WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pawn Shop Shopping Trip 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.320 All right, brand new Second Date podcast for you to 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:04.200 start your wait CA, it's brooking Jeffrey thing so much 0:00:04.240 --> 0:00:07.640 for being here. Yes, today's really a lesson. God, I 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:10.160 don't even know who's that like. It's just always shocking 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:13.760 to me what people don't tell us before we get 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.440 the other personal Yeah, oh yeah, kind of in general 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:19.880 what men do and think women don't notice, right, yeah, right, 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:22.639 I mean the general rule is we notice everything. Yeah, 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:25.880 it's a reason why your mom has always known what's up. Okay, 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:29.000 we pay attention, she sees and hears it all. Yes, yeah, 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:31.600 all right, what do we got for comments? Emmy said, 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:34.239 you guys have gotten me through cleaning my room, and 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:37.040 that's the toughest chore out there. Not even a twelve 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:41.560 hour playlist can do that. No, clean your room more often. 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:46.360 Look, I saw somebody on my stream yesterday doing deep 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:50.479 cleaning thinger watching me play video games and also listening 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:51.560 to the podcast. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.840 I'm like, how are you multitasking that much? 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:54.080 Wow? 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:56.720 Like crazy double the Jose, I love it. I don't 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:59.040 know how all right, Your brand new Second Date starts 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:01.160 right now, Brooks and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:05.480 Second Date updates sometimes for a first date. 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:08.479 You need to branch out from doing the same old 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:11.880 activities and think outside the box. 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.200 Nobody wants to think inside the box. Chef. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.600 Yeah, Like, instead of taking her to a high end 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:20.800 seafood restaurant, take her down to the docks, hands her 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.319 a pole in a bucket of worms, and see if 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.880 she can catch her own seafood. 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.640 Teach a man to fish, Yeah. 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:29.240 Well get it. 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.720 That's close to the saying, I know. Give a woman 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.160 a fish, she'll eat for a day. Teach a woman 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:37.759 to fish, she'll smell like clams. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:40.920 For an entire week. That's a good thing. 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.400 And one of our listeners has reached out after he 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:45.559 took a woman on an out of the box type 0:01:45.560 --> 0:01:48.120 of date. His name is Gage, so let's talk to 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.040 him about it. Gage, Welcome to the show man. 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:51.800 Hey, how you going? 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:54.880 Oh did you do some urban foraging to make a salad? 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:58.840 In a sense, you're actually pretty close. 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:02.559 Do you know what urban foraging means? 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:09.600 Gage, Well, it's a more uncouth way to. 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:12.200 Say sorry sorry, instead of us guessing. 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:14.360 Why don't you tell us about this woman that you 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:15.519 meant what you did together. 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:20.359 Well, her name's Ainsley and she is just super duper cute. 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:24.720 We met on one of the dating websites, and great 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:27.480 picture is great personality, at least online. 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:29.440 So we set up a date. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.080 Okay, were you thinking in that moment that you wanted 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.799 to do something unique and special or is unique and 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:36.000 special what you always do? 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:39.920 I kind of almost forgot about it, like really knock 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:40.520 up on me. 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.639 Oh the way Jeff set it up, it sounded like 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:44.720 you were playing something. 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:45.920 Well that's how I thought. 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:46.240 I didn't. 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:48.200 I thought this is an out of the box date. 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:49.440 You didn't even have a box. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:51.960 This is a scrambling, don't know what's happening. 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:53.120 Date, Like, let's just do whatever. 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.320 So what did you decide to do with Ainsley at 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:57.080 the last second? 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.560 So she messaged me just an hour before the confirm 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:05.440 I was like, oh, yeah, let's meet at this address. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.240 So I gave her an address. 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:11.480 Oh okay, Google like Olive gardens address and give it to. 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:11.919 Her or what. 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:16.200 No, but it wasn't a strip mall. So there may 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:21.160 have been an Olive garden nearby, but there's. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:22.040 A lot of businesses there. 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:25.079 I'm still in like, could it be a manny petty 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:27.160 at a strip mall? I mean, I'm always down for 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:27.760 one of those. 