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Speaker 1: Welcome to for the Dads. Thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 1: on this early Wednesday morning. I hope the trash is

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Speaker 1: taken out. I hope you made yourself some breakfast, packed

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Speaker 1: the little kids backpack. This is a show for the dads,

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Speaker 1: for the dads who are in it, about to be

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Speaker 1: in it, or maybe you're just somebody tuning in wondering

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Speaker 1: what dad life dad culture is all about. This is

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Speaker 1: not a show about giving advice or being experts. We're

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Speaker 1: just a couple of dads trying to pioneer and carry

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Speaker 1: a flag for fatherhood, for dad culture, and just and

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Speaker 1: speak up for our mental load. We have a lot

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Speaker 1: of different segments in this show. We talk about our

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Speaker 1: dad losses, which we get creative and what we call

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Speaker 1: that segment. I'm not saying it at the top of

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Speaker 1: the episode because I assume the YouTube algorithm might penalize

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Speaker 1: us for that. We talk about our dad losses. Well,

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Speaker 1: we crack a cold one too. We dive into fan

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Speaker 1: callings this week. We have a lot of great feedback

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Speaker 1: from episode one. We play a couple fan callings and

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Speaker 1: talk about those lessons that we are leaning into to

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Speaker 1: become better versions in our minds. Of what fatherhood is.

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Speaker 1: But again, and we have a lot of fun. If

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Speaker 1: you are a current dad, if you're a new dad,

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Speaker 1: if you're an old dad just trying to figure your

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Speaker 1: phone out right now, make sure you're subscribed to this channel.

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Speaker 1: Right now, we are on all Busting with the Boys channels.

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Speaker 1: In July, we will be launching our for the Dad's

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Speaker 1: YouTube channel, so be on the lookout for that. We

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Speaker 1: have a lot of merchandise as you can see, for

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Speaker 1: the Dad's hats, hoodie shirts, everything in between. That is

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Speaker 1: at BWTB dot com. Again, Suram, I said that I

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Speaker 1: said that part. Shream. I fucking said that part. And

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Speaker 1: I was rolling on this intro. Uh. Sherman was showing

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Speaker 1: me something on the on the computer and I was

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Speaker 1: thinking to myself, I literally have already said that let's

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Speaker 1: dive into it. Let let's let's take out the trash boys.

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Speaker 1: Come to another episode of four the Dads. This is

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Speaker 1: episode two. I am Will Compton, my co host and

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Speaker 1: producer of the show. Sherman Young is with your boy.

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Speaker 1: You're probably watching on YouTube right now, maybe you're listening,

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Speaker 1: maybe you're in the middle of the night right now

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Speaker 1: listening to us in your ear. Maybe you are taking

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Speaker 1: out the trash reminder. It is trash day. It is Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: So if you're my part, I know in my neck

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Speaker 1: of the woods in Nashville, Tennessee, it is trash day.

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Speaker 1: So I hope you guys are getting the canes out

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Speaker 1: to the curb. Whether it's Thursday day before, get it

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Speaker 1: out there, get it early, get it often. Or maybe

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Speaker 1: you might just be sitting on the couch watching with

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Speaker 1: your wife because you enjoyed episode one so much that

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Speaker 1: you're like, hey, now it's time to get the misses involved.

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Speaker 1: But maybe not, because this is a safe space for

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Speaker 1: the father. So if your wife is watching with you,

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Speaker 1: just let her know, honey, like this is just a

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Speaker 1: pod for the dads, Like this is for our voices.

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Speaker 1: This is our safe space where we can vent. We

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Speaker 1: might bitch a little bit about our wives, and that's

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Speaker 1: okay because that's no matter what. We're coming home because sweetheart,

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Speaker 1: we love you. But all to say, a lot of

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Speaker 1: great feedback last week, bro, the feedback's crazy, the finback's insane.

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Speaker 1: I got a few I want to shout out because

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Speaker 1: I was going through the I was going through the comments.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you did that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going through the comments seeing what people

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Speaker 1: had said. But shout out again, Jerry Ferris. He was

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Speaker 1: the one delivering his newborn on the bathroom floor. I

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Speaker 1: saw comments on the YouTube page, but shout out the boy.

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Speaker 1: Shout out the dad, Jerry Ferris. A lot of people

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Speaker 1: enjoying Pizza Friday, the Pizza Friday shout outs getting more.

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Speaker 1: It's good to grow the community on Pizza Friday. We

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Speaker 1: need more dads involved in growing the Pizza Friday community.

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Speaker 1: Aaron Wood, a twenty five year old girl dad, buddy,

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Speaker 1: his buddies don't have kids in this show helps him

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Speaker 1: fill the void. We also had a couple of dads

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah, he's still in the game.

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Speaker 1: Knicks World. His wife is a shout out Knicks World

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Speaker 1: His wife is twenty six weeks pregnant. Listen to the show,

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Speaker 1: so again, you can be an expecting father like yourself. Sure,

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Speaker 1: who's got you know, I've seeing some people saying that

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Speaker 2: Yeah that not only the comments, but the dms and

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Speaker 2: the six on one, the dad's hotline. Yeah, man, you

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Speaker 2: were telling me bonkers, how many what.

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Speaker 1: Was that number? Yesterday? It was like seventy four had

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Speaker 2: Yes, uh, and it was even more today. Chef who

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Speaker 2: helps dial everything in on the back end, as far

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Speaker 2: as six on one, the dads are DM socials. Chefs

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Speaker 2: show me the voicemails even today, and I'm seeing those

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Speaker 2: on one, the Dad's You guys have I'm doing a

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Speaker 2: great job calling in one of my favorite ones. I

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Speaker 2: it now that I think about it, had zero questions,

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Speaker 2: didn't want to say anything except for a happy Father's

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Speaker 2: Day to the boys. Dude, that's all he wanted to say.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because by the time this one drops, a Father's

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Speaker 1: Day will have already happened. Yes, I hope dad's I

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Speaker 1: hope the father's out there got everything they wanted. I

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Speaker 1: one big thing I always enjoy. You have a little

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Speaker 2: Is that the love sack that's up in your game? Ram, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's comfy. You see. We got a couple facelifts. If

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Speaker 1: I don't know if the cameras are showing it, but

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Speaker 1: we now have a refrigerator or interns at a great

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Speaker 1: job grabbing this refrigerator at an antique shop. We got

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Speaker 1: We got Rue. She made that little sheep. Clearly, she

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Speaker 2: Oh really yeah, well well done Taylor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, I look at that. I'm like, God,

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Speaker 1: we gotta work on color and in between the lines.

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Speaker 1: She loves coloring, She loves doing all. She gets very

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Speaker 1: just wants, like dead that you do it, Mama, you

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Speaker 2: Got a little face lift. I actually might have my

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Speaker 2: first tip. My mom's an artist. If you go, if

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what uh dude, what's been going on? Anything? Any

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Speaker 1: new updates before we get into you know, getting motherfucker

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Speaker 1: to crack a cold one getting into our segments. Yeah, dude.

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Speaker 2: The so Jill is starting to officially pack the hospital bag,

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Speaker 2: like the overnight bag. Yeah, And last night I was

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Speaker 2: And Joe goes, yes, you do, you do need new? Yeah? Mom,

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Speaker 1: And just packing the overnight bag, oh yeah, all the things,

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Speaker 2: That was my thought. And then I'm seeing this bag

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Speaker 2: true duffel and you gotta have the outfit first.

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Speaker 1: Outfit they're gonna wear when they leave the hospital. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: and j Suddy of the outfits. Don't get me started

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Speaker 1: on the outfit. It's not the hospital one coming out.

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Speaker 1: I get that. That's a big moment and everything else.

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Speaker 1: I was with a fellow dad the other weekend and

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Speaker 1: over what's that horse track over on the west side.

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Speaker 1: Ooh uh, Steeplechase. They had an event going on over

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Speaker 1: at Steeplechase. And I take the kids over, and I

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Speaker 1: And I'm standing there next to a fellow dad's name.

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Speaker 1: His name is Tom. We'll say his last name, you know,

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Speaker 1: it could be any Tom. And we're standing there and

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Speaker 1: something extra. Hey, Dad, that lay next to me, read

429
00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,639
Speaker 1: me another book and then dadda, can you sing to me?

430
00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,679
Speaker 1: Or Hey, I'm getting thirsty, and then you go down

431
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,000
Speaker 1: and get water and you might bring it back up.

432
00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 1: Dedad I'm getting hungry. And that's where you draw the line.

433
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,280
Speaker 1: You're like, no, like, I know, we know what's happening

434
00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,560
Speaker 1: right now. We got to slow it down on pumping brakes.

435
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:58,440
Speaker 1: But recently, bro, she's just been going batshit crazy anytime

436
00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,600
Speaker 1: I try to put her down for bed, and it's

437
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,320
Speaker 1: like it's one of those shots to where it sucks

438
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,159
Speaker 1: for me because I want to put her down. You've

439
00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 1: got to have so much patience. It's like you're sitting

440
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:14,040
Speaker 1: there and as she's screaming, hyperventilating, spazzing on the floor

441
00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,679
Speaker 1: and you just have to sit there in it because

442
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 1: anything I've tried doing it just works her up even more.

443
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,159
Speaker 1: She doesn't want me to touch her, doesn't want me

444
00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 1: to do this. Don't look at me, don't I'm not

445
00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 1: looking at you. Then you catch yourself raising your voice

446
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:28,679
Speaker 1: and you kind of just stop, and the moment like

447
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,200
Speaker 1: freezes and this dog whistle noise is just in your

448
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,360
Speaker 1: ear and you're like having a moment to where you're

449
00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,120
Speaker 1: just sitting there seeing your toddler just scream on the ground,

450
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 1: and you're just thinking, why is this so damn difficult?

451
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 1: But that is my my motherfucked moment is from my

452
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 1: daughter room because I feel like she's basically cussing me

453
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 1: out anytime I try to put her down for bed. Well.

454
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 2: I got to see Charroo do a little bit negotiating

455
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 2: with her at dad Combine, by the way, Yeah, and

456
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,679
Speaker 2: I wanted to pick your brain on that strategy to

457
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 2: you and kind of if it fits with the bedtime

458
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:07,680
Speaker 2: strategy as well of what how are you handling that screaming?

459
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 2: Like what is your tactic? Because what I saw Charro

460
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:16,399
Speaker 2: do in the pool a jack was fake drowning and

461
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 2: the pool Rue was loving that and like save me Jago,

462
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 2: and she grabbed the hand and pull him out, and

463
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 2: they did it eight hundred times. I mean, Ru could

464
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 2: have done that all day. And finally Charles says, hey,

465
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 2: three more times and then we gotta go. And Rue

466
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 2: very quickly was like, no, mom, We're doing this a

467
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,440
Speaker 2: million more times. I'm never getting out of the pool.

468
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: And Charo just stood there quite literally like George Bush

469
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 2: with the first pitch brick wall. Not afraid of terrorist.

470
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm not afraid of terrors and said then how many

471
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 2: more times would you like?

472
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 3: Ru?

473
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 2: And I was like, I looked at Charroo because I

474
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 2: was like, I've never really seen a parent do that.

475
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: I was like, that's kind of cool. Let's see what

476
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 2: Reus has and really was like.

477
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: Five because they can't count that high. No, you can't

478
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: count that. I wanted you give me a number and

479
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: we'll hold you to You don't like three? Okay, what

480
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: can you go up to?

481
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: What do you want? Yeah, she's a vibe. Chre said

482
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:22,879
Speaker 2: that sounds fair to do. Five. Yeah, where did that

483
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,159
Speaker 2: come from? Is that just?

484
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean you're you're like you're playing with things

485
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: all the time because you're trying to like remain calm

486
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:31,919
Speaker 1: and stay patient because you don't want to argue, especially

487
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: in front of other people. Like that's something that like

488
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,199
Speaker 1: internally frustrates me. When I hear kind of like, you know,

489
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: acting up or starting to throw a little bit of

490
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: a fit or complaining a little too loud, It's like

491
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: I'll start to get triggered a little bit more than

492
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: I should because I'm just like, you know, you want

493
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 1: your kid to just be on good behavior in front

494
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,199
Speaker 1: of everybody. Yeah, then you're also reminding yourself they're three,

495
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: a lot of sensory, a lot of like all their

496
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 1: senses are flared up right now. Yeah. Oh, but it's

497
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 1: just it's like it's something you just figure out, like

498
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 1: you'll do. But I know a bunch of parents do it.

499
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 1: Like if I'm trying to get Rude to eat or

500
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 1: finish her not even finish her dinner, but get her

501
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 1: to eat a few more bites, and you know she's

502
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: just not going to and you're just like you'll throw

503
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: out the number three, like, hey, just eat three more

504
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: bites and you're done, and you can be done. Yeah,

505
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 1: Or she'll talk about the cookie. Hey, you're not getting

506
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: a cookie whatsoever if you don't start eating. But then

507
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 1: when it gets to a point, hey three more bites

508
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 1: and you can get a piece of a cookie. And

509
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: she'll be like, how about two more bites? And so

510
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: I'll just say, you know what, if you take one

511
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: more bite, I'll let you do two more bites. Do

512
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: the math. Come on, we're at three. She'll be hellkay,

513
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: she'll leat a bite, I'll find two more bites and

514
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: two more bites and you got it. But it's it's

515
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: it's like you're trying to give them control. It's all

516
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: you're really trying to do. Like when you're thinking those

517
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: moments and you just know again you're you're you're negotiating

518
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,479
Speaker 1: with the terrorists like they have no reason, they have

519
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: no their brain capacity isn't there to actually have a conversation.

520
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 1: They just want to be they want to feel independent,

521
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,439
Speaker 1: they want to be in control. So if you like

522
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 1: say something they're kind of battling against it, you just

523
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:04,239
Speaker 1: try to throw it to them, all right, like what

524
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:05,959
Speaker 1: are your thoughts? What do you think? And knowing that

525
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: they can't count that high or on rus wanting to

526
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: scroll my phone and pick a song, and I'm just like, sweetheart,

527
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,959
Speaker 1: you can't read, you can't read, You're not gonna pick

528
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: the right song.

