah? Like it was so much stuff I 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:52.120 had to teach him, and I was like, wow, these 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:54.320 bitch just really be doing it, like they just allowed neig. 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.000 But and when I told him, I never had to 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:59.800 tell him again and that I liked that because he 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:04.520 transfer yeah, exactly. He wants to learn and wants to 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.680 be that guy for me. So I'm like, what's better 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.680 than this? Now? What did he have to teach you? 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:16.560 First off, I never cooked. I never now I cook. Now. Yeah, 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:19.199 I'll be in the kitchen. I'll be washing clothes sometimes. 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:23.480 But you know, because my maid just my maid when 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:27.120 she leaves, I gotta I gotta make shows sometimes, like yeah, 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:29.719 sometimes you gotta go and wash those important things for 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:32.880 the towels in there. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:35.520 I'll be putting the toll and the tall warmer before 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:39.920 you get out. What is the tower? Woman? I don't 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.760 have that warm. I never heard they have them at 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:46.560 hotels sometimes, or you put it in the dryer, like 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:48.720 at first I was putting it in the dryer okay, 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:52.560 right there, but then I didn't have er. Do you 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.000 have a bid day? You don't have a bi day? 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.640 The thing that clean your butt and the toilet. You 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:01.760 know this show? Okay, I said away one of those 0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:05.720 girls when I was in Vegas at the hotel, they 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.280 had a bid day. I've never tried one. Oh my god, 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.080 I've never never tried it because you know, after you 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:14.800 said you got a shower, but yeah, day I just 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:18.120 use wipes. But with the day when I tell you, 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:20.679 so that just feeling you have a bid day. But 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:26.040 I'm like, that's feel good. It feel like okay, it 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:31.320 good and clean. You're like people like them really wipe 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:35.480 after you know you got dry. Yeah yeah, yeah, but okay, 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:41.360 so back to the relationship. Okay, yeah, and you need seats. 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:45.120 You need the bid day. That has to dry it 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:47.520 afterwards after it used to weather to clean everything that 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:49.439 it has to dry to turn on and try it. 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:54.800 But yes, it does. So I got the warmer to 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:57.240 see and you can actually buy it and put it 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.800 on your current toilet. You know what. So you ain't 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:01.360 got a get to hold. You don't have to do. 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:03.719 You have to have like someone come and store like 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:07.200 the um the paddle for it to do all the things. 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:09.840 If you want the fancy one, you got that, man 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:13.800 point you need it, I got rid of you did 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:16.560 hold that back up, all right? I did not know this, 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:19.280 all right, So you bought that when did you buy 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:21.840 that house? Twenty nineteen? And that's a that to be clear, 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.800 that's a mansions. Okay, just to be clear, yes, off 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.840 the water right there on Lake Shore. So what happened? 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:28.120 Why did you get rid of it? And that was 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:31.680 too much? Then I got pregnant. I wanted to be 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:34.080 in Atlanta. That was allowed to keep up. I had 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:35.960 my family there. They you know it was it just 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:38.960 was too much. I just needed to do what made book. 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:41.400 They had me at peace. Everybody like everybody got it. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.000 They like, nah, you know what I'm saying. It's just 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:46.880 And when you have a seven bedroom or you know, 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:51.480 a lot you don't need you you figure out I 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:55.680 don't need all this space. Honestly, truly it was seven bedrooms. Yeah, 0:14:55.920 --> 0:15:08.000 it was ten bathrooms, water pool, the pond. I had 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:10.800 a pond with fishes in their poy fishes and not 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:15.600 a feed. Yes, it's like the lawn, the stone, the 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:19.440 white stone, brick got to get cleaned. That as a whole. 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:22.280 You got the driveway that got You don't want all 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:25.720 things you got to clean that often don't talk about 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:29.160 the maintenance of the marble floors. Wow. And like when 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:33.119 other things is happening like pipes and orleans. No exactly 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:37.960 electric problems. This is all kinds of water problems like 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:40.800 I was. I was with somebody, and I remember I 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:43.520 looked at his maintenance built for his house to you know, 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:47.160 to take care of everything because he was gone for 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:51.320 the season, and when he came back, everybody just ruined it. 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.280 Like he had people in the house. I went to 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:56.600 it was a hundred and thirty thousand dollars. You went, 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:58.600 I want to go to b a meth. When I 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:01.720 met Tracy and Gumber you leave people in back, it 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:06.880 was like like they wasn't maintaining it at all. Shit listened. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:10.360 But that is a learning lesson, right, because sometimes you think, Okay, 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:12.800 I'm bout to buy this mansion. I love my family, 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:15.120 I'm want everybody here, and we're just gonna do it. 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:16.960 All I gotta do is pay this mortgage every month, 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:19.240 and then you realize there's a whole lot more to 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.560 come with it. Wait, it's oh my god, not just 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:25.440 a mortgage to taxes. The water bill was crazy from 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:31.360 my pool crazy, yeah, but a big as house. What man? 