Speaker 1: You had a little something juicy, a little dramatic, something
Speaker 1: to make you feel better about your own dating life.
Speaker 1: Here we are a brand new second date to start
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Speaker 4: in the morning.
Speaker 5: Second date updates.
Speaker 3: If you're a guy and you're out on a first
Speaker 3: date having dinner, what are some possible distractions that could
Speaker 3: derail you that you got to stay away from. Oh
Speaker 3: that's a good question. Like one A rat runs across
Speaker 3: the floor.
Speaker 4: In front of I think alert everyone.
Speaker 3: Pretend you never saw it. It's probably the owner's pet.
Speaker 3: It helps him cook the food. Like in Ratitui, all
Speaker 3: is good.
Speaker 4: Okay, distraction too.
Speaker 3: Let's say the waitress is a little B and L,
Speaker 3: you know, busty and lonely. Do not look at her.
Speaker 3: But she's a B and L. Don't know, you don't
Speaker 3: exactly how do.
Speaker 4: You know she's lonely by looking at Oh.
Speaker 3: You can tell broke. They have that lonely look in
Speaker 3: their eye. You just keep their eyes on the ground
Speaker 3: when you put in your order. And our listener Eric
Speaker 3: had a different type of distraction that he had to
Speaker 3: deal with.
Speaker 4: Let me guess, a busty rat Is.
Speaker 3: It maybe that? Or could it even be worse than
Speaker 3: the ones I mentioned? Possibly? Eric, Welcome to the show man.
Speaker 6: Hey, thanks for taking a call.
Speaker 3: Absolutely well, we'll get to the distraction on your date
Speaker 3: in a second. First, tell us about the girl that
Speaker 3: you met.
Speaker 6: Her name's Vanessa.
Speaker 7: She works in the beauty industry.
Speaker 4: And like she's an esthetician you mean like that?
Speaker 6: Yeah, and she is gorgeous in fact, like I was
Speaker 6: kind of surprised she said yes to the date. Oh,
Speaker 6: and so I thought, you know, I got to turn
Speaker 6: on the charm, so I took her out, okay, and
Speaker 6: I want to take her to the bar and grill Applebee's.
Speaker 4: I love that place.
Speaker 6: It's not it's got really good vibes.
Speaker 3: All right, And how did How was Vanessa when she
Speaker 3: showed up?
Speaker 6: She looked really cute and really friendly and approachable, and
Speaker 6: but the thing happened. Okay, it wasn't a rat or
Speaker 6: any of that. It's like, twenty minutes after we sat down,
Speaker 6: someone walks in to the restaurant.
Speaker 3: Who is it?
Speaker 6: He's my ex girlfriend?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I thought you said there wasn't. What
Speaker 3: are the odds do you just?
Speaker 4: I mean, dang, is it a big restaurant? Can you
Speaker 4: ignore her?
Speaker 6: It's not a big place. And she was with her guy.
Speaker 6: She was with her new guyd when's.
Speaker 2: The last time you saw her?
Speaker 4: Like, has it been years or it's like recent?
Speaker 3: It was about six months okay, okay?
Speaker 6: And then I looked over like like a few minutes later,
Speaker 6: and you know, I'm trying not to look over, but
Speaker 6: I see that she's like sucking down margarita and like
Speaker 6: she's laughing and she's having a great time.
Speaker 3: She's having fun.
Speaker 1: Well you know how it is like when they come
Speaker 1: in and they're doing.
Speaker 4: The extra loud laugh just to like get your.
Speaker 1: Attention, and then I mean, it sucks for you because
Speaker 1: it ruins your whole date. Even if you don't say anything,
Speaker 1: you're distracted, you're no longer fully present for.
Speaker 2: Then, if you mentioned your accident, it sounds like you've
Speaker 2: a lot of drama.
Speaker 3: Yes, but did that come up? Did your date Vanessa
Speaker 3: know that your ex was in the restaurant too?
Speaker 6: I told her, I said, looks like my ex girlfriend
Speaker 6: just came in.
