1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's Chelsea and we wanted to thank you 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: for listening to Dear Chelsea this year. We appreciate your 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: support and we cannot wait for you to hear what 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: we have in store for three on Dear Chelsea and 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: we are looking forward to it. So follow us subscribe. 6 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: Catherine is here to say thank you as well to 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: all of our listeners. Thank you, guys. We love all 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: of you guys for writing in, for following up with 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: us this little community that's being created, and we wish 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: you a wonderful year. Yes, happy New Year. Don't forget 11 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: to watch my special on Netflix. You guys revolution. It's 12 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: a revolution. Are you a Christmas person or a Honeko person? Chelsea? Well, 13 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: I'm a Jew technically, but I don't really know how 14 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: to spell hanakah. I know that you can spell it 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 1: anyway you want it, and it's fine, and I don't 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: really practice either. I have a tree and I have 17 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: a hanaka minora. Oh lovely. Yes, but I'm not lighting 18 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: candles by myself. I'm up here by myself this year. 19 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: My family is not here how, which is a huge 20 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: Victor three for me. We have spent so much time 21 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: together in the last few years that when they started 22 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: complaining about travel plants. This year, I just said, you 23 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: know what, everybody, let's just let's take the holiday to 24 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: ourselves and reflect. That's awesome. Yeah, Brad and I are 25 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: also not traveling this Christmas for the first time in 26 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: many years, and I am so pleased about it. It's great. Yeah. 27 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's our first time in our new home 28 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: for Christmas, and we've got our tree and my parents 29 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: are actually going to come visit a couple of days 30 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: after Christmas, so it'll still feel Christmas. Ee nice nice, perfect. Yeah, 31 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: and you're in your new home with your new little doggie. Yes, 32 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: our new little puppy, Wendel benye myrbles. That's really something 33 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: I hope Wendel teaches you about hard boiled eggs. Oh 34 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: he has men. Those puppy farts are poisonous, disgusting. That's 35 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: what you're doing when you're bringing hard boiled eggs onto 36 00:01:56,320 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: a plane. You're bringing puppy farts in a bottle. I know, 37 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: I really need to rethink my life, Joyce. Yeah, yeah, 38 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: this is at this perfect time. We just needed somebody 39 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: to confront you. I'm going to stay home for the 40 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: holidays and reflect, yeah, and repent. Actually, yes, Chelsea, I 41 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: have an update from one of our Actually this is 42 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: just from a listener, but it was so charming and 43 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: delightful I had to read it. This is from Claire. 44 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: She's in Manchester, England. She says, Hi, Chelsea and Catherine, 45 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: I'm a bottle of wine deep, so buckle up, kids. 46 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: I thought she was going to say she's a bottom. 47 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, aren't we all? Yeah? I mean I actually were. 48 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: I first heard Chelsea on Glenn and Doyle's podcast and 49 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: absolutely loved the way she talked about her breakup and 50 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: how she just sounded like she had her ship together. 51 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: Then I went down a rabbit hole and listened to 52 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: every single episode of the podcast and felt very deeply 53 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: in love with you both and your amazing advice. Also, 54 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: the little breadcrumbs of Brad's voice every now and then 55 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: is genius. That was cute. I have now listened to 56 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: every Chelsea Handler book, which I learn apart from the 57 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: one she didn't read herself, But that says more about 58 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: my selfishness than anything else were mine. I just wanted 59 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: to tell you that I'm now in therapy. I have 60 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: a psilocybin, bar of chocolate and root, and I'm ever 61 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: so slightly codependent on you both. I have looked into 62 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: myself more than ever before and am able to forgive 63 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: myself and protect myself more now because of you two. 64 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you. Claire. Oh my god, Claire, 65 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: Hi Claire, that's so sweet. Thank you for writing that 66 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: letter to us. Sound nice? What isn't it nice to 67 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: know people are going down wormholes about you and you 68 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: don't even know about. Yes, it's so exciting, and it's 69 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: just like this podcast is doing so much good in 70 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: so many people's lives, and these little communities are starting. 71 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: I actually have another very exciting update. Are they monkeypox communities? 72 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: Hopefully not. I'm fixated on monkey pots and I won't 73 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: get past it. Everyone else has forgotten about it, but 74 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: not chill. You know, I'm not me. I'm like, let's go. Yes. 75 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: So we have like a whole pocket of wonderful women 76 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: in n y C. Who are like potentially starting a 77 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: meetup group, which is very exciting. Really a meet up 78 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: group like for what like for we're fans of Dear 79 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: Chelsea and we're independent and single and like love to 80 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: hang out and do fun things. Oh my god, I 81 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: love it. I love it. That's like the theme of 82 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: the special, you know, independence and single doom. I didn't 83 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: know how many women feeling to Yes, exactly. There's a 84 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: whole group of there's a whole swath of women out 85 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: there that need to be represented for not getting married 86 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: and having babies. It's true though. It's true though. And 87 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: you know what I was thinking about this recently. I 88 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: think something that you do for people, because you know, 89 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: we get a lot of emails that are how do 90 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: I say this? Should I come out and say this 91 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: to this person? I think what you do is you're 92 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: sort of, in a way their voice and giving them 93 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: this boldness and you say what you think, and you're 94 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: like not afraid to set boundaries or have difficult conversations. 95 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: And I think it's it's a really inspiring thing for people. 96 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: It's like they can sort of channel your voice when 97 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: they have to have difficult conversations. Great. I would love 98 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: nothing more than that to be my purpose in life. 99 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 1: I give I provide a little bottle of bitchiness that 100 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: you're lacking. I love that. I have another very exciting update. 101 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 1: You're pregnant. No, no, I'm pregnant. Oh my gosh, Brad's pregnant. 102 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 1: Brad is pregnant. He actually he gave birth to our 103 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: little wend I know. So remember Anna who wrote in 104 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago and was having some dental 105 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: work done and she was really concerned about the cause 106 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 1: and she was also having some shame spirals around all 107 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: of that stuff. Well, we talked about her go fund 108 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: me here on the show, and as of right now, 109 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea listeners have donated seven thousand, two hundred and 110 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: sixty dollars toward her goal to get her dental work done, 111 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: which is so exciting. It's so exciting. That's so nice, everybody. 112 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: That's so nice to be generous in giving to somebody 113 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: a need that always comes back. I just had a 114 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: conversation with one of my relatives about generosity, you know, 115 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: and how it always comes back, and how it's so 116 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: good to exercise generosity and practice it whether you have 117 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: money or time or whatever, like just not to hold 118 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: onto things so tightly, and especially when someone is in 119 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: need and you can help them, it feels so good. 120 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: And especially when you have a lot of people toward 121 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: a common goal. It's like some people donated a lot, 122 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: some people donated five bucks, and it all goes right 123 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: toward helping someone out. It's just wonderful. Just a couple 124 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: of things. People have said that we're really sweet as 125 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: well because they can leave comments in the go fund me. 126 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: May you continue to ask for what you need without 127 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: shame or guilt. Smile big Merry Christmas from a dear 128 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: Chelsea listener. Proud of you. I'm so sorry you're experiencing 129 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: this medical hardship, but you got this. I briefly hadn't 130 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: eating disorder many years ago, so I know how hard 131 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: this is. But you came out fighting on the other side. 132 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: I mean, if this is what I'm talking about with 133 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: community that's forming, it's just really exciting. How much money 134 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: did she need to make? I mean, how much was 135 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: the cost of everything? Like? Her total is eighteen thousand, 136 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: and this number is just growing every single day since 137 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: we're talking about it today. We'll pop the link right 138 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: in the description again, so if anybody wants to donate 139 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: that forgot too before or one and two before, it'll 140 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: be right there in the description. So it's all a 141 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: very happy holiday. This is great. I'm going to take 142 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: Burton Bernice's college tuition obviously, and just throw it towards 143 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: this woman's day. That sounds great, that sounds perfect, both 144 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: of those two. It's aren't going to get into college 145 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: just like their mother, you know, not even a state 146 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: at school. No, not even community college. You know. I 147 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: actually went to community college for one semester, and it 148 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: was those were some of the best classes that I 149 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: took at any of the three colleges that I went to. 150 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: So I went to a semester of community college as well, Katherine. 151 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: It was called the County College of Morris in Morristown, 152 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: New Jersey, and I went and I studied Russian history. 153 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: Very ironically, that was what I was interested in, and 154 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: I guess that was a foreshadow to what was to 155 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: come in my life with my Russian sister in law. 156 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: And you're, you know, railing against Putin and all of 157 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: these things. I'm actually so not surprised. That's like such 158 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: an intellectual thing to decide this study. Well, you know me, 159 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm such I'm such an intellect but you are. I mean, 160 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: you're like always reading, You're always doing your thing. Like 161 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: I just read a great book, by the way, that 162 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: everyone should read called The Great Alone. It's so do 163 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: you have you read that? No, it's really intense. I 164 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: mean it's really about a subject matter that I wouldn't 165 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: ever normally be interested in. Carla, my assistant, gave it 166 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: to me out a plane and I read the whole 167 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: thing and I was like, oh my god. It was 168 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: about well alone, nous and moving to Alaska and like 169 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: homesteading in Alaska, this couple family living off the grid, 170 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: and just how dangerous and scary and alone you are, 171 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: and like the end of the World the last for Tier. 172 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: It's by Kristin Hannah, and she's a very descriptive writer, 173 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: and usually that's not really my cup of tea. She's 174 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: like kind of like a female John Steinbeck, you know, 175 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: when there's lots of descriptive writing and lots of there's 176 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: a lot of authors that do that, and I like 177 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: to write dialogue, so I'm always like looking for, you know, 178 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: something more on my side of things. But it was 179 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: it's beautiful. She's a really good writer, and she that's lovely. Yeah, 180 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: it's a big book, but it's worth reading. The Great Alone. 181 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: Oh that's wonderful. And then I got home last night 182 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I need a new book 183 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: to start. So I picked out some Rudyard Kipling. I'm like, 184 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: I haven't read him ever, probably, And then I read 185 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: ted pages and thought, I know why I haven't read 186 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: this fuck off? And then I picked up The Paper 187 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 1: Palace and how I'm a hundred pages into that, so, 188 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 1: you know, lovely. Yeah, I'm not reading for homework anymore. 189 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: I've decided not during this winter, especially when I'm writing 190 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: a book. I want to read for pleasure. Yeah. I 191 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: went through a similar thing where I just was like, wait, 192 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: I think I'm resisting reading right now because every book 193 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: on my nightstand is like some medical thing or some 194 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 1: this or that, and I'm like, I'm just going to 195 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 1: read a fun be trade. So I just started The 196 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: Beautiful Ruins and I'm excited. I'm very good. Yeah. Yeah, 197 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: it's nice to lose yourself in a book. There's really 198 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: nothing quite like it. Yeah. Okay. So our guest today 199 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: is an author, teacher, speaker, and my favorite psychic medium ever. 200 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: She wrote the book Signs and The Light Between Us. 201 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: So please welcome Laura Lene Jackson. So happy to be here. 202 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: Thank you for inviting me on. I know you don't 203 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: love to go. You have a little bit of a 204 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: travel situation, right. You don't love to leave New York. 205 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: I know you live in Long Eye, but you don't 206 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: love to go too far away from home, right. No, 207 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: actually do like to travel. I just have so much 208 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: going on it's hard sometimes. But Oh, I thought you 209 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: had some sort of anxiety about like, oh really, Yeah, no, 210 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: I love it. I'm like, let me leave my family 211 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: for a few days. That's what I do. I even 212 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: have a family, and I'm ready to leave them. But 213 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: Laura's been integral many times in my life, like when 214 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: I've been going through a difficult time, because I am 215 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: very open to mediumship and I am very open to 216 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: psychic abilities. And I really feel that, as we've discussed 217 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: on this podcast various times, the more open you are, 218 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: the more you get to see, you know, and the 219 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: more closed minded you are at you the more you miss. 220 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: And especially when we lose loved ones and that grief 221 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 1: is really just not even describable, it is so comforting 222 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: to believe that those people are not really ever gone. 223 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: And I really have learned over the course of many 224 00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: years and a lot through our relationship Laura, that that 225 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 1: is so true and the more you are open to it, 226 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: the more you feel it, the more the signs you see, 227 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,319 Speaker 1: and the more comfort you gain. So I think Laura 228 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 1: tell us a little bit just refreshed people who aren't 229 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: familiar with you. How you came about to be this 230 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: person in everybody's lives. Yeah, so I didn't, you know, 231 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: start out thinking, oh, hey, I'm going to become a 232 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: psychic medium as my career. In life, I was psychic 233 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: since I was a child. I would see people in 234 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 1: colors and I would feel what they were feeling. But 235 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: I just thought that was the way the world worked. 