1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Oh I love when we get these check in from 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: one of our Second Date couples. It's called an update update. 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: Yes, well name that's smart. 4 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date Podcast. And remember, okay, we 5 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: are going to play the original call. You may have 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: already heard this original call. It's important a mistake, No, 7 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: it's important for you to know what's up before we 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 1: get this couple back on the phone. Yes, it is 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: part three that we're going to hear them and get 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: their update from them. So yeah, stick around. 11 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, there'll be a little ad before part three. 12 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: Stick around. Yeah, it's worth it. Okay, here we go. 13 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: What do you see in the comments? 14 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, Jay said, I love listening to Brooke and Jeffrey 15 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: so much. When I'm watching hockey games, intermission feels way 16 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 3: too long, so I listened to these during intermission times 17 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 3: the trick so I can speed up the time. 18 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 2: Like fifteen to twenty minutes. I'm the same in between 19 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 2: hockey intermissions. What am I going to do? Yeah, I'm like, 20 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 2: I play a couple of games of Fortnite. 21 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: Man, All right, well, I guess turn it on. The 22 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: game's going good. Let's yeah go to your team. Update 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: update starts right now. 24 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 4: It's the classic phrase you always hear, oh, I normally 25 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 4: never do this on a first date. 26 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: This means that you always do it. 27 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 4: As they walk out of the exhibit at the Botanical 28 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 4: Garden because the nearby porta pot is broken. 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 2: I swear this never happens to me. By the way, 30 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: can I borrow a leaf real quick? 31 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 4: In today's call, we had one of those moments where 32 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 4: somebody says, I normally never would do this, but oh 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 4: boy did they. You're gonna find out what it was 34 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 4: in your brand new second date update Update. We're gonna 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 4: do it next. 36 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: Broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 37 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 4: When your date plans change at the very last second, 38 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 4: not by your choice, but because of like an unforeseen 39 00:01:53,800 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 4: obstacle with the venue, like the baseball game got rained out. 40 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: The KFC ain't out of chicken. That doesn't happen. What's 41 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: your mood? 42 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 5: Like? 43 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: How do you respond? 44 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 4: You could instantly give up right there and say no, 45 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 4: I'm not doing this. I'll FaceTime you from my bubble bath, 46 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 4: But I don't pivot on the fly. 47 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, be flexible, Jeff, Be spontaneous. 48 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: That is the other option. 49 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 4: Shake it up, do something new and Apparently that's what 50 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 4: one of our listeners, Sierra, had to do recently on 51 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 4: her date, and I'm curious what that looked like. So Sierra, 52 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 4: welcome to the show. 53 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 6: Hi. 54 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: You sound like go with a flow type of person. 55 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: Sound of lady. 56 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: Yeah that's good. 57 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: Sorry to hear that your date plans crash. But tell 58 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 2: us what happened. 59 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 5: So I met this guy, Ashwyin on a dating app. 60 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: Oh, he sounds fancy and rich. His name is Ashwyn. 61 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie. The name intrigued me. But what 62 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 5: I really liked the most was he was playful, Like 63 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 5: he was kind of saucy, but not disrespectful, you know 64 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 5: what I mean. 65 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,239 Speaker 6: A little bit, but like totally joking. 66 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 2: Yes, like talking to your grandpa. 67 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 4: But sixty years ago at all, everybody has a grumpy 68 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 4: grandpa who likes to poke fun at them, right grumpy? 69 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, it's like he's not an old man. 70 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 6: He's flirty. 71 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 2: His name is Ashwyin. 72 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: He sounds like, Okay, you got us there, Jeff. 73 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 4: But the rest okay, well, we all have different images 74 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 4: of what Ashwyn is. 75 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: But what was the plan for the date? 76 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 5: Well, you know, I'm happy to say that wasn't my 77 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 5: first impression. I liked him. I liked him enough to 78 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 5: uh say yes to a date with him, and I 79 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 5: think that he was kind of trying to impress me, 80 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 5: which obviously is fine with me. Like he had made 81 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 5: rooftop bar reservations at this like trendy place. 82 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 4: Okay, so you sound like you're excited to get some 83 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 4: rooftop drinks. 84 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 5: Oh, I was so excited. I love this kind of thing. 85 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 5: And we go up the elevator and the guy at 86 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 5: the door said he was so sorry, but the whole 87 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 5: place was closed for like some kind of a cryptocurrency event. 88 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 4: Oh god, crypto thing. Yeah, I know, people who could 89 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 4: afford to rent out an entire money. 90 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: I just picture a bunch of dudes with receding hairlines. 91 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, telling each other the same thing popper vests. 92 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, careful, you're turning a Lexus on too. Oh no, 93 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: but that's what a bummer. Your whole playing for the 94 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: night just got totally ruined. 