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Speaker 1: All right, brand new Second Date podcast for you to

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Speaker 1: start your wait CA, it's brooking Jeffrey thing so much

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Speaker 1: for being here. Yes, today's really a lesson. God, I

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Speaker 1: don't even know who's that like. It's just always shocking

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Speaker 1: to me what people don't tell us before we get

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Speaker 1: the other personal Yeah, oh yeah, kind of in general

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Speaker 1: what men do and think women don't notice, right, yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean the general rule is we notice everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a reason why your mom has always known what's up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we pay attention, she sees and hears it all. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, what do we got for comments? Emmy said,

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Speaker 1: you guys have gotten me through cleaning my room, and

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Speaker 1: that's the toughest chore out there. Not even a twelve

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Speaker 1: hour playlist can do that. No, clean your room more often.

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Speaker 2: Look, I saw somebody on my stream yesterday doing deep

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Speaker 2: cleaning thinger watching me play video games and also listening

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Speaker 2: to the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, how are you multitasking that much?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Like crazy double the Jose, I love it. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how all right, Your brand new Second Date starts

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Speaker 1: right now, Brooks and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Second Date updates sometimes for a first date.

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Speaker 2: You need to branch out from doing the same old

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Speaker 2: activities and think outside the box.

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Speaker 1: Nobody wants to think inside the box. Chef.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, instead of taking her to a high end

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Speaker 2: seafood restaurant, take her down to the docks, hands her

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Speaker 2: a pole in a bucket of worms, and see if

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Speaker 2: she can catch her own seafood.

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Speaker 1: Teach a man to fish, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well get it.

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Speaker 2: That's close to the saying, I know. Give a woman

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Speaker 2: a fish, she'll eat for a day. Teach a woman

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Speaker 2: to fish, she'll smell like clams.

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Speaker 3: For an entire week. That's a good thing.

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Speaker 2: And one of our listeners has reached out after he

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Speaker 2: took a woman on an out of the box type

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Speaker 2: of date. His name is Gage, so let's talk to

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Speaker 2: him about it. Gage, Welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 5: Hey, how you going?

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Speaker 1: Oh did you do some urban foraging to make a salad?

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Speaker 5: In a sense, you're actually pretty close.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what urban foraging means?

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Speaker 1: Gage, Well, it's a more uncouth way to.

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Speaker 3: Say sorry sorry, instead of us guessing.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you tell us about this woman that you

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Speaker 2: meant what you did together.

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Speaker 5: Well, her name's Ainsley and she is just super duper cute.

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Speaker 5: We met on one of the dating websites, and great

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Speaker 5: picture is great personality, at least online.

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Speaker 4: So we set up a date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, were you thinking in that moment that you wanted

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Speaker 1: to do something unique and special or is unique and

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Speaker 1: special what you always do?

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Speaker 4: I kind of almost forgot about it, like really knock

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Speaker 1: Oh the way Jeff set it up, it sounded like

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Speaker 1: you were playing something.

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Speaker 3: Well that's how I thought.

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Speaker 4: I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I thought this is an out of the box date.

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Speaker 2: You didn't even have a box.

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Speaker 1: This is a scrambling, don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 3: Date, Like, let's just do whatever.

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Speaker 2: So what did you decide to do with Ainsley at

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Speaker 4: So she messaged me just an hour before the confirm

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, yeah, let's meet at this address.

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Speaker 5: So I gave her an address.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, Google like Olive gardens address and give it to.

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Speaker 3: Her or what.

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Speaker 4: No, but it wasn't a strip mall. So there may

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Speaker 4: have been an Olive garden nearby, but there's.

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Speaker 3: A lot of businesses there.

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Speaker 1: I'm still in like, could it be a manny petty

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Speaker 1: at a strip mall? I mean, I'm always down for

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Speaker 5: We went antiquing.

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Speaker 4: Oh isn't that cool?

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Speaker 2: Alexis I like drifting, So I mean the same, it's

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Speaker 2: just way more expensive. Thrifting as like clothes and antiquing

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Speaker 3: So what did you buy? Like a desk together or.

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Speaker 1: Like glass where they have such fun glass?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, some old lamps that's hot.

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Speaker 5: You know, there's some really nice pawn shops out there,

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Speaker 5: so I the first stop was my favorite box.