236 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 1: I thought we all experienced that, you know. When as 237 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: I got older, I quickly realized that's not so true. 238 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: And then I kind of didn't know what to do 239 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: with my abilities, so I kind of hid them for 240 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 1: a while. I was a high school in this teacher 241 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: for almost twenty years, and then I would volunteer quietly 242 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: on the side for an organization called the Forever Family Foundation, 243 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 1: helping a lot of parents who had lost children and 244 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 1: we're in grief. It's a great organization. Everybody should join in. 245 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 1: Membership is free. And then one day I went to 246 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 1: hall duty as a teacher, and I sat down on 247 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: my little hall duty desk and I got this huge 248 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: download from the universe, and it was like a seven 249 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: hour conversation in the millisecond. And they told me you're 250 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: going to be writing a book, you're going to become 251 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: a speaker, you're gonna go do workshops, you're gonna and 252 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: this whole plan in front of me. And when I 253 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: get those download, there's no emotion attached. And I'm sure 254 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: you guys have had that experience too, right, it's just 255 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: this knowing. And is it like a voice in your 256 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: head that comes to you. That's such a great question. Right, 257 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: So it's not like a voice outside of me, but 258 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: it's almost as if I've had this really long conversation. 259 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 1: It's like an energy language. It's an emotional language. You 260 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: know how we all have subtext going on in our 261 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: own minds, like the narratives we tell ourselves and thoughts 262 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: running through So this these are thoughts that come to 263 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: you rather than from you. You know, we all have 264 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: those experiences. I just think because I'm so open and 265 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: tuned in, I'm really cognizant when I have them, where 266 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: other people might be like, what was that and ignore it? 267 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: That's why. I also say, like, pay attention to the 268 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: information you get, to the downloads you get. And what 269 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: I love too is I always hear artists and other 270 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: people talking about getting downloads. It's actually this term we 271 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: all seemed to use for it. So I got my 272 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: download and within twenty four hours I had a book 273 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: agent and I was going and remember coming home and 274 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: telling my husband, guess what, I'm writing a book and 275 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: this is going to happen, and it just all unfolded. 276 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: I don't always get that much clarity for myself because 277 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: I think that's, you know, cheating. I'm having this human 278 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: experience too, and it's really important for me to navigate 279 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: spiritually my own path. But when I do have that knowing, 280 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: I always honor it. And so that's what led me. 281 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: Once my first book came out, I tried to teach 282 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: and do that, but it got a little overwhelming and 283 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: I had to make a choice. Did I want to 284 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: commit to sharing this knowledge with the world and looking 285 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: at the world is my classroom, or did I want 286 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: to go back to teaching high school English, you know, 287 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 1: in a four world classroom. And I quickly got clarity 288 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: that this was my highest path, which was a little scary, 289 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: but also I think it's so important when we have 290 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: those moments of choice on our own spiritual journeys, our 291 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: own life journeys, to challenge ourselves to to riot, to 292 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: not make decisions based in fear, but to trust, to 293 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: trust in the universe, to trust that we are all 294 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: so loved and so protected and so very guided that 295 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: we just need to tune in and honor that. Yeah, 296 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: and that's something that you really imparted with me. Also 297 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 1: on a more recent level, because I had filmed my 298 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: own special this year, my stand up special, which is 299 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: the best special I've ever done. You know, I've had 300 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: the most clarity, the most upstanding work ethic for myself, 301 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: the most commitment I've ever had to my craft doing this, 302 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: And I was selling the special. I just decided to 303 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: shoot it myself and then sell it myself because I 304 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 1: wanted to maintain ownership. And after I shot it, there's 305 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: a lot of interest from a lot of different places. 306 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: And I called Laura and we It was also after 307 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: I broken up with Joe, so she was kind of 308 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: giving me guidance on that front as well. Because I 309 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: wanted to handle myself with as much grace and dignity 310 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: as possible, and she was crucial in making me level 311 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: up to that. She's like, this is a soul test. 312 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: I was like, body and I had another one. She's like, 313 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: you must operate this way. I'm like, I'll do whatever 314 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: you say anyway. I when I was talking to Laura 315 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: about that, about my breakup and about she said, let's 316 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: talk about career stuff. There's a lot of exciting things 317 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 1: that are about to happen. You're about to, you know, 318 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: sell the special. And I was like, well, where am 319 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: I going to sell it? And she's like, I see Netflix. 320 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: And I was like, at this point, now I wasn't 321 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: even in conversation with Netflix because I had interest from 322 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: three other places. Netflix had a full slate of comedy specials. 323 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: They were saying they were closed, that they couldn't afford me. 324 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: You know, the market had changed, blah blah blah. They 325 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 1: weren't even looking for specials, so we weren't even giving 326 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: it to Netflix. And I said, I don't even think 327 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: it's going to Netflix. And she said, you're gonna have 328 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: three offers and you're gonna end up at Netflix. She 329 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: said that about four months ago. At the time I 330 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: had zero offers and I had the Netflix hadn't even 331 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: seen it. And a couple of months went by and 332 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: there was still there was like a lot of chatter, 333 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: but no firm off for from anyone, and I was 334 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: starting to get very nervous, like, wait a second, where 335 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:08,959 Speaker 1: is this industry? This is my niche and media, Like 336 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: I'm not getting any of the things that I thought 337 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 1: I would get here, Like I thought it would be 338 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: an easier haul, and it was. It turned into like 339 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 1: quite a slog for me personally, for somebody who's used 340 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: to getting a little bit more attention or respect for 341 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: my craft. I was very stressed about it. A couple 342 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: of months went by and I reached out to Laura 343 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: again via text and I said, hey, listen, I don't 344 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 1: have any offers yet, and I'm starting to get nervous 345 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 1: that it's not going to happen. And she said, you 346 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 1: need to surrender it. This is already done. Just let 347 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: it go. You have nothing to worry about. And the 348 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: next weekend, Netflix saw my special made me an offer, 349 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: and then I texted her, I go, oh my god, 350 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: Netflix just made me an offer and they wanted the special, 351 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: and she said, but do you have three offers like 352 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: I told you, And I said, yes, I had three 353 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: offers just like she told Over the weekend, after she 354 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 1: told me to surrender and let it go, I did. 355 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, if I have to distribute 356 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 1: it myself, then I'll do it. I had accepted the 357 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: one thing I didn't really want to have to do. 358 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 1: I didn't think that was how I wanted my special 359 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: to be delivered. And now it is at Netflix and 360 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: I and I'm like, oh my god, Laura. I'm like, 361 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm never talking to a therapist again. All I need 362 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 1: is my psychic medium. And my asked my astrologist Jay Luna, 363 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: who is also the two of you, if you guys 364 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: got together, I mean the world would be over or 365 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: or would begin again. So that's my most recent personal 366 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 1: story about Laura. And I also believe that because of 367 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:46,640 Speaker 1: the length and duration of our relationship, I am more 368 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 1: aligned now to the universe and to things that are 369 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 1: working in your favor, like the idea that you know 370 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: what's not meant for you will not pass you. I 371 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: have more of an attitude that you don't have to 372 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: push so hard to make things happen. It's about trusting 373 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: that the things will happen, you know. And I think 374 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,919 Speaker 1: that's a big lesson for all of us not to 375 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 1: push so hard and try to fit a circle into 376 00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: a square. Just understand that your circle is going to 377 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: fit into some patchwork and you just have to really trust, 378 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: especially when you have the work to back it up 379 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: a hundred percent. And you know, you said something so 380 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 1: important there, and I think you're giving away some of 381 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: your power, you know, to me, and it's not. It's 382 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: not the case. This was going to happen for you 383 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: no matter what. I just for some reason I can 384 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: really tune into your energy and read you really want. 385 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 1: But the thing for you, I think it was a 386 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: timeline of the moment you surrendered that then it would 387 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: rush in because that was the sole challenge. That was 388 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: where the growth was taking place for you was trusting 389 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 1: and that trusting that your love protected that you are 390 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: of incredible value here. I mean, you're a light worker 391 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: through and through. And I don't know that you see 392 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: that as fully about yourself as I do, because I'm 393 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 1: always reading energy and seeing energy. But just what you 394 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: bring to people like you shift people's energy and profound 395 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: ways like laughter and joy and helping people laugh at themselves, 396 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: laugh at the world, see things in a different way. 397 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 1: You are reaching so many people that you can't even 398 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 1: possibly fathom. You know, one day when you cross and 399 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: you do your life review, be like WHOA. But for 400 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: now you're just gonna have to have a sense of that. 401 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: But I think when you surrendered it and you're like, okay, Universe, 402 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: I'm letting go and if I need to do it 403 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: this way, if that's the vehicle, I'll do it, And 404 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: then it's swooped right in. But I think it was 405 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: a timeline of the moment you surrendered that's going to happen. 406 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,120 Speaker 1: I think so many of us hold on to what 407 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 1: we think is best for us. But the thing is, 408 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 1: the universe always dreams bigger and there's always a plan, 409 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: and our role is to just surrender it and go 410 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 1: along for that ride and open. I guess the thing 411 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: that always stumps me about that is there seem to 412 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: be people that are so stuck that you run into 413 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 1: a daily that are miserable or negative or not willing 414 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 1: to evolve or or look within or grow. And like 415 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 1: when we talk about what we're talking about, and since 416 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: everyone has a purpose because we don't want to diminish 417 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 1: anyone's existence, But what are the purposes of those people, 418 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: like the people that aren't growing, or or the people 419 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 1: that don't you know, have a gay son and change 420 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: their complete outlook about having a gay child, and they 421 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,880 Speaker 1: don't open their hearts instead they remain closed, Like how 422 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 1: do you view those types of people in our lives? 423 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 1: So it's that's such a great question. I think we're 424 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 1: all here on Earth Earth as a school and we're 425 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 1: having this collective lesson in love. So you can never 426 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 1: look at your own life in terms of m I 427 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: success or failure based on what I can see and 428 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 1: what I know of my life, because you have to understand, 429 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: like we're profoundly affecting each other in ways that we 430 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 1: can't see. Right. So I think it's our responsibility as 431 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: individuals to find the gifts we came here with, to 432 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: find our light right, to honor them and to share 433 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 1: it with others, and to trust in that process. People 434 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 1: sometimes get stuck in their soul tests and their soul lessons, 435 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: and I don't just mean for this lifetime. Sometimes it 436 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: goes on from many life times. So if somebody is 437 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: not growing, it's that they're spiritually stuck in a cycle 438 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: that can change at any moment in profound ways. And 439 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: I think also sometimes you know, we we affect others 440 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: journeys and others paths in ways that we don't understand. 