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Speaker 1: What's Up. Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm

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Speaker 1: Erica and I'm Meila, And this is part two of

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Speaker 1: the Thick Times Good Mom's Bad Choices a podcast episode.

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Speaker 1: So if you are just tuning in, you definitely want

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Speaker 5: Said, she said a month.

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Speaker 6: So I said that. He said, this, ain't got money.

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Speaker 6: You got to know that you are real, bitch. You

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Speaker 6: are off your ship and he's gonna take you seriously.

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Speaker 5: So I said, I don't want to do it. She

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Speaker 5: did it for me. He never spoke to me.

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Speaker 6: Said I was gonna initially say. I knew she was

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Speaker 6: gonna say fifteen K.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she fuck.

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Speaker 6: She might have protected you, but I said fifty K

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Speaker 6: and I'd be included. Too good to listen thirty K

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Speaker 6: mads for two a month and then you're living five?

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Speaker 6: What is it to a multi millionaire?

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Speaker 5: He don't. You don't know.

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Speaker 1: Six months he thought y'all have been greed. He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's he let me ask you period.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, closed mouth, don't get fat exactly.

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Speaker 5: I still clearly open one day either, so too hot.

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Speaker 5: Mindy still over her mouth open? Hello? Are you? Is

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Speaker 5: anybody there? I was joking, kitting damn.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 7: It irritates me more than a broke nigga is a

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Speaker 7: nigga who has some bread but doesn't want He doesn't

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Speaker 5: I cannot.

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Speaker 6: That's that nobody. It's nice about dating period. It's people

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Speaker 6: who have all the access and have like friends and

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Speaker 6: family members and like relationships where they could help someone

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Speaker 6: and it would be nothing. It would be a kernel

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Speaker 5: It would not affect you, but you still choose not

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Speaker 5: to help just because you're cheap. I hate that. No,

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Speaker 5: you don't me one thing is it's cheap. It's kind

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Speaker 5: of a hair. I mean, there's a little layers you're hating.

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Speaker 5: You're cheap. You want to keep me where I'm at.

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Speaker 7: You know there's you feel better being there while I'm here.

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Speaker 5: It's not like you want me to ask, you want

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Speaker 5: to know. That's another right here. You want to make

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Speaker 5: me ask, you just give it? Oh okay that honestly

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Speaker 5: that controlling ship to me, it's almost better.

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Speaker 7: Like I mean, this sounds not good, but like I'd

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Speaker 7: If I'm like, this is what I want and the

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Speaker 7: I would much rather fuck like that than fucking be

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Speaker 7: like please can.

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Speaker 5: You play games?

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Speaker 6: Women at them who bona fide celebrities and get nothing

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Speaker 6: out of it. But they're like, how do I ask

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Speaker 6: him for a person? How do I ask him for

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Speaker 6: a fight? Why are you busting it open?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like I don't want to purse, but furthermore, I

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Speaker 5: don't want to give me stuff give men. There's literally

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Speaker 5: women because some people are just nothing. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: As I say, they're not, well, they think that that

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Speaker 5: But celebrities are fucking bitches all day long. They're not

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Speaker 7: Celebrities are really the ones that are the most stingy

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Speaker 7: because they think they they don't want to pay for services,

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Speaker 7: like you know how bitches don't want to pay eyelashes.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, bitch, nothing for free. It's crazy, like, oh,

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Speaker 5: someone didn't do here. And they were talking about that.

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Speaker 5: They were saying the more famous they got, the like

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Speaker 6: And they were like this is crazy, Like the more

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Speaker 6: money I make, the less money I spent.

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Speaker 5: Yes, everyone just gives you.

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Speaker 7: Everything for even more reason why you should pay The

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Speaker 7: girls included, Well, not this pussing.

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Speaker 9: No fuck a rapper, fucking athlete. Give me an angel investor.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, yeah, thank you. Behind.

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Speaker 7: I want to see you because first of all, I'm

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Speaker 5: On front street. I don't want to be on the

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Speaker 5: shaved room. I don't go fuck about fucking those celebrities.

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Speaker 6: No, celebrities don't even really fuck the ship out of

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Speaker 6: you like that because they are so tired, selfish.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they're easy to getting everything they want. You're not getting.

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Speaker 6: They don't want you to sell for three hours, give

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Speaker 9: And that's you.

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Speaker 7: Erica has an R and B singer who has a

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Speaker 5: He's very giving. Is he like popping but he's giving.

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Speaker 5: He's popping, but I don't know, because you have you

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Speaker 1: He's giving, but but he only like like, for example,

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Speaker 1: he hit me yesterday and he's here to see somebody

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Speaker 1: to say It was just to say hi, and I

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Speaker 1: So it's like always on his terms. Yeah, yeah, I hate,

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Speaker 1: but I'll break it all.

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Speaker 5: The way down. But it's always on these terms. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I can't stand that ship.

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Speaker 10: I want.

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Speaker 5: I want an angel investor who loves me.

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Speaker 7: We are together, but like when we're not together and

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Speaker 7: you're traveling, then you don't care what I'm doing.

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Speaker 5: I don't care what you're doing.

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Speaker 7: But also you're still funding me and going on trips

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Speaker 7: that want to apart.

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Speaker 5: It's fine, that's what I want.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 5: I am. Yeah, I wish I would not mind having like.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, sir, Oh okay, you really quick to us,

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Speaker 1: this is happening.

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Speaker 5: Pause person, Yeah, okay, we'll be read any men. It's fine, Okay,

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Speaker 5: Gardener's gone.

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Speaker 7: Okay, we were We just started talking a little bit

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Speaker 7: off air about something.

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Speaker 5: Now we're gonna talk about Annie.

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Speaker 7: And we decided, okay, me and Erica were somewhere and

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Speaker 7: we got the jacuzie and I don't like clothes. I

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Speaker 7: didn't have a bathing suit, so I was like, it's cool,

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Speaker 5: Wear my panties. Erica got a bathing suit. I was like,

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Speaker 5: He was like, you could wear topless. I was like,

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Speaker 5: I'm good. We got the.

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Speaker 7: Jacuzzie and she just made the statement that because I

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Speaker 5: She did not go down really at all.

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Speaker 7: Nothing happened, but we're just in general talking about men's

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Speaker 7: assumptions of women based.

