WEBVTT - Episode 24: Queer Representation In Geek Culture

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, everybody, welcome to another episode of Nerdificent. I'm if

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<v Speaker 1>you wide away and sitting in the new corner of

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<v Speaker 1>the table kicked out. Yeah, it is I your other

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<v Speaker 1>co host, Danny Fernandez, and today we are joined up

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<v Speaker 1>top by comedian executive producer at Enemies of Dorothy, an

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<v Speaker 1>event coordinator at LAGS, which is the l A Gaming Society,

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<v Speaker 1>Christopher Smith Bryant. Yeah, this is where I talk. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am sitting in my spot. It feels weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel weird and I've never been here before. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a incordinator at LAGS, l A Gaming Society, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super excited to be on your show and talk about

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<v Speaker 1>gay stuff. Yes, so we have another I know spoiler.

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<v Speaker 1>You already said, what are our episode is? I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>They can see it in the title. And sitting next

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<v Speaker 1>to him is the technical program manager at PlayStation A

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<v Speaker 1>gaming enthusiasts and LGBTQ activist Cannon's backman. Hey, thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us. Thank you so much for having me. I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder how did y'all meet? How do you two know

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<v Speaker 1>each other? Oh my god? We okay, well we did

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<v Speaker 1>go on one day. Okay, I'm sorry I did not

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<v Speaker 1>know this. No, it's it's okay. It didn't go well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're friends now, so it went well enough. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think sometimes you meet people, especially being LGBT,

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<v Speaker 1>you meet someone that you have an attraction for, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, I'm not sexually at but I'm so attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to this person, and you're like, oh, it's just because

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<v Speaker 1>our souls are like friends souls. We um. We run

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<v Speaker 1>the l A Gaming Society Together, which is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the largest gay video game groups in America, where we

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<v Speaker 1>create these giant parties and programs for LGBT nerds that

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<v Speaker 1>live in Los Angeles to kind of meet up UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just been a really cool way. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I met Cannon through that and we've met multiple friends

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<v Speaker 1>through that as well. Yeah, you guys actually had the

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<v Speaker 1>Dragon Ball Fighters tournament that I was at that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a great time with Funimation, uh doing Dragonball

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<v Speaker 1>Fighters tournament. It's a really great way because I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>especially LGBT people who moved to l A, they feel lost,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially if they're nerds and they might have, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of social issues like you know, aspergers or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great way for them too. I said that, right, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a great way for them to meet with other nerds.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it to other nerds who can't socialize like

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<v Speaker 1>I can't socialize Christianize. The extent of our friendship is

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<v Speaker 1>sending memes to each other like four times a day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how we communicate. That's all of my friendships. And

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<v Speaker 1>then that's it. And I'll see Danny like once every

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<v Speaker 1>six months. But I feel closer to her because of

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<v Speaker 1>our memes. That's a millennial friendship. And I need up

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<v Speaker 1>our meme game. We seen them here and there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're we are meme light usually it's just only it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>We spill a lot of tea in our in our chat.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to talk about a little bit canon

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<v Speaker 1>about you work with WITS. Is that what it's called

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<v Speaker 1>Women in Technology? So yeah, yeah, yeah, can you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about that group? Sure. So one

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<v Speaker 1>of the really cool things about being at PlayStation now

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<v Speaker 1>is we're experiencing a lot of change for the better.

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<v Speaker 1>We've we weren't from two different companies at Sony that

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<v Speaker 1>we're considered kind of the redheaded stepchild. We were the

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<v Speaker 1>gaming division UM and now since the PlayStation four is launched,

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<v Speaker 1>we've kind of become the crown jewel of the Sony companies,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's ushered in a lot of really positive change.

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<v Speaker 1>So our headquarters moved from Tokyo to san Mateo, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're kind of embracing a lot of modern UM culture

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<v Speaker 1>things and culture changes UM to kind of, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>invite more people to be a part of what it

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<v Speaker 1>is that we do at Sony. So what has come

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<v Speaker 1>with that has been a lot of diversity initiatives, and

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<v Speaker 1>one of them was m making what we call employee

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<v Speaker 1>resource groups, and we haven't played resource groups. There's five

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<v Speaker 1>at Sony currently. There's Women in Technology at Sony, which

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<v Speaker 1>is our women's group. There's Proud at Sony, which is

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<v Speaker 1>our LGBT group. There's PAN, which is PlayStation African American

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<v Speaker 1>Network at Sony. I think it's PANS, and then there's

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<v Speaker 1>a fourth and fifth one. I don't remember what the

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<v Speaker 1>other on are. But having all those groups that Sony

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<v Speaker 1>has been a really really good experience because it's been

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<v Speaker 1>able to bring people I work with together in a

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<v Speaker 1>really different way, in a really interesting way, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of really interesting effects on our work

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<v Speaker 1>culture and on the projects we do and pretty much everything.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been really great well with Cannon and I, especially

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<v Speaker 1>especially because we're running events with the l A Gaming

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<v Speaker 1>Society UM. PlayStation let us hold their first LGBT E

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<v Speaker 1>three party. Oh that's so cool, which was really amazing

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<v Speaker 1>because we we just like put up an event like Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this will be fine, and luckily we put up an

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<v Speaker 1>event on Facebook because like within a week, I think

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<v Speaker 1>there are two thousand people that clicked interested in it

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<v Speaker 1>and we're like, oh, sorry, were you having this at

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<v Speaker 1>your house? Because we luvely had an event space for it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I remember Cannon's like, I don't know how we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fill this, and we're like, oh, we're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to get everyone in. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a cool moment, especially because I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>anyone realized how many LGBT nerds there are and how

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<v Speaker 1>underrepresented they are as a group, and it was an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing way, especially to get a lot of people who

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<v Speaker 1>worked for PlayStation to kind of be like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a huge, huge, huge group. And especially it

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome because they had the E three presentation from

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<v Speaker 1>PlayStation actually opened up with a lesbian moment, a lesbian

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<v Speaker 1>kiss between two characters for the Last of Us two.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh so it's just a really powerful moment for all

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<v Speaker 1>of us. Also, what it was really cool too, was

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<v Speaker 1>because Ellie being lesbian was alluded to in the DLC

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<v Speaker 1>but not confirmed, and I feel like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>LGB characters are has have to deal with that with

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<v Speaker 1>the off screen you know representation, where it's like we're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to assume that or even like you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>to take it back to Nickelodeon, Like a few people

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<v Speaker 1>were wishy washy with the end of Legend of Cora

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<v Speaker 1>because it wasn't as strong of it ending to really

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<v Speaker 1>confirm everything. So to kind of just have that kiss

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<v Speaker 1>there and like yep, we're here, it was I even

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was like really cool because you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think just from the perspective of being like a black

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<v Speaker 1>person and wanting to see you know, representation, it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's it's funny how like we can cheer each

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<v Speaker 1>other on, like everyone something. I feel like some people

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<v Speaker 1>in our respective like you know groups, think that it's

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<v Speaker 1>a contest when it really is just we want everybody winning.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was hyped to see crazy rich agents do well.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yes, it get it, you know, And I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, it's just like there's room for everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is funny because you know when you do

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<v Speaker 1>have like so many I think white dude bros think like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, this is dumb and trying to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>s j W and all this when they don't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think it's crazier because I feel like lgbt

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<v Speaker 1>Q is a little more invisible, Like you can, like

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<v Speaker 1>someone can be Chris's homeboy and not know that he

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<v Speaker 1>is gay and then be like, what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>of this LGBT You know s j W always clogging

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<v Speaker 1>up trying to ruin my games. You know, they would

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<v Speaker 1>have to be blind to not know that I'm gay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you would actually be surprised though you are. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they just don't sometimes they don't think of it, like

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<v Speaker 1>they just don't what we're gonna say. You are wearing

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<v Speaker 1>a sailor moon necklace with nelace, another very LGBT pro

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean all of the sailors. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like in general, but specifically Neptune and urineus are so

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<v Speaker 1>and I saw that you were posting that you were

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<v Speaker 1>watching it this past weekend. You know what was amazing

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<v Speaker 1>is for a show that was in the nineties, there

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<v Speaker 1>was a character that said that they had they admitted

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<v Speaker 1>of having a crush on Usagi and most animals at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, the main character, if someone of the same

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<v Speaker 1>sex admitted that they were attracted to him, they would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, WHOA gross, So like try to make a

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<v Speaker 1>comedic moment out of it. And the weird thing was Usagi,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like she took care of the person's feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, I don't have the same you know, emotions

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<v Speaker 1>that you feel towards me. But it was just like

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet about it. And it was such a progressive

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<v Speaker 1>show in that way for its time that it means

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<v Speaker 1>so much to you know, ALGBT nerds for that reason. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to ask you guys, like what were some

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<v Speaker 1>of the characters and shows that you latched onto as

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<v Speaker 1>a child, or when did you first feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>saw yourself in media were represented. Oh that's a tough one. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>this is going to be horrible to say, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it started with fan fiction. Yeah, I really started

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<v Speaker 1>with like fan web comics, like even just seeing because

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<v Speaker 1>I I mean I remember as far as like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really into comic books, the as a Marvel fan. The

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<v Speaker 1>Young Adventures was kind of like and is it North

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<v Speaker 1>Star as well from X Men. Yeah, that were the first,

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<v Speaker 1>like big ones from Marvel and then Batwoman, But it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of started before then, seeing like web comics on

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet. Some of them were very racy, um of different,

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<v Speaker 1>like characters that I would ship together like people, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>are like fan fiction and sometimes it's just sweet to

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<v Speaker 1>see people that I like shipped together. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was actually the first thing I had because there really

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<v Speaker 1>as a kid, there wasn't there wasn't really that much

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<v Speaker 1>representation as someone who's you know, turning thirty soon. There

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<v Speaker 1>really wasn't as a kid any representation, especially in video games.