441 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 1: So maybe somebody who's really grumpy and is stuck in 442 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: like a certain soul path, they're one key thing for 443 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: that year is to be in a certain place at 444 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: a certain time, to be a jerk to somebody else 445 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: so that that person doesn't leave and go down the 446 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,479 Speaker 1: street where something would have happened. Right. It kind of 447 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,640 Speaker 1: like confuses it or ties them up, like we never 448 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 1: fully understand. Or somebody can be such a jerk to 449 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: you that you promised to yourself you'll never treat another 450 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: that way. Right, that's a huge point. So what you're 451 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: really talking about is energy exchange, right, And when we 452 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: get down to it, thoughts or energy and they matter 453 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: more than we can even begin to fathom. Right. But 454 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: when we have our own thoughts, if we're negative, we 455 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 1: throw that negative energy at somebody else. When you receive that, 456 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: you have a choice, so you can value it back 457 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: or you're going to let it release from yourself, disengage 458 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 1: from it. Right, not be reactive. I think that is 459 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: each of our own personal like soul tests on a 460 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 1: daily basis, to not be reactive to other people's negativity. 461 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,479 Speaker 1: I think it's really amazing if somebody is rude to you, 462 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: if you can actually generally be kind, nice and nice 463 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: back to them, you know, sometimes it will switch their 464 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: whole energy. But even if it doesn't, you haven't absorbed 465 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: that into your own energy then, right, And that's the 466 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:27,360 Speaker 1: case to not absorb other people's energy if it's negative, right, 467 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 1: because if it's positive, you do want to drink it in. 468 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: Drink it in. But I think we're all teachers to 469 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: each other too, right, So in some people's lessons go 470 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 1: a really long time, you know, Like you're talking about, 471 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: let's say there's a parent with a child who's gay, 472 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: and instead of like you know, opening their belief system 473 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 1: and their heart and being loving there, they stay stuck 474 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 1: in a very fearful negative space. Right. Well, maybe that's 475 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 1: going to take some time, and other people are involved 476 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 1: in helping them evolve and shift and change, Like we 477 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: all matter to each other so profoundly. Yeah, it's it's hard. 478 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 1: You know. There was this thing on Instagram the other 479 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: day that was showing the droves of people that crossed 480 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: through Times Square every day, and and and and it 481 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,479 Speaker 1: was from this like thirty foot perspective, and it's just 482 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: a bunch of ants marching right like going through. And 483 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 1: I remember my brother and I were once having a conversation, 484 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: a philosophical conversation about reincarnation, and he's like, Chelsea, please, 485 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: we're just a bunch of ants marching on this planet. 486 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 1: There's billions of people. There's no rhyme or reason. This 487 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 1: is just evolution and there's nothing mystical or magical about it. 488 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,159 Speaker 1: And so when I talked to someone like you, you know, 489 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: I I do feel more open minded about the idea 490 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: of reincarnation, the idea, but there is a magical element 491 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 1: or component that goes along with it that makes me go, well, 492 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 1: I don't know, do I believe in reincarnation? Do you 493 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: know the mysticism of all of it? Well? Why can't 494 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 1: it be both? Right? Yes, there's now eight billion of 495 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: us here on this planet and we're kind of all 496 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: ants marching around. But I think our energy does profoundly 497 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 1: affect eat. I mean, if Brad and Iyanna had an 498 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: argument before, you both came in to this room. Even 499 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: if you didn't have the abilities that you had, you 500 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: would feel it. You know, It's true when they say 501 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: you can cut it with a knife. And so what's 502 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: really interesting too about what you're bringing up is like 503 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 1: the woo woo factors what I'm going to call it. 504 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 1: You know, I was raised by teachers. I'm very academic 505 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 1: by nature, and the way I approached my abilities was 506 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,719 Speaker 1: really with a really huge amount of skepticism. It's one 507 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: of the reasons that I got tested by scientists. I've 508 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: gotten tested by different organizations before I volunteered because I 509 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: needed to make sure this was legitimate. And while I 510 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: might not understand all the components and how it works, 511 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,880 Speaker 1: what I do know is that it is a percent real. 512 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 1: So one of the things that I'm very involved with 513 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 1: is I work with a lot of scientists when it 514 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 1: comes to doing research on my brain to figure out 515 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: what my brain looks like when I'm in normal talking 516 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 1: mode right now versus reading mode right But it's also 517 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 1: led me to research so many other topics, including past 518 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,719 Speaker 1: lives and reincarnation. You know, it's it's interesting because I 519 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: think my worldview and my spiritual view it sounds so 520 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 1: magical and fairy tale, like, right, don't worry, You're loved 521 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: and protected by the other side. Anybody you love is 522 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: still with you and guiding you. You know, you come 523 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: back in the same soul groups, you will be reunited. 524 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: It sounds like a fairy tale and I get that, 525 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 1: but it doesn't mean it's not true. So if you 526 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: start looking at some of the research that's out there, 527 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,400 Speaker 1: take a look at University of Virginia, take a look 528 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 1: at Jim Tucker, who's a research scientist there. What he 529 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,400 Speaker 1: is researching about past life recalling children. Take a look 530 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: at what's coming out of uv A their their lab 531 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,159 Speaker 1: in terms of psychic abilities and so forth. There's another 532 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: institute called the Rhyme which has been doing research since 533 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: the nineteen thirties. Was founded in nineteen thirties by J. B. 534 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: Rhyme and linked with Duke University. There's amazing research coming 535 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 1: out of that. Princeton had a lab. You know. The 536 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: problem is the researchers that are doing this really valid 537 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 1: research that's proving so much much about energy interconnection, past lives, 538 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,159 Speaker 1: are souls, all of that. It's very dismissed by the 539 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: academic community. Because people are almost embarrassed to admit that 540 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,959 Speaker 1: they're interested in it. They want to have conversations about it, 541 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: but not on paper, so to speak. But it's fascinating, 542 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 1: and I'm saying like, don't just believe me, go do 543 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 1: this research. It's really it's really very valid and very fascinating. 544 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 1: And how does this impact you with your kids? Can 545 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 1: I ask you, like when you know when your kids 546 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 1: bring around friend or boyfriend or something. I mean, you're 547 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: able to read energy pretty quickly. So if you do 548 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 1: get the bad vibe, how do you do you act 549 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: on that to you and share that or do you 550 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: just kind of okay? So it's kind of very a 551 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 1: lot like a loaded story with this, Like when when 552 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: they were a little I would used to like really 553 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 1: tune in and I'd know when they had tests or 554 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 1: what they got on their tests or when they were 555 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: lying and they got really you know, my my oldest 556 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 1: daughter who's now twenty two, she started getting really piste 557 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,959 Speaker 1: off me around like age fourteen. She's like, mom, im 558 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 1: get out of my energy, Like she's so mad at me, 559 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,360 Speaker 1: and she found a way to somewhat block me where 560 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 1: the other side would only give me like s os warnings. 561 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,479 Speaker 1: If something was really going off the tracks, I'd be like, Okay, 562 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 1: I got this download for you. Let's talk about this, 563 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 1: but I will tell you right now. Doesn't even matter 564 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 1: that she had a psychic media mom and I'd be like, 565 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 1: here's what's gonna happen. This guy is not good. But 566 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 1: she just wanted to learn the hard way and did 567 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 1: it her way. And the thing is the other side 568 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 1: would show me what was coming for her too, so 569 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: you know, we'd all be prepared. We knew what was 570 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 1: about to happen. Did it make navigating those moments as 571 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: of family easier, I guess in the sense of understanding 572 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: that there are lessons and there's a plan and everybody 573 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: has free will and I needed to respect her boundaries 574 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: and her energy in that sense, right, So that was 575 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: very helpful. But does it make like the day to 576 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: day stuff easier when you're navigating difficult situations. No, But 577 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: in terms of reading like energy their friends constantly, you know, 578 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 1: I'll pick up, I'll do car pool and the person 579 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 1: will get and I'll give like, oh that person was 580 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: like all about their energy. And my kids are very 581 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,479 Speaker 1: psychic too, so I think our dinner conversations are probably 582 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 1: not very normal, but they're normal to us. But yeah, 583 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: everybody has energy and you don't need to be a 584 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: psychic medium to tune into that. It's just most people 585 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 1: don't pay attention to it. But take like when you 586 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: meet somebody new, see if they just feel neutral, See 587 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: if you feel like really pulled to them like a magnet. 588 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: Or see if you have what I call an allergic reaction, 589 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: which is less about judgment but just more like not 590 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 1: my cup of teething. And then honor whatever you're feeling. 591 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, the more you open energy and you start 592 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,400 Speaker 1: sensing and feeling it, it's really a helpful tool to 593 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: help you navigate, you know, life in the world. And 594 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: when you say the other side, you're talking about like 595 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: your spirit guides. Yeah, so when I talk about the 596 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: other side, always see it like there's this three part 597 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 1: kind of team of light that each and every one 598 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 1: of us has, like every single person here, even putin, 599 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 1: even putin okay, yeah, yeah, even putin by the way 600 00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: he fell down the stairs apparently the other day and 601 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 1: shadows pay So there's something to be excited about. Side 602 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 1: note continue, So we all have it right, whether or 603 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: not we're accessing and using it is a whole another thing. 604 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: So Putin's totally not accessing and using his team of light. 605 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 1: Let's just put it there. He's using a team of darkness. 606 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 1: We have got energy, right, which I see as this 607 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: force of just love and light that we're all part 608 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 1: of and we're all connected through. Right. We can call 609 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: upon those chords of connection and light at any time 610 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 1: for guidance and to like be led into our highest path. 611 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: And then here's the woo woo part. I get that 612 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: this sounds woo, But we all have what I call 613 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: spirit guides. So throughout time and history, different religions have 614 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: called them guardian angels and so forth. To me, they're 615 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: just like very advanced spiritual beings who are not here 616 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: in our physical life. We haven't known them, right, But 617 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 1: before our souls came to earth, we contracted with them 618 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 1: to be our teachers and our mentors and to guide us. 619 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 1: And some people are very aware of their guides, like 620 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 1: you'll talk to them be like, oh, here's what my 621 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: guides look like, and these are their names. And other 622 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 1: people just have this kind of sense of feeling protection 623 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: or energy or guidance or being nudged sometimes, and those 624 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: are your spirit GUIDs. Most people have between one and three, 625 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 1: but sometimes people have a crazy number or you know, 626 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: it's interesting, and then we The third part of our 627 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: team of light is anybody we love who's crossed, including pets. Right, 628 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: It's that loving, connecting energy. Those people will always be 629 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 1: rooting for us, will always be trying to also guide 630 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 1: us and help us on our highest path. They're there 631 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,480 Speaker 1: for the joyful moments, They're there for our sad moments. 632 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: They're there for everything, you know, sometimes like silly little 633 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: things like minutia, things like picking out what carpet you 634 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: want or whatever that might be. But I feel like 635 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: opening to that and feeling that presence and that guidance 636 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: can completely transform lives, you know, because feeling that love 637 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: and that connection and understanding that each and every one 638 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 1: of us is more loved and more valued than we 639 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 1: can even imagine. Yeah, it's helpful to think of it 640 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 1: in that way rather than thinking of it as a god. Know, 641 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,479 Speaker 1: it is the universe in and of itself, and the 642 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: people that are spirit guides, the people that have crossed over. 643 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 1: Like I always think of my mother and brother when 644 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm in a tough spot or a happy spot, like 645 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 1: I'm always like, okay, but I I I have failed 646 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 1: to neglect that there it's not just those two. There's 647 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 1: other people around that are also part of it. And 648 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: I just look at it as like, oh, there's somebody 649 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 1: watching me, Like when I was I remember I was 650 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 1: dating the sky when I was like in my twenties, 651 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: and I said, I just always want to do the 652 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: right thing even when no one's looking, because I believe 653 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 1: someone is watching me. And He's like, but why not 654 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 1: just do the right thing even whether or not someone's 655 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: watching you or not. I'm like, because of somebody's watching, 656 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 1: and I want to make sure that I get credit 657 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: for doing the right thing as all points anyway, Katherine, 658 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: do you want to ask Laura questions, any questions about 659 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: yourself before we open it up to other people? Oh? 660 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: My good. I mean we should give you a little 661 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:54,240 Speaker 1: bit energy. I know she's got the best energy. Ad 662 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 1: I'm so glad. I mean, honestly, everything you were saying, 663 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, I felt like my career at least very 664 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: much changed around the same time that I consciously shifted 665 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: my energy to being like I'm gonna let go and 666 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 1: let good things happen. But also my grandmother died around 667 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: the same time, and I remember sort of having this 668 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: like mental conversation with her about like, Okay, I've been 669 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: throwing a lot of stuff at the wall and trying 670 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: to see what sticks, and nothing's sticking. Like anything you 671 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: can do up there, like help me get to the 672 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: next stage of my life career wise. And that was 673 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,000 Speaker 1: when things started to shift, And especially during that time 674 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 1: that year, I just felt her presence so much, and 675 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 1: it was like I would talk to her, you know, 676 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,080 Speaker 1: like she was just right there being like I got you. 677 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: But I think so I do have a question. So 678 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 1: we have a work opportunity and we're sort of in 679 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: a position where, you know, we're not sure if it's 680 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 1: a good fit or not. And I talked to my 681 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 1: therapist about it. She's like, I don't think there's a 682 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 1: wrong answer here. I think if it's a yes, it's 683 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: a good decision for you. I think if it's a no, 684 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: it's a good decision for you. But when you have 685 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: those opportunities that are really fifty fifty could be a yes, 686 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: could be a note, how do you make that decision? 