1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: You had a little something juicy, a little dramatic, something 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: to make you feel better about your own dating life. 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Here we are a brand new second date to start 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: your Friday. And before we get to it, always comment. 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: Yes, since Salima said, Hey, Brook, jeff Jose, Alexis and 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 2: everyone else, I just wanted to say that you guys 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: are my primary source of entertainment when I'm playing on 8 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: my PS four I love from Egypt. 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, that's awesome. 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 4: You think you can see the pyramids from her house? 11 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 4: Probably not. That's a funny, dumb question. 12 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 2: You mean, it's just a bad Brook, Come on, not 13 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: traveled enough. 14 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 4: I want to be, though, so we'll come visit soon. 15 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 4: All right, there it is? Yeah, okay, all right here 16 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 4: regard it. Let's get this show started. Brooke and Jeffrey 17 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 4: in the morning. 18 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 5: Second date updates. 19 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: If you're a guy and you're out on a first 20 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 3: date having dinner, what are some possible distractions that could 21 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 3: derail you that you got to stay away from. Oh 22 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: that's a good question. Like one A rat runs across 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:02,639 Speaker 3: the floor. 24 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 4: In front of I think alert everyone. 25 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 3: Pretend you never saw it. It's probably the owner's pet. 26 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 3: It helps him cook the food. Like in Ratitui, all 27 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 3: is good. 28 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 4: Okay, distraction too. 29 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 3: Let's say the waitress is a little B and L, 30 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: you know, busty and lonely. Do not look at her. 31 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: But she's a B and L. Don't know, you don't 32 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 3: exactly how do. 33 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 4: You know she's lonely by looking at Oh. 34 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 3: You can tell broke. They have that lonely look in 35 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 3: their eye. You just keep their eyes on the ground 36 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,559 Speaker 3: when you put in your order. And our listener Eric 37 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 3: had a different type of distraction that he had to 38 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 3: deal with. 39 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 4: Let me guess, a busty rat Is. 40 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 3: It maybe that? Or could it even be worse than 41 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 3: the ones I mentioned? Possibly? Eric, Welcome to the show man. 42 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 6: Hey, thanks for taking a call. 43 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 3: Absolutely well, we'll get to the distraction on your date 44 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 3: in a second. First, tell us about the girl that 45 00:01:58,800 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: you met. 46 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 6: Her name's Vanessa. 47 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 7: She works in the beauty industry. 48 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 4: And like she's an esthetician you mean like that? 49 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, and she is gorgeous in fact, like I was 50 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 6: kind of surprised she said yes to the date. Oh, 51 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 6: and so I thought, you know, I got to turn 52 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 6: on the charm, so I took her out, okay, and 53 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 6: I want to take her to the bar and grill Applebee's. 54 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 4: I love that place. 55 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 6: It's not it's got really good vibes. 56 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 3: All right, And how did How was Vanessa when she 57 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: showed up? 58 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 6: She looked really cute and really friendly and approachable, and 59 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 6: but the thing happened. Okay, it wasn't a rat or 60 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 6: any of that. It's like, twenty minutes after we sat down, 61 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 6: someone walks in to the restaurant. 62 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 3: Who is it? 63 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 6: He's my ex girlfriend? 64 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I thought you said there wasn't. What 65 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 3: are the odds do you just? 66 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 4: I mean, dang, is it a big restaurant? Can you 67 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 4: ignore her? 68 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 6: It's not a big place. And she was with her guy. 69 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 6: She was with her new guyd when's. 70 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 2: The last time you saw her? 71 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 4: Like, has it been years or it's like recent? 72 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 3: It was about six months okay, okay? 73 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 6: And then I looked over like like a few minutes later, 74 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 6: and you know, I'm trying not to look over, but 75 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 6: I see that she's like sucking down margarita and like 76 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 6: she's laughing and she's having a great time. 77 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 3: She's having fun. 78 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,679 Speaker 1: Well you know how it is like when they come 79 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: in and they're doing. 