WEBVTT - Second Date Update: An Ex Walks Into A Bar

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<v Speaker 1>You had a little something juicy, a little dramatic, something

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<v Speaker 1>to make you feel better about your own dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we are a brand new second date to start

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<v Speaker 1>your Friday. And before we get to it, always comment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, since Salima said, Hey, Brook, jeff Jose, Alexis and

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<v Speaker 2>everyone else, I just wanted to say that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are my primary source of entertainment when I'm playing on

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<v Speaker 2>my PS four I love from Egypt.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. Yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>You think you can see the pyramids from her house?

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<v Speaker 4>Probably not. That's a funny, dumb question.

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<v Speaker 2>You mean, it's just a bad Brook, Come on, not

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<v Speaker 2>traveled enough.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to be, though, so we'll come visit soon.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, there it is? Yeah, okay, all right here

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<v Speaker 4>regard it. Let's get this show started. Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're a guy and you're out on a first

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<v Speaker 3>date having dinner, what are some possible distractions that could

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<v Speaker 3>derail you that you got to stay away from. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>that's a good question. Like one A rat runs across

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<v Speaker 3>the floor.

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<v Speaker 4>In front of I think alert everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretend you never saw it. It's probably the owner's pet.

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<v Speaker 3>It helps him cook the food. Like in Ratitui, all

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<v Speaker 3>is good.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, distraction too.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's say the waitress is a little B and L,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, busty and lonely. Do not look at her.

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<v Speaker 3>But she's a B and L. Don't know, you don't

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<v Speaker 3>exactly how do.

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<v Speaker 4>You know she's lonely by looking at Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>You can tell broke. They have that lonely look in

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<v Speaker 3>their eye. You just keep their eyes on the ground

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<v Speaker 3>when you put in your order. And our listener Eric

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<v Speaker 3>had a different type of distraction that he had to

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<v Speaker 3>deal with.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me guess, a busty rat Is.

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<v Speaker 3>It maybe that? Or could it even be worse than

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<v Speaker 3>the ones I mentioned? Possibly? Eric, Welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, thanks for taking a call.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely well, we'll get to the distraction on your date

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<v Speaker 3>in a second. First, tell us about the girl that

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<v Speaker 3>you met.

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<v Speaker 6>Her name's Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 7>She works in the beauty industry.

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<v Speaker 4>And like she's an esthetician you mean like that?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and she is gorgeous in fact, like I was

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<v Speaker 6>kind of surprised she said yes to the date. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>and so I thought, you know, I got to turn

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<v Speaker 6>on the charm, so I took her out, okay, and

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<v Speaker 6>I want to take her to the bar and grill Applebee's.

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<v Speaker 4>I love that place.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not it's got really good vibes.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, And how did How was Vanessa when she

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<v Speaker 3>showed up?

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<v Speaker 6>She looked really cute and really friendly and approachable, and

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<v Speaker 6>but the thing happened. Okay, it wasn't a rat or

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<v Speaker 6>any of that. It's like, twenty minutes after we sat down,

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<v Speaker 6>someone walks in to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Who is it?

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<v Speaker 6>He's my ex girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I thought you said there wasn't. What

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<v Speaker 3>are the odds do you just?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, dang, is it a big restaurant? Can you

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<v Speaker 4>ignore her?

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<v Speaker 6>It's not a big place. And she was with her guy.

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<v Speaker 6>She was with her new guyd when's.

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<v Speaker 2>The last time you saw her?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, has it been years or it's like recent?

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<v Speaker 3>It was about six months okay, okay?

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<v Speaker 6>And then I looked over like like a few minutes later,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know, I'm trying not to look over, but

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<v Speaker 6>I see that she's like sucking down margarita and like

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<v Speaker 6>she's laughing and she's having a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>She's having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you know how it is like when they come

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<v Speaker 1>in and they're doing.

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<v Speaker 4>The extra loud laugh just to like get your.

