Speaker 1: Oh I love when we get these check in from
Speaker 1: one of our Second Date couples. It's called an update update.
Speaker 2: Yes, well name that's smart.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date Podcast. And remember, okay, we
Speaker 1: are going to play the original call. You may have
Speaker 1: already heard this original call. It's important a mistake, No,
Speaker 1: it's important for you to know what's up before we
Speaker 1: get this couple back on the phone. Yes, it is
Speaker 1: part three that we're going to hear them and get
Speaker 1: their update from them. So yeah, stick around.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there'll be a little ad before part three.
Speaker 1: Stick around. Yeah, it's worth it. Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1: What do you see in the comments?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jay said, I love listening to Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: so much. When I'm watching hockey games, intermission feels way
Speaker 3: too long, so I listened to these during intermission times
Speaker 3: the trick so I can speed up the time.
Speaker 2: Like fifteen to twenty minutes. I'm the same in between
Speaker 2: hockey intermissions. What am I going to do? Yeah, I'm like,
Speaker 2: I play a couple of games of Fortnite.
Speaker 1: Man, All right, well, I guess turn it on. The
Speaker 1: game's going good. Let's yeah go to your team. Update
Speaker 1: update starts right now.
Speaker 4: It's the classic phrase you always hear, oh, I normally
Speaker 4: never do this on a first date.
Speaker 1: This means that you always do it.
Speaker 4: As they walk out of the exhibit at the Botanical
Speaker 4: Garden because the nearby porta pot is broken.
Speaker 2: I swear this never happens to me. By the way,
Speaker 2: can I borrow a leaf real quick?
Speaker 4: In today's call, we had one of those moments where
Speaker 4: somebody says, I normally never would do this, but oh
Speaker 4: boy did they. You're gonna find out what it was
Speaker 4: in your brand new second date update Update. We're gonna
Speaker 4: do it next.
Speaker 2: Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 4: When your date plans change at the very last second,
Speaker 4: not by your choice, but because of like an unforeseen
Speaker 4: obstacle with the venue, like the baseball game got rained out.
Speaker 2: The KFC ain't out of chicken. That doesn't happen. What's
Speaker 2: your mood?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 2: How do you respond?
Speaker 4: You could instantly give up right there and say no,
Speaker 4: I'm not doing this. I'll FaceTime you from my bubble bath,
Speaker 4: But I don't pivot on the fly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, be flexible, Jeff, Be spontaneous.
Speaker 2: That is the other option.
Speaker 4: Shake it up, do something new and Apparently that's what
Speaker 4: one of our listeners, Sierra, had to do recently on
Speaker 4: her date, and I'm curious what that looked like. So Sierra,
Speaker 4: welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 1: You sound like go with a flow type of person.
Speaker 2: Sound of lady.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's good.
Speaker 2: Sorry to hear that your date plans crash. But tell
Speaker 2: us what happened.
Speaker 5: So I met this guy, Ashwyin on a dating app.
Speaker 1: Oh, he sounds fancy and rich. His name is Ashwyn.
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie. The name intrigued me. But what
Speaker 5: I really liked the most was he was playful, Like
Speaker 5: he was kind of saucy, but not disrespectful, you know
Speaker 5: what I mean.
Speaker 6: A little bit, but like totally joking.
Speaker 2: Yes, like talking to your grandpa.
Speaker 4: But sixty years ago at all, everybody has a grumpy
Speaker 4: grandpa who likes to poke fun at them, right grumpy?
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, it's like he's not an old man.
Speaker 6: He's flirty.
Speaker 2: His name is Ashwyin.
Speaker 1: He sounds like, Okay, you got us there, Jeff.
Speaker 4: But the rest okay, well, we all have different images
Speaker 4: of what Ashwyn is.
Speaker 2: But what was the plan for the date?
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I'm happy to say that wasn't my
Speaker 5: first impression. I liked him. I liked him enough to
Speaker 5: uh say yes to a date with him, and I
Speaker 5: think that he was kind of trying to impress me,
Speaker 5: which obviously is fine with me. Like he had made
Speaker 5: rooftop bar reservations at this like trendy place.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you sound like you're excited to get some
Speaker 4: rooftop drinks.
Speaker 5: Oh, I was so excited. I love this kind of thing.
Speaker 5: And we go up the elevator and the guy at
Speaker 5: the door said he was so sorry, but the whole
Speaker 5: place was closed for like some kind of a cryptocurrency event.
Speaker 4: Oh god, crypto thing. Yeah, I know, people who could
Speaker 4: afford to rent out an entire money.
Speaker 1: I just picture a bunch of dudes with receding hairlines.
Speaker 2: Yeah, telling each other the same thing popper vests.