80 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 4: The extra loud laugh just to like get your. 81 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: Attention, and then I mean, it sucks for you because 82 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: it ruins your whole date. Even if you don't say anything, 83 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: you're distracted, you're no longer fully present for. 84 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: Then, if you mentioned your accident, it sounds like you've 85 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: a lot of drama. 86 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 3: Yes, but did that come up? Did your date Vanessa 87 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 3: know that your ex was in the restaurant too? 88 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 6: I told her, I said, looks like my ex girlfriend 89 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 6: just came in. 90 00:03:58,960 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 3: What was her reaction? 91 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 7: And she was, I don't know, intrigued, don't look, don't look, 92 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 7: but she looked anyway, of course, yeah, and she's like, 93 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 7: oh wow, she's really pretty. 94 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 6: Like okay, anyway, let's talk about you. 95 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 4: Why didn't you say let's go find another spot? 96 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 6: Oh? I offered that, but she was like, no, no, no, 97 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 6: it's all right, it's right, like we were here first. 98 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 6: And she had a point. 99 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 3: If your date wanted to stay through it, then that's 100 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 3: on her. Were you able to get things back on track? 101 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 6: Well, that's the thing. I feel like the vibe of 102 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 6: the day kind of changed from there and like it didn't, 103 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 6: it did never go back. 104 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 4: Okay, are you over your ex? 105 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 6: Well? Yeah, I mean we're not together. 106 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: Question. 107 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: I mean it just I mean, I think that makes 108 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: it even trickier, right, because like maybe Vanessa picked up 109 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: on that. 110 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 6: Well, that's the thing at the end. I mean, there 111 00:04:55,960 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 6: was this thing that happened, that another thing at the 112 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 6: end of the day. It's like we're walking out, and 113 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 6: I guess I just wanted to show Vanessa that I 114 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 6: was sort of like above it all. And and so 115 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 6: I approached my ex girlfriend's table and I said, hey, 116 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 6: I hope you have a great night. It was good 117 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 6: to see you. And I said, your hair looks great. 118 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 6: And I know, I was like, why would I say that? 119 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 6: She changed her hair? She changed her hair, and I 120 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 6: thought I was good and it just came out. 121 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's the part you probably should admit omit 122 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: from the like, did Vanessa hear you compliment your ex 123 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 3: girlfriend's hair? 124 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 4: Where was she standing? 125 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: Even she might have like she was really close to me, 126 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: and you didn't introduce Vanessa. 127 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 4: I mean, that's the baller move, right, Vanessa, this is 128 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 4: my upgrade. 129 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 6: I should have done that. I just panicked and I 130 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 6: was like I just conversated with like three or four 131 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 6: seconds and then I left. I was out of there. 132 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: And I'm sure you're all flustered now walking Vanessa to 133 00:05:58,800 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 1: her car. 134 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 3: That also looks nice. By the way, what happened when 135 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: you leave? 136 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 6: We hugged and that was it. 137 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, but from the way that he's talking about it, 138 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 3: you can tell that he regrets how we handled the situation. 139 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's totally unfortunate. 140 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: Do you think the date would have gone flawlessly if 141 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: your ex hadn't walked into that restaurant? 142 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 7: Yeah? 143 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 6: It just it sucks did that happened? But it's it's 144 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 6: of my like, is that of my control? Right now? 145 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that wasn't your fault, Universe, And as long as 146 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 3: you didn't like go home and post along TikTok or 147 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 3: Instagram post about seeing your ex and how great she 148 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 3: looked past it now so that. 149 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 4: You look pathetic to two women. 150 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 3: That just was exactly. As long as you didn't do that, 151 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 3: then we might have a chance to save this for you. 152 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 3: Please tell us you didn't do that. 153 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 7: I didn't do that exactly exactly. 154 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: Okay, whatever one of those where we find out something. 155 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 3: Whatever damage you did to yourself, we're gonna have to 156 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: undo it when we can get you your second date 157 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 3: update right after this, hold. 158 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 4: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 159 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 3: Let's recap Eric's first date for those of you just joining. 