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<v Speaker 1>They're birdel like that was a transgender bird from in

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<v Speaker 1>Sailor Moon. That was in Sailor Moon. They changed in

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<v Speaker 1>the American version, they changed the lesbian scouts to be cousins.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think all of us at the time, we're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what type of relationship, like are you having with your cousin?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, my it is just weird. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I split my tongue into my cousin's mouth. But

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes how people get cannon? What about you like? What

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<v Speaker 1>were if not like that you felt represented? What were

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<v Speaker 1>some of the characters and shows that you at least

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<v Speaker 1>latched onto as a as a kid, like? What characters

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<v Speaker 1>did you like? So that's a good question. I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up watching He Man, which I think is why I'm gay. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just makes sense, makes sense? Um. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>earliest video game reference that I can think it was

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<v Speaker 1>actually from Dragon Age. I don't know if anyone ever

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<v Speaker 1>played Dragon Age, but it was the first game I

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<v Speaker 1>played that had gay optional romances, which I played that

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<v Speaker 1>game every which way to get all of the gay

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<v Speaker 1>romances because I wanted because it was like my first

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<v Speaker 1>exposure to that and I was like, holy crap, Like

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<v Speaker 1>even replayed it as a female character in romance all

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<v Speaker 1>the female characters that you can romance, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just cool to have that option because I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>that option before. Yeah, speaking of that, that actually reminds

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<v Speaker 1>I now can think the very first video game for

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<v Speaker 1>me was The Sims. The Sims because I think I

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<v Speaker 1>remember them adding like LGBT relationship and there's a huge

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<v Speaker 1>controversy around it, but when you could add, when you

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<v Speaker 1>could woo hoo, and the bed like that was my

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<v Speaker 1>first gay porn was pixelated woo hoo, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>wild too, just just the pixelated like who and then

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<v Speaker 1>it would have like almost the fighting smoke, like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll own crazy Simsy's. I was like, is this what

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<v Speaker 1>it's supposed to be? When you see it's not pixe

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<v Speaker 1>laid what um? I I would say fan fiction was

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<v Speaker 1>how I explored my sexuality as well. Um and also

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<v Speaker 1>just like anime what is it? I forgot the name

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<v Speaker 1>of it now when it's not the manga, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>like fan made manga. I can't remember tom Anyways, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of exploration there. But I was able to be,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the best way to describe it as a

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<v Speaker 1>passenger in that experience because my best friend in high

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<v Speaker 1>school came out to me in like like the summer

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<v Speaker 1>between eighth grade and freshman year, and it was yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm a good guy. Guys, I'm one of the

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<v Speaker 1>hashtag woke Yeah no, And it's so funny because to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's also kind of been my frustration with bigotry because

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<v Speaker 1>it was that simple it's just like you're still the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would I care like who you love? It was

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<v Speaker 1>so too for me to think back and as a

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<v Speaker 1>like thirteen year old have no inhibitions and no like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, this is that or whatever. It's It's like

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<v Speaker 1>crazy to see how grown adults will like go back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth on this with nothing. And also I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>a strong proponent of like my own business, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and if it has nothing to do with you, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you even have an opinion on it? But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>side tracking a bit, but too But like even him

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<v Speaker 1>growing up, it was the same thing. He really kind

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<v Speaker 1>of gravitated towards uh sailor Moon because you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was that same thing because they're like the uncut version.

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<v Speaker 1>They're lesbians. It's tight and beyond that, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>think because we're both hyper nerds, Like we watched DVZ together.

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<v Speaker 1>He made DBC has a lot of queers characters. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember we I will bring this back. Every is the

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<v Speaker 1>gay icon. We've talked about this. It's zarbon so so um.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that you posted like a picture. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was a Dragon ball Z related I think I

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<v Speaker 1>was in my underwear next to freezer and we're both

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<v Speaker 1>sticking our butts out as you do, as you do

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram, and somebody was like, don't bring your homosexuality

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<v Speaker 1>into Dragon ball Z and I'd be like, have you

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<v Speaker 1>watched it? Well, my favorite is Danny. Then went off

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<v Speaker 1>on this person and she's like, oh you think you

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<v Speaker 1>know about Dragon ball Z And I was like this

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<v Speaker 1>comment I should say, I thought like I brought the facts. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to post these like belfies on Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>I just put like, you know, hashtag butt or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think people straight guys would just see a

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<v Speaker 1>feminine figure and be turned on by it and then

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<v Speaker 1>like then look at the picture and then realize that

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<v Speaker 1>there's a guy, and um, I think, yeah, exactly. We've

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<v Speaker 1>we've all been there, you know Eusually you're like, oh, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I I've done that with your post because so many

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<v Speaker 1>boot models that like, I'll see Chris come up, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm not reading the screen. I'm like, oh nice.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, oh, look it's Chris again. But

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<v Speaker 1>you're very supportive. Yeah, yeah, very supportive. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's what happens is then he got angry and then

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<v Speaker 1>try to school me on Dragon ball Z and Danny

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<v Speaker 1>was not having it. She was like, no, well, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so fascinating to me because anime they don't have necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>the same weird religious, extremely structured like homophobia and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that seems to be over here where they made Where

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<v Speaker 1>a Cure to Rama made a lot of these characters

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<v Speaker 1>kind of gender fluid for a reason and has commented

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<v Speaker 1>on this. So it's just frustrating to me that people

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<v Speaker 1>are like, no, it's this, when well, that's what's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny is all the like super weaves you know, who

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<v Speaker 1>want to copy everything about Japan will just skip over

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<v Speaker 1>that part, which is the Japan's not having their huge

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<v Speaker 1>obsession over masculinity where there is that kind of gender fluidity.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many anime characters that are androgynous that can

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<v Speaker 1>go either way. I mean even like Double Man cry Baby,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, spoilers, but I'm gonna give you thirty

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<v Speaker 1>seconds to speed past this if you really want to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. But at the end, when Satan has like

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<v Speaker 1>straight up breast and it's like never addressed, it's never

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<v Speaker 1>like a thing. It's like, yeah, no, I I am

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<v Speaker 1>a man, I have breast, I am beautiful and this

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<v Speaker 1>is in let me destroy the world. You know, japan

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<v Speaker 1>culture is very interesting though they because they still have homophobia,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's different. And I believe homosexuality is illegal in

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<v Speaker 1>Japan for Japanese citizens. Is that correct canon Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's an interesting law they have. I I go

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<v Speaker 1>to Japan fairly regularly for work, so I have a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of experience with Japanese culture and it's fascinating

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<v Speaker 1>and I love going to Japan. But one of the

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting things I learned very early on was so

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<v Speaker 1>things like institution are illegal between Japanese citizens, but prostitution

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<v Speaker 1>between a Japanese citizen and a non Japanese citizen is

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<v Speaker 1>not legal. And you'll find a lot of things or

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<v Speaker 1>is like I'm sorry, yes, yeah, what about homosexuality in Japan?

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<v Speaker 1>So being gay is not illegal in Japan. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you ask any Japanese people like are they're gay people here,

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<v Speaker 1>they will tell you no. It's a very fascinating thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet in a lot of their art nor culture, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>see a lot of gender nonconforming people. You'll see a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of queer people. You'll see people that don't fit

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<v Speaker 1>the normal gender spectrum, so they're very comfortable with it

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<v Speaker 1>in their art and in their style and in their culture.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you ask them straight up, like what is

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<v Speaker 1>the l g T community here, they'll say, oh, Japan

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have those. That doesn't happen here. It's bizarre. And

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<v Speaker 1>then they'll say, if you do see it here, it's

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<v Speaker 1>because foreigners have come here and they've like and I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if the art is that is like their expression

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<v Speaker 1>of it, because like, yeah, if we're just looking at

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<v Speaker 1>animate and like, it's so not all of it, but

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of it is sexual and sexual between them

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<v Speaker 1>and women, men and women, man and man, like just

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<v Speaker 1>a large spectrum, and so yeah, I find that fascinating. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it is interesting. And that's just a whole another

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<v Speaker 1>deep dive of a whole another culture because that they're

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<v Speaker 1>because there's just so many nuanced levels to it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think this is okay at all, because to me,

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<v Speaker 1>the way it sounds on paper is like appropriation. You're

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<v Speaker 1>you're willing to make money off of the imagery and

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<v Speaker 1>having it in your media, but when it comes time

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<v Speaker 1>to actually allow it to happen, to allow certain people

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<v Speaker 1>to be free, now we're going to pretend they don't exist.

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<v Speaker 1>That's well, that's their kind of way of dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>anything in Japanese culture is just they if they don't

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<v Speaker 1>like something or if it makes them feel uncomfortable, they

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<v Speaker 1>kind of are just shut it down or like this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't happening. What are you talking about? I did want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about, Sorry to transition. I wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about some queer characters in Ner dumay So. Some of

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that I personally love would be zena warrior princess.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he watched her. Amazing You and

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<v Speaker 1>I Chris have talked extensively about Wonder Woman. So and

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<v Speaker 1>who is she? She's officially bisexual, right, which I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's basically been hinted forever but and was then openly confirmed.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, it was it was frustrating to see

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<v Speaker 1>people upset about this when it was like, she lives

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<v Speaker 1>on an island of all women. Women know how to

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure other women. There's no way that these goddesses are

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<v Speaker 1>just sleeping alone every night by themselves. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>anyone that's read a Wonder Woman comic was upset by it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was like a lot of people like

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<v Speaker 1>Linda Carter. No, but it's so true. And another thing

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to say before I move off of

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<v Speaker 1>her is that in the movie with her being with

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Trevor and people were like, well, clearly she's not

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<v Speaker 1>by I'm like, no, it's just the clock struck straight

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<v Speaker 1>this time, might not next time. But that's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's she can still be a bisexual woman and have

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<v Speaker 1>relations with a man. That's actually how that works. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with bisex, I mean people's opinions on bisexuality

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<v Speaker 1>in general, as they don't understand that you can be

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<v Speaker 1>with someone that's the opposite sex and still be bisexual. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so many people take that away from bisexual people. It's

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<v Speaker 1>sad to see that. Oh yeah, no, even to go

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<v Speaker 1>even a little further into it. It is funny that

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<v Speaker 1>type of nerd, which is basically, you know, for lack

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<v Speaker 1>of a better term, just really just only trying to

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<v Speaker 1>protect their sexual desires around the character. Like the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing with the outrage of Shira. You know, some people

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<v Speaker 1>are like, oh, it's just because it's done with. There

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<v Speaker 1>is a camp of people who are like, this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the Shira. I remember who you know, it was very sexy,

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<v Speaker 1>or whenever they make a character more modest than they

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<v Speaker 1>get mad. It's like, you're not even in my eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>a real fan of this character. You only like this

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<v Speaker 1>care for your sexual pleasure and think that no one

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<v Speaker 1>should touch it to make you happy in a way

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<v Speaker 1>that the character wasn't even built for in the first place.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, go to Rule thirty four and get

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<v Speaker 1>your rocks off, believe like the actual art and the people,

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<v Speaker 1>actual fans of the character, like let them have the

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<v Speaker 1>things they want, which is good story progressive styte storytelling,

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<v Speaker 1>like leave leave your like weird. You know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to kink shame you, but leave it out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. The really funny thing just about Wonder Woman,

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<v Speaker 1>real quick, they're really funny about Wonder Woman. So she

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<v Speaker 1>has a totally queer origin story. There's actually a movie

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<v Speaker 1>about her three creators, and it's a man and two

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<v Speaker 1>women that we're in a relationship at the time that

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<v Speaker 1>we're super into bondage, and that's why Wonder Woman's power

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<v Speaker 1>is the lasso of truth and she would tie people off,

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<v Speaker 1>make sense. So there's this whole like all of the

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<v Speaker 1>queer undertones of Wonder Woman are absolutely intentional. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember even in the film in the boat

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<v Speaker 1>scene when she was like, oh no, I about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>pleasures or whatever with a man and a woman, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, what did you find out that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't really need you? That is a queer like moment

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<v Speaker 1>of being like, yeah, no, we've know how to pleasure

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<v Speaker 1>each other. We don't actually need you unless we want

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<v Speaker 1>to have children. So, like you said, the undertones, but

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<v Speaker 1>like if you it's there, it's there. But I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to know some of your favorite queer characters in gaming,

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<v Speaker 1>or in television and film, or some of the fandoms

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<v Speaker 1>that you are into. That's a great question. Um, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to think of It's so weird even thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>like gay characters in video games, for instance, there's really

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<v Speaker 1>uh so many, Like who who can you think of

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<v Speaker 1>who's gay? I was gonna say, Chris, you actually introduced

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<v Speaker 1>me to America Chaves, Yeah, the one that did, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's a Marvel character. Yeah great, Batwoman's great. Um, there