Speaker 3: What was her reaction?
Speaker 7: And she was, I don't know, intrigued, don't look, don't look,
Speaker 7: but she looked anyway, of course, yeah, and she's like,
Speaker 7: oh wow, she's really pretty.
Speaker 6: Like okay, anyway, let's talk about you.
Speaker 4: Why didn't you say let's go find another spot?
Speaker 6: Oh? I offered that, but she was like, no, no, no,
Speaker 6: it's all right, it's right, like we were here first.
Speaker 6: And she had a point.
Speaker 3: If your date wanted to stay through it, then that's
Speaker 3: on her. Were you able to get things back on track?
Speaker 6: Well, that's the thing. I feel like the vibe of
Speaker 6: the day kind of changed from there and like it didn't,
Speaker 6: it did never go back.
Speaker 4: Okay, are you over your ex?
Speaker 6: Well? Yeah, I mean we're not together.
Speaker 3: Question.
Speaker 1: I mean it just I mean, I think that makes
Speaker 1: it even trickier, right, because like maybe Vanessa picked up
Speaker 1: on that.
Speaker 6: Well, that's the thing at the end. I mean, there
Speaker 6: was this thing that happened, that another thing at the
Speaker 6: end of the day. It's like we're walking out, and
Speaker 6: I guess I just wanted to show Vanessa that I
Speaker 6: was sort of like above it all. And and so
Speaker 6: I approached my ex girlfriend's table and I said, hey,
Speaker 6: I hope you have a great night. It was good
Speaker 6: to see you. And I said, your hair looks great.
Speaker 6: And I know, I was like, why would I say that?
Speaker 6: She changed her hair? She changed her hair, and I
Speaker 6: thought I was good and it just came out.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's the part you probably should admit omit
Speaker 3: from the like, did Vanessa hear you compliment your ex
Speaker 3: girlfriend's hair?
Speaker 4: Where was she standing?
Speaker 1: Even she might have like she was really close to me,
Speaker 1: and you didn't introduce Vanessa.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's the baller move, right, Vanessa, this is
Speaker 4: my upgrade.
Speaker 6: I should have done that. I just panicked and I
Speaker 6: was like I just conversated with like three or four
Speaker 6: seconds and then I left. I was out of there.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure you're all flustered now walking Vanessa to
Speaker 1: her car.
Speaker 3: That also looks nice. By the way, what happened when
Speaker 3: you leave?
Speaker 6: We hugged and that was it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but from the way that he's talking about it,
Speaker 3: you can tell that he regrets how we handled the situation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's totally unfortunate.
Speaker 1: Do you think the date would have gone flawlessly if
Speaker 1: your ex hadn't walked into that restaurant?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: It just it sucks did that happened? But it's it's
Speaker 6: of my like, is that of my control? Right now?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that wasn't your fault, Universe, And as long as
Speaker 3: you didn't like go home and post along TikTok or
Speaker 3: Instagram post about seeing your ex and how great she
Speaker 3: looked past it now so that.
Speaker 4: You look pathetic to two women.
Speaker 3: That just was exactly. As long as you didn't do that,
Speaker 3: then we might have a chance to save this for you.
Speaker 3: Please tell us you didn't do that.
Speaker 7: I didn't do that exactly exactly.
Speaker 1: Okay, whatever one of those where we find out something.
Speaker 3: Whatever damage you did to yourself, we're gonna have to
Speaker 3: undo it when we can get you your second date
Speaker 3: update right after this, hold.
Speaker 4: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 3: Let's recap Eric's first date for those of you just joining.
Speaker 3: Eric met a woman named Vanessa for dinner recently. She's
Speaker 3: in the beauty industry, and for the first twenty minutes
Speaker 3: everything was great. It was perfect, conversation was flowing, the
Speaker 3: connection was easy. It was all gravy until Eric's ex's
Speaker 3: girlfriend walked in and sat down with an eyeshot. So
Speaker 3: vibes changed after that.