529
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 2: I got it.

530
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 1: It's just the element of like giving them control in

531
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: that moment and when they say five, all right, great,

532
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: five more times and we'll go okay, We'll say, like, hey,

533
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: how many more minutes if she's watching TV? You know,

534
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: how many more minutes? You only got you know, one

535
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: more minute? Then we're gonna turn the TV off. And

536
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 1: knowing that she's not gonna like that. All right, how

537
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: many more minutes? She'd be back three more minutes? Like

538
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 1: all right, dad, else, set a time for three more minutes.

539
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: And then when it goes off, she gets up, she

540
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: turns off the TV really, or she'll tell me to

541
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 1: turn off. All right, dead a you turn it off,

542
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,719
Speaker 1: and then you turn it off. But it's just like

543
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: it's like it's just giving them the illusion of control

544
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: when they're three years old. I don't know how it's

545
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: gonna work when they're four, five sixty seven. If your

546
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: parents are watching right now, let me know what I

547
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,679
Speaker 1: need to look forward to, and maybe some tactics that

548
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: I can add and the survival kid in the book

549
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: bag for when those times come. But it's, dude, it's

550
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: like you just learn a whole new level of patience

551
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: and just being like, all right, what's a tool? What

552
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: question can I ask to make them feel like they

553
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: have control? Right now? Yeah?

554
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 2: We we did the old fashioned d Way Lebron meme

555
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 2: of on rue with the syrup.

556
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 1: Yeah.

557
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: When I said, well, we can give Scotty some syrup

558
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 2: and you said, no, Sky's too young, I said, oh, yeah,

559
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 2: that's right. Syrup's only for big girls. And then Rue

560
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: was like, Hey, I am kind of a big girl.

561
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 2: What the fuck do you have anything that makes sense?

562
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: Do you have any recent motherfucked moments? I know the

563
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 1: wife he's getting close, not saying she's agitated and uncomfortable,

564
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: which he is.

565
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 2: I don't have a big one. But yesterday I came

566
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 2: home and she was in full effect of like getting

567
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 2: the hospital and chef, do you mind cutting the air?

568
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 2: It's on issue at all, but it's going to be

569
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 2: on the very back behind the bus and it's going

570
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 2: to be up against the right wall. Yes, sir, we

571
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:09,880
Speaker 2: forgot to cut.

572
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: The air and cut the air. It's alright, it happens.

573
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 2: We may even leave that in the edit a bus

574
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: because we're authentic here.

575
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, but.

576
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 2: Yes, I came home. She's packing the bags for the

577
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: hospital stuff. I can tell she's been at it all day.

578
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 2: Her mind kind of runs. So she's a nurse. She's

579
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 2: aware of like things that can go wrong in pregnancy,

580
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 2: and that's one thing that we've been dealing with throughout

581
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: this pregnancy is she just kind of knows like if

582
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 2: she burps and feels weird when she burps, her brain

583
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: can all of a sudden go oh, that's you know, Carl,

584
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: Carl's blah blah blah itis, and that means that, you

585
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 2: know what I'm sayings just spirals into well, oh my gosh.

586
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 2: So she pitdles around the house and does like a

587
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,919
Speaker 2: lot of hard work to kind of keep her mind busy.

588
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 2: I could tell she was in that zone. But I

589
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 2: know that one of her lease air things that I

590
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: do when I get home is just lay on the

591
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 2: couch while she's peddling. So I was like, at the least,

592
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 2: I will go join her in the nursery lay down

593
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,199
Speaker 2: on my back because she doesn't want me folding her

594
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: clothes and Scarlet's clothes, all these cute things like she

595
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 2: wants to do that, but I'll go lay on my

596
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 2: back in the nursery while she's doing that. And dude,

597
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: I just what's that smell? Why are your shoes on

598
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: in here? Like what are you doing? Sherman? Do you

599
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 2: not put your head on that? I could just sell

600
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 2: that I was in the way, so I quickly took

601
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 2: my shoes off, tried to sit there for a while.

602
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 2: I have a really bad I'll pass gas and not

603
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 2: think about it. So I fared in. That was the

604
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 2: last straw. I got kicked out of the nursery. And

605
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 2: I could have done a better job. I could have

606
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: come in there and been more helpful. I was exhausted

607
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: after work. I was trying to put in like some

608
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: effort though of like hey, I will be next to

609
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 2: you and lay with you and talk with you and

610
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 2: make you laugh while you're doing this. But I think

611
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: I just went about it all wrong.

612
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing gives me more anxiety because I'm the same way.

613
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: I kind of like hitting the couch of laying down.

614
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: You get home, you just want to you just want

615
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: to check out for a second. And uh, anytime, especially

616
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 1: like after the kids go down and I'll go and

617
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 1: I'll be like laying on the couch and then say, Charles,

618
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: God done, putting done, Ruth. So she'll come down second.

619
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: In this situation, she'll come down. I might have a

620
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 1: show of ours plugged in. Right now, we're watching Stick

621
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: on Apple TV. Start that. It seems it's fun. I

622
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: like it a lot. It's a good show. It's a

623
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: good show. And I'll be down there laying and she'll

624
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: start pitling, you know what I mean, Like just start

625
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: cleaning a bunch of stuff up that I didn't know

626
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,719
Speaker 1: we needed cleaned up. Yeah, And that's what gives me anxiety,

627
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: because I feel like she just stomps around a little harder,

628
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: like she's almost and this might not even be true.

629
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: It might even be in my own head a little harder.

630
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: She might release a couple sighs to where she knows

631
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: in her mind, I want him to feel that I'm

632
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: doing stuff right now and he's just sitting on his ass.

633
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: That's the anxiety that I get in my head.

634
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's just hearing tiktoks and memes playing on your iPhone.

635
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Josh Payton breaking down the boys, maybe hear me

636
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: just give a chuckle. Oh, it's clear.

637
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: Apparently they're for the boys over there.

638
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what are you doing? They're just checking emails.

639
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: That's funny. I hear Instagram open right now.

640
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: That Uh yeah, I mean that's that's basically it's not

641
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 2: a crazy motherfuck, But it is like I'm starting to

642
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Speaker 2: realize too, with like a baby on the way, I'm

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646
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Speaker 2: thirty to forty five minutes just on my phone, not

648
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Speaker 2: I can tell you it rubs her the wrong way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna be you know, just dip. Yeah, that'll

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Speaker 1: blow up when the little one's here.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I already I already know that. It's a hope.

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Speaker 1: I hope you do. Try that a couple of times,

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Speaker 2: Oh they Oh okay, Ohio statement win the Natty this year. Honey,

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Speaker 2: that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: First?

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Speaker 1: Sure? Rue had her first ballet camp? Oh yes, so

705
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Speaker 1: cracking a call. Went to Rue's first ballet camp. It

706
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Speaker 1: was her first camp to where she's been going. She

707
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: went for a week long, three hours per day. You

708
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Speaker 1: drop her off and this is a solo camp, so

709
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: this is the first time we're dropping her off to

710
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Speaker 1: go do something without, like without involving us or the

711
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: nanny or somebody that she's like comfortable with, right, yeah,

712
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: her grandparents, whatever it is. She's on her own. I

713
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,479
Speaker 1: feel like it took probably more of a toll on

714
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Speaker 1: us than it did Rue. I know when Charle first

715
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: brought it up, I was a little hesitant, like, all right,

716
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Speaker 1: you know, are we sure we want to do this,

717
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: and YadA, YadA, YadA, just because I just I don't know,

718
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: I just think of the the innocent, little three year old,

719
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: like if I feel like it's all the stuff that

720
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: parents go through and maybe not, uh, but you're just

721
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: you think about all the situations where they might feel

722
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: unsure and nervous or they might get picked on. I

723
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: don't know, all of these things are just in my

724
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: head and I just think of my sweet little girl. Yeah,

725
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: and that makes me sad to think of those situations.

726
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: So I felt like it was it took a bigger

727
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: toll on us then it did her. But dude, it's

728
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: it was awesome. The first day, I know, the drop

729
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: off was a struggle. She was very nervous. She was

730
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: very sad. Charle was telling me that. She was like,

731
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: you know, Mom, I don't want you to go YadA YadA. Yeah,

732
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm kind of glad that I wasn't exactly there. I

733
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: got to do it at home and telling her like, hey,

734
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: go be great, go have fun, like do all this stuff,

735
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: make friends. You know you're saying all the things, dude,

736
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: and she went dude. And she went into the class.

737
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,280
Speaker 1: Charle was leaving Ruthe struggled with that. And then after

738
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: the class when they went to pick her up, she

739
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: came running outside and it was like, Mom, I wasn't nervous,

740
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: I wasn't scared. I did it and all this stuff,

741
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: and she was just elated, bro. And just to know

742
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: that she had a great first day, like first experience, Yeah,

743
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,399
Speaker 1: was just like it warmed the boy's heart.

744
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: Were you were you there on the pickup?

745
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: That was just trying because it was happening when we

746
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 1: were here at the shop. Got it like it was

747
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 1: going from like U nine to noon. So I got

748
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: to see her before we left the house, before we

749
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:06,919
Speaker 1: departed from the house, and then I just I didn't

750
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: get to see her until I went home and then

751
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: I'm asking her all about it, and I'm like, show

752
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: me this stuff that you were learning, and she's like

753
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 1: showing me tough pike straddle and butterfly. And then as

754
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: she's staying on butterflies, she starts singing Butterfly. She's just

755
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: like start singing.

756
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 2: Because there's a song.

757
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: There's a song to help them remember. Yeah, And it

758
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: was cool, dude, But we went the she went the

759
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: entire week. She had a little like not recital, but

760
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: something that at like fifteen minutes they showed the parents

761
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: on the last day, like all the things that they've

762
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: been working on, like their jumps and leaves and tippy

763
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 1: toes everywhere and animals that they were kind of mimicking

764
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: and doing stuff with their rolls like rolling forward, tucking

765
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: their chin. Okay, then they had like a little dance

766
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: at the end, and it was awesome, man, it was awesome.

767
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: It's like one of those things where and you know,

768
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 1: you'll you'll obviously get there and I'm sure parents are

769
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: out there probably remembering their first time like dropping their

770
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: kidd off, but you even though it's like an uncomfortable

771
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: thing to do, you know, it's like good for them

772
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: because you're wanting to build like that independence you're wanting

773
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 1: to You're wanting them to start building social skills, build

774
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: some resilience on being uncomfortable, being scared, but then knowing

775
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: that they are, that they can do it, and then

776
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,240
Speaker 1: they do do it. I'm not nervous, I wasn't scared

777
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,720
Speaker 1: and all this stuff, and they start getting more confident

778
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: in themselves. But that's the that's my crack. A cold one.

779
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: Rue went to her first like summer camp, ballet camp

780
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 1: five days and it was, uh, it was cool.

781
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 2: Dude, that's sick. I'm in so much trouble with like

782
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: moments like that of like I wasn't scared, I wasn't nervous.

783
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: Just like hearing that, I'm like, oh dude, yeah, oh

784
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:46,760
Speaker 2: my gosh.

785
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: Because you try to get them as much as you can,

786
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: like early talking about emotions, because when they're having their breakdown,

787
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: say you know, what are you feeling? What is this?

788
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: Why this? You know? And she'd be like, I'm sad,

789
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,919
Speaker 1: and you know, kind of try to label all their emotions. Someone.

790
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: She was telling mom that I'm nervous, I don't want

791
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: you to leave, I'm scared, I'm all this stuff to

792
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: where as a parent, like I know, if I'm in

793
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: that situation, I'm just kind of thinking, like this is

794
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: extremely difficult. I kind of don't want to leave, like

795
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: let me just kind of stick around. And then you're like,

796
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 1: maybe I'll leave when she's not looking, and then you

797
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 1: also kind of feel bad or feel guilty that I'm

798
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,919
Speaker 1: gonna sneak out and then she's gonna look and see

799
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: in the corner and you're not gonna be there, and

800
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: then maybe she might get scared even more straight.

801
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I would feel like a boxing coach,

802
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 2: like in the corner with my boxer, Like but like

803
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 2: you were describing with Rue before she was leaving and

804
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 2: like go be great and stuff like that, like I'm

805
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: gonna have to hold back in those moments, yeah, because

806
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking about that, and I'm like, oh my gosh, Yeah,

807
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 2: that's like.

808
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: It's wild when you're just experiencing all like the firsts,

809
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, First time they say a

810
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: word or say dad, dad, first time they walk, first

811
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: time they tell you I love you, like all of

812
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,280
Speaker 1: the first It's just it's always a different moment, moment

813
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: that you're excited about and then when you get past it,

814
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: you reflect on it makes you sad that they're growing

815
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: up and all those things in between.

816
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 2: Dude, how how was she sleeping that week? Were they

817
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 2: getting her real tired and she was just coming home

818
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 2: and passing.

819
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: She doesn't take naps anymore, and now she's she's out

820
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: of the nap game, which is like, you know, you're

821
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: trying to implement like quiet time because its not She'll

822
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 1: be on all day. You've been around rude, like she's

823
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: a spark plug, all the personality, a lot of independence,

824
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:30,439
Speaker 1: real sassy or build some sass, and she just has

825
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: like she has so much fun with absolutely everything. She

826
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: wants to be playing all the time. We have an

827
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: we have a guest, Hey, how's it going. How are

828
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:40,879
Speaker 1: we doing?

829
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 2: Oh with neutral?

830
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that would be on the other side, Yes, sir,

831
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: sorry for that interruption in our program. We had a

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00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: we had a delivery man with a delivery man up front.

833
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Speaker 1: Crack a cold one.

834
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 2: Crack a cold one. There was one more thing I

835
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 2: was gonna say with oh yeah, yeah, we were in

836
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 2: the middle the first it's like, oh, it's their first

837
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 2: you know, I love you and all that, and it

838
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: was like her first time going to camp. Do you

839
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: think you'll do summer camps, like overnight summer camps with her?

840
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: Probably eventually, Okay, I don't think I did. For a

841
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: long time. It'd be like, you know, it was more

842
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: just like sport camps and stuff I didn't have. I

843
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: didn't do any of like those those summer camps where

844
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: you're like staying overnight or traveling out of state. Charo did.