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Speaker 7: Basically my toplessness there was a wrench in the situations,

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Speaker 7: and I should wear clothes more often.

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Speaker 5: I didn't say no, said getting de present.

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Speaker 1: I am saying that, but I'm saying I know the

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Speaker 1: or then the bitch that was here yesterday, that put

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: So it's not your fault that it's like that. It's yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's his fault. I guess it's also anxiety's programming of

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Speaker 1: of our bodies and that what it represents, like you

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Speaker 5: Your top off.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't feel comfortable with my top off,

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Speaker 1: so I put mine on. But I just feel like

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Speaker 5: Get in the Chacuzzie.

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Speaker 1: He was like, okay, might go yeah, but then when

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's our part of me feels like

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Speaker 7: I totally agree with you. Guys are saying men are

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Speaker 7: a part of my responsibility to show man, like, oh, hi,

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Speaker 7: and my name is this, I'm gonna have a shirt off.

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Speaker 7: You're gonna respect me, You're gonna see quickly that your

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Speaker 7: assumptions are not going to really be fulfilled. And then

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Speaker 7: the next situation, when you're with the girl that's similar

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Speaker 7: and free and empowered and maybe nude, you're gonna be like, oh,

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Speaker 7: I've encountered this and I know not to make this assumption.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that was year. I'm gonna be the man. Do

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Speaker 5: not Do you not believe that that dangerous? I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't put myself in proper like I don't put

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Speaker 7: myself around people that I have to question whether if

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Speaker 7: I'm in danger and if you don't understand the basic

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Speaker 1: I'm people don't walk into situations and think I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: Not because I could have switched the flip, because like

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Speaker 7: I'm going to scale the situation and the people I'm

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Speaker 7: Nobody goes no woman. I think as women, we've all

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Speaker 5: You don't I agree.

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Speaker 6: I feel like men who are going to assault women

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to respect you as much as.

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Speaker 6: I potentially could have, or I did before you showed

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Speaker 7: Absolutely, And those are not my tribe, no, of course not.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot of certain things that are deal breakers

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Speaker 7: A lot of light skin, dark skin, comments I don't

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Speaker 5: If you do this, you're that, Why should you be respected?

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Speaker 7: If you're wearing that outfit. How can you expect me

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Speaker 7: Oh cool, I don't fuck with you. You're not open minded,

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Speaker 7: You're not mature enough to understand the type of woman

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Speaker 7: shit right now. Do you don't bring me around this

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Speaker 5: So then tying it back in?

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Speaker 6: Do you believe that this is a cost of why

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Speaker 11: I mean, I mean, I say, hey, Oprah, I mean listen,

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Speaker 7: But for me, I'm okay with that because my nigga

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Speaker 5: My nigga's gonna be taking the.

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Speaker 7: Pictures of me all on the Instagramnna fog us Like,

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Speaker 5: I know that now. I'm cool, Like, I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't believe in toning down a little bit, because

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Speaker 5: Is what you like, and I this is how you

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Speaker 7: And then they get married and be like drunk, and

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Speaker 7: I want to take my shirt off because it's I

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Speaker 7: don't know, it's it's marty girl, like I'm gonna get

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Speaker 7: a dracozzie. This is what's gonna happen. Then you're like,

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Speaker 7: who the fuck are you? That's not fair for you

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Speaker 7: And now if it's a nigga I really fuck with,

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Speaker 7: and he's like, all right, babe, not these niggas and

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Speaker 5: You can't do that with. I trust my man.

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Speaker 7: But also like if we're at a in Miami and

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Speaker 7: I wanna take my shirt off and red the beach

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Speaker 7: and everybody is shure your off. I don't want to

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Speaker 5: It's my body.

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Speaker 7: Respect my body, respect my decisions, and respect my judgment.

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Speaker 7: Most of all, I hate niggas. You're like, all men

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Speaker 7: want to fuck you, all men want to.

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Speaker 5: Bring you you. It's some whole shit. All men lady

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Speaker 5: you that way. No, it's a niggas you hang around with.

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 7: I don't I don't agree with putting men in this

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Speaker 5: Category.

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Speaker 7: No, nigga, you can't, and you will because I'm.

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Speaker 5: Gonna make you. No.

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Speaker 6: I agree with that because when people do that and

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Speaker 7: You don't have to take responsibility. Because like I saw

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Speaker 5: Here's a photograph.

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Speaker 7: Now, if men can't understand that like a dog can,

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Speaker 5: I mean, and that is the base. That's a basic concept. Okay.

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Speaker 6: So then now Tabria, because I feel like you and

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Speaker 5: I can't.

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Speaker 10: A lot, and he's a massive And then make it

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Speaker 10: skippy that Tabria would love that's like blet doesn't have

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Speaker 6: Okay, tank top, but it just it stops right here

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Speaker 6: and it helps you a little bit, like imagine that.

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Speaker 5: But then just the right amount of under booth. That's

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Speaker 5: what everyone wants to walk around it all the time.

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Speaker 5: Nothing wrong with that. I'm not good do it, bitch?

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Speaker 5: But are you gonna find a husband? But do you

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Speaker 5: think the same questions that I asked her? How do

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Speaker 5: you feel about it? Do you think that it is? No?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 5: But before that, like, do you think that it's dangerous?

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Speaker 6: Do you think that it does like affect the way

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Speaker 9: I don't think it's dangerous for me because if you beat.

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Speaker 5: A niggas ask yea.

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Speaker 1: I feel.

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Speaker 5: For a little.

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Speaker 1: I don't think something's asked. I don't sound bleached in

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Speaker 1: because that's what I go for.

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Speaker 9: Okay, you gallus him Out's.

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Speaker 5: Dangerous for me? I can't except for a little body.

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Speaker 6: He's like a little fee I'm house not going.

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Speaker 5: To like a dark alley. Yah, careless decision. You don't

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Speaker 5: think it's dangerous for you. No, but I won't do

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Speaker 5: it like you won't go into certain situations dressed.

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Speaker 9: That way, because yeah, I mean, I'll only go places

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Speaker 5: Grocery store when you go find errands and stuff girl up.

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Speaker 5: Plenty of times you like the house, but I haven't

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Speaker 5: left house looking like that.

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Speaker 6: When I remember one time, me and Mercedes literally chased.