687 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,959 Speaker 1: This is such a great question. First let me just 688 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: touch base about the beautiful things you said about the 689 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 1: guidance from your grandmother, and it just reminded me to 690 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: share with people that it's so important for us to 691 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,359 Speaker 1: ask for help. It's like there seems to be some 692 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: rule where if we invite them, they can help more. Right, 693 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: And we have this team alight at our disposal, like, 694 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 1: let's call upon that and use it. So I absolutely 695 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,399 Speaker 1: feel your grandmother was helping so much with all of that. Now, 696 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: have you asked your grandmother for a sign or for 697 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: guidance on what your highest path is to go with 698 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 1: this person or not? That is that's actually really interesting 699 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 1: that you use that specific language because my dad and 700 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 1: I I'm going to get choked up. My dad and 701 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 1: I have been talking a lot about and this is 702 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: my dad's mother. We've been talking a lot about what's 703 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 1: your highest and best use, and so that's something that's 704 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: been very very in my mind lately. So when you 705 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: just said that's like, what's what's the purpose? What's the 706 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 1: highest in best use that hits the nail on the head. 707 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm not sure if this fits into 708 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: my highest and best use. I think it could be 709 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: a fun job. I think it could be a good job, 710 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:16,239 Speaker 1: but also I don't know if it fits exactly in 711 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 1: that niche of like, this is my highest and best use. 712 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 1: So this is what I'm gonna say. I'm I'm going 713 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: to tune in. I'm going to share information with you. 714 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 1: But what I love for people to do is to 715 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,800 Speaker 1: know that they never ever ever need a psychic medium. 716 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: I'm there for reassurance and I'm there's to step in 717 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,719 Speaker 1: and be like, look, this is there for you already, right, 718 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: but to tune into it yourself and understand that because 719 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 1: I think even things that feel fifty fifty, it's not 720 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,720 Speaker 1: fifty fifty, it's nine. And you just have to get really, 721 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 1: really quiet within yourself, and then you have to split 722 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: it into two different categories. Logically, what your little monkey 723 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: mind would say is the highest or best path versus 724 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: intuitively what your soul is whispering. And sometimes you have 725 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,399 Speaker 1: to get really quiet to hear that. Okay. So that said, 726 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: when I'm feeling for you is that this opportunity is 727 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 1: showing up for an absolute reason because it's making you 728 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: test your own kind of sense of yourself and where 729 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: you want to steer the ship of your spiritual journey 730 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,359 Speaker 1: right now. I don't think it would be a bad thing. 731 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: It's interesting because I keep feeling like there's almost a 732 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: little soul test about boundaries for you and establishing what 733 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: you want. So I'm going to say, if you say 734 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 1: yes to this, be prepared to have your boundaries tested 735 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to say three times no, no, no, 736 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 1: or this is what I want, that's what I want, 737 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: that's what I want, because it's going to keep hitting you. 738 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 1: So you're learning this. Really you're mastering a soul challenge 739 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,759 Speaker 1: there right or you could be like not in the 740 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 1: mood for that test right now. Circle back to me 741 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 1: in two or three years, because whatever tests are there 742 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 1: for you, whatever growth is there for you, it's not 743 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: going to disappear. You know, our our team will. I 744 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: will be like, Okay, hey, no problem, We'll circle back 745 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: to you with that. And I've done that before in 746 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 1: my life. I've been like, I'm not ready for that, 747 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: come back in a year or two, and it will. 748 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 1: So it's really up to you. I also feel like 749 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:06,280 Speaker 1: there's a whole another almost like emotional personal like family 750 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,479 Speaker 1: focus going on as well, So it's like your team 751 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: of light going which one do you want to explore 752 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 1: right now? What would you take your beautiful light energy 753 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: and spend it on. Do you want to master this 754 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 1: test or do you want to devote your time and 755 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 1: your light energy to this right now? And in that sense, 756 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 1: there's not a right or wrong answer, because it's your 757 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 1: free will choice. You have to get quiet within yourself 758 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,560 Speaker 1: and decide which one's pulling at you a little harder 759 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 1: that I have a question if she is say she 760 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 1: does take on this opportunity and that that this opportunity 761 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: presents the opportunity to set boundaries and say no, no, no, 762 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: is that a necessary exercise that she that she has 763 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,319 Speaker 1: to go through. Isn't that something that might just cause 764 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,880 Speaker 1: more problems and maybe k chaos as an overstatement, but 765 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 1: like I will say, the language that you use that 766 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,799 Speaker 1: you're just repeated as literally the exact conversations we've been 767 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 1: having of like this would be a good opper tunity 768 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 1: for me to like exercise those skills and like build 769 00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: those muscles and sort of be working in this in 770 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 1: the space of like some personal things that I've learned. 771 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: Boundaries is a big one, but just like these things 772 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,839 Speaker 1: that I've been working on so much in therapy, were like, 773 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I've been able to say like, Okay, 774 00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,960 Speaker 1: here's where my energy starts and stops and whatever somebody 775 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,479 Speaker 1: else is feeling or thinking if I haven't done something 776 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: terrible to them, obviously that's their stuff, you know, And 777 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: so it truly it was like, the big question is 778 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: this could be an opportunity for me to strengthen those muscles. 779 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,600 Speaker 1: So literally exactly what you said, I'm like, that's the 780 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 1: conversation we had yesterday, very specifically for what it's worth. 781 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 1: I think you'd rock it. I think you'd pass it 782 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,880 Speaker 1: with flying color. It's just gonna be a little annoying 783 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 1: for a while, you know, like you I'm gonna three 784 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 1: times like and then okay, that lessons done. Now it's 785 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 1: it's learned, you know. But it's kind of like if 786 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 1: if I was like, Hey, I'm gonna I really want 787 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 1: to trage to run a five k, and then I'm like, 788 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 1: do I want to do it now? Or they just 789 00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 1: want to sit on the couch for another year? You know. 790 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: It's kind of like it's gonna wait for you that lesson, 791 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 1: and I don't feel like it's going to be very challenging. 792 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 1: For you. I actually feel like you're gonna feel really 793 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 1: empowered as you own your own light energy. Because let's 794 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: get down to it, the relationship we have with ourself 795 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 1: is the most important one we ever have. Right, So 796 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 1: it's about honoring your light by respecting your boundaries, by 797 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 1: using your voice, by spending your energy and beautiful ways 798 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:26,479 Speaker 1: that honor your highest path. Right. So that's feeling right 799 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,600 Speaker 1: for you, and you want to take that challenge on now? 800 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 1: You will. You'll rock it, You'll ace it, no worries. 801 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 1: So I'll just tell you now, like short, long and 802 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 1: short of, it's a win win either way. An excellent. Well, 803 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: on that note, should we take a little break and 804 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 1: get to some collars. Okay, we're gonna take a quick 805 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 1: break and we'll be right back. And we're back. We're back, 806 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:56,759 Speaker 1: We're back, and this this episode comes to you from Robodescent. Well, 807 00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: our first question comes from Chloe. She says, you're Chelsea. 808 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 1: It's starting to feel like I'm financially cursed with unemployment. 809 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: I've applied to well over a hundred and fifty jobs 810 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,280 Speaker 1: and have only gotten one. Unfortunately, the job I scored 811 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,840 Speaker 1: is a part time freelance gig that doesn't pay well. 812 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,919 Speaker 1: I have a decent resume, or so I thought. I've 813 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 1: done college internships, volunteering, the works. Why won't anyone hire me? 814 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 1: Do I suck that bad? Am? I delusional? What the 815 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: hell is wrong here? I need an honest opinion. Background. 816 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,280 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty year old chick living in l A County. 817 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 1: I have a car, a computer, and a website with 818 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 1: my work. I have a b a in psychology and 819 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,280 Speaker 1: studio art and an m f a in creative writing. 820 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,640 Speaker 1: Graphic design is my passion. Jobs I've been applying to 821 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: include graphic design, copyrighting, copy editing, and editorial. I'm a 822 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 1: phenomenal employee and I love to work. Sincerely, Chloe. Okay, 823 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: Hi Chloe. Hi, Sorry, I'm in my car. Hi. This 824 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: is our special guest today, Laura Lynn Jackson. Hi, Hi Chloe. 825 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good. I just zoomed out on 826 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 1: my stupid minimum wage job for lunch to do this, 827 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,120 Speaker 1: so I'm really excited to see you guys. Oh my god. Okay, 828 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: so tell us about you. What's your problem? You can't 829 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 1: find a job that you like or you can't get hired. 830 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 1: I cannot get hired, and I don't know. I just 831 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 1: don't know what I'm doing wrong. I have a portfolio 832 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:22,239 Speaker 1: of all copyrighting stuff and graphic design. I've gone to 833 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 1: grad school, I've I went to internships, I volunteered. I 834 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 1: feel like on paper, I've checked like every box. But 835 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:35,280 Speaker 1: for some weird reason, I just cannot catch a break. 836 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,799 Speaker 1: I've applied to way more than a hundred jobs, like 837 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,279 Speaker 1: way more. I don't know what I'm doing. And do 838 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,080 Speaker 1: you think it's something that's happening during the interview process. 839 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 1: Maybe I do have bad anxiety, but I've I've been 840 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: prescribed to anxiety meds, so I feel like that's not 841 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 1: a good excuse. But that has been a problem before 842 00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 1: in the past. Yeah, well, maybe that is part of 843 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 1: the problem. I'm sure it's not the whole problem. I mean, 844 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 1: we're in a very difficult time in this country right now. 845 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,439 Speaker 1: Even though everybody needs a job, nobody wants to work. 846 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:10,359 Speaker 1: So there's like this weird crossover of people who are 847 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 1: trying to work and people are actively trying to never 848 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 1: work again. Services all is just such a hot mess 849 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 1: right now. So I mean, I think that probably permeates 850 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,839 Speaker 1: in all aspects of society. But Laura can you take 851 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: a look at her energy and tell us what you see. 852 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 1: Laura's a psychic medium. Oh my gosh. So yeah, yeah, 853 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 1: so she's I've known her for years. She is the 854 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: real deal. So I'm gonna have her help you take 855 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 1: a look at yourself and see what she sees. Is 856 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 1: that okay, clothe to have permission to kind of dive 857 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 1: into your energy a little bit. Yes, absolutely, I mean 858 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm kind of shifting right now, so my aura maybe 859 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: a little know. You have no no, no, you have 860 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 1: a your core or is blue, which means you're here 861 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,320 Speaker 1: really is a teacher and a healer energy for others. 862 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 1: There such kindness in your heart. Yeah, So the first 863 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 1: thing I want to talk to about is harnessing your energy, 864 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 1: your light energy, and creating a blueprint for what your 865 00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,799 Speaker 1: highest dream is in terms of a career. What I'm 866 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,440 Speaker 1: feeling for you energetically, it's like if we had all 867 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 1: this energy and we just started giving it out to 868 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,640 Speaker 1: everybody right a little bit here and there. You're spending 869 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,239 Speaker 1: your energy, but you're not directing it. So have you 870 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: ever sat down with pen and paper or you could 871 00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 1: do this like on the computer or your phone and 872 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,479 Speaker 1: written out your dream job, what you would want, where 873 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:25,200 Speaker 1: it would be, what your job duties would be, what 874 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,280 Speaker 1: it would be doing for you energetically, what your salary 875 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 1: would be. Have you done that yet? No? I haven't, 876 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,120 Speaker 1: but that sounds really fun. Okay, So what's going on 877 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 1: with your energy is you're just scattering it. You're not 878 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 1: valuing your own worth. You're saying, oh my gosh, I'm 879 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: coming from this place of fear and desperation, Give me anything, 880 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 1: does anything totally And you don't need to do that. 881 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,279 Speaker 1: You don't need to do that. You need to decide 882 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:53,280 Speaker 1: for yourself what your vision is for your path going forward. 