Speaker 4: And had to admit that his ex was there.
Speaker 3: He did. He was so weird, he told Vanessa. Not
Speaker 3: sure if that was a bad idea or a horrible idea,
Speaker 3: but he did it.
Speaker 4: I mean he had no other choice. The worst idea
Speaker 4: is what happened after.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was on his mind, and that's why right
Speaker 3: before he left, he stopped by his ex's table and
Speaker 3: told her she has nice hair, so great date if
Speaker 3: it was just Eric and his ex. But Vanessa was
Speaker 3: present too and isn't calling him back. I wonder why
Speaker 3: that could be. And as a joke earlier, I said, Eric,
Speaker 3: you didn't post a TikTok about how good your ex
Speaker 3: looked that night, and your answer was not exactly what
Speaker 3: did you post. What does that mean?
Speaker 6: Well, I didn't, I didn't post anything. I just I
Speaker 6: did text my ex one time.
Speaker 4: What did you text her?
Speaker 6: I'm so sorry for the awkward encounter and I didn't
Speaker 6: know what to say.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that's actually not bad.
Speaker 4: Did your ex respond?
Speaker 6: She gave me a thumbs up.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's the sexiest of all the things. You
Speaker 3: could go back.
Speaker 4: She's over it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she doesn't like you unless they were built into
Speaker 3: thumb play. You don't know, Brooke.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 3: Get to that stage of romance. Nobody played thumb wars
Speaker 3: with the jeff Yeah. Definitely don't like any of my
Speaker 3: that I sent to you, because I'll read it in
Speaker 3: a different way. But let's find out what Vanessa thinks.
Speaker 3: I'm going to dial her number and we'll see what
Speaker 3: she has to say.
Speaker 6: You ready, Eric, I'm ready? All right?
Speaker 3: Thumbs up to that. Here we go.
Speaker 6: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hey is this Vanessa? Yes, hey Vanessa, thank you for answering.
Speaker 4: Yes, you sound busy. Sorry, yeah, but who's this?
Speaker 3: We don't want to take up a lot of your time.
Speaker 3: We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the Morning. Okay, good morning, And just to cut right
Speaker 3: to it. We're doing a segment called the Second Date Update,
Speaker 3: trying to help out one of our listeners that you
Speaker 3: went out with recently.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Who, it's a guy named Eric. There's a sweet sounding guy.
Speaker 5: Oh so you like talk to him or whatever. So
Speaker 5: you know what happened.
Speaker 1: Oh, you're right to the point, and I like that
Speaker 1: about Vanessa. There's no sugarcoat anything here.
Speaker 3: All that we know that happened is Eric's X showed
Speaker 3: up in the middle of the date.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I actually honestly think he handled that really well.
Speaker 4: Oh really, Oh that's good. He was worried that he
Speaker 4: was like awkward about it.
Speaker 5: And no, he was one hundred percent honest and upfront
Speaker 5: with me about it, Like, oh, he was really classy.
Speaker 5: He even said I to her to prove that he's
Speaker 5: above all the drama.
Speaker 4: So you were you liked you liked that.
Speaker 5: I thought it was really mature.
Speaker 3: I was not expecting that.
Speaker 1: We thought for sure you were going to say that
Speaker 1: he didn't seem like he was over his X or
Speaker 1: something like that.
Speaker 5: Oh no, he told me some stories and oh my god,
Speaker 5: that woman is a piece of work.
Speaker 1: Whoa Oh oh so he even shared some crazy X stories. Huh,
Speaker 1: so is that what upset you?
Speaker 5: I'm not upset. Where do you keep asking that?
Speaker 4: I meant, like, why you're not calling it back?
Speaker 3: We're trying to figure out what's happened with you since
Speaker 3: the date with Eric?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean so it's like a bend parking lot.
Speaker 5: But I stayed because I wanted to follow his ex home.
Speaker 3: You what do you mean, just to make sure she
Speaker 3: got home safe?
