1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: There's a monumental shift in power at work. Employees are 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: speaking up, Turnover is rising, salaries are increasing, hiring is tough, 3 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: and burnout is real. It's time to unleash growth. It's 4 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: time to transform your HR from powerless to powerful. Join 5 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: a DP on February twenty third. Reserve your spot now. 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: Go to get the Plan dot IDP dot com to 7 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: register for the work Interrupted Summit. What girls in the forest, 8 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: our imagination and our family bonds. The forest is closer 9 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: than you think. Find a forest near you and discover 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: the Forest dot org. Brought to you by the United 11 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: States Forest Service and the AD Council. We've all felt 12 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: left out, and for people who moved to this country, 13 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: that feeling lasts more than a moment. We can change that. 14 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: Learn how a belonging begins with us dot org. Brought 15 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: to you by the AD Council. My next guest is 16 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: Sakia Dalila Harris. She lives in Brooklyn and George writing 17 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: about her black culture, literature and oldies music. We really 18 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: got to get into that because she's on the thirties 19 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: and she's on the third of that oldis music. You know, 20 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if there's the oldies go to the 21 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: new edition, or there's an old school beyond new additions, 22 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: because the oldies it's how older, my older might be different. 23 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: She holds her master's in Fine Arts and created writing 24 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: from the new school. She has made a splash with 25 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: her first novel, The Other Black Girl. It sets in 26 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: New York's publican world. The psychological thriller incorporates social commentary 27 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: and about diversity in the workplace and the challenges black 28 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: women often have to navigate. The Other Black Girl was 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:44,119 Speaker 1: bid on by fourteen hear Me fourteen publishing offices before 30 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: landing a seventh figure deal for her first novel. So 31 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: you probably wonder why she's smiled. That's why she smiled 32 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: the seventh figure deal. She's not smiling because she's likes 33 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: from Sean McDonald. She smiled because she had a seventh 34 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: biggie deal and I know what that looks like. And 35 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: it's also said to become a big hit television series 36 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: on Hulu. That's another reason why she smiled. And uh 37 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: written alongside Rahisa Jone, which we don't joan with a 38 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: Quincy Jones daughter, very talented actress. She's on the show 39 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 1: to discussed building your dream please, working to mind and 40 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: making conversation Zakia Zechia, Delila Harris. How are you doing? 41 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm doing great with that introduction you just gave me. 42 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: It was a little fun worked in today because of 43 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: the fact that you know, we should be happy. We 44 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: should you you're you're that age you call a millennial age, 45 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: you know, and you know you you jumped out there 46 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: and you put to use work in another job. And 47 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: why did you leave your job to introduce yourself in 48 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: the world of a novelist. Yeah, well, you know, I 49 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: gotta say I have loved writing since I was five, 50 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: or maybe even before then, whenever I first learned how 51 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: to write. So I've always wanted to be a writer. 52 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: My dad is a writer as well, so very early 53 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: on I saw that as a possible career trajectory for me. Um, 54 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 1: and as I got older, I kept writing. Um kind 55 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: of realized I'd have to do other things also because 56 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: it's hard to be a writer, hence publishing. But I 57 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: also loved breaking with writers and talking about structure and 58 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: writing on a micro level. So all of those things 59 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: kind of led me here. But ultimately for me, you know, 60 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: after a couple of years of working and publishing. I 61 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: just knew I couldn't work on my own writing if 62 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: I was putting myself into other authors. So I was like, 63 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: you know what, let me just invest in this, see 64 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: it through, um, leave this permanent, well paid, well not 65 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: well paying, but paying, and help stop. Yes, playing New 66 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: York and trying to figure this out and it worked out. Well, 67 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: let's let's slow it down a little bit. Because you 68 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: know your novelist and you're saying that you were watching 69 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: other people's work. Did that help you? Did it allow 70 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: you to see? You know, because a lot of books 71 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: get published, a lot of published don't get sold. Okay, 72 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: we know that for a fact. So and being a 73 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: person who getting to see and being able to critique 74 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: and being able to discuss work with other other people 75 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: in your position, what did you learn from that? Oh? Absolutely? 