160 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: Eric met a woman named Vanessa for dinner recently. She's 161 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 3: in the beauty industry, and for the first twenty minutes 162 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 3: everything was great. It was perfect, conversation was flowing, the 163 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 3: connection was easy. It was all gravy until Eric's ex's 164 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: girlfriend walked in and sat down with an eyeshot. So 165 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 3: vibes changed after that. 166 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 4: And had to admit that his ex was there. 167 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 3: He did. He was so weird, he told Vanessa. Not 168 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 3: sure if that was a bad idea or a horrible idea, 169 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 3: but he did it. 170 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 4: I mean he had no other choice. The worst idea 171 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 4: is what happened after. 172 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was on his mind, and that's why right 173 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 3: before he left, he stopped by his ex's table and 174 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 3: told her she has nice hair, so great date if 175 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 3: it was just Eric and his ex. But Vanessa was 176 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 3: present too and isn't calling him back. I wonder why 177 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 3: that could be. And as a joke earlier, I said, Eric, 178 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 3: you didn't post a TikTok about how good your ex 179 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 3: looked that night, and your answer was not exactly what 180 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 3: did you post. What does that mean? 181 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 6: Well, I didn't, I didn't post anything. I just I 182 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 6: did text my ex one time. 183 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 4: What did you text her? 184 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 6: I'm so sorry for the awkward encounter and I didn't 185 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 6: know what to say. 186 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that's actually not bad. 187 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 4: Did your ex respond? 188 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 6: She gave me a thumbs up. 189 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's the sexiest of all the things. You 190 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 3: could go back. 191 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 4: She's over it. 192 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, she doesn't like you unless they were built into 193 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 3: thumb play. You don't know, Brooke. 194 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 4: I don't. 195 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 3: Get to that stage of romance. Nobody played thumb wars 196 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: with the jeff Yeah. Definitely don't like any of my 197 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 3: that I sent to you, because I'll read it in 198 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 3: a different way. But let's find out what Vanessa thinks. 199 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 3: I'm going to dial her number and we'll see what 200 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 3: she has to say. 201 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 6: You ready, Eric, I'm ready? All right? 202 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 3: Thumbs up to that. Here we go. 203 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 6: Hello. 204 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 3: Hey is this Vanessa? Yes, hey Vanessa, thank you for answering. 205 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 4: Yes, you sound busy. Sorry, yeah, but who's this? 206 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 3: We don't want to take up a lot of your time. 207 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 3: We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 208 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:37,719 Speaker 3: the Morning. Okay, good morning, And just to cut right 209 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 3: to it. We're doing a segment called the Second Date Update, 210 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 3: trying to help out one of our listeners that you 211 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 3: went out with recently. 212 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 5: Yeah. 213 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 3: Who, it's a guy named Eric. There's a sweet sounding guy. 214 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 5: Oh so you like talk to him or whatever. So 215 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 5: you know what happened. 216 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: Oh, you're right to the point, and I like that 217 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: about Vanessa. There's no sugarcoat anything here. 218 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: All that we know that happened is Eric's X showed 219 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 3: up in the middle of the date. 220 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I actually honestly think he handled that really well. 221 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 4: Oh really, Oh that's good. He was worried that he 222 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 4: was like awkward about it. 223 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 5: And no, he was one hundred percent honest and upfront 224 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 5: with me about it, Like, oh, he was really classy. 225 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 5: He even said I to her to prove that he's 226 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 5: above all the drama. 227 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 4: So you were you liked you liked that. 228 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 5: I thought it was really mature. 229 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 3: I was not expecting that. 230 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: We thought for sure you were going to say that 231 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: he didn't seem like he was over his X or 232 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: something like that. 233 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 5: Oh no, he told me some stories and oh my god, 234 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 5: that woman is a piece of work. 235 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: Whoa Oh oh so he even shared some crazy X stories. Huh, 236 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 1: so is that what upset you? 237 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 5: I'm not upset. Where do you keep asking that? 238 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 4: I meant, like, why you're not calling it back? 239 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 3: We're trying to figure out what's happened with you since 240 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 3: the date with Eric? 241 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean so it's like a bend parking lot. 242 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 5: But I stayed because I wanted to follow his ex home. 243 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 3: You what do you mean, just to make sure she 244 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 3: got home safe? 245 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 5: Well, no, I I wanted to make sure that what 246 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 5: happened to Eric didn't happen to the guy that she 247 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 5: was on a date with. 248 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 4: Wait, what happened to Eric? What was his story? 