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<v Speaker 1>Attention, and then I mean, it sucks for you because

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<v Speaker 1>it ruins your whole date. Even if you don't say anything,

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<v Speaker 1>you're distracted, you're no longer fully present for.

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<v Speaker 2>Then, if you mentioned your accident, it sounds like you've

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of drama.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but did that come up? Did your date Vanessa

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<v Speaker 3>know that your ex was in the restaurant too?

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<v Speaker 6>I told her, I said, looks like my ex girlfriend

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<v Speaker 6>just came in.

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<v Speaker 3>What was her reaction?

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<v Speaker 7>And she was, I don't know, intrigued, don't look, don't look,

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<v Speaker 7>but she looked anyway, of course, yeah, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 7>oh wow, she's really pretty.

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<v Speaker 6>Like okay, anyway, let's talk about you.

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't you say let's go find another spot?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh? I offered that, but she was like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 6>it's all right, it's right, like we were here first.

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<v Speaker 6>And she had a point.

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<v Speaker 3>If your date wanted to stay through it, then that's

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<v Speaker 3>on her. Were you able to get things back on track?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, that's the thing. I feel like the vibe of

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<v Speaker 6>the day kind of changed from there and like it didn't,

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<v Speaker 6>it did never go back.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, are you over your ex?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? Yeah, I mean we're not together.

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<v Speaker 3>Question.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it just I mean, I think that makes

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<v Speaker 1>it even trickier, right, because like maybe Vanessa picked up

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<v Speaker 1>on that.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, that's the thing at the end. I mean, there

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<v Speaker 6>was this thing that happened, that another thing at the

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<v Speaker 6>end of the day. It's like we're walking out, and

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<v Speaker 6>I guess I just wanted to show Vanessa that I

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<v Speaker 6>was sort of like above it all. And and so

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<v Speaker 6>I approached my ex girlfriend's table and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>I hope you have a great night. It was good

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<v Speaker 6>to see you. And I said, your hair looks great.

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<v Speaker 6>And I know, I was like, why would I say that?

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<v Speaker 6>She changed her hair? She changed her hair, and I

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<v Speaker 6>thought I was good and it just came out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well that's the part you probably should admit omit

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<v Speaker 3>from the like, did Vanessa hear you compliment your ex

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend's hair?

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<v Speaker 4>Where was she standing?

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<v Speaker 1>Even she might have like she was really close to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't introduce Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's the baller move, right, Vanessa, this is

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<v Speaker 4>my upgrade.

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<v Speaker 6>I should have done that. I just panicked and I

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<v Speaker 6>was like I just conversated with like three or four

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<v Speaker 6>seconds and then I left. I was out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure you're all flustered now walking Vanessa to

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<v Speaker 1>her car.

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<v Speaker 3>That also looks nice. By the way, what happened when

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<v Speaker 3>you leave?

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<v Speaker 6>We hugged and that was it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but from the way that he's talking about it,

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<v Speaker 3>you can tell that he regrets how we handled the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, it's totally unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think the date would have gone flawlessly if

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<v Speaker 1>your ex hadn't walked into that restaurant?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>It just it sucks did that happened? But it's it's

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<v Speaker 6>of my like, is that of my control? Right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that wasn't your fault, Universe, And as long as

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<v Speaker 3>you didn't like go home and post along TikTok or

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram post about seeing your ex and how great she

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<v Speaker 3>looked past it now so that.

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<v Speaker 4>You look pathetic to two women.

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<v Speaker 3>That just was exactly. As long as you didn't do that,

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<v Speaker 3>then we might have a chance to save this for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Please tell us you didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't do that exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, whatever one of those where we find out something.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever damage you did to yourself, we're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 3>undo it when we can get you your second date

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<v Speaker 3>update right after this, hold.

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<v Speaker 4>On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's recap Eric's first date for those of you just joining.