76 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: That was that was huge for me, um being on Well, 77 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: first of all, I should say before I went into publishing, 78 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: I did my fe and nonfiction writing, so I was 79 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: very used to having people um critique my my world 80 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: and my life. I was literally writing personal essays about 81 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: my own insecurities and my own questioning of you know, 82 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 1: who I was and where I'm from from Connecticut. Um, 83 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: So all of those things. Having eyes in my work 84 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: in that way helped, and then being eyes on someone 85 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: else's work character when I was working editorial, because yeah, 86 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: you're so right, Like, there are so many great stories 87 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: out there that never get a publisher for various reasons, 88 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: and there are so many hurdles, um. And I was 89 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: aware of all of those things. But I also thankfully 90 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: knew how to navigate this world and knew all of 91 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: the steps that go into it. And you know, for me, 92 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 1: that was really empowering to be able to be like, Okay, 93 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: here is the function that an agent is supposed to have. 94 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: I want to find the right person who will represent 95 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: me and be someone who is understanding what I'm trying 96 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: to do and advocate for me in the way that 97 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: I need to be advocated for. It also allows me 98 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: to advocate for myself. You know what I mean? Absolutely? Um, 99 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm speaking with the author of the very popular book 100 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: The Other Black Girl is going to become a television 101 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: serious or Hulu Zakia, Zakia. When you talk about writing, 102 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: what makes a good writing you know what writer or 103 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 1: what makes a good storyteller? Because I just look background 104 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: on me. I started out in Hollywood is a sitcom 105 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: writers series like Sister Sister gooda oldies all. You know, 106 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: that's me, Sister Sister Jamie. You know, Parenthood the Parker, 107 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: that was me, That was me and so and that 108 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: was a different style of writing and now and I 109 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: we are not in the same class. Okay, because it's 110 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: storytelling that you're doing. Allows you to even talk about 111 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: looking at the thread in your clothing as you talk 112 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: about you at the beginning of the book, you know, 113 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 1: and looking over your shoulders. It comes you go to 114 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 1: the joke, to go to the moment, Go to the joke, 115 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: go to the moment. But in your world, because I 116 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: have a lot of listeners who want to be writers 117 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 1: or who want to get their stuff published, material published, 118 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: what makes a good story writer or storyteller? And what 119 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: is good writing? Mm, that's such a good question. Um. 120 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: I think that it depends on who the person is. 121 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: But I know for me, uh, being just engaged in 122 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: the world, UM was really helpful. UM. I love people watching. 123 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: I also love meeting new people. I've worked a lot 124 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: of jobs that required me to talk to people very 125 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: different backgrounds from me. UM, and just understanding people or 126 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: trying to understand people. I think that both such a 127 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: long way when you're trying to write a story. UM. 128 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: I would also say reading, just reading makes a good storyteller. UM. 129 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 1: I was really into reading as a kid, and I 130 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: will say, like I kind of fell off in high 131 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: school because I was required to read a lot of 132 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: things that I didn't want to have to read. UM. 133 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: But I did find other writers. In college I took 134 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: I majored in English literature, so I was also taking 135 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: classes on a Russian literature class. I took a class 136 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: and Black literature, a lot of which I'd never heard 137 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: of authors that I've never been introduced to in high school, 138 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: like Niki Giovanni and and um Bell Hooks and so 139 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: all of those kind of things. I think that comes 140 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: with being introverted, um, but also being extroverted UM as 141 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: much as possible. It's it's hard now, I think, especially 142 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: this is the world is where it is you used 143 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: or introverted. I'm looking at you now, we was introversion. 