WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Numbers Don't Lie But You Should

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love when we get these check in from

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<v Speaker 1>one of our Second Date couples. It's called an update update.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, well name that's smart.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Second Date Podcast. And remember, okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>are going to play the original call. You may have

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<v Speaker 1>already heard this original call. It's important a mistake, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's important for you to know what's up before we

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<v Speaker 1>get this couple back on the phone. Yes, it is

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<v Speaker 1>part three that we're going to hear them and get

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<v Speaker 1>their update from them. So yeah, stick around.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there'll be a little ad before part three.

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<v Speaker 1>Stick around. Yeah, it's worth it. Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you see in the comments?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Jay said, I love listening to Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>so much. When I'm watching hockey games, intermission feels way

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<v Speaker 3>too long, so I listened to these during intermission times

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<v Speaker 3>the trick so I can speed up the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Like fifteen to twenty minutes. I'm the same in between

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<v Speaker 2>hockey intermissions. What am I going to do? Yeah, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I play a couple of games of Fortnite.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, All right, well, I guess turn it on. The

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<v Speaker 1>game's going good. Let's yeah go to your team. Update

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<v Speaker 1>update starts right now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the classic phrase you always hear, oh, I normally

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<v Speaker 4>never do this on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>This means that you always do it.

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<v Speaker 4>As they walk out of the exhibit at the Botanical

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<v Speaker 4>Garden because the nearby porta pot is broken.

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<v Speaker 2>I swear this never happens to me. By the way,

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<v Speaker 2>can I borrow a leaf real quick?

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<v Speaker 4>In today's call, we had one of those moments where

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<v Speaker 4>somebody says, I normally never would do this, but oh

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<v Speaker 4>boy did they. You're gonna find out what it was

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<v Speaker 4>in your brand new second date update Update. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>do it next.

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<v Speaker 2>Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>When your date plans change at the very last second,

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<v Speaker 4>not by your choice, but because of like an unforeseen

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<v Speaker 4>obstacle with the venue, like the baseball game got rained out.

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<v Speaker 2>The KFC ain't out of chicken. That doesn't happen. What's

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<v Speaker 2>your mood?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you respond?

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<v Speaker 4>You could instantly give up right there and say no,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not doing this. I'll FaceTime you from my bubble bath,

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't pivot on the fly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, be flexible, Jeff, Be spontaneous.

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<v Speaker 2>That is the other option.

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<v Speaker 4>Shake it up, do something new and Apparently that's what

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<v Speaker 4>one of our listeners, Sierra, had to do recently on

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<v Speaker 4>her date, and I'm curious what that looked like. So Sierra,

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<v Speaker 4>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like go with a flow type of person.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound of lady.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry to hear that your date plans crash. But tell

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<v Speaker 2>us what happened.

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<v Speaker 5>So I met this guy, Ashwyin on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he sounds fancy and rich. His name is Ashwyn.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not gonna lie. The name intrigued me. But what

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<v Speaker 5>I really liked the most was he was playful, Like

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<v Speaker 5>he was kind of saucy, but not disrespectful, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>A little bit, but like totally joking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like talking to your grandpa.

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<v Speaker 4>But sixty years ago at all, everybody has a grumpy

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<v Speaker 4>grandpa who likes to poke fun at them, right grumpy?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Oh, it's like he's not an old man.

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<v Speaker 6>He's flirty.

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Ashwyin.

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<v Speaker 1>He sounds like, Okay, you got us there, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>But the rest okay, well, we all have different images

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<v Speaker 4>of what Ashwyn is.

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<v Speaker 2>But what was the plan for the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, I'm happy to say that wasn't my

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<v Speaker 5>first impression. I liked him. I liked him enough to

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<v Speaker 5>uh say yes to a date with him, and I

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<v Speaker 5>think that he was kind of trying to impress me,

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<v Speaker 5>which obviously is fine with me. Like he had made

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<v Speaker 5>rooftop bar reservations at this like trendy place.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you sound like you're excited to get some

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<v Speaker 4>rooftop drinks.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I was so excited. I love this kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And we go up the elevator and the guy at

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<v Speaker 5>the door said he was so sorry, but the whole

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<v Speaker 5>place was closed for like some kind of a cryptocurrency event.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh god, crypto thing. Yeah, I know, people who could

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<v Speaker 4>afford to rent out an entire money.

