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Hey Carmon, good morning, Welcome to the program. 12 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: How are you good morning? 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 3: Thanks, Yeah, I'm goody good. 14 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 2: I guess that makes sense because you think maybe this 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: dude named Ace has ghosted you, and so we need 16 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 2: the backstory if you wouldn't mind, How did you meet? 17 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates that you've been on and 18 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: kind of you know what happened and why you think 19 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: you're being ghosted? 20 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, Well at the beginning we met on good 21 00:00:55,320 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: Old Fashion him now, and he was so nice. The 22 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 3: conversation just floats from the beginning. We did talk a 23 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 3: lot before we were able to meet up. I think 24 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 3: it was for like a couple of weeks, and then 25 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 3: we went and got drinks and he was a little 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 3: shy in person, like choir than I thought he would be, 27 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 3: but he was also cuter than I thought he would be. 28 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 3: And yeah, it was a nice date, and I don't know, 29 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 3: I was just like looking forward to where things would go, 30 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: but he didn't mention like another hang and he just 31 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: like kind of didn't speak to me as much after 32 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 3: and then eventually nothing. So I just don't know if 33 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 3: it s fizzled out on his end or like something happened. 34 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know carm and there are people that 35 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: don't like to chat for a long time on the 36 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 2: apps or text or whatever before they meet because maybe 37 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: it takes away from some of the conversation flow. I 38 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: can see it both ways. But nonetheless, you kind of 39 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: got to know him, and then he went on this date. 40 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: There was probably you were more comfortable because you did 41 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: have some context, and so it would be even more 42 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: disappointing if the guy doesn't call you because he kind 43 00:01:58,560 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: of felt like. 44 00:01:58,920 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: You knew him. 45 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, put like that time in I know, just a 46 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 3: little bit, but yeah, I mean, and you know, women 47 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 3: like to feel comfortable. I eat safe by getting. 48 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: Into someone first, so I. 49 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 3: Definitely felt both of those things around him. 50 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it could be hard to meet people on 51 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 2: the app, so when you meet someone you like, yeah, 52 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: we heard all the time. 53 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: So let's play a song. Come back. 54 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 2: We'll call this guy as you'll be on the phone. 55 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: We're gonna see if we can figure out what's going on. 56 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: You're welcome to jump in at some point. And the hope, 57 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: as always is if you can set you up on 58 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 2: another date and pay for that. All right, let's do it, hey, Carmen, Hi, 59 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: all right, let's call this guy as you've met on Hinge, 60 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: the dating app, which a lot of people are saying 61 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 2: is trash now, but I guess we've moved on to 62 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: other ones. 63 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: But I don't know what's a better one. I don't 64 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 1: know there. 65 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 2: I saw TikTok O the day of a several other, 66 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: like more niche ones, but I am not invested in 67 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: any of them. Nonetheless, you met this guy on Hinge, 68 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 2: you chatted for a while, you met, you thought the 69 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 2: date went well, Carmen, except you haven't heard from him 70 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 2: since the date, and you want to know why. Frankly, 71 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 2: all right, let's call him now. Good luck, thank him. 72 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: Hello, Hi is his Ace. This is this is him Ace. 73 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: Good morning. 74 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: My name is Fred and I'm calling from the Fred's Show, 75 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 2: the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you 76 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now, and I 77 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with the call. 78 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: You can hang up anytime, okay. 79 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 4: I will confused as to why I'm on the. 80 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: Radio ship right. 81 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: No, that's a very fair confusion to have, and it's 82 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: and I want you to feel like you're the only one. 83 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: It's extremely common to be confused why radio show would 84 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 2: call you. But we're calling on behalf of a woman 85 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: named Carmen who we met her on Hinge, the dating app, 86 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 2: and you guys recently went out. 87 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: Do you remember her? 88 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 2: I hope, Uh yeah, I remember her. Okay, and see 89 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 2: there goes the vocal tone. This tales the old at 90 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: time guys, Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. So what happened with 91 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 2: her because we just spoke to her a minute ago. 92 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: Seems like a nice person. Uh said that she enjoyed 93 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: chatting with you after matching, and then you went on 94 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: a date and she thought that went well and says 95 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 2: that she can't get ahold of you since then? 96 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: So what's your side of the story. 97 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 4: I mean, I'll be honest, she catfished me. 98 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,839 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I know what cat fishing means in that 99 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: the pictures didn't match the you know, the in person appearance. 100 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: But I mean, how drastic was in your opinion? Was 101 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 2: the catfish? 102 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: Like? Was it a person? 103 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 4: I mean, it wasn't like a like a weight gain 104 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 4: weight loss type of catfish. But she had braces on 105 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 4: the date and none of them were in her dating 106 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: app photos. And they weren't like regular braces. These were 107 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 4: like nineties nerd railroad track braces. 108 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: Oh, like these are huge. I mean, what is she 109 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: supposed to do? 110 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 2: Like update all the pictures with a big smile so 111 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 2: you can see that she's straightening her teeth? I guess 112 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: I mean temporary tude? 113 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she could disclose that or I don't know, 114 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 4: it's twenty twenty five, like, you know, just other options 115 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 4: and VISI lignes this thing? Are you hearing? 