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Speaker 5: You out of the house. Are you really about to

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Speaker 5: We're both like, are you fucking with us right now?

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Speaker 5: You're really about to leave? You're you? It was his Broca.

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Speaker 10: He got a savage fancy in there.

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Speaker 5: She had long like she has.

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Speaker 6: Really really thin, like big bralett, and then you had

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Speaker 5: And then you were about to leave the.

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Speaker 6: House and the Mercedes were like, Toria, where the fuck

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Speaker 6: are you going? You're like, I'm just going to meet

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Speaker 6: don't leave the house looking like that. You have the

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Speaker 6: the walk to the cars and were living on Robinson

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Speaker 6: there was no garage.

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Speaker 5: I just hate this this. I didn't say no, I.

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Speaker 6: Get that, but literally it's different, like it's just it's different.

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Speaker 5: I feel like. But that was two years ago.

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Speaker 6: Because I literally recently did start wearing bras, but like why.

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Speaker 12: It has nothing to do with anybody else, but I

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Speaker 9: Like normally with this shirt, I wouldn't wear a bra,

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Speaker 9: but and even like the little nipple shows and I

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Speaker 5: Of like the way it looks like bra. It's just

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Speaker 5: like my but this is what I like.

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Speaker 6: That is one case in particular because to real legit,

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Speaker 6: you look like you were naked, right like if Mercedes

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Speaker 6: and I both thank you, like you literally were and

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Speaker 6: it was see through at that and you know what

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Speaker 6: she did, She said okay, fine and got a duster,

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Speaker 6: like what.

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Speaker 5: Are really put that shit on? And she was like

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Speaker 5: are you happy? Whatever? Bitch? I literally was like, bitch,

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Speaker 5: criss cross that ship and lee.

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Speaker 6: But I respect that because I know that Terrea wears

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Speaker 6: that so much, especially for me because I've been like

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Speaker 6: everyone else is gonna think before I think about how

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Speaker 6: I'm going feeling it.

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Speaker 5: And that's something that.

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Speaker 6: I had to like get over and like try to

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Speaker 5: That amazing love it. So happy for you, But don't

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Speaker 5: get raped. But no it's not. But don't get rade

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Speaker 6: I'm talking about the extreme cases where you literally were

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Speaker 5: I also get really irritated on if this is you

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Speaker 7: Me, like I hate all my friends tell me like,

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Speaker 7: come on it, bra I can see your boobs.

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Speaker 5: It makes me not I'll never do it.

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Speaker 7: I'm never going to change here. And you told me too,

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Speaker 7: not a man, not a friend. It actually irritates me, like, Okay,

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Speaker 7: I didn't ask your opinion about this shirt because this

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Speaker 7: is the only way to wear it.

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Speaker 5: Leave me alone.

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Speaker 9: That happened with my ex, remember I know, but he

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Speaker 6: But this goes into that same question. I was asking

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Speaker 6: directly affected your relationship.

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Speaker 5: But why did you like the whole period of courting.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure you didn't change how you were dressing, literally,

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Speaker 5: like you knew who I was. It was. That's what

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Speaker 7: Don't be, don't be, don't be, like, don't find me

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00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 7: appealing in the courting process, and then as soon as

443
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,640
Speaker 7: I commit, then you suddenly have an issue with who

444
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 7: I am and how I dress.

445
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 5: I'm not with that ship.

446
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 1: What if what if one of your friends had an

447
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 1: issue with how you dress in front of their man?

448
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 1: I have a role, Like, like if your nipples are

449
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 1: slipping out all the time in front of their man,

450
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 1: Like is it there?

451
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 5: Is it their responsibility to educate their men on like

452
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,400
Speaker 5: I have a role. I have a role.

453
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 7: I won't go topless than any of my friend and

454
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 7: my friend's man's because I know it bothers people.

455
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 5: Unless you're like a friend.

456
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 7: That I know you don't care who's like you're maybe

457
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:33,199
Speaker 7: a similar personality to me. But also I'm also not

458
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,879
Speaker 7: gonna like wear a bra because your man's like you,

459
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 7: I don't know, this sounds bitchy. I don't like, don't

460
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 7: date a pervash nigga, Like that's your man? Why is

461
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 7: he looking at me? I mean, I've had fine ass

462
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 7: friends who like come to the pool.

463
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 5: You think he's perfect.

464
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 1: If he's looking at your breast that's exposed, well that

465
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 1: would that would I'm just saying like that would I

466
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 1: that he would if I have a.

467
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 7: Nip slip and you're getting mad at me, like my

468
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,679
Speaker 7: nipped slips happen often, I'm not wearing a bra.

469
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 5: I just like, if.

470
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 7: You're getting mad at me, I sh not be around

471
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 7: you and your nigga because it's like I'm not doing

472
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 7: it a purpose. I don't want your nigga. It's I'm

473
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,199
Speaker 7: not dressing because I'm trying to take your man. And

474
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 7: if we're friends and you trust me and you trust

475
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 7: your man because he's yours, then that's just like.

476
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,679
Speaker 5: We're all in a flow here. I feel like we're friends.

477
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 5: You trust me, I trust you.

478
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 7: I don't want your man, And if your man wants

479
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 7: to be in our crew, then he needs to get

480
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 7: the memo that sometimes her nipple slups out.

481
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 5: I'll just tell her.

482
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 1: I like, I like, I'm laughing because these are questions

483
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: your nigga never seen a nipple, like, oh my bad.

484
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 5: Like I feel you, I really do, but I feel like.

485
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 6: That I also come from a hit situational what do

486
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 6: you do? I feel like it is situational if I

487
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 6: just got with my man, if our relationship is newer

488
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 6: and this isn't someone who I know is like because

489
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 6: I mean, I could be with somebody for two three

490
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 6: months and still don't fully know who they are as

491
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 6: a person, and it might make me uncomfortable in the

492
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 6: sense of like, like, at least during this time when

493
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 6: I'm trying to build on our relationship, try not to

494
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 6: have your titty out, you know, like, and I get

495
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 6: that that could be like, oh, well, you know that,

496
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 6: that's just how Mela is. You know that, that's just

497
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:24,479
Speaker 6: how you know Tabria's shirts are built. Because I get that,

498
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 6: But at the same time, it is a thing of

499
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 6: like like for example, this is another case. The Mercedes

500
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 6: and our man have been together forever years. You would

501
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 6: not feel like whatever if your nipple slipped out and he.