95 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was really disappointing, but I just said, 96 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 5: screw it, let's take a walk. I'm not wearing the 97 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 5: greatest shoes for it. But I just really wanted to 98 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 5: spend time with him at that point. So we walked 99 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 5: down the street and we walked and talked for a while, 100 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 5: and we just kind of ended up at this old 101 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,679 Speaker 5: It was just like a diner, like a normal you know. Okay, Okay, 102 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 5: it wasn't like a cute like, oh, we're trying to 103 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 5: be retro diner. It looked like it had just been 104 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 5: there for like seventy years. 105 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 2: From like no house. 106 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, the grease trap hasn't been kien in at least 107 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: two years. 108 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 4: Okay, we're putting a lot of emphasis on like the 109 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 4: location of the day, But what about the bond, the 110 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 4: connection between you and Ashwyd Did that change once. 111 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 2: You ended up at the crappy diner? 112 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 6: No? 113 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 5: I mean it was honestly, it was kind of perfect. 114 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 5: Like we were sitting there eating cheese fries and drinking 115 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 5: milkshakes in our formal clothes, just talking, you know, and 116 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,679 Speaker 5: probably because the plans had changed and we were thrown 117 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 5: in the situation, we ended up having just the greatest, 118 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 5: most real conversation it was. 119 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: That's such a good sign for anyone. If you can 120 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: be anywhere with someone and still have a good time, 121 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: that means that you actually have a real connection. 122 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 5: Yes, and after our plans felt through, you know, like 123 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 5: it just felt so good. It felt so comfortable talking 124 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 5: to him. We've talked for hours. 125 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, how could he not be cam? 126 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, how did this night end? 127 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 3: Well? 128 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 5: Okay, so one thing led to another. He kissed me 129 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 5: good night, and he did, of course, end up at 130 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 5: his plan. 131 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 4: Really post chili cheese fries, you guys went back. 132 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: To this place. 133 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 5: Hey, I'm telling you, I felt very comfortable with him, 134 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 5: and apparently I didn't leave till the next morning, impact, 135 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 5: which is unusual for me. 136 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: But what did he say? Was he there when you 137 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: woke up? Yeah? 138 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 5: No, he was just his sweet, playful selfie give me 139 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 5: a little kiss on the nose, which I thought was adorable, And. 140 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: So it wasn't even awkward the next morning, Yeah. 141 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 6: Not at all. 142 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 4: It makes me wonder if it was like one of 143 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 4: those typical guy things where it wasn't enough of a 144 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 4: challenge and it became too easy, so the guy gets bored. 145 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: He doesn't sound like a guy that is like that, though, Jeff, 146 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: This sounds like they never do until it sounds like 147 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: they were just vibing on a deeper level than that. 148 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: If he just wanted to get in her pants and 149 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: that's all he wanted, or he was disappointed in that 150 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: they could have gone anywhere and just gone and drank. 151 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 4: Maybe he knew that crypto event was happening and this 152 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 4: was all set up as like a little ruse to 153 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: be like, look at me, Look. 154 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: How spontaneous I could be. Let's go back to my class. 155 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: You are so cynical against men right now. 156 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just telling you this. I've heard guys do 157 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 4: stuff like this and sometimes even worse. 158 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: I know, I still want to thank for the best, 159 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: jeff I'm sorry. 160 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 4: All right, Well, you can be naive if you want, 161 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 4: but let's call it Ashwin and we'll see what he 162 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 4: has to say with your second date update right after this, hold. 163 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: On Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 164 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update, 165 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing 166 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: right after you here Part two. 167 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 2: Wow, another first date blown up by a pod of 168 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 2: crypto bros. Oh every single week we deal with this. 169 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 4: Because our listener Sierra was supposed to meet a guy 170 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 4: named Ashwin at a rooftop bar, but of course, when 171 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 4: they arrived, the entire venue had been rented out by 172 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 4: a bunch of crypto nerds geeking out over yield farms 173 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 4: and stabilizing their coin pools whatever they like to talk about. 174 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: Look at these candlesticks popping. They don't even know what 175 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 2: that means, but it disgusts me. 176 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: No wonder, I don't enjoy any of it. 177 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 4: Here's the thing. Sierra and Ashwin didn't let that kill 178 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 4: their night. They actually swung it into a really fun 179 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 4: evening at a local diner. 180 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 2: Which eventually led into a sleepover. 181 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: A really good sounds so sweet, it. 182 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 2: Did, until Ashwyn is suddenly not calling her. 183 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: Back, and you've reached out to him, or you haven't, 184 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: You're just waiting to hear from him. 185 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 5: This was what was so weird. We texted a little 186 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 5: bit after that, but he just I got the vibes 187 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 5: that he was not interested. 