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:32.880 It was just too much. And I was just like, 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.440 it's just too much for me. You had me stressed out, 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.800 So I just sold. You had to experience, and I 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.200 did it. Yeah, I did it. You did it, and 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:42.280 it was in my name. That's my out. So I 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:44.920 did it and I sold it and it's over. It's like, okay, 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:48.920 I know I don't want to do that again, right, Yeah. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:50.720 And I had a good time, you know what I'm saying. 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:52.440 I enjoyed it for the two years I was there. 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:57.880 It sounds like you needed a living housekeeping maids and 0:16:57.720 --> 0:16:59.880 the more because if it makes more sense if when 0:16:59.880 --> 0:17:02.280 you there and I feel like you do those houses 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:07.800 when you retire, yeah, while you still mad kids. Yeah, yeah, 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:10.160 because you will be there. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:12.440 It's like when you want to go, you can't. Nobody 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:14.280 gonna take care of your stuff like you. Right, And 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.400 that's not even saying my family wasn't. But there ain't 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:19.160 nobody gonna do it like you. Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:21.280 And then you could always buy something on deckster. That's 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:23.880 not a bad investment now, yeah, no, it's not. Yeah. 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:28.159 Came up, Yeah, and they're coming up. We're coming up 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:31.080 over there were about come up over there in the 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:35.080 hood to talk about like the first time y'all hooked 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:38.040 up when he came and never left, right, how long 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.320 did it take for y'all to like get romantic like 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:45.000 a couple of months. Really a couple of months. Yeah, yeah, 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:47.560 you put him in the friends zone. First. We just 0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:49.240 was he was my bull for a minute, but I 0:17:49.280 --> 0:17:52.359 just wasn't about to just do that, Okay, a couple 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:55.760 of months, No, seriously, I feel like relationships go so 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:58.040 much better when you don't give your body fast, not 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:00.600 that fast. Even though I knew he was gonna be around, 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:02.400 I could you know, you could tell when the dude 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:05.240 just want that, and then you could tell when they 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:09.000 won't you right, and I knew and respected it was 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:12.080 probably like okay, so we started and like January, the 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:14.560 beginning January, I flew out there Jane Ward. The second 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:17.320 to bear is that we started dating talking da da da. 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:21.560 He asked me to be his girlfriend. February fourteen Valentine's Day. 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:24.320 So it's an anniversary around now, yea yeah yeah yeah 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:26.640 so um So then it was like a couple of weeks. 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.120 It was like a week or something after Valentine's Day, 0:18:29.119 --> 0:18:32.719 and then the anticipation is nice, yeah, you know what 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:38.520 I'm saying, and then it was like special stuff like that. Yeah, 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:44.520 any type of intimacy at the time, I'm not, but 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:52.160 you get my hand jobs. But the time you get 0:18:52.320 --> 0:18:55.080 to it's just you're so comfortable with him, you colle 0:18:55.440 --> 0:18:58.159 you can have them, you could drive it. Ain't you nervous? 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:01.240 You always be nervous. Somebody knew your body, But you 0:19:01.280 --> 0:19:03.640 know once you didn't. Y'all know each other, been out 0:19:03.640 --> 0:19:07.159 a lot, you got Yeah, now it's like I'm a 0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:09.440 little open. We can do it. You right, you lay 0:19:09.440 --> 0:19:13.440 there talking about hours in the bed together watching having 0:19:13.480 --> 0:19:16.320 Netflix un chill nights. That's how you know you really 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:19.840 care when you rather be in the house than outside. Yeah, yeah, 0:19:19.960 --> 0:19:22.720 you gotta forsh yourself to have a date night, right right, 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:25.680 Like we mean and him, we just it's just naturally 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:28.399 we'd be just chilling it still to this day. Like 0:19:28.480 --> 0:19:30.560 he gotten to that point though when I was pregnant 0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:36.800 that as this nigga was doing twelve hours ship ships outside. 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:39.960 I say, bro come home. What the fuck? I'm out myself? 0:19:40.560 --> 0:19:43.600 All right? What happened? Yeah? I feel like y'all broke 0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:47.119 up for a second on social media then we I 0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:49.520 don't know, I feel like I kind of we probably 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:53.359 just distancing because there wasn't a real break up. Yeah, 0:19:53.400 --> 0:19:55.000 you know how it did you get I'm trying to think. 0:19:55.000 --> 0:19:56.720 I'm trying to our story. I feel like it was 0:19:56.800 --> 0:19:59.639 some chatter about that. Yeah, I think so that we 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:08.640 broke something, something blocked for a second. Yeah, oh yeah, 0:20:08.640 --> 0:20:15.119 because I didn't block them about ninety times? Why you 0:20:15.320 --> 0:20:18.720 blocking him? Does even getting my fucking nerd your block game? Strong? 0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:21.399 Does he ever? Okay when you unblock him? Does he 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:23.720 always follow you back? Because yes, he followed me back first, 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:26.720 and be like he'll say something to one of my 0:20:26.720 --> 0:20:30.240 stories or something. So he did he see me? Like, oh, 0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:32.720 so you wanna follow me? Like, no, nigga, I don't 0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:36.560 want to see you now. When it comes to like 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:39.240 finances and everything, we've been talking before we started, we 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:42.320 were talking about investing. Do you guys have those conversations 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:46.920 like we have those conversations. But you know what how 0:20:47.000 --> 0:20:49.480 I feel about that? Right? I would love to grow 0:20:49.520 --> 0:20:51.880 with my man and all that, But when it comes 0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:55.679 to investments and stuff, I feel like you gotta be married. Okay, 0:20:55.960 --> 0:20:59.880 that's just man. You invest in him, but you gotta 0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:04.480 have legal papers going on somewhere. Man, I can't, I agree, okay, 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:07.520 but you can invest in things together and still you 0:21:07.520 --> 0:21:10.720 wouldn't still want to have some type of leagapers agreement. 0:21:12.240 --> 0:21:16.320 So she's married even if we ain't ain't married, I 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:19.560 will say, like where we haven't understanding because he had 0:21:19.560 --> 0:21:22.440