144 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: I would just make up a word. We was introversion 145 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: in your life? Okay, I'm saying it's very beautiful. Smile kid. 146 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: I have to say the word magnetic personality and I've 147 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: just seen you on a screen zoom screen here. So 148 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: when did introverted party become boy five years old? Six years? 149 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: It wasn't recent, It was not recent. Okay, talk to 150 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: me about that. Turned Did you just threw out in 151 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: front of the in the middle of this interview? You know, 152 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:22,679 Speaker 1: I am pretty I call myself an introverted extrovert. Where 153 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: I was like, let me get the order, because I 154 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: am I am someone whom I mean, this isn't necessarily 155 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: an introvert, but I am someone who is in my 156 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: head a lot, and that helped me with this book 157 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: because Nella is in her head all the time, and 158 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: it can be hard to be in her head. Sometimes 159 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: you want to get out. And that's why I have 160 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: the other characters partly, um and why we see her 161 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 1: in her her world with Malake, outside of the suppressive environment. 162 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: Um So, so i'd say that's that's where. And I 163 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: can also be shy, and I can also kind of 164 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: sometimes takes me time or especially as a younger person. 165 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: But this is something now that I am in affair 166 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: and I do have this platform unfortunate enough to have 167 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: the space to speak on certain things. Um. But I 168 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: know when I was in publishing starting out, I just 169 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 1: went with the flow um and felt like that was 170 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: what I had to do because I was one of 171 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: very few people there, and I felt just lucky to 172 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: be there. It's finally here, the season of celebration, and 173 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: no matter how you celebrate with family and friends, whether 174 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: you're preparing for Reis Magos or Karamu lighting the Manura, 175 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: are going to midnight mass, Coals has just what you 176 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: need to make those traditions special. Plus you'll find gifts 177 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: for all your loved ones. Send warm wishes with Cozy 178 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 1: Fleece's sweaters, loungeware, blankets and throws. Support minority owned or 179 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: founded brands by giving gifts from Human Nation and shame moisture, 180 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: or treat them to everyone's favorite active wear from top 181 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: brands like Nike, Adidas, and under Armor. And in the 182 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: spirit of giving, Coals Cares is donating eight million dollars 183 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: to local nonprofits nationwide committed to the health and well 184 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: being of our communities. No matter how you celebrate, when 185 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: you shop at Coals, you're right where you belong. So 186 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: this season, give with all your heart with great gifts 187 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: from Coals or Coals dot Com and We're live here 188 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: outside the Perez family home, just waiting for the and 189 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: there they go, almost on time. This morning, Mom is 190 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: coming out the front door strong with a double arm 191 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: kid carry. Looks like Dad has the bags. Daughter is 192 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: bringing up the rear. Oh but the diaper bag wasn't closed. 193 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: Diapers and toys are everywhere. Oh but mom has just 194 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: nailed the perfect car seat buckle for the toddler. And 195 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: now the eldest daughter, who looks to be about nine 196 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: or ten, has secured herself and the booster seat. Dad 197 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 1: zips the bag clothes and they're off. Ah, but looks 198 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: like Mom doesn't realize her coffee cup is still on 199 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 1: the roof of the car, and there it goes. That's 200 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: a shame that mug was a fan favorite. Don't sweat 201 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: the small stuff. Just nailed the big stuff, like making 202 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: sure your kids are buckled correctly in the right seat 203 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: for their agent's eyes. Learn more at NHTSA dot gov 204 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: slash the Right Seat visits h s A dot gov 205 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: slash The Right Seat. Brought to you by Metza and 206 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: the ad Council. Hi everyone, Al Roker here as a 207 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: guy with his own catchphrase, I appreciate that Smokey's only 208 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: said only you can prevent wildfires. But I'm filling in 209 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: because there's a lot more to report, like when they're parched, 210 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: their windy conditions out there, you gotta be extra careful 211 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: with things like burning yard waist. After all, wildfires can 212 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: start anywhere, even in your neck of the woods. Go 213 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 1: to Smokey Bear dot com to learn more about wildfire prevention. 