502
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 5: Was in a room. Would you? I don't, Oh you,

503
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 5: my friend Mercedes. I think I would. I don't have

504
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 5: a man man don't like me.

505
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm like that.

506
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 5: I don't think I would. I think I would feel a.

507
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 9: Bit more like oh shit, fuck Like normally like my

508
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 9: nipples slips out in public, like when I didn't wear.

509
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 5: Bra quite a lot, and I'd be like, oh god,

510
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 5: here it goes again, and Mindy would I never like

511
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 5: really feel it? So Mindy is literally somebody else always

512
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 5: the one like pointing it out to me. But if

513
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 5: that was a situation where I was around Mercedes and

514
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 5: her Man, like I don't know, I would still be like,

515
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:20,919
Speaker 5: oh fuck.

516
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 6: You know, my bad, but you in field way like

517
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 6: what have happened? Like around like Asia and her Man,

518
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 6: it'd be the same thing.

519
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 5: Damn, my bad. But I think friends with me, Like no,

520
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 5: it's not asout being friends with you, but like would

521
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 5: it make you go ship? I need to start worrying

522
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 5: I'm around definitely definitely what it is. It is what

523
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 5: it is. I think for me it would be just

524
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 5: it is what it is because this was years we're

525
00:24:54,280 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 5: looking for that. That's literally that would be.

526
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 8: Really eating dinner, just like chilling, and I'd be like,

527
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 8: whole titty out and he would be like when it

528
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 8: would just slip past the strap, just like shrap this

529
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 8: here and the tyre.

530
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 7: This way and just the whole this whole part is

531
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 7: out camouflage.

532
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: But well again this goes back to size also, because

533
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: you have much bigger.

534
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 5: I don't think it matters to me. I wouldn't care, Okay,

535
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 5: I just need to be more clear.

536
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 7: So, Erica, if my nipple slips out in front of

537
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 7: your nigga, we're not gonna be friends anymore.

538
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 6: And that.

539
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: First of all, I was asking. I didn't say I

540
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: was playing Devil's advocate. And also I was just saying

541
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 1: because I know I'm not gonna say his name, but

542
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 1: I know him, and I know and I know his energy,

543
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: and I saw it shift and that's why he kept

544
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: encouraging him. Once you took your shirt off. He kept

545
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: asking me why I'm not taking my shirt off? Like,

546
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: ask me a few times, and I was like, cause, nigga,

547
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to, like that's why.

548
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 5: So did you feel pressured because I didn't take no,

549
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 5: But but it did shift his interaction with him. Absolutely

550
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 5: it did. Whether or not.

551
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: You know, I know Jamila doesn't like, doesn't care, and

552
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: that's fine and that and we're friends regardless. And I

553
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck if your nipples always out. But

554
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like I noticed, you can't.

555
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 5: Deny, you can you can.

556
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: Say people aren't your tribe and blah blah blah, and

557
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 1: that's and that's true, they aren't. But you can't deny

558
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: what happens in certain situations.

559
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 5: It's just it happened like people looking like taking a peek. No,

560
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 5: it causes people to shift the.

561
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: Perception of what of what the situation is, who you

562
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: are and what it could be, and who you're with,

563
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: because he automatically that we were the same in that way.

564
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 9: But I think that's also different because that was a

565
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 9: deliberated but like when when we genuinely have nick slips,

566
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 9: I'm not trying to show my not of course, not

567
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 9: why I don't think.

568
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 6: I think we kind of diverged into the lips of conversation.

569
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 6: I think it was more so focused on the taking

570
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 6: the shirt off and wearing certain things where where it

571
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 6: is perceived that perceives is being very revealing to me.

572
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 7: Okay, what if you're all okay, what if you're all

573
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 7: at the beach in Miami where it's it's.

574
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 5: Perfectly legal to have That's fine. If your niggas there

575
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 5: are your niggas there are we not allowed me and

576
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 5: to be are not allowed to be topless in Miami

577
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 5: on the beach if you're with your boyfriends.

578
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, you need to stop directing it

579
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: towards me, because I'm not saying that I have an

580
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: issue with it.

581
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 5: I was just saying, I'm saying that I know this question.

582
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 7: But because I went to Miami with a friend, she

583
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 7: was there with the guys she was dating. That's why

584
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 7: I like to go to Miami, because I don't know me.

585
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: If I'm in Miami, I'm doing I'm not saying my

586
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 1: shirt off too, So no, I don't give a fuck.

587
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 5: No, I don't give a fuck. Did I want to

588
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 5: get take.

589
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: My shirt off in front of the nigga's house we

590
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: were at the other day.

591
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 5: No, not really. I'm cool because I know that. Like

592
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 5: for me, that was I felt I.

593
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: Needed to have a boundary with him, you know, because

594
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: that's just how I'm not. And obviously I've known him

595
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: longer than you have. I know the type of person.

596
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: So that's that was my boundary. Do I feel like

597
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 1: if I have a boyfriend that you need to cover up.

598
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 5: And put your shirt on and dress like? No, you

599
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 5: are where you are and that's why I love you. Period.

600
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 5: I'm not.

601
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,360
Speaker 1: I didn't ask these questions to attack you. I feel

602
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: like you feel attacked and.

603
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 6: Like to take her top off for different reasons like

604
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 6: oh it's just too fine looking. No, it's wait until

605
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 6: I give my surgery and then we both be topless.

606
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 9: Okay, I wouldn't go topless if she wasn't topless.

607
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 5: Yes, because we've we've been to like a nude beach before.

608
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 5: That's fine.

609
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 6: I think it would just be a weird dynamic if

610
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 6: it's three of us, me, you and my nigga and you're.

611
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 5: Just like a but that is that that would be

612
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 5: like a are we all going topless?

613
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 6: Like?

614
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 5: Should I go topless too?

615
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna go topless until I get these reduced

616
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 6: and then they're gonna be kerky and free all the time.

617
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 5: Dude, we're gonna walk around just like bumping timmies. Okay,

618
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 5: just you know, you know what it is.