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be a little bit more representation in video

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<v Speaker 1>games because I think the sides like the last of

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<v Speaker 1>us there. I'm trying to think of a triple A

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<v Speaker 1>title right now that has like a main character that

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<v Speaker 1>is LGBT, and I can't think of one on the

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<v Speaker 1>top of my head. Are very many UM comic books

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<v Speaker 1>that's slowly turning around. But I mean, we're even just

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<v Speaker 1>fighting to get a woman. I mean it's like we're

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<v Speaker 1>finally getting a Captain Marvel movie. Like it's finally just

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<v Speaker 1>even getting a woman on screen, or finally getting black

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<v Speaker 1>panther on screen. It's it's a it's a it's a

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<v Speaker 1>long uphill battle. I would say a character that I've

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<v Speaker 1>always enjoyed who I think has some serious like Fizaz

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<v Speaker 1>and queer overtones is Bayonetta. Yeah, all of the Bayonetta

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<v Speaker 1>games are just super gay. I don't care what anyone says.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a drag queen character obviously, and I don't mean

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<v Speaker 1>that meaning that she's a man posing as well. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean as as far as like the culture goes and

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<v Speaker 1>as far as how she uses her sexuality, it is

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<v Speaker 1>very and the way that she jokes in the undertones,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of almost like drag sona type of stuff. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>the more that you say that when you when you

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<v Speaker 1>ask queer nerds who do they find that represents them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's usually a lot of female characters because there aren't

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<v Speaker 1>they're not many gay characters, especially in video games. I

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<v Speaker 1>think there was like the Ballad of Gay Tony Grants

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<v Speaker 1>Theft Auto four. That's another big one. It's been very

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<v Speaker 1>lacking obviously in in video games and nerd culture. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of sometimes that way where it is

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<v Speaker 1>once again like that off screen type of stuff where

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, that person is gay. But the Division

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<v Speaker 1>had a lesbian a kind of like your lead point person,

0:24:32.920 --> 0:24:35.520
<v Speaker 1>which was Faylal. But once again that was an off

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<v Speaker 1>screen stuff. But that one was a little tricky because

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of those games where you get story notes

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<v Speaker 1>through like pickups and stuff. But I don't think there

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<v Speaker 1>was anything that leaned heavily heavily on it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>know she and that I mean that game as a whole,

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<v Speaker 1>because it took place in New York, had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of uh, a lot of like gay characters in it,

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<v Speaker 1>like the first doctor you help references her wife who

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<v Speaker 1>died in this and so. But like it would be

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<v Speaker 1>nice to have like something like The Last of Us

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<v Speaker 1>where it's like someone that people can look at and

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<v Speaker 1>be like there there, you go right there and not

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<v Speaker 1>have their sexuality. It's it's hard because you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>it as a plot device. And since that, it's like,

0:25:15.000 --> 0:25:17.280
<v Speaker 1>we're a liberal company, look at us like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's why The Last of Us was so perfect.

0:25:19.800 --> 0:25:21.800
<v Speaker 1>It's a part of our character. It affects who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>it affects how you Your sexuality does affect so much

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<v Speaker 1>about your personality, but it's it's hard to get that

0:25:27.359 --> 0:25:29.919
<v Speaker 1>where it affects your personality. But it's not a stereotype,

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<v Speaker 1>and the company is not using it to make a

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<v Speaker 1>statement there like this is just the character and this

0:25:33.880 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 1>kisses because it's it's not a political statement. It's just

0:25:36.680 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 1>we're showing a story, and she romance is part of

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<v Speaker 1>the story. I do feel like some of them can

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<v Speaker 1>be a little bit of a cop out. I agree

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:48.159
<v Speaker 1>with that, I in a different type of way. In

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:51.879
<v Speaker 1>the Latin X community, they recently had Hernandez that was

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<v Speaker 1>named as Magnum p I and then people were like, Okay,

0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 1>well he's a Mexican man, so are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>like address that at all, And they were like not really, no,

0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:03.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like okay, but his America just by definition, it's

0:26:03.520 --> 0:26:06.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna be a little bit different than the last guy.

0:26:06.240 --> 0:26:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Like his experience is, like you said, it's gonna inform,

0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:11.439
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna shape is his experience. And so for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like a cop out to just make

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<v Speaker 1>someone brown or make someone queer and then not address

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<v Speaker 1>it at all. And so that kind of happened a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. I felt like in two thousand seven with j. K.

0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:25.960
<v Speaker 1>Rowling and Harry Potter when she was attended to the

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<v Speaker 1>Q and A at Carnegie Hall and she revealed that

0:26:27.840 --> 0:26:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Dumbledore was gay, and it's like, this is great, that's awesome.

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 1>And then we thought, like in Fantastic Beasts or like

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<v Speaker 1>and other stuff, that it was going to be addressed

0:26:34.440 --> 0:26:37.959
<v Speaker 1>and it's not. And so I kind of just like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I feel like they did that a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit in Deadpool too, where it's just like you

0:26:42.440 --> 0:26:44.959
<v Speaker 1>kind of say, like, oh no, they're like explore their sexuality.

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 1>It was like, great, are we going to actually see

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<v Speaker 1>them with another man? Like are we gonna actually see

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:50.639
<v Speaker 1>them be physical or something? And then they're not. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm like, so it feels like you're just using

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<v Speaker 1>this to say it. I don't know how you guys

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>feel about that. They're using it to kind of get

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<v Speaker 1>the game market on board, on like Twitter, like they're

0:26:59.600 --> 0:27:01.560
<v Speaker 1>getting the Twitter gaze on, you know, like that type

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:03.800
<v Speaker 1>of audience, like people on the Internet on board, but

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<v Speaker 1>not enough for the casual movie goers watching it to

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<v Speaker 1>be offended. And I feel like that's kind of like

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>with Dumbledore, that's a huge part of his story and

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:15.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't get I mean, I'm hoping it will be,

0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:18.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, eventually explored, but I don't want to judge

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't seen the movie and I understand what

0:27:20.960 --> 0:27:23.320
<v Speaker 1>we're saying, like no, that's not his whole entire identity,

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.359
<v Speaker 1>but like it does feel a little bit like if

0:27:25.359 --> 0:27:28.560
<v Speaker 1>you don't include it, there's a way to You don't

0:27:28.560 --> 0:27:30.720
<v Speaker 1>want it to be like where it's shoved down people,

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:34.640
<v Speaker 1>no one wants anything show it's obviously, uh speak for yourself,

0:27:36.080 --> 0:27:37.920
<v Speaker 1>but there's a way to include it where it's still

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:41.359
<v Speaker 1>your sexuality is always genuine maybe yeah, And it's always

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<v Speaker 1>going to affect some of your your character decisions. It

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:47.920
<v Speaker 1>always will. I think it's it's a really difficult line

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 1>to walk, right because you want you want to portray

0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>queer and diverse characters in a way that is that

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:57.040
<v Speaker 1>is heartfelt and that is real, and you also don't

0:27:57.080 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 1>want to lose your core audience that is Middle America.

0:27:59.760 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>So it's tough. I think it's my kind of thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Yeah, I know, And that's such an interesting

0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:10.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of stance and walk, because are we helping or

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:15.399
<v Speaker 1>hurting by hiding, you know, this from Middle America because

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:19.520
<v Speaker 1>lots of times they in Middle America, you know, I

0:28:19.560 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>feel like at times can be cop outs because I

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:25.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like Middle America is the excuse that kept a

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 1>movie like Black Panther from being made for so long,

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:31.240
<v Speaker 1>and then we saw how that did move like crazy

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:33.640
<v Speaker 1>rich Asians come up. For so long, we thought how

0:28:33.720 --> 0:28:38.560
<v Speaker 1>that did. And you know, I think Moonlight did well.

0:28:38.640 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure it didn't make that much money, but

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>I think that's less because it tackled black gay issues

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.440
<v Speaker 1>and more because it was an art house film, you know,

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 1>and though there I think, if you were too Simon,

0:28:49.360 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>this year did really actually fantastic, speaking of like I mean,

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:55.520
<v Speaker 1>big budget you know movies. I think it, Yeah, it

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:58.160
<v Speaker 1>did fantastic, and so many people watch us and we're like,

0:28:58.640 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're so happy that it was an lg

0:29:01.440 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 1>BT film where it wasn't another person dying from the

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 1>AIDS epidemic, where it was like just like it was

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 1>a happy story and it was just a silly nineteen

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 1>eighties style like romance comedy that just featured a guy

0:29:14.080 --> 0:29:17.120
<v Speaker 1>looking for another guy and it was just amazingly well

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:19.560
<v Speaker 1>done that people are like, oh, thank god, it wasn't

0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:23.360
<v Speaker 1>someone homosexuality. It was part of the movie. They tackled

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:25.560
<v Speaker 1>parts of it, but it wasn't like in a in

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<v Speaker 1>a way where it was just a part of it

0:29:27.840 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>was just a segment of it, and it was just

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 1>part of his character. Yeah. I mean, I think that's

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:32.640
<v Speaker 1>a big part of it too, is we're finally in

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:36.040
<v Speaker 1>the part where we can justify getting better movies made

0:29:36.320 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 1>for those that are not straight and white and cis

0:29:39.320 --> 0:29:41.720
<v Speaker 1>gender right, Like in the past, all the Game movies

0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>were really stupid, and Love Simon is like a really

0:29:44.960 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 1>really good movie, Like the production value is good, the

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:48.880
<v Speaker 1>acting is good, the script is good, all of it's

0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:52.000
<v Speaker 1>really good. Black Panther another really good example, Like everything

0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:54.560
<v Speaker 1>about Black Panther was like triple A quality, Like it

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:57.040
<v Speaker 1>was brilliant, And I think we're finally getting to that

0:29:57.080 --> 0:29:59.680
<v Speaker 1>point where it's like, yeah, we can't tell these stories

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:01.680
<v Speaker 1>and they will be interesting. We just have to do

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>it right. We are going to take a quick break

0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:08.240
<v Speaker 1>and then come back and talk a little bit more

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:18.880
<v Speaker 1>about more of our favorite queer characters, and we are back.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to touch on the c w C there

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<v Speaker 1>superhero shows, well several of their shows, but definitely their

0:30:24.240 --> 0:30:26.920
<v Speaker 1>superhero shows seem to be really taking initiative as far

0:30:26.960 --> 0:30:30.760
<v Speaker 1>as including more queer characters. I know, there's Thunder and

0:30:30.840 --> 0:30:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Black Lightning, there's Curtis Holt on Arrow, there's the Flashes,

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Captain Sing, there's Alex Danvers and Supergirl Sarah Lance and

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Legends of Tomorrow gave a sharp and Ledgends of Tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we have Ruby Rose as Batwoman. I don't know

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:46.080
<v Speaker 1>if you saw that was announced. That's very exciting. I

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 1>think the main character too. You know, bat Woman, here's

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:53.680
<v Speaker 1>one of the most fascinating characters. And you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>it was a few years ago and you told me

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<v Speaker 1>that they would announce Ruby Rose as Batwoman and she

0:31:00.520 --> 0:31:02.600
<v Speaker 1>would be getting tons of hate, I'd be like, Oh,

0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 1>is it because it's a lesbian character. No, because nerds

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 1>are bad. Yeah, and if if they think you don't,

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:11.800
<v Speaker 1>because you know, all nerds are the perfect casting director,

0:31:11.960 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 1>all these great fan casting picks that we see. By

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:19.560
<v Speaker 1>the way, that's what's so funny. It's every time fans

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 1>cast something, it's always trash or the budget would be insane,

0:31:24.120 --> 0:31:27.200
<v Speaker 1>or that person would not dedicate, like it's like get

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:29.880
<v Speaker 1>out of here, like they were upset with was it

0:31:29.960 --> 0:31:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Heath Ledger when he was originally Yes, that's so true,

0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 1>fantastic um. Yeah, and there's also isn't Voltron have characters?