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:30.480 We went antiquing. 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:36.000 Oh isn't that cool? 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.040 Alexis I like drifting, So I mean the same, it's 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:47.080 just way more expensive. Thrifting as like clothes and antiquing 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:48.200 as like furniture. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.640 So what did you buy? Like a desk together or. 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:53.320 Like glass where they have such fun glass? 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:57.640 Yeah, some old lamps that's hot. 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:00.440 You know, there's some really nice pawn shops out there, 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:03.320 so I the first stop was my favorite box. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.040 But you don't have to tell us where those nice 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:06.760 pawn shops are. Yeah what? 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:07.360 Sorry? 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:08.880 Go ahead, stars. 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.320 Well, I took her to up like three different places 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:16.200 and she found this vintage scarf that I think was 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:20.000 from the sixties that she clearly really liked. 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:21.400 And so did you buy it for her? 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:24.640 Well? I took it up to the front. The guy 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.440 wouldn't bunch on it. He wanted fifteen, which is crazy. 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:30.800 Fifteen bucks. You're not going for. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:31.400 Her deal on a date. 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:33.039 It was only worth at least eight. 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:35.440 I mean, come on, you gotta have that go part 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:36.000 of the thing. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:38.800 Yeah, Well, you don't want to have a woman see 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:41.680 you getting ripped off, because that's not attractive either. 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.279 So I'm glad that you stood your ground. 0:04:43.279 --> 0:04:45.159 And were like, no, what did she say when you 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:45.920 didn't buy it? 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:49.159 She said it was fine. I think she was impressed. 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:51.200 You guys are right. It's an alpha move. 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:54.240 Yes, oh yeah, I think she wanted the scarf. She 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:55.719 didn't get the scarf end of day. 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:58.080 Yeah, I told her she could go back again another 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.200 time if she wanted. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:04:59.840 But not that day. 0:04:59.880 --> 0:05:02.039 You can never go back the same day to get 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.120 that item, yeah, because. 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.680 Then they'll just that they'll charge you because then they 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:07.640 know you really wanted. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.520 Okay, that doesn't feel like very romantic, but that. 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:15.239 Was the first step. Okay, maybe you got or something 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:16.240 great at another shop. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:19.360 I respectfully disagree with what everybody else is saying in 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:19.680 the room. 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:22.119 I think you're doing a great job, Gage, so keep going. 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:24.839 Yeah, it was fun. And then you know, we're getting 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:26.800 a little hungry because we've been doing that for forty 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.480 five minutes an hour. So we popped down to this 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.240 little local bar and grab some popcorn shrimp and had 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:33.039 a couple of beers. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.840 N did you talk them down from the price of 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:36.440 the shrimp. 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:39.920 That price was firm, unfortunately. 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:43.200 What was the like, what was the vibe between you two? 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:43.400 Like? 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:44.919 It was cool? 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:48.040 I mean shopping was definitely the high point. Once we 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:52.760 sat down and we're having some dinner and drinks, it 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:56.599 didn't quite feel as natural. The conversation was a little 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:00.720 forced at that point. But I'm still I like her 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:04.120 and I want to take her on a real date now, Oh. 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:06.600 Like one you actually remember before it comes up. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:08.960 Oh I seen so, not like a last minute date 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:10.080 that you just threw together. 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:11.520 Maybe even make a reservation. 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.040 Oh, whoa, Yeah, I'm willing to make a reservation. 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:20.120 Wow, you're willing to go that far for this girl 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:21.280 after hanging out with. 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:24.440 Her once, she's gonna swoom. Oh yeah, this. 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:26.120 Is the talks about it. 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:30.080 I know you might even propose by the time we 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:31.159 get to the end of the call. 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:33.680 I'm scared. How long has it been since you last 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:34.320 hung out with her? 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.200 It's been a week and a half. 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:39.880 God, if you were a pro, you'd go back to 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:42.480 the pawn shop, get the scarf, and then bring it 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:43.280 to the next day. 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:43.600 Yeah. 