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<v Speaker 3>Eric met a woman named Vanessa for dinner recently. She's

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<v Speaker 3>in the beauty industry, and for the first twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 3>everything was great. It was perfect, conversation was flowing, the

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<v Speaker 3>connection was easy. It was all gravy until Eric's ex's

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend walked in and sat down with an eyeshot. So

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<v Speaker 3>vibes changed after that.

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<v Speaker 4>And had to admit that his ex was there.

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<v Speaker 3>He did. He was so weird, he told Vanessa. Not

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<v Speaker 3>sure if that was a bad idea or a horrible idea,

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<v Speaker 3>but he did it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he had no other choice. The worst idea

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<v Speaker 4>is what happened after.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was on his mind, and that's why right

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<v Speaker 3>before he left, he stopped by his ex's table and

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<v Speaker 3>told her she has nice hair, so great date if

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<v Speaker 3>it was just Eric and his ex. But Vanessa was

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<v Speaker 3>present too and isn't calling him back. I wonder why

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<v Speaker 3>that could be. And as a joke earlier, I said, Eric,

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<v Speaker 3>you didn't post a TikTok about how good your ex

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<v Speaker 3>looked that night, and your answer was not exactly what

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<v Speaker 3>did you post. What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I didn't, I didn't post anything. I just I

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<v Speaker 6>did text my ex one time.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you text her?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so sorry for the awkward encounter and I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>know what to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, that's actually not bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Did your ex respond?

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<v Speaker 6>She gave me a thumbs up.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, she's the sexiest of all the things. You

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<v Speaker 3>could go back.

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<v Speaker 4>She's over it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she doesn't like you unless they were built into

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<v Speaker 3>thumb play. You don't know, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Get to that stage of romance. Nobody played thumb wars

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<v Speaker 3>with the jeff Yeah. Definitely don't like any of my

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<v Speaker 3>that I sent to you, because I'll read it in

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<v Speaker 3>a different way. But let's find out what Vanessa thinks.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to dial her number and we'll see what

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<v Speaker 3>she has to say.

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<v Speaker 6>You ready, Eric, I'm ready? All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Thumbs up to that. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey is this Vanessa? Yes, hey Vanessa, thank you for answering.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you sound busy. Sorry, yeah, but who's this?

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<v Speaker 3>We don't want to take up a lot of your time.

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<v Speaker 3>We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 3>the Morning. Okay, good morning, And just to cut right

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<v Speaker 3>to it. We're doing a segment called the Second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 3>trying to help out one of our listeners that you

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<v Speaker 3>went out with recently.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Who, it's a guy named Eric. There's a sweet sounding guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh so you like talk to him or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 5>you know what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you're right to the point, and I like that

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<v Speaker 1>about Vanessa. There's no sugarcoat anything here.

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<v Speaker 3>All that we know that happened is Eric's X showed

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<v Speaker 3>up in the middle of the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I actually honestly think he handled that really well.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh really, Oh that's good. He was worried that he

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<v Speaker 4>was like awkward about it.

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<v Speaker 5>And no, he was one hundred percent honest and upfront

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<v Speaker 5>with me about it, Like, oh, he was really classy.

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<v Speaker 5>He even said I to her to prove that he's

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<v Speaker 5>above all the drama.

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<v Speaker 4>So you were you liked you liked that.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was really mature.

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<v Speaker 3>I was not expecting that.

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<v Speaker 1>We thought for sure you were going to say that

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't seem like he was over his X or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, he told me some stories and oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>that woman is a piece of work.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa Oh oh so he even shared some crazy X stories. Huh,

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<v Speaker 1>so is that what upset you?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not upset. Where do you keep asking that?

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<v Speaker 4>I meant, like, why you're not calling it back?

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<v Speaker 3>We're trying to figure out what's happened with you since

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<v Speaker 3>the date with Eric?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean so it's like a bend parking lot.

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<v Speaker 5>But I stayed because I wanted to follow his ex home.