619
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: It's that, like I think what it is is that

620
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: it makes you feel not you specifically, but to say

621
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: a person who you know had a boyfriend and their

622
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: friend took their top off, it makes you feel like

623
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 1: maybe you're not It brings attention to your insecurity, It

624
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: makes you feel like you're not liberated. Enough, and then

625
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: suddenly you feel this pressure that like, well, fuck, like

626
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 1: she's doing it, am I.

627
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 5: Supposed to do it?

628
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 6: It's like now, especially if that's.

629
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: People have body issues and people like don't necessarily feel

630
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: as comfortable and they want to feel that comfortability, but

631
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: they just don't, and so there is a sense of

632
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: like like judgment upon themselves, judgment upon you.

633
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 7: I'm liberating everyone around me, and you know it.

634
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: And you are, you are, And a lot of cases

635
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: we're also triggering people too.

636
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 5: You're probably liberating.

637
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 7: I've had situations with really close friends and I've done

638
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 7: like twenty five years, and I'm like, and I felt

639
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 7: probably because I'm a fucking psychic.

640
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 5: That like as.

641
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,479
Speaker 7: I felt like, maybe you're dating someone and you're like

642
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 7: making comments or doing things that are really trying to

643
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 7: make it clear to this guy, oh don't worry, me

644
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 7: and her are not the same, or bringing up conversations

645
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 7: like oh, like I had a.

646
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 6: Friend bringing up because then they're judging you in the

647
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 6: same manner that the man is judging you.

648
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 7: Well, you're just like you don't you're actually you don't

649
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 7: know who I am, and that you're trying to like

650
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 7: you are trying to make it really clear that you

651
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 7: were different.

652
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 5: And I think that's a given.

653
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 7: We're different people, Like just because we all hang out

654
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 7: doesn't mean we all have to be exactly the same

655
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 7: want of like.

656
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 5: Oh now he thinks she's a hot think I'm a hotel. Exactly.

657
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 7: He knows exactly, exactly exactly, And I don't think that's

658
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 7: my responsibility.

659
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 5: See, my only concern with Tria, like I haven't.

660
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 6: Con said anything about the way dress in a very

661
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 6: long time except.

662
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 5: For that fucking dress. You got to with it. He's

663
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 5: just out But because like in the past, it's really.

664
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 6: Been a like I need to protect you kind of

665
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 6: thing because Sara love her to death. She is so

666
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 6: child like and innocent, Like just listen, there is a

667
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 6: naive like air about Toria where, yes she's big, Yes

668
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 6: she'll kill you, she could punch you and knock your

669
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 6: lights out, but.

670
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 5: Is she going to because she is a toddler.

671
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 10: You know, he's.

672
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,479
Speaker 5: A friend, y'all learn not a toddler.

673
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 6: Is very trusting and like she sees like the good

674
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 6: in everything and everyone, and it's.

675
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 5: A beautiful thing. It is. It's just I.

676
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 6: Am the person in the end of the duo where

677
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 6: I think everyone is trash and I could see like

678
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 6: the bad in everyone, and I'm just like, I don't

679
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 6: trust that nigga. I don't think you should be too

680
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 6: close to him because he's hugging you extensively for a

681
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 6: specific reason.

682
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 5: He's looking at you not in your eyes, but in

683
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 5: your nipples.

684
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,239
Speaker 7: And but guess what, the first person who notices that

685
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 7: is the person who doesn't wear bra. Because I'm gonna

686
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 7: gauge like I've been braless not thinking about it, and

687
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 7: then I'll have encounter with one person and they're like

688
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 7: looking straight at my tins.

689
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 5: So I'm like, oh, this is uncomfortable.

690
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 7: And then I'm like, okay, I'll six he said, you know, like,

691
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 7: and then it will make me uncomfortable because I've noticed it.

692
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 7: But keep in mind, I'm not saying like whatever you're

693
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 7: saying is not true. But women who dress a certain

694
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 7: way we're hyper aware. That's how people are perceiving it

695
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 7: because I know. So I know, like you can, I'm

696
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,239
Speaker 7: gonna like back up from you, just have three steps back.

697
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 5: I'm gonna continue to show you where the boundaries lay.

698
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 6: So we went to the same day party and I

699
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 6: have like no clothes on too, right, I had.

700
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 5: On like brawl at.

701
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 6: I want to sports and like shorts right, and because

702
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 6: I'm a big body, bins like it's just a lot.

703
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 6: And literally no one looked me in my face. Not

704
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 6: one person look me in my face. And then I'm like,

705
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,479
Speaker 6: I was taller than most of the men there, so

706
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 6: they're all like, I love with my.

707
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 5: Tits and it's just like.

708
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 6: It would be nice to have I, like eye contact

709
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 6: with someone, it'd be really nice.

710
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 5: But he was eye level. He had no choice look up,

711
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 5: you know.

712
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 6: But you are hyper aware because I was hyper aware

713
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 6: of like how everyone was reacting, because women were reacting

714
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 6: to my outfit.

715
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 5: In a way too. But women were.

716
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 6: Looking at me like, okay, you couldn't put.

717
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 5: On a shirt? Fuck them? No, I no, Like I

718
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 5: didn't give a fuck because I know it look good.

719
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 6: But still you could feel that and you could see that,

720
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 6: and I didn't like it. You know, I can't help

721
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 6: the fact that I'm sta nitch.

722
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 5: But you know what I will say, I uh, I

723
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 5: am aware of it because I don't dress like those

724
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 5: and other places.

725
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 13: I feel like la I would dress how I wanted,

726
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 13: dress like I would never I wouldn't dress like this

727
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 13: in New York because it would draw way too much attention.

728
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 5: I wouldn't address like this at.

729
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 12: Home for the same reason because I don't like that attention.

730
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 5: And here I don't get it. So that's true because

731
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 5: you're you're not getting cat called and ship no what.

732
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 5: In New York. I can see the streets are y'all

733
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 5: walking down over.

734
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: Like we were in the Hollywood when.

735
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 5: We left the day party, were walking down the street.

736
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 6: And like men will like look when no one's will

737
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 6: say saying anything, They're just looking like, oh ass titties and.

738
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 5: Then move along.

739
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 7: New York is definitely more conservative in that way. I

740
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 7: learned that early, but I still didn't change my own.

741
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 6: I don't think it's conservatives or the concern for me

742
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 6: is not the conservatives.

743
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 5: The men are way more aggressive.