Speaker 4: Yeah, careful, you're turning a Lexus on too. Oh no,
Speaker 4: but that's what a bummer. Your whole playing for the
Speaker 4: night just got totally ruined.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was really disappointing, but I just said,
Speaker 5: screw it, let's take a walk. I'm not wearing the
Speaker 5: greatest shoes for it. But I just really wanted to
Speaker 5: spend time with him at that point. So we walked
Speaker 5: down the street and we walked and talked for a while,
Speaker 5: and we just kind of ended up at this old
Speaker 5: It was just like a diner, like a normal you know. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 5: it wasn't like a cute like, oh, we're trying to
Speaker 5: be retro diner. It looked like it had just been
Speaker 5: there for like seventy years.
Speaker 2: From like no house.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the grease trap hasn't been kien in at least
Speaker 1: two years.
Speaker 4: Okay, we're putting a lot of emphasis on like the
Speaker 4: location of the day, But what about the bond, the
Speaker 4: connection between you and Ashwyd Did that change once.
Speaker 2: You ended up at the crappy diner?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: I mean it was honestly, it was kind of perfect.
Speaker 5: Like we were sitting there eating cheese fries and drinking
Speaker 5: milkshakes in our formal clothes, just talking, you know, and
Speaker 5: probably because the plans had changed and we were thrown
Speaker 5: in the situation, we ended up having just the greatest,
Speaker 5: most real conversation it was.
Speaker 1: That's such a good sign for anyone. If you can
Speaker 1: be anywhere with someone and still have a good time,
Speaker 1: that means that you actually have a real connection.
Speaker 5: Yes, and after our plans felt through, you know, like
Speaker 5: it just felt so good. It felt so comfortable talking
Speaker 5: to him. We've talked for hours.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, how could he not be cam?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, how did this night end?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 5: Okay, so one thing led to another. He kissed me
Speaker 5: good night, and he did, of course, end up at
Speaker 5: his plan.
Speaker 4: Really post chili cheese fries, you guys went back.
Speaker 2: To this place.
Speaker 5: Hey, I'm telling you, I felt very comfortable with him,
Speaker 5: and apparently I didn't leave till the next morning, impact,
Speaker 5: which is unusual for me.
Speaker 1: But what did he say? Was he there when you
Speaker 1: woke up? Yeah?
Speaker 5: No, he was just his sweet, playful selfie give me
Speaker 5: a little kiss on the nose, which I thought was adorable, And.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't even awkward the next morning, Yeah.
Speaker 6: Not at all.
Speaker 4: It makes me wonder if it was like one of
Speaker 4: those typical guy things where it wasn't enough of a
Speaker 4: challenge and it became too easy, so the guy gets bored.
Speaker 1: He doesn't sound like a guy that is like that, though, Jeff,
Speaker 1: This sounds like they never do until it sounds like
Speaker 1: they were just vibing on a deeper level than that.
Speaker 1: If he just wanted to get in her pants and
Speaker 1: that's all he wanted, or he was disappointed in that
Speaker 1: they could have gone anywhere and just gone and drank.
Speaker 4: Maybe he knew that crypto event was happening and this
Speaker 4: was all set up as like a little ruse to
Speaker 4: be like, look at me, Look.
Speaker 2: How spontaneous I could be. Let's go back to my class.
Speaker 1: You are so cynical against men right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just telling you this. I've heard guys do
Speaker 4: stuff like this and sometimes even worse.
Speaker 1: I know, I still want to thank for the best,
Speaker 1: jeff I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, you can be naive if you want,
Speaker 4: but let's call it Ashwin and we'll see what he
Speaker 4: has to say with your second date update right after this, hold.
Speaker 1: On Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here Part two.
Speaker 2: Wow, another first date blown up by a pod of
Speaker 2: crypto bros. Oh every single week we deal with this.
Speaker 4: Because our listener Sierra was supposed to meet a guy
Speaker 4: named Ashwin at a rooftop bar, but of course, when
Speaker 4: they arrived, the entire venue had been rented out by
Speaker 4: a bunch of crypto nerds geeking out over yield farms
Speaker 4: and stabilizing their coin pools whatever they like to talk about.
Speaker 2: Look at these candlesticks popping. They don't even know what
Speaker 2: that means, but it disgusts me.
Speaker 1: No wonder, I don't enjoy any of it.
Speaker 4: Here's the thing. Sierra and Ashwin didn't let that kill
Speaker 4: their night. They actually swung it into a really fun
Speaker 4: evening at a local diner.
Speaker 2: Which eventually led into a sleepover.
Speaker 1: A really good sounds so sweet, it.
Speaker 2: Did, until Ashwyn is suddenly not calling her.