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:46.279 I'm way ahead of you. I went back there to 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:48.800 get that scarf. Oh he jacked up. 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:49.960 The price to eighteen bucks. 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:51.400 I didn't get it. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:55.960 You didn't get it, no way you thought about it. No, 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:58.159 that's just three more dollars. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.719 He's not willing to budge. 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.480 I appreciate that you know what you want and you 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:04.840 stick to your guns, and you will go for it 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.599 for nothing less than what you think it's worth. 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:08.920 That's what we're gonna do with Ainsley here today. 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:12.520 Now, let's focus on Ainsley, not the crummy shop where 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:17.320 I gave a one star Reviewtube good Man. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.320 All right, well, I guarantee you that our listeners are 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.600 gonna give you a five star review once we get 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:24.880 you a second date? 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:27.320 Is this free of charger? What do I have to 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:27.800 pay for it? 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:30.760 I like that you're already starting to haggle. I appreciate 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:31.800 that about you, Gauge. 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:33.880 I feel ten bucks. 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:35.640 We should start, Yeah, we should start somewhere. Yeah, we're 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.000 gonna start at one hundred dollars. 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:40.600 We'll meet somewhere in the middle when we come back 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:42.840 and do your second date update right after. 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:46.560 This, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Update. 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.080 I'm not sure if a last second trip to an 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:53.760 old pawn shop is what most women would consider a 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:59.680 romantic experience, but hey, maybe Ainsley isn't most women. That's 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:02.200 what we're hoping for, because we've been talking with one 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:05.160 of our listeners, Gauge, and he admits he did not 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:09.200 do much planning before his big date with Ainsley, so 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.880 they ended up just bouncing around a local strip mall 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:15.680 doing some antiquing, haggling over the price of old nineteen 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:20.040 sixty scarves, which he never actually bought. So it's been 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.160 a week and a half and Gauge has now reached 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:24.440 out to us saying he would really like a redo 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:28.760 where he promises he will definitely do more planning this 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:29.520 time around. 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:30.840 Yes, he even said. 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.040 He may make a reservation. 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:34.480 Why our jaws dropped. 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:38.080 We never asked him. Did you hear anything from Ainsley 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:38.720 after the date? 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:39.880 Not a thing? 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:43.319 Oh, okay, okay, Well maybe she's just busy ponn in 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.600 her stuff like she drew her eyes were really open 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.559 to start getting the possibility. 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:49.760 Yeah, he got the fever. 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:52.319 Yes, look at you. 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:54.920 I know now you have like a shared interest that 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:57.240 carries on through the rest of your relationship. 0:08:57.559 --> 0:08:59.600 If we can get her to agree to a second date. 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:02.520 What she picks up and she's in a pawn shop. Yeah, 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:04.400 I'm actually in the middle of negotiate and. 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:04.959 Gotta call you back. 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:12.000 Yet, this might be a match made in heaven. 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:16.160 It could be. Let's see if she even answers the phone. 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.600 I'm going to dial her right now. Here we go. 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:29.840 Hello, hey, Ainsley, this is jeff from the radio show 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:30.880 Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.160 Oh hi, Hi, Hi. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.760 Shows here, Hi, Hi, good morning. I like your name. 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:43.559 Thank you. 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:45.360 She's like my parents did. Well. 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:48.920 Yeah, we definitely approve, and we don't want to be 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:52.400 too intrusive here anything, but we would like to ask 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:55.080 you a few intimate details about your dating life. 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:57.000 Oh my god, nothing too over the time. 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:00.120 If we don't want the intimate part. 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:03.480 We do want to pry a little bit if that's okay. 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:09.320 But I don't know. I guess it depends. 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:09.920 I'm not sure. 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.920 I'll just ask do you remember going out a little 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:14.840 while ago with a guy named Gage? 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:18.480 Oh? 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:21.240 Yeah, yeah, perfect, Oh gosh. 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:26.000 Gauged has reached out to us asking if we could 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:27.560 get a hold of you because this is a segment 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:30.840 called a second Date Update, and we're trying to help 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:33.600 him figure out if there's a reason why you haven't 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:35.080 seen each other in the last week. 