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<v Speaker 3>You what do you mean, just to make sure she

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<v Speaker 3>got home safe?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, no, I I wanted to make sure that what

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<v Speaker 5>happened to Eric didn't happen to the guy that she

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<v Speaker 5>was on a date with.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, what happened to Eric? What was his story?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's his story, so I don't really want to

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<v Speaker 5>share it, but like, it sounds like she traumatized him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, so what happened when you got back to where

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<v Speaker 3>she was going?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he dropped her off and she kissed him, but

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<v Speaker 5>he did not go inside, and so I went up

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to the guy. So when he went back

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<v Speaker 5>to his car, wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait, oh okay, your car got out of your

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<v Speaker 1>car approached his car in the dark.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because I had to warn him him and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, what are you doing right now? Do you

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<v Speaker 5>want to grab a drink?

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<v Speaker 6>With me. Wait, what.

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<v Speaker 3>You and this guy out?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I wanted to warn him because like, Eric told

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<v Speaker 5>me all these stories and I needed time. If they

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<v Speaker 5>weren't stories, I could just tell him on the streets.

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<v Speaker 4>You just met Eric. You don't know what's true, what's

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<v Speaker 4>not true. It's a one sided story, like total Eric's

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<v Speaker 4>still alive. It's not like you're saving someone's life.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, wait, so what happened when you went out and

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<v Speaker 3>talked to the other guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I told him all the things about why they broke

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<v Speaker 5>up and how she's a big time manipulator, and he

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<v Speaker 5>was kind of like maybe I can kind of see

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<v Speaker 5>those signs or whatever. This was like I think their

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<v Speaker 5>second date.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, okay, person, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I've been talking to Eric for like a

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<v Speaker 5>week or so before our date, and he's seen like

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<v Speaker 5>a trustworthy guy, and I absolutely believed him. And so

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<v Speaker 5>you've got to trust some people out there.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, Sure, for some reason, Brooke doesn't trust our own listener,

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<v Speaker 3>who just happens to be on the line right now,

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<v Speaker 3>quietly listening in on this phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet he is speechless right now, because yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>is there.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, Vanessa on the phone right now who is Eric?

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<v Speaker 5>Eric?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, I like sneak up on you, Vanessa, but like,

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<v Speaker 6>what why?

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<v Speaker 5>Why did you?

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<v Speaker 6>Why would you follow?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean? You know the stories you told me. I

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<v Speaker 5>had to save this guy from going through what you

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<v Speaker 5>went through.

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<v Speaker 3>WHOA wow.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't ask you to do that, No you didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>But I feel like I needed to give him the

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<v Speaker 5>hats up.

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<v Speaker 6>Well I was trett to be honest with you, and

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<v Speaker 6>now I feel like this could go back on me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, how Eric, we need how Jeb?

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, the ex girlfriend's gonna find out about this.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he will not hear from her. I made him

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<v Speaker 5>promise not to tell her anything. He stopped going on

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<v Speaker 5>dates with her.

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<v Speaker 3>But the woman we've never spoken.

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<v Speaker 4>What did your ex do that was so awful?

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<v Speaker 6>We're on the radio. I'm not going to.

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<v Speaker 5>Say that, but like, you telling me this stuff on

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<v Speaker 5>our date is pretty much giving me permission to go

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<v Speaker 5>and tell this guy.

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<v Speaker 6>So it would be permission if you told me we're

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<v Speaker 6>going to do that and then I said yes, that

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<v Speaker 6>would be permission.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what permission is. He had already left though.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Superman doesn't ask for permission to save somebody's life.

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<v Speaker 3>When they're in danger.

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<v Speaker 1>He okay, But Eric, honestly, was this guy in any

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<v Speaker 1>danger because of your ex.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think he was in danger.

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<v Speaker 3>That's exactly what you said when you started to date her.