249 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 5: Well, it's his story, so I don't really want to 250 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 5: share it, but like, it sounds like she traumatized him. 251 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 3: Oh, so what happened when you got back to where 252 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 3: she was going? 253 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 5: Well, he dropped her off and she kissed him, but 254 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 5: he did not go inside, and so I went up 255 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 5: to talk to the guy. So when he went back 256 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 5: to his car, wait. 257 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: Wait wait, oh okay, your car got out of your 258 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 1: car approached his car in the dark. 259 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I had to warn him him and I 260 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 5: was like, what are you doing right now? Do you 261 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 5: want to grab a drink? 262 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 6: With me. Wait, what. 263 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 3: You and this guy out? 264 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 5: Because I wanted to warn him because like, Eric told 265 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 5: me all these stories and I needed time. If they 266 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 5: weren't stories, I could just tell him on the streets. 267 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 4: You just met Eric. You don't know what's true, what's 268 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 4: not true. It's a one sided story, like total Eric's 269 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 4: still alive. It's not like you're saving someone's life. 270 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 3: Like, wait, so what happened when you went out and 271 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 3: talked to the other guy. 272 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 5: I told him all the things about why they broke 273 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 5: up and how she's a big time manipulator, and he 274 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 5: was kind of like maybe I can kind of see 275 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 5: those signs or whatever. This was like I think their 276 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 5: second date. 277 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, person, I guess. 278 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 5: I mean, I've been talking to Eric for like a 279 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 5: week or so before our date, and he's seen like 280 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 5: a trustworthy guy, and I absolutely believed him. And so 281 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 5: you've got to trust some people out there. 282 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 3: Sure, Sure, for some reason, Brooke doesn't trust our own listener, 283 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 3: who just happens to be on the line right now, 284 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 3: quietly listening in on this phone call. 285 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: I bet he is speechless right now, because yeah, he 286 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: is there. 287 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 3: Actually, Vanessa on the phone right now who is Eric? 288 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 5: Eric? 289 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I like sneak up on you, Vanessa, but like, 290 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 6: what why? 291 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 5: Why did you? 292 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 6: Why would you follow? 293 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 3: What? 294 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 5: I mean? You know the stories you told me. I 295 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 5: had to save this guy from going through what you 296 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 5: went through. 297 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 3: WHOA wow. 298 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 6: I didn't ask you to do that, No you didn't. 299 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 5: But I feel like I needed to give him the 300 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 5: hats up. 301 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 6: Well I was trett to be honest with you, and 302 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 6: now I feel like this could go back on me. 303 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: Yes, how Eric, we need how Jeb? 304 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 4: Of course, the ex girlfriend's gonna find out about this. 305 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 5: No, he will not hear from her. I made him 306 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 5: promise not to tell her anything. He stopped going on 307 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 5: dates with her. 308 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 3: But the woman we've never spoken. 309 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 4: What did your ex do that was so awful? 310 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 6: We're on the radio. I'm not going to. 311 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 5: Say that, but like, you telling me this stuff on 312 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 5: our date is pretty much giving me permission to go 313 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 5: and tell this guy. 314 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 6: So it would be permission if you told me we're 315 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 6: going to do that and then I said yes, that 316 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 6: would be permission. 317 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 5: That's what permission is. He had already left though. 318 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Superman doesn't ask for permission to save somebody's life. 319 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 3: When they're in danger. 320 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: He okay, But Eric, honestly, was this guy in any 321 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,119 Speaker 1: danger because of your ex. 322 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 6: I don't think he was in danger. 