214 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the U. S. Forest Service, your 215 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: state Forrester and the AD Council. Well, you know, luck 216 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: and talent. It's gonna be real. You know, I'm talking 217 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: to the key, you know, the other black girl. That's 218 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: tough book. New York Times best Selling out the best 219 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: selling book, name most anticipated book of twenty one by 220 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: Time Magazine, to Washington Post, here did Harper's Bizarre, Herald, 221 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 1: Entertainment Weekly, Bustle, BuzzFeed, Parade, good Reads, Fortune, and BBC. 222 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: They've they've described your book as get Out meets the Devils, 223 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: where it's proud of this. You know, that's their version 224 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: of it. You know my version of the book was 225 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: that I've worked in a corporate environment, uh and where 226 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: I was maybe the one of the few blacks in 227 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: the on the floor, great working environment because they it 228 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: was our diversity, it was diversified. So I wasn't like 229 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: this character who was hoping and wishing that they will 230 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: see somebody like them, just somebody walked through the door. 231 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: They can be there so she can communicate and feel 232 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 1: a sense of wholeness and that that really is the 233 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 1: core of the story. Now, when you start developing a 234 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: story like this, to kill what said it to your mind? 235 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: Because like you said, you're in your head and this 236 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 1: story is kind of uh. I want to use the 237 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 1: word Stephen King type or Jordan's Peel type. So because 238 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: I want to go back a little bit because when 239 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: you your reference, you reference twilights on you ever lost 240 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: off my age? You know what I'm saying. You reach 241 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: the old music. You mentioned green in your book, and 242 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: you gotta One of your character's name is Hazel. I 243 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: don't know you, Hazel. I don't care who you are. 244 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: I don't know no millennial name Hazel. Now my age, 245 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: I went to your school with a girl named Hazel, 246 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: so I know that's an old name. So let's talk 247 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: about being in your head and the fun the fundness 248 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: of these characters. They're fully fleshed out and the process 249 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: of coming together and laying out that this book became 250 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: so anticipated and not playing out as a well read 251 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: novel and eventually be a television series on Who the 252 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: Floor Is Yours? Miss introverted Well, I first got to say, um, Hazel, 253 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:44,319 Speaker 1: the name comes from um one of my Well, I'm 254 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: just gonna say my favorite aunts. I'm telling your old name. 255 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: I told you, thank you. And she was just such 256 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: a wonderful, wonderful soul, wonderful human. Um I was kind 257 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: of everybody baby, and I just love the name. And 258 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: so I was like, I want to write a character 259 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: who's has this name. So that's actually where anypol came from. 260 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: I let you brought that up. But yeah, I mean 261 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: so when I first started writing this story, I had 262 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: just the simple idea of Nella and Hazel, and something's 263 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: messed up about Hazel. I didn't know what it was 264 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: going to be. I just knew that they were going 265 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: to have a hard time because of this environment that 266 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: is very white and made up of a lot of 267 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: white people who are constantly watching them and assuming what 268 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: their relationship is going to be like. And then that 269 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: on top of what Nella assumes the relationship is going 270 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: to be like because she has this whole idea of like, oh, 271 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: we're both natural, we're both in this space. We must 272 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: have had similar experiences, we must have a similar outlook 273 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: on being black in this space. But we don't all 274 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: think the same thing. We all have an opinions, and 275 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: not everybody is out there to help everybody else, and 276 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: everyone has their own kind of boundaries and their own 277 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: idea of code switching, and their an idea of selling 278 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: out if I may say, um, and what makes this 279 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: thing different, if there is anything, And so all of 280 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: those are things with nell and Hazel that I was 281 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: thinking about, and then specifically in terms of Nella because 282 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: for me, while I was working in book publishing and 283 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: just in general too, people in my past who have 284 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: also gone