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:35.400 And a half. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.960 Okay, so he wait, he called you, guys. 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.480 He reached out to us, and from what we heard 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:46.200 it sounds like, at least from the way you're acting, 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.640 maybe you don't want to go out with him again. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.199 But we don't know if that's true, or if there 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.640 was a problem with the date or with him. 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:56.440 We'd love to know why. 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.520 Yeah, I mean, would you mind telling us a little 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:01.760 bit about your experience with Gage? 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:04.680 Sure? 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.200 I guess, well, I mean only. 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:10.079 Because he's clueless, he doesn't know if something went wrong. 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.280 Okay, Yeah, yeah, sure, that's fine. 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.640 Okay, So we'll start at the strip mall. Is that 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:19.360 where we start? 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.280 Yeah, so you know about that. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:25.880 So he gives me this address, which is a strip mall. 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.440 Did you look it up before you got there or 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:29.440 was it a surprise? 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:32.920 No, it was a surprise. I didn't know where it was. 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:35.600 Okay, So that's and on a scale of one to ten, 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.280 how romantic was that idea? 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.600 Well, it was an antique shop, which is I thought 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:44.120 kind of cute. Like it's totally different. Never been on 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:46.800 a date at an antique shop before that was new. 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:49.400 Was it a pawn shop or an antique shop? 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:51.559 I think they went to bull Oh. 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:52.640 Okay, it was the first one. 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:55.240 Was an antique shop, which was cute. So we go 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.080 in and we're like looking around for ten or fifteen minutes, 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:01.439 and he's kind of like quirky, you know, he's got 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:03.920 this like quirky personality and he's funny, and. 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:05.920 Oh so you like that. That was a plus? 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:09.440 Yeah, I would fun until he's like, Hey, let's go 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.840 over here across the way, there's this pawn shop over here. 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:15.480 Yeah, you can find cool all that stuff at pawn shops. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:16.560 Yeah. 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:19.480 I had never been to one, so I didn't know. 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:23.080 So we go over to this pawn shop, which is 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:27.920 very different than the antique shop vibe. Yeah, it's huge. 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.120 It's like it's very big. It's you know, I'd never 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:32.160 been in one, so I'm kind of like walking around. 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:34.080 Trying to figure out what this place is. 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:38.120 Yeah, and he he's over at the counter and like 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.480 talking to some guy that works at the pawn shop. 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:42.400 And so I realized, I've been looking at stuff for 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:44.200 a while and he's been talking to the guy for 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.640 a while. So I'm like, what is he talking about? 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:47.439 Like what's going on? 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:50.960 So I kind of like sneak over to see if 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:53.880 I can hear what they're talking about because it seems 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:57.720 kind of secretive, and I can see that he's got 0:12:58.160 --> 0:13:01.800 a ring like a woman's ring, which looks like an 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:02.800 engagement ring. 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:06.400 Yeah, those get pawned a lot, like rings and guns 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:09.360 are really well, why. 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:10.880 Were you trying to buy an engagement ring? 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:12.400 He wasn't trying to buy it. 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:13.839 I think he's trying to sell it. 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:15.800 Oh, so the guy has. 0:13:15.640 --> 0:13:18.840 The loop and they're looking at it, and it occurs 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:20.439 to me that we're not on a date. 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:23.120 He's trying to sell his engagement ring. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:28.199 You're running an errand a really questionable Errand so why 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:29.920 didn't you ask him? Why did you ask him? What 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:30.920 are you doing? What was that? 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:34.760 Because if he didn't tell me, that would be weird 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:35.520 to ask him. 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:41.680 Maybe you could position yourself as a potential buyer. 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:44.600 I know Brooke is much more intrusive than most people. 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:46.760 She'll just go up and ask any question, doesn't matter 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:47.360 how offensive. 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:50.240 Do you need to call out men more? If your 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:54.040 date is pawning a ring during the date, I think 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.760 you have every right to be like, yo, what's up? 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:57.600 Did you just do that? 0:13:58.400 --> 0:14:01.160 Let's just ask him right now the book way, because 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.960 he is on the other line wanting to talk to 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:05.719 you as soon as we punched him. 