0:31:39.480 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 1>They just confirmed it at Comic conto. Oh and uh,

0:31:43.000 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 1>thinking of even video games because I forgot this reference.

0:31:46.360 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Tracer from Overwatch the one of the main faces of

0:31:49.320 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 1>over Watching a lesbian. So yeah, I would be remiss

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:57.560
<v Speaker 1>if I didn't mention Stephen universe, which is brilliant, beautiful,

0:31:57.680 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 1>such a positive bright. I mean even they though if

0:32:01.560 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 1>even their fans are bad bad you want to like

0:32:05.520 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 1>hit I want to like roll up a newspaper slash

0:32:08.200 --> 0:32:10.600
<v Speaker 1>like spray them. But I also think it's the issue.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Cannon sometimes deals with this. Working at PlayStation

0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 1>there is sometimes a huge amount it seems like it's

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 1>a large number of people on Twitter. But it's because

0:32:21.240 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 1>it makes people's voices sound bigger than it actually is.

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>And a lot of times the Internet will freak out

0:32:27.520 --> 0:32:31.720
<v Speaker 1>about something. It doesn't necessarily reflect the majority. It doesn't

0:32:31.800 --> 0:32:35.880
<v Speaker 1>reflect sales, it doesn't reflect the majority of a fan base.

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:39.160
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't really reflect anything except for Internet. You know,

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 1>Twitter height, which sometimes means absolutely nothing. It's it's bizarre. Yeah, no,

0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 1>that's that's true. I know that you're good friends with

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 1>Kelly Marie Tran and she experienced like so much hate

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:53.080
<v Speaker 1>that she got off social media. But the thing is

0:32:53.080 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 1>is that when I was at Comic Con, there were

0:32:55.760 --> 0:32:58.600
<v Speaker 1>so many people dressed like Rose Tico that it was

0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:01.600
<v Speaker 1>just I mean, what people just love her so much.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's hard when like all you've seen, it's a

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 1>small minority of Star Wars obsessive harassment. Yeah, and the

0:33:11.320 --> 0:33:14.760
<v Speaker 1>majority of Star Wars fans are super lovely, nice people.

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of it has to do with

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 1>two with people will have multiple accounts that the log

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 1>into it makes if you you you can have represents

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:27.200
<v Speaker 1>so many different people on Twitter that it it allows

0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:29.480
<v Speaker 1>to for a falsehood of what actually is. But it's

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:31.800
<v Speaker 1>also I mean it's why you know, Kelly's not on

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:35.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, Instagram. It's because sometimes you don't need to

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:38.680
<v Speaker 1>read everything all of the negativity. Yeah, and also it's

0:33:38.920 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>one thing that's important to know. It may seem like

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<v Speaker 1>when you're getting all the notifications and all the people

0:33:44.200 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>in your mentions, you know, it may seem like, damn,

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:50.720
<v Speaker 1>this is a huge amount of people who think this,

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:54.800
<v Speaker 1>but only seven percent of Americans are using Twitter. That's

0:33:54.880 --> 0:34:00.880
<v Speaker 1>seven percent of Americans are using Twitter accounts. That's a

0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of fake accounts, and that's a lot of like,

0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:06.840
<v Speaker 1>that's not a lot of people. So so that and

0:34:06.840 --> 0:34:08.800
<v Speaker 1>and you know what it is. I find that to

0:34:08.880 --> 0:34:12.839
<v Speaker 1>be true because whenever something big happens on Twitter and

0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:14.719
<v Speaker 1>you do kind of step out to the real world

0:34:14.760 --> 0:34:16.840
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, have you heard of this? And someone hasn't.

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 1>You're like how. But like when you see a number

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>like that seven percent, you're like, I guess, I guess not,

0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:26.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, I guess I guess it isn't as as

0:34:27.160 --> 0:34:29.440
<v Speaker 1>big a big a world as we think it is.

0:34:29.480 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 1>It just feels that way. It is people from other

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:34.960
<v Speaker 1>countries and smaller areas as well. I was also going

0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>to say, talking on the thing of online harassment. I

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:40.200
<v Speaker 1>mean it's something that Cannon has had to deal with

0:34:40.239 --> 0:34:43.560
<v Speaker 1>working with PlayStation and and everything. I don't know if

0:34:43.600 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 1>you can talk about that at all. You get like

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 1>death threats from LinkedIn. They used to be really common,

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>so back when the PlayStation that was a little bit

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.360
<v Speaker 1>less reliable than it is now. Any time we have

0:34:55.400 --> 0:34:58.640
<v Speaker 1>an outage, it's totally common for people that have PlayStation

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 1>and they're lin to profile to get death rts in

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>your inbox. Wow, it's fairly common, and it's it's it's

0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 1>not it's endemic to the whole gaming industry. Like I

0:35:06.960 --> 0:35:09.480
<v Speaker 1>have female friends that work at studios and a lot

0:35:09.480 --> 0:35:11.000
<v Speaker 1>of them won't even put what the name of the

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>studio they're working at because the game will get released

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:16.000
<v Speaker 1>and then someone will be like, well, this level, this

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:19.680
<v Speaker 1>thing was misdesigned. So I'll go and find a female

0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:21.920
<v Speaker 1>graphic artists and just start sending her death threats and

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:24.320
<v Speaker 1>hate mail, and then everyone just bandwagons. And I remember

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:27.160
<v Speaker 1>that was a huge thing that happened with I believe

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 1>Mass Effect, where they were blaming this one woman for

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:33.359
<v Speaker 1>ruining the game, and someone had to come in and

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 1>be like, well, she didn't even have that huge a

0:35:36.000 --> 0:35:38.160
<v Speaker 1>part of it. There's actually these men, but you guys

0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:42.160
<v Speaker 1>are targeting her and it is interesting, and you know,

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:45.279
<v Speaker 1>does PlayStation do anything to protect y'all? Like can you

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:48.680
<v Speaker 1>report these people and you know, get their accounts yanked

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:51.399
<v Speaker 1>or anything. I mean, it depends on the social media using.

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Lincoln has a pretty robust reporting system for

0:35:54.040 --> 0:35:56.680
<v Speaker 1>offensive material, so it's not so bad. But eventually saying

0:35:56.680 --> 0:35:59.560
<v Speaker 1>that LinkedIn is like the not the thing that you

0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:02.360
<v Speaker 1>should be. Like LinkedIn, you can see where they work

0:36:02.440 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 1>and who that person is that doesn't like Twitter, I

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 1>understand because you're like a random anime avatar, but like

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 1>linked in the fact that someone is oh man. I mean.

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:14.000
<v Speaker 1>But the craziest thing is you would think that Twitter

0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 1>would have a more robust reporting system than LinkedIn because

0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>LinkedIn at least you're a level of professionals where Twitter

0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 1>should be doing everything it can. But we're learning more

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:27.080
<v Speaker 1>and more every day, and I'm gonna just leave it

0:36:27.120 --> 0:36:29.840
<v Speaker 1>at that, and you know, just leave it at that. Yeah,

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 1>I think, um, one thing, and this probably may sound crass,

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>but you just sort of learned to rise above it

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:37.759
<v Speaker 1>and ignore it because it used to really bother me,

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 1>and then I just started saying, you know, none of

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>this matters, like they're not going to do anything. These

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:45.879
<v Speaker 1>people are hiding behind a keyboard. And all the people

0:36:45.920 --> 0:36:47.600
<v Speaker 1>that I went into, like I have a When we

0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 1>launched the PS four, everyone got jackets that said PS

0:36:50.239 --> 0:36:52.239
<v Speaker 1>four Launch Team, and I would just sometimes wear that

0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 1>out not thinking, and I would have people come up

0:36:54.160 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 1>in grocery stores and in malls and just randomly and

0:36:57.560 --> 0:36:59.239
<v Speaker 1>they'd be like, oh my god, you worked on the

0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 1>PS four. Can I shake your hand? And they just

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 1>like the fans are like the best part, right, And

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 1>it's I think it's important to remember the good experiences

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 1>more than the bad ones, because if we let the

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:11.920
<v Speaker 1>bad ones kind of occupy our mind space, then everything's

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:15.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna just it's so difficult. I feel like for me,

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:16.840
<v Speaker 1>I look at it as a glass of water with

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 1>the amount of sexual harassment that I deal with, and

0:37:18.880 --> 0:37:21.120
<v Speaker 1>I send it Chris, I feel like you have been

0:37:21.239 --> 0:37:23.320
<v Speaker 1>such a positive I just want to take this moment.

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:27.040
<v Speaker 1>You're just you and Iffy have seen so much of

0:37:27.080 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 1>the the harassment that I've dealt with trying to be

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:32.800
<v Speaker 1>in this space, and I just both are very supportive

0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:34.960
<v Speaker 1>men in my life. But I wanted to say I

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:36.799
<v Speaker 1>look at it as like a glass of water, and

0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:38.680
<v Speaker 1>it fills up, fills up, fills up, fills up, and

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:41.640
<v Speaker 1>then eventually I can't take it anymore and overflows, and

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:44.799
<v Speaker 1>then I kind of spiral from the harassment and I

0:37:44.880 --> 0:37:46.920
<v Speaker 1>might take a break, I might step back, and and

0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:49.120
<v Speaker 1>it sucks. I agree, because I want to read all

0:37:49.160 --> 0:37:51.279
<v Speaker 1>my comments. I want to answer the messages, but that

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:53.520
<v Speaker 1>means I have to see all the really bad ones,

0:37:54.120 --> 0:37:57.759
<v Speaker 1>and it's very hard mentally to handle that. I think

0:37:57.800 --> 0:37:59.719
<v Speaker 1>the scary thing is how Twitter is like the new

0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:03.759
<v Speaker 1>k KK hood. I mean, I do mean that though,

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:07.040
<v Speaker 1>because I mean people. It's so crazy how people who

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 1>are hateful, spiteful individuals, they do it in a way

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:12.920
<v Speaker 1>where they can still go to their day jobs. Like

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.560
<v Speaker 1>you must morally know deep down inside that you're doing

0:38:16.640 --> 0:38:20.200
<v Speaker 1>something wrong and hateful if you're acting that way, but

0:38:20.239 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I think you're It's a lot of people who are

0:38:22.160 --> 0:38:24.040
<v Speaker 1>on the Internet, and I think the biggest way that

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I've used to combat hatred is with our group meeting

0:38:28.480 --> 0:38:33.280
<v Speaker 1>nerds who are positive, whether it's queer, people of color

0:38:33.600 --> 0:38:36.520
<v Speaker 1>or just people who are loving. You know, people who

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:38.880
<v Speaker 1>are doing something for the better good, whatever your group is,

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 1>it's finding people in person to talk to, because I

0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:44.799
<v Speaker 1>think the best way to combat the internet hate is

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:49.239
<v Speaker 1>making a present outside in person is the best way

0:38:49.280 --> 0:38:51.879
<v Speaker 1>to combat that. I was just gonna and I want

0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:53.680
<v Speaker 1>to get too political, but you know, a big part

0:38:53.760 --> 0:38:57.600
<v Speaker 1>of the Trump election for me was processing how kind

0:38:57.640 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 1>of awful it made me feel and how terrible if

0:39:00.040 --> 0:39:03.120
<v Speaker 1>everything was. And what I eventually decided after kind of

0:39:03.120 --> 0:39:05.440
<v Speaker 1>coming out of that fog, was that, you know, I

0:39:05.480 --> 0:39:08.680
<v Speaker 1>can't change anyone's mind, I can't fight the hate directly.