744
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 6: And I've had a man literally like cut my vagina

745
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 6: on the street.

746
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: I will say that in New York's more conservative, though

747
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,240
Speaker 1: I don't really see a lot of like titties out.

748
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 6: I genuinely feel like it's because of the men. It's

749
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 6: that the women don't want to dress like that. They

750
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 6: will dress like parties and stuff. It's also cold, but

751
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 6: they like at parties and stuff like, especially like the

752
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 6: dance of parties and nobody wears any clothes, but once

753
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 6: you hit the street, you put that hoodie on because

754
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 6: men out there are very aggressive.

755
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 5: And it can its tears on being dangerous. We are

756
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 5: leading the revolution. This is true.

757
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 7: Women to train the men who have no home training.

758
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 5: This is a revolution. Are you with us? Are like? Yes?

759
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: Walk around me and I want to say I support

760
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 1: your your revolution. I will be having my bron but

761
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: I will be right there, bros. But I will be

762
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:48,919
Speaker 1: right there.

763
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 10: Listen.

764
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 6: I will be there with my brad le until I

765
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 6: get the surgery and then I with you.

766
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 5: We'll see I got a surgery, and I'm still like

767
00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 5: going to wear.

768
00:35:58,680 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 3: My braw let.

769
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,600
Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't want to get my books.

770
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 5: Oh we'll go free them. And I feel like if

771
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 5: I got my boobs done, I.

772
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 7: Would probably be more conscious about being topless because I

773
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 7: think it would bring more attention to my breast and

774
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 7: then I would be like, Okay, they're super perky and

775
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 7: much bigger now.

776
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 5: So maybe I should but make me maybe not. I

777
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 5: don't know.

778
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 7: I just now I feel like they're like, they're not

779
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 7: aggressive and it's fine.

780
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 5: Min are aggressive.

781
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 7: I don't aggressive aggressive, but I don't even like the

782
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 7: word aggressive because like every however, your maid is perfectly.

783
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 5: Not aggressive, just big and they draw big. They're not

784
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 5: like low key low key titty. They're camouflage. My nipples

785
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 5: are camouflage. It's weird. Whatever kind of you have, do

786
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 5: what you want with them. I think, do you guys

787
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 5: have me hori?

788
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 3: Whose stories.

789
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 4: For me?

790
00:36:58,480 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 6: Wary?

791
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 5: And if you I don't know what a horry is

792
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 5: if you're just joining good moms over here.

793
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 1: A horri is a highly horrific hotel that is either

794
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: fucking hilarious, a little scary.

795
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 7: Level twenty horse. Yeah, some slutty shit you did?

796
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 5: I mean, I got so many, but they're like it,

797
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 5: like yah not lately, tokay, don't gotta be lately girl.

798
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 5: Ooh o, hey, give me a topic. I have one

799
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 5: for everything. Anal sex. Oh, bitch, listen. I don't like

800
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 5: anal sex anymore anymore. Well, I never really.

801
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 6: Enjoyed it because all my experiences with it were terrible.

802
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 5: First time it wasn't supposed to be antle sex. He

803
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 5: slipped out of one whole slipped into another. Okay, just

804
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 5: real quick, like that, real fast, it was the worst animal.

805
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 5: Oh my god, that was terrible. The second time.

806
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 6: Actually we try to do it on purpose and.

807
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 5: We got all glued.

808
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 6: He this is my ex he was African, he was

809
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 6: British and assemblies.

810
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 5: And he had the biggest dick. That's not that's it

811
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 5: was so big. But it was my it was my

812
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 5: best friend. And we tried to do it. He got

813
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 5: all the little like we went to the sex store.

814
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 5: We did research. We read forums together that was very medical.

815
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 6: It was amazing. So we tried. We said we were all forums.

816
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:29,399
Speaker 6: We tried it.

817
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 5: Did it. I was like, okay, like this isn't like

818
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 5: the worst thing. Like once she got into it, I

819
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 5: was like.

820
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 6: Okay, not all the way, but it went in enough

821
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 6: to where like he could like get a little you

822
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 6: know motion.

823
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we did it.

824
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 6: It definitely hurt, but I will say you can feel

825
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 6: it in a different way. The vaginal intercourse. You know

826
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 6: what that feels like, you know this one. It is

827
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 6: like you feel the arousal, but it's just it's like

828
00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 6: it comes from up.

829
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 5: Back door, you know, it does. It was it was okay.

830
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 5: It wasn't like, oh my god, I need to do

831
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 5: that again. But it was like it was good.

832
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, God, so we're done.

833
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 5: Laid down. It kind of off. Moved the towel because

834
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 5: we had all the towels.

835
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 6: Laid out, laid down, I'm gonna go to bed and

836
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 6: swear to God. Thirty seconds in it was.

837
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 5: Like the fun I'm going back to sleep, and I

838
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 5: was like, oh my god, that's me. We used so

839
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 5: much loop.

840
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 6: It was basically like giving myself an enema, y'all.

841
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 5: I painted his toilet.

842
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: Didn't come out doing it was so gross, literally like

843
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: it was, but it was legit, like like less than

844
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 1: five minutes.

845
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 5: Yeah.

846
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 6: I ran into he was still awake, ran into the

847
00:39:58,440 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 6: bathroom and it.

848
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 5: Was just like flading water. It was not even there

849
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 5: was no solid it was like a hissed my asshole. Well,

850
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 5: you know, it was disgusting. I was like, I'm never

851
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 5: doing that again. He was like, I think we used

852
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 5: too much lube, but you felt cleaned out afterwards. I

853
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 5: felt disgusting. I had to take a shot. Well that's

854
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 5: the thing about anal, it's like going the back door.

855
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 5: I never heard what you're gonna get it.

856
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 6: We were still in college, he was living with his

857
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 6: mom still, and I used the bathroom in the hallway,

858
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 6: so his mom probably definitely heard all of it.

859
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 5: That's amazing. I'm pretty sure mom wasn't like, damn my

860
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 5: son did at all. That's what she was thinking. An

861
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 5: the night child, Hey An, I'm okay.

862
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 6: I tried it again after that with my next boyfriend

863
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 6: and his penis was smaller, but it just wasn't as enjoyable.

864
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 5: Maybe it should be big. I don't know. Yeah, I'm

865
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 5: thinking into it.