188 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 2: Huh oh, even through texts. Yeah, yeah, I feel that 189 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 2: energy shit for sure. 190 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: I hope it's one of those where he's just scared 191 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: of real love. 192 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 4: It's not stupid, but sometimes, like you had said, do challenge. 193 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 6: Like if it's too easy and everything is great, sometimes 194 00:08:58,520 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 6: people don't like to. 195 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 2: Be in that space. 196 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,839 Speaker 4: I don't know we'll see which category Ashwin falls into 197 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 4: if we're able to get him on the phone to dial. 198 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 2: His number right now. Two perfect category. We're praying for 199 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: a Disney ending. 200 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: Getting her another nose kiss, jeff. 201 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: What a promise. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Ashwin? 202 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 6: Yeah? 203 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 4: Hey man, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show 204 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 4: right now. It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 205 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. Ashwin. Hi, it sounds 206 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: like you might be busy or something right now. 207 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I hope you have a second to talk to us, 208 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 4: because we're doing a segment called a second Date update. 209 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 6: Sure, it'd be weird. 210 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you give him a lot of credit. 211 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 4: So the reason that we're calling is because you went 212 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 4: out on a date recently with a listener to our show, 213 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 4: a woman named Sierra. 214 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, you mean. 215 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 5: So. 216 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 4: Here's the thing, Sierra. We talked to her and she 217 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 4: told us about your hang the other night. 218 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,479 Speaker 1: The diner sounded so cute. 219 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 2: It sounded pretty good. 220 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 4: Despite all the obstacles that came up, you two were 221 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 4: able to have a really good thing. 222 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 2: Would you agree with that? 223 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 6: I mean, we we did. It was probably one of 224 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 6: the most amazing date been on. 225 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 4: What the heck, bro, we're over here waiting to find 226 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 4: like crazy reason. 227 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so sweet. 228 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 4: Sorry to be so emotional about it, but it's just that, 229 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 4: you know, Sierra is really confused. 230 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 6: It's just kind of embarrassing for you or for Sierra. 231 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 6: For me. 232 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, if it's too much to share. 233 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 2: You should do it anyway, because. 234 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 3: I don't want to, you know. 235 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: And Sierra really deserves to know, wouldn't she say? 236 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, no, she is. She's really awesome. This is 237 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 6: mostly mostly a me a meet thing. 238 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,080 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if you're willing to open up to us, 239 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 4: just even a little bit, and we could pass the 240 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 4: message to her, I think that would go a long way. 241 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 6: We had this amazing, amazing night, and she told me 242 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,079 Speaker 6: that she doesn't do this a lot, where she goes 243 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 6: to a guy's place, and that she was curious where. 244 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 4: She ranks, where she was, where shes like compared to 245 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 4: other people. 246 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, I was, I was very I was very thrown 247 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 6: off by that question. 248 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: Question a joke totally, it was. 249 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 6: It was not a joke because I asked her to clarify. 250 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 6: I said, what do you mean? And she said, well, 251 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 6: I'm sure you've been with X amount of people. 252 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: Kind of a rude to some shy assumption person, but 253 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: you know what, or it's a testament to your experience 254 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: that yeah, you could take it as a compliment. 255 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: What did you I mean, did you actually rank her? 256 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: God? 257 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 6: No, well, I told her that I'm not sure how 258 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 6: to answer that. 259 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 2: It's good, And. 260 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 6: Eventually I said top three for sure. 261 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. 262 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 2: That's answer like what I take. 263 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 4: Top three? That's great, And you don't want to say 264 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 4: number one because then you're too eager and I don't believe. 265 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 1: It if you say number one. 266 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 6: But then I told her, since I answered this for you, 267 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 6: you have to reciprocate. 268 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: Why would you do that? You WoT that she asked 269 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 2: it to him? 270 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 6: Oh god? 271 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 2: What did she say? 272 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 6: She said, you're definitely in my top five. 273 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 2: Okay, it's not bad, a little bit lower than what your. 274 00:12:56,040 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, it gets worse. I asked her out of how many? No, 275 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 6: and she said maybe five. 276 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: O five, So you're in the top one hundred percent. 277 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: That changed everything for you, okay soon? Because it just 278 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: changed everything for me. 279 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 6: I didn't really know what to say because I already 280 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 6: felt so vulnerable. You know, we're in my bed naked 281 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 6: and we've just been together. 282 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: Okay, it's like getting a participation trophy. 