0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:11.280
<v Speaker 1>But what I can do is I can spend my time,

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:14.080
<v Speaker 1>my energy, and my money on helping the people in

0:39:14.120 --> 0:39:16.799
<v Speaker 1>my community and then building that up. And that's kind

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:18.480
<v Speaker 1>of what made me get into activism. It's why I

0:39:18.520 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 1>volunteer at the center. That's why the Ely Gaming Society

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:23.799
<v Speaker 1>is starting to have fundraisers for the queer youth of

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.160
<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles, so that we can get people, you know,

0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:28.360
<v Speaker 1>onto a better track, so that they're not homeless or

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:31.960
<v Speaker 1>not alone, or they don't feel so depressed all the

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 1>time by all this negativity. And I can say that

0:39:34.040 --> 0:39:36.960
<v Speaker 1>by putting my focus towards those kinds of things. My

0:39:37.080 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 1>outlook has approved exponentially, even though the news on a

0:39:40.640 --> 0:39:45.680
<v Speaker 1>fairly consistent negative is crazy. Like having a positive outlet

0:39:45.680 --> 0:39:48.400
<v Speaker 1>where I can take kind of that nervous negative energy

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:50.880
<v Speaker 1>and work it into something has made a world of

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:53.200
<v Speaker 1>difference for me. Well, I mean you saw, like you

0:39:53.239 --> 0:39:56.280
<v Speaker 1>see negative homophobia like Kitako would have like a negative

0:39:56.360 --> 0:39:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, this homophobic thing happened today. They didn't write

0:39:59.239 --> 0:40:01.719
<v Speaker 1>about like our E three party, how we raise so

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:04.520
<v Speaker 1>much money for the we I think we raised I

0:40:04.560 --> 0:40:08.600
<v Speaker 1>don't even know how many, like five over five thousand

0:40:08.640 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 1>dollars just for video games for LGBT, you know, youth

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:15.759
<v Speaker 1>to play at the center um, so that they can

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>have an outlet, which is amazingly enough, by the way,

0:40:18.160 --> 0:40:21.719
<v Speaker 1>video games is such a healthy outlet that brings people together.

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:25.719
<v Speaker 1>And and then seeing people being brought together who are

0:40:25.760 --> 0:40:28.359
<v Speaker 1>queer nerds who are thirty to forty years old, you know,

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:31.280
<v Speaker 1>who never had that outlet and in an adult space.

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I think they're positive things that are happening by us

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:38.320
<v Speaker 1>focusing on our community. I'm hoping that maybe the news

0:40:38.560 --> 0:40:41.920
<v Speaker 1>can eventually pick up on some of those positive articles.

0:40:42.000 --> 0:40:45.799
<v Speaker 1>To quote a great movie by the name of Nightcrawler.

0:40:46.000 --> 0:40:48.520
<v Speaker 1>If it leads, it leads, you know, and that's the

0:40:48.719 --> 0:40:51.400
<v Speaker 1>that's what the news is in the business of the

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>moment the news became the business. It's less about you know,

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:57.359
<v Speaker 1>sharing the news and more so what can we do

0:40:57.480 --> 0:41:02.000
<v Speaker 1>that's going to you know, activate people and get a

0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:05.439
<v Speaker 1>reaction out of them and get them sharing our stuff. So, yeah,

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:09.480
<v Speaker 1>it does. I find that in multiple communities and multiple

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:14.919
<v Speaker 1>things throughout the new scope, everything positive kind of gets

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:17.720
<v Speaker 1>swept under the rug because they'd rather get someone mad

0:41:17.920 --> 0:41:20.560
<v Speaker 1>who's going to retweet it and then say something snark

0:41:20.560 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 1>and then someone's gonna add their snark. Me usually I'm

0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 1>involved in that snark. But yeah, so it is. And

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:32.799
<v Speaker 1>I think that is a great advice to anyone in

0:41:32.840 --> 0:41:37.239
<v Speaker 1>their communities is if you are feeling hopeless, are feeling like,

0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 1>how do I make a change? Everyone thinks that, you know,

0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:42.040
<v Speaker 1>I find that a lot of people believe that you

0:41:42.080 --> 0:41:46.200
<v Speaker 1>need a million dollars to make meaningful change, and that's

0:41:46.360 --> 0:41:49.400
<v Speaker 1>just not the case. You know, meaningful change could just

0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:53.200
<v Speaker 1>be as simple as mentoring you know, someone who is

0:41:53.440 --> 0:41:56.160
<v Speaker 1>you know just like you, or someone who you think

0:41:56.239 --> 0:41:58.719
<v Speaker 1>needs it. You know, Like I was thinking about the

0:41:58.760 --> 0:42:02.759
<v Speaker 1>whole middle, whole America. Excuse that we were talking about earlier,

0:42:02.920 --> 0:42:07.399
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, to say that you don't think

0:42:07.440 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 1>this movie will do well because of Middle America is

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:12.520
<v Speaker 1>to say that you don't believe that there's a young

0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>gay kid in Middle America, That there isn't a young

0:42:15.239 --> 0:42:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Asian kid in Middle America. There there isn't a young

0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 1>black kid in Middle America, or that there's no one

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:24.759
<v Speaker 1>in Middle America that has the empathy to take in

0:42:24.840 --> 0:42:28.120
<v Speaker 1>this story and and enjoy it and understand it and

0:42:28.239 --> 0:42:31.840
<v Speaker 1>like it because, like Chris said, it's you know, Simon

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:33.520
<v Speaker 1>being gay is a part of the story, but in

0:42:33.560 --> 0:42:37.520
<v Speaker 1>the end, it's still a great story. And I feel

0:42:37.560 --> 0:42:40.640
<v Speaker 1>like it's unfair to kind of scapegoat Middle America. We

0:42:40.960 --> 0:42:44.520
<v Speaker 1>often based on the excuse that Hollywood likes to get

0:42:44.520 --> 0:42:47.320
<v Speaker 1>away with this Middle America. You're saying they are dumb,

0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:51.040
<v Speaker 1>that they are all bigoted. It's all white, and it's

0:42:51.040 --> 0:42:54.320
<v Speaker 1>all white males in Middle America, and that's why you

0:42:54.360 --> 0:42:58.560
<v Speaker 1>can never do it. When I wouldn't care if only

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:03.600
<v Speaker 1>one little black kid in Oklahoma got to see Black Panther,

0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:06.719
<v Speaker 1>that would have made it work there, Or one gay

0:43:06.840 --> 0:43:09.640
<v Speaker 1>kid in you know, Oklahoma who got to see love

0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Simon like that, that to me is more powerful than

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, a thousand kids who who are in a

0:43:16.680 --> 0:43:21.200
<v Speaker 1>coastal city that you know, can eventually hopefully find a community.

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:23.439
<v Speaker 1>You know. But I think the problem is I think

0:43:23.719 --> 0:43:26.799
<v Speaker 1>people just want good stories. And the problem is like

0:43:26.840 --> 0:43:29.799
<v Speaker 1>there will be a movie with a black superhero or

0:43:29.800 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 1>a woman superhero that, for whatever reason the development cycle

0:43:33.040 --> 0:43:35.279
<v Speaker 1>someone doesn't believe in. They're like, they won't like this,

0:43:35.800 --> 0:43:39.800
<v Speaker 1>they don't put the right resources into it. The actual movie,

0:43:39.960 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 1>video game, whatever media format it is isn't good because

0:43:43.239 --> 0:43:45.600
<v Speaker 1>they didn't believe in it, and then it fails in

0:43:45.760 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 1>like see, I told you it wouldn't do well because

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:50.200
<v Speaker 1>people don't want women as superheroes. And they're like, no,

0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:53.920
<v Speaker 1>it's because Catwoman was an awful, awful, like it just

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.759
<v Speaker 1>wasn't a good movie. But then you can, I know,

0:43:57.960 --> 0:44:01.120
<v Speaker 1>for the wrong reasons. But then you see wonder Woman,

0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 1>which was a well written movie with the right cast

0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:07.640
<v Speaker 1>and everything. It's like, as long as something is well written,

0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:11.360
<v Speaker 1>people will watch it. People will by the Last of

0:44:11.440 --> 0:44:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Us too, because it's a well written video game. They

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:18.080
<v Speaker 1>don't care that, you know what, I mean whatnot. So yeah,

0:44:18.239 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I did want to go over a couple of more

0:44:20.320 --> 0:44:23.680
<v Speaker 1>queer characters before we moved on. One of them, Valkyrie

0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Tessa Thompson real life couple Tessa Thompson and Janelle Monet.

0:44:28.800 --> 0:44:31.680
<v Speaker 1>H I'm so glad they found each other because no

0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:34.800
<v Speaker 1>one else deserves them. I don't know if you guys

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:39.280
<v Speaker 1>watched Luke Cage this season, but Shades, that was very

0:44:39.320 --> 0:44:42.800
<v Speaker 1>exciting to have them openly I guess kind of openly

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:45.360
<v Speaker 1>confirmed at least I think the show runner did confirmed

0:44:45.400 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 1>that that he's queer and they actually had a moment

0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.359
<v Speaker 1>of development for his character, so that was really nice.