Speaker 1: Back, and you've reached out to him, or you haven't,
Speaker 1: You're just waiting to hear from him.
Speaker 5: This was what was so weird. We texted a little
Speaker 5: bit after that, but he just I got the vibes
Speaker 5: that he was not interested.
Speaker 2: Huh oh, even through texts. Yeah, yeah, I feel that
Speaker 2: energy shit for sure.
Speaker 1: I hope it's one of those where he's just scared
Speaker 1: of real love.
Speaker 4: It's not stupid, but sometimes, like you had said, do challenge.
Speaker 6: Like if it's too easy and everything is great, sometimes
Speaker 6: people don't like to.
Speaker 2: Be in that space.
Speaker 4: I don't know we'll see which category Ashwin falls into
Speaker 4: if we're able to get him on the phone to dial.
Speaker 2: His number right now. Two perfect category. We're praying for
Speaker 2: a Disney ending.
Speaker 1: Getting her another nose kiss, jeff.
Speaker 2: What a promise. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Ashwin?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Hey man, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show
Speaker 4: right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. Ashwin. Hi, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you might be busy or something right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope you have a second to talk to us,
Speaker 4: because we're doing a segment called a second Date update.
Speaker 6: Sure, it'd be weird.
Speaker 2: Okay, you give him a lot of credit.
Speaker 4: So the reason that we're calling is because you went
Speaker 4: out on a date recently with a listener to our show,
Speaker 4: a woman named Sierra.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you mean.
Speaker 5: So.
Speaker 4: Here's the thing, Sierra. We talked to her and she
Speaker 4: told us about your hang the other night.
Speaker 1: The diner sounded so cute.
Speaker 2: It sounded pretty good.
Speaker 4: Despite all the obstacles that came up, you two were
Speaker 4: able to have a really good thing.
Speaker 2: Would you agree with that?
Speaker 6: I mean, we we did. It was probably one of
Speaker 6: the most amazing date been on.
Speaker 4: What the heck, bro, we're over here waiting to find
Speaker 4: like crazy reason.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so sweet.
Speaker 4: Sorry to be so emotional about it, but it's just that,
Speaker 4: you know, Sierra is really confused.
Speaker 6: It's just kind of embarrassing for you or for Sierra.
Speaker 6: For me.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, if it's too much to share.
Speaker 2: You should do it anyway, because.
Speaker 3: I don't want to, you know.
Speaker 2: And Sierra really deserves to know, wouldn't she say?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, no, she is. She's really awesome. This is
Speaker 6: mostly mostly a me a meet thing.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if you're willing to open up to us,
Speaker 4: just even a little bit, and we could pass the
Speaker 4: message to her, I think that would go a long way.
Speaker 6: We had this amazing, amazing night, and she told me
Speaker 6: that she doesn't do this a lot, where she goes
Speaker 6: to a guy's place, and that she was curious where.
Speaker 4: She ranks, where she was, where shes like compared to
Speaker 4: other people.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I was, I was very I was very thrown
Speaker 6: off by that question.
Speaker 1: Question a joke totally, it was.
Speaker 6: It was not a joke because I asked her to clarify.
Speaker 6: I said, what do you mean? And she said, well,
Speaker 6: I'm sure you've been with X amount of people.
Speaker 1: Kind of a rude to some shy assumption person, but
Speaker 1: you know what, or it's a testament to your experience
Speaker 1: that yeah, you could take it as a compliment.
Speaker 2: What did you I mean, did you actually rank her?
Speaker 1: God?
Speaker 6: No, well, I told her that I'm not sure how
Speaker 6: to answer that.
Speaker 2: It's good, And.
Speaker 6: Eventually I said top three for sure.
Speaker 1: Oh that's cute.
Speaker 2: That's answer like what I take.
Speaker 4: Top three? That's great, And you don't want to say
Speaker 4: number one because then you're too eager and I don't believe.
Speaker 1: It if you say number one.
Speaker 6: But then I told her, since I answered this for you,
Speaker 6: you have to reciprocate.
Speaker 2: Why would you do that? You WoT that she asked
Speaker 2: it to him?
Speaker 6: Oh god?
Speaker 2: What did she say?
Speaker 6: She said, you're definitely in my top five.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's not bad, a little bit lower than what your.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it gets worse. I asked her out of how many? No,
Speaker 6: and she said maybe five.
Speaker 2: O five, So you're in the top one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: That changed everything for you, okay soon? Because it just
Speaker 1: changed everything for me.
Speaker 6: I didn't really know what to say because I already
Speaker 6: felt so vulnerable. You know, we're in my bed naked
Speaker 6: and we've just been together.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's like getting a participation trophy.
