1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: Good morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the New Corner Office, 2 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: the podcast where we share strategies for thriving in the 3 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: new world of work, where location and hours are more 4 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: flexible than in the past. Today's tip is to reschedule things. 5 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: Well handled well, you might free up space in your 6 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: schedule and make others happy too. I'll start this episode 7 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: by saying that I really dislike rescheduling things in general. 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: I like to figure out before I commit to something 9 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: whether I am actually going to do it. I assume 10 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: that other people have busy lives as well, and they 11 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: are no doubt doing difficult things to make our original 12 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: time work. Keeping the commitment is really about being respectful, 13 00:00:56,200 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: so I almost never ask to reschedule things. But that 14 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: doesn't mean I don't sometimes welcome a little more breathing room. 15 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: I recently got an email from someone asking me to 16 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: reschedule a virtual discussion that was supposed to happen in 17 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: a few days. She explained the situation and said that 18 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: she was happy to keep the current time if it 19 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: was best for me, but if I was open to 20 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: another time, she would welcome the opportunity to move it. 21 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 1: I loved that framing the note was so respectful of 22 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: my time and that it honored the commitment we made. 23 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: She was only going to move the time if I 24 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: was neutral or if the new time worked better. As 25 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: it turned out, the original week was getting pretty crowded 26 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: for me too, so I was quite happy to move 27 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: the event to a different time. But I felt so 28 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: much better about the situation than some of the last 29 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: minute emails I've gotten from people over the years, just 30 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: announcing gonna have to move this, and not for really 31 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: serious emergencies or anything along those lines. Often it's just 32 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: too much other stuff going on, but that can usually 33 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: be anticipated if we try so. If you are staring 34 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: down a busy day or week and you are thinking 35 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: about rescheduling a few commitments, try using a version of 36 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: My friends approach. First, plan ahead. You can see if 37 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: things are getting busy, so triage your schedule several days 38 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: ahead of time. This increases the chances that people are 39 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: going to be flexible. Then explain to the other person 40 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: that you will keep the original time if that works best, 41 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: but if they are open to moving it, you would 42 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: appreciate it. The event only moves if it leaves the 43 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: other person in the same place or better off that way, 44 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: you're not being flaky, you're being respectful. You're looking for 45 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: solutions that help you both. And this means that when 46 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: the rescheduled event finally happens, the other person will be 47 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: in a far more positive mood about it. In the meantime, 48 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: this is Laura, thanks for listening, and here's the succeeding 49 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: in the New Corner Office. The New Corner Office is 50 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: a production of I Heart Radio. For more podcasts, visit 51 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you 52 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: get your favorite shows. M