0:44:50.480 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 1>The Walking Dead. My friend Ross Markwan plays Aaron on there,

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:57.360
<v Speaker 1>um and I believe that they also have Tara and

0:44:58.320 --> 0:45:01.920
<v Speaker 1>very LGBT. Yeah, TVs. I think TV is the first

0:45:02.040 --> 0:45:05.239
<v Speaker 1>format that's enough power Gaze have gone and involved with

0:45:05.320 --> 0:45:09.600
<v Speaker 1>TV ad you know, but we have shown that, like

0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:11.600
<v Speaker 1>like with anything, all that matters is a good is

0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 1>good writing, good story, good you know, direction and it

0:45:15.719 --> 0:45:19.640
<v Speaker 1>and everything else, that it should be different characters and yeah,

0:45:19.480 --> 0:45:25.200
<v Speaker 1>oh uh, Negasonic teenage Warhead, she's so badass. I mean,

0:45:25.280 --> 0:45:27.359
<v Speaker 1>I wish that they had done more to develop their

0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 1>like her relationship and Deadpool to like even she kind

0:45:30.160 --> 0:45:32.560
<v Speaker 1>of was pretty much just a side character, which again

0:45:32.600 --> 0:45:35.759
<v Speaker 1>we see we keep seeing, but I do think she's

0:45:35.800 --> 0:45:39.400
<v Speaker 1>so cool. She actually sorry for it, but she actually

0:45:39.800 --> 0:45:45.640
<v Speaker 1>requested that is I believe pan sexual or bisexual, and

0:45:45.719 --> 0:45:47.640
<v Speaker 1>she was like, you could make my character lesbian, but

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't want it to be a thing in the movie. Yeah,

0:45:49.800 --> 0:45:51.759
<v Speaker 1>and again I get that, like we keep going back

0:45:51.800 --> 0:45:54.320
<v Speaker 1>and forth of like I wish that they would address

0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:56.960
<v Speaker 1>it more, but then and maybe it's not necessarily that

0:45:57.000 --> 0:45:58.879
<v Speaker 1>it needs to be addressed with her, but just because

0:45:58.920 --> 0:46:01.280
<v Speaker 1>it's not addressed enough. Off, well, I think they actually

0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:03.120
<v Speaker 1>addressed it pretty well because it's like here's me and

0:46:03.120 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend. That's it. That's it, and that's all they

0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:07.160
<v Speaker 1>had to do, as long as it's not like some

0:46:07.440 --> 0:46:11.279
<v Speaker 1>like the Deadpool two director two years later coming out

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:13.600
<v Speaker 1>saying that she was a lesbian the whole time, and

0:46:13.600 --> 0:46:15.359
<v Speaker 1>then there's are It's like, okay, you know what I mean,

0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:17.399
<v Speaker 1>like they dressed as long as you mean I mean

0:46:17.440 --> 0:46:20.080
<v Speaker 1>not that necessarily, I mean having character development, like being

0:46:20.120 --> 0:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>able to have a character growth with your romantic part.

0:46:23.040 --> 0:46:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean I just missed her in the movie in general,

0:46:24.760 --> 0:46:27.799
<v Speaker 1>like I just wanted more of her general. Yeah. Yeah.

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:29.520
<v Speaker 1>And then two other just main points that I want

0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:32.120
<v Speaker 1>to say. Stephen Universe had the first cartoon lesbian wedding.

0:46:33.000 --> 0:46:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, that's really cool, Like, you know, it's not

0:46:37.680 --> 0:46:40.080
<v Speaker 1>something that they'd probably be able to do even five

0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:43.080
<v Speaker 1>years ago, I don't know, Cartoon Network. And then Batgirl

0:46:43.080 --> 0:46:45.720
<v Speaker 1>in the comics had the first transgender wedding in the comics.

0:46:45.760 --> 0:46:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I believe that was when Gayl Simone was still writing. Yeah,

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:51.600
<v Speaker 1>and North I think The North Star had a wedding

0:46:51.760 --> 0:46:54.839
<v Speaker 1>issue as well. Well. There's um Sin of Grace, who

0:46:54.880 --> 0:46:56.879
<v Speaker 1>I got to meet on a DC shoot that I did.

0:46:56.920 --> 0:46:59.279
<v Speaker 1>He is doing Iceman. I don't know if you follow

0:46:59.360 --> 0:47:02.200
<v Speaker 1>that at all, but that is he had a coming

0:47:02.239 --> 0:47:04.880
<v Speaker 1>out moment in the comics, and then it's kind of

0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 1>his development as a superhero, but also having to deal

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:10.920
<v Speaker 1>with with coming out, which is great because especially as

0:47:11.080 --> 0:47:13.919
<v Speaker 1>if nerds are from you know, a community where their

0:47:13.960 --> 0:47:16.839
<v Speaker 1>parents are you know, probably homophobic or whatever, they can

0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:20.600
<v Speaker 1>just like sneak in an Iceman and their parents are

0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:24.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna say it's a comic book, and their parents are

0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:26.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna they're like, oh, it's this masculine looking character. They're

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:29.359
<v Speaker 1>not gonna say anything, so they're writing something I think

0:47:29.440 --> 0:47:32.920
<v Speaker 1>more than what's needed, more than they probably know by

0:47:32.960 --> 0:47:36.360
<v Speaker 1>doing that. Yeah, I think we need to take a

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:38.080
<v Speaker 1>quick break, but when you get back, we're going to

0:47:38.280 --> 0:47:41.640
<v Speaker 1>jump into the rest of this and keep it spicy.

0:47:48.640 --> 0:47:54.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh right, what's up is your boy? You know who

0:47:54.400 --> 0:47:57.040
<v Speaker 1>it is if he's still here with Danny and our

0:47:57.160 --> 0:48:01.560
<v Speaker 1>wonderful guests Christopher and Cannon, and we're talking about I

0:48:01.560 --> 0:48:03.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like it's a real open discussion about you know,

0:48:04.080 --> 0:48:07.280
<v Speaker 1>lgbt Q and nerd um and I think it's real cool.

0:48:07.800 --> 0:48:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for joining us and letting us Yeah, thank

0:48:10.560 --> 0:48:13.799
<v Speaker 1>you for having I will say, I'm really excited too

0:48:14.160 --> 0:48:17.560
<v Speaker 1>for the nerd fam that's going to check this out,

0:48:17.560 --> 0:48:20.319
<v Speaker 1>because I've seen nerd fam tweed net of me and

0:48:20.360 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 1>they'll have the rainbow flag in their screen name, and

0:48:23.120 --> 0:48:25.560
<v Speaker 1>you know that's how we know. I'd like that we've

0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:31.240
<v Speaker 1>have made our for lack of a better description, planted

0:48:31.280 --> 0:48:33.279
<v Speaker 1>our flags and our Twitter where it's like, you know,

0:48:33.400 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Nigerians will throw the Nigerian fat. Dominicans love putting that

0:48:37.000 --> 0:48:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Dominican flag in their joint. You know, the LGBTQ community

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:43.520
<v Speaker 1>has the rainbow flag. We all know where we at

0:48:43.760 --> 0:48:45.440
<v Speaker 1>just so you know who you're talking to. Well, it's

0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:48.880
<v Speaker 1>cool because even like PlayStation changed their icon during Pride Month,

0:48:50.480 --> 0:48:54.759
<v Speaker 1>symbol Nation did too, and I was it's funny because

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:57.520
<v Speaker 1>you had like a lot of bitter people and sometimes

0:48:57.560 --> 0:48:58.880
<v Speaker 1>a few of them were straight. So I was like,

0:48:59.040 --> 0:49:03.480
<v Speaker 1>chill that. We're like, oh the consumerism and this, and

0:49:03.520 --> 0:49:06.399
<v Speaker 1>Guy Brandham did a real funny joke of being like, oh,

0:49:06.440 --> 0:49:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that for once, we're being accepted and not

0:49:09.840 --> 0:49:13.440
<v Speaker 1>burned at the stake and you feel bitter, Like it

0:49:13.480 --> 0:49:16.200
<v Speaker 1>was really great. Of course I'm not doing it as

0:49:16.280 --> 0:49:19.160
<v Speaker 1>great as Guy, because well, people would tweet up Funimation

0:49:19.160 --> 0:49:21.759
<v Speaker 1>and they would just reply with gay anime gifts and

0:49:21.800 --> 0:49:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I loved it so much because they have they also

0:49:25.560 --> 0:49:28.799
<v Speaker 1>owned that like volleyball. The volleyball boys one and the

0:49:28.840 --> 0:49:34.360
<v Speaker 1>swim team were at that event right where they just

0:49:34.400 --> 0:49:37.000
<v Speaker 1>had like a bunch of boys and petos and then

0:49:37.440 --> 0:49:39.520
<v Speaker 1>girls were young. I was like, what is Oh, yeah,

0:49:39.560 --> 0:49:44.160
<v Speaker 1>it was my family. I love them so much. I

0:49:44.160 --> 0:49:46.839
<v Speaker 1>remember one and something you can get in there. I

0:49:46.880 --> 0:49:49.279
<v Speaker 1>remember once um I was announced as like a host

0:49:49.320 --> 0:49:51.279
<v Speaker 1>on something and someone like, I'm sorry, but do you

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:54.200
<v Speaker 1>even know anything about Dragon Ball? And someone one of

0:49:54.200 --> 0:49:56.479
<v Speaker 1>the Funimation people want on the account and was like, oh,

0:49:56.520 --> 0:49:59.200
<v Speaker 1>she knows, and like tweeted it out to everybody. I

0:49:59.200 --> 0:50:02.040
<v Speaker 1>else have to say they been very supportive because Danny

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:05.120
<v Speaker 1>has put us in contact with Funimation, and just as

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:09.040
<v Speaker 1>a gay video game you know group, Funimation is donated

0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:13.439
<v Speaker 1>so so much, especially when we had our E three

0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:17.320
<v Speaker 1>after party just to shout out. Fundimation gave us stuff,

0:50:17.600 --> 0:50:19.759
<v Speaker 1>Square Enix gave us a ton of stuff, and of

0:50:19.800 --> 0:50:23.239
<v Speaker 1>course PlayStation, you know, gave us all these free PlayStations

0:50:23.280 --> 0:50:25.200
<v Speaker 1>to give out. So it's great that you know, they've

0:50:25.239 --> 0:50:29.399
<v Speaker 1>been PlayStations. Huh. The weird thing is we still get

0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:31.799
<v Speaker 1>like we had, like Nintendo nerds show up and they're like,

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:36.120
<v Speaker 1>where's our switch, and we're like, well, I mean, yeah,

0:50:36.239 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 1>it's a PlayStation events, it's PlayStation, and yeah, good luck

0:50:39.600 --> 0:50:45.880
<v Speaker 1>with getting Nintendo. Yeah sponsored anything LGBT. Alright, well, speaking

0:50:45.960 --> 0:50:49.960
<v Speaker 1>of speaking of finding your space, let's talk about the

0:50:50.000 --> 0:50:53.400
<v Speaker 1>first gay space on the Internet. It was called s

0:50:53.440 --> 0:51:00.200
<v Speaker 1>oc dot M O T S S yeah, and basically

0:51:00.239 --> 0:51:04.839
<v Speaker 1>anticipated how we use social networks today. Right in Programmer

0:51:04.960 --> 0:51:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Steveder started a discussion for him called net months later

0:51:09.400 --> 0:51:14.200
<v Speaker 1>sock Moths on the used net news group system. Fun fact,

0:51:14.320 --> 0:51:17.960
<v Speaker 1>So I had this super hyper nerd who I went

0:51:18.000 --> 0:51:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to high school with. I forget his name, but I

0:51:20.600 --> 0:51:23.640
<v Speaker 1>remember he was very practical and he told me and

0:51:23.680 --> 0:51:26.399
<v Speaker 1>it's so funny because I'm mad. I was mad then

0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:28.719
<v Speaker 1>and now I'm even more mad because he was right

0:51:29.000 --> 0:51:32.280
<v Speaker 1>because I used to do art and uh, I would

0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:34.359
<v Speaker 1>like do the art and then I would tell him

0:51:34.400 --> 0:51:37.000
<v Speaker 1>like the whole story behind, like the comic I was

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:39.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to make and all this stuff, and he straight

0:51:39.680 --> 0:51:42.920
<v Speaker 1>up to my face was like, yeah, your art is

0:51:43.000 --> 0:51:46.560
<v Speaker 1>not good, but you'll probably be an amazing writer. And

0:51:47.160 --> 0:51:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I remember being like this dude, and like I'm a

0:51:52.280 --> 0:51:57.839
<v Speaker 1>professional writer now kin, yeah, I'm mad about that. Your

0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:04.920
<v Speaker 1>gay friend that a friend, You'll be a great writer.