283 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 4: Well, you know, maybe maybe there was some sort of 284 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 4: miscommunication or she didn't say quite what she meant. And 285 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 4: I'll give her a chance to explain herself right here, 286 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 4: because I need to let you know. Sierra is on 287 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 4: the other line of this call, listening, wanting to talk 288 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 4: to you. 289 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: Oh god, oh god, she's the one that should be embarrassed. 290 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 5: Hi, who tells five is like the number one ring, 291 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 5: like it's the best? 292 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were going backwards. 293 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she's like. 294 00:13:58,040 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: I can't trying to save you. 295 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 5: I feel so bad. First of all, Ashlynn, I'm so 296 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 5: so sorry. I can't believe I made you feel that way, 297 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 5: and you've been feeling that way this whole time. 298 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, thank you, thank you. 299 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 5: Okay, if I if I explain a little bit. 300 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 4: Yes, go into details about why. 301 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: You know what, men that can take constructive criticism one. 302 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 4: Thing he could do better. Let's work on one step 303 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 4: at a time. 304 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 6: And for some reason, I didn't do enough fourth place stuff. Okay, 305 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 6: I'm open to I'm open to feedback. 306 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 3: You should assume you didn't. 307 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, you know, actually, maybe we shouldn't be asking 308 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 4: what he could change. Maybe it's better to ask you, Sierra, 309 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 4: why you said that to him? 310 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 5: Yes, when I said, oh, you're definitely in the top 311 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 5: five of five, I was trying to be playful. I 312 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 5: was trying to make a joke. I was to be 313 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 5: kind of said, yes. 314 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 6: I was kidding. 315 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a joke. 316 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: After sound button or something we could have hit there. 317 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 5: He's definitely top four for sure. Let's just. 318 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: I think so it doesn't matter. 319 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 2: It's better, yes, but you have to do anything that 320 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 2: was great? 321 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 6: Can we can we please stop talking about one number 322 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 6: i'm ranking. 323 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 5: Okay, Yes, I'm so sorry. I'm just so embarrassed. I 324 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 5: was trying to make a joke. 325 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: You definitely have said your apology. 326 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 4: And I think gets the idea that you didn't mean it. 327 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 4: But we mean this when we say we'd like to 328 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 4: send you out on another date, the two of you, Ashwin, 329 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 4: if you're willing to give her one more chance, we 330 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 4: would don't let. 331 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: Your pride stand in the way of this one. Ashwan. 332 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, no, her excellent definitely definitely makes me feel better 333 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 6: and embarrassed that I can't take jokes about best time, 334 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 6: But yeah, no, I definitely would be interested in another date. 335 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 4: All right, So congratulations. That means Sierra you got what 336 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 4: you came for another date with Ashwyn. 337 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 5: Thank you, so so, so so much. 338 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I feel like we just had two 339 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: listeners who own their own mistakes, which was just wild 340 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: on this show it happens to. 341 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 5: Be really bad at the show and Jeffrey in the morning. 342 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 4: After months of waiting, we finally got Ashwyn and Sierra 343 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 4: back on the phone to give us an update update. 344 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: And you know, the. 345 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 4: Last time they were on there was definitely a lot 346 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 4: of talk about romantic rankings and room for improvement, and 347 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 4: we should just ask first off, I mean, Ashwan's here, 348 00:16:58,240 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 4: Are you two still together? 349 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 2: Is that still happening? 350 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 6: Yes, we are. We're still at it. 351 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 5: Still. 352 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 4: That's an interesting way to say, yes we are. 353 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 5: And I am very happy to tell you that I 354 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 5: have officially bumped up his ranking top yeah, top to. 355 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 6: She's such a Kidder's joking. 356 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not, I'm not totally joking, Oh my god, 357 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 5: but you know, he's still really really good. He's like 358 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 5: top two. 359 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 6: Well, I mean, I guess I can practice some more 360 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 6: to make sure that I get to number one. 361 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 5: Okay, baby, you got your work cut out for you. 362 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 5: There is so much. 363 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 4: Yet all right, well sense she's kidding or not, I 364 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 4: don't know, but at least she believes in you, Ashwy. 365 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,719 Speaker 4: That's that's good and maybe enough talk about the rankings. 366 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 4: We're happy that the show was able to get you 367 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 4: two together, and it sounds like you're continuing with something 368 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 4: with the possibility of a long term relationship. 369 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 2: So that's great. 370 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 5: Thank you, guys. 371 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 6: We're yeah, we're happy. 372 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 3: Thank you. 373 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 6: There. 374 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, at least one of you is. 375 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 4: So keep us updated on your relationship and the ever 376 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 4: changing rankings of romance. 377 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 2: Keep up with the show. We appreciate it. 378 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 5: Thank you. 379 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 2: All right, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.