883 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,840 Speaker 1: If anything you know no holds barred, you could achieve 884 00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 1: anything you want and get whatever job you wanted right now? 885 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 1: What would that be? Can you just describe it to 886 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,880 Speaker 1: me a little, like what energy would you want to 887 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 1: be feeling when you worked, what would your job duties be? 888 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 1: How close would you want it to be? And you 889 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:11,839 Speaker 1: don't have to say it out that, but like, what 890 00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,480 Speaker 1: salary would you want? What benefits would you want? These 891 00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 1: are all things you need to focus on. So what 892 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,600 Speaker 1: do you feel like your light gifts are? Like? What 893 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 1: would you want to explore in your career that you're doing, 894 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: if you could do anything you wanted, well, in a 895 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 1: weird way, I already have my dream job, but it 896 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 1: just doesn't pay. Um My, my totally like ultimate dream 897 00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: would be to be a fashion editor for a magazine, 898 00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 1: and I do that with this little magazine. It's called 899 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: Mared magazine like ship in French, and it's kind of satirical, 900 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 1: but we try to uplift marginalized designers and showcase small 901 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 1: voices like that in the fashion industry. So that really 902 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 1: is my dream editing stuff, art directing, doing a little 903 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 1: graphic design, your little writing. But it's just such a 904 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 1: small thing. There's really no budget, so I just worked 905 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 1: there for free, like for passion. But if that could 906 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 1: pay my bills, that really would be my dream job. 907 00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,440 Speaker 1: Editor at a magazine. That's really really wonderful, And I 908 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 1: think knowing that about yourself is key and what you 909 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,319 Speaker 1: can kind of program to the universe is like, this 910 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 1: is my goal, this is what I want. The thing 911 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:28,040 Speaker 1: is money is really about energy, right, and so working 912 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 1: for free because you're passionate about it, I get that too. 913 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 1: That's like volunteering your energy. But I would say you 914 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,239 Speaker 1: need to have a conversation where with the universe, where 915 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 1: you now say I love doing this, but now I 916 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 1: need this to be able to bring money in for 917 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 1: me to continue it. Right, I would leave that running 918 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 1: in the background, and I would almost say, like, what 919 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 1: else would there be that would allow you to have 920 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,480 Speaker 1: enough time and energy to do your passion project? Allow 921 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: that to kind of build into something greater. Co collaborate 922 00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 1: with the universe by saying, like, lead me to where 923 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to go so that I can continue to 924 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 1: do what I'm passionate about. But in the meantime, show 925 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,320 Speaker 1: me where I'm supposed to be to bring the finances 926 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 1: and to bring the money in. Because I think to 927 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,279 Speaker 1: one of the things when we're not working, right, when 928 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,399 Speaker 1: we were out of work or we can't find a job, 929 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,799 Speaker 1: what I tap into is that feeling of where is 930 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:21,920 Speaker 1: my worth? Feeling kind of desperate and a little bit hopeless. 931 00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,239 Speaker 1: Now that energy stream is going to lead you down 932 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,720 Speaker 1: the drain. Right, we have to embrace that we are worthy, 933 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,120 Speaker 1: we are light filled, and we have purpose. We have 934 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 1: to honor our passions, we have to trust in our path. Right, 935 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 1: But it's also having a conversation with the universe saying, Okay, 936 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 1: bring something to me for right now to help me 937 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: get through this and kind of rebuild my light energy. 938 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 1: So the number one homework assignment for you is to 939 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 1: sit down and to write out I would have two columns. 940 00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,360 Speaker 1: One is about what you're passionate about with fashion and 941 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 1: everything you want to do with that and how you'd 942 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 1: like that to evolve. And the other is the right now, 943 00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 1: what right now job could you get to that you'd 944 00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,120 Speaker 1: bring bringing in money, you can still do what you're 945 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,399 Speaker 1: passionate about and allow that to unfold over time and 946 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,400 Speaker 1: be built into a career. Right, what would the parameters 947 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 1: be and what would you want to do? Because then 948 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,600 Speaker 1: you're directing your energy in a very clear way, and 949 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 1: I want you to embrace that as if it's already happened. 950 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 1: You've already gotten the job. You're already going to be 951 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 1: making the money because the energy you bring to it. 952 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,479 Speaker 1: And especially when we get into manifesting, which is really 953 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: just directing energy and thoughts and co collaborating with the universe, 954 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 1: you have to feel it. You can't be in a 955 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,839 Speaker 1: state of wishing or hoping or waiting, right you have 956 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: to be like this is going to happen for me 957 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,799 Speaker 1: and I'm so excited about it. So getting into that 958 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: joyful space personally for you, I see a seven months 959 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,360 Speaker 1: journey going on. But I think in about three months 960 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: you're going to something good. It's going to come in, 961 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,960 Speaker 1: Like there's gonna be a job that comes in, and 962 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 1: I think you take that, and I think then from 963 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,479 Speaker 1: months three to seven, So we're in three months from now, 964 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 1: we're in December Chin, so like March and then July 965 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 1: will be important for you in terms of getting something 966 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,120 Speaker 1: and then like the universe almost offering you something else. 967 00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: You're asking you another question at the seven month mark. 968 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 1: So this is coming for you no matter what it's like. 969 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,560 Speaker 1: If you were waiting for a plane to arrive and 970 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,320 Speaker 1: you're in the waiting room, are you going to stress 971 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 1: and be anxious the whole time and pace back and forth? 972 00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 1: Are you going to go find like a really good 973 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 1: book or do something creative and fill that space in 974 00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 1: another way? So I think what I'm trying to say 975 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 1: to you is for the next three months, this will happen. 976 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,839 Speaker 1: Build that confidence like trust in the universe, own your light, 977 00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 1: celebrate yourself, do things daily that you say to yourself 978 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:30,799 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of who I am in the world, 979 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: and I really really honor like the gifts I came 980 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,799 Speaker 1: here with in my light, and I'm so excited for 981 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 1: the universe to guide me in my my highest path 982 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 1: into whatever job I'm meant to be doing. And really 983 00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,319 Speaker 1: feel that, and repeat that to yourself, because you are 984 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,719 Speaker 1: so worthy and you're such a gift to this world. 985 00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,200 Speaker 1: Each one of us comes program with our own like 986 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 1: incredible light and gifts and talents. Right is trusting in 987 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 1: that and knowing knowing that about yourself? Okay, thank you? 988 00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, just shifting that in my mind thinking 989 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,239 Speaker 1: it's already coming, and just focus on not being such 990 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:08,839 Speaker 1: a tightly wound ball of desperation. I know I've heard 991 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,840 Speaker 1: people say a rejection can be a redirection, but I 992 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 1: got so many rejections that it kind of had me spinning, like, yes, okay, 993 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 1: I got rejected for graphic design, maybe I'll pivot to copyrighting. 994 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:22,759 Speaker 1: And then it just kind of got me in this 995 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 1: identity crisis. And so what you're telling me to do 996 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:30,400 Speaker 1: is returned to myself, stop spinning my wheels and like 997 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 1: being in this chaotic state and focus on what I 998 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 1: really want instead of what I can be given or 999 00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,879 Speaker 1: something a percent. And I love what you said about 1000 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,319 Speaker 1: rejection because that in and of itself is a soul 1001 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,680 Speaker 1: test you've been faced with and you've been challenged with. 1002 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,799 Speaker 1: So to get through rejection without feeling destroyed by it 1003 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,720 Speaker 1: or less than because of it, to realize, Wow, maybe 1004 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 1: this is redirection or trusting what you said before, Chelsea, 1005 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,280 Speaker 1: that whatever is meant for you is going to find 1006 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 1: you right and trusting at the universe is going to 1007 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:03,200 Speaker 1: dream bigger for you. That you might have the small, 1008 00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,120 Speaker 1: kind of myopic view of what you think you want, 1009 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,080 Speaker 1: but rejection is redirecting you into something greater, you know. 1010 00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 1: So I love that you brought that up, and also 1011 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,560 Speaker 1: to remember the excuse my voice, but to remember that 1012 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,840 Speaker 1: the test of being rejected, if you react to it 1013 00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: the same way each time, then it's going to come 1014 00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:25,000 Speaker 1: around again until you have a different reaction. So once 1015 00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 1: you have the different reaction to being rejected and you 1016 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: do surrender it because you're bigger, trust is in the 1017 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 1: universe and what it has in store for you. I 1018 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,839 Speaker 1: believe the sooner that those things will come to you, 1019 00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 1: and then you can stop learning the lesson of rejection 1020 00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 1: because you've you've nailed it, you know what I mean. 1021 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:44,840 Speaker 1: So don't let that bring you down. Every rejection is 1022 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,480 Speaker 1: bringing you closer to the acceptance that you're looking for. 1023 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,880 Speaker 1: And I can vouch for all of this. When I 1024 00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:54,000 Speaker 1: made the switch to podcasting, I had been doing podcasting 1025 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:57,839 Speaker 1: on my own like you for free, like my passion projects, 1026 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,400 Speaker 1: and I had been in putting out resume after resume 1027 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 1: in the marketing space because that's what I came up doing, 1028 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:08,280 Speaker 1: and I couldn't even get a call back. Like nothing 1029 00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,440 Speaker 1: I did, all the like keywords in your resume and 1030 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,960 Speaker 1: all these different things that did everything right, could not 1031 00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,399 Speaker 1: get a call back. The second I was like, well, 1032 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:17,840 Speaker 1: fuck this, that's not what I want to work in anyway. 1033 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 1: I want to work in podcasting. And I put out 1034 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:24,360 Speaker 1: a podcasting resume. Within two weeks I got a call 1035 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:28,200 Speaker 1: for like my first paid job in podcasting, and it 1036 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:34,480 Speaker 1: was awesome. So this, yeah, and just by looking at you, 1037 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm not a psychic or a medium, but I can 1038 00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 1: tell how wonderful and loving and you have light all 1039 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:45,720 Speaker 1: around you. So just remember that, Okay, remember that you yes, 1040 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: and Chloe, would you be okay if we share your 1041 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 1: website on the show. Oh my gosh, yes please. Okay, 1042 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,400 Speaker 1: her website is in the show notes, so take a 1043 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 1: look at the description. And she's great. Hire her great, awesome, 1044 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,799 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. This is amazing. All three of 1045 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,120 Speaker 1: you are amazing. Thank you you all four of us. Girl, 1046 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Let us know what happens in 1047 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:16,479 Speaker 1: March and July. Okay, I definitely will chuck back. Okay, bye, 1048 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: she's great. I know, I was like, we gotta have 1049 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:24,200 Speaker 1: her on. That's amazing. With Laura specifically, I know, how 1050 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:27,240 Speaker 1: would I have answered that question? If Laura you are amazing? 1051 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 1: That was like the most masterful answer, Like, that's exactly right. 1052 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:34,320 Speaker 1: It's about like once you master that lesson of getting rejected, 1053 00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 1: that's when it frees off the rejection. You're so smart 1054 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,719 Speaker 1: with that. The rejection, Well, I learned it from you. 1055 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,360 Speaker 1: The rejection lesson is the biggest lesson that people have 1056 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 1: the hardest time learning because it is such a childlike 1057 00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:51,359 Speaker 1: feeling rejection, right, it's just never grows up, and it's 1058 00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,799 Speaker 1: so easy to internalize it. You're like, well, this means 1059 00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:55,880 Speaker 1: something's wrong with me, and it's like not at all. 1060 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: Maybe you just need to change direction, or when people say, oh, 1061 00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:08,800 Speaker 1: don't take it personally, it's fuck you personal. Well. Our 1062 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 1: next question comes from Corey. He is twenty nine, and 1063 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:17,480 Speaker 1: he says, Dear Chelsea, I would love some advice on 1064 00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,000 Speaker 1: this guy I'm dating. We've been seeing each other for 1065 00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,839 Speaker 1: about a month. We've spent lots of time together. He's 1066 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 1: met a few of my friends, and we both feel 1067 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,440 Speaker 1: like this has the potential to be serious. Here's the 1068 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,359 Speaker 1: hurdle I'm facing. He moved to the US several months 1069 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,600 Speaker 1: ago and is working on getting citizenship. The paths available 1070 00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 1: to him will either force his visa to expire or 1071 00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:38,320 Speaker 1: require him to go to his home country and reapply. 1072 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,520 Speaker 1: The problem is he's from Kenya, He's gay, and homosexuality 1073 00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,960 Speaker 1: is criminalized there, so that's not a safe option. I've 1074 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,040 Speaker 1: been helping research and provide resources, even connecting him with 1075 00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 1: a friend with a company in his line of work 1076 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: that might sponsor him. But the only option that can 1077 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,840 Speaker 1: provide him help in a timely manner is marriage. He 1078 00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,319 Speaker 1: brought it up as an option, but was adam that 1079 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,080 Speaker 1: me saying no does not affect us dating. He can 1080 00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,760 Speaker 1: find another way if necessary, and wants to pursue whatever 1081 00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:09,359 Speaker 1: we end up being. The thing is, I'm considering doing it. 1082 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm not precious about marriage. Worst case, we can divorce 1083 00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 1: within a couple of years and it won't affect his immigration, 1084 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,920 Speaker 1: and I can get some additional financial security in the 1085 00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,160 Speaker 1: form of a dowry, which is common in his culture. 