1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 6 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. Buckle up and hold 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. It is 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Oh wait till you hear this one. Subject. 9 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: I have a video vixen in my garage. Dear Stephen Shirley. 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: I am a thirty year old man and my wife 11 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: is twenty eight. I was recently laid off due to 12 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: the pandemic, so money has been a little tight because 13 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 1: of it. My wife is making me feel less than 14 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: a man. We have a two year old child and 15 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: she is a stay at home mom, so I am 16 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: the sole breadwinner. My wife's attitude has been horrible for weeks, 17 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: so I have been avoiding her and to avoid arguing 18 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: with her, I watched TV in our bedroom and then 19 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: go to sleep before she comes to bed so I 20 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: don't have to hear her smart remarks. This past Friday night, 21 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: I woke up at three from three am, and my 22 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: wife was not in bed. I could not find her 23 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 1: anywhere in the house, so I went to the garage 24 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: to see if her car was gone. I was surprised 25 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: to see a camera set up a rug and a 26 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: couch from our basement and my wife naked doing all 27 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: kinds of freaky things to herself in front of the camera. WHOA. 28 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: I yelled to her stop it and asked her WTF 29 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: was going on. She told me to get out. She 30 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: ran to turn the camera she said. She said she 31 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: didn't want me to find out this way, but she 32 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: started her own business and I need to either get 33 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: with the program or get out of the garage. She 34 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: created her own homemade porn site and she gets paid 35 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: to do freaky stuff online. She told me it is 36 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: a very lucrative business and everyone's doing it, male and female. 37 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: I was stunned, and I dared her to keep doing 38 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: it over my dead body. She told me that she 39 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 1: is doing this for our family, and she even invited 40 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: me to join in because couples can earn at least 41 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars per night. I was so turned on 42 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: by the freaky stuff she was doing. But this is 43 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: my wife. What if my homeboys see her? I need 44 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: the money, but this isn't right. What should I do? What? No? 45 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: I did not crazy? I listen. I don't know what 46 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: to tell you about your excuse me, get your wife? 47 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: I mean, really, you gotta get her. Your wife is ratched. Seriously. 48 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: I don't mean to judge her, but I am judging her, Okay, 49 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: I really am. I know you're not supposed to, but 50 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 1: I'm judging. Okay. I don't get it. I don't get it. 51 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: I don't understand this. Of all the things she could 52 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: be doing, why, why this? Why porn? Why her own 53 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: porn website? And did you know about any of this? 54 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: She said it's lucrative, but she hasn't shared any of 55 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: the money because you would have said that. She sound 56 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: like you, sound like, I should say, a really good 57 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: husband who, like most everyone right now, we're suffering financially, emotionally, 58 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: every kind of thing you can imagine during this pandemic. 59 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: And you know, we know that it's putting a strain 60 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,119 Speaker 1: on marriages and relationships because we talk about a lot 61 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: on this show. But is it driving wives to do porn, 62 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: to be porn stars? We haven't talked about that I 63 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: don't think this pandemic is responsible for that. This is 64 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: a first right here. When you caught her red handed 65 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: and she said she didn't want you to find out 66 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: this way, here's my question. How would she have preferred 67 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: you to find out? And I don't know. I don't 68 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: believe she was ever going to tell you about what 69 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: she was doing because I don't think she thinks she's 70 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: doing anything wrong. Based on her response when you caught her, 71 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: she asked you to join in because she said couples 72 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 1: can make five hundred dollars. Really, I think your wife 73 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: needs help. And there I go judging again, but I 74 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: am judging on this one. I think she needs help. 75 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: This is going to ruin your marriage, It really is. 76 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: And no self respecting husband would would put up with 77 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: what she's doing and agree to allow his wife, no 78 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 1: self respecting one to do this for the world to 79 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: see and yeah, for his boys. Come on now, Steve, 80 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 1: it's crazy is one of the craziest. Yeah. Well, you 81 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: know thing I like about crazy letters is I'm crazy. 82 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: So when I read crazy ass letters, I prepare because, 83 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: first of all, I don't know why you wrote this, 84 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: see this, this whole letter. What should I do is 85 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: the last line. What So, since you asking this and 86 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: you thirty, let me answer this crazy ass letter with 87 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,239 Speaker 1: crazy ass response. See. Now I'm gonna read this letter 88 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: knowing all the information, so I'm not gonna learn as 89 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: I go along like I normally do. I already know 90 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: this information, so I'm gonna comment throughout the letter. I'm 91 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: a thirty year old man. My wife is twenty eight, 92 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: got laid off due to pandemic. Money tight. My wife 93 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: is making me feel less than a man. That's because 94 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: she needs you to feel like a child so you 95 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: can get your ass in bad with the two year old. Okay, See, 96 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: that's why she's making you feel less than a man, 97 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: because she needs you to feel like a child, so 98 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: you can get in that bed with that two year old. 99 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: Because hens I that garage doing. She didn't pull the 100 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: damn car out. She wait till you go to sleep. 101 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 1: You know, y'all ain't got about the one car. She 102 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: pulled it out, and she backing out in the middle 103 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: of the night, and then go back in and let 104 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: the dough down, And y'all ain't got no garage, don't 105 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: open it. She opened it up and letting it down 106 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: falling on it like that, Yes, with two hands. All right, Oh, 107 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: I got this. Gonna be a good letter. One I 108 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: did this. Hang on, we'll have part two of your 109 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: response coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour. 110 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters. Subject, I have a video vixing in 111 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: my garage. We'll be back get back into it right 112 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 113 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject, I 114 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: have a video in my garage. Now, folks, I'm answering 115 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: this letter, but as I go through the letter, already 116 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: know what she's doing in the garage. So I'm answering 117 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: the letter as we go because it's a crazy letter. 