845
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: So I feel like she probably will because Charlie experienced

846
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,959
Speaker 1: that stuff and she's kind of brought it up before. Okay, Uh,

847
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: that'll be a whole different level. That's gonna be tough

848
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: on the boy. I feel like, yeah.

849
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: Because I know it'll be tough on me. Yeah, and

850
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: I don't even have one.

851
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it'll be difficult. It'll be difficult, but it's like,

852
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's just life, right, Yeah, I gotta learn

853
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: at some point. Yeah, gotta get them uncomfortable, Gotta get

854
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: us uncomfortables. Gonna happen too, I truly do.

855
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 2: I like I think about moments of I mean not

856
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 2: to make it about myself, but like TCU Baylor went

857
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 2: to triple overtime one year and I was like bawling

858
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 2: my eyes out at that football game for not out

859
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: of sadness, but just out of like the sheer emotion

860
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 2: from it. And then Jill's talking about like with me,

861
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 2: you're gonna be the best at ever, like at her

862
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 2: lit league, you know, games and stuff, and she wants

863
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,720
Speaker 2: to play soccer like her dad did. And I started

864
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: tearing up right there. I was like, I'm gonna have

865
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 2: to wear sunglasses to these Lily League games. Yeah, just

866
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: be the piss off looking dad like far away and

867
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 2: you're like, man, that guy's looks so mean. But really

868
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 2: I'm just over there like fucking love my girl so much. Yeah,

869
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 2: oh my god, just crying the whole time.

870
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, watching her just hit her a little

871
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: performance at the end of her camp. When I was

872
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: over there earlier, I just already know. I'm just I'm

873
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: already like one of those dads I'm watching every kid go.

874
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, Woo's kind of got a little

875
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: edge on her here, and then you know what it

876
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,359
Speaker 1: might be hopping all right, do it like the do

877
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: it like the like the horse of the diraft And

878
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: they're kind of like they're kind of like moving their arms.

879
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: R's not moving her arm. We gotta work on that

880
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: when we get home.

881
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 2: It will work on that.

882
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 1: Like, let's see her jump over this little pylon, Like

883
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,359
Speaker 1: how they're all gonna look jumping over this little matt

884
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: and you see them all going, you see? All right?

885
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 1: And the first thing I want to do whenever it

886
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: gets done, I want to go right up to the

887
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: teacher and like, just give it to me straight that

888
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: she got a shot. She got a shot to go pro.

889
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 2: What's going on here?

890
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: Let's figure it out now when she's three years old

891
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: and with ballet, I've heard like Russia's pretty good.

892
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: Like we're gonna be sitting over to Russia. What does

893
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 2: this look like next?

894
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: Do you see when you look at rue out there?

895
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: I have my opinion, but I'll hold it until you

896
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: go first. But give it to me straight.

897
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 2: Hey, you go first, coach.

898
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: You see the calves on it, you see the legs

899
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: on her.

900
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 2: This will never be during practice. I just want you

901
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 2: to know I always come. I'll come to you after it.

902
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 2: That's your time. Yeah, I feel like this is our

903
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 2: time now after practice.

904
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: She's got good genetics. What'd you get that her moment?

905
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: I did play a few years in the NFL.

906
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, the videos that you are a

907
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 2: post of Reu doing ballet. I love that you can

908
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: tell you get juiced about it.

909
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you just you love watching them just develop. Yeah,

910
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like that, they're they're their

911
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 1: own little human being, they're their own little person. Yeah,

912
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,879
Speaker 1: and they're just like doing it, you know what I'm saying.

913
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 2: Yes, it's fun, it's fun. My crack a cold one. Uh,

914
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 2: my crack a cold one is kind of quick too.

915
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 2: But it was like a really uh this is like

916
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:30,720
Speaker 2: selfishly about me, but it was a really incredible moment

917
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: of we have the dad Combine this week. All the

918
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: dads of all the bust and boys, including Will and

919
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: Taylor's dads all fly in and we compete on like

920
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 2: multiple uh dad competitions. It's really lighthearted, it's really fun.

921
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 2: But it turns into this like incredibly wholesome day where

922
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 2: it's just a bunch of sons getting to hang out

923
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 2: with their dads and they're getting paid to do it,

924
00:42:55,440 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 2: which is nuts. My road in production has not been

925
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 2: a bumpy one, but it's just hard to make a

926
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 2: living and be in full time production if you're not

927
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 2: in some of the hotspots of like Atlanta, New York City, LA.

928
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 2: So it's just kind of a road less traveled. And

929
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 2: my dad was very much in the corporate world, and

930
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: so it wasn't like I never had my dad's blessing,

931
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 2: but it was always kind of like you could tell

932
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 2: that dad kind of second guest a lot of decisions

933
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 2: that I made.

934
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: Right, You're not going down the road that he went down,

935
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 1: because it seems like in your family some things are

936
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: not like generational to a tea, but it's kind of

937
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: a structure there. So I'm sure there's that shame or

938
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: you know, level of security of like, man, he's never

939
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: said and he's never given me a weird vibe, but

940
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 1: it's like, is he kind of disappointed that I'm not like, well.

941
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 2: I'm sure I'm gonna shift, yeah, And I'm sure on

942
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: his end that I didn't go of that path. He

943
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: may be thinking like is it because he doesn't like

944
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 2: me that he doesn't want to do this? Like why,

945
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 2: like where where did that come from? But he always

946
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 2: did see me like as a little kid in the

947
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 2: backyard doing I would make little Indiana Jones movies with

948
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 2: like all the neighbor kids, or like all my friends

949
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 2: would come over and we'd do like sketch comedy stuff

950
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 2: and put on YouTube, and so my parents were well

951
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 2: aware that this was something that interested me. But you

952
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 2: and Taylor gave me an opportunity here full time, an

953
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: incredible one that brought my wife and I halfway across

954
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 2: the nation. It was just a very big move. It

955
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: was a very big opportunity, and it was really kind

956
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,720
Speaker 2: of the first time that my dad, like I could

957
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 2: really sense like how proud and excited he was. And

958
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 2: he pulled Will to the side at the Dad Combine

959
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,840
Speaker 2: and it was in front of me, and he thanked

960
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 2: Will for giving me this opportunity specifically of the show

961
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 2: and hearing him him saying like, thank you for giving

962
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 2: him a shot, because we've been seeing it since, you know,

963
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 2: he was a little kid, and it just means the

964
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 2: world that somebody else saw it in him. Uh. And

965
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 2: he gave you like a little hug or like a

966
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 2: little dap or something, and then uh, you started waxing

967
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 2: poetic about me, which you did not have to do,

968
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,479
Speaker 2: but that feels really good when your boss is saying

969
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 2: that to your dad. And it was honestly like a

970
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 2: top three Dad moment. It was really cool.

971
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Man. Yeah. I know when he pulled me aside,

972
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: it was before everything started and he's like, I just

973
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,439
Speaker 1: want to say this before everything gets going, and took

974
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: off his hat and everything. He did give me a

975
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 1: yeah conversation about yeah, being proud of you, yeah, and

976
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: you being with the boys.

977
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,839
Speaker 2: It was just really cool, really selfish crack of coal one,

978
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: but like, man, it was a really good crack of

979
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 2: cold one that was just like, it's.

980
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 1: About your dad, that's what that's what we're here for.

981
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: This is before the Dad's podcast, man, because that day

982
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: was really cool. It's like, uh, I posted about it.

983
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: But it's essentially we've taken something that we do work

984
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: related and came up with this event. And it's not

985
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: like a very uber competitive thing. It's kind of just

986
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: like a reason for us to have our dads in

987
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 1: and hang out with our dads. I know last year

988
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: there wasn't as many of the dads here, and then

989
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 1: you kind of sit back and think about it. You're like,

990
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: let's get everybody's dad in the shop. If we can

991
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: here on this date, will fly him in And it's

992
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 1: essentially like us kicking in with our dads because we're like,

993
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: you know, doing competitions like packing coolers, taking out the trash,

994
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: a little trash relay, a fashion show for True Classic,

995
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: and you're doing trivia. So you're answering questions about you know,

996
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: who was your dad's favorite crush growing up or when

997
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: you know, when did he lose his virginity? When is

998
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: his birthday, what's his favorite color, what was his first job.

999
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: They're answering stuff about you on embarrassing moments. You're kind

1000
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: of getting to relive, you know, stuff from your dad's past,

1001
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: stuff from your childhood that they remember that you might

1002
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 1: not remember. Yeah, and then you're kind of sitting there

1003
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: at the end and now that a few of the

1004
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: dads this is their second year in a row, just

1005
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: to see kind of a rapport or relationship building and

1006
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: knowing like the boys in the shop are all super tight.

1007
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: Now seeing our dads get in the mix and start

1008
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 1: to become tighter, just know that this is the date

1009
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 1: every year that we're gonna have a dad combine. It's

1010
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: really cool, man. Jelly Reel said it a long time

1011
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: when we were just talking about busting with the boys,

1012
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: you just talked about it being like a diary of

1013
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: video diary or a video journal that we'll get to

1014
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: look back on one day and listen to our conversations.

1015
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: And this is a dark way of thinking about the

1016
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: dad combine stuff, but thinking so far into the future

1017
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:33,479
Speaker 1: that one day when our dads are no longer here,

1018
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: because that will be a real thing. We will have

1019
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: these videos in these moments to look back on and

1020
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,399
Speaker 1: see us interacting with them when we're like thirty five,

1021
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 1: versus like home videos of them us being little and

1022
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: then being a new dad. It's like we have moments

1023
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: throughout our childhood and our adult life to where we'll

1024
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: be able to watch that, you know, with sadness and

1025
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: happiness and everything else. But it's really cool that we'll

1026
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: have all these things and if busting is no more right, yeah, yeah,

1027
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: back on all the relationships that we I had all

1028
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 1: the funny moments, but the dead combine was a lot

1029
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: of fun.

1030
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 2: It was a ton of fun.

1031
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1032
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,959
Speaker 2: The idea of being a grandfather one day by being

1033
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 2: able to like pull up some of those videos of

1034
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 2: just like me getting my head buzz for that bet

1035
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 2: I lost, or like you know, showing.

1036
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: Your grandkids showing their friends about stuff.

1037
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yes, that was our crack of cold one.

1038
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 2: And also just a reminder for the six to oz

1039
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 2: one of the dad's because we have had a few

1040
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: that I've listened to where they were like I had

1041
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 2: a good crack a cold one, or I had a

1042
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 2: really good motherfucked love that if you got a dad

1043
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: hack or a tool kit. Just another reminder. I know

1044
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: we've said that before, like tell us your crack of

1045
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 2: cold one too. It does not have to be a question.

1046
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: And one of the ones this week, I believe it

1047
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 2: is a crack of cold one and it is stellar

1048
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 2: and just.

1049
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: Off the whole six one the dads because in O

1050
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: we're all through this and figuring out too. I'm trying

1051
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: to think of the people that call in and you know,

1052
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: they might give it another shot the next week and

1053
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: they might say the same exact story. If there are

1054
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: a bunch of voicemails that we hear that you think

1055
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: could make it on the show, But that's not just

1056
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: the ones that we selected for this show. You can

1057
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: keep them in a row. We can probably keep them

1058
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: in a rollodex. Put the headphones on.

1059
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 2: No, no, you're fine. I was just saying, if like

1060
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 2: the viewers could hear Chef, because I would love for

1061
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,800
Speaker 2: the viewers to hear that. And if they couldn't hear Chef,

1062
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 2: that's intern Chef that's been helping us before the dads.

1063
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 2: He has been compiling all these voicemails. We are taking

1064
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 2: our job very seriously with the voicemails with the DMS.

1065
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 2: Chef is a huge part of that and cycles through

1066
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 2: all those call logs and listens to them and compiles

1067
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 2: them and Sherman, would this be a good one because

1068
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 2: we actually surprised Will with the call ins the actual

1069
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 2: day of recording. Just know, those voicemails are being listen to.

1070
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 2: Chef's taking his job really seriously, so we thank them

1071
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 2: for that.

1072
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 1: So keep calling trying to find ways to continue building

1073
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 1: this community. Yeah. Absolutely, you can already just tell from

1074
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: the comments in the first episode and just the dads

1075
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: who are excited about it and everything else and the

1076
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,359
Speaker 1: messages that we were getting like it's gonna be it's

1077
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:16,879
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of fun. And if you've made

1078
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: it this far in the second episode, feel free to

1079
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: share it. Feel free to share with your boy, to

1080
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: share your fellow dad group chats. Feel free to share

1081
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: it pass it around because people might not fully know,

1082
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They might be subscribed to

1083
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: the bust and YouTube channel yep, and they might have

1084
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: saw the thumbnail and just think it's like a clip

1085
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: or something.

1086
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 2: And that was that was looking at the analytics. Jeremy

1087
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 2: had pulled it up for me. That was two of

1088
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: the main ways that people were actually seeing the episode

1089
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 2: where people were sharing the dads were sharing it, and

1090
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 2: then the dads were also looking up for the dads

1091
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 2: on YouTube, which that's usually a really small percentage, but

1092
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 2: there was a high percentage of our views just from

1093
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 2: for the dads, which to me that feels like a

1094
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 2: word of mouth things, so that it's really cool that

1095
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: the dads are doing that. Our next segment, What are

1096
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 2: the Odds, shout out FanDuel's sportsbook What are the Odds?

1097
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 2: Just a reminder for you guys. This is where we

1098
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 2: tell a story of like crazy timing, wild odds, or

1099
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 2: just kind of those small little moments in life where

1100
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 2: it's like, man, what are the odds of that? That's

1101
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 2: so funny? What are the Odds? This week was also

1102
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 2: at Dad Combine. This features my Dad and also features

1103
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 2: Mitchell Carsley's dad. Mister Carsley was introducing himself to my dad,

1104
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:39,280
Speaker 2: and I guess he had overheard Papa Scherm and Bill

1105
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 2: Compton talking a little bit about guns, and so he

1106
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 2: holstered that about forty five minutes later.

1107
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: Such a dad combo.