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<v Speaker 1>I just picture a bunch of dudes with receding hairlines.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, telling each other the same thing popper vests.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, careful, you're turning a Lexus on too. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 4>but that's what a bummer. Your whole playing for the

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<v Speaker 4>night just got totally ruined.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean it was really disappointing, but I just said,

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<v Speaker 5>screw it, let's take a walk. I'm not wearing the

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<v Speaker 5>greatest shoes for it. But I just really wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>spend time with him at that point. So we walked

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<v Speaker 5>down the street and we walked and talked for a while,

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<v Speaker 5>and we just kind of ended up at this old

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<v Speaker 5>It was just like a diner, like a normal you know. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't like a cute like, oh, we're trying to

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<v Speaker 5>be retro diner. It looked like it had just been

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<v Speaker 5>there for like seventy years.

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<v Speaker 2>From like no house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the grease trap hasn't been kien in at least

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<v Speaker 1>two years.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we're putting a lot of emphasis on like the

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<v Speaker 4>location of the day, But what about the bond, the

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<v Speaker 4>connection between you and Ashwyd Did that change once.

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<v Speaker 2>You ended up at the crappy diner?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it was honestly, it was kind of perfect.

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<v Speaker 5>Like we were sitting there eating cheese fries and drinking

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<v Speaker 5>milkshakes in our formal clothes, just talking, you know, and

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<v Speaker 5>probably because the plans had changed and we were thrown

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<v Speaker 5>in the situation, we ended up having just the greatest,

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<v Speaker 5>most real conversation it was.

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<v Speaker 1>That's such a good sign for anyone. If you can

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<v Speaker 1>be anywhere with someone and still have a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>that means that you actually have a real connection.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, and after our plans felt through, you know, like

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<v Speaker 5>it just felt so good. It felt so comfortable talking

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<v Speaker 5>to him. We've talked for hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, how could he not be cam?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, how did this night end?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so one thing led to another. He kissed me

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<v Speaker 5>good night, and he did, of course, end up at

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<v Speaker 5>his plan.

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<v Speaker 4>Really post chili cheese fries, you guys went back.

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<v Speaker 2>To this place.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I'm telling you, I felt very comfortable with him,

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<v Speaker 5>and apparently I didn't leave till the next morning, impact,

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<v Speaker 5>which is unusual for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But what did he say? Was he there when you

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<v Speaker 1>woke up? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>No, he was just his sweet, playful selfie give me

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<v Speaker 5>a little kiss on the nose, which I thought was adorable, And.

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't even awkward the next morning, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Not at all.

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<v Speaker 4>It makes me wonder if it was like one of

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<v Speaker 4>those typical guy things where it wasn't enough of a

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<v Speaker 4>challenge and it became too easy, so the guy gets bored.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't sound like a guy that is like that, though, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>This sounds like they never do until it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>they were just vibing on a deeper level than that.

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<v Speaker 1>If he just wanted to get in her pants and

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<v Speaker 1>that's all he wanted, or he was disappointed in that

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<v Speaker 1>they could have gone anywhere and just gone and drank.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe he knew that crypto event was happening and this

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<v Speaker 4>was all set up as like a little ruse to

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<v Speaker 4>be like, look at me, Look.

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<v Speaker 2>How spontaneous I could be. Let's go back to my class.

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<v Speaker 1>You are so cynical against men right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just telling you this. I've heard guys do

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<v Speaker 4>stuff like this and sometimes even worse.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I still want to thank for the best,

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<v Speaker 1>jeff I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Well, you can be naive if you want,

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<v Speaker 4>but let's call it Ashwin and we'll see what he

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<v Speaker 4>has to say with your second date update right after this, hold.

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<v Speaker 1>On Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, another first date blown up by a pod of

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<v Speaker 2>crypto bros. Oh every single week we deal with this.

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<v Speaker 4>Because our listener Sierra was supposed to meet a guy

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<v Speaker 4>named Ashwin at a rooftop bar, but of course, when

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<v Speaker 4>they arrived, the entire venue had been rented out by

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch of crypto nerds geeking out over yield farms

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<v Speaker 4>and stabilizing their coin pools whatever they like to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at these candlesticks popping. They don't even know what

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<v Speaker 2>that means, but it disgusts me.