118 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: Just how to be crazy. Thirty ye old man, My 119 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: wife twenty eight got laid off because of the pandemic. 120 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: Money tight. My wife is making me feel less than 121 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: a man, I said earlier. That's called she wants you 122 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: to feel like a child. So you're gonna get your 123 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: ass to sleep because she got something to do in 124 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: this damn garage. We have a two year old and 125 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: you the other baby. She is a stay at home mom, 126 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: so I am the sole breadwinner. That's what you think. 127 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: That's what he thinks. He the sole breadwinner. You better 128 00:07:55,120 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: go outside and looking at damn garage. Is there's some 129 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: bread winding going on out there. My wife's attitude, that's 130 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: been horrible for weeks. That's cause she tied. When you 131 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: don't get proper rest, your asses edgy. That's true because 132 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: she know why, because she out in the garage all night. 133 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: So I have been avoiding her. She don't care. Ain't 134 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: nobody else av they're looking for her. You avoidinger and 135 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: they're looking for I watched TV in our bedroom, but 136 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: it's to me in a day house watching their computers 137 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: and guess who on it. Then I go to sleep 138 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: before she come to bed. She ain't coming to bed. 139 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 1: She gotta go get dressed, got to pull that cow. 140 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: Good night. The natives are trying to figure out why 141 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: she keeps getting in this college damn housecoat on and 142 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 1: don't go nowhere. She ain't that setting the studio up 143 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: press Friday night, I woke up three am. Your wife 144 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: wasn't in bed. I couldn't find her anywhere, So I 145 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: went to the garage to see if her car was gone. 146 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: It was gone. It wasn't in there, it's outside in 147 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: the front. You pull it out every night. I was 148 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: surprised to see a camera set up and a rug 149 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: and a couch from our basement. She has strong, little 150 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: help for two. How she dragged that couch about that 151 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: damn basement and you didn't know it. She's a strong 152 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: she's strong. She does some trigger stuff on that couch. Yeah, 153 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: and you drag a damn couch up out of basement, 154 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: buy your damn self and your husband didn't know it 155 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: was any garage? Who are you strong? You know the 156 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,839 Speaker 1: two your old baby didn't help and were quarantines or 157 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: ain't nobody over there? She drove that damn I'll tell 158 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: you how she did it. She tied a rope on 159 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: the bottom of the couch, tied it to the bump 160 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: of the car. When she backed out, was it pulled 161 00:09:54,800 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: the couch up? That's what I oh this stuff for thinking? 162 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: So you walked in there that Yeah, your wife is 163 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: naked doing all kinds of freaking things to herself in 164 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: front of the camera. And let me tell you something 165 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: else too, dog. Reason she's doing something to herself is 166 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: called we quarantine. Yes, but she gonna get good at 167 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: this she's gonna mess around. He's gonna be some people 168 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: in the next Friday. So soon as they release these 169 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: restrictions on social distancing. She she getting ready to become 170 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: a bigger star. Okay. She told me to get out, 171 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: and she turned the camera. She said she didn't want 172 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: me to find out this way, but she had started 173 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: home business. I need to get with the program or 174 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: get out to groad. She'd created her own homemade poem 175 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: sight and she gets paid to do freaking stuff online. 176 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 1: She told me this a very lucrative business and everyone 177 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 1: is doing it. Who is everybody? I ain't doing it. 178 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm not for sure you ain't doing it. Ain't none 179 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: of the ladies on the show doing Who is he? 180 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 1: Anybody's amazing when people get but everybody doing it? Yeah, 181 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: well I only caught your ass right miss Ernestein crossed 182 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: the street. I don't think she's doing it. What is 183 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: we're talking about? You doing it? I was stunned, and 184 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: I dadd her to keep doing it. She jumped right 185 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: back on that couch right in front of her. I'm 186 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: doing it? What what you gonna I'm doing it? What 187 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: about it? What about it? She told me, and if 188 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: she keeps doing it and I dad her over my 189 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: dead body. She told me she was doing it for 190 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: our damn bro. I dare you come in here. I'm 191 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 1: in here laying over my legs open in front of 192 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: the camera for our family, and you in here tripping? 193 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: How you thank you? And that baby upstairs is eating 194 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: sitting up here there. I gotta should have been pull 195 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: his card every damn knight. You just roll on, nave 196 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: been looking at me out of drug that damn couch 197 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: about the basement, to all the balansters off the stairway, 198 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 1: and yo, yo, lays ass ain't even seen that it 199 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: wasn't no more banisters leading that the railing had gotten 200 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: toe off when I pulled it up by the bump 201 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: of the car. And now your ass said complaining, if 202 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: your fat ass wasn't sitting at the house, you go 203 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: down there and see we didn't have a railing coming 204 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: up steps no more because I tow it out, pulling 205 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: the car out with the bumper own it to get 206 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: the couch up in here. That ain't a couch. That's 207 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: a scene, crazy ass hand to get this rug up 208 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: here and everything. You don't pay attention to me and 209 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: if you come on and join in with me, we 210 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: can earn at least five hundred a knife. Oh there's 211 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: a poor ass all right, poster comments on today's Strawberry Letter. 212 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: I have a video vixing in my garage that strong ass, 213 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: pull that couch about that basement. Tell you Posted on 214 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: Steve Herby FM, on Instagram and Facebook and chat. The 215 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up in forty six 216 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. We're going to get a little 217 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: bit serious here. This is a man a devastating story. 218 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: We'll tell you about the trending story of a Georgia 219 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: modern day lynching. Right after this, you're listening to the 220 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: Dame Harvey Morning Show.