through these things. So I talked to my dad, 285 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: who worked in a corporate environment in the nineties in 286 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: New York. I've talked to um other people in publishing 287 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: who worked in publishing years before it is what it 288 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: is now and their experiences. So I felt like with Nella, 289 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: there needed to be this beacon and the way that 290 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: Tony Morrison was for me working in book publishing because 291 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: she had also worked in editorial once spint a time. 292 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: I knew Nella would have that beacon as well, and 293 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: it came in the Diana. Now let's talk about the book. 294 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: You know, I've unfortunate with Steve Harvey. Three Noble one 295 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: bestselling books there were number one is really and then 296 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: not just a word that's that's a powerful word. And uh, 297 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 1: I remember the first book you Think like I'm In, 298 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: which eventually was sold more than three million copies. And 299 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: also it was translated in thirty different language, which I'm 300 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: sure this book is being translated as we speak, if 301 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: it hasn't already been done. Um, going in and senior book, okay, 302 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: in a store or at the airport, let's talk about that, 303 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: because I know I used to go in the store. 304 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: I should look, Oh, that is Steve there. We just 305 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: joke around and I take my book his book and 306 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: move it up and move it around, you know, going 307 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: to a store, you know, and say, hey, what why 308 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 1: is this book back there? Do you know? Do you 309 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: know the author named Steve Harvey? You know it's a comedian. 310 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: Has this a little book called thinking Like? Talk us 311 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: about that, because that's so much fun, you know, because 312 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 1: you work real hard and you're covered clearly as as 313 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: a statement covered the other black girl talk about that 314 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: part of it, and then allowing your family to experience 315 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: going out there and seeing it on the shields as well. Yeah, 316 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: that part has been so cool. It's been so cool, 317 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: I mean because you imagine what it's gonna be like 318 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: and you just can't possibly know. And to go into 319 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: the store and see this cover that UM had, yeah, 320 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:21,359 Speaker 1: I mean, the the best possible story behind the cover, 321 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: because I know it is hard out there, especially for 322 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: black authors to get that representation UM in the cover itself. 323 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: And so for me, when I was writing this book, 324 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: I knew, of course going into it that as an author, 325 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 1: you you do have a say, but depending on your contract, 326 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 1: you can only say so much, and at the end 327 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 1: of the day, your team the publisher has a lot 328 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: more say generally UM. But when I went in to 329 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 1: those cover conversations, I knew I wanted to have a 330 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: black artist designed the cover, and my Asian and I 331 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: sat down and we created a list of black artists 332 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: that we found on Instagram online and one particular author 333 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: UM was Emmy Coker and he is a Nigerian born 334 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: artistic belief, and he created this gorgeous piece of artwork 335 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 1: for Twitter's June team last year. It's called and basically 336 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: the image of the cover. It's a little different, but 337 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:27,479 Speaker 1: the thing I loved about it, I mean royalty a 338 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: profile view of her. You see her, she was looking legal. Um. 339 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 1: And you also have that earring which is an Afro 340 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: pick with our black power fist, which is the kind 341 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: of pick that I actually got the first time I 342 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: went natural a few years ago. And it's also a 343 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: pick that my dad happened to have growing up back 344 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: when we had hair still so he don't be laughing 345 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: at your dad and me. Okay, okay, I had the pig. 346 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: Now I had the pick. We just the same ate 347 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: summer right now. My dad is like, um. But the 348 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: fact that you know, this artwork happened. And my designer, 349 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: who Jimmy Akabelly, who is at Term and Schuster, took 350 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 1: that design and made into this cover and the artist 351 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: of course was so lovely about it too. Tummy Cooker 352 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:21,160 Speaker 1: was like, absolutely, we need more black women authors. Um 353 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 1: excited to be a part of it. And this is 354 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 1: all connected to the pick. It just felt so right 355 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: and it's so exciting