1108
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude. And by the way, I wish so

1109
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 2: badly we had had a camera on Bill and Papa

1110
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 2: shrm talking about their nozzler and then your dad's thirty

1111
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 2: odd six and just going through Oh.

1112
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: Dude, yeah, getting I can't remember right now. I can't

1113
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 1: remember right office that Bill super nice to meet you.

1114
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm Sherman, Sherman's father.

1115
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: They're both cueballs, both cue balls.

1116
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 1: My dad, Oh you get the you get your hair

1117
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: cut at the same spot. I do, you know, just

1118
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 1: having a wholesome father exchange.

1119
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 2: It was incredible. But yes, mister Carsley, just like perfection,

1120
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: just comes up to my dad and is like, Sherman,

1121
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 2: nice to meet you. I heard you do a little

1122
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 2: bit of hunting. My Dad's like, I do, I do

1123
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 2: a little bit of hunting. How about yourself. I heard

1124
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: the very first part of the conversation, which shout out

1125
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 2: to Mitch's daddy actually shot a black bear while he

1126
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 2: was whitetail hunting. He was up in a tree stand

1127
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 2: hunting some white tail, and there's an overlap in Pennsylvania

1128
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 2: on a black bear and white tail. He had a

1129
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 2: black bear come right behind his stand, just right up

1130
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 2: by the tree, and he did one of these and

1131
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 2: knocked it with one shot, which so shout out mister Carsley.

1132
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,479
Speaker 2: But he saw on that story well to a bunch

1133
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 2: of Texans hearing that were like, you shot a bear,

1134
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 2: Like that's not we don't have those opportunities in Texas, right.

1135
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 2: I look over forty five minutes later, mister Carsley has

1136
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 2: his sunglasses up here, he has his readers on the

1137
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 2: bridge of his nose. My dad has his readers on

1138
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 2: the bridge of his nose. And my dad's doing this

1139
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 2: to mister Carsley, and just you see that. Blah blah blah.

1140
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 2: They have the hear game cameras. They're showing game camera

1141
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: pictures soon.

1142
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:28,720
Speaker 1: Echah.

1143
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 2: They incredible, dude, I mean, you're just like you love

1144
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: to look.

1145
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: This one's going to be a big one. Hey come

1146
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,240
Speaker 1: fall time. This one is growing right here.

1147
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 2: This non point we haven't so he came by one time. Yeah,

1148
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 2: we haven't seen him since.

1149
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 1: I haven't seen him since, and we haven't seen him either.

1150
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 2: He's out there, he's out there, and we're waiting for

1151
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 2: the rut because he fucking loves the dose. But if

1152
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 2: they ain't rutting, he ain't come to the feeder.

1153
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's on them doors like wide on rice. Now,

1154
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.

1155
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:55,879
Speaker 2: But he won't your face till the rut.

1156
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 1: Look at this, you know what. We didn't get him

1157
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 1: in this camera, but look at this rub on this

1158
00:53:59,239 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: tree and.

1159
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:04,720
Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on, wait one second.

1160
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,919
Speaker 2: And they go through like thirty pictures but I can't.

1161
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 2: They finally get the one picture where it's the you

1162
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 2: know that back from behind like straight on that they

1163
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 2: want to show you. Go see how outside the years

1164
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 2: he is. Yeah, I mean, come on, I.

1165
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 1: Remember that picture I was telling I was telling you

1166
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: about earlier. I couldn't find it. My buddy sent it

1167
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: to me. Check that out.

1168
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 2: We finally got it. Yeah, if that's a twelve I

1169
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 2: was talking with the drop time, that's that twil But dude,

1170
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 2: it's just uh, it was phenomenal.

1171
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: Accidentally open up another app damn it? How do we

1172
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: get out of it.

1173
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:43,720
Speaker 2: I love seeing dad's photo Shout out Jill's stepdad Cody,

1174
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: because he shows me a lot of game camera player

1175
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 2: usure Sue. I love seeing his camera roll. There is

1176
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,399
Speaker 2: nothing better than a dad's camera roll.

1177
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 1: Dude.

1178
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 2: You'll just see, like when it's all the little images

1179
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,760
Speaker 2: and they're like scrolling, you see some of the stuff

1180
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 2: that you takes pictures of or screenshot to be in

1181
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 2: the mind of a dad.

1182
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 1: To be in the mind of a dad, my dad

1183
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: would just pull out the phone and just start taking

1184
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: pictures of just be standing like right below them or

1185
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,720
Speaker 1: something doing something. I'm like, Dad, what are you doing?

1186
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 1: Like she's playing on the ground, You're getting photos of

1187
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 1: her back. I'll just be staying just like taking pictures

1188
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: of it. Dad, Do you want a better shot?

1189
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:23,760
Speaker 2: If you come over here, you can see your face.

1190
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: Why do I need to see your face? I know

1191
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 2: what that looks like. Yeah, but yeah that's our What

1192
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 2: are the odds? And then as far as like Survival

1193
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,399
Speaker 2: Kid and Dad Hacks, I feel like laying you drive

1194
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 2: on those. As far as you having.

1195
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: Kids Survival Kit and Dad Hack Survival Kid, I'll say

1196
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: I think they both go hand in hand. For the

1197
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 1: Dad hack and Survival Kid survival kit. My survival Kid

1198
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: recommendation will be having sticker books. You'll be traveling with

1199
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,879
Speaker 1: a backpack around when you guys go out, maybe you're

1200
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: traveling to a different state. May you're flying on the plane,

1201
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: maybe you're in the car for a long time. Sticker

1202
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: book's a big one. We have animal sticker books, we

1203
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: have space sticker books, we have ocean sticker books. To

1204
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: where it's like the glossy kind of carboard. You open

1205
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 1: it up, the pages are thick and you have like

1206
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: the stickers, like the glossy stickers that you can put on,

1207
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:16,840
Speaker 1: you can remove, you can play some around. Rue was

1208
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: having you do it when we were at uh, what

1209
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: was that place? Is the egg spot? Like egg?

1210
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 2: Another broken egg?

1211
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: Broken egg? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, another broken egg in Nashurville

1212
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: shut out another broken egg? No free shutouts great breakfast. Yeah.

1213
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 1: But you bring out the sticker book. When she's busier

1214
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: board or trying to do stuff, or we're trying to

1215
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:34,799
Speaker 1: get being a conversation, you'll pull out the sticker book.

1216
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: Haveter started doing it? She has you coming over? Where

1217
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,959
Speaker 1: should I put this sticker sticker book?

1218
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 2: Fun too? I can shout it out as well. I

1219
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: actually had a fun time with.

1220
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, sticker book is a that's a survival kid. That's

1221
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: a little product recommendation because going into the dad hack

1222
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 1: and this will be shouts to my wife. So this

1223
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: is kind of be like a parahac dad Hack, mom

1224
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: hack whatever. TV coupons because one thing that you battle

1225
00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 1: with when they have exposure, which they're gonna have to

1226
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: the first screen right or they are starting to watch TV.

1227
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: I know Rue had watched Miss Missus Rachel when she

1228
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: was really little, and now she's in the phase to

1229
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: where it's like a trash truck Little Bear, which was

1230
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: a favorite of mind growing up at Bear. Yeah, Rue

1231
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: loves Little Bear right now, so she wants to watch TV.

1232
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: Like anytime I come home, something goes off in the

1233
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: brain to where it's like, all right, we're getting close

1234
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: to TV time because she won't She doesn't watch any

1235
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: TV when the nannies in and we don't do iPads,

1236
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: we don't do screens when we're traveling or anything like,

1237
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: we'll listen to music. She might like listen to headphones

1238
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: or her uncle Brad got her this thing. I forget

1239
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 1: what it's called, but it like plays stories in the headphones.

1240
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 1: They could be like stories about Frozen or Mawana.

1241
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 2: That's awesome.

1242
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just like they'll listen to stories. But if

1243
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: they want like activities to do, we'll get out the

1244
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 1: sticker book. We'll get out different drawing things where she

1245
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: can draw and hit a button and it'll delete it.

1246
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: Because we don't do it. We try not to do

1247
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: a whole lot of screen time. But she gets to

1248
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: watch TV. If you let them watch TV for two

1249
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 1: long you know, they're sensory, like, you know, their emotions

1250
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 1: get bigger. It's hard to put them down for bedtime. Yeah,

1251
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: it really worked up because they're just watching on the screen.

1252
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 1: It's a big time where their brain's developing. They're trying

1253
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: to regulate their emotions. They watch if they have too

1254
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: much screen time, like you know, there's so much researching

1255
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: like data on and everything else. But we do our

1256
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: best not to put a whole lot of screens in

1257
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: front of her. So, my wife, she was watching Little

1258
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: Bear and she likes to watch a Little Bear, And

1259
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: then it got to where she was getting pretty pissed

1260
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: off or agitated when we tell her, hey, you know,

1261
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 1: it's time to turn the TV off time to start

1262
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: winding down times, start getting ready for bed, or hey,

1263
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: if it's Saturday morning or Sunday morning, we might not

1264
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: we might do like Saturday morning cartoons or Sunday morning cartoons,

1265
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: if we like make pancakes, or make like a breakfast,

1266
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: like a family breakfast. And then it got to where,

1267
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: you know, she'd start to get really fussier mad when

1268
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: she had to turn off the when she had to

1269
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: turn off the TV or pause it, or she wouldn't

1270
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: eat her dinner. You had to like turn off all

1271
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: the screens. And so my wife she made these u

1272
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: this is the this is the parent hack. This is

1273
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: the the dad hack. And she to my wife for this.

1274
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: She made up these TV coupons, or she like cut

1275
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: out construction paper, a little construction paper background, printed out

1276
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 1: something on the computer, cut it out to where she

1277
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 1: like taped them on each other to where they have

1278
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: these fun little pictures. But each coupon represents thirty minutes

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Speaker 1: of TV time. To where she'll go up to your

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Speaker 1: walk up to her room. She'll take out a coupon

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00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 1: and put it in the can't use the coupon anymore.

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Speaker 1: And she only has like an allotted amount throughout the week,

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Speaker 1: but she'll have windows of thirty minutes to watch TV

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Speaker 1: if she wants to watch TV. Yeah, and that's the

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Speaker 1: hack because it helps it. We turn it into like

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Speaker 1: making it a currency. So she now has the choice.

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Speaker 1: She now has the ability to kind of think about

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Speaker 1: when she wants to use them. It gives her a

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Speaker 1: little bit of control. We were talking about giving them

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00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: control earlier. It gives them a little bit of responsibility

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00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: for you start showing them the costs, like, hey, once

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00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: you run out, these are gone for the week. You

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00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:52,400
Speaker 1: might be able to use two in a day. Maybe

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00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: it's just one in a day, but you get to

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00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: kind of pick and choose when you use your coupons

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00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:58,439
Speaker 1: because once they're gone, they're gone. You don't get any

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00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 1: more TV. So again, so point where she wants to

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Speaker 1: use like a second coupon in a day, and you're

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Speaker 1: kind of like trying to talk her out of it.

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01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: You're like, hey, if you use this coupon now, you

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01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 1: will be out for the weekend. Weekends are big, you

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01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: have a lot of downtime you could be watching TV. Yeah,

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01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: Saturday morning cartoons might not be Saturday Morning cartoons, So

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01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 1: it kind of gives them the freedom to start thinking

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01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 1: about like what their choices are, and it gives them

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01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: predictability to where, hey, they know they have coupons upstairs.

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01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: So if she comes down and she's like, Dad, I

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01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:24,439
Speaker 1: want to watch a Little Bear and I'm like, well,

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01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: you did you use your coupons, She's like, I already

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01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: went upstairs and flipped it over to the other side.

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Speaker 1: So TV coupons highly recommend. That's the way we've kind

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01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: of tried to battle the screen time the screen time game,

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01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 1: because it's like once kids start looking at the screen

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01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: and seeing that all this, you know, all these different

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01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: things that they can watch on TV, especially now like

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01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 1: they don't have to watch commercials. If they get an

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01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: ad that comes across I want, you know, more Little Bear,

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01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: and it's like, dude, you got thirty seconds of this

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01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: ad that just popped on, Like you're gonna have to

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01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: you have no clue. We had to go We had

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01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: to fucking look at a TV guide. Yeah, try to

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01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 1: predict when our show was gonna be on and watch

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01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: oh yeah, with all the commercials now they can get

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01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 1: it instantly on demand, and so to kind of structure

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01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: that versus her being like I want to watch TV.

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01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: We're watching TV. Like, hey, bro, you've been watching TV

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Speaker 1: for like forty five minutes, it's time to turn off

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01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 1: the TV. And then they get all pissed off. It's like, bro,

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01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 1: I've kind of let you watch TV for a while,

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01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: Like how do you not get that this is a

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01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 1: it gets time to stop watching. So TV coupons is

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01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: how we've started to play that game. Because again, it's tough.

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01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 1: It's hard, especially when you're you know you can do

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01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: so I feel like it's more of a challenge for parents.

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Speaker 1: Like when you go out to a restaurant, you might

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Speaker 1: see a family sitting there and their kids got to

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01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: you know, you see them, you have they have a

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01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: screen or an iPad in front of them, they have

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01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: headphones on and then the parents are either in dinner

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01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 1: or they might be on their phones or whatever. It is.

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01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: Like charl and I were we've always said like we

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01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 1: don't you know, when people may comme up, we don't

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01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 1: want to be that family or we don't want to

1344
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: do this and that. Like it's challenging because it gets

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01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: really hard when you travel or you're on the road

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01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: or you're out eating at a restaurant. You want them

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01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 1: to calm down, but it's I don't know, it's like

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01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 1: trying to get them like, hey, it's all good to

1349
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 1: be bored. Do you want your sticker book? Do you

1350
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: want to you know you want to pull out a book,

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01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 1: or do they have something to color with at the restaurant,

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01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: or let's just listen to this song or listen to

1353
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 1: this podcast or listen to this book on audio for

1354
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: traveling in the car. So the screen time will be

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01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 1: a battle that you'll come across in the future, and

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01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: there's no right or wrong way. That's just kind of

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01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: been our preference on how we're going to approach minimizing

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01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: as much as we can, because I know there are

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Speaker 1: some families that don't do any screen time. You're kind

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01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 1: of like, man, I wish we challenge ourselves to do

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01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 1: no screen time. Are there some families you see that

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01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 1: do do the screen time? You're thinking in those moments

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01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 1: of stress or annoyance, you're just like, man, I wish

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01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: I could just put something in front of him so

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01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 1: they just calm down right now. So there's no right

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01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: or wrong way. Not trying to say you're a bad

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01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: parent if you do a bunch of screen time. That

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01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: is just how we approach dealing with screen time with rue.