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Speaker 3: But you don't have to tell us where those nice

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Speaker 3: pawn shops are. Yeah what?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, stars.

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Speaker 5: Well, I took her to up like three different places

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Speaker 1: And so did you buy it for her?

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Speaker 4: Well? I took it up to the front. The guy

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Speaker 4: wouldn't bunch on it. He wanted fifteen, which is crazy.

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Speaker 1: Fifteen bucks. You're not going for.

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Speaker 3: Her deal on a date.

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Speaker 4: It was only worth at least eight.

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Speaker 5: I mean, come on, you gotta have that go part

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, you don't want to have a woman see

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Speaker 2: you getting ripped off, because that's not attractive either.

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Speaker 3: So I'm glad that you stood your ground.

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Speaker 1: And were like, no, what did she say when you

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Speaker 4: She said it was fine. I think she was impressed.

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Speaker 4: You guys are right. It's an alpha move.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, I think she wanted the scarf. She

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I told her she could go back again another

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Speaker 4: But not that day.

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Speaker 5: You can never go back the same day to get

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Speaker 5: that item, yeah, because.

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Speaker 1: Then they'll just that they'll charge you because then they

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Speaker 3: Okay, that doesn't feel like very romantic, but that.

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Speaker 1: Was the first step. Okay, maybe you got or something

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Speaker 1: great at another shop.

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Speaker 2: I respectfully disagree with what everybody else is saying in

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Speaker 3: I think you're doing a great job, Gage, so keep going.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was fun. And then you know, we're getting

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Speaker 5: a little hungry because we've been doing that for forty

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Speaker 3: N did you talk them down from the price of

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Speaker 4: That price was firm, unfortunately.

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Speaker 1: What was the like, what was the vibe between you two?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 5: It was cool?

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Speaker 4: I mean shopping was definitely the high point. Once we

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Speaker 4: didn't quite feel as natural. The conversation was a little

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Speaker 4: forced at that point. But I'm still I like her

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Speaker 4: and I want to take her on a real date now, Oh.

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Speaker 1: Like one you actually remember before it comes up.

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Speaker 2: Oh I seen so, not like a last minute date

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Speaker 2: that you just threw together.

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Speaker 3: Maybe even make a reservation.

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Speaker 4: Oh, whoa, Yeah, I'm willing to make a reservation.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you're willing to go that far for this girl

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Speaker 2: after hanging out with.

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Speaker 1: Her once, she's gonna swoom. Oh yeah, this.

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Speaker 4: Is the talks about it.

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Speaker 2: I know you might even propose by the time we

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Speaker 2: get to the end of the call.

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Speaker 3: I'm scared. How long has it been since you last

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Speaker 5: It's been a week and a half.

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Speaker 1: God, if you were a pro, you'd go back to

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Speaker 1: the pawn shop, get the scarf, and then bring it

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Speaker 1: to the next day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I'm way ahead of you. I went back there to

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Speaker 5: get that scarf. Oh he jacked up.

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Speaker 4: The price to eighteen bucks.

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Speaker 5: I didn't get it.

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Speaker 1: You didn't get it, no way you thought about it. No,

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Speaker 1: that's just three more dollars.

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Speaker 3: He's not willing to budge.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that you know what you want and you

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Speaker 2: stick to your guns, and you will go for it

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Speaker 2: for nothing less than what you think it's worth.

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Speaker 3: That's what we're gonna do with Ainsley here today.

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Speaker 4: Now, let's focus on Ainsley, not the crummy shop where

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Speaker 4: I gave a one star Reviewtube good Man.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, I guarantee you that our listeners are

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Speaker 2: gonna give you a five star review once we get

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Speaker 2: you a second date?

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Speaker 4: Is this free of charger? What do I have to

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Speaker 4: pay for it?

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Speaker 3: I like that you're already starting to haggle. I appreciate

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Speaker 3: that about you, Gauge.

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Speaker 1: I feel ten bucks.

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Speaker 3: We should start, Yeah, we should start somewhere. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 3: gonna start at one hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: We'll meet somewhere in the middle when we come back

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Speaker 2: and do your second date update right after.