866
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 14: I tried it, and the whole time I literally just

867
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 14: felt like, this is what shitting feels like.

868
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like I felt like I was just you can't

869
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 7: put the ship.

870
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 5: In, Like that's what it felt like. I was like,

871
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 5: I can't enjoy you know what. I think it does

872
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 5: feel that way if you don't relax.

873
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: It feels like it's so hard to it's hard to relax,

874
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: and you're like, when you can, then it opens up

875
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: the second do you except for that.

876
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 5: I've never prepped, but.

877
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: I've never prepped, but i've all and I don't know how,

878
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: but I've never had a bad situation at the time, and.

879
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 6: He told me to prep like, dude, do this, and

880
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 6: he was like, don't eat, you can take a detox

881
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 6: pill and to spend your morning shipping and then like

882
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 6: make sure if you do eat, eat a salad or

883
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 6: some that's.

884
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 7: So much effort, so inorganic.

885
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 5: Do this every time.

886
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: That's what y'all want to diet all day, all the time. Yeah,

887
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 1: what if it's a surprise fuck like he.

888
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 5: Does a surprise fuck? Never does.

889
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: I've only ever surprised anled. I don't recommend, never something

890
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: that I've I've never planned it.

891
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 5: I've only had good experience. Well I'm okay, I don't know,

892
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 5: I'm okay.

893
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's one thing that I don't think I'll ever include.

894
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 5: It's like a date daily, but like a regular routine

895
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 5: in my sex life.

896
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 6: That's a special even know, Okay, it's steel, Like I attract.

897
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 5: Big dick energy. So my man is going to have

898
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 5: a big day.

899
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 6: And he's gonna understand that he's not putting that in

900
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 6: me in that hole.

901
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 5: It's just not happening.

902
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 7: I think guys as no, they're not doing a lot

903
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 7: of anal in their lifetime.

904
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know about that. I don't know about that.

905
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 5: Talombay was all about it, you know what.

906
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 6: And I've seen these videos and these porn stars putting

907
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 6: like basketballs in.

908
00:42:54,320 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 5: Their bullying him a sprit leader bottle? You guys, how

909
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 5: did you? How did you get that far? I would

910
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 5: have been are you watching? Watching Twitter? They'll have a

911
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 5: thread of like what is what is your what's your

912
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 5: corn category? Guys? What I'm scared pepsicola an.

913
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 14: So lately and I still have not really found it, but.

914
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 5: I've been on the hunt for Okay, so typically it's

915
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 5: BBC and onion booty. That's like typical, what's bb BBC

916
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 5: BBC onion booty? What the onion body is like a

917
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 5: big like okay, well I look at fat as too.

918
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 5: Sorry should I be googling onion booty? Is that?

919
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 1: It is so specific that I've never even never even

920
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: seen it pop up?

921
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 5: We did an episode about the watch. In the first

922
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 5: she's like, oh, I've really love Onion. I feel it.

923
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 5: Never I don't want him looks like it's like sometimes no,

924
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 5: I get it. But I just never even know that

925
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 5: was a searchable either.

926
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 6: I just got fat You can't fat ass because then

927
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 6: you get a lot of.

928
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: An You get a lot of anals too, and I

929
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: don't always want to yeah, but with onion booty, you're

930
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: gonna get mostly black or Latina girls.

931
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm gonna search that and then what else do

932
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 5: you like? Girls? This is one that I haven't.

933
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 9: I have not found the perfect video because I only

934
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 9: like to watch black people.

935
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 5: But that's what I'm getting you for your birthday.

936
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: But I have.

937
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 5: Actors for you, stupid.

938
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 12: I love a good like erotic massage, but I also

939
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 12: have been looking for like.

940
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 5: I have one, I haven't sent you one.

941
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 12: Oh really, I've been looking for the why the colleges

942
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 12: visit and I can't find black people.

943
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 5: It's always white people and no black doctors. I'm like,

944
00:44:55,480 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 5: why are they discriminating because he has his own royalty?

945
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 5: I subscribed to see you did if you? I love that?

946
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 5: If we if we drop a request?

947
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 7: Really because he mentioned that A lot of like mainstream

948
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 7: porns like they make black guys or black women like

949
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 7: they're never like the doctor.

950
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 5: Like the janitor made like.

951
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 15: Like guy, yeah, so you should should you do it?

952
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 15: And then we'll all do it and then you know

953
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 15: he has to do it. But his porns though, right, yeah, yeah,

954
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 15: my god.

955
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 5: It seems like I was almost signed up for class.

956
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 6: She did it wasn't almost she tried to.

957
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 5: What was the class. What was the class it.

958
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 12: Was like it was it was it was a key class.

959
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 5: Yeah. Hm, he's extensive.

960
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 1: No, I almost signed up for his massage. He also

961
00:45:53,719 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: provides services, Yeah, massages. Really, we just found somebody. No,

962
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 1: but he's better because he's fine.

963
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 5: This guy is not fine and he's sure, but kingmar

964
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 5: is fine. Fine, But but do you have a guaranteed

965
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 5: happy ending? Yes? Pay enough? I don't think that's what

966
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,439
Speaker 5: he's saying. Okay, he's cheesing the same.

967
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: What is it like, like sixty dollars sixty dollars dollar

968
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 1: minutes and come to your house?

969
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, he said, But he's like, what did he He's

970
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 5: gonna make you come for sixty minutes? How do you

971
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 5: know a happy ending? How do you know? Okay?

972
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 6: So when he said okay, he has to get comfortable

973
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 6: with the first we all know.

974
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 5: So what he does this? Have you done it? You're live?

975
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:42,720
Speaker 5: So okay?

976
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 6: So what he does is he like gauges you like

977
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 6: you say it. First of all, he comes in. He's

978
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 6: a hood nigga, like a real hood nigga. The play

979
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 6: this is nothing but genuine and pretty ricky right with ads.

980
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 6: He's not subscribing you. You don't get these ads, so.

981
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 5: Is going.

982
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 6: And then while he's massaging you, he does these things

983
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 6: that have no value to the massage but.

984
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 5: All to him. So he'll like grab your ass and go.

985
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 6: You too, like you'll grab each titty and just like

986
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 6: and shake him. Yes, see where you're at. And then

987
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 6: when he's.

