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Speaker 1: Hi. I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and

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Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling. Railvalry, No, no, sibling.

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Speaker 1: You don't do that with your mouth, Vely, that's good. Hi, Hey, Ollie,

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Speaker 1: you got a little heat this week? You got a

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Speaker 1: little Oh yeah, it's like, you know, you were being

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Speaker 1: having fun. Yeah, and people just take it. They love it.

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Speaker 1: With everything going on in the world, I personally don't care,

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Speaker 1: but it's just, you know, doctor d who's I've known

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Speaker 1: for fifteen or more years. I've played golf with him,

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Speaker 1: you know, long before I even knew what the hell

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Speaker 1: he did. And so that was not fun because the

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Speaker 1: world knows that doctor Diamonds are one of the best

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Speaker 1: in the world, so anybody who heard it knows you're kidding.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it I feel like it's the

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Speaker 1: first time you've ever had a moment like that where

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Speaker 1: they've taken something it's become like an actual story. It's

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Speaker 1: like the first time you've had that kind of experience,

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Speaker 1: which was fun. It's just funny that it Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was that. It was that. Oh I know, well,

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Speaker 1: I you know, when I wake up, before I go

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Speaker 1: to bed, I'm always like scrolling through Apple News, you know,

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Speaker 1: like a zombie, and it's always crazy shit, some news

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Speaker 1: and then some stupid shit all the time, you know,

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Speaker 1: and that clickbait. And all of a sudden, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, it's my face and it's page six,

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Speaker 1: like I've never seen that. I've never been on that feed,

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Speaker 1: and it's and it's a picture of me, and the

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Speaker 1: quote is like, you know, Oliver Hudson fucked up his

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Speaker 1: whole life or something with with some botox. They love

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Speaker 1: they love a negative spin. They love a negative spin. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I know, anything anything. This is a good platform for me, though,

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Speaker 1: I'm realizing, because I can just say a bunch of

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Speaker 1: crazy ship and it can get picked up and I

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Speaker 1: could become more popular. Please don't go, it's good. It's

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Speaker 1: good for me each podcast. You know what you know,

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Speaker 1: what you could do is you could start doing a

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Speaker 1: lot of like male treatments to your face and do

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Speaker 1: a whole YouTube show. Now and look, you're always looking for,

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Speaker 1: you know, to keep your kids in private school. I

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Speaker 1: you to do treatments and be open about it. And

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Speaker 1: I bet you anything, it would be hilarious and every

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Speaker 1: man would watch it. Oh yeah. But then the outcome

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Speaker 1: and then and then it's oh, Wayne Newton looks great.

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Speaker 1: Oh what here here goes my next headline. Oliver Hudson says,

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Speaker 1: then we'll let it die that Jason Diamond is the

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Speaker 1: greatest botox filler person I've ever known. I've only known

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Speaker 1: one gotten filler. I meant like whatever else he does,

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Speaker 1: lasers and all that. And he's a great golfer and

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Speaker 1: he's a great friend of mine, and I publicly apologize

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Speaker 1: to him and for any weird messages that he has gotten. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's snowing here. I'm still in Colorado. I have five

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Speaker 1: I'm excited for you to come home though, because we're

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Speaker 1: doing like a family COVID pod haunted house. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: they've been any Halloween. They we're all doing this together,

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Speaker 1: that you've created this crazy haunted house. Apparently I have

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Speaker 1: the Haunted House. Wow. And I came over with like

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Speaker 1: we did was make haunted houses. Halloween was it for us,

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Speaker 1: So I'm about to start work. Tomorrow is my first

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Speaker 1: day on Truth. I am shooting for six months with

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Speaker 1: She takes on stories that she feels have been unjustly

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Speaker 1: You didn't go in and pitch this idea to anybody. No,

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Speaker 1: Would you ever tell this person another idea of yours? Ever? Again?

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Speaker 1: And so when you start talking about party party stuff,

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Speaker 1: We're all going to have different ideas and we're all

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Speaker 1: it's all a power ayrab Now everyone's trying to stay

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Speaker 1: Integrity goes out the window. It's just about getting re elected.

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Speaker 1: probably saying to their wives or husband's holy shit, yea.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's probably so much of that behind closed

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Speaker 1: not going to get a hateful thing from us. If

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Speaker 1: But isn't it. Aren't you just sick of all of

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Speaker 1: the like repeated political stuff. It's there's everyone's everyone is

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Speaker 1: that's all we hear. Okay, their middle is just seemed

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Speaker 1: That's what. Yeah, we need to start talking about all

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Speaker 1: of this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, how about just

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Speaker 1: you've got to have the vocateurs to stir shit up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're seeing, And then we'll go because the Dodger game

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Speaker 1: is on, but we'll Yeah, how about that game, that

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Speaker 1: Oh I hurt my soul last night. It was so crazy.

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Speaker 1: have all these conversations with people who grew up so

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Speaker 1: That it could be funny and we have we come

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Speaker 1: So someone's opinion might really get to you and piss

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Speaker 1: Because everybody's intention, if their intention is to try to

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Speaker 1: everybody's intent is good. And that, to me is what

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Speaker 1: you have to look at, even if you disagree, is

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Speaker 1: go go vote Biden and let's let's have and then

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Speaker 1: you know, we can know, you know, debate about it

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Speaker 1: next time. Actually, you know what'd be fun is to

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Speaker 1: actually have I'd love to talk to a family of

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Speaker 1: Anybody out there writing, maybe we could do a couple

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Speaker 1: different siblings that have very very different political beliefs in

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Speaker 1: I love you and all text you during the game cool,

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Speaker 1: peace Out Pay. Sibling Revelry is executive produced by Kate

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Speaker 1: Hudson and Oliver Hudson. Producer is Alison Presnik. Music by

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Speaker 1: Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mark.