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<v Speaker 1>No wonder, I don't enjoy any of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing. Sierra and Ashwin didn't let that kill

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<v Speaker 4>their night. They actually swung it into a really fun

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<v Speaker 4>evening at a local diner.

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<v Speaker 2>Which eventually led into a sleepover.

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<v Speaker 1>A really good sounds so sweet, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did, until Ashwyn is suddenly not calling her.

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<v Speaker 1>Back, and you've reached out to him, or you haven't,

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<v Speaker 1>You're just waiting to hear from him.

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<v Speaker 5>This was what was so weird. We texted a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit after that, but he just I got the vibes

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<v Speaker 5>that he was not interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh oh, even through texts. Yeah, yeah, I feel that

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<v Speaker 2>energy shit for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it's one of those where he's just scared

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<v Speaker 1>of real love.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not stupid, but sometimes, like you had said, do challenge.

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<v Speaker 6>Like if it's too easy and everything is great, sometimes

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<v Speaker 6>people don't like to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be in that space.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know we'll see which category Ashwin falls into

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<v Speaker 4>if we're able to get him on the phone to dial.

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<v Speaker 2>His number right now. Two perfect category. We're praying for

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<v Speaker 2>a Disney ending.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting her another nose kiss, jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>What a promise. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Ashwin?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey man, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show

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<v Speaker 4>right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Welcome to the show. Ashwin. Hi, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you might be busy or something right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I hope you have a second to talk to us,

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<v Speaker 4>because we're doing a segment called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 6>Sure, it'd be weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you give him a lot of credit.

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<v Speaker 4>So the reason that we're calling is because you went

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<v Speaker 4>out on a date recently with a listener to our show,

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<v Speaker 4>a woman named Sierra.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, you mean.

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<v Speaker 5>So.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing, Sierra. We talked to her and she

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<v Speaker 4>told us about your hang the other night.

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<v Speaker 1>The diner sounded so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounded pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>Despite all the obstacles that came up, you two were

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<v Speaker 4>able to have a really good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, we we did. It was probably one of

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<v Speaker 6>the most amazing date been on.

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<v Speaker 4>What the heck, bro, we're over here waiting to find

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<v Speaker 4>like crazy reason.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry to be so emotional about it, but it's just that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Sierra is really confused.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just kind of embarrassing for you or for Sierra.

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<v Speaker 6>For me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, if it's too much to share.

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<v Speaker 2>You should do it anyway, because.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And Sierra really deserves to know, wouldn't she say?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Yeah, no, she is. She's really awesome. This is

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<v Speaker 6>mostly mostly a me a meet thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, if you're willing to open up to us,

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<v Speaker 4>just even a little bit, and we could pass the

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<v Speaker 4>message to her, I think that would go a long way.

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<v Speaker 6>We had this amazing, amazing night, and she told me

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<v Speaker 6>that she doesn't do this a lot, where she goes

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<v Speaker 6>to a guy's place, and that she was curious where.

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<v Speaker 4>She ranks, where she was, where shes like compared to

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<v Speaker 4>other people.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I was, I was very I was very thrown

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<v Speaker 6>off by that question.

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<v Speaker 1>Question a joke totally, it was.

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<v Speaker 6>It was not a joke because I asked her to clarify.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, what do you mean? And she said, well,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sure you've been with X amount of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of a rude to some shy assumption person, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, or it's a testament to your experience

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<v Speaker 1>that yeah, you could take it as a compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you I mean, did you actually rank her?

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<v Speaker 1>God?

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<v Speaker 6>No, well, I told her that I'm not sure how

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<v Speaker 6>to answer that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's good, And.

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<v Speaker 6>Eventually I said top three for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>That's answer like what I take.

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<v Speaker 4>Top three? That's great, And you don't want to say

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<v Speaker 4>number one because then you're too eager and I don't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>It if you say number one.

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<v Speaker 6>But then I told her, since I answered this for you,

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<v Speaker 6>you have to reciprocate.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you do that? You WoT that she asked

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<v Speaker 2>it to him?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh god?

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<v Speaker 2>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 6>She said, you're definitely in my top five.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's not bad, a little bit lower than what your.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it gets worse. I asked her out of how many? No,

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<v Speaker 6>and she said maybe five.