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Speaker 1: This, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Update.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if a last second trip to an

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Speaker 2: romantic experience, but hey, maybe Ainsley isn't most women. That's

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Speaker 2: do much planning before his big date with Ainsley, so

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Speaker 2: they ended up just bouncing around a local strip mall

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Speaker 2: doing some antiquing, haggling over the price of old nineteen

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Speaker 2: sixty scarves, which he never actually bought. So it's been

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Speaker 2: a week and a half and Gauge has now reached

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Speaker 2: out to us saying he would really like a redo

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Speaker 2: where he promises he will definitely do more planning this

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Speaker 3: Yes, he even said.

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Speaker 4: He may make a reservation.

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Speaker 3: Why our jaws dropped.

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Speaker 1: We never asked him. Did you hear anything from Ainsley

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Speaker 1: after the date?

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Speaker 4: Not a thing?

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay, Well maybe she's just busy ponn in

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Speaker 1: her stuff like she drew her eyes were really open

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Speaker 1: to start getting the possibility.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he got the fever.

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Speaker 1: Yes, look at you.

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Speaker 2: I know now you have like a shared interest that

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Speaker 2: carries on through the rest of your relationship.

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Speaker 3: If we can get her to agree to a second date.

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Speaker 3: What she picks up and she's in a pawn shop. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm actually in the middle of negotiate and.

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Speaker 1: Gotta call you back.

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Speaker 2: Yet, this might be a match made in heaven.

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Speaker 3: It could be. Let's see if she even answers the phone.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to dial her right now. Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, hey, Ainsley, this is jeff from the radio show

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 7: Oh hi, Hi, Hi.

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Speaker 1: Shows here, Hi, Hi, good morning. I like your name.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: She's like my parents did. Well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we definitely approve, and we don't want to be

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Speaker 2: too intrusive here anything, but we would like to ask

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Speaker 2: you a few intimate details about your dating life.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, nothing too over the time.

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Speaker 7: But I don't know. I guess it depends.

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: I'll just ask do you remember going out a little

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, perfect, Oh gosh.

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Speaker 2: Gauged has reached out to us asking if we could

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Speaker 3: And a half.

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Speaker 7: Okay, so he wait, he called you, guys.

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Speaker 2: He reached out to us, and from what we heard

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Speaker 2: But we don't know if that's true, or if there

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Speaker 1: We'd love to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, would you mind telling us a little

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Speaker 7: Sure?

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Speaker 1: I guess, well, I mean only.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, yeah, sure, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we'll start at the strip mall. Is that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so you know about that.

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Speaker 6: So he gives me this address, which is a strip mall.

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Speaker 7: No, it was a surprise. I didn't know where it was.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So that's and on a scale of one to ten,

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Speaker 6: Well, it was an antique shop, which is I thought

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Speaker 1: Was it a pawn shop or an antique shop?

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Speaker 6: Was an antique shop, which was cute. So we go

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Speaker 6: over here across the way, there's this pawn shop over here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can find cool all that stuff at pawn shops.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I had never been to one, so I didn't know.

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Speaker 6: So we go over to this pawn shop, which is

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Speaker 6: very different than the antique shop vibe. Yeah, it's huge.

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Speaker 7: Trying to figure out what this place is.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and he he's over at the counter and like

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Speaker 6: And so I realized, I've been looking at stuff for

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Speaker 7: Like what's going on?

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Speaker 6: So I kind of like sneak over to see if

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those get pawned a lot, like rings and guns

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Speaker 3: Were you trying to buy an engagement ring?

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Speaker 7: He wasn't trying to buy it.

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Speaker 6: I think he's trying to sell it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so the guy has.

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Speaker 6: The loop and they're looking at it, and it occurs

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Speaker 7: He's trying to sell his engagement ring.

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Speaker 1: You're running an errand a really questionable Errand so why

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Speaker 1: didn't you ask him? Why did you ask him? What

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Speaker 6: Because if he didn't tell me, that would be weird

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Speaker 1: Maybe you could position yourself as a potential buyer.

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Speaker 2: I know Brooke is much more intrusive than most people.

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Speaker 2: She'll just go up and ask any question, doesn't matter

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Speaker 1: Do you need to call out men more? If your

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Speaker 1: you have every right to be like, yo, what's up?

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Speaker 3: Did you just do that?

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Speaker 2: Let's just ask him right now the book way, because

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Speaker 3: Really, yeah, yeah, I think he's their gauge.

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Speaker 7: Hi high Gage.