1086 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,560 Speaker 1: Best case, we stayed together for a long time. I 1087 00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,919 Speaker 1: really care about this guy, and he seems to feel 1088 00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 1: the same way. I feel pretty grounded as I'm considering 1089 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,319 Speaker 1: this option, but there's still that fear that maybe I've 1090 00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 1: got some rose colored classes on what advice do you 1091 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,440 Speaker 1: have for the swacky scenario? I'd love to hear some 1092 00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: new perspectives. Thanks, Corey, Hi, Corey, Hi, Chelsea, Hi, Katherine, 1093 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:46,479 Speaker 1: and Laura Lynn Jackson here, who's the psychic medium. She's 1094 00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 1: here today as our special guest. Hi, Lauren's awesome to 1095 00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 1: meet you. Okay, so you've been you've been dating a 1096 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 1: Kenyan guy for one month? Yeah, a little over a 1097 00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,680 Speaker 1: month at this point. Huh. And if you were to 1098 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 1: get me married to him, and it's great that you're 1099 00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 1: not precious about getting married. I am also not like 1100 00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,480 Speaker 1: if I could do somebody a favor, I would I 1101 00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: would be more likely to do it if we weren't 1102 00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 1: romantically involved than if we were, because that way it's 1103 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:14,640 Speaker 1: understood in the beginning. And the only concern I would 1104 00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 1: have for you is I don't want you to get, 1105 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,719 Speaker 1: you know, duped into something or have expectations of a 1106 00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,879 Speaker 1: relationship that may not work out, and you know, may 1107 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:24,719 Speaker 1: And I think if you go into it for the 1108 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,319 Speaker 1: right reasons, knowing that this could go either way and 1109 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: that you're just basically trying to help somebody, but I 1110 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 1: think there also has to be a real like groundwork 1111 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 1: of laying the foundation for the parameters of that relationship 1112 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:39,759 Speaker 1: before you enter into it, right. Yeah, And we've talked 1113 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 1: about that a little bit because when it was first 1114 00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 1: brought up, like, he hasn't pressured me at all, which 1115 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 1: I appreciate, And it was very much like, if we 1116 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:48,719 Speaker 1: don't do it, we're still going to date. It's not 1117 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:52,239 Speaker 1: gonna affect anything. But I was asking questions, like what 1118 00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,440 Speaker 1: happens then if we move in together, which we probably would, 1119 00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,839 Speaker 1: and like what that would look like any serves specific boundaries, 1120 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,600 Speaker 1: and we kind of just thought about just dating as 1121 00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 1: if we're new boyfriends instead of pretending we're doing this 1122 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,239 Speaker 1: whole marriage thing, like be married in paperwork, but then 1123 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:12,799 Speaker 1: kind of everything else just be like a relationship. Okay, well, 1124 00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to have Laura take a look at you 1125 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,920 Speaker 1: and see what she sees about this situation. Okay, A 1126 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,640 Speaker 1: couple of things. First of all, I keep seeing him 1127 00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,879 Speaker 1: go back and then return to the US and three months. 1128 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,080 Speaker 1: So even though you're saying, oh, hey, this is the 1129 00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,280 Speaker 1: only path and this is that's not what I'm seeing. 1130 00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:30,840 Speaker 1: So what kind of scenario would it be where he 1131 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,279 Speaker 1: would go back and then return within a three month 1132 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:36,600 Speaker 1: period but be here for a long time after that. Yeah, 1133 00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:39,200 Speaker 1: it's certainly not the only path. We've talked about. A 1134 00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,080 Speaker 1: couple of things. The biggest issue with him going back 1135 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:44,399 Speaker 1: to Kenya is that they're being gay is illegal, any 1136 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: risks potentially being thrown in jail. But a big thing too, 1137 00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,560 Speaker 1: is just any other path forward, like if you get 1138 00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:56,000 Speaker 1: sponsored for citizenship or even applies for asylum. It takes 1139 00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 1: years to get to the point where he's legally able 1140 00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,719 Speaker 1: to work or gets AiZ in ship. And that's kind 1141 00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:05,440 Speaker 1: of why the marriage is potentially an option, just because 1142 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 1: everything else takes so long. So is there any scenario 1143 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:10,239 Speaker 1: where he would go back, reapply for a visa, and 1144 00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:11,960 Speaker 1: be back here in three months. I don't know why 1145 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,719 Speaker 1: I keep seeing this, um it's a possibility. I don't 1146 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,120 Speaker 1: know if it would be three months. His current visa 1147 00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 1: expires in February. That's about three months, But I don't 1148 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 1: know how long if you went back to Kenya and reapplied, 1149 00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,840 Speaker 1: I have no idea how long that would take. If 1150 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,360 Speaker 1: his visa expires in three months, then what happens. He 1151 00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,240 Speaker 1: doesn't have to go back to Kenya to re establish it. 1152 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,520 Speaker 1: He could do that from me or it depends. So 1153 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:38,000 Speaker 1: once his visa expires, if he doesn't have an approved 1154 00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:41,920 Speaker 1: sponsorship through employment or or any other way, or like 1155 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:45,200 Speaker 1: if you did asylum, the processing times for those take 1156 00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 1: longer than three months, so he would end up being 1157 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 1: in here in the country illegally. Basically nice, Okay, It's 1158 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 1: interesting because I feel like you're there are two different 1159 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 1: paths we're looking at here. One is like the logical, 1160 00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:01,800 Speaker 1: practical path, and then the other is a spiritual emotional path. Right, 1161 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 1: So when I look at his energy too, he feels 1162 00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,360 Speaker 1: like he feels very gentle, like he has a very 1163 00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: open heart. I feel like this scenario could sound shady 1164 00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:12,400 Speaker 1: if you will, but when I look at his energy, 1165 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,640 Speaker 1: I don't feel like he's shady. I'm going to say that. 1166 00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:18,480 Speaker 1: I feel like he's just very loving. That said, you know, 1167 00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,280 Speaker 1: even if you were to get married on paper, that's 1168 00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:25,000 Speaker 1: that's like a logical paper type of thing. The spiritual 1169 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:27,560 Speaker 1: and emotional journey for you too, it's gonna make it 1170 00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 1: more challenging. I'm just gonna be honest in that sense, 1171 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: because it's like putting the cart before the horse. But 1172 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,480 Speaker 1: it would make a really great movie, you know, like 1173 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,920 Speaker 1: these two people get married and then we see what happens, 1174 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 1: and then like the real romance happens and all that. 1175 00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:42,920 Speaker 1: But that said, I keep getting the sense that the 1176 00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,360 Speaker 1: way this is being presented, and I do not know 1177 00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,479 Speaker 1: much about immigration law and visas and how this works, 1178 00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:51,840 Speaker 1: so I'm just going on my downloads. What you keep saying. 1179 00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 1: I feel like there's a third option, Like we're creating 1180 00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 1: a false scenario, like it's either this or that, Like, 1181 00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,680 Speaker 1: but there's there's a middle ground where it's like you 1182 00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:01,960 Speaker 1: don't have to get married. I don't know if it's 1183 00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 1: that you get engaged and he comes back or what 1184 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,800 Speaker 1: that is, but I feel like it doesn't have to 1185 00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 1: be that extreme, so to speak. If you wanted to 1186 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 1: do because of logical reasons for him get married, what 1187 00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:15,600 Speaker 1: I would say to you is, I see a lot 1188 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 1: of other background paperwork that you need to do to 1189 00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:21,720 Speaker 1: inform yourself for the legalities of that. For what that 1190 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,400 Speaker 1: would mean about, I don't know, like if you have 1191 00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:29,640 Speaker 1: like a work environment and your your salary, your benefits, 1192 00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,360 Speaker 1: like there's a whole lot more involved, is what I'm seeing. 1193 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 1: But I really feel like there's this third path where 1194 00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,080 Speaker 1: it's like he goes there and comes back, but we 1195 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,080 Speaker 1: haven't forced a marriage quite yet. You know. I do 1196 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,840 Speaker 1: like your energy together, but I think that there's like 1197 00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:44,960 Speaker 1: an eight month path ahead of the two of you 1198 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,240 Speaker 1: where you won't really have a sense of each other 1199 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 1: or really understand like is this what I want for myself? 1200 00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:52,520 Speaker 1: And or can we work around these little obstacles for 1201 00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:54,960 Speaker 1: eight months? So it's going to take another eight months 1202 00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,440 Speaker 1: for you to look at each other and be like, Okay, 1203 00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:00,120 Speaker 1: now we have to either sign this spiritual agreement going 1204 01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,640 Speaker 1: to be together, or we've learned enough and we want 1205 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 1: to stay friends or go our separate ways. So if 1206 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,120 Speaker 1: you get married now, right eight months from now, you're 1207 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,640 Speaker 1: still going to have that same scenario, and you just 1208 01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:13,800 Speaker 1: need to be energetically, emotionally, spiritually prepared for that. Yeah, 1209 01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,960 Speaker 1: that makes sense because I've I've researched all the stuff, 1210 01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:20,160 Speaker 1: all the different paths to legality, and the biggest issue 1211 01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:21,800 Speaker 1: is just the fact that everything takes so much time, 1212 01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 1: and he could go back. That is a possibility, but 1213 01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 1: I'm not entirely clear on how that would all work either, 1214 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,200 Speaker 1: and have to research that more. Yeah, I do think 1215 01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:31,960 Speaker 1: there's a third path, and it's like less intense than marriage, 1216 01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 1: but it is. It is maybe like a connection with 1217 01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:36,240 Speaker 1: you or maybe an engagement or something like that. Did 1218 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 1: you guys just meet totally like on your own, like 1219 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,360 Speaker 1: nobody introduced you. Yeah, we met on a dating we 1220 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,360 Speaker 1: started dating, and like he's met a couple of my 1221 01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:47,560 Speaker 1: friends and they all really like him. He's even told, 1222 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,120 Speaker 1: you know, a couple of my friends how much he 1223 01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 1: likes me. So like, I don't feel like like what 1224 01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:54,800 Speaker 1: you said, I don't think it's shady at all. It's not. 1225 01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:56,880 Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like it should be right, but 1226 01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:00,720 Speaker 1: the energy it is oddly not. And like he hasn't 1227 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:02,800 Speaker 1: been pressuring, And I've been seeing what he's been doing 1228 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:06,480 Speaker 1: to get citizenship outside of the potential of getting married. 1229 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:10,120 Speaker 1: He's gotten like kissing an a license because he works 1230 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,320 Speaker 1: in the medical field, and he's been like doing all 1231 01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 1: these classes and stuff so that when he can start working, 1232 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,960 Speaker 1: he can immediately jump right into it and get a job. So, 1233 01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,680 Speaker 1: like I'm seeing him do all this other stuff, maybe 1234 01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:23,760 Speaker 1: one of those other things will pan out into a 1235 01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 1: pathway of citizenship. Right one of these jobs. Is that 1236 01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 1: a possibility. The biggest issue with that is that the 1237 01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 1: paperwork takes so long. He could get sponsored for employment, 1238 01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,480 Speaker 1: but that takes up to a year for anything to 1239 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:39,600 Speaker 1: actually come of it. Well, I mean maybe it's like 1240 01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 1: he goes back after that, you know, when his visa 1241 01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 1: is about to expire, and then you guys do the 1242 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:48,640 Speaker 1: visa process, the ninety day thing that we all love 1243 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 1: on television. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, I'm so glad you 1244 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:55,280 Speaker 1: said he's not shady, because my immediate thought is, like, 1245 01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:57,600 Speaker 1: you know, the one thing to be careful about is 1246 01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:01,080 Speaker 1: your responsible for anything he does. So if he runs up, 1247 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,360 Speaker 1: you know, fifty dollars of credit card debt like that 1248 01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:07,240 Speaker 1: falls to you if you guys are legally connected there. Yeah, 1249 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,360 Speaker 1: but I like that you said. I mean, it sounds 1250 01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:12,480 Speaker 1: like it should be shady, but it's oddly not, so 1251 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm actually really surprised. One. I mean, everybody wants to 1252 01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:18,400 Speaker 1: become a citizen of the United States, isn't shady. I mean, 1253 01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,080 Speaker 1: it's just a natural you know, it's a natural thing 1254 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:22,480 Speaker 1: to want to do when you live in a country 1255 01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:26,920 Speaker 1: that denounces gay people, even though we also open one. 1256 01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,960 Speaker 1: But it's separate, separate issues. But yeah, I think what 1257 01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,080 Speaker 1: Laura said is great. You know, maybe there is just 1258 01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:36,040 Speaker 1: keep researching and do all of that kind of research 1259 01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:39,000 Speaker 1: you can to see what the other avenues are, because 1260 01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:40,960 Speaker 1: there are so many things that none of us know 1261 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,280 Speaker 1: about until we dive deep into a topic. Yeah, totally. 1262 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,240 Speaker 1: And I've done a lot of researchs already, which is 1263 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:48,600 Speaker 1: partially I'm even considering it, just because everything that I've 1264 01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:51,800 Speaker 1: looked at take so long and still complicated. Just to 1265 01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:55,000 Speaker 1: get like the bare minimum for immigrants in the country, 1266 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:58,560 Speaker 1: it's really quite ridiculous. But he's chat with an immigration 1267 01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:01,760 Speaker 1: lawyer and it's working on that. So there's definitely more 1268 01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: research that needs to be done. I think, Well, and 1269 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:07,360 Speaker 1: it's also great that you're open minded to this, you know. Yeah, 1270 01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 1: I also feel like there's great bravery in him that 1271 01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:11,960 Speaker 1: he came here, and I also feel like being the 1272 01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:15,640 Speaker 1: psychic medium, I don't try to read mediumistically, but sometimes 1273 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,240 Speaker 1: it leads through. There's like a I think a grandmother 1274 01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,240 Speaker 1: figure for him on the other side, who's very much 1275 01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:23,120 Speaker 1: watching over and protecting him and guided him to you. 1276 01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,680 Speaker 1: And I didn't mean to imply in any way that 1277 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 1: wanting citizenship with Shady that is not what I meant. 