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Speaker 2: I love that philosophy. And that's actually one thing I've

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01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 2: heard been hearing a lot about like entering into your

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01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,440
Speaker 2: fatherhood is I have a buddy that they were like,

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Speaker 2: we did no screen time, and then now that we're

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01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 2: like trying to watch movies with him, like he will

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01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 2: not sit down. He's like this is what are we doing?

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01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:03,439
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 2: Like why are we watching this? And they're almost like, well, damn,

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01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 2: I wish we had kind of introduced movies and TV

1378
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 2: because like he's constantly just like why can't we just

1379
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 2: go like kick the ball?

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Speaker 1: Right? Yeah? Yeah? And it's like, Buddy, I don't want

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01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: to go outside around it's a lot outside, like it's

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01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: just chilling here.

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01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 2: Or it's you know late at night, like we're kind

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01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:22,040
Speaker 2: of winding.

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01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Sun's going down, Sun's going to sleep. For you

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01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 1: to go to sleep.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: And it kind of came too from you know, you

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01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: do pizza Friday and movie night. We'd be watching movies

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01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 1: and then she wants to watch Frozen over and over,

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01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: so it's like, hey, do you want to watch if

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01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: we have TV on it, it's like you watch a

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01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 1: couple of things a little bit because Little Bear will

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01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 1: be like, say twenty one minutes long, and they have

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01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: little segments of like seven minutes on one episode, seven

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01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 1: minutes on another inside of like one episode. Yeah, yeah,

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01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 1: you're trying to watch something short, but I want to

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01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 1: watch Frozen. It's like, bro, you can't watch a movie.

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01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: You can't watch an hour and a half of a movie.

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Speaker 2: That's more. That's more than Yeah. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna

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01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 2: need three coupons yeah to watch Frozen. Yeah yeah, So

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01:03:57,080 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 2: does Pizza Friday not count? Pizza Friday doesn't.

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01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: We won't. We don't count it just because that's like

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01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:04,640
Speaker 1: our it's like our time of like showing up as

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01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: a fan to kind of do like a family, our

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01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: weekly tradition per week. But she'll get like, I think

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01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: it's any it it's around like eight nine, ten, I

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01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: don't know. We give her in a lot of the

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01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: amount of coupons to where she can't double down on

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01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: every day. She can double down on a couple of days,

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01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: but all the rest of the day she has like

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01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 1: one coupon that she can use. And you try and

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01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: talk to her like, hey, you want to save these

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01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: for the end of the week. You want to say

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01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: it for the end of the week. She can't go

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01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: over to in a day, so we're like, you like,

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01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: build parameters, kind of make it like a currency so

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Speaker 1: they can start figuring out.

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Speaker 2: She's in charge of the flipping sibilities. Yeah, yeah, which

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01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,840
Speaker 2: I feel like y'all are almost kind of setting an

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01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 2: opportunity there. I like for her to, oh yeah, hey,

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01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 2: flip it back over.

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01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: How'd she get it? Seems like she already used up

1424
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 1: her coupons? Why does she have one in there? I

1425
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: know I'm ready for that time. I'm ready for that

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01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 1: moment right now. She's innocent enough to where she like

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01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: she like gets the game. It's like her getting out

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01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 1: of bed. She doesn't really get out of bed until

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01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: we come up in room. I know some people hear

1430
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 1: stories like we got to like tie the door shut

1431
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: so they don't come out of the room down early

1432
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: in the morning. Wi them into our bed. Yeah yeah,

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01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,919
Speaker 1: uh so we haven't gotten there yet, but it's gonna

1434
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: be like that first time she realizes she can get

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01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: out of bed and walk down to our room, and

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01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:14,760
Speaker 1: then she's like, oh man, I can just leave room

1437
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: in the if I wake up in the middle line,

1438
01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 1: just go down to mom and Dad's bed.

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01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 2: He yo, waffle, Yeah, where's with me?

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01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 1: But when my wife made it, I was like, are

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01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 1: you sure you want to let her do the flipping

1442
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 1: because I can see where she just might be like,

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01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: all right, I only have one left, Like, let me

1444
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: not flip it and see if my parents don't uh huh,

1445
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: they don't catch me. But that's the that's the parent hack,

1446
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: that's the survival kit stick her books, Dad Hack, I

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01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:37,920
Speaker 1: love the coupons.

1448
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 2: A bonus dad Hack to that is I had an

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01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 2: English teacher in high school that all of the media

1450
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:47,680
Speaker 2: that he would introduce to his firstborn son was all

1451
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 2: the media that he grew up on. So like his

1452
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 2: son's favorite movie at the age of six was like

1453
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:56,959
Speaker 2: Superman two from like nineteen sixty yeah, and his son

1454
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 2: hadn't seen anything like outside to that and more modern

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01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 2: and stuff. So he's seeing the terrible effects of like

1456
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:09,640
Speaker 2: nineteen sixty one Hollywood, these practical effects, and he's thinking,

1457
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 2: how's this dude flying? He how's Superman up in the

1458
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:13,440
Speaker 2: clouds right now?

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01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:16,439
Speaker 1: This is crazy and it's too You come across things

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01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 1: where when you have like show recommendations for toddlers, because again,

1461
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: we'll get a lot of our stuff, whether it be

1462
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: the algorithm on Instagram or something coming across our face

1463
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: to where there's things that get your senses going so much,

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01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: to where there's a lot of movement in the show,

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01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: or a lot of lights, a lot of seeing, a

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01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: lot of camera angles changing a lot to where it's like,

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01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 1: you know, their brain development that's happening, and it's like

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01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 1: counter productive for them, Like it's not healthy for them.

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01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 1: Oh okay, And you'll see that shows that we grew

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01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:46,680
Speaker 1: up on are slow enough, like Little Bear being an example,

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01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 1: that are slow enough to where it's kind of like

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01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: one shot and it's just them like interacting. It's wild.

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01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:53,600
Speaker 1: You'll come across all this stuff, yeah, towards like this

1474
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: stuff we grew up on. It will be like, oh,

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01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: those are better things for their brain to consume because

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01:06:57,880 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: all of the new rage stuff, there's a lot of

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01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 1: bound there's a lot of animation, a lot of lights,

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01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 1: a lot of flickering, a lot of you know, scenes

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01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 1: going from one to another really quick. Yes, which apparently,

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01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: I guess messes up the brain. I have no clue.

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01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:11,479
Speaker 2: Now that makes sense.

1482
01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: Scientist.

1483
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 2: I've seen enough Bluey to know that, like Blue is

1484
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:19,280
Speaker 2: like super fast paced, and just watching it, I remember

1485
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 2: like two of the little kid dogs are like yelling

1486
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 2: at the dad like they're upset that the dad's like

1487
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 2: telling them it's time to go nine to night. I'm

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01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 2: just making up an example, but they're like talking back

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01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 2: to dad, and I'm like, well, shit, if I had

1490
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 2: a little kid, I.

1491
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 1: Don't want them like knowing that this is an option.

1492
01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what in the world. Like I think back

1493
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 2: to like Winnie the Pooh and like e or being

1494
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 2: grumpy and you're like, oh, well, don't be or because

1495
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 2: like Rabbit and Pooh are all like E or like

1496
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 2: cheer up, buddy.

1497
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. The last list I saw Blue on was like

1498
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: a moderate. It was like a moderate because when rou

1499
01:07:53,560 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 1: was on, it was like miss Rachel Blue. You're kind

1500
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: of learning about these shows and everything else because I

1501
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: think Blue is a I think Blue He's awesome, Okay,

1502
01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 1: but yeah, it's interesting like learning about all of that stuff.

1503
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:08,640
Speaker 1: Like when you have a kid and you're trying to like,

1504
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 1: you know, you want everybody's trying to do the best

1505
01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 1: that they can, and so you're trying to figure out, like,

1506
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 1: you know, what would be good for them to watch?

1507
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 1: What's unhealthy for them to watch? Like, oh, their brains developing?

1508
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: What does that even mean? Yeah?

1509
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 2: What can they even pick up from that? I'm such

1510
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 2: a sinophile lover of movies that, like, I to myself,

1511
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, there's so many things I'm gonna want

1512
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 2: my kid to watch that I'm like, I'm gonna have

1513
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:33,799
Speaker 2: to wait until they're you know, seventeen, eighteen nineteen or whatever.

1514
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: Like, but you want to know a little the show is.

1515
01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 1: We would watch Chaos Theory by Jurassic Park. Oh yes,

1516
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 1: and it essentially shows the dinosaurs. It shows all the stuff.

1517
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 1: It shows moments right up to where before the human

1518
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 1: basically gets killed or a dinosaur gets killed, Like it

1519
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 1: might be a velociraptor, you know, dropping the nail on

1520
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 1: a guy's head, but they'll show the voss raptor and

1521
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: the nail will be up and then like as it's

1522
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 1: gonna go down and kill the guy and you hear

1523
01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:04,679
Speaker 1: the on the background, it'll just shift to a different

1524
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 1: scene and you'll hear it, but you just won't see it. Yeah,

1525
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: Rue and I were watching that at a pretty young

1526
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 1: age and My wife was like, are you sure she

1527
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 1: should be watching this? You know she's gonna you.

1528
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 2: Can double down as a dad.

1529
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, this is your show. I love Jurassic part.

1530
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 2: I like, we gotta be good kid.

1531
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh this is on Disney. This will be a

1532
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 1: good show.

1533
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:24,839
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1534
01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 1: It's like the t Rex bus out there, you know,

1535
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 1: busts through the gates and like yells, and I'm like

1536
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 1: looking at roosaction and when she's just kind of like

1537
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 1: looking at it and not getting too scared, I'm like,

1538
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: all right, you know, yeah, maybe she can handle it,

1539
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 1: so we it'd be something we would watch with mom

1540
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 1: not around it first. And then she saw it, she's

1541
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: like she's roupy. I don't know if I like, we're

1542
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:43,720
Speaker 1: watching this, sweetheart. I mean, she's been watching it. She

1543
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 1: doesn't get too scared, like she's my dad, dad, Dad.

1544
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:48,720
Speaker 1: That keeps her safe. She's gonna come across.

1545
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 2: It at some point then, I think, like also, like

1546
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 2: I watched the movie The Patriot at like nine, I think,

1547
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 2: so I'm like, oh my gosh, if I was watching

1548
01:09:57,320 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 2: The Patriot at nine, I go back and watch that

1549
01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:01,719
Speaker 2: now and I'm like, oh my god.

1550
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:04,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And like I can't wait till we get

1551
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: her into like maybe Star Wars or something, because again

1552
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: we're watching like and again like Blue, but what like

1553
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 1: Miss Rachel will be on TV or Blue or the

1554
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 1: really kid shows. You're kind of sitting there. It's like

1555
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: you want to watch it with him, but you got

1556
01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: no skin in the game. Like Jurassic Park, Chaosterio, all

1557
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 1: that stuff. I can I can sit there and watch

1558
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 1: it with it. Oh yeah, you see that.

1559
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 2: The only thing I was gonna say is we have

1560
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,680
Speaker 2: run long, So I was gonna kick it to the voicemail.

1561
01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 4: What's up, guys, big fan of the pod.

1562
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:36,839
Speaker 1: My name is Alex Caputo. I'm from New Jersey.

1563
01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:39,799
Speaker 4: I am not currently a dad, but I am actually

1564
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 4: going through the IVF process and I saw the pod

1565
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 4: about Will Compton and his wife and it inspired me

1566
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 4: to get inspired and call and call in to see

1567
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:53,000
Speaker 4: if you guys had some advice for me. A big

1568
01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 4: fan of the boys, big fan of you guys. I

1569
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:58,640
Speaker 4: would just love to be featured, just to kind of

1570
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:02,520
Speaker 4: chat with the boys and see what kind of inspiration

1571
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:07,679
Speaker 4: I can get from the dads and from you Sherham

1572
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 4: as well. So again, like I said, shout out, no

1573
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 4: free shout out, big fan of the boys, big fan

1574
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 4: of the bus. Love what you guys are doing again.

1575
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 1: My name is Alex Caputo.

1576
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:22,280
Speaker 4: I'm from Jersey, good old Jersey Italian boy here hopefully

1577
01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 4: to become a dad in about a year if this

1578
01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 4: IVF process goes well.

1579
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 3: Love you boys much love.

1580
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: Alex man shout out to you. Appreciate you calling in

1581
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: love that you listen to the IVF podcast with my

1582
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 1: wife and I. If you guys haven't seen that podcast,

1583
01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:40,479
Speaker 1: it's on our bus and channel. My wife and I

1584
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 1: did it for like a Mother's Day special where we

1585
01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:44,839
Speaker 1: sat down and broke down a lot of the IVF

1586
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 1: process and kind of the ups and downs of that

1587
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 1: process because it is a it's an interesting one. It's

1588
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:55,479
Speaker 1: not an easy one on both the mom and the dad,

1589
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:58,720
Speaker 1: the wife and the husband, just because you don't know

1590
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:00,639
Speaker 1: what to prepare for. Your wife goes through a lot

1591
01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:02,880
Speaker 1: of stuff physically. There's a lot of hormonal changes, a

1592
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 1: lot of injections and hard things that they have to

1593
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 1: do so that way their body's ready to conceive a child,

1594
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 1: because pregnancy is a very hard thing to make happen.

1595
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 1: You realize, like you think in high school you can

1596
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: you knock somebody up, and it's as simple as that.