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<v Speaker 3>Bro It wouldn't it have been nice if at the

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<v Speaker 3>start of your last bad relationship Vanessa had come up

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<v Speaker 3>to you on eight number two and been like, look,

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<v Speaker 3>this girl is bad news for you. She is going

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<v Speaker 3>to hurt you, and she would have been right.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean maybe, yeah. It was a pretty bad ending,

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<v Speaker 6>and I guess that could have been good.

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<v Speaker 3>See, clearly she has a heart of gold and wants

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<v Speaker 3>to save men from terrible women. But I think we're

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<v Speaker 3>missing the family.

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<v Speaker 5>She's happy.

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<v Speaker 3>If I'm just summarizing what I think.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hearing it, it's not like a flaring red flag

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<v Speaker 1>that she's following strangers night with her car and inter relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>She knows nothing about.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Tomato, tomadel Broke, I pretty much said the exact

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<v Speaker 3>same thing. We're avoiding the main question here, and that's Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 3>Why aren't you talking to Eric since that night?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was focusing on making sure that this guy

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<v Speaker 5>was okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The other guy, have you got him more than one

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<v Speaker 1>hangout with this guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, of course he didn't believe me at the start,

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<v Speaker 5>So like, I went to talk to him again during.

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<v Speaker 6>The dayting So you are my ex girlfriend's new boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>Eric, they went on two dates. That's not a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, don't be crazy. She ended it for him.

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<v Speaker 3>It's right, right, she's not seeing him, she's warning him.

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<v Speaker 5>In fact, I'm seeing him again tonight and I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>warn him for a third time.

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<v Speaker 1>Who wait a minute, sounds like he's enjoying the warning.

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<v Speaker 6>This. This doesn't sound right.

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<v Speaker 7>There's something off here.

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<v Speaker 4>You go with your gut, Eric, you're right.

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<v Speaker 3>The thing that's off is that I haven't offered to

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<v Speaker 3>send you to out on another date. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 3>reminding me, Eric, because we would love to put up

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<v Speaker 3>however much money it takes to get YouTube back together

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<v Speaker 3>for one more meet up. I guess I should ask Vanessa,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you think?

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<v Speaker 5>Listen, Eric, my focus right now is in this other guy,

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<v Speaker 5>and once you one percent believes me not to go

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<v Speaker 5>out with your accent, I will focus on you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we're out of time, and it's sounding like it's

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<v Speaker 3>a no for Eric. So instead the gift cards are

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<v Speaker 3>going to Vanessa and the dude that she followed home

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<v Speaker 3>to save from dating your ex girlfriend. Ye. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think I've ever said those words in my entire life,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm glad that I get to today because at

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<v Speaker 3>least it gives Jose hope that someday a woman might

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<v Speaker 3>follow him home without asking. Oh yeah, that has to

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<v Speaker 3>be how it goes down, so romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I would not be surprised if Vanessa hangs around that

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<v Speaker 3>woman's apartment all next week. She might even move into

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<v Speaker 3>the building with her, just to warn any future dudes

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<v Speaker 3>that she stops by with don't date her. She's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Trust me, I would know.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't ask.

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<v Speaker 1>She did sound busy when we first called her, like

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<v Speaker 1>she could have just actually been in her car outside

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<v Speaker 1>of her apartment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just scoping out the place, ready to save any

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<v Speaker 3>dudes from their own demise. It could get worse, like

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<v Speaker 3>if the other girl sees her, then she's gonna start

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<v Speaker 3>following her. Eventually they're gonna stock each other.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Feel like he needs to call his X and warn her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Always good when a crazy girl says, you know that

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<v Speaker 3>other girl is crazier than me. Yeah, look out, but

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<v Speaker 3>there's a whole podcast full of crazy people going on

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<v Speaker 3>even crazier dates. It's ours, Yeah, so go fight. You'll

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<v Speaker 3>feel a little bit less crazy when you find us

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