to me that young black people 356 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: will go into the store, go into Walmart, into that 357 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 1: independent bookstore, Barnes and Noble, Google, play whatever and see 358 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: this image and see just blackness in this way in 359 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: your face. I just love it. What grows in the 360 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,640 Speaker 1: forest trees, sure, No what else grows in the forest, 361 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 1: Our imagination, our sense of wonder, and our family bonds 362 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: grow too, because when we disconnect from this and connect 363 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: with this, we reconnect with each other. The forest is 364 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: closer than you think. Find a forest near you and 365 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 1: start exploring. I discover the forest dot org brought to 366 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: you by the United States Forest Service and the AD Council. 367 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: If I could be you and you could be me 368 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: for just what hour, If you could find a way 369 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 1: to get inside each other's mind. Walk a mile in 370 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 1: my shoes, wacome mile in my shoes, walcome shoes. We've 371 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 1: all felt left out, and for some that feeling lasts 372 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 1: more than a moment. We can change that. Learn how 373 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: it belonging begins with us. Dot org brought to you 374 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: by the AD Council. Welcome out in the Machine. Adoption 375 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: of teams from foster care is a topic not enough 376 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: people know about and we're here to change that. I'm 377 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: April Dennuity, host of the new podcast Navigating Adoption, presented 378 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: by adopt Us Kids. Each episode brings you compelling, real 379 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 1: life adoption stories told by the family that lived in 380 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 1: with commentary from experts. Visit adopt us Kids dot org. 381 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: Slash podcasts are subscribed to Navigating Adoption presented by adopt 382 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: Us Kids, brought to you by the U. S Department 383 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families 384 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: and the Council. Well, you should love it, and you 385 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: and it's a blessing to see that happened. And you know, 386 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: when I when I look at the genres like this 387 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 1: to go into that horror it was alway several years 388 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: ago when you saw horror. On horror movie, we always 389 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: in a black character. You always do the black character 390 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: is gonna die first. You always say that was just 391 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: running joke. The black character's gonna die for. I don't 392 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 1: know what that brother, Oh, we got paid he did 393 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 1: that clone. But the other black girl. You know, it 394 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: combines all these extraordinary genres. Is a dark comedy, it's 395 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: horror as a thriller, plays with your mind, is science 396 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: fiction and more how were you able to mix all 397 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: these the same blend them altogether comfortably? Because one thing 398 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 1: I want to just say this about you, the kid, 399 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 1: is that you are so descriptive in your writing. I mean, 400 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 1: it's very detailed and it's on which allows me to 401 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: really visualize the moment of the scene that you're trying 402 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 1: to create, which is a gift in itself, and I 403 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: feel that's what really kind of got everybody excited because 404 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: they could feel your experience, They could almost smell your 405 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: experience and also could emotionally be engaged in your experience 406 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 1: from the description of the hair or the big ear 407 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 1: rings when y'all are laughing together or sitting at the 408 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: account and the sun coming through you mean, you even 409 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 1: you even wrote balled up the paper, the paper and 410 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: threw it in the trash. Even you even wrote that 411 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 1: in your in your in your language of your book, 412 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,119 Speaker 1: and it was like, Wow, she is really really on 413 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 1: point here talk about weaving all those things together. And 414 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: that's a strong compliment because, like I said, that's something 415 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 1: I can't do, and that's a gift and the blessing 416 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: that you have. Oh, I really appreciate that so much. 417 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: Um that means a lot to me. Yeah, I mean 418 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,399 Speaker 1: for me blending everything, I'm not gonna stay with it 419 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 1: because it took a lot of eyes on my work. 420 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: It took um people that I met during my bad 421 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 1: school days. It took my dad, it took my agents 422 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: and my editor, a lot of people. Um. But for 423 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: me it was easy in a lot of ways. It's 424 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: just in the sense of knowing that's what I wanted 425 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: to do, because I do feel like so much of 426 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 1: the Black