1597
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 1: And then when you get married and you go through

1598
01:12:20,120 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 1: some rough times, you go through some turbulence with your

1599
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 1: wife on trying to get pregnant, and then you kind

1600
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:27,720
Speaker 1: of see why people are a little bit reserved when hey,

1601
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 1: you asked the question, or you go somewhere you're asking

1602
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: your friends that are newly married or something like hey,

1603
01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:35,680
Speaker 1: when you guys thinking about kids, just because you have

1604
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:39,599
Speaker 1: no idea what those two could potentially be going through,

1605
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 1: Like maybe they're having trouble getting pregnant, maybe they're in

1606
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 1: the middle of an IVF process, and their fingers are

1607
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: crossed that this works out because it's their last effort

1608
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,680
Speaker 1: to try and make something happen because doing it the

1609
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,759
Speaker 1: natural way didn't work, going through a couple other steps

1610
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: they might have tried might not have worked, and they're

1611
01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:59,680
Speaker 1: in this final step of being like, hey, maybe this

1612
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:03,680
Speaker 1: IVF process of work because it's not the cheapest thing

1613
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: in the world. And you know, I do know of

1614
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: some stories and situations with friends of mine to where

1615
01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 1: my wife and I, you look at our situation, even

1616
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 1: though it's very hard to go through the IVF process

1617
01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 1: like you look back and you have perspective, and we

1618
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 1: were all so lucky because it happened in the first round.

1619
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 1: I have friends of mine, close friends of mine that

1620
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 1: have went through multiple rounds of IVF to where they've

1621
01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:29,479
Speaker 1: had the the embryos that are frozen and those not

1622
01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:32,680
Speaker 1: might not work out every time they try to implant implant,

1623
01:13:32,720 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 1: and then they might run out of those embryos to

1624
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 1: where they have to do the IVF cycle again, or

1625
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 1: they might not get they might not get a lot

1626
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:41,479
Speaker 1: of eggs in their first IVF process to where they

1627
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 1: might only have one or two and neither of those

1628
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 1: workouts to where they have to go through the IVF

1629
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 1: process again. So if I had any advice, dude number one,

1630
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: I wish you guys all the luck and health in

1631
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 1: the world that this first one goes the way that

1632
01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: you guys wanted to, because even then, it's a very

1633
01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:02,720
Speaker 1: hard process, and I just always anchored my emotion to

1634
01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: think that something could probably go wrong based on friends

1635
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 1: that I've had that have had these processes in those

1636
01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:11,920
Speaker 1: IVF those IVF journeys don't work out the first or

1637
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:15,280
Speaker 1: even second time, or even the third time. There's one

1638
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 1: buddy of mine that's went through about four or five

1639
01:14:17,479 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 1: cycles before they had their first one, and that is

1640
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 1: very hard in trying on the marriage. It's very hard

1641
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 1: in trying on the couple. And it's one of those

1642
01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 1: things to where you know, you look for ways to

1643
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 1: be strong for your wife. Your wife's probably looking for

1644
01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: ways to be strong for you and herself. And sometimes

1645
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 1: it's not about being strong, it's just about reconnecting and

1646
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:41,879
Speaker 1: finding your way back to each other through communication, empathy,

1647
01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:43,679
Speaker 1: because there's just going to be a lot of stress

1648
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 1: that that involves stress in IVF, along with all the

1649
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: stress going on in your worlds individually at work, with

1650
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:56,080
Speaker 1: your friends, your parents, whatever it may.

1651
01:14:55,960 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 2: Be, scheduling all those appointments around work if they're both working, Yeah.

1652
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 1: Wondering if should I is there somebody to talk to

1653
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:05,120
Speaker 1: or should I bring it up? I know we kind

1654
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 1: of don't want to talk about it too much because

1655
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:08,439
Speaker 1: our fingers are crossed. We want to get a little

1656
01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 1: bit farther down the road before we start to talk

1657
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:13,120
Speaker 1: about it. Hey, this worked out. You get a few

1658
01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:15,320
Speaker 1: you get a weekend or a trimester or two in

1659
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:18,560
Speaker 1: you might could you know there could be a miscarriage

1660
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 1: and then it's yeah, there's it's a lot, man. So

1661
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: my advice would just be again, it's all about staying

1662
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: connected and then when you start to feel like in

1663
01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 1: any part of the process you lose connection, it's just

1664
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 1: about circling back and reconnecting with your wife. And again,

1665
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: it's a it's a trying time. So uh, I wish

1666
01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,280
Speaker 1: you guys luck and health and all of it. Good

1667
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 1: luck because again, when it does happen, it is uh,

1668
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:48,240
Speaker 1: you know, it's always a miracle when there's when there's

1669
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: a kid involved, and it works out for the couple

1670
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:53,000
Speaker 1: and it works out for for everything involved. But Alex

1671
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 1: appreciate you calling in, bro. I know that was a

1672
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 1: very long winded response because there's really no right.

1673
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:00,840
Speaker 2: Yes, that's a that's a whole hard one, dude. Yeah,

1674
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 2: it's a hard one. There's the only thing we did

1675
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:06,040
Speaker 2: to prep Will this week with the call ins is

1676
01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:08,080
Speaker 2: that we chef and I told them there was an

1677
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 2: IVF call. Yeah, because that that is kind of a

1678
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 2: that's a hard question to answer, dude.

1679
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because there's you know, at the end of the day,

1680
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 1: it's going to be trying. Yeah, it's gonna be very hard.

1681
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,679
Speaker 1: And even if it works and everything's going smooth. There's

1682
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: just gonna be those moments you have with your wife

1683
01:16:26,320 --> 01:16:28,519
Speaker 1: And again, listen to that episode with my wife and

1684
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: I we talk about a lot of those low moments

1685
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:33,599
Speaker 1: and stuff that would go through my head that you

1686
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:35,639
Speaker 1: feel so much guilt and shame, like I don't even

1687
01:16:35,640 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 1: want to bring this up because it doesn't seem like

1688
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 1: it compares at all to what she's going through. Then

1689
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 1: you start projecting back and forth on each other. Then

1690
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 1: you you know, you realize, like you you're not even

1691
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 1: talking about the right thing anymore. Yeah, so, yeah, there's

1692
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 1: really not There's really not a right way to go

1693
01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 1: about it. It's one of those things. It's like you

1694
01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 1: just prepare for the worst and when that stuff starts

1695
01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 1: to kick in, it's just reminding yourself, how do I

1696
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 1: find a way to to reconnect because she might be

1697
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 1: having a hard time right now. If you the man,

1698
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 1: if I'm having a hard time right now, how do

1699
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 1: I communicate that in the way that has, you know,

1700
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:11,559
Speaker 1: empathy and understands the weight of the current situation going

1701
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 1: on while just having the big picture in mind. Yeah,

1702
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:16,400
Speaker 1: that would be what I'd say, bro.

1703
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 2: I think that's a great answer. I cannot I appreciate

1704
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 2: Alex tossing my name in there to any advice. I

1705
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 2: can't speak on it from a personal situation other than

1706
01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 2: have had a friend that has faced the same thing.

1707
01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 2: He opened up to me about it, and we just

1708
01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:40,400
Speaker 2: had like one of the more incredible moments of our

1709
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:43,640
Speaker 2: friendship of just kind of and it was during the

1710
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 2: time of Jill's pregnancy, so probably a hard conversation for

1711
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 2: him to have, but just in that moment being able

1712
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 2: to like hug him and we both are teary eyed

1713
01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, you are going to be the

1714
01:17:56,960 --> 01:18:00,360
Speaker 2: best at ever and I want it so bad for you,

1715
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:03,160
Speaker 2: and just him being able to open up about that.

1716
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 2: So if anything, I think you had said the same

1717
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 2: thing for Alex to just be able to communicate with

1718
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 2: somebody through that time and then Dad's out there that

1719
01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 2: maybe you have friends that are facing that. I think

1720
01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:20,800
Speaker 2: just when that conversation is presented to you, just being

1721
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:23,800
Speaker 2: super open to be able to hear your buddy out,

1722
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 2: hear the fellow future dad out, potential future dad out,

1723
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 2: and just be.

1724
01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: There for him. Because one thing, and that's a great

1725
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,320
Speaker 1: point too, because one thing that was surprising for me

1726
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:34,080
Speaker 1: when we were going through that process. You don't know

1727
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:36,639
Speaker 1: how much you can necessarily talk about or how much

1728
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: you should talk about it, yeah, you know, respect to

1729
01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 1: how your wife feels, yes, or if it feels like

1730
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:46,120
Speaker 1: a bad or wrong thing to talk about. And what

1731
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:49,320
Speaker 1: would surprise me is people that I would bring it

1732
01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 1: up to dads they talked about, oh, we did IVF

1733
01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 1: as well. That's sick to where then you realize that, Okay,

1734
01:18:58,080 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 1: you can't start to talk about it a little bit more.

1735
01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:02,080
Speaker 1: You have a friend that you can lean on, because

1736
01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:06,800
Speaker 1: again you have no clue how the journey's going to be,

1737
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:09,080
Speaker 1: because it can be heavy. As a buddy of mine,

1738
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 1: they went through one IVF process or their first IVF process,

1739
01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:15,280
Speaker 1: and they were pregnant, and I want to say they

1740
01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:18,400
Speaker 1: had a miscarriage around like week eighteen or nineteen, which

1741
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:22,040
Speaker 1: was it's devastating. Yeah, you think everything's going smooth because.

1742
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:23,639
Speaker 2: They tell you once you get past week eight you're

1743
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 2: guting right, right.

1744
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:27,360
Speaker 1: You hear all these different milestones, you feel a little

1745
01:19:27,400 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: bit more comfortable to talk about it, the sex of

1746
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:33,000
Speaker 1: the child and everything else, and so you know when

1747
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:35,880
Speaker 1: the second round's coming in. They're currently pregnant, they're not right.

1748
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:38,280
Speaker 1: At the eighteen week mark, you just know everybody's like

1749
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,280
Speaker 1: fingers are crossed and you just you kind of put

1750
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 1: your arm around them and you're just you're hoping for

1751
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:44,720
Speaker 1: the best, man, because you have no clue how all

1752
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:49,599
Speaker 1: of it can go, what people are feeling. But yeah, man,

1753
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:52,120
Speaker 1: definitely having somebody to lean on for sure.

1754
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 2: Absolutely the last thing on Alex, and we'll get to

1755
01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 2: the next call. Alex was our very first voice.

1756
01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:06,960
Speaker 3: Man. Hey, fellas, this is Colin. Colin from North Carolina.

1757
01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 3: It's about one ten East coast time. I'm whispering because

1758
01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 3: sometimes the fellas need to hear about a win. Today

1759
01:20:20,720 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 3: this evening is the biggest W that I have had

1760
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:32,960
Speaker 3: in fatherhood in a very long time. Mom's first night

1761
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 3: out after second baby. We got a two and a

1762
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:44,320
Speaker 3: half year old all boy Savage and a two month

1763
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:51,480
Speaker 3: year old all boy Hellion who just is hungry NonStop.

1764
01:20:52,040 --> 01:20:58,599
Speaker 3: Mom decides she's going out. I got this. I think

1765
01:20:58,880 --> 01:21:02,720
Speaker 3: that the boys took one look at mom leaving and

1766
01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 3: they saw it in my eyes. After work, you know what,

1767
01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:09,720
Speaker 3: dad needs a W. We got to get a W

1768
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:15,679
Speaker 3: in the column for Dad. They rallied and was left

1769
01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:20,719
Speaker 3: with a very strict milk schedule. I read it slightly

1770
01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:28,479
Speaker 3: slightly at my own liberty. The toddler ate his first

1771
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:35,519
Speaker 3: full meal in weeks. We played baseball outside, the baby

1772
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 3: slept everything. So as hard as these nights are because

1773
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:44,759
Speaker 3: we're in the trenches, all the other knights have sucked.

1774
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 3: But guess what, sometimes you get these giant ws and

1775
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:55,639
Speaker 3: they're incredible. Keep doing what you're doing, Fellas. We love it,

1776
01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:59,360
Speaker 3: absolutely love it, extremely motivating. Appreciate you.

1777
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:04,679
Speaker 2: Love you guys, calling from North Carolina, Colin.

1778
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:10,400
Speaker 1: I love the energy. I love the juice. You can

1779
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 1: hear it in your voice. Did he say it was

1780
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 1: one in the morning.

1781
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 2: One in the morning that he called in, whispering.

1782
01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:19,120
Speaker 1: Whispering, keeping the light. I thought, I was like, okay,

1783
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:21,160
Speaker 1: this is kind of he's low energy right now, like

1784
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 1: is this a bad vibe? But hearing that W because

1785
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 1: he's right man. The wife goes out for the first

1786
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:30,360
Speaker 1: time and you're ready to put on that as on

1787
01:22:30,439 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: your chest and you're ready to take down everything in

1788
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,519
Speaker 1: the house. We're gonna eat a good meal. Hearing that

1789
01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: his kid ate for the first time in weeks, that

1790
01:22:40,040 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 1: is a massive W. And you also learn. It's like

1791
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:47,759
Speaker 1: sometimes the kid whatever, whatever's going on in their brain,

1792
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 1: it just it might run smoother if it's just you

1793
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,840
Speaker 1: and the kid. Because if you have both parents, you

1794
01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:56,040
Speaker 1: got you know they're working you. They're working you the

1795
01:22:56,160 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 1: entire time. And when you're solo and your kid eats

1796
01:22:58,760 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 1: that meal all the way through and you're just thinking,

1797
01:23:00,760 --> 01:23:03,680
Speaker 1: you're thinking to yourself, she's gonna come home and ask me,

1798
01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 1: how did how did everything go? Yeah, and you're gonna

1799
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 1: have that slow pan to where you just look and

1800
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:17,920
Speaker 1: you're like, I crushed it. I crushed it. Buddy ate

1801
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: his full meal, baby drink all of his bottles, slept

1802
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:23,960
Speaker 1: through the night. I don't know if he's sleeping through

1803
01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:25,439
Speaker 1: the night yet. What he say two months old?

1804
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:27,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, two months old, but he said but he said.

1805
01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:31,280
Speaker 1: Sleeping sleeping, So he's getting. What he's trying to tell

1806
01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 1: you is baby sleeping four hours at a time. Yeah,

1807
01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:38,400
Speaker 1: I'm guessing three four hours at a time. Smooth sleeping

1808
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 1: to where you fall asleep for a little bit, you

1809
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:42,280
Speaker 1: might wake up. You have your own little routine going on.