988
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 5: When he's doing like the booty shake thing, he'll go

989
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 5: with like do your thighs. He'll like reach h. But

990
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 5: but if you don't flinch, he'll keep going. Yeah. So

991
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 5: if you like flinch, like moved and.

992
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 6: He'll be like, wait where him?

993
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 5: You should do massages on our show, Oh my god,

994
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 5: that did great. But he's not gonna do that in

995
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 5: the public though in a boxer No, you don't have

996
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 5: to the hair girl, you don't get massages. I don't

997
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 5: think he'll do Yeah, he'll do it.

998
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 12: But like a birthday party because we had to come

999
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 12: to ours, he would totally yeah, because we had happy

1000
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 12: thing to the birthday party.

1001
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 5: If for the.

1002
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 12: First time, so you have to see him like at

1003
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 12: least twice, so the first time, like he knows he

1004
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 12: like a.

1005
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 5: Pro at what he does, really, I mean like a pro.

1006
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 5: But he does what is a finger bang or eat out. No,

1007
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 5: he's not eating it's all like but but our friends

1008
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 5: had got it done. Like one of them was telling us,

1009
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 5: he is like so good. She was like he this

1010
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 5: the desterity in his fingers. She was like he was

1011
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 5: doing like the vibrating motion like and just did not stop.

1012
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 5: Yea yeah yeah in there just arm Wow. She was like,

1013
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 5: literally she came twice. I don't know if I want

1014
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 5: a finger bang. I was a lesbian too long. I don't, well,

1015
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 5: girl like you a fingerbank the right way. I think

1016
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 5: I need a mouth plus a finger like. I don't

1017
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 5: want a nigga who was eating a bunch of ye

1018
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 5: all the time. Yeah, that's true. I mean those yeah,

1019
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 5: especially watched Yeah, if you know what if you made

1020
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 5: him like.

1021
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 6: There's the guy that I'm likeking for now.

1022
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 5: His singer finger gang is wow. Wow. You gotta find

1023
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 5: the right fingers. I mean it's not just internally. You

1024
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 5: gotta do a lot of things. That has to be

1025
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 5: like a thumb hands yeah, maybe that both hands. Yeah,

1026
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 5: so that's possible. Well, you know, share that number, Yeah,

1027
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 5: share that number. Get damns like we're in l A.

1028
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 5: Does anyone.

1029
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 6: First of all, business Fan's gonna be popping. He's a

1030
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 6: jack of all trade, doesn't the chef. No, he'll do

1031
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 6: your mail prep, plan guys, hair trainers. He will come

1032
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 6: and he will take down your sewing. He will give

1033
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 6: you away, manage petty. He he has a business card

1034
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 6: everything and it literally says he will take down your braids.

1035
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 5: He will will.

1036
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 10: You.

1037
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 5: He ain't alltized everything. He's like, if you just want

1038
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 5: to nigga around, literally me, I will do it all

1039
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 5: A dollar a minute, bitch.

1040
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 10: If everything is anything is a dollar a minute is baking?

1041
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 5: Yeahs rich? I wouldn't he doing well?

1042
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 14: I just I really feel like people don't take us

1043
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,240
Speaker 14: seriously or take him seriously.

1044
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 5: But he's serious as wow, like I keep forgetting to

1045
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 5: have the meal prep. I really, I literally have got

1046
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 5: to see this man, I really can. Can we invite

1047
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:30,879
Speaker 5: him over right? He's gonna wear a mask. He would

1048
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 5: do it. He's talking about his happiness. I don't know

1049
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 5: he talk about that, but he would talk about everyone's

1050
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 5: gonna know. Did you say you do mail preps and

1051
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 5: sew and take it? Okay? Literally does everything and so

1052
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 5: he did at planning. He'll set up your baby shower

1053
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 5: like he does everything again I know your baby shower,

1054
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 5: your suit is happy. I think they setting up your

1055
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 5: baby shower.

1056
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 6: Don't imagine he shows up in the morning, he makes

1057
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 6: your breakfast, he paints your toes.

1058
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 5: Trying to stut, and then while you're out doing.

1059
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 6: Your workout like he's at the crimp setting up your

1060
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 6: house for your girlfriend.

1061
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 8: Like he is it.

1062
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 5: He needs to start a whole company and have like recruits. Literally,

1063
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:15,240
Speaker 5: when when.

1064
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 6: He left his cards and ship, we were going through

1065
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 6: it after he left, and I said, this nigga is genius.

1066
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 5: It is especially for a right, especially for us, because

1067
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 5: we can't find a nigga to take us to dinner.

1068
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 5: I can afford a dollar. He's not that tall.

1069
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 6: He's probably like five eight. That probably means Honestly, I

1070
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 6: thought that does I feel.

1071
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 5: Like he was ship? I would get frustrated with a

1072
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 5: massage and a finger bang. I'm not trying fun. He's

1073
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 5: a pleaser. Honestly, He's tiny, y'all. Would make a cute

1074
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 5: couple of girls. Are you trying?

1075
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 7: Happy?

1076
00:51:54,320 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 5: Bis? Are you kidding? I could meet out? Oh god, yes,

1077
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 5: mobile mobile spot Yeah.

1078
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 6: And he's the mobile spot girl literally walked bitch lashes done.

1079
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 6: He's gonna missage their feet. Literally, Oh my god, he

1080
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 6: might be onto something.

1081
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 5: That right, that's that's genius. A dollar a minute and

1082
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 5: a dollar minute sounds so cheap, but.

1083
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: It'll add up because you'd be like, don't stops.

1084
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 5: Only that wake up five hours and he's so sorry.

1085
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 5: I said it was a dollar a minute and you're

1086
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 5: sewing is out?

1087
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 15: Order it up.

1088
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 5: Oh my god, we gotta find this page. Please find

1089
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 5: this space. I need the gauge and the gage just

1090
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 5: looks just oh my god, it's so funny. Damn im

1091
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 5: hit a king wir. I wish I could before some

1092
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 5: day traveling getting he starts you live, We're just.

1093
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 7: Oh well, I guess we've talked enough about our body types,

1094
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 7: our poor dating life in lay me and to bring

1095
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 7: his nudity and prob sorry revolution, also not being new

1096
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 7: in front of many of my friends boyfriends, no to self,

1097
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 7: no one said that.

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