116 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 2: Oh well there's Yeah, what is she supposed to do? Asterix? Like, 117 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 2: is it on the dating profile? Has braces? 118 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 3: Yeah? Thanks? Yeah, first of all, they're not permanent. Again, 119 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 3: they were cheaper than in Visilne. And third, what do 120 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 3: you want me to do a photo shoot with them? 121 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 3: I just got them? 122 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 4: Thanks? I can you feel like it? I mean, like 123 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 4: I said, it's it's twenty twenty five. There's other options, 124 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 4: I mean, is one option that's I. 125 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: Mean, are you an orthodonist? 126 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: I mean, like I guess, and I think sometimes praises 127 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 2: are faster too, but because they're a little stronger in 128 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 2: some cases, at least it used to be that way 129 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 2: when I had a Visiligne. But why does she have 130 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: to have something that is esthetically more pleasing to you? Well, 131 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 2: don't won't you be happy if you liked her as 132 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 2: a human being and then her teeth were straight in 133 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 2: six months? 134 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I like her sort of aesthetically it 135 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 4: just it just makes you look like a high schooler. 136 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 4: And alm also not trying to like get cuts in 137 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 4: my mouth or when we kiss, or I don't know, 138 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 4: even worse, if you know some downstairs actually happens. He's 139 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 4: so shallow. 140 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's a myth. 141 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: By the way, if this woman had yanky teeth, if 142 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 2: she had perpendicular teeth to one another, then you'd be 143 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 2: complaining about that too, So so. 144 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 3: Here's something else to say. 145 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: I'm sure right, So here she is trying to improve 146 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: herself because she wants to feel good about it. 147 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: If you really like it like this, get on hittings. 148 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 3: Don't do this to anybody else. 149 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: Well, that's the other thing. 150 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 2: I don't mean to rail on you here, but like, 151 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: you did chat with her for a while apparently, and 152 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 2: then you met her in person, so you liked her 153 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 2: as a person at least. I mean, the communication was 154 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: good enough to keep it going for a while. So 155 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 2: is it really that much to ask that you you 156 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 2: liked everything except when she smiled and saw braces, and 157 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: then in a few months they're gone and then you're good. 158 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: I mean, is it? Are we that shallow? 159 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 4: No, it's a shallow for me. It's it's a disclosure thing, 160 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 4: is trust? Like if I got a temporary eye injury 161 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 4: and I showed up with an eye passion, I didn't 162 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 4: tell her. I'm pretty sure she would be like, well, 163 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 4: if that's all about you know, I. 164 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 3: Wouldn't care at all, And I just got them this closure. Oh, 165 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 3: I got a new haircut, and I hope that's okay. 166 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: That's such ful. 167 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 2: Sounds like she has a communicable disease. It's not gonna 168 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: go away, right, They could affect you. And by the way, 169 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 2: people don't just close that either. On dating apps. You 170 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: have to find out, hopefully because people talk about it. 171 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: But I don't know. 172 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: Man, you have every right to not go out with 173 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 2: anybody you want, but it seems it seems like you 174 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 2: might be missing out simply because of something that's temporary. 175 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 2: What if she had a bunch of zits on her face? 176 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 2: Were you gonna disqualify her for that too? 177 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 3: Oh? 178 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 4: I don't even know what I am to uh huh, 179 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 4: I mean, but I've had women tell me that, like, hey, 180 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 4: I have a breakout. 181 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: That's cool, awesome. 182 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 4: Communication. 183 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: If they're not willing to communicate something, Hey I have 184 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: a breakout, I have to give you a heads up. Sure, no, 185 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: straight to jail twenty five. 186 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 3: They can pop on a pimple patch and call. 187 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 4: It a day, I mean, or you can just buy 188 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,119 Speaker 4: a facial cleaner and keep your face cleansed. 189 00:07:56,120 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: Okay, because as captain, I know for some people, I 190 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 2: want to look at you. 191 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. 192 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 3: Do you mind if he did not have great skins? 193 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. Look, you have every right. I just 194 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: it's just very. 195 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 2: Shallow, and it sounds like you're only really concerned about 196 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: one thing that it might scrape you somehow. But anyway, 197 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 2: it doesn't sound like you were anywhere near that happening 198 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: based onto what you're acting. 199 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 4: I mean, I guess to each his own. I just 200 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 4: my thing is, you know, it's a it's a noticeable 201 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 4: thing that wasn't talked about. And if I showed up this, 202 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure the same thing. 203 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 2: You know. 204 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe I'm weird. 205 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 3: Told you you wouldn't have gone out with me? 206 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: Like what, that's a good question. That's a good question. 207 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 4: Oh but I would have been able to prepare for it. 208 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. 209 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 4: It's just you just communicate, though. 210 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: So I'll ask the question as I know the answer. 211 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with Carmen? Again? 212 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: Sounds like a nice person except oh, never mind, except 213 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: in those damn braces. But okay, so she doesn't want 214 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 2: to go out with you, So I guess it doesn't 215 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 2: matter what your answer is. But a thank you for 216 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 2: answering and for talking with us, and good luck to 217 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 2: both of you.