1810
01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:46,879
Speaker 1: But that is a massive w for the dads.

1811
01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:49,720
Speaker 2: Because I'm guessing at one am that would be he

1812
01:23:49,760 --> 01:23:52,400
Speaker 2: probably puts it down at six or six thirty, it

1813
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:56,800
Speaker 2: woke up around twelve or twelve thirty ish possibly, and.

1814
01:23:57,120 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 1: Say and then he fed, maybe he maybe the the

1815
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 1: two month old had a bottle at seven, and you're thinking,

1816
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:04,559
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna be ready to go around eleven

1817
01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 1: and they might still be sleeping. Then stretch it out

1818
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 1: to one o'clock.

1819
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1820
01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 1: Those are the small winds that you relish in because

1821
01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:14,880
Speaker 1: it is you know you're in it when it's you

1822
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:16,960
Speaker 1: got the when you got the young one sleeping, schedules

1823
01:24:17,000 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 1: off and that first time mom goes out on her own,

1824
01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:21,160
Speaker 1: you want them to go out, But the moment they

1825
01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:22,800
Speaker 1: walk out the door and it closes and the gates

1826
01:24:22,840 --> 01:24:27,080
Speaker 1: are locked, you need your heart to turn black because

1827
01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:28,920
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're about to be in for.

1828
01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 1: And when it goes smooth and when you crush it,

1829
01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:33,960
Speaker 1: and there's something about when you're just on your own

1830
01:24:34,000 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 1: and you're by yourself and you know nobody's coming to

1831
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:39,160
Speaker 1: save you that you just find a new gear, a

1832
01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:41,600
Speaker 1: new level, and you get through the end of the

1833
01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:44,520
Speaker 1: night or into bedtime and you think to yourself, yeah,

1834
01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:49,200
Speaker 1: I can handle my shit. Oh, shut out Colin the

1835
01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:49,679
Speaker 1: call in.

1836
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:53,479
Speaker 2: Bro and an added bonus to con and Alex uh

1837
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 2: chef is going to reach out to them via six

1838
01:24:56,640 --> 01:24:58,679
Speaker 2: on one the dads. He's gonna get their home address

1839
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 2: and they're gonna get some free merch for being featured

1840
01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:04,439
Speaker 2: on the show. For the dads, Let's go boys. If

1841
01:25:04,479 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 2: your call gets featured on the show. Guys, you're gonna

1842
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:11,200
Speaker 2: get some lids, maybe a shirt. We haven't fully decided yet,

1843
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:14,920
Speaker 2: but you will get some free merch. Okay. We have

1844
01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:19,880
Speaker 2: the topic quote or lesson of the week from Will Compton.

1845
01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 1: From will come, do you have one?

1846
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 3: I do not?

1847
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:23,960
Speaker 2: Do you?

1848
01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:26,160
Speaker 1: I mean last week it was kind of hard to

1849
01:25:26,200 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 1: follow up. I feel like I have one. I got

1850
01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 1: a uh and.

1851
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:36,880
Speaker 2: Just really quick, do you want me to have some

1852
01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:37,719
Speaker 2: topic quotes?

1853
01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:41,040
Speaker 1: If one whether you're getting ready to be a father

1854
01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:43,680
Speaker 1: or something you come across. It's kind of like, you know,

1855
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,639
Speaker 1: touch the old boys soul a little bit okay cool?

1856
01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:49,360
Speaker 1: And it could be something small again topic quote or

1857
01:25:49,400 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 1: lesson like it could be a quote like I don't

1858
01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:53,639
Speaker 1: have one. I'm not necessarily prepared. I was thinking about

1859
01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 1: it and if I had any type of lesson in

1860
01:25:58,960 --> 01:26:02,600
Speaker 1: it I hate coming off like any of it is

1861
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:04,800
Speaker 1: is advice, because you're going to get a lot of

1862
01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:08,120
Speaker 1: unsolicited advice. And I want to say the lesson is

1863
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:12,280
Speaker 1: around that parent guilt or that dad guilt that you

1864
01:26:12,360 --> 01:26:15,760
Speaker 1: might have when you have a newborn or you have

1865
01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:18,840
Speaker 1: a toddler, you have a kid, and there are a

1866
01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:20,360
Speaker 1: lot of things that come your way. I know one

1867
01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:23,479
Speaker 1: thing that I've really learned over the past year that

1868
01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:25,680
Speaker 1: I try to put into practice is the power of no,

1869
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:28,000
Speaker 1: because there's going to be and a lot of guys,

1870
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:30,600
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of people don't necessarily have the

1871
01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:33,880
Speaker 1: option of opting out of something with work or opting

1872
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:36,800
Speaker 1: out of an opportunity that they have to go and chase,

1873
01:26:37,240 --> 01:26:38,800
Speaker 1: because they have to do what they have to do

1874
01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:41,160
Speaker 1: to make sure they take care of everything at home

1875
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:44,320
Speaker 1: and be that steady rock at home. And I think

1876
01:26:44,400 --> 01:26:47,040
Speaker 1: for me, it was like there's always some like as

1877
01:26:47,120 --> 01:26:50,960
Speaker 1: you're going through this journey of everything and all the

1878
01:26:51,040 --> 01:26:53,360
Speaker 1: opportunities and things that we get to do that busting

1879
01:26:53,400 --> 01:26:56,439
Speaker 1: gets to do, you can say yes to a lot

1880
01:26:56,479 --> 01:26:59,519
Speaker 1: of things because we kind of create our own It's

1881
01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 1: like we get to kind of build out what our

1882
01:27:01,520 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 1: future and everything looks like, so there's always opportunities coming

1883
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 1: our way, and we can say yes to everything, and

1884
01:27:06,280 --> 01:27:08,840
Speaker 1: you get spread so thin that you start to have

1885
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:11,400
Speaker 1: the guilt when you're traveling or you're doing things that

1886
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:13,280
Speaker 1: kind of pulls you away from the family. And I

1887
01:27:13,320 --> 01:27:16,160
Speaker 1: know that ways on people, and they're you know, guys

1888
01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:18,720
Speaker 1: kind of put you know the proverbial'll put their arm

1889
01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:21,080
Speaker 1: around you, or they try and tell you things that like, hey,

1890
01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 1: you know that your kids won't remember, or you have

1891
01:27:24,960 --> 01:27:27,360
Speaker 1: all of those little things that they're probably just trying

1892
01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:30,280
Speaker 1: to help you justify whatever your decision is. It's like,

1893
01:27:30,320 --> 01:27:32,840
Speaker 1: you know, before they turn whenever their memory starts, let's

1894
01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:35,479
Speaker 1: just say it's five years old. It's like, hey, they

1895
01:27:35,520 --> 01:27:38,000
Speaker 1: won't remember if you didn't make it to this dance

1896
01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:40,760
Speaker 1: recital or you don't make it to I'm not gonna say,

1897
01:27:40,800 --> 01:27:42,600
Speaker 1: like their first birthday or like a birthday party, or

1898
01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:44,840
Speaker 1: there's something going on where the birthday party might be happening,

1899
01:27:44,880 --> 01:27:47,080
Speaker 1: but you might have a massive opportunity that you're kind

1900
01:27:47,080 --> 01:27:51,559
Speaker 1: of torn between the two. And I've kind of like

1901
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:55,439
Speaker 1: resisted when I hear people say like, hey, they won't

1902
01:27:55,439 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 1: remember X, Y and Z, because the way I've like

1903
01:27:57,320 --> 01:27:58,840
Speaker 1: flipped it in my mind and the way I thought

1904
01:27:58,840 --> 01:28:01,720
Speaker 1: about it. And it's funny because I was talking through

1905
01:28:01,720 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 1: this with somebody whenever I was when I was on

1906
01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:07,599
Speaker 1: some vitamins and minerals, and so you know, you're thinking

1907
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:10,880
Speaker 1: of the entire universe at that point. And what I

1908
01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:14,000
Speaker 1: kind of thought to myself or started to tell myself,

1909
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:17,519
Speaker 1: is if they don't remember up until again, let's call

1910
01:28:17,560 --> 01:28:20,680
Speaker 1: it five years old. Yeah, and when they grow up,

1911
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Speaker 1: they're not going to remember all of these years, these

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Speaker 1: early years, because you know, how much do we even remember.

1913
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:28,680
Speaker 1: We don't remember a whole lot, not only flashes or

1914
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:31,040
Speaker 1: things or moments, or it could be bad moments that

1915
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Speaker 1: you might remember. But I've just kind of thought to

1916
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:37,160
Speaker 1: myself that the way I flip in my head that

1917
01:28:37,800 --> 01:28:40,680
Speaker 1: if they're not going to remember, we do remember, Like

1918
01:28:40,760 --> 01:28:44,400
Speaker 1: our kids are here. These first years of their life

1919
01:28:44,960 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 1: are for us to enjoy, Like it's for us to

1920
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:51,519
Speaker 1: kind of look at the family we've gotten to create

1921
01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,960
Speaker 1: and enjoy these moments of time. Even though they might

1922
01:28:55,000 --> 01:28:57,240
Speaker 1: not remember it, we get to remember it, and they're here,

1923
01:28:57,320 --> 01:29:00,320
Speaker 1: they're on this earth right now for us to spend

1924
01:29:00,360 --> 01:29:01,960
Speaker 1: as much time with them as we can or to

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Speaker 1: enjoy them as much as possible. And that's the approach

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Speaker 1: I've always I've tried exercising and tried to be intentional

1927
01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 1: with when I look at whether it's work opportunities or

1928
01:29:13,560 --> 01:29:17,200
Speaker 1: new opportunities, is is this going to take away from

1929
01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:20,320
Speaker 1: the family time? And if so, like how much of it?

1930
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:22,519
Speaker 1: How many bedtimes am I willing to miss? How many

1931
01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:24,960
Speaker 1: mornings am I willing to miss? And when you have

1932
01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:27,280
Speaker 1: that boundary for yourself, it helps kind of separate you

1933
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:29,280
Speaker 1: to where you have you learn that power of no

1934
01:29:29,800 --> 01:29:31,960
Speaker 1: of if it doesn't fit in this schedule, I'm going

1935
01:29:32,000 --> 01:29:34,800
Speaker 1: to say no to it because you want to prioritize

1936
01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:37,360
Speaker 1: and be intentional with wanting to be around because again,

1937
01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:41,120
Speaker 1: they might not remember, but you do remember, and they're

1938
01:29:41,240 --> 01:29:44,559
Speaker 1: here now, especially in them young years man when they

1939
01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:46,559
Speaker 1: probably won't have a whole lot of memory of it,

1940
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:49,400
Speaker 1: but things that we can capture on video, they're here

1941
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Speaker 1: for us to enjoy. So that would kind of be

1942
01:29:52,280 --> 01:29:54,479
Speaker 1: I guess, my lesson or things that I've kind of

1943
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:56,840
Speaker 1: thought about when thinking about them being really young and

1944
01:29:56,880 --> 01:29:58,760
Speaker 1: being in a position to where again, we can say

1945
01:29:58,800 --> 01:30:00,200
Speaker 1: yes to a lot of things and we have the

1946
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:02,680
Speaker 1: opportunity and we're awarded a lot of a lot of

1947
01:30:02,720 --> 01:30:04,160
Speaker 1: new things to do and be on the road a

1948
01:30:04,200 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 1: lot or travel a lot, and you make as much

1949
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 1: money as possible and do all of these things. So

1950
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:13,280
Speaker 1: it's something that I've tried, like sitting with myself and

1951
01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:17,000
Speaker 1: having certain boundaries to where if it doesn't fit in

1952
01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:21,000
Speaker 1: these priorities and in this timeframe, then I will say

1953
01:30:21,040 --> 01:30:23,800
Speaker 1: no to it with the idea of I need to

1954
01:30:23,920 --> 01:30:26,120
Speaker 1: enjoy them as much as possible right now, because there's

1955
01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:29,879
Speaker 1: going to come a moment to where they're not crawling anymore,

1956
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:33,040
Speaker 1: they're not stationary anymore. Yeah, you know, I wasn't gonna

1957
01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:35,280
Speaker 1: say not walking. They'll always be walking, but the last

1958
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 1: time that you'll be picking them up before it they

1959
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 1: don't want you to pick them up anymore, or you

1960
01:30:39,120 --> 01:30:42,360
Speaker 1: hold their hand, or all these little things that will

1961
01:30:42,400 --> 01:30:45,920
Speaker 1: be in the past. Yeah, And just to add on

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Speaker 1: to it, it's like, if they don't remember up until five,

1963
01:30:50,520 --> 01:30:53,880
Speaker 1: when they're in between five and ten, their foundation to

1964
01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:55,599
Speaker 1: be five and ten is still going to be built

1965
01:30:55,680 --> 01:30:58,479
Speaker 1: on what they were from one to five. You know

1966
01:30:58,560 --> 01:31:01,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Maybe that doesn't make sense, No, it does.

1967
01:31:02,080 --> 01:31:04,320
Speaker 1: But how you show up now is still going to

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Speaker 1: be the pattern or.

1969
01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 2: The It's not like the all of a sudden you

1970
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Speaker 2: just become the person that you are at six years old,

1971
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:14,080
Speaker 2: and it's just right right right, I know exactly what

1972
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Speaker 2: you mean.

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Speaker 1: So that would be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that lasson. I just with Rue like

1975
01:31:23,439 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 2: and Scotty as well. I put together a clip today

1976
01:31:27,160 --> 01:31:31,040
Speaker 2: of Will that like featured a ton of Will's Instagram posts,

1977
01:31:31,080 --> 01:31:35,479
Speaker 2: and in those posts, it was like crazy just seeing

1978
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:38,639
Speaker 2: like ruin the photograph because I'm like really looking at

1979
01:31:38,680 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 2: the footage and making sure it all looks good, and

1980
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:45,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, she's grown fast. Seeing Scotty at the

1981
01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:49,160
Speaker 2: dad combine her hair from when we shot that trailer

1982
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:53,240
Speaker 2: to now, yeah, is so much longer, and that felt

1983
01:31:53,280 --> 01:31:55,599
Speaker 2: like last week. So it's like and those aren't even

1984
01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:59,160
Speaker 2: my kids. And then also the fact of that was

1985
01:31:59,200 --> 01:32:01,080
Speaker 2: another thought that went through my head while I was

1986
01:32:01,120 --> 01:32:04,160
Speaker 2: putting that video together, is I was like, man, Will

1987
01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:07,479
Speaker 2: is doing a killer job on the social media stuff,

1988
01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:11,840
Speaker 2: just from a selfish standpoint of you being able to

1989
01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 2: go back and see all those pictures and like.