Speaker 4: Well, you know, maybe maybe there was some sort of
Speaker 4: miscommunication or she didn't say quite what she meant. And
Speaker 4: I'll give her a chance to explain herself right here,
Speaker 4: because I need to let you know. Sierra is on
Speaker 4: the other line of this call, listening, wanting to talk
Speaker 4: to you.
Speaker 1: Oh god, oh god, she's the one that should be embarrassed.
Speaker 5: Hi, who tells five is like the number one ring,
Speaker 5: like it's the best?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were going backwards.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she's like.
Speaker 2: I can't trying to save you.
Speaker 5: I feel so bad. First of all, Ashlynn, I'm so
Speaker 5: so sorry. I can't believe I made you feel that way,
Speaker 5: and you've been feeling that way this whole time.
Speaker 6: Yeah, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 5: Okay, if I if I explain a little bit.
Speaker 4: Yes, go into details about why.
Speaker 1: You know what, men that can take constructive criticism one.
Speaker 4: Thing he could do better. Let's work on one step
Speaker 4: at a time.
Speaker 6: And for some reason, I didn't do enough fourth place stuff. Okay,
Speaker 6: I'm open to I'm open to feedback.
Speaker 3: You should assume you didn't.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, you know, actually, maybe we shouldn't be asking
Speaker 4: what he could change. Maybe it's better to ask you, Sierra,
Speaker 4: why you said that to him?
Speaker 5: Yes, when I said, oh, you're definitely in the top
Speaker 5: five of five, I was trying to be playful. I
Speaker 5: was trying to make a joke. I was to be
Speaker 5: kind of said, yes.
Speaker 6: I was kidding.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a joke.
Speaker 1: After sound button or something we could have hit there.
Speaker 5: He's definitely top four for sure. Let's just.
Speaker 1: I think so it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: It's better, yes, but you have to do anything that
Speaker 2: was great?
Speaker 6: Can we can we please stop talking about one number
Speaker 6: i'm ranking.
Speaker 5: Okay, Yes, I'm so sorry. I'm just so embarrassed. I
Speaker 5: was trying to make a joke.
Speaker 1: You definitely have said your apology.
Speaker 4: And I think gets the idea that you didn't mean it.
Speaker 4: But we mean this when we say we'd like to
Speaker 4: send you out on another date, the two of you, Ashwin,
Speaker 4: if you're willing to give her one more chance, we
Speaker 4: would don't let.
Speaker 1: Your pride stand in the way of this one. Ashwan.
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, her excellent definitely definitely makes me feel better
Speaker 6: and embarrassed that I can't take jokes about best time,
Speaker 6: But yeah, no, I definitely would be interested in another date.
Speaker 4: All right, So congratulations. That means Sierra you got what
Speaker 4: you came for another date with Ashwyn.
Speaker 5: Thank you, so so, so so much.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I feel like we just had two
Speaker 1: listeners who own their own mistakes, which was just wild
Speaker 1: on this show it happens to.
Speaker 5: Be really bad at the show and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: After months of waiting, we finally got Ashwyn and Sierra
Speaker 4: back on the phone to give us an update update.
Speaker 2: And you know, the.
Speaker 4: Last time they were on there was definitely a lot
Speaker 4: of talk about romantic rankings and room for improvement, and
Speaker 4: we should just ask first off, I mean, Ashwan's here,
Speaker 4: Are you two still together?
Speaker 2: Is that still happening?
Speaker 6: Yes, we are. We're still at it.
Speaker 5: Still.
Speaker 4: That's an interesting way to say, yes we are.
Speaker 5: And I am very happy to tell you that I
Speaker 5: have officially bumped up his ranking top yeah, top to.
Speaker 6: She's such a Kidder's joking.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not, I'm not totally joking, Oh my god,
Speaker 5: but you know, he's still really really good. He's like
Speaker 5: top two.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean, I guess I can practice some more
Speaker 6: to make sure that I get to number one.
Speaker 5: Okay, baby, you got your work cut out for you.
Speaker 5: There is so much.
Speaker 4: Yet all right, well sense she's kidding or not, I
Speaker 4: don't know, but at least she believes in you, Ashwy.
Speaker 4: That's that's good and maybe enough talk about the rankings.
Speaker 4: We're happy that the show was able to get you
Speaker 4: two together, and it sounds like you're continuing with something
Speaker 4: with the possibility of a long term relationship.
Speaker 2: So that's great.
Speaker 5: Thank you, guys.
Speaker 6: We're yeah, we're happy.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 6: There.
Speaker 2: Yeah, at least one of you is.
Speaker 4: So keep us updated on your relationship and the ever
Speaker 4: changing rankings of romance.
Speaker 2: Keep up with the show. We appreciate it.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 2: All right, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.