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<v Speaker 2>O five, So you're in the top one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 1>That changed everything for you, okay soon? Because it just

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<v Speaker 1>changed everything for me.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't really know what to say because I already

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<v Speaker 6>felt so vulnerable. You know, we're in my bed naked

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<v Speaker 6>and we've just been together.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's like getting a participation trophy.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, maybe maybe there was some sort of

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<v Speaker 4>miscommunication or she didn't say quite what she meant. And

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<v Speaker 4>I'll give her a chance to explain herself right here,

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<v Speaker 4>because I need to let you know. Sierra is on

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<v Speaker 4>the other line of this call, listening, wanting to talk

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<v Speaker 4>to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, oh god, she's the one that should be embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, who tells five is like the number one ring,

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<v Speaker 5>like it's the best?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you were going backwards.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, she's like.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't trying to save you.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel so bad. First of all, Ashlynn, I'm so

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<v Speaker 5>so sorry. I can't believe I made you feel that way,

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<v Speaker 5>and you've been feeling that way this whole time.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, if I if I explain a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, go into details about why.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, men that can take constructive criticism one.

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<v Speaker 4>Thing he could do better. Let's work on one step

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<v Speaker 4>at a time.

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<v Speaker 6>And for some reason, I didn't do enough fourth place stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm open to I'm open to feedback.

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<v Speaker 3>You should assume you didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, you know, actually, maybe we shouldn't be asking

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<v Speaker 4>what he could change. Maybe it's better to ask you, Sierra,

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<v Speaker 4>why you said that to him?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, when I said, oh, you're definitely in the top

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<v Speaker 5>five of five, I was trying to be playful. I

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<v Speaker 5>was trying to make a joke. I was to be

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<v Speaker 5>kind of said, yes.

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<v Speaker 6>I was kidding.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>After sound button or something we could have hit there.

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<v Speaker 5>He's definitely top four for sure. Let's just.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>It's better, yes, but you have to do anything that

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<v Speaker 2>was great?

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<v Speaker 6>Can we can we please stop talking about one number

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<v Speaker 6>i'm ranking.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Yes, I'm so sorry. I'm just so embarrassed. I

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<v Speaker 5>was trying to make a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>You definitely have said your apology.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think gets the idea that you didn't mean it.

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<v Speaker 4>But we mean this when we say we'd like to

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<v Speaker 4>send you out on another date, the two of you, Ashwin,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're willing to give her one more chance, we

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<v Speaker 4>would don't let.

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<v Speaker 1>Your pride stand in the way of this one. Ashwan.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, no, her excellent definitely definitely makes me feel better

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<v Speaker 6>and embarrassed that I can't take jokes about best time,

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, no, I definitely would be interested in another date.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, So congratulations. That means Sierra you got what

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<v Speaker 4>you came for another date with Ashwyn.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, so so, so so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I feel like we just had two

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<v Speaker 1>listeners who own their own mistakes, which was just wild

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<v Speaker 1>on this show it happens to.

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<v Speaker 5>Be really bad at the show and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>After months of waiting, we finally got Ashwyn and Sierra

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<v Speaker 4>back on the phone to give us an update update.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, the.

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<v Speaker 4>Last time they were on there was definitely a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of talk about romantic rankings and room for improvement, and

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<v Speaker 4>we should just ask first off, I mean, Ashwan's here,

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<v Speaker 4>Are you two still together?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that still happening?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, we are. We're still at it.

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<v Speaker 5>Still.

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<v Speaker 4>That's an interesting way to say, yes we are.

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<v Speaker 5>And I am very happy to tell you that I

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<v Speaker 5>have officially bumped up his ranking top yeah, top to.

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<v Speaker 6>She's such a Kidder's joking.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm not, I'm not totally joking, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>but you know, he's still really really good. He's like

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<v Speaker 5>top two.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, I guess I can practice some more

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<v Speaker 6>to make sure that I get to number one.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, baby, you got your work cut out for you.

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<v Speaker 5>There is so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Yet all right, well sense she's kidding or not, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, but at least she believes in you, Ashwy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's good and maybe enough talk about the rankings.

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<v Speaker 4>We're happy that the show was able to get you

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<v Speaker 4>two together, and it sounds like you're continuing with something

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<v Speaker 4>with the possibility of a long term relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's great.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, guys.

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<v Speaker 6>We're yeah, we're happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 6>There.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, at least one of you is.

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<v Speaker 4>So keep us updated on your relationship and the ever

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<v Speaker 4>changing rankings of romance.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep up with the show. We appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.