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Speaker 1: Dude, we you don't know how many times, like when

1991
01:32:16,520 --> 01:32:19,479
Speaker 1: Mom's out of town and she's like she really struggles

1992
01:32:19,479 --> 01:32:21,040
Speaker 1: if I'm home along with the kids and I have

1993
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Speaker 1: them for like a weekend or having like four or

1994
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:26,400
Speaker 1: five days whatever it is, Yeah, and she starts to

1995
01:32:26,439 --> 01:32:28,639
Speaker 1: be upset that mom's at home. It's like I can

1996
01:32:28,720 --> 01:32:30,920
Speaker 1: just pull up Instagram. I'll pull up like Charles, like

1997
01:32:30,960 --> 01:32:32,760
Speaker 1: you want to see videos of my mind. We can

1998
01:32:32,840 --> 01:32:35,519
Speaker 1: just go into our reels and kind of like watch

1999
01:32:35,520 --> 01:32:38,479
Speaker 1: old videos and that calm her down and she can

2000
01:32:38,520 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 1: see like old memories. But dude, I sometimes it takes

2001
01:32:42,120 --> 01:32:44,680
Speaker 1: a while, but I feel like it is. It's like

2002
01:32:44,960 --> 01:32:47,320
Speaker 1: one of those things that when those moments are happening,

2003
01:32:47,320 --> 01:32:48,920
Speaker 1: it's like, man, I'm glad I like made a video

2004
01:32:48,960 --> 01:32:50,560
Speaker 1: or I made a post about X, Y and Z

2005
01:32:50,680 --> 01:32:52,519
Speaker 1: because you can like scroll back and see a lot

2006
01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:53,280
Speaker 1: of old memories.

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01:32:53,720 --> 01:32:57,439
Speaker 2: Yes, dude, and at the exact same thing you're saying

2008
01:32:57,560 --> 01:33:00,160
Speaker 2: about the dad combine and just busting in general what

2009
01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:03,240
Speaker 2: jelly Roll said, Like you're just making a photo photo

2010
01:33:03,400 --> 01:33:09,080
Speaker 2: video journal. Yeah, which is so cool, dude, like having

2011
01:33:09,080 --> 01:33:11,040
Speaker 2: a Facebook being like our generation.

2012
01:33:11,240 --> 01:33:13,280
Speaker 1: How old are you? I am thirty five?

2013
01:33:13,400 --> 01:33:15,599
Speaker 2: Thirty five, okay, so I'm three years younger than you.

2014
01:33:15,800 --> 01:33:18,840
Speaker 2: Having Facebook when we did, Yeah, you were probably like

2015
01:33:18,840 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 2: a sophomore in high school or something. Yeah, yeah, I

2016
01:33:22,320 --> 01:33:24,880
Speaker 2: was in seventh grade, I believe, And so like having

2017
01:33:24,920 --> 01:33:27,760
Speaker 2: that is so freaking fun, dude. And again, the thought

2018
01:33:27,760 --> 01:33:29,800
Speaker 2: of being a grandfather and being able to pull up

2019
01:33:29,800 --> 01:33:32,519
Speaker 2: your Facebook and be like look at this, dudeeah like

2020
01:33:33,479 --> 01:33:39,559
Speaker 2: scroll thousand. Yes. A quick lesson for this would be

2021
01:33:39,600 --> 01:33:42,280
Speaker 2: for future dads or guys that are thinking about being

2022
01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 2: a dad. This was a quote from Jill's stepdad that

2023
01:33:48,960 --> 01:33:51,240
Speaker 2: I thought was really great, and he was talking about

2024
01:33:51,280 --> 01:33:54,720
Speaker 2: like my professional career more so than fatherhood. But I

2025
01:33:54,760 --> 01:33:57,840
Speaker 2: think it's a very applicable to future dads that are like,

2026
01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:01,040
Speaker 2: am I ready for this? Can I do this? Will

2027
01:34:01,040 --> 01:34:03,360
Speaker 2: I be a good dad? One, the fact that you're

2028
01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 2: asking yourself that question is a good start. It means

2029
01:34:07,400 --> 01:34:09,960
Speaker 2: you can, So I would say the fact that you're

2030
01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:13,040
Speaker 2: asking that that's a good sign. Second thing i'd say

2031
01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:17,680
Speaker 2: is everything in your life to this point has been

2032
01:34:17,720 --> 01:34:21,960
Speaker 2: getting you ready for something, whatever that next step is,

2033
01:34:22,280 --> 01:34:29,000
Speaker 2: and being able to eternalize all the what is it

2034
01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:35,240
Speaker 2: called When you have done something, you're gaining uh, perspective, perspective,

2035
01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:38,920
Speaker 2: You're gaining what does the wisdom. What does it intern

2036
01:34:39,000 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 2: get whenever they work experience experience, You're getting experience. Well done,

2037
01:34:45,520 --> 01:34:50,679
Speaker 2: intern chef. You're gaining experience for all these things throughout

2038
01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:53,559
Speaker 2: your life. So everything that you have gone through throughout

2039
01:34:53,560 --> 01:34:56,120
Speaker 2: your life, all the happy stuff, all the hard stuff,

2040
01:34:56,160 --> 01:34:59,720
Speaker 2: all the challenging stuff as making you the person, the

2041
01:34:59,760 --> 01:35:04,400
Speaker 2: man that you are today. And you can learn from

2042
01:35:04,479 --> 01:35:07,000
Speaker 2: everything that you've gone through, whether it's a mistake, whether

2043
01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:10,600
Speaker 2: it's good things that will help prepare you for what

2044
01:35:10,800 --> 01:35:14,479
Speaker 2: is to come. And with fatherhood to apply that. I

2045
01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:17,760
Speaker 2: know nothing about fatherhood, but as I'm getting closer and

2046
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:22,200
Speaker 2: closer to July second, the induction date, there are moments

2047
01:35:23,600 --> 01:35:26,439
Speaker 2: where it's like lightning has struck my brain and I

2048
01:35:26,560 --> 01:35:31,479
Speaker 2: remember something that my dad always did, or I remember

2049
01:35:31,479 --> 01:35:35,439
Speaker 2: something that really upset me as a kid, specifically with

2050
01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:38,080
Speaker 2: ru in the pool, when Chara was like sitting there

2051
01:35:38,080 --> 01:35:44,640
Speaker 2: and having that conversation with her and like realizing like, yeah,

2052
01:35:44,720 --> 01:35:47,080
Speaker 2: I probably would have wanted to like talk something out

2053
01:35:47,120 --> 01:35:51,519
Speaker 2: instead of you know, having somebody yell at me or

2054
01:35:51,640 --> 01:35:56,799
Speaker 2: argue with me at that moment. So life is ever changing.

2055
01:35:58,320 --> 01:36:00,760
Speaker 2: There's always going to be things coming at you that

2056
01:36:00,880 --> 01:36:02,720
Speaker 2: you feel like you won't be ready for it, but

2057
01:36:02,920 --> 01:36:05,960
Speaker 2: just be able to use your past as a stepping

2058
01:36:05,960 --> 01:36:08,559
Speaker 2: stool into whatever you're going into. I guess would be

2059
01:36:08,640 --> 01:36:10,120
Speaker 2: my lesson of the week.

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01:36:10,320 --> 01:36:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know, there's a lot of fears and

2061
01:36:14,240 --> 01:36:16,960
Speaker 1: doubt and things on thinking if you can do it

2062
01:36:17,080 --> 01:36:19,360
Speaker 1: or not? Right yes, and whether or not none of

2063
01:36:19,400 --> 01:36:22,200
Speaker 1: us know how. Nobody knows how to be you know,

2064
01:36:22,320 --> 01:36:25,480
Speaker 1: a perfect like a perfect dad. That's that's an impossible

2065
01:36:25,520 --> 01:36:28,799
Speaker 1: expectation to have. And people might feel that way because

2066
01:36:28,880 --> 01:36:31,559
Speaker 1: maybe they had a lot of bad experiences in their

2067
01:36:31,600 --> 01:36:33,519
Speaker 1: childhood or in their life to where they might have

2068
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:36,120
Speaker 1: had doubt. But I would say a way to use

2069
01:36:36,160 --> 01:36:37,600
Speaker 1: that is you know what, you don't want it to

2070
01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:40,840
Speaker 1: look like, you know what I mean. You know that

2071
01:36:40,960 --> 01:36:43,080
Speaker 1: you don't want to be this person, or maybe one

2072
01:36:43,120 --> 01:36:44,880
Speaker 1: of your parents were this way or your dad was

2073
01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:47,440
Speaker 1: this way, and you feel like it might be generational

2074
01:36:47,479 --> 01:36:50,240
Speaker 1: and it's an opportunity for you. I know people get

2075
01:36:50,240 --> 01:36:54,200
Speaker 1: motivated by breaking generational curses. But you know, even if

2076
01:36:54,200 --> 01:36:56,160
Speaker 1: you don't have all of the best experiences, are the

2077
01:36:56,160 --> 01:36:58,280
Speaker 1: best memories that you're thinking, like how I'm going to

2078
01:36:58,360 --> 01:37:00,880
Speaker 1: do this? Like maybe you have you had a rough

2079
01:37:00,880 --> 01:37:02,240
Speaker 1: one and you know what you don't want it to

2080
01:37:02,280 --> 01:37:04,479
Speaker 1: look like? And that right there is a great starting

2081
01:37:04,520 --> 01:37:06,760
Speaker 1: point on how you don't you know what you don't

2082
01:37:06,760 --> 01:37:10,040
Speaker 1: want it to look like. I love that though. That

2083
01:37:10,120 --> 01:37:14,600
Speaker 1: was good man. Yeah, yeah, good show.

2084
01:37:15,080 --> 01:37:15,679
Speaker 2: Great show.

2085
01:37:15,880 --> 01:37:18,559
Speaker 1: Yeah. And if they say this one went a little long,

2086
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:21,920
Speaker 1: very long, chef, Chef will have some editing to do.

2087
01:37:22,080 --> 01:37:24,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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01:37:24,200 --> 01:37:26,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we've got to get those numbers down. You

2089
01:37:26,920 --> 01:37:28,920
Speaker 1: know how I feel when we go a little too long,

2090
01:37:29,000 --> 01:37:31,679
Speaker 1: even on bus and I cut some of this out.

2091
01:37:32,439 --> 01:37:33,800
Speaker 2: What should we aim for?

2092
01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:36,600
Speaker 1: No clue? You know? I like to be under the

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01:37:36,640 --> 01:37:39,160
Speaker 1: hour mark, you know, I like to be under the

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01:37:39,160 --> 01:37:42,200
Speaker 1: hour mark. That might be impossible, and maybe the you know,

2095
01:37:42,200 --> 01:37:44,200
Speaker 1: maybe people be like, no, this is you guys, are

2096
01:37:44,360 --> 01:37:46,760
Speaker 1: this is completely fine? Like I know when I get

2097
01:37:46,800 --> 01:37:48,600
Speaker 1: on and I see it an episode and I know

2098
01:37:48,640 --> 01:37:50,680
Speaker 1: it's like under an hour, like our last one was

2099
01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:54,320
Speaker 1: what was our last one? Fifty minutes? You see fifty? Okay,

2100
01:37:54,360 --> 01:37:56,400
Speaker 1: oh it's under an hour? Yeah, should be easy. I

2101
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:58,200
Speaker 1: can do that. So that's all. That's all I would

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Speaker 1: That's why.

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01:38:00,120 --> 01:38:03,360
Speaker 2: That's that's my only note too. But I was so

2104
01:38:03,520 --> 01:38:06,439
Speaker 2: lost in the sauce of conversation that also is like, hey,

2105
01:38:06,479 --> 01:38:09,880
Speaker 2: maybe a good thing. But at the same time, I'm like, oh, man,

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01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:13,719
Speaker 2: on the top of our sheet, ETA expected runtime forty

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01:38:13,760 --> 01:38:14,280
Speaker 2: five minutes.

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01:38:14,360 --> 01:38:17,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, yeah, got a couple of talkers up here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got some talkers. We got something we'll we'll

2110
01:38:20,080 --> 01:38:20,760
Speaker 2: we'll bring it in.

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01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:38:21,400 --> 01:38:24,439
Speaker 2: Maybe you take motherfucked, I'll take crack a cold one.

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01:38:25,240 --> 01:38:29,920
Speaker 2: You'd like, we'll each one do one of the segments. Yeah, yeah,

2114
01:38:30,040 --> 01:38:31,400
Speaker 2: that might be what we need to do.

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01:38:31,680 --> 01:38:33,920
Speaker 1: Pre production meeting could be good for us, a pre.

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01:38:33,840 --> 01:38:38,960
Speaker 2: Productive which we didn't didn't do and that's okay, that's okay.

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01:38:38,960 --> 01:38:41,719
Speaker 2: It's a very busy week. But we'll get a dial.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get a dial. Shout out to dads Man, thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for joining us, Like subscribe again, leave comments.

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Speaker 1: We love the comments. We'll be engaging with you guys,

2121
01:38:49,360 --> 01:38:52,080
Speaker 1: whether it's on social, here, on YouTube, whatever the case is.

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01:38:52,560 --> 01:38:56,360
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. We appreciate the support. We need to

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Speaker 1: sign off right now. I got just got big hugs,

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Speaker 1: tidy kisses.

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Speaker 2: I think that's great. That's a blanket sign off that

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Speaker 2: I think for busting because y'all do it on the

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Speaker 2: locker room too. I think that's a good one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, take your trash out. See you guys next week.

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Speaker 1: Oh