experience is often humor and fun and joy, 427 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: but then also there's like a bitterness that we have 428 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: to often navigate through, and there's a horrifying nature, especially 429 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,719 Speaker 1: just as black people. Day to day you get up 430 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: and see the news, see what's happening to us, and 431 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 1: then have to go to work or create, and how 432 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: do you manage all of those things. It's it's horrified, 433 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: and so really getting that down and showing what was 434 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 1: at stake for Nella's experiences, but also seeing Nella having fun, 435 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 1: showing her living her full life outside of work, that 436 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: was that was a really crucial part of the writing 437 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 1: process for me. And I guess that doesn't really answer 438 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: a question, but well answers my question. The sense that 439 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: you are. You know, I won't to say all over 440 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: the place, but with the system of story proper storytelling, 441 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: because I had to be able to you know, like 442 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: I said, I could relate to her insecurities because there 443 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: were This book is tied to insecurities. It's because she's 444 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 1: pushed along and some of the flaws that pop out 445 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: of some of the stakes she get into a tied 446 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: to taking bad suggestions or suggestions that she shouldn't, that 447 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: she should like lead with her first thought and then 448 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 1: it just stumbles and it just starts unraveling. And that's 449 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: just the part of it that really catches your eye, 450 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: makes it relatable because we all have been there. And 451 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 1: so I'm talking to the author of the incredible book 452 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: The Other Black Girls, the Other Black Girl, the New 453 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: York Times best seller names because it's a kid. Before 454 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: we wrap up, I've mentioned her name earlier on Rashida 455 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: Jones Uh And the book is being Um, is she 456 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 1: gonna start in the or she just gonna take an 457 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: executive producer role in the Hulu series that the book 458 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:02,400 Speaker 1: is being adapted for. Yeah, we're still in the early stages, um, 459 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: but right now we are co writing the pilot UM episode. 460 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,719 Speaker 1: We have been you know, talking a lot over the 461 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,439 Speaker 1: last year now, I guess well, um, just about the 462 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 1: shape um outline, how the characters are going to be 463 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 1: different in the show versus the and what we do 464 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 1: want to keep because the conversations about blackness and diversity 465 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: have changed, that's in the last year. So exploring that 466 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 1: and how to make your show feel as relevant as 467 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 1: it could be feeling at the time, that's that's been 468 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,919 Speaker 1: really interesting and fun because again also we all have 469 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 1: the yeas of just progress in the best way to 470 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: purvey those insecurities you mentioned, those anxieties and all of 471 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 1: those things, um, because I come from a very different 472 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 1: background Rashida instead, we have worked so well together and 473 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: she's just wonderful and took me under her way. That's 474 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: been the most amazing. I would tell you this is 475 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: a key. You know, Yes, there have been a lot 476 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,400 Speaker 1: of outward changes, okay, but it hasn't changed. Okay. So 477 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: that's why your book was very relatable. So don't try 478 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,920 Speaker 1: to don't try to fit it in because you know, no, no, no, 479 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: actually gotten more instidious that idea of um, you know, 480 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 1: especially with the Twitter, the performative aspect of what we 481 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: saw last year in company, being like, oh yeah, we're 482 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:41,400 Speaker 1: whatever now actually got me even maybe worse. That's maybe 483 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: a little but I don't know, because it's a brilliant book. 484 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,719 Speaker 1: And before Lee, I wanted to teach you about you know, 485 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: this old soul, this drifting inside your head, this introverted 486 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: head here, you know, the twilight Zone references. I'm going like, 487 00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: really really trilight Zone she references old you seeking all 488 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: this stuff. Talk about you in general. So you seem 489 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: so relatable, you see, like a genuine person that I 490 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 1: could really and continually talk to and laugh at it. 491 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: I can take you the comedy club and might ask 492 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: you for a day. I just say, I could take 493 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: you to a comedy collect tak your jazz concert. I 494 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 1: can take you to a Frankie Beverly and May's concert, 495 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: that