1278 01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:30,480 Speaker 1: Like you think somebody on a dating happen, I have 1279 01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:32,880 Speaker 1: to get married or you're gonna lose me forever, That's right, 1280 01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,640 Speaker 1: But it's like I feel like you two were brought together. Actually, 1281 01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 1: you know, I think the universe brings people into our 1282 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,760 Speaker 1: paths and that offer us great opportunities to love and 1283 01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:43,600 Speaker 1: be loved. And that's how this feels to me. So 1284 01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,520 Speaker 1: it's it's really beautiful. Yeah. I feel really good around 1285 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:49,959 Speaker 1: him and about him, which is why you know, I'm 1286 01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,080 Speaker 1: considering this because I've dated lots of shitty people in 1287 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 1: the past, and I like to think I'm a pretty 1288 01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,480 Speaker 1: good judge of ch character. But just like talking to 1289 01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:00,680 Speaker 1: him and how he's interacted with my ends and the 1290 01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,160 Speaker 1: conversations we have, Like I just feel really good about it, 1291 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:08,480 Speaker 1: so help. Yeah, well that's good. Trust yourself. M Well, 1292 01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 1: let us know if you guys get married, let us know, 1293 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:13,800 Speaker 1: keep us supposed to as to what happens. I will 1294 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:15,400 Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for the advice. It helps 1295 01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:19,720 Speaker 1: a lot. Okay, thank you, take care, Thanks you too, 1296 01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:23,560 Speaker 1: have a great day. Bye bye. It's so funny when 1297 01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,160 Speaker 1: you think about, like like I would totally marry somebody 1298 01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,600 Speaker 1: just to get them a visa. You know, you're so awesome. 1299 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,960 Speaker 1: Was the light worker in you? Because you profoundly changed 1300 01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,880 Speaker 1: someone else's life just but I would, and I would 1301 01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:36,840 Speaker 1: be like, we don't ever have to talk again. You know, 1302 01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:39,320 Speaker 1: it's hilarious. I mean, if I'm going to marry somebody, 1303 01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:41,320 Speaker 1: that's a more decent reason to do it. Well. And 1304 01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:43,760 Speaker 1: even the year thing where he was saying like, oh, 1305 01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:45,640 Speaker 1: within a year, he'll have his green card and everything. 1306 01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 1: I know a couple that was like very much quote 1307 01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,440 Speaker 1: unquote in love, but they were super toxic, fought all 1308 01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,200 Speaker 1: the time. He was horrible, like the whole thing. But 1309 01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,720 Speaker 1: she was from Canada and took her five years to 1310 01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,840 Speaker 1: finally get her green card. So like this year thing like, yeah, 1311 01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:01,760 Speaker 1: my brother's Mary. He just married someone from the Philippines 1312 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,000 Speaker 1: and he's waiting for her to get her a green card. 1313 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:06,560 Speaker 1: They got married, she was halfway through the process, but 1314 01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,120 Speaker 1: then they got married and she had to change her 1315 01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:12,160 Speaker 1: last name to Handler, and the Filipino culture like you 1316 01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:13,760 Speaker 1: have to do that right away, So then they had 1317 01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 1: to start the visa process over again. I'm like, god, boy, 1318 01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,640 Speaker 1: what are you thinking, Like you did it backwards? So yeah, yeah, 1319 01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,720 Speaker 1: I mean even John Oliver, he was like, I am 1320 01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:27,280 Speaker 1: the best possible scenario. You know, I have every opportunity 1321 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:29,160 Speaker 1: available to me. I have the money to put into this, 1322 01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:32,480 Speaker 1: and it is a nightmarish process, Like just a nightmarish, 1323 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,280 Speaker 1: horrible process. John Oliver roasted me on the show once. 1324 01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:38,440 Speaker 1: What he did he showed a clip from Dr Oz 1325 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 1: where I was saying like, oh, is there a b name? 1326 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,280 Speaker 1: And then he showed that clip and the person's like no. Afterwards, 1327 01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:46,640 Speaker 1: I went like, there was so much more to that 1328 01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:48,480 Speaker 1: and it was accurate, and he was like, look at 1329 01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:51,920 Speaker 1: these fools, look at these fraud psychic mediums. And then 1330 01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:54,240 Speaker 1: people were like, hey, you're on John Oliver last night, 1331 01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 1: but it wasn't for a good reason, and I loved him. 1332 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:01,480 Speaker 1: And then I was like, but by the way, British people, 1333 01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,080 Speaker 1: I do not believe that, you know. They It's just 1334 01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:07,880 Speaker 1: like they don't take medications. Brits are they don't go 1335 01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:15,720 Speaker 1: to therapists. They don't believe in anything. All right, Well, 1336 01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:20,480 Speaker 1: we've got Julia back here. Read her email. She's a chef, 1337 01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:23,280 Speaker 1: by the way, she says. Dear Chelsea, I've lived in 1338 01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:25,320 Speaker 1: l A for four years now, and I've never been 1339 01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 1: completely sold on it. My boyfriend of almost the same 1340 01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 1: amount of time is from here. He's known I've always 1341 01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:34,120 Speaker 1: wanted to move to the Pacific Northwest, but even when 1342 01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,680 Speaker 1: we put a timeline on it, he backed out. I 1343 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,880 Speaker 1: recently reached out to an old boss of mind to 1344 01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:41,000 Speaker 1: put feelers out that I was looking to move back 1345 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,439 Speaker 1: to the area, and she immediately offered me a job. 1346 01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:46,640 Speaker 1: I accepted, hoping it would be incentive for my boyfriend 1347 01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:49,120 Speaker 1: to commit to the move. He doesn't want to go, 1348 01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,600 Speaker 1: but he also doesn't want to lose me, and so 1349 01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:54,160 Speaker 1: as we stand now, he works fifteen hours a day, 1350 01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,400 Speaker 1: mostly six days a week, so I hardly see him 1351 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:58,840 Speaker 1: as it is do I move without him? Or do 1352 01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:01,320 Speaker 1: I stay until he's ready to go if he ever 1353 01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:08,360 Speaker 1: will be Sincerely, Julia, Hi, Julia, Hi, Hello, Hello. Hi. 1354 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:11,240 Speaker 1: Our special guest is Laura Lynn Jackson, who's a good 1355 01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:13,440 Speaker 1: friend of mine and she's a psychic medium, so she's 1356 01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 1: gonna be able to tell you a little bit more 1357 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,320 Speaker 1: about yourself than I will. But I'm just gonna get 1358 01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,560 Speaker 1: say right off the bat, move, do your thing, Do 1359 01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:23,320 Speaker 1: your thing always. Do not wait around for any man. 1360 01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:25,520 Speaker 1: It does not matter. You know, if you're meant to 1361 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:29,440 Speaker 1: be together, you'll be together. True, that's always been in 1362 01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:31,920 Speaker 1: the back of my mind. We are women and we 1363 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,120 Speaker 1: need to be in control of our destiny, you know 1364 01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,200 Speaker 1: what I mean. And it's a good example to set 1365 01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:38,000 Speaker 1: not only for yourself, but all of the women in 1366 01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,720 Speaker 1: your life. And I have a best friend who lives 1367 01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 1: out there, like my closest friend, and she's kind of just, 1368 01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:47,880 Speaker 1: you know, waiting for me to make that move. She 1369 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 1: says the same thing, but it's so much easier said 1370 01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:54,520 Speaker 1: than done. So what's interesting is I really do feel 1371 01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:56,480 Speaker 1: like we are all psychic. And Chelsea, you keep saying 1372 01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,240 Speaker 1: like I'm not a psychic medium, but and then you'll 1373 01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:00,760 Speaker 1: say the exact same things I'm seeing. Right, So, like 1374 01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 1: you are psychics? Are you? We all are? And so 1375 01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:05,880 Speaker 1: are you your psychic to you? And like, that's what 1376 01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:07,560 Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about, is tuning in 1377 01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:11,600 Speaker 1: intuitively to what your polls are. I think we all 1378 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:14,800 Speaker 1: get what I call pulls to do something or act 1379 01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:18,760 Speaker 1: a certain ways sometimes, and quite frankly, they're often completely 1380 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:22,400 Speaker 1: counterintuitive to logically what makes sense in our lives. So, 1381 01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:24,800 Speaker 1: for example, you have a set path right now, you're 1382 01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:27,760 Speaker 1: living in a certain place, you have a relationship. Logically, 1383 01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:30,000 Speaker 1: it might be a little inconvenient to be like I'm 1384 01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:31,680 Speaker 1: going to move and I'm going to go do this. 1385 01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:36,120 Speaker 1: But intuitively, that spiritual part, you're the light part of yourself. 1386 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:38,639 Speaker 1: I feel like you're really you got your own download 1387 01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,360 Speaker 1: and you're getting a pull to move and go do 1388 01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 1: this and that you know that's your highest path. But 1389 01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:46,120 Speaker 1: it's coming out of price, right, because there's risk involved, 1390 01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:49,680 Speaker 1: there's some fear what will this mean for the relationship? Right, 1391 01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:51,599 Speaker 1: But what I'm going to tell you is it's always 1392 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 1: important when making decisions to make a love path choice, 1393 01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:57,439 Speaker 1: not a fear based one. So if you were to 1394 01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:59,879 Speaker 1: say no to this job and not move. It's strictly 1395 01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,320 Speaker 1: out of fear. Fear of what does this mean about 1396 01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:04,559 Speaker 1: me losing my relationship? What if I get there and 1397 01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,240 Speaker 1: I feel insecure, I feel like did I make a mistake. 1398 01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:10,200 Speaker 1: That's all fear based. But if you look at it 1399 01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,679 Speaker 1: in a love based way and see that the universe 1400 01:09:12,800 --> 01:09:16,880 Speaker 1: is guiding you and everything's feeling right and you're being 1401 01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:19,240 Speaker 1: pulled there, you're gonna need to trust in that and 1402 01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:23,040 Speaker 1: act on that. I see you moving, I see so 1403 01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:25,680 Speaker 1: much light about it. I see that it's fantastic. I 1404 01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,360 Speaker 1: feel like the choice here is like the when of it, 1405 01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:31,840 Speaker 1: because I feel like there's already been some stalling, And 1406 01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 1: I really feel like if we go back about a 1407 01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:36,479 Speaker 1: month and a half on your timeline, that's where the 1408 01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:39,639 Speaker 1: opportunity kind of started, or that poll was, and we've 1409 01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:42,280 Speaker 1: got another three months to kind of act on it. 1410 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,360 Speaker 1: But I feel the sooner you can act on it, 1411 01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,320 Speaker 1: the higher you're on your path. But only you can 1412 01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 1: do that. You've got to take a deep breath in 1413 01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:55,080 Speaker 1: and really trust in your light and value yourself over 1414 01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:59,800 Speaker 1: any relationship, and understand that you are of great worthy 1415 01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:03,519 Speaker 1: and us to love and be loved and that not 1416 01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:05,680 Speaker 1: to say that this is a test of the relationship, 1417 01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:08,960 Speaker 1: but it is almost forcing a test. Right, you're going 1418 01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:11,600 Speaker 1: to move because this is your passionate path and you 1419 01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:15,519 Speaker 1: know you're meant to. Let's see how he reacts, you know, 1420 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 1: And it's almost a litmus test because if he is 1421 01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 1: the right person for you, he's going to grow with 1422 01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:24,639 Speaker 1: you and he will come along and you will work 1423 01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,040 Speaker 1: that out. And if not, the universe is going to 1424 01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:30,000 Speaker 1: bring you other people. That's how this works. But it's 1425 01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,360 Speaker 1: trusting in your knowing and trusting in your pull and 1426 01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:34,559 Speaker 1: I've to me, it's like such a clear poll for 1427 01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:38,920 Speaker 1: you to go there. What I've kind of been thinking 1428 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 1: about in the past couple of weeks is maybe it 1429 01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:44,080 Speaker 1: isn't the right time for me to necessarily move there, 1430 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:47,599 Speaker 1: but kind of deciding between whether I should stay in 1431 01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,600 Speaker 1: this relationship and try and make it work or I 1432 01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 1: just try and find somewhere else to live here in 1433 01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:54,679 Speaker 1: l A. Because as much as I don't really love 1434 01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:57,599 Speaker 1: living out here, I do like everything that the bigger 1435 01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,559 Speaker 1: city has to offer, and I love kind of the 1436 01:11:00,600 --> 01:11:03,200 Speaker 1: comfortablelity of the current job I do have. I'm a 1437 01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,120 Speaker 1: private chef and I love working for this family and 1438 01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:10,400 Speaker 1: the the work life balance that I have now. And 1439 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:14,880 Speaker 1: I feel like also moving was more of an ego thing. 1440 01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 1: Him not wanting to move kind of hurt my egos. 1441 01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:20,000 Speaker 1: It's like, Oh, if he loves me, he should want 1442 01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:22,720 Speaker 1: to do this with me. And I understand that it's 1443 01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:25,160 Speaker 1: not that easy of a decision to make. But you're right, 1444 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,400 Speaker 1: if it was something that he wanted to grow and 1445 01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:30,600 Speaker 1: do with me, that would have shown through already. But 1446 01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:32,599 Speaker 1: are you saying you would move somewhere in l a 1447 01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:36,439 Speaker 1: away from your boyfriend? Yeah? Well, what's the purpose of 1448 01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:40,120 Speaker 1: that just to teach him a lesson? No, I guess 1449 01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:44,760 Speaker 1: just like removing myself from the situation and still not 1450 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,840 Speaker 1: having to change every like uproot everything about my life 1451 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:49,800 Speaker 1: just because he doesn't want to grow in the same 1452 01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:52,200 Speaker 1: way as me. Yeah, but I think you're talking about 1453 01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:54,760 Speaker 1: two different things. I think you're you're excited about this 1454 01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:58,400 Speaker 1: other opportunity, right, that's what's driving you, I mean, getting 1455 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:00,479 Speaker 1: if you're not going to take that opportunity city, I 1456 01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:02,960 Speaker 1: don't know what the point is about moving. I mean, 1457 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,200 Speaker 1: what the point would be about moving away within Los Angeles? 