0:52:06.560 --> 0:52:10.200
<v Speaker 1>He uh. He was this other dude. He was like

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 1>almost stopped. He was like a Jehovah's witness, and I like,

0:52:15.280 --> 0:52:22.680
<v Speaker 1>so maybe, but he was really into building computers. And

0:52:22.719 --> 0:52:24.759
<v Speaker 1>this was like back when I was a freshman, so

0:52:24.800 --> 0:52:28.200
<v Speaker 1>this was hella new to me. And he had this

0:52:28.239 --> 0:52:30.600
<v Speaker 1>guy who was like his kind of mentor and was

0:52:30.640 --> 0:52:33.160
<v Speaker 1>teaching him about building computers, and he was like, you

0:52:33.200 --> 0:52:36.080
<v Speaker 1>gotta check out this thing called newsgroups, newsgroups or where

0:52:36.080 --> 0:52:38.960
<v Speaker 1>it's at. You gotta go on newsgroups. Uh. And he

0:52:39.280 --> 0:52:41.239
<v Speaker 1>kind of told me how to do it, but I

0:52:41.280 --> 0:52:42.960
<v Speaker 1>never figured out how to work. I had like the

0:52:43.000 --> 0:52:46.120
<v Speaker 1>client to launch into newsgroups, but like, it's crazy reading

0:52:46.120 --> 0:52:51.320
<v Speaker 1>about his news groups was like early Internet stuff. But anyway,

0:52:51.680 --> 0:52:54.799
<v Speaker 1>we'll suck. So suck is it suck? MOTS just we're

0:52:54.800 --> 0:52:57.799
<v Speaker 1>gonna just someone will correct us probably what I want

0:52:57.800 --> 0:53:00.480
<v Speaker 1>to say. MOTS stood for members of the same set, yes,

0:53:00.560 --> 0:53:02.880
<v Speaker 1>and so it was a way for it was essentially

0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:04.719
<v Speaker 1>had threads and it was a way for people to

0:53:04.719 --> 0:53:07.840
<v Speaker 1>to talk and members to talk. And it was actually

0:53:07.840 --> 0:53:11.880
<v Speaker 1>one of the biggest membership communities of the early Internet.

0:53:12.160 --> 0:53:14.920
<v Speaker 1>And it's really interesting because you can still go U

0:53:15.320 --> 0:53:17.960
<v Speaker 1>search on sock mats and see all of these forums

0:53:18.080 --> 0:53:22.719
<v Speaker 1>from the eighties and see the first almost like the

0:53:22.719 --> 0:53:26.040
<v Speaker 1>first time of like gay communication then and especially during

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:28.960
<v Speaker 1>a you know, troublesome time of the AIDS epidemic and

0:53:29.000 --> 0:53:32.759
<v Speaker 1>everything it was as a gay person. It's it's really

0:53:32.760 --> 0:53:34.880
<v Speaker 1>hard because it's not like you know, when you have

0:53:34.920 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 1>a Latino family or a black family behind you. You

0:53:37.440 --> 0:53:40.000
<v Speaker 1>have people to kind of give your your culture, not

0:53:40.160 --> 0:53:42.720
<v Speaker 1>just do are we not born from obviously gay parents,

0:53:42.800 --> 0:53:45.440
<v Speaker 1>but a lot of people from the eighties died, and

0:53:45.480 --> 0:53:49.239
<v Speaker 1>a lot of these amazing innovative LGBT people are dead

0:53:49.280 --> 0:53:52.239
<v Speaker 1>now and we will never really will get their stories

0:53:52.320 --> 0:53:56.920
<v Speaker 1>told to us. It's great to see the conversation still

0:53:57.000 --> 0:54:00.360
<v Speaker 1>there in print talking about dealing with some of the

0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:04.480
<v Speaker 1>same things that our community still faces, and and seeing

0:54:04.520 --> 0:54:07.160
<v Speaker 1>that in print just made me feel like just I

0:54:07.239 --> 0:54:09.840
<v Speaker 1>got really emotional reading some of it because I was like, wow,

0:54:09.960 --> 0:54:13.960
<v Speaker 1>this is what and also how little things have changed.

0:54:14.080 --> 0:54:16.279
<v Speaker 1>You can kind of see how the early development of

0:54:16.360 --> 0:54:19.440
<v Speaker 1>internet talked like it was very much like reading a

0:54:19.520 --> 0:54:22.279
<v Speaker 1>gay reddit threat of people just back and forth, just

0:54:22.400 --> 0:54:25.120
<v Speaker 1>talking about I think there was even just like a

0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:29.000
<v Speaker 1>huge debate on speedos or something. It was like a

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:32.000
<v Speaker 1>weird like Speedo colors, and I was like, this is

0:54:32.040 --> 0:54:34.520
<v Speaker 1>something that would still just be on my Facebook feed. Now.

0:54:35.480 --> 0:54:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I know that is wild because it is because there's

0:54:38.600 --> 0:54:41.200
<v Speaker 1>one thing when you look at movies that portray a

0:54:41.400 --> 0:54:45.000
<v Speaker 1>time and like, you know, especially like if you for

0:54:45.080 --> 0:54:47.560
<v Speaker 1>lack of a better movie, even though this movie it

0:54:47.719 --> 0:54:51.160
<v Speaker 1>was problematic a f but like, um, it was about

0:54:51.160 --> 0:54:56.520
<v Speaker 1>the riots. Um, but like you have had all weight,

0:54:57.080 --> 0:55:01.800
<v Speaker 1>all white gay cast no, which I mean black trans

0:55:01.840 --> 0:55:07.279
<v Speaker 1>women are what They've really laid the groundwork for the

0:55:07.680 --> 0:55:11.239
<v Speaker 1>LGBT movement. They did so much for us, and to

0:55:11.400 --> 0:55:14.839
<v Speaker 1>see them just being completely underrepresented when they did so

0:55:14.920 --> 0:55:17.160
<v Speaker 1>much work, and then just to see white gay men

0:55:17.680 --> 0:55:20.040
<v Speaker 1>in the front of this movie was it's so sad. No,

0:55:20.200 --> 0:55:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean they still do. It's it's crazy. We're finally

0:55:23.120 --> 0:55:26.200
<v Speaker 1>getting I mean we're getting what's the show, uh pope,

0:55:28.200 --> 0:55:32.440
<v Speaker 1>finally giving black trans women, I mean just trans women

0:55:32.440 --> 0:55:36.360
<v Speaker 1>in general, the most underrepresented group in this country, just

0:55:36.440 --> 0:55:38.719
<v Speaker 1>a voice that they need. I think that's so cool

0:55:38.719 --> 0:55:41.319
<v Speaker 1>about members of the same sex as um, this this

0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:44.960
<v Speaker 1>group is that Like also, you hear movies, there's so

0:55:45.000 --> 0:55:47.960
<v Speaker 1>many movies about the AIDS epidemic, and to finally actually

0:55:48.040 --> 0:55:52.120
<v Speaker 1>see what the conversations were just like there's no, it

0:55:52.239 --> 0:55:55.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't a published article, It wasn't It was just like

0:55:55.280 --> 0:55:59.960
<v Speaker 1>people conversing about AIDS, a lot of misinformation, a lot

0:56:00.000 --> 0:56:02.200
<v Speaker 1>out of people that just had no idea what it

0:56:02.280 --> 0:56:05.520
<v Speaker 1>was happening. And just see those conversations just typed up

0:56:05.680 --> 0:56:08.200
<v Speaker 1>is something that if it wasn't for this, we would

0:56:08.239 --> 0:56:10.600
<v Speaker 1>not be able to experience anything like And that's what

0:56:10.840 --> 0:56:12.719
<v Speaker 1>That's what the point I was making is like when

0:56:12.760 --> 0:56:15.439
<v Speaker 1>you see that portrayed in movies, you're getting this kind

0:56:15.480 --> 0:56:19.920
<v Speaker 1>of dramatized, kind of assumed idea of what's going on,

0:56:20.239 --> 0:56:22.719
<v Speaker 1>and this is just cold hard facts. These are what

0:56:22.840 --> 0:56:25.320
<v Speaker 1>the people at the time we're talking about. Like imagine

0:56:25.560 --> 0:56:27.839
<v Speaker 1>if you can go back to like the civil rights

0:56:27.920 --> 0:56:30.520
<v Speaker 1>movement and see, like, you know, the sneak shots that

0:56:30.560 --> 0:56:33.520
<v Speaker 1>Malcolm X and Martin Luther King were shooting at each

0:56:33.520 --> 0:56:37.360
<v Speaker 1>other on the forums, Like you're getting a very real representation,

0:56:37.560 --> 0:56:40.600
<v Speaker 1>and that I think is something that's going to be

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:44.439
<v Speaker 1>cool about the future, is like when we move from now,

0:56:44.480 --> 0:56:46.479
<v Speaker 1>people are going to be able to pull the things

0:56:46.520 --> 0:56:48.200
<v Speaker 1>that we've said and it's not going to be a

0:56:48.320 --> 0:56:51.319
<v Speaker 1>question of you know, this is kind of like what

0:56:51.400 --> 0:56:54.560
<v Speaker 1>the general idea was it you have it right there.

0:56:55.480 --> 0:56:57.920
<v Speaker 1>It's also I think the it's why there are so

0:56:57.960 --> 0:57:02.160
<v Speaker 1>many LGBT nerds is because most people, I mean, Cannon

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:05.920
<v Speaker 1>and I came from both very homophobic backgrounds, and I

0:57:05.960 --> 0:57:08.800
<v Speaker 1>think we both latched onto video games and nerd culture

0:57:08.880 --> 0:57:12.399
<v Speaker 1>because that was our safe space, that was our favor

0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:16.360
<v Speaker 1>space for figuring out what being gay is. That my

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:19.160
<v Speaker 1>first the first person I ever told that I was

0:57:19.240 --> 0:57:21.560
<v Speaker 1>gay too was an internet friend that I've still did

0:57:21.560 --> 0:57:24.160
<v Speaker 1>this day. I've never you know, met, but someone that

0:57:24.200 --> 0:57:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I would do. That was the first part, because that

0:57:26.400 --> 0:57:29.080
<v Speaker 1>was safe to me, was telling someone on the on

0:57:29.120 --> 0:57:31.600
<v Speaker 1>the internet when I was you know, you know, young enough.

0:57:32.040 --> 0:57:34.080
<v Speaker 1>That was the only safe space for us. That's the

0:57:34.080 --> 0:57:36.360
<v Speaker 1>only way to find information, That was the only way,

0:57:36.480 --> 0:57:39.400
<v Speaker 1>especially in small rural towns. That that's it. I mean,

0:57:40.000 --> 0:57:42.840
<v Speaker 1>that's so interesting to me, if you don't mind elaborating,

0:57:42.880 --> 0:57:46.600
<v Speaker 1>what was that experience? Like? How how? What was the reaction?