323 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 3: That's exactly what you said when you started to date her. 324 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 3: Bro It wouldn't it have been nice if at the 325 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 3: start of your last bad relationship Vanessa had come up 326 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 3: to you on eight number two and been like, look, 327 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 3: this girl is bad news for you. She is going 328 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 3: to hurt you, and she would have been right. 329 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 6: I mean maybe, yeah. It was a pretty bad ending, 330 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 6: and I guess that could have been good. 331 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 3: See, clearly she has a heart of gold and wants 332 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 3: to save men from terrible women. But I think we're 333 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 3: missing the family. 334 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 5: She's happy. 335 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 3: If I'm just summarizing what I think. 336 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: I'm hearing it, it's not like a flaring red flag 337 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: that she's following strangers night with her car and inter relationship. 338 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 4: She knows nothing about. 339 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 3: Okay, Tomato, tomadel Broke, I pretty much said the exact 340 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 3: same thing. We're avoiding the main question here, and that's Vanessa. 341 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 3: Why aren't you talking to Eric since that night? 342 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 5: Well, I was focusing on making sure that this guy 343 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 5: was okay. 344 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: The other guy, have you got him more than one 345 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: hangout with this guy. 346 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, of course he didn't believe me at the start, 347 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 5: So like, I went to talk to him again during. 348 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 6: The dayting So you are my ex girlfriend's new boyfriend. 349 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 5: Eric, they went on two dates. That's not a boyfriend. 350 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, don't be crazy. She ended it for him. 351 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 3: It's right, right, she's not seeing him, she's warning him. 352 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 5: In fact, I'm seeing him again tonight and I'm gonna 353 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 5: warn him for a third time. 354 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: Who wait a minute, sounds like he's enjoying the warning. 355 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 6: This. This doesn't sound right. 356 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 7: There's something off here. 357 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 4: You go with your gut, Eric, you're right. 358 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 3: The thing that's off is that I haven't offered to 359 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 3: send you to out on another date. Thank you for 360 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 3: reminding me, Eric, because we would love to put up 361 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 3: however much money it takes to get YouTube back together 362 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 3: for one more meet up. I guess I should ask Vanessa, 363 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 3: what do you think? 364 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 5: Listen, Eric, my focus right now is in this other guy, 365 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 5: and once you one percent believes me not to go 366 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 5: out with your accent, I will focus on you. 367 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. 368 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 6: I don't know, Vanessa. 369 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 3: Well, we're out of time, and it's sounding like it's 370 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 3: a no for Eric. So instead the gift cards are 371 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 3: going to Vanessa and the dude that she followed home 372 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 3: to save from dating your ex girlfriend. Ye. I don't 373 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 3: think I've ever said those words in my entire life, 374 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 3: but I'm glad that I get to today because at 375 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 3: least it gives Jose hope that someday a woman might 376 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 3: follow him home without asking. Oh yeah, that has to 377 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:19,479 Speaker 3: be how it goes down, so romantic. 378 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 379 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 3: I would not be surprised if Vanessa hangs around that 380 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 3: woman's apartment all next week. She might even move into 381 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 3: the building with her, just to warn any future dudes 382 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 3: that she stops by with don't date her. She's crazy. 383 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 3: Trust me, I would know. 384 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 4: We don't ask. 385 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: She did sound busy when we first called her, like 386 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: she could have just actually been in her car outside 387 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: of her apartment. 388 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, just scoping out the place, ready to save any 389 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 3: dudes from their own demise. It could get worse, like 390 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 3: if the other girl sees her, then she's gonna start 391 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 3: following her. Eventually they're gonna stock each other. 392 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I. 393 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 4: Feel like he needs to call his X and warn her. 394 00:17:59,080 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 395 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 3: Always good when a crazy girl says, you know that 396 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 3: other girl is crazier than me. Yeah, look out, but 397 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 3: there's a whole podcast full of crazy people going on 398 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 3: even crazier dates. It's ours, Yeah, so go fight. You'll 399 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 3: feel a little bit less crazy when you find us 400 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 3: on Spotify, Apple, wherever you get Yours. Brooke and Jefferies 401 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 3: Second Date Update, Like and subscribe.