Speaker 5: Well, no, I I wanted to make sure that what
Speaker 5: happened to Eric didn't happen to the guy that she
Speaker 5: was on a date with.
Speaker 4: Wait, what happened to Eric? What was his story?
Speaker 5: Well, it's his story, so I don't really want to
Speaker 5: share it, but like, it sounds like she traumatized him.
Speaker 3: Oh, so what happened when you got back to where
Speaker 3: she was going?
Speaker 5: Well, he dropped her off and she kissed him, but
Speaker 5: he did not go inside, and so I went up
Speaker 5: to talk to the guy. So when he went back
Speaker 5: to his car, wait.
Speaker 1: Wait wait, oh okay, your car got out of your
Speaker 1: car approached his car in the dark.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I had to warn him him and I
Speaker 5: was like, what are you doing right now? Do you
Speaker 5: want to grab a drink?
Speaker 6: With me. Wait, what.
Speaker 3: You and this guy out?
Speaker 5: Because I wanted to warn him because like, Eric told
Speaker 5: me all these stories and I needed time. If they
Speaker 5: weren't stories, I could just tell him on the streets.
Speaker 4: You just met Eric. You don't know what's true, what's
Speaker 4: not true. It's a one sided story, like total Eric's
Speaker 4: still alive. It's not like you're saving someone's life.
Speaker 3: Like, wait, so what happened when you went out and
Speaker 3: talked to the other guy.
Speaker 5: I told him all the things about why they broke
Speaker 5: up and how she's a big time manipulator, and he
Speaker 5: was kind of like maybe I can kind of see
Speaker 5: those signs or whatever. This was like I think their
Speaker 5: second date.
Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, person, I guess.
Speaker 5: I mean, I've been talking to Eric for like a
Speaker 5: week or so before our date, and he's seen like
Speaker 5: a trustworthy guy, and I absolutely believed him. And so
Speaker 5: you've got to trust some people out there.
Speaker 3: Sure, Sure, for some reason, Brooke doesn't trust our own listener,
Speaker 3: who just happens to be on the line right now,
Speaker 3: quietly listening in on this phone call.
Speaker 1: I bet he is speechless right now, because yeah, he
Speaker 1: is there.
Speaker 3: Actually, Vanessa on the phone right now who is Eric?
Speaker 5: Eric?
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I like sneak up on you, Vanessa, but like,
Speaker 6: what why?
Speaker 5: Why did you?
Speaker 6: Why would you follow?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 5: I mean? You know the stories you told me. I
Speaker 5: had to save this guy from going through what you
Speaker 5: went through.
Speaker 3: WHOA wow.
Speaker 6: I didn't ask you to do that, No you didn't.
Speaker 5: But I feel like I needed to give him the
Speaker 5: hats up.
Speaker 6: Well I was trett to be honest with you, and
Speaker 6: now I feel like this could go back on me.
Speaker 3: Yes, how Eric, we need how Jeb?
Speaker 4: Of course, the ex girlfriend's gonna find out about this.
Speaker 5: No, he will not hear from her. I made him
Speaker 5: promise not to tell her anything. He stopped going on
Speaker 5: dates with her.
Speaker 3: But the woman we've never spoken.
Speaker 4: What did your ex do that was so awful?
Speaker 6: We're on the radio. I'm not going to.
Speaker 5: Say that, but like, you telling me this stuff on
Speaker 5: our date is pretty much giving me permission to go
Speaker 5: and tell this guy.
Speaker 6: So it would be permission if you told me we're
Speaker 6: going to do that and then I said yes, that
Speaker 6: would be permission.
Speaker 5: That's what permission is. He had already left though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Superman doesn't ask for permission to save somebody's life.
Speaker 3: When they're in danger.
Speaker 1: He okay, But Eric, honestly, was this guy in any
Speaker 1: danger because of your ex.
Speaker 6: I don't think he was in danger.
Speaker 3: That's exactly what you said when you started to date her.