0:57:47.520 --> 0:57:49.240
<v Speaker 1>You know, when I first came out to my parents

0:57:49.280 --> 0:57:52.040
<v Speaker 1>was one of the most difficult times ever. I I

0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:55.919
<v Speaker 1>didn't talk to my mom for like months afterwards, and um,

0:57:55.960 --> 0:57:57.920
<v Speaker 1>it kind of makes me feel sad and a little

0:57:57.960 --> 0:58:02.520
<v Speaker 1>empty that the only loving and reporting um relationship that

0:58:02.560 --> 0:58:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I could have to tell someone with someone on the

0:58:04.680 --> 0:58:08.040
<v Speaker 1>internet that I would never get that comfort from, is

0:58:08.080 --> 0:58:09.840
<v Speaker 1>a straight guy on the internet that I played an

0:58:09.840 --> 0:58:12.840
<v Speaker 1>online game with. But that was the only person I

0:58:12.840 --> 0:58:15.680
<v Speaker 1>felt comfortable with and the only person that I had

0:58:16.360 --> 0:58:19.280
<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of why I mean Cannon and I

0:58:19.360 --> 0:58:22.560
<v Speaker 1>both gravitated towards finding this. You know, l A Gaming

0:58:22.600 --> 0:58:26.480
<v Speaker 1>society is so that we could get people who are

0:58:27.320 --> 0:58:30.000
<v Speaker 1>queer nerds to actually be able to meet up and

0:58:30.040 --> 0:58:32.360
<v Speaker 1>to actually feel like they have a support group because

0:58:32.400 --> 0:58:35.640
<v Speaker 1>even especially in even though LA is very liberal, there's

0:58:35.680 --> 0:58:38.320
<v Speaker 1>so many places outside of l A, California that are

0:58:38.440 --> 0:58:42.520
<v Speaker 1>very very homophobic. People that don't have homes, and it's

0:58:42.560 --> 0:58:45.520
<v Speaker 1>hard enough for someone that's young and charismatic to move

0:58:45.560 --> 0:58:47.520
<v Speaker 1>to I mean that to move to l A and

0:58:47.560 --> 0:58:51.040
<v Speaker 1>be beautiful for people who it's difficult for them to

0:58:51.040 --> 0:58:53.120
<v Speaker 1>talk to, we have we have to give them a

0:58:53.120 --> 0:58:55.560
<v Speaker 1>safe space because I feel like no one's fighting for them,

0:58:56.160 --> 0:58:58.480
<v Speaker 1>and no one really fought for us. So we kind

0:58:58.480 --> 0:59:01.240
<v Speaker 1>of had to do something to kind of create a space.

0:59:01.280 --> 0:59:04.440
<v Speaker 1>And that's why I mean Cannon's family to me, you know,

0:59:04.560 --> 0:59:08.240
<v Speaker 1>because we had to create our own family. And I

0:59:08.240 --> 0:59:10.280
<v Speaker 1>don't know, the Internet, the Internet, we would have never

0:59:10.360 --> 0:59:12.920
<v Speaker 1>had LAGS if it wasn't for Reddit, for you know,

0:59:12.960 --> 0:59:15.400
<v Speaker 1>the gay forms. I mean you can talk about that

0:59:15.440 --> 0:59:18.520
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Yeah, I mean that there's there's a

0:59:18.520 --> 0:59:22.000
<v Speaker 1>lot there, but I think, um, you're exactly right. I think.

0:59:22.160 --> 0:59:25.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, gaming for so many people is their outlet

0:59:25.880 --> 0:59:28.360
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of people live in a situation or

0:59:28.440 --> 0:59:32.480
<v Speaker 1>a circumstance that is dire, or is frustrating or is sad.

0:59:32.960 --> 0:59:35.640
<v Speaker 1>So the nice thing about gaming is you know that

0:59:35.640 --> 0:59:37.520
<v Speaker 1>that can be an outlet and escape for everyone. The

0:59:38.000 --> 0:59:39.720
<v Speaker 1>downside of that is a lot of people take that

0:59:39.800 --> 0:59:43.000
<v Speaker 1>negativity with them from whatever suffering it is that they have,

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<v Speaker 1>and they bring it into that space. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>you have the homophobia and the misogyny and the racism

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<v Speaker 1>and all the ugly parts, right, And a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 1>I think don't realize that that they're bringing that with them.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you're when you're queer like we are, and

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<v Speaker 1>you you want to have you want to have your outlet, right,

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<v Speaker 1>You want to have that thing you grew up with

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<v Speaker 1>where you bonded, and you want to have that safe

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<v Speaker 1>space where you can play those games and just enjoy yourself. Right. So,

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<v Speaker 1>and to kind of bounce off with you said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a big proponent of creating your own family. It's something

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of queer people have to do because

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have we we don't really have another option.

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<v Speaker 1>So creating that queer family around something like gaming has

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<v Speaker 1>been a really really great experience, and I think it

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<v Speaker 1>is something we fought really hard for over the past

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<v Speaker 1>few years, but it's it's worth it. Like we we

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<v Speaker 1>just had a meet up last weekend on right, We

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<v Speaker 1>just took a bunch of nerds to the beach, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like every time we have a new meet up,

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<v Speaker 1>we always meet new people from different countries and different

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<v Speaker 1>counties and different places, like from all over and they're

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<v Speaker 1>just like, yeah, my friend you know, told me about

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<v Speaker 1>this group because I didn't have any friends when I

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<v Speaker 1>moved here, and my family doesn't talk to me when

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<v Speaker 1>I came out, And this is really cool. Like I've

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<v Speaker 1>never met this many gay people before, and most of

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<v Speaker 1>the time they're connected from meeting someone from the Internet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why nerd curl culture is so important and why

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<v Speaker 1>internet culture is so important for us, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't imagine what it would be like our

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<v Speaker 1>where I would be without the Internet and being able

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<v Speaker 1>to meet people and find people that were like me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I think a lot of people can relate

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<v Speaker 1>to their internet friends almost being closer than in real

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<v Speaker 1>life people that they know I know, I see that

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<v Speaker 1>a lot in discord if you and I used to

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<v Speaker 1>host at a channel called hyper RPG, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>very positive channel, but they had a very positive discord

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<v Speaker 1>of people that could talk about their problems and issues

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that they wouldn't be able to around

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<v Speaker 1>their family. And I found that. So I would pop

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<v Speaker 1>in there and and be talking about things and and

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<v Speaker 1>harassment and stuff that I was dealing with, and they

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<v Speaker 1>would all come to my aid. But it was just

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<v Speaker 1>so nice to see the positive parts of of nerd dum,

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<v Speaker 1>like you were saying, and to remind ourselves of that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not all gamer gait and crazy, just death

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<v Speaker 1>threats toward that's a small and there. And at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, they're trying to find a movement that they

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<v Speaker 1>can latch onto that makes them feel like they're a

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<v Speaker 1>part of something and they're angry about other things besides

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<v Speaker 1>just But that is just being projected the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 1>All we can do is create positive movements and hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>get people that that might be a part of this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there are a lot of people, for instance,

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<v Speaker 1>that are in gamer Gate that are really really great

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<v Speaker 1>people that are just have a lot of misinformation that

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<v Speaker 1>just want to be a part of something and they

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<v Speaker 1>want to change the gaming industry and they wanted things

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<v Speaker 1>to be positive, but they have a lot of mislead

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<v Speaker 1>information and they start taking out um or they might

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<v Speaker 1>not even take things out on women, but they support

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<v Speaker 1>other people that do. And I think all we can

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<v Speaker 1>do is create positive groups where they feel like people

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<v Speaker 1>who feel like they need to be a part of

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<v Speaker 1>something can latch onto those positive groups and create something positive.

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<v Speaker 1>If he was going to say, I think that we

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<v Speaker 1>might have to take in landing, I know I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to touch on Star Trek, but I think that Danny

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm scared someone's gonna, you know, be mad

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<v Speaker 1>that we didn't talk about l T things because Star

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<v Speaker 1>Trek was a huge part of what I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>is I wanted to I did want to address it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll address it on us our Star Trek episode. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>um so, Kenny might have to have you back for that,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's something that you would love that, yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about gay Star Trek exactly, Well, we need to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the lack of it for a huge part

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<v Speaker 1>and then how it just kind of came in. But anyways, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>where can everyone find you? And if people want to

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<v Speaker 1>join any of your organizations, if you could let us know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can type up lags that's lags, l A Gaming Society,

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<v Speaker 1>g a y gaming uh Society on Facebook. We have

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<v Speaker 1>a Facebook group. Would love to add you on there.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is at Tinder Chris on Instagram and Twitter.

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<v Speaker 1>Also just as a plug, check out Cooking on High

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix. That's a show I'm on. We need a

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<v Speaker 1>season two so I needed money, So please watch Clicking

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<v Speaker 1>on High on Netflix and get me a job. Um

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<v Speaker 1>Canon h Yeah, I feel free to add me on

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook if you're so inclined. If you're into more nerdy

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<v Speaker 1>fun stuff and video games. I love expanding my online family.

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<v Speaker 1>Also fund my Instagram at Canon dot gift. Yeah, reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to Yeah Tinder Chris and Cannon dot gift on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>We love helping out, Like, by the way, is there

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<v Speaker 1>any young queer listeners or anyone that needs help or

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<v Speaker 1>any advice. You can reach out to us and we

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<v Speaker 1>would love to give you advice and help you guys out. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I also love the anime post that you have

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<v Speaker 1>the funniest Instagram stories Chris, I go through all of them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all sailor Moon and Drag. Yeah in there too.

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<v Speaker 1>I am at MS Danny Fernandez. Um, yeah, what what?

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<v Speaker 1>Please check out our tea public. Everyone's been loving those shirts.

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<v Speaker 1>We did a get away, will probably do one again

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<v Speaker 1>in the future, but in the meantime, go grab some shirts.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to get the Batman one. I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 1>as hell. Oh I will be at New York Comic Con,

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<v Speaker 1>so I get to announce my Yes, I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 1>to share some news with y'all. But yes, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be at New York Comic Con, I will

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<v Speaker 1>also be there. This is my first time, so tell

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<v Speaker 1>me what to do and and uh yeah, and and

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<v Speaker 1>I have a panel on Friday that I get to

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<v Speaker 1>announced in a little bit. So okay, I was waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for you to announce it and you didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a pass. I'll probably be hanging out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you might see me there, you might not pay attention.

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<v Speaker 1>Catch me at I F Y N W A D

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<v Speaker 1>I D E on Twitter and Instagram. If these on Twitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you all the nerd fan coming through dropping those

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<v Speaker 1>Twitch Prime subs. And here is your regular reminder that

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<v Speaker 1>if you twitch prime sub you gotta do what every

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<v Speaker 1>month it does an auto renew. I need them bucks, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. I love y'all and as always, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to say, um, please tweet at us your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite queer characters are like when you first filed yourself

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<v Speaker 1>representing anything that we might have missed. We'd need any

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<v Speaker 1>references to we probably missed a lot to help us out.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely do that tweet it. We're gonna retweet you, share

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<v Speaker 1>the love. Really want y'all feeling nice and represented, because,

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<v Speaker 1>like our motto says, it's a nerdy deep dive for everyone. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>don't make me. Don't make me do the tweet where

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<v Speaker 1>retweet you. Then I drag you. Then I go to

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<v Speaker 1>the part where it says a nerdy deep dive for

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<v Speaker 1>everyone and zoom in on everyone. You know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. You know what I'm asking you not to do,

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<v Speaker 1>so don't do it. But on that note, stay nerdy everyone,