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Speaker 5: So you didn't you didn't like antiquing.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know what he's trying to not address

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Speaker 2: You didn't mention anything to us about a ring at

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Speaker 5: Look, it belonged to a girl that I did not

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Speaker 6: You had a year to sell the ring, but you

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Speaker 5: I'm a busy guy.

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Speaker 4: I tried to stack things together. You know I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: multitask if I'm close to the pawn shop, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Did you think she wouldn't notice?

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Speaker 4: Look, I was just trying to kill two birds with

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Well fine, but are you saying that was a heart off?

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Speaker 6: It was so weird and like, okay, even if you're

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Speaker 6: gonna do that, why wouldn't you tell me or like

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Speaker 6: loop me in that that's what we're doing.

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Speaker 4: Well, I was gonna ask if you wanted to try

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Speaker 4: it on, because the guy was giving me a key

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Speaker 5: I thought that would be even weirder.

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Speaker 1: Did you imagine, Hey, will you try on my exes

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Speaker 1: and cage rags if I could get a better price.

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Speaker 2: Well, is saying that she just wanted that clear communication

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Speaker 1: He would you have done that? Come on?

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Speaker 6: I actually honestly think I probably would have, like if

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Speaker 6: I felt looped in on.

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Speaker 1: It, Oh, like a body incline.

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Speaker 5: I mean, look, I'm a commitment minded person.

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Speaker 4: I think that's what that shows.

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Speaker 3: Oh that is yeah, Gage, did you actually sell it?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 5: He didn't want to offer me anything for it. Of course,

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Speaker 5: I was trying to make enough money for dinner. I

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Speaker 1: That's a man who doesn't want to go into debt Ainsley.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm a cash man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, someone that can think on his feet as like

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Speaker 2: the moment comes to him. So we're seeing a lot

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Speaker 2: of positives from this Ainslee, and we think you should

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Speaker 2: we will offer to pay for your second date.

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Speaker 1: You guys might be a matchmate in heaven. Since you

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Speaker 1: are a woman. You would have tried that engagement ring

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Speaker 1: on and he still needs.

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Speaker 3: To sell it or you can hold onto it and

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Speaker 7: Oh, I would like to see it. You know. Now

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Speaker 7: I'm curious about his case in spring.

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Speaker 4: Oh. Hey, look, I've been thinking about you for the

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Speaker 4: last ten days, and I went back to that pawn

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Speaker 4: the price to eighteen dollars.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he's.

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Speaker 5: Trying to gouge me. So I didn't get it. But

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Speaker 5: you've been on my mind. I'm just asking you please

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Speaker 5: let me take your on a real date where I'm

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Speaker 5: not pawning any jewelry.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's a that's a super romantic Ainsley. We've never

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Speaker 2: heard a man say that on this segment. We've done

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Speaker 2: thousands of these calls, but at this point we do

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Speaker 2: need a yes or no. Do you want to see

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Speaker 2: Gauge one more time?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we've ever had her heart was so in

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Speaker 2: that Gauge.

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Speaker 5: All right, I'm gonna impress you.

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Speaker 7: You better.

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Speaker 2: Oh, this is not only a ninety percent chance that

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Speaker 2: good luck. I except I'll take those out Brook and

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. And how many relationship experts always say,

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Speaker 2: if a man could just communicate a little bit more,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean that's true.

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Speaker 3: All the time. So gentlemen, don't be secretive anymore.

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Speaker 2: Tell your date you want her to help you sell

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Speaker 2: your ex girlfriend's belongings at the Pond store. Ye ask

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Speaker 2: them to model that engagement ring.

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Speaker 1: It sounds nuts, but it would have worked with her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you do that and she will love you forever.

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Speaker 2: That is what I've learned from today's call.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she didn't say whether or not she'd want

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Speaker 1: to cut though. I mean, if you're going to be

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Speaker 1: saying there's probably a percentage that should be thrown. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And a cut of money is the start to

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Speaker 2: any healthy.

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Speaker 3: Relationship, That's right.

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Speaker 1: Jeff Monday Dating.

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Speaker 2: I love that we're doing this service for the world

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Speaker 2: and all the daters out there. So if you want

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Speaker 2: to get in on this action, email the show. We'll

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Speaker 2: call that person who's not calling you back and go

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Speaker 2: check out all of our second dates. We have them

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Speaker 2: up on our podcast. Wherever you get yours at Brook

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Speaker 2: and Jeffrey