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:08.600 Really, yeah, yeah, I think he's their gauge. 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:12.240 Hi high Gage. 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.199 So you didn't you didn't like antiquing. 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:21.000 No, I don't know what he's trying to not address 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:21.680 the situation. 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:25.240 You didn't mention anything to us about a ring at 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:25.640 the shop. 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:29.440 Look, it belonged to a girl that I did not 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:32.760 end up marrying, like a year ago. It's like old news. 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:35.840 You had a year to sell the ring, but you 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:37.440 waited till the day of the date. 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:40.520 I'm a busy guy. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.280 I tried to stack things together. You know I'm gonna 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:45.920 multitask if I'm close to the pawn shop, I'm gonna 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:47.800 take care of it. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:50.760 Did you think she wouldn't notice? 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:53.200 Look, I was just trying to kill two birds with 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:54.280 one stone. 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:56.920 You killed both birds, though, is it problem? 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:57.560 Okay? 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:00.480 Well fine, but are you saying that was a heart off? 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:05.560 It was so weird and like, okay, even if you're 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:08.360 gonna do that, why wouldn't you tell me or like 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:10.800 loop me in that that's what we're doing. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.760 Well, I was gonna ask if you wanted to try 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:15.480 it on, because the guy was giving me a key 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:16.280 price for it. 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:19.640 I thought that would be even weirder. 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:23.160 Did you imagine, Hey, will you try on my exes 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.800 and cage rags if I could get a better price. 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:29.240 Well, is saying that she just wanted that clear communication 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:30.960 so she knew what was going on. 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:33.360 He would you have done that? Come on? 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.440 I actually honestly think I probably would have, like if 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:39.200 I felt looped in on. 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:40.960 It, Oh, like a body incline. 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:43.880 I mean, look, I'm a commitment minded person. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:45.440 I think that's what that shows. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:49.080 Oh that is yeah, Gage, did you actually sell it? 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:49.680 No? 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.880 He didn't want to offer me anything for it. Of course, 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:54.960 I was trying to make enough money for dinner. I 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:56.440 didn't want to use my credit card. 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:01.440 That's a man who doesn't want to go into debt Ainsley. 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:03.200 Yeah, I'm a cash man. 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.000 Yeah, someone that can think on his feet as like 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.560 the moment comes to him. So we're seeing a lot 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:11.400 of positives from this Ainslee, and we think you should 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:14.920 too and consider giving him another chance, because if you do, 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:17.320 we will offer to pay for your second date. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.520 You guys might be a matchmate in heaven. Since you 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.120 are a woman. You would have tried that engagement ring 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:23.240 on and he still needs. 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.600 To sell it or you can hold onto it and 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:26.680 use it on you one day. 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:31.520 Oh, I would like to see it. You know. Now 0:16:31.520 --> 0:16:33.560 I'm curious about his case in spring. 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:36.960 Oh. Hey, look, I've been thinking about you for the 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.360 last ten days, and I went back to that pawn 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:41.920 shop to get that start, but the guy jacked up 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:43.680 the price to eighteen dollars. 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:45.840 Oh yeah, he's. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.000 Trying to gouge me. So I didn't get it. But 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.920 you've been on my mind. I'm just asking you please 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:53.240 let me take your on a real date where I'm 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:54.600 not pawning any jewelry. 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:59.240 Wow, that's a that's a super romantic Ainsley. We've never 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:01.760 heard a man say that on this segment. We've done 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:04.159 thousands of these calls, but at this point we do 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:05.960 need a yes or no. Do you want to see 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:06.960 Gauge one more time? 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:10.399 Sure? 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:16.680 Yes, yes, we've ever had her heart was so in 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:17.360 that Gauge. 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.400 All right, I'm gonna impress you. 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:20.840 You better. 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:24.560 Oh, this is not only a ninety percent chance that 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.879 she's gonna ghost you before you actually meet up, So 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:35.600 good luck. I except I'll take those out Brook and 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:40.800