1458 01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:10,400 Speaker 1: It sounds like this is an opportunity for growth for you, 1459 01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:14,400 Speaker 1: Like when you're unsure something and you know your gut 1460 01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,559 Speaker 1: is telling you one thing. And it's very clear by 1461 01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:18,439 Speaker 1: your letter and what you said in the beginning that 1462 01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:20,599 Speaker 1: you kind of want to go back your friends. There 1463 01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:23,760 Speaker 1: you have this job opportunity that you sought out that's 1464 01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:26,799 Speaker 1: available for you. I think you should think about growth 1465 01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:29,920 Speaker 1: when you're not sure about your feelings. Just do I 1466 01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,559 Speaker 1: want to grow? Do I want to grow? And that's 1467 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:35,559 Speaker 1: the answer is always yes. And when you grow, things 1468 01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:38,040 Speaker 1: will grow with you or grow away from you, and 1469 01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:40,280 Speaker 1: that's not in your control. But all you can focus 1470 01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 1: on is your own growth. Yeah, and the person I 1471 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:47,320 Speaker 1: would be working for is has been so kind and 1472 01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:49,599 Speaker 1: amazing and it it is a person that I would 1473 01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:53,160 Speaker 1: want to work for. She's just very giving and has 1474 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:56,240 Speaker 1: made me feel very comfortable in making a big change, saying, 1475 01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:58,720 Speaker 1: you know, there's no rush to starting the job, like 1476 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:00,960 Speaker 1: take your time, like of this is a big move, 1477 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:03,639 Speaker 1: and like she seems very excited to have me, so 1478 01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 1: it is worthwhile. I think that, Yeah, make sure you 1479 01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:11,200 Speaker 1: tell her how great that feels. That's somebody who helps 1480 01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:13,559 Speaker 1: you rise, right. I think true power is helping other 1481 01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:15,640 Speaker 1: people find their light and rise in that. Right, we 1482 01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:18,479 Speaker 1: all rise together rather than having power over somebody and 1483 01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 1: being demanding. So to me, it's like who we spend 1484 01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:23,400 Speaker 1: our time with and who we spend our time around 1485 01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:27,439 Speaker 1: matters greatly. We're always absorbing energy, right, So this, this 1486 01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:30,200 Speaker 1: woman sounds phenomenal, and to be around her, and to 1487 01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:33,640 Speaker 1: be around your best friend, it's like such this beautiful, comforting, 1488 01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:36,960 Speaker 1: supportive circle of light. You know. I think for you, 1489 01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:39,719 Speaker 1: what I'm feeling in your energy is this great sense 1490 01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:43,920 Speaker 1: of loss by moving, loss of the relationship, disappointment really 1491 01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:46,960 Speaker 1: in him not wanting to rise to the occasion and 1492 01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 1: move with you. And there's grief that comes with that, 1493 01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:51,519 Speaker 1: and I think it's important to acknowledge that and not 1494 01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 1: hide from it. But it doesn't mean you don't do 1495 01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,599 Speaker 1: it anyway. You know. It's like trusting in your own 1496 01:13:56,680 --> 01:14:00,559 Speaker 1: value and your own light over all things. Yeah, this 1497 01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:04,160 Speaker 1: is the first relationship where I've kind of taken the 1498 01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:08,360 Speaker 1: reins and making decisions that benefit me out of the 1499 01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:10,760 Speaker 1: pain that's come with, you know, things in the relationship. 1500 01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:13,640 Speaker 1: So it is a little daunting, but it's something I 1501 01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:16,680 Speaker 1: just need to do. Yeah, you do good for you, though, 1502 01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:18,960 Speaker 1: I mean, that's really wonderful that you have that self 1503 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:23,120 Speaker 1: reflection and insight to recognize that you've been making changes. 1504 01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:25,760 Speaker 1: And sometimes there are these little small changes with these 1505 01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:30,040 Speaker 1: little voices within ourselves, right that empower us in incredible ways. 1506 01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:31,840 Speaker 1: And it sounds to me like you've been really going 1507 01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 1: through that shift into owning, taking ownership of your path 1508 01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:37,080 Speaker 1: and your light and all those things. And it is 1509 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:40,680 Speaker 1: scary and it can be really overwhelming, but that's what 1510 01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:43,120 Speaker 1: being brave is all about, right. It's like you're still 1511 01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:46,120 Speaker 1: really afraid, but you do it anyway because it feels 1512 01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:50,040 Speaker 1: like the highest path to do it. Yeah, I also 1513 01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:52,439 Speaker 1: just to put a button on it. One of my 1514 01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 1: mentors always talked about your your geographic home, and it 1515 01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:58,880 Speaker 1: may not always be the place where you live, but 1516 01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:03,439 Speaker 1: it's the place that you've almost yourself most alive. And 1517 01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:07,760 Speaker 1: for my mom, it's Arizona. They had my parents have 1518 01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:10,000 Speaker 1: thought about moving there before they had kids, and now 1519 01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:12,439 Speaker 1: they're retiring there nine months of the year and they 1520 01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:15,920 Speaker 1: love it. For my younger brother, it's the Pacific Northwest. 1521 01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:18,920 Speaker 1: And you know, I think if you can live there, 1522 01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:21,559 Speaker 1: that's great, and if not, you've got to visit as 1523 01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:24,200 Speaker 1: much as possible. But I think the path has really 1524 01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:26,840 Speaker 1: opened up for you. It's not like, no, you can't 1525 01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:29,000 Speaker 1: find a job, No, you don't have opportunities. It's like 1526 01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:31,960 Speaker 1: you said, maybe this is for me, and the path 1527 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,000 Speaker 1: is opening up. So I think you have to listen 1528 01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:38,479 Speaker 1: to that. Yeah, and yeah, I've only lived there like 1529 01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:40,439 Speaker 1: the last two years of high school, and I don't 1530 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:42,360 Speaker 1: think it's where I want to settle, but I do 1531 01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,400 Speaker 1: think it's something I just want to go experience and 1532 01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:49,559 Speaker 1: and feel out and just do something different. Okay, we'll 1533 01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:52,120 Speaker 1: keep us posted and let us know how everything goes. Okay, 1534 01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:55,320 Speaker 1: we're on your side. Girl. Thank you, ladies, thank you 1535 01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:59,360 Speaker 1: for taking the time. I appreciate it. Julia by Julia, 1536 01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:04,000 Speaker 1: I by Well, that was great. Another day at the office. 1537 01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:10,760 Speaker 1: You just change lives. Another day, another another dream coming true. Yes, well, 1538 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:15,160 Speaker 1: let's move to our clothes quick break. Okay, right back, 1539 01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:24,040 Speaker 1: we'll take a quick break. Uh uh, we're back. Well, 1540 01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:26,920 Speaker 1: we're back with Laura Lyn Jackson and Chelsea. Laura, do 1541 01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:29,599 Speaker 1: you have any advice you'd like? Do you like can 1542 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:31,880 Speaker 1: I help you with anything? Well, there's so much I 1543 01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:34,680 Speaker 1: really had to like narrow this question you know. So 1544 01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:38,000 Speaker 1: what came to me was to ask you, and it's 1545 01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:40,360 Speaker 1: a question for your listeners to not just me right. 1546 01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,880 Speaker 1: But what I know about you, Chelsea is you're this 1547 01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:45,920 Speaker 1: extraordinary light worker, and you're incredibly brave. And what I 1548 01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:48,320 Speaker 1: also know about you is that every choice you make 1549 01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:51,040 Speaker 1: has a ripple effect into the world because you're teaching 1550 01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:54,680 Speaker 1: others through your actions, and you're teaching others by how 1551 01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:57,880 Speaker 1: you're choosing to embrace your challenges. And the beautiful thing 1552 01:16:57,920 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: about you is how honest you are with everyone about it. 1553 01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:03,600 Speaker 1: So I was really wondering if you could share some 1554 01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:08,840 Speaker 1: advice about how how we find our highest path, like 1555 01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,400 Speaker 1: how you've navigated things to get to a place within 1556 01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,400 Speaker 1: yourself where you have a sense of knowing like this 1557 01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:17,240 Speaker 1: is what I need to do, this is my highest path, 1558 01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:21,160 Speaker 1: Like how did you find that? I think a Well, 1559 01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:24,519 Speaker 1: I'm not lying when I'm saying I've been influenced by 1560 01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:28,439 Speaker 1: people like you, Teachers like you, teachers like my therapist 1561 01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:33,720 Speaker 1: Dance Segal, teachers like Eckartole. I didn't know what that 1562 01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:38,160 Speaker 1: knowing was, that voice was because I think sometimes we 1563 01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:42,000 Speaker 1: get confused between our shadow self and our instinct. So 1564 01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:44,559 Speaker 1: you don't know if that voice is the bad guy 1565 01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 1: or the good guy, right, because we all have that 1566 01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:50,160 Speaker 1: inner voice, but we also have that voice that tells you, 1567 01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:52,840 Speaker 1: like the devil on your shoulder, you're not smart enough, 1568 01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:55,160 Speaker 1: you're not good enough, you're not pretty enough, you're not that. 1569 01:17:55,800 --> 01:17:59,599 Speaker 1: So I think it's really about bifurcating those two things 1570 01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:04,280 Speaker 1: and owing it's not a voice that's inside you, that's 1571 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,280 Speaker 1: a knowing, it's a feeling, it's a gut. When you 1572 01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:09,680 Speaker 1: think about something in the warmth that comes with that 1573 01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:12,920 Speaker 1: inside your stomach or in your chest, where you feel 1574 01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:16,360 Speaker 1: calm and relaxed, that's when you have the knowing and 1575 01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:18,800 Speaker 1: the idea that you're on the right track. And when 1576 01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:23,960 Speaker 1: you have that loud, negative chatter, that repetition is the 1577 01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:27,400 Speaker 1: bad chatter, that kind of telling you you're not good 1578 01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:30,320 Speaker 1: enough or smart enough, or brave enough, or these people 1579 01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,680 Speaker 1: don't like you. That's all the stuff that you have 1580 01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:37,879 Speaker 1: to dismiss. And I've learned personally that identifying the differences 1581 01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:42,040 Speaker 1: between those two feelings, the knowing and the chatter. I 1582 01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:44,479 Speaker 1: know now that the knowing is what I have to trust, 1583 01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:47,200 Speaker 1: and that the chatter gets quiet or the moment I 1584 01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:50,080 Speaker 1: identify it, and I go, oh, that's not the real stuff. 1585 01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:52,639 Speaker 1: Don't listen to that. I think it's so interesting too, 1586 01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,400 Speaker 1: just for everyone who's listening. When you say knowing, you 1587 01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,200 Speaker 1: are like clutching at your gut, like you're pointing to 1588 01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:01,240 Speaker 1: your gut. And when you say chatter, it's like right 1589 01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,519 Speaker 1: next to your had, like in your ear, kind of chatter, 1590 01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:05,640 Speaker 1: like a little mouth. Because we can never get rid 1591 01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:07,840 Speaker 1: of those voices, you know. I was always like, why 1592 01:19:07,880 --> 01:19:10,360 Speaker 1: do I have negative thoughts? Like you know, this is 1593 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:13,280 Speaker 1: a conversation Laura and I had recently. I said, you know, 1594 01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,400 Speaker 1: I want to just I don't want to have negative 1595 01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:17,880 Speaker 1: thoughts about people. I want to wish everyone well. I 1596 01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:20,160 Speaker 1: want even the people that I don't like or that 1597 01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:23,479 Speaker 1: I have difficult relationships with, I want to be thinking 1598 01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:25,640 Speaker 1: good things for them. I don't want to scroll through 1599 01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:28,680 Speaker 1: Instagram and see somebody that I've had a difficult relationship 1600 01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:32,280 Speaker 1: with and and not be happy for a success. That's 1601 01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:33,800 Speaker 1: not how I want to operate. I want to give 1602 01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:36,120 Speaker 1: out good vibes only. And she gave me this great 1603 01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:41,120 Speaker 1: loving kindness meditation, which is I wish you happiness or 1604 01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:43,360 Speaker 1: may you be happy, May you be healthy, May you 1605 01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:45,920 Speaker 1: be safe, May you live a life of ease. And 1606 01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:48,559 Speaker 1: you say it about the person you love the most, 1607 01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:51,760 Speaker 1: you say it about yourself, Then you say it about 1608 01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:53,920 Speaker 1: a mentor, which I say it about you every morning, 1609 01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:56,479 Speaker 1: so I hope you've been feeling it. You said about 1610 01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:58,800 Speaker 1: someone who's had a huge impact on your life, and 1611 01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:01,240 Speaker 1: then you say it about a new real person, and 1612 01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:03,559 Speaker 1: then you say it about somebody you have a difficult 1613 01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,719 Speaker 1: relationship with, and then you say for all your neighbors 1614 01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:09,160 Speaker 1: and the whole world. And she's like, and this is 1615 01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,680 Speaker 1: a way to build great energy around you so that 1616 01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:16,120 Speaker 1: you have like a fort of good vibrations. And that 1617 01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:20,080 Speaker 1: is a game changer. People sucking do it. It is 1618 01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:23,160 Speaker 1: a game changer because even people like you know, when 1619 01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:25,360 Speaker 1: I have to pick the most difficult person, it's always 1620 01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:27,800 Speaker 1: someone different because I've had so many difficult people in 1621 01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:30,760 Speaker 1: my life because I'm so difficult that I'm just like, Okay, 1622 01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:32,439 Speaker 1: who am I going to focus on? And you don't 1623 01:20:32,520 --> 01:20:35,000 Speaker 1: mean it right away, but over time that when you 1624 01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:38,479 Speaker 1: practice this kind for meditation, you do mean it. You 1625 01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:40,879 Speaker 1: do want them to be happy and healthy and peaceful 1626 01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:43,120 Speaker 1: and live a life with ease. You're just not gonna 1627 01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:46,800 Speaker 1: do it together. And that's okay, you know. So yeah, 1628 01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:50,880 Speaker 1: and I think identifying just identifying. You know, I didn't 1629 01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:54,320 Speaker 1: know that those bad thoughts everybody had, everybody has that 1630 01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:56,720 Speaker 1: shadow self that's telling you that, you know, it's the 1631 01:20:56,800 --> 01:20:59,439 Speaker 1: devil on your shoulder. It's the person that is when 1632 01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:01,840 Speaker 1: you're an that says, yeah, you can have another line 1633 01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:03,840 Speaker 1: of cocaine or a hit of crystal math or whatever 1634 01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:06,840 Speaker 1: your thing is. It's not your friend, it's your enemy. 1635 01:21:06,960 --> 01:21:09,320 Speaker 1: But we all have it. And it's just about you 1636 01:21:09,560 --> 01:21:13,360 Speaker 1: managing how to quiet that and how to make louder 1637 01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:21,639 Speaker 1: the knowing. I love that. Yeah, so this is my guru. Now. Yes, Also, 1638 01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:23,640 Speaker 1: this is a great book for anyone you guys, I 1639 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,639 Speaker 1: send this book. I have fifty copies in my house 1640 01:21:26,760 --> 01:21:29,160 Speaker 1: at all times. For anyone who's ever lost a loved one, 1641 01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:32,760 Speaker 1: you want to send them this book, okay. And the 1642 01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:35,000 Speaker 1: books are signs and the light between us as the 1643 01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:38,240 Speaker 1: light between from the universe, well either one, but Signs 1644 01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:40,280 Speaker 1: from the Universe is the one that I send to 1645 01:21:40,439 --> 01:21:43,800 Speaker 1: everybody because it's just yeah, it just gives you a 1646 01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:46,160 Speaker 1: different perspective and it makes you understand that it's just 1647 01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:49,120 Speaker 1: not over when someone's gone, and you can go to 1648 01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:52,280 Speaker 1: Laurel and Jackson dot com to find out about upcoming 1649 01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:55,439 Speaker 1: workshops and gallery readings all that good stuff. Yea, and 1650 01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:58,479 Speaker 1: schedule readings, right, you do personal readings? That could schedule 1651 01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:02,120 Speaker 1: personal readings. Well that's and closed for many years. Okay, 1652 01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:06,280 Speaker 1: so never mind. Sorry, I do them every single week. 1653 01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 1: It's just I'm back Law. That's why I try to 1654 01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:13,439 Speaker 1: do galleries because many people. Okay, we'll edit that part out. 1655 01:22:15,400 --> 01:22:19,360 Speaker 1: We need her available for our v I P s. Well, 1656 01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:21,680 Speaker 1: thank you, Laura Lynn Jackson. I love you so much, 1657 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:24,680 Speaker 1: such an honor being here. I'm being around your light 1658 01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:28,439 Speaker 1: energy and being in conversations filled me up. Thank you 1659 01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:33,679 Speaker 1: so much. Appreciative of you. Right back at you, right okay, girls, 1660 01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:37,720 Speaker 1: So if you'd like advice from Chelsea, just send us 1661 01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:41,519 Speaker 1: an email at Dear Chelsea podcast at gmail dot com. 1662 01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:45,800 Speaker 1: Dear Chelsea is a production of I Heart Radio. Executive 1663 01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:49,439 Speaker 1: produced by Nick Stump, produced by Catherine Law, and edited 1664 01:22:49,479 --> 01:22:51,240 Speaker 1: and engineered by Brad Dickert.