Speaker 3: Bro It wouldn't it have been nice if at the
Speaker 3: start of your last bad relationship Vanessa had come up
Speaker 3: to you on eight number two and been like, look,
Speaker 3: this girl is bad news for you. She is going
Speaker 3: to hurt you, and she would have been right.
Speaker 6: I mean maybe, yeah. It was a pretty bad ending,
Speaker 6: and I guess that could have been good.
Speaker 3: See, clearly she has a heart of gold and wants
Speaker 3: to save men from terrible women. But I think we're
Speaker 3: missing the family.
Speaker 5: She's happy.
Speaker 3: If I'm just summarizing what I think.
Speaker 1: I'm hearing it, it's not like a flaring red flag
Speaker 1: that she's following strangers night with her car and inter relationship.
Speaker 4: She knows nothing about.
Speaker 3: Okay, Tomato, tomadel Broke, I pretty much said the exact
Speaker 3: same thing. We're avoiding the main question here, and that's Vanessa.
Speaker 3: Why aren't you talking to Eric since that night?
Speaker 5: Well, I was focusing on making sure that this guy
Speaker 5: was okay.
Speaker 1: The other guy, have you got him more than one
Speaker 1: hangout with this guy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, of course he didn't believe me at the start,
Speaker 5: So like, I went to talk to him again during.
Speaker 6: The dayting So you are my ex girlfriend's new boyfriend.
Speaker 5: Eric, they went on two dates. That's not a boyfriend.
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't be crazy. She ended it for him.
Speaker 3: It's right, right, she's not seeing him, she's warning him.
Speaker 5: In fact, I'm seeing him again tonight and I'm gonna
Speaker 5: warn him for a third time.
Speaker 1: Who wait a minute, sounds like he's enjoying the warning.
Speaker 6: This. This doesn't sound right.
Speaker 7: There's something off here.
Speaker 4: You go with your gut, Eric, you're right.
Speaker 3: The thing that's off is that I haven't offered to
Speaker 3: send you to out on another date. Thank you for
Speaker 3: reminding me, Eric, because we would love to put up
Speaker 3: however much money it takes to get YouTube back together
Speaker 3: for one more meet up. I guess I should ask Vanessa,
Speaker 3: what do you think?
Speaker 5: Listen, Eric, my focus right now is in this other guy,
Speaker 5: and once you one percent believes me not to go
Speaker 5: out with your accent, I will focus on you.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know, Vanessa.
Speaker 3: Well, we're out of time, and it's sounding like it's
Speaker 3: a no for Eric. So instead the gift cards are
Speaker 3: going to Vanessa and the dude that she followed home
Speaker 3: to save from dating your ex girlfriend. Ye. I don't
Speaker 3: think I've ever said those words in my entire life,
Speaker 3: but I'm glad that I get to today because at
Speaker 3: least it gives Jose hope that someday a woman might
Speaker 3: follow him home without asking. Oh yeah, that has to
Speaker 3: be how it goes down, so romantic.
Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: I would not be surprised if Vanessa hangs around that
Speaker 3: woman's apartment all next week. She might even move into
Speaker 3: the building with her, just to warn any future dudes
Speaker 3: that she stops by with don't date her. She's crazy.
Speaker 3: Trust me, I would know.
Speaker 4: We don't ask.
Speaker 1: She did sound busy when we first called her, like
Speaker 1: she could have just actually been in her car outside
Speaker 1: of her apartment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just scoping out the place, ready to save any
Speaker 3: dudes from their own demise. It could get worse, like
Speaker 3: if the other girl sees her, then she's gonna start
Speaker 3: following her. Eventually they're gonna stock each other.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I.
Speaker 4: Feel like he needs to call his X and warn her.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Always good when a crazy girl says, you know that
Speaker 3: other girl is crazier than me. Yeah, look out, but
Speaker 3: there's a whole podcast full of crazy people going on
Speaker 3: even crazier dates. It's ours, Yeah, so go fight. You'll
Speaker 3: feel a little bit less crazy when you find us
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