type of thing. Think at yes, look at it. 496 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 1: And so I just feel that this book allows you 497 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: to have those those levels and incredibility and writing it. 498 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 1: So it is that was that tied to just your upbringing, 499 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: your parents putting the music on. Talk about you mentioned 500 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 1: your aunt Hazel, one of the characters is named after that. 501 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 1: Talk about that and also telling writers. How like you said, 502 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,199 Speaker 1: read a lot, read a lot, read a lot, but 503 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 1: also about sharing your honest story lifestyle in this book 504 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: and be animated, authentic correct. Definitely. Well, the music thing 505 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 1: absolutely comes from my parents. I grew up so many 506 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 1: kinds of music in the household, mostly I mean, on 507 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: my dad's side, I had Aretha Franklin, I had Jerry Butler, 508 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:10,359 Speaker 1: the Spinners, all of the fifties, sixties, seventies, UM R 509 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: and B and soul Um. And my mom's side, I 510 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: had um a lot of Jackson five and a lot 511 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 1: of um different artists, I mean Rod Stewart too. Like 512 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 1: I also come from a very diverse music background as well, 513 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 1: so that was really fun to play on and reference 514 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: people who would catch those africas. So I appreciate, yes, um, 515 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: but yeah, I think making sure when you are writing 516 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 1: your story, just don't worry too much about what's coming 517 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: down the line. I mean, of course you're going to 518 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: I know I did, and I was kind of sometimes 519 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: I fell into those moods of like, oh, well, if 520 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: I keep it in the publishing world and you know, 521 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,959 Speaker 1: what's what's what are we gonna say? Or oh if 522 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: I if I get too much into the kitchen of 523 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: this black woman care like but like, you know what, 524 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 1: I need to just tell this story the way that 525 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 1: is true for me, and I think if you do 526 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: that it will You're learning and have a braid on 527 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: the via YouTube that's authentic to me. I'm just gonna 528 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: let you know I've just read the book, my friend, 529 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: and there's a brilliant book. Thank you for allowing me 530 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: to come into your world. The other black girl, Tequilla, 531 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: the Leila Harris, thank you for coming on Money Making Conversation. 532 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: You're fantastic. Oh by that gut you know this is 533 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 1: so much fun. And tell your dad you know I 534 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: got it going on. You know I got it going on. Okay, 535 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on Money Making Conversation. If you 536 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 1: want to hear any of my interviews, I'll see in 537 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 1: my interviews of money Making Conversations, please go to money 538 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: Making Conversation dot com. I'm Rashan McDonald, I am yours. 539 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: In this season of giving, Cools has gifts for all 540 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,760 Speaker 1: your loved ones. For those who like to keep it cozy, 541 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 1: find fleeces, sweaters, loungeware, blankets and throws, or support minority 542 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: owned or founded brands by giving gifts from human Nation 543 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: and shame moisture. And in this spirit of giving, Coals 544 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 1: Cares is donating eight million dollars to local nonprofits nationwide. 545 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: Give with all your heart this season with great gifts 546 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 1: from Coals or Coals dot com. A man called Those 547 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 1: Miller of the eighty five South Show and do men favors. 548 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: Make sure you check out The Black Market, hostly by 549 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 1: me only on the eighty five South Show. Fee Subscribe 550 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: to the eighty five South Show to here and tune 551 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: into the black Market here amazing interviews with entrepreneurs, creatives, 552 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: and thought leaders, people who are doing amazing things in 553 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: the black community. Listen to The Black Market on my 554 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: Heart Radio, app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to podcasts. 555 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: Adoption of teams from foster care is a topic not 556 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 1: enough people know about, and we're here to change that. 557 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: I'm April Dinuity, host of the new podcast Navigating Adoption, 558 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: presented by adopt us Kids. Each episode brings you compelling, 559 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: real life adoption stories told by the families that lived them, 560 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: with comment Harry from experts. Visit adopt us Kids dot org, 561 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 1: slash podcast, or subscribe to Navigating Adoption presented by adopt 562 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: us Kids, Brought to you by the U. S. Department 563 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 1: of Health, that Human Service as Administration for Children and Families, 564 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: and the Act Council